WINNING FAMILY APPROVAL | Interracial relationship & Online dating

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  • Salam Everyone! This is our most highly requested video, HOW WE MET! Here are all the details of how we met, online dating, meeting the parents, etc. A lot of Muslim couples are curious how we met. We wanted to tell our story and encourage others to do this in a Halal way.
    If you have any extra questions, comment below and I'll get back to you!

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  • @suhaadsaleem2208
    @suhaadsaleem2208 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Muslim couple that got to know each other in a respectful & halal way. May Allah bless your entire marriage with happiness and success in this life and the Hereafter.

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much, ameen!

  • @shakeraali2033
    @shakeraali2033 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I am so happy you included screenshots!!! How cute were your pictures!!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha! Thank you 😊

  • @shakeyboo28
    @shakeyboo28 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I couldn’t stop smiling the whole time I am watching this video. I remember your father’s exact words were “Juhi found a man better than I could have found for her.” After Hamza lead the prayer! I remember you telling me this years ago! What a beautiful blessed story! Can you both do more videos together? I love seeing y’all on screen!! Ma sha Allah stay blessed my lovely couple !!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww I’m so happy it brought you joy! Yes Inshallah!

    • @darkmatter3538
      @darkmatter3538 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wait, HE SAID THAT?

    • @shakeraali2033
      @shakeraali2033 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@darkmatter3538 he did!!! That's what Juhi told me years ago. Of course it was a long time ago!!

    • @MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke
      @MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It makes me angry when I see people use sharia and Islam to fulfill their own carnal desires. For several years, I have been teaching Islamic Jurisprudence in Islamic establishments in NY, including in Darul Quran WasSunnah and I have been leading tarawih salaah since the age of thirteen, and now am an Imam at Hedaya Masjid.
      Unfortunately, Jahili and ignorant ones dare to tell me that I am speaking against Quran and Sunna, when I try to educate them about the true purpose of life. I believe I am more qualified to discuss this topic than most people who are posting here.
      Marriage and sex are never the objective of life for Muslims. Loving Allah is what matters. Loving God, loving humanity is what matters. Some people marry and then get heart broken. Many people stay single and are in love with their Creator. Allah is their everlasting friend. Even if someone finds marriage to be necessary, he or she should not convince everyone to marry just because we think it is right. Mariam the daughter of Imran was single. Asiya has the worst husband in the world which was close to not having a husband. Yet Allah loved them the most. Indulgence in any sort of excessive pleasures is counterproductive for human beings. Believers were not sent to this world for enjoying luxuries. We were created to worship and obey Allah and His Messenger. Our Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) lived by this principle, and even though he could have become very wealthy by doing a lot of business, he chose to remain in poverty until his death. Due to our own indulgence, and following the practice of the non-Muslims and getting obsessed with sexual activities, there are thousands of Saudi Arabian youths, Kuwait youngsters, Qatari men and women, elderly entrepreneurs from Oman and Bahrain, and even scientists from Indonesia and Malaysia, Africa and India, are now being most severely tortured in CIA’s Bush-era interrogation programs, that are until today, operating in secrecy in many European countries. People are leaving Islam in hordes because they are disgusted by our obsession with sex. Did you ever see a Christian priest or a Jewish rabbi uploads such shameless video? Who do you think Allah will allow into paradise? Muslims are being warned by Allah to be sensible. In addition to the Guantanamo Naval Base in Cuba, there are black sites located in Afghanistan, Lithuania, Romania, Poland, Thailand, Bulgaria, Norway and even in Canada, where hundreds of innocent men, women and Moslem children are taken and electrocuted and sexually assaulted by American, British and European guards. This is happening because too many Moslems are now obsessed with intercourse and carnal enjoyment, and are constantly online searching for ways to enjoy conjugal life. All those men who were captured by non-Muslim blacksite torturers admitted that they experienced with different sex styles with their halal wives, and in those interrogation chambers, they were forced to sexually assault their own daughter, so fear Allah, and do not become like animals! If we do not become pure, then Muslim girls and daughters will be assaulted by the enemies. They force parents to have sexual relations with children and record it!

  • @darkmatter2295
    @darkmatter2295 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Love the energy, mashallah beautiful couple! this is what Islam is all about!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      aw thank you so much!

  • @kvontanner9550
    @kvontanner9550 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Love how cute and funny you are with each other!

  • @asmaidris
    @asmaidris 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mashallah, I am Somali and my husband is American black, love to see other interracial couples!!! We need more of this!!! Beautiful couple!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Aw so beautiful Mashallah! Yes I agree! Thank you so much 🥰

    • @Grimloxz
      @Grimloxz 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hey, I'm just curious but wouldn't you and your black American husband be intercultural and not interracial? Just curious on your thoughts... Peace

  • @nataliehogue8126
    @nataliehogue8126 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My favorite parents 🥺🥺 Loved watch your journey together and now getting to see you share all the trials and tribulations is awesome! Can’t wait for the next videos 🙌🏼🙌🏼

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww thank you for your support ❤️

  • @Eyelash40
    @Eyelash40 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I absolutely love this video! What a wonderful story and union. You two make the cutest couple and your personalities seem so right together. So happy for you! Thanks for sharing.

