Omg I just realized something! Melanie is a GENIUS! The pool is literally exactly like the pool in the 1997 movie Lolita, wherein a young girl is sexualized in the same way the song talks about. It’s such a short, brief moment in the movie but it’s SO PERFECTLY represented here!
people say that she is turning childish things inappropriate, when she is really spreading a big message. That message is that people should not be judged by what they look like and that people should not be changing themselves just to impress others. This is why she is such an inspiration, she teaches so many valuable lessons in her songs, and for some people it’s hard to get the message.
Some nasty ass Karen just accused me of being sexist. She was fighting and yelling with heart and emotion, and using invalid points. She was yelling that "women's rights were created because of men like me!" But when I pulled facts on her, and quoted her, she denied everything. Then, she "had to leave". She was being toxic and bitter, saying stuff like "nobody cares" when I was talking to my friend, not even HER, about my dead dog. SMH shame on her. Her roblox username is unicactus_4life. She stressed me out so much, and I had a bad day because of her. She ruined my mood. Feel free to go yell at that asshole.
Some nasty ass Karen just accused me of being sexist. She was fighting and yelling with heart and emotion, and using invalid points. She was yelling that "women's rights were created because of men like me!" But when I pulled facts on her, and quoted her, she denied everything. Then, she "had to leave". She was being toxic and bitter, saying stuff like "nobody cares" when I was talking to my friend, not even HER, about my dead dog. SMH shame on her. Her roblox username is unicactus_4life. She stressed me out so much, and I had a bad day because of her. She ruined my mood. Feel free to go yell at that asshole.
Still A Piece Of Garbage there will always be someone like that, what good does staying angry over it do? Stay positive and don’t let people get to you , speaking from personal experience. Trust me, you can take hits and hit em back :)
Actually, why is no one talking about how there's only 4 of them in the beginning and then six for the rest. I- I'm so confused where did the other 2 come from? And I love your comment. Why isn't there a love button for comments
The crazy thing is how ppl tell a girl she is ugly and when she started wearing makeup the ppl switch and started saying natural beauty is the best like pick one are pimples pretty what natural beauty do you want
I hate all of the guys that say make up is ugly, but when females dont wear make up its ugly because she doesnt looke perfect Most girls dont wear make up for boys, but to feel confident
@@brokoli1968 @Brokoli That is so sad. I'm crying. All the time. I started even before hitting the play button, since then I've been reading the comments and repeating the song for almost an hour, even when I was supposed to do other things. But it is what happens to me with this type of subject. I can't handle them, I have a limit and the line is over. In your case, there may be no going back. But what there is, is another way out. You could try to convince your parents to change schools for you. That was my solution. I hope you are better now and in the future you can find that those around you respect, value, appreciate and love you for who you are for all what you worth. Good luck ❤️. I wish the people who inhabit the world were different, so as not to force anyone against their physical or mental integrity. Do not humiliate, do not mistreat, do not attack, do not abuse. In order not to make people like me sometimes just want to stop breathing in the bathtub with the water up to the brim. Thank you very much to all the comments on this video and to the fans of this wonderful singer as well, including her. It helps. After the painful daily assaults amon others that exist everywhere and that too many pass in silence, it is truly moving to see that there are people like you and yourselves. Too bad they are not everywhere. And that where they are needed there are others who are completely alone, and isolated. I wish all of you light, peace and love in your life.
@@ellisiv521 those "everyone" is pertaining who thinks negative about her music video ,it doesn't indicate to you or someone else it indicate to that kind of person ...gets?
Exactly it’s not even that inappropriate so you guys are just exaggerating she’s actually teaching us some thing and saying that boys are never acting like they saw skin before that’s why that’s what boys are like. Trying to get you that stuff.
Not many people talk about this part, but it truly hits home. “Just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop, saying it’s my fault.” It’s awful to hear and honestly heartbreaking to know how many young girls who has to face this, like I did. It scars us for life, and it’s never be fair or justified. We act like guys are like animals and just can’t hold themselves, but that’s just another excuse to allow this to happen.
I totally agree with you. And people mostly act that its our fault. Hats off to you for speaking what about what happened to you because ppl mostly try to hide the scars instead of healing them.
@@read.with.rupkatha It's the reason I love this song. I am getting sexually harassed by a boy at my school. AND IM ONLY IN 6TH GRADE KEEP IN MIND! I have asked him to stop and he never did. NOW here comes costume day and all my friends wanted us to be a group of animals and I was a tiger. We all had skin tight full body costumes and overalls on and AS SOON as I walk into my third period, he looked at me and didn't stop. And since I'm 13 I have a little bit of breasts. And keep in mind it is SKIN TIGHT. So I felt very uncomfortable that whole day and finally in my band class in seventh period I say to him " Oh my God stop staring at me like that!!! " He asked why... HE ASKED. WHY SHOULD HE STOP LOOKING AT ME!!! I got so mad at that and screamed at him " BECAUSE ITS CREEPY PERVERT!! YOU DONT GO AROUND LOOKING AT GIRLS BREASTS ALL DAY! " And then he said back to me " Well it's your fault for wearing that. " And keep in mind I have told my teachers about it but they have done nothing but agree with him. He still goes to my school. And he is doing the same exact thing to my girlfriend now. I won't say his or my teachers names but I just thought I had to get that out.
@@SiggyAteThemAll I am a year younger than you and i think you should approach your parents about it or a trusted adult. Cauz today he might just be staring but tomorrow he might take a big step
Klinton Kutriqi but they shouldn’t have to do that they shouldn’t have to be scared that’s what makes me sad like sometimes it’s hard not to stare but boys should just get over it and look away and focus on what they’re doing
One girl blasted this on her speaker in the locker rooms and she got in trouble and she was screaming "WHY AM I IN TROUBLE FOR PROVING A POINT AND TRYING TO TELL THESE GIRLS THEY ARENT ALONE?????" she ended up getting suspended for the rest of the school year, thank you for trying to make us feel better Maxine, hope the world is treating you well now Edit: ok you guys alot of you seem confused so lemme explain, Maxine is the name of the girl that played the music in the locker rooms, im not talking abt melanie martinez in the comment, hope that cleared stuff up Edit 2: I live how there's 666 likes on this comment, also update on Maxine, she's in school again and back on track for the school year :DD
This is one of my favorite songs because not only is the melody amazing, but because it shows a deep message, revealing some things that aren’t being talked about enough. One of the lyrics “Got sent home to change cause my skirt is too short” shows how women are the ones being blamed rather than the men. Instead of teaching boys not fucking harass girls, the girls are taught to not express themselves truly because they might get hurt. Like what type of society is that? Can’t we all just live in peace without having to worry about getting harassed while walking down the street? This is even an issue in court where the answer is obvious, but people still ask questions like, “why didn’t you say no?” or “why didn’t you say anything earlier?”. I’m sick of women constantly being blamed, harassed, and hurt because men can’t get themselves together and respect fellow human beings. 90% of people who are sexually harassed are women, and 60% of women have been sexually harassed. This needs to stop now.
Some nasty ass Karen just accused me of being sexist. She was fighting and yelling with heart and emotion, and using invalid points. She was yelling that "women's rights were created because of men like me!" But when I pulled facts on her, and quoted her, she denied everything. Then, she "had to leave". She was being toxic and bitter, saying stuff like "nobody cares" when I was talking to my friend, not even HER, about my dead dog. SMH shame on her. Her roblox username is unicactus_4life. She stressed me out so much, and I had a bad day because of her. She ruined my mood. Feel free to go yell at that asshole.
Something that really shocked me about this song apart from the lyrics is that during the video at some point the boys take pieces of the cake and Crybaby looks upset. She didn't give it to them, they took it and that's not right. It's another detail that makes K-12 an amazing and interesting experience.
@@MarcelReuling your family must be proud to know that you go on videos and advertise your own shit cuz youre so desperate, and plus people already made lyric videos for this song!
@@allykittyynope this phrase was made just to refer to females . the science of men and boys getting sa is complete different and you should never compare boys to our pain.
I think this a song everyone has to hear..Sadly it’s a fact that the woman’s body is hypersexualized to such an extent that some people normalize street harassment ( I'm sorry, my english is really bad..i hope you could understand what i've tried to say) Edit: thanks for the 1.3k likes❤
@@Shadow-vd7es in Spanish "hypersexuality" means 'excessive sexual desire', in Argentina if u wear a blouse and your breasts are showing a little people believe that you are provoking the opposite sex and that is WRONG
@@Omuhraun We all know it, the sheath is reprehensible in both cases, it's wrong, I know, but many people believe that it's normal for many men (I am not saying all) do this to women, it's not normal, it's wrong. You musn't have to make ridiculous comparisons, what you have to do is eradicate these thoughts and obviosly dont hypersexualizing bodies of both men and women. If you are over 16, I recommend you watch the movie "I'm not an easy man", it is a well done example of how to make a feminist movie.
I got catcalled by a grown man today, I don't know if it was for / aimed at me but I sure did feel attacked by what he said. I've been playing this song ever since I got home and it's made me feel so much better about the situation, I can't thank you enough melanie
If the male teacher sends me to the office because he thinks that I’m “distracting the male students in the class” even if no boy said anything, then he should get fired ASAP for checking out a young girls’ body.
