DATING AN ASEXUAL!!

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @CookeeMonsterr
    @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Unfortunately myself and Gemma have been broken up for about a month now but I still believe this is an important video that shows just how possible it is for asexuals to find love

  • @nicholasnguyen3979
    @nicholasnguyen3979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It was so courageous for both of you to talk about your relationship and to answer such personal questions. This video was so informative! Alex, I'm so happy that you have found someone so caring and open minded. Gem (Jem?), you are such an inspiration for non-asexuals :)

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Really glad you enjoyed the video Nicholas! Thank you for sticking around :) Both myself and Gemma thank you for your kind words

  • @raybrooks2983
    @raybrooks2983 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been waiting for this! I knew this from your live stream! congratulations dude 😊👌
    I'm also asexual, I've been with my partner for almost 2 years :)

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that's fantastic, is your partner asexual too? Hope 2017 is treating you well

    • @raybrooks2983
      @raybrooks2983 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cookee Monsterr thanks, you too! And...no, he's not asexual so it's similar to you and your girlfriend in a way. You are both so cute together btw 😊

  • @quinoarat2528
    @quinoarat2528 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are SO awesome for being willing to make this video and answer these questions! No one should feel obligated to talk about these personal things (on TH-cam of all places!), but it's great that some people do. These types of videos could really help people who are trying to figure out how mixed relationships can work. It also gives us aro aces insight into this world we don't understand. :) Gemma, I would love to see you in more videos if you would be willing to talk about these things (or other unrelated things) more.

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really pleased to hear that you enjoyed the video and found it informative and interesting too!! I think it's important for people to be open too and am really grateful to have a girlfriend who is as open as myself!! I'm sure you'll see Gemma in some videos in the near future too :)

  • @hannarebecka6740
    @hannarebecka6740 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes me so so happy!! We've seen you worry about not finding anyone but now you have and nothing makes me happier. I wish you both a long and amazing relationship together!

  • @janeensmith2382
    @janeensmith2382 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG! I'm so happy you found someone! She is so awesome I love seeing that you are so happy! Best of luck hope you guys have a great year.

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Janeen, really hope you do too!!

  • @thebadgersbookshop151
    @thebadgersbookshop151 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so happy seeing you happy ! ^^ The two of you are so sweet :)

  • @SaraSmiles29
    @SaraSmiles29 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    aaw alex i'm soo happy for youu! ^-^ i still remember your one video (on the coast?) where you talked about a reationship and the the other videos where you were so down and wanted a girlfriend. you just seem so happy now in general! i'm glad you found eachother and also i hope that your problems at work got better! (:

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Sara, well remembered!! Thanks for the continued support throughout the last couple of years!!

  • @jyotikrishnamohan7493
    @jyotikrishnamohan7493 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow!!!!! I am so happy for you both! a couple of years ago there were some videos in which you doubted your future. now you've found happiness. time is the best healer! 😊

  • @mlitt1996
    @mlitt1996 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awwww! I have a tear in my eye! This has been A REALLY good year for you! So happy for you! 😀

  • @TamsynMiller
    @TamsynMiller 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's seriously so amazing seeing you so happy!

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your continued support and sticking around despite the lack of uploads Tamsyn

  • @MrMasterDebate
    @MrMasterDebate 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This gives me hope for my ace self xD

  • @kathrynholton3081
    @kathrynholton3081 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I fangirled before I even watched the video. Y'all are adorable

  • @jemimarobinson849
    @jemimarobinson849 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This makes me happy that you're happy :)

  • @FreeTheDonbas
    @FreeTheDonbas 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    "We have AMAZING... conversations"

  • @katlovescats
    @katlovescats 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so cute together! I'm so happy for you Alex!

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Kat!! Hope you've had a good weekend!!

  • @treebranch2066
    @treebranch2066 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy you found each other!! Still don't get why people are so obsessed with whether or not you guys are sleeping together. There are plenty of ways to be intimate without actually having sex so enjoy your relationship and forget what everyone else thinks. I'd be happy just to find someone who I could hang with.

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!! I think it's what makes our relationship so great!!

  • @niamhrj
    @niamhrj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so happy for you two!

  • @kateyperry33
    @kateyperry33 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so happy! I love it! You two are so cute! I am so glad you two found each other! Sending positivity :)

  • @leaharvey5201
    @leaharvey5201 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a question: Do you have physical interaction, that are not sexual? For example, do you kiss, cuddle or massage each other sometimes? If so, is it part of your "compromise", or an asexual person can still enjoy these things?

    • @CookeeMonsterr
      @CookeeMonsterr  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This isn’t part of the compromise. I very much enjoy all of the things you’ve mentioned above. I actually crave a lot of them. Hope this helps 😊

  • @SophisticatedLunatic
    @SophisticatedLunatic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so happy for you guys! I wish one day I'll find a man who's asexual or who doesn't mind that I am. :3

  • @ThePaganific
    @ThePaganific 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    you guys are so cute together!

  • @crassenti
    @crassenti 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay congrats I'm so happy for you guys :)'you're both so sweet :)

  • @lontabi
    @lontabi 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You being so happy is good news :)

  • @georgia7723
    @georgia7723 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so happy for you :)

  • @fairy21509
    @fairy21509 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm asexual and with a girl