😂 This is AMERICAN CULTURE, you can't whoop ya kid because you'll get locked up now. When this wasn't the case there were a lot more disciplined PEOPLE in society, not just kids💯
@@HerbertMoore-n1d when I was growing up in Miami Florida the neighbors were allowed to whoop you the beatings my father gave that was child abuse but discipline was allowed
And then it's the people that justify these kids actions too. "well they are just standing up for themselves 🤡" oh yeah so they had to cuss out the teacher, hit them and trash up the classroom? Last time I checked, that means standing your ground when you're RIGHTFULLY wrong. Key word, RIGHTFULLY. These types of kids think they are ALWAYS in the right. Absolutely delusional. No idea how people can sit there and say they are doing right.
Not us white guys, we do most of the work, and take all of the blame. Everything is my fault, even things that happened 309 years ago. It’s such a privilege
We lost it when we failed to instill the fear of discipline on children at an early age. Discipline is NOT abuse. Once a child is in middle school…a child is beyond discipline administered by schools…and most parents.
Yes. But there is a fine line for discipline, dont over-react to a small offense, I am not saying "dont dicipline your children", you should, just dont over do the punishment, i. e. dont hit them with the belt or something for something that doesnt merit anything more than a yelling at or grounding or something.
@@UnpaidInternNo.9472 I agree. I’ve learned that as I’ve gotten older. I used to get wrapped up in petty small things that ultimately didn’t matter. At an early age, if you are taught boundaries…most kids will learn….before age 5. Don’t rely on teachers to do that.
@@HCBierBaron too much harm could literally get you sent to jail because of child abuse or something like that. But what do i know, its not like I read the law over and over to get past it legally or something.
I’m a 20 yr veteran in public education. I taught Spanish high school level and I walked away. I loved teaching but every man has a breaking point. Tik tok, instagram, porn hub, video games ,ect have taken their full attention. Level of disrespect from kids and lack of parenting at home is playing a bigger role than pay which is already a problem. Blaming the lockdown and remote learning is not the full story. Giving young people access to unfiltered online content is a bigger issue. There is no fix in 1 generation. The genie is out of the bottle
I work in a restaurant and a couple of weeks ago we had a party of like 30 mostly kids in our back party room. The kids were jumping on poppers and banging on the booths. The noise was vibrating through the entire restaurant one of my tables got up let them know and then I went to a manager. There was an adult standing at the door doing nothing and adults at the tables doing nothing. When management went in there and told them to stop they did literally 3 sec after management walked out the room they started again and our managers went right back in there. Needless to say they aren’t welcomed back. I was so mad that the parents were doing NOTHING!!!
@@bettysue8671yess all these adults thay never got the help they needed growing up... atleast my generation talks about mental health so we can get help. just lacking proper guidance
@@bettysue8671 what does autism, have to do with it? Maybe it has something to do with people, that blame everything on mental illness. There's a big difference between mental illness and "The TH-cam dude told me I have rights." Get yo head lady.
As a single black father who have raised three kids, ages 20, 21, and 23 with boy in the middle. My son is graduating college in May, and my two daughters never been married or have kids. My advice to them growing up was to not have children if you are not going to be a good parent. Very proud of them as young adults in 2024.
My mother told me at the age of 23 years old, make me proud before you make me a grandmother. I had my first and only child after I graduated college. Fun fact; my mother and I graduated from the same college together sitting side by side.
Of course your children are well behaved they were raised by a man. Majority of the problem with kids these days they were raised by a single mom. Kids need discipline and fathers enforce this, mothers coddle them
As someone who was from Gen Z i'm very sorry for my Generations Behavior and it's not all of us who are like this there's some actual good people from gen Z
I have come to apologize on behalf of gen alpha, I'm truly sorry for my generations actions and I am striving to be different from the rest of my kind.
I’m an English teacher + part time military (not in the US) I’m 26 and became a teacher at 21. I am beyond *GLAD and GRATEFUL* I went through bootcamp and graduated, since now, my discipline during teaching is top knotch. I’m beyond severe, my students tell me all the time, but I have better control in my classrooms than millennial & boomer teachers that have been in this profession for 10-30 years. Don’t let the kids win. They’re kids.
@@xeodarling1777 probably american. boot camp in america means getting your face branded with a iron then wondering why the guy snapped and killed 5 trainiees and nothing happens to the guy who branded him (other than revenge by the cadet who uses his weapon on them) yeah that happened while i was going through that entire group (me included) intentionally washed out and said they would never support the government again. the guy was permanently disfigured and they did nothing so when they handed them rifles a few times after the first he jsut shot the kids said the 3 he shot were simply infront of the dudes who branded him. thats why he said that
My husband works in a juvenile facility. Most of the kids were never disciplined if they had parents. Others have unresolved traumas from being in foster care or having parents that do not want them. Staff is attacked constantly. Broken noses, lost teeth one has lost vision in an eye. They often make up accusations so staff gets more limited and they use this technique to overtake the staff left.
I work in a juvenile facility. I ain’t going though lol. I’ll lose my job before I let someone put their hands on me. It does get tough to deal with though.
THEY ARE NOT "DISCIPLINING THE CHILDREN AT HOME" 🙄 I WAS AN ASSISTANT ON A BUS. THERE WERE MANY HORRIBLE STORIES OF CHILDREN ACTING LIKE WILD ANIMALS. THROWING TRASH ON THE BUS, STANDING UP ON THE BUS WHILE IT'S MOVING, FIGHTING THE BUS DRIVER, DISRESPECTING THE DRIVER, 😤 😮STICKING THEIR ARMS AND BODY PARTS OUT OF THE BUS WINDOWS AND MUCH MORE. 😮😮
I had experience that back in my middle school days in 2008! I had classmates who would did the same thing you just said. Disrespecting the bus driver and had fist fighting while the bus is moving. Horrible experience 🙅🏾♂️
@@jlwjr87 that’s what we need to bring back into the black community. Butt whooping on children so they can have discipline and learn how to behave better cuz these younger kids in this generation are very disrespectful towards adults.
@@jlwjr87 but nowadays that's seen as abuse and you're ruining their mental health. People now don't have enough brain cells to know the difference between an abusive parent vs a parent that's disciplining their child and giving them a taste of their own medicine. I got hit as a child and that shit taught what to do and what not to do. The difference is, my mom didn't have any malicious intentions when she hit me, I was doing some stupid shit and I got punished rightfully so. Of course she still talked to me about what was wrong and what was right, but I've done some stuff where talking wasn't in the question. That's the problem these people aren't understanding. If you aren't cool with your parents because they hit you because of an action you caused that was dumb? You're honestly just weak minded 😐. if they are BEATING you then I totally understand but if they aren't and they are disciplining you then what's the problem?? Sometimes sticking that fear in them is good because that will make them think twice. They aren't gonna be some dysfunctional people to society 😐. Most of this generation is just weak. I'm gen Z and I'm saying this. Again, unless your parents are BEATING you, then there's literally nothing wrong with it. Look how far that "just talk to them" is getting these kids.
Why have kids if the adults aren’t going to take care of them? This is so depressing. I used to teach summer school lessons, and kindergartners didn’t know what fairytales were like Hansel & Gretel, 3 Little Pigs, etc. They don’t know anything anymore🤦🏾♀️ it’s rare to find children who are living imaginative childhoods with ambitions
@onna420 there are so many birth control options now, if someone chooses to have a child they wanted to or didn't care enough about preventing it when they're not ready
When I see a person of any age all messed up (especially fatherless and oops babies) and see the parent with the ideology of being owed, it’s baffling.
Back in middle school our math teacher was ex-marine and he ran his classroom so well. He genuinely cared about us learning, but did NOT tolerate any distractions or disrespect. We had his class before lunch, so if we weren't listening he'd keep us sitting there until we finally were quiet. Told us that we were cutting into our own lunch time. When i told my mom about it she said "then tell your classmates to shut up and you guys can get to lunch on time." She knew what he was doing wasn't torture, but showing us to listen. To this day he was one of my favorite teachers.
We need to separate boys and girls, in public schools Let the male Marines teach the boys Girls..should be taught by women who are no nonsense..but how to be ladies
The problem odd these kids today won’t go for ANY kind of discipline. It’s like there’s no hope for them and definitely starts at home, parents believe their kids are angels who do no wrong so they never discipline
Its the Department of Children Family Service fault. They placed in these children's head that if the parents even try to discipline them they can go to jail. My children's father was removed from our household because dcfs stated he used extreme discipline towards our son and was not fit to be in the home no matter how disrespectful our son was. And thus the beginning of our family colaspe!
I was born in 1996 and even though I did not like some of my teachers and a few I thought were racist who shouldn't be teaching children of color; I would never do most of if any of this!
So by your reasoning, white students should ONLY have white teachers. Is that correct? After all, black teachers know NOTHING about whites. Am I correct?
I have an 11 yr old and she is a sweetie...now that she's going into 6th grade the bullying has started. I'm praying she doesn't lose her light and become drained by all the darkness. Teachers there are still a few good ones out there❤❤
I have an 11yr old brother. The rest of my siblings and me are in our 20s (and our oldest bro in his 30s). Covid messed these kids up honestly..middle school for me was like 10 years ago and things were already going downhill. I cant imagine what it's like now.
YEP!! The bullying started with me around 11 years old. You are going to have to teach her how to stand up for .... AND DEFEND HERSELF!! If that means martial arts? Then so be it. I was bullied almost my whole younger years. All the way up through to 11th grade. Listening to my mom tell me to go tell the teacher all those years and all that CRAP only made it worse, cause it made me look like weak easy prey to all the bullies. One day I just got tired of it. I just got tired. The bullying didn't stop until I FINALLY started using my fist!!! Yeah I got in trouble a few times. But the bullying STOPPED!! If you dont want the "Darkness" to set in and drain your daughter? CAUSE IT WILL. Then you are going to have to teach her to defend herself. Point Blank period!! Bullies don't care. And wont stop unless you MAKE them stop. They MUST respect you or it will continue until the end of time.
Nah if they won't pay attention to their own child then they won't listen to a video that tells them about paying attention to children. They're aren't fit to be parents.
@@miraclewiley7126 No. Schools don't like to suspend students because that puts them on the radar for excessive suspensions. So, they keep the kids in school. That's one of the reasons teachers are leaving.
The screens for kids aren't the problem, but rather it's the lack of parental engagement *while using* the screens. Parental engagement in general, screen or not.
I remember back in 1980’ I was acting a fool at school and my mother came up there and whooped my azz in the bathroom where everyone heard me yelling. After that, I never acted up in school again. My mother didn’t play about my education.
I had to do it to my Virgo son in 06-07, he's always been my trouble child, he's the baby but not spoiled! I talked, taught, punished, whooped, got therapy to no avail! I realized he's just deliberately disobedient, but I still had rules and didn't reward bad behavior under no circumstances. He's been suspended, expelled and been to detention center. And he just got out of rehab/jail, same bs! They need prayer and paddling back in school! As a parent I tried!💯🙏
@@faythnhim3863 As parents we do our best. I didn’t get that concept when my mother would tell me that. But when I became a parent I understood what she was saying. I have a 25 year old with autism; imagine that. He’s is a bit defiant but a good young man. He doesn’t listen, maybe because I spared the rod and spoiled the child. Nonetheless, we as parents try our best to give our children love and support, nurture, and nature it’s up to them to receive it in a way that flourishes their lives. If that makes sense.
