I love the two of you talking, diving deep into your fears (weaknesses), with us (let alone all the preparing and discussing late at night you did over the pillows). :) What I'm taking away here is that a lot of people seem to have a lot of fears, and that's what rules them. The biggest problems seem to be our fears about the other person's fears... True, we need to know and be sensitive to the other person's fears/weaknesses. But the point is we need, each of us, deal with our own fears (esp. not ignore them, hide from them, etc.). Hopefully the person we're with is doing the same. Rob and Chrissy, you did a whole lotta work on yourselves before you met and *after* you met, getting your thoughts and fears squared away. Trust in that. I honor you for that most of all. You're both VERY thoughtful people and heart-stable... Trust in that too. The scariest thing in our relationships is dealing with someone who doesn't know themselves all that well. (Regardless of age.) They don't know enough to be making promises about their future, how they'll act under pressure. You two are solid, if you can get out of the way of your fears, like a bullfighter dodges the bull. Much love and respect to you both.
He does talk a lot through his fears. If he could just listen to her more, their relationship would look much better to the people who they want to hear their stories. Carl Banks Jr., Vietnam Veteran😊
You are asking & answering all the questions I have in my head (and I'm sure most other older guys. have) that no other channels even touch on, let alone openly discuss about age gap relationships. Thanks Rob & Chrissy !!
If a man doesn’t look at women walking by out in public there’s something wrong with him. Who you go home with is all that matters. There’s also a difference between gawking at a woman and glancing. Women are Work Of Art, that men should admire.
Well I look And I’m married But my Filipina wife is very attractive and beautiful. I never need another woman as I’m very happy and content with my wife ❤️❤️
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I also agree (and I'm 82). Rob, if you will allow me the freedom to Comment my thoughts about Chrissy: As I watch Chrissy's reactions to your comments and questions, I see at first "eye candy." Seriously, she's the kind of woman that I am attracted to. Now, I'm also attracted to buxom women, as well (EXTREMELY). And I really like blondes, too. Now, there's much more in my reactions than the above. She REALLY appeals to my intellect. She's intelligent, astute, articulate (English for her is a bit of a foreign language), and very sensitive emotionally. What a package! She's exactly the type of woman I want as a life partner and lover. As to the concept that women are Works Of Art, that men should admire, I greatly admire women on what I just admitted, plus the whole idea that women create new life with childbirth. That alone is a stunner. I'd say that due to our early sparse chances to survive, men chose women for their childbearing abilities as well as their catching the eyes of a future father to their future children. It's developed as a mutual symbiotic relationship. Hallelujah!
Rob, stay there in the Philippines. Im 67, my wife is 35 and our son is 7. We live a normal lifestyle and marriage in Pasig. I don’t notice any issues because of our age difference. When we are living in New Hampshire we get a lot of looks and muffled comments when we are out in public. We both feel uncomfortable at times. The only benefit to me is now my wife doesn’t have such looks of jealousy. We are moving back to the Philippines as soon as our assets here are liquidated. We love your stories.
I'm 52, divorced, and never had kids. Personally, I would think myself fortunate if I found a nice woman who had a young child I could help raise and provide opportunities for. To each their own, I guess! Great video, as always. I spent many years in medical device sales before going back to the clinical side of healthcare, and hope to utilize your tips and methodology when I begin my search in a few years for someone special as I near retirement. Looking forward to more content.
In life, nothing is ever guaranteed. If you find someone who loves you for who you are, then you are the luckiest man in the world. Even if it's short-lived, it's better to have tried than not tried at all. Sitting at home criticizing people who put themselves out there seeking love, is nore pathetic to me. Loneliness really sucks, especially when you are older. Finding love with someone younger will always make you feel younger and happier. Good luck Rob and Chrissy. Enjoy what you have, life is so short.
The fact is women want security. A single mom has less options and wants the best for her children. An older guy also has less options and she knows that. She is comfortable with a guy that see's her as the prize.
Why in your videos do you continue to focus on your age? It is obvious she loves you and doesn't look at your age so why do? I love lots of your videos but you need confidence in her love. Just my opinion. I wish you both so much happiness.
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. I appreciate the feedback. Normally I don’t push back when I receive feedback - this video subject was specifically the result of a survey viewers wanted to hear Chrissy describe dating a man in his sixties. I tried to drill down on the topic and use self deprecating humor and draw Chrissy out, not easy to get her to focus on my age, takes some prodding and exaggerated questions to get a good response. However I will ponder the feedback.
It seems Rob is feeling his age and thinks he does not deserve this amazing young beautiful Filipina who finds him attractive! They are looking for other attributes obviously. Chrissy said it so eloquently. Maybe Rob needs to get and maintain the best shape of his life staying fit and young and maintaining muscle mass. Make your 70’s look like your late 40’s! 💪💪🙏🙏
Why do you think everyone has seen his previous videos on this subject? Just because you saw his videos on this subject doesn’t mean we who haven’t seen him talk about it be denied to see what he has to say!
What I find different about your channel is the honest focus. Noticed you have recently put out a personal consulting offer. I can just imagine all the calls and requests advise and help.
Recent subscriber and I must say you both do such a great job to enlighten my preconceived thoughts on the Phillipines and culture. Awesome stuff, and to go to so much trouble to inform, film, edit is above and beyond. Five Star 🌟 channel. 🤙🏼
I am dating a single Filipina in Manila and she has 2 children aged 10 and 13. The problem at the onset is when I fly 7k miles to visit I want to spend time with my girlfriend but I have to contend with the kids. They do not have family near by so the visit has to be planned to keep the kids occupied. If you want a younger girl, mine is 35 and I’m 64, then they either have kids or want kids. It’s hard to find one that doesn’t have or want kids.
I've dated 23 Filipina"s in my life. I married a beautiful Filipina and devoriced a angry feminist. Every filipina lies to you. It takes 3 yrs to figure out her lies. I will date more filipinas for the rest of my life. You sir are letting your love blind her faults. Im not a bitter person, just a educated man, who can no the lies from the truth. Good luck I hope she is the one.
Dude 😮 I just kept watching and you are really only 9 months into this 😮 you are hopefully not heading for a world of hurt where you not only lose the one you love but her child that you have formed a protecting and providing relationship for 🙏
Unlike others, I found this video to be extremely interesting. It is great to hear Chrissy give very honest and straightforward answers to these questions.
Good job of drawing her out, and really interviewing her! As for kids, i believe once you know you're a couple, and want to live together, bring them! Love that she chases you! That young lady must have an old soul. She's a very savy woman.
Thanks that was my goal. I really appreciate your feedback. I’ve heard from some other people that I focused too much on my age and need to get over it and other people thought I cut her off a little bit however, she is not inclined to speak to the age issue, and I was probing and probing and using self deprecating humor about my age to try and draw her out seems like you got it. Thanks so much for the feedback.
