Ugh me. I don't like to even get into arguments bc I hit where it hurts and then I regret it. Like my thoughts can be so cruel when I'm triggered. My words cut like a knife. Hate it. I have add I feel. Mercury and Mars in Gemini. Can't sleep. You got it.
miss b I totally feel you! I'll also say something to someone if I feel it's absolutely necessary to either say something or defend myself, and sometimes I'll regret it, bcuz my words also cut like a knife. Mer + mars in scorpio. I think what's important is that you recognize your words CAN become weapons and it's also wise to just be mindful of what you say to others. You can use the same intensity and intelligence to bring delight and positivity onto others!
This is me .I ways say things that I don't mean and I regret it later ..My moon is in Capricorn so I can be so cold..I hate it ..I really am desperately to change this
Great video. Almost surreal in how accurate this is being an isolated interpretation. As someone with this conjunction, I will say that Music is also a very good way to quiet the thinking mind and can be powerfully meditative and healing for those fast moving thoughts that can begin to torture. At least, for me, this has been the main medicine for my pervasive, fast and loud thoughts.
I have mercury conjunct mars and everything about this is so spot on... In the past three days I've gotten in two huge arguments with my friend group LOL. First was about politics, and the second one about astrology (obviously, I defended astrology furiously!) But it's really interesting the connection between being so fast-thinking and IDENTIFYING with my ideas, my mind...It's so hard to turn my brain off, of course I've just come to identify with my brain and thoughts and ideas, they're always running, it's impossible to ignore. I remember seeing a question in an MBTI test that was like, "if you're walking in a forest, would it be to enjoy nature and be alone with your thoughts?" And I never thought about it, but the reason I like nature is because I can just sit in my brain and be IN my head... I was like, people go to parks to admire the trees? How cute, but I can't relate, Lol!
I remember Justin Bieber mentioning he once had serious insomnia because his brain refused to shut down at night. He has an exact Mercury-Mars conjunction in Aquarius, and in the 3rd House.
Hi Adel. I have this conjunction in Cancer also and agree with you about the energy being different here. I am working on confronting people when boundaries have been crossed. So challenging! And recently musing on the idea that I am very passive aggressive. I have been in recovery for co-dependence and have found a community where I've felt more safe to practice direct communication. This is quite an energy to work with!
@@juliestinson2791 Would you say this is resulting of having Mars in Cancer as a Fall placement? Which house is your conjunction in? How is your Mars aspected?
@@ladye2818 Hello. Yes, I think this has a lot to do with Mars being in it's fall. Not the most supportive placement for masculine warrior energy. I also have Moon in 5 degree conjunct with Mercury and wide 10 degree conjunct with Mars with Mars almost exact conjunct my 10th house Midheaven. To top it all off, I have a 7th house Saturn in Aries that's part of a Yod, squaring my Mars. It's been an interesting life!😊
Thank you so much for this! I have mercury conjunct mars and find it impossible to meditate. My mind won't turn off, so your suggestions with having a more Buddhist take on things was helpful. I've been trying to figure out how to not live so much in the mind/ego.
'do not get into arguments with these people, it can go on for days'...sooo true! my bf has this aspect...and also if you start it and just don't wanna stop it at some point, they will get angry at you for not finishing it.
I have this placement in fiery Sagittarius. Sleep was difficult because the mind doesn’t ever stop even when you sleep. I start dreaming early into sleep and I dream a lot. My dreams have parts. Now in the age of TH-cam I can listen to sleep meditation videos. I need total silence to concentrate. I have some form of ADD. I have many windows opened on my PC because my minds shifts from one thought to another. I am learning mindfulness to cope.
This was surprisingly accurate. I have Mercury conjunct Mars in Aries, and they are both situated in 8th House. I also have Mercury and Mars trine my Pluto in Sagittarius. I've always had an investigative, hyperactive mind, and I love debating. However, I do admit that my words can be rather barbed, fiery, and savage, especially when I'm angry. I also always seek for the truth in anything, and want to get to the bottom of things, whether it be a subject, or a situation at all costs. It's also true that I always feel the need to prove my point of view, opinions, ideas, and ways of thinking to others. I also have Mercury and Mars sextile my Venus in Aquarius as well, so sometimes I decide to take the more diplomatic route when it comes to speaking and debating.
