The Time Blindness TikToker Responded
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- Time blindness, a hot topic on TikTok recently due to a video made by a TikToker named Chaotic Philosopher. Today, we look at her response and talk about why it is still off the mark.
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As someone with time blindness who used to lose track of time very often, i will literally write on the back of my hand, put sticky notes on surfaces that i look at/pass by often, and set an obscene amount of alarms to make sure things are done and I'm on time.
Same!! I'll have things on my calendar, on my fridge, on my phone, alarms on my phone, and on my Alexa... I can't be 'trusted' with time. Lol!!
I have ADHD. You can get ritalin, but ADHD and drug addiction tend to go hand to hand.
Yeah I’ve got autism, time blindness and ocd where if I don’t do certain things then the devil will steal my soul……stupid yes BUT I have built my life in a way to make sure I get things done. Do I fail? Yes but that’s on me and I don’t put my responsibilities on others and blame society. I blame society for other things, but my things are my things.
@@Skoopyghost are you saying you have a drug addiction? If so, I would suggest rehab.
@@xlikeafishyox what I said was out of concern, what you're saying is out of just being rude 🤷🏾♀️ I suggest personal research though
I totally understand her struggle. As someone with cocaine blindness, I often have no clue how much cocaine I've already snorted.
I get that as well but with kratom and weed. lol
Lmao
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Yeah that’s not funny… there so many people with invisible disabilities that no one can see and people make fun and dismiss it. She is not anything people are saying she is because she asked for accommodations.
She asked for that because she wanted help, because she wanted to be and do better. Is it really that bad for her to want to get help so she could succeed? She even basically asked for a councilor to help her… why is that bad? Why is asking for help wrong? Why is being able to receive help wrong?
I don’t understand…
Snowflame? is that you?
ADHDer here with terrible time blindness. We all have a portable alarm clock in our pockets/hands right now. Set daily alarms. I'm lucky that I have a very consistent schedule so I can set an alarm once and more or less forget about it (until it goes off, of course). I would never dare ask ANYONE (employer, friends, family, etc) to accommodate MY very much manageable symptom.
Another tip not too unrelated to time blindness: put writable surfaces all over your house to make notes, especially by places you pass by often (front door, kitchen, bedroom, bathroom). I have a desk calendar hanging on my fridge along with a legal pad. There's a notebook on my coffee table. Another notebook in my bedroom. My office is littered with sticky notes.
TL;DR: Alarms and sticky notes are your best friend.
You could say she was blinded by the light that August shined at her
Exactly. Good pun btw
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoomthank you good sir
@@fnfethusiast6508you’re welcome, my fellow man
Lmao
Classic 😂
Time blindness can mostly be self accommodated but some accommodations don't work for everyone, alarms are great until you get desensitized to them (I have time sensitive medication and it's really frustrating to wake up and realize I slept through my multiple alarms. I have multiple alarms to wind down for bed and I basically started ignoring them) It's important (if you're like me) to find lots of self accommodations that you can kind of rotate and cycle through. I put sticky notes EVERYWHERE and that works well until it becomes background noise and I stop reading them. With some forms of ADHD you basically have to have flexibility and accept that there really aren't any long term solutions and you just need to have a lot of strategies for when one stops working. Sometimes its not even that the strategy doesn't work but that you need to do it slightly different. (Like putting my phone on my desk so I'm forced to walk over to it instead of just turning it off from bed or setting up a new alarm sound when I get too used to the old one.)
I just see a lot of comments acting like there's a definitive solution and it's not always like that. I do think schools should be more accommodating (cuz you're paying for your education) but those accommodations are more like access to counselors who can help you develop strategies rather than extra time windows because lectures are scheduled for a reason and sure you could argue that the 4 times late and you're out policy is super dumb (which I think it is because shit happens) but having access to counselors is way more important for developing long term strategies especially when you're young.
As a person with ADHD we do not want her in our group
As another person with ADHD I agree.
Fellow ADHDer here and yes, just wanted to make it very clear to the non-ADHDers that we don't claim her!!🚫
Same we dont claim her
ADHD poster child right here….she can kick rocks
@@stevieb7865 agreed
Aw, August…I TOO struggle with OCD. You described it perfectly. My ‘consequences’ always involve someone close to me dying. If I don’t open and close the fridge door 4 times my child is going to perish…that kind of crap. My OCD is mostly internal with a few routines I do with certain items around my house. I have to breath a certain way (or hold my breath) when I do the routines and I have to count in 4’s, all while not blinking. The internal part is where I ‘process’ thoughts and I have to do the breathing/counting/not blinking thing while I repeat thoughts in my head until I feel like I did it correctly. What’s really strange is that I tend to do it more when things are going WELL. It’s usually the opposite. Enough about me. I’m glad you’re doing better with the disorder.
Now, before I post this, I have to read, reread, and read again until I feel everything’s okay.
The cure for time blindness is as simple as setting an alarm on your phone.
I have ADHD and my life revolves around alarms, timers and schedules. I setup timers for everything because I forget.
I have OCD, anxiety disorders run in my family. I always hate when I tell people I have OCD and they are like "omg me too I have to keep all my pens straight or I lose my mind" meanwhile I can't relax because I have to do everything in sets of 3, everything on the left side, and continuously click buttons in divisions of 6 otherwise I feel like something I love is at stake. I also have to apply hand sanitizer after every interaction with a person I don't know.
If you understand the concept of time and you’re usually late why not set your alarm 15-30 minutes earlier? Or set your clocks forward so you ‘trick’ yourself that It’s later than it is? Or set multiple alarms for when you need to do an important task? Or I am I just ignorant to how time blindness works?
Nope, you're not. I set my clocks forward for that very reason. I've been doing this for such a long time & it's very helpful
You're 100% correct.
There's an easy fix with tech today, and you've nailed what it is.
All of my clocks are set forward a specific amount of time that is precisely unknown to me. I know it's roughly 10/15/20 minutes but it could be 12 or 16. The weird off numbering keeps me constantly checking the time and the time being forward makes me think I'm running late. There's loads of tips and tricks you can do.
Time blindness is a form of disassociating, it’s very different then just losing track of time. It’s honestly like you’re teleporting through out the day, you stop to do a simple task that you say is only going to take a few minutes you set time for when you stop timer goes off and you keep going… people with time blindness basically zone out and the only thing they can focus on is the thing they are doing. This is one example.
Another is them doing so much at one, again setting an alarm but not realizing it’s going off.
