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It's taken three years of deep deep emotional rewiring to learn my truth. This woman is spot on; she's speaking the truth. Thank you for being so brave.
The whole point from my perspective is Don't judge anything in this world, don't put anything into the construct of what you can understand. To know something above your level of understanding you have to break the current level of understanding...☺️
Shefali always reminds me of myself, because I have always been critical and thinking deep since I was 15 years old. And it is actually difficult to be around people who are not on the same level.
I love this talk ... it exposes the lie ... the lie that tells us we at not good enough, the voice that keeps us in fear, the insane external search for happiness, joy and acceptance ... when everything you will ever need is within you ...the only internal voice you should listen to is the one that encourages you, loves you and does not create fear within you.
You're always welcome, Andrea. We are happy to know you've learned a lot from this talk. Thanks for the the love and support. Lots of love from us here.
I’ve already watched this multiple times today. And I’ve shared it with close friends. I am so taken aback by this kind of truth. This is what the world needs
For me, "awakening" was realizing that American capitalism has sold us the "wrong bill of goods". "Consumerism" results from media brainwashing repeatedly telling us what we "must" have in order to be "complete" vs focusing on developing our spiritual selves & cleaning up emotional damage.
Such brutal honesty - The glass is already broken - i loved that. At 54 and seeing my bits sagging - it was inevitable, why am i spending energy being sad about it? i am going to live creatively broken, building my pieces as i would like myself to be. Thank you xx
*_“Life is to be experienced, not fought against, run from, or engaged halfheartedly. Though we may wish to make changes in the future, to be conscious is to be with an experience as it’s unfolding, rather than thinking about how we would like to change it. Taking charge of our life so that we alter the quality of our experiences in the future comes after an experience.” ― Shefali Tsabary_*
My son is 4, he is in pre k with an indian boy who says he wants to be a Dr. i ask my son what he wants to be when he grows up, he says "i just wanna be a people.", this little wonder is 💚. Blessings, love and compassion to all biengs. Also life the point of dying, at the time of conception dearth really begins, splitting and growing to end. This body is just a shell.
Damn, I have no words to articulate the awe I'm feeling right now as a result of this talk. But, all I can say is that now I am truly convinced that something higher than me--a power so greater than my matrix-conditioned mind, my personality, can ever comprehend--lives inside of me. It is guiding me and making me stronger every day. And it is leading me in light and love. Here and Now, I am nothing; and I am everything. Life is as it should be--things, situations, people, are as they should be. I am nothing--I am everything. I am on another dimension--and it feels so good to be here. I have left the matrix--I am no longer fighting and hustling for my worthiness. I am no longer self-seeking in the world--things, situations, people and power. I am no longer perpetuating the life of pain driven by fear, and the false belief that absolution of the Now is in the future. I am no longer deriving an identity of Self from the past. I am no longer buying into the lie. I am not my mind--I am not the pseudo-mind-created image of Self. I am not my ego. I know who I am. I know what my purpose on Earth is. I am the Space, the Awareness, in which all things take form in the world of gain and loss. I am nothing and nobody. I am here, on Earth, in the Republic, as a Being expressed in this body and image. I am here, now, with a personality, the conditioned mind, as a custodian of positive change--to enable the Universe to unfold its purpose for and on Earth through me. I am an instrument of Peace. I am more than the tags, the identities, and labels and categories, the essence that preceded my existence, I have been given by the culturescape. I am equally more than the matrix-derived ethos I have given to myself as a result. I am nothing; I am everything. I am Being. I am what I am when I am--I am who I am when I am. I don't have problems right now. I only have life situations that I can deal with in the Now. Or accept, and delay to attend to in the future Now. I don't create drama--pain and suffering--for myself in my life. All that I ever was, all that I ever will be, all that I am--is Here, Now. I have "died before I die"--there is no death, only a dissolution of form. Life, consciousness, Being, the Soul, You, Me, are eternal. Your personality with a psychology makeup and a body with an identity--that dies. Therefore, I shall not be afraid. I will not be shaken or call to action by constructed-psychological fear. I know the lie; I am now seeking the truth within--and the Universe is on my side, letting me in the well of wisdom and truth through these small glimpses, omens, these talks, books, moments in time, and Stillness. I am listening. I could be wrong about all of this--nonetheless, thank you, Universe, for this message at this moment, now. I heard what I needed to hear. I am aligned, body, mind, and soul. It is all neither good nor bad--it just is what it is. I am what I am-- I am nothing; I am everything. I am no one--I am everyone. I am a child of God. The Son and The daughter of the Universe. This perspective is it--this is the guidance. I am grateful.
