PSYCHOTHERAPIST REACTS to Billie Eilish- Happier Than Ever
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Some other ones from Billie that would be great: 'I love you", 'When the party's over', 'Everything I wanted'. Her brother Finneas is great too, for example: "Love is pain', 'Break my heart again'. Curious for the ones this week!
those are very powerful songs
Ocean Eyes is so good aswell 😍
male fantasy too!!
All are good songs but when the party's over is my absolute favorite
Ocean Eyes is just impressive, wasnt she like 14 she made it, her voice sounded way more mature
Like Billie said the water is like representing the abuse ,that she didn't noticed until it overflooded.She writes her songs with her brother and he produces it,they are so talented.And she directs her music videos, she just turned 20 and the talent is there.
Amazing!!!😊👍
Firstly, Billie and her brother Finneas write,record, and produce all of their music. And Billie directs her own videos.
There is so much symbolism in this video. At first she’s in a softly lit room that is old Hollywood and it’s light outside. But Billie is in a black t-shirt that says “ I won’t sell my soul”.And the way she’s singing sounds like a torch song but there’s disconnect between her and her surroundings as well as between the music and the lyrics. I think the water leaking represents reality seeping in and the flickering lights represent the gaslighting of the toxic relationship. [ Which was real and he was a classic narcissist] The watershed moment is her opening the door. And as she’s swimming to reach the surface she sings about wasting her breath. And then she breaks the surface. It’s a breakthrough “ I don’t relate to you “, and it’s like a baptismal moment of rebirth. Now she’s literally on top of the situation and speaking her truth. Truly a catharsis of breaking free. Her lyrics describe what a relationship with a narcissist is like. And no, she didn’t go back into it.
Love this take! Thank you so much for sharing it and for watching, really cool😊👍
Fantastic breakdown. You pretty much nailed it.
As a psychotherapist you have stumbled into a goldmine with Billie Eilish. She's incredible. If you want more of hers that you can get your teeth into, then go with 'When the Party's Over', Bury a Friend and You Should See Me in a Crown.
Also, onoe of my personal favourites where Billie just creates a 'moment' is when she performs "Listen before I go" at the Steve Jobs theatre.
Please react to those. Delve into her world, you will not regret it.
Wow!! Great comments and thanks for the request, I loved doing Billie eilish, great music! Thanks for watching 😊👍
absolutely loved this reaction! definitely recommend watching the documentary she put out last year. it shows some of her relationship she was in that’s she’s talking about in this song. would also strongly recommend your power and listen before i go by billie as well!
Great comments, thanks for that…and I didn’t know there was a documentary? Would love to see that!😊👍
@@ReactionTherapyOfficial it’s called ‘the worlds a little blurry’ and you can watch it on apple tv. it basically shows her life from late 2018 to early 2020 and everything she was dealing with behind the scenes. a lot of important topics a shown throughout the doc, i highly recommended it!
I love how much attention to detail you have, it's something I've rarely seen in reaction videos and for someone who's watched this music video at least 3 times and loves this song it's honestly so exciting to watch someone else get these small details and pay attention to every aspect of the lyrics and the mentality behind them❤ loved thiss
Thanks samin! That means a lot because I try my best and love listening and learning. Thanks for watching😊👍
Everything I Wanted, when the party's over, listen before i go, and idontwannabeyouanymore would all be perfect Billie songs for this channel. She is an immensely talented artist especially for her age, I'm glad you finally gave her a shot here!
I'm excited to see some Billie Eilish on your channel. It's like you have gone through my playlist: NF, Billie, Juice Wrld, Eminem, Twenty One Pilots and so on are definitely on my everyday rotation. It surely isn't something to jam out to for the most part. All these artists bring me through the day though. Please, bring Billie Eilish back now and then. "Everything I wanted", "Your Power", "Idontwannabeyouanymore", "Listen before I go", "When the Party's over" and many more offer so much good content from a mental health point of view.
But nonetheless, I'm confident about you and your selections. Keep up the quality content. Take care!