This comment it's REALLY REALLY funny (and sad) to me, 'cause in my country, some years ago, a girl was sent home because of how she was dressed and like... The feMale teacher said a thing like "if you're dressed up like this, you'll distract make teachers" and I'm still shaking for this stupid sentence. Like... Are you tellIng your colleagues are pedo?!?! Wtf?!
REMEMBER: If it's a boy or a girl never ever touch them without their consent. For those people who like molesting others without permission just stop.
There's this one guy in my class that thought it was funny to slap my ass for fun. At the time I was completely shocked and didn't know how to act, so in the end I remained silent. There's another guy who saw, but he claims he doesn't remember. The same guy that touched me in that way now insults me and makes me insecure.
Well sometimes although some people should have a better brain that's a boy wouldn't get a whole eternal wrath of "Don't harass girls.." Hm.. Pathetic they say about us..
Listen, okay, if you don't stop when I tell you to stop, you'd better be expecting a few bruises, like seriously, buzz off. You're not entitled to touch me.
Btw not only the harness thing because when i was practicing handstands at a gym 3 30 year old looking men started watching me , my father noticed and tool them away , I also got groomed by a 25 year old on discord and 2 20 year olds were watching my ahhss while I was swimming ( My friend noticed and told me )
That's why I believe my young brothers and my father should actually listen to this song. My brothers need to stop listening to NLE choppa or random songs that have no important meaning, and let this be the first song by her they listen to. So they can grow up and realize what's going on outside and realize that NLE choppa is not going to give u advice on what goes on in the outside world.
Strawberry Shortcake talks about the sexualization and objectification of girls Dollhouse talks about dysfunctional families pretending to be perfect Sippy Cup talks about alcoholism Tag You're It talks about kidnapping The Principal talks about toxic politicians Teacher's Pet talks about grooming Mrs. Potato Head talks about low self esteem and plastic surgery addiction Playdate talks about casual sexual relationships Mad Hatter talks about mental health issues Orange Juice talks about eating disorders Cake talks about objectification in relationships Alphabet Boy talks about love interests with huge academic egos Teddy Bear talks about fixing up broken relationships
A POINT THAT NEEDS TO BE SPREAD : Boys are allowed to wear tank tops and show their shoulders so why should girls shoulders be sexualised? We have to change this double standard!!!
This is honestly my fav song from k-12. It just tells the reality that the boys aren’t taught to keep their hands away but instead the girls are taught to cover themselves. Cover their whole ass personality. Our whole life is being afraid of someone touching us without our consent. We have to be scared because ”it’s our fault”
Okay, I highly disagree with the "Oh, you're covering me up? I guess you're covering up my personality too!" Unless they are over the age of 18, kids (of all genders) should just not be showing so much skin. Basically saying that personality is being almost naked is a weird thing to suggest. You can definitely show your personality through your clothes and still have it be an appropriate thing to wear. But that's just my opinion.
This reminds me of an extremely uncomfortable memory from when in primary school we went to the swimming pools.. I was sexualised back then and I didn't even understand it fully but I knew it made me feel unsafe, uncomfortable and unhappy, and it still affects me to this day. Not just that but I stopped wearing certain clothes in my adulthood that I enjoyed wearing aka gothic clothes like corsets and stuffs because I would get harassed by people all the time (or the nasty kind of attention) and they'd sexualise me (even call me a whore and such) and I was just wearing clothes I wanted to wear cause I enjoy them, it doesn't help that I have big boobs too :/ I hope that anyone who has been sexualised and sexually harassed/assaulted when just being themselves will be okay, its not okay that this bullshit happens to you, I dont care what sex or gender someone is you deserve to feel safe and happy in your own skin and clothes and to not be treated this way..
It’s not your fault that you wear your fav clothes, it’s THEIR that they can’t control their mouths or eyes . YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT!!!! 💓💓💓💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💓💖💓💓💞
Same, I have a kinda tight clothes or cheerleader type skirt styles- and I'm a beautiful girl that "looks perfect" according to my parents but whenever I dont look perfect they say I look like an orphan. But I dont want to be snatched away and assaulted for being beautiful and wearing tight and short style clothes...
This song really speaks about the struggles women face daily how they are held accountable for the actions of others. Men changing to women dont help either because they are labeling women based on bodily functions like menstruation
I just let my mom listen to this song. I explained the meaning behind it. Het response was 'well I don't think it's the fault of boys. Girls just must not show too much skin, that's how life works' Luckily, younger generations do understand this message..
my own mom yells and screams at ME for wearing the clothes that I want because BOYS stare and disrespect, as if it’s MY fault. Boys can walk around shirtless and if I wear a tank top on a hot summer day and get sexually harassed it’s MY fault and I should be yelled at? smh
look hun, your mom is just protecting you from danger. ofc its not your fault, but she's protecting you from the society outside. ik you want to wear what you like, but elders are more wise, so its important to listen to them. in the end you'll know that your parents did this and that for a reason
@@overwicket1339 if someone doesn't listen, that is the only option left. either way if your parents are nice and care for you, they'll eventually do something that hurts you, but in the end you'll be much happier.
@@Ciarasoup that's literally not the case. And even if it was, there's literally no problem with that. People can write songs about whatever they want to express and what they feel and they shouldn't be shamed for it.
exactly. That's exactly why even my parents love her music. My younger brothers don't get it because their too stuck into listening music about useless stuff.
It’s my fault, It’s my fault, Cause I put icing on top Now, the teacher wants a taste of the strawberry shortcake That’s my bad, That’s my bad, No one taught him not to grab Now, The teacher wants a taste of the strawberry shortcake 🍰 🍓
Yes, see this comment, OOHH, I jus love it so much, it gets me into another conversation. If you go to a public swimming pool, you have to wear a top and bottom if you are female. If you are male, you have to wear only bottoms. Why is this required? This is so stupid to me honestly. Most people in my life tell me I’m overreacting, but I know I’m not, if men who have bigger tits than women can walk around shirtless, I believe women can do the same. Seriously. It’s stupid. Same with the scenario of it being a hot, sticky, day, and all a female wants to do is just rip their shirt off. But they can’t. That’s illegal! :/ But males who are hot and sticky on that day, have no problem whipping their shirt off. Again, stupid. When I was little, I remember always wanting, AND SAYING, that I wanted to take my shirt off so badly. Even just around my family. Even my cousins, and other female relatives laughed in agreement. Then why don’t we? It’s so odd. We can handle a male who has a bigger chest then most females(for example) to be walking shirtless, but we can’t do the same for females, just because there is a bit of fat there that provides milk and is a natural thing for some reproduction? Even males who don’t have a big chest, or are fat, and maybe have nothing there, ITS FAT, ITS A PEICE OF FUCKING FAT. This topic is my most important argument for me personally. Maybe we’ve progressed to far into modernness. It’s just such an ignorant and dense law. I also don’t care at all, because most likely, women don’t mind wearing tops, that doesn’t change the fact though that it SHOULD NOT BE A LAW. I really really do want to make petitions for these things, or at least men have to follow these requirements, because both gender’s skins should be treated equally!! We shouldn’t act as if men’s skin is something carefree, doesn’t - matter - if - you - show - it - off shit, and then turn around and tell women that their skin is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, and you need to hide it, OOOOOHHHH WAIT. But also DON’T hide it! See what I mean? Men can’t even make up their minds them selves. My final message to get to every ignorant, and laws, brain, is that EVERY GENDER’S SKIN SHOULD BE TREATED THE SAME, NOT ONE LESS FRAGILE THEN THE OTHER, NOT ONE LESS TOUGH THEN THE OTHER. Thanks for anyone who survived this long rant! ;) Edit: I’d also like to add I know that in ONLY 6 STATES it’s legal to have no top. Another not fun fact, is that women are literally arrested in some places for having the wrong BATHING SUIT!!
Don’t compare God with a human being no one is greater than the Almighty Father aswell as do not write his name in a small “g” it’s comes of as very disrespectful. No hate
@@choco5409 Whether you “care” or not it still comes of very disrespectful to Christians. And if u don’t believe in God* that is very unfortunate for you. What has come of humanity 🤦.I am not scared to stand up for my religion nor tell you where you went wrong. You can choose to take this offensively or positively I do not care, I only wanted to correct you and show you the right path,it is your choice to follow it or not. Have a good day.
The world would be a better place if people didn’t have such dirty minds and sexualize everything, even kids are sexualized and exploited. You wear a crop top it’s a problem and that kind of style has been around since the 70s and it was originally created for men, you wear a bikini it’s also a problem and it’s been out since 1946. People act like these styles are something new
@꧁ ღ An Awkward Crybaby ღ ꧂ exactly, our skin is something we’re born with it’s not something to be ashamed of, I’m not revealing my important parts. So I don’t understand why it’s anyone’s business to get mad over what someone is wearing, life to too short to be worrying about dumb crap like that when there are other important things to be worried about. It’s a woman’s fault and she needs to be covered up fully because the boys will get distracted smh
Yet here u are posting on TH-cam...fueling one of the machines that propagates sexualizing everything. If u wanna change shit start with yourself. Deleting all social media is a great start
@@seantriplesevyn8152 I don’t even use social media like that, you speak as if you know I do, you basically missed the whole point of what I said. And social media is a way to get things out so people would listen, it’s no different from the news. Yet you are here replying to a TH-cam comment, idk where in my comment I said I wanted to make a change, can’t change pervs mindsets😂. Take your own advice and delete social media, don’t know why you’re on TH-cam since it sexualizes everything then
I remember when I made the mistake of wearing sweats and a tank top on a HOT DAY. I heard hollering and whistles from a car that slowed down significantly while I was on my way to the bank. If I hadn't pulled out my phone and called my bf to look like I was preoccupied I'm sure they would have stopped. But that's my fault, right? I'm just BEGGING for them to harass me 🙄 Guess I'll wear baggy clothes and deal with the heat stroke.
