Let me just say this. My friend based in UK sent Sandra a dm on Instagram. She was asking for the lady that married a dead man account number because she was so touched by her story. Sandra sent her own account details instead. My friend then said she wants the lady's account number, not hers. Sandra became rude and said she's the one taking care of the lady so all money must go through her and that if my friend does
Does not believe her, she should basically leave her alone because she has other people to respond to. My friend was shocked because of how Sandra has been asking people to help this lady, but when it came to it, she did not want my friend to help unless it came through her. So we understood that Sandra is making her money through all this people she's helping. And she wanted her own cut. My friend even said she had already donated to the go fund me acc, but Sandra still did not agree. Only God knows how much cut Sandra takes and how much is really going to those women. Nj knows that's where she's taking her money, which is by deceiving others. Can you then blame her if they are not on good terms
Nj’s family doesn’t have to attend they are all married and have their lives to leave and they also had a wedding so will they divide themselves? Please let’s not make this an issue besides they are adults I watch both them and I love both of them and I will not take sides period!
There will always be an element of truth in every rumour. People have been saying that they are not in good terms, pray God will help them resolve their issues 🙏🏽
I don't know why people are dragging this maid of honour of a thing. NJ didn't make Sandra her maid of honour so what's the stress. I am not sure that's the problem.
Thanks for your comment. No issue with NJ not being the maid of honour. She had her sister that is suitable. Someone rumoured that she was the maid of honour, she said she attended the wedding. That is what we are debunking. God bless you sis, have a great weekend ❤️
Lol, if we’re being honest Sandra knew Nelo, Nazom and co because of NJ. If you’ve been following closely these people on the other hand have a wedding that they’ve been planning for as well as attending. Please let’s not see wahala where there’s no wahala biko.
NJ looked so cold at that wedding....my issue is that they move in groups and that can't be healthy...if one fight with the other...the whole crew follow
The truth is Nj knows that majority of all the money Sandra has been raising for those Ldies has been going mainly into Sandra's pocket. As a friend if I see such I also would not be happy. Sandra was previously just managing, and since she started raising money (in dollars) she has become more buoyant. Of course she will pay herself because she has to travel and do other work but she's only giving that lady enough to show TH-cam watchers that she did something. Since then no more update. With the amount if money raised, the lady should be living in a much nice house and have enough in the bank to take very good care of her family. Nj has seen this and does not want to be associated with such. Who can blame her. Let Sandra do an update on how she spent all that money and give a full breakdown. This were people hard earned money.
They have issues it was so glaring. Nj was cold and the others in the bridal train were all married women she was supposed to be among them. She just came to show face.
Hey sis, thanks for your contribution. I don’t know anybody in the bridal train except for the younger sister. God will makes things better again. Thanks again ❤️
What are they saying even if there's no quarrel will she have a grown up younger sister like Jenny she will go out to look for maid of hounor? People should please try and mind their business
People like gossip my dear. Was Sandra in NJ's bridal train? Was it not Nelo that was also her maid of honour? Even if they have probs and so what. Are they not also human. These ladies should work hard and get content rather than gossiping up and down.
Dear Ma, You are wrong kindly watch the video to the end Banter NJ was there and was photographed with the couple. It is better you watch the whole video before you start your comment.
Yes she was there. If you notice I was commenting as I was watching. In the video, I also corrected it that NJ was there. Thank you for your observation and time. You are appreciated ❤️🙏
When two adults are in disagreement I don't like coming in between to settle your quarrel reason being that if they value their friendship they should sort things out themselves
Yes I’m there right now on her page, all of Banter nj family none of them wasn’t there. I only saw Nj after the wedding when nj Banter stood by Sandra’s husband to snap a photo on church steps. I saw nj right there. It’s seems something really going on I prayed they settle it before time. No, you’re saying the truth and I noticed most of time as if Sandra had been crying her face shows that.
Exactly sis, let call a spade a spade they are not in good terms, Sandra is a loveable person i know Sandra through NJ but if you ask me i subscribed to Sandra's channel and not NJ despite the fact that I do watch her channel. Sandra was very well everywhere on NJS wedding even nazoms wedding she shows love to all her family, but her family doesn't reciprocate.. they are all in the village this yelutide season and they all don't show love to her.
Of a true there is a problem between them,I noticed this at Sandra's bridal shower, Nj was no where to be found. But they will come through by God grace.
I love how you pay attention to the smallest detail. I have seen that video and didn't even notice NJ until the taking of photographs. I love how you are straight to the point too. Everything you said is very obvious to everyone that watches their videos well. So, well done. Thanks for sharing with us.
