Thank you from France for sharing. You helped me a lot on my seeking for best options regarding my fistula. Especially "trusting your guts" when it comes down to the doctor you pick. Hope you're doing well.
I feel your pain. I have been struggling for 3 years with the same problem. Started off after shaving my butt for a rectal exam.. Turned out i had a rectal cancer tumor which was succesfully removed. I have had 3 operations for the fistula with no luck. This is destroying my life and i litterally pray at night that i will not waken up. To realise how bad this is you have to experience it and i pray for anyone who is suffering with it..
@@ispy3836 my heart absolutely broke reading your comment. I am so sorry for all that you have and are suffering through. And I’m praying that you find the healing and relief that you desperately deserve. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Thanks, it’s hard when there isn’t anyone around who bothers to even ask how you are, you are blessed to have someone, even more than one person to ask “hey, how you doing?” I’m glad that you have a great support system.
That broke my heart reading your comment… I can’t begin to imagine how difficult that must be for you💔… If it helps, you have a virtual friend right here who cares and is rooting for you! 🙋🏼♀️❤️🩹
@@oo0itsria thank you so very much. This past year has been very illuminating, it’s amazing how quiet your social media gets when you are no longer the one calling, or the stop who stopped lending folks $5 or $10, or taking those folks to lunch. 10 years ago, in my throes of PTSD/ depression I don’t believe would have bothered to stick around. While I don’t condone that kind of “quitting”, I can certainly understand why people would want to do it. The vast majority of people have no idea how much impact words have on others, it took only one person to ask me how I was feeling to give me motivation to keep seeking treatment. As you have discovered, perianal/perirectal pain is indescribable to anyone who has never found themselves curled up on the bedroom floor, whimpering, searching for breath. I don’t bother trying anymore, I had so much dread of the pain post BM’s that, for several months, I stopped eating altogether and dropped 40lbs. Thank you again for your kind and supportive words, they mean the world to me.
I really appreciate you speaking on your experience. I had to 2 setons placed in me today and currently dont feel anything yet due to the anaesthetic. Im hoping my recovery isnt hard 🙏🏽
OH, my dear, thank you for sharing your experience! I'm currently having seton after fistulaectomy , I had extra absess, don't know how to call it exactly in English, it was extra bag connected with fistula and now it's being drained.The surgery itself was on the 28.06, every week I have my wound cleaned by my doctor (thanks God I found a real professional in Moscow) and there is a great anestasia that they use called Caudal anesthesia, it's an injection performed in your lower back nerve, but not in your spine which allows you not feel any pain during procedure . I don't know how long it will take to fully recover from this , but my life had changed significantly since it all started, I reappreciated a lot. Wish both of us fast recovery. God bless you❤
I totally understand what you mean about it changing your entire life. It really does. I’m so sooo sorry for what you’re going thru. Praise God you have a wonderful doctor and team supporting you! Praying for your recovery to be quick and complete! ❤
How are you now?? I need to know if you are ok please. I am ok and in remission at the moment. I do relate to what you have been through. Also, what is the name of the med that helped you, that your anesthesiologist recommended before one of your surgeries? Be well. from Barbara M
😞 I'm so sorry.. I really appreciate you sharing your story.. I have alot of health and digestive issues and I've had some bad experiences so i can definitely relate.. I hope that things have gotten better for you ❤
You’re so kind to say that… breaks my heart to hear you’re suffering as well. Thank goodness for being able to connect with others who can relate and exchange comfort with. ❤
Great video, and thank you for sharing your experience. Fistulas are more common than you think (just under 10 years for me). Keep us posted on your progress.
Thank you so much for sharing! Hopefully you’re doing okay.. 10 years is such a long time to be suffering with this. And yes, you’re right! I’m just finding out how common this is. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, but heartbreaking to see how many people are struggling. 💔
Awesome for you for being brave and posting this. I’m sure it wasn’t easy and I can only imagine how embarrassing this process was. I’m so sorry for how you were mistreated. You have no idea how much help this post can have for others. Hats off girl! Thank goodness you’re on the road to recovery!
Thank you for sharing, it helps a lot to know other people know how your feeling. Ive had multiple abbcess', multiple surgeries and multiple hospital stays this year. I currently have 2 large rubber drains 1 on each side and a string coming out of my rectum that goes up to another abcess. Im waiting for another surgery now. After my last surgery I developed blood clots in my lungs so we had to push my next surgery back 6 months. It is a pretty horrfic and difficult thing to deal with. Im lucky to have such an amazing wife and family. You describe what im feeling exactly. I wish I could figure out what in my diet causes the pain! Most days its painful but sometimes feels like im gonna need the ER. Thank you so much for your courage to talk about this.
@@delislebuilder866 Wow you have really been through some horrific things my friend. It’s a miracle you are still here after those blood clots!! I’m so grateful to hear you have a strong support system around you to help you navigate this difficult journey. Continue to stay strong! We are all here for each other! Thank you for reaching out.❤️🩹❤️🩹
I know this might have been a hard video to make but I appreciate your transparency. You hit the head on the nail on all aspects that you touched on. Having surgery to that area is so traumatic. I had 1 external hemorrhoidectomy for one large thrombosed external hemorrhoid. 4 years to now I'm now dealing with a abscess. It showed up a few days ago and actually ruptured on its own and I've been applying mupirocin(prescription antibiotics ointment) I also took oral antibiotics. The spot has healed up and my anxiety is just so high fearing it's going to come back and I'm going to have a fistula form but I'm praying it doesn't happen. My abscess showed up like a boil/pimple then formed a white head and then popped and released fluid. I'm praying it doesn't come back or a fistula doesn't form. The anxiety and ptsd that comes from these surgeries and that comes from issues regarding this area of the body of crazy. I appreciate your transparency in the video. Its crazy how this changes and humbles a person. It's hard knowing so many people take that process or their body for granted. It seems like my whole day/world revolves around how my bathroom habits are going.
@@kevintalley6697 My gosh I hate that for you, but you explained it so well. I’m praying that this works out in your favor as well. I’m hopeful that it will, it sounds like you have a great treatment regiment going. Hang in there my friend. And thank you for your kind words. ❤️🩹
I just had 2 draining setons put in 3 days ago. Pain before was at a 9-10. Pain after the surgery i was at a 5-6. So much more managable. The abscess i had was very painful, until they drained it and set the setons. Bowel movements havent been that bad, im more scared than anything, lol. I have follow up in 1 more week. I havent gotten any info from the doctor before or after the surgery, so im just going with the flow. Evrythign went so quickly, i went into the ER for the pain, they did a CT scan, and then sent in a surgeon to speak with me about getting the procedure. Theybhad me fast for a few more hours and then wheeled me over to the operating room. All my info has come from TH-cam! Your video helped a lot. Its very embarrassing! I have a bunch of questions written down now to ask during my follow up appointment.
@Blessed_22 did you end up getting the infusion treatment? My doctor suggested prednisone to help with crohns disease symptoms as well. Have you done either?
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am dealing with an anal fistula that developed from an improperly healing anal fistula that was cauterized a few months back but seemed to open again. This is hell on earth. This is one of the worst things I've gone through. It is nice to know I am not alone and it really is good to hear your story. Also I see you are now healed so I'm also very happy for you
I am so sorry this is happening to you again. To have it happen once is traumatic, I can’t imagine how you must be feeling going through it another time. I’m glad to hear my video brought you momentary peace. I know how hopeless things can feel during the times you’re in so much pain. Wishing you a quick recovery my friend. You hang in there…❤️🩹
First of all, you are a lovely young woman..second, I had a hemorrhoidectomy a couple years ago and the healing process was brutal, but I got through it...I can't imagine going through all you have! Thank you for speaking about this, you have helped so many people!
Gurrrl I had my abscess last yr and I was just like you and thought it was hemorrhoids. Started in May and I never knew these things existed. I would bleed then go awhile month or 2 and it would burst again and drain. Finally in October I had my surgery and my Dr. tied my abscess off and sliced my fistula open to drain and heal from inside out. I have been on pain meds before this happened so my pain was not bad at all. It was a process though. I’m just now getting to the point where I feel normal again. God bless!!
Ugh I am so sorry!! I know how difficult it is to be in so much pain and not understand what it is! But I’m relieved to hear that you are in the home stretch of it all!! Wishing you continued healing! ❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 Thank you! It really is a terribly embarrassing thing to have isn’t it? I put off going to the Dr. because I was so embarrassed and I’ve worked in the medical field most of my life! I can’t imagine having this done and having small children to care for! I don’t know how you did it.
@@myralawson4543Aww honey I know, it really is! But we did it!! ❤ And I am blessed to have a very supportive husband and family that carried me through it all! Fortunately the worst of it was also during the summer so that was helpful not having a school schedule to follow.
Don't worry, I had fistuloctomy last week, this was second surgery, first one was 3 months ago when a huge abscess ruptured internally. Wound is deep and it's hurts but it nothing compared to abscess wound, so you already went through hard part and things will be good. God bless you out of this horrible disease.
Thanks so much for your honesty and bravery, more power to you and I hope this hell ends for you though it seems like this is a condition we are all doomed to live with indefinitely if not for life but I keep telling myself, there's so many worse life-threatening illnesses out there so we are still lucky. Listening to you and seeing all these comments make me feel less alone for sure and give me courage to keep going. Just got my seton in 4 days ago, it is bizarre and more painful than my surgeon let on but just soldiering on. Dealing with this 2022 and it is shocking how little information there is on this when so many seem to be suffering. Had never heard about this either before.
I've watched videos from India and they go through a lot with pilonidal cysts, abscesses and setons. This one really good surgeon who fixes these for folks described it as "exsquistely" painful! That gave me a pretty good frame of reference. He also said that "thrombosed piles" were not only super painful but very dangerous too. Sounds like you have the worst of this behind you. Pardon the pun. Lol! Thank you for sharing your story. It should help a lot of folks.