This physical realm is about the being that we are experiencing duality, as well as raising the vibration of the cosmos to Christ Consciousness. Once we understand and break the conditioning of duality, that's where true freedom is born. We must embrace the fact that we are constantly evolving. Everything that exists in this physical reality is constantly evolving and adapting to change. Dr. Shefali you are truly awesome, it would be my extreme pleasure to meet you or even have a conversation with you ❤️✨✨✨😄👁️🗨️
Most. Profound. Speech. Ever. This path of awakening, exactly as described, started for me 2015. I have not come across Shefali until this video popped on my feed, today. What point stood out most? Every single word that woman said stood out, familiar, gave me chills, made me smile, made my head explode with joy, peace, and love. It is my wish that every single soul on this planet not only find but also understand what is being conveyed in this talk. Immense love and gratitude for this and all.
Everything we do comes from us trying to avoid death. But death is inevitable, and death is not bad. Once we understand that death is not a good or bad thing, it just is and we have to accept it, then we become courageous, fearless, and truly unafraid to be unapologetically who we are on the inside.
I'm literally watching this talk every few days. I feel like it's so full of value that I'd love to learn it by heart. So I can pay some of this wisdom forward. Sometimes, when I listen do dr. Shefali I feel like she understood it all. Beautiful soul creaure. Beautiful.
The more I listen to her talks I keep thinking that I actually turned out pretty good. I'm the youngest of seven kids so my mom was an older parent to me (she was also single) and she was just trying to keep food on the table. I didn't get much help with my homework and I didn't graduate high school, but on my own I learned to play an instrument, on my own I played sports, on my own I learned to paint, on my own I took dance classes, on my own I learned a trade and became a contractor. Unfortunately my wife and I went through ten years of infertility issues before finally being blessed with our son and sadly my mother didn't live to see me become a father. But I strongly feel my mothers strength and tenacity in my son, he's only three but I strongly believe that he will grow up to be an awesome person with or without my help..
She is a breath of fresh air. It took great pain to open myself to see things beyond the matrix. I have been asking myself why a "good" person like me could be so hurt by another person? I'm getting to understand that, the old me had to killed and dismantled to create this new me who sees so differently. I am Still learning who this new me is though, I am still a work in progress.
Dr.Shefali’s wisdom and authenticity is the only way to free yourself from any false beliefs and or holdbacks! Her every speech, class, event , and book is a study within and an invitation to freedom....to happiness ....to being whole to living wholesome and holiness! Thank you Dr.Shefali; I can’t wait to repeat every class, and take more journeys with you!
She's so right on. I have felt the pressures of conformity my whole life. I am committed to break free and really live. I am so grateful for Dr Shefali's work.
I listen n cry cause she talks directly to my soul. Many asians n Indian parents seem 2 push their kids academically n "traditionally" even harder than westerners. I can well imagine how transformational Shefali is 4 her own country particulary, as well as others.
Thank you. Thinking beyond Good/Bad or God/Satan has the most liberating effect of all.. we stop thinking we belong to God and Satan is out to hunt us and bring the bad.. In essence the Good and the Bad balance each other in what is the one whole, the source of creation. They all happen for us and not against us, it just comes down to what we communicate out to the Source of Creation. I so love this presentation because I just thought and wrote something on this light yesterday. The Universe is out to give me comfort to carry on seeking and living the truth. Thank you.
Well. I cant point one best thing. What I just have heard I've heard hundreds times before from tens of other wise poeple. But this time... Something moved in me very strongly. I literally feel like something died in me as she said. It was a mesmerising speach. She left me speachless. I realised I've learn NOTHING so far. I feel like my brain is empty. Which feels so liberating. I just feel so grateful for having heard this. Thank you.💗
I think the whole point is that what you find inside is neither happiness nor sadness, it just is. It's awareness of life without labels. Because again, happiness implies that what doesn't make you happy is bad, which goes back to her point of the duality of "good" and "bad;" "happy" "unhappy."
We have to be shattered to live, to grow to evolve. We live to die, not word for word but thats how I put it. And what is good and bad is it really good or bad, thats deep; thank you
I love shows like this because it means to be so greatly aware of who and what we are and aside from that we are the ones who create our destiny we can help our ourselves not just through strange comedy .
We never accept disability and shun people who are disabled. We feed on the less able ones and feel good about it, that we are better. We want perfection. Perfect bodies, perfect lives. Anything else isn’t worthwhile bothering about. Expensive is better. Real hearts with real feelings are messy and we fear these. This perfect image we are being sold everyday, isn’t real and won’t survive when nature knocks on the door to shake us awake. Our modern world isn’t sustainable. Unless we want less and embrace all life, not just the beautiful and acceptable.
"We FEED on the less... & feel GOOD"? That's pretty fkded up thinking suggesting the majority of humans actually "enjoy" seeing disabled people. Don't include me in your "We"!
Best talk ever! I've cried and laughed and had goosebumps. She shakes reality and makes u question everything! Thank u dr. Shefali and thanks Mindvalley for bringing her on stage.