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aww I’m so glad you enjoyed! Thank you 🥰

  • @taufiqsaleem8724
    @taufiqsaleem8724 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Very insightful

  • @user-qj7ol1uy8w
    @user-qj7ol1uy8w 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish you both nothing but a beautiful marriage! I love that you both are together and I remember when he was telling me about you. And I was very excited for him when he was telling me about you. You both compliment one another well. And I love that you’re apart of the family as well. Blessings 🫶🏾🥹

  • @bismashoukat6473
    @bismashoukat6473 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Oh my goodness! Thank you so much for being so open and sharing y’alls story! I felt all the emotions while watching this video! 🥹🥰😍It gives me hope to know that this can be done in a true halal manner! Please make more content together! Y’all are perfect 🫶🏾 May Allah swt always bless your marriage!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww I’m so glad you enjoyed! Ameen ❤️

    • @darkmatter3538
      @darkmatter3538 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ameen! Thank you!

  • @afshoukat
    @afshoukat 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Absolutely loved watching this video! Thank you for sharing y’all’s story and for bringing Hamzah into our family. He truly brings so much joy into our lives. Wishing y’all a lifetime of happiness, success, and good health ❤️ Love you guys!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He truly does! Mashallah! Thank you 😊 ameen ❤️

  • @tubaansari3523
    @tubaansari3523 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Loved this video! I liked hearing the different perspectives and how you guys shared your story. May Allah bless you ❤

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it! :)

  • @cmclimax
    @cmclimax 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Masha Allah. Kudos to you both!. Yeah! Yall's personality definitely are the same. Mabruk to you both! And keep the videos a coming🙌 💜💜💜

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! 🥰

  • @laurapeterson2004
    @laurapeterson2004 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So great of you both doing this. You have come so far Juhi I’m so proud of you❤!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww thank you Laura ❤️🥰

  • @sameeratanveer7601
    @sameeratanveer7601 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Beautiful! I’m so glad it all worked out. May Allah continue to shower his blessings on you. Aameen!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ameen! Thank you 😊

  • @user-bt4pk2oc1v
    @user-bt4pk2oc1v 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Aww sweet kids. Love this video and you both

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      aw thank you !So glad you enjoyed :)

  • @Harlem2Detroit
    @Harlem2Detroit 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ma shaa Allah Mabrook, beautiful couple! May Allah swt bless and protect your marriage Ameen

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so kind, ameen!

  • @user-vn6ih1kw5l
    @user-vn6ih1kw5l 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    sweet

  • @bakloujonson5609
    @bakloujonson5609 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🤲🏾 Mashallah ❤️

  • @user-st1ej2tg4u
    @user-st1ej2tg4u 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You guys are sooo cute mashaAllah may Allah strengthen your relationship Ameen

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So sweet of you! Ameen! Ramadan Mubarak 🌙!

  • @elaineleslie3006
    @elaineleslie3006 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Mitalayeka
    @Mitalayeka 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Where there is a will on both sides there is always a way, just imagine if the girl’s parents had said No, that’s a battle they could never win, but also kids from immigrant families live in two separate worlds and they may never understand each other fully.

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed. However, I think if the parents have a good connection with their children things can be understood. And as always Allah is best of planners!

  • @theexfactor1283
    @theexfactor1283 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Do you guys have a video on what the next step was?

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hello, no we don’t. Basically, we decided on a date of nikkah and mehr and wrote out a contract. Then prepared/ arranged the wedding.

  • @affyyy123
    @affyyy123 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Salam sister... I too have just met a man on a Matrimonial Dating App. He wants to speak on the phone with me, but I am super super shy. I loveeee that he asked if he could ring me instead of just ringing me mashalla. I like how he hasn't pressurised me. He has asked me once and understood when I said I am busy, even though I'm not even THAT busy. I am just painstakingly nervous and shy haha. Please can you give me tips on how to overcome the first time talking on the phone with this respectful guy. He has been respectful and is keeping it Halal. So it is really helping with the green flags hahaha. I prayed my Istikhara and he is STILL around haha 😂... So Allah is saying yes, but it is me and my silly nerves. How do I overcome them as the first time speaking to a man?????

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Salam! it is nerve racking and you are taking the right steps. What I did when I first spoke to him on the phone, his mother was also present which is important to keep it halal. It helps to write out some points you want to discuss or questions you may have. Its okay to feel nervous but keep in mind the main purpose is to please Allah.😀

    • @cmclimax
      @cmclimax 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Assalaamulaikym,
      I’m the mother of the groom in this video.
      To kindly answer your question, have this potential “groom” of yours talk with your Wally. This will one: get your Wally a sense of this brother’s character. You may also want to have your phone conversations with your Wally on the phone with you two. This will perhaps help with your shyness by breaking the ice with your Wally talking to him on the telephone while you’re listening too.

  • @cgmohammed
    @cgmohammed 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    الله اكبر Allah Akbar.

  • @2cool460
    @2cool460 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People, people, people...and this isn't directed at them. I'm commenting to the masses. The only so-call demographical social labelings that the self-proclaiming European man/men created are: racially Black and white. All other social demographical groupings/labelings are either (combinations) said cultural, religion, national, continental, regional/subregional, tribal/clan, and already mentioned the two racial labelings.
    You are either [normally] a brown-skinned or pale-skinned being. We're not all the same said skin complexion(s), even if you are of the same (close) family and/or said lineage, etc.

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very educational.

  • @user-zs9ki3cb2g
    @user-zs9ki3cb2g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love that biggest thing look for character

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed, character matters most!

  • @munamasood
    @munamasood 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What nationality is your husband?

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He is African American.

    • @munamasood
      @munamasood 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@juhisaleem Nice. Thanks.

  • @Weshmorrey
    @Weshmorrey หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Interracial relation? In this video I see 2 black folks😅😅😅

  • @gousaurusRex
    @gousaurusRex 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Aw this is so beautiful!!! 🥲🥲🥲🥲You two are gems❤️ and meant to be! May Allah continue to bless your marriage!

    • @juhisaleem
      @juhisaleem  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Aww thank you 😊 ameen 🥰