My 25 yo Filipina’s older sister has been in a foreigner relationship for over 15 years. I think she saw how well they work…even with an age gap. Don’t be blinded. Always keep looking for the red flags.
Thanks for another great video, I love you guys. I can relate in many ways, and I think that people should just live and let live, and do what they think is right. A lot of it is in the attitude.... a positive attitude goes a long way. Rob, we're too old to have young kids, all we really want to do is enjoy life, and be happy. And, yes, age is just a number. We can't conform to society all the time. We just have to remember, as people who have much higher living standards, that many of these Filipinos have almost nothing. Many of them are literally sleeping on floors with nothing but thin foam for comfort, and eating rice for every meal. Despite that, they're happy and generous, even if they have little to offer. So, why wouldn't we, as people who have so much more, not want to help them when we're able to? I think it's terribly selfish not to help. Thank you for the content, it's always thoughtful and well presented!
I’m 55, and my Filipina fiancé is 30… 25 years younger. She has the same view. She prefers a mature man, and a man who is faithful and kind. We have talked about plans for when I get into old age, expected changes in our life as we both age.
"You're like my battery". I love that. Sound like the title of my next song! What a great way to describe the need for someone when that "thing" is something that really can't be described.
What is wrong in accepting a single mother when loving her is also embracing the children. Children are precious beyond measure and wonderful addition to the quality of your lives. The boundaries of parental authority is what must be ironed out.
That was me sorry if I hurt your feelings. I'm just looking out for you. I do have a question. I have watched other bloggers and one of them had a lawyer talking about weird Philippine laws. One of the laws was expats are not allowed to babysit or be left alone with their girlfriends kids at home even if she is just going to the store. Is that law real?.
I don’t believe in waiting a set period of time…you size up her honesty, family, etc and make your decision. Of course I have hard experience from blond hair blue eyed America girls. Both failed marriages both deceptive in a way. First was over 7 years dating and she had a boyfriend for the last 3 years before we got married. 2nd was unconscious deception I think, she agreed for advanced fertility treatment and after 2 IVF failures she decided I would NOT be a father. Sorry she was wrong! I hope Chrissy and Rob get married sooner rather than later. She is so amazing!
It's each and every person choice and beliefs if they want a single woman with children. My Wife has two children from previous relationship. I accepted and they both call me Daddy. Even now 10 years later, they still call me Daddy. Their ages now are 16 and 18. I Love them both as my own.❤
Yes I’ve flown there for the last 3 years and stayed a few weeks each time and from the first visit I was blown away by the love and acceptance. I know have 12 children 😂 wow God is Good!
I have learned to take "advice" more so as comments. Everyone's experience is based upon their perceptions. Chrissy hit a homerun with her comment for Expats to be smart
great vid brutha. im a 68 year old retired dude in cold snowy East Lansing, Michigan. i enjoy your vlogs. looks like you got a good thing goin with Chrissy. i have a filipina friend in Togoloan, not far from you. i would be there now but im getting medical treatment for prostate cancer. you give lots of great advice with all your travel experiences. and you tell it to us straight. i appreciate that. keep up the good work👌😊
So glad I found your channel you are seriously knowledgeable I stopped watching some of the other vloggers some very popular but they started talking politics and people come from the West to get away from that stuff thank you for all the advice you really give step by step on how to take care of business even though I'm 60% knowledgeable about the Philippines but that's not enough
A lot of good questions and answers Chrisy answers were so clear and articulate. And you bat those questioins off so efficiently. I feel compelled to offer what you call the "religious" perspective. As a man of faith, (I do not say religion because religion is how the secular world understands people of faith but it fails to diffierentiate other problems such as hypocratic beleifs which are so prevalent), faith is a personal relationship with the living G-d and that in it self orders things toward righteousness and completely mitigates insecurity of age and all other things. "surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life..." Age is irrelevant. Age happened as a result of sin. If born again, in the life to come those elect we will be ageless in their new glorified body which is not an old one. I say that with confidence it is the spoken Word of G-d. Regarless of how old we are we are all eternal beings. The securlar world cannot overcome age because it has no confidence in it's future because they do not have a living relationship with G-d and are blind to these truths. In the Bible no man marries an old woman because marriage is for family and child raising. Regardless of what age a man is the instruction from the Bible does not change. Obviously there is much more to say about the purpose of marriage... but i focused on age insecurity here.
How did you deal with your kids when you decided to retire in the Philippines? How did they react to the news of living with a younger Filipina? ? Might be a good topic of conversation in a future video, if you haven’t already discussed this. Enjoyed the video.
Dear Bob, get over your age problem and be happy that you have found such a lovely woman. You're making her upset by constantly bringing it up. Best regards from Denmark
Rob, something I just thought of after hearing you talk about Chrissy being a licensed teacher - several rural schools in the Midwest, Colorado coming to mind from a video I watched earlier today, have brought Filipinas to the U.S. on work Visas to teach due to a shortage of teachers. It might be an easier and quicker way for the two of you to come to the U.S. than the typical marriage or fiance visa if you ever become so inclined.
Age is a mental as much as physical. Subtract 10 … and be done with it. I’m being literal. Own it. Must always shape the ship too Don’t relax that Rob. Strong work, Chrissy. Another vid that kept my attention you two 😎🤙🏼
I think the "news" thing is cultural as much as age related. I get the idea that most, (not all) Filipinos have been to raised to conform, go along, not question, etc. etc. which rules out analysis, argumentation, and debate. Much of the news deals with society, how we view society, and what changes need to be made for the betterment of society. Politics; which is how policy is decided and implemented that governs all of our society and life from using a no.2 pencil or black ink, to dealing with corruption that spends society's money (taxes) on personal projects instead of infrastructure and healthcare. Foreigners are cautioned to not "speak their mind" or be "confrontational" because that isn't the way things are done in the Philippines. That is my opinion. But I'm sure that is just one facet. Love your videos guys!
I try to watch every video? Chrissy said divorced? Did she get married? How did she get divorced in the PH? My Filipina was very young with her first time at 15 with a 20 year old BF. I’m happy to pick up a package deal and hopefully add to the package for my dream if I can. Online dating is less than 15% legit. In my experience. It takes a lot of filtering and some luck. 🍀 🍀
I loved seeing this video. It shows me that my way of thinking about this type of relationship will work great if your partner has similar thoughts and feelings. I am really impressed. My only bad thought on this is what happens to the young woman when you die from old age? Her life, her life's expectations have been changed and are now shattered?! Do you have insurance that is left to her to help her continue the lifestyle you two have created?
