How To Find Your Personal Style 👑 | Lucy Moon

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  • @diinalens
    @diinalens 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    as someone who has always had her own style, the biggest advice i could give anyone is: DON'T CARE ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS. for example i've been wearing my doc martens since i was in like 7th grade and i can assure you they weren't "cool" at all in the late 2000s and i was made fun for them endlessly but i loved them and now everybody owns a pair, including the people who shamed me for them. same goes flor leather jackets, corduroy and maxi dresses, all things that are "in style" now but just 5-10 years ago nobody was wearing them. it's useful to understand trends in fashion as mere marketing, it's compmetely volatile. just stick to what feels comfy and good when you wear it!
    ps. you don't have to "perform" your style every. single. day. if your style for example is more "vintage" nothing keeps you from just wearing jeans and a sweater sometimes.

    • @Ada-il2mj
      @Ada-il2mj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true... similar to what I've been saying.... fashion is so volatile...there was a time when mixed prints was seen as too much and now is a fashion statement.....so if you like mixed prints, wear it ! You like vintage wear it etc ...!

    • @laurent4122
      @laurent4122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true. What goes around comes around.

  • @Katieloouise
    @Katieloouise 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    no omg sometimes im in aldi buying hummus and i see a fleece or a jacket that is weirdly stylish? glad someone else has acknowledged this

    • @doreenmarie4938
      @doreenmarie4938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Katie Hughes I grew up wearing Aldi clothes and I have no regrets

    • @MrsJonasBrothers1992
      @MrsJonasBrothers1992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Doreen Marie reminds me of what my German Teacher used to say, that no one needs to feel ashamed to wear clothes from aldi or lidl, as long as you feel comfortable in it!

    • @Katieloouise
      @Katieloouise 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zoe J that's very true! i'm just surprised because in comparison the more expensive supermarkets sell clothes that i associate with being grannyish

    • @ninamarie177
      @ninamarie177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m currently wearing a men’s flannel that I bought at Aldi for 5€ and it’s so much softer and better quality than any flannel I bought that was aimed at women.

    • @ameliel8792
      @ameliel8792 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Am I the only one who didn't know Aldi sold clothes? I mean sure I've seen some random gloves and socks and pool inflatables in there, but actual jackets? Well I never.

  • @DwynGLopez
    @DwynGLopez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh! dear Lucy... I feel so relieved that I am not the only one who is completely lost in the fashion world. I have always been quite easily influenced by the fashion trends and thinking "oh, I love this item" and when the trend goes, so does my love for that piece... thanks for sharing this piece of knowledge.

  • @thehalfbloodserb
    @thehalfbloodserb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I would also add that knowing your undertone and body shape (especially your Kibbe body shape) can be incredibly useful tools if you find the outfits you want to wear don't look as good on you as they do on someone else. I had the issue where I liked very chic French styles with a bright, cool undertone even though I am very hourglass with a warm and muted undertone. The outfits I liked looked separate to me and made me look a bit sick, and they didn't photograph well (unless I edited them a lot). By knowing what my undertone and bodyshape are, I was able to incorporate those elements into my style and have my outfits suit me without avoiding the style altogether. Aly Art and Merriam Style are two channels I recommend on this front

  • @feelinginsaneisnormal2569
    @feelinginsaneisnormal2569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I do the inspo thing slightly differently - I google “how to style...” something I own e.g. how to style pink tee. Then I’ll scroll through the images and find outfits I like that I’d never have put together or items that look great that I don’t own but would enjoy :) got the cutest green mini skirt from doing that!

  • @tiegant9729
    @tiegant9729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow I had subscribed to you a few years ago but I was too young to “get” your videos. I’m older now and your videos keep helping me realise new things about myself, they’re like the guide to life! Thank you ♥️

  • @robina864
    @robina864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    As someone who's currently trying to figure out my style/what I like, this is tremendously helpful! Thank you so much Lucy!!!

