5 signs of extreme INFJ males. 1) You have a deep sense of purpose. 2) You have an extreme high level of empathy. 3) You are a very introspective individual. 4) You have Ultra high Intuition. 5) You have the exceptional creativity streak.
As an INFJ male, all mentioned signs in the above video are extremely relatable. ❤ Highly Intuitive Having philosophical mind ( Never accept things at a face value, always dive deeper into everything 💞) Highly introspective ❤ Highly CREATIVE. 😊 Well done Psychology Refresh 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻.
1. I want to connect logical people and emotional people and make them understand each other 2. I spent the last few years on self-development, forgetting about empathy while living alone. That helped me, even though this is exhausting 3. I almost cried when I was hearing about anxiety and perfectionism... 4. My best friend is ISTP and trying to explain my intuitive actions is frustrating... 5. It is frustrating to draw or make music, too many inaccuracies, no concepts and patterns. Still working on that though. I love applying my creativity to programming! That's where I shine
Not for nothing, but INFJ learn differently, in my experience. If you enjoy music and want to create your own, id suggest reading about chord progressions in different styles of music. This is the underlying "pattern" to a song and I think that you'd find yourself intuitively learning music because as an INFJ, once the pattern becomes clear, you'll keep practicing over and over in your head so much, that it will actually translate in to a very quick learning curve. Everyone works differently, even similar people, so I hope this is insightful.
@@TooScentz yeah, I think you're right. I never like to do something before I learn it as a concept. Many people just "try" and "do" the thing. But nah, I can't start before I go through all the tutorials. Bottom line, I have a good eye, and when I do something myself, I get angry because I know what a good thing looks/feels like, but I have no experience. Tutorial hell...
Regarding 4, it's really hard to have people with lower Ni to really see past the here and now or beyond the clear and obvious. ISTPs can be great for us most of the time but trying to get them to see outside the box in the cases of our intuition heavy insights and visions can be insanely frustrating.
As an INFJ, I resonate with much of what this video says. However, I find decision-making agonisingly difficult and painful. I can think about a situation from so many angles, each with its own pros and cons, making it almost impossible to settle on one thing. I change my mind quite violently and frequently and it makes moving forward in life almost impossible at times!
You're an INFJ-T you just need to learn to control and organize your thoughts. After you conquer your chaotic thoughts, you'll advance to being an INFJ-A and you'll experience peace. When I was very young, I didn't like being an INFJ, but once my abilities matured I felt blessed!
I know, relating. I have practiced though by trying decison-making models for a while. Though we are complex as infjs, I found going basic and simple helped me greatly. So, these days I usually do a simple pros & cons on a clean sheet of paper. That made for example my last move to a new apartment easier to do. Before expressing it, and getting it down on paper, I just could not do it. Just my 2 cents, be well, SL
There was much generalization here, most of these are shared by at least 6 personalities and aren't limited to the INFJ. I'm a 71 y.o. INFJ and I possess these characteristics. 1. I'm a human watch. 2. I'm a master at reading body language. 3. I have a a very deep and fertile imagination. 4. I can predict if someone is going to exhibit bad behavior or is a threat to others. 5. I'm highly psychic. 6. I'm claircognizant. 7. Highly intellectual...etc.
The meaning of life, is to learn to love. That's why we are here on earth. Oh yeah, a long time ago, I used to care about people and be a close, understanding friend, but the people either took me for granted, took advantage of me or just didn't care and would never reciprocate. So I quit caring about people, years ago. I'm 100% the kind of INFJ you are talking about in the video, and for all of my life, I have been misunderstood and unappreciated, especially as a writer
Just wanna say , wish we could unite . I have been on this path for many long , knows every traits of an INfJ , knows why, and how we see things around us . I'm 25 , crashed my life during my career choices 5 years ago .....I lost it and was forced to leave my institution course because I was unfelt and lost . Idk, what purpose I have when I look at this very present generation that's stopping me evolve . For now, doing nothing have interest in music production but don't know how to get things done due to my own family health issues I become unfocused . Still, getting on it . Since the human perception is to work and get things done . For me , I freed myself from the beleive that our productivity is equivalent to how productive you can be
Ive always known I was different,iam 39 now .Ive took personality tests about 6 months ago ,iam sigma infj.i was thinking same ,we must have a purpose.ive had a terrible life ,sort of gave up over the past 10 years ,someone told me ive lived many lives ,I ate magic mushrooms and seen are creators,it was like blue electric energy .iam not religious but i spoke to god as mad as that sounds
Since it often gets exhausting being an INFJ, I’ve learned to switch off the heart and activate the brain. This is a skill I’ve built up over a period of about 15-17 years and works splendidly. Upon taking the test in that mode, I’ve repeatedly come out as an INTP which makes sense - to me at least. You? The heart is heavy but the brain higher up.