Sis, I felt like crying when I saw NJ’ countenance. We know how NJ would have performed if things were fine. Please God bring them back together. Thanks for your comment ❤️
Aunt mi! God bless you! NJ used her own sister for maid of honor who was married. I don't see anything wrong with Sandra using her own sister! Whatever it is, NJ should have kept her anger for that day. E pain me sha!
Hey sister, how are you doing. In fact you are blessed! I didn’t even think that way. Yes, Sandra was not her maid of honour, so Sandra has the right to use her sister as her maid of honour. Thanks for watching ❤️
Well said ma i really want them to resolve their issues, i watched when Sandra was doing her traditional marriage, Banter with NJ was active during the preparation. I like their friendship and i really want them to come back the way they use to be.
She made sandra who she is, but if sandra gone pass nj i bet she dont like it. I hope its not jealousy! Bc, theres no way i would leave my sister and put my friend. Whatever it is, they better get it together quickly. Bc you can see it on her face, and all theyre doing, is giving vloggers more to talk. Some pple make you, but you must not come off of their shoe sole, you must stay under their feet.
Hello sis, you are very correct at your point that jealousy could erupt if one is doing better than the other. That is human being for you, we all have the traits in us; but it depends on how we handle it. If you discard the thought, it will die and if you keep dwelling on it, it will take root in your heart and you will start acting up. Also, the second point that when some people helped us, they want to string us around their waist to be controlling, is very correct, and when you refuse, you will become their worst enemy. It happens, but I don’t see NJ in such image. She was celebrating Sandra’s progress all through. Thank you very much for this reasonable perspective ❤️❤️❤️👍👍
EVERYONE SHOULD STOP BEATING AROUND THE BUSH..AND..LET US ALL STOP BEEN HYPOCRITICAL TOWARDS THIS ISSUE BETWEEN SANDRA AND NJ..WE REALLY NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT FACT THAT THERE'S A HUGE MISUNDERSTANDING GOING ON WITHOUT BEEN DISTRACTED?
Thanks jare sister mi, many people that know the truth reacted otherwise. It is glaring and all we are for is peace and settlement. Thanks for watching ❤️
Ni just made a fool of herself at sandras wedding. She shouldn’t have attended honestly because it shows all over her that she’s not happy and looks really COLD.
Sandra was every where in NJ wedding..now even if NJ has issues with Sandra,so nelo can't attend the wedding as well? They think money is everything rubbish..I am not a fan of any of them,I just watch their whatever but u see nelo and her family on TH-cam they just need to learn.... seriously
@@bolasdiarytv I think they are in good terms because NJ was part of the celebrations. If they are no longer close I don't think she would have attended the wedding
I was happy to see NJ witness Sandra's wedding. It's was really hard for Me because we all know how Sandra went over and beyond but in this case it's glaringly contrary. In all of Sandra pre wedding videos we have not seen any change in Sandra's containance. She's been herself and happy. I think NJ had enough respect, knowing to give Sandra at least the minimum coutersy of attending her wedding apart from trying to de-escalate the roamors of the drifting relationship. She was cordial but not celebratory. And the camera don't lie. I don't want to rock the boat . Is it the new relationships that Sandra is cultivating that is making their relationship estranged. All the bridesmaids were very welcoming and happy to see her. I'm sure these two will move pass this .
Hello Doreen, thank you very much for this honest comment. We don’t need to rock the boat like you rightly said. I am surprised to see people shy away to say the truth. People were trying to be careful by sitting on the fence. God sees my heart that I want the best for both of them. Thanks again darling sister, I am entitled to my opinion and I have said it. Love you sis❤️❤️❤️
Let me just say this. My friend based in UK sent Sandra a dm on Instagram. She was asking for the lady that married a dead man account number because she was so touched by her story. Sandra sent her own account details instead. My friend then said she wants the lady's account number, not hers. Sandra became rude and said she's the one taking care of the lady so all money must go through her and that if my friend does
Imagine!!! Na waa. Thanks for sharing sis❤️❤️❤️
Does not believe her, she should basically leave her alone because she has other people to respond to. My friend was shocked because of how Sandra has been asking people to help this lady, but when it came to it, she did not want my friend to help unless it came through her. So we understood that Sandra is making her money through all this people she's helping. And she wanted her own cut. My friend even said she had already donated to the go fund me acc, but Sandra still did not agree. Only God knows how much cut Sandra takes and how much is really going to those women. Nj knows that's where she's taking her money, which is by deceiving others. Can you then blame her if they are not on good terms
A TH-camr accused her of trying to block her mum from being helped by a subscriber then.
