When She Says She Loves You💔

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  • @shynepo6296
    @shynepo6296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    It is not in the nature of a woman to love but to respect. It is in the nature of a man to love a woman, but not a woman. Men should never expect a woman to love him, but he should always expect a woman to respect him. PERIOD!!

    • @nickt1262
      @nickt1262 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Shyne Po - The KJV Bible is an MGTOW handbook in many respects. The only respect a woman gives a man is when he gives to HER and HER feelings - that's it. It's all about HER. Are there exceptions? Of course, but that involves men taking risks against what the laws/biases and the like power society gives solely to women - a man is the slave if he chooses to subject himself to that. All other men default to MGTOW or better yet MGTOW Monk mode. GOD says to love, but what modern woman in this feminized world deserves it?

  • @DocBoA
    @DocBoA 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    She simply uses love terminology because of it's familiarity to men. The trap is set when a man believes that her usage of the word has the same emotionally charged overtones as when he himself uses it. She can not love you. She can only love being loved by you. Top Notch Boss Game My Brother. (Side Note) Lil chick in the video looks exactly like a lil tender I use to back break. I mean exactly

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true bro. salute

    • @g1grace
      @g1grace 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      _great drop bro_

  • @ksager123
    @ksager123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    this explains why women love social media so much. they LOVE seeing others love them...

  • @SulaymanP
    @SulaymanP 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I was in the middle of a conversation with a chick, saw my Brother BlackRam313 drop a new video, I shut the conversation down and put my ear buds because it's therapy time

    • @MindBodyStorm
      @MindBodyStorm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's Right!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @bobbietim1693
    @bobbietim1693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Only time a woman will love you is when you have two wives, her jealousy when you are with second wife will force her to love you

  • @MysterLembaChannel
    @MysterLembaChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This was excellent. This is why the Most High does not put the power of divorce in the hands of the woman. She should not rule anything.

  • @rickyrickardo4913
    @rickyrickardo4913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I’m interested to know why women don’t warn their sons and grandsons about women and what female nature really is. Since they claim to love their sons so much. Why not give them a heads up?

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      They are loyal to their group

    • @arseneremy
      @arseneremy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The answer is obvious. If a woman warns her son, brother, or any other man about the truth of women, shes just put herself in the mirror with 7 spotlights shining on who she is. She exposes herself. Most if not all women are incapable of being so vulnerable to admit and expose their personal weaknesses and imperfections. They dont share for selfish reasons. What do you think?

    • @rickyrickardo4913
      @rickyrickardo4913 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes I have to agree with you. By admitting the truth she would be opening up a whole can of worms for herself. It’s for a selfish reason again for sure.

    • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue
      @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rickyrickardo4913 I started to understand women in my late teens, I am now 22 years old and the way I view my female family members is really different from when I was more innocent

  • @Happy-Me.
    @Happy-Me. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Women don't remember what you did for them or what you said. They always remember the way you made them feel. Maya Angelou!

    • @therealflamelit
      @therealflamelit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      they NEVER forget what you DIDNT do(to their level of approval) though ...always remember

    • @Happy-Me.
      @Happy-Me. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@therealflamelit 🤔 Good shout!

  • @blackjack23able
    @blackjack23able 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    All young men should be taught this to counter all the R&B songs & romance movie/cupid crap we're indoctrinated with..It's a shame that I didn't realize this until the age of 40...

  • @ghostlife3931
    @ghostlife3931 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    All the twenty something young men hearing this black ram just save you from a lot of heart ache.Wish I knew better when I was younger.

  • @reedjones5862
    @reedjones5862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    A Woman Love Is Like A Book Once She Read All The Chapters She Pretty Much Done With The Book.

    • @Levi_225
      @Levi_225 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good one.

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good one bro

    • @TheNapoleon357
      @TheNapoleon357 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👏👏👏👏👊

    • @ToneMalone1
      @ToneMalone1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Damn, excellent analogy

  • @Tesla-e6z
    @Tesla-e6z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    When she says she's *"In Love",* she means she's giving her emotions to you and she loves the way you make her *feel.* When she says *"I love you, but I'm not in love with you",* it just means she loves the tangible things that you give to her and the services that you provide for her but she isn't giving her emotions to you, and you don't make her *feel* the way she likes to *FEEL.*

  • @skyking6989
    @skyking6989 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She dosent love you. She loves what you provide for her. I relized a long time ago love dosent exist.

  • @nolimit_4950
    @nolimit_4950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Its important to understand this without antagonizing women and accepting it to bring peace of mind within yourself.

  • @MichaelSmith-cb8gg
    @MichaelSmith-cb8gg 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    They just love what you can do for them

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Michael Smith My sweet girl opens her wallet and drives to see me more than i see her. She sacrifices more than i do on a daily basis. That isn't an accurate statement that you made. And of course, as always, it depends on the woman🙏

  • @411TalkZoneRadioShowChannel
    @411TalkZoneRadioShowChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Her love is always based on feelings but, these feelings are temporary and that's why she is constantly in and out of relationships. She is not genuine because her love is also based on fantasy.