When people disassociate especially those with adhd it’s like they are just in this tiny void with themselves and what ever their mind directs them to do. It can be confusing to understand if you’ve never experienced disassociating…
There are different ways to help those with time blindness and there are so many different ways because there are so many different types of people with different types of adhd as it is a spectrum, and so is time blindness.
Hope this helps and feel free to ask me any questions ❤ remember people with adhd and/or time blindness are not lazy, irresponsible, selfish, or uncaring, their brains are just wired a little differently.
@@itzTeTe ugh... you said:
"Time blindness.. is very different then just losing track of time"
And then, since that's exactly what it is, you said it in a slightly different way:
"People with time blindness basically zone out.."
Just because you don't like how simple sounding a simplified explanation is, doesn't mean you get to go around and word-salad everyone.
Time Blindness is: Zoning out and losing track of time.😑
people have varying levels of severity with their symptoms, and some people may never be able to overcome certain symptoms. i wish people would treat mental health diseases the same way as physical health ones and accommodate accordingly. however, people that expect accommodations for things that just... can't be accommodated for, hurts people that are severely disabled who need realistic accommodations. there is so much need for these accommodations for people who have no control over certain symptoms, and someone asking for something unrealistic just deeply harms disabled people and makes others take disabled people, especially those with mental disabilities, even less seriously than they already do. also wanted to say if your so severely timeblind to the extent of not being able to work i think it's time to try for disability. just ugh it's frustrating because mental disabilities and any other disability that is "invisible" are already not taken seriously and shit like this just makes it so much worse...
I have time blindness (I have something similar to ADHD) although I know how to manage it, like setting multiple alarms throughout the day. It's not hard to manage
Cap
bro really said cap lol
@@Noifsnobutsnococonuts-rj4kk bruh
@@amandaaddario7342 sorry but if it’s a fake-ass disease I gotta call it out
@@kingnightmarevin fake ass illness
Quick reminder that there are accommodations that ARE valid. Some places have plans for disorders that are episodic that are a little more flexible on deadlines if that comes up. There also typically are things like test accommodations if you meet the criteria for certain physical or mental disabilities.
There is a difference between things you can and cannot take steps to account for. Time blindness is something you absolutely can adjust your schedule to meet your needs without outside help. Manic episodes you cannot. And while it's important to take into consideration which pathways your disabilities will prevent you from taking in life, you also deserve a chance to meet your full potential just like everyone else.
If you are struggling due to a disorder, reach out to your university's student disability office or a doctor and ask about what possible options there are for your future.
As somebody with adhd and time blindness myself, i feel like you can expect your family and friends to understand if you're late, but not your workplace and etc. Thats also what medication and alarms are supposed to help with.
When I was in school, before I was medicated for my adhd, I actively looked for a afternoon school. That specific school started at 3pm and ended at 10 it gave me more than enough time to get ready when I wake up in the morning, I’d often ride with my dad on his daily chores so once it was near opening time he would take me there about an hour early and I’d sit in the hall right near my classroom. Idk why she’s expecting people to accommodate that, she needs to find a later class schedule. Now that I’m out of school, I’ve found work that starts at 2pm so I can make it on time. Don’t expect people to accommodate you’re life when it’s not a disabling issue.
In my experience. Time blindness is just a huge waste of free time, either we think we have too much of it so we waste our personal off days doing things we didn't want to do, or we have no idea how much we have, so we sit around waiting for appointments to happen for hours so we won't be late. I showed up to work early even at 4am shifts, just sat in my car whatever extra time I had. If I ever thought I could stop for coffee I'd be late. So I bring my own coffee. I set like 20 alarms each minute up until I HAVE to wake up.
The accommodation she's looking for is something she needs to make for herself. No one else can see time for her, she has to grow up and figure it out. It's harder for us ADHD people but that's just how it is.
"my savior Jesus Christ-"
WOOHHH let's not bring the Lord into you getting slightly cancelled
You can absolutely accommodate time blindness in the workplace, if the work is compatible. For example, software development could be something simple like be in before X time and get your hours in. But for something like line work or emergency services, it wouldn't be possible. Don't know if the program she was talking about was compatible or not.
coming from a person with actual adhd, that have actually served in the us navy I really hate it when ppl use adhd as an excuse to not do anything in life or to get out trouble they cause. I fully stand by saying they are the scum of the earth. Even tho i have this disability i still woke up and got to work/duty on time everyday, because it’s honestly a me problem that CAN be fixed. Never used it as an excuse, and didn’t know that i had ADHD until my 3rd year in. Which means i got through my first 18 years to include 12 years of school, then basic training, a-school, fmtb (for all my AD/vets/Reservist that are in i was a HM when i was in) and some of my contract with NO EXCUSES. Mfs need to get offline and touch some grass, it’s not about how society can accommodate you and it will NEVER be that.
I am in a wheelchair on top of being autistic with ADHD. The way many of you talk about ADHD is really ableist. My ADHD is bad enough that it keeps me from being able to work a normal job. It isn't because I dont "try hard enough," ; I spent my youth constantly pushing myself beyond my threshold in order to keep my head above water, but as a now 30-something with fibromyalgia, I do not have the physical or mental energy to keep that up. While It's great that many of you know someone with ADHD who is able to manage their symptoms through alarms, notes, or other tips n tricks, for plenty of other with ADHD our symptoms are so severe that our brains won't respond to that. It's not a moral failing on our part as if we just lack the willpower to adhere to a schedule. Time blindness isn't ignoring my alarms. I set alarms. I acknowledge said alarms. I respond to said alarms by getting up with the intention of getting to where I need to go on time. But, It doesn't work because the alarm (or note or whatever) is not the issue. The issue is that I'll get up from the alarm, go to the bathroom to brush my teeth, then suddenly realize 30 minutes have gone by and I have no way of accounting for or explaining that loss of time. There's no life hack to fix that. My ADHD is one of the main reasons I am on disability income. My time blindness, forgetfulness, brain fog, my severe lack of executive function, my inability to finish tasks in a timely manner, etc., all made working extremely difficult for me to do effectively. The ironic thing is that the person in this video isn't even asking for workplace accommodations. She just wants to find a way to get an education. Why on earth is beteering one's self something to gate keep? What she's asking for arent even things a school would have to go out of their way for. She's basically asking for permission to come to class late, or to have lectures recorded, or to be able to attend a lecture virtually in the event of an absence-- all things we know can be easily accommodated thanks to covid. Personally, I think education should be made as easily accessible as possible. If there's an accomodation that can be made that allows more individuals to get an education, we should just do it. There is 0 benefit to saying, "You either find a way to function like your abled classmates or don't get an education at all."
