Is Prince Harry SUFFERING from NARCISSISTIC ABUSE?
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- Recently, Prince Harry revealed a lot of details about his relationship with Meghan in the Oprah documentary - The Me You Can't See. The details reveal some darker aspects of the relationship that we all need to understand.
Being in a relationship with a Narcissist is extremely painful. In this video I dive into the intense ways that a narcissist exerts control on their partners and how it can cause you to complete change and be manipulated into working for the Narcissists every need.
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Very interesting that he never realized how miserable he was, until he met her. 🚩
Lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂he has years to process his misery now. She will never let him out of her jaw
@@puffpiece1375 She'll drop him when he can no longer help her reach whatever social pinnacle she has in mind. That's her pattern.
I started to catch on earlier this year. Its crazy
@@stsolomon618 I didn’t pay much attention to them until a few months ago, when they started to to trash the Royal Family. I’ve learned a LOT since then, and it is not very good.
My son married a narcissist as well. I was the first person on her hit list. All of his friends were soon eliminated from his life as well as other family members who saw through her. It's been excruciating to endure. The way that Harry's father, brother, sister in law and other family members have handled these two brats has set a powerful example for me to admire and learn from.
Exactly having family members married to one also it seems to start with one person then escalates to others family members and then friends. Me sister was married to one thank God the marriage only lasted a year My father in law was not so lucky he died on his deathbed realizing it to late. He told my brother in law with tears in his eyes 👀 how sorry he was that he let to much time go by my brother in law was the only family member still speaking to him after his second wife pretty much cherry picked who could be in his life and who couldn’t and the sad part was he let it happen. If she didn’t like you for whatever reason and believe me she would find something you were no longer part of his life anymore. She actually told me that her and I would never have a relationship because she didn’t like my husband.🤷🏼♀️ even though I knew my father in law years before his son and I got married. So I can relate to what you are saying like you said everyone see right through these people and everybody is a threat to them. Meagan knows people see through her nonsense thats why she wants to isolate Harry from his family and friends. Like my father- in - law I think Harry will realize it too late.
@@marwatson7408 If I'm not mistaken your brother in law was the narc's son and hence allowed in his life? While your husband was a previous wife's? Out of curiosity, did your husband make peace with his father on his father's deathbed?
No I’m not trying to be rude but let me give you some idea of how it was my husband never made peace with his father because for 25 years 3 out of his 4 children weren’t allowed in his home. That’s where we placing the blame on my father in law because you don’t let someone come into your life and start cherry pick your family or friends. He wants his children out of his life the only person they better hear it from his him not their step mother. Over the years my father in law had numerous confrontations with other family members, friends, his employees , business associates you name over the way his wife has treated them by the way all of these people are no longer part of his life anymore.When when he died my father in law had a wife, 2 stepsons, about 18 grandchildren, 5 siblings, numerous nieces and nephews and the only one standing in the room holding his hand when he passed away was a nurse. Not his wife who he spent 25 years defending with one lame excuse after another for her horrible behavior towards everyone. She had a memorial service and called his family after the fact and the same went for their wedding when they got married his family was told after the fact when her family/ friends got invited to the wedding. This give you an idea of what kind of person she is and like I said my father in law realized it to late. My father in law like Harry had no balls to stand up to the people they are married too.
Yes my brother did the same thing and the exact same thing happened. My mother & I (the closest women to him and truth-seekers) then ALL of his friends via their wives and girlfriends and my other brother via his wife. The troll still sucks up to my dad because she believes he holds the family purse strings.... My brother and I are now estranged.
She is such a lier Harry is a fool. There is no comparison between Princess Diana to Markle. Diana was a true humanitarian and unfortunately she also used the paparazzi to her advantage.
That was so sad with the suicide threat. He literally looks frazzled, besieged and I don't think it's because of his family or the media. Harry is not capable of deception like most people, he's extremely expressive and so I believe he genuinely did go through a period of healing and acceptance after the troubled years. For MM to dig up and weaponize his trauma like that is horrendous
I still cannot believe that she had the audacity to actually say to ANYONE that she was so lonely and mistreated and thought of taking her own life. First, she loves herself way too much to attempt suicide, all she was trying to accomplish was to want to BE Princess Diana, as Diana did admit later on that the felt like killing herself. That's it. Simple as that. And nobody caught that? She was doing all she could to bring these things up to the man, knowing exactly who he was, and made she she was protected at all times.The problem with that is Prince Harry believed every word she said. She is using him beyond belief. She cares nothing about HIM. If the Brits have a morning show and I think they do, she was on his program with Peirs Morgan, and something happened so disturbing that I've only heard bits and pieces of it. Way off topic. I only wanted to say if she is doing anything, anything at all you better believe she is being compensated for it. I feel so bad for Prince Harry. He will come to realize it much to late. He has not even grieved his own mothers death. And pulls something like that ( Meghan)
@@ellenreyes7874
I concur with your sentiment 100%
mm showed the entire world who she was whilst wearing a brilliant white bridal gown for her second wedding.
When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time.
Australia.
@@carringtonlefayette8644 How is that so obvious to some and not others. I was just waiting to hear that she had thrown herself over balcony inside the Palace, just as Princess Diana did all of these years ago. She is every women want to keep out of their lives. Every thing is about them.
@@carringtonlefayette8644 It truly is devastating. Throughout her entire pregnancy she she tried to emulate Princess Diana in every way. And that is classic text book narcissism. If you truly love someone, why did you do everything in your reach to take Prince Harry into the same exact Hell he went through when he lost his Mom? No, its undeniable. She actually went through these thoughts and than go out of your way to reenact the situation again. Who can answer such a question.? Only The Good and Holy God. Thank you for listening. Sincerely, Ellen from Oregon! Love and Blessings for you and your Family.