I have this conjunction in Scorpio. And yess I can be very obsessive when trying to get to the bottom of things. I have to know everything or get tired. I will search and search and search for truth or more understanding with some subjects and ideas. Google is my best friend because of this. I do like debates but being a libra sun makes me objective and calms me down in arguments. My mind is very erratic, I thought I had adhd because I get distracted so easily. I've always had trouble with sleep I'm always up at night and when I do sleep, i need it for hoursssssss. I've learned how powerful the psyche really is. And I think more than feel majority of the time also because of moon in Aquarius 😩 I'm learning to try and shut it off, cause it does get exhausting
Now I've figured out how i can make a grown man cry with my words. This conjunction. I try to avoid confrontation at all costs (Cancer sun/ Sag moon) however when I'm fed up i throw up every flaw and short comings that a person has (not physically)
I have this conjunction and thisvideo is so accurate. All of it. Jewel is so insightful and I feel like she has a window into my life when she does a video of an aspect that I have.
Thank you, Jewel! I have this conjunction in Pisces and it is also squared by Uranus. I have managed to get a PhD and several other advanced certificates, so I think in my case it has been constructive :-) However, the best ideas come to me in my dreams or immediately after I wake up, which I think is related to the energy of Pisces.
I'm a gemini with this conjunction in cancer, both mercury and mars are opposite 12H neptune and trine pluto in tight orbs.. I definitely keep odd hours, up all night can't sleep can't stop thinking then sleep for 10 hours.. I've matured past the ferocious arguments except when I'm badly hurt or betrayed by somebody, otherwise I can walk away and let it go now. I can't stand manipulation or arrogant condescending attitudes. I am like a dog with a bone when it comes to truth, i spend a lot of time researching topics to an obsessive degree. And yes I've found peace through shamanic journeying, eastern spirituality, things of that nature. Finding the True Self beneath the thoughts. Writing is great therapy to get the thoughts out too.
Im laughing. Getting to the bottom of things 😂. This sounds so much like me. Years of meditation and healing work has helped a lot. ~Mars in aries in an out of sign conjunction to both mercury and IC in taurus plus mars opposite pluto.
Wow, me too! Just not the IC part. I’ll stay patient and calm until someone usually my husband, will shame me or try to control me (on a low level), then the cutting piercing words come out and I get pretty rowled up. 🤣 I also find when talking to others that they typically think and/or talk very slow and it’s hard to just wait for their words to come out. Ive found working out almost every day is essential to have a calm mind.
Well explained. I have JUPITER and MERCURY in Libra AND MARS IN Scorpio in conjunction. Plus I am an Aries Ascendant which strengthens this aspect. I didnt actually realise how much I love to argue till recently. And the attention problems are an issue especially for me who is doing Maths at the university level as my degree. It requires attention to detail and I have to slow down my mind. It is very difficult but I am learning. I generally destroy people in arguments and it has led to resentment sometimes from their side. I can get really vicious. For a while I had been trying to tone this aspect down and not being as forthright; what happened is I lost some of my self-esteem because my assertion(Mars) is directly related to my speech. So I went back to accepting it; though know I can be forthright and less vicious simultaneously. In regard to meditating I have learnt that and mindfulness too. I learnt to slow down my thoughts that way to reduce my anxiety. It could have been easier to do this because of my Moon in Pisces. So guys its possible just practise and believe you will obtain value from it it will work. I
I have the opposition so its interesting to understand this one cause its so different to how I understand things. I like to argue sometimes but its more practical for me, like a way to bridge disagreements and come to an understanding
I have this hard aspect. However my saturn return shortly followed by saturn transiting over my sun, moon, neptune and ketu, I am definitely experiencing an identity crisis, so I'm trying to acknowledge and be grateful to accept the growth, it's really been rough tho. Right, I have pluto conjunct mars, too. haha. that explains a lot. Still haven't even explored all my natal saturn issues yet....eek. I like what you said in another video, " what you don't know, you don't know...." is the issue. I CAN'T THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR HELPING ME BECOME MORE AWARE. Not surprisingly, I typically don't do well with psychologists, and counseling. This actually makes sense 😊👍 it's fantastic wisdom, thank you sooooooo much for sharing
Ooh, this was interesting. Was wondering why I have been even more of an up all night person of late. You got it -my merc/mars conjunction is getting hit by Uranus in Taurus. I will stop being so hard on myself about it and figure this too shall pass Thanks for the insight!
