I am completely baffled that this channel doesn’t have more subscribers. I recently found it on tiktok and am currently binging every episode/video! Definitely has become one of my favorite youtube channels
That first story makes me livid on her behalf. It’s essentially stealing. He didn’t earn that money and if it was so important to him *he would have saved his own money for it beforehand*!
For the first story, he’s not paying her back. Even if she decided that that would work, she might get $500 the first month but he doesn’t respect her enough to pay that back
Right ? Even if he had a legit plan to pay her back, the fact that he expects her to be fine with pushing back the renovation an extra 4 months for a party she’s probably not invited to is beyond disrespectful ‘smh’
For real. If he had that kind of money he would have/should have been contributing in the first place! But she said he didn’t have any extra money to put towards the savings so where TF is $500/mo coming from??
The husband with the niece, he needs a serious wakeup call. He made a bad decision and won't take the blame, the wife needs to make him sit down and have a talk.
Yeah he seems like a nice dude, but he also seems to think everything in the world revolves around the baby, and his conflict resolution skills need work. I wouldn’t recommend a divorce if that’s their only problem, but maybe couples therapy to work on keeping their partnership strong and stable, especially if they want to have a child (adopt).
What bothers me about him, is how he apparently immediately went into patronizing teacher mode - that's not treating someone like an equal & partner, and it just seems like a flag for some other/deeper issues. Or I'm totally over-reaching lol
Fellow gay here. I don't think it's that. I think he wants to BE the ex. Wants the same job, same friends. Said "if it was your ex you wouldn't say no". He seems obsessed. Identity wise. But I would drop him asap, esp after divulging therapy info. He's a tool.
I mean, I smell a little bit of fruit from the first story with the yacht- like I get that you’re childhood friends, but what person who isn’t reasonably well off spends money that they effectively don’t have on a yacht for a « home coming » celebration for their “platonic” friend. Idk, just seems a little closeted to me, like he’s in love with the friend to where he would be willing to piss off his wife, the person he’s married to, in order to impress this friend who is more than likely not expecting anything besides a night at a restaurant or a bar or something. It’s ridiculously lavish for a person to spend so much on an otherwise very insignificant event compared to a milestone birthday or celebration. It just really smells like someone left a whole fruit basket in the closet with that one.
The one with the fetish : maybe he himself just figured it out himself and felt confident enough to open up to his partner. Her calling him manipulative is just really sad. There’s so much shame around kinks as it is.
Literally!! You shouldn’t feel pressured to indulge in their fetish if you’re not comfortable with it, but to break up with them over it is extreme. Especially if he said he was okay with her not wanting to do it.
I literally thought the same thing. He had the confidence to bring it up at all and you know it wasn’t easy for him since he waited years to bring it up. If you don’t want to do it then don’t and just leave it at that. Obviously he wouldn’t be too upset with it because they were together for years already. But to break up with someone for it is childish.
Agreed! Or maybe he is really ashamed and didn't want to tell a random girlfriend, he only wanted to tell someone in a committed relationship. Or maybe their sex life started late in the relationship, even if they were dating for years, they could have only started having sex last week.
@@MCheekyBrunette probably!! When these things are so shamed already I would be nervous to tell just anyone as well. I would be so thankful and happy my partner trusted me enough to divulge information like that. Being open like that can be really difficult
On the first story, I would’ve immediately cancelled it and then whenever he got home I would’ve said that the bank called and reported suspicious activity and see how he reacted lmao. Since he had already agreed not to not dip into the renovation savings he would’ve been tripping over himself trying to explain how on earth a yacht rental got charged to their account. If OP gave him another chance, she should 100% make a separate savings account like the commenter said. I wish there were updates to that post, I’d love to see how things turned out
Legally wouldn’t be able to work at all since it’s an account in his name as well and he’s legally allowed to make purchases on that account. Also, you’re forgetting that he thinks himself entitled to the entirety of the money for the rental so he wouldn’t be trying to cover for it at all.
@@kashinimeyo banks will still report suspicious activity on your account. All she has to do is say she got a notification for his suspicious activity and canceled it. They had both agreed not to use the money so at that point even if he felt deserving of it they agreed not to spend it.
For the yacht booking, why didn’t he bring it up in a friends group and had others contribute if he really wanted it to be a thing. That way it wasn’t straight outta pocket.... not only would he also have to provide food and drinks so it’s more then just renting the yacht when it comes to the full ending cost....
Exactly! Any group thing everyone chips in- even if they can’t chip in the same amount they do what they can! Once you split between all the guests the numbers become super manageable
I think he wanted to seem like the big kahuna. He shells out 2 grand for a yacht for one night but he would never say it wasn’t his money. He wants to spend his wifes (who has a good paying jobs) money. Completely selfish
This was posted 4 months ago and I just to say as a mother, it is NEVER OK TO CHANGE YOUR CHILD ON A TABLE IN ANY RESTAURANT. I have also worked in customer service my whole life, and in restaurants or food service. It’s just inappropriate for any eatery.
Same here!! Mom of 4 kids and id never do that. I was at a place that didn’t have a changing table but I made due in the bathroom not on the table where everyone is eating.
It’s not okay to change a diaper at a table in a fast food restaurant let alone an upscale restaurant. Wtf, take the kid to the bathroom. Also: don’t bring kids to fancy restaurants. Just don’t.
lots of mens restrooms dont have changing tables. While its not okay to change baby on the table, if it's restaurant policy, he should have not been let in with a child. otherwise if no changing table in restroom, then the table is open game
@chrismartin6668 Well he also had his car. I don't get why he didn't just go to the privacy of his car to change her diaper and thought it would be okay to do it at the dinner table, in plain sight
with the baby and the changing on the table, that’s disgusting. i would never ever do that, and the fact that he thought it was okay, is weird and gross. how unsanitary.
That’s me going to the toilet to poop but I come back to the dinner table to wipe my ass in front of y’all. Like ew..just no. What was he thinking? Has he not heard of the saying, you don’t eat where you shit??
The Kink story: Honestly, telling your partner about your kinks can be a very scary experience. If the kink is more "out there" it might even involve feelings of shame and self-disgust. Ofc, situations like this can be manipulative, but do not have to be. There is already enough shame and stigma about certain parts of sexuality and I don't think approaching it this way is good.
the husband really wants a child of his own but doesn’t even have the common sense to know not to change your child in the middle of a restaurant? interesting
Yikes I didn't know that rule I've brought my son with me to a fancy Italian restaurant here in Minnesota But I had no one else to go with or to watch my son, and kids deserve to eat nice meals also. That my pov. I didn't grow up with much money, so I honestly have never considered the idea of "high end" restaurants or restaurants even having rules like this at all. Seems like a culture difference. He didn't think it was a big deal, probably doesn't have a lot of experience going to high end places. I wouldn't have known any better.
@@spaceinveda7408 they comment is in regards to the husband changing his niece at the table, with people eating around them, versus doing the changing in the bathroom.
Or changing them in the car? If there isn't a changing table I take her back to the car and do it in the seat laid back for extra room or the backseat. It's simple. Or if you're having to console her move elsewhere if it's an ongoing thing to give the baby change of environment.
While dating, I've met so many men like this! They say they want kids within the next 5-7 years but I'll ask them the most basic question about babies and they have no clue. One guy told me you can feed regular food to 2-month old babies... Ladies, see if your man has basic knowledge about parenting BEFORE having kids!