Crissy is so positive. I apologize for saying this Rob, but I genuinely hope some of that fibs off on you. You are a great and smart person, but when Crissy talks I lean in.
According to the PSA (Philippine Statistics Authority) they say that 1100 young girls & women are giving birth to a child EVERY DAY who have been abandoned by their boy friend! So, Chrissy situation is Very Common. Young, rural Filipinos, if without a college degree will probably be a farmer or a fisherman, and with those wages, it is difficult for them to support a family! So, if their girl friend tells him that she is pregnant, many will run away! If you are looking for a young Filipina, if you see a pregnant girl who is by her self, walk up to her and ask her if she was been abandoned by your boy friend? You may find a beautiful & sweet girl who is now starving, if she has no family and would welcome your help. This is just another way to meet a Filipina who may make you a wonderful wife and you will also get to be a daddy for her child!
The funny opening was a great intro to this subject. I found it super-relevant, as some of this runs through my mind. I'm 76 and will be meeting women in their late 30s and early 40s... maybe one who's 55. This gave me some ideas on an effective mental approach to meeting one-on-one and going forward with the BINGO woman! I'm glad you covered whether Chrissie wants to have a child with you. It would be a wonderful genetic mix! As to whether she's "the best actress" or real, my feeling is, "If you can't tell, it doesn't matter!" Thanks! PS You are a very attractive couple. If I saw you at the mall, I'd stare too, but with a smile. PPS I like shorts if well produced and not too-loud audio, esp. the music. I watch your and other longer-form videos, even the Pea, at 1.5x. Maybe it's my short attention span, I go 1.5x AND skip forward during the Regular Guy.
Age gap is not an issue in Philippines as long as both are legal to get marry. Also, Filipino family values is strong. And it breaks our heart if we can't help our family even small things. We love and care our family ❤️ and, we love our partners, husband or wife so genuinely. And it's normal to a Filipina to get jealous specially they are young. Anyway , it's a matter of respect both sides.
You do great videos together you both and i believe you an awesome couple .. Rob you are fairly fit or even way over average fit for your age .. big respect ! And Chrissy is of course a gorgeous lovely and very beautiful Filippina .. with brain !.. that a perfect combo ! Vmbut a small tip to you Rob .. try not to always interrupt your lovely lady when she just talks or you even give an answer to your questions to her .. well, that’s a small thing but it would show even more respect to her ! Keep on rocking you bith and I also gonna travel this year again to the Philippines .. been there often 12-16 years ago for diving ..
Hi Ron & Chrissy, 👋🏼, I can see why one/some of your readers feel, you repeat it too much, about your age difference. What they might not understand is, that some of your readers might be watching you, for the first time. So, it’s important to share by your example, that age gap relationships, ❤️can work❤️. Having said that, I have a suggestion for a future topic. Chrissy is the “epitome” of a true, down to earth, good, traditional Filipina woman. She’s the kind of woman, we’d want to bring home, to meet our mother. Rob, why, oh why, did you limit her to share the “one thing”, that Filipinas value in a man, at the end of this blog??? You guys need to produce a blog, where she shares, the “TOP TEN” things, traditional Filipinas seek in a man. And Rob, let her completely “finish” talking about number 1, before moving to number 2. When she says number 2 ( and only when “she” says number 2 ), we’ll all know, she’s done with number 1. Do you remember how on a plane, or in a restaurant, everyone stopped and leaned in, when someone said: “Well, E. F. HUTTON SAYS???” Well, Chrissy is “our” E. F. HUTTON, whenever she has “anything” to say. Love you guys, keep em’ coming, 😎😉👍🏼❤️.
Hello thank you for sharing your experience in the Philippines.Im planing to retire there I have 4 adult children and 9 grandkids how do you deal with being so far from them.
Yes, she had email showing judges ruling, it’s taken another 8 months for hard copy of “finality of judgement” sent to Manila. Lots of opportunities for lawyers to delay if her ex does not pay remaining balance to lawyer.
Ask her to explain the Philippine saying that goes like this: "Old men die easy in the morning" and watch her squirm and try to laugh and play it off. It's an inside thing that everyone knows about.
It took 3 years, cost 1 year salary for average teacher or police man, ex tried to hold up process unless he was paid off once he learned of me, wedding in September
My filapina is 56 and I am 59 we met and started talking 7 years ago. I will be back in march. She is an OFW with world travel and I am a USN Navy VET. we have alot In common. I dont tell her I will be back I tell he I will be home soon again.
I believe that many Western residents do not realize the different culture in Latin America and southeast Asia. Very common to see the man much older than the female in relationship. 😏👍💕
She is checking in you you are into yr self follow yr wife ideas be humble let your wife pay everything never talk about past relationship don’t look at other girls ever girl want a baby if she loves u settle down make the most of your life with her all way tell true the wife will keep asking questions about yr life so she knows everything is
I have nothing against single mothers but children will always change the dynamic of a relationship. A good mother will always put her child ( ren ) first and the man who is NOT the father of the child ( ren ) second. This is only a natural state of the human experience. I have kids and they will always be my priority over a new woman albeit my sons are grown men. Unless both parties agree on this then getting married is a precursor for failure. Unrealistic expectations never turn out well.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Yes sir you actually get it !!! By watching these vlogs I am amazed by how many men do not comprehend the pecking order. Kids and dogs are loved unconditionally but adults must bring something to the table. Best of luck to you and all of yours.
When I see interviews with filipinas, I'm always impressed by their practical nature. BUT they are also romantic in a way they WANT to love the person they are with.
I just finally married my Philipina in March in Alaminos San Pablo after 3 1/2 years we’ve been promised to each other. I was there to get married together in person yet online via WebEx from Utah. So the original marriage certificate is from the USA. We’ve had a complicated time for the past 3 years I can share with you for some future vlog. I can give some insight to marrying and taking on 2-4 additional children 13,19 21 and 31 (last 2 grown and out of the house). We have overcome many challenges if you would like to hear.
Everyone has a magnetic energy being broadcast looking for a matching energy. Imagine a radio that has many channels or frequency. The radio is tuned into a particular signal going out from a radio tower at the same frequency it is tuned in for. Rob, your mindset determines your frequency and you found a matching energy. The two of you have a common mindset and that makes you a good match. This doesn't mean you are a perfect match and if you make monogamy work, in time the match wears off. Better is to have an open mind and consider ethical and consensual non-monogamy. Like that radio, you keep a few channels dialed in and are a much happier and more rounded person having multiple channels you can tune into. I begin a relationship introducing a Filipina to living an ECNM life that is not limited sexually and with love.
