Im Filipino & i have a korean friend who is not doing good in Sk & i told him to move to the Philippines & now hes happy with the island simple life. He put up a small business selling korean goods. He loves the beach & the people around him. He has a lot of support from our community
What a wonderful friend you must be. I would love to live in the Philippines, such a beautiful country. I’m in Australia and it’s a great country but I love the island life.
ignacio in the philippines we dont have a problem like this kasi kahit na gaano kahirap natin makuha parin natin maki pag social sa mga kapitbahay natin. Sa kore or any country na malaki kawawa talaga ang mga weak physically mentally kasi walang nag comfort sa kanila kaya daming depress.
Filipinos in majority are backstabbers and thieves, they act all friendly trying to take advantage of foreigners to lower their guard, once they know they can get nothing, they dump them like trash.
I'm a foreigner living in Korea and it's really hurtful to see how they treat each other sometimes, there is a lack of compassion, even to us foreigners, they only talk to us when there is something they want from us and then bye and it's the same between them, when they don't have the status they had, they cut all contact, why? That person was your "friend" how can you just disconnect emotionally that easy?... I understand competition and hardwork and all that, but the lack of compassion to a fellow human being is wow, out of this world, I lived in other asian countries and there is nothing like SK, they have the new rich syndrome, where everything that matters is pretnding, all the time. Guys, relax a bit, life is hard enough, we don't need to make it harder ourselves, give yourself and others a chance! They don't ask for help from others, because simply you don't know who can you trust and then the hurt ego on the top, it's hard. The harsh way they treat their celebs online is just the tip of the iceberg to how this society behave between themselves, it's a beautiful country and culture, don't allow fakeness to make it ugly.
Unfortunately traditional Asians even here in da states (Chinese, Koreans, Hong kongers, Vietnamese) cares 2 much about the money to da point they idolize it. They don't enjoy life at all just saving money. So it's like they have a lot, but they only enjoy adding more. 😅😅 once they perish, it goes to their kids who enjoy it by spending some of it 😅. Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
@@small_fries7573 What you say about some Asians is true, myself have Japanese relatives and chinese friends back in my country, but the lack of compassion and the harsh way of behaving towards other people is worse and bad in south korea, it's like they enjoy bashing you down.
you just took everything right out of my mouth! rich worshiping is very popular in korea. sorry let's get back to kdrama..... watch one today folks. see how many horrible and horrific monsters treat others in every single episodes. it's absolutely mind boggling and i thought that toxic culture would have disappeared by now after 40 years since i left but it seems to be hot and strong, still.
@@Cx0ew am I lying?? Denying your problems won't make them go away... Not only south koreans, but other asian countries are the same as well.. Your people is depressed and dying in silence, but ok...
I am chinese (grewup in Canada), during my childhood my parents put a lot of pressure on us to succeed. I had a successful engineer career and I married another engineer. Our son was diagnosed autistic when he was 3. Very mild and he goes to normal school and do very good. My husband and I changed our job to have less stress and more time for him. All we wish is health and happiness for him. I refuse to perpetuate the asian stigma, my son is not my social card to show success. My western education help me a lot to not care about what other people think and be more conscious about individual needs. My son has a lot of friends and as a mother, his smile and joy to live are inestimable.
That’s so beautiful to hear! I moved to the states and as an Asian myself, it hard to deal with the Asian expectations and norms sometimes that I’m credibly grateful to have experience another culture with more positive mindset rather than focusing on the catching up to others all the time.
I'm half Vietnamese / Maori and I live in Australia with my Vietnamese family. The aunties would always compare us kids and our cousins with how well they did in school or what they're studying etc. My mum was Maori, and shes like "it's always a competition with your Vietnamese family son. Don't feel pressured, just do your best, do what you enjoy and as long as we're all here (5 kids) then that's all that matters." It's a strong mentality amongst Asians. Even my brother in law is work work work. He's got 2 houses, a business, all the toys / nice trucks etc, but he's the most angriest person lol, he lost all his hair... My brother in law is 28 years old. I am 37 years old and no word of a lie, he looks older than me... I will raise my kids to do well, but I'll also let them know I love them no matter what and my house will always be open with no judgement.
It is not the society that kill these people, it is our inherent weakness and the lie we built up around these weaknesses that kill what is left of an already bad being. Changing our nature learn compassion, understanding through conscious decisions are what make our lives better, not trying to buy sth (with money of course) in our lives without regard to everything else. Slowly but surely these Asian nations will have to face the collapse of human value and human society. A terrible end for such enduring nations who have been pawns of the West for many decades, after all it is a combination of many elements, high population and few resources and the idea that they can live a life like rich european colonizers, and an inherent delusion of human beings
Respect to you. ❤ You're correct. Not just younger but older people from 50s to 70s also. There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
The girl failing her teaching exams by 1% hit close to home. I failed an exam as well by 1% and got kicked out of my program, it was so bittersweet having to watch my old classmates graduate. having to accept that all of my hard work meant nothing. Still trying to build up the courage to go back and try again, but it’s not easy.
Most exams are trash and won’t impact your ability to make money. It is better to work hard on relevant skills in order to score a good job or earn income. However, in some Asian countries, having a diploma is important and you must pass these exams to obtain paper certificates. So, it is important to do your best to pass them. Remember, failing these exams is common and should not discourage you.
I pray 🙏 in Jesus Christ's name that u will attempt 1 more time ⏲️, and you will PASS it. I think there's too much pressure for young people anywhere unfortunately. I feel very bad for all of you in Asia and Latin America.
No matter how beautiful SK is perceived in KDramas and no matter how fancy and colorful we initially thought life there is cause of Kpop, I learned that South Korea is such a cold country. As a Filipino who is used to warm people and strong family bond, I really won’t survive the harshness of the society in SK.
@@limitess9539I'm filipino and I dont care what kind of racism towards us. We are here, to live happily together with our family. We may dont have that much compare to them but we are contented of what we have. No pretension at all
The societal pressure is too high since childhood until adulthood. - Getting good grade (no rest, no dating...) - Getting into a good university - Getting a good paying job - Getting married at certain age - Having children before 40 - Must follow trend, brands... The society need to accept that THE YOUTH have an harder time to achieve all of those things. Some may succeed but not all. Those people will isolate themselves to not burden others and not to be seen as failures.
Why people act like if this is easy, if that was the case then poors didnt exists and sadly poors are the majority in every country specially third world countries when the line of poverty is super sad and corrupt gobernmemt cover it My making up the data, if they were realistic the numbers would be SO scary, yet poors here try SO hard to act middle class cuz at leats that way "You won't be poor"
@@keepwondering_ what do you think. Have you work mininum wage and the only thing you can deal with is a single room studio and a $200 budget to fit in a month. What else is there to cause depression
@@Saffrone221lol I still live with parents at age 27 have savings but only 2k USD which I save actually for 4 freaking years in this freaking 3rd world sheethole in Southeast Asia. Living as lower middle class.. not starving but still living paycheck to paycheck for peanut salary.. maybe you forget to count your blessings.. because what you got is the ultimate gold dream for many in the sheethole developing world like mine 😅😅😅
I live alone too, my parents died when i was 27... i barely know anyone in this city apart from people from work... i got used to it but sometimes i feel this overwhelming panic of being alone and insignificant... no one would even care if something happened to me. Its terryfing
This makes me remember an episode from the K-Drama “Move to Heaven”, where a man also hurts his leg & is called in to work and shamed by his coworkers; he ultimately ends up passing away, and the cleaners who come and look through his belongings begin to put the story together so his family has proper closure. It’s an amazing show about these people who go organize their belongings & remember their lives.
Yes that was one of my favorite Dramas i remember that EP and he would go to the corner store to see the girl je had a crush in that worked there . His foot got stuck in the work machine i think
Pertama maafkan diri mu sendiri yakinlah setiap manusia unik rezeki orang beda beda yang perlu di lakukan hiduplah untuk diri mu sendiri, sayangi diri mu sendiri Allah selalu ada untuk semua orang
My room once looked akin to that. I just lived amongst the trash, it felt small, my mind was small, my heart was small. But I am really lucky, one day I came home from work the usual mind numbing day to day and my room was completely clean, my mum cleared it for me. Idk if people will find this petty but seeing how big and bright it was made me realise how life is really all about perspective. Once you clear away the junk in your mind, even my job isn't too bad when I choose not to hate it, I'm not so bad when I choose not to hate me
In America, many people hoard stuff. They let their anxiety and mental states encourage them to keep buying stuff to clog up their whole house and yard. Lots of Americans r known for hoarding, worse than Korea
For the folks reading: Clean up your room, set up a daily routine of it. That's how you start the process to turn things around for you, that's one of the things I had to do for myself. You got this, but you need to take the first step and start to care about the little things that you can change about yourself.
The problem is everywhere, society says reach out, don’t suffer alone but there is no real help. Long waiting lists, people just don’t have time for you, it’s all about oneself never about others. Social media is full of critics, judgment and it’s easy to feel just not good enough. 😢
You're right. Just found out a popular Asian singer who had it all took her own life! Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
My Friends literally leave me in My worse time, is devastating i NEVER felt SO alone, people Say go look help to your love ones but what if your "love ones" literally do t want to deal with the person issues, they can not help You for real, they all Say same empty words "we are here for You" but when You vent You ruined the vibes , try to Be happy, try to think positive
@@AyAReI00 I hope you find new friends who u can rely on. 🙂 Sorry 2 hear your bad story. Life is unpredictable and fragile...it's ok to worry cuz as humans we don't live in a perfect, secured society. Have u thought about whether u go 2 heaven or hell after this life? Cuz life is short & fragile. Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's hope... Fortunately there's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, and not to get tired anymore. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you. Imagine everyone will respect each other. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have such a perfect, eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
@@yokai_G yes it's true 👍 but don't give up finding potential friends. Maybe one great day, God will introduce u to one or 2 decent friends who share similar opinions and hobbies. Don't give up on humans despite most being not friend material. Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
I’m a Korean who grew up in the west and still live in the west. I grew up in a typical immigrant family where parents had to work very hard to provide us children with ‘better lives’. One thing I can confirm about Korean culture is the toxic nature. I’m not sure if the Korean War is to blame or was it always like this (according to Korean period dramas apparently so?) but after studying psychology I’ve come to understand a bit more about why so many Koreans are the way they are. There have been few studies done over the years that shows ASD is quite prevalent amongst Koreans (far higher than western average), only until recently Koreans virtually did not mix with other races or cultures (at one point they hit 99% ‘pure blood’ title) which is not great for the gene pool. Maybe this has had a big impact on their psyche and mindset but whatever it is it’s affecting people’s behaviours. I’ve always wondered why so many older Koreans are so angry and very negative and ill tempered. So many Korean boomers gaslit their children by using ‘filial piety’ as a reason for their poor behaviour as parents. I actually don’t have many fond memories of my own parents. I’ve grown up resenting them over the years for their emotional abuse and sometimes physical abuse. And yet they constantly remind us how lucky we are that they’ve raised us with a roof over our heads and that we didn’t grow up in a broken home (despite the shouting match everyday). I cannot help but compare my own family to my western friends’ families where the parents genuinely loved their children with no strings attached. For us, often we felt like we were born because they felt obligated to have children because of society’s expectations rather than the real desire to spread love. We had to do well at school in order to give something boast about but they have no real interest in what our desires are or what we’re really good at. I left home at 18 to go live in London and I learned by forging my own life, and I’m so glad that I did as I was only able to breathe life after moving away from my parents. I needed a lot of therapy to get this far but it was all worth it as now I can think straight. I’m now a parent to a beautiful mixed baby and I’m working really hard to make sure not to repeat the same mistakes my parents have made. Too many Korean parents don’t offer real love to their kids, these kids grow up with a misconceived view of what love and affection really is. You cannot offer love/kindness if you’ve never received it. The first formative years of your life is the most important but this is often done wrong in my culture (one of the reasons why I’m not a fan of joriwon). Unfortunately, they’re the by-product of their environment and they genuinely don’t know it’s wrong. If you’ve spent your whole life only knowing one thing that’s all you’re going to know. And most don’t have the courage nor the curiosity to break the mould out of fear. It’s sad that too many don’t understand the meaning of life and real happiness. I pray that this will change in the future 🙏
I’m a chinese living in Canada. I used to know a girl of Korean ethnicity from school, who speaks perfect mandarin and Korean, and is from a big Chinese city (shenyang, the capital of liaoning province). She took the entrance exam in Korean though (allowed in china for minorities), and she told us that her parents demanded her to marry to a man of Korean ethnicity (regardless of the citizenship) in the future. That was over 20 years ago and we lost touch after I came to Canada, but I still remember that conversation somehow.
The result of so many people cramped onto a small piece of land with very little natural resources.People in many European countries are moving in the same direction.Too many people, too many refugees, lack of governance to give people hope. They will end up like S Korea
JKG how well put and touching. My uncle married a Korean girl from Seoul and brought her home to New York to live. Of the two she was the more demanding and the disciplinarian with their three kids. Her children loved her but preferred being with their father.
I’m a 20 y.o. Korean woman who was born in Russia and moved to SK this year. Being an office worker, living an apartment I found myself getting more depressed and I don’t know why. I love Seoul, it’s a vibrant city but you find yourself being extremely lonely and drained to the point where you stop talking to your entire family and avoiding everyone. I don’t talk to any of my family members. I stopped cooking, started ordering food, I feel less like cleaning and stuff although before I would always keep my place very clean and minimalistic. I won’t lie I’ve been very close to committing suicide, it’s just a black hole that sucks u in
Hello I am from India❤ dont let these things heavy on your mind. Remember you have a family. We also faced racism in SK but we dont take that much to our heart. Depression is everywhere, only way to escape it talk to your family on any topic, travel to different places. Here in India people are so social 😅 in minutes they become friends. Being lonely and being alone is different. U can still be alone and happy❤ Hope my words reached to you. Lots of❤❤
You need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL. PRAYING FOR ALL KOREAN PEOPLE.I THINK YOU ALL ARE BEAUTIUL PEOPLE.
That is more of a way of thinking imo. Because I think in the end people who experience those thoughts, it is not about the place they are put in or the experiences they go through eventually they will express those "depression" feelings no matter what. I am european the same age as you living in the EU. I never lacked anything from the start yet my ambition for life grew weaker day by day. I realized that it's all pointless. Existance itself is meaningless. That is why from now on I'll live my life doing whatever is fun for me and will stop worrying so much about studying/social pressure. Take care and only try to do WHATEVER makes you happy without worrying about what people might think about you. :)
depressions are highly unrecognized disease in Asia and are not taken seriously. depressions from either early childhood or caused by later hardships in life, it just shows you how mental health is so important, just as important as any physical health issues. absolutely devastating to think how a person died by his or herself and no one noticed it until the smell. so heart wrenching. SOUTH KOREA has the worst workers protection for those who get injured during work for a developing country.
How about serious mental illnesses? I mean, a depression can be severe but there are worse illnesses out there. Bipolar.. schizophrenia.. borderline. I don’t understand how the hell it can be ignored. Poor people.