Maybe there isn’t a change table in the men’s restroom, but he could ask the wife to take the baby to the women’s restroom and do it or maybe there’s an accessible bathroom. Better options can be found 😂
First story makes no sense to me, "you're financially abusing me." joint account or not, that was HER hard earned money. If anything he's financially abusing her. Using her money that was meant for their house on a yacht party. He could have done something cheaper, that would be just as great.
A fetish isn't like a compulsion or an addiction. You don't go into withdrawal by not having it fulfilled. Maybe it's cause I'm bi and sometimes the people I date feel insecure that I'll leave them for the gender they aren't but I don't think it's fair to decide he can't control himself when for 2 years he's managed a normal relationship. I think she's just shocked by the info and looking for an out. If anything I feel bad for the guy. He let himself become vulnerable to someone he's designated as important to himself and now he's probably gonna be dumped. I just hope he doesn't let this rejection color him with shame and self disgust over his fetish.
A fetish is similar to a kink, but the difference is that something is a fetish when it MUST be present in order for the person to achieve sexual arousal or enjoyment. This can be an act (like having sex in public) or an object (like feet). The important thing to remember here is that a fetish is something that the person cannot get aroused without-for some people simply fantasizing about the fetish can be enough while others may need to actually engage with the object or behavior in some way. (Whereas a kink is just any attraction to a specific object or sexual act and it is not required to get off.)
Are you equating your bisexuality to a fetish??? They’re not the same and you’re making a false equivalence that is actually rather bigoted and ignorant.
@@kashinimeyo that's derivative. The misunderstand is yours since you removed everything else but the key words you wanted to see. Should you wish to continue in that way that's your prerogative.
I think she’s major insecure about her own sexuality. She took it so far I bet she would have had the same reaction about latex or rope. She needs to get a grip! Doesn’t mean she needs to partake but like at least she never has to be embarrassed if a 💨 naturally happened 😂
found this late, but in response to the crying baby in the restaurant, my mom used to take me (either) outside or to the bathroom if I started to get upset or throw a fit when I was younger at dinner to calm me down and not disrupt the rest of the people at the table or place.
I don’t know I think people should understand that a baby is not going to no social norms. And maybe not this particular situation but some mothers don’t want to leave there baby’s with anyone but they still want to go have a nice dinner. And on the topic of the diaper changing I’ve changed my son on a fast food restraunt table because they didn’t have a change table and it was a lot cleaner on the table then the bathroom floor.. so I kinda understand that. No less he should have warned her.
@@breannawatson6832 have a change table in the bathroom it’s disgusting to change ur child on the floor I care more about the sanitation of my baby then anyone eles
That is really cool of your mom since others were able to have a good time and hopefully she did it in a way that respectfully taught you that you need to chill to be allowed to have fun with everyone 😂 Also for changing a baby on the table, I get that there aren’t good options sometimes, but that’s incredibly rude to patrons around you and those who will use the table next. To be safe, bring a tiny blanket or mat, and change the baby on top of that in the restroom. Restaurants should have changing tables, but that obviously isn’t the case all the time, and the dining tables are unacceptable.
I love how in the 3rd story the husband said "You chose a bad restaurant" when she literally had no idea that he was going to have his neice with him. As far as she new they were going on a date night. Yeah the restaurant would be a bad choice IF she knew that the baby was going to be there!! But she didn't.
The last story sounds like my ex. He’s definitely a narcissist. They always seem charming at first but then turn out to be the worst thing you’ve ever experienced. Run as far away as possible from people like this.
The fart fetish one- she needs to understand that he was suuuuper vulnerable sharing that with her, and she probably just seriously hurt him with her reaction- he may not even be able to open up to partners in the future. He waited so long because soooo often we are ridiculed for our kinks when we open to people who aren't safe. He accepted her response when she said no. Many kinksters are super understanding when someone isn't into their kinks. "My kink is not your kink and that's ok." And on top of that, people need their kinks fulfilled at so many different levels... some people need it regularly integrated, some people are ok with occasional, and some further still are ok with having it solely fulfilled by porn! If he's gone this long without having it actively fulfilled, he's probably one of the latter. If someone simply HAVING a kink is a possible deal breaker for this girl, and she's getting this heated about it, I think the boyfriend is dodging a bullet 🤷♀️
EXACTLY. plus given that he didn’t tell her for YEARS, that tells me it’s not something he absolutely needs to have fulfilled. It’s most likely just something he enjoys and wanted to see if she wanted to try it, but it doesn’t sound like a dealbreaker for him. I’m someone in the BSDM community, and I know that those who have something they’re SUPER into would discuss it relatively early on. They wouldnt wait for years until they’re engaged to bring it up. I feel bad for they guy. He trusted her, asked her politely, and as soon as she said she wasn’t into it he recognized that and dropped it. She’s blowing it way out of proportion.
@@Rose-ef2cm yes, exactly. I'm in the bdsm community, too, and that story just made my heart break for the guy. It's not even that "out there" of a fetish. She'd likely clutch her pearls if she heard some of mine 😂 He deserves someone who is doing to take the time to understand him, not just flip the fuck out.
@@elizabethkrueger7492 EXACTLY. same here lmao like its not even that "gross"?? wait till she hears about scat lmao. farting doesnt even involve bodily fluids, and depending on your diet it might not even smell. its just air. i can understand being grossed out in the initial moment out of shock, but the fact that she cant even look at him the same or be intimate with him at all just makes me sad for him.
The baby one 🤢 I worked in a cocktail bar/restaurant and we did allow kids, had kids menus/crayons etc, but the vibe of the restaurant was still pretty nice especially later in the night. People would bring their kids in during dinner service and act like it entitles them to another level of service. Not only have I definitely seen someone change their baby in the dining room (not on the table thank god, on their lap, but STILL people are eating around you), but i’ve seen kids literally crawl across tables, throw food across the room, scream at other people eating, parents insisting that we rush their food because their toddler is hungry and upset, etc, etc, etc. No babies in nice restaurants. It ruins everyone’s vibe. And who the FUCK would think it’s okay to change a diaper on a table where food in served and eaten. That guy used zero common sense in that situation.
Exactly and since he got to the restaurant for us he could’ve texted her like oh I got stuck with the baby at the last minute we should go somewhere else
I am 100% supportive of the fact that people with kids deserve to go out too especially because I have two of my own, and it is good for children and their behavior development to experience restaurant settings, but there are family friendly restaurants everywhere. In fact, more restaurants are family friendly than not. Shocking but, not everyone enjoys children. Therefore they probably choose quiet, ADULT friendly restaurants to be able to enjoy themselves. Keep your children out of places like these. Respect those boundaries, and take your kids to a freaking Texas roadhouse or something.
If he could afford to pay her back $500/month then he should’ve been contributing $500/month from the beginning. If he wouldn’t have touched the money and instead keep saving that amount they mightve been close to remodeling
Had an ex like the last story, this man-baby was so fragile! He competed with exes of mine in his head and would use coercive language to intimidate me into doing whatever he thought he missed out on(in the bedroom). Definitely not a person worthy of first chances, let alone second chances.
I'll be honest, I don't think kids under the age of 12 should be allowed in a lot of places 😂 mostly because parents don't properly discipline their kids and teach them how to act. And places like airplanes should have designated kid areas. There are kid friendly restaurants, stick to those. And the restaurants that fall in between, again should have separate kid friendly areas. I'm a firm believer in strangers also verbally disciplining other ppls kids in public when it's called for as long as it's within reason. Some of my best learning moments were when a stranger gave me shit for not acting right.