I don’t understand why teachers are forced to buy student supplies. Get the parents to do it. Actually care about and invest in YOUR child’s development.
@@eb1042 easier for one parent to spend $20-50 on school supplies. Teachers would have to spend hundreds because they have at least over 75 students. If you wouldn’t spend that kind of money for so many people, then you shouldn’t dump that onto teachers. Supplies don’t have to be expensive. Go to Walmart and dollar store. Shop on clearance and sales. If you didn’t get your check, you can use a credit card(or just save cash). Let your kids share hand me down supplies from siblings and/or neighbors. Coupons help. There is no excuse. For clothing and coats, can even get thrift store clothing. There are shelters, campuses, and centers that give free coats, gloves, hats, etc. It can be tough, but there is almost always a solution to the, problem. If a parent cares, they will try. Especially if they don’t work over 10-12 hours a day. Do not be surprised when the children don’t invest in parents as they, age. Parental neglect/apathy has consequences.
this is a generation where we are afraid to discipline kids due to facing harsh backlash from non-mothers, family members, and even strangers. u discipline your child your considered an abuser. it can make you feel guilty to the point where these parents don't even wanna discipline their kids anymore.
You do not need to hit your children. If I did not obey in a store my Mom just waited until we got home and I ended jp in my room until the next day except for meal and to got to the bathroom. Back then there was no phone, TV, stereo etc. Basically 90% of the time you went outside to play and went to your room to have some quite space or go to bed. I did not sit well so for me to be in my room for hours was not fun.
I think some parents are afraid of their kids, and others are trying too hard to relate to them and live vicariously through them. Many Parents today also have no morals or values, and money is all they crave. It's disgusting. I was a disciplinarian. Spanked my son maybe twice in elementary school for confusing me with the wrong person. I talked more- explaining things and teaching him, especially through my actions. His father did the exact opposite of me. It didn't work out well for him or them 😬. My son praises me for how I raised him. We're best friends but his respect for me and others is honorable. Incredible, intelligent, wise, and acts like a real man... A 19-year-old who knows himself and his future and does not relate to his generation at all. Parenting takes selflessness, emotional intelligence, intentionality, love, and Jesus! 🙌🏽
@@JAM661 spanking works much quicker and leaves a lasting impression. Your mother just waited for you to stop acting like an ass. She quite literally ignored you until you followed her. That's the fucking problem. You discipline them and get them to act right. You just explained exactly what the video is going over. Your mom ignored you being an ass.
I was a teacher for almost 9 years... I was assaulted and injured badly by a 5 y.o. This stuff has been going on since 2005... Teachers are being beaten, mamed and in some cases they don't tell you that teachers get fatally hurt. Its shameful... Go to the Philadelphia Inquirer and search for article around 2006 thru 2011. The newspaper had it on the front cover of a teacher who was pushed down 3 flights of concrete stairs and broke his neck... I feel these are the last days of true humanity. Thank you😑😇
Part of the problem is so many teachers with bad attitudes who treat kids poorly and set a bad example. When kid's can see at 9-10 years old that their teacher doesn't even put in the effort they expect from students, why should they put in that effort? Most teachers try to BS their grading as much as possible. I had ONE English teacher who actually graded essays and wrote notes beyond just a number at the top of the page. My math teachers never graded homework, they just gave us the answers to check our work in class while they sat there. I had one teacher who just checked the answer of 1 problem on everyone's homework. Teachers have accountability too because MOST teachers don't put full effort into their job, and kids notice that right away and lose respect for you instantly. I literally had to start a petition my sophomore year because our chemistry teacher was sabotaging our grades. I work with kids for a living and if you want their respect, you need to treat them with respect and show that you put in maximum effort. You're not going to reach every kid, but you can make a big difference with the right effort. I'm not trying to take any accountability away from parents because there are so many bad examples out there, but to say that teachers are these poor victims with no power is shortsighted. One of the strongest unions in the country is the teacher's union. They also get 3 months off for summer, which no one in any other regular job gets. Parents are definitely at blame, but we can't pretend like most teachers are these virtuous, hard working saints who do no wrong.
As someone who was raised right but went to inner city public school I just could never understand how my classmates could give good teachers a hard time. Actually felt bad for some of them.
Had kids in my classes who actually thought p1ssing off the teachers to the point they're yelling at the entire class was "funny". Especially during Spanish, French,, Italian,, and English class.
I left the lab field to try a different field. So I substituted students. BOY! That was so SHORT-LIVED I didn't even realize I even LEFT the lab field! I RAN back to my lab profession and have NEVER been so HAPPY!😊
I saw this 25 years ago in my child's class. He went to that school one year & I moved to another city just to get my child out of that school district. The principal did nothing when teachers complained about a child. Many parents don't care. We need more Joe Clarks from the movie Lean on me. I believe in discipline. I told my children if u call 911 on me u better not be here when I get back. My husband who's a retired teacher loved teaching. But he didn't have time to babysit. Many of the city & state leaders were his students. Even some West Point Grads were his students. He had the backing of a good principal who believed in discipline. I refuse to raise undisciplined uneducated children.
@@rCherithChronicles I know of parents being jailed for physically abusing their children, but not for disciplining them. I discipline. I do not whip or beat or treat a child like slaves were treated. Not once has anyone called me to bail out my child from the police station. Not once has his soccer coach said my kid had a bad attitude. It's been the opposite - they tell me he has a wonderful attitude and that he supports and encourages his teammates. His youth teen church teachers love him and mention how well he treats others, and how well behaved he is. I really wish people would make the effort to train, teach, and disciple (yes, I meant to use that word disciple) kids, help them form good Godly character, and create an enviroment in the home that is good for a child's Christian and moral development. It takes way more effort to do this than play the game of I'm bigger than you are so do what I say or I'll hurt you. But it's more than worth the effort. It has taken work and sacrifice to train this child up in the way he should go, but I'm already seeing the payoff. This young teenager brings joy, not shame, to me and to our family name.
@@lovevioletflowers3442 my children never needed bailing out of jail either. Both of my children are very independent & are making their way in this world. They know it takes discipline to get up & go to work everyday. Some children have no discipline & no education to make it in this world. So they steal & try to live off of other ppl.
This is why I got out of the profession. I spent more time and energy dealing with social and discipline issues than actual teaching. Sadly, many schools are just daycare centers for older kids.
teachers are babysitters for mental patients. Sad thing is parent have to work three jobs just to pay for their kids and half their income is ripped away from them by the state. Combined we the fem'isms which cut the wages down in half again. No wonder why the quality has gone down.
Have y’all seen that video recently of the guy smacking the teacher because she took his vape pen? What is a kid doing with a vape pen in school for? We would never hit a teacher
@@guillaumecollins548or that video of all the migrants in France trashing the classroom and screaming and hitting each other while the teacher stand there helplessly… then they throw a chair
Us early to mid 90s babies that grew up and was born are not like anything from this newer generation. I am in college for accounting, worked as a Pharmacy Technician, wrote a children’s book and more! I just turned 28 with my own house, car, and education. No kids at all. I paint and stay home. It’s these new kids that are doomed
I am now 33 and some of this was going on when I was in school with home abuse and the teachers did nothing to help. I used to be told but you have only one mom but, seeing my mom was no good to me. I am saying this because it does go both ways to raising kids. So if it doesn't start at home it for sure will be bad by the time school starts. I had a surrogate mother growing up that helped me become a better person. So it really does take a village to raise a kid. I never had a phone 📱 until I was 18 and I bought it myself. Technically wasn't a thing for me until I could get it myself.
This is so sad.I use to work in the school system and alot of these kids have no discipline.Teachers have to come out of pocket for supplies.Alot of these parents dont want to take responsibility for their kids behavior.Sad and a disgrace.
@cierrawashington8596 teachers are losing passion because they work in a system that doesn't support them, but would rather protect itself and hand wave poor student behavior. Curriculum isn't always gonna be "exciting and engaging", but these children need to get this basic education regardless.
I tried to bring this up on another channel. Everyone tried to tell me that I was wrong, old and out of touch. One person even said that kids are the same and haven't changed. Then came the insults. It was pathetic.
They're the problem. No one wants to take accountability. They need the fear of consequences. God needs to be a forefront for all. They don't have the fear of God in them.. 😢
Okay but wouldn't that already be the most common age for homelessness tho considering that that's the age that we're in college on our grind having to spend lots of money to survive before having a real career
As someone born in 2000, I believe kids shouldn't have a smart phone untill age 16 or up. I never owned a phone or video game system untill At 16 I got my first job and bought a phone plan and bought my first game systems, a DS lite and a GameCube.
I grew up in the 80's and 90's and my mother would come up to school and sit in my class in a heartbeat if I was acting up. I'm 42 and to this day I'm still scared of my mother. I have not once cursed in front of her, I got PTSD from my mother popping me in the mouth 🤣! Even though my mother couldn't hurt me physically, she still has some type of mental power over me that still has me scared of her and then I knew that I had to deal with my stepfather when she was done with me and that's where the real pain came in! I thank God for the way I was brought up.
The youth these days have to much access to things internet, phones, they don't get out playing video games, my kids grew up in the 70's and 80's they rode bikes play hide and seek kick ball these kids now do whatever they want parents not giving no guidance
I have a 16-year-old nephew, and he's been dying to get out of high school. He's only has two more years until he graduates.... All he wants to do is get a job and get out of high school. He says it's the worst all teens ever do is fight with each other at school. He just sits at school listening to his music until the end of the day
I was in school from fall 97 to spring of 2010, and i remember my parents directly let me know that every teacher and basically all school employees had authority over me and therefore if i crossed them without running my issue by them(parents) first, that they would beat my ass and ground me. Clearly things have changed lol but thats because most kids today come from teenage couples and more often than not from single mothers. Alot of these teen parents or single moms try to be friend-parents instead of real parents.
What are we doing to these kids? After graduating uni, I began working in a high school in Belgium. By the end of the year I was crying every single day when I walked back home. One of the children, who was ALREADY ON TRIAL BUT STILL ALLOWED IN THE SCHOOL beat up another student during one of my class. Most teachers were afraid of that student, they didn't feel safe when he got angry and took it out on us. Truth is, there's nothing teachers can do to make things better because every time they try to, they're being ignored by the school direction who is, in turn, scared of the parents. I quit that school and left the country, swearing never to teach in Belgium again, even if that meant being away from my family and losing most of my friends. I now work in Hungary, where parental education is stricter, and the students are so much more respectful here and I absolutely love teaching here.
