FMTV - Bill & Nia | Thirst Trapping on Instagram
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- Bill recruits Nia to help him answer an email from a listener who is losing her male friends because of her Instagram posts.
Part 1 (11-12-2018) | Just Bill
Part 2 (11/15/2018) | Bill & Nia
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"My point is..."
"BAAAAAA. I don't wanna hear it"
lol
it was great timing. even the professional comic had to pause and give up a laugh lol.
Billy boy walked right into that one🤣
Lol Nia explaining what thirst trapping is to Bill is the funniest thing
Bill: Do I know how to be romantic?
Nia: Umm...
Bill: ohh
😂
I love Nia but Bill was 100% correct about people living in a fantasy world. I've had this conversation with my daughter and niece. If you wear short or tight clothes for young handsome guys, don't get mad because dirty old men are checking you out too 😂😂😂
@Super Man Excuse me if I sound rude. There is no intention. Also if you're being sarcastic. But I hear this sentiment enough that I have to comment.
But I'm curious of why society wants to take all agency away from women. Being equal and being treated like we would treat our peers means just that.
For example, I was raised in the Bronx during the 90's, aka the wild west. During a period that you had to throw out all your red and all your blue because Bloods and Crips set up shop. A time where wearing jewelry was just asking to get jumped.
We know there are thieves out. So when something happened, you're damn sure we were curious on why they invited that trouble down on them by choosing that clothing.
Is it a dumb world that you need to do stuff like that? Absolutely. But how ludicrous the situation is doesn't take away the danger. I should feel free to do whatever I want in front of cops and gangs because I'm an actualized person... but the reality is I'll get my ass beat and/or killed by doing so.
What good will it do trying to convince me that I should be able to wear red in Blood/crip territory? What good will it do to coddle young women to announce themselves to the perverts of the world "just because they have the right to"?
@@kandrs7445 I agree with you that everyone should take precautions to protect themselves (now I live in a state where it's pretty common for people to carry guns). So that's all good. But at the same time I think it's a fine line with things like an old man being a creep. Because sometimes a young woman maaay be wearing something that shows a lot of skin. But back when I was a teen taking the NYC subway, there were teen girls wearing plain ass clothes an they'd still have older men eyeing them up and down. Big boobs (can't help that, it's genetics) fully covered in a baggy t shirt, and they're still getting inappropriate looks and comments. So I think there has to be accountability for the creeps in the world as well.
And by accountability, I mean if some old dude makes creepy comments about a young girl, he should be knocked TF out.
@@bleechrcreechrr You're absolutely right. No one should be made to feel uncomfortable for just existing.
But we are not in a fair, just world. I have to prove I'm not a threat any time I'm outside of the black culture. I'm 6'2, broad, and black. I wish I didn't have to worry about my tone, my dress, or if any one can take my mannerisms as 911-worthy.
But I do. I have to comport myself as such. As much as I wish women didn't have to fear how they are going to be judged, accosted, or worse, I understand that is wishing for a utopia.
I rather prepare the women for the disgusting display of the real world than just fill their minds with "this shouldn't happen. Do what you want because you're in the right and they are pigs".
Nia’s brain is filled with so much liberal garbage that her knee-jerk reaction is always nonsensical. Usually Bill is able to bring her around to common sense eventually, but this time apparently not.
@Super Man So the only thing you took from that was her excusing a creep for being a creep? You need help.
Q. Who is Bill to be telling this girl what to do?
A. Bill is the guy with the podcast to which the girl wrote, asking for advice. That’s who he is.
"ThEsE wHiTe MaLeS aNd ThEiR wHiTe MaLe PriViLeGe"
Bill's point at the end about what a woman will get posting provocative pics on social media was 110% accurate.
@Jin Hur how so?
@@ThriftStoreTalent Means nothing. They are just being contrary.
As a muslim girl, I kept on nodding my head while eating. I felt so proud of my hijab because that's the reason I wear it. Women can dictate what and how men think about her.
Ur so wrong its 1000000%
@@anisatajy9445 If only people would open their minds and see that Islam is actually the EXACT OPPOSITE of oppressing women and promoting terrorism/savagery
I love when bill and nia fight. It’s so amazing to see their marriage play out in a podcast. They actually talk and joke while doing it too. You can tell they have a strong bond. Happy for them.
Actions speak louder than words. She knows what she’s doing.
What’s she doing? She’s posting photos. It’s her fault that his wife is insecure. She’s known him longer than his wife.