I’m not sure we want strangers thinking they are allowed to parent anyone’s kids 😬 It should be less frowned upon to get an attendant or something to tattle on them so that the patrons don’t have to get into fights 👍 After covid, it seems like there are a lot of ways to keep kids under 12 from annoying others in public like carry out or online grocery pick up or online shopping if their kids can’t behave 😂
I love Lauren so much. She always has such great insight to give and really stands by how she feels and views certain scenarios. Wish she could be a permanent co-host!
i actually think the opposite 😂 i find her so annoying and most of the time she gives so much leeway to the person in the wrong and just piggybacks off of what morgan says
The first story: let alone he took money thats not his and then proceed to say she was financial abusing...like heck what? OP run from there, who would spent so much money into a gift that Will not even last a full day?
MY COUSIN MARRIED A MAN THAT HAS A FART FETISH. For years I couldn’t figure out why he would high tail it out of the room when one of us would fart. I felt bad thinking I had offended him and tried to apologize and that’s when he told me and my cousin said she knew!
@@nolitimere11 I assume it is just with women’s but not 100% certain. I didn’t ask a lot of questions because my cousin was upset about him telling me. Not sure why she was so upset but I have never mentioned it again.
I love the long conversations about relationships and really trying to see both sides and figuring out who is in the wrong. More interesting than just bashing one sex over the other!
I’ve been at a nice restaurant with my baby on Mother’s Day but he wasn’t an infant and was old enough to have solid food so it made it easier but if my son was freaking out I’d excuse my self outside to calm him down then come back 🤷🏻♀️
As someone in the psychology field the wording choice of the girlfriend in the fart story could be considered a „red flag“ itself. That fact she feels betrayed is completely normal, taking into account possible self esteem issues or mistrust she might have that makes her focus more on the „keeping a secret“ fact than the „fart kink“ fact. To me it seems, that her partner was very ashamed to begin with and now felt safe enough to share what he prefers in the bedroom. Manipulation would be coercing her into farting on him and not taking „no“ for an answer. From a personal perspective, if her reaction is solely based on his confession and no other factors are playing in it would be better to reconsider their values in a relationship. If a „harmless“ kink confession has such a big impact there might be other issues in this relationship that need to be considered and couples counseling could be a good place to start especially before marriage to prevent resentment piling up which could then lead to divorce.
Why didnt he bring it up BEFORE engagement? That is coercion. He waited until AFTER a solid long term promise of marriage. This should have been discussed during or just before engagement conversations- along with most other compatibility conversations. Fetishes are needs- they must be experienced at some level to enjoy sex with anyone. If youre in the psychology field you wiuld understand all of this and know that this is simply a compatibility issue and insecurities aside he could not communicate healthily and with respect to her needs and boundaries and his own until after a significant relationship milestone.
@@breathoffreshair7795Did you not listen to her immediate reaction being to end the relationship. That proves if he mentioned it ANY TIME prior to engagement she wouldve left him for being "Weird" He didnt do any sort of coehersion because he didnt force her to Fart on him and he immediately accepted that she wouldnt do it. He accepted her decision but she cant accept him Because of his kink that she wont ever have to partake in is weird. You dont make any sense
@@breathoffreshair7795Also fetishes are not a need. The fact they have likely been having sex this whole time prior to being engaged means what your saying is completely and utterly wrong. The story told give every detail to say this isnt manipulative in any way, but him being ashamed of something that would likely end most relationships due to the stigma around fetishes and Kinks
@@dwightsmith1123 yeah- because she realized that he has a sexual need that she wasnt aware of that he couldve long prepared her for. Her being uncomfortable with it before may have not been a deal breaker: she could have just as likely been curious and open to it HOWEVER thats not what happened. She wasnt given a chance to access wether or not shed be comfortable with it because she instead was met with a lack of honesty of needs and then had them pushed on her after a legal marriage. So her discomfort with the idea of it is also paired with the reality that she cant even trust her partner to be honest about needs so much so that they were willing to force her into a legal joining before telling her. Fetishes are a sexual need: kinks are not. Please dont convolute this.
3 minutes in and all i can say is that i don't believe in second chances because trust isn't something you can just glue back together once its broken you can try and fix it but the cracks are always going to be there and it will always be more fragile then it was and every little thing starts to blow up because what if your trust is being broken again?
As someone who was born in 1999 (Zennial, Older Gen Z), and was in High school/late middle school when the whole tide pod thing happened, umm.... When I asked classmates it's cause someone thought it looked like candy, also there are weirder things Gen Z and Zennials have wanted to eat.
I’m the same age, and the tide pod thing happened in 2018, meaning you’d either be a senior in HS or in college. It was definitely Gen Z being stupid, albeit most were pretty young. Millennials likely did participate and help spread the challenge on social media, and overall I doubt that many people were actually consuming them. Those who did were mostly younger Gen Zs that did not understand the danger/did not fully understand social media, so I don’t think it’s entirely fair to roast the poor kids. But I know millennials have participated in a wide array of stupid challenges because back in the earlier days of TH-cam (when most viewers/creators were millennials), challenges were a VERY common theme (ie cinnamon challenge, Kylie Jenner lip challenge, the knife game, chubby bunny challenge). Not all of those challenges were harmful, but some were dangerous and also resulted in bodily harm, so ultimately both generations did stupid things as children/adolescents being exposed to social media at a young age.
I find it so weird when people refuse to fart in front of their bf's or husbands, It's a normal bodly function, and if you really have to fart to the point where you have tummy aches from it i find it so sad that you would have to get to the bathroom just to let it out to be comfortable, specially in your own house. also the facts it's dangerous for our bodies to hold in fart. I farted in front of my bf the first month of being together, now we always joke around and compliment the sound of our farts and give each other high fives, also he's not able to burp so all the air has to get our somewhere and I would be an asshole to force him to keep it in and make him go to the bathroom in his own home.
I totally want a relationship where we are comfortable to do “gross” normal functions around each other, but some people have a relationship where that would be totally fine, but they personally wouldn’t feel comfortable to do so. I agree that you totally don’t want tummy aches from holding in farts. 😂
The one obsessed with the ex is absolutely insecure himself! He blames his gf but what's really happening is that he compares himself to the ex, thinks that the ex is so much more cooler than he is, and doesn't understand how his gf chose him over her ex! And doesn't know how to deal with it!
Ok so on the topic of baby in restaurant. Lol recently my sister in law and I planned a little double date with our husbands and our youngest babies. (As we are both still nursing them, so they go everywhere with us.) Usually the places we go are pretty child friendly, but this restaurant was pretty fancy. As soon as we walked in, I was like "oh hell naw. ." I will not put all of us here through listening to my baby be his cranky self. Like I knew they came there for a nice quiet meal, and I was just like, id rather cancel the reservation, than be the asshole with a loud baby.
Feel bad for the guy with the kink. My thought is, if you are going to marry someone, chances are one of or both of you will develop new kinks over the years and will want to try them out. So I think her reaction is a bit extreme. But also if they aren't sexually compatable, it's best they know now and I hope she handles it delicately
So in my opinion I think it’s fine to take your kids to a nice place. BUT if the child begins to tantrum or become loud and are not able to be entertained enough at the table to be quiet enough then the parents either need to leave or one of them needs to take the child outside. If you know your child will not be able to stay at a reasonable volume then yes I agree don’t go with them.
I think that the ex and boyfriend situation is that he's insecure and trying to get close to the ex and trying to become like him. That's why he was so close.
i’m sad it took me so long to find out about your channel , but i’m happy i have so many podcasts to binge ! you’re dope , and the people you invite on are dope too!!
