Honestly don't know what to say. I don't think I've seen you like this before. I was always fascinated by the energy and drive with which you overcame obstacles. Hope you can regain your strength and continue your journey.
@@laurenlandersno no no young lady don't you know it doesn't have to be no no no. You'll never depressurize until you let yourself off that hook. How long you gonna carry that weight there's no medal 🥇ceremony at the end you know. friendliness to one's self is the most essential part of self-actualization. Let me put it the Buddhist way. Without friendliness to one's self there's no recognition of the sacred. It's said that if you were to truly see the beauty of the everyday nothing special world that surrounds you you'd breakdown in tears. It's simple friendliness to one's self that bestows the space for your natural dignity and grace to arise. your natural humor and lightness of being your Buddha nature and therefore the whole world depends on your lightness of being my pretty.
You've kicked some ass Lauren!! Who wouldn't get burned out?? Take time on dry land and the urge & need to set sail will return .. 84 days is a LOT !! Hi Miko!! Hey question: How does the Cat react & behave during the storms??
Hey Lauren! Here are some suggestions for fixing your pump wire issue. You will need a volt meter. Put it in DC voltage testing mode. Attach your negative on the voltmeter to the ground on your boat, turn the pump on, and touch the voltmeter positive to the positive wire on the pump. See if you are getting power, you should get a 12.x reading. IF not, you are dealing with possibly a bad wire or bad circuit breaker. If you do show voltage, then the pump is probably bad. Follow the line back to the panel. Test both sides of the circuit breaker. using the above-described method. If you are not 100% sure you are on the correct circuit, put the voltage meter in continuity mode. It is helpful to have a piece of wire with alligator clips on both ends. Attach one of your alligator clips to the positive wire on the pump, then attach the other alligator clip to one of your voltmeter leads. Holding the voltmeter, touch all of the positive wires on your panel. AS LONG AS there is not a break in the wire from the pump to the panel you will locate the correct line in the panel. If none of the wires show continuity, then you have to assume the wire is broken. At this point, I would take some spare wire, put a fuse in line in the wire, and wire from the panel directly to the pump to see if it comes on. If it does, you have a broken wire from the panel to the pump. You will have to run a new wire. That was long and I hope it helps!
One hand for the boat, one hand for safety. To calm down is necessary. There is nothing to proove. The way is the target. Sometimes the way is in another direction you believe. Take care and the time you need. You're a strong person, you made it👍I wish you the best, many greetings
This should be called “the adventures of mako the cat” (with special appearances by Lauren). Love following Disconnect both ends of the wiring (breaker and pumps), join the wires at one end and test the other end with “ohms” on your meter. This will tell you if there’s a break in the wiring.
When you are young you have so much to prove to yourself and others. Burnout is a thing to avoid as it can easily lead to depression, which is a shocking thing, as you are suddently not in control of your body. So from one who's been there: Do take care of yourself in time. It is love to yourself to take a long break - also from TH-cam. All best from Denmark.
Take a cool down in the sea before carrying on when it’s too hot to work below decks Lauren. Get a hammock on deck and continue when you’re good & ready. Never underestimate heat exhaustion!! Last but not least, remember to drink drink & drink.
Grenada is beautiful, get out and see the island and play tourist when you get back. I spent a month there as a teenager in the fall of 83, before the cruise ships. First few days was interesting but drove all over the Southern part of the island the next few weeks and had a blast!! I just happen to be a Private inthe Army. Bigger boat means bigger challenges. Mine is a bit smaller but I'm looking forward to a bigger challenge soon!!❤
You just need a break, everyone comes to a point where they need a change. You will attain your goals, just a little later than you had hoped. Your are young, you have lots of time, take it slow and enjoy your life. You'll get your pump problems resolved, and as for you phone, I see Amazon has several floatable phone cases. Enjoy your time in Florida with your family.
Lauren, if there is no voltage at the shower pump but there is voltage at the terminals in the fuse box, there must be a switch between so when you turn the shower on the pump starts. I dont know what systems they use on boats but it could be a flow switch, so when you turn the shower control on a little water flows then it operates a flow switch which starts the pump? If the flow sswitch has failed you could rig a temp switch you turn on when you shower, it also could be a switch on the shower control knob? same applies you could rig a switch until you can get it fixed. The freezer compressor will turn off when the temp in the freezer has dropped to what it is set to, so maybe the thermostat is faulty? Unless it cant get rid of the heat? you mentioned a fan.
Take care of yourself, it is hard sometimes but it has to be a priority. Glad you are able to go be with the people who love you the most. Good luck with the journey. Looking forward to seeing your adventures. Thanks
i love your videos and you as a person and I feel bad when you are down in the dumps ...I am very familiar with burn-out but we always get trough it...a little change is all we need... can't wait to see you happy and back on the boat
It's plane to see you're burned out 😔 but I hope you have a great time in Florida and can unwind and get your MOJO back 😄 I couldn’t stand all that rocking on your boat it's too bad gyros are so expensive because that would solve all the problems. Stay strong and positive ❤
Just remember everyone needs downtime now and then. Take your time off, have some fun, unwind and come back refreshed. You can then work on the boat with a fresh beginning.
Suggestion! Had a quick look down through the comments and no-one's recommended the rolly anchorage solution - take a line from mid-cleat or quarter cleat, or winch, to your anchor rode and pull in until you're head to swell, either port or stbd. Lie to a bridle independent of wind direction.