My ex (Hong Kong Chinese) surprised me with the custom of sleeping with children rather than husband. Japanese Mom will ghost you as well. So I was thinking that this is an Asian thing 🤷🏽♂️ Why date a single mom then just to have a Mom first? I think it may not be the norm but still VERY nervous about this. I found it bizarre and torture on my self dignity. Thank you for sharing your success. I appreciate it.
Hi Ron & Chrissy, Another great blog, way to go, guys, 😉😎👍🏼❤️!!! I’d like to share 3 points, if I may: 1.) One of your subscribers makes a valid point, to stop pointing out the way you do, about the “large” age gap between you, and Chrissy. I respectfully disagree with him. It’s a known, psychological fact, that if you hear something often enough, you’ll begin to believe it. So I think you need to continue driving home the idea by your actions, and videos, that when a great guy like you, Pete, an amazing woman like Chrissy, Great and beautiful things are going to happen, 😎😉❤️!!! 2.). You made another valid point, that other expats took “years” before they finally found the ❤️right❤️ woman. Possibly, because They “were” meeting the right woman, just not the right woman, for “him.” Another words, there were both wonderful people, just not the right one, for “each other.” You and Chrissy, are Romeo & Juliet, but with a 💞happy💞 ending. And finally: 3.). Another known psychological behavioral fact. Women all over the world, not just Filipino women, have always been, and will always be attracted to older men, because they see us as attractive man with our gray/silver hair, that makes us look distinguished. Secondly, women across the world, not just Filipino women, and here comes the magic words, they are always going to feel “more secure”, with an older man. I have no doubt that when Chrissy reads my comments, she’ll smile, not her head, and agree with me. Keep up the great work guys, 😎😉🙏🏼👍🏼❤️.
This is so funny 🤣🤣😂😂. Ron, that line in 1.), Was supposed to read: “When a great guy like you “RON”, meet a wonderful woman like you, “Chrissy”, wonderful, amazing things are going to happen. That’s what that line supposed to read, lol, 😂🤣. Call it a Freudian slip. When I moved to the Philippines in about six months, I’m praying to the Lord, that I’ll find “my” Chrissy, 😎🙏🏼❤️, amen, 😌😌🙏🏼🙏🏼.
Thanks for your comment a lot of people thought I walk around being overwhelmed and just thinking about the age gap instead of getting the point that the entire video was about age gap and trying to illicit responses from Chrissy so I really appreciate your comment
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines You’re welcome, Ron. Judging by the comments from other men, they agree with me, that you should stay on point, emphasizing, to “continue” sharing, that a good & patient man like you, “can” find the “right” woman, and not necessarily, have to wait “years”, before finding her. Stay with it Ron & Chrissy. You guys are are an inspiration, a great team, and we’re all happy, you found each other. See you both, in about 6 -7 months, 😎😉🙏🏼❤️.
Absolutely the best , most relevant and insightful channel on TH-cam.
Wow Thank You 🙏
The honesty and openness between you two is why your relationship works. It really is a positive thing the rest of us want.
🙏👍❤️. Thank you for your support
I love the two of you talking, diving deep into your fears (weaknesses), with us (let alone all the preparing and discussing late at night you did over the pillows). :) What I'm taking away here is that a lot of people seem to have a lot of fears, and that's what rules them. The biggest problems seem to be our fears about the other person's fears... True, we need to know and be sensitive to the other person's fears/weaknesses. But the point is we need, each of us, deal with our own fears (esp. not ignore them, hide from them, etc.). Hopefully the person we're with is doing the same. Rob and Chrissy, you did a whole lotta work on yourselves before you met and *after* you met, getting your thoughts and fears squared away. Trust in that. I honor you for that most of all. You're both VERY thoughtful people and heart-stable... Trust in that too. The scariest thing in our relationships is dealing with someone who doesn't know themselves all that well. (Regardless of age.) They don't know enough to be making promises about their future, how they'll act under pressure. You two are solid, if you can get out of the way of your fears, like a bullfighter dodges the bull. Much love and respect to you both.
Awesome advice. 🙏. Thank you
I don't think they were both talking, man he talks a lot.
He does talk a lot through his fears. If he could just listen to her more, their relationship would look much better to the people who they want to hear their stories. Carl Banks Jr., Vietnam Veteran😊
You are asking & answering all the questions I have in my head (and I'm sure most other older guys. have) that no other channels even touch on, let alone openly discuss about age gap relationships.
Thanks Rob & Chrissy !!
Thanks for such great feedback
If a man doesn’t look at women walking by out in public there’s something wrong with him.
Who you go home with is all that matters. There’s also a difference between gawking at a woman and glancing.
Women are Work Of Art, that men should admire.
I agree. Thanks for watching
Some, but not all art works of art.
Well I look
And I’m married
But my Filipina wife is very attractive and beautiful. I never need another woman as I’m very happy and content with my wife ❤️❤️
@@michaelbowden7695 thanks for watching Michael and for sharing
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I also agree (and I'm 82).
Rob, if you will allow me the freedom to Comment my thoughts about Chrissy:
As I watch Chrissy's reactions to your comments and questions, I see at first "eye candy." Seriously, she's the kind of woman that I am attracted to. Now, I'm also attracted to buxom women, as well (EXTREMELY). And I really like blondes, too.
Now, there's much more in my reactions than the above.
She REALLY appeals to my intellect. She's intelligent, astute, articulate (English for her is a bit of a foreign language), and very sensitive emotionally.
What a package! She's exactly the type of woman I want as a life partner and lover.
As to the concept that women are Works Of Art, that men should admire, I greatly admire women on what I just admitted, plus the whole idea that women create new life with childbirth. That alone is a stunner.
I'd say that due to our early sparse chances to survive, men chose women for their childbearing abilities as well as their catching the eyes of a future father to their future children. It's developed as a mutual symbiotic relationship.
Hallelujah!
why is she so smart and outspoken , why is her english so good and she can express her self much better than 87% of filipinas
97%
She has a college education and most Filipinas don't have that level of education
She is educated.
I may add - much better than most Americans.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines 98%, but who's counting. You've got class, elegance, common sense...appreciate all your commentary.
Rob, stay there in the Philippines. Im 67, my wife is 35 and our son is 7. We live a normal lifestyle and marriage in Pasig. I don’t notice any issues because of our age difference. When we are living in New Hampshire we get a lot of looks and muffled comments when we are out in public. We both feel uncomfortable at times. The only benefit to me is now my wife doesn’t have such looks of jealousy. We are moving back to the Philippines as soon as our assets here are liquidated. We love your stories.
Thanks Gerald, we appreciate hearing from you and thanks so much for your feedback
Thats a smart educated woman definitely a catch.
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I'm 52, divorced, and never had kids. Personally, I would think myself fortunate if I found a nice woman who had a young child I could help raise and provide opportunities for. To each their own, I guess!