@@rCherithChroniclesThe kids in China are even worse because most family have only one child so they tend to be very spoiled. In fact on guy who from South America and taught in China and now here say how much better the kid are in the USA. I think it really depends on where you are but parent on a whole need to complain more and demand that kids that act out get punished. It is not fair for the other kids who want to learn. When I was growing up and you were a problem they just sent you to reform school. I do not remember anyone being sent, because I do not remember anyone not behaving.
It definitely starts at home. I remember fighting in 3rd grade, I still got in trouble with my parents. But I learned from that there are consequences and knew I could get in trouble regardless. If I didn't work video games were taken away. Couldn't go outside to play unless I finished it. Some days I just didn't get to go outside. I learned a lot from coming up. These days I'm not sure that's happening enough.
Its crazy how things changed I used to be scared of getting in trouble now people in my grade don't even care and I'm a gen Z myself I kinda hate that we need more discipline
Seeing this happening globally and the only people at fault is the parents. Just because you got a child doesn't mean you're a parent. Too many people having kids and are completely inactive in their children's lives despite being in the same house as them.
There are two types of kids : spoiled and entitled. And sometimes three types : both spoiled AND entitled. Wait - what's that I hear overhead ? A helicopter ? Must be a parent about to plunge through my roof to sue me for defaming their progeny. 😂
If a child is causing harm to others, that child should be banned from all schools and their parents should be made to home school them. No one should have to put up with a disrespectful child!
How do you force people to homeschool? Homeschooling is harder than sending kids to school. If parents aren't effective with their kids at home, homeschooling will be a disaster. I homeschooled my kids. I'm glad I did. It was expensive and self-sacrificing. My kids are great citizens and college grads working on advanced degrees. I worked part time and I am married.
Ultimately, the generations prior to us failed to be parents, and they failed to understand that they couldn’t conform us to the trauma that they and our grandparents faced, truth is y’all were not fit to be parents and now that it shows everyone wants to point the fingers at everyone but the ones who had a significant part.
@@Zpaphandlerrrbingo but gen x will never admit it 🙄 the baby boomers and silent Generation were fine because technology wasn’t advancing as fast as it did by the time millennials were born. Back then parents could blame their kids and no one would question it…lots of gen x grew up being blamed and think if it worked for their parents it will work for them haha not now
My nephew is the same exact way!! he spends all day on the tablet & throws a tantrum when he loses on a game, & my brother cant even stop what he's done, he has no respect for teachers whatsoever, this is real actual facts!!!💯✅
My nephew will play a mario kart game with someone or with the bots and throw a fit and cry because he didn't get first place. EVEN WHEN GOING AGAINST BOTS.
fake school is boring (and I have uhh shaky hands) and pls don’t play games that don’t make u rage those are the games that makes kids cope with shaky hands or depression (hope this helps😊😊)
He’s addicted to it. It affects the brain the same as alcohol and cocaine. His dopamine system is being messed up. Take the tablet and many issues will be resolved.
As a father of a 5. 4. And 3 yr old. This has actually taught me or made me think rather that when my middle son screams for a phone to watch I need to engage with him and start a conversation or play I spy or something anything but give up my phone. I am guilty of just handing over a tablet or phone and never thought of the consequences.. I will be a better father by incorporating that one little sentence most likely missed in this video. Thanks brother, appreciate you.
I have go way in the mid 80’s for this story: when there were talk shows on every channel. A white talk show host asked Mr. T about this very subject. He said “ when I was in school I heard kids say, I’m not going to treat MY kids like my parents treated me, I’m going to let them do what they want”. Mr. T concluded by saying” this is exactly what we have, kids doing what they want to do”
And I think the people in the 80's who said "I’m not going to treat my kids like my parents treated me" went ahead and had kids too fast before they could grow up and realize that their parents were actually giving them a taste of life in this world. Can't speak for everyone as not all parents are good role models but you get what I'm saying.
@@mariojellyrideselevators6087 maybe that’s contributing to the problem. Too many parents and educators give into the narratives of trying to entertain instead of educating. I can understand if it’s elementary school, but by the time they’re in H S not so much.
Thank God my children's was born in the 80's, this world 🌎 is bad and some parents don't 😮😮😮 STOP TRY BE YOUR CHILDREN'S FRIEND, me as a mother I didn't play that , I'm a OG I'm a Genx
Early Gen Z here with Gen X parents (R.I.P. Mama), we're the final frontier of the Old School and the last people to grow up in the Analog Era. One thing I can vouch for, Gen X did it right.
When a teacher tells me something about one of my sons, I always believe them. I know my sons! But I’ll there is another child involved, that’s where things get blurred
Yesss but also be sure to talk with your sons and make sure to come off as they can be honest without getting in trouble or raising your voice if you dont do that already talking with your children is key because theyre humans who have emotions as well and they dont know how to deal with their emotions as welll as adults do:)
Both my parents worked and I was still well behaved. It’s just about parents trying. They’d rather be otp all day after work than actually make sure their children can get ahead in life
I am an AP, I got written up for telling parents they need to parent and it’s now the school job to teach respect and moral behavior. I don’t tolerate disrespect from parents or students yet to them I am wrong for holding them accountable.
Yo, local 10 year old here. I’m really disappointed in my generation and sad that I’m in it. I’m really mature for my age and actually know that this stuff is really bad for my generation, I know how to read and write correctly, I sometimes relate to Gen Z nostalgia and when I ask my friends if they remember or have heard of that thing before they just say “ nope never heard of it” at this point I’m really scared of what it’s going to be like in the future, I can still control my emotions and seeing kids rage like this when their about 5-13 years old when they get their phone/tablet away and I’m just really concerned and worried about what the parents of these children are doing. I’m also really worried of what these children today are going to look like in 10-20 years in the future, are they just gonna have no respect for anybody they meet?!?! It’s seriously getting worse and worse and I’m getting more worried about these children in the future in every video that I watch about this topic. Have a good day everyone🩷
You clearly have a good head on your shoulders. It’s not easy to stand on your convictions, but it’s the best way to be. Stay open minded, true to yourself in an unselfish manner and try to help in ways that don’t put you at risk. There are so many kids and young adults who do not like the direction things are going right now…and you all are our biggest hope!! Stay curious and pursue dialogue. I’m also hoping you’re doing okay! ✌🏼❤️
You remind me of myself 11 years ago. Lemme tell you, don't listen to anyone who hasn't earned the right to be heard. The masses are ignorant, and a thousand people will do the same thing trying to imitate one good idea. Truth is kid, you will never know where you'll end up in life. The best you can do right now is excel wherever you are at the moment. Keep increasing your knowledge and genuinely try at everything. The wrong crowd can and will screw you over. Whether It's psychological, emotional, or physical. Keep at it, keep working, and most importantly be a good person. Of the many things I regret in life, I regret not being a better person and helping others before it was too late. Oftentimes, it really does take one special moment to make others believe again
@RinnieButterfly That's the beauty of words. One doesn't have to be addressed for it to mean something. The value in words, like all things, is beholdend to the eyes and ears of those who find meaning in them. I'm glad you appreciated my comment. When enough people believe in strong strings of thought, ropes will form. Strong enough to build a foundation for yourself or the next generation
Former kindergarten teacher here: I had a 4yo who was prone to unprovoked violent tantrums where he demolished materials and furniture and attacked other kids. During one of his particularly bad tantrums, he flipped over an art table where little girls were making art and started throwing chairs at other kids. I took the kid's arm and sat him in a chair. He tried running out of the classroom and biting and kicking me when I caught him. I sat him back in the chair and used my hand over his hand to keep him seated until the maintenance guy heard all the commotion and took the kid off my hands for a few hours (which was weirdly allowed by the school). Instead of receiving more support for this clearly troubled kid, I was reprimanded for "restraining" the child and I was told that I should have, "Evacuated the (other) kids to the hall and let him tire himself out." I.e. Destroy the classroom further. I quit teaching forever not long after that.
Parents are plenty able to discipline their children. Parents cannot abuse them or whip them like they are slaves, but they can certainly discipline their children. I do, and I'm a parent. There are no laws that have kept me from doing what I need to do. I have an orderly house with an orderly, polite, well behaved kid who performs well above grade level. He is a pleasure to have around. He knows that yes means yes, no means no, and that I better not have to tell him to do something twice. He knows that when I get home from work, the kitchen better be clean and I better not find a sink full of dishes. I'd better find dishes done, homework completed, and his task list needs to be completed. And he knows that I have lots of hugs and encouragement for him, and that on my days off, we will go to museums, bike riding, swimming, play soccer, and will do other things that a kid wants and needs to do. The problem isn't that parents are unable to discipline their children. Parents CAN discipline their children. The problem is that parents often choose not to discipline their parents and they let them watch anything and everything on the internet via their cell phones. The children then learn to copy off the trash behaviors they see on the internet, and they copy trash behaviors they get from their peers, and the parents don't say anything. That is what causes problems.
This is sad and terrifying but true. Not just in schools, even in restaurants where juveniles work. The disrespect, the lack of compassion and accountability in this generation is mind-blowing. Every little thing theyre ready to go off and verbally or physically attack anyone and everyone smh
My mother is a 59 y/o 2nd grade teacher who is retiring 1 year early b/c she has been bitten and punched by several students this year. In my day we had shoolyard fights w/ bullies. Now they attack their teacher b/c they get away with it. Parents should homeschool their rotten children YOU deal with your kids.
These parents can't homeschool ANYONE, if the kids are this bad Also, the legalized THC it's another problem The psychosis and paranoia are real with many
I'm being real as a child in a school like this. I was raised by my mom; if we were acting up my mom had no hesitation to send me and my brother to my grandparents who would make us work our asses off just to behave. I am a well behaved child and I'm mad that my education is being thrown out the window because there is someone interrupting the class.
Yep. I am a high school English teacher. I was forced to change failing scores to 70 due to the rule that we can not fail more than 15% of students. ...not due to their abilities. We have 17 year olds that can not read 1 sentence out loud, but they are given cars and bailed out of trouble consistently.
My son is 7 and he taught himself how to read at 2 and a half! My daughter 10yrs, is the top reader in the school! I'm very proud of them and hope and pray they continue to grow and thrive with education❤
I use to take my kids to the restaurant and a few times, the stares you could feel them. The grandmas use to come to my table and ask, how do you do that, do what? The children, if these were my grandkids they’d be screaming and running and crying all over the restaurant. I prepared to stop working outside the house in order to care for, and teach my children since I had no family to lean on. It really does start at home yall, so they will understand before or by age two to learn how to behave. I started at about 6 months talking to them, yes, No, pointing and talking, what they cannot touch. They really understand much more than they can communicate verbally, but they watch your face, mouth, expressions, feelings, and can learn. I taught the alphabet, colors, numbers, counting all before preschool, they can do it. All of them reading above level at kindergarten.
Thank goodness I’ve didn’t major in early childhood education for my bachelors degree. You’re absolutely right, teachers don’t get paid enough. That’s why teachers are quitting at such an alarming rate, because children are disrespectful, disruptive, out of control, constantly fighting their classmates and teachers. And the list goes on and on in the educational system. There is no point of attending college in early childhood for your bachelors degree or masters degree, because the pay is so low for all the amount of work that teachers have to do. Also, I blame the parents for giving their children an iPad at such a young age. No wonder these kids have terrible attention spans, can’t read, can’t write, don’t know basic math skills, and even lacking on language skills, especially with young children.