I only started watching a week ago and wow the workload for one person is massive and credit too you. Take the time to relax recharge and come back once your ready. Amazing how much you learn about yourself in these tougher times. I look forward to your return. 😉👍🏻
We were just at Prickly Bay learning to sail at LTD-Living The Dream and we live Grenada, one of our classmates was Allison, owner of Paradise Beach Club-Carriacou and we became good friends, if you get a chance you need to stop in, she’s awesome!!!! We’ll be at the Annapolis Boat show, hope to see you there!!
Well, this wasn't going to be one of my favorite videos, not because of anything you said, but because my fears were coming true. It was not your skills in telling your story that were lacking, but watching you reach the breaking point. All the sunsets and underwater shots couldn't make me love this one. Have said that, the fact that you are willing to share your thoughts and feelings in a truly raw way, gives this video some redeeming values. I have been in that place a few times over the years, and I can tell you from experience a reset is needed. Stepping back, getting some rest, and recharging yourself, physically, emotionally, and spiritually will be a great rebirth for you and help you down the road. Your decision to stay in the Caribbean next year, I believe, is an answer to my prayers. The Pacific isn't going anywhere. Well, I hope my comments didn't discourage you, but reaffirmed that the decision you have made were right. You said that you appreciate my comments, well this was me being a little raw out of pure concern for your well-being. Now that being said, please be happy, be safe, and always know I am praying for you. 💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙
@@laurenlanders When we are "burntout" usually that means our adrenal glands are fatigue. Lookup "Adrenal fatigue". what can you do about this health issues? Eat a good clean diet no sugar, carbs, alchohol etc, get plenty of rest and relaxation, take adrenal vitamins/minerals (found at any health food but basically B complex and other vitamins) and plenty of rest & relaxation. Get a vitamin & mineral deficiency test including D, B12, Ferritin Iron, etc (look up what test for Fatigue). look up Dr Berg, Dr Wilson, Dr Eckberg etc vids on adrenal fatigue (extremely common) try keto and/or carnviore diet to heal your gut (the reason why your face is breaking out something is going on in your gut, virus/bacteria/parasites etc). watch D...R Berg vid on acne and parasites take care when cats panting ( that much something is going on health wise). look this up. Even with exercise it's not normal. Wishing calmer days in your life. Stay strong & listen to your gut instincts about slowing down. Take care 🌊🐬🌊
@@rogergrandify why are you so cynical? Of course these channels make money and they do some product promotion for income but look what they give in return. Lauren is an amazing young woman willing to share a part of her life with viewers who can watch for free without buying anything. She has put a huge amount of sweat equity into her boat and you must realize it takes a great deal of time and effort to shoot and edit content for her channel. I think these cruiser channels are wonderful and the content creators behind them have heart, work ethic, great mechanical & seamanship skills, and wonderful personality. For heaven’s sake, even Lauren’s cat Mako is a star!
I wish i could send you a hug. What i can send you is my prayers, my support and my thanks for being an inspiration… May God bless you and those you love…
Great video, thanks for being real. Not many TH-camrs show all the anxiety, stress, ambition and passion for things they love. Keep it up Lauren and good luck to you!
Doing a thorough prep on a friends old boat, before a 3-4 day race, we had rebuilt everything essential for round the clock racing. The binnacle compass lights were dead, so I picked up radical new red LEDs and replaced them. And still no light. It took hours to figure out some bozo had wired up the binnacle power with zip wire(extension cord wire) and dead behind the engine bay, bozo had simply twisted and tapes the wires. Once we found that, it took no time to fix them forever. But wtf twists wires on a boat? The good news is that we also found a "secret antitheft switch" in another run of zip cord. Boats. You can't assume ANYTHING was ever done right.
I’ve got to get you some ball bearings to place around on your boat so you have something to listen to just big enough not to clog up the intakes of the scuffers. Oh they came out with the new iPhone 15 and it can handle three inches of saltwater before it no longer needs to be charged.
Well, what can I say? You are tenacious and as strong a person I’ve ever witnessed conquering the seas with such seasoned skill. Your troubleshooting skills are out of this world dynamic; you may get a bit frustrated but you don’t give up. Boat builders would love to have you on their team! (Or anyone actually).
Lauren check all your ground connections, pull a temporary ground wire and see if that runs the pump. If not take a cheap multimeter and follow wire until break found.😊 probably rusty butt connection
Been there....done that. Go get yourself a slip in a marina, turn on your AC and finish your projects. You're doing a hell of a job....trouble shooting can get frustrating....especially when you're sweating your ass off. Run a power wire straight from your breaker panel to the shower sump pump. If that clears your problem you have a problem in your lead so pull a new wire and be done with it. Good luck. It has been fun watching your journey.
Hi Lauren, everyone needs a change sometimes. Your a brave courageous young women, capable of so much. Just like the boat, sometimes you need to recharge your batteries when the sun isn't shining. Give Mako some extra tuna, he has been a real trooper. Have fun in Florida and relax. Send us a short from Florida so we can see the bright beautiful smile. Thank and good luck.
Hello Lauren, Good to see your still living your dream with Mako. Hard projects, solved, must feel very comforting. Yachting has lots of unique challenges. Great work with the videos. You still Happy being solo?? How's Soul de Mar? Feeling like a crab that needs to shed its shell to grow yet? Bigger Business in a larger shell. What do you think about catamarans? Stability has it's benefits. More room for Mako to explore & nap in. I missed your videos. Your an incredible sailor & you should enjoy your success. You've earned it.