    • @DreRaphael
      @DreRaphael 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's a tough pill to swallow foir a lot of men, but once you get it down you will be set free. This information will only save the lives of the young men that have a ear to hear it.

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Excellent point

    • @rahkeemthegreat360
      @rahkeemthegreat360 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯 real talk

  • @bonganimkhwanazi2081
    @bonganimkhwanazi2081 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    33:00 so true,
    She will always have your ready and willing replacement lined up before she gives you the bad news,
    It's happened to me,
    I've been both guys.

    • @jahrassicsound312
      @jahrassicsound312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Been both guys too. Last year this time was my turn. This year same time is someone else's turn....smh

  • @spirit1366
    @spirit1366 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "PROTECT YOURSELF AT ALL TIMES"

  • @red_pill_hebrew2073
    @red_pill_hebrew2073 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Man, this is deep. I remember sitting next to a woman at a gym and she started talking to me about her past relationship. She's telling about not trusting certain friends and family and how she's no longer into this guy she was once with. She went on to say "even though I had a child with him, I didn't really LOVE him". She said that to me VERBATIM, lmao! I'm sitting there trying to keep a straight face because I'm not surprised yet amazed for some reason, and trying not to laugh upon hearing this. Even though we had a good convo, I thought it was best to keep a bit of a tight lip when she asked about my past. I just told her, nope, no wife, no kids, just not at the moment. It's just so interesting to see how the Mgtow teachings match up with my everyday observations of in life.

  • @haydenw.9809
    @haydenw.9809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    A womans life is just a cycle of fulfilling her desires of lust and security, needing a host to supply this. Then on to the next host.

    • @stevensonbowen3725
      @stevensonbowen3725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      she is a parasite

    • @benlotus2703
      @benlotus2703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@stevensonbowen3725 A.Schopenhauer :
      "Directly after copulation the devil's laughter is heard" easily the best description of post nut clarity I've ever read

  • @davejudah4833
    @davejudah4833 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Black Ram I wish I had seen your videos 5yrs ago, it would've saved me from the sin of simping lol

  • @Majestic_Dark_Horse
    @Majestic_Dark_Horse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    At the peak of the infatuation phase, tell her, "We see each other often, I need space in order to manage more short term goals. I'm not sure when we will talk again, Later!" Let's see how she reacts in the next 4 hrs. Strike first, fierce and hard. Discerning the Spirit is key.

    • @lmsubman243
      @lmsubman243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Her: "so are YOU LeaViNG mE?" "What are You hiding?" "I figured you weren't man enough!"
      Roles reversed: "You're too clingy, I'm not looking for a relationship, this is TOO, soon..."
      But it's never not okay for her to tap into anything you have to offer and if SHe chooses to bounce?....too bad!
      f-eM

  • @arseneremy
    @arseneremy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    A womans love is fully tied to her self worth / self esteem. Love to a woman is her way of expressing that she "feels" valuable and more valued than she thinks of herself. Being with you and the things yoi give her gives her value and self worth. Her self esteem is tethered to the value you give her. Its almost always a result in relationship rooted in an elevation of status, importance, and how she's viewed in her world. Its the king and citizen, employer employee, father daughter phenomenon. Her relationship to you makes her royalty.
    Men love emotionally as well, and based on the time and resources we invest in a woman. The major difference in a man's love is the sharing of resources we value. Our brains are wired to expect respect and a return when we give in intimate relationship. We expect worship.
    Convos like this confirms a lot of my experiences. Shalom. Be royal. Be kings. 👑

  • @CopycatNinja875
    @CopycatNinja875 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    A woman's love is conditional and based on her much you benefit her.

    • @SFBay69
      @SFBay69 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      a womans love is only dependent on your finances

    • @spirit1366
      @spirit1366 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Copycat Ninja YOU ARE 100% CORRECT

    • @safe937
      @safe937 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      100

    • @kimberlysnow891
      @kimberlysnow891 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      As it should be

    • @brandoncameron5494
      @brandoncameron5494 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kimberlysnow891 And men need to do cost/benefit analysis on women. Being that all women bring to the table is sex and companionship and are essentially worthless outside of those two things.

  • @mrScififan2
    @mrScififan2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She doesn’t “ love” you. She loves what you DO FOR HER. Actually SOME can love, but the MAJORITY at best will not really love you, the most they can do is just appreciate that you are reliable.that they are getting what they want out of you....but even that might not be true, because many have no appreciation. They feel that everything you do for her is just her due because she’s “ all that and a bag of chips “

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mrS And when she loves you and you don't do anything for her but show appreciation? Then why does she love you? 🙏

  • @brandonwombacher1615
    @brandonwombacher1615 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It almost impossible to have a long commitment with a creature that acts based on Opportunity, Emotion and Circumstances. They are intersting creatures indeed

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brandon Wombacher One day at a time, Lords blessing, test her character. Simple🙏

  • @quantumsolace5864
    @quantumsolace5864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    A woman that tells me she loves me; I just say to myself, yeah right.
    I don't go by her words of emotions; I go by her actions and deeds to prove if she loves me or loves me not.
    If her love for me is not in conjunction with the love of THE MOST HIGH when pertaining to her role as a woman being a helper of her man, then her love is nothing but spoken words to me.