@@ellenreyes7874 exactly
Telling a loved one about how you will kill yourself and your shared unborn child should be in the top ten most cruel ways to taunt and manipulate someone.
Well she wasn't pregnant and Just Sparry was well aware
Evil woman.
Her father said Megan cannot have children
Relationship with narcissist in a nutshell:
You will go from being the perfect love of their life to nothing you do is ever good enough. You will give everything and they will take it all and give you less and less in return. You will end up depleted emotionally, mentally, spiritually and probably financially and then get blamed for it.
Perfectly put..
This is chillingly spot on.
They are soul vampires! Every horrendous word you said is true!!! And worse!
I re read your comment again and it really is quite amusing if it wasn't so tragic, but so,so true
I think we can all see that with her husband now. How he has changed beyond all recognition from that happy bridegroom who genuinely loved her to how he is now, unhappy, depressed, lonely and confused. It’s heartbreaking to see the change in him.
Harry forgot that William convinced him to open up and talk about their mum, that Prince Charles helped him, etc., because Meghan told him so. Meghan has Harry so messed up he doesn’t know if he’s coming or going. I’ve never seen Harry look or act more miserable in his whole life.
Agreed. Before Meghan he looked happy but now tells us he was a miserable, trapped prisoner. Now he looks miserable but tells us he is happy!
So true
I worry about if he ever does cut ties with her, she will be unmerciful.
Gaslighting.
Who’s Harry trying to convince he’s so happy now?
There us no way She would take her own life, she sees herself as too important.
@@lavette916 - Oh, but she's an "actress", though, and the key part of what you said was: "It's a card that she'll play" -- and play it, she will. But that does not mean there's a millimeter of TRUTH in what she says/said. She was manipulating him, using him. And it's pathetic how easily he falls for it.
Ur both right!
@@bethanne1221 - Yes, of course. I didn't mean to sound like I was contradicting her -- not at all!! I absolutely believe she'd ^say^ it, but I don't think she'd EVER actually go through with it!! She does not have that kind of fortitude, and couldn't stand the thought of no longer being the center of attention!!
@@maburg713 oh no I was agreeing with you!! Lol sorry didn’t mean to come off as otherwise or argumentative
@@bethanne1221 - Neither did I! We're fine. We're both good!🤗
Netflix needs to do a special on spousal abuse
Or better, on TO's abuse
@@cheriem432
Netflix wouldn't have the backbone to do that
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She is. If all reports of her past are true, an experienced woman and to an immature, jealous guy like Harry she was the frosting on his inexperienced self.
@@gloriadenning3860 You're probably right.
I always felt she was a phony from the beginning. I especially loved how she pretended she didn’t know much about him in their first interview. What a bunch of bs!!! I am around her age and knew who he was my whole life as I saw his and his family’s faces in the tabloids every time I went through the grocery store check out.
That engagement interview….. it was too…. Schmuck….. she was overacting. I said so to my friends and they said “ do you know she is an actress?”….. I hadn’t known.
Some people are not interested in the Rotal family. Especially since she is an Anerican. A lotmpf people in the Monarch countries want the " establishment" gone. J.m.o.
@@evitasdad I did not know she was an actress either until the press said she was when Harry was dating her. Just proves a point doesn't it.!!!
@@valerielove9837
It sure does, Valerie!
You "felt", huh? And went with that? You dontvhavr any direct knowledge of this. None of us do so perhaps we should leave them alone.
She was expecting a whole different situation at this moment. She never expected the backlash.
And now look at her. BACKLASHED!!!
Yes, she expected this to work out like Amber Heard situation. But the media does not have the balls to go against Royal family, every media outlet has bashed H&M instead of RF.
I was married to a narcissist. Married at the age of 17. I am now 66 years old. I left my husband in the hard 2000 and looking back on my life how's he was totally controling. My family members were no good. He liked to move around a lot and liked to keep a distance from family. If I met a new female and wanted to be friend's with her he would find something negative about her and not be welcoming. It was pretty much like that with everyone that wanted to become friend's and visit. I could never do anything right and if something went wrong in our life even with the 3 children it was all my fault. My house cleaning wasn't good enough, my cooking wasn't good enough, my dressing, clothing wasn't good enough. This male was never happy unless he succeeded in making everyone upset and sad, then he was content. A very stressful life. I feel sorry for Prince Harry.
I just got out of one a year ago but it was only through the death of the narcissist. 39 years of mental abuse, so lost the real me. Today My Granddaughter, not by blood made mention that when her Nono died. Grandma was free at last, unfortunately that has come way too late in life for me, but whatever remaining years I have left I am determined to try to live life to the fullest. You are in denial that you are in an unhealthy relationship, your friends are not welcome to either come or to even call you. Now when I can, they are all gone. You can complete 9 things out of ten and that one you don't complete is the one they will complain about. The list is long for the abuse, mine was not physical but mental, and I am sure that most who have gone through this will know what I am talking when the day finally comes and you realize YES! FREE AT LAST. Harry just does not see it YET!
I was married to a narcissist too but not for long. I got out as soon as I could. She was shocked and devastated to think that I could leave her. She married again after me an made his life a misery.
It’s never late dear to be yourself, to be happy, to seat down in your front porch and smell the flowers 🌸, to treat to yourself, everything! You have another chapter. I have your age and I love every single day that I recover for myself. I paint, I gardening , I cook for myself special dishes, every day is a gift from God to you. Much love ❤️
@@MariaM-up2he I hear you MariaM. 💞
I feel your pain. I spent 30 years with my narcissist before I could leave. We had no children because he withheld sex. I feel my life was wasted.