Thanks so much Mike! Appreciate you following!!😊👍
Everything I wanted - Billie is absolutely down your alley for this channel. Great song and deep message. Keep doing what you’re doing
Thanks so much!😊👍
I love this song! Love your reactions! One the coolest gentlemen on YT! Keep up good work!
Thank you sooo much for watching and commenting 😊👍
Billie is absolutely amazing and timeless! She literally made everyone lose it with this one because she'd never done anything like that before! But she blew up on the internet at 13yrs old with a song called "Ocean Eyes" it went so viral she n Finneas her big brother n producer had record labels fighting for them!! She's now 19 I believe and I am proud like a big sister of this beautiful woman who's been torn down, body shamed, everything you could think of it's happened... and she's a better person for it!
Wry nice take Misti! Thanks so much for sharing this, really cool!😊👍
I just stumbled upon this reaction and had to click on it. My Psychotherapist turned me onto Billie’s music years ago and, being in my 40’s, I thought “will I relate to some teenagers song” - she, and FINNEAS saved my life. I was at a very dark period in my life and they got me through it. Not just their songs, but their musical process/genius and family dynamics - the love they all have for each other is unheard of. Thank you for your reaction, you’re spot on and it’s great to hear you appreciate the talent she and her brother has. 😊
I just discovered your channel and I'm loving your reactions. So far I've only watched your reactions and interpretations of Billie Eilish songs and I really enjoy what I'm seeing. Excellent job. Thank you for these! Definitely a subscriber now. 🥰
I love your reaction. I am healing in therapy and love to really dive into how others feel and respond… you are really in tune with people. 🌟
Thank you so much for this comment!😊👍
heard this song live twice in the same 24/7 back in september and it is so good
Great reaction!!!! i love these reactions!!! Great job!!! Billie has been nominated for this song for 7 grammys this year, there is no artist like them. She also directs and edits her own music videos and everything they publish, they win grammys, brit awards etc, now they are also nominated for the OSCARS for the song that they wrote for james bond and for this song they have already won a grammy, a Golden Globe etc at only 20 years of age !!! They are pure art ...
Billie is a musical genius. She is the artistic director for most of her videos. She has Tourette’s and as a teenager has become so successful. Watch her doccumentary . React to her songs my future and ocean eyes. Juice wrld brought me to your channel and Billie will keep me here if you do her music. Congrats on the success.
Thanks so much for the comments and requests!!! Love them😊👍
That was one of the very few reaction videos where there actually was reactions to see. I really enjoyed it - you seem to be such a nice guy.
Billie recently turned 20. She's been making music with her brother since she was 11. She was in a bad relationship when she was only 16. This song is about this relationship
Makes sense now.. she’s so young!!!😳😁👍
I was in a toxic relationship for seven months when I finally got out this was my anthem I remember going to work became good for me cause I got away from her for a few hours, sad but glad it didn't last longer then it did
Nice sharing, thanks!😊👍
Super interesting to watch reactions from a psychotherapists perspective. Cool concept. And agreed, Billie is a goldmine for these kinds of rich emotional experiences packed into music. I love a lot of the rap & UK grime scene for that reason too. Subscribed - great reaction 👌
Thank you very much for your reaction therapy. I cry every time I listen to this song, because I also gave up my life for the relationship and had a break up recently that I can't get over with yet.
Thank you for sharing this and supporting the channel😊👍
Taylor Swift's "This Is Me Trying" is an incredible song with great interpretation and representation of someone dealing with addiction, depression, and/or suicidal tendencies. In the Long Pond Sessions for the Folklore album, she talks about the song too. It's a must-watch video and song to listen to.
I was thinking of this song while watching the video, I was gonna comment that it would be great to hear a breakdown of the lyrics!
Thanks for this awesome video Tom! Love how versatile your channel is and always was :) 65K damn this is going fast!
