@@dailyanimalpaw “Awaiting” is perhaps a better term. The divine feminine awaits in expectation…according to the understanding of a plan, a design. The divine masculine reaches in an attempt to actualize, or fulfill, that divine design. I am, of course, speaking highly abstractly 😌💭
I appreciate this because I have been opening to the divine feminine within myself and learning more what that means. This makes sense and it is a beautiful, freeing energy. I love it and feel so happy to be a woman and embrace this Divine Feminine and its effortlessly fun and empowering energy. It brings me out, builds my confidence and assists my gifts and talents to also show themselves with joy. Feeling Good !
So true, that the feminine is the support of the masculine.. I feel I’ve been sad (& single) cuz I haven’t found a trustworthy masculine man to support. I totally agree we’r th support of the masculine.
Thank you Ben, I felt your shift into the feminine. Thank you for your enormous compassion. I received this wisdom, when I Imagined loving and my orientation to the most divine masculine I can imagine. It was like you said… the womb of divine feminine must be even larger than creation, receiving it all. With great confidence, not the same as exuding confidence but rather encompassing confidence… ultimate receptivity… it takes tremendous courage.. when we’ve grown up suffering, competing, racing, surviving… all so confused. As women we need to remember that the qualities of innocence and surrender to the masculine may seem that we are discarding ourselves! the feminine! “bc she needs to be protected and chosen first!" (thinking that we know better) but it is not that way. Actually by surrendering we are embodying and empowering the Divine Goddess, bringing Her to Life. 🌹
I hope you read this Ben. The light body activation meditation expanded my awareness; glimpses of the absolute and several samadhis. This eventually lead to finding the I AM, pure awareness and stabilizing the noughtingness state. I'm in-between the causal and supra-causal state. Thanks!!! Just sharing my testimony to encourage others!!!
I recommend his free online retreat via TH-cam: "Enlightenment is possible for you" course as an companion. The meditation lead me or made me receptive to this.
I used to struggle with trusting men (unconsciously) due to how I perceived the relationship / lack there of with a father figure in my childhood.. it made me strong / independent and not reliant on anyone for anything. but it was isolating.. I found meditation through music and creativity really helped. I stumbled across White Tantra which is something I think everyone should practice when they are transforming. Eliminating the need for sex, or the search for a sexual partner creates a resonance of purity that cannot be taken away. It's not to deny the desire for sexual relationships, but it is encouraging ones own love for themself and utilizing the energy in ones own body to empower accelerated change. When the need for sexual relations is decreased - it creates room for ones love to return to themself and become open.. It's not needy, it doesn't crave attention. It's pure and happy bliss- and seeing each human as love and light, instead of the 3D - I am a woman and to be complete I seek man. The duality in not seeing man as man creates the openness to men.
Couldn’t be more perfect time for the message…got all my answers. Sometimes I listen to your teachings and cannot comprehend …. It just doesn’t resonate. And today every words from the speech have a deep meaning to me. Thank you to Bentinho and his team so much!
As a one with the divine feminine the creator told me to have clarity of judgment. Not everyone is on that level of consciousness you are and it's okay to judge what is not meant for you. The creator even told me specifically we are not meant to get along with everyone. Loving ourselves fully, trusting God
Ohhh Bentinho...I was walking last night searching for an open shop for cigarettes, and as usual when I go out late at night (which is actually not my norm for me), cars were slowing down, I could energetically feel men tugging at my sexuality from the cars, one even was undressing me...so i was on video with my twin flame (3 years separation but always connected) and he saw how i put the so called shields up and it was by applying one of your teachings: ignore circumstances. They would slow down their cars, I would energetically focus on the highest light while still paying some attention....they would pass by. for me this ignoring can be a simple head shake/move to the left/right...as if "nothing to see here". I walked for about 2 hrs and burned maybe 500 kcal i was cold-sweating from the heat it was 10-11 PM and I got home extremely happy because i had a lovely time and i could protect my energy. This is some help for the ladies if they need it. I feel like I am a very embodied feminine, of course I could be better...but have been working on embodying both the polarities for years...today i just spoke to my twin from my masculine and we were laughing because he wanted to get ice cream with my inner feminine :) kinda like a teddy bear wants to get hugged and actually asks for it. I think both masc and feminine require vulnerability, man for example to be in his true masc essence and ask for the feminine's love and support. even attention, i don't think it's so wrong. we all need to be seen and heard. I enjoyed very much, Bentinho. Thank you for consciously or uncounsciously acknowledging my femininity and giving me maybe even more to feeling-wise embody and think of.
