But Sav did experience racism. For a black women to say “yOu DoNt LiKe ChOcLaTE?” Is inherently racist. Black people can be racist just as much as white people can. Heck, ANY race can be racist…
yes like a race doesn't need to be oppressed or experience systemic racism for someone from that race to experience someone else being racist towards them
Racial discrimination and racism are two different things. From a definition standpoint point, systematic oppression does add a different layer to racial discrimination. No matter what racial discrimination is wrong regardless or who the person experiencing it is. But racism has a different impact on whites people versus not white people in a culture where white people are the dominate race. The definition of racism isn’t simply racial discrimination, there are other elements to the true definition of racism - one is not necessarily worse than the other.
@@CleoCleans You said that not me. Wrong is wrong - but racism is still different from racial discrimination. Most things people label as “racist” these days actually aren’t at all, it’s just discrimination. It’s one of the most misused words and it’s turning actual racism into “boy who cried wolf” shit and it’s created a culture fed up of even hearing the word. Educate yourself on the terms you use and you would start to see the issues too.
JOSH & SAV ARE THE BEST!!! Thanks for having them on your podcast! I absolutely enjoyed listening to this conversation & hearing the differences & similarities in your worlds. So insightful & refreshing! 💗
In 2012, my senior year of high school, I got kicked out of my house for dating a black guy. He was a better person than I was. I proudly lived with a friend until we broke up for different reasons. Only sharing because I’m in Arkansas and yall mentioned the state. There’s always good people in bad areas, but my heart goes out to those having the same experiences that I did.
I grew up the exact same way!! My family was soooo against interracial relationships! Until I popped out 4 babies, lol my family did get over it. But it’s very real, and very sad!
It's so sad...I'm in an interracial relationship, we should be celebrating these times, we are literally living "the dream", yet racism is still such a real thing 😔
To all above. I'm very sorry this things are happening to you. I'm a light skinned Mexican woman. Both my husbands were white. Unfortunately, in my circle of life I had no idea this was happening. I'm sending good vibes to everyone. Peace 🕊️✌️❤
LOVE this episode. All of the hard work you all are putting into this podcast SHOWS. The fact you’ve been able to maintain such consistency and quality having such a young baby is very impressive. Amazed by the both of you! 💛
@@weenieboy_ I’m a parent. I have family and a babysitter. Guess what? It’s still hard work!! Never mind two under two, one being a newborn. That’s a lot, even with help.
FYI - the process of placenta encapsulation looses most of the nutrients that it claims to have - rule of thumb if your body is getting rid of it probably means it doesn’t need it anymore (: or else your body would absorb it!
However, like most things, the placebo effect can have massive benefits on PPD & PPA (graduating as a psychiatric nurse practitioner in a few months, so I’m *almost* qualified to speak on this 😂). It doesn’t hurt, so no harm done! But I respect you sharing information!
I didn’t know who Sav & Josh were before this episode.. hearing them speak for the first time really made me wanna go look for them. Now they have a new subscriber ☺️ Ps. I appreciate you 4 being very conscious about keeping your kids’ faces private. Mad respect for you. 👏🏼 smart parents! The fact that Matt read Jeanette Mcurdy’s book 👍🏼
I’m a 51 yo Mom of 2 kids older than you kids & I don’t have grand babies yet. But I REALLY enjoy these podcasts & especially this one today! I had never heard of Josh & Sav but I really commend them for standing up for themselves in this horrible world with racism everywhere! I love that they have plans for their daughters for when they go to school & know they need to set personal boundaries for them! That’s just amazing to me that they are thinking that far ahead & tells me they are great parents!
Abby I am a 56 yr old mother of two boys!! Who are now 24 and 25 years old! (15 months apart) It is a little harder to be the mother of the boy side of a couple BUT boys will always love their mama!!💙💙 pray for wonderful daughter n laws!! I have one already that is great!!
L&D nurse here! At 10:54, your placenta? If there’s any indications for it, the placenta is sent to the lab for testing. If not, you can donate it to a burn unit and it’s then used to create new skin for those in need, or it is discarded in a biohazard/medical waste bin. If you keep it, you have to sign a paper. We don’t want people planting them or burying them as they will rot and decompose and it’s not good for the environment for there to just be decomposing organs out and about that can cause disease and sickness. Hope that helps a little!