I’m learning to not continue arguing or debating with people because I know I’m relentless. Agree to disagree is what I say. I also have Mercury opposite moon and moon opposite Mars, so I sorta relate to my mind being who I am. I’m a mess lol
yes my words cut like a knife when I use them and in cofrontation but more times than not i am listening to my thoughts which means there is a certain detachment from them ( maybe because I have this in Aquarius) my mind is silent a lot of the times but as a child I was as you said I think at 13 i had my identity crisis ( which brought me to astrology) wen doing autonomous things my mind wanders and I have clarity and aha moments. I did learn how to meditiate and just watch my thoughts without identifying with them. I also love to debate (not argue as I don't like fighting but I like the sparring of conversation with the intention of understanding and questioning another point of view, I don't need people to agree with me but I do appreciate it when they try to understand where I am coming from and then disagree, It makes me feel heard and seen by them regardless of the outcome. I also like understanding where they are coming from even if i don't agree with it. It makes me come across as argumentative but i really am just seeking to understand another point of view via devils advocacy. I can even debate for a perspective I don't agree with just so my perspective isn't one sided ( this comment made me think of Gemini with it's double sided -ness which is my rising sign making mercury my birthchart ruler so it's all connected). I used to have a busy mind and burn the candle at both ends in high school. I find physical activity helps slow my mind down and forces me to be in the present moment. I just had a thought, I fight ( mars) to understand ( mercury). I also have it in 9th house so I use this in the area of law, religion and higher learning in a very impersonal way out of fascination ( aquarius)
+Jewel Mayberry Your videos are so insightful... I have Mars in Leo (10th house) opposite Mercury in Aquarius (4th house) and Pluto (1st house) square my Mars. I also have the 6th house cusp in Aries and the 8th house cusp in Gemini + Sun in the 3rd house -- I love debating about ideas but sometimes I can push my views on people to the point where I isolate myself -- these aspects produce way too much thinking!!! I will try to remember, I am more than the mind and the sporadic thoughts which come from it.
I have Mars (16* Scorpio) & Mercury (21* Scorpio) in the 12th house & Pluto (24* Scorpio) in the 1st house, all three conjunct along my Ascendant (23* Scorpio) all square Saturn retrograde (24* Aqua) on top of my IC in my 4th house. Any insights or advice would be helpful 😆
I have a 6 degree orb in Capricorn and no other aspects to my Mercury or Mars, so they're both the only outlets for each other. I tend to let it simmer until I'm poked too much and then I let my steam out. I don't explode though (must be all the Capp/Saturn energy + 1st house Moon trine Venus/Neptune). also I easily tend to keep odd hours
wow yeah I’ve been fed up with someone with this placement & I have Mars trine Moon and I’m more good with my words. he like shuts me out before I can even get a word on, and whenever I do manage I know that it will touch the very spot that it was made to point out. silently it makes me feel like he thinks he won, but I truly have won the game in the end just from truly meditating about what I’m saying as well long before the fact of bringing it up I take moods seriously.I never want to emotionally hurt anyone. But if they spark it, I will truly give them the benifit of the doubt.