It’s so awkward to see how we as women hav been unconsciously forced to live in defense.. even if we “have privilege”.. due to the fear for our feminine safety.
for me its: the more i am open and vulnerable and radiate. in public. the more i feel that this is protected, i honestly think its a self-protective energy. I used to be care-free, open and vulnerable for a long time, sweet and soft but also experienced a few year of... hard, more manly energy. Back when I was more hard, angry even, and in a "i dont need love"-state of mind i got taken advantage of a lot, when a female dont respect herself/ her feminity the men also dont respect her/ her feminity. In my experience, also men that have a very low level of intelligence/ integrity respect the self-respecting flower that is beautiful. So definitely a self-protective energy!!! But. The beautiful flower also is clear about her boundaries and she is kind of strict within her kindness (which gets odly accepted by everyone!). Dutch female living in an area that is considered "ghetto" by the rest of holland lol. So yeah, I definitely feel that you dont need to worry about radiating this kind of energy as in my experience all men of all intelligence levels are very respecting of her, respecting of her no, respecting of her boundaries and respecting of everything that she wants. To the girl in this video.
Unfortunately as women we desire to practice our vulnerability & softness so much we often tend to be that w/ wrong & untrustworthy men. Clearly meditation & surrender to God needs to happen 1st above all else.
"I allow everything to be as it is," meaning that I don't repress or suppress my emotions, nor do I identify myself with the thoughts I'm having. I developed a heightened sense of awareness - I call it "hyper-awareness." I'm partially enlightened. The only thing that is getting in the way is my social anxiety issue - when I'm about to meet a person I get very tense and worried; my own mind wanders into the future. Or when I see a person appearing in front of me, I get a nagging feeling in my stomach area and my heart rate increases exponentially. I allow the anxiety to be there, and I even feel deeper into it - I've been doing this for a long time but it seems that the triggers of my anxiety issue are still within my subconscious. What can I do to solve my social anxiety issue and be at ease with myself in social situations? Thank you.
Very similar, very high in anxiety, what helped me is to realize that I'm the experiencer, I'm just the observer. Accepting your feeling of resistance is the easiest way out of it.
Is it possible you have a choice in the matter? Or maybe the choice was already made and you are in the way of it. I dont know, allowing everything to be as it is might be end game, but is it also possible you can just chose or have chosen something different. Perhaps chosing to "not shift and allow," is a supression of your/the universe's desire to shift. The universe is benevolent, its trying to heal you let it in. Dont let your surrendure stop the flow of life itself. There is no end to expansion, its natural, let yourself expand :)! Subtle stuff, good job!
Non-dual tools and practices by themselves are not the whole enchillada. I also touched upon the deepest state of enlightenment I've ever experienced by a daily pracitice of deep surrender, but the people thing remained. You are not JUST awareness and an energy being. You are also a 3D being. On a 3D level you WILL have to find a way to interact with others that works for you. Probably requiring to set boundaries....or to start interacting other kinds of people...or develop more self-estteem and confidence......ALL of which play a factor in your experience of anxiety with humans. Remember, surrender and heighetened states of awareness are just ONE flavor of the whole enchillada that is being human. Your future, enlightened or not, won't be in always being in that state. You'll be doing things, making choices, making mental choices, interacting with people etc. Self-actualization doesn't happen buy simply heightened states of awareness but by application of free will and choosing as a human (where to focus, what to do, when to do..what to get close to, what to avoid....what attitude to have to this or that): There's literally infinite ways to approach that social anxiety, but that is queing you in on a need to change your prespective on certain things IN ORDER to make social interaction something that feels "aligned" and "resonant". You may find you doubt yourself a lot next to others...or carry a chronic sense of shame as an individual....or that you were never someone who cared for most interaction and genuinely feel like more a of aloner...........etc etc....each context is a context.