Love all 4 of you guys, I worded that wrong! ❤️ really enjoyed the episode! I had 2 under 2 twice lol 2 girls 10 years ago, and then 2 boys a couple years ago! Absolutely love listening to such relatable things ❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Halfway through watching this- and so relatable!! 3.5 weeks postpartum here- and I never connected that those night sweats in the first week were because of hormonal changes… I would wake up drenched with sweat. Also SO relatable about trying to be the chill wife but silently resenting your spouse 😂 it has def been tough with feeling like you carry the bigger burden because you’re breastfeeding so you HAVE to be up in the night, versus it being more optional for your spouse. Thank you guys for being so honest and real about what postpartum is like
@@madalynvanwormer652 It’s just plainly irrelevant and not in any way comparable to the racism that Black people and other ethnicities face. I think that’s just common sense at the end of the day. 🤷🏻♀️😂
Thank you I was so bothered when Sav said she couldn’t possibly feel racism. Poor girl, that is brainwashing! Not from her husband but from the internet
@@shruggs5279 That doesn’t make any sense ma’am… my life is great, and you’re making your many years REALLY clear. If you got offended because of my comment that wasn’t mean or negative (in fact it was extremely logical and common sense based) you need to heal yourself on the inside before going on social media. It’s not good for unstable people. 🫶🏼
Wednesday is now my favorite day of the week, I never have a problem getting out of bed first thing on Wednesdays because I am always excited for a new episode😊
i had a mixed baby 20 years ago with a african american man. you would not even begin to believe the hell and insane circumstances we went through. i remember being screamed at by a stranger while i was on my college campus very pregnant walking with him and they were telling me i should of had an abortion. complete strangers. once we we’re holding hands walking to dinner downtown (in a very diverse bigger mid west city) and i woman and her husband were staring us down but i didn’t know if it was in a positive or negative way…..we’d get both back then. and then she SPIT ON ME AS I WALKED BY AND SAID “n-word lover”. i was like 37 weeks pregnant just walking happily down to get dinner. smh i have hundreds of stories. i will say it’s improved a lot since the but BY FAR NOT ENOUGH!! and having a kid starting middle school at a majority white school during the first Donald trump campaign/election was so unbelievably traumatic and dangerous i had move and switch my children to different schools. the staff was equally as bad as the kids in my opinion too. it’s sad because if you don’t live in a circumstance where you as a white person has been in a relationship interracially or raised black children or had maybe black bffs then you have a fake sense of security that it’s not as bad as it really is. now like i said it’s improved over the years but by far not enough. and a huge portion of the population has literally no clue …..i see it with my own family who have lived in very all white communities and never left etc. it’s crazy. thank you so much for this episode.
I respect both couples for actually sharing the truth about how rough it could be with a newborn. And I know my son cried a lot. For no reason too. If my husband wasn't here to help and to switch off so I can take 5. It's so worth it though and our relationship was definitely tested. I didn't always like him but I always loved him. (My husband)
Great podcast episode! This is the collaboration we know we need it! Love both of you all and the season of life y’all are in. Hopefully I can meet you all one day in person.
You all are so amazing. Such strength and honesty that you all display to the world and that makes such a good connection to so many. You are talking about what so many people go through every day and now they don’t feel so alone. Don’t change. So sorry people have to be so negative. Who cares what one looks like, love who you wish. If they don’t like it, too bad. They can keep scrolling, keep walking, move on.
I just have to comment. I've been a grandmother for 6 and a half years now, I had the utmost priveldge to be present with both my daughters when they birthed their babies. And seeing them being birthing goddesses were peak moments in our lives. Birth isn't something to fear or fear on behalf of our daughters, it is literally the most empowering experience a woman goes through. And to become a grandmother is epic!!
I'm pregnant now, and my mom was crushed when I told her I just want my husband in the delivery room. I'm so afraid that she is going to make me nervous or maybe make me give up if it takes too long, and send me to the C-section, that I chose not to invite her. But I feel bad that she cannot be a part of it.
@@Franciellestephanie both my daughters birthed at home which made a huge difference. I am close with them both, but also I am a qualified pre natal educator and doula, so I understand physiological labour and birth. I would 100% respect the choices and decisions of any woman whose birth I attended in any capacity. Sending you lots of love x
You are so right that it's the most empowering experience 😊 I had twins vaginally, and for the last 5 years I've used that to remind myself how much I'm capable of, and the experience has helped me handle so many other things.
@@laurenw1168you, ma’am, are truly a birth warrior! Not many can have twins vaginally (as of late), and of those who can, many still choose to elect for the cesarean. (I’m a L&D nurse) If you can do that, I trust you can do just about anything! Go you!
We were told a Daughter for life, a Son till he takes a Wife….it’s pretty true in our family BUT it’s the season of life we’re in w/young “adult” children. And momma & dada, just remember the days are long BUT the years are short!!! Keep on Keeping on💖
Matt!! I just love that you put that out there about not really realizing that racism is still a real thing that exists. I feel like our generation grew up that way, we only learned about the past but never realizing it was still in the present.
The pranks were HILARIOUS! And they both did so good on acting.. I always go back and watch them so please don’t take them down. Josh used to called Sav Pooter, I still remember lol. This was a great collaboration on both channels!! Enjoyed!
Love the podcast!! I would like to say give yourself and each other grace. Marriage and parenting is hard and it's something you have to work at. I was 15 when I had my first son and it was really hard and I got married at 17, and we are coming up on our 20th anniversary, so I know Marriage is hard sometimes but it is the best thing ever. I have 4 boys my oldest is 22 and the youngest is 16 , and now I have a granddaughter and one on the way. Just injoy life and your little one's.
I almost died from internal bleeding after a c-section with our second baby and when I told my husband I was ready for another he was VERY against it. He saw all of my blood on the OR floor when the doctor screwed up and it scared him to see me so sick for weeks after but I just knew it was time (3 years later) I reassured him and he trusted me to know my body and we went on to have a totally healthy pregnancy and birth. I appreciated his support and trust.
I have been married to my husband for almost 16 years and yes it is both sided!!! Its so sad that we are in 2023 but yet still dealing with racism... But I'm so excited my two fav couples are together in one!!!
It's honestly both annoying and respectable when parents don't show their kids' faces. 😂 Like, I'm so glad you're protecting your kids' privacy. But I also wish I could see their beautiful faces lol. ❤
I love both couples! I watch you both ! It’s been so helpful because I was pregnant around the same time as you guys with my first. My baby was born June 7th 2023 and for I while y’all were the only people around me dealing with the same things I’m going through. I’m truly a fan. Thank you for reminding me of my sanity 😅😂
It’s really interesting seeing Josh and Sav be interviewed by people my age. It’s so interesting and I love it. I followed Matt and Abby cause the Age range is what I like. Not that Josh and Sav are OLD but like I feel like I relate so much to Matt and Abby but then I’m in an interracial relationship and myself and my girlfriend follow Josh and Sav together for this reason but I found Matt and Abby. These guys are my couple to follow. As a guy I know it’s weird but I love it. Matt by the way your music is fire wow.
