My experience dating these types of men is that I am just an object in their life to meet their needs for attention, status, company, etc. But I literally could be anyone. It's all about filling roles and not who I am as a person.
As a man, I'm watching this video to learn how to become more emotionally unavailable. Being kind, understanding, and emotionally available is a precurser to failure when trying to date women. Men are far more successful when they show little signs of caring. Messed up, but true... Thanks for the tips!
A very, very precise description of someone I was getting involved with! I am happy I cut every communication with him. It was becoming draining. It is so true: they are only meeting their needs through you but it is obvious they do not care at all about whatever is going on in your life!
I told my therapist a previous guy I was dating was emotionally unavailable ( I literally could feel it by week 3). She said to continue, allow the dating process to take it's course. Bad idea, I should've left week 3 🥴🥴🥴.
Some therapists give awful Advice. Without meaning to mine brainwashed me into justifying my exes behavior and gaslighting my anxiety when it was bc the guy was a covert narcissist and gaslighter. I should have listened to myself!
Wow, I thought I was an anxiously attached but I’ve got two of these signs as an avoidant. That you for making this video to help the community and me.!
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Could you do a video on how to test new partners for signs of DA or FA early on? We need a way to filter them out on purpose instead of just waiting on these things to show up once you've invested too much time.
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
@@lolaweed7467this is sooo true.. I've learned this too late... I invested a lot emotionally so it was hard for me to let go until I woke up that he's just using me all along😑😑
He didn’t remember my birthday which I mentioned 3 days before, and was always got irritated with me with small things. He never helped me, he was always having someone else in his life. I made so many excuses for him and this made me fucked up.
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Yes. Yes. Yes. I think it's because her mother didn't emotionally nurture her as a child. I am about to tell her goodbye. Sad because we were good together on many levels .
Ive the same situation. We cant get past a certain point which is frustrating because she has so many good points. Did she try and keep you when you broke it off?
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Damn, I feel so stupid ! All the signes were there and I refused to see it… I guess I had to go through all this crap to get the message and learn my lesson
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I was thrown off by my ex's people pleasing. I really thought he was into me and very eager to show up for me and our relationship then our dynamics became so weird and went downhill after a while. He went from always showering me with gifts and affection to being cold because I didn't deserve his gifts and attention anymore.
100% true!! Yes first we should love our self before go in love in someone else. for that reason Hawkins letit go is so important to heal childhood trauma.
Great information. Thank you! Do you have a video about the term “emotional unavailable” ... I would like to understand what the psychology is behind this and what emotionally unavailable means. Do these people know they have issues with intimacy? Thanks
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Ive been dating an emotionally unavailable woman for 8 months. We date 1 day a week sometime less. The relationship lacks depth, we cant bond past a certain point. She never talks about feelings. She seems combatant too - an argument comes out of nowhere over something really trivial like an opinion about something. Its frustrating and only serves to kill any kind of bond we have. The problem is i have feelings for her and im hoping she will let down her guard at some point. Any thoughts? Similar experiences?
She don’t like you like that. This comes from an emotionally unavailable woman that dates safe guys just for validation. I know I’m broken and awful. I’m healing though.
@@kdvwusm do you find yourself creating arguments out of nowhere to control the distance in the relationship? Im often thinking afterwards what the hell was that about...!
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
1) No growth trajectory not available, lack of communication 2) Covert or overt hostile behaviour when feel constantly in edge, verbal/ physical aggression 3) overly competative with you covertly making you feel less than, can project their insecureties on partner 4) smothering, controlling, people pleaser beware when to much in their constant drama 5) so. who does not think about you does not remember dates, (little) things about you, not seeing/ hearing you Disclaimer: no one is perfect there will be bit of flaw in everyone PS: Feel free to complete
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Thanks for watching! Have you noticed any of these signs in your relationship?
Yes 1&3 sign
Because she is elder than me
One more thing is you are very beautiful and pretty
May Allah give me like you. I already ping you on facebook messenger for personal chat
Instablaster
My experience dating these types of men is that I am just an object in their life to meet their needs for attention, status, company, etc. But I literally could be anyone. It's all about filling roles and not who I am as a person.
So true!
Yes! It’s for an ego stroke and space filler
Yes, a doll they pick up and play with then throw you back on the shelf or on the ground 🤣
Sigh. Ditto
You hit that bull's eye absultly perfectly
Rule 1. Run away
Rule 2. Run away
Rule 3. Run away
Rule 4. Run away
Rule 5. Run away
Yes
As a man, I'm watching this video to learn how to become more emotionally unavailable. Being kind, understanding, and emotionally available is a precurser to failure when trying to date women. Men are far more successful when they show little signs of caring. Messed up, but true... Thanks for the tips!
You should look into attachment theory and work towards becoming more securely attached. Not becoming toxic...
A very, very precise description of someone I was getting involved with! I am happy I cut every communication with him. It was becoming draining. It is so true: they are only meeting their needs through you but it is obvious they do not care at all about whatever is going on in your life!
My DA started out very needy, wanting CONSTANT attention, and so much drama. I’m exhausted. Everything you said is so spot on.
I told my therapist a previous guy I was dating was emotionally unavailable ( I literally could feel it by week 3). She said to continue, allow the dating process to take it's course. Bad idea, I should've left week 3 🥴🥴🥴.