Omg yeha I went to her concert in Manchester and when she did that I died like omg everyone was screaming it was amazing they should have included that :)
"Instead of making me feel bad for the body i got, Just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop" Finally the legend said it Edit: ok last time I check, this was have like 7 likes or sumn, how come it suddenly reach 2.5k? Answer: melanie powerful lyrics and represent all us woman.
Girl:**shows a inch on shoulder** Male teacher:GO CHANGE ITS DISTURBING THE CLASS Me in the back:but listen listen...THE CLASS WAS FINE YOU DISTURBED THE CLASS LOOKING AT GIRLS YOU TEACH
@@KenericTheGeneric You're right. I met many guys who aren't like that but when I was a high school student I got targeted by guys for wearing skirts. They started telling me I was just a slut, wanting attention, wanting to be touched etc etc... I still have PTSD because of some of this sexual harassment, as an adult,I can't wear skirts anymore without panicking.
로라Laura wow I’m so sorry that happens to you. I’m so upset that they called u a slut for WEARING A SKIRT when your a girl and they know that girls wear skirts. I also hate it when people shame women for wearing shorts or even a one piece swimsuit! WTH do they expect for us to wear in the summer a sweatshirt and sweatpants?!
I developed early and fast (bra and period at 9) by the time I was in 7th grade I was a D cup. I was harrassed even by my male friends. I wanted to be slim and small so bad. I only wore T shirts until the end of high school. I was so self conscious.
@cactus I agree with your point on society's standards for men, being 6 foot, dominant, and assertive. That i know is a thing for men, and I'm glad you acknowledged that and society's standards on girls too. I guess what I'm trying to say is both sides have standards and try to conform to them. But I think there's a bit more to it. Girls are constantly having ads that don't show normal things like acne and stretch marks, how they need to be curvy and skinny in the right places, social media hasn't helped either in a lot of ways. Girls do feel pressure to be prettier a lot of the time so whats wrong with them dressing in a way that makes them feel pretty? Men are constantly told to be dominant and assertive, making the first move. I don't care if men compliment women in a polite way, asks them on a date, I don't even care if their biological tendencies happen, even with the whole rebellious expectation society has for men if both people are cool with it and know eachother. What I think most women don't find okay is when people say some stuff that is unnecessary and creepy, even the girls who like bad boys feel uncomfortable when a stranger who they don't know starts doing the whole assertive act. I'm sorry if this is long or came off aggressive but its just a bit of perspective.
ok this is fine, no it’s not the girls fault for wearing revealing clothes. The boy should keep his hands or whatever to himself. Girls should be allowed to wear whatever they want.
yk what i hate?? i hate when girls dress like tomboys they get labeled a “lesbian” or “she wants to be a boy” but when girls actually get the courage and confidence to wear stuff like dresses and skirts, she’s labeled as a slut... idk it’s just not fair
strawberriemilktea EXACTLY!!!! Why do men feel the need to call woman sluts for wearing something they feel comfortable in! Our body is our body and if people carry on sexualising it then we wont be able to wear anything!!! No shorts no skirts no dress no crop top no short dress no gym bras no NOTHING! Its so annoying.
I used to wear tight short dresses and skirts and crazy makeup every day because I feel comfortable in them but then a boy called me a slut (when I was wearing a long-sleeve turtleneck dress that went down to my knee (with tights underneath)) and (boys especially) judged me because of my makeup so now I wear leggings and sweatshirts and neutral makeup which I don't feel comfortable in. Boys need to learn how to let girls dress how they want to, look how they want to, and act how they want to.
Miranda Willey girl dont let them control your life! I totally understand you, go back to your old outfits and makeup dont change for judgmental boys okay bc someone out there likes your style! Those boys opinions on you dont matter you should put it behind you, i have a weird style like big boots and a aesthetic look, my mum and everyone thinks its weird and strangers do as well but i keep my head up high bc there opinion dont matter okay!! You only live once so live it your way.
I was sexually assaulted and my mom blames me for trusting him. If I didn’t go to his room in our house to watch a movie, it wouldn’t have happened. This is after she’d been pressuring me to trust him and to make him my friend. Long story short, I had to realize that she’s wrong and when I said “no,” pushed him away, etc. it should have stopped. This is how our society is. Blame the woman when the man overpowers us. Blame the clothes, the decisions, anything because God knows the men just can’t be taught not to grab, not to overpower, to stop, to listen, to be decent.
I'm really sorry that you had to go through that, but not all men are as you say. (sorry if it is misspelled or if you misunderstood what you put, I translated it with google ^^)
Lyrics: Feeling unsure of my naked body Stand back, watch it taking shape Wondering why I don't look like Barbie They say boys like girls with a tiny waist Now, my mama's preaching to make sure I'm pure But, I never really cared about that shit before Look around the room to whoever wants me Got boys acting like they ain't seen skin before Got sent home to change 'cause my skirt is too short It's my fault, it's my fault 'cause I put icing on top Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake That's my bad, that's my bad, no one taught them not to grab Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake Gotta make sure that my legs are shiny Hot wax melting, burn my skin People all around me watching closely 'Cause it's how I look and not what I think Mikey's eyes seem to be glued to her chest So, I'm stuffing my bra so that mine look the best It's my fault, it's my fault 'cause I put icing on top Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake That's my bad, that's my bad, no one taught them not to grab Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake Instead of making me feel bad for the body I got Just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop Sayin' it's my fault, it's my fault 'cause I put icing on top Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake That's my bad, that's my bad, no one taught them not to grab Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake
“got boys actin like they ain’t seen skin before” 0:45 literally i could say that to that one 7th grader about what he did when i was wearing a crop top.
tiege tiger 2 ‘The Principal’ does in the film after referencing the trans teacher and ‘High School Sweethearts does too: right after the song, Crybaby says she thought the one who’d written the letter that inspires the song was a girl.... so the potential suitor the song was dedicated to is female (Mel is bi, actually).
"no tube tops" "no crop tops" "no yoga pants" "no shirt skirts above ur knee by and inch" "no ripped jeans "no shoulders" "you have to have ur hair up! (well in my school.)"
i can imagine a boy going into this school shirtless and not getting dress coded, but if a girl comes in with, god forbid, her hair down, they get sent home
then i cannot attend school ever because yoga pants and in skirt is all i have i just want to be comfoterbul like jeeze dress codes make no sense cloths does not mean consent
For that reason the uniform exist, well in My school,but boys a d girls also make changes to the uniform includyng me ,and un My country is normal yo see 13 years girls using short skirts
yes they need to be teached that instead of stupid pornography mind they get from their devices and our mom teachs us “no naked spots in cloths!” why don't teach them to “Don't look at others daughters”
If lesbians bisexuals pansexuals etc can control themselves when a girl wears a tang top or other and boys cant the problem obviously isnt the clothes 💀😴 i just dont get it the other day a girl in my school got Dress coded bc she was wearing a shorts they werent even that short tbh a bit above the knee and the teacher wad like im trying to teach and ur distracting the boys. I was disgusted bc instead of teaching the girl what to wear why dont u teach the boys not to stare 😌😌 period
go off sis!!! as a lesbian, i would rather shoot off my right pinky and watch it bleed than looking at girls changing around me/in a vulnerable position. I think its bc its so ingrained in our brains that we're predators, idk. but if we can respect womens privacy without getting so excited, why cant dudes?
saying that teachers need to teach boys is kinda ridiculous. the blame rests on the parents. teachers have little control over dress code policies. it's really about the parents.
Melanie here has a perfect body and hides it at first, while I'm overweight and I'm not afraid to show it and it's all because of her songs! Thank you, Melanie Martinez, because you helped me to except myself the way I am❤️
The worst thing about this video is not that ends,but that it Is *R e a l* Edit:thank you for the likes and for understanding what I meant, I'm sorry for all the people who have been through this difficult situation, and if you were one of them, I'm so sorry and hope you managed to fight it because In the world where we are, there are people who are not so good, people are toxic to each other and hurt them inside for no reason, but it is good to know that there are people who care about this matter❤️❤️❤️
Quick story time: one time me and one of my guy friends wanted to see how fucked up my school really is so he came in wearing basketball shorts no shirt, and I came in with shorts and an oversized shirt (note this was fifth grade, nobody should be sexualized) and they sent me home because my shorts were "too short" and they were "distracting" meanwhile they looked my guy friend up and down and didn't say a word. society is fucked up.
Omg I just realized something! Melanie is a GENIUS! The pool is literally exactly like the pool in the 1997 movie Lolita, wherein a young girl is sexualized in the same way the song talks about. It’s such a short, brief moment in the movie but it’s SO PERFECTLY represented here!
OMG, It's true!! I haven't noticed that!
Wait really? DAMN MELANIE!😂😂
no it doesnt, i looked and saw no resemblance
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but show me wrong, id love to see what im missing
I like that movie
@@pereiramariana35 what happens after
people say that she is turning childish things inappropriate, when she is really spreading a big message. That message is that people should not be judged by what they look like and that people should not be changing themselves just to impress others. This is why she is such an inspiration, she teaches so many valuable lessons in her songs, and for some people it’s hard to get the message.