For real I think culture plays quite a part in it as well bc mental health disorders are not really acknowledged as being as serious as they are in places like Asia. There are many cultural factors that play a part in this which sets it apart from western places, which is really disappointing and sad. I hope all the people suffering get the help they deserve
@@ArtemisB. If depression is discarded in Asian countries just imagine what happens when people have other mental illnesses… I can only pray they can make it through …
Life is unpredictable and fragile...it's ok to worry cuz as humans we don't live in a perfect, secured society. Have u thought about whether u go 2 heaven or hell after this life? Cuz life is short & fragile. Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's hope... Fortunately there's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, and not to get tired anymore. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you. Imagine everyone will respect each other. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have such a perfect, eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
I kinda relate with the woman who cut off her contact with friends because there was a time when all of my close friends had graduated when I was still working on the finals. I shied away from them and so were they, but turned out exchanging simple words meant a lot. Of course I was embarrassed because I was the only one left behind, but turned out they also experienced confusion because they wanted to help me graduate but they just didn't know what to do and they had things on their own hands, those things hindered our relationship for a small period of time. So I began to swallow my pride and asked them for any input they could gave me, asked for their company to the campus for encouragement (it helped a lot with my nervousness), and sometimes they took me along to see the life after graduation so I got prepared better than they were. So, my message to the ones who feel left behind, try to reach out even if it's bitter. Try to think of alternatives if you feel stuck in the same place but at the same time keep trying your best and live your best life! 🎉
Jehovah God will help All who become His friend enjoy their Best Life on a Fixed Earth 🌎🌍 FOREVER. We're not alone in this😊Plz see JW/Jehovah's Witnesses
It might've worked for you which is good, but not all friends are the same. I had all my friends tell to my face that they didn't want to hear my problems because they were busy in college and private lives. I listened to their problems before, but I guess they wouldn't do the same. I cut them all off, and nobody cared. I won't be surprised if I end up like the people in this documentary someday. This is reality. If you get left out, most of the time, people will move on without you. They won't wait for you. Can't blame them, they have their own lives to live. As you grow older and become more isolated, finding friends who are similar to you gets harder that you won't even bother anymore.
@@silencespeaks7531Oh man.. I can relate to your experience. I had a friend that straight up told me I was the "face of failure" in uni. My friends were progressing steadily throughout their courses and I was the only one failing some classes. I tried asking for help but I guess they were simply too far ahead and seemed like I was only holding them back. I graduated and got my engineering degree but I cut everyone off. Almost felt like I was never even there.
One of my friend's cousins once visited south korea and told me the harsh truth about the society and the people living there. Keeping the racism aside, the a part of the people around there lack on sympathy, socialize and compassion towards each other. And at first I thought it's only Japan to have lonely deaths but after watching this I felt I am wrong. Personally I think Depression and mental illnesses are nowadays a global problem. Even I was a part of it but after improving my social skills, working on myself and practicing spirituality with meditation I got cured a lot.
Loneliness and Depression are prevalent in every country in the world; but it's especially true in places like the Far East. In Korea the people who become shut-ins and ultimately die alone are known as "Godoksa" (as shown in the video) and in Japan they are known as "Kodokushi." Something has to be done to try and rectify this situation as it is a public health crisis and government officials in both Seoul and Tokyo need to get their heads together and work to get this under control.
You dont need meditation. You need Jesus. You need God. Believe me, my life had changed when I got to know about Jesus. Before that, I was depressed, lazy and empty even I used to study very hard when I was in highschool. Believe me, get yourself to know about God. Many rich countries in the world have a large porportion of people who follow God. Those countries are the most developed contries such as Europe, the Americas, ...etc So please, come to God, get to know him, search about Catholism, reading about it on internet... You will find out about a whole new world. A world is full of angel people, martyrs,...
The problem seems to be lack of spirituality...everything in this society is about materialism and status, being hive minded and ignoring what feeds the soul. Greed, vanity etc. all these things crush the soul and a society.
Thank God, im a filipino. Mostly, people are poor in the Philippines. But, resilient, kind, and friendly. We have negative sides, but more on positivity.
Trueee we’re far from perfect but we value life that God has given us…but ofc we cannot judge these people because we totally don’t have an idea what they’re going through..I just hope this will end and hope they get the help they really need🙏🏼
Two quotes come to my mind: "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti "The sick individual finds himself at home with all other similarly sick individuals. The whole culture is geared to this kind of pathology … it is the fully sane person who feels isolated in the insane society..." - Erich Fromm
I like Korea but I'd NEVER want to live there unless I had plenty of money - the wealth inequity there is kind of horrific - and their brutal education system - just wow. It's unlikely they'll ever be able to deal with the insanely overpowered corporations who presumably do quite nicely tyvm in a society like this.
Very sad. I am around their age. I understand their pain though. Especially as a Korean I could see how they came to that conclusion. It almost feels like your life's duty to make your parent's proud. I am married, make decent money and have many lovely children. Even someone like me goes through anxiety/panic attacks and depression from stress of life. I can't even start to understand what kind of mental burden these guys were holding on to. I feel like Korea has a very strong "FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT" kind of mentality. No one wants to look like you are at the bottom of the world, everyone dresses like they are doing very well in life. Even that could get depressing over time...
I feel bad for you. But I also respect 🙏 u for admittedly speaking out. 😊 I actually think Koreans are not the only ones. In da usa, lots of Chinese people who are not westernized (from hk or China origins) are very prideful hiding their struggles. They brag about what they do for living (lies about their jobs), WEAR big name European brand name clothings/shoes, buy big name brand used cars, and go to mc donalds/inexpensive markets. 😅
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
@@eunyoungsuh6767unfortunately. 😅 Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
Thank you for comment. As someone who doesn't live in korea, I'm just a person from the outside looking in. Your comment made it easier to understand the deep issues that has caused these tragedies
If my parents didn't leave SK, I think I would have been a part of the statistics. At least where I am now, I may be jobless at the moment but I have friends who doesn't look down on me. I wish they could have gotten out and found a friendlier place to live too instead of dying that way. I feel sorry.
Soon* Jehovah God will make ALL Earth 🌎🌍 Equally good. Enough of All Resources +NOT Money based. Plz Learn how to be His friend +have a hopeful future @JW/Jehovah's Witnesses
People can look down on you regardless of where you are at. It is the same in the USA or anywhere too. Just live your own life and learn not to care. At least I learned that as whoever looks down on you can’t help you.
God bless your family. Glad you guys left sk for a better life. And definitely 💯 it's much better when u have supportive/caring friends. Happy 4 you sis. Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
I think these sad cases of isolated death will even increase but not only in Korea. The problem is, unfortunately it becomes easy for people to avoid true social connections due to the possibilities of the internet. Many young people decide to spend their weekends at home, scrolling on their phones. Social Media creates the illusion of comfort and "connection" when in fact they are just sitting alone at home, watching others living their lives. It creates the illusion that we don't need each other. The longer they avoid socialising and real encounters with people, the harder it gets for them to cope with a healthy daily life. There is a rise of young lonely people and we all know that loneliness can kill.
i agree, but i believe this is all a symptom of a very unhealthy culture that does not care about mental health, only productivity… there’s no space to have it in person, so they retreat online. capitalism at its worst
Right at the beginning you see the thing in the door to do pullups. So at some point in his life, he was motivated and did see hope and wantrd to change. Thats why you should allways be kind to people no matter on what point of the journey they are
I don’t know if it’s just in my case, but while I was living in Korea I noticed how shallow the relationships are between friends and even lovers. It feels almost like hanging out with strangers and going with their flow so you won’t be pushed out of the boat. It is very lonely and they are not kind to people who are alone. It’s depressing.
You're right 💯percent. ✅️ It's quite shallow and comparing who's better/older. 🙄 It's primarily the older generation fault cuz they build such ignorant/weak moral and ethical values. It's pretty much the same in like China, Hong Kong, Malaysia, and Singapore. Hang in there. I pray you will find happiness 😊 after u go through these times. Even the wealthy people suffer too with competition, greed, health issues, accidents, divorce, and more like common people like us...
It's so common now 4 divorced parents. Take this following example. Try to avoid being like Robert's daughter Gigi... There is a woman who's an engineer for 20 years, have a masters degree, many friends, got married, have a engineer husband, have 2 daughters, a million dollar house 🏠. THEN......all of a sudden.... This person decided to divorce her awesome husband, Paul. Nothing is always positive. U can't bring your pride, degrees, savings, investments, and your daughters out of this life. What will anyone do to make it to heaven? 😮 Are you not motivated to accept Jesus Christ wherever u are in life? Even the smartest and richest people don't qualify for heaven.
@small_fries7573 i dont think malaysian are like this. Malays at least are caring and so far i never felt like my friendship was like being friends with strangers..
@@amrinaroshada5688 that's good. 💯 You are a special and unique person. Your life & soul matter. Your life is very short compared to eternity. Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day. God does love ❤️ you. You are a special and unique person. Your life & soul matter. Your life is very short compared to eternity. Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day. God does love ❤️ you.
It’s actually so scary that we often don’t realized how bad other people is experiencing in their life, lack of support when they needed is really the major cause of this. Even as a friend they could not differentiate between an emergency call with other usual call. How tough it is also the pressure of life given to those younger adults. Socializing is also human basic needs to feel fulfilled. I’m so sorry for all that passed away in solitudes.
So you people honestly think these people DIED from bring so sad? You know you can actually die from a brokenheart but thats not what they telling y'all this is. ...
@@IcanseeeverythingwhatyouDohere Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day.
@@small_fries7573nah bruh i ain't not trust a Godly entity for my soul to get valve into a safe storage even the texts of the past is blurry you can't just trust your spirit to an entity you're worshipping on
The root of depression is lack of support and not able to share what. are you feeling with someone. Parents should understand what their kids going through . They are the biggest support . If they are with you then it doesn't matter what the world say about you . My parents encourage me to move on when I face any failure . For my graduation I moved to other place but still my mom call me daily and my father twice a week , they know I am introvert and its hard hard to express myself. How can parents not find out when their kids are not being their usual self .
I relate to that girl studying for certification exams so much. I got so anxious studying for mine, it wrecked me emotionally for the majority of this year. Paralyzed by fear. Fear of failing, fear that all my prior education was a waste and I was a fraud…I’m doing better now and take the first part soon. Hopefully I pass. If not, I will keep trying.
Give it your best shot ... and remember there's a many many ways you can contribute to society so let not that one exam be your PASS or FAIL in life .... godbless ❤ and regards
I’m an architect but working as a full time mom now 😊 I studied hard for so many years. I would never guessed I would leave my profession but I’m very happy where I’m now. Don’t be hard on yourself and keep in mind one door closes and another one opens 👍
From what I’ve seen and experienced living in an Asian family is hard. Kids can’t openly tell their parents about their true feelings. We keep it inside because many of us never experienced that kind of connection with our parents. Even if you tell your parents they most likely will ignore it. Mental illnesses isn’t view as an actually illness in many Asian families. Even siblings can ignore your feelings. I’ve had my brother tell me “you’re lying about your depression’. After he told me that I refused to speak about my feelings from then on.
Even if you tell them they will say you're being dramatic and brush you off.. until you commit suicide then they only will act pitiful in front of other people to get sympathy but even when dead they won't sympathize or feel sad that their child/sibling is gone, only thinking what a waste of their time and money they brought you to this world
I had a friend who is Asian and he's had a rough upbringing but also such a kind person. He's shared how the family dynamic is difficult or how emotional and mental needs were neglected and still is by his parents. I always give him hugs and hold his hand. Sometimes, we'll lay in bed while listening to music, he's really talkative. I'm the opposite but love to listen. I gift him stuff or make art, too. He's always checking up on me. He's four years younger, but I really care about him and encourage him. I think studies, carrer and education come first. We don't talk much anymore, but I hope life gets better & he can find peace
its weird to read people say "being around family will cure depression"... when family is often the cause of said depression. congratulations to you all for having family members to rely upon, but these comments are not helpful, are extremely ignorant, and are isolating. think outside of your own little bubbles
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
I'm trying my best to feel good but sometimes its hard. Turned 33 left job,divorced and due to anger issues lost many friends. But I'm going to fight for my life.
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
We all need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸 *”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”* ♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️ *You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!* 1 John 5:13 KJB Romans 5:6 KJB “For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”* *Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).* *Romans 4:5* *”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”* *Galatians 2:21* *”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”* *Romans 1:16a* *”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”* *Ephesians 1:13* “In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,” *THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:* 15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures; 4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures: *THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.* To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️ Galatians 1:8 “But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”* John 10:28 “And I give unto them eternal life; and *they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” *Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB* *”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“* *A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:* th-cam.com/video/xsqVaoYpnko/w-d-xo.html *The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR* m.th-cam.com/video/fKS8-xrMKII/w-d-xo.html *Repentance* is *a change of mind* *When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.* *Romans 11:29* *”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”* *GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
Hugs and compassion to anyone who is feeling this way. Please hang in there and know someone loves you, someone will miss you, and someone needs you in their life🙏♥️💚💜❤️💕
As a korean guy i can say that We judge each other a lot based on what they look like and how they dress on and if you don't earn that amount of money at your age people would look down on you it's a sad true
Not just a Korean thing as Vietnamese people are the same too. They judge you for the same things too. They judge you for how much you make, how you dress and everything else too.
Here where I live we don't do that cause it's disrespectful and if u judge strangers ppl will definitely punch you, looks don't matter. We are all same.
y'all need to change for god's sake 😢its not right to judge anyone on the basis of their outer looks and their intelligence... Koreans really need to do better
The guy and the girl living alone, shouldn’t be left alone. Some one please keep in touch with them. Don’t want to loose those precious lives. So many young lives are wasted😢😢😢
If humanity focuses on chasing money and material possessions, the soul has died inside and the emptiness is very painful. The meaning of life has been lost.
brainwashed people is the word,empty shells. For Japan and even China this is known also,Korea maybe is more bad. These people are anti social. They like everything opposite of the normal life the normal people want
I still remember crying my eyes out watching K-drama Move To Heaven, this brings even more tears knowing how real it is that young people suffer from depression.
Move to heaven by what means? You do realize that if you die by suicide then you're cursed to be a bound spirit forever reliving the day you die and reliving the way your loved ones suffered because of you. I think I read this from online translation of Tibetan Book of the Dead.
@@curiouscat428 The Title of the K-Drama is "Move To Heaven", I've never been to heaven or hell, so I can't really confirm your theory of being cursed & in infinite loop of reliving the suffering. Let me know if you have experienced those.
i’m 19 but i’m already suffer from depression 4 years and already have a feeling what i’m a failure and never gonna have a good life….i can’t imagine how bad this people feel ..because the older you get the more people would have expectations about you , your life and achievements. my family on daily basis saying what i’m a garbage/not worth anything/just lazy shit and etc. so it’s hard to be able think good about myself.i’m just hope one day we all gonna feel better and start to breathe easier to people like me ..please stay safe, don’t be hard on yourself ,remember what you are worth more than anything and i love you
i’m not fluent in english so i’m sorry beforehand i want to update this comment since people still comment it every day..thank you for being nice to me :(i’ll read everything you want to say because i don’t have that much of a life irl.just to make it clear the only thing i can do it’s drawing so i studied for that but because of illness and zero strength to live i took a gap year..it’s over soon but im still in poor condition
Though I don't have depression yet I can't help but worry about the future and whether it's gonna be okay , I don't think I'll be able to fully understand older people's struggle in life . The only thing i can understand is the feeling of everything coming crippling down on yourself and how one can feel their colleagues are heading forward whilst they're still stuck at the bottom . Though this problem is so common throughout Asia it's seen as the person is fussy or is just too weak. I really hope one day lonely death will not be so common .
Define for yourself what " a good life" looks to you. I have faith you'll find happiness and comfort in the future, find out exactly who YOU are, not what other ppl want you to be. When ur sure of yourself living gets easier. I'm 17 and feeling a bit stagnant in life but I just do what I can everyday, write it down and how I feel. Don't give up Internet stranger(s)!
it will get better watch videos of successful older people and watch how they live life. one day at a time. the past is the past. today is the first day of your future. look for something beautiful every day, even if it is the sky.
I totally agree, everything seems so different and strange last 10 years, and even more for the past 3 years. Btw I am 39 as well. Sending you vibes of support!
When you look outside of yourself for good feelings you will always be disappointed. I’m 65, let me share with you a bit of life experience. What is necessary is to find these things inside of yourself. Stop allowing the outside to dictate your path as well as your worth. I struggled with feelings of low worth and it affected me greatly. Once I made a decision that my value was not determined by the needs or expectations of others my life changed. I directed my life and path. I determined my worth and value. It was such a freeing gift I gave to myself. I know it sounds kinda corny and way too simple. It worked for me.