3 Steps 1. Practice allowing things to be as they are and self-realisation practice to become very grounded in this on a moment-to-moment basis 2. Go out into social situations more to allow those triggers to continue to come up for you 3. Investigate into your triggers and emotions to release more fully This is what helped me brother
off-topic: i wonder if nobody wore clothes. usually unless cold, would we be less hard and hurt eachother less? because we physically SEE eachother skin and vulnerability?
I find this the most difficuld part. When i am in a state of AWARNESS life flows. Then i am in my peak, But Then the vally day or day's come to my expierence showing me where and what the false programming is. Overtime it is Giving me fysical , mental and emotional discomfort. Sleeping problems and feeling verry verry Tried. The ego is trying to protect me but is overprotectingme. Still trying to convince itself its only human, meaning consciousness trapt in a body , being vulabrel and in prisson. I spend already so Manny days read years... transending, rewritting and so on. I understand what you are talking about with surrender but it doesnt click . I like to learn more about it. Manny TIMES i hear from teachers that it was the most difficuld part and the part that give them greate libaration. I like to implement this . Can you recomend some information you already have on line ??? I love you Thank you so mush for everthing you do and your embodyment of the most beautiful light / light. When i am connecting with you IT feels like home
I feel confused about masculine and feminine duality and the concept of us as creators. Why is duality even an issue we have to take into account when we create everything anyway? For instance, why would I need masculine containment if I can create my own safety anyway?
Sometimes as the feminine Goddess I think to myself as if I am (She is) the FIRST Reflection of Gods Love into the journey of knowing & witnessing Himself… The Beauty, Adoration, Excitement and Sanctity He must have felt & in Aww🙄… …and “Her” her Joy and Inspiration to Create knowing she is LOVED and Adored wHoly and Unconditionally. ONE becomes the Lovers and the ALL that is…. 🤔🥹🫡🫠🫥 (Not sure this expresses the full effects of what I am TRULY trying to betray here😅lol But indeed, a very beautiful thought, and even better knowing and feeling as The Divine Feminine, Masculine so Beautiful and Precious. Love you Guys ⚔️🕊💋
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Divine feminine: waiting and potentiating.
Divine masculine: reaching and actualizing.
Perfect unity.
waiting?
@@dailyanimalpaw “Awaiting” is perhaps a better term. The divine feminine awaits in expectation…according to the understanding of a plan, a design. The divine masculine reaches in an attempt to actualize, or fulfill, that divine design. I am, of course, speaking highly abstractly 😌💭
Math…
The first time upon hearing this I beautifully opened…water to a flower ….every word quenched me… receptivity is just so nourishing for a woman🙏🌹❤️💚
Came to me in the absolutely perfect moment, perfect synchronicity ❤️ thank you so much ❤️❤️
I appreciate this because I have been opening to the divine feminine within myself and learning more what that means. This makes sense and it is a beautiful, freeing energy. I love it and feel so happy to be a woman and embrace this Divine Feminine and its effortlessly fun and empowering energy. It brings me out, builds my confidence and assists my gifts and talents to also show themselves with joy. Feeling Good !
So true, that the feminine is the support of the masculine.. I feel I’ve been sad (& single) cuz I haven’t found a trustworthy masculine man to support. I totally agree we’r th support of the masculine.
Thank you Ben, I felt your shift into the feminine. Thank you for your enormous compassion.