I have been waiting for this duO! I love both of you guys literally the most realistic and home video vibey youtubers especially being a young black woman these episodes are great i have learned so much about pregnancy as well tysm guys
Can't believe this is 34 weeks in!! Every episode is better and better! Thanks for bringing in the most real, authentic, caring people. I've learned and grew from each couple that has been brought on You both.make all the guests feel comfortable opening up and being themselves, which is a great trait for a hoast/podcast
The way Savannah said it’s impossible for her to experience racism when she just experienced it on the bus 😳😳… that lady saying “oh you don’t like chocolate” was racism against Sav not Josh 🤦🏽♀️. Racism goes both ways and it’s ignorant to sit there and say every race can’t experience it.
It’s because white people are told they can’t experience racism WHILE they’re being harassed with racism. I went to a school where white was the minority and I wasn’t “allowed” to be upset about anything that happened to me because I was white 😂😂 it’s stupid. She probably didn’t want the comments to come for her.
There’s a difference between the lady on the train saying that (which was very wrong) and a system oppression against a specific race and having systems put in place to stop you from thriving and being paid less at work etc. That was the point they were trying to make. Racism - has the ISM at the end for a reason- it’s referring to a system. The same way SexISM is referring to the systemic differences in how women are treated in the workplace etc. We are referring to systems that oppress
@@aimsfabs6147 The definition of racism is “prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, or community” Again I will say she did and has experienced racism. EVERY single race has experienced racism in some form or fashion and it exists in every race. Black, Hispanics and Asians and many other races will be the first to say that! Me being one of them.
this is misinformation. racism is more related to the systemic oppression of marginalized groups. it’s a mix of prejudice and discrimination on a more policy and systems level.
Omg I feel SO old! I knew Matt and Abby were younger, but had no idea Josh and Sav were only 27! I thought they were in their 30’s! You all are such great parents ❤😊
Loved this!!! It’s so interesting as someone’s who’s also in an interracial relationship to see how other people in different ethnicities go about it. This collab was amazing! Cant wait for future episodes, especially the Kian and Ayla episode!! Much love y’all🫶🏼
Yall are lucky to have men that help you feed the baby through the night. My husband has to wake up at 5 every morning and work until 6 in the evening. We have 2 little girls and I do everything for them. He is a amazing dad don't get me wrong but he has to work. Its what works for us but hearing yall say he feeds the baby at night. You are lucky girl. We have another little girl on the way. This one is a complete surprise but i wouldn't trade it for the world. Appreciate him feeding the baby at night. Love yall
So lucky. I chose formula feeding and my now husband helped feed too. Its absolutely game changing. Prayers for you momma. Its rough doing it all alone
I have mixed kids and I’m telling you they have received the hate from both sides. Black and white. They unfortunately have had situations where they were not accepted from either side. Black or White. And you might be surprised with who gave the most hate. It’s been a long road for them but they know who they are and whose they are. We most definitely just need to love the people and pray and know that we most definitely cannot change people but can hopefully be the change and teach the change. Blessings to you all. May we all support interracial relationships and not be haters! ❤❤ And I’m sayin, I absolutely love when I see a black woman dating a white man. Back in the day, that was more rare. But it’s most definitely increasing. I absolutely love all races and the children are absolutely beautiful. Love love love. Let’s do it! ❤ 💪🏽 💪🏻💪🏿
Although I like this channel. I really do. I just cant believe how little two young couples know about labour. Even after they've given birth. Twice. Appreciate the talk about depression and racism talk. An Sav, you said it wasn't possible to experience racism. But you do, everytime a black person says you shouldnt be with your husband. My best friends family was horrified when she brought home a white guy. It does go both ways. Although it doesnt diminish what black people have and still experience, especially in America.
@megan-tl3lz their lack of knowledge of the process. The placenta being saved. There's no evidence it helps at all once the baby has stopped using it. Losing blood after. Of course you are. You're shedding the lining of your uterus which built up to protect the baby. There was also a lot in other videos where they've spoken about birth control/labour. The pull out method is not birth control. And getting pregnant that soon after the first birth can be very dangerous. Let me stress, I still really like this channel but I think you need to confirm the information you share and fact check. You don't need to be an expert to do that. I know they sometimes say this but their audience is huge and mostly young people. So it's just being responsible because they have so much influence. However, these minor annoyances are outweighed by their honesty, innocence, and kindness as a couple. They're very wholesome.
Its so crazy hearing you guys talking about MO(im new here on your page). I live in MO also, and spot on. Southern MO is yikes. Theres places all over the state, all those little BFE towns but forsure down south is terrible. Its so sad.
I feel like I've related to Josh and Sav the most because I'm in a long distance, interracial relationship also in Oregon. It's difficult in many different ways
Josh and Sav do what you both want to and don't listen to the other people,I don't care if u r black,white,blue,red,purple or any other Color I will love you no matter what it is your personality that really matters!