Being in a Narcissistic Abusive marriage, for almost 2 decades...(I've been saying from the first time that I watched they're sit-down interview. That she's a Narcissist)...It was shortly after I found out about the kind of abuse that I had been living through, and what it was.
He played the suicide game, while I truly became suicidal...which made me try twice, and was found both in comas, by accident (with someone finding). I still have problems, but I'm getting help, and on medications to help me.
NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) is very destructive, to the victims.
MM most definitely has NPD, possibly with other forms of personality disorders, too...Harry is a victim of NPD Abuse, with the whole world watching it happen, and the only people who don't see it, are either Narcissists themselves, in a relationship with one, or don't know anything about it.
I hope that Harry wakes up soon, and gets out of it...sadly it gets worse with children, and harder to leave, knowing that the children will be used as a weapon, and an easier way to get the victim back (or do more harm). The children are going to be abused by her, too.
MM always grabbing his hand, is her showing dominance over him, and if he doesn't say exactly what she wants him to, she squeezes his hand, for Harry to correct what he was saying; to what she wants him to say.
NPD, and Narcissism, is finally becoming a Big Topic, now...Finally.
❤ 🙏 ✌
Too bad it wasn't in .my day. I left after 50years of marriage. Sometimes wonder how I have kept my sanity.
I have been in a relationship with a narcissist since 3 years. My father himself was a narcissist. I am struggling to get free bc I lost my job, friends and relationships with my relatives and I pardon and forget a lot. I am very sad and miserable, the only person who comforts me is my mum, she doesn’t want me to suffer like her. I always feel lonely, but he tells me he is my family, but later on treats me like shit… Before I met him, I was an optimistic and energetic person, now I lost hope. I feel like I lost so much time and feel powerless. Please pray for me to start a new chapter and get my life back away from him 😢
When I seen their engagement announcement I said she was going to be trouble for Harry and his family!
@@Takiki 🙏👍
My heart goes out to you Brenda 💔. At least Megagob has, at the very least done some good, by bringing attention to narcissism, and people who suffer for years at the hands of a narcissist. I have never had that misfortune thankfully, but that doesn’t stop me feeling very sorry for those who have. It must be hell on earth with no escape at times. I hope you have now found peace and happiness in your life. xx
I refuse to watch The Me You Can’t Unsee, but watching Harry’s downward spiral since his wedding I completely agree with the claims in this video. He is being emotionally abused.
Why cant he see what she is doing to him and his family look what she has done to her own money and control thats it poor kids and there daddy
@@karend4280 You can’t see it when you’re in it.
At best he probably feels something is off. And when he realizes she’s not everything she pretended to be, he’ll start questioning more and more.
@@karend4280 He's probably still chasing the feelings he had when he first met and dated her, it must've been all roses and rainbows. Then once she was married to him, it all started to change but Harry probably thinks that it was all his fault and he needs to change things to earn the same amount of love and attention from Meghan that he had before. In reality, it's the narcissist's weapon to get even more out of her partner by making him feel that he's at fault and needs to do extreme things to earn her trust again.
I refuse to watch it too - Harry needs an intervention, similar to being in a cult intervention (cults separate people from their families to gain complete control)
@@fanni24 nailed it! I've watched this exact scenario happen.
I think the facts speak for themselves. Pre-Meghan, Harry was well-liked and likeable, had a good relationship with his family, and the respect of most British people. He was down to Earth, at least as down to Earth as you can be when you are literally a Prince, and now he's miserable, and all he's got is Meghan, she's all he has now. And I think that's exactly the arrangement she wanted.
As someone who’s been through this specific abuse, I can see similar patterns. It’s really sad and it’s also the reason I’ve been following this whole debacle so closely.
Yep...💯...
Trust the person.. nope..
Trust the pattern...ALWAYS...💯
Also remember they will NEVER change they are incapable of change
As have I. Because of my experience, I find this fascinating. I'm just sad that TO doesn't seem to have the psychological awareness to see her for what she is, nor the strength to pull away from her. I'm beginning to believe he has little idea whether he is happier with her, or with his birth family. This is sad.
My mother was a full blown narcissist as well as my sister…I pray for Harry that he will see the light one day and run as fast as he can… And if proven that she is not the birth mother of those 2 children take them with him… this narcissist needs to be destroyed!! Period.
I was in a relationship with a narcissist for 23 years. It has taken me about as long to realize the fog I was in. Now, just as your analysis of Prince Harry makes clear, I don't know why I didn't get it sooner.
I was in a relationship for the same amount of time. I had a year long severe breakdown during that time, not knowing what was wrong with me. I separated from him during that year but kept going back. Finally I ended up staying for another 10 years. So after 23 years it ended by my leaving him for good because he'd done something completely unforgivable. He blamed everyone else. It was my adult son who saw long before I could, he was also severely damaged but very intelligent and insightful. He told me his side of the story and my eyes were opened. Since then I've realised that I had grown up amongst narcissists and though I grew up feeling unhappy and that something wasn't right it wasn't enough for me to see what was wrong.
My ex has been out of my life for 20 years but my other family members weren't. In the past 6 years I have stopped seeing them one by one. But although I sometimes am in the moment and can laugh and feel okay it comes back and I feel doomed and depressed.
I understand how you feel and hope that things will get better for you if they haven't already. My son says we're survivors, but damaged.
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Obviously she was really good at putting the wool over your eyes. Happy you got out of it. Thats what counts, better late than never. ;)
@@SigrunHT try ur best to leave the past behind. Enjoy life bcz both ur son and ur life is precious. You are here on earth for a reason. Laugh often, hv joy, breathe, look ur best, eat healthy. It's ur life ur happiness!! I've been in similar path. Today I've not one single family member close to me not even my children but I live for myself. You are very blessed you hv ur son with you so rejoice. Live love laugh!! 🙌🏽
@@blissful249. Thank you for your caring comment. I was going to delete it but now I'm glad I didn't. You were worth waiting for 😄♥️.