Ikr btw nice profile pic ^-^
And it's good that it's kind of childish so children can learn without being scarred mentally
Thank you! For explaining this its so true
She’s so unique
Some nasty ass Karen just accused me of being sexist. She was fighting and yelling with heart and emotion, and using invalid points. She was yelling that "women's rights were created because of men like me!" But when I pulled facts on her, and quoted her, she denied everything. Then, she "had to leave". She was being toxic and bitter, saying stuff like "nobody cares" when I was talking to my friend, not even HER, about my dead dog. SMH shame on her. Her roblox username is unicactus_4life. She stressed me out so much, and I had a bad day because of her. She ruined my mood. Feel free to go yell at that asshole.
I like how melanie dicusses societal issues like this on her songs.
Jhian Tomelden right? This is why stan
Some nasty ass Karen just accused me of being sexist. She was fighting and yelling with heart and emotion, and using invalid points. She was yelling that "women's rights were created because of men like me!" But when I pulled facts on her, and quoted her, she denied everything. Then, she "had to leave". She was being toxic and bitter, saying stuff like "nobody cares" when I was talking to my friend, not even HER, about my dead dog. SMH shame on her. Her roblox username is unicactus_4life. She stressed me out so much, and I had a bad day because of her. She ruined my mood. Feel free to go yell at that asshole.
Still A Piece Of Garbage there will always be someone like that, what good does staying angry over it do? Stay positive and don’t let people get to you , speaking from personal experience. Trust me, you can take hits and hit em back :)
discusses*
Boys- *literally comes in without a shirt*
Teachers- this is fine
Girls- shows a inch of shoulder*
Teachers: dress coded or gets sent home to change
The part that was "got boys acting like they ain't seen skin before" girl omg melanie you ate
And left no.crumbs
Fr fr
She didn’t eat that up
SHE DEVOURED AND LEFT NO CRUBS AT ALL
@@Keekeeiscute YASSS✨✨✨
I'm ur 800th like
why is no one talking about how the choreography of the swimmers was so perfect and beautiful?
Yeah it was cool. I agree with you.
Cuz the video has SO much more than just swimmers.
Actually, why is no one talking about how there's only 4 of them in the beginning and then six for the rest. I- I'm so confused where did the other 2 come from? And I love your comment. Why isn't there a love button for comments
TRUE
Kikee Ikr?
Also, iS THAT MIU FUCKING IRUMA IN YOUR PFP AAAA-
The crazy thing is how ppl tell a girl she is ugly and when she started wearing makeup the ppl switch and started saying natural beauty is the best like pick one are pimples pretty what natural beauty do you want
I hate all of the guys that say make up is ugly, but when females dont wear make up its ugly because she doesnt looke perfect
Most girls dont wear make up for boys, but to feel confident
@@shrimpies799 yea it's fun to play with make up lol
My bullying stopped when i started wearing makeup.
There's no turning back.
@@brokoli1968 @Brokoli That is so sad. I'm crying. All the time. I started even before hitting the play button, since then I've been reading the comments and repeating the song for almost an hour, even when I was supposed to do other things. But it is what happens to me with this type of subject. I can't handle them, I have a limit and the line is over.
In your case, there may be no going back. But what there is, is another way out. You could try to convince your parents to change schools for you. That was my solution. I hope you are better now and in the future you can find that those around you respect, value, appreciate and love you for who you are for all what you worth. Good luck ❤️.
I wish the people who inhabit the world were different, so as not to force anyone against their physical or mental integrity. Do not humiliate, do not mistreat, do not attack, do not abuse. In order not to make people like me sometimes just want to stop breathing in the bathtub with the water up to the brim. Thank you very much to all the comments on this video and to the fans of this wonderful singer as well, including her. It helps. After the painful daily assaults amon others that exist everywhere and that too many pass in silence, it is truly moving to see that there are people like you and yourselves.
Too bad they are not everywhere. And that where they are needed there are others who are completely alone, and isolated.
I wish all of you light, peace and love in your life.
@@personaanonima9805 I hope your doing fine now I have never been bullied so idk how you ppl feel
I'm really happy that there are still some artists who show problems of society rather than only romantic songs.....
This is why I stan Mel it’s because she makes songs about real issues rather than everyone else making romance or break up songs
periodtt
She talks about literally everything damn
@@whoami8789 i like it
Agreed
I love how all 4 Barbie figures don’t look the same and they are all so beautiful in their own way
Can we talk about how amazing the water dancers are?
Yea they are doing a good job
No
On a very different topic, we have a VERY similar profile picture right now
@@DaniellaCartwright Yes
@@DaniellaCartwright yes
Everyone thinks she’s inappropriate in this video, but really she’s giving a good message.
PREACH
Yeah!
Bruh, u know it’s not everyone -_-
@@ellisiv521 what do u mean by that
@@ellisiv521 those "everyone" is pertaining who thinks negative about her music video ,it doesn't indicate to you or someone else it indicate to that kind of person ...gets?
“No one told them not to grab” is the line that sticks out. So she’s being assaulted...
Not necessarily, she’s just sending a message (:
It could mean that, but it could also mean how society teaches girls to cover up but not boys to control themselves :)
Well not necessarily assaulted could of been just privately touched in highschool
No she is spreading a message
uh this is kinda weird, when i read that that line played in the song-
People over here thinking Melanie is being inappropriate but she's actually teaching us stuff and I love this song
Same pfp!! :0
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Yes she talks about issues that really happen
Exactly it’s not even that inappropriate so you guys are just exaggerating she’s actually teaching us some thing and saying that boys are never acting like they saw skin before that’s why that’s what boys are like. Trying to get you that stuff.
Was she actually being naked though- or fake
*”Gingerbread man”*
*”milk and cookies”*
*”cake”*
*”Strawberry shortcake: Who are you?”*
*”The Bakery: your mom”*
what am I relating too
whats so relatable ?
Lol
They all come from bakery’s
LMAO BYE 👋
“That’s my bad, that’s my bad, *no one taught them not to grab”*
*Boom. That’s the problem right there, folks. Fix it.*
So true
PERIODT sis
SoulShardz YUP.
@UShallKnow no, not everyone.
That's it
PERIODT
Not many people talk about this part, but it truly hits home. “Just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop, saying it’s my fault.” It’s awful to hear and honestly heartbreaking to know how many young girls who has to face this, like I did. It scars us for life, and it’s never be fair or justified. We act like guys are like animals and just can’t hold themselves, but that’s just another excuse to allow this to happen.
I totally agree with you. And people mostly act that its our fault. Hats off to you for speaking what about what happened to you because ppl mostly try to hide the scars instead of healing them.
@@read.with.rupkatha It's the reason I love this song. I am getting sexually harassed by a boy at my school. AND IM ONLY IN 6TH GRADE KEEP IN MIND! I have asked him to stop and he never did. NOW here comes costume day and all my friends wanted us to be a group of animals and I was a tiger. We all had skin tight full body costumes and overalls on and AS SOON as I walk into my third period, he looked at me and didn't stop. And since I'm 13 I have a little bit of breasts. And keep in mind it is SKIN TIGHT. So I felt very uncomfortable that whole day and finally in my band class in seventh period I say to him " Oh my God stop staring at me like that!!! " He asked why... HE ASKED. WHY SHOULD HE STOP LOOKING AT ME!!! I got so mad at that and screamed at him " BECAUSE ITS CREEPY PERVERT!! YOU DONT GO AROUND LOOKING AT GIRLS BREASTS ALL DAY! " And then he said back to me " Well it's your fault for wearing that. " And keep in mind I have told my teachers about it but they have done nothing but agree with him. He still goes to my school. And he is doing the same exact thing to my girlfriend now. I won't say his or my teachers names but I just thought I had to get that out.
@@SiggyAteThemAll I am a year younger than you and i think you should approach your parents about it or a trusted adult.
Cauz today he might just be staring but tomorrow he might take a big step
Thats why muslim girls cover their body! They are so fine with that bc no one can look anything in their body
Klinton Kutriqi but they shouldn’t have to do that they shouldn’t have to be scared that’s what makes me sad like sometimes it’s hard not to stare but boys should just get over it and look away and focus on what they’re doing
One girl blasted this on her speaker in the locker rooms and she got in trouble and she was screaming "WHY AM I IN TROUBLE FOR PROVING A POINT AND TRYING TO TELL THESE GIRLS THEY ARENT ALONE?????" she ended up getting suspended for the rest of the school year, thank you for trying to make us feel better Maxine, hope the world is treating you well now
Edit: ok you guys alot of you seem confused so lemme explain, Maxine is the name of the girl that played the music in the locker rooms, im not talking abt melanie martinez in the comment, hope that cleared stuff up
Edit 2: I live how there's 666 likes on this comment, also update on Maxine, she's in school again and back on track for the school year :DD
she should never be in trouble for doing the right thing
That girl is a fucking hero 😭😭
W maxine
I hope the world treats her well too and she is a very good person
We need to be like Maxine ❤
Can we just appreciate the fact that the synchronized swimmers also made this scene really great?
Ajei Official i know, Mel is so lucky to have them!