I love the episode! But I think it’s dangerous to say that white people can’t experience racism. Racism by definition is to treat someone differently or badly because of their ethnicity or color of their skin. White people can most certainly experience racism. I know she didn’t mean anything bad by it, but it’s sad to see that white people have to excuse their existence because of history. We should learn from it, but as long as you’re the kindest version of yourself, you’re doing everything you can. We can’t change history but we can choose how we act towards one another. Everybody should be proud of their ethnicity no matter what ❤️
I love you guys but I disagree with Sav saying it's impossible for her to experience racism...that's just not true. I mean the lady that made the comment about Josh being with a white girl on the subway, is that not kind of racist towards white girls?
This is so interesting. I’ve often thought the same. Although it is of course far less common (and often less severe), I have seen similar situations. I think the idea is not to take away what non-white people have and continue to have to go through (basically highlighting white privilege). I raised this question in my college ethics class years ago, and that was the answer I received. As a white female, I’ve sort of made my peace with this issue recognizing I do not deal with racism or anything like it on even a semi-regular basis. You certainly have a valid point, in my opinion, I think the more important thing to remember, though, is that it isn’t the most important thing we should be focusing on. I think if we continue to show love toward everyone (as white people), that “racism towards white people” WILL dissipate. I strongly believe that. 🫂
It's natural for kids to be well behaved/reserved around others, and then let that facade down around their parents. We do it even as adults in less dramatic ways but like how we would never argue with a coworker like we would our spouse, etc. It is an amount of understanding they will still like/love us if we arent perfect but others can judge harshly. Nobody can hold that facade forever ❤
54:03 Matt began talking about going to college a few hours away from Arkansas and how it was very racist. I live in what is claimed to be the most racist town in America ( in Arkansas) and although there are some racist people I do feel like we get a bad rap. There is so much more good here than there is bad and most people tend to see right through that. I love people of all races and know people of all races very closely. Racism is such a bad thing and needs to be stopped, I just hate seeing people come to our town claiming it to be the most racist and only sharing the parts that are bad. Love y’all so much please keep posting amazing content❤
Matt and Abby- I live in Arizona. To deal with the heat join a lifetime gym and use their massive outdoor community pool or indoor pools with your family. You’ll have to wake up at 5-7am to get outside before it gets too hot. Yes you can go to the park at that time or for walks and bike rides. Lastly, visit Prescott, Flagstaff, and Sedona during the weekends to get outside and enjoy lower temperatures. Also trips to California. These are things I wish I knew before moving here.
Josh and Sav seem so emotionally mature, it was super cool to hear them talk about stuff!
But Sav did experience racism. For a black women to say “yOu DoNt LiKe ChOcLaTE?” Is inherently racist. Black people can be racist just as much as white people can. Heck, ANY race can be racist…
Literally came here to say this exact thing. Racism exists in all cultures.
yes like a race doesn't need to be oppressed or experience systemic racism for someone from that race to experience someone else being racist towards them
Racial discrimination and racism are two different things. From a definition standpoint point, systematic oppression does add a different layer to racial discrimination. No matter what racial discrimination is wrong regardless or who the person experiencing it is. But racism has a different impact on whites people versus not white people in a culture where white people are the dominate race. The definition of racism isn’t simply racial discrimination, there are other elements to the true definition of racism - one is not necessarily worse than the other.
@@sarahloohoo2312so tired of this rhetoric. Essentially black people are too powerless to hurt others. Give us a break. Wrong is wrong.
@@CleoCleans You said that not me. Wrong is wrong - but racism is still different from racial discrimination. Most things people label as “racist” these days actually aren’t at all, it’s just discrimination. It’s one of the most misused words and it’s turning actual racism into “boy who cried wolf” shit and it’s created a culture fed up of even hearing the word. Educate yourself on the terms you use and you would start to see the issues too.
JOSH & SAV ARE THE BEST!!! Thanks for having them on your podcast! I absolutely enjoyed listening to this conversation & hearing the differences & similarities in your worlds. So insightful & refreshing! 💗
In 2012, my senior year of high school, I got kicked out of my house for dating a black guy. He was a better person than I was. I proudly lived with a friend until we broke up for different reasons. Only sharing because I’m in Arkansas and yall mentioned the state. There’s always good people in bad areas, but my heart goes out to those having the same experiences that I did.
I grew up the exact same way!! My family was soooo against interracial relationships! Until I popped out 4 babies, lol my family did get over it. But it’s very real, and very sad!
Im also in Arkansas. My first husband was african american. I had family who wouldn't come to my wedding to him.
Josh and Sav have such good vibes- I love their dynamic and the realness they bring!
It's so sad...I'm in an interracial relationship, we should be celebrating these times, we are literally living "the dream", yet racism is still such a real thing 😔
Same here and, honestly so true
I agree. My husband is native american and we get looks. My first husband was african american. I had family who wouldnt come to our wedding. Its wild
@@bkessinger94that would be my family 🤦🏻♀️
To all above. I'm very sorry this things are happening to you. I'm a light skinned Mexican woman. Both my husbands were white. Unfortunately, in my circle of life I had no idea this was happening. I'm sending good vibes to everyone. Peace 🕊️✌️❤
@@bkessinger94 that's honestly crazy
I HAD to comment. This episode was SO good. Im in an interracial marriage & wow this hit home. Im loving the conversational podcasts!!
LOVE this episode. All of the hard work you all are putting into this podcast SHOWS. The fact you’ve been able to maintain such consistency and quality having such a young baby is very impressive. Amazed by the both of you! 💛
Agreed!!❤
That’s so kind of you to say! Thank you!
Um it’s called a babysitter… nanny… family….
@@weenieboy_ I’m a parent. I have family and a babysitter. Guess what? It’s still hard work!! Never mind two under two, one being a newborn. That’s a lot, even with help.