@@DebbiesChallenge-vp4jg Lol That pun was epic lol And thank you for your kind words and well wishes. Very grateful to confirm that yes, the worst is over. ❤️🩹
Thank you so much for sharing. It’s so brave of you. And helpful to know that I’m not alone. Please continue to share what you feel comfortable with! 🙏🏻💙
Had a hemorrhoidectomy and one year later an abscess, second surgery, six months later another abscess. I’m on my 3rd abscess so I feel your pain. And same issue here can never get an appointment to see the colorectal surgeon till after the abscess pops. Researching now for a new doc.
@@jessejoseph1984 Oh man I’m so sorry to hear this… Hang in there as best you can and don’t worry, you will be guided to the right doctor! Sending you lots of positive energy!
I had two incision and drainage surgeries from abscess , I went to a general surgeon and he never listened to me , finally seeing a specialist, I get an MRI to see if there’s a fistula, it’s been a very difficult 5 months
Oh man I am so sorry… a general suggestion set me back as well after my abscess burst. I’m going to be sending you prayers that you are out of the woods and that this clears up soon! Hang in there!!!!
I’m 34 and got a fistula around age 21. Only just got the seton in yesterday. No pain yet. But it’s uncomfortable feels weird. But had to get it. So sorry for all you went through. I delayed this surgery for 4 years due to creepy surgeons. I ended up getting a female and going ahead with it. But on the day of the surgery it was a man. Which I’m not happy with them changing the surgeon on me without my consent. But a public hospital in Australia you don’t get to choose your surgeon as it’s free
Thank you so much for this. I have a cutting seton currently and have been struggling. I had my first surgery on May 27th, and got two lemon sized abscesses removed. I then had a second surgery done on June 15th, to clean and remove the first two abscesses and a third that the doctors found. Then had another surgery on June 18th to again clean and remove abscesses, they found a fourth one during that surgery and found out that I had 4 fistulas. Thankfully three of those four closed and healed, however the fourth one was so deep connecting to my sphincter. They didn’t want to cut into my sphincter so they decided to do the cutting seton so that it closes. But that part of letting people help me. I have always been so independent, and the thought of allowing people to help, and have any control over my finances and even just making dinner, or getting my pain medicine and glass of water breaks me. I never knew that this was even possible. It is definitely humbling. Life changing, mind changing experience.
@@susannaortegaso Wow… your response resonates so deep with me. I can identify so much with your story and emotions. Hopefully, you can trust when I tell you that on the other side of this trauma, i have found a deep sense of gratitude and understanding that these things indeed needed to happen. There was purpose in the pain once i accepted and surrendered to the process of life. No one escapes from pain one way or another. This happens to be one version of mine. I’ll be sending you love and wishing you strength and healing.❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 I believe this too, and everyone around me telling me that they are here and willing to help. But hearing it from someone that is also going through this process makes me believe that I can let go of my pride and independence and allow them to help. I needed to see your video. 🫶🏽 Thank you for being so transparent and open. May God continue to protect us and be with us during our journey.
Same, the pain from my perianal abscess was out of this WORLD. Forget the pain scale, gave me the same drugs too and still was not pain free - dilaudid, morphine, fentanyl, etc. Never again do I want to experience that ever
Omg!!! Thank you for this. I am on day 3 post seton insertion. Pain is mad. We dont have that drug here in the UK. I am so scared to eat or open my bowels. This is rough. Praying for you and everyone going through this🙏🏾😢
im going through it right now im so scared to even pass gas. I feel so bloated all im eating is yogurt and soup i didn't have the balls to remove any hemis due to ptsd of all the pain. I will give all details as soon as im tiny bit better. What happened was i gained few pounds and cause of that the scar some how opened up and while i was bathing water got in. next day i felt pressure , day after it got worse. I was so angry that i pressed with all the strength i had to try push out the pus but nothing was coming out. next day i went to bathroom i felt better but also felt like a weld near the scar next thin i know it just pops on its own and i froze i was scared to move. im so exhausted already but got more to mention in case someone needs help. Thank you hun for sharing we all appreciate u for it
@@flexbrawl8617 My heart hurts so badly for you reading this… I can only imagine the trauma of that feeling returning. You’re stronger than you realize and I know you’ll be ok! We’re all in this together!! Hang in there!❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 it has returned I saw proctologist yesterday Thursday morning and he said my fistula is back that after I drain to do colonoscopy because he thinks it’s coming from inside but I know it’s not. The way this happened was I gained weight and my scar from previous surgery in 2013-2014 got pulled open and I was taking a bath for about an hr and felt something but made nothing of it. Next day I started feeling blunt pain and pressure but couldn’t understand because before it was sharp. On day 3 I was talking bath again and got mad and pressed on that spot until I saw sparks come out my eyes but nothing came out. Next morning I woke up with a blister but felt 3x better, next thing I know I’m standing and it just bursts and I freeze. I think I broke the butt cheek pocket and all the pus came out. The smell of death scared me too again cause last time I had any issues was atleast 15 years ago so yeah I’m going through it alone stressed to the core with some hair loss cause stress got me this time. What can I eat that’s soft? I feel like a walking yogurt lol atm I lost 10 pounds and 2 dress sizes. Thank you for responding 🫶🏼
@@flexbrawl8617 wow I’m so deeply sorry to hear that. And you are not alone, there’s a community out here that will absolutely support you through this process! And hopefully you can find strength in some form of a Higher Power as well, that always brings me a sense of comfort, knowing that I am not in control and to surrender to the process, knowing I will be OK one way or another. As far as recommendations for food that is soft… I’ve been eating very clean soups. Nothing with seeds or nuts, low sodium high fiber things like that. Also, organic shakes with blended fruit and vegetables were a godsend to me as well.❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 thank you so much on the foods because I was actually eating almonds cause they high in fiber but also “clog” the stomach so I’m no longer going to eat them. I also wanted to ask you if you can point me in the right direction in terms of hemis. I want them gone but I’m not ready for more surgeries atm. Are there any other ways of getting rid of them without cutting. Is our technology capable of anything new? I heard of rubber bands but I’m not sure if that a good option for me atm. Do we have lazers or something like that? Or we not there yet. Thank you for replying and ty for being you
@@flexbrawl8617 please do not feel like you need to thank me. I understand how desperate one can feel when dealing with this topic seeking comfort and wanting answers and information so I’m happy to help in anyway that I can. And unfortunately, I don’t know of any other treatment options, other than the surgery and the bands (for the hemis.) 😢 but if I ever come across any new information, I will absolutely report back and gladly share the help that I get and pass it along!! we have to all be here for each other through this!.
🙏 I have had several surgeries and headed back again to the Doc this week to talk about my latest issues. I praybfor everyone dealing. Its the worst. Who new there was so many nerves down below.
I had a traumatic twin birth that caused 4th degree tear which lead to a perianal fistula and abscess 15 years ago, it took about a year to heal but I didn’t have any surgery or anything just left to heal. I remember very little other then the lancing of the abscess and the sitz baths. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago when I felt a familiar pain. I went to emerg 2 times.. just to be sent home with antibiotics and told we don’t see an abscess. I told them it was inside, finally they ordered a cT which showed fistula so they ordered an mri and a surgical consult but said no abscess… it’s been 3 weeks of pain that I KNOW is an abscess and what do you know it burst at home yesterday . So I went into my family doctor where he lanced it a bit more to help it drain and said wait for mri and surgeon to call. So now I’m waiting in limbo as to the next steps but was told I need surgery. I’m doing sitz baths and trying to not have to go to the bathroom. Tips on what to eat to make it as easy as possible? Work is wanting to know when I’m coming back, I don’t know what to tell them as I can’t just explain what’s happening or why I’m not there as it’s so embarrassing .
@@olsenfivealive5227 What an absolute nightmare! I am so sorry!! It’s so frustrating knowing that you have something going on and not being listened to. Praying that you get an incredible surgeon and on the road to recovery ASAP! As far as food I ate VERY clean. Tons & tons of fresh fruit and vegetables. Nothing with seeds or skins that are difficult to digest. Hang in there sweetheart.❤️🩹
I've got an abscess drained in January through GA..it didn't heal..then i got diagnosed with fistula..i have a nurse come over daily for packing and my seton attachment surgery will be on Friday...and i took care of my husband who had complex fistulae since 2019.. our lives have completely changed and I'm scared for my seton attachment.. plus I have kids who are only 7 and 4.. anxiety is really kicking in so badly.🥺
That’s so incredible hard and I’m so so sorry you are both suffering with that! I can’t imagine both myself and my husband having to go thru it at the same time with children. I hope you have a supportive family/network to help you get through this. I know how life altering this is for you both. Please be kind and patient with yourselves. Sending so much love and prayers to you.❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 thank you for your kind words. Thankfully we live next to my mom in law, she's all we've got but she's an elderly so we leave the kids with her when we really have no choice. My side of the family is on the other side of the world so it's really hard sometimes. I hope all is well with you.🙏
Yes I’m so sorry you experienced that for that long. But I agree this must be talked about because like you said I thought I was dying yes I was hospitalized I was give top notch med had have drain abscess surgery. Giving antibiotics in iv. It took me a week to go to er I actually thought it was worst pain in my life. And after I’ve been having depression. Because I never thought it would end. Yes same story just only had one doc to catch it asap. I’m a week from surgery I see my doctor next week I pray no one has to go through this very very very very painful it will humble you. I still have break down because I can’t believe my body going thru an went through such thing 💯💯💯💯💯💯👏🏾 this is real
Your words really hit home for me. I am so so so sorry to hear you’re struggling. It literally hurts my heart reading this. You are not alone! Somehow we are all in together! Wishing you so much love and healing and relief from everything you’re suffering through! Hang in there my friend! ❤
You are very brave coming on screen and sharing your experience! It is much appreciated! I went through the laser surgery in India and it didn't work. The doctor in Arizona has recommended seton and I am scared as if I am about to die! How is it going for you? Did you heal completely and is the seton taken off? Please post another video or comment about how it is going for you! Take care!