@Jewel Mayberry: My ex boyfriend has this placement and he was verbally violent. He had mars conjunct mercury in scorpio (10th house) and lilith conjunct moon in aries 3rd house.
Lol the real kicker for me is I have this aspect (fast mind) but then I also have Neptune opposite mars which just makes everything slow and confusing. So my mind wants speed but the subconscious is like “yea but idk what we want” 🙃 makes everything stagnant and everything just gives me anxiety.
God, I hate it. I have this aspect in my 8th house in Leo, my dominant planet is Pluto and I'm a Sag rising so I have to control what blurts out of my mouth basically all the time.
I have mercury conjunct mars in Leo in the twelfth house - how wold mercury being retrograde affect this aspect? It's also trine my moon in Aries, so that may soften it a bit? I didn't relate too much about not being able to sleep or meditate, as I am sometimes able to get very deep in meditation. Mindfulness, well, not so much lol
I have Merc conjunct mars both in Virgo in my tenth house ..I walk away when I argue with my husband because I know I'm gonna say things that I will regret later..I'm too analytical and overthink too much..I don't like this aspect. I also have ADHD.My Sun is also in Virgo conjuct my Mercury in the tenth house..Too many planets in Virgo in conjunction in tenth house...ugh.I cannot shut my brain off.My hubby also has this in his chart..
Interesting! I have my Mars in VIR in the 3rd house, pretty much standing alone unless you calculate 4 orbs for a sextile towards my SCO Sun, and allow 9 orbs to my Pluto and IC in the same sign, Virgo. ... hmmm ... I find myself in some of what you are describing as well, although I do not have an identity crises, and I am also aware that we are NOT our thoughts. :-) Yet, when it comes to detailed expressions I can go full speed and want to complete what I was explaining so to make sure the other gets it basically 'where I'm coming from'. I don't shun all types of approaches and various ways of explanation because not everyone comprehends and sees the same way. My daughter has her Mercury conj. her Sun and conj. her Saturn, where Mercury is in the center of both of them , while her Sun is at 10deg. CAN, her Mercury at 7deg. and her Saturn at 3deg. (9th house) This trines her Uranus 2deg. conj. Mars 5deg. in PIS (5th house), and I do notice that what you've stated in my daughter as well, yet with really assertive emotional undertones, and she would not budge no matter if she misunderstood the other of what they were actually saying, NOT what she heard, and then keeps on going judging the other by what they did not portray in the first place while often getting mad about what she heard, when it wasn't what the other meant. Ugh! ... lol ... ;-) It's difficult. ... hmmm ...
what would mercury conjuct mars manifest like in the 7th house? Libra is all about diplomacy but this conjunction seems like you don't like agreement - am I right in thinking this would cause strain in relationships?
Jewel, could you please talk about Mercury + Venus+ Mars conjunction in the natal chart? My two daughters have this triple aspect, for each of them within a degree (that's some coincidence...)