@@stanloona6454 they didn't offer to do it for free but ok
Melanie: *starts spitting facts*
The girls in the locker room with her: _cha cha real smooth_
PLSSSS OMG
WAIT PLEASE
LMAO
HAHAHAHAH
PLSSS IM LAUGHING A LIL TOO MUCH
This is one of my favorite songs because not only is the melody amazing, but because it shows a deep message, revealing some things that aren’t being talked about enough. One of the lyrics “Got sent home to change cause my skirt is too short” shows how women are the ones being blamed rather than the men. Instead of teaching boys not fucking harass girls, the girls are taught to not express themselves truly because they might get hurt. Like what type of society is that? Can’t we all just live in peace without having to worry about getting harassed while walking down the street? This is even an issue in court where the answer is obvious, but people still ask questions like, “why didn’t you say no?” or “why didn’t you say anything earlier?”. I’m sick of women constantly being blamed, harassed, and hurt because men can’t get themselves together and respect fellow human beings. 90% of people who are sexually harassed are women, and 60% of women have been sexually harassed. This needs to stop now.
"WhY dIdN't YoU jUsT sAy No?" The stupidest question I've ever see.
Like do you think they're gonna?
Some nasty ass Karen just accused me of being sexist. She was fighting and yelling with heart and emotion, and using invalid points. She was yelling that "women's rights were created because of men like me!" But when I pulled facts on her, and quoted her, she denied everything. Then, she "had to leave". She was being toxic and bitter, saying stuff like "nobody cares" when I was talking to my friend, not even HER, about my dead dog. SMH shame on her. Her roblox username is unicactus_4life. She stressed me out so much, and I had a bad day because of her. She ruined my mood. Feel free to go yell at that asshole.
@@stillapieceofgarbage5270 oh wow. but why did she just randomly give u her roblox username lol
@@stillapieceofgarbage5270 you said this in another comment to
I honestly agree
I love how this song can be applied for a lot of different situations, both men and women
Basically anyone
Something that really shocked me about this song apart from the lyrics is that during the video at some point the boys take pieces of the cake and Crybaby looks upset. She didn't give it to them, they took it and that's not right. It's another detail that makes K-12 an amazing and interesting experience.
Visually, it's cake, but knowing what's *really *going on there, you can't help but feel disgusted.
@@MarcelReuling Stop spamming already dipstick.
I always thought the boys were eating it so they can get the the center, (were her body is)
Done#One. ɪꞱꜱ ᴜƎɅƎɹ ᴏɅƎᴚ I think the strawberry shortcake represents her “ private parts”
@@rbrand1098 yeah, bit im talking about the boys eating the cake and trying to get the the center to GET her "private parts"
Designer : tell me about the dress you want
Melanie: cake
Designer: what?
Melanie : 3 meters
Designer : ok i quit
Melanie, is the designer
I apologize for being the joke ruiner.
exactly
Come on y'all, it's a joke
😂😂😂
Imagine how long it took to bake that
mel always manages to share serious messages with cute and "innocent" melodies. hope y'all get what i mean.
MusicCharts TV okay
@@MarcelReuling your family must be proud to know that you go on videos and advertise your own shit cuz youre so desperate, and plus people already made lyric videos for this song!
Yes
@@MarcelReuling smh stfu
Never forget Teddy Bear 😌💅
“Stop protecting you daughters”
“Teach your sons”
AND the other way around 😔
Sn0wyTh3F0x you also need to teach your daughters bc it isn’t always girls who get sexual assaulted I know that from experience
@@allykittyynope this phrase was made just to refer to females . the science of men and boys getting sa is complete different and you should never compare boys to our pain.
@@jj-vj1fv fu ck your pain
@@jj-vj1fv "our pain" girl no it's not that hard to defend yourself they're just weak
This song always makes me cry, especially when the boys start eating the cake, its the perfect metaphor of being completely violated
Ain't That The Truth! 💯💯💯
same):
Yeah
I think this a song everyone has to hear..Sadly it’s a fact that the woman’s body is hypersexualized to such an extent that some people normalize street harassment ( I'm sorry, my english is really bad..i hope you could understand what i've tried to say)
Edit: thanks for the 1.3k likes❤
Lu Carracedo men as well, sadly it isn’t just women experiencing this.
Kayla Gib men too?!?! Um , I don’t get it?
Lu Carracedo ikr , and wdym by hypersexualized?
@@Shadow-vd7es in Spanish "hypersexuality" means 'excessive sexual desire', in Argentina if u wear a blouse and your breasts are showing a little people believe that you are provoking the opposite sex and that is WRONG
@@Omuhraun We all know it, the sheath is reprehensible in both cases, it's wrong, I know, but many people believe that it's normal for many men (I am not saying all) do this to women, it's not normal, it's wrong. You musn't have to make ridiculous comparisons, what you have to do is eradicate these thoughts and obviosly dont hypersexualizing bodies of both men and women.
If you are over 16, I recommend you watch the movie "I'm not an easy man", it is a well done example of how to make a feminist movie.
How can people dislike this she is making a point on girls being ashamed of there bodies
This is half right
Thank you!
g12gG This is right*
and with with all these bad likes!
That’s just “the boys” They need to get onto the “men’s” level :)
I got catcalled by a grown man today, I don't know if it was for / aimed at me but I sure did feel attacked by what he said. I've been playing this song ever since I got home and it's made me feel so much better about the situation, I can't thank you enough melanie
yall get catcalled?? i was walking past and some grown man in his car drive past me twice and screamed “KILL YOURSELF” out his window. 💀💀
If the male teacher sends me to the office because he thinks that I’m “distracting the male students in the class” even if no boy said anything, then he should get fired ASAP for checking out a young girls’ body.
This comment it's REALLY REALLY funny (and sad) to me, 'cause in my country, some years ago, a girl was sent home because of how she was dressed and like... The feMale teacher said a thing like "if you're dressed up like this, you'll distract make teachers" and I'm still shaking for this stupid sentence.
Like... Are you tellIng your colleagues are pedo?!?! Wtf?!
@Lee Alice Time to sue your school
I’ve never really had this problem. Most of my teachers have been a female except this year, and of course I’m online school. But that isn’t right.
That is pedaphile
Sadddddd---_---
Parents might think she’s inappropriate but she’s really teaching lessons with amazing songs like legit-
Fr if my parents sees this music video they will think its inappropriate but its teaching a lesson,
My mum luvvvvvvvs her I do too
Facts
My moms likes anyways let’s me but kinda feels yk kinda weird with this song because yk but she doesn’t know it’s actually teaching us a lesson
Bc of mel i know most topics
Melanie personality : ✨👛🧸🐚🍡♥︎
Her songs : 👁️♥︎🪦🪽🎀
Her fits : 🧸👛
Her acting skills : ✨✨✨
Her herself : ✨👛🍡🐚👁️♥︎🪦🎀🪽
I AM A BIG FAN♥︎
REMEMBER:
If it's a boy or a girl never ever touch them without their consent. For those people who like molesting others without permission just stop.
There's this one guy in my class that thought it was funny to slap my ass for fun. At the time I was completely shocked and didn't know how to act, so in the end I remained silent. There's another guy who saw, but he claims he doesn't remember. The same guy that touched me in that way now insults me and makes me insecure.
AnimeLover_and_MiraculousLadybug 2 you should’ve slapped him silly
AnimeLover_and_MiraculousLadybug 2 kick him as hard as You can in the balls
That’s my mom 👀👄👀
@@NaDiA-qx4zi If only it were that easy
The sad thing is....
*"Stop" isn't enough.*
Well sometimes although some people should have a better brain that's a boy wouldn't get a whole eternal wrath of "Don't harass girls.." Hm.. Pathetic they say about us..
@@nolegcraig6837 I don't think their weak, their strong the way they are
@@nolegcraig6837 literally not all men think this
Listen, okay, if you don't stop when I tell you to stop, you'd better be expecting a few bruises, like seriously, buzz off. You're not entitled to touch me.
@@Sinc3r3ly “men” “NOT ALL MEN!!! WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT AHHHHHH!!! THE ONLY ISSUE IS THAT YOU STEREOTYPE MEN!!!! AHHHHHHHH”
she’s showing that boys take what they want when they want it. they don’t ask they just take. i love melanie
THIS IS SO TRUE
Should’ve told that guy when he was forcing,man 4th grade was wild with creeps
Btw not only the harness thing because when i was practicing handstands at a gym 3 30 year old looking men started watching me , my father noticed and tool them away , I also got groomed by a 25 year old on discord and 2 20 year olds were watching my ahhss while I was swimming ( My friend noticed and told me )
@@seb7336 I'm sorry ❤️❤️❤️
That's why I believe my young brothers and my father should actually listen to this song. My brothers need to stop listening to NLE choppa or random songs that have no important meaning, and let this be the first song by her they listen to. So they can grow up and realize what's going on outside and realize that NLE choppa is not going to give u advice on what goes on in the outside world.
“Instead of making me feel bad for the body I got 2:10 “ GIRL THIS RESONATES WITH ME
can we take a moment to appreciate the fact the the sincronized swimmers do an amazing job?
stan the swimmers too
For true
YES THEY DO
👏
YESS
Strawberry Shortcake talks about the sexualization and objectification of girls
Dollhouse talks about dysfunctional families pretending to be perfect
Sippy Cup talks about alcoholism
Tag You're It talks about kidnapping
The Principal talks about toxic politicians
Teacher's Pet talks about grooming
Mrs. Potato Head talks about low self esteem and plastic surgery addiction
Playdate talks about casual sexual relationships
Mad Hatter talks about mental health issues
Orange Juice talks about eating disorders
Cake talks about objectification in relationships
Alphabet Boy talks about love interests with huge academic egos
Teddy Bear talks about fixing up broken relationships
Lunchbox Friends talks about having fake friends
@@alexandra45343 exactly
I think Teddy Bear is more about toxic and abusive relationships with domestic violence, relationships with narcissistic perverts.