I received this wisdom, when I Imagined loving and my orientation to the most divine masculine I can imagine. It was like you said… the womb of divine feminine must be even larger than creation, receiving it all. With great confidence, not the same as exuding confidence but rather encompassing confidence… ultimate receptivity…
it takes tremendous courage.. when we’ve grown up suffering, competing, racing, surviving… all so confused. As women we need to remember that the qualities of innocence and surrender to the masculine may seem that we are discarding ourselves! the feminine! “bc she needs to be protected and chosen first!" (thinking that we know better) but it is not that way. Actually by surrendering we are embodying and empowering the Divine Goddess, bringing Her to Life. 🌹
I hope you read this Ben. The light body activation meditation expanded my awareness; glimpses of the absolute and several samadhis. This eventually lead to finding the I AM, pure awareness and stabilizing the noughtingness state. I'm in-between the causal and supra-causal state. Thanks!!!
Just sharing my testimony to encourage others!!!
Where we can find it?
TH-cam. Type light body activation
I recommend his free online retreat via TH-cam: "Enlightenment is possible for you" course as an companion.
The meditation lead me or made me receptive to this.
Amazing, Bentinho!. Innocence may be the 'last frontier' and the best vitamin. Thank you.
I used to struggle with trusting men (unconsciously) due to how I perceived the relationship / lack there of with a father figure in my childhood.. it made me strong / independent and not reliant on anyone for anything. but it was isolating.. I found meditation through music and creativity really helped. I stumbled across White Tantra which is something I think everyone should practice when they are transforming. Eliminating the need for sex, or the search for a sexual partner creates a resonance of purity that cannot be taken away. It's not to deny the desire for sexual relationships, but it is encouraging ones own love for themself and utilizing the energy in ones own body to empower accelerated change. When the need for sexual relations is decreased - it creates room for ones love to return to themself and become open.. It's not needy, it doesn't crave attention. It's pure and happy bliss- and seeing each human as love and light, instead of the 3D - I am a woman and to be complete I seek man. The duality in not seeing man as man creates the openness to men.
How have you gotten familiar with white tantra? Books, videos or courses? Do you have some recommendations?
Couldn’t be more perfect time for the message…got all my answers.
Sometimes I listen to your teachings and cannot comprehend …. It just doesn’t resonate. And today every words from the speech have a deep meaning to me.
Thank you to Bentinho and his team so much!
I’m practicing the being of this energy. Thank you Bentinho ✨😘💖✨
This confirms the thoughts and insights that have been coming to me over the past few years.. incredibly powerful message, thank you Bentinho 🙏🏼💖
This is so refreshing and beautiful, great balance between love and light
"No longer in need of support, she is the ultimate support of all that wants to be birthed into creation."❤
Yep! Gorgeously stated!!!!!
@@gloriamariadc7757 Yes, such a beautiful wording! Like a lot of times.😍
Could you post one on the divine masculine?
Aha, this was exactly what I needed to remember! Thank you sweet soul.
As ever, words fail my gratitude for you guidance Ben. Love and Light
🙏🏻 thank you 🙏🏻 very clarifying and relieving on how to navigate matrix & inner being. Learning to trust innocence - beautuful❤
I AM so grateful for you Bentiho...you put my experiences into words. PROFOUND TRUTH! Thank you!
Thank you Bentinnho. Thank you crew. Thank you questioner.
Thank you dear Soul for all that you Are and Do. 🙏❤
What a gift you are! Thank you, Bentinho.
As a one with the divine feminine the creator told me to have clarity of judgment. Not everyone is on that level of consciousness you are and it's okay to judge what is not meant for you. The creator even told me specifically we are not meant to get along with everyone. Loving ourselves fully, trusting God
This was great. Always wanted to know how to tap into the feminine. Thank you
Thank you for sharing your beautiful energy 💛
Thank You 🌠 Have a Magical Blessed Day 🎁☯️
Wonderful! Thank you 🙏🏻💜💛
Thank you Bentinho! This is real sincronicity all y needed to hear at this timing haha :D
A couple of hours ago I was listening to rester femme. Topic on Point.