FYI - the process of placenta encapsulation looses most of the nutrients that it claims to have - rule of thumb if your body is getting rid of it probably means it doesn’t need it anymore (: or else your body would absorb it!
Yep. None of these “benefits” are proven
Yes! Because it also filters out the bad stuff..you don't want to ingest that
I encapsulated mine and the first time I took it I felt like I was on mushrooms. It was awful, I don’t know what the heck happened to this day
However, like most things, the placebo effect can have massive benefits on PPD & PPA (graduating as a psychiatric nurse practitioner in a few months, so I’m *almost* qualified to speak on this 😂). It doesn’t hurt, so no harm done! But I respect you sharing information!
Watching Sav flirt with Josh was sooo much fun and so so cute.
I didn’t know who Sav & Josh were before this episode.. hearing them speak for the first time really made me wanna go look for them. Now they have a new subscriber ☺️
Ps. I appreciate you 4 being very conscious about keeping your kids’ faces private. Mad respect for you. 👏🏼 smart parents! The fact that Matt read Jeanette Mcurdy’s book 👍🏼
Okay I hope this becomes like a frequent collab I love you guys together and I could so see Matt and Josh hanging out and Sav and Abby working out
I’m a 51 yo Mom of 2 kids older than you kids & I don’t have grand babies yet. But I REALLY enjoy these podcasts & especially this one today! I had never heard of Josh & Sav but I really commend them for standing up for themselves in this horrible world with racism everywhere! I love that they have plans for their daughters for when they go to school & know they need to set personal boundaries for them! That’s just amazing to me that they are thinking that far ahead & tells me they are great parents!
Abby I am a 56 yr old mother of two boys!! Who are now 24 and 25 years old! (15 months apart) It is a little harder to be the mother of the boy side of a couple BUT boys will always love their mama!!💙💙 pray for wonderful daughter n laws!! I have one already that is great!!
L&D nurse here! At 10:54, your placenta? If there’s any indications for it, the placenta is sent to the lab for testing. If not, you can donate it to a burn unit and it’s then used to create new skin for those in need, or it is discarded in a biohazard/medical waste bin. If you keep it, you have to sign a paper. We don’t want people planting them or burying them as they will rot and decompose and it’s not good for the environment for there to just be decomposing organs out and about that can cause disease and sickness.
Hope that helps a little!
I love josh and Savannah!!!! Can’t wait to watch this episode! ❤❤❤❤
Love all 4 of you guys, I worded that wrong! ❤️ really enjoyed the episode! I had 2 under 2 twice lol 2 girls 10 years ago, and then 2 boys a couple years ago! Absolutely love listening to such relatable things ❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Halfway through watching this- and so relatable!! 3.5 weeks postpartum here- and I never connected that those night sweats in the first week were because of hormonal changes… I would wake up drenched with sweat. Also SO relatable about trying to be the chill wife but silently resenting your spouse 😂 it has def been tough with feeling like you carry the bigger burden because you’re breastfeeding so you HAVE to be up in the night, versus it being more optional for your spouse. Thank you guys for being so honest and real about what postpartum is like
Very much love and appreciate how deep these conversations get. Even just on both of your individual podcasts 🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Josh and Sav are the best couple on the Internet. Wish them all the best of all things in life! Love them!
This didn't even feel like an interview. It was really good. Maybe Abby can do future podcasts with moms postpartum and share their experiences.
But, as Josh just described, the racism is not one-sided. The lady on the train proved it.
Thank you, that's exactly what I was thinking. Sav saying it's impossible for her to experience racism is just not true
@@madalynvanwormer652 It’s just plainly irrelevant and not in any way comparable to the racism that Black people and other ethnicities face. I think that’s just common sense at the end of the day. 🤷🏻♀️😂
@emikoautumn1631 never said it was... but I hate that your life must be so bad that you automatically felt that I was saying otherwise.
Thank you I was so bothered when Sav said she couldn’t possibly feel racism. Poor girl, that is brainwashing!
Not from her husband but from the internet
@@shruggs5279 That doesn’t make any sense ma’am… my life is great, and you’re making your many years REALLY clear. If you got offended because of my comment that wasn’t mean or negative (in fact it was extremely logical and common sense based) you need to heal yourself on the inside before going on social media. It’s not good for unstable people. 🫶🏼
Thank you all for your REALNESS!! Love how open and honest these conversations are. ❤❤❤
first Kara & Nate and now Josh & Sav??? Y’all hosting my favs and I absolutely love it!!
Wednesday is now my favorite day of the week, I never have a problem getting out of bed first thing on Wednesdays because I am always excited for a new episode😊
As a nanny the share with your nanny comment and nannys cat made me laugh 😂 my cat would definitely appreciate this content lmao
i had a mixed baby 20 years ago with a african american man. you would not even begin to believe the hell and insane circumstances we went through. i remember being screamed at by a stranger while i was on my college campus very pregnant walking with him and they were telling me i should of had an abortion. complete strangers. once we we’re holding hands walking to dinner downtown (in a very diverse bigger mid west city) and i woman and her husband were staring us down but i didn’t know if it was in a positive or negative way…..we’d get both back then. and then she SPIT ON ME AS I WALKED BY AND SAID “n-word lover”. i was like 37 weeks pregnant just walking happily down to get dinner. smh i have hundreds of stories. i will say it’s improved a lot since the but BY FAR NOT ENOUGH!! and having a kid starting middle school at a majority white school during the first Donald trump campaign/election was so unbelievably traumatic and dangerous i had move and switch my children to different schools. the staff was equally as bad as the kids in my opinion too. it’s sad because if you don’t live in a circumstance where you as a white person has been in a relationship interracially or raised black children or had maybe black bffs then you have a fake sense of security that it’s not as bad as it really is. now like i said it’s improved over the years but by far not enough. and a huge portion of the population has literally no clue …..i see it with my own family who have lived in very all white communities and never left etc. it’s crazy. thank you so much for this episode.