    • @rayzorblack477
      @rayzorblack477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A few months back, a woman I was dealing with sent me a text telling me “I Love You”, and when I didn’t respond she caught attitude. WTF. First of all, I didn’t even know what the Fock to make of her text. You can’t text that to a real man and expect him to be moved. Brother’s be careful, women wield that “I Love You’ comment as a tool to get you to do what they want. Also, let it be a rare occurrence that you tell a woman you love her. She looks at that also as something she can use to get you do what she wants you to do - Like get Married! Only bestow your love on a woman who shows you that she is willing to submit to you as a man, honor and respect you as the man in her world,then she is worthy of your love - but not a moment before. Plus, she has to maintain it because when she eases up off of it, you have to show her your love is not an absolute. Your love should be earned in exchange for her showing herself worthy or else she won’t respect you.

  • @keothikenotthib6196
    @keothikenotthib6196 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Not gonna lie I wish I stayed a blue pilled simp. I feel Id be happier ignorant. I almost don't believe in love anymore and it just makes me feel empty. Its like one of life's greatest gifts was nothing but a empty cardboard box that was wrapped in an elegant way.

    • @Zgrateful1
      @Zgrateful1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Keothi Kenotthib it’s about loving yourself & listening to your inner voice brother carefully even if you feel like it could be wrong at times , you must truly trust and love yourself in this life we’re all we’ve got.

    • @MindBodyStorm
      @MindBodyStorm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Ras stylez Narcissism in a nutshell.....

    • @kelvinmpatterson
      @kelvinmpatterson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      A man shall parish for lack of knowledge! Stand up ND be glad mos high( logic) chose u. Ur a warrior don't let ur desire r lust for an emotion(feelings)destract u from ur path n life! Once u Kno her nature u then can lead like most high attended ✌🏾

    • @blackngold007
      @blackngold007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The truth will piss you off before it sets you free

  • @damonsmith7661
    @damonsmith7661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "She loves the feeling not the man"....got damn!! Bro ive been binging on your old material all week...i plan to make a donation soon,you got my word.

  • @morningstar1274
    @morningstar1274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm a passionte man in his thirties with two kids and a broken heart. Black Ram SPEAKS.

  • @slicexl9283
    @slicexl9283 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She don't need to love u MEN but make damn sure she RESPECK u

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Luthando Mangcu She must do both to receive the King🙏

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Luthando Mangcu treat her like a useless dog if she don’t.

  • @nagone11
    @nagone11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    In short...only men truly feel true love....ask any man who has been in love and ask any woman who claims the same....Once again deep insights told by Brother Black Ram.

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Salute Nagone

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nagone11 It depends on the woman and depends on the man. There are evil men and good men. Same with women. Bottom line🙏

  • @jamelljohnson5002
    @jamelljohnson5002 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I think mothers should tell their sons the nature of women but they dont!
    Alot of fathers dont do it.
    So the sons go into relationships and marriages blind.
    We dont see our demise before its too late.
    So much for protective advice from parents.

    • @SleepyStoic
      @SleepyStoic 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man! This is it right here.

    • @therealflamelit
      @therealflamelit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ive been hipping my son to the game..even though Ive been dealing with his mother for almost 2 decades, I will NOT let him learn the hard way about women

    • @johnhue8933
      @johnhue8933 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jamell Johnson
      Very true.History repeats it's self. Even if forewarned a man is at a disadvantage because her true nature is concealed until it shows it self when it is almost always too late. Men can read men and women women. I have a very good lady friend and she asks me to give my opinion of any guy she is thinkng of dating. It works the other way also and she has saved me a ton of heartache.

    • @91Definite
      @91Definite 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Parents dont teach their kids. My mom didnt really teach me about women like that. I had to go in blind on my own

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Am wording up and red pilling my 14 year old son.

  • @1seriousblack
    @1seriousblack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I've definitely gotten the 2nd love from my ex. She's tried to make it seem like she's genuine in her "love" to me, but unfortunately I've only been able to provide a "service" to her for her some, her home, things being done in the home and I get absolutely nothing in return for my efforts. She's only drunken of my resources and now she's just crying a storm telling me that if i gave her what she wanted then she'd love me and love on me, but that's completely fake. Awesome therapy as always.

  • @SeVinKru3ger
    @SeVinKru3ger 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    **Flawless Victory**
    ..... they only LOVE themselves.

    • @jayell1979
      @jayell1979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Man they can't even do that right. Smh.