Well said. Can relate to this. Narcissists are masters in manipulation.
Finally left a narcissist 7 months ago after being anything and everything he wanted me to be for 13 years. I can finally love myself and grow as an individual.
Well done!!
Harry's wife's control of him and his "addiction" to her make them to unpredictable and dangerous to be around the RF. Addicts must acknowledge that they have a problem and seek "real" help. Even more, they must show real signs of improvement; otherwise, they will lash out and hurt those that truly care about them. That hurt can be both verbal as well as physical. My opinion, the RF should keep these two at a far distance for their own mental and physical safety.
As far as I can see you are all a bunch of haters !
Harry is happily married & has 2 Beautiful children
He was so unhappy being a Prince, why don't
All research his life & find out the truth instead
Of listening to to someone who spreading
Her own opinion ! !!
TWROC96❣ SP🎯T ON❗❗❗👍
@@drumclean9384 obviously you have NO idea how very evil Megan is. We feel sorry for Harry.
@@drumclean9384 OMG! 😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣 You haven’t got a clue!
@@drumclean9384 oh they deserve each other...... you have a fluffy brain. They are both shams and a laughing stock.
I knew something was off about her the first time I saw her. I don't even follow the royal family that much and I can see it from a mile away. He just looks so sad.
I agree that was my thoughts. I also think she is a narcissist. My daughter was in a relationship with one for 6 years and has a baby with him. Yes it is very hard, we begged her for years to move on and she didn't until after the baby was born and she almost died giving birth. That is when she moved back home and I started to show her that he wasn't good. Thank God we were able to have a chance to save her.
I see Harry is a bad place and hopefully he'll wake up and realize it some day soon. With children it will be harder to deal with a narcissist. It took my daughter 18 months and about 10 thousand dollars to get a simple custody agreement and he still is threatening her of taking her back to court. I can't imagine what Meg will do to him.
@@MaryR1231 I think if he leaves she's gonna make his life a living hell. I can totally see her take the kids away and not letting him see them.
@@HappywifeTaylor meghan won’t be able to do that if prince charles becomes king, the king or queen has legal custody of all royal grandchildren
@@HappywifeTaylor oh she will without a doubt. Narcissist want control. She will bring down the monarchy or at least die trying. Especially knowing the Queen has gardinship over her grandchildren. Yikes that will be a war to watch.
@@HappywifeTaylor Do you really think any court would give custody to a woman who stated openly that she was suicidal and, as far as we know, has not had therapy especially if the relatives on the father's side are royal?
This relationship will have a terrible ending...
I just hope this terrible ending is for her, she deserves it.
#SavePrinceHarry,
I hope her karma gets her .
@Jane Whitaker I'm actually quite worried for him. She's capable of anything and may wanna acquire a saintly widow status.
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@@aylacristina7295 we need to make that trend.
This is pure narcissism. The saddest part is when m is gone, Harry will have no family. Anymore.
Why is Harry’s wife constantly mauling him and wanting to hold his hand. It must be very annoying
Yes, it was all a bit much wasn’t it, that over the top hand holding etc.
It was not from affection though.
Wait what’s wrong with wanting to hold hands with a partner?
@@Nour-mx2qs no one’s saying it’s wrong, we are interpreting it as part of their body language!
Affected . Very.
@@evitasdad oh okay thanks
That is all part of her narcissistic demonic control!
Relationship addiction and trauma bonds. Harry needs to be extracted by a professional with experience in deprogramming people who have been in a cult. Imo
@@yorkvango3050😀😉
Ahahaahah Harry reading your message is probably thinking "you don't know nothing about me" lol.
This has never happened to him.(hatred towards him) He had never had fans made these types of comments. You think this bothers him? The "media" makes him look like he is being controlled (according to him, we all know is meghan 🤣) but do you guys think he gets on TH-cam and what sees all this stuff!???
I'd have to, my ego would make me want to read what ppl actually think of me. How can one handle this much hatred against the couple??
@@ZiireNa is that the same kind of hatred that they both show towards their own families.
Absolutely. My area's mental health department has a therapy especially for the PTSD arising from narcissistic abuse. The mental health workers attend training so they can help patients deal with it
@@ZiireNa Oh I now know much more about Harry than I ever wanted to thanks to the fact that he simply will not shut up. The Oprah interview with his mother figure/wife, the therapy interview, the podcast, the brand new memoir tell-all. The self-absorption, self-centeredness and "poor widdle me, Born a Prince but not an absolute monarch like Henry VIII where I can really throw my weight around and have heads chopped off" ...tells the public everything about Harry's lack of character and his hypocrisy.
I'd honestly forgotten how happy and cheerful he used to look before he met her. It was fun to see old clips of him laughing and joking with people and the press.
It’s so pitiful that this man has almost lost his own spirit. Sad. Sad. Sad.
He has a very weak character, in any case.
yes i know, it's sad Prince Harry ever met her, she saw his weakness'es and played on it against him, so sorry to say he is a lost and very unhappy man, plus mental illness should never be mocked, he very much needs help, he was besotted with her she made sure of that, yes we all make mistakes i think he knows that know,
He'll get it back. He has his Mom's spirit.
The truth will out, as they say. In the end.
@@craffte But megan Markle has a bad spirit. I hope our beautiful Diana's spirit is stronger than markles to save Harry from this woman eventually. Please Princes Diana save your son and tell him to go home where he belongs with his family who truly love him.
As a survivor of a narcissistic relationship, I 100% agree. Thank you for your articulate presentation in this video.