I respect both couples for actually sharing the truth about how rough it could be with a newborn. And I know my son cried a lot. For no reason too. If my husband wasn't here to help and to switch off so I can take 5. It's so worth it though and our relationship was definitely tested. I didn't always like him but I always loved him. (My husband)
YES!! I commented a few weeks back to have Josh and Sav on the podcast! So happy to see them here!
Watched Josh and Sav's Podcast Monday and re-watched it yesterday. Now this?! YASSS ❤❤ please do more videos together 🙏🏽 love you guys!!
Great podcast episode! This is the collaboration we know we need it! Love both of you all and the season of life y’all are in. Hopefully I can meet you all one day in person.
My 2 FAVORITE TH-cam couples!! Can’t wait to get off of work to watch this!!! 🥰
Definitely one of my favorite podcast yet!
Loved this podcast! Thanks for touching on racism and interracial relationships.
You all are so amazing. Such strength and honesty that you all display to the world and that makes such a good connection to so many. You are talking about what so many people go through every day and now they don’t feel so alone. Don’t change. So sorry people have to be so negative. Who cares what one looks like, love who you wish. If they don’t like it, too bad. They can keep scrolling, keep walking, move on.
two of the most real couples on the internet. two of my favorite couples actually, I love you guys so much!
I just have to comment. I've been a grandmother for 6 and a half years now, I had the utmost priveldge to be present with both my daughters when they birthed their babies. And seeing them being birthing goddesses were peak moments in our lives. Birth isn't something to fear or fear on behalf of our daughters, it is literally the most empowering experience a woman goes through. And to become a grandmother is epic!!
I'm pregnant now, and my mom was crushed when I told her I just want my husband in the delivery room. I'm so afraid that she is going to make me nervous or maybe make me give up if it takes too long, and send me to the C-section, that I chose not to invite her. But I feel bad that she cannot be a part of it.
@@Franciellestephanie both my daughters birthed at home which made a huge difference. I am close with them both, but also I am a qualified pre natal educator and doula, so I understand physiological labour and birth. I would 100% respect the choices and decisions of any woman whose birth I attended in any capacity. Sending you lots of love x
You are so right that it's the most empowering experience 😊 I had twins vaginally, and for the last 5 years I've used that to remind myself how much I'm capable of, and the experience has helped me handle so many other things.
@@laurenw1168you, ma’am, are truly a birth warrior! Not many can have twins vaginally (as of late), and of those who can, many still choose to elect for the cesarean. (I’m a L&D nurse)
If you can do that, I trust you can do just about anything! Go you!
My little one is almost two and we listen to the podcast every week and he has started to say what's up dudes all the time cracks me up
Love josh and sav! So sad they moved away from michigan, but love that they moved closer to family! Definitely so excited for this episode! ❤
love the mom talks! Helps us young moms out ❤
We were told a Daughter for life, a Son till he takes a Wife….it’s pretty true in our family BUT it’s the season of life we’re in w/young “adult” children. And momma & dada, just remember the days are long BUT the years are short!!! Keep on Keeping on💖
Wow this is crazy 😂 I just found Josh and sav on instagram from their interviews during her pregnancy and now y’all are podcasting together 😁🥰
Josh and Sav are so sweet! Love their vibe!!
Matt!! I just love that you put that out there about not really realizing that racism is still a real thing that exists. I feel like our generation grew up that way, we only learned about the past but never realizing it was still in the present.
The pranks were HILARIOUS! And they both did so good on acting.. I always go back and watch them so please don’t take them down. Josh used to called Sav Pooter, I still remember lol. This was a great collaboration on both channels!! Enjoyed!
Love the podcast!! I would like to say give yourself and each other grace. Marriage and parenting is hard and it's something you have to work at. I was 15 when I had my first son and it was really hard and I got married at 17, and we are coming up on our 20th anniversary, so I know Marriage is hard sometimes but it is the best thing ever. I have 4 boys my oldest is 22 and the youngest is 16 , and now I have a granddaughter and one on the way. Just injoy life and your little one's.
Maybe it’s just me but Matt we’re doing his toes is so funny 😂 and then the look that Abby gave Matt when he was opening the pop can 🤣
My two favorite podcasts in one! It's a great day!🎉
Love this one thanks for bringing on a interracial couple I love this definitely enjoy the perspective .❤
This was my favorite podcast out of all of them
MATT HAHAHAHAHAA so relatable “my persons actually perfect so… sucks for you guys”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 literally lol 😂
I almost died from internal bleeding after a c-section with our second baby and when I told my husband I was ready for another he was VERY against it. He saw all of my blood on the OR floor when the doctor screwed up and it scared him to see me so sick for weeks after but I just knew it was time (3 years later) I reassured him and he trusted me to know my body and we went on to have a totally healthy pregnancy and birth. I appreciated his support and trust.
I have been married to my husband for almost 16 years and yes it is both sided!!! Its so sad that we are in 2023 but yet still dealing with racism... But I'm so excited my two fav couples are together in one!!!
