Pete Wicks on Why You Shouldn't Do Reality TV | Private Parts Podcast

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  • TOWIE star Pete Wicks joins Jamie today on the sofa and we’re talking all about the dark side of reality TV.
    In this ep, Pete shares his most vulnerable moments, including why he wishes he never did reality TV, the hardest year of his life, and his near death experiences…
    Oh and of course we also discuss the famous I really wanna f**k you moment with Megan McKenna. Steamy...
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  • @beelarehman5992
    @beelarehman5992 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Im always surprised when i hear him talk. So self aware and astute. What an interesting chap.

  • @stung3848
    @stung3848 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    "I had a real job, dignity and a career before all this" brilliant line 😂

  • @andreamccawlaverty
    @andreamccawlaverty ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It’s very unfortunate a father has missed out on such a wonderful son. 💕

  • @Rorigregspace
    @Rorigregspace ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Wow what a beautifully honest complicated bloke. Self awareness can be both beautiful and an absolute nightmare cross to bear. Once you realise most things in life are bullshit it's hard to find joy in anything. Whoever said ignorance is bliss is spot on.

    • @lollybaby2
      @lollybaby2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah. There is loads of joy around.

    • @irenegresham1519
      @irenegresham1519 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think maybe his not Really a confident Person once his away from the cameras.

    • @hannahhatzel141
      @hannahhatzel141 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very self aware and intelligent comment

  • @BamblingsofNaffy
    @BamblingsofNaffy ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I really appreciate Pete for being so open and also Jamie for making Pete so comfortable. You can tell they both have the utmost respect for each other xxx

  • @bonniebell558
    @bonniebell558 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I met Pete while working behind the scenes as the makeup artist crew at towie and he was so welcoming and polite, even came out his way to introduce his self and get to know who we are etc, this made us feel very comfortable and welcomed. Great episode 😊

  • @amandarose2736
    @amandarose2736 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    FAVOURITE PODCAST you’ve ever done! Absolutely adore Pete he seems like such a genuine man with a heart of gold. ❤️

  • @chantellescarlet56
    @chantellescarlet56 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I met Pete once, having no preconception - yet walked away thinking that he is one of the nicest, warmest and kindest strangers I have ever had an encounter with.

    • @madflavour8548
      @madflavour8548 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lies you meet him thinking bad things about him

    • @x97s
      @x97s 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂​@@madflavour8548

  • @lisathomas3649
    @lisathomas3649 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I really Jaimie's style of interviewing people so much. Real talent.

  • @beajai5190
    @beajai5190 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Two blokes from different starts doing wonders for progressing men’s mental health authentically and real - not easy to have these talks - they showed that while creating a safe space for each other 🎉❤ wow wow wow - I think they should both mentor some young males - new reality tv

  • @florence2095
    @florence2095 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Jamie, thank you for having Pete on your Podcast 🙏. I could listen to Pete all day. He will find his contentment when he purchases his piece of paradise, lives out the rest of his life surrounded by his goats and dogs living out whoop whoop. As for Love. It will happen when he’s not looking and when you know, you know 💜🩵🐨🐨🦘

  • @tomyates-zs6zk
    @tomyates-zs6zk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Totally blown away by Pete - so honest and articulate, could have listened to this all day. Chapeau Jamie, great guest choice.

  • @latoyaluise467
    @latoyaluise467 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    What a brilliant episode. I didn’t expect Pete to be like this, it was very very refreshing. Loved this🥲 just free flowed naturally.

  • @georgiaparis
    @georgiaparis ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I really think Pete should do a show on life and his control/decisions. Amazing person and I love his realistic outlook on life, so interesting

  • @predictivetext2447
    @predictivetext2447 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It's so nice to see to men from different class/backgrounds connect and end up at the same place

  • @monicasmith40
    @monicasmith40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I don't know how to but I would love to meet pete, what a genuinely honest and down to earth man, that is rare to find now

  • @hannahtarbard998
    @hannahtarbard998 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Went on a journey of belly laughs to tears listening to this. What a gem of a podcast ❤

  • @DR2022
    @DR2022 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful human Pete is. I hope he realises this about himself and soon. The world needs more Pete’s.