Definition of Cruising… Fixing your boat in paradise😎 I’m currently in Pago Pago, America Samoa waiting for some parts for a few days then heading to Fiji. Don’t know of your fridge situation, but the fridge insulation is key to your power and batteries. I rebuilt my box twice before I got it right ( only because Mexico had poor insulation when I did it the first time. With 400W solar 400 amphrs usable firefly batteries I am usually charged at anchor before 10am Underway by noon Underway using radar for tracking weather, by 1pm If there is no sun I can go a week before sun, or charge with Honda or engine. I do have a google drive folder packed with fridge insulation info including spreadsheets for accurately calculating daily amphr loads, etc. and cruising guides/ info in the south pacific if you are headed that way. Boat mechanics, sailing, diving, and travel have been a lifetime passion for me as I went to school for Aerospace Eng., Physics, Computer science with emphasis in thermal dynamics, and heat transfer…
I have ABSOLUTELY NO DOUBT that you will pull through anything! Everyone needs a break. You're far FAR braver than I will ever be. I've also no doubt that you will come back stronger than ever!! And I'll be here for it! The black bikini was a nice touch. Hot af as always. Love Mako so much. 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️
Wow, I just found your blog/ video, you are an amazing women, you have the ability to take on challenges and overcome conflicts. Every person needs to take a time out here and there in life to regroup. I am confident you will be stronger and more focused after your break. Can’t wait to see the future you bring to us in your adventure. God-speed!
"Suns out guns out! " Getting good land-based workouts is key when you're on a confined boat for long periods. Soothes the mind and body. When in doubt, take a step back. The ocean isn't going anywhere.
Lauren, Run a couple of temporary wires from the pump to the battery with clips on the ends so you can shower. At least it will give you a little relief until you figure it out.
From what i have seen of you, you are unbreakable. True grit and a great spirit will never stop. Keep doing what you are doing. You now have 120,000 people that believe in you. I told you when you were at 60k you would get to a million. I truly believe that.
A couple of things on the shower pump: did you disconnect the shower pump before checking for voltage?....if not disconnect pump and look again....if yes on voltage jump line to a differeny pump in the boat and see if it works...if it does the line is fine....if still no voltage you will have to chase and check any connections to find where the break is.....if the line was ever spliced or a new line run for some reason that is probably where you will find the problem as the connection was probably not done correctly and it corroded over time.....also you could run a lamp cord or some other piece of wiring across the cabin from main terminal block to pump and see if the pump works.....possibly a temp way of using the shower till you get the time to chase the wiring....you are a real force to be able to do what you are doing.....you give the term super woman a whole new prospective.....
It's break time. Don't let maintenance seem like it's a chore. She's a boat, and pampering her is just part of loving her. Purchase a 12 volt test light and a 12volt tracer with two simple to use tools you can test and track down wiring issues quickly. If you have rebuildable pumps, have a spare impeller and pressure switch available. Other than that, get to Florida and once you've got your business taken care of kick back and just relax for a few days. It really does the soul good to shrug off our worries and get that centered focus back. I myself am just about to that same point. Not knocked down, but just like the rocking, there's so much we can take and then we need to step away from it all and regroup. Be safe and have some fun! 😊
Excellent advice Lauren. Troubleshooting doesn't have to be difficult. Break it down into simple components. Get some R&R. That will fix half of your problems. Love your spirit.
@laurenlanders Yeah, I know that feeling. They are more than just a boat or a home. They become a part of us. Or we, them. I've never figured that one out yet. I hope that you are recharged and full of positive energy now. It's so much easier to work on our loves when we have a smile on our faces and happiness in our hearts. Fair winds sister, you've got this.
Everyone reaches a point of mental and/or physical exhaustion. Nothing to feel defeated about. Take a break to recharge, and remember, “no weapon used against you shall prosper”.
Thoughts on switching boats to a cat or tri? Less rocking right? Not a boat person, just seeing a lot of cruisers on catamarans. Love your content - enjoy the break!
I’m glad you repeated Grenada because I couldn’t understand what you said at the first of the video I heard “ada” how many Islands end in ada? Grenada, Jamaica, Antigua, just to mention a few.
Hey Lauren sorry to see you and Mako going through this crap!!! Hope you feel better soon!!! You need a Makomaran!!! Cat-amaran lol… I could see you in a cool little Prout 34 to 44. They are a good boat at a very nice price…
I've been home steading for over 10 years now so I understand the alone and the burnout aspects but if it's something that you truly love just keep going you'll see. It's tough.
Sometimes we need to step away and let go. I have always found that wen I do this the solutions come much easier. As like most people we are always harder on ourselves than anyone else is, so give yourself a break. What you are doing is amazing, and you should never forget that. I hope you get your batteries charged while you are in Florida. Much love.
You definitely need a break,Mako need s one to. When you come back bring a battery jump box you can use it to test run pumps etc with a pair of jumper wires also to back ck wiring. And it will crank your engine if you get a good one. Enjoy the break I’ll be watching for you to return . God Bless. Mack in SC
Tired and frustrated for sure:( Glad you posted this because it shows you are real. Pushing back the Pacific is the right thing to do, hoping you get recharged and refreshed soon.