I believe that the man in the restaurant story spends so much time with his niece that he just changed her at the table by habit because most men's rooms at nice or average restaurants don't have changing tables. People just don't expect men to have a parenting gene in this society
Something to remember with the diaper changing restaurant story is that men's bathrooms don't usually have baby changing stations because of the patriarchy. He still could've just gone to the bathroom tho....
Ahhh freaking love Perkins 🙌 I wish they existed in the south. My last time in Minneapolis I had a Canadian waiter at Perkins laugh at how I said ranch. 😂 I’m from Texas and in my head I was like “don’t sound Texas” it came out the most country hick version I’ve ever heard lmao 🤣
This is why my husband and I agreed to not have a joint account, money seems to always be an argumentative factor in relationships. I have my own account and my husband has his own account. That’s how it should be imo.
I hate farting in front of my bf but when I try going to the restroom it won’t come out so when I go back to the bedroom and lay on the bed they just come out 😭
Story 3 wants a child more than he wants his current wife. I think he’s not sharing with her just how important having kids is to him and how much of a dealbreaker it is for him to have children.
The fact fetish thing is kinda sad. Like you're gonna let that ruin your relationship? Like even if I don't enjoy it imma put on a smile and give you your moment once in a while. Sacrifices right? U don't have to let a kink end your relationship this is why guys would rather go the strippers for these experiences thinking they can get their satisfaction without their wives looking at them differently. Sad case
I feel like tide pods have a forbidden fruit type thing going on I still want to eat them but like you know you can’t cause you’ll die but they smell good they seem like that’s taste good🤣🤣
There was this 2nd grader in my sons class who has a TH-cam channel my son asked if he can look... Omg this kid did so many challenges I reported it... He rubbed hand sanitizer in his eyes for blind eye thing and many others that made me sit all my kids down and have a real heart to heart to see what their class mates do etc or say is the cool thing to do.
I feel like there's a strange insecurity around kinks. I know many people with sexual preferences and turn ons... but, I've never met someone so obsessed with their kinks that they would turn it into an irreconcilable difference with a partner they love and are otherwise perfectly happy with. Unless it was paired with an unadressed addiction, or a misalignment in sexual orientation that they've been masking for fear of being abandoned by their family and social circles. Both are sad situations. I understand not wanting to risk getting caught up in that painful mess. But those have nothing to do with the kinks themselves. I use this analogy a lot, I notice, but here it goes again. Imagine dumping someone, because you found out they've dated a few blonds before... while you're a brunette. Letting the fact that your partner finds somethings attractive that you don't have to offer eat away at all the things you do offer which they love about you. Imagine throwing away a perfectly healthy relationship over such a miniscule insecurity that only seems to bother you, because you can't stop imagining that they'll cheat on you to satisfy that attraction to blond hair. Doesn't that sound a little petty and obsessive? Doesn't that sound like fear that you should talk over with a therapist, a trusted confidant, or your partner rather than alter the entire trajectory of your life with your partner's kink bearing the blame? I don't know. To me, it sounds like another drop in the bucket of societal loneliness and unachievable standards. I think we really need to let go of arbitrary red flags and deal breakers. It's not worth the cost. We get in our own way of happiness way too often.
I’m a mother of 3 boys older now, but given we didn’t have child care of there was a dinner at a nice place we never would go if we had to bring a kid and never no matter where change a baby at a table!
There was a TH-camr / 90 day fiancé reality star who made $200k or so selling her farts in jars to fans… so apparently that’s more common than we’d think lol.
Regarding the guy being obsessed with his girlfriend's ex, I find it crazyyyy that they had been together for 2 YEARS and that this shit only came up after 2 years... the guy has a serious problem... this is crazy. And when you allow someone like that into your life you never know what else they could do. scary
I wanna choke mister "I spent 2000$ to rent a yacht for my best friend's welcoming party using the money you saved for our home renovation". Not in a good way.
Regarding the middle school teacher husband. He is not an asshole at all, trying to do the right thing by his family and his wife by still keeping to a commitment. I’m a middle school teacher too and we deal with so much shit from kids, if we can take care of and educate your kids too you can deal with a little bit of crying.
Girls you need to get remedial massages. Shoulder impingement - work on trigger points in your pecs and surrounding muscles. You can use a theracane to work on trigger points (don't hold for more than 2 min) and a theragun to loosen the belly of your muscles. And STRETCH! Between massage and a chiro you should be good.
I am completely baffled that this channel doesn’t have more subscribers. I recently found it on tiktok and am currently binging every episode/video! Definitely has become one of my favorite youtube channels
Ikr, same
Same! I listen to the podcast while I’m at work!
Same I’ve been on a binge all week
Yeah Yeah
She just started due to the pandemic! That’s amazing growth for such a new channel
I love how Morgan always calls stuff the wrong thing. Calling My Strange Addiction “My crazy obsession” sent me 😂
One of my favorites is when she called Animal Crossing "Animal Farm" LOL Love her
@@alarrukar so good 😂
That first story makes me livid on her behalf. It’s essentially stealing. He didn’t earn that money and if it was so important to him *he would have saved his own money for it beforehand*!
For the first story, he’s not paying her back. Even if she decided that that would work, she might get $500 the first month but he doesn’t respect her enough to pay that back
Right ? Even if he had a legit plan to pay her back, the fact that he expects her to be fine with pushing back the renovation an extra 4 months for a party she’s probably not invited to is beyond disrespectful ‘smh’
Aaaaand suddenly he can contribute 500 a month when he could not before? Shows you his priorities...
For real. If he had that kind of money he would have/should have been contributing in the first place! But she said he didn’t have any extra money to put towards the savings so where TF is $500/mo coming from??
The husband with the niece, he needs a serious wakeup call. He made a bad decision and won't take the blame, the wife needs to make him sit down and have a talk.
Yeah he seems like a nice dude, but he also seems to think everything in the world revolves around the baby, and his conflict resolution skills need work. I wouldn’t recommend a divorce if that’s their only problem, but maybe couples therapy to work on keeping their partnership strong and stable, especially if they want to have a child (adopt).
What bothers me about him, is how he apparently immediately went into patronizing teacher mode - that's not treating someone like an equal & partner, and it just seems like a flag for some other/deeper issues. Or I'm totally over-reaching lol
Being gay myself, his obsession with her ex is very..... fruity
Much fruit SO MUCH fruit
fruit salad, yummy yummy!
Fellow gay here. I don't think it's that. I think he wants to BE the ex. Wants the same job, same friends. Said "if it was your ex you wouldn't say no". He seems obsessed. Identity wise. But I would drop him asap, esp after divulging therapy info. He's a tool.
I mean, I smell a little bit of fruit from the first story with the yacht- like I get that you’re childhood friends, but what person who isn’t reasonably well off spends money that they effectively don’t have on a yacht for a « home coming » celebration for their “platonic” friend. Idk, just seems a little closeted to me, like he’s in love with the friend to where he would be willing to piss off his wife, the person he’s married to, in order to impress this friend who is more than likely not expecting anything besides a night at a restaurant or a bar or something. It’s ridiculously lavish for a person to spend so much on an otherwise very insignificant event compared to a milestone birthday or celebration. It just really smells like someone left a whole fruit basket in the closet with that one.
Lmao
The one with the fetish : maybe he himself just figured it out himself and felt confident enough to open up to his partner. Her calling him manipulative is just really sad. There’s so much shame around kinks as it is.