I love how you guys lift one another up and encourage each other. That is so amazing. Keep up the good work, you guys. Best wishes to all of you ❤️ 😊❤
The “Shurl” thing CRACKED ME UP!!!😂
It's honestly both annoying and respectable when parents don't show their kids' faces. 😂 Like, I'm so glad you're protecting your kids' privacy. But I also wish I could see their beautiful faces lol. ❤
This was a really good PODCAST with Josh & Sav ♥️ they spoke on some important/real topics.
The look abbey gave Matt when he opened his soda under the mic and he immediately moved it really got me 😅 & they’re both just smiling through it 😂
I LOVE Josh&sav! Another amazing episode guys!! ❤❤❤
I just adore Josh and sav, and Matt and Abby!! This was just a perf podcast ❤
I love both couples! I watch you both ! It’s been so helpful because I was pregnant around the same time as you guys with my first. My baby was born June 7th 2023 and for I while y’all were the only people around me dealing with the same things I’m going through. I’m truly a fan. Thank you for reminding me of my sanity 😅😂
It’s really interesting seeing Josh and Sav be interviewed by people my age. It’s so interesting and I love it. I followed Matt and Abby cause the Age range is what I like. Not that Josh and Sav are OLD but like I feel like I relate so much to Matt and Abby but then I’m in an interracial relationship and myself and my girlfriend follow Josh and Sav together for this reason but I found Matt and Abby. These guys are my couple to follow. As a guy I know it’s weird but I love it. Matt by the way your music is fire wow.
They have a 2 year age difference
I have been waiting for this duO! I love both of you guys literally the most realistic and home video vibey youtubers especially being a young black woman these episodes are great i have learned so much about pregnancy as well tysm guys
This episode just came out like 20 minutes ago, and I’m already listening to it at the gym😭
Can't believe this is 34 weeks in!! Every episode is better and better! Thanks for bringing in the most real, authentic, caring people. I've learned and grew from each couple that has been brought on
You both.make all the guests feel comfortable opening up and being themselves, which is a great trait for a hoast/podcast
The way Savannah said it’s impossible for her to experience racism when she just experienced it on the bus 😳😳… that lady saying “oh you don’t like chocolate” was racism against Sav not Josh 🤦🏽♀️. Racism goes both ways and it’s ignorant to sit there and say every race can’t experience it.
It’s because white people are told they can’t experience racism WHILE they’re being harassed with racism. I went to a school where white was the minority and I wasn’t “allowed” to be upset about anything that happened to me because I was white 😂😂 it’s stupid. She probably didn’t want the comments to come for her.
There’s a difference between the lady on the train saying that (which was very wrong) and a system oppression against a specific race and having systems put in place to stop you from thriving and being paid less at work etc. That was the point they were trying to make.
Racism - has the ISM at the end for a reason- it’s referring to a system. The same way SexISM is referring to the systemic differences in how women are treated in the workplace etc. We are referring to systems that oppress
@@aimsfabs6147exactly
@@aimsfabs6147 The definition of racism is “prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, or community”
Again I will say she did and has experienced racism.
EVERY single race has experienced racism in some form or fashion and it exists in every race.
Black, Hispanics and Asians and many other races will be the first to say that! Me being one of them.
this is misinformation. racism is more related to the systemic oppression of marginalized groups. it’s a mix of prejudice and discrimination on a more policy and systems level.
Best podcast and episode ever
Abby & her husband- the husband seems so relax & makes you feel relaxed 😎
He has a name…
Omg I feel SO old! I knew Matt and Abby were younger, but had no idea Josh and Sav were only 27! I thought they were in their 30’s! You all are such great parents ❤😊
They look so young tho.. they don’t even look 30 to me lol
Ill be 29 this month. I feel so old too. Lol
I love watching you guys!! I’ve always enjoyed Sav and Josh’s content too! I’m a silent listener ❤️
I never had postpartum depression with my first 4 kids but with my 5th. I’m struggling and trying to make it through and I’m 5 months postpartum.
5:53 Ok. Can we just talk ab how Matt's RLLY havin' it right here??? Hahahaha!!
Fun little fact….. I found out I’m having my first baby during this video!!!
Congratulations girl! I’ll be praying that you have a safe and healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby!
Congratulations!!! I hope you are doing well!!! 🥹🙏🏿💕
Loved this!!! It’s so interesting as someone’s who’s also in an interracial relationship to see how other people in different ethnicities go about it. This collab was amazing! Cant wait for future episodes, especially the Kian and Ayla episode!! Much love y’all🫶🏼
This is 🔥🔥🔥🔥
More of this combo.
Yall are lucky to have men that help you feed the baby through the night. My husband has to wake up at 5 every morning and work until 6 in the evening. We have 2 little girls and I do everything for them. He is a amazing dad don't get me wrong but he has to work. Its what works for us but hearing yall say he feeds the baby at night. You are lucky girl. We have another little girl on the way. This one is a complete surprise but i wouldn't trade it for the world. Appreciate him feeding the baby at night. Love yall
So lucky. I chose formula feeding and my now husband helped feed too. Its absolutely game changing. Prayers for you momma. Its rough doing it all alone
I have mixed kids and I’m telling you they have received the hate from both sides. Black and white. They unfortunately have had situations where they were not accepted from either side. Black or White. And you might be surprised with who gave the most hate. It’s been a long road for them but they know who they are and whose they are. We most definitely just need to love the people and pray and know that we most definitely cannot change people but can hopefully be the change and teach the change. Blessings to you all. May we all support interracial relationships and not be haters! ❤❤ And I’m sayin, I absolutely love when I see a black woman dating a white man. Back in the day, that was more rare. But it’s most definitely increasing. I absolutely love all races and the children are absolutely beautiful. Love love love. Let’s do it! ❤ 💪🏽 💪🏻💪🏿
Although I like this channel. I really do. I just cant believe how little two young couples know about labour. Even after they've given birth. Twice.