  • @sundaylass6828
    @sundaylass6828 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Never thought i would relate so much to Pete Wicks! From the way he wants to be there for people but can't let people be there for him, having a very small circle and loyalty all the way to his vices & how he enjoys awkwardness & pushing boundaries. Very interesting pod well done guys ❤

  • @Kat-ht7lc
    @Kat-ht7lc ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love Pete. Genuine, honest, funny and handsome. Jamie, keep up these amazing podcasts, they're brilliant 👏 😊

  • @carolynmurphy3697
    @carolynmurphy3697 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hes very honest which is refreshing. Too many play games with other peoples emotions to get something out of them they want

  • @katieq1555
    @katieq1555 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great episode Jaime, loved this open conversation between you both. Hope Pete can be less hard on himself and find what he’s looking for xxx

  • @lisama4903
    @lisama4903 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome down to earth chat with Pete. A lot of unanswered questions answered here. Loved it .

  • @charly2542
    @charly2542 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pete is so pure. So intelligent, funny and gorgeous.. such a great podcast. I’m watching this after he’s been on his own pod with Sam T! Amazing! ❤

  • @katkat7261
    @katkat7261 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, Jamie. Nice to see the real you. I have just rewatched Made in Chelsea and now I understand when you say it was business for you. You created a kind of persona for the audience. Great talks.

  • @Leeh468
    @Leeh468 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a brilliant episode, Pete is obviously a person with a big heart. I completely relate to how he feels about himself. It is hard to be at peace with yourself and like yourself. We'll done Pete, I hope you find peace and happiness. D x

  • @cjm018
    @cjm018 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was a very good podcast. Very insightful. Well done Jamie for allowing Pete to open up & Pete you are worthy.

  • @hustlerchick9259
    @hustlerchick9259 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Pete is just amazing I could watch him listen him all
    Day I love this version of him he’s so relatable I’d love see Pete on here loads more

  • @meganparker636
    @meganparker636 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Absolutely spot on, me and my other half just have normal jobs but I go to bed and feel so much love in my heart and so content. I enjoy the day to day family life and I cant actually quite believe this is my life sometimes and that we have our own home and children.

    • @taragould4144
      @taragould4144 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know exactly how you feel. I am so content with the small things in life. Friends and family may have better jobs or more money, but I can honestly say I'm so happy in my life and truly appreciate where I am because my mind is genuinely happy ❤

    • @shirleycarroll1698
      @shirleycarroll1698 ปีที่แล้ว

      Delighted for you

  • @debbiemoorcroft6767
    @debbiemoorcroft6767 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wise words, nice chap and proves that “ things and money “ can’t buy dreams and feelings. ❤

  • @bonnietelling1308
    @bonnietelling1308 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ive just found ur podcast. Now binge watching. Such a good podcast please do a part two.never related to anyone more than when he said " u know when its quiet u just wana scream and see what everyone does" i have these urges on a daily basis. 😂😂😂

  • @natalieward4551
    @natalieward4551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww man, the best one yet 😍😍 loved it xx

  • @faithbabirye9980
    @faithbabirye9980 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My perspection of Pete Wick has changed. I rate how open and honest his been about his experiences. ❤😊

  • @sarahmillar9069
    @sarahmillar9069 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really enjoyed this podcast. So open and honest from Jamie and Pete.

  • @unknown-pt7gl
    @unknown-pt7gl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this so much great episode !

  • @tejumade2930
    @tejumade2930 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a fantastic episode. Pete is a great guy. Enjoyed the conversation between you two.

  • @killerheelscrime
    @killerheelscrime ปีที่แล้ว

    Love pete ❤ he was one of my favourites on towie. Im the same i live in the middle of nowhere with my dog and that makes me happy. "Good people do bad things and bad people do good things" ~ pete wicks

  • @TheCazz10
    @TheCazz10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think this is your best podcast to date. 5 stars

  • @GGirlxoxoA
    @GGirlxoxoA ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this! Also Pete and Megan were tv gold

  • @aimeeandrewartha8009
    @aimeeandrewartha8009 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Perfect guest! One of my fav eps yet ❤

    • @privatepodcast
      @privatepodcast  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Aimee, so pleased you enjoyed it! 💛

  • @Mason67890
    @Mason67890 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this ep. Defo agree one of, if not the best ep you’ve done xx

  • @dararupert7199
    @dararupert7199 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The fact Pete ever found himself on Towie was such a win for us all.

  • @ashleyturner4705
    @ashleyturner4705 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great episode! Absolutely loved it!

  • @superflyjimmysnucka9068
    @superflyjimmysnucka9068 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Pete Wicks is very good at telling people what they want to hear!

  • @1Kaileegirl
    @1Kaileegirl ปีที่แล้ว

    Really enjoyed this
    Thanks guys
    😀

  • @carolinemay1203
    @carolinemay1203 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely Brilliant! Both Jamie and Pete, very smart, lovely, interesting, clever guys ❤❤ All the best to you both xx

  • @rebeccafletcher6749
    @rebeccafletcher6749 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Pete, i just hope he allows himself to feel the happiness he deserves and let people in. I think that will give him his peace of mind that he talks about wanting.