I used to obsessively wash my hands a lot back in my school years too, a way of calming my brain down during times where I obviously couldn’t be excused every 5-10 minutes was by bringing along hand sanitizer. A little bottle could easily clip onto my bag and that was it, just want to put this out there for anyone who might have the same thought process lol
Oh goodness. She keeps making responses, I have a feeling I know where her blind time is going!
I have a lot of experiences with time blindness, and I'm split on "accommodations" as she frames it in this video and what that means. I'm probably the most time-blind person I know, but I'm still clocked in at work within 5 minutes. More often than not, time blindness means I make my appointments but forget important personal items. Time blindness means that the time I spend before an appointment is never relaxing, because I don't feel permission from myself to get *into* something engaging, and that is also influenced by task switching difficulties, which are another thing with ADHD/Autism. So my appointments are good, but I'm personally more stressed and less prepared.
This spawned from an argument with her mother, though, and I can kind of relate to how time blindness affects interpersonal relationships. Like, if she's just asking people to be more understanding rather than verbally badgering her for her mistakes, that's valid. It's hard to completely blank out on time and then have someone get angry at you and take it personally, like you don't "respect" their time over something that you just don't have as good a gauge on. Sometimes, our time blindness manages to "outsmart" the mechanisms we put in place to prevent it and there was never a conscious choice at all, so having someone else there to say, "hey, just so you know, we're leaving in 15," rather than yelling at you for not being "ready at this moment" can just make the situation worse.
I don't ask people for "accommodations" in a vague way, but I AM very specific on how people who are a part of my daily life (we do things/go places together, I help them, the help me) can help me with time blindness so that we can be both timely and prepared, and I won't need to worry about making a rest stop to purchase that phone charger I forgot to pack when we were rushing out. I ask for this help in the same way I ask for people to walk slower when my asthma is acting up and my inhaler needs a chance to kick in. Giving me advanced notice of things so I can put them in my schedule helps, rather than springing up things at the last minute that they themselves knew about well in advanced. Checking in with me about whether I have time for a deep online conversation before jutting into one can really help, in case I was just about to get into the shower or make dinner, because I think I'll just be talking for 10 minutes and 2 hours go by. These are all things I am capable of doing for myself and often do, but there is still a chance that, because of how time blindness and all of the other memory/functioning issues surrounding ADHD work, that I just forget to set that reminder.
So, I don't think it's helpful for her to discuss time blindness in such an isolated way. The things that make time blindness difficult for the people who experience it are very much influenced by other aspects of the disorder that causes it, e.g. ADHD, as well as PTSD and other disorders that cause disassociation. Time blindness alone wouldn't cause so many problems with those helpful aids, but the ability to get immediately distracted, to forget to set alarms,all of that sometimes works together in a way that some of us do need some extra help from the people who want to spend time with us. I mean, sometimes, you just get caught up in writing that quick youtube comment, and suddenly...
Well, shit. Just realized that I passively turned off my meds alarm while typing this. Lucky day, I caught myself. 😅
Hey August, thanks for sharing your personal struggles from your past with us. Glad you’re comfortable to share such information online. Wishing you well ❤
You're right, you know. As somebody with time blindness and ADHD. I've adjusted by making my appointments 10 or 15 minutes earlier in my calendar than they actually are. When I'm freaking out and rushing to get to the appointment, I forget this. It's nice because I get there and think I'm late when I'm actually on time!
I have ADHD & autism, & I struggle with sleep at night, & ofc in the morning I have a whole ass routine where I need to make the same breakfast I’ve been eating for years (without which I cannot function). I have been late to work which is 5mins away (or however long it takes me to walk from the kitchen to my desk in the living room 😂). Time blindness is real, but it’s not impossible to be on time most of the time. A 100 alarms for me are a must, but I never ask my job for accommodations for this cuz it’d be ridiculous! The world doesn’t revolve around me, & the time I need to start doesnt have to be the time I tell my brain I need to start. Usually, I always leave a 15mins window & trick my brain into thinking that I start 15mins before I actually have to, that way I make sure Im not late most of the time.
Adhd time blindness is real tho! I have alarms set to remind me of a task/having to leave house on time. But the time calculated for a task might be too little even if I have done the thing multiple times. I might notice a stain in the shirt I picked out the night before amd then will have to find another one (which is also hard because of sensory issues and the weather changing depending on the day etc.) so it takes time. Or when putting on outside clothes I might be missing a mitten or my chapstick has disappeared from my pocket... And then I have to find the item to be able to leave. I am doing a LOT of work to be on time because people find it rude if you're late and I want to be respectful to others. It's a constant struggle and every year I find a little something, a new trick that helps me improve. Having adhd doesn't mean you aren't responsible for you being late. I simply ask a little empathy.
This
LOLL i love the slow zoom in while you go on a rant
I honestly feel like this was one of your most insightful videos ever. The explanation you gave where you compared what she was asking for and how it was unreasonable to your OCD and washing hands compulsively as a child, and how you did not ask to wash your hands every 15 minutes or whatever because you recognized that it would be unreasonable was perfect.🎉
I have adhd time blindness, and am VERY generally neurodivergent (autism, odd, etc, etc), when I'm trying to get places on a schedule I use music to measure time, to accommodate for not having an internal clock.
There’s no way this is real.
If you ever end up with a gen z coworker you'll find out how real this kind of nonsense is. They all seem to have something broken in them like this, just in different ways.
@@Vincent_Beerspeople like this make me ashamed to be gen z
@@Brotato333 Same
Everyone under the age of 25 seems to have some type of MeNtAl IlLnESs which prevents them from being responsible for their own actions while also making them somehow special. Many peoples most interesting thing about them is their madeup illness.
@@Brotato333 your talking about it like your not also gen z
I feel like all the accomodation you need is an alarm on your phone, and the willpower to stand up and leave when it goes off...
Time blindness tends to lead to paycheck forgetfulness.
Something to keep in mind is there's an act called the, "The Americans with Disabilities Act" or ADA, which grants those with disabilities better working conditions. Now time blindness in itself isn't a disability but another way to call losing track of time. Though time blindness is WAY more prevalent in people with ADHD or ADD so she could get accommodations for that. This would be if she wasn't talking about her mom 💀
Time blindness is something that can be overcome with surprisingly little effort.
had a group mate with time blindness. always the last to finish up her part of ghe project, always the last to respond the group chats, always the last to submit the work. she's fucked me over so many times and damn near gave me a heart attack writing an essay last minute knowing damn will late submissions weren't accepted. however, always the first to leave class on the dot once time's up, always early when it came to meeting up and having lunch with the guy she secretly liked. always first in line when the cafe menu looks good.