“yogapants.jpg newbikini.mp4”
“Feeling cute might delete later”
“Ugh why are women so jealous of me this is why my friends are all guys”
Women aren’t responsible for their own activities anymore. Remember that whole “teach men not to rape” whine?
"But I post pictures like that to inspire other women" "they're fitness pictures" --my ex girlfriend
@Julien Lefebvre one _hundred_ percent.
@@robynalice879 uhh hundred percent.
@@R2D6_10 needed that today, thanks boyo
“THE KIDS HERE ”
best burr line
Kid's*
"i'm not talking about going after a dream" ...that was funny
XD Nia makin it sound like he want's all women to be locked up in convents.
@@sethiddings7293 I mean he's kind of white Catholic Prudish about women, even after basically abandoning religion. He's still got all of the hangups
Bill milked that win to an inch of its life.
"you Not gonna insert anything, thats what I know"🤣
@@buntbar2438 Typical women argument.
"It doesn't matter whether you're right or wrong, because I hold the key to this pussy and that's all that matters"
And they say men objectify women... they objectify their own worth perfectly fine all on their own. XD
@@ayporos sir, this is a Wendy's
“Can you break that down for the White audience?” 😂
Not 100% sure, but I think he said "wide audience", otherwise Nia probably would have reacted to that. And that's a phrase anyway, seems more likely.
Sounded like white to me.
@@averagemoth PROJECTION
"Would have reacted" typed like that sounds a lot like NNNNN
@@averagemoth oh dang, I thought he said white all this time! Any word I’m unsure of with him, I go with the funnier choice haha
@@julianmx13 Fair enough
He's got pigment, lmao love you dude.
I couldn't decide whether that was about being black or just because he's paper white and anyone slightly tanner LMAO
Pssh....unreal
You probably wont see this Brian but i also loved that honest sentiment he Said with that quote and im your 💯th like 👍🏼
@@RashtaEinthisB Definitely the latter
What's more important, your friendship with some married dude, or his relationship with his life partner and the love of his life? Especially when you're acting the way you do, with the freedom to, but don't wanna give a little in order to make someone other than yourself comfortable? What's funny is if she was in a relationship and her dude was with someone 10x hotter than her, I doubt she'd have no feeling about it. You're good to act how you please, but still have some respect and like he said, expand your friend circle.
Well fucking said lol
Yeah if she's adament about keeping her guy friends I would make it a point to befriend their wives/gfs. It seems to me she's also antagonizing them, weather intentionally or not.
She enjoys feeling the power over the other women, classic behavior
further, as bill points out, if these pictures would be put out there exclusively for is only for single men, she would have to endure the creep factor. this is a safe way wield that power and relish the attention without risking much more that a few fractured friendships (with men, who, as an earlier commenter put it, seem to comprise a 'whole lot of her friends')
No.
The writer tried pretty hard to convey that was NOT her intention.
Bingo! She loves knowing she could steal their men anytime.
@@mightymoeish I mean. Someone who posts “dad won’t appreciate posts” on instagram is used to frame things precisely.
I didn’t know Stallone was in Goodwill Hunting Lmaoo. That would honestly make that movie more epic
Came to look at comments to see if somebody mentioned this lol.
After that speech that Matt Damon gives about not going to war, he says " ahhh, fok it!" and goes off to war to meet Rambo.
Lmfao I fuckin lost it when he said that
My girl and I have a former flatmate who posts pictures of herself in a bikini top all the time, twins out front and center, I don't have social media so I don't see it until my lady shows me, she doesn't look anywhere near as good in real life..... These girls know all the tricks and angles and dudes fall for it hook line and sinker 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Oh. She’s one of those type of girls with a lot of male friends...
Reeeeeeed flaaaaaaag
Nia loves those type of girls 😁
Woe be he who layeth in the web, happily, waiting for the black widow to come. Though he a normal man today rise, a wounded man tomorrow go ad infinum. His crime worthy of this blow? Youth.
Women with male friends... They don’t see you as a friend sweethart they’ve been trying to Fk you for that entire friendship. And many act like they don’t know that-They know that game they invented this game, and then they play bimbo. Insulting to man’s intelligence, it’s a different game sweetheart men are not oblivious brutes.
You know how I know? I’m a guy. lol need i say more?
Grew up with alot of different walks of life was super extroverted from teenage to adulthood and i can tell you, that every guy here knows what that means. Friends? Lol come on huh. He’s been playin the long game in the prospect that he’ll have an opportunity to clean his pipes in you.
Lil Wayne
_I don’t know what n*ggaz thinkin’, but I know how they think._
“Friends” 🥰
Goodwill hunting starring Sylvester Stallone
I'd watch that.