I thought Mad Hatter was about Accepting yourself? My opinion guys, MINE
The Principal is acutally about Trump. She revealed it herself. It does make sense, if you think about it.
A POINT THAT NEEDS TO BE SPREAD :
Boys are allowed to wear tank tops and show their shoulders so why should girls shoulders be sexualised? We have to change this double standard!!!
🤞🤞🤞
PREACH!
people need to learn what “no” means. No means no do not touch people with out their constant
This is honestly my fav song from k-12. It just tells the reality that the boys aren’t taught to keep their hands away but instead the girls are taught to cover themselves. Cover their whole ass personality. Our whole life is being afraid of someone touching us without our consent. We have to be scared because ”it’s our fault”
its my favorite too
Okay, I highly disagree with the "Oh, you're covering me up? I guess you're covering up my personality too!" Unless they are over the age of 18, kids (of all genders) should just not be showing so much skin. Basically saying that personality is being almost naked is a weird thing to suggest. You can definitely show your personality through your clothes and still have it be an appropriate thing to wear. But that's just my opinion.
*"A skirt is not an invitation"*
- Anne With An "E"
YES
Thats exactly why i love Anne With an "E"
Oha birileri anne with anne e biliyorumuş!
PREACH QUEEN!!!
@@ebrxl_ kim bilmiyo ki
This reminds me of an extremely uncomfortable memory from when in primary school we went to the swimming pools.. I was sexualised back then and I didn't even understand it fully but I knew it made me feel unsafe, uncomfortable and unhappy, and it still affects me to this day. Not just that but I stopped wearing certain clothes in my adulthood that I enjoyed wearing aka gothic clothes like corsets and stuffs because I would get harassed by people all the time (or the nasty kind of attention) and they'd sexualise me (even call me a whore and such) and I was just wearing clothes I wanted to wear cause I enjoy them, it doesn't help that I have big boobs too :/
I hope that anyone who has been sexualised and sexually harassed/assaulted when just being themselves will be okay, its not okay that this bullshit happens to you, I dont care what sex or gender someone is you deserve to feel safe and happy in your own skin and clothes and to not be treated this way..
It’s not your fault that you wear your fav clothes, it’s THEIR that they can’t control their mouths or eyes .
YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT!!!!
💓💓💓💖💖💖💖💗💗💗💓💖💓💓💞
@@wotermel0n
YAAAASSS BISH
Same, I have a kinda tight clothes or cheerleader type skirt styles- and I'm a beautiful girl that "looks perfect" according to my parents but whenever I dont look perfect they say I look like an orphan.
But I dont want to be snatched away and assaulted for being beautiful and wearing tight and short style clothes...
Same to you, you wear what u want and you do you!! ❤️❤️
This song really speaks about the struggles women face daily how they are held accountable for the actions of others. Men changing to women dont help either because they are labeling women based on bodily functions like menstruation
She's not a celebrity, she's an artist
Definitely yes
And she's our *daddy* ◉‿◉
yes she is
@@bluebxrry1010 yeah
no, she is ART.
I just let my mom listen to this song. I explained the meaning behind it. Het response was 'well I don't think it's the fault of boys. Girls just must not show too much skin, that's how life works'
Luckily, younger generations do understand this message..
Anna de Jong Yep. You should make her a PowerPoint. I am 11 and I understand the message.
Dylan Do
It ain’t a competition lol just as long as people understand uwu
I am 12 and I can understand this message.
See! Us younger generation can understand!
@@ihaz4u who said it was????????????????????(^~^)
my own mom yells and screams at ME for wearing the clothes that I want because BOYS stare and disrespect, as if it’s MY fault. Boys can walk around shirtless and if I wear a tank top on a hot summer day and get sexually harassed it’s MY fault and I should be yelled at? smh
Gurl i know that feeling..don't worry just ignore them haha
What I would do is just not listen to her and wear what u want. It’s ur body and u decide what to wear.
look hun,
your mom is just protecting you from danger.
ofc its not your fault,
but she's protecting you from the society outside.
ik you want to wear what you like,
but elders are more wise,
so its important to listen to them.
in the end you'll know that your parents did this and that for a reason
@@srdr9379 but this is wrong to slut shame her.
@@overwicket1339 if someone doesn't listen,
that is the only option left.
either way if your parents are nice and care for you,
they'll eventually do something that hurts you,
but in the end you'll be much happier.
"It's my fault it's my fault " makes me cryyyyy
My Old private girl school: **Makes Uniform Dress**
Also the school:
Complains about the dress being short
Yui- Chan i lost braincells reading this
How
Morena isabella Playz I wore school uniform it was too short . This comment is saying the truth .
Joker I thinking... why? The Designer made the dress short...and They Put a lot of people on dress coded
Its there own fault like wth
We need more singers like her
Periodt.
But we do tho
Spilling the tea with Trelawney who’s like Melanie?
No, it will be not soecial anymore
@@xoticmars No one
Spilling the tea with Trelawney no one is near as talented as her.
melanie sticks out from most artists because she actually sings about real life problems and spreads awareness.
And a lot of them talk about money of getting girls or s3x but Melanie is spitting LITERAL facts about IRL problems
@@melanie_martinez_is_perfec2645 exactly. Most female singers now are all like ‘omg boys,money’
@@Ciarasoup that's literally not the case. And even if it was, there's literally no problem with that. People can write songs about whatever they want to express and what they feel and they shouldn't be shamed for it.
@@ikeepscreamingbutgodwontan3132 yes it is. And I never said anything about it being a problem.
exactly. That's exactly why even my parents love her music. My younger brothers don't get it because their too stuck into listening music about useless stuff.
It’s my fault,
It’s my fault,
Cause I put icing on top
Now, the teacher wants a taste of the strawberry shortcake
That’s my bad,
That’s my bad,
No one taught him not to grab
Now,
The teacher wants a taste of the strawberry shortcake 🍰 🍓
Cause it’s how I look and not what I think -Melanie Martinez 2019
That’s consent
*Zip*
@thegodapollo yup
melanie: says skirt is short
skirt: *literally a 3 meters cake*
Its fake
@Kaelie Dat Wolf~!!! Its fake
Kaelie Dat Wolf~!!! that’s why we stan
@@a2urify ok mr. obvious
She edit it obviously
This is one of my favorite scenes from the movie
My mom said if my last song will hit 8.000 Iikes she will buy me a new microphone, I really need that mic !
I love everysingle supporter
Remember when Oliver commented on this song “ you’re so much more beautiful than Barbie!”
It's true tho🤷♀️
@@ST4RH34RTS frllll
@@ST4RH34RTSfrrrlll
Yeahh
Her: wondering why I dont look like barbie.
Barbie: *wondering why she dont look like melanie*
Fr😭🍼💅
WAIT
HOL UP
70 likes-thats illegal
New acc
0:05 Ok but why is Melanie like super pretty in this frame, like SUPER pretty
@Agni do you want a taste of her strawberry shortcake
She looks ethereal
i literally thought the same 😂
I will never be as hot as her
All the people who relate join the squad 😭😭😭🥳🥳😂😂😂😂😂
Kerry Talbot
You’re perfect!
Boys: YoUR ShOWinG To MUch Skin
Girls:were just wearing a crop top..
Also the boys: *walking around shirtless*
This comment is a more progressive than most of the world
Me, a bi person: *sweats*
@@pixelpudding3914 I can fully relate-Pansexual
Preach!!!
Yes, see this comment, OOHH, I jus love it so much, it gets me into another conversation. If you go to a public swimming pool, you have to wear a top and bottom if you are female. If you are male, you have to wear only bottoms. Why is this required? This is so stupid to me honestly. Most people in my life tell me I’m overreacting, but I know I’m not, if men who have bigger tits than women can walk around shirtless, I believe women can do the same. Seriously. It’s stupid. Same with the scenario of it being a hot, sticky, day, and all a female wants to do is just rip their shirt off. But they can’t. That’s illegal! :/ But males who are hot and sticky on that day, have no problem whipping their shirt off. Again, stupid. When I was little, I remember always wanting, AND SAYING, that I wanted to take my shirt off so badly. Even just around my family. Even my cousins, and other female relatives laughed in agreement. Then why don’t we? It’s so odd. We can handle a male who has a bigger chest then most females(for example) to be walking shirtless, but we can’t do the same for females, just because there is a bit of fat there that provides milk and is a natural thing for some reproduction? Even males who don’t have a big chest, or are fat, and maybe have nothing there, ITS FAT, ITS A PEICE OF FUCKING FAT. This topic is my most important argument for me personally. Maybe we’ve progressed to far into modernness. It’s just such an ignorant and dense law. I also don’t care at all, because most likely, women don’t mind wearing tops, that doesn’t change the fact though that it SHOULD NOT BE A LAW. I really really do want to make petitions for these things, or at least men have to follow these requirements, because both gender’s skins should be treated equally!! We shouldn’t act as if men’s skin is something carefree, doesn’t - matter - if - you - show - it - off shit, and then turn around and tell women that their skin is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, and you need to hide it, OOOOOHHHH WAIT. But also DON’T hide it! See what I mean? Men can’t even make up their minds them selves. My final message to get to every ignorant, and laws, brain, is that EVERY GENDER’S SKIN SHOULD BE TREATED THE SAME, NOT ONE LESS FRAGILE THEN THE OTHER, NOT ONE LESS TOUGH THEN THE OTHER. Thanks for anyone who survived this long rant! ;)
Edit: I’d also like to add I know that in ONLY 6 STATES it’s legal to have no top. Another not fun fact, is that women are literally arrested in some places for having the wrong BATHING SUIT!!