I didn't want her to stop speaking. Dr. Shefali's words are honest and much needed. It's a difficult trip, emotionally taxing, and lonely. But the self discovery within yourself is beyond words. Please keeping going forward it is worth it.
I’ve questioned everything since the age of 7 Tried to fit and be good But like you said crisis or pull the thread and it’s the start of unraveling or an existential crisis. I wish I had someone like you who could understand me.
strong... the closest thing to truth or is found in what we call suffering... that realization triggers it all... and suffering has to be touched... i can say with total clarity that when I realized many years ago that I was suffering, when i stopped pretending i was not... the journey started and never stopped... Every time I start to fall asleep, it comes back, but now in the form of pain.... it is not suffering any more, it became pain.... so its natural.... so experiencing it is possible since pain is real, (suffering is not), every time, fully, with no excuse, no theory and with no mental defense.... its the most powerful type of experience I am certain we can have.... good talk it points in that direction... start touching your own suffering and something new will happen
Everything stood out. The entire talk was spot on. Will we learn, probably not and to think this reallyi common sense to begin with and so simple and yet so complicated for most. Amazing talk....
I realize that I have been my own Judge, jury and executioner in my life ... Unconsciously I have been trying to fix me, correct me and CHANGE me ...No more !!!
@@notthrowinawaymyshot824 all life is an experience. You are enough right where you are. There is always room for growth; the journey. No shame in where we been or where we are going.
Thank you Mindvalley for this amazing opportunity to hear Dr. Shefali! I have had the pleasure of hearing Dr. Shefali speak 'live' on a few occasions and this talk has been truly inspiring and awakening!
I wished I heard about her and her teachings, I needed it so much! But here now on my way to be myself is an eye opener. So greatful to have speakers and doctors on this platform 🙏🏻
So much truth ...the lack of self worth & self value can set us up for a lifetime of failures just because of the lack of belief in ourselves. Good talk...great wake up call!!
I can see through the filters - Shefali - I am also working on the same path as you _ i had this awakening 2 year back - and since then i am on my path to help people be aware as Parents
Conditioned to think that everything can be labelled as good or bad. When in reality, everything is an experiance. The 4 false conditions of good that we trap ourselves into: 1. Things that stay a long time 2. Things that make us feel good 3. Things that make us look good 4. Things that give us money
I love all this but I get confused when I hold it up under certain lights. If you had many children who all died in a horrific car accident would that just be an experience? Neither good nor bad? And if you could get all their lives back if you wanted, but that wanting is considered egoic (because you’re the one who is suffering) would you choose to leave them dead to avoid identifying with your ego? I wouldn’t care. I’d want all my kids back. What am I missing?
@@Tech0231 ... You missed the entire "point" of the lecture. It has NOTHING to do with an emotional attachment with loved ones but that we are programmed by "expectations of parents & capitalism influence" VS "self-actualization" & spiritual development plus our connection/understanding of God who offers "unconditional love" that no human can give.
@@Tech0231 that is your experience and you determine it is bad, because those were your children and a part of you. I’m sure it feels like part of you died
Society has made us like this...governments and schools and religions, etc...We need to take back out sovereignty and be the whole human beings we were intended to be. When I look back at how I have fallen into these traps it makes me so sad...for me, for my child and for the world. Talks like this will wake people up. Thank you!! 💕
The hardest part to me towards awakening is that you only realize your path to awakening looking back at your life's journey. You cannot grow if you stay put and most time no one knows where to start. My advise; step forward outside of your comfort zone a little at the time while staying safe and true to yourself. Take care.
@@CMoore8539 Thank you for your comment. Your comment inspired the topic of a video I created on how do we know that we are successful. I mentioned your name "Cindy" in the video to recognize you contribution to giving me the idea. Thank you again. You can find it here th-cam.com/video/KkJNPXigEZY/w-d-xo.html
Absolutely amazing talk, I've got a much better understanding of what it is to be spiritually awakened. Books and pain of lessons can only teach so much 🙏 Jon
That to find the answers of our soul we must go within. There is no guru or motivational speaker or religion or wise one who knows it all and will give us the answers. We must journey within.
Duality is a tool, just use it when you need it then put it down. A cage is just a construct. You feel like a captive if you are put in a cage that is inside a city but when you put yourself in a cage and there are wild animals around you, you feel safe. The same bars of iron but completely different perception.
Sofia, stay the course, take a deep breath. Continue to grow and learn and achieve the goals you intend to achieve. You can be intellectually and materially successful and still continue to question the status quo. Be an empathic unique human being and live an untethered life. I am certain that S.T. has no regrets about her cynically brilliant trajectory.
In a similar manner, J Krishnamurti and Vernon Howard talked about how to become awake. We live in two worlds, the outer which is for practicality and the inner which is free of labels and expectations to become something. Dr. Tsabary is certainly another great voice to be heard.