@jturquoise ❗️OnlyJESUS CHRIST CAN HEAL YOUR DEPRESSION ❗️ But we don’t have to seek him for his healing. We are sinners and need forgiveness. ,,Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” ,,…that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” ~Bible
When this young women said she's no longer keep in touch with her school friends because she failed at exam.... its ridiculous. When you are true friends, no matter what. You're always together !!! Lonely death is korean society's ill of the century.
I think the asian culture is like that. 😅 this shows that u r a true friend! Westernized people are usually less fickle and stick to their friends regardless of their struggles ❤❤ respect to you 👏 Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
that was a pefect example of south korea's problem. hence why these people felt like they had no choice to isolate themselves because they probably thought no one would want to interact with them because of their "failure'.
@@wengo44 yeah... school success in SK is a societal problem. It does not allow teenagers and young adults (who should have time to rest) to learn how to build deep and sincere bonds with others to create a stable environment for their mental health and also own success.
I agree but you know coming from a society like that it is hard to not think that way. Even here in the US, one of my brothers lost his job and felt embarrassed so cut off all contact from all his friends.
May they RIP. Please, if anyone out here is depressed, please know that there’s always a way. Life is too precious and beautiful to end it. You are not alone. You matter, you are important. ❤
You guys did a respectful work. Trying to find out and understand the life of the deceased, who otherwise would have been lost in oblivion. Nobody cared to know about their life when they were alive but because of the documentary, atleast their life will be understood by millions. Their soul must be happy and at peace, to see your hardwork
COVID must have made things 1000 times worse for people who lived alone and relied on going to work for the opportunity to chat with others. I suffer from depression and anxiety which comes and goes, depending on my circumstances at the time. If I stay home for a while, it’s very easy to enjoy the comfort and security of being there, no pressures or stress or deadlines to keep. I have to force myself to go out eventually, even if only for a walk and you know what ? It always lifts my spirits and makes me feel better, reminds me that there is a whole world, just beyond the front door. It’s amazing the difference fresh air, sunshine and bird’s singing can make.
I agree with you 💯. I hope u meet trustworthy friends to help u fight depression/anxiety. And I will pray that u get past these stages which seem to come and go like u said. Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you!
This is a bitter pill to swallow and it's not only happening in Korea. People don't care. We post social media to fool everyone into thinking we're okay when we're not. We don't check up on others. What truly hurts is the assumption everyone is doing well. Also few people know how to validate another person's feelings. "Negative positivity" is real. For example if someone says they feel sad and cry all the time and you tell them to cheer up or others have it worse than you. Wtf? We live in a society that shames you for any feeling that's not slapstick happiness!!! We're lonely and want to speak our truth. Those poor people in the apartments. If only someone knocked on their door unannounced and took them out for a walk or coffee. They needed someone to care. I'm 100% alone in life and fear being found in my apartment months after I die. Please care about each other more. Please. ❤❤❤
Love yourself and stop expecting other will save you. Give your love to yourself first before give it to others. Have a pet will help or morning walk and afternoon tea will do too.
@@littlefairyland763 Let's say someone tells you they're suicidal. Will you tell them to take a walk? Love yourself more? Get a pet and all will be well? No! That's insincere and shows you're not listening to the person. Only giving out unsolicited advice to make yourself feel better. The people in the video only wanted to seen. To be heard. They didn't want an immediate solution. Please read the book, I Hear You, by Michael Sorensen.. It will make you a better friend and more compassionate. You might save someone's life. :) With much love to you.
@@littlefairyland763 I hate comments like this. Like its just easy to "love yourself" when You've got crippling depression and nobody cares about you?? What a reckless response
My son's a half Korean. Now that I came to watch this video made me content that my decision of taking care of my son here in the Philippines is still the right decision for my son's sake. Thank you for posting.
Philipinos are very family oriented compared to koreans. Your son deserves to be raised in an environment with family members who love him. You made the right decision to raise him in the Philippines.
I agree with you,a lot of broken family are in the Philippines but still coz of strong family ties kids can still stay with their aunts,relatives or grandparents and still support them anyhow mentally,financially so they will not feel so lonely to the extent of dying alone...so sad...my heart goes to this people who died very young...😔😔😔...
You made the right decision. Although our (Philippine) culture is not perfect, we do have a sense of community and strong family values and ties. We are compassionate people in general and tries to help our neighbors when they are in need.
I agree. The Philippines 🇵🇭 is definitely a better and mentally healthier place to live than societies in Hong Kong, China, and Korea. Until the older generation stop infusing greed and falsify what success truly is, people should stay away from these countries and societies.
Sad reality indeed. I felt it when the young lady asked if it was okay for her to cry and the fact the guy was trying to hold back his tears. May those who died RIP
❤ There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸 *”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”* ♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️ *You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!* 1 John 5:13 KJB Romans 5:6 KJB “For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”* *Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).* *Romans 4:5* *”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”* *Galatians 2:21* *”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”* *Romans 1:16a* *”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”* *Ephesians 1:13* “In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,” *THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:* 15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures; 4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures: *THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.* To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️ Galatians 1:8 “But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”* John 10:28 “And I give unto them eternal life; and *they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” *Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB* *”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“* *A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:* th-cam.com/video/xsqVaoYpnko/w-d-xo.html *The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR* m.th-cam.com/video/fKS8-xrMKII/w-d-xo.html *Repentance* is *a change of mind* *When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.* *Romans 11:29* *”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”* *GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
@@FallenAngel9979 hi there 😊. I'm sure it'll help anyone's soul because they can go to heaven after this life 😀. They can avoid hell 🔥forever. Why would u risk 😕 going to hell? Isn't creation enough to show you that God is real? Look at yourself. Your organs, your features, your lines on your palms, your DNA, your unique fingerprints that only u have, and your surroundings (ground, sky, below ground).
I was preparing for my exams far from home but after few months I could really feel depressed and living in that small apartment with an introvert roommate who was usually in someone else's room was more devastating. Being an extrovert everything around was killing me from inside. I was not even studying, just watching reels to avoid my loneliness. But then one day, I suddenly called my mom and asked her to take me home. My parents understood my situation and the next day I was at my home and I am preparing for my exams from home only. I do not regret even a bit that I left the place because I feel lively now. I really want to make studies a part of my life not my whole life. I just want to say that, I know we all asians have that societal pressure to be the best but just try once to make yourself and your parents understand the way you REALLY want to LIVE!!!❤. Your life is only yours and you must be the only one to take decisions for yourself but always be connected with your family, they are your backbone ❤ It may happen that my friends being there perform well and I may not, but the thing is that I will try my best as much as possible.
I’m from the Middle East, sometimes I get pressured by work, family demands, responsibilities thrown at me, I never complain or talk about this with anyone. Sometimes I wish I can disappear from everything cuz the mental pain is way too much to bare. I really got to understand what it means to be tired of everything, u don’t even enjoy your free time cuz you’re thrown exhausted.
Hey 👋 Chiyul. May you find happiness despite the tough weekly grind at work. Bad stuff will always come, but I'm sure u can find something positive ✨️ during those difficult circumstances. Imma send u a prayer and to Jesus Christ, our God. Lord Jesus, may u continue to shine your powerful 🙏 ✨️, radiant light to this guy. Let his fam see that he is doing his part as a hardworking, grown child. Let him fight through the pressure at work or if so help him find a better work environment where employers value his working habits! Most of all give him a joy hoping he will accept you, Jesus Christ, as Savior so that he can go to heaven after this life. The troubles here are lifetime. But the pure joy in heaven with you, me, and other Christians ✝️ are forever! In your name I pray in Jesus Christ, amen! I hope u feel much better. I def hope u believe in Jesus Christ as your Savior soon.
Get closer to God, it worked wonders for me, I was depressed too in the past, but this life is only a short life where we try to live simple and do good deeds, dont be hard on yourself, forgive whats in the past and forgive yourself, focus on your inner peace and connection with god, god bless
This kills me. I’m the same age, temporarily living in Korea. I wish I could embrace them all, tell them it doesn’t have to be so hard. It would not take the societal pressure away though. There is pressure in the US but it’s different. A simple life as long as you are happy is okay too.. this attitude of acceptance should be universal. I wish every day for their peace
I respect and agree with your opinion 💯 u seem like a decent person. There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
I agree and I grew up all of my life in the US, but my family always put the same pressures on me and my brothers. We endured it and made it but struggled a lot. Asian cultures have the same expectations so it is not only a Korean thing. I am glad that I am westernized so realize that it does not need to be like that. I failed a few times in school but kept going. I am struggling in life and all now too but have to keep going. But even if you did reach the success in the end, will you be happy? Will it all be worth it?
@@shivanshdhardubey124 true. As a tourists or those who think they know Korea will be very surprised 😮 what they find out when they do thorough research about Korean society.
In the US, 16.8 Veterans dying by suicide every day. Don't go talking up your country and talking down others. Look up the stats. China has one of the lowest off rates in the World.
This is so sad. I’d watched a similar doc about lonely deaths in Japan, but they weren’t so young. All these poor lads dying in their 20s and 30s…. I also really felt for that poor girl who failed her exam by 1%. She should not be sat alone at her desk for 15 hours everyday. That is insane. So physically and mentally unhealthy. I hope she changes her lifestyle….and that poor man living in a tiny room, no light, no friends, eating crappy tub food..I sincerely hope he finds his way out too……god I had no idea S Korea was so tough….. I do get it; the isolation. I moved for a job that didn’t work out, to an area where I only know the guys at the gym and my Co-workers in my part time job. But I have no actual friends here, and if it weren’t for the gym and job, I shudder to think how I’d be feeling. For any other lonely souls out there- try to join a social group (I’m working on doing this myself) just to do something that isn’t just going to work & coming home. It’ll give you more of a social life and give a chance at friendships.
Clearly you don't understand depression ,you might say you do but trust me you don't otherwise you wouldn't wrote these words in the first place ,I'm a 33 and survivor of severe depression and trust me I understand their pain ,37 with that kind sickness that make you lose taste for life is surely a death sentence ,I know suicide is not an answer but that's what this killer illness does to people .
What are you talkin about staying alone can never be okay or better than being around family's that always disagree or have problems don't get along as human beings we have a papers..... living alone is a mental illness
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjgood luck with that u ar not going to feel any better God and family is the most important thing in any human life without this you will live a very miserable life 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@aminuaidara8601 In Bolivia a drug adict mother sold away her baby to buy more drugs for herself and the baby got...well...I think if I tell you what happened this comment will get deleted. Some parents are terrible and don't care. Not everyone has a good family.
I've been struggling with few issues myself and last year was the worst one but I'm glad this year I'm just way stronger than ever. I'm sure 2024 will be even better. Believe it or not after years of fighting my inner demon, I'm finally enroll in my fav college, lose a lot of weight and can look in the mirror without feeling disgusted by how I look. My parents are my ultimate supporters. But for most of these cases, they got nobody that support them when they were at the lowest point. If my parents weren't around all these years, I'm sure I may not be able to write this today. I'm learning to love my life now.
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
What a great documentary, and what a devastating state of affairs. I felt so much for the girl that had written the suicide note, and the guy who had shut himself off from the world. You could feel their pain.
Every culture is like that. I respect your opinion. You seem like a decent person. God bless u Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
We all need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
This is so sad, I really wish if people could be more nice to eachother. We could at least help others even if we don't know them, listening to others and comfort them would make you also feel good. Please be nice and at least smile to others because that smile might save a soul...
This is so sad. Are there organisations to help these people? Financial problems are definitely a big cause to commit suicide but it seems that some of these people end up isolating themselves in the fear of being judged due to societal pressure ie the girl who failed her exams. The guy in the video is already going down the rabbit hole. I hope someone gave him assistance after interviewing him. I think these days we need to teach people to seek for help, sometimes its best to drop your pride and ask for help when needed
Sadly it’s quite easy to spiral when getting a work injury or not being able to study due to mental health issues and then failing exams.. the help is just not good enough. Especially mental health services need a lot of progress in SK…
@oceanstaiga5928 well hopefully documentaries such as these can help koreans become aware of the prevalence of this growing issue... bringing awareness of an issue is the first step to change
There is no such thing as "dropping your pride" in depression, it has already gone, and many feel worthless. This is why they self-isolate, seeing themselves as a burden. The depressed person eventually becomes numb inside and stops caring about anything as they no longer find joy in anything (anhedonia). They become depersonalized from self and others. This may lead to derealization. All worth looking up for the uneducated before making rash comments like "drop your pride". I am not trying to be mean to you, your response had compassion, but this is an oft made mistake by family or friends. Another unhelpful comment is "pull yourself together", if they could, they would. Depression is exhausting for the person and their helpers.
Life is unpredictable and fragile...it's ok to worry cuz as humans we don't live in a perfect, secured society. Have u thought about whether u go 2 heaven or hell after this life? Cuz life is short & fragile. Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's hope... Fortunately there's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, and not to get tired anymore. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you. Imagine everyone will respect each other. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have such a perfect, eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
Living in Korea for 4 years now … and I don’t think it’s specially because of Korea but I never felt lonelier in my life ! I used to live in a oneroom alone and just go to my university… it was only when one of my colleagues who isn’t Korean noticed how distant I became .. he said u need to visit a counselor or therapist and talk it out ! At that time I became homeless because of heavy rain that happened in 2022 And even my one room was totally ruined ! I talked to the counselor for a little bit .. and she suggested that I should find a tworoom or a sharehouse and not to live alone ! Now I have been leaving since December in a sharehouse and though my flat mates mind their own business… having someone around prevented me from the unthinkable! I once caught myself thinking about ending everything like why should I be hurting like this .. then I just remembered my family why should I allow myself to end my suffering but cause it to them … I am trying my best everyday… I just want to say there is always hope !
I'm filipino and Proud of the culture we have here no matter how difficult life is but the resilience and ingenuity make us strong and live happily.We find happiness on every small things.Life is meant to live ❤
This made me drop to tears. If only they'd still keep in touch with their loved ones this may not have happened. To be loved and cared during difficult times is a strength in weakness. To bring laughter to the loneliest is a great achievement.
Maybe their love ones cut ties with them. Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
So true but sadly some may not have loved ones. Like those who are an only child and their parents passed. If they are single then they have no immediate family members left. More distant relatives may not care about them at all.
Im now 63 and had many family & friends die around me. One thing that always gets me is how the world keeps turning, dosent stop for a split second, carries on as usual as if the passing of somebody means nothing... Oh well, thats life...and death for yar !
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
Hi ^^ i was diagnosed with F32.2 since 6 month ago.. its really hard to make people around me to understand how my struggles because depression is very abstract in my mind... like.. you will never understood if you not experience it by yourself.
I really can’t finish this one right now. Gonna have to come back. Truly breaks my heart for how lonely and sad these people were. To not be missed for months by anyone is so very sad, they way they just cut themselves off from everyone as not to feel like a burden. I really hope that the powers that be can wake up to the mental health crisis in South Korea.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I know it’s not. But South Korea has the highest suicide rate of any developed country. It’s an epidemic there. Not enough is being done to tackle the mental health crisis.
This is a global issue. Speaking from a former medical examiner. You don’t have to look far in America to find this. It’s right in your backyard. Open your eyes, or your nose, and you’ll find it.