  • @hazelquinlan2165
    @hazelquinlan2165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Cup of tea and a new Lucy Moon video, absolutely ideal 🌙

  • @bend1916
    @bend1916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This is such a useful video! I'm currently feeling pretty uninspired by my wardrobe...it's all pretty much stuff that I would've loved to wear like 1-3 years ago, but now it sort of feels a bit childish to me. So, I'm definitely going to be using these tips to help me rebuild my wardrobe with clothes I actually want to wear.
    also, I just wanted to say that I really feel like you've come into your own and really found yourself and your style when it comes to the content you're making. I always enjoyed your videos, but I feel like your recent content has just been a step up even from the high level it was already at and its a joy to watch you and your channel grow! Can't wait to see what you create in 2019 :)

    • @lucymoon
      @lucymoon  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you! Good luck with finding your style xx

  • @KatrinaH200900
    @KatrinaH200900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I think for me I have just accepted I don't have a style: I'm bohemian one day, structured and business-like another, and vintage the next. Figuring that out has made shopping much less daunting!

    • @HanaM249x
      @HanaM249x 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I relate to this! It really depends on my mood 💕

    • @ririschannelx
      @ririschannelx 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m the same, i just go by my mood

  • @JaneFreakingEyre
    @JaneFreakingEyre 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    me watching all the ads and not skipping so my british queen can get her coin luv u miss moon

    • @fionahurland2544
      @fionahurland2544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Does that make a difference?

    • @babsalabs3984
      @babsalabs3984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea i was thinking the same, does it make a difference? :)

  • @ninamarie177
    @ninamarie177 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First of all, happy birthday! 🥳
    Something I have noticed about my style is that I tend to find a brand that I like and then shop almost exclusively from them, so I now try to mix it up a bit more. I went from shopping at hollister to urban outfitters to Topshop and then & other stories.
    I still own most of the clothes I bought in the past 5-6 years so I really need to clear out my wardrobe because there are a lot of things that I haven’t worn since I was fifteen.
    I feel like I also have a formula for the outfits I wear on a daily basis (jeans and a knit jumper or a t-shirt) so I hope my wardrobe clear out will give me some inspiration.

  • @yvetishere
    @yvetishere 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would really recommend the Wonder Wardrobe videos Daria is such a good stylist! I still need to figure it all myself but she is so so so good!

  • @tiffanyivashkov2238
    @tiffanyivashkov2238 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm personally going through a style journey. I've already got rid of a lot of stuff that is obsolete, really dingy fast fashion items (i.e forever 21 knitwear is cheaper than it appears to be). there's more to get rid of but I need proper substitutes that fit my color palate (neutrals including browns and some burgundy) before i get rid of them. It's hard and will require time but it'll def pay off when you have pieces that won't pill in the first wash and pieces that will hold up better in the long run. Thank you Lucy for the inspiration, it's really helped me!!

  • @elba2666
    @elba2666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow didn't expect to relate so much to what you said about losing your sense of personal style at uni. I'm the same age as you and have been feeling exactly the same. I also think not having much money to buy investment pieces or time to think about my style and outfits had a big impact. Only just starting to find my feet again with style and its been a while now!

  • @Martinchen4ever
    @Martinchen4ever 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just listening to you talk about your style journey and being influenced by other people and being very visual ugh ...you speak to my soul ! Thank you for the helpful advice ♡ And please keep doing great things ☆

  • @DaisyBomber
    @DaisyBomber 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this video. I've always been lost with my style. I know I have a sense of style, because I'm pretty good at styling other people, it's just that when it comes to me I always just go for what's comfy and what I don't feel super insecure in (black jeans and flannel shirts). "I love that, but I could never wear it myself" is probably one of my most used phrases. Maybe this will inspire me to actually put some effort into this style thing. I'm definitely starting a pinterest board though, that's the the least I can do.

  • @bbjjbb123
    @bbjjbb123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this video could not have come at a more perfect time! I've been thinking about personal style and switching mine up so much lately, so thank you 💛✨ this was super helpful!!

  • @Luaz12
    @Luaz12 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    loosing my style is happening to me right now. It's nice to know that we have very similar experiences with our own style and loosing it by surrounding ourselves with just as stylish people we look up to.

  • @EstelaAndreetta
    @EstelaAndreetta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Happy birthday Luce!! I hope 24 treats you well

  • @DestinyOfPig
    @DestinyOfPig 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Could you please link the blog post that you mentioned :)

    • @AbiHyperHastings
      @AbiHyperHastings 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I googled it cuz I wanted to see the blog too, and I think it's 'Unfancy' by a lady called Caroline. I hope this helps!