Same! How’s it been? lol meditation has worked for me. Literally saved my life. I have to meditate every day.… 🧘🏾♀️my yoga teacher also told me years ago, that I’m the type of person that must meditate every day. Now I totally understand why she said it . 🤣 you must be a Libra rising as well. I send my love to you . 🤍 cus we got some heavy energy. 🙃
@@kamarafarai I do pilates to work out my debilitated Mars. When I exercise, I feel very good. This placement makes me analyst. Since it is in the house of the Scorpio, if I am researching something, I have to go deep. Since Mars is in Taurus, I hardly get angry, but when I get angry, with the influence of Mercury, I can hurt people with my words. It's a tiring settlement. I will try meditation and yoga too, thank you :)
@@duygu-1101 glad to hear you have found Pilates as way to transmute this energy. I walk a lot and spend a lot of time in nature which keeps me grounded. and I use to take boxing which helped. I do plan on getting back into some sort of physical activity like boxing or martial arts as way to release some of this energy. And yes , I tend to research A LOT and go pretty deep with it. Lol Which is why I am here… in fact, I’m doing that now lol and it’s 4am here almost 5. we are slow to anger. But can certainly hurt someone with words. I’ve been called a quiet storm 😅 But, as an evolved person who operates out their higher self now, I stay away from confrontation unless it’s a necessary cause that I deeply care about. I used a lot of this energy with activist work in the past and speaking actually. perhaps, some how , although Taurus doesn’t like to be here, has been our saving grace because of it’s grounded energy . I also have my moon in Taurus at the 29th degree. 😏 Yes def look into meditation and yoga when you can. It helps a lot. 🤗
@@kamarafarai Regardless, I like this position. It keeps me in balanced as a Sun Gemini and Venus Gemini person. It makes me look at life a little more rationally and concretely. Even the worst settlement has its good sides. Any position can be a blessing if we embrace all aspects of ourselves with love and try to stay away from our shadow sides :)
@@duygu-1101 agree 100 percent! I believe it’s how we choose to work with the energy’s we were born with. It’s really about finding our personal power and working with it. I do appreciate these placements, without going through the fire , I would not be the person I am now. I’m also a Gemini Venus and North node . 😉 Aries sun ☀️
mars conjunct mercury conjunct IC in capricorn opposite Lilith exact. I'm a verbal fighter ;) 1 degree exact. however got a grand cross with sappho on the ascendant and philomela on the descendent. libra rising.
I have this aspect. Isn't the "I" also a thought. If I don't express thought, then what else is there? And don't tell me about calming the mind and experiencing a thoughtless state. There is no such thing. "You", the "I", is still very much there, unless you lose all of consciousness. What use is that? I guess you could say that your body is occupying space, which would be void if it wasnt there, or it would create changes in the universe, that I guess, aren't part of the universe's purpose. I do agree with the hight energy of the mind with this aspect. It must be channeled.
Would this be somewhat similar to having Mercury in Aries? I have Mercury square Mercury with someone in synastry. They have Mercury conjunct Mars in Cancer in their birth chart. I'm worried that we may not get along because of the square between our Mercuries in Synastry. But since they have Mercury conjunct Mars I was thinking that it may not be so bad.
If your mars holds the lowest degree (like myself) at that point you have to make a conscious effort to be ultra soft on the snowflakes you deal with everyday lol
Ugh me. I don't like to even get into arguments bc I hit where it hurts and then I regret it. Like my thoughts can be so cruel when I'm triggered. My words cut like a knife. Hate it. I have add I feel. Mercury and Mars in Gemini. Can't sleep. You got it.
miss b I totally feel you! I'll also say something to someone if I feel it's absolutely necessary to either say something or defend myself, and sometimes I'll regret it, bcuz my words also cut like a knife. Mer + mars in scorpio. I think what's important is that you recognize your words CAN become weapons and it's also wise to just be mindful of what you say to others. You can use the same intensity and intelligence to bring delight and positivity onto others!
This is me
.I ways say things that I don't mean and I regret it later ..My moon is in Capricorn so I can be so cold..I hate it ..I really am desperately to change this
it's hard for me to turn off the mind to sleep as well, though after i started gym it got easier
You literally just made me understand a lot. Thanks Miss B
omg me i hate getting angry because i’m so mean when im mad. (moon in scorpio. mars and mercury in virgo)
Great video. Almost surreal in how accurate this is being an isolated interpretation. As someone with this conjunction, I will say that Music is also a very good way to quiet the thinking mind and can be powerfully meditative and healing for those fast moving thoughts that can begin to torture. At least, for me, this has been the main medicine for my pervasive, fast and loud thoughts.
I have mercury conjunct mars and everything about this is so spot on... In the past three days I've gotten in two huge arguments with my friend group LOL. First was about politics, and the second one about astrology (obviously, I defended astrology furiously!) But it's really interesting the connection between being so fast-thinking and IDENTIFYING with my ideas, my mind...It's so hard to turn my brain off, of course I've just come to identify with my brain and thoughts and ideas, they're always running, it's impossible to ignore. I remember seeing a question in an MBTI test that was like, "if you're walking in a forest, would it be to enjoy nature and be alone with your thoughts?" And I never thought about it, but the reason I like nature is because I can just sit in my brain and be IN my head... I was like, people go to parks to admire the trees? How cute, but I can't relate, Lol!