I feel so sorry for the young girl that did not pass her exam by 1 point. Please don't give up! keep striving forward and you will pass. I was in that situation where all my friends graduated from university. I lost all contact with them and to be honest spiraled into severe depression. But I think this is where my experience differs from those poor South Korean individuals that decided to commit suicide or are experiencing depression. If I was born and raised in South Korea, I think I would have committed suicide in 2014. The crucial difference is the cultural value and support-system of FAMILY. I come from the Pacific where family ties are strong, we openly speak about our problems with our elders or it is mostly our parents and grandparents that sit us down and we talk about our problems. Even siblings and senior members of our families correct and encourage us even in our darkest times. What I am trying to get across is, please maintain or establish communication with family members or friends who are willing to listen and talk with you. Be open and form friendship that make you smile, laugh, happy and encourage you. 💖
I can say as someone in their early 30s depression sucks ive had a shitty past so thats where it starts and then im stuck with bills upon bills and just when i think i have a plan to get caught up another biller says they gonna cut me off and a domino effect happens everything comes crashing, i cant afford a car, cant afford a house, sometimes barely afford groceries am charged taxes cause im single its a tough cruel world and I hold onto hope that it will get better but honestly who knows
Getting off of social media is a start. It’s really sad what these kids are going through. I hope some of these kids break this vicious cycle and live more of a joyful life.
This is incredibly sad to watch and I hope they have now found peace. I feel for them and I feel with them. I am constantly fighting the urge to cut myself off and give up like this. It’s hard to have the energy to want to get better. Especially the older you get
Please you need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
i don't know why i got finished watching this video but its worth to watch and i thank for the uploader for giving the awareness.giving you wish to continue this very informative and self awareness program and more power to your channel.sending love from Philippines❤
i just wanted to start another thread here. All comments here except for one guy, were so positive and super supportive. I have to thank K-Doc for covering this very topic and making us all face this hard topic straight on. I think this channel is amazing and i learned a lot about past and current Korean state of affairs so thank you K-Doc. Please continue to support those people without power who needs a spot light.
Thank you so much K-Doc for this work, I’ve so much to say I don’t know where to start. South Korea’s societal problems are very clear to us westerners, but can’t be fully acknowledged and dealt with by Korean society itself. Poor housing, material possession chase, old cultural values are some of the contributing factors to this crisis. Housing: it’s crazy to me that a grown human being would be living in such “mental health causing” environments. Tiny living space where everything (eating, cooking, sleeping, bathroom) takes place in one space. This alone creates psychological problems Material wealth chase: when I observe Korean society, this’s what I see. Too much pressure and emphasis is put on getting rich and achieving some sort of financial success that is deemed acceptable to the society. Also, not allowing your children to study for knowledge sake and not “higher grades”. It’s absolutely heartbreaking to see …. Cultural values: South Korean youth are victims of the cultural values, values that limit self expression and comforting encounters. Too much hierarchy limiting social interactions as fellow humans …. All these issues lead back to “causing mental health” issues which inevitably, displays it’s in this. I truly hope one day soon, lawmakers in South Korea will look into the mental wellbeing of their young generation and come up with appropriate policies/laws/ help that is desperately needed for its young people.
@@iamnananagatsuki6917 I’m not trying to impose my “westernised views” 😏😅, am simply saying; as humans, we have to evolve to do better, that’s all. Ignoring what makes us better collectively, under the disguise of “cultural values”, never got any society anywhere! If something like science can bring all cultures into agreement, human values should do the same. Starting with doing away with such excuses of being next to North Korea or whatnot….😌 What’s good for humanity goes beyond your cultural values! It’s 2023 for crying out loud ~ hahhaha The “chasing of material possessions” can’t be compared to other developed countries where it’s a luxury and not something directly affecting one’s basic human needs. Just ask your young people why they would rather escape South Korea if given a chance, or why they call South Korea “Hell” 🥲 When you have a society where children, vulnerable individuals, women and young people aren’t respected, valued/cared for/ considered/ largely included; that society NEVER makes meaningful progress, ever! 😌
Very good points and very well said! But unfortunately these problems will take a long time to solve if they do get solved at all. The first step is to address them, however, the biggest problem is that the problems get swept under the rug and ignored so they just get worse.
@@iamnananagatsuki6917You made so many good points too. I totally agree with having dinosaurs in office. Here in the US, the presidents and people in Congress and other high positions are in their 70s and even 80s. I find it sad that they discriminate against regular citizens due to age but yet let elders run the country. It just doesn’t make sense.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I completely understand, am trying to provoke South Korea’s lawmakers to “pali pali” get a start on this 🥲😅😊 … Oh I remain hopeful indeed 🥲😓
Meu imagina que cruel, morrer sozinho.. num quarto abandonado, sem amor, sem amigo, sem sorrir, sem último abraço, sem as últimas palavras pra alguém q gosta, esquecido e encontrado meses depois já em estado de decomposição no próprio quarto.. que mundo cruel sei q não e fácil pra maioria mais q sacanagem esses episódios da vida real… enquanto uns tem de monte tudo na vida outros morrem sem ao menos entender o sentido dela.. descansem em paz todas essas pessoas..
Humans inherited sins. Single or double parents families, guardians, & grandparents don't teach their infants or toddlers to lie, steal food or toys, and to not admit their faults. When u were babies, u inherited sins cuz sin was passed down from our first human father, Adam. As we grow older, we sin more and our magnitude of sins grow more extreme. God doesn't allow sin in heaven. Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day.
Omg This made me cried😭 I can imagine the amount of pains,heavy loads on their chest before they have to end it all😢😢 This video made me remember my life while growing without mom or dad to keep me in their warm arms, no family,no friends 😢 I slept in the church for days and sometimes uncompleted building😢 I didn’t give up on myself,I kept on pushing until I met my rescuer. I think that’s the difference between Africa and other parts of the world we’re raised to learn how to speak up,we don’t pretend,we learn how to admit and find solutions,We don’t give up easily. This is what we’re all supposed to be everywhere in the world,.. We should be a listening ear 👂 to each other, don’t be hard on yourself,you’ll enjoy this life only if you’re patient.. May the souls of the departed ones rest in peace ☮️
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸 *”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”* ♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️ *You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!* 1 John 5:13 KJB Romans 5:6 KJB “For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”* *Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).* *Romans 4:5* *”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”* *Galatians 2:21* *”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”* *Romans 1:16a* *”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”* *Ephesians 1:13* “In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,” *THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:* 15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures; 4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures: *THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.* To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️ Galatians 1:8 “But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”* John 10:28 “And I give unto them eternal life; and *they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” *Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB* *”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“* *A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:* th-cam.com/video/xsqVaoYpnko/w-d-xo.html *The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR* m.th-cam.com/video/fKS8-xrMKII/w-d-xo.html *Repentance* is *a change of mind* *When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.* *Romans 11:29* *”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”* *GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
My heart really aches for these people, dying alone and surrounded by mess. I hope one day people like this will have somewhere to go to so they won’t be alone in life. May they rest in peace 🕊️❤️
I agree 👍. Societal perspective on success is overrated and narrow-minded. Thr values of a great citizen or family person should be important too. Unfortunately few asian countries like China, Korea, and Japan are very into monetary gains, career pride, & lacking effective way to live. That's y so many people die/suicide/forget what life is. 🙄 How can they not balance life out? Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you. Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope... There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone. Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life. All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him! God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
It's so sad that in their lonely moments they write those messages that sound like they're inflicting shame on themselves. It's a tough society in South Korea, but what's sad is that this is becoming the case in other parts of the world where people feel more emotionally and socially isolated. Sometimes we just need to ask people how they're doing or check in on them. I've worked in the corporate setting in the U.S. and everyone is so busy working that no one really bothers to really hang out outside of work. We made efforts, but after I left the job, it seems like people rarely connect with those outside of the company. Maybe they reach out when they need something. I wish we can restore some human kindness and reconnect with people without feeling like we owe each other something.
Maybe if we could smile at eachother more and become more nice things would become better, life is already hard and being lonely would make it worse Hope you find good people around you
I am so saddened to see young people living in these tiny, filthy little boxes without social contact or hope. It seems that theres a lot of pressure & if you dont meet the standard you isolate yourself & feel shame. Please know that you are worthy, you do matter and life can be good. Humans need the company of other humans & without it we can lose hope and die. There needs to be groups organised for these vulnerable people to have social support & assistance.
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸 *”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”* ♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️ *You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!* 1 John 5:13 KJB Romans 5:6 KJB “For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”* *Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).* *Romans 4:5* *”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”* *Galatians 2:21* *”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”* *Romans 1:16a* *”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”* *Ephesians 1:13* “In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,” *THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:* 15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures; 4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures: *THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.* To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️ Galatians 1:8 “But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”* John 10:28 “And I give unto them eternal life; and *they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” *Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB* *”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“* *A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:* th-cam.com/video/xsqVaoYpnko/w-d-xo.html *The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR* m.th-cam.com/video/fKS8-xrMKII/w-d-xo.html *Repentance* is *a change of mind* *When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.* *Romans 11:29* *”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”* *GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
Im Filipino & i have a korean friend who is not doing good in Sk & i told him to move to the Philippines & now hes happy with the island simple life. He put up a small business selling korean goods. He loves the beach & the people around him. He has a lot of support from our community
What a wonderful friend you must be. I would love to live in the Philippines, such a beautiful country. I’m in Australia and it’s a great country but I love the island life.
ignacio in the philippines we dont have a problem like this kasi kahit na gaano kahirap natin makuha parin natin maki pag social sa mga kapitbahay natin. Sa kore or any country na malaki kawawa talaga ang mga weak physically mentally kasi walang nag comfort sa kanila kaya daming depress.
Bruh Philippines 😂😂😂😂 🤮
@@NotFalling4itDo not go there is dirt poor, and they are fake people too. They love to suck all the money from foreigners, watch out.
Filipinos in majority are backstabbers and thieves, they act all friendly trying to take advantage of foreigners to lower their guard, once they know they can get nothing, they dump them like trash.
I'm a foreigner living in Korea and it's really hurtful to see how they treat each other sometimes, there is a lack of compassion, even to us foreigners, they only talk to us when there is something they want from us and then bye and it's the same between them, when they don't have the status they had, they cut all contact, why? That person was your "friend" how can you just disconnect emotionally that easy?... I understand competition and hardwork and all that, but the lack of compassion to a fellow human being is wow, out of this world, I lived in other asian countries and there is nothing like SK, they have the new rich syndrome, where everything that matters is pretnding, all the time. Guys, relax a bit, life is hard enough, we don't need to make it harder ourselves, give yourself and others a chance! They don't ask for help from others, because simply you don't know who can you trust and then the hurt ego on the top, it's hard. The harsh way they treat their celebs online is just the tip of the iceberg to how this society behave between themselves, it's a beautiful country and culture, don't allow fakeness to make it ugly.
Unfortunately traditional Asians even here in da states (Chinese, Koreans, Hong kongers, Vietnamese) cares 2 much about the money to da point they idolize it. They don't enjoy life at all just saving money. So it's like they have a lot, but they only enjoy adding more. 😅😅 once they perish, it goes to their kids who enjoy it by spending some of it 😅.
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
@@small_fries7573 What you say about some Asians is true, myself have Japanese relatives and chinese friends back in my country, but the lack of compassion and the harsh way of behaving towards other people is worse and bad in south korea, it's like they enjoy bashing you down.
you just took everything right out of my mouth! rich worshiping is very popular in korea. sorry let's get back to kdrama..... watch one today folks. see how many horrible and horrific monsters treat others in every single episodes. it's absolutely mind boggling and i thought that toxic culture would have disappeared by now after 40 years since i left but it seems to be hot and strong, still.
Living up to your name
@@Cx0ew am I lying?? Denying your problems won't make them go away... Not only south koreans, but other asian countries are the same as well.. Your people is depressed and dying in silence, but ok...
I am chinese (grewup in Canada), during my childhood my parents put a lot of pressure on us to succeed. I had a successful engineer career and I married another engineer. Our son was diagnosed autistic when he was 3. Very mild and he goes to normal school and do very good. My husband and I changed our job to have less stress and more time for him. All we wish is health and happiness for him. I refuse to perpetuate the asian stigma, my son is not my social card to show success. My western education help me a lot to not care about what other people think and be more conscious about individual needs. My son has a lot of friends and as a mother, his smile and joy to live are inestimable.
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That’s so beautiful to hear! I moved to the states and as an Asian myself, it hard to deal with the Asian expectations and norms sometimes that I’m credibly grateful to have experience another culture with more positive mindset rather than focusing on the catching up to others all the time.
And what u expect from others asian parents to them kids, from them traditional education of not show the love......
Leave Canada taxes taking all your money
I'm half Vietnamese / Maori and I live in Australia with my Vietnamese family. The aunties would always compare us kids and our cousins with how well they did in school or what they're studying etc. My mum was Maori, and shes like "it's always a competition with your Vietnamese family son. Don't feel pressured, just do your best, do what you enjoy and as long as we're all here (5 kids) then that's all that matters."
It's a strong mentality amongst Asians. Even my brother in law is work work work. He's got 2 houses, a business, all the toys / nice trucks etc, but he's the most angriest person lol, he lost all his hair... My brother in law is 28 years old. I am 37 years old and no word of a lie, he looks older than me...
I will raise my kids to do well, but I'll also let them know I love them no matter what and my house will always be open with no judgement.
don’t let your society kill you off. this earth was made for us to explore and move if necessary
Truee❤️
I like your comment
Privileged should not suggest how victims should do in thier life
It is not the society that kill these people, it is our inherent weakness and the lie we built up around these weaknesses that kill what is left of an already bad being. Changing our nature learn compassion, understanding through conscious decisions are what make our lives better, not trying to buy sth (with money of course) in our lives without regard to everything else. Slowly but surely these Asian nations will have to face the collapse of human value and human society. A terrible end for such enduring nations who have been pawns of the West for many decades, after all it is a combination of many elements, high population and few resources and the idea that they can live a life like rich european colonizers, and an inherent delusion of human beings
I like too.
Don’t ever let them get you. We’re all monkeys on a rock fighting for bananas that other monkeys told us were valuable.
Depression and mental illness is a big thing we need to take seriously no matter where you are from..
Respect to you. ❤ You're correct. Not just younger but older people from 50s to 70s also.
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
You are definitely right on the dot about the age group as well🙏🏼
absolutely.
Exactly
Exactly but sadly many take psychological health so lightly.
The girl failing her teaching exams by 1% hit close to home. I failed an exam as well by 1% and got kicked out of my program, it was so bittersweet having to watch my old classmates graduate. having to accept that all of my hard work meant nothing. Still trying to build up the courage to go back and try again, but it’s not easy.
I am so sorry to hear that. Please don't stop trying. Many people love you and praying for you. Sending you hugs.
The Same happend to me recently all my classmates could gradute and I need to start from scratch. I got the courage to start again this year.
Most exams are trash and won’t impact your ability to make money. It is better to work hard on relevant skills in order to score a good job or earn income. However, in some Asian countries, having a diploma is important and you must pass these exams to obtain paper certificates. So, it is important to do your best to pass them. Remember, failing these exams is common and should not discourage you.
I pray 🙏 in Jesus Christ's name that u will attempt 1 more time ⏲️, and you will PASS it. I think there's too much pressure for young people anywhere unfortunately. I feel very bad for all of you in Asia and Latin America.
@@manonvonau5814 Good for you!
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This is what severe depression looks like in its purest form. My heart goes out to them and their loved ones.😢
Does it really
No matter how beautiful SK is perceived in KDramas and no matter how fancy and colorful we initially thought life there is cause of Kpop, I learned that South Korea is such a cold country. As a Filipino who is used to warm people and strong family bond, I really won’t survive the harshness of the society in SK.
The richer you get, the more distant you get.
Could be racism in your case too. I can imagine a good amount of SK people being racist towards to SEA people and Filipinos.
@@limitess9539I'm filipino and I dont care what kind of racism towards us. We are here, to live happily together with our family. We may dont have that much compare to them but we are contented of what we have. No pretension at all
Japanese are cruel too, a cold society.
Even kpop idols do suicide too. Live in SK is that harsh.
The societal pressure is too high since childhood until adulthood.
- Getting good grade (no rest, no dating...)
- Getting into a good university
- Getting a good paying job
- Getting married at certain age
- Having children before 40
- Must follow trend, brands...
The society need to accept that THE YOUTH have an harder time to achieve all of those things. Some may succeed but not all.
