Nirob, also please follow these three simple principles in your life: The first, never let your desire to dominate your life (desire for names, fame, wealth, recognition and respect etc.). Having desire is okay but don;t let it to dominate your life. Doing fasting once or twice a week can help you in this regard. The second, everything in your life is impermanent (the life itself). Therefore, do not get attached to anything. Maintain non attachment in all aspect of your life. The third, when you love someone or something, be honest, be authentic and keep integrity. This way, you can keep your life divine but not self centered. I am telling you all these, since I had made these mistakes in my life at your age. That's why, I am giving you these advice. Another thing. since our life is always "causes and effects", so always be watchful and be aware of things around you. If you can do these three simple things, I think, you wont clatter your life as same I did. Learn to live alone and be happy being alone.
Nirob, also please follow these three simple principles in your life: The first, never let your desire to dominate your life (desire for names, fame, wealth, recognition and respect etc.). Having desire is okay but don;t let it to dominate your life. Doing fasting once or twice a week can help you in this regard. The second, everything in your life is impermanent (the life itself). Therefore, do not get attached to anything. Maintain non attachment in all aspect of your life. The third, when you love someone or something, be honest, be authentic and keep integrity. This way, you can keep your life divine but not self centered. I am telling you all these, since I had made these mistakes in my life at your age. That's why, I am giving you these advice. Another thing. since our life is always "causes and effects", so always be watchful and be aware of things around you. If you can do these three simple things, I think, you wont clatter your life as same I did. Learn to live alone and be happy being alone.