If Harry is now apparently in such a loving and fulfilling relationship as he claims….why does he look so f@$king miserable,gaunt and generally unwell ?
he looks like J Depp when he was with a certain narcissist.
oh goodness. I think a lot of us felt she was a narcissist but you put this all so very clearly. This is grittily scary and disgusting. I feel so sad for all involved. Scary stuff. Thank you for being so direct and blunt!
I went through this with a friend. Who is still smearing me. So gross. I literally empathised with Megan and now I see she is hands down a narcissist
I didn't fully identify and understand the traits I was being subjected to until after I got out of the relationship. It only started after our child was born. Lovebombing relationship up to baby. Then the devaluing/criticism/ controlling aspects began after baby.
Harry unfortunately, thinks he is more important than he actually is. Meghan on the other hand encourages this because it makes her feel more important then Harry is.
Entitled, you mean?
@@eckertgabriel2955 yep that word is also applicable.
Most people who have been in relationships with narcissists can see how cruel Meghan is and how miserable Harry is. I hope that he can find his way out of this without harming himself or his children.
Thank you for your analysis, it helped me to get clear about the abusive relationship I want to get over so badly and still cannot....
The hand holding thing is nauseating. I like seeing couples hold hand but theirs feel unnatural.
Couples can hold hands but not all the time at ever public event, while he is is uniform, while he is on the job that's just creepy
Well you see how she grabs his hand and rub it when he's in the middle of a sentence I believe she's saying is so many boys remember hearing what I told you to say I don't even think Harry realize he's the one that's trapped.
For me, I think it's her holding his one hand with both of her hands that's disturbing. She's clinging to him, almost unable to stand as her own person. She probably believes that it shows how devoted she is to him, but it just looks pathetic. Couples can hold each other's one hand to show that while they might be joined as a couple, they are still two independent people.
@@ETibbs11
She's too clingy and you best believe if Harry decide to leave her she's probably going to bring up Suicidal Thoughts he stuck right now with her.
Been there too Mlady. Thank you for this.
The continually clutching claw gets me.
Harry, Harry, Harry, please wake up. Open your eyes. Before Meghan, you always displayed jovial happiness which was contagious to all who saw you like this. Now, I feel deeply disturbed for you. You are unhappily different. So very sad.
This is an excellent analysis of what we've all witnessed. I was in a relationship with a narcissist and my mother is married to one. Now the early signs are clear to see when you know what to look for. Harry's wife is toxic, she is abusive and manipulative and is using his past against him to get what she wants and it must be heartbreaking for his family
Your research rings true because I lived it in my first and only marriage...I see Harry and I see what I went through... seeing him living it scares me.
I'm so sorry for you. But, um, if you've had only one marriage, it cannot be your "first". Just sayin'.
Your totally spot on, she always puts her hand in his back when she's had enough it looks spooky to me!
You don’t realize you’re in a narcissistic relationship when you’re in it….it’s very difficult to disengage and think rationally without emotion taking a hold of you. The narcissistic partner is very good at confusing you, telling you that you are their world, and at the same time making you feel like you’re not good enough for anyone. They’ll say they’re sorry, only to repeat the behaviour over and over. They’ll blame you or others for their behaviour, never taking responsibility. They’ll turn themselves into a victim so you, the loving partner you are, will take care of them, and protect them.
I left my narcissistic husband over 14 years ago and even though I had to go to a shelter with my children to escape, it was the best day of my life. I felt so liberated, I felt like I could breathe again. And even though he suckered me into going back to him twice more before finally leaving for good, I am so glad I took the steps to leave. He was a dangerous person, he threatened suicide as well, he made himself out to be a victim, he blamed me for all his shortcomings, he praised me, and when I didn’t agree with his behaviour he put me down and called me names.
Leaving a narcissistic partner is tricky, you really have to know them and talk to professionals before taking any steps on how to leave with minimal risk of safety.
I haven’t watched their documentary or any documentary pertaining to them as a couple, I can’t bring myself to watching her. Makes me cringe.
My heart goes out to Harry. I know all to well how easy it is to be completely hypnotized & blinded by a narcissist. Especially when you’re an emotionally broken person, desperately seeking & in need of love & stability. They have something of a radar like ability to seek out vulnerabilities they can/will prey upon. I hope he has people who genuinely love him enough not to be ‘yes men.’ He will need them when the grand facade inevitably crumbles.
I think this analysis is spot on. It's what I was thinking myself. I hope Harry wakes up to this manipulation and finds his way back to his family. It'll take them time to trust him again, but I'm sure they will once he's distanced himself from Meghan.
I heard she broke into Harry's friend wedding to get back with him.
Yeah she did, can confirm.
They are so pukey
He was trying to break up with her but they kept "running" into each other.
She wouldn't let him break up with her! There's a video showing their interaction at the wedding. Someone with a stronger character would not have been manipulated as he was.
Yes, you can see Meghan in the wedding video. She was running after Harry. Efrat. Israel
You are spot on. Harry seems so lost, abused and sad.
Undue Influence, as in cult grooming. At full display on global stage.
This is the best video I've seen explaining a Narcissist. Me-gain is definitely a Narcissist and Harry is under her spell and I used to feel so bad for Harry, but not anymore. He has not only allowed Me-gain to trash his family he has joined her in the trashing. He hurt his Grandmother deeply. He has hurt his brother and his sister in law and his Dad. He is so used to being the 'victim' that he doesn't know how to be happy. Being with Me-gain keeps him a victim and he's not strong enough to stand up for himself. He's an adult now and needs to stop trashing his family and needs to grow up.
Tku for this. No one else have explained this so well. This totally makes sense. Tku so much. Now I totally understand. Well said!
Your analysis is spot on! So well done as always. Thank you.