  • @nizemindz2015
    @nizemindz2015 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This should be taught to youngsters in middle school

  • @KJ-pu8dw
    @KJ-pu8dw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    You can love woman OR you can understand them. Not both.

    • @papahawk3644
      @papahawk3644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I , personally, chose comprehension.

  • @The1NonlySavior
    @The1NonlySavior 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I went to a party a while ago and I was the only single guy there.. just like any party with couples the women and men Separated and the women went in the house while the men were outside... during the night I was hungry and went in the house with all the women to grab the leftover food from the bbq.. while I was making a plate all the Women started laughing at me.. I asked them “What’s so Funny”..? One of them just emphatically stated that I was the smartest man out of all the men there... I asked them “why” ? She then stated because I chose to stay single....and all the other women laughed and nodded in agreement...It was a complete wtf moment. These women are well aware of their nature...

  • @Speedway619
    @Speedway619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She is not in love with me anymore thank God ! I will be a free agent soon! Listening to you had me realizing that most women aren't lovable, they are leaveable!

  • @kevinboss55
    @kevinboss55 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Man I was surprised at how red pilled I was growing up
    I thought something was wrong about me
    I’m blessed man bc I never trusted the idea of marriage
    I just want kids to pass on the torch
    Thank u Mr. Ram for this powerful deep truth ✊🏾🙏🏿💯💊🔥🔥🔥

  • @VinceMarcus11
    @VinceMarcus11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My last woman loved me for the summer. Oh well. I get it now. Keep doing you , all my soldiers

  • @rdljiii
    @rdljiii 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Aww man, this negua dropping nuclear ☢️ bombs 💣 tonight!!!!💯
    Lawd is my shepherd and I shall not simp 💯

  • @Martin-bj8eq
    @Martin-bj8eq ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She NEVER actually loves you.
    She loves the way you make her feel - she's "in love". The feelings change she's off!
    She loves the things you provide her with, house etc, - she " loves you". Stop providing those things for her, she's off!
    Scary stuff.

  • @shynepo6296
    @shynepo6296 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    In the Bible it is the mans responsibility to love a woman. However it is the responsibility of the woman to respect, submit, and obey the man !!! Ephesians 5:21-29

    • @dwighthayes4738
      @dwighthayes4738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      100% And this is how her love is expressed to and for us and The Most High. Great comment.

    • @marqosmarqos1201
      @marqosmarqos1201 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely correct

  • @AgeofMachines
    @AgeofMachines 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Three minutes in and BlackRam has established himself as a god among men.
    Some profoundly powerful stuff...

  • @justthetruth1419
    @justthetruth1419 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This 1 chick I met at walmart just met her did not even have sex with her was already texting my phone I miss you lol never responded back to that bs what you take me for a dummy.

    • @1JungleSoul
      @1JungleSoul 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      truth of yahawa wow she sounds like a cracked egg! As a woman I am ashamed of all this foolishness. The true daughters are suffering bc all this chaos and confusion

  • @petroglyph79
    @petroglyph79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    When she says she loves you its just for show. And she can never love you.

  • @menace2society619
    @menace2society619 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When she says I love you I check my wallet.

    • @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90
      @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I dig you bruh. Mine didn't have to work and spent all the money I made. Guess what? She said she wanted "more" in our marriage and starts seeing the dope man. Smh

    • @menace2society619
      @menace2society619 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ernestbongocero4lifehooks90 they call that ' leveling up lol.Bitches are never satisfied, we men all know that.

    • @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90
      @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@menace2society619
      Yeah man! I was pulling 2500 a week running my own 18 wheeler and the wench was well kept.
      My first wife also was never satisfied. I had to learn the hard way which is why women now say I am a hard and difficult man.
      Nope. Like you said....we know their bullshit all to well now and ain't going for it no more.

    • @foreplayfreddyp3972
      @foreplayfreddyp3972 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      menace 2 society haha .. Real shit homie 💯✊💯👊💯

    • @menace2society619
      @menace2society619 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@foreplayfreddyp3972 😁

  • @davon1101
    @davon1101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    gentleman 33:10 boy your definitely speaking to my soul , I believe I'm involved with a woman that currently wishes she had a better deal yet she stays because I believe she's afraid of the emotional teardown that will follow soon after my departure

  • @ifunkedherfirst4922
    @ifunkedherfirst4922 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Dont take these women serious and you'll be just fine.

    • @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90
      @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My son has written women off and has decided to roll solo for a while. He only 24. And I stand by him.

    • @georgewashington7863
      @georgewashington7863 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely

    • @GramoChopin
      @GramoChopin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yea, they still get mad when u dont take em serious either. I had a girl i used to work with get "disappointed" with me because i didn't say i would miss her when she asked. It was her last day too. I said maybe..she got all mad even though i was playing. Double standards. She can play, u can't. And she already had a boyfriend..im just thinking like why do u need to know if ill miss you? Bitches love playing both sides, she's a big flirt tho. Stupid asf too.