No kidding! Thanks so much for being supportive and watching😊👍
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I think part of the reason that this song resonates so well for a lot of teenagers like myself is because unhealthy, toxic relationships are insanely common. Coming out of an unhealthy relationship about a year before this song came out was hard to do, but this song helped me and I think probably so many other people working on getting out of unhealthy relationships for good. This song is so powerful, it's crazy. She gave it her all with this one
If this your first billie, u got quite the journey ahead of you! 😂
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i’m glad i got here this early to see you react to one of my favorite songs at the moment :)
I’m so happy you came out to watch! Thank you!😊👍
Excellent reaction to an excellent song! I love the way this song seems to progress from the realization and resignation that a relationship is bad, through to the anger and freedom of actually escaping. Billie does an excellent job portraying emotion, and you really can't go wrong with just about anything she's done. I'd particularly love to hear your take on "Lovely" with Khalid, but it's all great.
Another band you might look into is Nightwish. Excellent music, but particularly "How's the heart" from their most recent album. It's an incredible discussion of empathy, which is an underrated topic.
Thanks so much for all of this insight, really cool!😊👍
💚🖤 This song is everything I've ever felt about my mother💚🖤
You are so excellent with the insights and even though this isn’t a song I enjoy I really enjoyed watching your analysis and reaction. Incredible!
Thanks so much Justin! I really appreciate it😊👍
I love this reaction! Please react to more songs of her she is such a interesting musician
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Enjoyed your reaction. About the ending and the relationship, she's done with him. There's an entire section about her dumping him in her documentary that was released before this music video was released.
The question I have though for you is why is that to me this song feels therapeutic even though I've never had such a relationship in the past?
Because we get to see the “struggle” and the heartache which can occur in relationships and at work and in our own mood, so she brilliantly wrote it to apply to everyone!😊👍
Welp...Billie Eilish introduces me to Yet Another Channel to be subscribed to :) Great reaction, great analysis/interpretation - looking forward to more! Thanks for sharing your excitement and expertise!
Thanks so much for the comments! If you hang around you might see another Billie eilish song this week!!!😳😁😁
Thanks so much for subscribing and supporting😊👍
LOVE YOUR CONTENT MAN!!!
thank you for reacting to this! i love this song and the artist!! please react to more songs by her. this channel is awesome!❤️❤️
Thanks so much Emily! That means so much!😊👍
Love your reactions and input! Please do more billie songs! Just gained a new sub!
she said that this is the most therapeutic song she has ever written
Great reaction Tom, I love the 2nd half of this track when it switches up!
Me too!!!😊👍
Would’ve never expected a Billie reaction but im not complaining, and my girl likes Billie so I’m going to get her to watch this.
Awesome. Can't wait for more
I came for a reaction to an Eminem's song. I subscribed and I'm binge watching your contents. I really love what you are doing and how you're doing it. Smart, positive, helpful. You're personal experience brings so much into this 'reactions thing'.
Thank you 🙏
My thought on Billie going back down into the water is that she's washed herself free of the relationship and said her peace. It's the sly smile that she gives to the camera before diving down that says this to me. It's not a look of resignation, but more of a look of strength and maybe a bit of cockiness at the situation.
I'm interested to see what you think of the next song from her album after this one - Male Fantasy. I think it's a truly beautiful introspection on the relationship as well. Also, definitely check out her brother Finneas. He has many, many good songs from his EP and just singles, but his debut album "Optimist" is fantastic. Love Is Pain and Only a Lifetime are two of my favorites on that one. What They'll Say About Us is also a good one, but very heavy as it was written during the beginning stages of Covid as well as the Black Live Matter protests, which he includes both in the song. The last line specifically relates to Nick Cordero - a wrong man who fell into a coma due to Covid and how it affected his wife Amanda Kloots and their child. She documented everything during that time up to when he sadly passed away.
Billie and Finneas truly seem wise beyond their years and the pictures that they paint with their music, the topics that they include, just everything they do shows that they are artists that will be remembered for a very long time.
Love these reactions 😊
Subscribed love this reaction!!!
Thank you for making this video.