When my son acted up I went old school and stat in class with him. Plus I told the school if he was still hanging with the kids that were a bad influence, I was gonna come down on him so hard
Both my parents worked and i could never imagine disrespecting my teachers while i was younger especially since my mother was a teacher herself still is and im glad she pulled through all the disrespect these new kids have thrown at her
About the prinipal observation thing at the begining HOW can that principal have the nerve to badmark the teacher for not breaking up the fight when THE PRINCIPAL was not only IN THEIR ROOM but also didn't do anything?!?! ALSO ALSO it shouldn't BE a teachers job to break up a fight, especially when your only a few inches taller, or AS TALL AS the students who are fighting. Bruh what was the principal smoking that day? I swear the principal would've put like "leaveing kids alone in classroom" if the teacher went to break up the fight smh.
I feel like a big part of this also comes from the pandemic. With lockdown being so extreme, I feel like a lot of people turned to their screen honestly lol my daughter will be two in august and I vow to raise her to be okay with boredom and not needing to give her a screen whenever she’s upset 💯
I was born in 1955, and, and am 69. I'm glad that we didn't have internet and phones. We used to play outside, ride our bikes, and communicate with each other. Violence was never an issue. Children need to learn to deal with obstacles and real life situations in order to grow. They have to engage with the world, but it's difficult to learn self-discipline when an ipad or a tv is constantly in their faces. They never learn critical thinking skills or how to use their imaginations and creativity. I've always had a lot of respect for teachers because they are responsible for creating and shaping young minds into responsible adults. Unfortunately, the digital age has taken over children's minds. They will easily slip into the world of AI
That's what it is bro, you hit it dead on, these cellphones & tablets are they manipulating distractions. they be having so much fun on it, that school gets really boring & uninterested for them 💯
The AI is to replace them in the workforce since they won't have the capacity to run the show when we're gone... Not with their intellect. The majority of kids are being passed even though they aren't at grade level... this will be a disaster once they grow up and enter the real world
@@atk_genoright and I hate how they make her the forefront of this. like sexyredd didn’t have all these kids, it’s the parent fault that they’re not monitoring what their child consume.
@@puppycat.. not just parents teachers are also playing the songs and having the kids dancing classrooms in elementary school. Have you seen those videos? Skee- eeeeee ⛷️
This is the most poignant fact based exposé I’ve seen pertaining to the current state of affairs in our kids’ educational systems. I’ve witnessed this firsthand at my son’s high school where fights would break out & even though the school employees security personnel, none of the adults were willing to intervene beyond a verbal request to “Break it up!” bcz they are worried that if they attempt to physically break up a fight, they (the adults) will likely face lawsuits, administrative leave and/or repercussions from law enforcement. The hands of the staff are being tied, rendering them ineffective in trying to mete out discipline or enforce decorum. It’s actually so super sad bcz it’s so super true!!! 🤦🏽♂️
I'm a homeschooler. Cursive writing, debate, public speaking, critical thinking, and bible are just as much a part of our curriculum as chemistry, physics, geometry, algebra 2, rhetoric, composition, geography, social studies, economics, personal finance, and other things that kids should learn. And whether or not one is a homeschooler, the fact that the school doesn't teach cursive writing doesn't mean the parents shouldn't teach it.
Many of us aren’t afraid of disciplining our children, many of us ARENT SUPPORTED IN OUR DISCIPLINE!!!!!! Stop encouraging these kids to call DCFS every time they’re not given what they WANT.
WOW! I didnt know things had gotten that bad. School children are supposed to be our next generation of problem solvers. I wanted to be a school teacher but i didnt want a job where i had to do more work ad attend more meetings after the school day was over.
I wonder how many of these issues are due to broken homes. My father has Joint custody with my half sister and her mother and whenever she acts up my Father won’t find out from anyone until weeks sometimes months later.
"Spare the rod spoil the child" exists for a reason. Children that grow up without discipline think they can do whatever they want with 0 consequences. I was spanked when I was a kid, and I turned out just fine. I thank my Father and my Grandma for disciplining me. There's a difference between discipline and abuse.
Even then with the rod it might not do NOTHIN, never got spanked but stayed very damn respectful, I aint know how the hell some of my generation is so wrought to the point that even with discipline, they still continue.
-It looks like the black & white 1955 h.s. movie 'The Blackboard Jungle' was a prophecy of more juvenile delinquents to come, throughout the rest of the 50s & then the following decades. Today it's multiplied x10, or more.
@annwilliams2896, this world is ending sooner than anyone can imagine. Everything that is taking place, happening in the world today is written in the Bible. More people than not are unsaved people, living in darkness. Those who believe in Christ and are saved, set apart and living according to what the God of the Bible has commanded and instructed are the only ones who knows that we are living in the last hours of the last days. Non believers of Christ are doomed. If you sit down and read chapter Matthew the entire chapter 24, it'll tell all that is happening is true.
@@marilynclarke6092 Luke 21, Mark 13, The entire book of Revelations, Ezekiel 38 , Daniel and study the minor prophets. We are in the last days for sure.
Our youth needs guidance and discipline before it's too late, drop a like and share this video with any parent to help spread the message! 🙏🏾
😂 This is AMERICAN CULTURE, you can't whoop ya kid because you'll get locked up now. When this wasn't the case there were a lot more disciplined PEOPLE in society, not just kids💯
@@HerbertMoore-n1d when I was growing up in Miami Florida the neighbors were allowed to whoop you the beatings my father gave that was child abuse but discipline was allowed
🤝🙏🏿
What happened to Scared Straight Program?
And spanking?
We used to be scared of our teachers if not the teachers the parents because they’d called the parents. Wtf going on now? 😕
So True 🤣 I Remember those days 🔥🔥
Ong 😂 them type teachers was like a secondary parent bc they know yo parent would handle you in front of da school & all
i tell u
in africa its not alot
@@pplsspokesperson did you go to English class? What did you even say??
Nobody takes accountability for anything. It's always someone else's fault.
Also, there is no lack of punishment either.
Across the damn board!
And then it's the people that justify these kids actions too. "well they are just standing up for themselves 🤡" oh yeah so they had to cuss out the teacher, hit them and trash up the classroom? Last time I checked, that means standing your ground when you're RIGHTFULLY wrong. Key word, RIGHTFULLY. These types of kids think they are ALWAYS in the right. Absolutely delusional. No idea how people can sit there and say they are doing right.
I think we should have an oppression/victim Olympics
All contestants get a one way ticket to an island
Let them figure out who the "winners" are....
Not us white guys, we do most of the work, and take all of the blame. Everything is my fault, even things that happened 309 years ago. It’s such a privilege
The bad behavior starts at home.
Now it’s online since influencer love to encourage degenerates
You smart.
And we were never on first name bases with our teachers!! These teachers need to stay in their adult, professional lane. Thats just a start
Yes. The first step to solving any problem is giving a damn. And there’s a whole WHOLE lot of people who just don’t care in the first place.
Cps will take kids luckily mine don't act that way but I've seen good parents lose kids for stupid things.
We lost it when we failed to instill the fear of discipline on children at an early age. Discipline is NOT abuse. Once a child is in middle school…a child is beyond discipline administered by schools…and most parents.
Yes. But there is a fine line for discipline, dont over-react to a small offense, I am not saying "dont dicipline your children", you should, just dont over do the punishment, i. e. dont hit them with the belt or something for something that doesnt merit anything more than a yelling at or grounding or something.
@@UnpaidInternNo.9472 I agree. I’ve learned that as I’ve gotten older. I used to get wrapped up in petty small things that ultimately didn’t matter. At an early age, if you are taught boundaries…most kids will learn….before age 5. Don’t rely on teachers to do that.
@@UnpaidInternNo.9472Nah miss me with that soft discipline. Thats what caused where we are at rn
@@UnpaidInternNo.9472 Too much does less harm then to little.
The soft shit got us in the mess in the first place.
@@HCBierBaron too much harm could literally get you sent to jail because of child abuse or something like that. But what do i know, its not like I read the law over and over to get past it legally or something.
I’m a 20 yr veteran in public education. I taught Spanish high school level and I walked away. I loved teaching but every man has a breaking point. Tik tok, instagram, porn hub, video games ,ect have taken their full attention. Level of disrespect from kids and lack of parenting at home is playing a bigger role than pay which is already a problem. Blaming the lockdown and remote learning is not the full story. Giving young people access to unfiltered online content is a bigger issue. There is no fix in 1 generation. The genie is out of the bottle
Parents sit kids in front
Without monitoring
Hey don't bad mouth video games thanks to ff7 and kingdom hearts i started seriously learning english
The genie is out of the bottle… what will the next 20 yrs bring?? Crazy to imagine…
hello. i am in the process of learning Spanish, if you have any hours for tutoring. let me know.
Parents need to do better im a teacher and at 29 I quit I will not go to jail for these kids
I’m curious…if you had to give a percentile …what would the behavior ratio be …good to bad ….0/0
We should be thanking yall for yall service at this point
@@kcthompson445and hand out medals of honor and courage lol
The school is the jail. They don't call it a school to prison pipeline for nothing.
Oh my god-kids have been acting like this for ages
I work in a restaurant and a couple of weeks ago we had a party of like 30 mostly kids in our back party room. The kids were jumping on poppers and banging on the booths. The noise was vibrating through the entire restaurant one of my tables got up let them know and then I went to a manager. There was an adult standing at the door doing nothing and adults at the tables doing nothing. When management went in there and told them to stop they did literally 3 sec after management walked out the room they started again and our managers went right back in there. Needless to say they aren’t welcomed back. I was so mad that the parents were doing NOTHING!!!
That’s bc “parents” no longer exist. Kids are raising themselves and the adults are mentally kids themselves
@@miraclewiley7126yes, I feel like the first wave of autistic kids grew up and now have autistic children.
@@bettysue8671yess all these adults thay never got the help they needed growing up... atleast my generation talks about mental health so we can get help. just lacking proper guidance
They want the kids to watch themselves while kids run wild and then get an attitude with you. It’s worse when the parents are nearby too…like WTH 😂
@@bettysue8671 what does autism, have to do with it? Maybe it has something to do with people, that blame everything on mental illness. There's a big difference between mental illness and "The TH-cam dude told me I have rights." Get yo head lady.
As a single black father who have raised three kids, ages 20, 21, and 23 with boy in the middle. My son is graduating college in May, and my two daughters never been married or have kids. My advice to them growing up was to not have children if you are not going to be a good parent. Very proud of them as young adults in 2024.
You are very blessed and a great father keep it up our black kids needs parents like Yu ❤
My mother told me at the age of 23 years old, make me proud before you make me a grandmother. I had my first and only child after I graduated college. Fun fact; my mother and I graduated from the same college together sitting side by side.