I'm not surprised.
I also have the screenshot of the messages (if my friend does not mind me sending them)
@@nsegio1475 Please send them to me on instagram… bolas_diary. Thanks
Nj’s family doesn’t have to attend they are all married and have their lives to leave and they also had a wedding so will they divide themselves? Please let’s not make this an issue besides they are adults I watch both them and I love both of them and I will not take sides period!
There will always be an element of truth in every rumour. People have been saying that they are not in good terms, pray God will help them resolve their issues 🙏🏽
Amen and amen. I felt like crying when I saw how cold NJ was. Thanks for watching dear sister ❤️
@@bolasdiarytv You are very welcome sis
@@bolasdiarytv honestly i felt so uncomfortable watching Nj's body language...so cold...kai! God please restore peace and unity between them 🙏
@@chinwe2740 Amen and amen! Thanks sis❤️
173like amazing video you uploaded be successful.your new friend is here i hope our friendship continue forever
Hey sis, thank you very much for the love. I appreciate you❤️❤️❤️
I don't know why people are dragging this maid of honour of a thing. NJ didn't make Sandra her maid of honour so what's the stress. I am not sure that's the problem.
Thanks for your comment. No issue with NJ not being the maid of honour. She had her sister that is suitable. Someone rumoured that she was the maid of honour, she said she attended the wedding. That is what we are debunking. God bless you sis, have a great weekend ❤️
Lol, if we’re being honest Sandra knew Nelo, Nazom and co because of NJ. If you’ve been following closely these people on the other hand have a wedding that they’ve been planning for as well as attending. Please let’s not see wahala where there’s no wahala biko.
God bless you sis. Your contribution is very well taken onboard. ❤️❤️❤️
True talk
Thanks babe , and God bless you and yours🙏❤️
NJ looked so cold at that wedding....my issue is that they move in groups and that can't be healthy...if one fight with the other...the whole crew follow
You have said well sis, thanks for your contribution ❤️❤️
As in!!! It's too bad. When it's not a mafia thing. Tufia kwa!
The truth is Nj knows that majority of all the money Sandra has been raising for those Ldies has been going mainly into Sandra's pocket.
As a friend if I see such I also would not be happy. Sandra was previously just managing, and since she started raising money (in dollars) she has become more buoyant. Of course she will pay herself because she has to travel and do other work but she's only giving that lady enough to show TH-cam watchers that she did something. Since then no more update.
With the amount if money raised, the lady should be living in a much nice house and have enough in the bank to take very good care of her family.
Nj has seen this and does not want to be associated with such. Who can blame her.
Let Sandra do an update on how she spent all that money and give a full breakdown. This were people hard earned money.
We cannot pretend forever. It will be out.
Congratulations to Sandra and her family
Sandra and NJ should make peace, NJ was In Sandra's wedding, but things are not right
Things are not tight at all. Thanks for your time sis❤️❤️
Nj acted weired,unlike when she Nj got married,Sandra was there for her
Maid of honour is not for marriage woman, please everyone should leave NJ alone,we didn't know what she is passing through
They have issues it was so glaring. Nj was cold and the others in the bridal train were all married women she was supposed to be among them. She just came to show face.
Hey sis, thanks for your contribution. I don’t know anybody in the bridal train except for the younger sister. God will makes things better again. Thanks again ❤️
This is so painful my dear sis. We really need to pray for them in Jesus Name
Amen. Thanks for watching ❤️
What are they saying even if there's no quarrel will she have a grown up younger sister like Jenny she will go out to look for maid of hounor? People should please try and mind their business
People like gossip my dear. Was Sandra in NJ's bridal train? Was it not Nelo that was also her maid of honour? Even if they have probs and so what. Are they not also human. These ladies should work hard and get content rather than gossiping up and down.
Congratulations to Sandra 💟 thanks sis for sharing
She was looking so beautiful. Thanks for watching ❤️
It's obvious that these people are not in good terms.
It would have been better if she didn't go than this.
Eeyah, maybe she just felt she needed to be present. Thanks for watching and commenting.
Sure, their body language says it all. May God reconcile them.
Dear Ma, You are wrong kindly watch the video to the end Banter NJ was there and was photographed with the couple. It is better you watch the whole video before you start your comment.