@@dineshv1607 Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so sorry to hear that your laser procedure did not work. Try not to let yourself be afraid of the seton. Believe me I know how traumatizing this can all be, but the seton drains do help. The fistulotomy does work! Like I said, make sure you have an experienced surgeon who is well-versed in colorectal surgery. I’m grateful to say that I’m completely recovered after fistulotomy! Sending you love and prayers for a quick recovery my friend. We are all in this together! ❤️🩹.
When I had my perianal abscess opiates didn’t help much. Toradol worked 10x better. I’m guessing because it was reducing the inflammation. Now when I passed my kidney stones. Toradol didn’t help. Only thing that would help was opiates. You are right. You have to be your own patient advocate. It’s really ashame especially for people who don’t have anyone to speak for them when incapacitated or disabled. Good suggestion about the pain blocker. Thank you. I hope you healed nicely. Sounds like you had a rough experience. Sorry to hear about it. 16:
You’re so right about the toradol working better with the inflammation. The inflammation is such a big part of the pain from all the trauma. Poor thing you has kidney stones too!? 😢
I just had this video pop up after watching Dr. Chung. He sees his patients 2-3 times a week after. Hey thanks for making this. You’re not alone and now people know they aren’t either
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I feel less alone. Please let us know how your lift procedure goes and how you are doing. I am interested in the laser treatment as well. Do you mind naming the Doctor that you are fond of and what state he works out of? It is so hard to find doctors that actually care. They treat you like a burden because they have no idea what’s it’s like to have ever been sick 😢
Thanks so much! Grateful to say that my surgery was a success! My doctors name is Dr Tizio in New Jersey. Wishing you so much health and success yourself.❤️
It's been 11 months since you were so kind to make this video. How are you now? How did your last surgery go? Are the setons removed? Hope all is well now and that you will give us an update soon. Thanks so much for this video. You've helped a lot of people!
@@ElStands Thank you so much for your kind comment! The surgery was a success, thank God! The seton was removed and I’ve made a full recovery.🥹 Staying positive and healthy and hopefully this is all behind me now!
@@Blessed_22 Glad to hear it! You give hope that there is an end to those still going through. Do you mind sharing how long the setons were in? I know everyone's situation is different, but just in case I have to have them I'd like to get an idea of what to expect. Thank you soooooo much and stay blessed!
@@ElStands Of course! They were each in for 3 months. It depends on how quickly it drains and the inflammation goes down. Just get as much rest as you can, stay hydrated and eat well, keep the area clean and dry. You should be on the upswing soon my friend. I’ll be praying for your health and recovery! ❤️🩹
@@memberberry7139He has blessed me! And God bless YOU as well!! Yes, lol the accent you hear is indeed from Jersey and that is where I had my surgeries. ❤️🩹
I am currently going through a very similar situation to yours and I am only about 3 months in and still have an active abscess and what I believe to be a horseshoe fistula tract which is now draining from inside my anus and two external openings that can become excruciatingly painful as you already know. However, I have found some amazing things to help with the pain naturally as of late and even found a few studies that suggested what I am now using can be even more beneficial at healing a complicated fistula than surgery but I'm still testing that all out. I'd be more than happy to chat with you some more or anyone else about it but just wanted to know how you are doing now? I am still considering a Seton drain but heard they can be extremely painful so like you I am terrified to have one put in, I have Crohn's disease so a Seton so far according to the first colorectal surgeon that I saw would be the only permanent solution she would be willing to offer me to try to stop the abscesses because she will not do a fistulotomy on me or any other procedure to try to close the holes because she says people with Crohn's don't tend to heal very well. So with that said, I will be looking for another surgeon because I think that's bullshit because I've already managed to reduce a lot of the inflammation myself doing various alternative treatments. Plus, a seton drain being my only option at this point isn't really an option for me long term because like you I'm still young and don't want to have a drain sticking out of my butt for the rest of my life! In the future, I may still consider getting a drain put in or at least having another surgery to clean out the infection and possibly necrotic / scar tissue but for right now I'm just trying my best to heal this on my own with what I know and using things like medical grade manuka honey you may want to look into this for fistulas or anything else down there, IV nutrients, detoxing, high doses or liposomal supplements with antimicrobial properties, free radical scavengers, antioxidants and things to help repair connective tissue and collagen, as well as homeopathic remedies. Fiber is also super important to keep my bowels moving properly and formed so that nothing passes through the fistula and I experience what you called the ring of lava fire!!! I can so relate to that and screaming on the toilet or in the bathtub in my sits bath after a bowel movement! My god the pain!!! However, the fiber you need to use is equally as important I have found because some will cause constipation or rip up the gut even further. I'll be making my own homemade anal suppositories as well this week to help my healing along as well, plus doing a lot of hyperthermia treatments for infection, red light and laser light therapy for healing the area, and rectal ozone insufflations (I drink ozonated water every day as well) and so far I am seeing some progress. I do other things as well, but a huge part of what I've had to do to try to maintain my spirits and my health is stress management since this experience has been beyond stressful. Plus, I think this all started in the first place because I had several traumatic experiences that took place in my life leading up to all of this but I'll save you the story because it's long. So far I am three months in and things do still get pretty bad on some days but they are nowhere near where I was 3 months ago when I first developed the perianal abscess and fistula tract. My GOD I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN SO MUCH PAIN IN MY ENTIRE LIFE and like you I was convinced I was going to die of sepsis or anal cancer, it was terrible! The pain would get so bad at times that I couldn't sit, walk, or even lay down without screaming and bawling my eyes out. At one point when I finally went to the ER to have it lanced I even went into shock because my body couldn't handle the pain anymore. Man, I wouldn't wish this crap on my worst enemy and I've been through my fair share of pain over the last 15 years having been diagnosed with multiple autoimmune diseases and Lyme disease. This is by far probably one of my worst experiences to date in terms of the pain, that's for sure! Like you, I now have extreme PTSD not only of going back to the hospital to have this dealt with even further but of having anything going near my butt in general or even going to the washroom. So this whole experience has felt extremely isolating, daunting, and depressing to say the least because like you said there aren't a lot of people talking about this, let alone women. Plus, unless you've had the "pleasure" of feeling this kind of pain people really don't know what you are going through from day to day or what it takes to care for a wound like this on a daily basis. It's like my whole life can't start every morning until after I go through my 1-2 hour washroom routine or how I get anxious every time I am away from home. Well anyway, I would love to hear how you are doing now, and thank you so much for sharing your very personal experience with us. When I figure out how to heal this damn thing I hope to share mine as well someday so that others don't feel so alone. Can I get the name of your surgeon and where he is located? All the best and God Bless! Jess
Thank you so much for your kind words and your support. My gosh your comment really hit home for me because I can identify with so much of what you said/explained about your pain, routine and experience. It’s truly life changing and time consuming. I also feel trauma is what caused this initial diagnosis myself, but like you said, that’s a whole other story. I agree that you should have a second opinion from a colorectal specialist. There’s no reason you should have to live in so much pain without the option of a fistulotomy. I think maybe ask if you could get the seton drain put in to get rid of the infection and calm down the inflammation and once that happens if you would be able to have a fistulotomy to cut out the fistulas and finally get some much needed relief! My doctors name is Dr. Tizio in Neptune, NJ. He saved my life. Zero pain after my fistulotomy. ZERO. He’s so knowledgeable and his team is so compassionate. I wish everyone had access to this angel. You hang in there sweetheart. I’m sending you positive thoughts and I’ll mention you in my prayers before bed tonight. Everything will work out. Believe!! ❤
Hi, I’ve had my chronic anal fissure turn into an abscess recently. Now my doctor is saying he needs to place a seton and wait for at least 2 months for the drainage to be done I guess? And after it’s done he’s going to do a laser surgery to close up the seton tract. I’m really scared that the seton is going to hurt and going to make things worse. There’s no visible fistulas and I don’t understand why I have to get the setons if I don’t have fistulas… I don’t know what to do : (
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through. The seton is a drain for the abscess. He needs to wait because you probably have a lot of inflammation. It won’t make things worse. It’s going to get rid of the infection. Make sure you have a Surgeon who explains everything to you, who is very experienced and who you trust. Everything is going to be okay. ❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 I’m having a really hard time trusting doctors like you did after the treatment I’ve gotten for my fissure which eventually caused it to become worse and chronic. I guess I have no choice but to get the setons even though it’s probably going to be really uncomfortable
@@Blessed_22 That’s really great to hear. I don’t know you but I honestly feel how you felt months ago and I’m very happy that you’ve gotten through your hard times, truly. Thanks for putting this video on YT btw. It somewhat helped me mentally to know I’m not the only person experiencing it.
I had a wee fistula that was easily done with local. Recovery was awful. I cannot imagine what you went through, omg. I now have something draining years later and trying to clear it up myself. I am a nurse so hopefully it works out but if not I will definitely ask for that block.
In your corner. Currently navigating much the same with abscess, surgery a few months ago, seton, heading for MRI next week to see what the current state of the fistula looks like so they can schedule the fistulectomy. First MRI noted superficial fistula, so fingers crossed it stayed that way during the first surgery and seton draining. Your are right, pain was excruciating with the abscess, was taking baths up to 3x a day and feared just going to the bathroom. How have you faired since your post?
I went through months of wanting to give up and then I started praying, asking my Heavenly Father to heal me. Every time I pray the pain goes away but then later comes back. One time I was in the bathroom and was crying because of the pain and I was praying and I saw Jesus in front of me and he bent down and kissed my forehead and the pain was gone. It was a miracle.