Great video, as always. I spent many years in medical device sales before going back to the clinical side of healthcare, and hope to utilize your tips and methodology when I begin my search in a few years for someone special as I near retirement. Looking forward to more content.
Thanks for watching our videos and for your support I appreciate you taking the time to share and for your feedback
Watching you two is delightful. I see a youthful energy about you both, which is great to see.
Thanks for the natural conversation.
Thank you so much!
Rob has the gift of humor, and making his conversations super interesting.
Wow Thanks Joseph
I really liked this video about your differences and our love between you two! Keep it up, very entertaining!
Thank you! Will do! Thanks for the feedback
What a refreshing and honest conversation without the titillation. You both appear happy.
Thanks
In life, nothing is ever guaranteed. If you find someone who loves you for who you are, then you are the luckiest man in the world. Even if it's short-lived, it's better to have tried than not tried at all. Sitting at home criticizing people who put themselves out there seeking love, is nore pathetic to me. Loneliness really sucks, especially when you are older. Finding love with someone younger will always make you feel younger and happier. Good luck Rob and Chrissy. Enjoy what you have, life is so short.
Thanks for the positive feedback and kind words
Always, always, always wait minimum 2 years before you tie the knot.
After 2 years the thrill is gone and the rose tinted glasses dissapeared.
Well, I’m waiting 18 months, so almost 2 years
The fact is women want security. A single mom has less options and wants the best for her children. An older guy also has less options and she knows that. She is comfortable with a guy that see's her as the prize.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
Chrissy seems to be such a delight...easy to see why you say your are living your best life.
Yes, thanks so much. It’s so kind of you to say.
Why in your videos do you continue to focus on your age? It is obvious she loves you and doesn't look at your age so why do? I love lots of your videos but you need confidence in her love. Just my opinion. I wish you both so much happiness.
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. I appreciate the feedback. Normally I don’t push back when I receive feedback - this video subject was specifically the result of a survey viewers wanted to hear Chrissy describe dating a man in his sixties. I tried to drill down on the topic and use self deprecating humor and draw Chrissy out, not easy to get her to focus on my age, takes some prodding and exaggerated questions to get a good response. However I will ponder the feedback.
It seems Rob is feeling his age and thinks he does not deserve this amazing young beautiful Filipina who finds him attractive! They are looking for other attributes obviously. Chrissy said it so eloquently. Maybe Rob needs to get and maintain the best shape of his life staying fit and young and maintaining muscle mass. Make your 70’s look like your late 40’s! 💪💪🙏🙏
Yeah! I agree. Move past the age topic. You beat that horse to death. I’m sure Chrissy is tired of hearing about it by now too.
Why do you think everyone has seen his previous videos on this subject? Just because you saw his videos on this subject doesn’t mean we who haven’t seen him talk about it be denied to see what he has to say!
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What I find different about your channel is the honest focus.
Noticed you have recently put out a personal consulting offer.
I can just imagine all the calls and requests advise and help.
I appreciate that! Thanks for watching and the feedback
Recent subscriber and I must say you both do such a great job to enlighten my preconceived thoughts on the Phillipines and culture.
Awesome stuff, and to go to so much trouble to inform, film, edit is above and beyond. Five Star 🌟 channel. 🤙🏼
Welcome aboard! Thanks for the feedback
I am dating a single Filipina in Manila and she has 2 children aged 10 and 13. The problem at the onset is when I fly 7k miles to visit I want to spend time with my girlfriend but I have to contend with the kids. They do not have family near by so the visit has to be planned to keep the kids occupied. If you want a younger girl, mine is 35 and I’m 64, then they either have kids or want kids. It’s hard to find one that doesn’t have or want kids.
Good points
I've dated 23 Filipina"s in my life. I married a beautiful Filipina and devoriced a angry feminist. Every filipina lies to you. It takes 3 yrs to figure out her lies. I will date more filipinas for the rest of my life. You sir are letting your love blind her faults. Im not a bitter person, just a educated man, who can no the lies from the truth. Good luck I hope she is the one.
Thanks for taking time to share, and for your good wishes
You sir are a realist and I am about to have my first journey to the Philippines in 2 weeks
Dude 😮 I just kept watching and you are really only 9 months into this 😮 you are hopefully not heading for a world of hurt where you not only lose the one you love but her child that you have formed a protecting and providing relationship for 🙏
Unlike others, I found this video to be extremely interesting. It is great to hear Chrissy give very honest and straightforward answers to these questions.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks Samuel
THANK YOU, THANK YOU, Samuel. ME, TOO!
Chrissy extra intelligent and nice
Didn’t I get lucky 🍀
You two make me laugh! I am glad you found each other.
Welcome aboard!
Good job of drawing her out, and really interviewing her! As for kids, i believe once you know you're a couple, and want to live together, bring them! Love that she chases you! That young lady must have an old soul. She's a very savy woman.
Thanks that was my goal. I really appreciate your feedback. I’ve heard from some other people that I focused too much on my age and need to get over it and other people thought I cut her off a little bit however, she is not inclined to speak to the age issue, and I was probing and probing and using self deprecating humor about my age to try and draw her out seems like you got it. Thanks so much for the feedback.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Haha! I did get it, and she's a pretty awesome catch. I won't do that big of gap, for now...But you have a very sweet lady.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines she a older woman at 30 she mature as a American women at say 45 plus . you she a keeper .
I love it..
This is absolutely amazing to see the interaction here..
Glad you enjoy it!
My 25 yo Filipina’s older sister has been in a foreigner relationship for over 15 years. I think she saw how well they work…even with an age gap. Don’t be blinded. Always keep looking for the red flags.
Thanks for watching and sharing
Thanks for another great video, I love you guys. I can relate in many ways, and I think that people should just live and let live, and do what they think is right. A lot of it is in the attitude.... a positive attitude goes a long way. Rob, we're too old to have young kids, all we really want to do is enjoy life, and be happy. And, yes, age is just a number. We can't conform to society all the time. We just have to remember, as people who have much higher living standards, that many of these Filipinos have almost nothing. Many of them are literally sleeping on floors with nothing but thin foam for comfort, and eating rice for every meal. Despite that, they're happy and generous, even if they have little to offer. So, why wouldn't we, as people who have so much more, not want to help them when we're able to? I think it's terribly selfish not to help. Thank you for the content, it's always thoughtful and well presented!
Thanks Russll as always, well stated
I’m 55, and my Filipina fiancé is 30… 25 years younger. She has the same view. She prefers a mature man, and a man who is faithful and kind. We have talked about plans for when I get into old age, expected changes in our life as we both age.
Thanks for watching Scruffer and taking the time to share
Thank you both for being so honest! Both of you are beautiful and wonderful couple!