  • @alisonallen8658
    @alisonallen8658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've kinda created a capsule make up drawer! Which makes my boots voucher from a family friend hard normally would buy make up but now no need. took me 6 weeks to spend on posh make up brushes (yes old set a good 15 years old)! And and 3 nail varnishes (replacing 3 either spent or wrong colours for me!

  • @asj5846
    @asj5846 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Building back up your wardrobe takes a LONG time. But I feel so good after I found my own personal style!

  • @Lovesongnr13caro
    @Lovesongnr13caro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is such a great, helpful video! I always love your fashion content, it‘d be amazing if you made more videos surrounding this topic in the future. I‘d also like to say that your style and your whole aesthetic has been my main inspiration for three years, so thanks a lot for that! ❤️ Oh and happy birthday, I hope you had a wonderful day!

    • @lucymoon
      @lucymoon  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is such a kind comment, thank you! Best of luck with your style journey xx

  • @ellag6545
    @ellag6545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I have real trouble differentiating clothes and styles that I admire (outfits and concepts that I find interesting) VS my OWN personal style.
    For instance, I often wear bold colours, patterned socks and yellow jumpers and all that, a thrifty "artsy" look. But than I'll be into minimalistic styles with simple cuts and designs. So I doubt what my personal style actually is. If I've actually got one at all. Is what I call "my style" really just habit and a process of familiarity?
    Maybe the answer is mixing multiple styles.. or maybe I just don't have the answer yet.

    • @plantingpages
      @plantingpages 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ella G same!!! Struggle is real

    • @leafylime3945
      @leafylime3945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this genuinely made me feel a bit stressed because i am the EXACT same

    • @ellag6545
      @ellag6545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      leafylime welp at least we're not alone in this struggle haha

    • @thehalfbloodserb
      @thehalfbloodserb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Merriam style did a really interesting video addressing this from a more psychological standpoint, so I would recommend checking it out. She gives quite a useful method for combining different styles

    • @ellag6545
      @ellag6545 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thehalfbloodserb that sounds really interesting! Thank you :)

  • @MargretMusical
    @MargretMusical 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this Lucy! Definitely thoughts that I want to carry with me as I’m figuring out how I want to express myself through my style. Thank you!

  • @PastelJulia
    @PastelJulia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    *who else just loooooves her style?* ☺️
    - Also a youtuber btw

  • @pika77289
    @pika77289 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    the video I've been waiting for!! happy birthday Lucy!!! The Queen of style!

  • @chatteringsunlight
    @chatteringsunlight 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes! Type 9 style sponges unite!

  • @jessie-nl8eb
    @jessie-nl8eb 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    yessss i've always been able to identify on other people or imagine in my head what things I like/are my style but there's never been a time in my life when I felt like i *owned* my style. always felt frustrated in feeling like i can't express myself because i can't find/afford the right clothes that were what i wanted. in school my "style" just followed the trend of what other people of my gender wore, but since going to uni where you don't wear a uniform it felt much more free. is there a difference between 'my style' and just what I 'like'?? I find myself liking very very different things to what I used to like in school but does that mean my style has changed or just my tastes...

  • @KIIOUM
    @KIIOUM 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your vids Lucy ! Would enjoy it even more if there more illustrations with these more ranting videos, like when you speak about IG inspo show some styles, and would have enjoyed seeing some full body shots of a few of your favorite outfits:)

  • @amemey7899
    @amemey7899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always happy to be watching your content! Also happy birthday Lucy hope your day was wonderful! ❤️

  • @The_Ferg1
    @The_Ferg1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Lucy! I hope you've had a wonderful day!

  • @Drexix
    @Drexix 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I *LOVE* Instagram collections. It's a huge tool I use for my style and my art.

  • @hannahmiller1525
    @hannahmiller1525 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Lucy!! xx

  • @readreadwriteread9039
    @readreadwriteread9039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I think you do your hair just as well as, if not better than, the hairdresser has done. For reals.

  • @amberisabel9474
    @amberisabel9474 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear lucy happy birthday to you!

  • @jessicam4911
    @jessicam4911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    could you do a video about your favourite cruelty free skincare brands?

  • @MsKatZander
    @MsKatZander 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the tips! I was looking for the link to the guide you used to start your capsule wardrobe, but couldn't find it in the description - would love to read it :)

  • @laurenkuroda3088
    @laurenkuroda3088 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Lucy! This is so helpful and inspiring ✨ I've really enjoyed watching your capsule wardrobe journey over the past few years. How do you balance staying inspired by instagram/pinterest/influencers without giving in to the consumerism of it all?