I love the fact that she put synchronized swimming into this music video❤️
Ikr, it’s beautiful 💖
“Got boys acting like they ain't seen skin before”
This girl is god she deserves everything
Ik she is so good
she truly is
Don’t compare God with a human being no one is greater than the Almighty Father aswell as do not write his name in a small “g” it’s comes of as very disrespectful. No hate
@@Masha-cb8ub 'no hate' but you're overreacting. + I dont believe in 'g'od so I quite literally don't care at all.
@@choco5409 Whether you “care” or not it still comes of very disrespectful to Christians. And if u don’t believe in God* that is very unfortunate for you. What has come of humanity 🤦.I am not scared to stand up for my religion nor tell you where you went wrong. You can choose to take this offensively or positively I do not care, I only wanted to correct you and show you the right path,it is your choice to follow it or not. Have a good day.
The world would be a better place if people didn’t have such dirty minds and sexualize everything, even kids are sexualized and exploited. You wear a crop top it’s a problem and that kind of style has been around since the 70s and it was originally created for men, you wear a bikini it’s also a problem and it’s been out since 1946. People act like these styles are something new
@꧁ ღ An Awkward Crybaby ღ ꧂ exactly, our skin is something we’re born with it’s not something to be ashamed of, I’m not revealing my important parts. So I don’t understand why it’s anyone’s business to get mad over what someone is wearing, life to too short to be worrying about dumb crap like that when there are other important things to be worried about. It’s a woman’s fault and she needs to be covered up fully because the boys will get distracted smh
Yet here u are posting on TH-cam...fueling one of the machines that propagates sexualizing everything. If u wanna change shit start with yourself. Deleting all social media is a great start
@@seantriplesevyn8152 I don’t even use social media like that, you speak as if you know I do, you basically missed the whole point of what I said. And social media is a way to get things out so people would listen, it’s no different from the news. Yet you are here replying to a TH-cam comment, idk where in my comment I said I wanted to make a change, can’t change pervs mindsets😂. Take your own advice and delete social media, don’t know why you’re on TH-cam since it sexualizes everything then
I remember when I made the mistake of wearing sweats and a tank top on a HOT DAY. I heard hollering and whistles from a car that slowed down significantly while I was on my way to the bank. If I hadn't pulled out my phone and called my bf to look like I was preoccupied I'm sure they would have stopped. But that's my fault, right? I'm just BEGGING for them to harass me 🙄 Guess I'll wear baggy clothes and deal with the heat stroke.
omg I’m so sorry :(
SAME
And that sounds scary kind of
Can we take a second to look at how talented the water dancer are-
Yeah
I wish she included the dance break of this song in the MV. Ya know the where she PASSIONATELY SHOWS HER MIDDLE FINGERS!!
THAT'S ICONIC AF!!!
MusicCharts TV
Leave them alone-_-
i went to one of her concerts and it was the highlight of my life when she did that lmao
Omg yeha I went to her concert in Manchester and when she did that I died like omg everyone was screaming it was amazing they should have included that :)
repeat after me.
*SHOULDERS* 👏 *ARE* 👏 *NOT* 👏 *DISTRACTING* 👏
But they let the drop tops get away, crop tops are fine but like if they start acting the way they do it’s wrong
KNEES👏ARENT👋DISTRACTING👏TOO
TOES👏🏼ARE👏🏼NOT👏🏼DISTRACTING👏🏼TO👏🏼.
Who the heck gets distracted by woman’s shoulders?-
If you'll excuse me, I'll go spam this on my schools virtual talent show :3
This girl is seriously one of the best things to happen to music, I’d love to work with her one day
omg!!! id love to see a collab!!! can people like this so melanie sees??
I love how her songs actually teach something
"Instead of making me feel bad for the body i got,
Just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop"
Finally the legend said it
Edit: ok last time I check, this was have like 7 likes or sumn, how come it suddenly reach 2.5k?
Answer: melanie powerful lyrics and represent all us woman.
She doesn't like being called Queen...
No offense, I'm just saying that's what she said.
@@theboyinthebeanie3658 there..I fix it.
As soon as i got to that part of the song, this comment popped up!
Yep
@@theboyinthebeanie3658 why not actually ?
Girl:**shows a inch on shoulder**
Male teacher:GO CHANGE ITS DISTURBING THE CLASS
Me in the back:but listen listen...THE CLASS WAS FINE YOU DISTURBED THE CLASS LOOKING AT GIRLS YOU TEACH
girl THANK YOUUU
FR THOOOOO
It do be like that thought
FR THOOOO I-
LMAOAOAOAOA FACTSSS
“got boys acting like they ain’t seen skin before” ughhh girl😩
@@KenericTheGeneric You're right. I met many guys who aren't like that but when I was a high school student I got targeted by guys for wearing skirts. They started telling me I was just a slut, wanting attention, wanting to be touched etc etc... I still have PTSD because of some of this sexual harassment, as an adult,I can't wear skirts anymore without panicking.
로라Laura wow I’m so sorry that happens to you. I’m so upset that they called u a slut for WEARING A SKIRT when your a girl and they know that girls wear skirts. I also hate it when people shame women for wearing shorts or even a one piece swimsuit! WTH do they expect for us to wear in the summer a sweatshirt and sweatpants?!
@@mariamnasser8807 exactly like wtf
Keneric The Generic we need more people like you
I developed early and fast (bra and period at 9) by the time I was in 7th grade I was a D cup. I was harrassed even by my male friends. I wanted to be slim and small so bad. I only wore T shirts until the end of high school. I was so self conscious.
0:05 Ok but can we talk about how absolutely gorgeous Mel looks in that scene- (NOT TALKING ABT THE NAKED BODY- IM TALKING ABT HER FACE/MAKEUP)
and why are you acting like it’s wrong to genuinely compliment a nude body. woman’s breasts aren’t inappropriate
@@jj-vj1fv I never said it wasn't ok, I was just giving her a complement. Please dont make it smth so serious
@jj-vj1fv You do know that this song is about this very topic?
"boys acting like they ain't see skin before " exactly .
we stan.
@@julianowak603 period 💅🏼
Y e p .
@@julianowak603 Yes!
@@julianowak603 exactly 💅👾
This song actually has a good message
All her songs do
This is why I listen to her! :3 👍
I'm glad Mel brought a topic like this into her songs, this is an issue girls go through but are never properly addressed
True
Btw her name is Melanie not Mel. Mel is a name and Melanie is a name. Or are u too lazy to just type Melanie!?
But I agree
Jasmine_ Girl what’s your problem?
Jasmine_ Girl it’s a nickname
I was had SA done to me and now I can never do things normally and I could definitely never dress the same again this song means so much thank u❤
“Got sent home to change cause my skirt is too short” GUYS ITS NOT THE GIRLS FAULT ITS THE GUYS FOR LOOKING AT THEM LIKE THEY ARE A PIECE OF CAKE!!!
@@allison2522 Well they could have been labled as fat.
@cactus most of the time though the females dont want the attention they just want to dress how they want 🙈😻💋
@cactus I agree with your point on society's standards for men, being 6 foot, dominant, and assertive. That i know is a thing for men, and I'm glad you acknowledged that and society's standards on girls too. I guess what I'm trying to say is both sides have standards and try to conform to them. But I think there's a bit more to it. Girls are constantly having ads that don't show normal things like acne and stretch marks, how they need to be curvy and skinny in the right places, social media hasn't helped either in a lot of ways. Girls do feel pressure to be prettier a lot of the time so whats wrong with them dressing in a way that makes them feel pretty? Men are constantly told to be dominant and assertive, making the first move. I don't care if men compliment women in a polite way, asks them on a date, I don't even care if their biological tendencies happen, even with the whole rebellious expectation society has for men if both people are cool with it and know eachother. What I think most women don't find okay is when people say some stuff that is unnecessary and creepy, even the girls who like bad boys feel uncomfortable when a stranger who they don't know starts doing the whole assertive act. I'm sorry if this is long or came off aggressive but its just a bit of perspective.
ok this is fine, no it’s not the girls fault for wearing revealing clothes. The boy should keep his hands or whatever to himself. Girls should be allowed to wear whatever they want.
Strawberry shortcake**
"instead of making me feel bad for the body I've got"
I think we"ve all felt that
yk what i hate?? i hate when girls dress like tomboys they get labeled a “lesbian” or “she wants to be a boy” but when girls actually get the courage and confidence to wear stuff like dresses and skirts, she’s labeled as a slut... idk it’s just not fair
strawberriemilktea EXACTLY!!!! Why do men feel the need to call woman sluts for wearing something they feel comfortable in! Our body is our body and if people carry on sexualising it then we wont be able to wear anything!!! No shorts no skirts no dress no crop top no short dress no gym bras no NOTHING! Its so annoying.