Thank you so much!
Very good. One of the best age related discussions I have seen.
Thanks Daniel we really appreciate that
You are both very mature in attitude.
Thanks, Doug for the positive feedback
You 2 seem to be a great couple. I hope you have an amazing day, take care and God bless you 🙏 🙂
Thank you! You too!
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Walang anuman
"You're like my battery". I love that. Sound like the title of my next song!
What a great way to describe the need for someone when that "thing" is something that really can't be described.
Thanks for the positive feedback, Jeffrey
Chrissy is one of a kind there are not too many Chrissy around.
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What is wrong in accepting a single mother when loving her is also embracing the children. Children are precious beyond measure and wonderful addition to the quality of your lives. The boundaries of parental authority is what must be ironed out.
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That was me sorry if I hurt your feelings. I'm just looking out for you. I do have a question. I have watched other bloggers and one of them had a lawyer talking about weird Philippine laws. One of the laws was expats are not allowed to babysit or be left alone with their girlfriends kids at home even if she is just going to the store. Is that law real?.
Thanks, I heard something like that, I only am alone at basketball court so I think I am ok
I don’t believe in waiting a set period of time…you size up her honesty, family, etc and make your decision. Of course I have hard experience from blond hair blue eyed America girls. Both failed marriages both deceptive in a way. First was over 7 years dating and she had a boyfriend for the last 3 years before we got married. 2nd was unconscious deception I think, she agreed for advanced fertility treatment and after 2 IVF failures she decided I would NOT be a father. Sorry she was wrong!
I hope Chrissy and Rob get married sooner rather than later. She is so amazing!
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines you can be alone if have her to go the near by barangay sign you as his guardianship.
That’s good to know. Thanks
It's each and every person choice and beliefs if they want a single woman with children.
My Wife has two children from previous relationship. I accepted and they both call me Daddy. Even now 10 years later, they still call me Daddy.
Their ages now are 16 and 18. I Love them both as my own.❤
Awesome, I am so happy for you guys
Yes I’ve flown there for the last 3 years and stayed a few weeks each time and from the first visit I was blown away by the love and acceptance. I know have 12 children 😂 wow God is Good!
Great to hear!
I cant get enuf of you guys. Well done videos. You guys are a match and seemingly expert talk show hosts. I see a future…
Thanks, Judge
This video is fantastic. Great couple.
Thank you so much!
I agree 👍
@@jamescalifornia2964 thanks
I have learned to take "advice" more so as comments. Everyone's experience is based upon their perceptions. Chrissy hit a homerun with her comment for Expats to be smart
Thanks Albert
You guys are great together!
🙏 David
great vid brutha. im a 68 year old retired dude in cold snowy East Lansing, Michigan. i enjoy your vlogs. looks like you got a good thing goin with Chrissy. i have a filipina friend in Togoloan, not far from you. i would be there now but im getting medical treatment for prostate cancer. you give lots of great advice with all your travel experiences. and you tell it to us straight. i appreciate that. keep up the good work👌😊
Thanks for your support and feedback. Wish you a quick and speedy recovery and see you soon in the near future
So glad I found your channel you are seriously knowledgeable I stopped watching some of the other vloggers some very popular but they started talking politics and people come from the West to get away from that stuff thank you for all the advice you really give step by step on how to take care of business even though I'm 60% knowledgeable about the Philippines but that's not enough
I appreciate that Frank!
A lot of good questions and answers Chrisy answers were so clear and articulate. And you bat those questioins off so efficiently. I feel compelled to offer what you call the "religious" perspective. As a man of faith, (I do not say religion because religion is how the secular world understands people of faith but it fails to diffierentiate other problems such as hypocratic beleifs which are so prevalent), faith is a personal relationship with the living G-d and that in it self orders things toward righteousness and completely mitigates insecurity of age and all other things. "surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life..." Age is irrelevant. Age happened as a result of sin. If born again, in the life to come those elect we will be ageless in their new glorified body which is not an old one. I say that with confidence it is the spoken Word of G-d. Regarless of how old we are we are all eternal beings. The securlar world cannot overcome age because it has no confidence in it's future because they do not have a living relationship with G-d and are blind to these truths. In the Bible no man marries an old woman because marriage is for family and child raising. Regardless of what age a man is the instruction from the Bible does not change. Obviously there is much more to say about the purpose of marriage... but i focused on age insecurity here.
Thanks for sharing
❤❤ what a great video:-)😂
🙏 Thank you Greg
How did you deal with your kids when you decided to retire in the Philippines? How did they react to the news of living with a younger Filipina? ? Might be a good topic of conversation in a future video, if you haven’t already discussed this.
Enjoyed the video.
Touchdown it lightly but I appreciate the suggestion Nathan
Dear Bob, get over your age problem and be happy that you have found such a lovely woman. You're making her upset by constantly bringing it up. Best regards from Denmark
Thank you, I will
Rob, something I just thought of after hearing you talk about Chrissy being a licensed teacher - several rural schools in the Midwest, Colorado coming to mind from a video I watched earlier today, have brought Filipinas to the U.S. on work Visas to teach due to a shortage of teachers.
It might be an easier and quicker way for the two of you to come to the U.S. than the typical marriage or fiance visa if you ever become so inclined.
Thanks, good to know
Age is a mental as much as physical. Subtract 10 … and be done with it. I’m being literal. Own it. Must always shape the ship too Don’t relax that Rob. Strong work, Chrissy. Another vid that kept my attention you two 😎🤙🏼
Thanks for the feedback, Christopher
I think the "news" thing is cultural as much as age related. I get the idea that most, (not all) Filipinos have been to raised to conform, go along, not question, etc. etc. which rules out analysis, argumentation, and debate.
Much of the news deals with society, how we view society, and what changes need to be made for the betterment of society. Politics; which is how policy is decided and implemented that governs all of our society and life from using a no.2 pencil or black ink, to dealing with corruption that spends society's money (taxes) on personal projects instead of infrastructure and healthcare.
Foreigners are cautioned to not "speak their mind" or be "confrontational" because that isn't the way things are done in the Philippines.
That is my opinion. But I'm sure that is just one facet.
Love your videos guys!
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I try to watch every video? Chrissy said divorced? Did she get married? How did she get divorced in the PH? My Filipina was very young with her first time at 15 with a 20 year old BF. I’m happy to pick up a package deal and hopefully add to the package for my dream if I can.
Online dating is less than 15% legit. In my experience. It takes a lot of filtering and some luck. 🍀 🍀
She received an annulment after 3 years waiting
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines his loss your gain .
Honest conversations with these two. Too long ,tho,the videos. I would recommend shortening up,.just friendly advice
Thanks for the tip, we struggle as eight of our top 10 videos are our longest
U best act interested in her short blogs or someone else will.