I like the fact that we can easily attract, easily keep up, and maintain a long-lasting relationship with female ENTPs. They're my favorite tomboys that seems to be in high demand by other males but loves to put us under her wings and boosting our masculinity while emasculating (devil advocates) any male competition that thinks they can tame a foxy wild child woman. They treat us like they just won a winning jackpot lottery. Being the most extroverted of the introverts puts us potentially in their environment from time to time, and as extroverts, ENTP females usually makes the first connection with us in social settings. Something about our presences peaks their interests in us. If a male INFJ wants to earn tons of sigma points, I highly recommend dating at least one female ENTP in your lifetime.
I’m an INFJ female, and I could relate to all of these. I got the impression that this video could just have been about INFJs regardless of gender and it would have still been accurate. I was expecting this video to point out traits of INFJ males that would not be seen as frequently in INFJ females, so I was a little bit disappointed. Maybe I just drew an implication from the video’s title that was not intended 😐
I agree with you that this can apply to both males and females. I am a 67 year old INFJ male and unfortunately I have never met another INFJ male or female as we are all pretty rare individuals. If there truly are diiferences between INFJ males and females it would be interesting hear about them. So take everything he says about an INFJ male as being for both. Enjoy your life it is going to be a roller coaster as an INFJ but will be rewarding.
Dwelling on a negative experience because of being highly intuitive, inability to fully articulate, but I can surely see it clearly in my mind, being empathetic and yet the person I'm trying to help cannot grasp the simple fix to his problem, very introspective and creative. Yeah, I fill the bill. Point on description of me in this vid. But, I would not trade me for any other personality type. No way!
It's too bad those around us don't understand who we really are. A few years ago I looked up what Jesus would have been. Most said he was probably INFJ. I believe he was. Scripture says about Jesus in Isaiah 53 "He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain. Like one from whom people hide their faces he was despised, and we held him in low esteem." Jesus loved others, but he was rejected and familiar with pain/sorrow. Sounds like INFJ to me.
bro, am I the only INFJ male who doesn't identify too much with the "high sense of empathy"? Like, I'm most of my time chilling and doing my stuff... I do have empathy, but I don't think it goes beyond what a normal human would have.
Empathy is one of the big idealist core values that a infj has which drives them to do everything they do for others, it has been the basis of everything I have ever seen and believed my whole life even when subconscious... I'm 42 years old and I'm just now scoring as an infj on a personality test from a therapist who initially told me that my sense of empathy seems to control every decision I make ...
It's possible you are getting addicted to isolation. Do you spend a lot of time alone, because it's easier than carrying the emotional baggage of the people around you?
Is it possible to change my personality from this to any other one,coz my brain is now tired of all this perfectionism, triggering by injustice, self criticism, too much sensitive to very high light, sounds, being everytime thinking 2do something big as "I have only one life",etc all this thought nd drama, I hate it all, i feels so jealous when seeing other who r spending there life so calmy nd simplicity wid not much big goals. I know this personality is rare, but how can we switch into other personality if we're not liking it,is it possible🤔🧿
Why would you want another personality that isn’t who you are? You need to build your mind and learn to cope. You as your fully evolved self is pretty powerful. Many things are out of our control…and that’s okay. We do what we can and we touch the lives we touch.
Like all of us, regardless of personality type, you will mature. As an INFJ, I can offer you this hope: I’ve discovered I love life more the longer I live it. Envy is waste of your time and energy. Develop your own strengths - we all have them.