@@diddle8700 Don’t give up. I know what you’re feeling, I know how hopeless it can get. But it gets better. I promise you it will. Sometimes it gets overwhelming, but you need to believe. And if you can’t believe, believe that I believe. And hold onto that. You’re going to get through this. 🩷
I had fistula surgery a week ago. I know how it's feels like. It's ah Fuking hell mentally and physically. Sometime burns, stabing pain, itchy, discharges. 😭
There’s no more horrendous and excruciating pain than anal abscess… totally in this path as well, right now dealing with a cut seton which is very painful
How are you now? I need to know if you are ok and if you had another surgery please. i sent this message before, but it vanished. Hope this is not a duplicate. Also, what is the name of the med that helped you for your previous surgery? You mentioned that your anesthesiologist suggested it. thanks for sharing and for reading my info also. Barbara in MI
@@Blessed_22 thank you for your reply! I'm glad u are ok. I'm in remission (Crohn's) at the moment, thank God above ;) (Now dealing with severe fatigue only. I'm sure you been exhausted in your past too. stay healed!) In +Jesus+ name! from Barbara in MI
@@bam414141 Praise God I am SO happy to hear this!!! Just keep feeding your body clean food and your soul clean thoughts and we’ll get through this!! 💕 Thank you so much for sharing your journey with me!
Can you elaborate because at times I thought I was going into shock as well which is why I started ozone treatments. Even did IV ozone and DMSO but that was way too strong so now I'm doing ozone myself with my ozone generator. I drink ozone water daily, do hyperthermia and do ozone insufflation, plus ingest and use medical grade manuka honey anally and I've been feeling a whole lot better and noticed these things make my abscess feel a lot less painful, and make them drain very quickly, plus reduce the inflammation drastically.
Thank you for sharing this! I started going through all these problems at the age of 21/22. I definitely know the about that perianal abscess pains, to the point i was rushed to the hospital in an ambulance because i was bleeding profusely through the abscess as well. I also did the flap surgery and I’m still suffering in pain from where they took the flap in my inner thighs. Now I don’t know how many fistulas and it’s sad and painful. Now i decided to stay with my colostomy for life.
My heart goes out to you so deeply… I can only imagine how difficult your day to day life is. Sending you love and prayers and I hope that you are able to find relief in whatever way you can.❤
@@Blessed_22my fissure and hemorrhoids were also caused by birth. I had 2 3rd degree tears 😭 thank you for making this video. Can you please do an update on how you’re doing
@@yariyari9318 Hopefully they can give you a compound for the fissure and you only have to do the hemorrhoidectomy. Please make sure you have a colorectal surgeon who you trust implicitly. ❤️🩹 Everything is going to work out for you!😊
@@Blessed_22 I’ve been using 2 compounds ointments but no luck. My hemorrhoids aren’t the problem it’s just my fissure what’s so painful. At least that’s what I think. Can you tell me a little more on what to expect on my consultation? I’m a bit nervous 😬
@ That’s what happened to me, I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m not sure what your surgeon will recommend for you, but I was given a sphincterotomy to close my fissure and hemorrhoidectomy to get rid of my internal and external hemorrhoids. I can’t believe how long you have to wait you poor thing! Being in so much pain and just having had a baby (congratulations by the way 🥰❤️) that’s awful to suffer like that.
I am from India ..my stroy is kinda same like you...i felt a lump near my anus and i showed up my gynaecologist she suggested surgery and removed the abcess ..but the wound was not healing for 2 months the pus used to come from the wound.. I visited 8 doctors but evrybody just prescribed me antibiotics but nothing worked ..finally when i visited a proctologist he asked me to go for MRI scan and found out i had fistula and immediately next day he did my lasers surgery..its been 12 days of my surgery and i am still waiting for my wound to heal ..😢😢😢 i dont know how much time it is going to take 😟
Hello, how are you know? As this has passed 10 months, hope you must have recovered or in path of recovery.. please do share.. I has high fistula and had seton placement and fistula removal
Hi sir!! Thank you so much for asking! By the grace of God I am fully recovered.❤️🩹 The surgery was a huge success! I am sorry to hear you have had the same issue and I’m praying you have a full recovery as well! 😊
Wow! Great to know! May be you already know but still I am sharing that here doctors recommend to eat daily lots of fibres (fruits and vegetables) and also take one or two teaspoon of psyllium husk daily with lots of water daily (doctor suggested to make it lifelong habit). This will make the stool bulky and hence will prevent it to be hard and pass easily down the colon without causing any rupture or injury to ensures no perianal abscess or fistula. One should be careful for both constipation and loose motions as both can cause this issue. Best wishes !
Thanks for sharing! It’s been a while since you posted, did you end up having the advanced flap surgery? Would love to hear your experience. I’m having mine in August Xo
@@Blessed_22thank you so much! I appreciate it. Glad to hear it went well for you. I’m worried about the pain and the healing process and the chance of it failing/returning but am gonna think positive and hope it heals properly and I don’t have any further issues 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
@@Mac42203 I understand and honestly that’s still always in the back of my mind too. But remember, all we have is today. And if God forbid that does happen, we will be okay and make it through again!
@@Blessed_22 well said. I’ve learned to live with my fistula and seton waiting for surgery. And I’ll deal with whatever is thrown at me after that, although I hope it just goes well and everything is healed! 😂😅
@@Blessed_22had my surgery this morning. My surgeon said all went great and I did great. Mine was transsphincteric so they did an advancement flap on the internal hole and cored out the external opening up to the no no area (external sphincter). Currently alternating pain meds and just being a couch potato for now. Any other tips for good healing vibes? 😅
Yes the infection sucks up all the pain medication it the most depressing experience ever😢 they say c tongs should never be done !! It on of the last resort type of thing.
Yup. It created a fistula on top of the other ones that didn’t need to be there😢 But you’re so right, no pain meds help when that infection takes over. I found out the day after I made this video that it was post operative sepsis!
I was sent home at Christmas to give birth to an intersphincteric abscess that they thought was hemorrhoids, because they didn't check. . 7 full days of intense pain, my kids saw a side of me that they have never seen. It burst on its own, I was humbled from the delusional pain effects. . I said kill me, I just wanna die, it was so so so so bad, to say the least.
Omgosh how I empathize so deeply with you 😢I am SOOO sorry you suffered so much!!! Hopefully you are recovered my friend. ❤️🩹 Thank you for watching & sharing your story!
My god, what an awful experience. I’m telling you, most people just trust that all doctors are competent. Some are not and this kind of stuff happens. It’s sad
Thank you from France for sharing. You helped me a lot on my seeking for best options regarding my fistula. Especially "trusting your guts" when it comes down to the doctor you pick. Hope you're doing well.
Glad it was helpful! I hope everything works out for you my friend 🤍
Did you need surgery
I feel your pain. I have been struggling for 3 years with the same problem. Started off after shaving my butt for a rectal exam.. Turned out i had a rectal cancer tumor which was succesfully removed. I have had 3 operations for the fistula with no luck. This is destroying my life and i litterally pray at night that i will not waken up. To realise how bad this is you have to experience it and i pray for anyone who is suffering with it..
@@ispy3836 my heart absolutely broke reading your comment. I am so sorry for all that you have and are suffering through. And I’m praying that you find the healing and relief that you desperately deserve. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 thank you
Thanks, it’s hard when there isn’t anyone around who bothers to even ask how you are, you are blessed to have someone, even more than one person to ask “hey, how you doing?”
I’m glad that you have a great support system.
That broke my heart reading your comment… I can’t begin to imagine how difficult that must be for you💔… If it helps, you have a virtual friend right here who cares and is rooting for you! 🙋🏼♀️❤️🩹
@@oo0itsria thank you so very much. This past year has been very illuminating, it’s amazing how quiet your social media gets when you are no longer the one calling, or the stop who stopped lending folks $5 or $10, or taking those folks to lunch. 10 years ago, in my throes of PTSD/ depression I don’t believe would have bothered to stick around. While I don’t condone that kind of “quitting”, I can certainly understand why people would want to do it.
The vast majority of people have no idea how much impact words have on others, it took only one person to ask me how I was feeling to give me motivation to keep seeking treatment. As you have discovered, perianal/perirectal pain is indescribable to anyone who has never found themselves curled up on the bedroom floor, whimpering, searching for breath. I don’t bother trying anymore, I had so much dread of the pain post BM’s that, for several months, I stopped eating altogether and dropped 40lbs. Thank you again for your kind and supportive words, they mean the world to me.
I really appreciate you speaking on your experience. I had to 2 setons placed in me today and currently dont feel anything yet due to the anaesthetic. Im hoping my recovery isnt hard 🙏🏽
Hang in there! It’s a process for sure, but keep the faith, it will help you stay strong.❤️🩹
How’s your recovery going if you don’t mind answering?
@@larac.8281Happy to report I’ve made a full recovery! Thank you for asking!
OH, my dear, thank you for sharing your experience! I'm currently having seton after fistulaectomy , I had extra absess, don't know how to call it exactly in English, it was extra bag connected with fistula and now it's being drained.The surgery itself was on the 28.06, every week I have my wound cleaned by my doctor (thanks God I found a real professional in Moscow) and there is a great anestasia that they use called Caudal anesthesia, it's an injection performed in your lower back nerve, but not in your spine which allows you not feel any pain during procedure . I don't know how long it will take to fully recover from this , but my life had changed significantly since it all started, I reappreciated a lot. Wish both of us fast recovery. God bless you❤
I totally understand what you mean about it changing your entire life. It really does. I’m so sooo sorry for what you’re going thru. Praise God you have a wonderful doctor and team supporting you! Praying for your recovery to be quick and complete! ❤
@@Blessed_22 Thank you dear and wish you and me and all people suffering fast recovery!