I used to wear tight short dresses and skirts and crazy makeup every day because I feel comfortable in them but then a boy called me a slut (when I was wearing a long-sleeve turtleneck dress that went down to my knee (with tights underneath)) and (boys especially) judged me because of my makeup so now I wear leggings and sweatshirts and neutral makeup which I don't feel comfortable in. Boys need to learn how to let girls dress how they want to, look how they want to, and act how they want to.
*and people (boys especially)*
Miranda Willey girl dont let them control your life! I totally understand you, go back to your old outfits and makeup dont change for judgmental boys okay bc someone out there likes your style! Those boys opinions on you dont matter you should put it behind you, i have a weird style like big boots and a aesthetic look, my mum and everyone thinks its weird and strangers do as well but i keep my head up high bc there opinion dont matter okay!! You only live once so live it your way.
EXACTLY-
Instead of making me feel bad for the body I got
Just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop
PREACH SISTER 😤
I was sexually assaulted and my mom blames me for trusting him. If I didn’t go to his room in our house to watch a movie, it wouldn’t have happened. This is after she’d been pressuring me to trust him and to make him my friend. Long story short, I had to realize that she’s wrong and when I said “no,” pushed him away, etc. it should have stopped. This is how our society is. Blame the woman when the man overpowers us. Blame the clothes, the decisions, anything because God knows the men just can’t be taught not to grab, not to overpower, to stop, to listen, to be decent.
Wow. I’m so sorry that happened too you. Nobody deserves to be assaulted.
I’m so sorry
I am so sorry, that man should never do that again😔
I'm really sorry that you had to go through that, but not all men are as you say. (sorry if it is misspelled or if you misunderstood what you put, I translated it with google ^^)
Your mom is awful and doesnt deserve to be a parent. And that disgusting man doesnt deserve to be alive. I hope you're doing well.
Lyrics:
Feeling unsure of my naked body
Stand back, watch it taking shape
Wondering why I don't look like Barbie
They say boys like girls with a tiny waist
Now, my mama's preaching to make sure I'm pure
But, I never really cared about that shit before
Look around the room to whoever wants me
Got boys acting like they ain't seen skin before
Got sent home to change 'cause my skirt is too short
It's my fault, it's my fault 'cause I put icing on top
Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake
That's my bad, that's my bad, no one taught them not to grab
Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake
Gotta make sure that my legs are shiny
Hot wax melting, burn my skin
People all around me watching closely
'Cause it's how I look and not what I think
Mikey's eyes seem to be glued to her chest
So, I'm stuffing my bra so that mine look the best
It's my fault, it's my fault 'cause I put icing on top
Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake
That's my bad, that's my bad, no one taught them not to grab
Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake
Instead of making me feel bad for the body I got
Just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop
Sayin' it's my fault, it's my fault 'cause I put icing on top
Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake
That's my bad, that's my bad, no one taught them not to grab
Now, the boys want a taste of the strawberry shortcake
Thxxx
😰😰😰😰😰
I read this in 1min is that bad
No offense but there's literally already captions on the video
“They tell girls to dress “properly and normally” but can’t tell boys to keep it in their pants” - my friend
your friend is very educated. 🙌💖🌟
@@salt2308 yes
THIS
Your friend is very big brain
Tell your friend she is humble and more progressive than most of the world
“got boys actin like they ain’t seen skin before” 0:45 literally i could say that to that one 7th grader about what he did when i was wearing a crop top.
She’s such a artist
DARK GIRL GAMER yes 💕
Shes so brave for representing heavy topics like this.
Agreed
@tiege tiger 2 there was a part in the movie that did though
@tiege tiger 2 The transgender teacher explaining how he wants to be himself as a woman then the Principal Fires him.
tiege tiger 2
where she thought that the love letter was a girl, and gender norms where she wears purple dress instead
tiege tiger 2 ‘The Principal’ does in the film after referencing the trans teacher and ‘High School Sweethearts does too: right after the song, Crybaby says she thought the one who’d written the letter that inspires the song was a girl.... so the potential suitor the song was dedicated to is female (Mel is bi, actually).
"no tube tops"
"no crop tops"
"no yoga pants"
"no shirt skirts above ur knee by and inch"
"no ripped jeans
"no shoulders"
"you have to have ur hair up! (well in my school.)"
Damn that sucks
i can imagine a boy going into this school shirtless and not getting dress coded, but if a girl comes in with, god forbid, her hair down, they get sent home
then i cannot attend school ever because yoga pants and in skirt is all i have i just want to be comfoterbul like jeeze dress codes make no sense cloths does not mean consent
For that reason the uniform exist, well in My school,but boys a d girls also make changes to the uniform includyng me ,and un My country is normal yo see 13 years girls using short skirts
In my we are allowed to wear rip jeans unless it’s patched up
I like the line "no one told them not to grab" boys aren't the issue the lack of education from the parents is the problem
yes they need to be teached that instead of stupid pornography mind they get from their devices and our mom teachs us “no naked spots in cloths!” why don't teach them to “Don't look at others daughters”
no actually there’s something wrong with the way they think and their dominant instinct
Boy: *says or does something inappropriate*
Teachers: -
Girls: *wearing a long sleeve shirt and pants*
Teacher: detention
FRRR I hope they realize what they are doing soon :/
had these boys who cussed a heck of a lot at my school and i cussed once and got detention
Draco Granger-Snape idk why but I feel like teachers are nicer to girls but that’s probably just me
Females can you meet me tonight in DETENTION
What school do you guys go to where they do that wtf
Cake: Who are you?
Strawberry Shortcake: I'm you but, with strawberries
Miraculer crybaby :)
Lol
and i'm shorter
MIRACULERS WHERE YOU AT!!!
:^
If lesbians bisexuals pansexuals etc can control themselves when a girl wears a tang top or other and boys cant the problem obviously isnt the clothes 💀😴 i just dont get it the other day a girl in my school got
Dress coded bc she was wearing a shorts they werent even that short tbh a bit above the knee and the teacher wad like im trying to teach and ur distracting the boys. I was disgusted bc instead of teaching the girl what to wear why dont u teach the boys not to stare 😌😌 period
go off sis!!! as a lesbian, i would rather shoot off my right pinky and watch it bleed than looking at girls changing around me/in a vulnerable position. I think its bc its so ingrained in our brains that we're predators, idk. but if we can respect womens privacy without getting so excited, why cant dudes?
Period sis😌
@Elizabeth Adventurer tf? No one said they weren’t women though?
saying that teachers need to teach boys is kinda ridiculous. the blame rests on the parents. teachers have little control over dress code policies. it's really about the parents.
The queen has spoken
Guys and girls remember your body is ✨ beautiful just the way it is✨
as anne said, “a skirt is not an invitation.”
So true ❤️❤️❤️
PERIOT👏
YESSSS QUEEN
Kinda sad... They cancelled it 😞😭
which episode?? :0
Melanie here has a perfect body and hides it at first, while I'm overweight and I'm not afraid to show it and it's all because of her songs! Thank you, Melanie Martinez, because you helped me to except myself the way I am❤️
Nia Rasheva I’m glad but I hope you being overweight doesn’t become a problem ❤️😊
Im happy for you💙💙💙
I'm overweight and honestly just showing off my body makes me feel better and look better. So, hey there! Were practically on the same boat! :)♡☆♡
Preach hunny preacccccchhhhhhhh
@@peiithos Yeah, we are❤️
I just love her, and her songs. She is a masterpiece. She talks about important topics in her songs and shows them in interesting way. Wow.
@@MarcelReuling Go away!
more é isso se tu gosta deixa teu like, e se não é inscrito já sabe, seja! rs🌻😁❤️
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2:59 Melanie has a cute face when she makes this 😭❤
The worst thing about this video is not that ends,but that it
Is
*R e a l*
Edit:thank you for the likes and for understanding what I meant, I'm sorry for all the people who have been through this difficult situation, and if you were one of them, I'm so sorry and hope you managed to fight it because In the world where we are, there are people who are not so good, people are toxic to each other and hurt them inside for no reason, but it is good to know that there are people who care about this matter❤️❤️❤️
😍😍😍
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@Purrie LIM I mean it's sad to know that women are haressed everyday and no one does anything because it keeps happening
@@pxb_edits7913 people are doing stuff, it's just the people harrasing don't care
wheres the coment?
Quick story time: one time me and one of my guy friends wanted to see how fucked up my school really is so he came in wearing basketball shorts no shirt, and I came in with shorts and an oversized shirt (note this was fifth grade, nobody should be sexualized) and they sent me home because my shorts were "too short" and they were "distracting" meanwhile they looked my guy friend up and down and didn't say a word. society is fucked up.
Wtf that's like REALLY fucked up. Like a boy can go to school WITHOUT a shirt on and a girl can't even wear shorts!?😱
School: Makes sure our skirts are long
Also School: Gives shorts that are short asf
My school does that -_-
Lmao true
My school gives everyone basketball shorts for gym but girls are allowed to leggings or other shorts so I wear a tennis skirt😁
omg so true
Yes they dress code that stuff for us but then make sure the cheer and Pom team are wearing short skirts
Only seven years old, but I love your videos. I would watch them with my mom and dad would fight.😢
Crybaby: I'm not a piece of cake
K-12: Because I'm the whole cake
@@MarcelReuling stop.
Siwach Liu lol I agree
STAWP