I remember Justin Bieber mentioning he once had serious insomnia because his brain refused to shut down at night. He has an exact Mercury-Mars conjunction in Aquarius, and in the 3rd House.
The expression does change when this happens in Cancer. Confrontation is a no-no and PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE. Big time.
Hi Adel. I have this conjunction in Cancer also and agree with you about the energy being different here. I am working on confronting people when boundaries have been crossed. So challenging! And recently musing on the idea that I am very passive aggressive. I have been in recovery for co-dependence and have found a community where I've felt more safe to practice direct communication. This is quite an energy to work with!
@@juliestinson2791 Would you say this is resulting of having Mars in Cancer as a Fall placement? Which house is your conjunction in? How is your Mars aspected?
@@ladye2818 Hello. Yes, I think this has a lot to do with Mars being in it's fall. Not the most supportive placement for masculine warrior energy. I also have Moon in 5 degree conjunct with Mercury and wide 10 degree conjunct with Mars with Mars almost exact conjunct my 10th house Midheaven. To top it all off, I have a 7th house Saturn in Aries that's part of a Yod, squaring my Mars. It's been an interesting life!😊
Julie Stinson I see, haha. My Cancer Mars is in the 1st House! I relate to everything Aries Mars
Thank you so much for this! I have mercury conjunct mars and find it impossible to meditate. My mind won't turn off, so your suggestions with having a more Buddhist take on things was helpful. I've been trying to figure out how to not live so much in the mind/ego.
Buddhism has been so helpful for me ..endless learning growing and transcending 💜🕉💜
'do not get into arguments with these people, it can go on for days'...sooo true! my bf has this aspect...and also if you start it and just don't wanna stop it at some point, they will get angry at you for not finishing it.
This is so absolutely true!!! I can't meditate and my mind never stops. And sleep... not so much. 🙃
I have this placement in fiery Sagittarius. Sleep was difficult because the mind doesn’t ever stop even when you sleep. I start dreaming early into sleep and I dream a lot. My dreams have parts. Now in the age of TH-cam I can listen to sleep meditation videos. I need total silence to concentrate. I have some form of ADD. I have many windows opened on my PC because my minds shifts from one thought to another. I am learning mindfulness to cope.
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I have this aspect in Virgo, lol my mind runs wild with thoughts and I can't help it.
You're in my brain today Jewel! My daughter has this conjunction in her 12th conjunct AC and you answered both today! Thank you!
This was surprisingly accurate. I have Mercury conjunct Mars in Aries, and they are both situated in 8th House. I also have Mercury and Mars trine my Pluto in Sagittarius. I've always had an investigative, hyperactive mind, and I love debating. However, I do admit that my words can be rather barbed, fiery, and savage, especially when I'm angry. I also always seek for the truth in anything, and want to get to the bottom of things, whether it be a subject, or a situation at all costs. It's also true that I always feel the need to prove my point of view, opinions, ideas, and ways of thinking to others. I also have Mercury and Mars sextile my Venus in Aquarius as well, so sometimes I decide to take the more diplomatic route when it comes to speaking and debating.
life changing. thank you.
I have this conjunction in Scorpio. And yess I can be very obsessive when trying to get to the bottom of things. I have to know everything or get tired. I will search and search and search for truth or more understanding with some subjects and ideas. Google is my best friend because of this. I do like debates but being a libra sun makes me objective and calms me down in arguments. My mind is very erratic, I thought I had adhd because I get distracted so easily. I've always had trouble with sleep I'm always up at night and when I do sleep, i need it for hoursssssss. I've learned how powerful the psyche really is. And I think more than feel majority of the time also because of moon in Aquarius 😩 I'm learning to try and shut it off, cause it does get exhausting
I'm the same way.mine are in virgo with a Scorpio Ascendent
So you’re a libra sun, Mercury and Mars in Scorpio?