Yes she was there. If you notice I was commenting as I was watching. In the video, I also corrected it that NJ was there. Thank you for your observation and time. You are appreciated ❤️🙏
When two adults are in disagreement I don't like coming in between to settle your quarrel reason being that if they value their friendship they should sort things out themselves
Thanks for watching and commenting. Yes, as adults they should be able to sort out their differences amicably
Besides Nelo was with Sandra when she got her wedding reception dress and took them out in PH!!
Yes I’m there right now on her page, all of Banter nj family none of them wasn’t there. I only saw Nj after the wedding when nj Banter stood by Sandra’s husband to snap a photo on church steps. I saw nj right there. It’s seems something really going on I prayed they settle it before time. No, you’re saying the truth and I noticed most of time as if Sandra had been crying her face shows that.
Amen. Thanks for watching and commenting ❤️
They didn't even comment! 😢😭 Omo! I feel bad
Exactly sis, let call a spade a spade they are not in good terms, Sandra is a loveable person i know Sandra through NJ but if you ask me i subscribed to Sandra's channel and not NJ despite the fact that I do watch her channel. Sandra was very well everywhere on NJS wedding even nazoms wedding she shows love to all her family, but her family doesn't reciprocate.. they are all in the village this yelutide season and they all don't show love to her.
Hello na.e sake, thank you very much for your observation. I appreciate your comment ❤❤
Of a true there is a problem between them,I noticed this at Sandra's bridal shower, Nj was no where to be found. But they will come through by God grace.
Amen and amen! Thanks is our prayer sis. Thank you for watching and commenting ❤️❤️
Congratulations to her and I pray peace rain thanks for sharing
Amen. Thanks very much ❤️
Yes sis you are right because on her other marriage she was there for her through
Yes sis, it is glaring. Thanks for watching sis❤️❤️❤️
I love how you pay attention to the smallest detail. I have seen that video and didn't even notice NJ until the taking of photographs. I love how you are straight to the point too. Everything you said is very obvious to everyone that watches their videos well. So, well done. Thanks for sharing with us.
Hello darling sister, thank you very much for watching and commenting. We pray that God will bring peace to the friendship. Thanks again
This is where I saw nj taking pictures together.
There definitely something.nice reaction sis
Thanks for watching sis
I don't like what I saw, there is problem between Sandra and NJ
Sis, I felt like crying when I saw NJ’ countenance. We know how NJ would have performed if things were fine. Please God bring them back together. Thanks for your comment ❤️
@@bolasdiarytv na wa🤔🙄 I noticed alot
NJ was so cold. The lord will intervene 🙏
@@bolasdiarytv mmmmh! One thing we should know, God does not take order from anyone before blessing anyone 💪🤞🤔
I observed the same about NJ. I pray whatever it is may they reconcile back.
Hey sis, thanks for watching. I say a big amen to the prayers.
Same here 🤔
Aunt mi! God bless you! NJ used her own sister for maid of honor who was married. I don't see anything wrong with Sandra using her own sister!
Whatever it is, NJ should have kept her anger for that day. E pain me sha!
Hey sister, how are you doing. In fact you are blessed! I didn’t even think that way. Yes, Sandra was not her maid of honour, so Sandra has the right to use her sister as her maid of honour. Thanks for watching ❤️
Yes NJ was there at her wedding but she is not the maid of honour
I don't know what happened but I would like to think that Sandra has being 100% loyal to NJ. She literally made Sandra who she is (figuratively)
Very correct ❤️❤️
I know when they were together I say it from the begging that two of them are not in good time
You are very correct. Thanks for watching sis
There is something going on with them… and I believe sooner or later they will make up. May God help them. My bell is on for more content
Amen and amen. Thanks for commenting sis.❤️
Congratulations to her thank for sharing
Thanks for watching sis❤️
Well said ma i really want them to resolve their issues, i watched when Sandra was doing her traditional marriage, Banter with NJ was active during the preparation. I like their friendship and i really want them to come back the way they use to be.
Hey sis, thanks for watching and commenting. They will come back in Jesus name. We the social media family will pray to God to make peace❤️
She made sandra who she is, but if sandra gone pass nj i bet she dont like it. I hope its not jealousy! Bc, theres no way i would leave my sister and put my friend. Whatever it is, they better get it together quickly. Bc you can see it on her face, and all theyre doing, is giving vloggers more to talk. Some pple make you, but you must not come off of their shoe sole, you must stay under their feet.