Thanks for the feedback
This episode was hilarious, Sleeping with the other man.(LOL)
Thanks Larry
I loved seeing this video. It shows me that my way of thinking about this type of relationship will work great if your partner has similar thoughts and feelings. I am really impressed. My only bad thought on this is what happens to the young woman when you die from old age? Her life, her life's expectations have been changed and are now shattered?! Do you have insurance that is left to her to help her continue the lifestyle you two have created?
Thanks Robert for watching and sharing your thoughts. Yes, this is something that has to be thought of and we are developing a plan for that.
Chasing around the house!!! 🎉😂❤❤❤
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Crissy is so positive. I apologize for saying this Rob, but I genuinely hope some of that fibs off on you. You are a great and smart person, but when Crissy talks I lean in.
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According to the PSA (Philippine Statistics Authority) they say that 1100 young girls & women are giving birth to a child EVERY DAY who have been abandoned by their boy friend! So, Chrissy situation is Very Common. Young, rural Filipinos, if without a college degree will probably be a farmer or a fisherman, and with those wages, it is difficult for them to support a family! So, if their girl friend tells him that she is pregnant, many will run away! If you are looking for a young Filipina, if you see a pregnant girl who is by her self, walk up to her and ask her if she was been abandoned by your boy friend? You may find a beautiful & sweet girl who is now starving, if she has no family and would welcome your help. This is just another way to meet a Filipina who may make you a wonderful wife and you will also get to be a daddy for her child!
The funny opening was a great intro to this subject. I found it super-relevant, as some of this runs through my mind. I'm 76 and will be meeting women in their late 30s and early 40s... maybe one who's 55. This gave me some ideas on an effective mental approach to meeting one-on-one and going forward with the BINGO woman!
I'm glad you covered whether Chrissie wants to have a child with you. It would be a wonderful genetic mix! As to whether she's "the best actress" or real, my feeling is, "If you can't tell, it doesn't matter!"
Thanks!
PS You are a very attractive couple. If I saw you at the mall, I'd stare too, but with a smile.
PPS I like shorts if well produced and not too-loud audio, esp. the music. I watch your and other longer-form videos, even the Pea, at 1.5x. Maybe it's my short attention span, I go 1.5x AND skip forward during the Regular Guy.
Yes she does….always enjoy hearing from you and thanks for the feedback
Great video, Love to meet the 2 of you when I get over there. It will be mid march. Enjoy and be kind.
Sounds good! Thanks for feedback
you have a good woman she smart , kind , open minded , caring , loving and respect . that a 10 inside. outside she beautiful. inside that last.
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. We appreciate the feedback.
LET'S HEAR ABOUT THE "PLAN" DETAILS. GREAT TO HEAR HER HEART.
We have a 90 day plan video and one year plan (pdf available) flymetothephilippines@gmail.com
I watched the three budgets for the Philippines and bought a ticket for November. For a month to start. A solo adventure. Possibly romantic.?
Danny good luck Safe Travels
Age gap is not an issue in Philippines as long as both are legal to get marry. Also, Filipino family values is strong. And it breaks our heart if we can't help our family even small things. We love and care our family ❤️ and, we love our partners, husband or wife so genuinely. And it's normal to a Filipina to get jealous specially they are young. Anyway , it's a matter of respect both sides.
Thanks for sharing that
You do great videos together you both and i believe you an awesome couple .. Rob you are fairly fit or even way over average fit for your age .. big respect ! And Chrissy is of course a gorgeous lovely and very beautiful Filippina .. with brain !.. that a perfect combo ! Vmbut a small tip to you Rob .. try not to always interrupt your lovely lady when she just talks or you even give an answer to your questions to her .. well, that’s a small thing but it would show even more respect to her !
Keep on rocking you bith and I also gonna travel this year again to the Philippines .. been there often 12-16 years ago for diving ..
Thanks, Bryan for the feedback
Welcome Rob and Crissy .. wish you a lovely time there !
Look at you! You lucked out with that woman! Count your blessings,, I’m sure you do.
The best to you all.
Thank you so much!
Hi Ron & Chrissy, 👋🏼,
I can see why one/some of your readers feel, you repeat it too much, about your age difference. What they might not understand is, that some of your readers might be watching you, for the first time. So, it’s important to share by your example, that age gap relationships,
❤️can work❤️.
Having said that, I have a suggestion for a future topic. Chrissy is the “epitome” of a true, down to earth, good, traditional Filipina woman. She’s the kind of woman, we’d want to bring home, to meet our mother.
Rob, why, oh why, did you limit her to share the “one thing”, that Filipinas value in a man, at the end of this blog??? You guys need to produce a blog, where she shares, the “TOP TEN” things, traditional Filipinas seek in a man. And Rob, let her completely “finish” talking about number 1, before moving to number 2. When she says number 2 ( and only when “she” says number 2 ), we’ll all know, she’s done with number 1.
Do you remember how on a plane, or in a restaurant, everyone stopped and leaned in, when someone said: “Well, E. F. HUTTON SAYS???” Well, Chrissy is “our” E. F. HUTTON, whenever she has “anything” to say. Love you guys, keep em’ coming, 😎😉👍🏼❤️.
Appreciate the advice
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines You guys are the best, and you’re welcome. 😎😉😌❤️.
Great couple love u guys from Al Canada.
❤️👍👍
Hello thank you for sharing your experience in the Philippines.Im planing to retire there I have 4 adult children and 9 grandkids how do you deal with being so far from them.
Honestly its a real challenge
Thank you.
You're welcome!
Wow The Perfect VID. So nice and good perfect and Nice..
Many many thanks
Did Chrissy get an annulment from previous marriage ? If so, was process complete prior to meeting ? Thank you
Yes, she had email showing judges ruling, it’s taken another 8 months for hard copy of “finality of judgement” sent to Manila. Lots of opportunities for lawyers to delay if her ex does not pay remaining balance to lawyer.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines thanks for prompt response.
By the way this is my favorite video so far
We are glad to hear that Miguel Carlos Santana
I don’t understand the need to marry. As a foreigner with significant assets it’s just not possible.
I t wasn’t my plan, however I love her
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines love her have a daughter with her are adopt a new born
Blessing
Thanks
Ask her to explain the Philippine saying that goes like this: "Old men die easy in the morning" and watch her squirm and try to laugh and play it off. It's an inside thing that everyone knows about.
Ok
You briefly mention children, what is the arraignment with Chrissy's child?
He joins us full time this summer
please if you ask her a question , please let her finish to explaine . i love you guys. GOD BLESS YOU .
Shame on her for cheating on you with a younger man....ha ha ha... I like shorts, also! Stay well.