After watching this, I am happier than ever! :P.. I appreciate you so so much Tom, this is exactly the reaction I was hoping for, you picked up on everything perfectly! I am so glad you enjoyed it and want to delve more into the world of Billie Eilish, I promise you won't regret it, she is a phenomenal artist.. Thank you again so much for reacting ❤
Next one of Billie I would recommend is idontwannabeyouanymore ;)
Thank you for requesting and being at the livestream! By the way, I would’ve said your name but didn’t know it 😳😁👍
I never caught the fact that she rises above the water and gets air as she sings the lines, “I don’t relate to you.” She’s finally realizing why am I taking this shit from you? I don’t have to. I don’t even relate to you.
Maybe the flood part is indicating an emotional flood.??
Edit: maybe when she’s on the roof it’s her at the peak of her understanding of what the relationship has brought her, maybe it’s her being able to see the flooded emotions and able to understand them more.
Oh boy looks like i found an amazing reaction channel, guess I'll have to subscribe
Please do!!!! Please!!!😁😁😁 thanks for watching 😊👍
I will throw this in the google form to but I just wanted to say that Billie Eilish is the greatest! You should learn more about her history and what she has done, gone through and just who she is! One of my favorite songs from her is “Your Power” and I love it because it relates to me! It has been huge with helping me out with recovering from being groomed by my teacher. So I love her! And her music has such meaning!
Wow! What a story! Thanks so much for sharing this and I really appreciate you watching and commenting 😊👍
Please listen to more Billie I love your reactions and she’s my fav artist!!!!
I was in a relationship that I tried my best in to get treated terribly in return. he recently broke up with me and got with his best friend. I've cried over this way more than I should have 😃
Thank you for sharing this and I loved how powerful this song was too!😊👍
In VI SECONDS- 3:30 and 5:30 AM it goes on about how his life’s been and where he is mentally at those times of his life and I feel like you’re perspective would be great…. And he’s 🔥🔥🔥on anything he do
Dang you helped me understand this video better than I did when I first saw it
Thanks Logan!😊👍
I highly recommend doing some videos on Car Seat Headrest. Songs “something soon”, “beach life-in-death”, or “(joe gets kicked out of school for using) drugs with friends (but says this isn’t a problem)”. Topics such as mental health, love/heartbreak, sexuality, and addiction
More Billie Eilish please! 🙏😊
i love this song.
All of her songs and videos are open to interpretation. If you think she went back to the house, then you are correct. She is wonderful. Thank you!
I was in a hellish 20 year marriage. I was very co-dependent. When I finally had enough and got "smart" and left, I felt so completely free for the first time in my life!! I am in the most healthy relationship I have ever been in now. We have been together for 11 years and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me other than my children. I never knew it could be this way. I'm so thankful God led me to him.
More Billie EIlish please! Amazing music
Billie Eilish “listen before I go” and “idontwannabeyouanymore”
Agust D would be an interesting artist for to explore! I been diving into his work lately and he’s right up your alley! Deff has some trauma! But hes korean so good luck if ya do!
Absolutely love your videos especially Juice Wrld
I would love to see: Oceans by Lauren Sanderson; Prodigal Daughter by Lights (really any of her songs); Lose My Mind by tiLLie; Peachie by tiLLie; mood swings by tiLLie; whole wide world by tiLLie; Topeka by Ludo; Good Will Hunting by Ludo; Scare Me by Ludo; Cough Syrup by Young the Giant; Stay by Post Malone; Take What You Want by Post Malone
One thing that I would suggest that you listen to is Not My Responsibility. Billie has had her share of haters and trolls and that piece speaks to the way that she feels about the negativity, especially coming from the anonymity of social media.
you should react to everything i wanted its about depression and her documentry it show her through out there depression to getting happy
React to Perfect Circle / God Speed by Mac Miller! This song is super lyrical and I’d love to hear your thoughts on the underlying themes
This song is about her ex who was discussed in the documentary he was older and she was a minor!
Ooooh i really want you to react to and analyze "Male Fantasy". Thats a hella deppressing song with amazin lyrics
I think the flashing lights are her realizing she's been gaslighted by Q (her first real boyfriend and also a famous artist who really did her wrong. The documentary of her tour is heartbreaking when she's playing at COCHELLA which is huge and Q asked for tickets and she said "only if you'll spend some time with me" and then he was a jerk and didn't. The lyric "make all my moments your own" is about that and other moments like it I think.
mans had like 15k subs a few months ago. I love it
The water Billie has said in one of her interviews that it is the abuse that slowly is coming and you ignore because you love that person but when it came flushing you didn't have anything to do but to get out of there.