Those people will isolate themselves to not burden others and not to be seen as failures.
spot on! You pretty much covered it all!
I am 27 and as from Malaysia, I can feel the same and I couldn’t agree more.
If you miss any one track on these standards, you’re gone forever.
Well said and you have covered it all. It is hard for the youth to live in a society like this.
Why people act like if this is easy, if that was the case then poors didnt exists and sadly poors are the majority in every country specially third world countries when the line of poverty is super sad and corrupt gobernmemt cover it My making up the data, if they were realistic the numbers would be SO scary, yet poors here try SO hard to act middle class cuz at leats that way "You won't be poor"
Exactly may be people can be a bit more kinder to each other or may be the way the society is built is extremely wrong.
Born broke, living broke, and ultimately died alone, jobless, and depressed.
It’s not about being broke, it’s about being lonely what makes the suffering
@@keepwondering_ what do you think. Have you work mininum wage and the only thing you can deal with is a single room studio and a $200 budget to fit in a month. What else is there to cause depression
@@Saffrone221lol I still live with parents at age 27 have savings but only 2k USD which I save actually for 4 freaking years in this freaking 3rd world sheethole in Southeast Asia. Living as lower middle class.. not starving but still living paycheck to paycheck for peanut salary.. maybe you forget to count your blessings.. because what you got is the ultimate gold dream for many in the sheethole developing world like mine 😅😅😅
@@romella_karmey which country are you from?
@@keepwondering_ PH
I live alone too, my parents died when i was 27... i barely know anyone in this city apart from people from work... i got used to it but sometimes i feel this overwhelming panic of being alone and insignificant... no one would even care if something happened to me. Its terryfing
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No, every life matters. How about a Video call?
Buy a bike and ride free, go to places you never been
Go travel, explore the world
Try going to countryside
This makes me remember an episode from the K-Drama “Move to Heaven”, where a man also hurts his leg & is called in to work and shamed by his coworkers; he ultimately ends up passing away, and the cleaners who come and look through his belongings begin to put the story together so his family has proper closure. It’s an amazing show about these people who go organize their belongings & remember their lives.
Best drama.. Still waiting for season 2
It’s an amazing drama. So many sad stories.
Yes that was one of my favorite Dramas i remember that EP and he would go to the corner store to see the girl je had a crush in that worked there . His foot got stuck in the work machine i think
Putting oil on my wounds again. Such a tragic yet beautiful drama
Pertama maafkan diri mu sendiri yakinlah setiap manusia unik rezeki orang beda beda yang perlu di lakukan hiduplah untuk diri mu sendiri, sayangi diri mu sendiri Allah selalu ada untuk semua orang
My room once looked akin to that. I just lived amongst the trash, it felt small, my mind was small, my heart was small. But I am really lucky, one day I came home from work the usual mind numbing day to day and my room was completely clean, my mum cleared it for me. Idk if people will find this petty but seeing how big and bright it was made me realise how life is really all about perspective. Once you clear away the junk in your mind, even my job isn't too bad when I choose not to hate it, I'm not so bad when I choose not to hate me
Good to hear that. I am happy that your starting to see things in a nice perspective.
In America, many people hoard stuff. They let their anxiety and mental states encourage them to keep buying stuff to clog up their whole house and yard. Lots of Americans r known for hoarding, worse than Korea
This is soo true. I’m really glad you go through that and can see the brighter side of life!🥰
For the folks reading:
Clean up your room, set up a daily routine of it.
That's how you start the process to turn things around for you, that's one of the things I had to do for myself.
You got this, but you need to take the first step and start to care about the little things that you can change about yourself.
I’m glad you found your happy beginning. 🤍
The problem is everywhere, society says reach out, don’t suffer alone but there is no real help. Long waiting lists, people just don’t have time for you, it’s all about oneself never about others. Social media is full of critics, judgment and it’s easy to feel just not good enough. 😢
You're right. Just found out a popular Asian singer who had it all took her own life!
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
My Friends literally leave me in My worse time, is devastating i NEVER felt SO alone, people Say go look help to your love ones but what if your "love ones" literally do t want to deal with the person issues, they can not help You for real, they all Say same empty words "we are here for You" but when You vent You ruined the vibes , try to Be happy, try to think positive
Exactly! the societal mechanisms aren’t there at all 😓, it’s only a heartbreaking 💔 loop 🔁
@@AyAReI00 I hope you find new friends who u can rely on. 🙂 Sorry 2 hear your bad story.
Life is unpredictable and fragile...it's ok to worry cuz as humans we don't live in a perfect, secured society.
Have u thought about whether u go 2 heaven or hell after this life? Cuz life is short & fragile. Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's hope...
Fortunately there's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, and not to get tired anymore.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you. Imagine everyone will respect each other. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have such a perfect, eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
@@yokai_G yes it's true 👍 but don't give up finding potential friends. Maybe one great day, God will introduce u to one or 2 decent friends who share similar opinions and hobbies. Don't give up on humans despite most being not friend material.
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
I’m a Korean who grew up in the west and still live in the west. I grew up in a typical immigrant family where parents had to work very hard to provide us children with ‘better lives’. One thing I can confirm about Korean culture is the toxic nature. I’m not sure if the Korean War is to blame or was it always like this (according to Korean period dramas apparently so?) but after studying psychology I’ve come to understand a bit more about why so many Koreans are the way they are.
There have been few studies done over the years that shows ASD is quite prevalent amongst Koreans (far higher than western average), only until recently Koreans virtually did not mix with other races or cultures (at one point they hit 99% ‘pure blood’ title) which is not great for the gene pool. Maybe this has had a big impact on their psyche and mindset but whatever it is it’s affecting people’s behaviours. I’ve always wondered why so many older Koreans are so angry and very negative and ill tempered. So many Korean boomers gaslit their children by using ‘filial piety’ as a reason for their poor behaviour as parents. I actually don’t have many fond memories of my own parents. I’ve grown up resenting them over the years for their emotional abuse and sometimes physical abuse. And yet they constantly remind us how lucky we are that they’ve raised us with a roof over our heads and that we didn’t grow up in a broken home (despite the shouting match everyday). I cannot help but compare my own family to my western friends’ families where the parents genuinely loved their children with no strings attached. For us, often we felt like we were born because they felt obligated to have children because of society’s expectations rather than the real desire to spread love. We had to do well at school in order to give something boast about but they have no real interest in what our desires are or what we’re really good at.
I left home at 18 to go live in London and I learned by forging my own life, and I’m so glad that I did as I was only able to breathe life after moving away from my parents. I needed a lot of therapy to get this far but it was all worth it as now I can think straight. I’m now a parent to a beautiful mixed baby and I’m working really hard to make sure not to repeat the same mistakes my parents have made.
Too many Korean parents don’t offer real love to their kids, these kids grow up with a misconceived view of what love and affection really is. You cannot offer love/kindness if you’ve never received it. The first formative years of your life is the most important but this is often done wrong in my culture (one of the reasons why I’m not a fan of joriwon). Unfortunately, they’re the by-product of their environment and they genuinely don’t know it’s wrong. If you’ve spent your whole life only knowing one thing that’s all you’re going to know. And most don’t have the courage nor the curiosity to break the mould out of fear. It’s sad that too many don’t understand the meaning of life and real happiness. I pray that this will change in the future 🙏
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You love your British masters and Satanist freemasonry
I’m a chinese living in Canada. I used to know a girl of Korean ethnicity from school, who speaks perfect mandarin and Korean, and is from a big Chinese city (shenyang, the capital of liaoning province). She took the entrance exam in Korean though (allowed in china for minorities), and she told us that her parents demanded her to marry to a man of Korean ethnicity (regardless of the citizenship) in the future. That was over 20 years ago and we lost touch after I came to Canada, but I still remember that conversation somehow.
The result of so many people cramped onto a small piece of land with very little natural resources.People in many European countries are moving in the same direction.Too many people, too many refugees, lack of governance to give people hope. They will end up like S Korea
JKG how well put and touching. My uncle married a Korean girl from Seoul and brought her home to New York to live. Of the two she was the more demanding and the disciplinarian with their three kids. Her children loved her but preferred being with their father.
I’m a 20 y.o. Korean woman who was born in Russia and moved to SK this year. Being an office worker, living an apartment I found myself getting more depressed and I don’t know why. I love Seoul, it’s a vibrant city but you find yourself being extremely lonely and drained to the point where you stop talking to your entire family and avoiding everyone. I don’t talk to any of my family members. I stopped cooking, started ordering food, I feel less like cleaning and stuff although before I would always keep my place very clean and minimalistic. I won’t lie I’ve been very close to committing suicide, it’s just a black hole that sucks u in
Hello I am from India❤ dont let these things heavy on your mind. Remember you have a family. We also faced racism in SK but we dont take that much to our heart. Depression is everywhere, only way to escape it talk to your family on any topic, travel to different places. Here in India people are so social 😅 in minutes they become friends. Being lonely and being alone is different. U can still be alone and happy❤ Hope my words reached to you. Lots of❤❤
You need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL. PRAYING FOR ALL KOREAN PEOPLE.I THINK YOU ALL ARE BEAUTIUL PEOPLE.
That is more of a way of thinking imo. Because I think in the end people who experience those thoughts, it is not about the place they are put in or the experiences they go through eventually they will express those "depression" feelings no matter what. I am european the same age as you living in the EU. I never lacked anything from the start yet my ambition for life grew weaker day by day. I realized that it's all pointless. Existance itself is meaningless. That is why from now on I'll live my life doing whatever is fun for me and will stop worrying so much about studying/social pressure.
Take care and only try to do WHATEVER makes you happy without worrying about what people might think about you. :)
Move to Indonesia and you will feel better
Have you thought of leaving??
depressions are highly unrecognized disease in Asia and are not taken seriously. depressions from either early childhood or caused by later hardships in life, it just shows you how mental health is so important, just as important as any physical health issues. absolutely devastating to think how a person died by his or herself and no one noticed it until the smell. so heart wrenching. SOUTH KOREA has the worst workers protection for those who get injured during work for a developing country.
How about serious mental illnesses? I mean, a depression can be severe but there are worse illnesses out there. Bipolar.. schizophrenia.. borderline.
I don’t understand how the hell it can be ignored. Poor people.
For real I think culture plays quite a part in it as well bc mental health disorders are not really acknowledged as being as serious as they are in places like Asia. There are many cultural factors that play a part in this which sets it apart from western places, which is really disappointing and sad. I hope all the people suffering get the help they deserve
@@ArtemisB. If depression is discarded in Asian countries just imagine what happens when people have other mental illnesses… I can only pray they can make it through …
Is China the same? I see the trends for young peeps to do that in sk/jp.
Life is unpredictable and fragile...it's ok to worry cuz as humans we don't live in a perfect, secured society.
Have u thought about whether u go 2 heaven or hell after this life? Cuz life is short & fragile. Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's hope...
Fortunately there's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, and not to get tired anymore.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you. Imagine everyone will respect each other. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have such a perfect, eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
I kinda relate with the woman who cut off her contact with friends because there was a time when all of my close friends had graduated when I was still working on the finals. I shied away from them and so were they, but turned out exchanging simple words meant a lot.
Of course I was embarrassed because I was the only one left behind, but turned out they also experienced confusion because they wanted to help me graduate but they just didn't know what to do and they had things on their own hands, those things hindered our relationship for a small period of time.
So I began to swallow my pride and asked them for any input they could gave me, asked for their company to the campus for encouragement (it helped a lot with my nervousness), and sometimes they took me along to see the life after graduation so I got prepared better than they were.
So, my message to the ones who feel left behind, try to reach out even if it's bitter. Try to think of alternatives if you feel stuck in the same place but at the same time keep trying your best and live your best life! 🎉
Jehovah God will help All who become His friend enjoy their Best Life on a Fixed Earth 🌎🌍 FOREVER. We're not alone in this😊Plz see JW/Jehovah's Witnesses
It might've worked for you which is good, but not all friends are the same. I had all my friends tell to my face that they didn't want to hear my problems because they were busy in college and private lives. I listened to their problems before, but I guess they wouldn't do the same. I cut them all off, and nobody cared. I won't be surprised if I end up like the people in this documentary someday.
This is reality. If you get left out, most of the time, people will move on without you. They won't wait for you. Can't blame them, they have their own lives to live.
As you grow older and become more isolated, finding friends who are similar to you gets harder that you won't even bother anymore.
@@silencespeaks7531 thanks 4 sharing your experiences. I hope u find real friends one day.
@@silencespeaks7531Oh man.. I can relate to your experience.
I had a friend that straight up told me I was the "face of failure" in uni.
My friends were progressing steadily throughout their courses and I was the only one failing some classes. I tried asking for help but I guess they were simply too far ahead and seemed like I was only holding them back.
I graduated and got my engineering degree but I cut everyone off. Almost felt like I was never even there.
😢 relatable
One of my friend's cousins once visited south korea and told me the harsh truth about the society and the people living there. Keeping the racism aside, the a part of the people around there lack on sympathy, socialize and compassion towards each other. And at first I thought it's only Japan to have lonely deaths but after watching this I felt I am wrong. Personally I think Depression and mental illnesses are nowadays a global problem. Even I was a part of it but after improving my social skills, working on myself and practicing spirituality with meditation I got cured a lot.
Loneliness and Depression are prevalent in every country in the world; but it's especially true in places like the Far East. In Korea the people who become shut-ins and ultimately die alone are known as "Godoksa" (as shown in the video) and in Japan they are known as "Kodokushi." Something has to be done to try and rectify this situation as it is a public health crisis and government officials in both Seoul and Tokyo need to get their heads together and work to get this under control.
You dont need meditation. You need Jesus. You need God. Believe me, my life had changed when I got to know about Jesus. Before that, I was depressed, lazy and empty even I used to study very hard when I was in highschool. Believe me, get yourself to know about God. Many rich countries in the world have a large porportion of people who follow God. Those countries are the most developed contries such as Europe, the Americas, ...etc So please, come to God, get to know him, search about Catholism, reading about it on internet... You will find out about a whole new world. A world is full of angel people, martyrs,...
I couldn’t hold my tears when watching this. It’s so sad. I wish everyone can live happily in this world.
The lack of empathy is concerning.. human are too cruel sometimes
The problem seems to be lack of spirituality...everything in this society is about materialism and status, being hive minded and ignoring what feeds the soul. Greed, vanity etc. all these things crush the soul and a society.
very well said.
When were humans ever kind in the first place to begin with???
@@Unique8802So you wouldn't say you're kind?
@@shivers47 Don't you come for me low life. No one likes you at all. You are the worst pariah on this earth. F*ck off.
Thank God, im a filipino. Mostly, people are poor in the Philippines. But, resilient, kind, and friendly. We have negative sides, but more on positivity.
And eat lechon in christmas.
Filipino best culture in SA.
Trueee we’re far from perfect but we value life that God has given us…but ofc we cannot judge these people because we totally don’t have an idea what they’re going through..I just hope this will end and hope they get the help they really need🙏🏼
Thanks God sa Pinas tayo pinanganak. Iba talaga ang spirit kapag Pinoy ka. Proud being Pinoy! ❤
the only bad thing about being filipino is our corrupt politians and worst heat weather 😅
Two quotes come to my mind:
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."
- Jiddu Krishnamurti
"The sick individual finds himself at home with all other similarly sick individuals. The whole culture is geared to this kind of pathology … it is the fully sane person who feels isolated in the insane society..."
- Erich Fromm
I like Korea but I'd NEVER want to live there unless I had plenty of money - the wealth inequity there is kind of horrific - and their brutal education system - just wow. It's unlikely they'll ever be able to deal with the insanely overpowered corporations who presumably do quite nicely tyvm in a society like this.
Very sad. I am around their age. I understand their pain though.
Especially as a Korean I could see how they came to that conclusion. It almost feels like your life's duty to make your parent's proud.
I am married, make decent money and have many lovely children. Even someone like me goes through anxiety/panic attacks and depression from stress of life.