@@zaz214 me too
I’m so glad these two found each other. What a cute couple.
"You have the way you wish the world was and the way it really is". Wise, wise words. I'm a 60-year old lady and could not agree more. Bravo BB! Women nowadays forget that there's a real world out there that doesn't match their idea of world.
"If you put a bunch of F words in a shotgun" haha I'm stealing that.
If YOURE feeling GOOD about YOURSELF, you dont need to post it for people to validate it, cmon its attention seeking and thats that on that
I want free money from IG tho
Facts
Yes, why show the things you feel self confident about to others?
He’s got pigment, he’s got hair!!! Lololol
Once again, Bill being right.
Nia nailed it initially when she said the women don't want their men falling into her trap.
Bill you are spot on about being responsible for your own personal safety.
Lol that hesitation of Nia when it came to their daughter is all Billy needed. I mean he isn't wrong but Nia saved herself when she said in the end its their choice. But don't be "thirst trapping" for attention when you get the type of attention that you don't want.
The part in the beginning with Christina Aguilera are the kind of hilarious jokes Bill makes that he never includes in specials, because the specials are mostly aimed at a larger audience. Would have loved to hear those kind of jokes in those situations though.
Confident? Confident women don't post half naked pictures online regularly for the public and all their male friends to see. If anything it screams insecurity. Bill's right here. She knows what she's doing. She's doing it for attention. No self-respecting man will take you seriously, and your friend's girlfriends won't like you.
Yep, bingo. Confidence plays into your character, and by extension, your actions. Not in the highlight reels you cherry-pick to post on social media. By their fruits, you will know them.
90%, yeah. 10% actually want to be seen.
Exactly!
A-fuckin-MEN bruther
1000%
Totally fair for the wife, she’s creating a provacative image of herself, why would anyone expect her to act differently? Exactly.
She's just trying to attract men. That's what they do
I agree that when someone is an adult that they can post whatever they want but don't be surprised when you get attention from every angle and you notice the bad crap.
Exactly Bill! They've forgotten or were born to late to remember all the serial killers from the 70s and 80s and think because nothing bad SHOULD happen that it won't.
Why wasn't there an applause break at the end of that amazing rant?
There was a guy who thought he was friends with grizzly bears. He didn't want to live his life in fear despite everyone telling him that these bears are dangerous. He knew this. They told him that sooner or later he was going to meet the wrong bear. He was very knowledgeable on bears and interacted with them in amazing ways. He did this for years and nothing happened. So one season he took his girlfriend out to bear country. The season was changing such that bears would be more hungry and a little more desperate. Every other scientist woudl leave before that time came, but this guy wanted to get one last encounter with a particular bear. You can google audio of both him and his girlfriend dying; it used to be available; not sure now. They found the bear that did it, and it had eaten them. But they didn't live in fear. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You don't have to live in fear, but I strongly suggest not living in stupid.
Jfc, that's one of the worst audio i listened in my life. Why do you have to be at Burrs video and remind me of it
I'm pretty sure the real audio was never leaked. Probably a fake
@@levity90 it's the least important because it could just as well be real
Grizzly man. There is a movie. The guy was a fucking moron. But the part where the foxes steal his hat is pretty cute.
18:27 "We're gonna have a problem when so and so gets to be a certain age. " CHECK EFFING MATE.
“He’s got pigment”😂😂😂😂
Bill “I didn’t like the certainty” lmfao
He’s got pigment 😂😂
I stop listening to Bills podcast for a few months and all of a sudden Bill replaces all his fucks with effs. It's great to see how the little one is slowly changing him.
F is for family.
Only because she was around, dude.
Right on, Bill. Your kids are going to have a great dad--even though they might hate ya from time to time.
Your kids should love and fear you most of the time but they hate you when you stop them from being stupid anyway
@@twilightgardenspresentatio6384 I don’t think kids should fear their parents. They should definitely respect them and not fear them. If your kids fear you they will not confide in you and they would not feel safe with you.
You can be a parent now and their friend later. Or you can be their friend now and hated later.
@@Blackbirdinthedeadofnight there’s a fine line between fear and scrutiny. I think kids should be scrutinized for alot of stuff growing up which will prepare them to fight for their piece of the world. Confiding also shouldn’t be a thing they depend on, what if ur 20 something year old alone out in the world and in a dark place, all u ever got used to was having a shoulder to cry on? Definitely should be a balance in my opinion. From my personal experience it was really good split between scrutiny/support, really made taught me to defend myself out there and not rely on a well of nurture everytime i cry wolf.