Literally!! You shouldn’t feel pressured to indulge in their fetish if you’re not comfortable with it, but to break up with them over it is extreme. Especially if he said he was okay with her not wanting to do it.
I literally thought the same thing. He had the confidence to bring it up at all and you know it wasn’t easy for him since he waited years to bring it up. If you don’t want to do it then don’t and just leave it at that. Obviously he wouldn’t be too upset with it because they were together for years already. But to break up with someone for it is childish.
Agreed! Or maybe he is really ashamed and didn't want to tell a random girlfriend, he only wanted to tell someone in a committed relationship.
Or maybe their sex life started late in the relationship, even if they were dating for years, they could have only started having sex last week.
@@MCheekyBrunette probably!! When these things are so shamed already I would be nervous to tell just anyone as well. I would be so thankful and happy my partner trusted me enough to divulge information like that. Being open like that can be really difficult
Agreed. He had the confidence to tell her and when she said no he respected her. Done deal. That is NOT manipulative in the slightest.
On the first story, I would’ve immediately cancelled it and then whenever he got home I would’ve said that the bank called and reported suspicious activity and see how he reacted lmao. Since he had already agreed not to not dip into the renovation savings he would’ve been tripping over himself trying to explain how on earth a yacht rental got charged to their account. If OP gave him another chance, she should 100% make a separate savings account like the commenter said. I wish there were updates to that post, I’d love to see how things turned out
Legally wouldn’t be able to work at all since it’s an account in his name as well and he’s legally allowed to make purchases on that account. Also, you’re forgetting that he thinks himself entitled to the entirety of the money for the rental so he wouldn’t be trying to cover for it at all.
You could say that your husband would never do that, so someone took his identity when you explain it to him 😂
@@kashinimeyo banks will still report suspicious activity on your account. All she has to do is say she got a notification for his suspicious activity and canceled it. They had both agreed not to use the money so at that point even if he felt deserving of it they agreed not to spend it.
For the yacht booking, why didn’t he bring it up in a friends group and had others contribute if he really wanted it to be a thing. That way it wasn’t straight outta pocket.... not only would he also have to provide food and drinks so it’s more then just renting the yacht when it comes to the full ending cost....
Exactly!
Any group thing everyone chips in- even if they can’t chip in the same amount they do what they can! Once you split between all the guests the numbers become super manageable
I think he wanted to seem like the big kahuna. He shells out 2 grand for a yacht for one night but he would never say it wasn’t his money. He wants to spend his wifes (who has a good paying jobs) money. Completely selfish
This was posted 4 months ago and I just to say as a mother, it is NEVER OK TO CHANGE YOUR CHILD ON A TABLE IN ANY RESTAURANT. I have also worked in customer service my whole life, and in restaurants or food service. It’s just inappropriate for any eatery.
Agreed! It is not just uncomfortable and inconvenient for the other patrons, but it is also VERY unsanitary.
Same here!! Mom of 4 kids and id never do that. I was at a place that didn’t have a changing table but I made due in the bathroom not on the table where everyone is eating.
@@woman_of_mayhem i have also changed diapers in a car because it was more convenient that the changing table
@Sam G I've even led them on my legs in a pinch and done it there. Doing it on the table is just disgusting 🫠🤢
It’s not okay to change a diaper at a table in a fast food restaurant let alone an upscale restaurant. Wtf, take the kid to the bathroom.
Also: don’t bring kids to fancy restaurants. Just don’t.
lots of mens restrooms dont have changing tables. While its not okay to change baby on the table, if it's restaurant policy, he should have not been let in with a child. otherwise if no changing table in restroom, then the table is open game
The niece is family, the people in the restaurant are strangers. Family first.
@@chrismartin6668 It's unsanitary. People are in a restaurant to eat. It is just inappropriate to do this on a restaurant table.
@@MrFlo5787entitled and nasty
@chrismartin6668 Well he also had his car. I don't get why he didn't just go to the privacy of his car to change her diaper and thought it would be okay to do it at the dinner table, in plain sight
with the baby and the changing on the table, that’s disgusting. i would never ever do that, and the fact that he thought it was okay, is weird and gross. how unsanitary.
That’s me going to the toilet to poop but I come back to the dinner table to wipe my ass in front of y’all. Like ew..just no. What was he thinking? Has he not heard of the saying, you don’t eat where you shit??
The Kink story:
Honestly, telling your partner about your kinks can be a very scary experience. If the kink is more "out there" it might even involve feelings of shame and self-disgust.
Ofc, situations like this can be manipulative, but do not have to be. There is already enough shame and stigma about certain parts of sexuality and I don't think approaching it this way is good.
the husband really wants a child of his own but doesn’t even have the common sense to know not to change your child in the middle of a restaurant? interesting
Yikes
I didn't know that rule
I've brought my son with me to a fancy Italian restaurant here in Minnesota
But I had no one else to go with or to watch my son, and kids deserve to eat nice meals also. That my pov. I didn't grow up with much money, so I honestly have never considered the idea of "high end" restaurants or restaurants even having rules like this at all.
Seems like a culture difference. He didn't think it was a big deal, probably doesn't have a lot of experience going to high end places.
I wouldn't have known any better.
@@spaceinveda7408 they comment is in regards to the husband changing his niece at the table, with people eating around them, versus doing the changing in the bathroom.
Or changing them in the car? If there isn't a changing table I take her back to the car and do it in the seat laid back for extra room or the backseat. It's simple. Or if you're having to console her move elsewhere if it's an ongoing thing to give the baby change of environment.
While dating, I've met so many men like this! They say they want kids within the next 5-7 years but I'll ask them the most basic question about babies and they have no clue. One guy told me you can feed regular food to 2-month old babies...
Ladies, see if your man has basic knowledge about parenting BEFORE having kids!
@@Feliciatanktop Very wise of you.
I wouldn’t change a child’s diaper even if I was in a Denny’s let alone a fancy restaurant. That’s just basic manners idk what that guy was thinking.
Maybe there isn’t a change table in the men’s restroom, but he could ask the wife to take the baby to the women’s restroom and do it or maybe there’s an accessible bathroom. Better options can be found 😂
@@clairer342 literally go to the car and change jr
@@clairer342literally 😭
First story makes no sense to me, "you're financially abusing me." joint account or not, that was HER hard earned money. If anything he's financially abusing her. Using her money that was meant for their house on a yacht party. He could have done something cheaper, that would be just as great.
I think that was a threat and he said that to basically be like it's happening deal with it.
A fetish isn't like a compulsion or an addiction. You don't go into withdrawal by not having it fulfilled. Maybe it's cause I'm bi and sometimes the people I date feel insecure that I'll leave them for the gender they aren't but I don't think it's fair to decide he can't control himself when for 2 years he's managed a normal relationship. I think she's just shocked by the info and looking for an out. If anything I feel bad for the guy. He let himself become vulnerable to someone he's designated as important to himself and now he's probably gonna be dumped. I just hope he doesn't let this rejection color him with shame and self disgust over his fetish.
A fetish is similar to a kink, but the difference is that something is a fetish when it MUST be present in order for the person to achieve sexual arousal or enjoyment. This can be an act (like having sex in public) or an object (like feet). The important thing to remember here is that a fetish is something that the person cannot get aroused without-for some people simply fantasizing about the fetish can be enough while others may need to actually engage with the object or behavior in some way. (Whereas a kink is just any attraction to a specific object or sexual act and it is not required to get off.)
Are you equating your bisexuality to a fetish??? They’re not the same and you’re making a false equivalence that is actually rather bigoted and ignorant.