We love you, August. You bring us great value, by bringing us joy. 🙂
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Lady, I'm not from the US or even N. America. Or any of the Americas. But listen to this
All my years growing up I wanted to be a vet. In retrospect I know I couldn't pass vet school because I'm not that good at memorizing a crap ton of details. I'm good at other areas of study, which was great.
Now, 'not good' is one thing. Not being able to do the work is another. I'm physically disabled from birth. No way I could do the job without tons of help or accommodations in my own private practice, let alone vet school. It was not realistic in any way, shape or form.
So I ended up getting over it and moving on with my life. It was painful but accepting my limitations in this reality was a great opportunity for growth. The end.
I mean, time blindness is a real thing, but not usually to the extent she says.
I can't tell how long passes between events unless it's days, and I lose track of what day it is easily. That's easily fixed by checking my phone or a calendar.
If someone were to say, "keep track of this task for x amount of time." Or if I had a set amount of time until needing to do something, I wouldn't be able to tell how long passes without an alarm. 5 minutes or 5 hours, if I am bored it feels the same, if I am having fun, it feels the same. But it's not THAT hard to solve. You just set an alarm and go when it alerts you.
All of the solutions available are on you, or MAYBE if you have a chill manager, you can ask them for help with timing things if you aren't allowed a phone at work.
What she wants is unreasonable. Autism and adhd IS a disability, and it's one I have to live with every day, but then it kinda defeats the point in trying to be taken seriously as adults when people like her try to have a voice for the community. She does more harm than good with this stuff.
Yes. Time blindness exists, but its not that deep.
ADHD has "time blindness", which I have when I read a book, for example. However, I allow myself that when reading a book because I know I do it when I actually have free time. The rest of the time I trained myself (for years) to always look at the time, either in the PC, in the clock on our wall or in the cellphone, to keep my mind from wandering, and reminding myself of how much time has passed.
So no, her excuses are not valid. If you can't get yourself to be a responsible person with your job, eff it, surround yourself with clocks and alarms.
So ADHD time blindness doesn't involve sleeping in too long. It's not being able to accurately or consistently experience the passage of time and/or not being able to judge how much time you actually have to complete tasks or get to an appointment. An accommodation, in her case, would be to allow up to 10 to 15 minutes late without it counting against her or to suspend the policy entirely. I myself deal with this with ADHD. My personal accommodation, which I impose on myself due to personal angsiety over lateness, is to be at least 30 minutes early to anywhere I need to be. It's the other option when dealing with time blindness, either be consistently 10 to 15 minutes late to everything or obsess over time and be excessively early to everything. Either way. ADHDers pay a tax for time blindness by missing out or losing copious amounts of their time that could've been dedicated to improving their lives. I get you don't understand, it's not easy to understand if you don't experience it, and she doesn't explain it well at all. I hope my explanation helps you to understand better, and realize that with time blindness, the pendulum swings to the unreasonable in either direction. Tight schedules are impossible for us.
I have struggled with time blindness and ive learned to constantly look at my phone or a clock its not something people will think about in the world because there are bigger problems in life so no one will sit there and babysit me because I can't keep track of time
About 2minutes into this video, I discovered that this was in fact, a video about America and it's school system, the land where you have to pay to get educated, still feels so weird to hear that.
I have a condition where, when someone demands that i provide compensatory actions to make them feel more normal, it makes me feel abnormal. I need accommodations from people demanding accommodations. They need to NOT ask me to CHANGE what I do, so they can feel normal. I want to feel normal too, so, just deal with your issues and i'll deal with mine.....
WTF happens when 2 people who need accommodations run into each other? do they play ro-sham-bo to find out who gets accommodation from the other?
Here's the thing. a lot of people are self diagnosing and demanding accomodations for their made up problems...
Like the duck said, we all have our own issues, stop making ME deal with YOUR issue.... duh..... That's how we grow as a person, we teach ourselves to alter our own situation, not demand others alter their situation for us....
As someone who has time blindness, I'm always early to work because I set up schedules for myself. Like getting ready at 2:20pm then going to the bus stop at 2:40pm cause the bus comes around 2:56pm. Making schedules really helps with keeping yourself more on time and keeps u aware of your surroundings :))))))))
She believes in a fantasy ruler. Lives in a fantasy world. Problem solved
As a person with ADHD to be specific attention deficit disorder I can sit still but I struggle to pay attention and I can say no one cares to the outside world my condition is just seen as laziness to those that do know it’s nothing more than a fun fact about you. The solution I discovered when I was young was to just deal with it as I kid I realized that complaining wouldn’t fix anything so you just deal with it, is fair no but as my mom always said the world isn’t fair
my father is colour blind and came from a very poor family but he managed to be a successful engineer, he said to me that these shortcomings does not stop him from being successful because it doesnt define who he is. No one knows that he is colourblind other than me, my brother, and my mother. he said, no one needs to know and it doesnt help him either telling it to everyone around him. It is you who can define your future.
I've never been diagnosed with OCD, but find myself tapping each step with my foot before actually stepping down on the step. I also have things that I do but they have to be in a certain order, otherwise I'm stressed out and have to start over again. That's just some of the odd things I do and have not a clue as to why i do them but I get really anxious if I don't. Maybe this is OCD, but I don't really know. I don't bother others with my "rituals" but it bothers me at times
Me, learning the the 4 times being late is also applied in other countries.
Though where I was it wasn't just being late. It was being absent *even with a doctor note*. And they counted in half days. So, two days of absence, in a WHOLE year, and you were failed.
As someone with very frequent migraines (multiple a WEEK) I listened to that the very first day and thought "well, I failed, no point in trying I guess" (I wasn't aware of accommodations by then)
Omg this makes the whole "shes incredibly entitled" thing so much sweeter. God what a terrible person
I have ADHD… also have time blindness… but I’m never late… I love it when they use it as an excuse to be lazy, having ADHD doesn’t mean your life is what it is it means you have to work harder than everyone else to do everyday life. Stop using your “disability” as an excuse 🤦🏽♂️
I have adhd and it does make it hard to manage time, but time blindness is a myth made to get easy sympathy
Time blindness isn't a disability it's a symptom of one and it can easily be solved by using your time responsibly. I had problems with time as a kid but i knew that saying I have time blindness wasn't an excuse so i really still don't know what she thinks she deserves
As someone who has time blindness, forgetful....