I wanted to jump and give her a bear hug. Her insight (and her journey that led it to it), the person that she is, it is so freeing to experience that. I felt if she can speak her truth loud and clear, then so can I.
Wow, yes exactly we all have to break free from this enslaving duality existence. Happiness is at the centre, accepting both as teachers. Fantastic talk Dr beautiful you had me listening to every word. Buddha also said to always take the middle path of the Ying and the Yang. Thanks
So manny are awaking now. We are all doing brilliantly on getting this info out there keep up the good work. Peace and love is coming to the hole of humanity. We are all so blessed to be alive at theses times. We have grat things ahead of us. Ever cell in my body feels it coming 🙏🙏🙏🙏
So happy to see what am feeling is said this way. Now at my age, i realize i follow and i was programmed this way, it took me a while to get it. That's where i am today.
On day 3 of my waterfast I saw what really was and I was disgusted to an extend, that I couldn't but do everything I possibly could - even things that were against my ego - and changed my life.
Excellent talk. I will be grateful for the small hole in my coat and stop looking on the outside to fix it. All of our healing must come from first looking within and seeing the truth of how things really are. I also loved the lightbulb analogy and found it very powerful
Thank you so much! Now i understand my journey better and am more willing to let the death of my personality to take place. Very honest, authentic and inspiring is what you are. Be blessed.
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This was so profound! The story about the woman really brought it home for me. Also the analogy of the 1% made her message so clear.
It's taken three years of deep deep emotional rewiring to learn my truth.
This woman is spot on; she's speaking the truth.
Thank you for being so brave.
I think the main point is to question everything, which is so true. Found it very entertaining, enjoyed the sense of humour.
The whole point from my perspective is Don't judge anything in this world, don't put anything into the construct of what you can understand. To know something above your level of understanding you have to break the current level of understanding...☺️
❤️❤️❤️
Shefali always reminds me of myself, because I have always been critical and thinking deep since I was 15 years old. And it is actually difficult to be around people who are not on the same level.
I totally agree with you!
"There is nothing truly on the outside that will ever fill us up." - Dr. Shefali. Boom. Say no more. LOVE LOVE LOVE this and Dr. S
Amazing info.
There is nothing truly on the outside that will ever fill us up.” -Dr. Shefali
I love this talk ... it exposes the lie ... the lie that tells us we at not good enough, the voice that keeps us in fear, the insane external search for happiness, joy and acceptance ... when everything you will ever need is within you ...the only internal voice you should listen to is the one that encourages you, loves you and does not create fear within you.
Best talk ever!! Everything is neutral, until we put thoughts on it! Thanks for having her and her wisdom to sparkle the world!
You're always welcome, Andrea. We are happy to know you've learned a lot from this talk. Thanks for the the love and support. Lots of love from us here.
I think you mean until we put "emotional investment" on it.
@@forreal245 not necessarily. Morality doesn’t require emotional investment
I’ve already watched this multiple times today. And I’ve shared it with close friends. I am so taken aback by this kind of truth. This is what the world needs
Thanks for sharing this to your closest friends, we truly appreciate it. This is our mission, for all of us.
For me, "awakening" was realizing that American capitalism has sold us the "wrong bill of goods". "Consumerism" results from media brainwashing repeatedly telling us what we "must" have in order to be "complete" vs focusing on developing our spiritual selves & cleaning up emotional damage.
I wish I could shout it from the rooftops
@@forreal245 indeed browh
Such brutal honesty - The glass is already broken - i loved that. At 54 and seeing my bits sagging - it was inevitable, why am i spending energy being sad about it? i am going to live creatively broken, building my pieces as i would like myself to be. Thank you xx
Wao! Inspiring!
Ahhh Ruth, so inspiring to hear you say this!
I hope you’re continuing from this new enlightened place.
Blessings
I said exactly the same. Such brutal honesty!
*_“Life is to be experienced, not fought against, run from, or engaged halfheartedly. Though we may wish to make changes in the future, to be conscious is to be with an experience as it’s unfolding, rather than thinking about how we would like to change it. Taking charge of our life so that we alter the quality of our experiences in the future comes after an experience.”
― Shefali Tsabary_*
Very deep stuff.
🌐 "We've all been herded into delusion" as a control Mechanism
Awakened simply means
Transcending manipulation
I just love seeing beautiful and intelligent grounded woman that are fearless and confident...wow!
That is a wise lady.💜
My son is 4, he is in pre k with an indian boy who says he wants to be a Dr. i ask my son what he wants to be when he grows up, he says "i just wanna be a people.", this little wonder is 💚. Blessings, love and compassion to all biengs.
Also life the point of dying, at the time of conception dearth really begins, splitting and growing to end. This body is just a shell.