@@ekaterinamatveeva2557 Katerina a v Americe yest takoye? , Spasiba za otvet 🫶🏼
How are you now?? I need to know if you are ok please.
I am ok and in remission at the moment. I do relate to what you have been through.
Also, what is the name of the med that helped you, that your anesthesiologist recommended before one of your surgeries?
Be well. from Barbara M
😞 I'm so sorry.. I really appreciate you sharing your story.. I have alot of health and digestive issues and I've had some bad experiences so i can definitely relate.. I hope that things have gotten better for you ❤
You’re so kind to say that… breaks my heart to hear you’re suffering as well. Thank goodness for being able to connect with others who can relate and exchange comfort with. ❤
Great video, and thank you for sharing your experience. Fistulas are more common than you think (just under 10 years for me). Keep us posted on your progress.
Thank you so much for sharing! Hopefully you’re doing okay.. 10 years is such a long time to be suffering with this. And yes, you’re right! I’m just finding out how common this is. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone, but heartbreaking to see how many people are struggling. 💔
Awesome for you for being brave and posting this. I’m sure it wasn’t easy and I can only imagine how embarrassing this process was. I’m so sorry for how you were mistreated. You have no idea how much help this post can have for others. Hats off girl! Thank goodness you’re on the road to recovery!
@@allisonglasson6915 That’s so kind of you to say, thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing, it helps a lot to know other people know how your feeling. Ive had multiple abbcess', multiple surgeries and multiple hospital stays this year. I currently have 2 large rubber drains 1 on each side and a string coming out of my rectum that goes up to another abcess. Im waiting for another surgery now. After my last surgery I developed blood clots in my lungs so we had to push my next surgery back 6 months. It is a pretty horrfic and difficult thing to deal with. Im lucky to have such an amazing wife and family. You describe what im feeling exactly. I wish I could figure out what in my diet causes the pain! Most days its painful but sometimes feels like im gonna need the ER. Thank you so much for your courage to talk about this.
@@delislebuilder866 Wow you have really been through some horrific things my friend. It’s a miracle you are still here after those blood clots!! I’m so grateful to hear you have a strong support system around you to help you navigate this difficult journey. Continue to stay strong! We are all here for each other! Thank you for reaching out.❤️🩹❤️🩹
I know this might have been a hard video to make but I appreciate your transparency. You hit the head on the nail on all aspects that you touched on. Having surgery to that area is so traumatic. I had 1 external hemorrhoidectomy for one large thrombosed external hemorrhoid. 4 years to now I'm now dealing with a abscess. It showed up a few days ago and actually ruptured on its own and I've been applying mupirocin(prescription antibiotics ointment) I also took oral antibiotics. The spot has healed up and my anxiety is just so high fearing it's going to come back and I'm going to have a fistula form but I'm praying it doesn't happen. My abscess showed up like a boil/pimple then formed a white head and then popped and released fluid. I'm praying it doesn't come back or a fistula doesn't form. The anxiety and ptsd that comes from these surgeries and that comes from issues regarding this area of the body of crazy. I appreciate your transparency in the video. Its crazy how this changes and humbles a person. It's hard knowing so many people take that process or their body for granted. It seems like my whole day/world revolves around how my bathroom habits are going.
@@kevintalley6697 My gosh I hate that for you, but you explained it so well. I’m praying that this works out in your favor as well. I’m hopeful that it will, it sounds like you have a great treatment regiment going. Hang in there my friend. And thank you for your kind words. ❤️🩹
I just had 2 draining setons put in 3 days ago. Pain before was at a 9-10. Pain after the surgery i was at a 5-6. So much more managable. The abscess i had was very painful, until they drained it and set the setons. Bowel movements havent been that bad, im more scared than anything, lol. I have follow up in 1 more week. I havent gotten any info from the doctor before or after the surgery, so im just going with the flow. Evrythign went so quickly, i went into the ER for the pain, they did a CT scan, and then sent in a surgeon to speak with me about getting the procedure. Theybhad me fast for a few more hours and then wheeled me over to the operating room.
All my info has come from TH-cam! Your video helped a lot. Its very embarrassing!
I have a bunch of questions written down now to ask during my follow up appointment.
I can totally identify with your story! Hang in there! You’ve got a bit of a road ahead, but you seem to be on the right track!
@Blessed_22 did you end up getting the infusion treatment? My doctor suggested prednisone to help with crohns disease symptoms as well. Have you done either?
@@gamer30005 I actually didn’t do the fusions, but yes I did the seton drain 2x . One for each abscess I had. ❤️🩹
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am dealing with an anal fistula that developed from an improperly healing anal fistula that was cauterized a few months back but seemed to open again. This is hell on earth. This is one of the worst things I've gone through. It is nice to know I am not alone and it really is good to hear your story. Also I see you are now healed so I'm also very happy for you
I am so sorry this is happening to you again. To have it happen once is traumatic, I can’t imagine how you must be feeling going through it another time. I’m glad to hear my video brought you momentary peace. I know how hopeless things can feel during the times you’re in so much pain. Wishing you a quick recovery my friend. You hang in there…❤️🩹
First of all, you are a lovely young woman..second, I had a hemorrhoidectomy a couple years ago and the healing process was brutal, but I got through it...I can't imagine going through all you have! Thank you for speaking about this, you have helped so many people!
Thank you for all your kind words! ❤
Gurrrl I had my abscess last yr and I was just like you and thought it was hemorrhoids. Started in May and I never knew these things existed. I would bleed then go awhile month or 2 and it would burst again and drain. Finally in October I had my surgery and my Dr. tied my abscess off and sliced my fistula open to drain and heal from inside out. I have been on pain meds before this happened so my pain was not bad at all. It was a process though. I’m just now getting to the point where I feel normal again. God bless!!
Ugh I am so sorry!! I know how difficult it is to be in so much pain and not understand what it is! But I’m relieved to hear that you are in the home stretch of it all!! Wishing you continued healing! ❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 Thank you! It really is a terribly embarrassing thing to have isn’t it? I put off going to the Dr. because I was so embarrassed and I’ve worked in the medical field most of my life! I can’t imagine having this done and having small children to care for! I don’t know how you did it.
@@myralawson4543Aww honey I know, it really is! But we did it!! ❤ And I am blessed to have a very supportive husband and family that carried me through it all! Fortunately the worst of it was also during the summer so that was helpful not having a school schedule to follow.
I just found your page and am listening to your story. Every word you said describing your feelings and you spoke the words that I think every day.
I hope it makes you feel less alone ❤
Don't worry, I had fistuloctomy last week, this was second surgery, first one was 3 months ago when a huge abscess ruptured internally. Wound is deep and it's hurts but it nothing compared to abscess wound, so you already went through hard part and things will be good. God bless you out of this horrible disease.
Thanks so much for your honesty and bravery, more power to you and I hope this hell ends for you though it seems like this is a condition we are all doomed to live with indefinitely if not for life but I keep telling myself, there's so many worse life-threatening illnesses out there so we are still lucky. Listening to you and seeing all these comments make me feel less alone for sure and give me courage to keep going. Just got my seton in 4 days ago, it is bizarre and more painful than my surgeon let on but just soldiering on. Dealing with this 2022 and it is shocking how little information there is on this when so many seem to be suffering. Had never heard about this either before.
@@mavrabari8916 We’re all in this together! ❤️🩹
I've watched videos from India and they go through a lot with pilonidal cysts, abscesses and setons. This one really good surgeon who fixes these for folks described it as "exsquistely" painful! That gave me a pretty good frame of reference.
He also said that "thrombosed piles" were not only super painful but very dangerous too.
Sounds like you have the worst of this behind you. Pardon the pun. Lol!
Thank you for sharing your story. It should help a lot of folks.
@@DebbiesChallenge-vp4jg Lol That pun was epic lol And thank you for your kind words and well wishes. Very grateful to confirm that yes, the worst is over. ❤️🩹
Thank you so much for sharing. It’s so brave of you. And helpful to know that I’m not alone. Please continue to share what you feel comfortable with! 🙏🏻💙
@@jessicareed1559 You are so welcome ❤️🩹 And you’re definitely not alone.❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22do you have any other social media to connect on ?
I pray this journey has got a bit easier for you as I don’t see a follow up video 🙏🏻❤️🩹
@@jessicareed1559 Very blessed to say that I’ve made a full recovery! Wishing you the same my dear.❤️🩹
Do you have any recommendation for food items that helped you make it through ?
Had a hemorrhoidectomy and one year later an abscess, second surgery, six months later another abscess. I’m on my 3rd abscess so I feel your pain. And same issue here can never get an appointment to see the colorectal surgeon till after the abscess pops. Researching now for a new doc.
@@jessejoseph1984 Oh man I’m so sorry to hear this… Hang in there as best you can and don’t worry, you will be guided to the right doctor! Sending you lots of positive energy!
Thank you for sharing! Great tips for anyone going through it! It helps to not feel alone but I’m so sorry for all you have been through! ❤
I appreciate that so much!
I had two incision and drainage surgeries from abscess , I went to a general surgeon and he never listened to me , finally seeing a specialist, I get an MRI to see if there’s a fistula, it’s been a very difficult 5 months
Oh man I am so sorry… a general suggestion set me back as well after my abscess burst. I’m going to be sending you prayers that you are out of the woods and that this clears up soon! Hang in there!!!!
Thank you for sharing, your very brave I will pray for you sending hugs
Thank you so much!😊
I am currently recovering from a fistulotomy and wow it is painful. For sure listening to your recommendations! Thank you so much for sharing!