I'm a nightmare in employment
I have adhd and HORRIBLE time blindness, like to the point i will miscalculate time, but ppl dont realize it works both ways lmao. If you of problems with underestimating your time, overestimate. I work at 7am, it takes me 30 mins. Sometimes there is a 20 min back up so i leave an hour early. Sometimes im stupid early for work but i use that time to finish getting ready cause i underestimated my time to get ready so i can be on time for work lmao. Accommodations are for the person whose dyslexic and cant read well so they get extra time, or the adhd kid who cant take tests with the tapping of timmys pencil, not because i cant delegate my time better
There are jobs with flexible work time, you just need to get 8 hours a day, when you start and when you end is up to you. Also, everyone has struggles, I have overactive bladder and every commute was HELL to me! Hell! every travel at work was hellish, with each gas station, my coworkers would literally ask me "should we stop?" because they knew about the problem. But explaining it to new people at new jobs all over again... Now I am allowed to work at home, and commute and public transport is still struggle for me, but keep in mind I worked 30 years with this issue! And 27 was with commute. So, we do have our own struggles and guess what... no one cares.
I have adhd and the associated time blindness. I just compensate for it by being early, very early and if I am late I take the smoke for it and stay late... I don't like to make my problems other peoples problems.
the slow zoom on her face caught me off guard bc i was drawing and when i looked back up at the screen suddenly she's just, right there. lol
As someone who suffers from ADHD, this girl has some crazy fuckin' takes. I have never had a problem with being on time for work as long as I have a fixed schedule, nor have I ever had a problem being on time for something I know is important. I will leave half an hour to an hour before I need to just to make sure I'm on time, then I'll awkwardly wait around hoping no one calls the cops on me for loitering while I'm waiting for the place I'm interviewing at to open lol
I am going blind and I hate this person.
Time blindness is 100% a real thing. I have it as a symptom of my (diagnosed ADHD) I combat my poor sense of time by setting hella alarms and being insanely early to everything because otherwise I’ll be late. It’s common sense. It’s my problem, not the world’s.
You saying "you're wrong, you're wrong" is quite cathartic
I get distracted a lot while I'm leaving my apartment, it makes me late sometimes. I agree with being earlier, and I do set alarms at times. Without the alarms and medication, what seems like 15 min. can be closer to 45. Not trying to argue, just offering my own experiences. I agree that most jobs won't be able to make reasonable accommodations for people being late often
Why is it so difficult for people to just own their shit and figure out how to either live with it or change it? And why are people convinced that the world should accomodate all their hang ups?
'I have a problem being on time, I freak out everytime there is the slightest hiccup in my day, and oh yeah, Idk what sex I am - now rearrange your mind, speech and actions to make me comfortable' ....ugh, this generation is fragile af
Personally, I don't care you have time blindness... as long as you don't work for me or with me to slow me down.
Your comment about just being a guy who makes videos about bad cooking and Dhar Mann really got me
YK how easy it is to have someone set alarms for you... that way if youre perception of time is off, you have something telling you to go do it
Based off of her affect and speech patterns, I think that she has something beyond adhd.
Young teens and young adults should really stop self diagnosing. They really aren't qualified. They oftentimes confuse laziness with actual diseases.
I don't understand people like her; I'm ADHD and time blindness isn't really a problem for me when it comes to work because I set alarms and timers so I make sure I'm almost always at work about 30 minutes to an hour early, it is only a problem when I'm at home and I understand it is MY responsibility to accommodate for it not my friends, family, school, or employer's
I'm so the opposite I freak out being late to work that I sleep like 5 hrs a day when I know I work the next day
I have the same time blindness they described I genuinely can't track time in my head even I count to 60 Mississippis in my head a minute will not have passed it will be more or less, however I am the most on time person in my life and have alarms every 30 minutes leave 5 to 10 minutes before others would need to leave to be there on time and tend to be the first person to arive at things the only times I'm late are when outside factors impead me despite my inability to track time internally
i have adhd i get it's rough and i grew up with the "oh he's just a kid" parents but even then i didn't like how the meds made me feel. but at 25 I've found ways around the troubles and someways to make it work for me. but the first step is recognizing what you struggle with and trying to fix those things and not bend others to your personal problem.
It is incredible that *one* person wants 8 billion others to accommodate for their individual wants.
Darwin famously only went to school on days with tests or to hand in assignments. He spent most of his time on campus collecting bugs. This would be the first step to writing "On the Origin of Species."
I'm no darwin but I do have brain damage, probably explains all the comments I'm leaving expecting to only talk to myself. Your videos aren't very controversial so I decided "Why not?" and it bumps your videos. Win Win. I keep some of my sanity at 645 am after being awake for 25 hours and hopefully the algorithm pushing your channel!
LMAO forgot to put the point. I almost graduated college with a double major but my condition was undiagnosed for a couple of decades. Chronic infection as a child. It's not as sad as it sounds I promise.
I'll bet she has absolutely ZERO issues when it comes time to leave class or clock out of work when the day is done. SMFH!!
This Time Blindness girl is really strange. Like, I empathize with the struggle. I don't have ADHD so I don't have ADHD time blindness, but I just generally suck at time management. I get the feeing and why it sucks. But at the same time, wanting accomodations for an issue you personally are responsible for working around is peak entitlement.
"A while"
lady, i thought you claimed you were time blind? how do you know what "a while" even is?
also, with all that jewelry, there is no way in hell she is making it through trade school alive.
I have ADHD, the diagnosed kind... The way I deal with it, is by always being 30/60mins early for everything I have to do. I just overshoot.
My question is, why not just get a watch. She doesn’t even need to get a good one, just one to tell the time.
As a 42 y/o with add, there is no such thing as time blindness. This girl is 100% going to fail at life.
And yeah college is stupid. At university, I could go or not go to class, no one gave a shit, because it was no one's business but my own. Some classes I would always go to, and some I'd never go to, and I did great in all of them
Look, I have an executive functioning learning disability but I still understand that the world doesn't revolve around me and that I'm responsible for my own shit. So you find solutions that work for you, take notes, set alarms, have a visual schedule, do things right away, etc. Depending on your employer they may be *a bit* flexible but understand that in a real world workplace environment they can choose not to put up with your bs and find somebody else to take your place. At a certain point you either get with the program or get out.
I understand, i have ADHD, i struggle with time blindness. Theres this magic thing in my pocket that goes with me everywhere called a smartphone. I set alarms for EVERYTHING! As soon as i am told that i need to do something, it goes in my calender with an alarm the day before, one hour before, and 15 minutes before. At work, in addition to my other work, i have to do rounds every two hours. So there is an alarm set for every two hours. Theres also an alarm for when i need to start getting my patients out of bed, and for when i need to start their breakfast. There are TWENTY SEVEN alarms for my week right now. Twenty seven. Is it a pain in the ass, yeah, it can be. But my mental health is my issue to deal with.