    • @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90
      @ernestbongocero4lifehooks90 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GramoChopin
      Aaaah yes!!! Hahahahaha!
      Yooo! There is ALWAYS one at work who DEMANDS attention!
      I had one who loved to say how she "has a man" but would catch an attitude when I would look thru her like Windex.
      Here's the thing bruh....I was the ONLY dude who would treat her like that! LMAOFF!!!

  • @SaijThaNYardie9
    @SaijThaNYardie9 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Women express love. The essence of it, for them at least, is not in verbal form. If she indeed loves you, her action will speak volumes. We on the other hand, are not necessarily prone to express it ( at least not so impulsively) in such actions. Thus why when we say it we mean it; and its harder to get men to actually say that binding phrase. Its verbal for us. There is power in word/sound to us..so if a female is saying that (especially in abundance) chances are in favour that it is fleeting. And more than likely her actions are not in harmony with that manipulate mantra: "I love you".

  • @Green_Ninja325
    @Green_Ninja325 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Damn, a 42 minute therapy session Ram? Let me pour myself a drink and get ready for some knowledge. ✌

  • @lamontyoung3709
    @lamontyoung3709 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There is no lying in therapy! I appreciate these gems, brother. I’m glad you have a platform to share with other brothers. Women love conditionally based on how you make her feel at the moment. Real talk, sir. Real talk.

  • @Asad_Thomas
    @Asad_Thomas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Women are like the great titan "Cronos" from Greek mythology. They will eat even their own young out of jealousy and fear. What makes you think she can love you??

  • @eastafrika728
    @eastafrika728 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love is not a real connection, it is a selfish disconnection. The only connection between humans is respect. Self respect leads to money, respect for women leads to sex.

    • @moelotov411
      @moelotov411 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      East Afrika respect for women leads to sex? I STRONGLY disagree

    • @eastafrika728
      @eastafrika728 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@moelotov411 the only reason you disagree is because under this white social system, women have no self respect.

    • @leonelmateus
      @leonelmateus 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      you didnt read that right.. missing some commas.. @@moelotov411

    • @eastafrika728
      @eastafrika728 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @JonnyC 289 yes, white is negative to black, the two races can never coexist. The white race has shown throughout history that they are not willing to leave black people alone to live their own independent lives.

  • @namewithheld7835
    @namewithheld7835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love last a few moments. Then resource sponging becomes her mindset.

  • @kingfrost2978
    @kingfrost2978 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    BlackRam313 dont forget excitement. Females get bord very easy. This is most important. Its why entertainers attract so many girls at concerts and sports games.

    • @therryandpaol3430
      @therryandpaol3430 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If society took relationship serious , relationship would last longer.💯💯💯

  • @demloudtrackz
    @demloudtrackz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm just starting on this red pill journey & I swear Ram your perspective give me the correct path to follow.. Salute brother 💪💪 I think I've watched everything on both channels I kno these creatures in depth now!

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate you watching fam

    • @demloudtrackz
      @demloudtrackz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BlackRam313 for sure! It's really therapeutic MAN!

    • @MindBodyStorm
      @MindBodyStorm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ Cash-Iz BLAKE welcome to freedom and sanity!!!

  • @amilateorearly3919
    @amilateorearly3919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Black ram 313 thank u for blessing us with this knowledge. I am so grateful for having a strong man like u waking me up from the matrix and showing me whats real and fake in this ugly world. My daddy was never around to teach me these things. Black ram u are the lebron james and micheal jordan of this world.

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Such kind words fam.... My pleasure

    • @jehumilord2886
      @jehumilord2886 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      BlackRam313 Big bro a quick question what does it mean when she says I love you, but I'm not in love with you. My ex told me that one time... Can you please elaborate some more about it. I know you already mentioned it.

  • @dwighthayes4738
    @dwighthayes4738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As always brother you have delivered some deep content to ponder and reflect upon. Many of us are not aware that she cannot love us in the same way that we love her. It's good to remind ourselves of this. Her love can only be demonstrated by her submission and obedience to us as her service to a man that observes The Commandments of and worships The Most High. This in and of itself IS her service to The Most High also.

    • @calculatorboyz2553
      @calculatorboyz2553 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perfect Truth.

    • @dwighthayes4738
      @dwighthayes4738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@calculatorboyz2553 Thank you I appreciate that

    • @dwighthayes4738
      @dwighthayes4738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KtotheG Indeed brother and may she remain so. You deserve better and there is NOTHING in my opinion worse for a black man that observes The Commandments of The Most High than a so called Christian black woman. They are by far the worst offenders and in all honesty, the very idea of submission to a black man, her husband..... She actually despises. May old and alone greet them with open arms because I know I sure won't.