❤❤ that good keep it up 💪
Of course your children are well behaved they were raised by a man. Majority of the problem with kids these days they were raised by a single mom. Kids need discipline and fathers enforce this, mothers coddle them
@@BradGreen-p7q I agree 💯. 👍🏽
As someone who was from Gen Z i'm very sorry for my Generations Behavior and it's not all of us who are like this there's some actual good people from gen Z
I have come to apologize on behalf of gen alpha, I'm truly sorry for my generations actions and I am striving to be different from the rest of my kind.
I know, but they have to grow up faster than their parents
Find a spouse by 25
The fuck yall apologizing for 😂
You don't have to
No, you just have a good parent.
I’m an English teacher + part time military (not in the US)
I’m 26 and became a teacher at 21. I am beyond *GLAD and GRATEFUL* I went through bootcamp and graduated, since now, my discipline during teaching is top knotch.
I’m beyond severe, my students tell me all the time, but I have better control in my classrooms than millennial & boomer teachers that have been in this profession for 10-30 years.
Don’t let the kids win. They’re kids.
You better hope and pray you don't get sued.
@@flamegirl647 for what lol? doing her job?
Easier said than done. Are you teaching in the suburbs?
@@xeodarling1777 probably american. boot camp in america means getting your face branded with a iron then wondering why the guy snapped and killed 5 trainiees and nothing happens to the guy who branded him (other than revenge by the cadet who uses his weapon on them) yeah that happened while i was going through that entire group (me included) intentionally washed out and said they would never support the government again. the guy was permanently disfigured and they did nothing so when they handed them rifles a few times after the first he jsut shot the kids said the 3 he shot were simply infront of the dudes who branded him. thats why he said that
Not u.s. lol
My husband works in a juvenile facility. Most of the kids were never disciplined if they had parents. Others have unresolved traumas from being in foster care or having parents that do not want them. Staff is attacked constantly. Broken noses, lost teeth one has lost vision in an eye. They often make up accusations so staff gets more limited and they use this technique to overtake the staff left.
They do this in adult facilities as well. Was a co, they did this to me.
Sad reality😮
So sorry y'all deal with this. They need accountability back. Peace don't need more babying but more consequences.
They make false accusations.
I work in a juvenile facility. I ain’t going though lol. I’ll lose my job before I let someone put their hands on me. It does get tough to deal with though.
THEY ARE NOT "DISCIPLINING THE CHILDREN AT HOME" 🙄
I WAS AN ASSISTANT ON A BUS. THERE WERE MANY HORRIBLE STORIES OF CHILDREN ACTING LIKE WILD ANIMALS. THROWING TRASH ON THE BUS, STANDING UP ON THE BUS WHILE IT'S MOVING, FIGHTING THE BUS DRIVER, DISRESPECTING THE DRIVER, 😤 😮STICKING THEIR ARMS AND BODY PARTS OUT OF THE BUS WINDOWS AND MUCH MORE. 😮😮
I had experience that back in my middle school days in 2008! I had classmates who would did the same thing you just said. Disrespecting the bus driver and had fist fighting while the bus is moving. Horrible experience 🙅🏾♂️
I came from the era where we got a paddling from the principal or they call mom and she comes up and embarass you in front of the school.
@@jlwjr87 that’s what we need to bring back into the black community. Butt whooping on children so they can have discipline and learn how to behave better cuz these younger kids in this generation are very disrespectful towards adults.
@@jlwjr87 but nowadays that's seen as abuse and you're ruining their mental health. People now don't have enough brain cells to know the difference between an abusive parent vs a parent that's disciplining their child and giving them a taste of their own medicine. I got hit as a child and that shit taught what to do and what not to do. The difference is, my mom didn't have any malicious intentions when she hit me, I was doing some stupid shit and I got punished rightfully so. Of course she still talked to me about what was wrong and what was right, but I've done some stuff where talking wasn't in the question. That's the problem these people aren't understanding. If you aren't cool with your parents because they hit you because of an action you caused that was dumb? You're honestly just weak minded 😐. if they are BEATING you then I totally understand but if they aren't and they are disciplining you then what's the problem?? Sometimes sticking that fear in them is good because that will make them think twice. They aren't gonna be some dysfunctional people to society 😐. Most of this generation is just weak. I'm gen Z and I'm saying this. Again, unless your parents are BEATING you, then there's literally nothing wrong with it. Look how far that "just talk to them" is getting these kids.
LOL. Every school bus ever.
Why have kids if the adults aren’t going to take care of them? This is so depressing. I used to teach summer school lessons, and kindergartners didn’t know what fairytales were like Hansel & Gretel, 3 Little Pigs, etc. They don’t know anything anymore🤦🏾♀️ it’s rare to find children who are living imaginative childhoods with ambitions
Most people have kids randomly lets be honest i mean all children deserve parents but not all parents deserve children correct?
@onna420 there are so many birth control options now, if someone chooses to have a child they wanted to or didn't care enough about preventing it when they're not ready
@@jbullock7157 exactly but some people cant afford it or just dont care. so its really up to the person..
When I see a person of any age all messed up (especially fatherless and oops babies) and see the parent with the ideology of being owed, it’s baffling.
Cause people have kids, just because there horny
Back in middle school our math teacher was ex-marine and he ran his classroom so well. He genuinely cared about us learning, but did NOT tolerate any distractions or disrespect. We had his class before lunch, so if we weren't listening he'd keep us sitting there until we finally were quiet. Told us that we were cutting into our own lunch time. When i told my mom about it she said "then tell your classmates to shut up and you guys can get to lunch on time." She knew what he was doing wasn't torture, but showing us to listen.
To this day he was one of my favorite teachers.
We need to separate boys and girls, in public schools
Let the male Marines teach the boys
Girls..should be taught by women who are no nonsense..but how to be ladies
@@kathleenking47separate? No that isn’t gonna work 😂
The problem odd these kids today won’t go for ANY kind of discipline. It’s like there’s no hope for them and definitely starts at home, parents believe their kids are angels who do no wrong so they never discipline
Its the Department of Children Family Service fault. They placed in these children's head that if the parents even try to discipline them they can go to jail. My children's father was removed from our household because dcfs stated he used extreme discipline towards our son and was not fit to be in the home no matter how disrespectful our son was. And thus the beginning of our family colaspe!
I'm sure your son and the investigation notes would tell a different story.
I was born in 1996 and even though I did not like some of my teachers and a few I thought were racist who shouldn't be teaching children of color; I would never do most of if any of this!
So by your reasoning, white students should ONLY have white teachers. Is that correct? After all, black teachers know NOTHING about whites. Am I correct?
I have an 11 yr old and she is a sweetie...now that she's going into 6th grade the bullying has started. I'm praying she doesn't lose her light and become drained by all the darkness. Teachers there are still a few good ones out there❤❤
I'm praying for her 🤲❤ Middle school is brutal
I have an 11yr old brother. The rest of my siblings and me are in our 20s (and our oldest bro in his 30s). Covid messed these kids up honestly..middle school for me was like 10 years ago and things were already going downhill. I cant imagine what it's like now.
YEP!! The bullying started with me around 11 years old. You are going to have to teach her how to stand up for
.... AND DEFEND HERSELF!! If that means martial arts? Then so be it. I was bullied almost my whole younger years. All the way up through to 11th grade. Listening to my mom tell me to go tell the teacher all those years and all that CRAP only made it worse, cause it made me look like weak easy prey to all the bullies. One day I just got tired of it. I just got tired.
The bullying didn't stop until I FINALLY started using my fist!!! Yeah I got in trouble a few times. But the bullying STOPPED!!
If you dont want the "Darkness" to set in and drain your daughter? CAUSE IT WILL. Then you are going to have to teach her to defend herself. Point Blank period!! Bullies don't care. And wont stop unless you MAKE them stop. They MUST respect you or it will continue until the end of time.
You mean "darkness" or "blackness"?
nigga take her to a private school if you actually care for her and hope her for the best
All parents need to watch this video
They should. I quit 3 years ago when a student punched me in my chest and jumped me. I now have to live with 3 herniated disks.
@@halfwayemptyare you all able to sue or get some consequences for the students/parents?
Nah if they won't pay attention to their own child then they won't listen to a video that tells them about paying attention to children. They're aren't fit to be parents.
@@miraclewiley7126 No. Schools don't like to suspend students because that puts them on the radar for excessive suspensions. So, they keep the kids in school. That's one of the reasons teachers are leaving.
@@halfwayempty oh so sad. But as a teacher are u able to sue the parents since their kid caused u harm and if u had to go to the hospital and stuff?
The screens for kids aren't the problem, but rather it's the lack of parental engagement *while using* the screens. Parental engagement in general, screen or not.
I worked at a high school 8 years ago and I was floored by these kids and the disrespect they show adults. The parents are worse than the kids.
I remember back in 1980’ I was acting a fool at school and my mother came up there and whooped my azz in the bathroom where everyone heard me yelling. After that, I never acted up in school again. My mother didn’t play about my education.
U ain't the only one & got another one when I got home😭
I had to do it to my Virgo son in 06-07, he's always been my trouble child, he's the baby but not spoiled! I talked, taught, punished, whooped, got therapy to no avail! I realized he's just deliberately disobedient, but I still had rules and didn't reward bad behavior under no circumstances. He's been suspended, expelled and been to detention center. And he just got out of rehab/jail, same bs!
They need prayer and paddling back in school! As a parent I tried!💯🙏
@@faythnhim3863 As parents we do our best. I didn’t get that concept when my mother would tell me that. But when I became a parent I understood what she was saying. I have a 25 year old with autism; imagine that. He’s is a bit defiant but a good young man. He doesn’t listen, maybe because I spared the rod and spoiled the child. Nonetheless, we as parents try our best to give our children love and support, nurture, and nature it’s up to them to receive it in a way that flourishes their lives. If that makes sense.
I remember when I got into an argument with my mom and my sister called me from half way across the country to tell me to shut the fuck up 😂
Same 🙋🏾
I don’t understand why teachers are forced to buy student supplies. Get the parents to do it. Actually care about and invest in YOUR child’s development.
in my day teachers would have NEVER been asked
Bullsh*t...We pay SCHOOL Taxes!!
Teacher's shouldn't be reaching into their OWN pockets-TAXES!!!
@@eb1042 easier for one parent to spend $20-50 on school supplies. Teachers would have to spend hundreds because they have at least over 75 students. If you wouldn’t spend that kind of money for so many people, then you shouldn’t dump that onto teachers.
Supplies don’t have to be expensive. Go to Walmart and dollar store. Shop on clearance and sales. If you didn’t get your check, you can use a credit card(or just save cash). Let your kids share hand me down supplies from siblings and/or neighbors. Coupons help. There is no excuse.
For clothing and coats, can even get thrift store clothing. There are shelters, campuses, and centers that give free coats, gloves, hats, etc. It can be tough, but there is almost always a solution to the, problem.
If a parent cares, they will try. Especially if they don’t work over 10-12 hours a day. Do not be surprised when the children don’t invest in parents as they, age. Parental neglect/apathy has consequences.