Wow, you're such a perfectionist that it can be seen in your every word. Your grammar, spelling, and thought cohesion is perfect. 😁 Hey liars are losers btw
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5 signs of extreme INFJ males.
1) You have a deep sense of purpose.
2) You have an extreme high level of empathy.
3) You are a very introspective individual.
4) You have Ultra high Intuition.
5) You have the exceptional creativity streak.
As an INFJ male, all mentioned signs in the above video are extremely relatable. ❤
Highly Intuitive
Having philosophical mind
( Never accept things at a face value, always dive deeper into everything 💞)
Highly introspective ❤
Highly CREATIVE. 😊
Well done Psychology Refresh 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻.
I agree!
I agree with you here 😊
If being rare is valuable, everyone is priceless.
Nope
But not everyone tho
@@itzbuv_sin the Chance of being the Spermien cell to reach the egg is rare enough
@@Hissyfis676 the Chance to be the Sperm to reach the egg is rare enough.
Well said!
As a INFJ male , I always being misunderstood and ignored , it turn out that I always worry to speak out my POV or idea.
What to say even my family also ignored me
1. I want to connect logical people and emotional people and make them understand each other
2. I spent the last few years on self-development, forgetting about empathy while living alone. That helped me, even though this is exhausting
3. I almost cried when I was hearing about anxiety and perfectionism...
4. My best friend is ISTP and trying to explain my intuitive actions is frustrating...
5. It is frustrating to draw or make music, too many inaccuracies, no concepts and patterns. Still working on that though. I love applying my creativity to programming! That's where I shine
Not for nothing, but INFJ learn differently, in my experience. If you enjoy music and want to create your own, id suggest reading about chord progressions in different styles of music. This is the underlying "pattern" to a song and I think that you'd find yourself intuitively learning music because as an INFJ, once the pattern becomes clear, you'll keep practicing over and over in your head so much, that it will actually translate in to a very quick learning curve. Everyone works differently, even similar people, so I hope this is insightful.
@@TooScentz yeah, I think you're right. I never like to do something before I learn it as a concept. Many people just "try" and "do" the thing. But nah, I can't start before I go through all the tutorials. Bottom line, I have a good eye, and when I do something myself, I get angry because I know what a good thing looks/feels like, but I have no experience. Tutorial hell...
Regarding 4, it's really hard to have people with lower Ni to really see past the here and now or beyond the clear and obvious. ISTPs can be great for us most of the time but trying to get them to see outside the box in the cases of our intuition heavy insights and visions can be insanely frustrating.
@@jamessanders145 that's why I'm thinking about befriending/bonding with INTPs, INTJs, ENFPs :)
As an INFJ, I resonate with much of what this video says. However, I find decision-making agonisingly difficult and painful. I can think about a situation from so many angles, each with its own pros and cons, making it almost impossible to settle on one thing. I change my mind quite violently and frequently and it makes moving forward in life almost impossible at times!
You're an INFJ-T you just need to learn to control and organize your thoughts. After you conquer your chaotic thoughts, you'll advance to being an INFJ-A and you'll experience peace. When I was very young, I didn't like being an INFJ, but once my abilities matured I felt blessed!
I know, relating. I have practiced though by trying decison-making models for a while. Though we are complex as infjs, I found going basic and simple helped me greatly. So, these days I usually do a simple pros & cons on a clean sheet of paper. That made for example my last move to a new apartment easier to do. Before expressing it, and getting it down on paper, I just could not do it. Just my 2 cents, be well, SL
Sure dude, watch a lot of these vids huh😄
@@darfoster7773 oh, the MATURED INFJ.... WOW, yeah I saw a video about you... 😄
@@stellar2percent wow, man you are so wise...😆
There was much generalization here, most of these are shared by at least 6 personalities and aren't limited to the INFJ. I'm a 71 y.o. INFJ and I possess these characteristics.
1. I'm a human watch.
2. I'm a master at reading body language.
3. I have a a very deep and fertile imagination.
4. I can predict if someone is going to exhibit bad behavior or is a threat to others.
5. I'm highly psychic.
6. I'm claircognizant.
7. Highly intellectual...etc.
You are most probably an HSP as well.