I hope I helped:)
Her other songs are also great and meaninful: Everything i wanted, male fantasy, idontwannabeyouanymore, your power.
I’m loving all of the reactions. It would be amazing to hear you react to DempseyRollBoy, I think it’s a shame he’s not talked about more because his music is really good and you can even hear the pain his voice. I would 100% recommended you listen to him. I suggest you start with She Was My Universe.
you GOTTA check out Loveless’s cover of this song , it’s only the second half of the song , but imo it hits harder with Loveless’s voice
I love your videos! would love to see you react to some Taylor Swift- specifically "This is me trying" and "Champagne Problems."
great reaction!!!!!
Thanks Ellie!!😊👍
Hey! I just found this channel and am very interested in what your views would be on some more lesser known songs that are right up your alley.
Here are a few reccomendations:
IDLES - MOTHER
Braids - Snow Angels
Of Montreal - Gronlandic Edit
Of Montreal - Heimdalsgate like a Promethean Curse
Of Montreal - The Past Is A Grotesque Animal
Very nice request…not sure when we can do them but hopefully!! Thanks for watching😊👍
I am so excited to see her in two days!!!
You get to see her in person??? So cool😊👍
@@ReactionTherapyOfficial I can't wait to share the experience. I would love to see what you think about "Hostage", "When the Party's Over, and just for fun "Bury a Friend"
@@slumberlisa I’ll put them in the list but let me know how the show is?😊
@@ReactionTherapyOfficial I cannot put into words how amazing Billie was live. Her voice is so much more beautiful live. That is very rare for an artist. If I could figure out how to attach a concert video, I would!
@@slumberlisa I’m jealous, but happy you got to go! What a treat! Thanks so much for letting me know…what was your favorite song?😊
You should check out the version they did at the Grammy's.
React to more Juice Wrld please for example: Used to, Candles, Conversations, Stay High, Feeling.
Plz make more reactions with billie eilish , some great songs are there
Please do more Billie Eilish
billie great
Great video👍👍
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do "everything i wanted" by billie, its amazing
Even if Billie Eilish isn't for me i keep watching your reactions. I would love if you could react to "Lil Peep - Runaway" and "Juice WRLD - Black & White".
Thanks so much for watching anyway!!! Those songs look good, they’re in the list😊👍
She's indie so I doubt you'll hear another request for a reaction to her music but I'd love to see you react to some Dessa. Maybe start with 'Fire Drills'.
I love this!! You really need react to Melanie Martinez too, she's great 😃👍🏽
“I wouldn’t go on a jog to”
… just wait for the second half!!
Could you react to 1-800 by logic? I think it would be really interesting to see your view on that
Can you do Billie Eilish male fantasy?? Really curious about your take on it. It seems to tackle a few big issues for teen girls, especially.
please oh please listen to in my head, bad idea, or fake smile ariana grande. everything she makes is BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING. but those two i think you would thoroughly enjoy !!
Billie Eilish- Hostage and Listen Before I Go
React to 'Not Sober' by The Kid Laroi. feat Polo G and Stunna Gambino
Isn't monday a juice wrld day?
Request week, so you never know what your getting this week! Stay tuned!!😁👍
Omg I can't wait to see the other videos about Billie! 🥰 I think you would love: hostage (one of the most underrated of her songs in my opinions) it is my favorite one! I always love idontwannabeyouanymore, when the party's over, watch, your power, lovely, wish you were gay and bored 💗
Thanks so much for watching and requesting Audrey😊👍
Great song and great reaction! Been there its so strange hoe I couldn't see how bad it was until I was completely out of it. I was a completely different person in that relationship and put up with stuff I neverdreamed I would. Ofcourse I was no peace of cake myself back then. We both had alot of growing up to do!