Damn, I have no words to articulate the awe I'm feeling right now as a result of this talk. But, all I can say is that now I am truly convinced that something higher than me--a power so greater than my matrix-conditioned mind, my personality, can ever comprehend--lives inside of me. It is guiding me and making me stronger every day. And it is leading me in light and love.
Here and Now, I am nothing; and I am everything. Life is as it should be--things, situations, people, are as they should be.
I am nothing--I am everything. I am on another dimension--and it feels so good to be here. I have left the matrix--I am no longer fighting and hustling for my worthiness. I am no longer self-seeking in the world--things, situations, people and power. I am no longer perpetuating the life of pain driven by fear, and the false belief that absolution of the Now is in the future. I am no longer deriving an identity of Self from the past. I am no longer buying into the lie. I am not my mind--I am not the pseudo-mind-created image of Self. I am not my ego.
I know who I am. I know what my purpose on Earth is. I am the Space, the Awareness, in which all things take form in the world of gain and loss. I am nothing and nobody. I am here, on Earth, in the Republic, as a Being expressed in this body and image. I am here, now, with a personality, the conditioned mind, as a custodian of positive change--to enable the Universe to unfold its purpose for and on Earth through me. I am an instrument of Peace.
I am more than the tags, the identities, and labels and categories, the essence that preceded my existence, I have been given by the culturescape. I am equally more than the matrix-derived ethos I have given to myself as a result. I am nothing; I am everything. I am Being. I am what I am when I am--I am who I am when I am.
I don't have problems right now. I only have life situations that I can deal with in the Now. Or accept, and delay to attend to in the future Now. I don't create drama--pain and suffering--for myself in my life. All that I ever was, all that I ever will be, all that I am--is Here, Now.
I have "died before I die"--there is no death, only a dissolution of form. Life, consciousness, Being, the Soul, You, Me, are eternal. Your personality with a psychology makeup and a body with an identity--that dies. Therefore, I shall not be afraid. I will not be shaken or call to action by constructed-psychological fear. I know the lie; I am now seeking the truth within--and the Universe is on my side, letting me in the well of wisdom and truth through these small glimpses, omens, these talks, books, moments in time, and Stillness. I am listening.
I could be wrong about all of this--nonetheless, thank you, Universe, for this message at this moment, now. I heard what I needed to hear. I am aligned, body, mind, and soul. It is all neither good nor bad--it just is what it is.
I am what I am-- I am nothing; I am everything. I am no one--I am everyone. I am a child of God. The Son and The daughter of the Universe. This perspective is it--this is the guidance. I am grateful.
She is mind awakening. So fascinating, so good, she is inspirational. I loved every word coming out of her mouth.
I believe the whole awakening is to live your truth with no judgment. We are to be our own unique self.
You are my Super Sunshine. Thank you Jesus..... Heaven can become on this earth.
This physical realm is about the being that we are experiencing duality, as well as raising the vibration of the cosmos to Christ Consciousness. Once we understand and break the conditioning of duality, that's where true freedom is born. We must embrace the fact that we are constantly evolving. Everything that exists in this physical reality is constantly evolving and adapting to change. Dr. Shefali you are truly awesome, it would be my extreme pleasure to meet you or even have a conversation with you ❤️✨✨✨😄👁️🗨️
Most. Profound. Speech. Ever. This path of awakening, exactly as described, started for me 2015. I have not come across Shefali until this video popped on my feed, today. What point stood out most? Every single word that woman said stood out, familiar, gave me chills, made me smile, made my head explode with joy, peace, and love. It is my wish that every single soul on this planet not only find but also understand what is being conveyed in this talk. Immense love and gratitude for this and all.
Everything we do comes from us trying to avoid death. But death is inevitable, and death is not bad. Once we understand that death is not a good or bad thing, it just is and we have to accept it, then we become courageous, fearless, and truly unafraid to be unapologetically who we are on the inside.
I'm literally watching this talk every few days. I feel like it's so full of value that I'd love to learn it by heart. So I can pay some of this wisdom forward. Sometimes, when I listen do dr. Shefali I feel like she understood it all. Beautiful soul creaure. Beautiful.
The more I listen to her talks I keep thinking that I actually turned out pretty good. I'm the youngest of seven kids so my mom was an older parent to me (she was also single) and she was just trying to keep food on the table. I didn't get much help with my homework and I didn't graduate high school, but on my own I learned to play an instrument, on my own I played sports, on my own I learned to paint, on my own I took dance classes, on my own I learned a trade and became a contractor. Unfortunately my wife and I went through ten years of infertility issues before finally being blessed with our son and sadly my mother didn't live to see me become a father. But I strongly feel my mothers strength and tenacity in my son, he's only three but I strongly believe that he will grow up to be an awesome person with or without my help..
have anybody noticed that she stood at the place where it seems she has wings .. like angels..