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true bro

  • @nathanielcoe4682
    @nathanielcoe4682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Need to listen to this video every day

  • @GRADE8BOLT
    @GRADE8BOLT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As soon as the "FUN " wears out and real life kicks in .......she's gone ....paying bills taking care of the house boring ....she needs the club and new anything new stimulus

  • @poeperdhe
    @poeperdhe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A woman’s love is like her wardrobe..she only wears the trash ones for 1 day and stocks them to be forgotten or thrown away, keeps the best for the special days and wears the “normal” clothes for the rest of the week but she is always on the lookout for a new euphoric feeling when buying a new type of clothing because it makes her feeeeeel good and new.

  • @poeperdhe
    @poeperdhe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Women are in love with the man you can become, what you can do for her (at the moment) and how much she can control you.

    • @youreverydayphillygurl423
      @youreverydayphillygurl423 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I say again this is Not Love. She uses love as a weapon it's just a word, this is not real true love.

  • @donovanwood7429
    @donovanwood7429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is by far one of the best Red Pill type videos ever. A lot of content producers constantly drop your name and I definitely see why. This gives a clear understanding of how most black women operate. I am only about a year into this journey and this has been a hard pill to swallow but if it wasn't for brother like you I would have become another statistic. Salute my brother!

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, welcome to the channel fam

  • @Mr.FixIt1979
    @Mr.FixIt1979 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    100% Truth in the video... when she told me ILYBINILWY after 10 years of marriage & kids, house, etc & i went online in search of answers, Ram, your channel was one of the first i found. I went thru my rage phase... i changed my own behavior as a result of modification of my core beliefs, thanks to you. The result? She wanted me back. 😄
    Im a cold As$ mutha now. The more of an as$hole i am, the more they like me. Bizzare creatures indeed... i have no use for an animal that thrives on feelings/emotions. Actually, its an indicator that they are not sentient beings. Rather, they are organic portals... more commonly known as NPC's. They are human beings lacking a soul like you and I posses. Rather they function as a robot, responding in preprogrammed ways to various stimuli, even acting & speaking scripted responses. Pay close attention. Wait until you actually notice when they are repeating the same things verbatim in response to certain situations... Many women are this way, I'd say at least 95% of the female population and today a growing segment of the male population too... persons with souls are growing scarce

  • @jahrassicsound312
    @jahrassicsound312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you Blackram. This sermon made me better understand my recent breakup. Made no sense asking her why. And trying my best to "fix" things to get her back into that in love state.....to no avail! When it's gone...it's gone! Im definitely learning not to take the breakup personally. Lesson learned and move on with the words, wisdom and knowledge that you have provided. Much respect!

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Salute fam, Check out my video called "when the heart is broken"

    • @jahrassicsound312
      @jahrassicsound312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BlackRam313 I have already! Have these therapeutic videos on repeat on a daily basis! You have brought light into the darkness I've been going through lately. May the Most High continue to bless you always!

  • @jonasbatistafrancisco6040
    @jonasbatistafrancisco6040 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is definitely *the most bitter Red Pill for men to swallow* .
    I wonder about the men who have been lucky enough to find and maintain that 10-1%, the women whose love comes not from superficial things, but from within.

    • @Guy_007
      @Guy_007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YUNUS YAHYA doese not exist ..... not even king solomon succeed and he was a king .... sorry

    • @MindBodyStorm
      @MindBodyStorm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does even a woman like that exist......?? Please do tell...

    • @Guy_007
      @Guy_007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MindBodyStorm as i said, not even king solomon found one ... 😂😂 Dont try its a 100% failure rate. Notice how all breakups always end the same (sometimes a bit different), and the woman always says the same excuses and the same reasons. EX: "It didnt work out", "he didnt treat me right", or he didn't do this or that 🤔 ... Same shit, just a different day about what a man did or did not do 👏👏👎👎 #Trash

    • @keynshamkeynsham1
      @keynshamkeynsham1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Guy_007 Look at her parents very carefully. It is totally irrelevant whether you like them, or can even stand them. Will she feel shamed, will there be consequences, if she behaves badly?

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      YUNUS YAHYA Test every woman WELL before marriage and children. And if she opens her wallet and expresses love followed by action and sacrifices for you and maintains consistency then by all means, Love her and cherish her. Most are bad but theres some good ones left🙏

  • @Guy_007
    @Guy_007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I guy 007 approve of this message 3million times, I myself have tested, experienced, and experimented these females, seen their actions and it's repetition and patterns at this point .... nature doesn't change, neither doese a females nature. 💯

  • @TheELEASY
    @TheELEASY 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Stop taking long with the wisdom bro! Lol just kidding I always appreciate your jewel, mind over matter, you are a genius!

  • @dogshampoonetwork6051
    @dogshampoonetwork6051 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I love you = I'm nervous about everything and I need safety and resources. I can exchange sex temporarily for that. Honestly I don't know what true love is.