Lauren, you’re young and have a whole life ahead of you. This breaking point will not be your last one. It are rimples in life we need to surf, so we can retrospective about the past and adjust for the future. It will get you stronger, more connected to yourself. Set your (sub)goals over a longer period of time and relax more in between. Maby partner up for a while with someone you trust? Peace
Awesome video girl!!! Take a break anytime you need one. You are the Captain of your journey you get to do it however You want to!!! You are amazing at making these videos for all of us to get a glimpse of your trip. Will be waiting to watch the next one whenever you get back!
Thanks for sharing. I have a Beneteau 40.7 that has similar wiring. At times it is so frustrating. Sometimes I swear there are real gremlins living in the system. I appreciate what you are going through. Don’t give up You will win in the end
Maybe someday we will cross paths. I am in Michigan, and I plan to sail from Michigan to Puerto Rico/Caribbean area! Not really excited about entering the Atlantic North of Nova Scotia, but that's the only path for me. Keep up the great work. Stay safe. I'm kinda new on your channel! New sub. I am probably 2 seasons from leaving from the Great Lakes.
hola Lauren, recato de esto como conclusion que por lo menos llegaste bien a Granada y pudiste esquivar las tormentas. Lo demas fue una serie de eventos malos que desgastarian a cualquiera. No creo que hayan muchas personas que soporten lo que vos soportaste sin desquiciarse. Te amo mucho por tu fortaleza y tu sonrisa en los momentos complicados , tu ejemplo no se pierde, muy bien hecho a los dos y gracias por darnos un objetivo en nuestras vidas. 😘😘😘🙏🙏💗💙
Lauren, maybe find a sailing partner that shares the same enthusiasm for sailing and adventure. One that compliments your life, life is better with shared experiences
Windy days on a boat can be frustrating but windy nights on a boat night after night can really make it unbearable! The peace and calm after the wind makes it all worth while and then sleep is achievable 😂
I think it is amazing that you are out here sailing by yourself. You are a very brave young lady. I was just wondering how long is your sailboat. I have never tried sailing. It looks very complicated. But I’m sure it’s like anything else once you get to know it it comes easy. Anyways keep up the great videos. I enjoy watching them.and good luck with your shower pump. I’ve been having problems with my furnace in my motorhome and it is taking me about four weeks to fix the problem. But I think I finally got it. So don’t give up you’ll figure it out soon enough. Take care and good sailing.
Your adventures and transparency are an inspiration to us all. Life is hard sometimes! Sometimes you have make contact with that other life to back the perspective you need. Rock on you...and have a great break! 🤘🔥
I’m a bit older than you , more or less did the same thing at the same age as you in the 90’s . Ran charters on st Thomas long before you tube and Instagram . I’m having way more fun now skiing in Utah , great skiing every day coming home to a comfy condo and not having to fix a darn thing. mortgage on a brand new condo in salt lake is really not much more than owning and maintaining a 40 foot sailboat each month. Good luck in your adventure !
Honestly don't know what to say. I don't think I've seen you like this before. I was always fascinated by the energy and drive with which you overcame obstacles. Hope you can regain your strength and continue your journey.
It’s still there… just need to recharge a bit 🤗
@@laurenlandersGET IT!!! 💯💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
If I had a dollar for every time I said ""I'm selling this damn boat as soon as I get off of it!" 😅
@@laurenlandersno no no young lady don't you know it doesn't have to be no no no. You'll never depressurize until you let yourself off that hook. How long you gonna carry that weight there's no medal 🥇ceremony at the end you know. friendliness to one's self is the most essential part of self-actualization. Let me put it the Buddhist way. Without friendliness to one's self there's no recognition of the sacred. It's said that if you were to truly see the beauty of the everyday nothing special world that surrounds you you'd breakdown in tears. It's simple friendliness to one's self that bestows the space for your natural dignity and grace to arise. your natural humor and lightness of being your Buddha nature and therefore the whole world depends on your lightness of being my pretty.
You've kicked some ass Lauren!! Who wouldn't get burned out??
Take time on dry land and the urge & need to set sail will return .. 84 days is a LOT !! Hi Miko!!
Hey question: How does the Cat react & behave during the storms??
Haven't commented before but been watching for awhile. Go home, heal up and recover! We'll be here.
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@@laurenlanders he I'm cool man I like music and I have 2 dog
I m going to pt I will noot be home ì like go car show
Going home would mean: Loosing against an invisible enemy. And produce a feeling like: I'm to weak or to bad.
Hey Lauren! Here are some suggestions for fixing your pump wire issue. You will need a volt meter. Put it in DC voltage testing mode. Attach your negative on the voltmeter to the ground on your boat, turn the pump on, and touch the voltmeter positive to the positive wire on the pump. See if you are getting power, you should get a 12.x reading. IF not, you are dealing with possibly a bad wire or bad circuit breaker. If you do show voltage, then the pump is probably bad. Follow the line back to the panel. Test both sides of the circuit breaker. using the above-described method. If you are not 100% sure you are on the correct circuit, put the voltage meter in continuity mode. It is helpful to have a piece of wire with alligator clips on both ends. Attach one of your alligator clips to the positive wire on the pump, then attach the other alligator clip to one of your voltmeter leads. Holding the voltmeter, touch all of the positive wires on your panel. AS LONG AS there is not a break in the wire from the pump to the panel you will locate the correct line in the panel. If none of the wires show continuity, then you have to assume the wire is broken. At this point, I would take some spare wire, put a fuse in line in the wire, and wire from the panel directly to the pump to see if it comes on. If it does, you have a broken wire from the panel to the pump. You will have to run a new wire. That was long and I hope it helps!