Appreciate the talk about depression and racism talk. An Sav, you said it wasn't possible to experience racism. But you do, everytime a black person says you shouldnt be with your husband. My best friends family was horrified when she brought home a white guy. It does go both ways. Although it doesnt diminish what black people have and still experience, especially in America.
why do you think they know so little about birth??
@megan-tl3lz their lack of knowledge of the process. The placenta being saved. There's no evidence it helps at all once the baby has stopped using it. Losing blood after. Of course you are. You're shedding the lining of your uterus which built up to protect the baby. There was also a lot in other videos where they've spoken about birth control/labour. The pull out method is not birth control. And getting pregnant that soon after the first birth can be very dangerous.
Let me stress, I still really like this channel but I think you need to confirm the information you share and fact check. You don't need to be an expert to do that. I know they sometimes say this but their audience is huge and mostly young people. So it's just being responsible because they have so much influence.
However, these minor annoyances are outweighed by their honesty, innocence, and kindness as a couple. They're very wholesome.
This is one of my favorites! So good!!!!
You should get Slice & Rice on here! I just love them. They're another young couple with 2 kiddos.
Yessss
I love love love both couples here! It makes my day to see yall together!!❤
Its so crazy hearing you guys talking about MO(im new here on your page). I live in MO also, and spot on. Southern MO is yikes. Theres places all over the state, all those little BFE towns but forsure down south is terrible. Its so sad.
I think there something so ❤️about interracial couples
I looove watching you guys!!! My favourite time to watch is when I happen to get a day off on Wednesday and get to watch while I drink my coffee!!❤️
Josh, you’re right! It’s Churrrel!!! 😂😂 #LouisianaWoman 😂
I feel like I've related to Josh and Sav the most because I'm in a long distance, interracial relationship also in Oregon. It's difficult in many different ways
This was fun!! We have 4 kids 4 and under and also are an interracial couple/cross-cultural marriage.
Josh and Sav do what you both want to and don't listen to the other people,I don't care if u r black,white,blue,red,purple or any other Color I will love you no matter what it is your personality that really matters!
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!
Love Josh & Sav literally the best 🩷
I am a 66 year old woman that follows both couples and I LOVE THEM. ❤❤❤❤❤
I love the episode! But I think it’s dangerous to say that white people can’t experience racism. Racism by definition is to treat someone differently or badly because of their ethnicity or color of their skin. White people can most certainly experience racism. I know she didn’t mean anything bad by it, but it’s sad to see that white people have to excuse their existence because of history. We should learn from it, but as long as you’re the kindest version of yourself, you’re doing everything you can. We can’t change history but we can choose how we act towards one another. Everybody should be proud of their ethnicity no matter what ❤️
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Yesss!! I was just going to comment this. I noticed that too.
In elementary school in Queen Creek AZ, there would be days where we weren’t allowed to play outside for recess because it was too hot.
Omg I love that you guys had them!
Great guests! Loved this episode
“my boobs are not right” 🤣 girl I have never felt more understood
I love seeing this episode, I am Spanish and white and my man is black and white and we deal with soooo much from strangers and family, it’s sucks
I love you guys but I disagree with Sav saying it's impossible for her to experience racism...that's just not true. I mean the lady that made the comment about Josh being with a white girl on the subway, is that not kind of racist towards white girls?
This is so interesting. I’ve often thought the same. Although it is of course far less common (and often less severe), I have seen similar situations. I think the idea is not to take away what non-white people have and continue to have to go through (basically highlighting white privilege). I raised this question in my college ethics class years ago, and that was the answer I received. As a white female, I’ve sort of made my peace with this issue recognizing I do not deal with racism or anything like it on even a semi-regular basis. You certainly have a valid point, in my opinion, I think the more important thing to remember, though, is that it isn’t the most important thing we should be focusing on. I think if we continue to show love toward everyone (as white people), that “racism towards white people” WILL dissipate. I strongly believe that. 🫂
It's natural for kids to be well behaved/reserved around others, and then let that facade down around their parents. We do it even as adults in less dramatic ways but like how we would never argue with a coworker like we would our spouse, etc. It is an amount of understanding they will still like/love us if we arent perfect but others can judge harshly. Nobody can hold that facade forever ❤
54:03 Matt began talking about going to college a few hours away from Arkansas and how it was very racist. I live in what is claimed to be the most racist town in America ( in Arkansas) and although there are some racist people I do feel like we get a bad rap. There is so much more good here than there is bad and most people tend to see right through that. I love people of all races and know people of all races very closely. Racism is such a bad thing and needs to be stopped, I just hate seeing people come to our town claiming it to be the most racist and only sharing the parts that are bad. Love y’all so much please keep posting amazing content❤
Matt and Abby- I live in Arizona. To deal with the heat join a lifetime gym and use their massive outdoor community pool or indoor pools with your family. You’ll have to wake up at 5-7am to get outside before it gets too hot. Yes you can go to the park at that time or for walks and bike rides. Lastly, visit Prescott, Flagstaff, and Sedona during the weekends to get outside and enjoy lower temperatures. Also trips to California. These are things I wish I knew before moving here.
Lmao where did you move from? I grew up here and im still not used to the heat. It’s awful. Not sure why people flocked here.