Her loyalties are divided. Thanks for watching
She was married before? How hard was it to get her annulment final before you 2 got married??
It took 3 years, cost 1 year salary for average teacher or police man, ex tried to hold up process unless he was paid off once he learned of me, wedding in September
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines - - Thank you so much for the answer! I am so happy for you both, and your future together!
@@linctexpilot8337 🙏
She is a very beautiful lady 🌷❤️👍🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Leslie
My filapina is 56 and I am 59 we met and started talking 7 years ago. I will be back in march. She is an OFW with world travel and I am a USN Navy VET. we have alot In common. I dont tell her I will be back I tell he I will be home soon again.
Nice 👍
I believe that many Western residents do not realize the different culture in Latin America and southeast Asia. Very common to see the man much older than the female in relationship. 😏👍💕
Thanks for watching and taking the time to come
I would like to know more about this man's background as far as family, career, etc. Thanks
Noted! Lots available on other videos
Have to cross off "separated" pinays off my list in case I want to go 13a in the future.
Lots and lots of Filipina’s who are technically married
Also 67, from SoCal and now in Angeles City, where are you from?
Los Angeles- went to Hamilton
Excellent video!!!
Tom, Thank you very much!
She is checking in you you are into yr self follow yr wife ideas be humble let your wife pay everything never talk about past relationship don’t look at other girls ever girl want a baby if she loves u settle down make the most of your life with her all way tell true the wife will keep asking questions about yr life so she knows everything is
Thanks John
I have nothing against single mothers but children will always change the dynamic of a relationship. A good mother will always put her child ( ren ) first and the man who is NOT the father of the child ( ren ) second. This is only a natural state of the human experience. I have kids and they will always be my priority over a new woman albeit my sons are grown men. Unless both parties agree on this then getting married is a precursor for failure. Unrealistic expectations never turn out well.
I was married 27 years and had 3 kids and a lab in the house, I always knew the pecking order, I came behind the dog
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Yes sir you actually get it !!! By watching these vlogs I am amazed by how many men do not comprehend the pecking order. Kids and dogs are loved unconditionally but adults must bring something to the table. Best of luck to you and all of yours.
Love your channel!
Dana Thank you so much!
I like the long videos and usually go to sleep around 8 but I'm only 35. Is there any hope for me😂😂😂
Shawn there’s always hope
When I see interviews with filipinas, I'm always impressed by their practical nature. BUT they are also romantic in a way they WANT to love the person they are with.
Yes, practical and loving
Of course strike the iron while it is hot, Rob. LOL! I just tell my wifey I am rusty in the joints so she may have to oil them. LOL!
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I just finally married my Philipina in March in Alaminos San Pablo after 3 1/2 years we’ve been promised to each other. I was there to get married together in person yet online via WebEx from Utah. So the original marriage certificate is from the USA. We’ve had a complicated time for the past 3 years I can share with you for some future vlog. I can give some insight to marrying and taking on 2-4 additional children 13,19 21 and 31 (last 2 grown and out of the house). We have overcome many challenges if you would like to hear.
Thanks for sharing very interesting. You can email me at fly me to the philippines@gmail.com.
Everyone has a magnetic energy being broadcast looking for a matching energy. Imagine a radio that has many channels or frequency.
The radio is tuned into a particular signal going out from a radio tower at the same frequency it is tuned in for.
Rob, your mindset determines your frequency and you found a matching energy. The two of you have a common mindset and that makes you a good match.
This doesn't mean you are a perfect match and if you make monogamy work, in time the match wears off. Better is to have an open mind and consider ethical and consensual non-monogamy.
Like that radio, you keep a few channels dialed in and are a much happier and more rounded person having multiple channels you can tune into.
I begin a relationship introducing a Filipina to living an ECNM life that is not limited sexually and with love.
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My ex (Hong Kong Chinese) surprised me with the custom of sleeping with children rather than husband.
Japanese Mom will ghost you as well.
So I was thinking that this is an Asian thing 🤷🏽♂️ Why date a single mom then just to have a Mom first?
I think it may not be the norm but still VERY nervous about this. I found it bizarre and torture on my self dignity.
Thank you for sharing your success. I appreciate it.
It is quite normal- benefits of having grandparents in home- child sleeps with them
Hi Ron & Chrissy,
Another great blog, way to go, guys, 😉😎👍🏼❤️!!! I’d like to share 3 points, if I may:
1.) One of your subscribers makes a valid point, to stop pointing out the way you do, about the “large” age gap between you, and Chrissy. I respectfully disagree with him. It’s a known, psychological fact, that if you hear something often enough, you’ll begin to believe it. So I think you need to continue driving home the idea by your actions, and videos, that when a great guy like you, Pete, an amazing woman like Chrissy, Great and beautiful things are going to happen, 😎😉❤️!!!
2.). You made another valid point, that other expats took “years” before they finally found the ❤️right❤️ woman. Possibly, because They
“were” meeting the right woman, just not the right woman, for “him.” Another words, there were both wonderful people, just not the right one, for “each other.” You and Chrissy, are Romeo & Juliet, but with a 💞happy💞 ending.
And finally:
3.). Another known psychological behavioral fact. Women all over the world, not just Filipino women, have always been, and will always be attracted to older men, because they see us as attractive man with our gray/silver hair, that makes us look distinguished. Secondly, women across the world, not just Filipino women, and here comes the magic words, they are always going to feel “more secure”, with an older man. I have no doubt that when Chrissy reads my comments, she’ll smile, not her head, and agree with me.
Keep up the great work guys, 😎😉🙏🏼👍🏼❤️.
This is so funny 🤣🤣😂😂. Ron, that line in 1.), Was supposed to read:
“When a great guy like you “RON”, meet a wonderful woman like you, “Chrissy”, wonderful, amazing things are going to happen. That’s what that line supposed to read, lol, 😂🤣. Call it a Freudian slip. When I moved to the Philippines in about six months, I’m praying to the Lord, that I’ll find “my” Chrissy, 😎🙏🏼❤️, amen, 😌😌🙏🏼🙏🏼.
Thanks for being so complementary Pete
Thanks for your comment a lot of people thought I walk around being overwhelmed and just thinking about the age gap instead of getting the point that the entire video was about age gap and trying to illicit responses from Chrissy so I really appreciate your comment
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines You’re welcome, Ron. Judging by the comments from other men, they agree with me, that you should stay on point, emphasizing, to “continue” sharing, that a good & patient man like you, “can” find the “right” woman, and not necessarily, have to wait “years”, before finding her. Stay with it Ron & Chrissy. You guys are are an inspiration, a great team, and we’re all happy, you found each other. See you both, in about 6 -7 months, 😎😉🙏🏼❤️.
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