As someone with ADHD, I have time blindness and it is really bad. So I show up for work almost a whole hour before I have to be in because if I don't show up obscenely early, I show up late. I take it on myself, not ask my employer to worry about it and make sure that I get to work on time.
20-45 min early for everything 🙋🏻♀️
Me too@@vriana1921
I have adhd and struggle so hard with it. I tried my very best and got my tardiness down from 6 minutes down to two minutes using every strategy I could find. It took a lot of work, but let’s just say I was late more than four times that semester. I know it’s difficult for people without ADHD to understand it, but it’s a real struggle for some people. And it’s not like I was late every day. It’s just if I got distracted at all it would happen.
Not to excuse it, but I just want people to understand it doesn’t always come naturally
Just to be super clear: although I think being perfectly on time is a bit strict, like if I’m a minute late, it’s not a big deal, however a fifteen minute window is a bit extreme. I feel like it would definitely be nice if teachers and bosses didn’t get really upset if you’re late by a minute or two, but again, it is ultimately one’s own responsibility to be on time even if it’s harder for you than others.
I saw this really relevant post:
"Your triggers are YOUR responsibility."
You can't expect the world to shield every little thing that may be offensive to you FROM you.
Being a disabled person myself, I agree that some things SHOULD be normalized - wheelchair ramps, more automatic doors, a better understanding of mental health and disabilities.
But there qre people who take it too far in demands.
She has time blindness?
Set more alarms.
It's really that simple, because people will just use it as an excuse to just NOT be where they're supposed to be, at the time they need to be.
Exactly. Some people will abuse their diagnosis to shield themselves against everything they don't want to do.
We need more awareness and understanding of the realities of adhd and the neurodivergent brain. Of course we need to identify potential triggers, but accommodations aren't as much about triggers as respect. Compare it to being stabbed, then being told it is your responsibility not to bleed or feel pain. You deserve to work in a place where you are not constantly "stabbed."
Similar to diabetes where, no matter your diet and routine, if the pancreas doesn't produce enough insulin (or too much), the body doesn't correctly process, etc. you need accommodations like being able to inject yourself and eat/drink as needed. Likewise, if the brain is not getting proper dopamine and being pressured, scolded, given demands beyond what others do, etc. is very triggering and disrespectful. No matter the medication, you still need breaks and accommodations.
Honestly, your opinion is... Somewhat ignorant. The thing about setting alarms, is that people with time blindness doesn't pay attention to them, or at least I don't. I'm in the middle of doing something, my alarm goes off. I silence my phone because I was in hyperfocus mode and irritated by any distraction. When that alarm goes off, my brain doesn't see it as an alert to me to do anything. There's tons of symtoms with ADHD that people don't even have a clue about. And this woman in the video is absolutely within her rights to enquire about accommodations.
@@uncle-bin1750Isn't that what someone in a wheelchair is doing? I mean, they could try to walk if they wanted. Do you realise how stupid that sounds? Just because it's not visible doesn't make it any less real. I would know, I've got ADHD, and I do have time blindness.
@@amandabeaty1492 No, it's not and you know it. There are plenty of tools to work around your disabilities. What this women is doing isn't working around them or finding tools to deal with them - it's the opposite. She demands society to change.
I know plenty of people who work their ass of to solve their problems. Especially folks with ADHD. A friend of mine has to be super organized all the time because of it. She is a wonderful human being.
And yes, society can be expected to do some things. Buildings should be designed barrier-free for folks with disabilities. Teachers/parents should be expected to treat kids according to their special needs. Etc.
Time blindness is something she could work around. Set an earlytimer, add a note. If you read the note you will either care for it (great) or not. It might need time for the person to find what works for them. It will take effort.
That's what I expect of myself and people around me. If you don't agree - fine. We don't have to.
It's real, but she is more capable than she gives herself credit for.
I have ADHD , OCD, ASD, PTSD, GAD, and I have had 2 significant TBIs that left me with permanent cognitive deficits, especially for memory. I have ZERO concept of time and a horrible memory.
I have worked for over a decade to improve things. She can get much, much, MUCH better. It does stress me out. I start worrying about time ...really "early". Calendars, multiple alarms, planning. I'm also physically disabled. If I can do it, most people can with time and a lot of effort. I'm certainly not special or smart with incredible skills. I'm not writing ths to be dismissive. I know how impossible it seems; I want to give hope to those who struggle. I didn't have the appropriate help, but there is help available to improve on this.
Edited: Great video.
@@blub-tf6rt Weirdo comment.
I have MDD, ADHD, and GAD, along with trauma responses characteristic of other disorders. Love to you, man, I don't have it as bad as you, but I hope you're doing good.
Everybody so special ✨❄️✨
But that‘s nothing compared to me 😎
I have ADD, ADHD, OCD, DID, PTSD, STD, RIP, KGB, LMNOP, QWERTY, DoReMi and a Lv. 69 Stage 3 Super-Trauma
It’s laughable how normal you guys are, I WISH I only had what you have, but my trauma is traumaing way harder than yours 😎
Y’all do realize you’re not one bit better than the girl in the video, when you’re demanding special attention, praise and a trophy for doing the most basic sh!t like BEING ON TIME?
And if you don’t do it for the "look at me, look at me, me me me" then why say anything about it at all? Just do your thing and shut up.
@@UberOwl I don't think that most of us do... That's kind of the point that we are making. We have our s*** and we deal with it. We live our lives and don't expect any kind of special praise for living it. I can't speak to others, but in my case most people have no idea what I'm struggling with because I keep it private. So I definitely don't expect any kind of accolades or attention. I am trying to say that this is a skill that most people can acquire. I will sound like a boomer here but when I grew up there weren't excuses. We weren't allowed to give them then and I don't give them now.
@@summerdais325 I‘ll let you figure out by yourself how you very much did not "keep your struggles private".
Your comment may not be the same "look at me", but it’s a "look at me" comment nonetheless.
Time Blindness Lady: I blame my mom for the whole incident.
Her mother: I missed the part where that's my problem.
Time Blindness Girl: I excuse my time blindness for being lazy
Every person: But did I ask
Damn
@@JustaHedgehoginSonicBoom And that right there is being ableist… it even says on the psychology today website in regards to ADHD and time blindness “Those who are time blind can be misjudged as uncaring, lazy, or irresponsible.”
So why are you saying/doing this exact thing?