@@kashinimeyo that's derivative. The misunderstand is yours since you removed everything else but the key words you wanted to see. Should you wish to continue in that way that's your prerogative.
I think she’s major insecure about her own sexuality. She took it so far I bet she would have had the same reaction about latex or rope. She needs to get a grip! Doesn’t mean she needs to partake but like at least she never has to be embarrassed if a 💨 naturally happened 😂
I feel really bad for the guy
found this late, but in response to the crying baby in the restaurant, my mom used to take me (either) outside or to the bathroom if I started to get upset or throw a fit when I was younger at dinner to calm me down and not disrupt the rest of the people at the table or place.
I don’t know I think people should understand that a baby is not going to no social norms. And maybe not this particular situation but some mothers don’t want to leave there baby’s with anyone but they still want to go have a nice dinner. And on the topic of the diaper changing I’ve changed my son on a fast food restraunt table because they didn’t have a change table and it was a lot cleaner on the table then the bathroom floor.. so I kinda understand that. No less he should have warned her.
@@rissafab changing a child on a table at any restaurant is not ok, it’s not sanitary, and rude. Especially at a high class restaurant
@@breannawatson6832 have a change table in the bathroom it’s disgusting to change ur child on the floor I care more about the sanitation of my baby then anyone eles
That is really cool of your mom since others were able to have a good time and hopefully she did it in a way that respectfully taught you that you need to chill to be allowed to have fun with everyone 😂 Also for changing a baby on the table, I get that there aren’t good options sometimes, but that’s incredibly rude to patrons around you and those who will use the table next. To be safe, bring a tiny blanket or mat, and change the baby on top of that in the restroom. Restaurants should have changing tables, but that obviously isn’t the case all the time, and the dining tables are unacceptable.
@@rissafab yeah lol that's why he got kicked out he clearly didn't care about hygiene in an eating facility either.
I love how in the 3rd story the husband said "You chose a bad restaurant" when she literally had no idea that he was going to have his neice with him. As far as she new they were going on a date night. Yeah the restaurant would be a bad choice IF she knew that the baby was going to be there!! But she didn't.
If her name is on the account too, she could technically cancel the yacht and just not tell them ☺️
The last story sounds like my ex. He’s definitely a narcissist. They always seem charming at first but then turn out to be the worst thing you’ve ever experienced. Run as far away as possible from people like this.
Yes, absolutely! A lot of projecting his own behaviour onto her. You can't win with people like that.
The fart fetish one- she needs to understand that he was suuuuper vulnerable sharing that with her, and she probably just seriously hurt him with her reaction- he may not even be able to open up to partners in the future. He waited so long because soooo often we are ridiculed for our kinks when we open to people who aren't safe. He accepted her response when she said no. Many kinksters are super understanding when someone isn't into their kinks. "My kink is not your kink and that's ok." And on top of that, people need their kinks fulfilled at so many different levels... some people need it regularly integrated, some people are ok with occasional, and some further still are ok with having it solely fulfilled by porn! If he's gone this long without having it actively fulfilled, he's probably one of the latter. If someone simply HAVING a kink is a possible deal breaker for this girl, and she's getting this heated about it, I think the boyfriend is dodging a bullet 🤷♀️
EXACTLY. plus given that he didn’t tell her for YEARS, that tells me it’s not something he absolutely needs to have fulfilled. It’s most likely just something he enjoys and wanted to see if she wanted to try it, but it doesn’t sound like a dealbreaker for him. I’m someone in the BSDM community, and I know that those who have something they’re SUPER into would discuss it relatively early on. They wouldnt wait for years until they’re engaged to bring it up. I feel bad for they guy. He trusted her, asked her politely, and as soon as she said she wasn’t into it he recognized that and dropped it. She’s blowing it way out of proportion.
@@Rose-ef2cm yes, exactly. I'm in the bdsm community, too, and that story just made my heart break for the guy. It's not even that "out there" of a fetish. She'd likely clutch her pearls if she heard some of mine 😂 He deserves someone who is doing to take the time to understand him, not just flip the fuck out.
@@elizabethkrueger7492 EXACTLY. same here lmao like its not even that "gross"?? wait till she hears about scat lmao. farting doesnt even involve bodily fluids, and depending on your diet it might not even smell. its just air. i can understand being grossed out in the initial moment out of shock, but the fact that she cant even look at him the same or be intimate with him at all just makes me sad for him.
@@Rose-ef2cm it’s no big deal. Nothing wrong with farts. She’s definitely over reacting.
I came here to say this. I feel so bad for the guy in this scenario. Thank you for posting this!
The baby one 🤢 I worked in a cocktail bar/restaurant and we did allow kids, had kids menus/crayons etc, but the vibe of the restaurant was still pretty nice especially later in the night. People would bring their kids in during dinner service and act like it entitles them to another level of service. Not only have I definitely seen someone change their baby in the dining room (not on the table thank god, on their lap, but STILL people are eating around you), but i’ve seen kids literally crawl across tables, throw food across the room, scream at other people eating, parents insisting that we rush their food because their toddler is hungry and upset, etc, etc, etc. No babies in nice restaurants. It ruins everyone’s vibe. And who the FUCK would think it’s okay to change a diaper on a table where food in served and eaten. That guy used zero common sense in that situation.
The restaurant situation would have been diff if he had given his wife the heads up, that way she could have canceled or gone somewhere else…
Exactly and since he got to the restaurant for us he could’ve texted her like oh I got stuck with the baby at the last minute we should go somewhere else
The dislikes are the bachelor yacht boys
So good 😂
I mean millennials were eating spoonfuls of cinnamon. I think the moral here is that all teens make questionable decisions.
Millennial and I don’t remember this at all lol
And my baby boomer parents tell me dumb things they did when they were young, so you’re totally right 😂
So we’re Gen z because I made my lil sister lmaooo
I am 100% supportive of the fact that people with kids deserve to go out too especially because I have two of my own, and it is good for children and their behavior development to experience restaurant settings, but there are family friendly restaurants everywhere. In fact, more restaurants are family friendly than not. Shocking but, not everyone enjoys children. Therefore they probably choose quiet, ADULT friendly restaurants to be able to enjoy themselves. Keep your children out of places like these. Respect those boundaries, and take your kids to a freaking Texas roadhouse or something.
He could have split the cost with friends but to call it financial abuse is disgusting.
She should report that card stolen! Saying you didn’t rent a yacht. And it wasn’t you.
Ooooh, love this
We could be at a McDonald’s and I would think you’re crazy for changing a babies diaper on the table lmao
If he could afford to pay her back $500/month then he should’ve been contributing $500/month from the beginning. If he wouldn’t have touched the money and instead keep saving that amount they mightve been close to remodeling
He’s also basically threatening her, like watch it or I’ll say you’re financially abusing me…… Ef that !!!! He’s awful!!!! Absolutely unacceptable!
I love the channel sm, happy to see a full episode in here ♥
Had an ex like the last story, this man-baby was so fragile! He competed with exes of mine in his head and would use coercive language to intimidate me into doing whatever he thought he missed out on(in the bedroom). Definitely not a person worthy of first chances, let alone second chances.
The guy obsessed with her ex sounds like a narcissist
I'll be honest, I don't think kids under the age of 12 should be allowed in a lot of places 😂 mostly because parents don't properly discipline their kids and teach them how to act. And places like airplanes should have designated kid areas. There are kid friendly restaurants, stick to those. And the restaurants that fall in between, again should have separate kid friendly areas. I'm a firm believer in strangers also verbally disciplining other ppls kids in public when it's called for as long as it's within reason. Some of my best learning moments were when a stranger gave me shit for not acting right.