  • @harshitaahuja7165
    @harshitaahuja7165 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're such an inspiration ❤

  • @Charlottee___
    @Charlottee___ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This inspired me to rethink my personal style as well! Although I'm taking a different approach (kinda).
    First, I think about what I want to express and how I want to feel when wearing my clothes.
    Second, what are things that I need to keep in mind when making an outfit? (E.g I have a large chest, so I need to make sure that I don't wear low cut shirts).
    Third what outfits do I already own that fit the first two points? What is the thing that makes that specific outfit work and how can I use that in other outfits?

  • @amberisabel9474
    @amberisabel9474 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your style videos! So inspiring!

  • @ghostnotes.
    @ghostnotes. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    can always rely on you for fashion advice when I’m in a crisis aha 💛💛 also I did a cover of one of your songs a while ago and would love if you watched it 🥰

  • @alisagorzhii
    @alisagorzhii 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so exciting, literally trying to find a specific personal style. Thank you for the vid♥️

  • @SundriedStars19
    @SundriedStars19 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't think the blog post you said would be lnked below, is linked below?

  • @Basicbirchh
    @Basicbirchh 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's like you can read my mind! such an inspirational and helpful video (not unlike your others haha)

  • @Sam-pm9vy
    @Sam-pm9vy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Does anyone have advice for doing this when most high street shops don’t have (or have very little) in your size? For me this means petite - I can rarely get away with clothes that aren’t petite, but it can also mean tall and larger/smaller sizes. I guess there’s buying online (and even then I don’t know how much is out there!?) but that feels a lot more risky and more hassle when you can’t try things on or see how they fit your frame and have to send things back. Basically, what to do when your choices are highly restricted by size?

    • @itsflowerside
      @itsflowerside 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sam asos has a section specifically for petite people so i guess it’s not much of a risk there.

    • @Sam-pm9vy
      @Sam-pm9vy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      itsflowerside The only thing I know about ASOS is that the cool kids my age seem to buy a lot from there. What makes it not risky?

    • @hanzib31
      @hanzib31 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm very tall (6'3") so ASOS is basically the only place I can shop (or I stalk Depop for ASOS tall brand, more specifically... Trying to be ethical whoop). I can usually trust ASOS to be true to size etc.

    • @lisiledbetter8220
      @lisiledbetter8220 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      asos also has this thing where you put i your size and weight and they recommend which size to get. got my jeans size right the first time, im tiny as well!

    • @hanzib31
      @hanzib31 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lisiledbetter8220 it's such a good idea but doesn't work well if you have low body fat/high muscle ratio. Just a warning for anyone. Because it goes on weight, which if you have more muscle could be deceptively high. It always advises me a size 12, when I'm 100% a size 10. 😳

  • @faciamortis105
    @faciamortis105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t find a link to Anna’s blog :(

  • @melaniehight2202
    @melaniehight2202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What lipstick are you wearing?? It's lovely!

  • @hannahcblair
    @hannahcblair 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    wheres the link to the blogpost?

  • @riversong4891
    @riversong4891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where are the jeans in the thumbnail from and what make are they??

  • @meridy7618
    @meridy7618 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎈🎉🎁

  • @cfloster
    @cfloster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    currently half way through a diet (30 pounds down!) and I have almost no clothes that fit me... but also don't want to buy anything yet bc i know ill lose it and another 6 months

  • @mynamesholly
    @mynamesholly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol nothing wrong with jeans and a t-shirt 😂 I have 3 black v neck t-shirts that I rotate with 2 pairs of jeans and converse and some jumpers - really boring but since I’m at work all week I wear fairly boring smart stuff and loooove being in jeans at the weekend!

  • @zubairkarmalkar26
    @zubairkarmalkar26 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    04:25 Cue Miss Cracker in AS5 ??? 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @tryingtobeeloquent
    @tryingtobeeloquent 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so lovely and helpful, but like, i like all different styles of clothes and wanna wear them all. Lol.

  • @n.oelaniii1002
    @n.oelaniii1002 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videos so much Lucy and this video really helped thank you

  • @celinererekura7116
    @celinererekura7116 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You didn't link the website for capsule wardrobe...