  • @credocredo146
    @credocredo146 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The true romantic one is the man, for the man truly loves a woman while a woman has to be taught how to love her man and her children. The woman neither initiates romance, intimacy, passion, and holds no desire for the man without a payout. Who is the one that writes the best love songs, the best romance novels, who dedicate their entire lives to impressing the opposite sex, who plants presents at the feet of the other each year to profess their love?
    Titus 2:4-5 (KJV) That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
    To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

    • @jonasbatistafrancisco6040
      @jonasbatistafrancisco6040 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, that part always strikes a nerve on me.
      Such simple things like the specific way a woman puts her hair behind her ears or the different ways she smiles could create an emotional memory within us.
      Ironically, women also are romantic but only when it suits them.
      When they see a famous and rich singer composing romantic songs, they say "I want a man like this", but the second you try opening yourself, they laugh out loud.

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      credo credo Bottom line, we're supposed to love her more than ourselves. Our wife is to be most cherished🙏

  • @Guy_007
    @Guy_007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I was thinking these past two days when girls say "I don't love you anymore", ..... to her man or boyfriend or husband, ... I was thinking like ... yo, that's not possible tho 😕. Cuz True, true LOVE! IS not temporary, it's sacrifice and it doese not turn, neither is it conditional. A person, or ONE, CANNOT JUST stop! loving someone, like how can you possibly wake up and tell your father for example, out of nowhere and say "I don't love you anymoe" like, etc 😂😂😐😐😐 that's retarted. This alone just prooves Blackrams video here. 💯💯👏👏 great job Ram, hope you've been well. 💪🔥🔥

    • @MindBodyStorm
      @MindBodyStorm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's only possible in a Narcissistic reality.....

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Always Good to see you here fam

    • @mikerobinson4092
      @mikerobinson4092 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She not never logical bro.

  • @charlesmerchant4762
    @charlesmerchant4762 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Before I was married, we went to visit a Marriage Counselor to evaluate our relationship......and a question was asked.
    "Where did you see yourself in 5 years?"
    If I were to hear this video back then, I would conclude......
    "Dealing with another woman because my fiance will have fallen out of love with me by then"
    So So True
    Excellent video as always Bro👍🏿⚡🔥
    The Woman Of Today is truly incapable of loving a man.......she is full of LEAVENING (fleeting feelings and emotions to incapacitate men).

    • @BlackRam313
      @BlackRam313  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      indeed brother Charles. thanks for watching as always

    • @g1grace
      @g1grace 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      _Deep!_

    • @jayell1979
      @jayell1979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes. Totally USELESS.

  • @khalidhasan5938
    @khalidhasan5938 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yooooooooooooo, I was looking forward to such a Therapy Session, on a Friday!
    This is why I always tell the chics, (Brother BlackRam), .. you love the way I make you feel in my presence, but you can never love "me" , because I will never let you know the full version of "me".
    Temporary dopamine of the mind.

    • @PopJacare
      @PopJacare 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Real talk!👊

    • @khalidhasan5938
      @khalidhasan5938 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PopJacare yezzir Brother Ducati 🤜🏽💥🤛🏽

  • @omarshabazz9753
    @omarshabazz9753 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    BROTHER YOU REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.BROTHER WHEN I LISTEN TO YOU I MUST AGREE WITH EVERY THING YOU SAY 100%!!!

  • @tman1155666
    @tman1155666 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Appreciate the honesty, cuz you KNOW this is therapeutic mannnnn!! 😂

  • @arobb2007
    @arobb2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She only loves what you can do for her, not for who you are because the words love really means nothing to her.

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ard Vark This does not apply to the few good ones left🙏

    • @arobb2007
      @arobb2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Theelyment253 You still believe in the Unicorn fairy tale?

  • @guccianthony4499
    @guccianthony4499 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Listening to blackram is like watching a good movie the man is true talent 💯💯💯

  • @jurnee21485
    @jurnee21485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I wish I would've had men in my life to give me this knowledge when I was younger. Now I'm divorced and paying child support. But I'm a strong, black man whose a hustler and would never give a woman the satisfaction of me failing. I'm much more wise because of my experiences and studying the bible. Tried to give these chicks the benefit of doubt, but never again!

    • @rayzorblack477
      @rayzorblack477 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      jurnee21485 Yeah, they take advantage of brothers like us, but we weren’t on our game when we got with those troglodytes. This child support shit is the deepest state-sponsored extortion ever. I’ve been through the ringer and fighting it now also. They hide behind the idea that a man needs compelling to support his child. Some men may need compelling, but a good amount of men in this system are more responsible and better parents than the mom, and she is just using the benefit she gets from the system to keep a steady paycheck to supplement her income. Stay Strong bruh. Succeeding and becoming even more desireable to other women is the way you get these chicks back. They will use child support as punishment for not worshiping her and bowing at her feet. Power-hungry Troggs they are.....