I’m not sure we want strangers thinking they are allowed to parent anyone’s kids 😬 It should be less frowned upon to get an attendant or something to tattle on them so that the patrons don’t have to get into fights 👍 After covid, it seems like there are a lot of ways to keep kids under 12 from annoying others in public like carry out or online grocery pick up or online shopping if their kids can’t behave 😂
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I’ve been listening to you guys non stop since finding ya’ll on TikTok! Fantastic job!
Yay!!!! Lauren is back finally
This podcast is therapy for me
i would love to see both lauren and alejandra !! i saw u guys on tiktok and came here too ❤️
I love Lauren so much. She always has such great insight to give and really stands by how she feels and views certain scenarios. Wish she could be a permanent co-host!
i actually think the opposite 😂 i find her so annoying and most of the time she gives so much leeway to the person in the wrong and just piggybacks off of what morgan says
She is so pretty
The first story: let alone he took money thats not his and then proceed to say she was financial abusing...like heck what? OP run from there, who would spent so much money into a gift that Will not even last a full day?
Best show ever! Just happened to find it a couple weeks ago and I am obsessed
MY COUSIN MARRIED A MAN THAT HAS A FART FETISH. For years I couldn’t figure out why he would high tail it out of the room when one of us would fart. I felt bad thinking I had offended him and tried to apologize and that’s when he told me and my cousin said she knew!
that's so interesting! Is it with people's farts only? I would have so many questions (in a positive way)
@@nolitimere11 I assume it is just with women’s but not 100% certain. I didn’t ask a lot of questions because my cousin was upset about him telling me. Not sure why she was so upset but I have never mentioned it again.
This is really funny and thank you for sharing 😂 That poor guy needing to leave ❤️😂
I love the long conversations about relationships and really trying to see both sides and figuring out who is in the wrong. More interesting than just bashing one sex over the other!
I’ve been at a nice restaurant with my baby on Mother’s Day but he wasn’t an infant and was old enough to have solid food so it made it easier but if my son was freaking out I’d excuse my self outside to calm him down then come back 🤷🏻♀️
As someone in the psychology field the wording choice of the girlfriend in the fart story could be considered a „red flag“ itself. That fact she feels betrayed is completely normal, taking into account possible self esteem issues or mistrust she might have that makes her focus more on the „keeping a secret“ fact than the „fart kink“ fact. To me it seems, that her partner was very ashamed to begin with and now felt safe enough to share what he prefers in the bedroom. Manipulation would be coercing her into farting on him and not taking „no“ for an answer. From a personal perspective, if her reaction is solely based on his confession and no other factors are playing in it would be better to reconsider their values in a relationship. If a „harmless“ kink confession has such a big impact there might be other issues in this relationship that need to be considered and couples counseling could be a good place to start especially before marriage to prevent resentment piling up which could then lead to divorce.
Why didnt he bring it up BEFORE engagement? That is coercion. He waited until AFTER a solid long term promise of marriage. This should have been discussed during or just before engagement conversations- along with most other compatibility conversations. Fetishes are needs- they must be experienced at some level to enjoy sex with anyone. If youre in the psychology field you wiuld understand all of this and know that this is simply a compatibility issue and insecurities aside he could not communicate healthily and with respect to her needs and boundaries and his own until after a significant relationship milestone.
@@breathoffreshair7795you have no idea what you’re talking about holy shit 😂🤡
@@breathoffreshair7795Did you not listen to her immediate reaction being to end the relationship. That proves if he mentioned it ANY TIME prior to engagement she wouldve left him for being "Weird" He didnt do any sort of coehersion because he didnt force her to Fart on him and he immediately accepted that she wouldnt do it. He accepted her decision but she cant accept him Because of his kink that she wont ever have to partake in is weird. You dont make any sense
@@breathoffreshair7795Also fetishes are not a need. The fact they have likely been having sex this whole time prior to being engaged means what your saying is completely and utterly wrong. The story told give every detail to say this isnt manipulative in any way, but him being ashamed of something that would likely end most relationships due to the stigma around fetishes and Kinks
@@dwightsmith1123 yeah- because she realized that he has a sexual need that she wasnt aware of that he couldve long prepared her for. Her being uncomfortable with it before may have not been a deal breaker: she could have just as likely been curious and open to it HOWEVER thats not what happened. She wasnt given a chance to access wether or not shed be comfortable with it because she instead was met with a lack of honesty of needs and then had them pushed on her after a legal marriage. So her discomfort with the idea of it is also paired with the reality that she cant even trust her partner to be honest about needs so much so that they were willing to force her into a legal joining before telling her. Fetishes are a sexual need: kinks are not. Please dont convolute this.
Rosa Mexicana is so good in DC. I love when people mention things I know lmao
Perkins is literally my absolute favorite restaurant! Literally love that you worked there!
3 minutes in and all i can say is that i don't believe in second chances because trust isn't something you can just glue back together once its broken you can try and fix it but the cracks are always going to be there and it will always be more fragile then it was and every little thing starts to blow up because what if your trust is being broken again?
"Farting is my favorite past time!"
Lauren you are the best! 😅
She should rebuke the charges through her bank without telling HIM! 🤣
What is the book about relationships that you reference at the beginning?
It's called "How to Make Love Last" :) I actually have it linked in the video description!!
@@TwoHotTakes Thank you! I love the podcast!
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Husband in the first story definitely just wanted to show off by buying the yacht, like he just wanted to be the big kahuna
As someone who was born in 1999 (Zennial, Older Gen Z), and was in High school/late middle school when the whole tide pod thing happened, umm.... When I asked classmates it's cause someone thought it looked like candy, also there are weirder things Gen Z and Zennials have wanted to eat.
Yeah but that definitely wasn’t just Gen z bc we were still young many millennials were in on it too, I mean they were in high school then so
Bro when I asked people it was because they wanted to die
I’m the same age, and the tide pod thing happened in 2018, meaning you’d either be a senior in HS or in college. It was definitely Gen Z being stupid, albeit most were pretty young. Millennials likely did participate and help spread the challenge on social media, and overall I doubt that many people were actually consuming them. Those who did were mostly younger Gen Zs that did not understand the danger/did not fully understand social media, so I don’t think it’s entirely fair to roast the poor kids. But I know millennials have participated in a wide array of stupid challenges because back in the earlier days of TH-cam (when most viewers/creators were millennials), challenges were a VERY common theme (ie cinnamon challenge, Kylie Jenner lip challenge, the knife game, chubby bunny challenge). Not all of those challenges were harmful, but some were dangerous and also resulted in bodily harm, so ultimately both generations did stupid things as children/adolescents being exposed to social media at a young age.
Lauren is so cute. "after my hard weekend" awwww poor baby i just wanted to give you a hug
I find it so weird when people refuse to fart in front of their bf's or husbands, It's a normal bodly function, and if you really have to fart to the point where you have tummy aches from it i find it so sad that you would have to get to the bathroom just to let it out to be comfortable, specially in your own house. also the facts it's dangerous for our bodies to hold in fart. I farted in front of my bf the first month of being together, now we always joke around and compliment the sound of our farts and give each other high fives, also he's not able to burp so all the air has to get our somewhere and I would be an asshole to force him to keep it in and make him go to the bathroom in his own home.