  • @misskendrajo
    @misskendrajo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    blog post link? 💜

  • @kellywinters1692
    @kellywinters1692 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this, I so need this video :)

  • @annakathvd2203
    @annakathvd2203 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was really helpful, thank you :)

  • @clare.conservation98
    @clare.conservation98 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is amazing thank you 💚

  • @poppyseed5056
    @poppyseed5056 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    if you are someone doesn’t express their true self often, use style to free you instead of limit you. be comfortable, but a good amount of uncomfortable so that you may free yourself more and more everyday.

  • @rodrigocastello2334
    @rodrigocastello2334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And happy birthday btw

  • @MessyCraftGeek
    @MessyCraftGeek 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't see the link mentioned anywhere in the description, am I just being blind?

  • @clare.conservation98
    @clare.conservation98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's the blog post? Can't see it in description box :/

    • @faciamortis105
      @faciamortis105 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Clare Pitt I can’t find it too

    • @lucymoon
      @lucymoon  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry I’m out at my bday dinner, will post it tomorrow morn!

    • @clare.conservation98
      @clare.conservation98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lucymoon no rush! Have a good birthday 💚

  • @rodrigocastello2334
    @rodrigocastello2334 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your style. In some ways is so similar to mine.

  • @sarahburgess7306
    @sarahburgess7306 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    where is the blog post?

  • @juk2023
    @juk2023 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is the white jacket from in the thumbnail... Love it

    • @lucymoon
      @lucymoon  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everlane!

  • @sammy.miller.music1
    @sammy.miller.music1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    anyone know the blog post she talks about for the capsule wardrobe?

  • @pity9377
    @pity9377 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you forgot to put the blog in the description

  • @foriwillconsidermycatjeoffery
    @foriwillconsidermycatjeoffery 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    can anyone tell me where she got that necklace she wears a lot? I think it so cute. It sort of reminds me of a tiny gong, haha.

  • @doreenmarie4938
    @doreenmarie4938 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lucyyy please Tell me where the jacket on the thumbnail is from the one on the right please I need to know I asked this on your blog already Sksksksks please

    • @lucymoon
      @lucymoon  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The white one is from Everlane: rstyle.me/cz-n/dbkw8ubyjhp and the cream one is from Weekday: rstyle.me/cz-n/dd7xzxbyjhp 😘

  • @knivesnflowers
    @knivesnflowers 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m someone who’ll buy things I like and then get home and realise they don’t go w the six pairs of checked coloured trousers or the striped tshirts and jumpers that are all I seem to wear lmao I need to sort myself out

  • @DearAliya
    @DearAliya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm my own worst enemy in general because I'm crazily indecisive & easily influenced 💔 One day I want to look Parisian chic, the next day I want to look like Alex Turner etc etc 😂 It doesn't lend a hand to my bank account at all but I just can't stand being stuck to a single style so sadly I can't even pin point my style in the end.

  • @alexwhittaker2593
    @alexwhittaker2593 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only TH-camr I religiously watch

  • @mateusp55
    @mateusp55 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the way you talk :)

  • @TheSingingPeople
    @TheSingingPeople 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is anyone raised to have their own style?? Like by their parents haha. I envy them

  • @camilaubillagodoy4818
    @camilaubillagodoy4818 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So.. you will see us...when?
    ps: great video! ;)

  • @mik3chick
    @mik3chick 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What the heck did she say at 0:39

  • @marmalademol
    @marmalademol 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lol but everything you have is beige and white

    • @lucymoon
      @lucymoon  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Representing beige lovers everywhere 👍

  • @Mlikes
    @Mlikes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    btw you remind me of Alexis Bledel (Gilmore girls)

  • @CanMeHaveAPizza
    @CanMeHaveAPizza 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whoop go 9's

  • @Mlikes
    @Mlikes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't think that people "fighting about some cause" are doing it out of "excessive levels of guilt" (maybe it's 'passion' for instance, or 'compassion', or different motivators) , this logic sounds kinda like some 'safe space' to help you (or anyone) find an excuse over not being involved in 'important' issues. No intention to offend you personally, I just don't agree totally with you. Also, the idea of style/fashion etc iz very nice and yes important i guess to many of us having our "personalities" formed through it, but there is more to our personality than the outside looks. .