One hand for the boat, one hand for safety. To calm down is necessary. There is nothing to proove. The way is the target. Sometimes the way is in another direction you believe. Take care and the time you need. You're a strong person, you made it👍I wish you the best, many greetings
This should be called “the adventures of mako the cat” (with special appearances by Lauren).
Love following
Disconnect both ends of the wiring (breaker and pumps), join the wires at one end and test the other end with “ohms” on your meter. This will tell you if there’s a break in the wiring.
Yes. Always listen to your body when it’s says take a break!
Chill and enjoy land you two!
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Mako is such a good little sailor.
You are always so busy Captain, So glad you and Mako are going to take a break, you deserve it.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Keep up the cameos with Mako, being very important. His energy kept you going as you crossed the entire Caribbean. Great job!
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Lauren, you have amazing intuition and skill when you fix the boat! Truly amazing patience.
Aw thanks
I love how real and forward you are. Is always good to recharge , see your loved ones and continue the journey . 💕
Thank you
Just came across your channel. You are more knowledgeable and self reliant than most. A great influence. Hang in there and keep on keeping on.
When you are young you have so much to prove to yourself and others. Burnout is a thing to avoid as it can easily lead to depression, which is a shocking thing, as you are suddently not in control of your body. So from one who's been there: Do take care of yourself in time. It is love to yourself to take a long break - also from TH-cam. All best from Denmark.
Take a cool down in the sea before carrying on when it’s too hot to work below decks Lauren. Get a hammock on deck and continue when you’re good & ready. Never underestimate heat exhaustion!!
Last but not least, remember to drink drink & drink.
*water
Grenada is beautiful, get out and see the island and play tourist when you get back. I spent a month there as a teenager in the fall of 83, before the cruise ships. First few days was interesting but drove all over the Southern part of the island the next few weeks and had a blast!! I just happen to be a Private inthe Army. Bigger boat means bigger challenges. Mine is a bit smaller but I'm looking forward to a bigger challenge soon!!❤
I guess just the feeling of having everything you own( no you) including your home. Is the thrill in the fight. Reason y I wish I had a boat.. ❤
You just need a break, everyone comes to a point where they need a change. You will attain your goals, just a little later than you had hoped. Your are young, you have lots of time, take it slow and enjoy your life. You'll get your pump problems resolved, and as for you phone, I see Amazon has several floatable phone cases. Enjoy your time in Florida with your family.
Lauren, if there is no voltage at the shower pump but there is voltage at the terminals in the fuse box, there must be a switch between so when you turn the shower on the pump starts. I dont know what systems they use on boats but it could be a flow switch, so when you turn the shower control on a little water flows then it operates a flow switch which starts the pump?
If the flow sswitch has failed you could rig a temp switch you turn on when you shower, it also could be a switch on the shower control knob? same applies you could rig a switch until you can get it fixed.
The freezer compressor will turn off when the temp in the freezer has dropped to what it is set to, so maybe the thermostat is faulty? Unless it cant get rid of the heat? you mentioned a fan.
Take care of yourself, it is hard sometimes but it has to be a priority. Glad you are able to go be with the people who love you the most. Good luck with the journey. Looking forward to seeing your adventures. Thanks
Hi Lauren. Keep smiling. The bad times will pass. You are a brave woman. God Bless You 🙂🤞
i love your videos and you as a person and I feel bad when you are down in the dumps ...I am very familiar with burn-out but we always get trough it...a little change is all we need... can't wait to see you happy and back on the boat
Rest, Recharge, Reflect, Reset and give that awesome cat a hug :) Looking forward to seeing your next adventure Lauren you rock.
I follow expedition evans as well. It is so cool they know you. Cheers
It's plane to see you're burned out 😔 but I hope you have a great time in Florida and can unwind and get your MOJO back 😄 I couldn’t stand all that rocking on your boat it's too bad gyros are so expensive because that would solve all the problems. Stay strong and positive ❤
Enjoy your break Lauren. ❤
I know exactly what it feels like to be alone and overwhelmed. You're doing great and inspiring me!
Good for you! Living vicariously here...must be tough sometimes...but - wow!
Just remember everyone needs downtime now and then. Take your time off, have some fun, unwind and come back refreshed. You can then work on the boat with a fresh beginning.
Suggestion! Had a quick look down through the comments and no-one's recommended the rolly anchorage solution - take a line from mid-cleat or quarter cleat, or winch, to your anchor rode and pull in until you're head to swell, either port or stbd. Lie to a bridle independent of wind direction.
I only started watching a week ago and wow the workload for one person is massive and credit too you.
Take the time to relax recharge and come back once your ready. Amazing how much you learn about yourself in these tougher times.
I look forward to your return. 😉👍🏻
We were just at Prickly Bay learning to sail at LTD-Living The Dream and we live Grenada, one of our classmates was Allison, owner of Paradise Beach Club-Carriacou and we became good friends, if you get a chance you need to stop in, she’s awesome!!!!
We’ll be at the Annapolis Boat show, hope to see you there!!