When I first heard him say how Meghan had told him how she was going to kill herself and their baby, that was the moment I knew she was dangerous. Up to this point I really liked her and was happy for him, but this moment told us everything we needed to know about her and that he was lost forever. It was an act so evil and manipulative, cruel in the extreme and calculated. An abuse of his genuine feelings of losing his Mum, I would imagine his family also knew in that moment that he was in danger mentally from her.
I feel so sorry for our RF & their obvious distress but feel that this situation will go a very long way in educating people what an abusive relationship looks like, what it feels like & the impact it will have on their life going forward. Thank you so much for your amazing commentary, which is both clear & insightful.
Sadly few people see Harry as the suffering victim he in fact is.
@@tersiaathanasellis8422 Thank you for your reply. 😊 I agree that many cannot see this because of the terrible choices Harry has made & is still making... I feel sick when I recall the harm that he has caused & the distress… The thing is Meghan is no ordinary wife. She has no soul, feels no love for others & is devoid of responsibility or accountability. As a retired psychotherapist, I know very well how destructive, manipulative & convincing someone with NPD can be. How they systematically & completely destroy someone’s life without a backward glance.
I think this is the best analysis of the Harry-Meghan situation I have seen so far!👍👍
After escaping a narcissist wife who was physically and emotionally abusive, this is so true.
How does one's self-centerdness, one's ambitions & need for control, blind them from seeing the harm they're causing to another person. The extreme ends to which Narcissists go in order to get what they want is mindblowing.
Thing is, narcissists usually are usually devoid of empathy. They're incapable of recognising the needs and feelings of others.
Narcissism is not well understood even today, although TOW's (and Chump's) very public embrace of it has awoken many people to its existence and *danger*. Having had years of experience with one (my mother), I can tell you that narcissists are very sneaky.
For some of my childhood I was not very aware of what she was doing, although I knew something was off. Later, I could not understand why. She always "behaved" when family or company came over. That was the sneaky part. Since I could not understand why or even what she was doing I thought, if I could literally buy her love, she would love me. It didn't work. And she swung wildly back and forth in her behavior.
One day she would be buying me a custom wardrobe to start high school (we had uniforms), the next she would nitpick every little thing I was doing "wrong". I *never* really did anything very wrong, was never punished (unlike my brothers) because I was terrified I would lose what little love she had for me. I just thank God every day that He blessed me with a strong psychological constitution, such that I could withstand her attacks until I was ready to move away from her. We went no contact for over two years, and my peace of mind was breathtaking. And sad.
Actually I predict it won't end well for Harry. He's unhappy now and it shows. Narcissistic abuse needed to be put out there so more people are aware so thanks for this video
I feel so sorry for William. So very sorry. He and Kate loves him
She’s got him well and truly hooked
You are so right!!!!!!! Harry has all my empathy
Narcissist or not .... Harry has been crazy forever
Yess he has😂😂😂😂he met his ghoul mate!
I think he's a nice guy. He made dumbass choices as a young guy, like we all did when we were young, but there's nothing sinister or malicious about him at ALL. I think Chelsea should have married him. She was his first love. They both had similar boisterous, laugh-out-loud personalities. They dated for several years on and off. In the end, she noped out because she said she didn't want the scrutiny of royal life. I think if Harry REALLY felt like his royal life was terrible, he would have left for Chelsea. I mean, if it was his own choice. But here he fell for an actress who waited until she had a ring on her finger, his baby in her belly, and she was threatening to kill them both if things didn't change.... Harry's hand was forced. He's so super trapped. I honestly think he'll this will all end in him developing substance abuse issues (anxiety/anti-depressant pills overuse/mixing) or, worst case, suicide (God Forbid it). There's no positive outcome for him unless he leaves her, leaves the kids, and goes back home to his family.
I mean, putting on a Nazi costume and never apologizing for it was pretty messed up.
Dissing the 1st Amendment was messed up of him. He's an A-hole.
@@FayeIL Harry 100% apologized for the Nazi costume. What are you saying?
How a person treats employees/ waiters is always a very good indication. A good question is always ' When will I be the one who has not measured up?'
I have lived this. I also just lost my first born to a narcissist woman. He died this last May 10th. Listen to this lady. She knows what she is talking about.
Thank you for sharing your experience. I've never been around a narcissist. I know what to look out for now.
Thank you! At last, a document so clearly explaining how she parasites on his trauma. And we were all so happy for them a couple of years ago.
I wasn't. I thought she was a phony from Day 1.
She unbelievable and evil
The day I realized something was wrong with her was their wedding day. I got up really early just to watch the whole thing. It was beautiful. But then the only relative of hers that was even mentioned to be present was her mother.
I thought how sad for her, over 600 guests and hundreds of millions of people watching it live and only her mother for family. That’s when my opinion of her started to change. Now it’s even more sad to see what has become of Harry and the disjunction their children will be facing. I truly hope she can turn things around for the kids’ sake.
I have read and have watched many psychiatrists say that a narcissist will never changed. They won’t accept therapy since they see themselves as always being right. Sad…can’t help wondering how this hole sordid situation will end.
Oh, I saw some clips and the vivid memory was she staring straight at the camera with her fake smile while #6 was holding her right hand like a eunuch, busy looking at the something else. I was weirded out and stopped paying attention till the O interview.
The queen tells you who you can and can't invite to your wedding. Lady Di wasn't able to invite her friends
@@ladybugsym1614 But the comment was in regards to MM’s family, not her friends.
Narcissists are incapable of change
I've been binge watching this channel and can't seem to stop 😭😂
There are many constants to be observed in videos of MM. A major one is that she ALWAYS knows exactly where the camera is and plays to it, without fail (0:40). Like most people, I liked her until the engagement interview where she came across so giddy and phoney and not at all like a 30+, previously married, world-wise woman who understood the gravity of what she was taking on. Aside from the rumors, there were the things we could see, from the overshadowing and control of Harry to that ghastly behavior at Eugenie's wedding. All pointed to MM being an unrepentant narcissist which thankfully more people have caught on to now. There can only be so much smoke before you have to admit there's a fire and this one is a global dumpster fire!