Masterclass Vibe by The Master G Himself ,, HolyUnion 💚
Ohhh Bentinho...I was walking last night searching for an open shop for cigarettes, and as usual when I go out late at night (which is actually not my norm for me), cars were slowing down, I could energetically feel men tugging at my sexuality from the cars, one even was undressing me...so i was on video with my twin flame (3 years separation but always connected) and he saw how i put the so called shields up and it was by applying one of your teachings: ignore circumstances. They would slow down their cars, I would energetically focus on the highest light while still paying some attention....they would pass by. for me this ignoring can be a simple head shake/move to the left/right...as if "nothing to see here". I walked for about 2 hrs and burned maybe 500 kcal i was cold-sweating from the heat it was 10-11 PM and I got home extremely happy because i had a lovely time and i could protect my energy. This is some help for the ladies if they need it. I feel like I am a very embodied feminine, of course I could be better...but have been working on embodying both the polarities for years...today i just spoke to my twin from my masculine and we were laughing because he wanted to get ice cream with my inner feminine :) kinda like a teddy bear wants to get hugged and actually asks for it. I think both masc and feminine require vulnerability, man for example to be in his true masc essence and ask for the feminine's love and support. even attention, i don't think it's so wrong. we all need to be seen and heard. I enjoyed very much, Bentinho. Thank you for consciously or uncounsciously acknowledging my femininity and giving me maybe even more to feeling-wise embody and think of.
you are the greatist my friend
This feels so healing! Thank you ❤️
Thank you this was very clarifying ❤️
WOW. And I thought John Wineland was good 😂 This is beautiful, thank you 🙏
Great content. Resonates. Blessings.
Ben your energy is so beautiful 🥰 this reality is such a strange little delusion 😂thank you for showing up for us
It’s so awkward to see how we as women hav been unconsciously forced to live in defense.. even if we “have privilege”.. due to the fear for our feminine safety.
🙃oh, shit.. the case of "radiant flower" - I just have enough.. thanks for you both 💗
Yeas, thank you! Practical guide was needed 😂 so so scary, but yeah that's how it works. Thnx!
for me its: the more i am open and vulnerable and radiate. in public. the more i feel that this is protected, i honestly think its a self-protective energy. I used to be care-free, open and vulnerable for a long time, sweet and soft but also experienced a few year of... hard, more manly energy. Back when I was more hard, angry even, and in a "i dont need love"-state of mind i got taken advantage of a lot, when a female dont respect herself/ her feminity the men also dont respect her/ her feminity. In my experience, also men that have a very low level of intelligence/ integrity respect the self-respecting flower that is beautiful. So definitely a self-protective energy!!! But. The beautiful flower also is clear about her boundaries and she is kind of strict within her kindness (which gets odly accepted by everyone!). Dutch female living in an area that is considered "ghetto" by the rest of holland lol.
So yeah, I definitely feel that you dont need to worry about radiating this kind of energy as in my experience all men of all intelligence levels are very respecting of her, respecting of her no, respecting of her boundaries and respecting of everything that she wants. To the girl in this video.
wanna add that nothing or nobody can get to you if you give no attention to that.
Thank YOU 🙏🙏🙏💚
so the feminine is like lalalala and the masculine is like lululu...
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Hello! ❤
Beauty 💓
Unfortunately as women we desire to practice our vulnerability & softness so much we often tend to be that w/ wrong & untrustworthy men. Clearly meditation & surrender to God needs to happen 1st above all else.
"I allow everything to be as it is," meaning that I don't repress or suppress my emotions, nor do I identify myself with the thoughts I'm having. I developed a heightened sense of awareness - I call it "hyper-awareness." I'm partially enlightened. The only thing that is getting in the way is my social anxiety issue - when I'm about to meet a person I get very tense and worried; my own mind wanders into the future. Or when I see a person appearing in front of me, I get a nagging feeling in my stomach area and my heart rate increases exponentially. I allow the anxiety to be there, and I even feel deeper into it - I've been doing this for a long time but it seems that the triggers of my anxiety issue are still within my subconscious. What can I do to solve my social anxiety issue and be at ease with myself in social situations? Thank you.
Very similar experience, realizing everyone is asleep is nerve-wracking . Keep good company.
Very similar, very high in anxiety, what helped me is to realize that I'm the experiencer, I'm just the observer. Accepting your feeling of resistance is the easiest way out of it.