I can't even start to understand what kind of mental burden these guys were holding on to.
I feel like Korea has a very strong "FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT" kind of mentality. No one wants to look like you are at the bottom of the world, everyone dresses like they are doing very well in life. Even that could get depressing over time...
Very true with the korean's society " fake it till you make it"
I feel bad for you. But I also respect 🙏 u for admittedly speaking out. 😊 I actually think Koreans are not the only ones. In da usa, lots of Chinese people who are not westernized (from hk or China origins) are very prideful hiding their struggles. They brag about what they do for living (lies about their jobs), WEAR big name European brand name clothings/shoes, buy big name brand used cars, and go to mc donalds/inexpensive markets. 😅
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
@@eunyoungsuh6767unfortunately. 😅
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
Thank you for comment. As someone who doesn't live in korea, I'm just a person from the outside looking in. Your comment made it easier to understand the deep issues that has caused these tragedies
If my parents didn't leave SK, I think I would have been a part of the statistics. At least where I am now, I may be jobless at the moment but I have friends who doesn't look down on me. I wish they could have gotten out and found a friendlier place to live too instead of dying that way. I feel sorry.
Soon* Jehovah God will make ALL Earth 🌎🌍 Equally good. Enough of All Resources +NOT Money based. Plz Learn how to be His friend +have a hopeful future @JW/Jehovah's Witnesses
People can look down on you regardless of where you are at. It is the same in the USA or anywhere too. Just live your own life and learn not to care. At least I learned that as whoever looks down on you can’t help you.
God bless your family. Glad you guys left sk for a better life. And definitely 💯 it's much better when u have supportive/caring friends. Happy 4 you sis.
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
@@small_fries7573 thank you.
@@oh_hi_hyoWhere do you live now? I am struggling too so know how it is.
I think these sad cases of isolated death will even increase but not only in Korea. The problem is, unfortunately it becomes easy for people to avoid true social connections due to the possibilities of the internet. Many young people decide to spend their weekends at home, scrolling on their phones. Social Media creates the illusion of comfort and "connection" when in fact they are just sitting alone at home, watching others living their lives. It creates the illusion that we don't need each other. The longer they avoid socialising and real encounters with people, the harder it gets for them to cope with a healthy daily life. There is a rise of young lonely people and we all know that loneliness can kill.
Can't agree with you more..
i agree, but i believe this is all a symptom of a very unhealthy culture that does not care about mental health, only productivity… there’s no space to have it in person, so they retreat online. capitalism at its worst
Right at the beginning you see the thing in the door to do pullups. So at some point in his life, he was motivated and did see hope and wantrd to change. Thats why you should allways be kind to people no matter on what point of the journey they are
Damn, it makes me realize my pull up bar has always been there hanging for me. Doing pull ups makes me feel better.
I don’t know if it’s just in my case, but while I was living in Korea I noticed how shallow the relationships are between friends and even lovers. It feels almost like hanging out with strangers and going with their flow so you won’t be pushed out of the boat. It is very lonely and they are not kind to people who are alone. It’s depressing.
You're right 💯percent. ✅️
It's quite shallow and comparing who's better/older. 🙄 It's primarily the older generation fault cuz they build such ignorant/weak moral and ethical values. It's pretty much the same in like China, Hong Kong, Malaysia, and Singapore. Hang in there. I pray you will find happiness 😊 after u go through these times. Even the wealthy people suffer too with competition, greed, health issues, accidents, divorce, and more like common people like us...
It's so common now 4 divorced parents. Take this following example. Try to avoid being like Robert's daughter Gigi...
There is a woman who's an engineer for 20 years, have a masters degree, many friends, got married, have a engineer husband, have 2 daughters, a million dollar house 🏠. THEN......all of a sudden....
This person decided to divorce her awesome husband, Paul.
Nothing is always positive. U can't bring your pride, degrees, savings, investments, and your daughters out of this life.
What will anyone do to make it to heaven? 😮
Are you not motivated to accept Jesus Christ wherever u are in life?
Even the smartest and richest people don't qualify for heaven.
socializing in Korea is very systematic..
@small_fries7573 i dont think malaysian are like this. Malays at least are caring and so far i never felt like my friendship was like being friends with strangers..
@@amrinaroshada5688 that's good. 💯
You are a special and unique person. Your life & soul matter. Your life is very short compared to eternity.
Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day. God does love ❤️ you.
You are a special and unique person. Your life & soul matter. Your life is very short compared to eternity.
Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day. God does love ❤️ you.
It’s actually so scary that we often don’t realized how bad other people is experiencing in their life, lack of support when they needed is really the major cause of this. Even as a friend they could not differentiate between an emergency call with other usual call. How tough it is also the pressure of life given to those younger adults. Socializing is also human basic needs to feel fulfilled. I’m so sorry for all that passed away in solitudes.
So you people honestly think these people DIED from bring so sad? You know you can actually die from a brokenheart but thats not what they telling y'all this is. ...
I agree that socializing is what we humans need. Even the older population needs that. However many older men are stubborn and stuck to their homes!
@@small_fries7573 BS living the live is more important than stupid socializing
@@IcanseeeverythingwhatyouDohere
Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day.
@@small_fries7573nah bruh i ain't not trust a Godly entity for my soul to get valve into a safe storage even the texts of the past is blurry you can't just trust your spirit to an entity you're worshipping on
The root of depression is lack of support and not able to share what. are you feeling with someone. Parents should understand what their kids going through . They are the biggest support . If they are with you then it doesn't matter what the world say about you . My parents encourage me to move on when I face any failure . For my graduation I moved to other place but still my mom call me daily and my father twice a week , they know I am introvert and its hard hard to express myself.
How can parents not find out when their kids are not being their usual self .
I relate to that girl studying for certification exams so much. I got so anxious studying for mine, it wrecked me emotionally for the majority of this year. Paralyzed by fear. Fear of failing, fear that all my prior education was a waste and I was a fraud…I’m doing better now and take the first part soon. Hopefully I pass. If not, I will keep trying.
Give it your best shot ... and remember there's a many many ways you can contribute to society so let not that one exam be your PASS or FAIL in life .... godbless ❤ and regards
I’m an architect but working as a full time mom now 😊 I studied hard for so many years. I would never guessed I would leave my profession but I’m very happy where I’m now. Don’t be hard on yourself and keep in mind one door closes and another one opens 👍
From what I’ve seen and experienced living in an Asian family is hard. Kids can’t openly tell their parents about their true feelings. We keep it inside because many of us never experienced that kind of connection with our parents. Even if you tell your parents they most likely will ignore it. Mental illnesses isn’t view as an actually illness in many Asian families. Even siblings can ignore your feelings. I’ve had my brother tell me “you’re lying about your depression’. After he told me that I refused to speak about my feelings from then on.
Even if you tell them they will say you're being dramatic and brush you off.. until you commit suicide then they only will act pitiful in front of other people to get sympathy but even when dead they won't sympathize or feel sad that their child/sibling is gone, only thinking what a waste of their time and money they brought you to this world
Yeah, I've experienced something similar. My mom told me "what do you have to be depressed about?".
I had a friend who is Asian and he's had a rough upbringing but also such a kind person. He's shared how the family dynamic is difficult or how emotional and mental needs were neglected and still is by his parents. I always give him hugs and hold his hand. Sometimes, we'll lay in bed while listening to music, he's really talkative. I'm the opposite but love to listen. I gift him stuff or make art, too. He's always checking up on me. He's four years younger, but I really care about him and encourage him. I think studies, carrer and education come first. We don't talk much anymore, but I hope life gets better & he can find peace
Your brother was right. Its very normal girls to feel depressed by shallow reasons.
You can't or you will be deemed Pathetic and weak. Worst if you're a Man.
its weird to read people say "being around family will cure depression"... when family is often the cause of said depression. congratulations to you all for having family members to rely upon, but these comments are not helpful, are extremely ignorant, and are isolating. think outside of your own little bubbles
Exactly my thought's
They're just lucky to have good and loving family members . Sadly that's not the case for everyone .
Everyone is not the same case
So true! Family was what caused and is still causing me to feel and get depressed. When I am away from family is when I am happy.
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
So true
I'm trying my best to feel good but sometimes its hard. Turned 33 left job,divorced and due to anger issues lost many friends. But I'm going to fight for my life.
I wish you the best. You can still make it. Don't give up. I've been trying to, I know I still have a chance.
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
I will pray for you, you not alone God sees it all.
❤🍀
You will ❤
I wish I could find out how Ji-Min and Sung-Jae are doing now!! I feel strong empathy for them. Please, interview them again if it’s possible!(((
It's all about pride for them. No compassion. A friend is a friend whether they are doing well or not.
Sadly many allow pride to get into their way a lot.
We all need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
Go see a doctor.@@marysmith7596
Hope l can find a place like that too.
Eleven people a day ??? This is so heartbreaking. God knows how much pain they must’ve been in
Sometimes living is more painful, when you are in your own emotional hell and helpless. But they are so young.
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸
*”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”*
♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️
*You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!*
1 John 5:13 KJB
Romans 5:6 KJB
“For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”*
*Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).*
*Romans 4:5*
*”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”*
*Galatians 2:21*
*”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”*
*Romans 1:16a*
*”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”*
*Ephesians 1:13*
“In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,”
*THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:*
15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures;
4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures:
*THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.*
To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️
Galatians 1:8
“But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”*
John 10:28
“And I give unto them eternal life; and
*they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.”
*Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB*
*”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“*
*A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:*
th-cam.com/video/xsqVaoYpnko/w-d-xo.html
*The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR*
m.th-cam.com/video/fKS8-xrMKII/w-d-xo.html
*Repentance* is *a change of mind*
*When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.*
*Romans 11:29*
*”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”*
*GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
It is not like south korea has 100 million people, they only have 50. That really shows how fked up the system in Korea has become
Well, they dont have God, dont even know about him. So that's our job to preach to them about God.
@@tranmaitrang1114no no its not now shut up
Hugs and compassion to anyone who is feeling this way. Please hang in there and know someone loves you, someone will miss you, and someone needs you in their life🙏♥️💚💜❤️💕
Everything about the production quality and the content in this doco, is excellent.
Well done to the whole production team. 😊
As a korean guy i can say that We judge each other a lot based on what they look like and how they dress on and if you don't earn that amount of money at your age people would look down on you it's a sad true
It is better to treat others as you would like them to treated you
Not just a Korean thing as Vietnamese people are the same too. They judge you for the same things too. They judge you for how much you make, how you dress and everything else too.
Here where I live we don't do that cause it's disrespectful and if u judge strangers ppl will definitely punch you, looks don't matter. We are all same.
I also want to add that I don’t care what others think as they can’t do anything for me. I live my life, they live theirs. Simple as that!
y'all need to change for god's sake 😢its not right to judge anyone on the basis of their outer looks and their intelligence... Koreans really need to do better
The guy and the girl living alone, shouldn’t be left alone. Some one please keep in touch with them. Don’t want to loose those precious lives. So many young lives are wasted😢😢😢
If humanity focuses on chasing money and material possessions, the soul has died inside and the emptiness is very painful. The meaning of life has been lost.
focus on urself bro stop spreading negativity
@@rank1macro it isn't negativity, it is reality.
brainwashed people is the word,empty shells. For Japan and even China this is known also,Korea maybe is more bad. These people are anti social. They like everything opposite of the normal life the normal people want
After my parents died my room looked so similar. I wish you all strength and love nobody should go through this.
❤🍀
I still remember crying my eyes out watching K-drama Move To Heaven, this brings even more tears knowing how real it is that young people suffer from depression.
This is exactly what i thought about
Move to heaven by what means? You do realize that if you die by suicide then you're cursed to be a bound spirit forever reliving the day you die and reliving the way your loved ones suffered because of you. I think I read this from online translation of Tibetan Book of the Dead.
@@curiouscat428 The Title of the K-Drama is "Move To Heaven", I've never been to heaven or hell, so I can't really confirm your theory of being cursed & in infinite loop of reliving the suffering. Let me know if you have experienced those.
True, it really felt like move to heaven episode
Koreaboo 🙄🙄🤢🤢
i’m 19 but i’m already suffer from depression 4 years and already have a feeling what i’m a failure and never gonna have a good life….i can’t imagine how bad this people feel ..because the older you get the more people would have expectations about you , your life and achievements. my family on daily basis saying what i’m a garbage/not worth anything/just lazy shit and etc. so it’s hard to be able think good about myself.i’m just hope one day we all gonna feel better and start to breathe easier
to people like me ..please stay safe, don’t be hard on yourself ,remember what you are worth more than anything and i love you
i’m not fluent in english so i’m sorry beforehand
i want to update this comment since people still comment it every day..thank you for being nice to me :(i’ll read everything you want to say because i don’t have that much of a life irl.just to make it clear the only thing i can do it’s drawing so i studied for that but because of illness and zero strength to live i took a gap year..it’s over soon but im still in poor condition
Though I don't have depression yet I can't help but worry about the future and whether it's gonna be okay , I don't think I'll be able to fully understand older people's struggle in life . The only thing i can understand is the feeling of everything coming crippling down on yourself and how one can feel their colleagues are heading forward whilst they're still stuck at the bottom . Though this problem is so common throughout Asia it's seen as the person is fussy or is just too weak. I really hope one day lonely death will not be so common .
Define for yourself what " a good life" looks to you. I have faith you'll find happiness and comfort in the future, find out exactly who YOU are, not what other ppl want you to be. When ur sure of yourself living gets easier. I'm 17 and feeling a bit stagnant in life but I just do what I can everyday, write it down and how I feel.
Don't give up Internet stranger(s)!
it will get better watch videos of successful older people and watch how they live life. one day at a time. the past is the past. today is the first day of your future. look for something beautiful every day, even if it is the sky.
we love you too Mohito, himneseyo honey 😓😓*hug*
Wow, I'm speechless. This will be an unforgettable content for me. I have to keep pausing to brave myself to finish it. Salute.
The world began to change around 2010 in a big way.
I’m 39 dealing with depression that I can’t seem to shake.
I totally agree, everything seems so different and strange last 10 years, and even more for the past 3 years. Btw I am 39 as well. Sending you vibes of support!
@@misstenebrae thanks
Same to you.
Cool username by the way!
When you look outside of yourself for good feelings you will always be disappointed. I’m 65, let me share with you a bit of life experience. What is necessary is to find these things inside of yourself. Stop allowing the outside to dictate your path as well as your worth. I struggled with feelings of low worth and it affected me greatly. Once I made a decision that my value was not determined by the needs or expectations of others my life changed. I directed my life and path. I determined my worth and value. It was such a freeing gift I gave to myself. I know it sounds kinda corny and way too simple. It worked for me.
@jturquoise
❗️OnlyJESUS CHRIST CAN HEAL YOUR DEPRESSION ❗️
But we don’t have to seek him for his healing. We are sinners and need forgiveness.
,,Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.”
,,…that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.”
~Bible
@@ssooo1282 Jesus is a cunt
Because he’s not real
The harsh reality of Korea and then there are kdramas, two different worlds
When this young women said she's no longer keep in touch with her school friends because she failed at exam.... its ridiculous. When you are true friends, no matter what. You're always together !!!
Lonely death is korean society's ill of the century.
I think the asian culture is like that. 😅 this shows that u r a true friend! Westernized people are usually less fickle and stick to their friends regardless of their struggles ❤❤ respect to you 👏
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
that was a pefect example of south korea's problem. hence why these people felt like they had no choice to isolate themselves because they probably thought no one would want to interact with them because of their "failure'.
@@wengo44 yeah... school success in SK is a societal problem. It does not allow teenagers and young adults (who should have time to rest) to learn how to build deep and sincere bonds with others to create a stable environment for their mental health and also own success.
I mean you're right and I agree with you, but unfortunately South Korea seems to be that shallow.