Well, this wasn't going to be one of my favorite videos, not because of anything you said, but because my fears were coming true. It was not your skills in telling your story that were lacking, but watching you reach the breaking point. All the sunsets and underwater shots couldn't make me love this one. Have said that, the fact that you are willing to share your thoughts and feelings in a truly raw way, gives this video some redeeming values. I have been in that place a few times over the years, and I can tell you from experience a reset is needed. Stepping back, getting some rest, and recharging yourself, physically, emotionally, and spiritually will be a great rebirth for you and help you down the road. Your decision to stay in the Caribbean next year, I believe, is an answer to my prayers. The Pacific isn't going anywhere. Well, I hope my comments didn't discourage you, but reaffirmed that the decision you have made were right. You said that you appreciate my comments, well this was me being a little raw out of pure concern for your well-being. Now that being said, please be happy, be safe, and always know I am praying for you. 💙🙏💙🙏💙🙏💙
Very good support comment.
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@@laurenlanders When we are "burntout" usually that means our adrenal glands are fatigue. Lookup "Adrenal fatigue". what can you do about this health issues? Eat a good clean diet no sugar, carbs, alchohol etc, get plenty of rest and relaxation, take adrenal vitamins/minerals (found at any health food but basically B complex and other vitamins) and plenty of rest & relaxation. Get a vitamin & mineral deficiency test including D, B12, Ferritin Iron, etc (look up what test for Fatigue). look up Dr Berg, Dr Wilson, Dr Eckberg etc vids on adrenal fatigue (extremely common)
try keto and/or carnviore diet to heal your gut (the reason why your face is breaking out something is going on in your gut, virus/bacteria/parasites etc). watch D...R Berg vid on acne and parasites take care
when cats panting ( that much something is going on health wise). look this up. Even with exercise it's not normal.
Wishing calmer days in your life. Stay strong & listen to your gut instincts about slowing down. Take care 🌊🐬🌊
it's all a show for money it always is the same thing boring ! ! ! give me your money money money.
@@rogergrandify why are you so cynical? Of course these channels make money and they do some product promotion for income but look what they give in return. Lauren is an amazing young woman willing to share a part of her life with viewers who can watch for free without buying anything. She has put a huge amount of sweat equity into her boat and you must realize it takes a great deal of time and effort to shoot and edit content for her channel. I think these cruiser channels are wonderful and the content creators behind them have heart, work ethic, great mechanical & seamanship skills, and wonderful personality. For heaven’s sake, even Lauren’s cat Mako is a star!
I wish i could send you a hug. What i can send you is my prayers, my support and my thanks for being an inspiration… May God bless you and those you love…
Staying another season in the Caribbean is a great decision. Get the most out of where you are is always a good thing on a boat.
Thanks for sharing the up’s and downs.I hope all your projects go well. ❤
We will miss you. Heal up, and get well, mentally and spiritually. Thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤
YOU GO GIRL! ive seen you pull up your anchor yourself .Boat projects arent easy but we do it! GIRL POWER !!!!
Great video, thanks for being real.
Not many TH-camrs show all the anxiety, stress, ambition and passion for things they love.
Keep it up Lauren and good luck to you!
Doing a thorough prep on a friends old boat, before a 3-4 day race, we had rebuilt everything essential for round the clock racing. The binnacle compass lights were dead, so I picked up radical new red LEDs and replaced them. And still no light. It took hours to figure out some bozo had wired up the binnacle power with zip wire(extension cord wire) and dead behind the engine bay, bozo had simply twisted and tapes the wires. Once we found that, it took no time to fix them forever. But wtf twists wires on a boat?
The good news is that we also found a "secret antitheft switch" in another run of zip cord. Boats. You can't assume ANYTHING was ever done right.
I’ve got to get you some ball bearings to place around on your boat so you have something to listen to just big enough not to clog up the intakes of the scuffers. Oh they came out with the new iPhone 15 and it can handle three inches of saltwater before it no longer needs to be charged.
Well, what can I say?
You are tenacious and as strong a person I’ve ever witnessed conquering the seas with such seasoned skill. Your troubleshooting skills are out of this world dynamic; you may get a bit frustrated but you don’t give up. Boat builders would love to have you on their team! (Or anyone actually).
Aww haha thank you
Step by step La, best wishes for you; with love and a smile, God bless you.
Yup, go take care of yourself. You've certainly earned it. ❤
Blessings sent. 😊 ⛵
Lauren check all your ground connections, pull a temporary ground wire and see if that runs the pump. If not take a cheap multimeter and follow wire until break found.😊 probably rusty butt connection
Been there....done that. Go get yourself a slip in a marina, turn on your AC and finish your projects. You're doing a hell of a job....trouble shooting can get frustrating....especially when you're sweating your ass off. Run a power wire straight from your breaker panel to the shower sump pump. If that clears your problem you have a problem in your lead so pull a new wire and be done with it. Good luck. It has been fun watching your journey.
Starting the new chapter of your life sounds exciting. Good luck!
Hi Lauren, everyone needs a change sometimes. Your a brave courageous young women, capable of so much. Just like the boat, sometimes you need to recharge your batteries when the sun isn't shining. Give Mako some extra tuna, he has been a real trooper. Have fun in Florida and relax. Send us a short from Florida so we can see the bright beautiful smile. Thank and good luck.
Living a life where the same things happen over and over again in a small space every day is difficult. I am someone who has experienced it. cheer up
Check or replace the capacitor that runs the fan next to the compressor for your freezer. It’s a 1”x2” black rectangle with two black wires.
