Thank you sir for your wisdom. Back in the 80’s my mom (RIP) had to go rescue her niece who married a monster. Ladies, listen up, abusive boyfriend WILL become abusive husband, they don’t change.
Doctor Charles Apoki please I am clapping for you, I give you a standing ovation, you have just quoted certain portions of my book titled " How to avoid divorce." Very good, God bless you, you're on point, you have stated a biblical truth.
It's a very painful thing to lose a beautiful 32 year old lady with 3 children because of domestic violence, ,😭😭😭😭. I can feel the pain. I have a daughter.
Thanks for sharing sir. The African mind has caged women that way. The bible verses you quoted. I haven't heard African preachers, preach on that verses until i discovered it myself. What a sad one😢
Parents, pls train your children well, girls have to be shown love at home & be educated. Some of the girls in violent relationships have extreme low self esteem & have no financial resources to leave their spouses.
Thank you sir. Until the church shouts it on the roof top. Men and women will continue to stay victims of domestic violence. It is sad. Sir please use your influence to talk to other Pastors to educate pp about this menace in our society. Another reason women stay in an abusive relationship might be due to financials. The men have been the bread winner, his uses it to dominate their partner
Very correct about the financial aspect. In fact some men think that keeping their financially dependent will make them submissive. Many of the parents of the women are so poor such that the women have no where to go to.😭😭😭
Very true. I advocate that parents should train their daughters just as they train their boys so that their daughters don’t get stuck in an abusive relationship.
1) Your wife is like a phone. If you know how to charge her battery,her screen will remain on. 2) If you press the right button the phone will open the right app. 3) If a woman denies you a visit to Jerusalem. Report to her pastor and if no response report her to her parents. 4) If she denies you from using the airport for 2 years consistently, you have a right to go to court. You have a right to divorce her if you go to court.
Doctor, I don't agree. Once they use you, most of the time they don't care , it doesn't matter how much you charge the battery, the screen wouldn't open.
Exactly. This society wants to deny the annoying and provoking disposition of a woman when things don't go her way. I have witnessed where a woman was seriously berating her husband publicly and the husband tried to leave the place but this woman was trying to restrain him. This husband we are talking about is built like a silver-back gorilla. Do the math if one day this man snaps.
This is a very sensitive issue that needs to be addressed in the modern-day Nigeria. Rape and sexual violence are also facets of domestic violence that are very prevalent in our communities. A Nigerian female contents creator recently posted a content justifying rape in Nigeria on social media. So, I decided to oppose her motion. To my dismay, I was verbally attacked by Nigerian men who also justify rape. It portrays us as being far from civilization. I am ashamed to be associated with such a society or community. The weak system has failed to address all these evil vices while perpetrators walk freely on our streets brazenly. There is no justification for domestic violence.
Take what easy??? Someone just died unfulfilled. If you see evil and you are not mad in your spirit to condemn it, you are promoting the same evil. Don't just write comments. Think before you write comments, please.
Thank you sir for your wisdom. Back in the 80’s my mom (RIP) had to go rescue her niece who married a monster. Ladies, listen up, abusive boyfriend WILL become abusive husband, they don’t change.
Doctor Charles Apoki please I am clapping for you, I give you a standing ovation, you have just quoted certain portions of my book titled " How to avoid divorce." Very good, God bless you, you're on point, you have stated a biblical truth.
Thank you sir. God bless you richly. If more intentional men would be coming out to say these things, our homes/marriages would be better for it.
Absolutely
I feel your anger and frustration because at the end of the video you did not tell us that you are our friend as usual. I understand.
It's a very painful thing to lose a beautiful 32 year old lady with 3 children because of domestic violence, ,😭😭😭😭. I can feel the pain. I have a daughter.
This applies to men too who are facing abuse and domestic violence but are afraid to speak......
True.
I say this again. You are one of the wisest, intelligent, and upright man still alife today. May God continue to bless you 🙏
Amen.
You are right. He tells us the truth without hiding behind the bible to deceive people like many preachers do.
Amen.
Dr thank you for speaking the truth that most pastors have shy away from. Submission has been misquoted always
Dr. Charles Apoki,,, you are so amazing. I love this inspiration of yours
Shout it louder! You said it all. The church should also do better in addressing these issues instead of asking the abused spouse to pray for change.