Just because you don’t have the intelligence or empathy to understand someone’s disability doesn’t in turn make them lazy or anything negative thing you have to say about them.
This all needs to stop, accommodations are normal and standard and actually have to be provided by law to people with disabilities.
She is asking for help so she can be better and do better that’s all… that is the basics of it. Just because a disability can’t be seen doesn’t make it not a disability.
She isn’t lazy she just has time blindness which is a form of disassociating which can’t be controlled easily. ADHD is a spectrum, so is time blindness, so that means that not just anything is gonna work everyone. What works for someone else may not works the next person.
Have more empathy, have more understanding, do more research on a disability before demeaning someone and dismissing their struggle.
Can I just say that the fact she went the whole evangelism route, as a Christian just makes me even more angry. "honor your father and mother" not ring a bell? That doesnt mean saying "oh everyone makes mistakes" in a snarky way, that means if your mom says youre being a brat, youre being a brat.
@@itzTeTe no one said that tho? literally not a single person said its not a disability and just laziness, besides if you post your personal shit on social media you let others judge you by their standards, not urs, so dont get salty when you get shit on
Apart from a medical condition, my experience with people with "Time Blindness" is that they are always late for a start time, but at the end of a shift they are out the door right on time.
Interesting that
Ain’t that the truth.
is that there fault ? its some places who dont allow over time and dont allow you to stay and catch up on work. They have no choice but to leave. My job (in a school) I can stay as late as I want (unpaid) working, & I often do to catch up on work. Especially if I was late.
@@michellement2158 Some jobs can be flexible and I think that is fair to ask, but most jobs just don’t and can’t offer that level of flexibility.
If I’m working with a team I wouldn’t want to work on one where coming in whenever you want is a option, even with the ability to call or email, I don’t feel like a “time blind” person will be reliable.
If I had a kid and took them to class I would expect the teacher to be there, if I had a appointment with any professional I expect them to be on time, but I get there are some job that can be flexible and she needs to find one of those but truth is they’re probably in demand.
@michellement2158 I really hope your job at that school isn't teaching since you don't know the difference between "there" and "their." Regarding leaving on time: yes some jobs are strict about not allowing people to work over, yet these people who can't arrive on time still never need to be reminded to leave on time, company policy or no.
The fact is that ADHD time blindness can be self-accommodated. Keeping conscious track of time, using time alerts every 15, 30, 45 minutes etc, or getting your brain in gear with food or exercise. Schools are required to provide REASONABLE accommodations, but if they are able to self-accommodate generally those are preferred anyway.
EXACTLY. I have ADHD, and when I was younger, I had a little watch that would vibrate about every hour, to keep me on track. It's so simple
I self accommodate at work with alarms on my phone, and my manager (i love her, she's amazing) actually put times on our duty sheet to try and help me get on track.
I have HORRIBLE time management esp with how busy we anyways are. I work at a gas station and corporate cares more about their bottom line than the safety and ease of work for the employees at my location
@@Unnecessary_Potato I had a coworker when I worked at a movie theater who had some severe time blindness, far worse than mine. He was always consistently 20 - 30 minutes late to his shift. Our manager started to schedule him 30 minutes earlier than the normal shift times in order to get him on track and that seemed to work. We can't force him to self-accommodate, but that was a pretty decent compromise.
Good on your manager for trying to accommodate, this stuff can be hard and people helping out when they can really does make a difference.
I had w lot of problems in school because of ADHD time blindness and tried a lotta shit my therapist recommended. Nowadays I got flexible working hours lol
That's what makes me the most frustrated about these types of people, they yell about how knowledgeable they are about their illness but they don't know how to accommodate their illness. Sounds like... you're just not putting in the effort for anything other than complaining for sympathy so you can do whatever you want.
Hi, 32 year old adult with ADHD here: time "blindness" is silly to me. I'm very aware of time. I do however go into "waiting mode" where I'm too scared to begin a task knowing I have work or plans later. To remedy this, I always get to work about an hour early. I have never been late once. This also helps as when it's busy, I'm asked to clock in early and get to get a few extra hours in through the week.
I understand being young and feeling helpless, but you have to overcome yourself. Your problems are your own, no one else's. Deal with them.
ADHD does come in different severities like I myself will get into a task or something I enjoy and before I know it it's been two hours and I forgot to do the shit I was supposed to
@@quartzskull8772 that's exactly what I mean by "waiting mode" I'm so terrified I'll do exactly that, so I just leave earlier than early.
Same bro same😔 but this girl here is taking advantage of ppl like us. Im pretty sure she one of the many tiktokers who was “self-diagnosed” and wants take advantage of ppl with actual problems.
I also have ADHD and do this exact thing. If I know something is coming up such as plans, work, appointments, etc., I will focus on that one thing, and get ready for it until it happens. Then I'll move on with my life normally. Managing multiple events in one day is something I struggle with, but I do my best and continue to make it work. This girl is just making excuses
Meh, just because you don't experience it doesn't mean it's not a well known symptom that's hard to manage. I have time blindness as part of my symptoms, and it took me a long time to figure something out. Now I'm mostly fine, but somedays I just can't zap out of waiting mode. My uni had accommodations for ADHD though, which is normal for a place of education imo (that you pay for). Employers though, I only pick jobs with flexible start hours.
I'm Autistic, ADHD, OCD... I could go on. You HAVE To find workarounds for some of your issues in order to do a lot of things. She's in the mind of 'I don't wanna change, others should change for me so I can be happy with no effort at all'. She needs to get over herself and work on herself.
Well said sir
Exactly, we all have issues. Most of us just deal with our shit. This certain generation is just the most self-entitled, horrible, delusional people.
@@morticiaheisenberg9679 I wouldn't say this certain generation as a whole, personally. Just a lot of the newer generation(s) tend to gravitate towards people who give them 'answer's for thoughts they have that they don't speak up about. Finding someone that demands to be accommodated for every little thing. Though because all content is becoming shortform right now, there've been some papers going around saying the current young generation has the worst attention span ever, supposedly, and their overall skills have gone down because of said attention span leading to having a harder time even keeping the lowest rung jobs.
Same. Also, people need to stop victimizing everything
Self diagnosed too I bet. Ughh why does everyone slap labels on themselves as a personalty it's so weird
I have OCD too man. i appreciate u sharing your personal experience with it and i relate. you have to work on stuff for yourself! its hard but its the way to a better life
When she mentioned schools and businesses obligations to God, I legit started 😂. I was choking I was laughing so hard
schools you pay for i get but man, asking for basically free work skipping passes when they're paying you money for a job, no wonder they gonna fire your ass or not hire you
That's the go-to move when your argument is being fucked over. Just bring God into it and suddenly you have to tread more carefully to not "disrespect" God.