Is it possible you have a choice in the matter? Or maybe the choice was already made and you are in the way of it. I dont know, allowing everything to be as it is might be end game, but is it also possible you can just chose or have chosen something different. Perhaps chosing to "not shift and allow," is a supression of your/the universe's desire to shift.
The universe is benevolent, its trying to heal you let it in. Dont let your surrendure stop the flow of life itself. There is no end to expansion, its natural, let yourself expand :)! Subtle stuff, good job!
Non-dual tools and practices by themselves are not the whole enchillada. I also touched upon the deepest state of enlightenment I've ever experienced by a daily pracitice of deep surrender, but the people thing remained.
You are not JUST awareness and an energy being. You are also a 3D being. On a 3D level you WILL have to find a way to interact with others that works for you. Probably requiring to set boundaries....or to start interacting other kinds of people...or develop more self-estteem and confidence......ALL of which play a factor in your experience of anxiety with humans.
Remember, surrender and heighetened states of awareness are just ONE flavor of the whole enchillada that is being human. Your future, enlightened or not, won't be in always being in that state. You'll be doing things, making choices, making mental choices, interacting with people etc. Self-actualization doesn't happen buy simply heightened states of awareness but by application of free will and choosing as a human (where to focus, what to do, when to do..what to get close to, what to avoid....what attitude to have to this or that):
There's literally infinite ways to approach that social anxiety, but that is queing you in on a need to change your prespective on certain things IN ORDER to make social interaction something that feels "aligned" and "resonant". You may find you doubt yourself a lot next to others...or carry a chronic sense of shame as an individual....or that you were never someone who cared for most interaction and genuinely feel like more a of aloner...........etc etc....each context is a context.
3 Steps
1. Practice allowing things to be as they are and self-realisation practice to become very grounded in this on a moment-to-moment basis
2. Go out into social situations more to allow those triggers to continue to come up for you
3. Investigate into your triggers and emotions to release more fully
This is what helped me brother
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off-topic: i wonder if nobody wore clothes. usually unless cold, would we be less hard and hurt eachother less? because we physically SEE eachother skin and vulnerability?
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I find this the most difficuld part.
When i am in a state of AWARNESS life flows.
Then i am in my peak,
But Then the vally day or day's come to my expierence showing me where and what the false programming is.
Overtime it is
Giving me fysical , mental and emotional discomfort.
Sleeping problems and feeling verry verry Tried.
The ego is trying to protect me but is overprotectingme.
Still trying to convince itself its only human, meaning consciousness trapt in a body , being vulabrel and in prisson.
I spend already so Manny days read years... transending, rewritting and so on.
I understand what you are talking about with surrender but it doesnt click .
I like to learn more about it.
Manny TIMES i hear from teachers that it was the most difficuld part and the part that give them greate libaration.
I like to implement this .
Can you recomend some information you already have on line ???
I love you
Thank you so mush for everthing you do and your embodyment of the most beautiful light / light.
When i am connecting with you IT feels like home
teach me how to be a man bentinho
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How should a divine feminine support the divine masculine?
I feel confused about masculine and feminine duality and the concept of us as creators. Why is duality even an issue we have to take into account when we create everything anyway? For instance, why would I need masculine containment if I can create my own safety anyway?
lolll let me change gender real quick. so good
A weird video, uff the psychos 😂
This man is not practising what he preaches for. Take care humans ,be careful what you consume
Sometimes as the feminine Goddess I think to myself as if I am (She is) the FIRST Reflection of Gods Love into the journey of knowing & witnessing Himself…
The Beauty, Adoration, Excitement and Sanctity He must have felt & in Aww🙄…
…and “Her” her Joy and Inspiration to Create knowing she is LOVED and Adored wHoly and Unconditionally.
ONE becomes the Lovers and the ALL that is…. 🤔🥹🫡🫠🫥
(Not sure this expresses the full effects of what I am TRULY trying to betray here😅lol
But indeed, a very beautiful thought, and even better knowing and feeling as The Divine Feminine, Masculine so Beautiful and Precious. Love you Guys ⚔️🕊💋