Back when I was still in school, we were the ones buying supplies for the teacher AND for everyone else, at least in elementary we did.
It sad how times have changed nowadays :/
this is a generation where we are afraid to discipline kids due to facing harsh backlash from non-mothers, family members, and even strangers. u discipline your child your considered an abuser. it can make you feel guilty to the point where these parents don't even wanna discipline their kids anymore.
You do not need to hit your children. If I did not obey in a store my Mom just waited until we got home and I ended jp in my room until the next day except for meal and to got to the bathroom. Back then there was no phone, TV, stereo etc. Basically 90% of the time you went outside to play and went to your room to have some quite space or go to bed. I did not sit well so for me to be in my room for hours was not fun.
I think some parents are afraid of their kids, and others are trying too hard to relate to them and live vicariously through them. Many Parents today also have no morals or values, and money is all they crave. It's disgusting.
I was a disciplinarian. Spanked my son maybe twice in elementary school for confusing me with the wrong person. I talked more- explaining things and teaching him, especially through my actions. His father did the exact opposite of me. It didn't work out well for him or them 😬.
My son praises me for how I raised him. We're best friends but his respect for me and others is honorable.
Incredible, intelligent, wise, and acts like a real man... A 19-year-old who knows himself and his future and does not relate to his generation at all.
Parenting takes selflessness, emotional intelligence, intentionality, love, and Jesus! 🙌🏽
@@JAM661 spanking works much quicker and leaves a lasting impression. Your mother just waited for you to stop acting like an ass. She quite literally ignored you until you followed her. That's the fucking problem. You discipline them and get them to act right. You just explained exactly what the video is going over. Your mom ignored you being an ass.
Discipline does NOT equal hitting, shouting and or taking things that bring them joy.
@@Wooble_DeathnoteREAL !!
I was a teacher for almost 9 years... I was assaulted and injured badly by a 5 y.o. This stuff has been going on since 2005... Teachers are being beaten, mamed and in some cases they don't tell you that teachers get fatally hurt. Its shameful... Go to the Philadelphia Inquirer and search for article around 2006 thru 2011. The newspaper had it on the front cover of a teacher who was pushed down 3 flights of concrete stairs and broke his neck... I feel these are the last days of true humanity. Thank you😑😇
Part of the problem is so many teachers with bad attitudes who treat kids poorly and set a bad example. When kid's can see at 9-10 years old that their teacher doesn't even put in the effort they expect from students, why should they put in that effort? Most teachers try to BS their grading as much as possible. I had ONE English teacher who actually graded essays and wrote notes beyond just a number at the top of the page. My math teachers never graded homework, they just gave us the answers to check our work in class while they sat there. I had one teacher who just checked the answer of 1 problem on everyone's homework. Teachers have accountability too because MOST teachers don't put full effort into their job, and kids notice that right away and lose respect for you instantly. I literally had to start a petition my sophomore year because our chemistry teacher was sabotaging our grades. I work with kids for a living and if you want their respect, you need to treat them with respect and show that you put in maximum effort. You're not going to reach every kid, but you can make a big difference with the right effort. I'm not trying to take any accountability away from parents because there are so many bad examples out there, but to say that teachers are these poor victims with no power is shortsighted. One of the strongest unions in the country is the teacher's union. They also get 3 months off for summer, which no one in any other regular job gets. Parents are definitely at blame, but we can't pretend like most teachers are these virtuous, hard working saints who do no wrong.
People need to teach their kids respect morals and good work ethics
Parents are banned from dicip.
As someone who was raised right but went to inner city public school I just could never understand how my classmates could give good teachers a hard time. Actually felt bad for some of them.
Same! Someone threw a whole 1000 plus page chemistry book at a teachers head…and I felt bad too
Had kids in my classes who actually thought p1ssing off the teachers to the point they're yelling at the entire class was "funny". Especially during Spanish, French,, Italian,, and English class.
@@commentatingcommenter9178 I grew up with kids who actually bragged about making the teacher cry. Even at a young age I never understood.
I left the lab field to try a different field. So I substituted students. BOY! That was so SHORT-LIVED I didn't even realize I even LEFT the lab field! I RAN back to my lab profession and have NEVER been so HAPPY!😊
I'm glad you're addressing this cultural epidemic. I have never seen this while in school.
I saw this 25 years ago in my child's class. He went to that school one year & I moved to another city just to get my child out of that school district. The principal did nothing when teachers complained about a child. Many parents don't care. We need more Joe Clarks from the movie Lean on me. I believe in discipline. I told my children if u call 911 on me u better not be here when I get back. My husband who's a retired teacher loved teaching. But he didn't have time to babysit. Many of the city & state leaders were his students. Even some West Point Grads were his students. He had the backing of a good principal who believed in discipline. I refuse to raise undisciplined uneducated children.
Parents are being jailed for disciplining their children
@@rCherithChronicles I know of parents being jailed for physically abusing their children, but not for disciplining them. I discipline. I do not whip or beat or treat a child like slaves were treated. Not once has anyone called me to bail out my child from the police station. Not once has his soccer coach said my kid had a bad attitude. It's been the opposite - they tell me he has a wonderful attitude and that he supports and encourages his teammates. His youth teen church teachers love him and mention how well he treats others, and how well behaved he is. I really wish people would make the effort to train, teach, and disciple (yes, I meant to use that word disciple) kids, help them form good Godly character, and create an enviroment in the home that is good for a child's Christian and moral development. It takes way more effort to do this than play the game of I'm bigger than you are so do what I say or I'll hurt you. But it's more than worth the effort. It has taken work and sacrifice to train this child up in the way he should go, but I'm already seeing the payoff. This young teenager brings joy, not shame, to me and to our family name.
@@rCherithChronicles children are being jailed for lack of discipline. U don't have to beat a child just to discipline them.
@@lovevioletflowers3442 my children never needed bailing out of jail either. Both of my children are very independent & are making their way in this world. They know it takes discipline to get up & go to work everyday. Some children have no discipline & no education to make it in this world. So they steal & try to live off of other ppl.
This is why I got out of the profession. I spent more time and energy dealing with social and discipline issues than actual teaching. Sadly, many schools are just daycare centers for older kids.
teachers are babysitters for mental patients. Sad thing is parent have to work three jobs just to pay for their kids and half their income is ripped away from them by the state. Combined we the fem'isms which cut the wages down in half again. No wonder why the quality has gone down.
Have y’all seen that video recently of the guy smacking the teacher because she took his vape pen? What is a kid doing with a vape pen in school for? We would never hit a teacher
nooooooo..
@@guillaumecollins548or that video of all the migrants in France trashing the classroom and screaming and hitting each other while the teacher stand there helplessly… then they throw a chair
@@guillaumecollins548 as young as I am, I dont vape and would NEVER hit a teacher.
These kids BEEN DOOMED. The early to mid 90’s babies were the last of a dying breed.
Who do you think these kids belong too if not the parents of the 90’s
@@KDG111Most of us can barely afford to live on our own. Older millennials from the 80s are raising the majority of these demon spawn.
Us early to mid 90s babies that grew up and was born are not like anything from this newer generation. I am in college for accounting, worked as a Pharmacy Technician, wrote a children’s book and more! I just turned 28 with my own house, car, and education. No kids at all. I paint and stay home. It’s these new kids that are doomed
@@BrownSkinGirl96that’s what he said.
@@EliyahuTheHebrew😂😂😂
They don't expel students anymore? 😂 Bring back discipline
Schools lose funds for expelling or even when kids miss school. It’s all about money.
@@karmag4244we were set up to fail, smh
Yeah that's right. Give them an extra vacation that'll show them
@@pinkdiamond1847 they won't get an education.. that'll teach them the hard way. Get with it
That doesn't solve the problem though
I am now 33 and some of this was going on when I was in school with home abuse and the teachers did nothing to help. I used to be told but you have only one mom but, seeing my mom was no good to me. I am saying this because it does go both ways to raising kids. So if it doesn't start at home it for sure will be bad by the time school starts. I had a surrogate mother growing up that helped me become a better person. So it really does take a village to raise a kid. I never had a phone 📱 until I was 18 and I bought it myself. Technically wasn't a thing for me until I could get it myself.
This is so sad.I use to work in the school system and alot of these kids have no discipline.Teachers have to come out of pocket for supplies.Alot of these parents dont want to take responsibility for their kids behavior.Sad and a disgrace.
Social media, technology and bad parenting are the main problems
You forgot administration. They allow the children's out of control behavior in the schools.
You forgot...boring curriculum and passionless teachers.
@@cierrawashington8596 alot of teachers have a passion for their job
@cierrawashington8596 teachers are losing passion because they work in a system that doesn't support them, but would rather protect itself and hand wave poor student behavior.
Curriculum isn't always gonna be "exciting and engaging", but these children need to get this basic education regardless.
@@RevulsiveLooper You said that perfectly 💯💯💯
I tried to bring this up on another channel. Everyone tried to tell me that I was wrong, old and out of touch. One person even said that kids are the same and haven't changed. Then came the insults. It was pathetic.
Oh wow
They're generational cursed losers. Don't let them throw you off your square.
They're generational cursed losers. Don't let them throw you off your square.
I think almost everyone is in denial of the deep ish we are all in.
They're the problem. No one wants to take accountability. They need the fear of consequences. God needs to be a forefront for all. They don't have the fear of God in them.. 😢
In a decade from now,it’s estimated that 30% of the homeless population will have people from ages 22-31 yrs old. That’s sad.
😮😮😮😮
Okay but wouldn't that already be the most common age for homelessness tho considering that that's the age that we're in college on our grind having to spend lots of money to survive before having a real career
Maybe so because people are not going to take care of able body grown people.
@@ReginaldPerson-p1y 💯
The kids in High school ought to see this and know better, but they are only living for the moment. They cannot see past their moment.
As someone born in 2000, I believe kids shouldn't have a smart phone untill age 16 or up. I never owned a phone or video game system untill At 16 I got my first job and bought a phone plan and bought my first game systems, a DS lite and a GameCube.
I worked at and elementary schôol where 40- 70 yr old adults act like children ....!!!! 😱
I grew up in the 80's and 90's and my mother would come up to school and sit in my class in a heartbeat if I was acting up. I'm 42 and to this day I'm still scared of my mother. I have not once cursed in front of her, I got PTSD from my mother popping me in the mouth 🤣! Even though my mother couldn't hurt me physically, she still has some type of mental power over me that still has me scared of her and then I knew that I had to deal with my stepfather when she was done with me and that's where the real pain came in! I thank God for the way I was brought up.
The youth these days have to much access to things internet, phones, they don't get out playing video games, my kids grew up in the 70's and 80's they rode bikes play hide and seek kick ball these kids now do whatever they want parents not giving no guidance
Perfect example of 🧠 rot. Devices are controlling us all.
yup the phones are the worst. I am grateful to God I got to experience life in school before phones.