I agree but you know coming from a society like that it is hard to not think that way. Even here in the US, one of my brothers lost his job and felt embarrassed so cut off all contact from all his friends.
So interesting and thought provoking. Excellent video!
May they RIP. Please, if anyone out here is depressed, please know that there’s always a way. Life is too precious and beautiful to end it. You are not alone. You matter, you are important. ❤
You guys did a respectful work. Trying to find out and understand the life of the deceased, who otherwise would have been lost in oblivion. Nobody cared to know about their life when they were alive but because of the documentary, atleast their life will be understood by millions. Their soul must be happy and at peace, to see your hardwork
Beautiful comment. Thank you for that.
COVID must have made things 1000 times worse for people who lived alone and relied on going to work for the
opportunity to chat with others. I suffer from depression and anxiety which comes and goes, depending on my circumstances at the time. If I stay home for a while, it’s very easy to enjoy the comfort and security of being there, no pressures or stress or deadlines to keep. I have to force myself to go out eventually, even if only for a
walk and you know what ? It always lifts my spirits and makes me feel better, reminds me that there is a whole world, just beyond the front door. It’s amazing the difference fresh air, sunshine and bird’s singing can make.
For sure dude. Fuck COVID. My best friend hung himself last year in South Korea. Dark side of South Korea we are watching.
I agree with you 💯. I hope u meet trustworthy friends to help u fight depression/anxiety. And I will pray that u get past these stages which seem to come and go like u said.
Jesus Christ loves ❤️ you!
Korea's suicide rate was the highest in the world even before Corona.
Tbh I never felt more free than before when covid started
But yeah they didn't deserved that
Yups.. Walking in nature is a best medicine to mental health. Try grounding too.. Or earthing... It's the method to walk by barefoot
This is a bitter pill to swallow and it's not only happening in Korea. People don't care. We post social media to fool everyone into thinking we're okay when we're not. We don't check up on others. What truly hurts is the assumption everyone is doing well. Also few people know how to validate another person's feelings. "Negative positivity" is real. For example if someone says they feel sad and cry all the time and you tell them to cheer up or others have it worse than you. Wtf? We live in a society that shames you for any feeling that's not slapstick happiness!!! We're lonely and want to speak our truth. Those poor people in the apartments. If only someone knocked on their door unannounced and took them out for a walk or coffee. They needed someone to care. I'm 100% alone in life and fear being found in my apartment months after I die. Please care about each other more. Please. ❤❤❤
Love yourself and stop expecting other will save you. Give your love to yourself first before give it to others. Have a pet will help or morning walk and afternoon tea will do too.
Your comment is an example of toxic positivity. Did I ask for your advice? Few people know how to genuinely show empathy and validation.
@@littlefairyland763 Let's say someone tells you they're suicidal. Will you tell them to take a walk? Love yourself more? Get a pet and all will be well? No! That's insincere and shows you're not listening to the person. Only giving out unsolicited advice to make yourself feel better. The people in the video only wanted to seen. To be heard. They didn't want an immediate solution. Please read the book, I Hear You, by Michael Sorensen.. It will make you a better friend and more compassionate. You might save someone's life. :) With much love to you.
@@littlefairyland763 I hate comments like this. Like its just easy to "love yourself" when You've got crippling depression and nobody cares about you?? What a reckless response
I’m so sorry for all those beautiful souls. May they find peace.
My son's a half Korean.
Now that I came to watch this video made me content that my decision of taking care of my son here in the Philippines is still the right decision for my son's sake.
Thank you for posting.
Philipinos are very family oriented compared to koreans. Your son deserves to be raised in an environment with family members who love him. You made the right decision to raise him in the Philippines.
@@islandgirlxx3465let's not stereotype an entire race of people. I know plenty of people from the Philippines who come from broken homes.
I agree with you,a lot of broken family are in the Philippines but still coz of strong family ties kids can still stay with their aunts,relatives or grandparents and still support them anyhow mentally,financially so they will not feel so lonely to the extent of dying alone...so sad...my heart goes to this people who died very young...😔😔😔...
You made the right decision. Although our (Philippine) culture is not perfect, we do have a sense of community and strong family values and ties. We are compassionate people in general and tries to help our neighbors when they are in need.
I agree. The Philippines 🇵🇭 is definitely a better and mentally healthier place to live than societies in Hong Kong, China, and Korea. Until the older generation stop infusing greed and falsify what success truly is, people should stay away from these countries and societies.
Sad reality indeed. I felt it when the young lady asked if it was okay for her to cry and the fact the guy was trying to hold back his tears. May those who died RIP
❤
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸
*”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”*
♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️
*You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!*
1 John 5:13 KJB
Romans 5:6 KJB
“For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”*
*Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).*
*Romans 4:5*
*”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”*
*Galatians 2:21*
*”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”*
*Romans 1:16a*
*”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”*
*Ephesians 1:13*
“In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,”
*THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:*
15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures;
4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures:
*THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.*
To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️
Galatians 1:8
“But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”*
John 10:28
“And I give unto them eternal life; and
*they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.”
*Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB*
*”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“*
*A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:*
th-cam.com/video/xsqVaoYpnko/w-d-xo.html
*The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR*
m.th-cam.com/video/fKS8-xrMKII/w-d-xo.html
*Repentance* is *a change of mind*
*When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.*
*Romans 11:29*
*”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”*
*GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
@@small_fries7573 Yeah…, that really won’t help now will it.
@@FallenAngel9979 hi there 😊. I'm sure it'll help anyone's soul because they can go to heaven after this life 😀. They can avoid hell 🔥forever.
Why would u risk 😕 going to hell? Isn't creation enough to show you that God is real? Look at yourself. Your organs, your features, your lines on your palms, your DNA, your unique fingerprints that only u have, and your surroundings (ground, sky, below ground).
I am soo fedup with people being mean and nasty to each other.We need to love and heal each other instead of competing till our death.
I was preparing for my exams far from home but after few months I could really feel depressed and living in that small apartment with an introvert roommate who was usually in someone else's room was more devastating. Being an extrovert everything around was killing me from inside. I was not even studying, just watching reels to avoid my loneliness. But then one day, I suddenly called my mom and asked her to take me home. My parents understood my situation and the next day I was at my home and I am preparing for my exams from home only. I do not regret even a bit that I left the place because I feel lively now. I really want to make studies a part of my life not my whole life. I just want to say that, I know we all asians have that societal pressure to be the best but just try once to make yourself and your parents understand the way you REALLY want to LIVE!!!❤. Your life is only yours and you must be the only one to take decisions for yourself but always be connected with your family, they are your backbone ❤
It may happen that my friends being there perform well and I may not, but the thing is that I will try my best as much as possible.
I’m from the Middle East, sometimes I get pressured by work, family demands, responsibilities thrown at me, I never complain or talk about this with anyone. Sometimes I wish I can disappear from everything cuz the mental pain is way too much to bare.
I really got to understand what it means to be tired of everything, u don’t even enjoy your free time cuz you’re thrown exhausted.
Hey 👋 Chiyul. May you find happiness despite the tough weekly grind at work. Bad stuff will always come, but I'm sure u can find something positive ✨️ during those difficult circumstances. Imma send u a prayer and to Jesus Christ, our God.
Lord Jesus, may u continue to shine your powerful 🙏 ✨️, radiant light to this guy. Let his fam see that he is doing his part as a hardworking, grown child. Let him fight through the pressure at work or if so help him find a better work environment where employers value his working habits! Most of all give him a joy hoping he will accept you, Jesus Christ, as Savior so that he can go to heaven after this life. The troubles here are lifetime. But the pure joy in heaven with you, me, and other Christians ✝️ are forever! In your name I pray in Jesus Christ, amen!
I hope u feel much better. I def hope u believe in Jesus Christ as your Savior soon.
@@small_fries7573 stop saying the same words idiot
Change it or go away
Get closer to God, it worked wonders for me, I was depressed too in the past, but this life is only a short life where we try to live simple and do good deeds, dont be hard on yourself, forgive whats in the past and forgive yourself, focus on your inner peace and connection with god, god bless
@@gabrielta1you really are bitter, sick and vile individual . If you have nothing good to say then don't say anything at all. Disgusting human being.
This kills me. I’m the same age, temporarily living in Korea. I wish I could embrace them all, tell them it doesn’t have to be so hard. It would not take the societal pressure away though. There is pressure in the US but it’s different. A simple life as long as you are happy is okay too.. this attitude of acceptance should be universal. I wish every day for their peace
I respect and agree with your opinion 💯 u seem like a decent person.
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
I agree and I grew up all of my life in the US, but my family always put the same pressures on me and my brothers. We endured it and made it but struggled a lot. Asian cultures have the same expectations so it is not only a Korean thing. I am glad that I am westernized so realize that it does not need to be like that. I failed a few times in school but kept going. I am struggling in life and all now too but have to keep going. But even if you did reach the success in the end, will you be happy? Will it all be worth it?
South Korea is not a Wonderland and some PPL need to realise that!!!
@@shivanshdhardubey124 true. As a tourists or those who think they know Korea will be very surprised 😮 what they find out when they do thorough research about Korean society.
In the US, 16.8 Veterans dying by suicide every day. Don't go talking up your country and talking down others. Look up the stats. China has one of the lowest off rates in the World.
This is so sad. I’d watched a similar doc about lonely deaths in Japan, but they weren’t so young. All these poor lads dying in their 20s and 30s…. I also really felt for that poor girl who failed her exam by 1%. She should not be sat alone at her desk for 15 hours everyday. That is insane. So physically and mentally unhealthy. I hope she changes her lifestyle….and that poor man living in a tiny room, no light, no friends, eating crappy tub food..I sincerely hope he finds his way out too……god I had no idea S Korea was so tough…..
I do get it; the isolation. I moved for a job that didn’t work out, to an area where I only know the guys at the gym and my Co-workers in my part time job. But I have no actual friends here, and if it weren’t for the gym and job, I shudder to think how I’d be feeling.
For any other lonely souls out there- try to join a social group (I’m working on doing this myself) just to do something that isn’t just going to work & coming home. It’ll give you more of a social life and give a chance at friendships.
진짜 마음 아프네요
37 is not old, you still have the rest of your life ahead of you, why do you need to end your story so early. May you rest in peace, Young-ho.
Lmao meanwhile there is people like me (21M) who is psyching up to die 😂🤣
37 is old
@@Yy-gl8kuNo its not.
I am 18 Male But still I hate this world
Clearly you don't understand depression ,you might say you do but trust me you don't otherwise you wouldn't wrote these words in the first place ,I'm a 33 and survivor of severe depression and trust me I understand their pain ,37 with that kind sickness that make you lose taste for life is surely a death sentence ,I know suicide is not an answer but that's what this killer illness does to people .
Sometimes staying alone is better than being with a toxic family.
I totally agree! I need time away from my annoying family!
What are you talkin about staying alone can never be okay or better than being around family's that always disagree or have problems don't get along as human beings we have a papers..... living alone is a mental illness
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjgood luck with that u ar not going to feel any better God and family is the most important thing in any human life without this you will live a very miserable life 😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@aminuaidara8601 How do you know that? My family has used and abused me for years. I am better off without them.
@@aminuaidara8601 In Bolivia a drug adict mother sold away her baby to buy more drugs for herself and the baby got...well...I think if I tell you what happened this comment will get deleted. Some parents are terrible and don't care. Not everyone has a good family.
I've been struggling with few issues myself and last year was the worst one but I'm glad this year I'm just way stronger than ever. I'm sure 2024 will be even better. Believe it or not after years of fighting my inner demon, I'm finally enroll in my fav college, lose a lot of weight and can look in the mirror without feeling disgusted by how I look. My parents are my ultimate supporters. But for most of these cases, they got nobody that support them when they were at the lowest point. If my parents weren't around all these years, I'm sure I may not be able to write this today. I'm learning to love my life now.
❤ u hv good parents, cherish them as they cherish you. Family is all.
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
What a great documentary, and what a devastating state of affairs. I felt so much for the girl that had written the suicide note, and the guy who had shut himself off from the world. You could feel their pain.
I thought you said what a great democracy for a second 😅
이런일들이 계속 일어나고 있는데 우울증이라고 하면 너무 가볍게 본인 의지가 달린 문제라고 부모님세대들은 그렇게 생각하는 경우가 많은 것 같아요… 절대 그렇지 않은데
Every culture is like that. I respect your opinion. You seem like a decent person. God bless u
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
I live in Greece and its the exact same situation here.
Behind the sea, islands and the sun there is a far darker reality. How did we mess up as a society that much?
It's okay to cry when life gets hard
I needed this message thank you from Uganda 🇺🇬
We all need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
I hope the man does not feel guilty about not picking up the phone. It's not his fault.
Yeah 😢😢 i kinda feel bad for him. He spoke with so much regret in his voice.
This is so sad, I really wish if people could be more nice to eachother.
We could at least help others even if we don't know them, listening to others and comfort them would make you also feel good. Please be nice and at least smile to others because that smile might save a soul...
This is so sad. Are there organisations to help these people? Financial problems are definitely a big cause to commit suicide but it seems that some of these people end up isolating themselves in the fear of being judged due to societal pressure ie the girl who failed her exams. The guy in the video is already going down the rabbit hole. I hope someone gave him assistance after interviewing him. I think these days we need to teach people to seek for help, sometimes its best to drop your pride and ask for help when needed
Sadly it’s quite easy to spiral when getting a work injury or not being able to study due to mental health issues and then failing exams.. the help is just not good enough. Especially mental health services need a lot of progress in SK…
@oceanstaiga5928 well hopefully documentaries such as these can help koreans become aware of the prevalence of this growing issue... bringing awareness of an issue is the first step to change
There is no such thing as "dropping your pride" in depression, it has already gone, and many feel worthless. This is why they self-isolate, seeing themselves as a burden. The depressed person eventually becomes numb inside and stops caring about anything as they no longer find joy in anything (anhedonia). They become depersonalized from self and others. This may lead to derealization. All worth looking up for the uneducated before making rash comments like "drop your pride". I am not trying to be mean to you, your response had compassion, but this is an oft made mistake by family or friends. Another unhelpful comment is "pull yourself together", if they could, they would. Depression is exhausting for the person and their helpers.
I am well aware of the difference between endogenous depression, reactive depression and dysthimia.
Life is unpredictable and fragile...it's ok to worry cuz as humans we don't live in a perfect, secured society.
Have u thought about whether u go 2 heaven or hell after this life? Cuz life is short & fragile. Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's hope...
Fortunately there's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, and not to get tired anymore.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you. Imagine everyone will respect each other. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have such a perfect, eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
Living in Korea for 4 years now … and I don’t think it’s specially because of Korea but I never felt lonelier in my life ! I used to live in a oneroom alone and just go to my university… it was only when one of my colleagues who isn’t Korean noticed how distant I became .. he said u need to visit a counselor or therapist and talk it out ! At that time I became homeless because of heavy rain that happened in 2022 And even my one room was totally ruined ! I talked to the counselor for a little bit .. and she suggested that I should find a tworoom or a sharehouse and not to live alone !
Now I have been leaving since December in a sharehouse and though my flat mates mind their own business… having someone around prevented me from the unthinkable!
I once caught myself thinking about ending everything like why should I be hurting like this .. then I just remembered my family why should I allow myself to end my suffering but cause it to them …
I am trying my best everyday…
I just want to say there is always hope !
Stay strong friend
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Let's hang out if you have free time. I live near Hanyang University.
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We all need to be more compassionate a bit of kindness goes a long way may these young people rest in love and peace ✨🕊️
I'm filipino and Proud of the culture we have here no matter how difficult life is but the resilience and ingenuity make us strong and live happily.We find happiness on every small things.Life is meant to live ❤
This made me drop to tears. If only they'd still keep in touch with their loved ones this may not have happened. To be loved and cared during difficult times is a strength in weakness. To bring laughter to the loneliest is a great achievement.
Maybe their love ones cut ties with them.