Happy to help! You got this!! ❤️🩹
I’m 34 and got a fistula around age 21. Only just got the seton in yesterday. No pain yet. But it’s uncomfortable feels weird. But had to get it. So sorry for all you went through. I delayed this surgery for 4 years due to creepy surgeons. I ended up getting a female and going ahead with it. But on the day of the surgery it was a man. Which I’m not happy with them changing the surgeon on me without my consent. But a public hospital in Australia you don’t get to choose your surgeon as it’s free
I’ve had 12 operations and seton stitch my journey is not over…🥶😳🤬 no one knows unless you have had one!
Hey ..how are you now ?
@@divinely111 New seton just put in. I’m back to the start again. I have a high complex fistula 😮😢😂
@@oliviafreedom22 ohh...bless you ..I pray for your speedy recovery 🙏
@@divinely111 thank you 💛
At what location you had and what’s the number and cms ?
Thank you so much for this. I have a cutting seton currently and have been struggling. I had my first surgery on May 27th, and got two lemon sized abscesses removed. I then had a second surgery done on June 15th, to clean and remove the first two abscesses and a third that the doctors found. Then had another surgery on June 18th to again clean and remove abscesses, they found a fourth one during that surgery and found out that I had 4 fistulas. Thankfully three of those four closed and healed, however the fourth one was so deep connecting to my sphincter. They didn’t want to cut into my sphincter so they decided to do the cutting seton so that it closes. But that part of letting people help me. I have always been so independent, and the thought of allowing people to help, and have any control over my finances and even just making dinner, or getting my pain medicine and glass of water breaks me. I never knew that this was even possible. It is definitely humbling. Life changing, mind changing experience.
@@susannaortegaso Wow… your response resonates so deep with me. I can identify so much with your story and emotions. Hopefully, you can trust when I tell you that on the other side of this trauma, i have found a deep sense of gratitude and understanding that these things indeed needed to happen. There was purpose in the pain once i accepted and surrendered to the process of life. No one escapes from pain one way or another. This happens to be one version of mine. I’ll be sending you love and wishing you strength and healing.❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 I believe this too, and everyone around me telling me that they are here and willing to help. But hearing it from someone that is also going through this process makes me believe that I can let go of my pride and independence and allow them to help. I needed to see your video. 🫶🏽 Thank you for being so transparent and open. May God continue to protect us and be with us during our journey.
Thank you for sharing. I understand, I had a few fistulas. It’s very painful
I’m so sorry to hear that and hoping you’re recovered ❤️🩹
Same, the pain from my perianal abscess was out of this WORLD. Forget the pain scale, gave me the same drugs too and still was not pain free - dilaudid, morphine, fentanyl, etc. Never again do I want to experience that ever
Omg!!! Thank you for this. I am on day 3 post seton insertion. Pain is mad. We dont have that drug here in the UK. I am so scared to eat or open my bowels. This is rough. Praying for you and everyone going through this🙏🏾😢
❤️🩹 You’re not alone ❤️🩹
Your reply means so much 😢 @@Blessed_22
Me too
im going through it right now im so scared to even pass gas. I feel so bloated all im eating is yogurt and soup i didn't have the balls to remove any hemis due to ptsd of all the pain. I will give all details as soon as im tiny bit better. What happened was i gained few pounds and cause of that the scar some how opened up and while i was bathing water got in. next day i felt pressure , day after it got worse. I was so angry that i pressed with all the strength i had to try push out the pus but nothing was coming out. next day i went to bathroom i felt better but also felt like a weld near the scar next thin i know it just pops on its own and i froze i was scared to move. im so exhausted already but got more to mention in case someone needs help. Thank you hun for sharing we all appreciate u for it
@@flexbrawl8617 My heart hurts so badly for you reading this… I can only imagine the trauma of that feeling returning. You’re stronger than you realize and I know you’ll be ok! We’re all in this together!! Hang in there!❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 it has returned I saw proctologist yesterday Thursday morning and he said my fistula is back that after I drain to do colonoscopy because he thinks it’s coming from inside but I know it’s not. The way this happened was I gained weight and my scar from previous surgery in 2013-2014 got pulled open and I was taking a bath for about an hr and felt something but made nothing of it. Next day I started feeling blunt pain and pressure but couldn’t understand because before it was sharp. On day 3 I was talking bath again and got mad and pressed on that spot until I saw sparks come out my eyes but nothing came out. Next morning I woke up with a blister but felt 3x better, next thing I know I’m standing and it just bursts and I freeze. I think I broke the butt cheek pocket and all the pus came out. The smell of death scared me too again cause last time I had any issues was atleast 15 years ago so yeah I’m going through it alone stressed to the core with some hair loss cause stress got me this time. What can I eat that’s soft? I feel like a walking yogurt lol atm I lost 10 pounds and 2 dress sizes. Thank you for responding 🫶🏼
@@flexbrawl8617 wow I’m so deeply sorry to hear that. And you are not alone, there’s a community out here that will absolutely support you through this process! And hopefully you can find strength in some form of a Higher Power as well, that always brings me a sense of comfort, knowing that I am not in control and to surrender to the process, knowing I will be OK one way or another. As far as recommendations for food that is soft… I’ve been eating very clean soups. Nothing with seeds or nuts, low sodium high fiber things like that. Also, organic shakes with blended fruit and vegetables were a godsend to me as well.❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 thank you so much on the foods because I was actually eating almonds cause they high in fiber but also “clog” the stomach so I’m no longer going to eat them. I also wanted to ask you if you can point me in the right direction in terms of hemis. I want them gone but I’m not ready for more surgeries atm. Are there any other ways of getting rid of them without cutting. Is our technology capable of anything new? I heard of rubber bands but I’m not sure if that a good option for me atm. Do we have lazers or something like that? Or we not there yet. Thank you for replying and ty for being you
@@flexbrawl8617 please do not feel like you need to thank me. I understand how desperate one can feel when dealing with this topic seeking comfort and wanting answers and information so I’m happy to help in anyway that I can. And unfortunately, I don’t know of any other treatment options, other than the surgery and the bands (for the hemis.) 😢 but if I ever come across any new information, I will absolutely report back and gladly share the help that I get and pass it along!! we have to all be here for each other through this!.
Thank you so much for your honesty.
🙏 I have had several surgeries and headed back again to the Doc this week to talk about my latest issues. I praybfor everyone dealing. Its the worst. Who new there was so many nerves down below.
@@luismarin933 Hoping you will receive good news ❤️🩹
I had a traumatic twin birth that caused 4th degree tear which lead to a perianal fistula and abscess 15 years ago, it took about a year to heal but I didn’t have any surgery or anything just left to heal. I remember very little other then the lancing of the abscess and the sitz baths. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago when I felt a familiar pain. I went to emerg 2 times.. just to be sent home with antibiotics and told we don’t see an abscess. I told them it was inside, finally they ordered a cT which showed fistula so they ordered an mri and a surgical consult but said no abscess… it’s been 3 weeks of pain that I KNOW is an abscess and what do you know it burst at home yesterday . So I went into my family doctor where he lanced it a bit more to help it drain and said wait for mri and surgeon to call. So now I’m waiting in limbo as to the next steps but was told I need surgery. I’m doing sitz baths and trying to not have to go to the bathroom. Tips on what to eat to make it as easy as possible? Work is wanting to know when I’m coming back, I don’t know what to tell them as I can’t just explain what’s happening or why I’m not there as it’s so embarrassing .
@@olsenfivealive5227 What an absolute nightmare! I am so sorry!! It’s so frustrating knowing that you have something going on and not being listened to. Praying that you get an incredible surgeon and on the road to recovery ASAP! As far as food I ate VERY clean. Tons & tons of fresh fruit and vegetables. Nothing with seeds or skins that are difficult to digest. Hang in there sweetheart.❤️🩹
Thank you for sharing your story
I've got an abscess drained in January through GA..it didn't heal..then i got diagnosed with fistula..i have a nurse come over daily for packing and my seton attachment surgery will be on Friday...and i took care of my husband who had complex fistulae since 2019.. our lives have completely changed and I'm scared for my seton attachment.. plus I have kids who are only 7 and 4.. anxiety is really kicking in so badly.🥺
That’s so incredible hard and I’m so so sorry you are both suffering with that! I can’t imagine both myself and my husband having to go thru it at the same time with children. I hope you have a supportive family/network to help you get through this. I know how life altering this is for you both. Please be kind and patient with yourselves. Sending so much love and prayers to you.❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 thank you for your kind words. Thankfully we live next to my mom in law, she's all we've got but she's an elderly so we leave the kids with her when we really have no choice. My side of the family is on the other side of the world so it's really hard sometimes. I hope all is well with you.🙏
Yes I’m so sorry you experienced that for that long. But I agree this must be talked about because like you said I thought I was dying yes I was hospitalized I was give top notch med had have drain abscess surgery. Giving antibiotics in iv. It took me a week to go to er I actually thought it was worst pain in my life. And after I’ve been having depression. Because I never thought it would end. Yes same story just only had one doc to catch it asap. I’m a week from surgery I see my doctor next week I pray no one has to go through this very very very very painful it will humble you. I still have break down because I can’t believe my body going thru an went through such thing 💯💯💯💯💯💯👏🏾 this is real
Your words really hit home for me. I am so so so sorry to hear you’re struggling. It literally hurts my heart reading this. You are not alone! Somehow we are all in together! Wishing you so much love and healing and relief from everything you’re suffering through! Hang in there my friend! ❤
You are very brave coming on screen and sharing your experience! It is much appreciated!
I went through the laser surgery in India and it didn't work.
The doctor in Arizona has recommended seton and I am scared as if I am about to die!
How is it going for you? Did you heal completely and is the seton taken off? Please post another video or comment about how it is going for you! Take care!
@@dineshv1607 Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m so sorry to hear that your laser procedure did not work. Try not to let yourself be afraid of the seton. Believe me I know how traumatizing this can all be, but the seton drains do help. The fistulotomy does work! Like I said, make sure you have an experienced surgeon who is well-versed in colorectal surgery. I’m grateful to say that I’m completely recovered after fistulotomy! Sending you love and prayers for a quick recovery my friend. We are all in this together! ❤️🩹.