The meaning of life, is to learn to love. That's why we are here on earth. Oh yeah, a long time ago, I used to care about people and be a close, understanding friend, but the people either took me for granted, took advantage of me or just didn't care and would never reciprocate. So I quit caring about people, years ago. I'm 100% the kind of INFJ you are talking about in the video, and for all of my life, I have been misunderstood and unappreciated, especially as a writer
Just wanna say , wish we could unite . I have been on this path for many long , knows every traits of an INfJ , knows why, and how we see things around us . I'm 25 , crashed my life during my career choices 5 years ago .....I lost it and was forced to leave my institution course because I was unfelt and lost . Idk, what purpose I have when I look at this very present generation that's stopping me evolve . For now, doing nothing have interest in music production but don't know how to get things done due to my own family health issues I become unfocused . Still, getting on it .
Since the human perception is to work and get things done . For me , I freed myself from the beleive that our productivity is equivalent to how productive you can be
I am also an INFJ, kindly contact me
Ive always known I was different,iam 39 now .Ive took personality tests about 6 months ago ,iam sigma infj.i was thinking same ,we must have a purpose.ive had a terrible life ,sort of gave up over the past 10 years ,someone told me ive lived many lives ,I ate magic mushrooms and seen are creators,it was like blue electric energy .iam not religious but i spoke to god as mad as that sounds
Since it often gets exhausting being an INFJ, I’ve learned to switch off the heart and activate the brain. This is a skill I’ve built up over a period of about 15-17 years and works splendidly. Upon taking the test in that mode, I’ve repeatedly come out as an INTP which makes sense - to me at least. You?
The heart is heavy but the brain higher up.
i am so lonely even when i am with others....
Except when life happens and you lose that sense of purpose it's quite shuttering and your life can completely fall apart.
Dark night of the soul… phoenix rising from the ashes.
Hey Psychology Refresh, Please make videos on extreme signs of ENTJ and ENTP females.
A request from 18yrs old INFJ.
LOTS OF LOVE ❤💕💕 from INDIA 🇮🇳.
Great idea!
I definitely am introspective and often second guess myself before just relying on my intuition and settling the debate in my thoughts.
I am a perfectionist but I see it as a positive rather than a disorder. I love looking at my work once completed and noting how good it looks.
I honestly threw away the idea i could be an INFJ male, well....I took the test and...yea.
as INTJ, i can say that all points (even the second one with a stretch) can apply to us too. is that ni-dom brotherhood?
Pretty much
I like the fact that we can easily attract, easily keep up, and maintain a long-lasting relationship with female ENTPs. They're my favorite tomboys that seems to be in high demand by other males but loves to put us under her wings and boosting our masculinity while emasculating (devil advocates) any male competition that thinks they can tame a foxy wild child woman. They treat us like they just won a winning jackpot lottery.
Being the most extroverted of the introverts puts us potentially in their environment from time to time, and as extroverts, ENTP females usually makes the first connection with us in social settings. Something about our presences peaks their interests in us.
If a male INFJ wants to earn tons of sigma points, I highly recommend dating at least one female ENTP in your lifetime.
❤❤My soulmate a relationship i never forget in my intire life
Love this video. Very informative
I’m an INFJ female, and I could relate to all of these. I got the impression that this video could just have been about INFJs regardless of gender and it would have still been accurate. I was expecting this video to point out traits of INFJ males that would not be seen as frequently in INFJ females, so I was a little bit disappointed. Maybe I just drew an implication from the video’s title that was not intended 😐
Bro it’s about males, not about you… you defly ain’t no INFJ
Go look for attention elsewhere you’re like 40 and tryna sneak diss online 💀🤭
@@UNotTrillbro bro low key bro
I agree with you that this can apply to both males and females. I am a 67 year old INFJ male and unfortunately I have never met another INFJ male or female as we are all pretty rare individuals. If there truly are diiferences between INFJ males and females it would be interesting hear about them. So take everything he says about an INFJ male as being for both. Enjoy your life it is going to be a roller coaster as an INFJ but will be rewarding.
@@PLHogan Hilarious and FOS 😄
These are generally true, but different Enneagrams will prioritize these in different orders.
You know me too well! All 5 boxes ticked!