  • @staceygodwin4576
    @staceygodwin4576 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww I love Pete wicks, very deep but so nice to see him vulnerable

  • @michaelabradford4183
    @michaelabradford4183 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode Jamie love your interviews.Watched towie first series but not since so dont know anything about Pete but seems such a nice genuine bloke x

  • @Charlotte-ir8ew
    @Charlotte-ir8ew ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I adore pete. What an incredible man. Xx

  • @ange6076
    @ange6076 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pete is proper, says it how it is and he deserves to be happy and successful ❤

  • @victorwhite7822
    @victorwhite7822 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im christina jamie loved you growing up on made in chelsea if i came in your show amd told you what i went threw youd be in tears love this x

  • @rachaelking7
    @rachaelking7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of your best Jaime ❤️ I truly loved that

  • @LM-km8md
    @LM-km8md 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sometimes you don’t have a choice but to walk away from people who are ruining your peace,even if they are blood,I agree Pete.

  • @marleymckenzie59
    @marleymckenzie59 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love the both of you ! Prob cause we are all Scorpions lol , you two are So real yet hysterically funny . Can relate to Pete a lot always have done . So refreshing to see how truthful you both are ❤️

  • @clairepeters547
    @clairepeters547 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hands down the best episode yet!

  • @rachelbuchanan7148
    @rachelbuchanan7148 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was top gents. The end though...what a guy Pete is :)

  • @kieransetchell9333
    @kieransetchell9333 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a podcast that was !!!!! Go on Pete

  • @vickygeorgiou114
    @vickygeorgiou114 ปีที่แล้ว

    V good podcast. I think Jamie is great at this. And Pete said some profound stuff.

  • @jeanettewoodhouse4348
    @jeanettewoodhouse4348 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thoroughly enjoyed listening to these two ...

  • @Leeh468
    @Leeh468 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a beautiful soul you are, Pete. I dearly hope that one day, you find peace and happiness.
    I fully relate to how you feel about you. I hope one day you let those around you in and put your barriers down. Everyone deserves happiness, including you. Lol xxc

  • @lolakemmy822
    @lolakemmy822 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What a beautiful podcast. Two lovely men! Just great

  • @emimahmudi
    @emimahmudi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved listening to this

  • @shanice_smith
    @shanice_smith ปีที่แล้ว

    love this episode🙌

  • @EvasNan2020
    @EvasNan2020 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great 50 Minutes+ guys, thanks x

  • @chelseahattersley6193
    @chelseahattersley6193 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Fantastic episode, i love listening to Pete but also you as a host is brilliant.

  • @teddyfrench7076
    @teddyfrench7076 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so ignorantly surprised by Pete in this podcast. I have always had a soft spot for him but I always thought that he came across (thanks to TOWIE editing!) a bit arrogant and at times blasé about others feelings by putting himself first at any opportunity. However, I wish everyone who had the same ignorance as me would take the opportunity to listen to him speak in such an eloquent (with a few Essex expletives that keeps his “normal” charm!) open and honest appeal. Loved this boys ♥💙♥

  • @identitywithheld1027
    @identitywithheld1027 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Creating Pirate Pete to conceal negative 'Self-Perception' sustains that negative 'self-perception' whilst concealing it from others. This is a psychological complex that can only be undone by objectively defining 'self-perception' and challenging it. If an individual believes they are a tree it doesn't matter how many people try to convince them they are not, it's not until they independently come to an alternative conclusion that they experience personal transformation.

  • @amelie710
    @amelie710 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jamie why have you not been back on would I lie to you?? I’ve just rewatched that episode, it’s one of the best pls go on it again ❤

  • @margaretdownie4407
    @margaretdownie4407 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Scared incase he would do what his father did, walked away and caused pain and hurt. So he doesn't trust himself not to cause pain to the people that love him. Just my humble opinion.
    Great show 👌👏👏👏👏👏💜

    • @lorip8373
      @lorip8373 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People with abandonment issues can either have avoidant personality types or anxious attachment styles which I can definitely relate to due to childhood trauma. I think Pete falls into the avoidant category so as to prevent himself from losing someone close to him again, hurting them in the way he experienced and is quite clearly still wounded from, but hopefully one day he'll meet that person that will make those walls come down and he'll just fall without even realising it. He just hasn't found that person yet and it will probably happen when he faces that trauma fully within himself 🥰