Yes. I said the exact same. That engagement interview was nauseating. “Well. Is he nice?” 🙄 Oh my God.
I honestly put that aside and gave her a second chance. Thinking the Oprah interview was going to prove that she’s been treated unfairly. It was just a bunch of finger pointing, lies and whining by an entitled, self obsessed, manipulative brat.
I knew early on she only wanted a Royal Title (not the duties or lifestyle) with the Hollywood life. To be a Princess amongst celebrities. I didn’t expect her to go about the plan so rapidly and so obviously.
Hope he wakes up to her ways at some point.
@@mojadah10 agree
Ricordatevi che e una attrice, di poco valore, ma sa dove sono.le telecamere
Harry's in his wife's prison right now and he's not aware of it and no one can help him get out except himself. Or Until the "warden " aka the wife releases him.
This is all so true and I could cry for him and how he has changed. He has never been an angel but this type of abuse is so damaging to his mental health issues. Unless he realises what is really happening it won’t stop.
Harry himself saying she was telling him she was going to kill herself and how she was going to do it (planting the image in his head) is the final nail on the coffin for me. This woman is crazy and super narcissistic. This is sad. This woman is clearly playing with a broken man for her own benefit. Shes going above and beyond to position herself on top. Before Harry, people barely even knew her. Just those who watch the show, where she wasnt even the main even, kinda knew who she was.
Una attricetta di poco conto pluridivorziata di cui parlano male sia gli ex e la sua famiglia... Rancorosa perché la madre di colore le ha cmq lasciato dei tratti e invidiosa delle donne di Casa Reale...una vera mina vagante da disinnescare e buttare in una discarica..!
You are spot on about how Narcissistic abuse manifests itself I am a survivor of Narcissistic abuse. This person physically and mentally abused me and had me convinced I couldn't survive without them. When they threatened to leave (sometimes packing) I would beg them to stay!
narcissistic personality disorder and how severe they are can vary. People with the disorder can:
Have an unreasonably high sense of self-importance and require constant, excessive admiration.
Feel that they deserve privileges and special treatment.
Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements.
Make achievements and talents seem bigger than they are.
Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate.
Believe they are superior to others and can only spend time with or be understood by equally special people.
Be critical of and look down on people they feel are not important.
Expect special favors and expect other people to do what they want without questioning them.
Take advantage of others to get what they want.
Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others.
Be envious of others and believe others envy them.
Behave in an arrogant way, brag a lot and come across as conceited.
Insist on having the best of everything - for instance, the best car or office.
At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they view as criticism. They can:
Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special recognition or treatment.
Have major problems interacting with others and easily feel slighted.
React with rage or contempt and try to belittle other people to make themselves appear superior.
Have difficulty managing their emotions and behavior.
Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change.
Withdraw from or avoid situations in which they might fail.
Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection.
Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, humiliation and fear of being exposed as a failure.
It seems women are more finely tuned to recognizer female narcissists.. Good video
Anyone who has experienced it and been enlightened and healed can see it a mile away.
I have only just found this video and you have put into clear and concise words all the things that I have been thinking and trying to say on various other sites ever since I saw Meghan on the Oprah interview stating that she had felt alone and suicidal. It was so obvious that it was a very cruel way to play on Harry's fear and insecurity. I couldn't believe that anyone would stoop so low as to try and recreate how his mother felt when she admitted to throwing herself downstairs when she was pregnant! I didn't believe a word of it but I could see how it had the desired effect on Harry.
She got her way in persuading him that they needed to get out of the Royal Family and back to where she wanted to be, the USA. It was all part of her plan to escape the "boring" royal duties (shaking hands and cutting ribbons was never part of her plan) and become a celebrity based on the fact that she had bagged a Prince.
I'm sure poor Harry thought he was going to live a quiet life away from the spotlight and just do normal things but instead of that he found himself even more in the glare of the publicity that he was trying to get away from. It's so sad that she had made him so dependant on her (by the things that you pointed out) that he was terrified of losing his "soulmate" who understood him so well and who he believed wanted the same things as he did. He was so under her spell (control) that he just went along with everything she planned because he couldn't bear the thought of being alone.
I really dread to think what his mental state is at the present time. Is he slowly beginning to realise how he was deceived and that he's trapped with this awful selfish, controlling woman or is he still convinced that she is the only one who can save him and that he couldn't function without her? I'd like to think that this recent solo trip to Mozambique is like a kind of "retreat" where he can be himself and think for himself and try to extricate himself from the position he is now in. Hopefully it wasn't her idea that he should go and do some damage limitation after his disastrous speech at the UN.
It’s very telling to see old footage of Harry. These days he really looks like a very sensitive guy who’s mind is literally, every free second it has, trying to figure out wtf is really going on now. I pray that when he 🙏 is free from her he will be a public advocate for others who are similarly being manipulated.
Thank you for highlighting this issue. Mental Health Professionals are effectively 'gagged' and aren't allowed to discuss this issue without serious consequences. The Goldwater Rule is outdated though and needs to be revised. Your opinions are spot on!
CONTROLLING PEOPLE ALWAYS REQUIRES GET ANYONE THAT CARES ABOUT THEM AWAY FROM THEM AND ISOLATE THEM SO YOU ONLY HAVE THEM !
We never see harry smile anymore!!!!he is so under her spell...
I totally agree with you !
with every words you said.
Harry is deeply blind with that woman.