I’m 17 going on 18 I still went outside and played when I was a little kid and did all those things Gen Z still experienced that
@JakB00h thank youuu someone had to vouch for us lmaooo
you don’t know the dark side of school……….
It starts at home
If it doesn't start at home it'll definitely start at school. Goes both ways and that's a fact from my experience in life
My younger brother hit my mom.... and she did nothing till I said something.
Say what?! What self respecting mother let's her own child get away with something like that?
Yo mom is weak where is the father
I have a 16-year-old nephew, and he's been dying to get out of high school. He's only has two more years until he graduates.... All he wants to do is get a job and get out of high school. He says it's the worst all teens ever do is fight with each other at school. He just sits at school listening to his music until the end of the day
I was in school from fall 97 to spring of 2010, and i remember my parents directly let me know that every teacher and basically all school employees had authority over me and therefore if i crossed them without running my issue by them(parents) first, that they would beat my ass and ground me.
Clearly things have changed lol but thats because most kids today come from teenage couples and more often than not from single mothers. Alot of these teen parents or single moms try to be friend-parents instead of real parents.
Teen moms, are like, the older siblings
What are we doing to these kids?
After graduating uni, I began working in a high school in Belgium. By the end of the year I was crying every single day when I walked back home. One of the children, who was ALREADY ON TRIAL BUT STILL ALLOWED IN THE SCHOOL beat up another student during one of my class. Most teachers were afraid of that student, they didn't feel safe when he got angry and took it out on us.
Truth is, there's nothing teachers can do to make things better because every time they try to, they're being ignored by the school direction who is, in turn, scared of the parents.
I quit that school and left the country, swearing never to teach in Belgium again, even if that meant being away from my family and losing most of my friends.
I now work in Hungary, where parental education is stricter, and the students are so much more respectful here and I absolutely love teaching here.
Congratulations 🎊 to you on your new position! I see that this is a worldwide problem. I thought it was only in America....
This is happening in Europe too???? You got to be kidding.
@@rCherithChroniclesThe kids in China are even worse because most family have only one child so they tend to be very spoiled. In fact on guy who from South America and taught in China and now here say how much better the kid are in the USA. I think it really depends on where you are but parent on a whole need to complain more and demand that kids that act out get punished. It is not fair for the other kids who want to learn. When I was growing up and you were a problem they just sent you to reform school. I do not remember anyone being sent, because I do not remember anyone not behaving.
@@JAM661so this isn't just an American issue, it's globally? Oh we're cooked as a species if true.
This issue only seems too be getting worse!
It definitely starts at home. I remember fighting in 3rd grade, I still got in trouble with my parents. But I learned from that there are consequences and knew I could get in trouble regardless.
If I didn't work video games were taken away. Couldn't go outside to play unless I finished it. Some days I just didn't get to go outside. I learned a lot from coming up. These days I'm not sure that's happening enough.
Society has totally skipped a good medium and went from too tough to too soft. Now we're at an uncontrollable point.
Its crazy how things changed I used to be scared of getting in trouble now people in my grade don't even care and I'm a gen Z myself I kinda hate that we need more discipline
Seeing this happening globally and the only people at fault is the parents. Just because you got a child doesn't mean you're a parent. Too many people having kids and are completely inactive in their children's lives despite being in the same house as them.
No to this degree it's mostly the US. It's not that extreme in other countries.
@@danika9411facts
There are two types of kids : spoiled and entitled. And sometimes three types : both spoiled AND entitled. Wait - what's that I hear overhead ? A helicopter ? Must be a parent about to plunge through my roof to sue me for defaming their progeny. 😂
I’ve met so many parents who have kids for tax money… so sad
If a child is causing harm to others, that child should be banned from all schools and their parents should be made to home school them. No one should have to put up with a disrespectful child!
I agree with you 💯 Percent
How do you force people to homeschool? Homeschooling is harder than sending kids to school. If parents aren't effective with their kids at home, homeschooling will be a disaster. I homeschooled my kids. I'm glad I did. It was expensive and self-sacrificing. My kids are great citizens and college grads working on advanced degrees. I worked part time and I am married.
Ultimately, the generations prior to us failed to be parents, and they failed to understand that they couldn’t conform us to the trauma that they and our grandparents faced, truth is y’all were not fit to be parents and now that it shows everyone wants to point the fingers at everyone but the ones who had a significant part.
@@nessasue5046 That's tough, Your kid couldn't act right at school for 8 hours, now they gotta act right with you 24/7.
@@Zpaphandlerrrbingo but gen x will never admit it 🙄 the baby boomers and silent Generation were fine because technology wasn’t advancing as fast as it did by the time millennials were born.
Back then parents could blame their kids and no one would question it…lots of gen x grew up being blamed and think if it worked for their parents it will work for them haha not now
My nephew is the same exact way!! he spends all day on the tablet & throws a tantrum when he loses on a game, & my brother cant even stop what he's done, he has no respect for teachers whatsoever, this is real actual facts!!!💯✅
My nephew will play a mario kart game with someone or with the bots and throw a fit and cry because he didn't get first place. EVEN WHEN GOING AGAINST BOTS.
fake school is boring (and I have uhh shaky hands) and pls don’t play games that don’t make u rage those are the games that makes kids cope with shaky hands or depression (hope this helps😊😊)
He’s addicted to it. It affects the brain the same as alcohol and cocaine. His dopamine system is being messed up. Take the tablet and many issues will be resolved.
Time to take away the technology.
I've seen a cop arrest a 50 year old teacher for a DUI
SHE SCREAMED FOR 20 MINUTES STRAIGHT
As a father of a 5. 4. And 3 yr old. This has actually taught me or made me think rather that when my middle son screams for a phone to watch I need to engage with him and start a conversation or play I spy or something anything but give up my phone. I am guilty of just handing over a tablet or phone and never thought of the consequences.. I will be a better father by incorporating that one little sentence most likely missed in this video. Thanks brother, appreciate you.
There is no accountability, nobody holds the students accountable. Neither the principal nor the parents hold them accountable
Early 2000s - 2004 got the last discipline before the internet
I have go way in the mid 80’s for this story: when there were talk shows on every channel. A white talk show host asked Mr. T about this very subject. He said “ when I was in school I heard kids say, I’m not going to treat MY kids like my parents treated me, I’m going to let them do what they want”. Mr. T concluded by saying” this is exactly what we have, kids doing what they want to do”
And I think the people in the 80's who said "I’m not going to treat my kids like my parents treated me" went ahead and had kids too fast before they could grow up and realize that their parents were actually giving them a taste of life in this world. Can't speak for everyone as not all parents are good role models but you get what I'm saying.
I'm sure the Business world reads this, and their eyes light up with opportunity to use your narrative to disguise their involvement with the problem.
the problem is the school system is just a bit too boring on the extreme side
@@mariojellyrideselevators6087 I disagree with that statement. The child or children are not disciplined enough at home to learn.
@@mariojellyrideselevators6087 maybe that’s contributing to the problem. Too many parents and educators give into the narratives of trying to entertain instead of educating. I can understand if it’s elementary school, but by the time they’re in H S not so much.
Thank God my children's was born in the 80's, this world 🌎 is bad and some parents don't 😮😮😮 STOP TRY BE YOUR CHILDREN'S FRIEND, me as a mother I didn't play that , I'm a OG I'm a Genx
Early Gen Z here with Gen X parents (R.I.P. Mama), we're the final frontier of the Old School and the last people to grow up in the Analog Era. One thing I can vouch for, Gen X did it right.
When a teacher tells me something about one of my sons, I always believe them. I know my sons! But I’ll there is another child involved, that’s where things get blurred
Yesss but also be sure to talk with your sons and make sure to come off as they can be honest without getting in trouble or raising your voice if you dont do that already talking with your children is key because theyre humans who have emotions as well and they dont know how to deal with their emotions as welll as adults do:)
Both my parents worked and I was still well behaved. It’s just about parents trying. They’d rather be otp all day after work than actually make sure their children can get ahead in life
I am an AP, I got written up for telling parents they need to parent and it’s now the school job to teach respect and moral behavior. I don’t tolerate disrespect from parents or students yet to them I am wrong for holding them accountable.
Yo, local 10 year old here. I’m really disappointed in my generation and sad that I’m in it. I’m really mature for my age and actually know that this stuff is really bad for my generation, I know how to read and write correctly, I sometimes relate to Gen Z nostalgia and when I ask my friends if they remember or have heard of that thing before they just say “ nope never heard of it” at this point I’m really scared of what it’s going to be like in the future, I can still control my emotions and seeing kids rage like this when their about 5-13 years old when they get their phone/tablet away and I’m just really concerned and worried about what the parents of these children are doing. I’m also really worried of what these children today are going to look like in 10-20 years in the future, are they just gonna have no respect for anybody they meet?!?! It’s seriously getting worse and worse and I’m getting more worried about these children in the future in every video that I watch about this topic. Have a good day everyone🩷
You are a good fella, hope you're okay
You clearly have a good head on your shoulders. It’s not easy to stand on your convictions, but it’s the best way to be. Stay open minded, true to yourself in an unselfish manner and try to help in ways that don’t put you at risk. There are so many kids and young adults who do not like the direction things are going right now…and you all are our biggest hope!! Stay curious and pursue dialogue. I’m also hoping you’re doing okay! ✌🏼❤️
You remind me of myself 11 years ago. Lemme tell you, don't listen to anyone who hasn't earned the right to be heard. The masses are ignorant, and a thousand people will do the same thing trying to imitate one good idea. Truth is kid, you will never know where you'll end up in life. The best you can do right now is excel wherever you are at the moment. Keep increasing your knowledge and genuinely try at everything. The wrong crowd can and will screw you over. Whether It's psychological, emotional, or physical. Keep at it, keep working, and most importantly be a good person. Of the many things I regret in life, I regret not being a better person and helping others before it was too late. Oftentimes, it really does take one special moment to make others believe again
@@johnkongsaisy7014how wholesome.
Ik that was not meant for me but it just felt so heartwarming and comforting hehe.
Thank you 😂🫡
@RinnieButterfly That's the beauty of words. One doesn't have to be addressed for it to mean something. The value in words, like all things, is beholdend to the eyes and ears of those who find meaning in them. I'm glad you appreciated my comment. When enough people believe in strong strings of thought, ropes will form. Strong enough to build a foundation for yourself or the next generation
The IPad has Shorten their Attention Span and The Can't Focus 😮 😮
Most are neuro deficit.
Former kindergarten teacher here: I had a 4yo who was prone to unprovoked violent tantrums where he demolished materials and furniture and attacked other kids. During one of his particularly bad tantrums, he flipped over an art table where little girls were making art and started throwing chairs at other kids. I took the kid's arm and sat him in a chair. He tried running out of the classroom and biting and kicking me when I caught him. I sat him back in the chair and used my hand over his hand to keep him seated until the maintenance guy heard all the commotion and took the kid off my hands for a few hours (which was weirdly allowed by the school). Instead of receiving more support for this clearly troubled kid, I was reprimanded for "restraining" the child and I was told that I should have, "Evacuated the (other) kids to the hall and let him tire himself out." I.e. Destroy the classroom further. I quit teaching forever not long after that.