You are FOS😄
Dwelling on a negative experience because of being highly intuitive, inability to fully articulate, but I can surely see it clearly in my mind, being empathetic and yet the person I'm trying to help cannot grasp the simple fix to his problem, very introspective and creative. Yeah, I fill the bill. Point on description of me in this vid. But, I would not trade me for any other personality type. No way!
Thanks for sharing!
SURE you do, thanks for tell us🙄
Interesting content, but could you please edit out the image of the black guy (in a prison jumpsuit [of course]) holding a misspelled word.
INFJ male here. I am very often misunderstood and rejected.
Why is that?
I'll Always Love me Neal Patrick Fry Legends Never Die
Love thy neighbor as thy self.
Honour thy father and thy mother. I was my Precious
Parents caregiver over 21
Years of Love.
I'll Always Love you Little Miss Sunshine.
Love God with all thy heart, mind, and strength.
L i f E
i f
L i E.....then reset thy mindset
🤔
It's too bad those around us don't understand who we really are.
A few years ago I looked up what Jesus would have been. Most said he was probably INFJ.
I believe he was.
Scripture says about Jesus in Isaiah 53
"He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain. Like one from whom people hide their faces he was despised, and we held him in low esteem."
Jesus loved others, but he was rejected and familiar with pain/sorrow.
Sounds like INFJ to me.
You can tell how rare INFJs are just from the comments.... Its a blessing and a curse
lame and meaningless comment😄
Now make 5 Signs Of Extremely Rare ENTJ Males video.
or 🙂
5 Signs Of Extremely Rare INTJ Females video.
I'm also from india
Good idea!
@@itzbuv_sin From which state do you belong to? 🙂
@@zaidhajju2804 West Bengal (kolkata)
@@itzbuv_sin I belong to Maharashtra ( Mumbai)
bro, am I the only INFJ male who doesn't identify too much with the "high sense of empathy"? Like, I'm most of my time chilling and doing my stuff... I do have empathy, but I don't think it goes beyond what a normal human would have.
Empathy is one of the big idealist core values that a infj has which drives them to do everything they do for others, it has been the basis of everything I have ever seen and believed my whole life even when subconscious... I'm 42 years old and I'm just now scoring as an infj on a personality test from a therapist who initially told me that my sense of empathy seems to control every decision I make ...
It's possible you are getting addicted to isolation. Do you spend a lot of time alone, because it's easier than carrying the emotional baggage of the people around you?
bruh....why everything double edged swod?
I hate so much my INFJness
Same
It’s very difficult to be one
힘내요ㆍ인프제를응원해요😊
Robb s self doubt has been cancelled out by G. O. D....🤔
Shout out INFJ's, just don't do it in public, obviously 😂
Is it possible to change my personality from this to any other one,coz my brain is now tired of all this perfectionism, triggering by injustice, self criticism, too much sensitive to very high light, sounds, being everytime thinking 2do something big as "I have only one life",etc all this thought nd drama, I hate it all, i feels so jealous when seeing other who r spending there life so calmy nd simplicity wid not much big goals. I know this personality is rare, but how can we switch into other personality if we're not liking it,is it possible🤔🧿
Why would you want another personality that isn’t who you are? You need to build your mind and learn to cope. You as your fully evolved self is pretty powerful. Many things are out of our control…and that’s okay. We do what we can and we touch the lives we touch.
Like all of us, regardless of personality type, you will mature. As an INFJ, I can offer you this hope: I’ve discovered I love life more the longer I live it. Envy is waste of your time and energy. Develop your own strengths - we all have them.
Wow, you're such a perfectionist that it can be seen in your every word. Your grammar, spelling, and thought cohesion is perfect. 😁 Hey liars are losers btw
@@voyagerone7487 "fully evolved" nice buzzword, which INFJ video did you get that from? 😆
@@1stEarlOfSurrey Everything you wrote says you're FOS😆
Point 1 = not true
INFJ males are indeed very rare, but INTP females are even more rare.
True!
i find intj females to be rarer, ive never met one but i have met an intp female (my aunt)
😔😔😔😔😔😔
INFJs are weird. I know because I am one
WOW, now we all know too 😄
INTP females are even more rare than male males