When I had my perianal abscess opiates didn’t help much. Toradol worked 10x better. I’m guessing because it was reducing the inflammation. Now when I passed my kidney stones. Toradol didn’t help. Only thing that would help was opiates. You are right. You have to be your own patient advocate. It’s really ashame especially for people who don’t have anyone to speak for them when incapacitated or disabled. Good suggestion about the pain blocker. Thank you. I hope you healed nicely. Sounds like you had a rough experience. Sorry to hear about it. 16:
You’re so right about the toradol working better with the inflammation. The inflammation is such a big part of the pain from all the trauma. Poor thing you has kidney stones too!? 😢
I just had this video pop up after watching Dr. Chung. He sees his patients 2-3 times a week after. Hey thanks for making this. You’re not alone and now people know they aren’t either
@@naturegirl4074 Thank you so much for your kind words!!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I feel less alone. Please let us know how your lift procedure goes and how you are doing. I am interested in the laser treatment as well. Do you mind naming the Doctor that you are fond of and what state he works out of? It is so hard to find doctors that actually care. They treat you like a burden because they have no idea what’s it’s like to have ever been sick 😢
Thanks so much! Grateful to say that my surgery was a success! My doctors name is Dr Tizio in New Jersey. Wishing you so much health and success yourself.❤️
It's been 11 months since you were so kind to make this video. How are you now? How did your last surgery go? Are the setons removed? Hope all is well now and that you will give us an update soon. Thanks so much for this video. You've helped a lot of people!
@@ElStands Thank you so much for your kind comment! The surgery was a success, thank God! The seton was removed and I’ve made a full recovery.🥹 Staying positive and healthy and hopefully this is all behind me now!
@@Blessed_22 Glad to hear it! You give hope that there is an end to those still going through. Do you mind sharing how long the setons were in? I know everyone's situation is different, but just in case I have to have them I'd like to get an idea of what to expect. Thank you soooooo much and stay blessed!
@@ElStands Of course! They were each in for 3 months. It depends on how quickly it drains and the inflammation goes down. Just get as much rest as you can, stay hydrated and eat well, keep the area clean and dry. You should be on the upswing soon my friend. I’ll be praying for your health and recovery! ❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22GOD bless you! What state did you get your procedures in? Assuming youre in the US and I think I’m hearing a Jersey accent. Not sure.
@@memberberry7139He has blessed me! And God bless YOU as well!! Yes, lol the accent you hear is indeed from Jersey and that is where I had my surgeries. ❤️🩹
I am currently going through a very similar situation to yours and I am only about 3 months in and still have an active abscess and what I believe to be a horseshoe fistula tract which is now draining from inside my anus and two external openings that can become excruciatingly painful as you already know. However, I have found some amazing things to help with the pain naturally as of late and even found a few studies that suggested what I am now using can be even more beneficial at healing a complicated fistula than surgery but I'm still testing that all out. I'd be more than happy to chat with you some more or anyone else about it but just wanted to know how you are doing now?
I am still considering a Seton drain but heard they can be extremely painful so like you I am terrified to have one put in, I have Crohn's disease so a Seton so far according to the first colorectal surgeon that I saw would be the only permanent solution she would be willing to offer me to try to stop the abscesses because she will not do a fistulotomy on me or any other procedure to try to close the holes because she says people with Crohn's don't tend to heal very well. So with that said, I will be looking for another surgeon because I think that's bullshit because I've already managed to reduce a lot of the inflammation myself doing various alternative treatments. Plus, a seton drain being my only option at this point isn't really an option for me long term because like you I'm still young and don't want to have a drain sticking out of my butt for the rest of my life!
In the future, I may still consider getting a drain put in or at least having another surgery to clean out the infection and possibly necrotic / scar tissue but for right now I'm just trying my best to heal this on my own with what I know and using things like medical grade manuka honey you may want to look into this for fistulas or anything else down there, IV nutrients, detoxing, high doses or liposomal supplements with antimicrobial properties, free radical scavengers, antioxidants and things to help repair connective tissue and collagen, as well as homeopathic remedies. Fiber is also super important to keep my bowels moving properly and formed so that nothing passes through the fistula and I experience what you called the ring of lava fire!!! I can so relate to that and screaming on the toilet or in the bathtub in my sits bath after a bowel movement! My god the pain!!!
However, the fiber you need to use is equally as important I have found because some will cause constipation or rip up the gut even further. I'll be making my own homemade anal suppositories as well this week to help my healing along as well, plus doing a lot of hyperthermia treatments for infection, red light and laser light therapy for healing the area, and rectal ozone insufflations (I drink ozonated water every day as well) and so far I am seeing some progress. I do other things as well, but a huge part of what I've had to do to try to maintain my spirits and my health is stress management since this experience has been beyond stressful. Plus, I think this all started in the first place because I had several traumatic experiences that took place in my life leading up to all of this but I'll save you the story because it's long.
So far I am three months in and things do still get pretty bad on some days but they are nowhere near where I was 3 months ago when I first developed the perianal abscess and fistula tract. My GOD I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN SO MUCH PAIN IN MY ENTIRE LIFE and like you I was convinced I was going to die of sepsis or anal cancer, it was terrible! The pain would get so bad at times that I couldn't sit, walk, or even lay down without screaming and bawling my eyes out. At one point when I finally went to the ER to have it lanced I even went into shock because my body couldn't handle the pain anymore. Man, I wouldn't wish this crap on my worst enemy and I've been through my fair share of pain over the last 15 years having been diagnosed with multiple autoimmune diseases and Lyme disease. This is by far probably one of my worst experiences to date in terms of the pain, that's for sure!
Like you, I now have extreme PTSD not only of going back to the hospital to have this dealt with even further but of having anything going near my butt in general or even going to the washroom. So this whole experience has felt extremely isolating, daunting, and depressing to say the least because like you said there aren't a lot of people talking about this, let alone women. Plus, unless you've had the "pleasure" of feeling this kind of pain people really don't know what you are going through from day to day or what it takes to care for a wound like this on a daily basis. It's like my whole life can't start every morning until after I go through my 1-2 hour washroom routine or how I get anxious every time I am away from home.
Well anyway, I would love to hear how you are doing now, and thank you so much for sharing your very personal experience with us. When I figure out how to heal this damn thing I hope to share mine as well someday so that others don't feel so alone. Can I get the name of your surgeon and where he is located?
All the best and God Bless!
Jess
Thank you so much for your kind words and your support. My gosh your comment really hit home for me because I can identify with so much of what you said/explained about your pain, routine and experience. It’s truly life changing and time consuming. I also feel trauma is what caused this initial diagnosis myself, but like you said, that’s a whole other story. I agree that you should have a second opinion from a colorectal specialist. There’s no reason you should have to live in so much pain without the option of a fistulotomy. I think maybe ask if you could get the seton drain put in to get rid of the infection and calm down the inflammation and once that happens if you would be able to have a fistulotomy to cut out the fistulas and finally get some much needed relief! My doctors name is Dr. Tizio in Neptune, NJ. He saved my life. Zero pain after my fistulotomy. ZERO. He’s so knowledgeable and his team is so compassionate. I wish everyone had access to this angel. You hang in there sweetheart. I’m sending you positive thoughts and I’ll mention you in my prayers before bed tonight. Everything will work out. Believe!! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your story
Hi, I’ve had my chronic anal fissure turn into an abscess recently. Now my doctor is saying he needs to place a seton and wait for at least 2 months for the drainage to be done I guess? And after it’s done he’s going to do a laser surgery to close up the seton tract. I’m really scared that the seton is going to hurt and going to make things worse. There’s no visible fistulas and I don’t understand why I have to get the setons if I don’t have fistulas… I don’t know what to do : (
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through. The seton is a drain for the abscess. He needs to wait because you probably have a lot of inflammation. It won’t make things worse. It’s going to get rid of the infection. Make sure you have a Surgeon who explains everything to you, who is very experienced and who you trust. Everything is going to be okay. ❤️🩹
Also can you talk a little bit more about how you are doing? Have you gotten the flap? Thanks
Grateful to say I did have the advanced flap, the surgery was a success and I have made a full recovery ❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22 I’m having a really hard time trusting doctors like you did after the treatment I’ve gotten for my fissure which eventually caused it to become worse and chronic. I guess I have no choice but to get the setons even though it’s probably going to be really uncomfortable
@@Blessed_22 That’s really great to hear. I don’t know you but I honestly feel how you felt months ago and I’m very happy that you’ve gotten through your hard times, truly. Thanks for putting this video on YT btw. It somewhat helped me mentally to know I’m not the only person experiencing it.
I had a wee fistula that was easily done with local. Recovery was awful. I cannot imagine what you went through, omg. I now have something draining years later and trying to clear it up myself. I am a nurse so hopefully it works out but if not I will definitely ask for that block.
Oh no!! Fingers crossed that clears up for you dear!
In your corner. Currently navigating much the same with abscess, surgery a few months ago, seton, heading for MRI next week to see what the current state of the fistula looks like so they can schedule the fistulectomy. First MRI noted superficial fistula, so fingers crossed it stayed that way during the first surgery and seton draining. Your are right, pain was excruciating with the abscess, was taking baths up to 3x a day and feared just going to the bathroom. How have you faired since your post?
Stay strong my friend 🙏🏼 Praying your MRI results are in your favor ❤️🩹 Thankfully I have made a full recovery since my final surgery in December. 🙏🏼
I don't now how much longer I can go on with this, Im so close to giving up.