Brave, hardworking, inspiring young woman.
Dreamlike!
W0W! Lots of UPS & DOWNS ... ..
Hello Lauren,
Good to see your still living your dream with Mako. Hard projects, solved, must feel very comforting. Yachting has lots of unique challenges. Great work with the videos. You still Happy being solo?? How's Soul de Mar? Feeling like a crab that needs to shed its shell to grow yet? Bigger Business in a larger shell. What do you think about catamarans? Stability has it's benefits. More room for Mako to explore & nap in. I missed your videos. Your an incredible sailor & you should enjoy your success. You've earned it.
Definition of Cruising…
Fixing your boat in paradise😎
I’m currently in Pago Pago, America Samoa waiting for some parts for a few days then heading to Fiji.
Don’t know of your fridge situation, but the fridge insulation is key to your power and batteries. I rebuilt my box twice before I got it right ( only because Mexico had poor insulation when I did it the first time.
With 400W solar
400 amphrs usable firefly batteries
I am usually charged at anchor before 10am
Underway by noon
Underway using radar for tracking weather, by 1pm
If there is no sun I can go a week before sun, or charge with Honda or engine.
I do have a google drive folder packed with fridge insulation info including spreadsheets for accurately calculating daily amphr loads, etc. and cruising guides/ info in the south pacific if you are headed that way.
Boat mechanics, sailing, diving, and travel have been a lifetime passion for me as I went to school for Aerospace Eng., Physics, Computer science with emphasis in thermal dynamics, and heat transfer…
I have ABSOLUTELY NO DOUBT that you will pull through anything! Everyone needs a break. You're far FAR braver than I will ever be. I've also no doubt that you will come back stronger than ever!! And I'll be here for it! The black bikini was a nice touch. Hot af as always. Love Mako so much. 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️
Wow, I just found your blog/ video, you are an amazing women, you have the ability to take on challenges and overcome conflicts. Every person needs to take a time out here and there in life to regroup. I am confident you will be stronger and more focused after your break. Can’t wait to see the future you bring to us in your adventure. God-speed!
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"Suns out guns out! " Getting good land-based workouts is key when you're on a confined boat for long periods. Soothes the mind and body. When in doubt, take a step back. The ocean isn't going anywhere.
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Wow Lauren, take it easy, as for the rolling have you thought of setting up a swell bridal? It might help.
You have got this ❤. The world needs more Lauren.
I'm about 2 weeks from back surgery . Could be worse.. your my fav!
Aww hope you’re healing quick
Lauren, Run a couple of temporary wires from the pump to the battery with clips on the ends so you can shower. At least it will give you a little relief until you figure it out.
From what i have seen of you, you are unbreakable. True grit and a great spirit will never stop. Keep doing what you are doing. You now have 120,000 people that believe in you. I told you when you were at 60k you would get to a million. I truly believe that.
Aww thank you ❤️❤️
just invite me to the 1 million subscriber party. @@laurenlanders
Thanks for letting us know what it is really like on a boat that size alone. All the best.
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A couple of things on the shower pump: did you disconnect the shower pump before checking for voltage?....if not disconnect pump and look again....if yes on voltage jump line to a differeny pump in the boat and see if it works...if it does the line is fine....if still no voltage you will have to chase and check any connections to find where the break is.....if the line was ever spliced or a new line run for some reason that is probably where you will find the problem as the connection was probably not done correctly and it corroded over time.....also you could run a lamp cord or some other piece of wiring across the cabin from main terminal block to pump and see if the pump works.....possibly a temp way of using the shower till you get the time to chase the wiring....you are a real force to be able to do what you are doing.....you give the term super woman a whole new prospective.....
Pick up one of those floating phone cases for when you go on deck with it. Great job on boat!
It's break time. Don't let maintenance seem like it's a chore. She's a boat, and pampering her is just part of loving her. Purchase a 12 volt test light and a 12volt tracer with two simple to use tools you can test and track down wiring issues quickly. If you have rebuildable pumps, have a spare impeller and pressure switch available. Other than that, get to Florida and once you've got your business taken care of kick back and just relax for a few days. It really does the soul good to shrug off our worries and get that centered focus back. I myself am just about to that same point. Not knocked down, but just like the rocking, there's so much we can take and then we need to step away from it all and regroup.
Be safe and have some fun! 😊
Excellent advice Lauren. Troubleshooting doesn't have to be difficult. Break it down into simple components. Get some R&R. That will fix half of your problems. Love your spirit.
Exactly. I love boat work… so that’s why I’m taking the break ☺️
@laurenlanders Yeah, I know that feeling. They are more than just a boat or a home. They become a part of us.
Or we, them. I've never figured that one out yet. I hope that you are recharged and full of positive energy now. It's so much easier to work on our loves when we have a smile on our faces and happiness in our hearts. Fair winds sister, you've got this.
You are a very hard working little doll, tough cookie too. And your kitty is awesome.
Everyone reaches a point of mental and/or physical exhaustion. Nothing to feel defeated about. Take a break to recharge, and remember, “no weapon used against you shall prosper”.
I’ll keep praying for your safety…
MUCH LOVE FROM ENGLAND XXXX Your a Star
Heya, watched all 86 vlogs so I'm back to the future. go and rest you earned it. hope to see you again after you recovered
I'm new to your channel, Glad you got a break !! You have a strong work ethic... Look forward to more of your episodes
I liveaboard in Key West. It's been a long hot summer..Sometimes you just wanna quit..