Yes, I thought the same👍🏻
They all do that. It’s the center of the stage. :)
NBC uses the same symbol kinda. .... everything’s demonic. You know it?
That is a good marketing, indeed.
WOW. What an inspirational speaker. Enlightening! What a woman, what a human, what a spirit.
I have listened numerous times...it never gets boring... every time I listen to this again, it has a new meaning for me
She is a breath of fresh air. It took great pain to open myself to see things beyond the matrix. I have been asking myself why a "good" person like me could be so hurt by another person? I'm getting to understand that, the old me had to killed and dismantled to create this new me who sees so differently. I am Still learning who this new me is though, I am still a work in progress.
Dr.Shefali’s wisdom and authenticity is the only way to free yourself from any false beliefs and or holdbacks! Her every speech, class, event , and book is a study within and an invitation to freedom....to happiness ....to being whole to living wholesome and holiness! Thank you Dr.Shefali; I can’t wait to repeat every class, and take more journeys with you!
She's so right on. I have felt the pressures of conformity my whole life. I am committed to break free and really live. I am so grateful for Dr Shefali's work.
I think we all are... in one way ofr another...regardless of our culture or geographical location
I listen n cry cause she talks directly to my soul. Many asians n Indian parents seem 2 push their kids academically n "traditionally" even harder than westerners. I can well imagine how transformational Shefali is 4 her own country particulary, as well as others.
Thank you. Thinking beyond Good/Bad or God/Satan has the most liberating effect of all.. we stop thinking we belong to God and Satan is out to hunt us and bring the bad.. In essence the Good and the Bad balance each other in what is the one whole, the source of creation. They all happen for us and not against us, it just comes down to what we communicate out to the Source of Creation.
I so love this presentation because I just thought and wrote something on this light yesterday. The Universe is out to give me comfort to carry on seeking and living the truth. Thank you.
Such an inspirational woman with diversity and intelligence !
could this be that speech which turns my life around 180...it certainly felt so thank you Dr Shefali
One of the best speeches I have ever followed...
Well. I cant point one best thing. What I just have heard I've heard hundreds times before from tens of other wise poeple.
But this time... Something moved in me very strongly. I literally feel like something died in me as she said. It was a mesmerising speach. She left me speachless. I realised I've learn NOTHING so far. I feel like my brain is empty. Which feels so liberating. I just feel so grateful for having heard this.
Thank you.💗
Absolutly awesome human being.
Thank u Dr. Shefali.
"To actually change you must kill sometg inside" WOW!
Simplify your life. This is Joy 💕
So much of depth in her speech. Thank you
Happiness is Only found from the inside.♥️
Cindy Moore isn’t it crazy how many people think the exact opposite?
Meditation is helpful in finding the Truth within.
Alex Nosky Yes, it took me a while to figure it out. I guess it’s like that for everyone and some ppl never figure it out. Sadly.
Linda Field Yes, I love meditations! Very helpful.
I think the whole point is that what you find inside is neither happiness nor sadness, it just is. It's awareness of life without labels. Because again, happiness implies that what doesn't make you happy is bad, which goes back to her point of the duality of "good" and "bad;" "happy" "unhappy."
We have to be shattered to live, to grow to evolve. We live to die, not word for word but thats how I put it. And what is good and bad is it really good or bad, thats deep; thank you
LOVE Dr. Shefali!! 💕
It's hard to be gutsy and opinionated being a woman in Japan, but she is my inspiration!!
I love shows like this because it means to be so greatly aware of who and what we are and aside from that we are the ones who create our destiny we can help our ourselves not just through strange comedy .
Mindblowing speech! What a great speaker she is! 😍
Hi Mira, Dr. Shefali is truly amazing! Thanks for that wonderful comment.
Being in the state where you feel ! I'm shattered ,I'm devasted what this happened to me
But after this talk !!!! I got my answers
Thanks
We never accept disability and shun people who are disabled. We feed on the less able ones and feel good about it, that we are better. We want perfection. Perfect bodies, perfect lives. Anything else isn’t worthwhile bothering about. Expensive is better. Real hearts with real feelings are messy and we fear these. This perfect image we are being sold everyday, isn’t real and won’t survive when nature knocks on the door to shake us awake. Our modern world isn’t sustainable. Unless we want less and embrace all life, not just the beautiful and acceptable.
"We FEED on the less... & feel GOOD"? That's pretty fkded up thinking suggesting the majority of humans actually "enjoy" seeing disabled people. Don't include me in your "We"!
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Best talk ever! I've cried and laughed and had goosebumps. She shakes reality and makes u question everything!
Thank u dr. Shefali and thanks Mindvalley for bringing her on stage.