I went through months of wanting to give up and then I started praying, asking my Heavenly Father to heal me. Every time I pray the pain goes away but then later comes back. One time I was in the bathroom and was crying because of the pain and I was praying and I saw Jesus in front of me and he bent down and kissed my forehead and the pain was gone. It was a miracle.
@@diddle8700 Don’t give up. I know what you’re feeling, I know how hopeless it can get. But it gets better. I promise you it will. Sometimes it gets overwhelming, but you need to believe. And if you can’t believe, believe that I believe. And hold onto that. You’re going to get through this. 🩷
# me too, I had 2003 never been the same. Your story touching my soul. Sorry you endured 😢
Same to you ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
I had fistula surgery a week ago. I know how it's feels like. It's ah Fuking hell mentally and physically. Sometime burns, stabing pain, itchy, discharges. 😭
Can you spell the name of that pain reliever you mentioned?
Exparel ❤
Thank you for sharing. ❤
You are so welcome❤️🩹
There’s no more horrendous and excruciating pain than anal abscess… totally in this path as well, right now dealing with a cut seton which is very painful
Speedy recovery my friend.. Hang in there!!
How long do those usually take and where did you get that done because I only thought those were available in India?
How are you now? I need to know if you are ok and if you had another surgery please.
i sent this message before, but it vanished. Hope this is not a duplicate. Also, what is the name of the med that helped you for your previous surgery? You mentioned that your anesthesiologist suggested it. thanks for sharing and for reading my info also. Barbara in MI
Doing great thankfully! The name of the medication is Exparel. ❤️
@@Blessed_22 thank you for your reply! I'm glad u are ok. I'm in remission (Crohn's) at the moment, thank God above ;)
(Now dealing with severe fatigue only. I'm sure you been exhausted in your past too. stay healed!)
In +Jesus+ name!
from Barbara in MI
@@bam414141 Praise God I am SO happy to hear this!!! Just keep feeding your body clean food and your soul clean thoughts and we’ll get through this!! 💕 Thank you so much for sharing your journey with me!
Thank you for the video its very brave and helpful
Also it hurts to go to the bathroom. So I think subconsciously it makes hemorrhoids. Because you are in pain and eating habits are different.
I’m so sorry 😢 I have prolapsed hemms and fissure for over 4 years now
@@naturegirl4074 I hate to hear this, I can totally identify with your suffering ❤️🩹 Please take care of yourself my friend.
Thank you for sharing this video ❤❤
In describing the pain it is like you have a cut or cuts and someone poured bleach on your cuts and then took and hot coal and put it on your cuts.
happened to me also. crohns, perianal abcesses, fistulas, repeat.then fistulotomy. etc
thanks for sharing.
Sorry to hear that!! Hope you’re doing well!
Was that the first hemmerhoidectomy after your baby? 19:59
I almost died from this. I went septic and ended up in a coma
Seeing this is so upsetting to me. I can only imagine the horror you and your family endured. I’m grateful to see you are still here. ❤️🩹
Can you elaborate because at times I thought I was going into shock as well which is why I started ozone treatments. Even did IV ozone and DMSO but that was way too strong so now I'm doing ozone myself with my ozone generator. I drink ozone water daily, do hyperthermia and do ozone insufflation, plus ingest and use medical grade manuka honey anally and I've been feeling a whole lot better and noticed these things make my abscess feel a lot less painful, and make them drain very quickly, plus reduce the inflammation drastically.
Thank you for sharing this! I started going through all these problems at the age of 21/22. I definitely know the about that perianal abscess pains, to the point i was rushed to the hospital in an ambulance because i was bleeding profusely through the abscess as well. I also did the flap surgery and I’m still suffering in pain from where they took the flap in my inner thighs. Now I don’t know how many fistulas and it’s sad and painful. Now i decided to stay with my colostomy for life.
My heart goes out to you so deeply… I can only imagine how difficult your day to day life is. Sending you love and prayers and I hope that you are able to find relief in whatever way you can.❤
I have a fissure and I’m seeing a surgeon in 2 weeks. I’m in pain :/
I know that pain and it is not easy at all. Wishing you a safe and successful surgery and recovery.❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22my fissure and hemorrhoids were also caused by birth. I had 2 3rd degree tears 😭 thank you for making this video. Can you please do an update on how you’re doing
@@yariyari9318 Hopefully they can give you a compound for the fissure and you only have to do the hemorrhoidectomy. Please make sure you have a colorectal surgeon who you trust implicitly. ❤️🩹 Everything is going to work out for you!😊
@@Blessed_22 I’ve been using 2 compounds ointments but no luck. My hemorrhoids aren’t the problem it’s just my fissure what’s so painful. At least that’s what I think. Can you tell me a little more on what to expect on my consultation? I’m a bit nervous 😬
@ That’s what happened to me, I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m not sure what your surgeon will recommend for you, but I was given a sphincterotomy to close my fissure and hemorrhoidectomy to get rid of my internal and external hemorrhoids. I can’t believe how long you have to wait you poor thing! Being in so much pain and just having had a baby (congratulations by the way 🥰❤️) that’s awful to suffer like that.
I have three fistula and a year after it started I was diagnosed with anal cancer stage 3. You are right there is not a lot of information
@@vonniesgallery Sending you prayers for peace, comfort and most of all healing.❤️🩹
How are your scars after surgery? What do you do if you have no tub? Hot tub?
My scars are amazing. Not noticeable at all. And the tub I’m referring to is a sitz bath. A hot tub would be a big no no with this situation for sure!
Think I lost my seton not sure if ifs it’s in or out
I am from India ..my stroy is kinda same like you...i felt a lump near my anus and i showed up my gynaecologist she suggested surgery and removed the abcess ..but the wound was not healing for 2 months the pus used to come from the wound.. I visited 8 doctors but evrybody just prescribed me antibiotics but nothing worked ..finally when i visited a proctologist he asked me to go for MRI scan and found out i had fistula and immediately next day he did my lasers surgery..its been 12 days of my surgery and i am still waiting for my wound to heal ..😢😢😢 i dont know how much time it is going to take 😟
Sorry to hear that, wish you a speedy recovery!
hey how are you?
@@garrypops5507 I am all good doing well ... extremely fit by god's grace 😊🙏
Hello, how are you know? As this has passed 10 months, hope you must have recovered or in path of recovery.. please do share.. I has high fistula and had seton placement and fistula removal
Hi sir!! Thank you so much for asking! By the grace of God I am fully recovered.❤️🩹 The surgery was a huge success! I am sorry to hear you have had the same issue and I’m praying you have a full recovery as well! 😊
Wow! Great to know! May be you already know but still I am sharing that here doctors recommend to eat daily lots of fibres (fruits and vegetables) and also take one or two teaspoon of psyllium husk daily with lots of water daily (doctor suggested to make it lifelong habit). This will make the stool bulky and hence will prevent it to be hard and pass easily down the colon without causing any rupture or injury to ensures no perianal abscess or fistula. One should be careful for both constipation and loose motions as both can cause this issue. Best wishes !
@@avdheshvaid Thank you so much for the recommendations! I will definitely be using them! 👍🏼😀
I feel you so much
😢😢😢😢😢🌹. Incredible
Thanks, very mature lady u r. 🎉
Thanks for sharing! It’s been a while since you posted, did you end up having the advanced flap surgery? Would love to hear your experience. I’m having mine in August Xo
I did! So blessed to say I made a full recovery! You’ll be in my thoughts and I’m wishing you the same for your upcoming procedure in August!❤️🩹
@@Blessed_22thank you so much! I appreciate it. Glad to hear it went well for you. I’m worried about the pain and the healing process and the chance of it failing/returning but am gonna think positive and hope it heals properly and I don’t have any further issues 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
@@Mac42203 I understand and honestly that’s still always in the back of my mind too. But remember, all we have is today. And if God forbid that does happen, we will be okay and make it through again!
@@Blessed_22 well said. I’ve learned to live with my fistula and seton waiting for surgery. And I’ll deal with whatever is thrown at me after that, although I hope it just goes well and everything is healed! 😂😅
@@Blessed_22had my surgery this morning. My surgeon said all went great and I did great. Mine was transsphincteric so they did an advancement flap on the internal hole and cored out the external opening up to the no no area (external sphincter). Currently alternating pain meds and just being a couch potato for now. Any other tips for good healing vibes? 😅
Omg I want to know how you are doing. :(
How do you sit 😭
How are u now?
Fully recovered by the grace of God ❤️🩹
Basically I live in my bed or the bathroom. My life has changed for the worse.
Yes the infection sucks up all the pain medication it the most depressing experience ever😢 they say c tongs should never be done !! It on of the last resort type of thing.
Yup. It created a fistula on top of the other ones that didn’t need to be there😢 But you’re so right, no pain meds help when that infection takes over. I found out the day after I made this video that it was post operative sepsis!
Just had a new seton fitted 🤪
Speedy recovery my friend!❤️🩹
I’m in so much pain that I feel l8ke that lady on the green mile that was once a sweet lady and she turn3d into the devil. Thats me.
I was sent home at Christmas to give birth to an intersphincteric abscess that they thought was hemorrhoids, because they didn't check. .
7 full days of intense pain, my kids saw a side of me that they have never seen.
It burst on its own, I was humbled from the delusional pain effects. . I said kill me, I just wanna die, it was so so so so bad, to say the least.
Omgosh how I empathize so deeply with you 😢I am SOOO sorry you suffered so much!!! Hopefully you are recovered my friend. ❤️🩹 Thank you for watching & sharing your story!
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My gosh!! You poor thing!
Ong 18:13 yes
Trust in Jesus, He Loves you.
He sure does ❤
16:03 you are beautiful ❤
Lawsuit that's malpractice
My god, what an awful experience. I’m telling you, most people just trust that all doctors are competent. Some are not and this kind of stuff happens. It’s sad
You are so right. It is sad and it’s really scary! That’s why trusting your instincts is crucial.