Thoughts on switching boats to a cat or tri? Less rocking right? Not a boat person, just seeing a lot of cruisers on catamarans. Love your content - enjoy the break!
Another amazing adventure, fair winds!
I’m glad you repeated Grenada because I couldn’t understand what you said at the first of the video I heard “ada” how many Islands end in ada? Grenada, Jamaica, Antigua, just to mention a few.
Hey Lauren sorry to see you and Mako going through this crap!!! Hope you feel better soon!!! You need a Makomaran!!! Cat-amaran lol… I could see you in a cool little Prout 34 to 44. They are a good boat at a very nice price…
Enjoy your time away sister. Breaks are needed during the journey. Be safe, have fun and enjoy the AC.
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Do you put insulated wax on your metal it works great it’s good for you curtains as well it acts like a rain X
The video of Maco llisting 20 deg from port to starboard was funny. Poor Furball
I've been home steading for over 10 years now so I understand the alone and the burnout aspects but if it's something that you truly love just keep going you'll see. It's tough.
Sometimes we need to step away and let go. I have always found that wen I do this the solutions come much easier. As like most people we are always harder on ourselves than anyone else is, so give yourself a break. What you are doing is amazing, and you should never forget that. I hope you get your batteries charged while you are in Florida. Much love.
You definitely need a break,Mako need s one to. When you come back bring a battery jump box you can use it to test run pumps etc with a pair of jumper wires also to back ck wiring. And it will crank your engine if you get a good one. Enjoy the break I’ll be watching for you to return . God Bless. Mack in SC
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Tired and frustrated for sure:( Glad you posted this because it shows you are real. Pushing back the Pacific is the right thing to do, hoping you get recharged and refreshed soon.
Aw thank you
Lauren, you’re young and have a whole life ahead of you. This breaking point will not be your last one. It are rimples in life we need to surf, so we can retrospective about the past and adjust for the future.
It will get you stronger, more connected to yourself.
Set your (sub)goals over a longer period of time and relax more in between.
Maby partner up for a while with someone you trust?
Peace
Thanks Lauren take aye break mate mako wants one two best of luck 🤞
You should buy a couple of fans to circulate air in the cabin.😊
Awesome video girl!!! Take a break anytime you need one. You are the Captain of your journey you get to do it however You want to!!! You are amazing at making these videos for all of us to get a glimpse of your trip. Will be waiting to watch the next one whenever you get back!
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Thanks for sharing. I have a Beneteau 40.7 that has similar wiring. At times it is so frustrating. Sometimes I swear there are real gremlins living in the system. I appreciate what you are going through. Don’t give up You will win in the end
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Maybe someday we will cross paths. I am in Michigan, and I plan to sail from Michigan to Puerto Rico/Caribbean area! Not really excited about entering the Atlantic North of Nova Scotia, but that's the only path for me. Keep up the great work. Stay safe. I'm kinda new on your channel! New sub. I am probably 2 seasons from leaving from the Great Lakes.
Can't you get some canals from Rochester to Hudson ?
No matter how much we like the activity we are doing, sometimes we need to step back, take a deep breath, relax and do a personal reset.
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hola Lauren, recato de esto como conclusion que por lo menos llegaste bien a Granada y pudiste esquivar las tormentas. Lo demas fue una serie de eventos malos que desgastarian a cualquiera. No creo que hayan muchas personas que soporten lo que vos soportaste sin desquiciarse. Te amo mucho por tu fortaleza y tu sonrisa en los momentos complicados , tu ejemplo no se pierde, muy bien hecho a los dos y gracias por darnos un objetivo en nuestras vidas. 😘😘😘🙏🙏💗💙
Suggestion, suction cups for the corners of your yoga mat. ❤
Thank you to share your life exeperience going thrue all the obstacles. Congratulation for your capacity, smile and energy you comunicated👏👏👏
Lauren, maybe find a sailing partner that shares the same enthusiasm for sailing and adventure. One that compliments your life, life is better with shared experiences
The float switch goes bad replace it with senser pumps for shower and bilge and cleaning cable terminals is good
Windy days on a boat can be frustrating but windy nights on a boat night after night can really make it unbearable! The peace and calm after the wind makes it all worth while and then sleep is achievable 😂
Just found yr channel / first video to watch. Enjoy yr videos!
I think it is amazing that you are out here sailing by yourself. You are a very brave young lady. I was just wondering how long is your sailboat. I have never tried sailing. It looks very complicated. But I’m sure it’s like anything else once you get to know it it comes easy. Anyways keep up the great videos. I enjoy watching them.and good luck with your shower pump. I’ve been having problems with my furnace in my motorhome and it is taking me about four weeks to fix the problem. But I think I finally got it. So don’t give up you’ll figure it out soon enough. Take care and good sailing.
Your adventures and transparency are an inspiration to us all. Life is hard sometimes! Sometimes you have make contact with that other life to back the perspective you need. Rock on you...and have a great break! 🤘🔥
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I’m a bit older than you , more or less did the same thing at the same age as you in the 90’s . Ran charters on st Thomas long before you tube and Instagram . I’m having way more fun now skiing in Utah , great skiing every day coming home to a comfy condo and not having to fix a darn thing. mortgage on a brand new condo in salt lake is really not much more than owning and maintaining a 40 foot sailboat each month.
Good luck in your adventure !