@@HbVki well of course parents should scrutinise their children. I don’t think there is a fine line between scrutiny and fear. It’s natural for children to fear negative response from their parents (anger, disappointment, punishment). It doesn’t mean they fear the parent.
This is one of my favorites from them!
This is one of those rare times when Bill and Nia are both correct. Anyone else agree that even though they’re close in age somewhat, they sound like they’re from different planets.
On some level the girl knows what she’s doing and shouldn’t play dumb. She’s 100% in her right to post whatever she wants, but she shouldn’t be surprised when she gets extra attention from male friends or instills jealousy in other women. She probably secretly loves it.
Cause and effect
Exactly. Like Nia says, she has the right to post whatever she wants. Equally, like Bill says, she should expect they way people treat her to change.
"how do you like them apples" - whoops combined movies.
Had me laughing there dude.
Nia enters the room... Shit gets real! 😂
Bro, that nose thing, how it’s closed when you lay down, and open when you stand up, you need to get an Allen wrench and turn the nose valve a quarter turn counterclockwise
*Car crash sound*
😂😂😂
Ahh man this was a good one hahaha
I love both Nia's and Bill's point. I feel they understand me 😆
She knows They know we all know.
Setting aside the personal danger, there's a major difference between what you do with your own body and what you publicly broadcast to get attention. If this girl is so proud of her looks then why does she need the validation from all of her guy friends who are in relationships? Here's the thing, sharing racy pictures of yourself serves only one purpose: to attract sexual desire. Now a person may want to do that for any number of reasons, from insecure need for validation to actually trying to poach someone who's already in a relationship. Regardless, it isn't as innocent as she's making out. I'm not saying she wants anything to happen, but she definitely wants every guy she shares those pictures with to get turned on, that's the singular purpose of sharing such pictures. I actually had a friend like this. The first time she showed me pictures of her half-naked, posing provocatively I actually called her on it. I told her I wasn't interested in seeing her that way since we both were in relationships and I knew she wasn't interested in me as more than a friend because we had been single not long before and she hadn't said a word. This was just to get some attention and validation at my expense. This girl, yes girl not woman, has very little respect for her friends and their relationships. If she really considered them friends, she wouldn't be trying to get these guys to see her in a sexualized manner, period.
I agree
Perfectly said!
Yes, it's the narcissism of insecurity.
Bill trying to not swear infront of his kid is hilarious.
Omg you two are Sooo funny! I am on team Bill on this one. Thanks for all the laughs🤣😂✌🐕
“‘i sell real estate’ headshot” lmfao
*THE KIDS HERE*
Aw bills tryna be a good dad😂
Imagine stallone in the bar scene where he save ben afflect.. it would be comedy gold
i love the top of your head, it's so shiny i see myself (keep up the good stuff)
This was the first time I heard the phrase "thrist trapping", and now I hear it fairly often. It's a really useful concept. lol
"hey, how do you like them apples?"
-Sylvester Stallone
Thank you Bill well said. These women have to be careful.
I recognize the hypocrisy BUTTTT
LMAO
Bill spitting facts near the end.
Bill brought up such a good point at the end ha
"I feel sexy, i want to appear sexy, im dressing sexy, im feeling good about the sex" why does everyone think im all about sex???! Lol
As a 56 Yr old woman with adult children , I totally agree with you Bill. Love from London
11:05 Bill: " Oh, I'm the white cop on Sandford & Son." Lol.
( Officer Hoppy )
this was gold
Lol the kids here 🤣
Oh damn Nia finally made a point I can agree with riiight at the end. Don't live life in fear of what might happen. It's a fair point but would be more applicable defending a better ambition for these girls.
There's a difference between living in fear and living in reality. Reality is there are horrible and messed up people out there. You dont need to live in fear to understand youre creating a situation where youre gonna get hurt.
Bill: “Do i know how to be romantic?”
Nia: “uuuh...🙂”
Bill:” ooooof 🙃”
18:40 that's the problem with this way of thinking, the hypocrisy
"Hey, how you like dem apples?"
--Rocky Balboa
“Can you explain that to the white audience” 😂😂
Bill's old man voice "I can see your knees, get back in the house!"