I thought maybe she misspoke or something, then the Jesus Christ comment came in and i was with August here JFC thats a rabbit hole of confusion.
I had to rewind because I thought I misheard her. That was the most "Sir, this is a Wendy's" moment ever.
Same here, does she realize where she lives ?
Every time this woman talks, one of my braincells commits seppuku.💀
Veeery Honorebu!
Why? Because she asked for help? Accommodations are just tools that can help people who are differently abled…
She’s in school so by law they have to provide her accommodations and the accommodations she spoke of are real. I literally have them. 🙃
So what’s the issue? Also the school can face legal issue if they deny her accommodations.
Time blindness is a form of disassociating which can’t be controlled. It can be managed with help though… you know… the help she was asking for and people being horrible toward her for… guess you didn’t hear when she basically asked for a counselor to help her… but ok…
@@itzTeTejust stop arguing for her dawg
@@MrVigill no real, shes under like every comment
@@MrVigillNo? Why can no actually explain to me how she is wrong when I’m going into extensive detail on how y’all are in the wrong here.
She is literally entitled to accommodations with the Americans with disabilities act, and if she’s in Canada they have something similar so what’s the issue? What she was asking for isn’t outrages it really isn’t 😂 like since you’ve been following me up and down the comments then you must have read the accommodations that I receive in regards to college and work correct? If not I suggest you go and read those since you want to speak up.
I will never stop defending someone who is facing an injustice. Y’all are in the wrong on this one. I stand firm on this. I hope you see it one day. She is by law in the right and is entitled to receive accommodation. This includes having an aid or a counselor to better help her. But y’all don’t want her to have accommodations there for you don’t want her to get help and get better.
That’s how this looks. You may not see right now but just think about it… she is backed by a literal law… and y’all are saying she isn’t entitled to accommodations… yikes..
Time blindness can be managed effectively with various strategies:
Setting Alarms and Reminders: Use alarms on your phone or clocks to prompt you when tasks need to start or finish.
Creating Routines: Establish daily routines to help regulate your internal sense of time.
Using Visual Aids: Employ visual timers or clocks to visualize the passage of time and manage tasks accordingly.
Prioritizing Tasks: Focus on prioritizing tasks based on their importance and allocate appropriate time slots.
I had pretty bad OCD too where I used to circle my house making sure all doors where locked and/or closed over 20 times sometimes 4 times back to back because my brain didn't trust what I just saw. The consequences my brain convinced me was that the house would get broken into and my family harmed.
I had something similar to OCD for about a year, I doubt it was actual OCD but I don't know really. So my door jams often, meaning that it can be pushed open without turning the knob. It scared me at the time and as previously said for around a year I would get up 3-4 times a night to check that it was closed all the way, only falling asleep when I was finally convinced it was closed, sometimes as late as 3 am. I also checked that my closet was closed all the way and that all my models were still in their tray. But that was the thing that I did the most. I got myself to stop doing it by whenever I did it I would have to do 20 pushups. Laziness actually stopped it 🤷♂
Story time over lol
I don’t have OCD or anything like that, but I do do this and I always feel like my family is gonna get hurt if I don’t. I do think I have been validated in the fact that one night my dad forgot to close the front door and it was open until I came around at midnight checking that all the doors were locked.
U should have a notepad on some white boran that u write that down when u close the door so u know
Thank you for spreading the truth about ocd! I have diagnosed OCD and I’m always frustrated by people who seem to think it’s a personality trait
Edit: how tf did this turn into a warzone? Can't be nice online i guess lmao. Thanks for all the likes too! Appreciate it!
She's a a lazy layabout is all
Oh I correct people all the time when they're like "Oh hehe I'm just OCD like that!" I just look at them and say " No you are just anal about it there is a massive difference between "you don't like it " and it's a tick you can't control."
I don't have ocd I don't think. At all. And it annoys me as well.
Your OCD is no one else’s problem.
@@singbluesilver1973 I never said it was. Bruh
As a kleptomaniac I 100% agree with her. It pisses me off so much that stores do not accommodate my neurodiversity
And don't give you "free" stuff in order to help you with your cleptomaniac disorder. 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, as a sociopath, I agree they really should
@@LjCast-b6q You are all right, as a rap-
@@BillKillerz wow there buddy lets not go that far
@@hesmokeshella-eo9wk like I was saying before being cutoff... as a rapper, I completely agree ! I should be allowing to converse in rhymes and not be ridiculed for it !
I wonder if her "time blindness" is that special kind which disappears once she finally gets to work, thus ensuring she leaves promptly at the end of her shift.
It also disappears when she is waiting on someone else to serve her food or prepare her Starbucks order.
Sometimes it can be real. I've had days with temporary time blindness where I skip and forget about paid breaks and in a couple ocassions about the end of shift, where I kept going on for about half an hour more. I can cope easily constantly looking at the clock and it makes it manageable, but sometimes I've screqed up when I'm afk on a break and I've had overbreaks for a significant extra time when I thought I still had 5 minutes more. My own screw up, nobody else's
this is real funny . Y'all really joke on it but that's not how Time blindness works for some of us. I USED to be the latest one to come to work and the latest one to leave the building. It doesn't shut off. Time blindness combined with slow pace is really something.
@@michellement2158 yeah except they have these things called clocks, on your computer, on your phone, even on your wrist. Now, I can be horrible at underestimating the time it may take to complete a task or drive somewhere, I get that. But wtf is “time blindness”? You just zone out looking at the wall for hours?
I wouldn't know it was time to go home unless my boss told me. Sometimes I would unintentionally end up working overtime.
This girl is entitled with a capital “B”. If she has specific or special needs, she can either choose a school that specializes in educating students with special needs or attend a school with fewer students so she can get that extra attention. She is absolutely infuriating! Seriously, she is in for a rude awakening. Society will not play by her rules.
Or just set timers to make her pay attention. She's constantly on her phone if she has time to beech and moan on the internet, phones have alarm/calendar apps, she needs to use em.
Edit: There are no accommodations for "time blindness" because heaven forbid your job needs you to be there on time to release another employee from a shift. Jobs don't have a "special needs" position for something like this after you graduate from school.
The problem is she assumes she gets special treatment because she had special needs. Like wtf?
🅱entitled
The worst part is that she’s probably ruining her chances with some schools because of all of this
"So im applying somewhere to go. THEY started yelling at me" so she's lying right here. She admitted in the og video the people who she was "interviewing" with were yelling no where did she mention her mom