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
You're a decent person. May God bless you ❤
@@small_fries7573thank you ❤ God bless you too ❤
@@JJT08219 are u a Christian ✝️?
So true but sadly some may not have loved ones. Like those who are an only child and their parents passed. If they are single then they have no immediate family members left. More distant relatives may not care about them at all.
Im now 63 and had many family & friends die around me.
One thing that always gets me is how the world keeps turning, dosent stop for a split second, carries on as usual as if the passing of somebody means nothing...
Oh well, thats life...and death for yar !
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
Watching people pretending they cared at funerals is the one that gets me.
@@mikepereira2273
Exactly.
@@marysmith7596Is this your blog now? Shove that religion up your arse.
Hi ^^ i was diagnosed with F32.2 since 6 month ago.. its really hard to make people around me to understand how my struggles because depression is very abstract in my mind...
like.. you will never understood if you not experience it by yourself.
Please stay strong no one can understand what you going through 😢
Wow this documentary is SUPER sad! Poor things 🥺
I really can’t finish this one right now. Gonna have to come back. Truly breaks my heart for how lonely and sad these people were. To not be missed for months by anyone is so very sad, they way they just cut themselves off from everyone as not to feel like a burden. I really hope that the powers that be can wake up to the mental health crisis in South Korea.
It is sad but is not just a Korean issue only.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I know it’s not. But South Korea has the highest suicide rate of any developed country. It’s an epidemic there. Not enough is being done to tackle the mental health crisis.
@@sarahcasias823 I agree and Korea has so many social problems that they just sweep under the rug. But sadly doing that will just make things worse.
This is a global issue. Speaking from a former medical examiner. You don’t have to look far in America to find this. It’s right in your backyard. Open your eyes, or your nose, and you’ll find it.
I feel so sorry for the young girl that did not pass her exam by 1 point. Please don't give up! keep striving forward and you will pass. I was in that situation where all my friends graduated from university. I lost all contact with them and to be honest spiraled into severe depression. But I think this is where my experience differs from those poor South Korean individuals that decided to commit suicide or are experiencing depression. If I was born and raised in South Korea, I think I would have committed suicide in 2014. The crucial difference is the cultural value and support-system of FAMILY. I come from the Pacific where family ties are strong, we openly speak about our problems with our elders or it is mostly our parents and grandparents that sit us down and we talk about our problems. Even siblings and senior members of our families correct and encourage us even in our darkest times. What I am trying to get across is, please maintain or establish communication with family members or friends who are willing to listen and talk with you. Be open and form friendship that make you smile, laugh, happy and encourage you. 💖
I can say as someone in their early 30s depression sucks ive had a shitty past so thats where it starts and then im stuck with bills upon bills and just when i think i have a plan to get caught up another biller says they gonna cut me off and a domino effect happens everything comes crashing, i cant afford a car, cant afford a house, sometimes barely afford groceries am charged taxes cause im single its a tough cruel world and I hold onto hope that it will get better but honestly who knows
Getting off of social media is a start. It’s really sad what these kids are going through. I hope some of these kids break this vicious cycle and live more of a joyful life.
This is true stay away from social media and beauty standards
I went to korea one time and that was enough for me. People are cold and I was only there for a few days. It was a cultural shock for me for sure.
Did people just walk away as if it's not their problem even when they noticed someone needed help?
This is incredibly sad to watch and I hope they have now found peace. I feel for them and I feel with them. I am constantly fighting the urge to cut myself off and give up like this. It’s hard to have the energy to want to get better. Especially the older you get
Please you need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
i don't know why i got finished watching this video but its worth to watch and i thank for the uploader for giving the awareness.giving you wish to continue this very informative and self awareness program and more power to your channel.sending love from Philippines❤
i just wanted to start another thread here. All comments here except for one guy, were so positive and super supportive. I have to thank K-Doc for covering this very topic and making us all face this hard topic straight on. I think this channel is amazing and i learned a lot about past and current Korean state of affairs so thank you K-Doc. Please continue to support those people without power who needs a spot light.
Thank you so much K-Doc for this work, I’ve so much to say I don’t know where to start. South Korea’s societal problems are very clear to us westerners, but can’t be fully acknowledged and dealt with by Korean society itself. Poor housing, material possession chase, old cultural values are some of the contributing factors to this crisis.
Housing: it’s crazy to me that a grown human being would be living in such “mental health causing” environments. Tiny living space where everything (eating, cooking, sleeping, bathroom) takes place in one space. This alone creates psychological problems
Material wealth chase: when I observe Korean society, this’s what I see. Too much pressure and emphasis is put on getting rich and achieving some sort of financial success that is deemed acceptable to the society. Also, not allowing your children to study for knowledge sake and not “higher grades”. It’s absolutely heartbreaking to see ….
Cultural values: South Korean youth are victims of the cultural values, values that limit self expression and comforting encounters. Too much hierarchy limiting social interactions as fellow humans ….
All these issues lead back to “causing mental health” issues which inevitably, displays it’s in this. I truly hope one day soon, lawmakers in South Korea will look into the mental wellbeing of their young generation and come up with appropriate policies/laws/ help that is desperately needed for its young people.
@@iamnananagatsuki6917 I’m not trying to impose my “westernised views” 😏😅, am simply saying; as humans, we have to evolve to do better, that’s all. Ignoring what makes us better collectively, under the disguise of “cultural values”, never got any society anywhere!
If something like science can bring all cultures into agreement, human values should do the same. Starting with doing away with such excuses of being next to North Korea or whatnot….😌 What’s good for humanity goes beyond your cultural values! It’s 2023 for crying out loud ~ hahhaha
The “chasing of material possessions” can’t be compared to other developed countries where it’s a luxury and not something directly affecting one’s basic human needs. Just ask your young people why they would rather escape South Korea if given a chance, or why they call South Korea “Hell” 🥲
When you have a society where children, vulnerable individuals, women and young people aren’t respected, valued/cared for/ considered/ largely included; that society NEVER makes meaningful progress, ever! 😌
Very good points and very well said! But unfortunately these problems will take a long time to solve if they do get solved at all. The first step is to address them, however, the biggest problem is that the problems get swept under the rug and ignored so they just get worse.
@@iamnananagatsuki6917You made so many good points too. I totally agree with having dinosaurs in office. Here in the US, the presidents and people in Congress and other high positions are in their 70s and even 80s. I find it sad that they discriminate against regular citizens due to age but yet let elders run the country. It just doesn’t make sense.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I completely understand, am trying to provoke South Korea’s lawmakers to “pali pali” get a start on this 🥲😅😊 … Oh I remain hopeful indeed 🥲😓
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Ahh, them baby boomers I tell you 😫😤😅 … I totally agree with you too
God blessed you Uni,Oppa! fighting. we love you too,don't ever said that there's no hope ok?! there's are hope! keep it up !❤❤❤
Meu imagina que cruel, morrer sozinho.. num quarto abandonado, sem amor, sem amigo, sem sorrir, sem último abraço, sem as últimas palavras pra alguém q gosta, esquecido e encontrado meses depois já em estado de decomposição no próprio quarto.. que mundo cruel sei q não e fácil pra maioria mais q sacanagem esses episódios da vida real… enquanto uns tem de monte tudo na vida outros morrem sem ao menos entender o sentido dela.. descansem em paz todas essas pessoas..
Show kindness and lift each other up. Most people have struggles, so be kind.
Humans inherited sins. Single or double parents families, guardians, & grandparents don't teach their infants or toddlers to lie, steal food or toys, and to not admit their faults. When u were babies, u inherited sins cuz sin was passed down from our first human father, Adam. As we grow older, we sin more and our magnitude of sins grow more extreme. God doesn't allow sin in heaven.
Therefore if you want to spend eternity on heaven after your life here on earth 🌎, you should believe in your heart ❤️ that Jesus Christ is your Savior. If you don't, you will miss going to heaven and end up in the lake of fire. It is terrible so I beg you to make the only correct decision for God to allow you to go to heaven. Jesus Christ is the only way to eternal life. 🙏 Have a nice day.
Omg
This made me cried😭
I can imagine the amount of pains,heavy loads on their chest before they have to end it all😢😢
This video made me remember my life while growing without mom or dad to keep me in their warm arms, no family,no friends 😢 I slept in the church for days and sometimes uncompleted building😢
I didn’t give up on myself,I kept on pushing until I met my rescuer.
I think that’s the difference between Africa and other parts of the world we’re raised to learn how to speak up,we don’t pretend,we learn how to admit and find solutions,We don’t give up easily.
This is what we’re all supposed to be everywhere in the world,..
We should be a listening ear 👂 to each other, don’t be hard on yourself,you’ll enjoy this life only if you’re patient..
May the souls of the departed ones rest in peace ☮️
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸
*”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”*
♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️
*You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!*
1 John 5:13 KJB
Romans 5:6 KJB
“For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”*
*Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).*
*Romans 4:5*
*”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”*
*Galatians 2:21*
*”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”*
*Romans 1:16a*
*”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”*
*Ephesians 1:13*
“In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,”
*THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:*
15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures;
4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures:
*THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.*
To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️
Galatians 1:8
“But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”*
John 10:28
“And I give unto them eternal life; and
*they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.”
*Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB*
*”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“*
*A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:*
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*The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR*
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*Repentance* is *a change of mind*
*When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.*
*Romans 11:29*
*”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”*
*GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼
They gone need to have a "RELATIONSHIP" with JESUS NOT "RELIGION" TO GET INTO HEAVEN. Religion don't get you in heaven. Nicodemus in the BIBLE was religious it's the same today lots of people are religious "talk the talk" but don't "walk the walk" JESUS told Nicodemus he had to be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) to get into HEAVEN ST.OHN 3:3. Read about the Apostle Paul conversion by the HOLY SPIRIT on the road to Damascus this is the epitome of real christianity, the life that the disciples lived that JESUS CHRIST is talking about and unless a man is BORN AGAIN he will not enter HEAVEN and so this is why we want to teach children early the difference between religion and a true relationship with JESUS CHRIST. So this is also my witness to you "you must be BORN AGAIN(SAVED) if you want to enter HEAVEN and not HELL.
Man I love this youtube channel. Because of this channel I cannot watch all those Kdramas anymore.
My heart really aches for these people, dying alone and surrounded by mess. I hope one day people like this will have somewhere to go to so they won’t be alone in life. May they rest in peace 🕊️❤️
The pressures to be successful and provide are big. Life can be really tough. May those souls rest in peace.
I agree 👍. Societal perspective on success is overrated and narrow-minded. Thr values of a great citizen or family person should be important too. Unfortunately few asian countries like China, Korea, and Japan are very into monetary gains, career pride, & lacking effective way to live. That's y so many people die/suicide/forget what life is. 🙄 How can they not balance life out?
Young, middle aged, or the boomers. Death has no bias towards age. 😮 Everyone should think about where she/he goes after this life. 😅 Don't wait until the end comes, and death swoops down for you.
Have u ever thought about whether u go to heaven or hell after this life? Look at how many peeps die each day...but there's real hope...
There's a way to not suffer, not be in danger, not be poor, not get hurt, not have to work in vain, not have to feel any kind of negative vibe, & not to be disrespected anymore by anyone.
Imagine you will be invincible, immortal, and holy with a new, upgraded body. Imagine everyone around you will be the same as you without ranking/hierarchy. Isn't that a delightful thought? It's true you or anyone can have eternal life.
All you got to do is to accept Jesus Christ 🙏 as your Savior! Once you do, He will let you into heaven during your day when you finally see Him!
God does like you. You have to reach out to Him by prayers 🙏 ❤️ ♥️. Let Him know your issues 🙏 He is listening to you.
It's so sad that in their lonely moments they write those messages that sound like they're inflicting shame on themselves. It's a tough society in South Korea, but what's sad is that this is becoming the case in other parts of the world where people feel more emotionally and socially isolated. Sometimes we just need to ask people how they're doing or check in on them. I've worked in the corporate setting in the U.S. and everyone is so busy working that no one really bothers to really hang out outside of work. We made efforts, but after I left the job, it seems like people rarely connect with those outside of the company. Maybe they reach out when they need something. I wish we can restore some human kindness and reconnect with people without feeling like we owe each other something.
How are you? Hope u r well
Do u think going to like parks to meet strangers (same gender as u) would possibly help u find new friends?
Anywhere you can look for a friend on the train bus beach
Maybe if we could smile at eachother more and become more nice things would become better, life is already hard and being lonely would make it worse
Hope you find good people around you
I am so saddened to see young people living in these tiny, filthy little boxes without social contact or hope. It seems that theres a lot of pressure & if you dont meet the standard you isolate yourself & feel shame. Please know that you are worthy, you do matter and life can be good. Humans need the company of other humans & without it we can lose hope and die. There needs to be groups organised for these vulnerable people to have social support & assistance.
Me as a parent i always reach out to my Son & Daughter telling them hoe much i love them & if they have problem im always there for them
Thank you to the people who clean and respect the dead. Not an easy job, but God’s servants to care are precious. Bless them. Thank you 🙏💕
*Psalms 147:3* ❤️🩹🩸
*”He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”*
♥️ *ALL SOULS MATTER* ♥️
*You can KNOW for sure you are going to heaven!*
1 John 5:13 KJB
Romans 5:6 KJB
“For when we were yet without strength, in due time *Christ died for the ungodly.”*
*Jesus did it ALL and paid it ALL with His Blood, because we couldn’t without going to hell forever. False (works) gospels seek to exalt a sinner’s ability to save themselves, which is impossible, while the true gospel of our salvation exalts the Lord Jesus Christ alone and His shed Blood (Romans 3:25 KJB).*
*Romans 4:5*
*”But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.”*
*Galatians 2:21*
*”I do not frustrate the grace of God: for if righteousness come by the law, then Christ is dead in vain.”*
*Romans 1:16a*
*”For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth;”*
*Ephesians 1:13*
“In whom *ye also trusted,* after that *ye heard* the word of truth, *the gospel* of your salvation: in whom also after that *ye believed,* *ye were sealed* with that holy Spirit of promise,”
*THE GOSPEL* of *our salvation* is given to *us* specifically by *our* appointed *Apostle PAUL* in *1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJB:*
15 Moreover, brethren, *I declare unto you the gospel* which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand;
2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain.
3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that *CHRIST DIED FOR OUR SINS* according to the scriptures;
4 And that *HE WAS BURIED* , and that *HE ROSE AGAIN* the third day according to the scriptures:
*THE SIMPLICITY OF SALVATION: BELIEVE (TRUST) THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED-SHEDDING HIS BLOOD AS THE PAYMENT FOR ALL YOUR SINS, HE WAS BURIED & ROSE AGAIN THE THIRD DAY* on *YOUR behalf.* They very moment you *believe,* you will *receive* the *free gift* of salvation *instantly* and *irreversibly.*
To be *born again* means to be *saved* ♥️
Galatians 1:8
“But though we, or an angel from heaven, *preach any other gospel* unto you than that which we have preached unto you, *let him be accursed.”*
John 10:28
“And I give unto them eternal life; and
*they shall never perish,* neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.”
*Ephesians 2:8-9 KJB*
*”For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.“*
*A CLEAR-CUT PRESENTATION OF THE GOSPEL BY WHICH WE ARE SAVED:*
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*The Author Signed His Work | Psalm 44:4 - SUPERNATURAL NUMERICAL CODING of the King James Bible* *THAT PROVES GOD IS THE AUTHOR*
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*Repentance* is *a change of mind*
*When you change your mind about the way of salvation to believing (trusting) in Jesus Christ as your only way to Heaven, you have repented. Though it is natural to think that you can earn your way to Heaven by good works, you cannot. When you understand that you are a sinner and cannot save yourself, and instead trust in Jesus Christ as your only means of salvation, you have repented.*
*Romans 11:29*
*”For the gifts and calling of God are without repentance.”*
*GOD BLESS* 🙏🏼