  • @showtymejay2257
    @showtymejay2257 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    BlackRam always dropping gems 🙏🏽

  • @ramonantoniobennett-ryuuke6301
    @ramonantoniobennett-ryuuke6301 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Basically these women are caught up in their own LUSTS, will fully controlled by their own emotions. Shiftless, complacent, lustful, short-sighted, undisciplined.

  • @FarFromWeak1
    @FarFromWeak1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    blackram I appreciate you am from Nigeria and all u saying is scientific, truth fact accurate greatest teacher

  • @weeevan3078
    @weeevan3078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When a woman says I love him but I am not in love with him is because she only feels affection (frienship) and not attraction (Passion sex)

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And that means that she never felt sexual attraction?

  • @Theelyment253
    @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is a Masterpiece 🙏

  • @ourhouseisfull11
    @ourhouseisfull11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Women love men like a cat loves a mouse. Men love women like the desert loves rain...... and for a short time they may be transformed ...... but inevitably they are a desert. Ashes to ashes dust to dust.

    • @mrdrich4prez
      @mrdrich4prez 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      COLDBLOODED- Rick James

  • @brotherumarj3370
    @brotherumarj3370 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is true, my succubi left once the infatuation was gone. No problem, I'll miss the coochie, but not the drama.

  • @markalfred9727
    @markalfred9727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is so deep. You have so much insight. Women cant be trusted. Red pill all the way.

  • @williemetoyer2201
    @williemetoyer2201 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    True love is not a feeling

    • @mrdrich4prez
      @mrdrich4prez 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its unconditional....

  • @danielschloss1111
    @danielschloss1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love you but I’m not in love with you. Ever hear this line from your ex? What a bunch of nonsense.

  • @LexBeatzTV
    @LexBeatzTV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you blackram. Bangers after bangers. You opened up my third eye brotha. I wish I know this when I was a lot younger. Redpill to the 10th power.

  • @VinceMarcus11
    @VinceMarcus11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This video is nuclear hot truth. God bless you brother. I only wish I got wise to your channel sooner!!!$$$!!!

  • @phoenixrising9352
    @phoenixrising9352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Been watching you for years since 2014, not bragging or anything, not even gonna talk about the straight wisdom and knowledge you spitting, but Im always loving the relaxing vibe of your videos, real laid back, and you’re an excellent speaker, I’ll always play your videos before bed, the videos have always really helped me chill out and sleep at night throughout the years.
    Really opened my eyes to females true nature, your videos bring me back to reality.
    Congrats on 30k. Keep it coming.

  • @yashuarazohr
    @yashuarazohr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mind fucking blowing. I had never thought that shit from such perspective. Love your channel man I learned a lot from your great content. Keep up the good work brother.

  • @benlotus2703
    @benlotus2703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "Marriage is the goal; Divorce is the prize" Mad Jack (my Uncle)

  • @alexanderstevens145
    @alexanderstevens145 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Cant say I feel better after therapy today Dr Blackram. That was roar at the beginning man. Respect.
    Got a date tonight, might just cancel lol.

  • @ToneMalone1
    @ToneMalone1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is an instant classic. Young men who are new to the dating world need to listen to this knowledge. Great video once again bro, peace

  • @genevalivingstone1929
    @genevalivingstone1929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Guess what men when you find a woman who deeply respects you everything you require, need you will have.
    Your right about love being a fleeting emotion from a woman to a man..we love lots of things but most women do not respect easily....
    As a woman that feeling is so different that truthfully just looking up those 2 words will impact you forever.
    Which would you prefer respect or love??
    Respect will hold you down when love flies away.....
    Powerful

  • @abdiellawrence397
    @abdiellawrence397 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    In Creed 2, the scene when Ivan Drago's ex-wife walks into the dining room proves this. She literally looks right through him and their son. If I wasn't red pill, I would've missed it entirely.

    • @tjhammer24
      @tjhammer24 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Creed 2 dropped red pills all over the place

    • @abdiellawrence397
      @abdiellawrence397 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even the man who killed Apollo Creed turned into a simp....smh. Good God.

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Abdiel Lawrence Marry the wrong one and you're in trouble🙏

  • @gregoryharris5858
    @gregoryharris5858 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Women first the most part do not love us. They do not choose a man because they love him, but because it pleases them to be loved by him.
    Women are in love with being loved, not necessarily with the man himself... we're almost interchangeable to them. BlackRam is right, men love at a higher level than women are incapable of reaching. Men can love a woman the way a parent loves a child. But that woman can only love a man like she love nice shoes/other accessories- in other words, her love is shallow, conditional, utilitarian, and fickle. Tough pill to swallow but true.

    • @chrismccall797
      @chrismccall797 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gregory Harris The way a woman loves her Michael Kors handbag 👜

    • @jamesmcmccray8255
      @jamesmcmccray8255 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nick C. I understand brother dealing with this with my wife now praying for you

    • @Theelyment253
      @Theelyment253 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gregory Harris It will be a long search unless you're given a early blessing. You may never find her. But it's better to marry then to go where all whoremongers and fornicators are going🙏