I didn't want her to stop speaking. Dr. Shefali's words are honest and much needed. It's a difficult trip, emotionally taxing, and lonely. But the self discovery within yourself is beyond words. Please keeping going forward it is worth it.
This was what you call "life changing talk".
You are awesome. Thank you, thank you for your wisdom and sharing it.
I once asked, "Who am I? What am I doing here?" I now say, "I am who who I am and this is good." We are all far more than we think, DIVINE BEINGS!
God she is amazing. So beautiful. And her voice....listen to her speak for hours. She is the oracle in the next Matrix film (featuring: Our lives)
I’ve questioned everything since the age of 7
Tried to fit and be good
But like you said crisis or pull the thread and it’s the start of unraveling or an existential crisis.
I wish I had someone like you who could understand me.
When she said we are Sovereign beings I knew she is the real deal!
strong... the closest thing to truth or is found in what we call suffering... that realization triggers it all... and suffering has to be touched... i can say with total clarity that when I realized many years ago that I was suffering, when i stopped pretending i was not... the journey started and never stopped... Every time I start to fall asleep, it comes back, but now in the form of pain.... it is not suffering any more, it became pain.... so its natural.... so experiencing it is possible since pain is real, (suffering is not), every time, fully, with no excuse, no theory and with no mental defense.... its the most powerful type of experience I am certain we can have.... good talk it points in that direction... start touching your own suffering and something new will happen
God bless you Dr. Shefali. This is my journey now
She is the best!!! I love her so much! Brilliant woman! Thank you! 🙏🙏🙏💛💛💛🦋🦋🦋
Everything stood out. The entire talk was spot on. Will we learn, probably not and to think this reallyi common sense to begin with and so simple and yet so complicated for most. Amazing talk....
"Ring the bells that still can ring
Forget your perfect offering
There is a crack in everything
That's how the light gets in"
Leonard Cohen - Anthem
Thank you Dr. Shefali, you are phenomenal. I have learned a lot and am confirmed in what I have been reflecting on. God Bless you. I'm proud of you.
So much relevant and needed for everyone !
Dr. Shefali Thsabary- I absolutely LOVE your talks!!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world. You truly inspire me!!!
I realize that I have been my own Judge, jury and executioner in my life ... Unconsciously I have been trying to fix me, correct me and CHANGE me ...No more !!!
Yes - me too! Ugh the self judgement and shame is constant! How are you doing now? Any tips?
@@notthrowinawaymyshot824 all life is an experience. You are enough right where you are. There is always room for growth; the journey. No shame in where we been or where we are going.
Jamilah Abdul-mujeeb - AMEN !
You can say it again girl.
Jamilah...Right. So, get off your own back. lol
One of the best talks I have heard. Thank you,
Your words cracked me open and shifted my whole inner world. Especially as a parent. Thank you.
Good GOD, mind blown. Most impactful learning I have yet to come across. Beautiful talk Dr. Shefali. Wow!
Thank you Mindvalley for this amazing opportunity to hear Dr. Shefali! I have had the pleasure of hearing Dr. Shefali speak 'live' on a few occasions and this talk has been truly inspiring and awakening!
I wished I heard about her and her teachings, I needed it so much! But here now on my way to be myself is an eye opener. So greatful to have speakers and doctors on this platform 🙏🏻
So much truth ...the lack of self worth & self value can set us up for a lifetime of failures just because of the lack of belief in ourselves. Good talk...great wake up call!!
One of my absolute favorites on Mindvalley! You are bloody brilliance personified Dr Shafali Tsabary. 💖☀️
I can see through the filters - Shefali - I am also working on the same path as you _ i had this awakening 2 year back - and since then i am on my path to help people be aware as Parents
Conditioned to think that everything can be labelled as good or bad. When in reality, everything is an experiance. The 4 false conditions of good that we trap ourselves into:
1. Things that stay a long time
2. Things that make us feel good
3. Things that make us look good
4. Things that give us money
I love all this but I get confused when I hold it up under certain lights. If you had many children who all died in a horrific car accident would that just be an experience? Neither good nor bad? And if you could get all their lives back if you wanted, but that wanting is considered egoic (because you’re the one who is suffering) would you choose to leave them dead to avoid identifying with your ego? I wouldn’t care. I’d want all my kids back. What am I missing?
@@Tech0231 ... You missed the entire "point" of the lecture. It has NOTHING to do with an emotional attachment with loved ones but that we are programmed by "expectations of parents & capitalism influence" VS "self-actualization" & spiritual development plus our connection/understanding of God who offers "unconditional love" that no human can give.
@@Tech0231 that is your experience and you determine it is bad, because those were your children and a part of you. I’m sure it feels like part of you died
This is a great talk. I don't understand why some people did not like this talk.
Absolutly great! Deeply moving! Thanks!!!