Any update? Im 8 months in and we dont seem to be getting past a certain point!! Dont know what to do. Thanks
If you want to date women then why not just admit that you're gay?
Should’ve left your therapist by week 3?? 😂🤪
Some therapists give awful
Advice. Without meaning to mine brainwashed me into justifying my exes behavior and gaslighting my anxiety when it was bc the guy was a covert narcissist and gaslighter. I should have listened to myself!
@@dannywholuv why would you be involved with that person for that long
Wow, I thought I was an anxiously attached but I’ve got two of these signs as an avoidant. That you for making this video to help the community and me.!
Just run !!!
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Oups, the "doesn't remember things about you" hits the most ...
Thanks for sharing! ✨
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Could you do a video on how to test new partners for signs of DA or FA early on? We need a way to filter them out on purpose instead of just waiting on these things to show up once you've invested too much time.
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Moving things along fast. When you’re hooked keeping you at arms length. Follow your instinct. Don’t believe their words
@@lolaweed7467this is sooo true.. I've learned this too late... I invested a lot emotionally so it was hard for me to let go until I woke up that he's just using me all along😑😑
He didn’t remember my birthday which I mentioned 3 days before, and was always got irritated with me with small things. He never helped me, he was always having someone else in his life. I made so many excuses for him and this made me fucked up.
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Yes. Yes. Yes.
I think it's because her mother didn't emotionally nurture her as a child. I am about to tell her goodbye. Sad because we were good together on many levels .
I'm sorry to hear that. Glad the video resonated for you.
Ive the same situation. We cant get past a certain point which is frustrating because she has so many good points. Did she try and keep you when you broke it off?
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Damn, I feel so stupid ! All the signes were there and I refused to see it… I guess I had to go through all this crap to get the message and learn my lesson
This channel should have a greater following
Thanks Sonny!
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Could you elaborate a bit more on #4. I might be emotionally unavailable. I do have an anxious attachment style also. How can you differentiate?
The majority of people are like that these days, unfortunately .
I was thrown off by my ex's people pleasing. I really thought he was into me and very eager to show up for me and our relationship then our dynamics became so weird and went downhill after a while. He went from always showering me with gifts and affection to being cold because I didn't deserve his gifts and attention anymore.
100% true!!
Yes first we should love our self before go in love in someone else.
for that reason Hawkins letit go is so important to heal childhood trauma.
Great information. Thank you!
Do you have a video about the term “emotional unavailable” ... I would like to understand what the psychology is behind this and what emotionally unavailable means. Do these people know they have issues with intimacy? Thanks
I feel more secure around anxious or dismissive people. How can I feel less intimidated by secure confident people while healing myself?
Great question! I’ll add this to potential video ideas.
You’re are extremely articulate and knowledgeable. Thank you Katya!
Well thanks a bunch! 😊
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
👋begin at 02:47🤚
I’m the one who’s only thinking and focused on himself and can only engage in relationship in a transactional way. well. It is what it is.
2.38: "let's jump right into it"
Thanks finally the video starts
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♂️
Ive been dating an emotionally unavailable woman for 8 months. We date 1 day a week sometime less. The relationship lacks depth, we cant bond past a certain point. She never talks about feelings.
She seems combatant too - an argument comes out of nowhere over something really trivial like an opinion about something. Its frustrating and only serves to kill any kind of bond we have.
The problem is i have feelings for her and im hoping she will let down her guard at some point.
Any thoughts? Similar experiences?
@Wei Li is she likely to shut down if i ask her? It would be good to know this information, especially if im wanting a future with her
She don’t like you like that. This comes from an emotionally unavailable woman that dates safe guys just for validation. I know I’m broken and awful. I’m healing though.
@@kdvwusm do you find yourself creating arguments out of nowhere to control the distance in the relationship? Im often thinking afterwards what the hell was that about...!
Run...run...run!
Wow!! So helpful!!!
Glad to hear it!
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
@@KatyaMorozova the relationship is over but watching this again what does it mean when someone doesn’t have access to an emotional truth?
Excellent work here! Very helpful. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
My pleasure! Thanks for commenting.
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
This was really helpful. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for commenting.
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Thank you so much Katya for helping me to set standards
My pleasure!
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
1) No growth trajectory
not available, lack of communication
2) Covert or overt hostile behaviour
when feel constantly in edge, verbal/ physical aggression
3) overly competative with you
covertly making you feel less than, can project their insecureties on partner
4) smothering, controlling, people pleaser
beware when to much in their constant drama
5) so. who does not think about you
does not remember dates, (little) things about you, not seeing/ hearing you
Disclaimer: no one is perfect there will be bit of flaw in everyone
PS: Feel free to complete
Damn she described me to the tee!
We were both emotionally unavailable and were so good until emotions were involved whoops
Thnaks a lot!🧡
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Hey I have question there a girl I like but she always have an excuses when I ask her out and she always take forever to reply what's your take
ask her directly if she is interested in you
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
What about long distance relationship?
Good video
Thanks Doug!
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
95% of people are like this nowadays it's a sad game.
Video starts at 2:46
This was on my exes birthday ironically lol. I didn't like her. Like, a lot.
I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated for months. All thanks to Mr Ose whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours
Number 4 has me thinking I’m emotionally unavailable…
Description of EVERY dissmissive avoidant...and about every woman over 35..... .sad