Hello sis, you are very correct at your point that jealousy could erupt if one is doing better than the other. That is human being for you, we all have the traits in us; but it depends on how we handle it. If you discard the thought, it will die and if you keep dwelling on it, it will take root in your heart and you will start acting up. Also, the second point that when some people helped us, they want to string us around their waist to be controlling, is very correct, and when you refuse, you will become their worst enemy. It happens, but I don’t see NJ in such image. She was celebrating Sandra’s progress all through. Thank you very much for this reasonable perspective ❤️❤️❤️👍👍
D intro got me to subscribing
Thanks very much. Welcome to the family?
But NJ was at the Church wedding period
EVERYONE SHOULD STOP BEATING AROUND THE BUSH..AND..LET US ALL STOP BEEN HYPOCRITICAL TOWARDS THIS ISSUE BETWEEN SANDRA AND NJ..WE REALLY NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT FACT THAT THERE'S A HUGE MISUNDERSTANDING GOING ON WITHOUT BEEN DISTRACTED?
God bless you for me! Beating about the bush for real❤️❤️
Yes Banter was not the maid of honour i pray they settle their différents
Amen o
I saw the picture two friend had, but i sensed uneasy on them two faces. Truly something is not well
The lord will intervene 🙏🙏. Thanks for watching
ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS.
N J was at the church wedding
She was
I saw Banter with N J when they were taking pictures
Yes, she attended. Thanks very much sis
I like that fact that you point out the truth without beating round the Bush
Thanks jare sister mi, many people that know the truth reacted otherwise. It is glaring and all we are for is peace and settlement. Thanks for watching ❤️
Nawaoooh. We are watching
Thanks very much for watching ❤️
NJ was actually at the church
Yes she was, I paused the video to show her.
Ok ,thanks my dear
NJ was figeting in the video. But I would expect Sandra to manage, handle this issue.
NJ is quiet. They will be back together in Jesus name. Thanks for watching and commenting, you are appreciated.
Ni just made a fool of herself at sandras wedding. She shouldn’t have attended honestly because it shows all over her that she’s not happy and looks really COLD.
Thanks very much for watching sis. ❤️❤️❤️
There was a wedding in Nelo family same day. NJ came to the wedding.
Good
Finally someone said it.
Congratulations to Sandra
Thanks sis
Mami you are right
Thanks for watching sis.
You have spoken well
Thanks very much for watching ❤️
NJ was there but not as a maid of honor
Nawa ooo so finally something we happen
Something is wrong sis. We pray for peace🙏
NJ was at here wedding
Yes she was.
There is obviously a problem
Sandra was every where in NJ wedding..now even if NJ has issues with Sandra,so nelo can't attend the wedding as well? They think money is everything rubbish..I am not a fan of any of them,I just watch their whatever but u see nelo and her family on TH-cam they just need to learn.... seriously
Her actions were so cold...she shudv stayed home.period!
Hey... But it was a good think that atleast NJ s husband attended the reception. Its sad that Nelo and the others didn't even pop up...
Yes sis, I saw the husband.
Nelo brother in law was getting married around the same time … so it’s good that NJ & the husband even dropped by
@@victoriaezekwemba5802 You are very correct sis, I watched the video of the wedding on NJ’s channel.
@@victoriaezekwemba5802 Yes sis, there was a wedding in their family too. Thanks for watching and commenting, I appreciate ❤️
I hope all is well with these two
Hey sis, we pray all is well in Jesus name.
@@bolasdiarytv I think they are in good terms because NJ was part of the celebrations. If they are no longer close I don't think she would have attended the wedding
@@thandiwejambawa7827 God bless you sis, that is why we want for them. No devil will separate them🙏 thanks for your time❤️
Weldon sister
Thanks sis.
I was happy to see NJ witness Sandra's wedding. It's was really hard for Me because we all know how Sandra went over and beyond but in this case it's glaringly contrary.
In all of Sandra pre wedding videos we have not seen any change in Sandra's containance. She's been herself and happy. I think NJ had enough respect, knowing to give Sandra at least the minimum coutersy of attending her wedding apart from trying to de-escalate the roamors of the drifting relationship.
She was cordial but not celebratory. And the camera don't lie. I don't want to rock the boat . Is it the new relationships that Sandra is cultivating that is making their relationship estranged. All the bridesmaids were very welcoming and happy to see her.
I'm sure these two will move pass this .
Hello Doreen, thank you very much for this honest comment. We don’t need to rock the boat like you rightly said. I am surprised to see people shy away to say the truth. People were trying to be careful by sitting on the fence. God sees my heart that I want the best for both of them. Thanks again darling sister, I am entitled to my opinion and I have said it. Love you sis❤️❤️❤️
@@bolasdiarytv ♥️♥️♥️
Hello mama
Hey sue, thanks for coming❤️