Wow wow wow! I am looking forward to listening to this again...and again...and again! Thank you once again Dr. Shefali 🙏
Society has made us like this...governments and schools and religions, etc...We need to take back out sovereignty and be the whole human beings we were intended to be. When I look back at how I have fallen into these traps it makes me so sad...for me, for my child and for the world. Talks like this will wake people up. Thank you!! 💕
Revolutionary insights..authentic and beyond our time .. wonderful Dr Shefali.
The hardest part to me towards awakening is that you only realize your path to awakening looking back at your life's journey. You cannot grow if you stay put and most time no one knows where to start. My advise; step forward outside of your comfort zone a little at the time while staying safe and true to yourself. Take care.
@Alfa Mindset That’s Very Wise Advice. Ty.
@@CMoore8539 Thank you for your comment. Your comment inspired the topic of a video I created on how do we know that we are successful. I mentioned your name "Cindy" in the video to recognize you contribution to giving me the idea. Thank you again. You can find it here th-cam.com/video/KkJNPXigEZY/w-d-xo.html
Wow, a women after my own heart!
Absolutely resonate with her message, a must share for sure!
For me.... this is best video i had ever seen...
Absolutely amazing talk, I've got a much better understanding of what it is to be spiritually awakened. Books and pain of lessons can only teach so much 🙏 Jon
Amazing woman, such truth, beauty and power in your words.
That to find the answers of our soul we must go within. There is no guru or motivational speaker or religion or wise one who knows it all and will give us the answers. We must journey within.
A very enlightened person - Dr Shefali is a star - human !!
This shook me to my core. I’m now having an existential crisis. Not sure what to do next lol.
Go to the core and knock very hard and loud to awaken your inner strength within. Meditation is a good starting point.
I feel you, Sofia... lol
LOL great comment Sofia.
Duality is a tool, just use it when you need it then put it down. A cage is just a construct. You feel like a captive if you are put in a cage that is inside a city but when you put yourself in a cage and there are wild animals around you, you feel safe. The same bars of iron but completely different perception.
Seeking counselling can help (speaking to a non-judgmental and truly empathic counsellor).
Sofia, stay the course, take a deep breath. Continue to grow and learn and achieve the goals you intend to achieve. You can be intellectually and materially successful and still continue to question the status quo. Be an empathic unique human being and live an untethered life. I am certain that S.T. has no regrets about her cynically brilliant trajectory.
Real facts of life 💯... I have so much changes to make towards my children and myself 😊... Thank you Mind Valley 🤝💞💞💞
In a similar manner, J Krishnamurti and Vernon Howard talked about how to become awake. We live in two worlds, the outer which is for practicality and the inner which is free of labels and expectations to become something. Dr. Tsabary is certainly another great voice to be heard.
I wanted to jump and give her a bear hug. Her insight (and her journey that led it to it), the person that she is, it is so freeing to experience that. I felt if she can speak her truth loud and clear, then so can I.
Wow, yes exactly we all have to break free from this enslaving duality existence. Happiness is at the centre, accepting both as teachers. Fantastic talk Dr beautiful you had me listening to every word. Buddha also said to always take the middle path of the Ying and the Yang. Thanks
So manny are awaking now. We are all doing brilliantly on getting this info out there keep up the good work. Peace and love is coming to the hole of humanity. We are all so blessed to be alive at theses times. We have grat things ahead of us. Ever cell in my body feels it coming 🙏🙏🙏🙏
So happy to see what am feeling is said this way. Now at my age, i realize i follow and i was programmed this way, it took me a while to get it. That's where i am today.
On day 3 of my waterfast I saw what really was and I was disgusted to an extend, that I couldn't but do everything I possibly could - even things that were against my ego - and changed my life.
Excellent talk. I will be grateful for the small hole in my coat and stop looking on the outside to fix it. All of our healing must come from first looking within and seeing the truth of how things really are. I also loved the lightbulb analogy and found it very powerful
My Takeway from this talk: It is what it is. See things for exactly what they are - as they are - without labels.
Choice is always chosen for us! Mind blowing
How very refreshing, so real so practical and sensible. Loved this best ever talk yet! Thankyou Dr Shefali, beautiful!
You're always welcome! This is all our mission, for you and all for us. Thanks for watching!
Namaste! Attach to nothing and detach to every thing to awake within!🙏🕉️
Thank y’all so much dearest 🌹
Y’all such an inspiration 🥰
Be Blissful Eternally 🙏😇🌈
Powerful! Brilliant! Thank you for your straightforward talk and your knowledge on 'truly' awakening.
Thank you so much! Now i understand my journey better and am more willing to let the death of my personality to take place. Very honest, authentic and inspiring is what you are. Be blessed.
I have learnt so much and this videos is one reason why. This is definitely my path now. Thank you.
Wow. This woman is brilliant.
I adore this woman.... Loved her talk ❤️