That happens to me too ! 🤧 🤣🤣🤣
That pause from Nia in the end might gave Billy Balls some sleepless night
Billy Burr phasing himself and yelling to self
“ WTF you mean I’m not romantic “
Wtf
Bill & his co-host should get a room! You can tell they have a thing for each other! 😂
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That's his wife lol
good for Nia, sitting back and letting Bill make his point then countering it respectfully
yasss queeen
@@maxstripeGaming 😂😂
@@maxstripeGaming Dont make me kill myself
ngl bill valid, if u get hit by a car ur winning the cash, but ur the one hit by the car and its ur loss. its not a perfect world u gotta make sure u stay winning
I might be over thinking this 2 seconds that I just heard. Hear me out though. 11:37 Bill says "Huge Point!" At 11:39 it sounds like "Point!". I think he's doing this parenting thing right.
Dangling a chicken over the aligators
My wife always says, "Yeah, but she couldnt handle you" which is probably a lie, but makes me feel good and keeps me from the thirst trappins
Yo Bill Burr is the funniest and realest dude ever. Hey how do ya like them apples? In the Sly Stallone voice
Bill is 100% right that posting pictures like that is a bad idea as it will lead one to attract the wrong type of person AND more importantly could cost you future jobs and relationships.
Stuff posted to the internet is always going to be out there and is permanent
Not really. You delete those photos or make them private and nobody can see them...unless people saved and reuploaded them, but don’t think most people get their photos reuploaded by others.
And I think you’re really overestimating the amount of guys who will care. As long as you know how to filter out the attention you don’t want, you’re fine. And if it’s not working how you want it too, I think that’ll become evident fast and you can remove the pictures.
And Bill’s take about some guy in a van is extremely improbable.
@@seanmatthewking I think you don’t understand that your employers search this stuff.
Also guys will save it a send it in to either look cool or think their friend won’t pass it on it happens all the time
Ty Nia!
13:54 great point
How do you like them apples? Someone's definitely from bawwwwston lol
Hahaha bill should've agreed with Nia on that last point so that he can see how shitty things go and just be like... I told ya so
Bill Burr : True feminist and equal rights activist.
Bill Burr speech on personal safety is amazing
Goat 🐐
He dismantled her argument so quick
This is why I love Bill, he is very logical. This thirst trap generation is not about confidence and empowerment. The intent is mainly insecurity and attention seeking. Patrice was so right about women in the sense that they think they need to try hard to get guys to want them. All provocative photos do is make you a sex object in the eyes of men because that's what you're selling them. The problem is women are not men because what they actually want is love. Even if you managed to 'trap' a guy it's going to take more than looks to make him stay and men hate clingy women.
" what they actually want is love "
Ffs 😂😂
@@filipematos8223 well. Love being a general term for emotional attachment in this context. I assume.
@@E2O10 correct
@@E2O10 correct
Yes
great team
"Can you break that down to the white audience?" lmao
the nose thing is because congestion occurs from nasal capillaries engorging due to inflammation. standing drops blood pressure in the head, draining these capillaries, at least temporarily
14:30 bill is so right, i personally never thought it that way, but it most definitely could be happening right now as we speak. they can be the victim but they should know they are kinda luring criminals as well. it's like me going on instalive and showing my bed full of money or someshit then next day i get killed by a theif and my money is gone. then all of a sudden every TV media be like "oh he was asking for it"
"I recognize the hypocrisy in this, BUT--"
eeeeeexactly
Nia: “I will say whatever I want to say!”
Also Nia: “What gives you the right to say what you think women should or shouldn’t do?”
🥴
These two statements are expressing the same basic sentiment: Bill needed to get his ego in check.
@@pierrechildress8875 THAT’S what you take from that? Jesus Christ.
@@pierrechildress8875 lmao youre hilarious, best joke I've heard in a while🤣
Basically, she was giving Bill a heads up that he was picking an unnecessary fight and might want to chill before sh*t escalated in front of his audience. Beyond that, I don't want to tediously break down the important differences between the 2 statements, this is a TH-cam comment section after all. But if you were happily married, you'd get what I'm saying. Pick your battles wisely.
@@pierrechildress8875 oh damn you weren't joking. Wow thats really really sad. I seriously feel bad for you.
Love the way Bill Burr constantly puts his wife in her place.... respectfully.
OKAY DADDY BILL ! In the last part he is absolutely right its not about men telling you what to and what not to post its about safety
Are you saying this women are in danger?
Bill's like: "when I see a naked picture I can't look away. As a man I don't have a choice"
Bill's also like: "What? Men are 'certainly' looking at her another way? What is that suppose to mean???"
Also, love your podcast!
I think he was just more so pointing out how Nia phrased the whole thing. Like she admitted that women would also look at her differently but had to emphasize that men would CERTAINLY look at her differently
Get em Burr