I totally want a relationship where we are comfortable to do “gross” normal functions around each other, but some people have a relationship where that would be totally fine, but they personally wouldn’t feel comfortable to do so. I agree that you totally don’t want tummy aches from holding in farts. 😂
The gen zs that ate the tide pods were the ones born after 2001 lol
They spent over 10 minutes talking about farts😂
Just wait until the poop episode 😂
@@TwoHotTakes haha omg😂
The one obsessed with the ex is absolutely insecure himself! He blames his gf but what's really happening is that he compares himself to the ex, thinks that the ex is so much more cooler than he is, and doesn't understand how his gf chose him over her ex! And doesn't know how to deal with it!
The Tide Pod was basically kids daring each other to do stupid and dangerous things and because they looked fun to eat
Oh my word I love her 😂😂😂 “ the fact that he HELD IT IN…” I’m dead
Ok so on the topic of baby in restaurant. Lol recently my sister in law and I planned a little double date with our husbands and our youngest babies. (As we are both still nursing them, so they go everywhere with us.) Usually the places we go are pretty child friendly, but this restaurant was pretty fancy. As soon as we walked in, I was like "oh hell naw. ." I will not put all of us here through listening to my baby be his cranky self. Like I knew they came there for a nice quiet meal, and I was just like, id rather cancel the reservation, than be the asshole with a loud baby.
when she said, we're in our 20's or teens 💀 I yelled back at the screen, in mid thirties LOL
Wtf he just likes farts😭 how is that a red flag or manipulative, maybe he was ashamed of that
Just to comment on the Gen Z and Millenial debate, most studies say the cut off is either 1995 or 1996
I can't imagine ever getting a joint account with anyone.
Feel bad for the guy with the kink. My thought is, if you are going to marry someone, chances are one of or both of you will develop new kinks over the years and will want to try them out. So I think her reaction is a bit extreme. But also if they aren't sexually compatable, it's best they know now and I hope she handles it delicately
So in my opinion I think it’s fine to take your kids to a nice place. BUT if the child begins to tantrum or become loud and are not able to be entertained enough at the table to be quiet enough then the parents either need to leave or one of them needs to take the child outside. If you know your child will not be able to stay at a reasonable volume then yes I agree don’t go with them.
The tide pods were literally a meme 💀💀💀👏
“Drops the bomb” broke me omfg 💀
New fav podcast! Amazing content and I love your friendship :) hope your channel just keeps growing ❤️
Yay new episode!!
The book Crucial Conversations is SO good!
First story needs to cancel it herself or dispute it through the bank then drain that account.
I think that the ex and boyfriend situation is that he's insecure and trying to get close to the ex and trying to become like him. That's why he was so close.
i’m sad it took me so long to find out about your channel , but i’m happy i have so many podcasts to binge ! you’re dope , and the people you invite on are dope too!!
How can you marry someone and not fart in front of him. I won’t be able to live with someone if I cannot be as comfortable as if I was alone. 😂
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“With his bowel issues? God no.” Poor Justin 🤣
I believe that the man in the restaurant story spends so much time with his niece that he just changed her at the table by habit because most men's rooms at nice or average restaurants don't have changing tables. People just don't expect men to have a parenting gene in this society
Something to remember with the diaper changing restaurant story is that men's bathrooms don't usually have baby changing stations because of the patriarchy. He still could've just gone to the bathroom tho....
Ahhh freaking love Perkins 🙌 I wish they existed in the south. My last time in Minneapolis I had a Canadian waiter at Perkins laugh at how I said ranch. 😂 I’m from Texas and in my head I was like “don’t sound Texas” it came out the most country hick version I’ve ever heard lmao 🤣
This is why my husband and I agreed to not have a joint account, money seems to always be an argumentative factor in relationships. I have my own account and my husband has his own account. That’s how it should be imo.
I hate farting in front of my bf but when I try going to the restroom it won’t come out so when I go back to the bedroom and lay on the bed they just come out 😭
Morgan 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I laughed too hard at everything you said this episode.
Story 3 wants a child more than he wants his current wife. I think he’s not sharing with her just how important having kids is to him and how much of a dealbreaker it is for him to have children.
The fact fetish thing is kinda sad. Like you're gonna let that ruin your relationship? Like even if I don't enjoy it imma put on a smile and give you your moment once in a while. Sacrifices right? U don't have to let a kink end your relationship this is why guys would rather go the strippers for these experiences thinking they can get their satisfaction without their wives looking at them differently. Sad case
I feel like tide pods have a forbidden fruit type thing going on I still want to eat them but like you know you can’t cause you’ll die but they smell good they seem like that’s taste good🤣🤣
There was this 2nd grader in my sons class who has a TH-cam channel my son asked if he can look... Omg this kid did so many challenges I reported it... He rubbed hand sanitizer in his eyes for blind eye thing and many others that made me sit all my kids down and have a real heart to heart to see what their class mates do etc or say is the cool thing to do.
I feel like there's a strange insecurity around kinks. I know many people with sexual preferences and turn ons... but, I've never met someone so obsessed with their kinks that they would turn it into an irreconcilable difference with a partner they love and are otherwise perfectly happy with. Unless it was paired with an unadressed addiction, or a misalignment in sexual orientation that they've been masking for fear of being abandoned by their family and social circles. Both are sad situations. I understand not wanting to risk getting caught up in that painful mess. But those have nothing to do with the kinks themselves.
I use this analogy a lot, I notice, but here it goes again. Imagine dumping someone, because you found out they've dated a few blonds before... while you're a brunette. Letting the fact that your partner finds somethings attractive that you don't have to offer eat away at all the things you do offer which they love about you. Imagine throwing away a perfectly healthy relationship over such a miniscule insecurity that only seems to bother you, because you can't stop imagining that they'll cheat on you to satisfy that attraction to blond hair. Doesn't that sound a little petty and obsessive? Doesn't that sound like fear that you should talk over with a therapist, a trusted confidant, or your partner rather than alter the entire trajectory of your life with your partner's kink bearing the blame? I don't know. To me, it sounds like another drop in the bucket of societal loneliness and unachievable standards. I think we really need to let go of arbitrary red flags and deal breakers. It's not worth the cost. We get in our own way of happiness way too often.
Side note about the eating tode pods. At least my generation didn't set ourselves on fire in a bathtub as a trend. Or the cinnamon challenege.
I’m a mother of 3 boys older now, but given we didn’t have child care of there was a dinner at a nice place we never would go if we had to bring a kid and never no matter where change a baby at a table!
There was a TH-camr / 90 day fiancé reality star who made $200k or so selling her farts in jars to fans… so apparently that’s more common than we’d think lol.
Regarding the guy being obsessed with his girlfriend's ex, I find it crazyyyy that they had been together for 2 YEARS and that this shit only came up after 2 years... the guy has a serious problem... this is crazy. And when you allow someone like that into your life you never know what else they could do. scary
I wanna choke mister "I spent 2000$ to rent a yacht for my best friend's welcoming party using the money you saved for our home renovation". Not in a good way.
Regarding the middle school teacher husband. He is not an asshole at all, trying to do the right thing by his family and his wife by still keeping to a commitment. I’m a middle school teacher too and we deal with so much shit from kids, if we can take care of and educate your kids too you can deal with a little bit of crying.
Girls you need to get remedial massages. Shoulder impingement - work on trigger points in your pecs and surrounding muscles. You can use a theracane to work on trigger points (don't hold for more than 2 min) and a theragun to loosen the belly of your muscles. And STRETCH!
Between massage and a chiro you should be good.
The show they are talking about at the beginning is My Strange Addiction