  • @kevinayres317
    @kevinayres317 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a fantastic conversation by both men, very interesting, meet joe black, my favourite

  • @lozb1631
    @lozb1631 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved you both. Just a comment that pete's microphone needed to be closer to him as his vocals were quieter than Jamie's but great, loved it

  • @kellissacallipo7473
    @kellissacallipo7473 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was so bloody good

  • @LoTrader87
    @LoTrader87 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. Didnt think clicking on this thumbnail would have me shedding tears

  • @justylktk2731
    @justylktk2731 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely loved this. 😊

  • @galaxybabeoxo9
    @galaxybabeoxo9 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never watched TOWIE or MIC but I loved this podcast so much 😊

  • @paulcassidy6016
    @paulcassidy6016 ปีที่แล้ว

    good people do bad things and bad people do good things .. love that

  • @flossssssy
    @flossssssy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Miss Mytton :( he and Jamie bounce off each other so well!

  • @kayles88
    @kayles88 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being rejected by a parent often causes a significant amount of damage psychologically. Pete is so hard on himself but I think he's lovely - a kind, genuine, and compassionate human being. Not perfect of course, because nobody is. I think that the persona he's created for the media is purely his way of keeping that wall up.

  • @slats1987
    @slats1987 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm loving the reality ones, I'd love you to have some of the super interesting characters on, Francis maybe, Fred, Mark vandelli etc

    • @resellex5091
      @resellex5091 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      francis used to host with him in the early days

  • @maryomeara1746
    @maryomeara1746 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best podcast I'm glad Sam has him

  • @user-fm8br2my4n
    @user-fm8br2my4n ปีที่แล้ว

    Great show

  • @emmacawtheray
    @emmacawtheray ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this really hit me 😢😢

  • @m3vvyhussain806
    @m3vvyhussain806 ปีที่แล้ว

    PETE IS JUST DOWN TO EARTH 😊

  • @ChantelJennings-rr5oz
    @ChantelJennings-rr5oz 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ah love Pete & Jamie ❤❤❤

  • @angelamunashematsa6028
    @angelamunashematsa6028 ปีที่แล้ว

    That story about him and Megan is killing me 😂😂😂😂

  • @michaelanderson5173
    @michaelanderson5173 ปีที่แล้ว

    These two have had a boot or three, and had a great conversation 👌

  • @archieleach9697
    @archieleach9697 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pete’s the best!

  • @dmac6704
    @dmac6704 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so sad because I feel what Pete is saying on a deep level. There is far too much pressure on men in this society.

  • @rebeccabee2058
    @rebeccabee2058 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keep doing your work for dogs Pete! xxx

  • @jennajones3413
    @jennajones3413 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant. Just brilliant 😂

  • @brigidoneillegan2370
    @brigidoneillegan2370 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😎thanks.Jamie,Pete,Real niiiice.to hear.others.talk.real...an through the aftermath,of loosing Loved.ones,.we're.all.tryingto.go.on ,support an connection helps,life'& Karma
    ....

  • @debrabrennan1784
    @debrabrennan1784 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pete lovely man so genuine x

  • @merisalvi3210
    @merisalvi3210 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Question tell me the difference between “ Hapiness and Joy and what it takes to achieve it “!

  • @Juls27989
    @Juls27989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Makes me wonder if his father leaving the family home when he was young is the reason he dosnt like getting to close to people/girlfriends. But fair play he sounds like a lovely person.

  • @michellemclarnon868
    @michellemclarnon868 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s been a long time coming but better late than never

  • @maryhughes7929
    @maryhughes7929 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Surrounded by goats and dogs! Oh Peter I love you. ❤️

  • @louisegillam
    @louisegillam ปีที่แล้ว

    Pete needed to talk into the mic a bit better. Listening through earphones and Jamie was too loud compared to him. Apart from that I loved it 😂❤

  • @zaraharpur9168
    @zaraharpur9168 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great episode, Pete is so realistic about his thoughts and views of life and fame. He doesn’t try to sugar coat the industry like so many others do and I hope he gets to that point where he’s content in himself 🫶 loved this 🤎 51:38

  • @heytigers3104
    @heytigers3104 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He’s very hard on himself. It seems to me he has an extreme form of independence stemming from rejection. If he stays busy and productive, he can be needed and not rejected, but he doesn’t want to give anyone he relies on the chance to reject him so he does it pre-emptively by not relying on others too much emotionally. Fatherhood would change him for the better. Hope he does build a family. 😊

    • @SweetMintPie555
      @SweetMintPie555 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      unfortunately parenthood doesn't heal attachment issues, even if it does bring purpose and contentment