Blame the people that stop parents from being able to discipline their children simple as that
Parents are plenty able to discipline their children. Parents cannot abuse them or whip them like they are slaves, but they can certainly discipline their children. I do, and I'm a parent. There are no laws that have kept me from doing what I need to do. I have an orderly house with an orderly, polite, well behaved kid who performs well above grade level. He is a pleasure to have around. He knows that yes means yes, no means no, and that I better not have to tell him to do something twice. He knows that when I get home from work, the kitchen better be clean and I better not find a sink full of dishes. I'd better find dishes done, homework completed, and his task list needs to be completed. And he knows that I have lots of hugs and encouragement for him, and that on my days off, we will go to museums, bike riding, swimming, play soccer, and will do other things that a kid wants and needs to do.
The problem isn't that parents are unable to discipline their children. Parents CAN discipline their children. The problem is that parents often choose not to discipline their parents and they let them watch anything and everything on the internet via their cell phones. The children then learn to copy off the trash behaviors they see on the internet, and they copy trash behaviors they get from their peers, and the parents don't say anything. That is what causes problems.
This is sad and terrifying but true. Not just in schools, even in restaurants where juveniles work. The disrespect, the lack of compassion and accountability in this generation is mind-blowing. Every little thing theyre ready to go off and verbally or physically attack anyone and everyone smh
YOU SEE THIS PARENTS YOU NEED TO BE ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR KIDS! Teachers are not required to raise your damn kids.
Protect this channel at all costs
My mother is a 59 y/o 2nd grade teacher who is retiring 1 year early b/c she has been bitten and punched by several students this year. In my day we had shoolyard fights w/ bullies. Now they attack their teacher b/c they get away with it. Parents should homeschool their rotten children YOU deal with your kids.
These parents can't homeschool ANYONE, if the kids are this bad
Also, the legalized THC
it's another problem
The psychosis and paranoia are real with many
I'm being real as a child in a school like this. I was raised by my mom; if we were acting up my mom had no hesitation to send me and my brother to my grandparents who would make us work our asses off just to behave. I am a well behaved child and I'm mad that my education is being thrown out the window because there is someone interrupting the class.
Yep. I am a high school English teacher. I was forced to change failing scores to 70 due to the rule that we can not fail more than 15% of students. ...not due to their abilities. We have 17 year olds that can not read 1 sentence out loud, but they are given cars and bailed out of trouble consistently.
You choose to pass morons. Fallowing bullshit orders is pathetic. You lazy excuse maker.
That's a damn shame 🤦🏾♀️
My son is 7 and he taught himself how to read at 2 and a half! My daughter 10yrs, is the top reader in the school! I'm very proud of them and hope and pray they continue to grow and thrive with education❤
@@keoshagaines3765 2 and a half? Amazing!
It's in even south africa
I use to take my kids to the restaurant and a few times, the stares you could feel them. The grandmas use to come to my table and ask, how do you do that, do what? The children, if these were my grandkids they’d be screaming and running and crying all over the restaurant. I prepared to stop working outside the house in order to care for, and teach my children since I had no family to lean on.
It really does start at home yall, so they will understand before or by age two to learn how to behave. I started at about 6 months talking to them, yes, No, pointing and talking, what they cannot touch.
They really understand much more than they can communicate verbally, but they watch your face, mouth, expressions, feelings, and can learn. I taught the alphabet, colors, numbers, counting all before preschool, they can do it. All of them reading above level at kindergarten.
Thank goodness I’ve didn’t major in early childhood education for my bachelors degree. You’re absolutely right, teachers don’t get paid enough. That’s why teachers are quitting at such an alarming rate, because children are disrespectful, disruptive, out of control, constantly fighting their classmates and teachers. And the list goes on and on in the educational system. There is no point of attending college in early childhood for your bachelors degree or masters degree, because the pay is so low for all the amount of work that teachers have to do. Also, I blame the parents for giving their children an iPad at such a young age. No wonder these kids have terrible attention spans, can’t read, can’t write, don’t know basic math skills, and even lacking on language skills, especially with young children.
When my son acted up I went old school and stat in class with him. Plus I told the school if he was still hanging with the kids that were a bad influence, I was gonna come down on him so hard
Both my parents worked and i could never imagine disrespecting my teachers while i was younger especially since my mother was a teacher herself still is and im glad she pulled through all the disrespect these new kids have thrown at her
People always talk about how bad kids are today but nobody wants to talk about how bad today's parents are😢😮
About the prinipal observation thing at the begining
HOW can that principal have the nerve to badmark the teacher for not breaking up the fight when THE PRINCIPAL was not only IN THEIR ROOM but also didn't do anything?!?! ALSO ALSO it shouldn't BE a teachers job to break up a fight, especially when your only a few inches taller, or AS TALL AS the students who are fighting. Bruh what was the principal smoking that day? I swear the principal would've put like "leaveing kids alone in classroom" if the teacher went to break up the fight smh.
Emotional awareness and emotional intelligence is the other thing they are lacking. This is why they have no empathy. Emotional neglect.
As someone who’s always wanted to become a teacher ever since a child, I am scared for the future generations and the low payments.
I feel like a big part of this also comes from the pandemic. With lockdown being so extreme, I feel like a lot of people turned to their screen honestly lol my daughter will be two in august and I vow to raise her to be okay with boredom and not needing to give her a screen whenever she’s upset 💯
These parents are kids themselves 😢
I was born in 1955, and, and am 69. I'm glad that we didn't have internet and phones. We used to play outside, ride our bikes, and communicate with each other. Violence was never an issue. Children need to learn to deal with obstacles and real life situations in order to grow. They have to engage with the world, but it's difficult to learn self-discipline when an ipad or a tv is constantly in their faces. They never learn critical thinking skills or how to use their imaginations and creativity. I've always had a lot of respect for teachers because they are responsible for creating and shaping young minds into responsible adults. Unfortunately, the digital age has taken over children's minds. They will easily slip into the world of AI
That's what it is bro, you hit it dead on, these cellphones & tablets are they manipulating distractions. they be having so much fun on it, that school gets really boring & uninterested for them 💯
The AI is to replace them in the workforce since they won't have the capacity to run the show when we're gone... Not with their intellect. The majority of kids are being passed even though they aren't at grade level... this will be a disaster once they grow up and enter the real world
A guy did a study and he wrote a book about children and what American children don’t have is they don’t have CHILDHOODS…
The bible says to train up a child
My man this is a different time
I love how Sexy Red is used on thumbnails to imply
“This is going to be bad.” 😂
She’s literally the least of the problem
@@atk_geno 🎿 ⛷️ Skee-eeeee 🔴
@@atk_genoright and I hate how they make her the forefront of this. like sexyredd didn’t have all these kids, it’s the parent fault that they’re not monitoring what their child consume.
Yea she is a crumb to the whole bread of the problem. Most of it is the parents, the system and the environment last. @puppycat..
@@puppycat.. not just parents teachers are also playing the songs and having the kids dancing classrooms in elementary school. Have you seen those videos? Skee- eeeeee ⛷️
This is the most poignant fact based exposé I’ve seen pertaining to the current state of affairs in our kids’ educational systems. I’ve witnessed this firsthand at my son’s high school where fights would break out & even though the school employees security personnel, none of the adults were willing to intervene beyond a verbal request to “Break it up!” bcz they are worried that if they attempt to physically break up a fight, they (the adults) will likely face lawsuits, administrative leave and/or repercussions from law enforcement. The hands of the staff are being tied, rendering them ineffective in trying to mete out discipline or enforce decorum. It’s actually so super sad bcz it’s so super true!!! 🤦🏽♂️
Im almost in 7th grade now, and I remember back when almost all the kids in 5th grade had a kindergaten reading level. God save my generation😭😭😭
I didn't know they didn't teach cursive writing anymore. Wtf.. so they cant sign a signature.. crazy. Get your children back. Great video. Thanks.
I'm a homeschooler. Cursive writing, debate, public speaking, critical thinking, and bible are just as much a part of our curriculum as chemistry, physics, geometry, algebra 2, rhetoric, composition, geography, social studies, economics, personal finance, and other things that kids should learn. And whether or not one is a homeschooler, the fact that the school doesn't teach cursive writing doesn't mean the parents shouldn't teach it.
You can sign a signature without it being cursive
Many of us aren’t afraid of disciplining our children, many of us ARENT SUPPORTED IN OUR DISCIPLINE!!!!!!
Stop encouraging these kids to call DCFS every time they’re not given what they WANT.
PLS STOP CORPORATE PUNISHMENT OR WHOOPING CHILDREN WITH LITREAL BELTS OR SLIPPERS OR YELLIN ON THEM #STOPCHILDABUSE
@@mariojellyrideselevators6087What in Gods name are you on about?
WOW! I didnt know things had gotten that bad. School children are supposed to be our next generation of problem solvers. I wanted to be a school teacher but i didnt want a job where i had to do more work ad attend more meetings after the school day was over.
I wonder how many of these issues are due to broken homes. My father has Joint custody with my half sister and her mother and whenever she acts up my Father won’t find out from anyone until weeks sometimes months later.
"Spare the rod spoil the child" exists for a reason. Children that grow up without discipline think they can do whatever they want with 0 consequences. I was spanked when I was a kid, and I turned out just fine. I thank my Father and my Grandma for disciplining me. There's a difference between discipline and abuse.
Even then with the rod it might not do NOTHIN, never got spanked but stayed very damn respectful, I aint know how the hell some of my generation is so wrought to the point that even with discipline, they still continue.
I knew it was bad because a lot of places don’t even ask for a degree anymore. At least here in Atlanta
Gee I wonder why birth rates are down? Can't raise good kids in a place like Murcia.
Yep found me a Filipina and planning my move accordingly
im glad that my principal is a 6,5 male and is strict because damn my school can get violent
-It looks like the black & white 1955 h.s. movie 'The Blackboard Jungle' was a prophecy of more juvenile delinquents to come, throughout the rest of the 50s & then the following decades. Today it's multiplied x10, or more.
I'm glad that I'm a gen z that can live without a phone.
THIS OBNOXIOUS WORLD NEEDS TO GO‼️😠
As long as YOUR kid/s know better. All of that other sht doesn’t matter.
Don’t worry judgement day is on its way sooner than we think.
We are now dealing with Demon 👿👹 Time 🔥🔥🔥
@annwilliams2896, this world is ending sooner than anyone can imagine. Everything that is taking place, happening in the world today is written in the Bible. More people than not are unsaved people, living in darkness. Those who believe in Christ and are saved, set apart and living according to what the God of the Bible has commanded and instructed are the only ones who knows that we are living in the last hours of the last days. Non believers of Christ are doomed. If you sit down and read chapter Matthew the entire chapter 24, it'll tell all that is happening is true.
@@marilynclarke6092 Luke 21, Mark 13, The entire book of Revelations, Ezekiel 38 , Daniel and study the minor prophets.
We are in the last days for sure.