On point, this is wisdom
Thanks for sharing sir. The African mind has caged women that way. The bible verses you quoted. I haven't heard African preachers, preach on that verses until i discovered it myself. What a sad one😢
A lot of women are going thro cha. God.have mercy. Hmmmmmm
Very well said...100%
Amen Dr Apoki! You are speaking truth. ❤
This goes all the sides men and women, a word to a wise is enough
God bless you Sir, great advice to all.
So sad for her and her children 😢😢😢
Ride on sir, you always say the truth, remain blessed sir
Thanks for sharing.
Well said Dr Apoki. God bless you
You are on point and.very true.
Parents, pls train your children well, girls have to be shown love at home & be educated. Some of the girls in violent relationships have extreme low self esteem & have no financial resources to leave their spouses.
Very true
Thank you sir. Until the church shouts it on the roof top. Men and women will continue to stay victims of domestic violence. It is sad.
Sir please use your influence to talk to other Pastors to educate pp about this menace in our society.
Another reason women stay in an abusive relationship might be due to financials. The men have been the bread winner, his uses it to dominate their partner
Very correct about the financial aspect. In fact some men think that keeping their financially dependent will make them submissive.
Many of the parents of the women are so poor such that the women have no where to go to.😭😭😭
Very true. I advocate that parents should train their daughters just as they train their boys so that their daughters don’t get stuck in an abusive relationship.
Doctor apoky thank you. More wisdom and understanding to you sir
My pleasure
Doctor, what do a man do when his wife denied the husband from going to Jerusalem,
Thanks for your taught 😊
1) Your wife is like a phone. If you know how to charge her battery,her screen will remain on.
2) If you press the right button the phone will open the right app.
3) If a woman denies you a visit to Jerusalem. Report to her pastor and if no response report her to her parents.
4) If she denies you from using the airport for 2 years consistently, you have a right to go to court. You have a right to divorce her if you go to court.
Doctor, I don't agree. Once they use you, most of the time they don't care , it doesn't matter how much you charge the battery, the screen wouldn't open.
@@markgeorge7426 😂😂😂😂😘😂
I trust you and know tha you'll balance it, cause some ladys slap their husband with bad mouth/bad character etc. Thank you Dr Apoki
Some beat them. One hit her husband's head with a pestle.
Please no matter insult a wife or partner utters to you you must not beat her. For beating, NO NO NO.
You forgot to say it but, I'll remain to be your Friend from Kenya
Thank you Dr Apoki
Amen!!
Hahaha. Dr don vex
Let remember that some women too do traumatized there husband. My wife pushed me from staircase even though she knows she have lumber spodylosis
Seriously?
Exactly. This society wants to deny the annoying and provoking disposition of a woman when things don't go her way.
I have witnessed where a woman was seriously berating her husband publicly and the husband tried to leave the place but this woman was trying to restrain him. This husband we are talking about is built like a silver-back gorilla. Do the math if one day this man snaps.
One day she will kill you if you don’t get out now.
This is a very sensitive issue that needs to be addressed in the modern-day Nigeria. Rape and sexual violence are also facets of domestic violence that are very prevalent in our communities.
A Nigerian female contents creator recently posted a content justifying rape in Nigeria on social media. So, I decided to oppose her motion. To my dismay, I was verbally attacked by Nigerian men who also justify rape. It portrays us as being far from civilization. I am ashamed to be associated with such a society or community. The weak system has failed to address all these evil vices while perpetrators walk freely on our streets brazenly. There is no justification for domestic violence.
Thanks. We must join our voices together to drown their stupidity.
It's bad the society doesn't see it this way,
marriage is not do or die issue.
Yes sir.
Hope I can laugh 😂
It's too serious a matter for laughter, a 32year old beautiful lady with great potentials just died.
Pls take it easy
Someone just died. You wouldn't take it easy if your daughter is dead.
What do you mean by that?
Take what easy???
Someone just died unfulfilled. If you see evil and you are not mad in your spirit to condemn it, you are promoting the same evil. Don't just write comments. Think before you write comments, please.
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