Very well narrated. You have been very sensitive and compassionate towards Harry in this video and I agree with you after experiencing psychological abuse myself. The Jekyll and Hyde character is typical of narcissistic personality types.
I agree with you 100% I am a survivor of a narcissistic mother and the definition applies to her as to Meagain exactly
EVERYONE'S mother was a "narcissist". 🙄
@@trawlins396
No, I know some lovely loving moms just amazing.
@@Violinist265 read through the comments. Literally every other comment is someone claiming to be raised by a "narcissist". That word is WAY overused. A very small percentage of the population are REAL narcissists. Having narcissistic traits isn't the same as being a narcissist.
@@trawlins396
I agree👍🏻👍🏻 but in my case I am positive that my mom was and is a Narcissist she was diagnosed back in 1999.
@@Violinist265 A lot of ppl are diagnosed with that. Big Pharma is a business. A business needs customers. Just like EVERY, other female has "BPD, OCD, depression, anxiety, is on the spectrum, etc etc". This is Generation Rx. Everyone wants to be on SOMETHING.
I don’t think he will ever see the truth about her.
His height, his deep voice, his wide shoulders, his heart, he deserves better 😭❤️
Thank you for explaining this situation with such compassion 🙏
It's super dark, controlling, manipulating, and can be traumatic! The Bible tells us this dark behavior would increase and we should not tolerate it. There can be no compromise. Run. They will hurt you and enjoy it. They do not change.
I think he’s realised what a toxic relationship he is now, but he’ s made his bed and he has to lie on it. It’s very sad - the day he met MM was a very bad day in history.
You are absolutely CORRECT
I feel sad for him.😔...I hope someday he'll find joy again with his children...sending him positive energy💞
Wow, you have done an EXCELLENT job of laying out the very convincing argument that she is a narcissist and he is her victim.
I’ve always had a soft spot in my heart for Harry. His extraordinary life and experiences made him ripe for someone like Meghan to come in and start messing with his head. Photos of him pre and post Meghan are starkly different. I bet she goes to the therapist with him to prevent the truth being revealed. Hope he is able to see the light and that his family embraces him back into the fold.
I felt like Mugatu from Zoolander when they first started dating. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills! Lol! But just her expression all the time of "omg - I can't believe this is happening to me" ....was just so....unsettling to me and odd. Her playing dumb that she didn't understand what she had gotten herself into marrying into the royal family was utterly ridiculous. She received so much special treatment because of her 25% black heritage. She just seems so unbearable.
this is really what it is. my heart really broken for harry :(
Very insightful.
A great video. This happened to my brother. We had to leave him to it, eventually he left the husband beater & abuser and lost his 4 kids eventually… these two are showing g the world what goes on. We will watch and wait to see it pan out
I’ve been under the influence of a Narc. By the end it was dreadful. The pressure to avoid conflict by just agreeing to everything was horrific but I couldn’t leave. I did eventually but the scars run deep and I don’t think I can ever trust again. It’s the fact that I’m not stupid but just didn’t see it until I was in too deep. It means that whenever anyone is nice now I can’t be sure it’s not false… because I was sure it wasn’t false before (but it was).
gosh thats so me, i'm like a recluse almost now! thinking of all the friends and relationships over the years of people who were friends with me etc just because i was the most successful at the time..I can't trust anyone now.
The narcissist test is watch how the person treats store clerks, waitresses, cab drivers. Do they treat them with respect or demean them. Narcissists devalue anyone who they can't use to attain their goals. How did they part from past relationships. Amicably or do they continue to disparage especially if there were children involved. Do your homework.
I didn't see in the beginning that she was a narcissist - wasn't looking for that. I didn't understand though why a strong, independent woman would CONSTANTLY CLING to a man like she did and still does with Harry - it just seemed so strange to me. Now that I understand more about the narcissistic personality, the clinging (controlling) makes sense.
Meghan is absolutely the classic narcissist, she has also isolated Harry from all that he knows in order to get control over him but it may take a very long time for Harry to see it.
It is important that the RF start to defend thenselves against the toxic narrative that is obviously coming from MM through Harry.
You nailed it!!! So sad. What people are not talking about is that a narcissist unconsciously, or consciously, tries to force you into suicide as the emotional pain becomes to great to bear. Anyone who followed the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard trial has seen evidence of this. I also know from first-hand experience as I grew up with an Amber Heard-like sister. If he breaks up with her it will be ugly. My heart and prayers are with Harry. Anyway, you confirmed to me what I have been thinking. Thanks for the video.
"The mean in me everyone can see."
I think this video, comes across as a sincere, intelligent , assessment of Harry, and his problems. Thank you!
You may not have the written qualifications, but you express your thoughts and beliefs so well.
I also have experience with a Narcissist and partner,and I was initially so confused, shocked and saddened by the behaviour.
It took me so long, of initially laughing, then drawing attention, then getting irate and telling them, then losing it,until it became a war, before finally reacting in what I think was the best way
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I removed them from my life, suddenly my family's days were brighter, no more horrific arguments,no nasty encounters, no sobbing so hard and not being able to stop, no more questioning myself all the time,no more waking and the first thing felt was the stomach drop feeling of dread, knowing I would encounter them.
It doesn't work for everyone, but I do know that when I just stopped communicating with them, their behaviour got worse, so much so that people approached me and expressed concerns.
That makes me think that the attacking of the Royal family is an indication, of a Narcissist being ignored.
Harry and wife seem to be making bigger, stranger and more desperate claims the more the Royal family don't react.
Sadly I don't know the outcome of this behaviour, but I know my family are happier, and "the couple" still have major dramas going on every other day, involving more and more people, who are approaching me to tell me they no longer spend time with them.I
Anyway Thank you for this episode, I believe it was really accurate.