Genesis yep
@@OnyxxRose same here. I have an Aries moon, you? Nvm I just read you have an Aquarius moon
I have these same placements. Were you born 10/16?
Now I've figured out how i can make a grown man cry with my words. This conjunction. I try to avoid confrontation at all costs (Cancer sun/ Sag moon) however when I'm fed up i throw up every flaw and short comings that a person has (not physically)
I have this conjunction and thisvideo is so accurate. All of it. Jewel is so insightful and I feel like she has a window into my life when she does a video of an aspect that I have.
Thank you, Jewel! I have this conjunction in Pisces and it is also squared by Uranus. I have managed to get a PhD and several other advanced certificates, so I think in my case it has been constructive :-) However, the best ideas come to me in my dreams or immediately after I wake up, which I think is related to the energy of Pisces.
Have exact conj, squared by uranus. Smart and speak up and speak out.
Hi Jewel, could you please do a video with Natal Sun conjunt Mars? Thank you🤗
I'm a gemini with this conjunction in cancer, both mercury and mars are opposite 12H neptune and trine pluto in tight orbs.. I definitely keep odd hours, up all night can't sleep can't stop thinking then sleep for 10 hours.. I've matured past the ferocious arguments except when I'm badly hurt or betrayed by somebody, otherwise I can walk away and let it go now. I can't stand manipulation or arrogant condescending attitudes. I am like a dog with a bone when it comes to truth, i spend a lot of time researching topics to an obsessive degree. And yes I've found peace through shamanic journeying, eastern spirituality, things of that nature. Finding the True Self beneath the thoughts. Writing is great therapy to get the thoughts out too.
Out of all the aspects in my chart this is one of the ones that's 100% true. What makes it worse is I have Pluto squaring Mars & Mercury too
Try having pluto squaring mars, with this aspect, and uranus squaring mercury.
Sometimes my mind never stops. Im like who tf is controlling this 😫😅
Im laughing. Getting to the bottom of things 😂. This sounds so much like me. Years of meditation and healing work has helped a lot. ~Mars in aries in an out of sign conjunction to both mercury and IC in taurus plus mars opposite pluto.
Wow, me too! Just not the IC part. I’ll stay patient and calm until someone usually my husband, will shame me or try to control me (on a low level), then the cutting piercing words come out and I get pretty rowled up. 🤣 I also find when talking to others that they typically think and/or talk very slow and it’s hard to just wait for their words to come out. Ive found working out almost every day is essential to have a calm mind.
Mars conjunct mercury in aries: think fast or impulsive, hard concentrating (i have add) hard time backing down from a ”fight”
warrior
Well explained. I have JUPITER and MERCURY in Libra AND MARS IN Scorpio in conjunction. Plus I am an Aries Ascendant which strengthens this aspect. I didnt actually realise how much I love to argue till recently. And the attention problems are an issue especially for me who is doing Maths at the university level as my degree. It requires attention to detail and I have to slow down my mind. It is very difficult but I am learning. I generally destroy people in arguments and it has led to resentment sometimes from their side. I can get really vicious. For a while I had been trying to tone this aspect down and not being as forthright; what happened is I lost some of my self-esteem because my assertion(Mars) is directly related to my speech. So I went back to accepting it; though know I can be forthright and less vicious simultaneously. In regard to meditating I have learnt that and mindfulness too. I learnt to slow down my thoughts that way to reduce my anxiety. It could have been easier to do this because of my Moon in Pisces. So guys its possible just practise and believe you will obtain value from it it will work. I
I have the opposition so its interesting to understand this one cause its so different to how I understand things. I like to argue sometimes but its more practical for me, like a way to bridge disagreements and come to an understanding
I have this hard aspect. However my saturn return shortly followed by saturn transiting over my sun, moon, neptune and ketu, I am definitely experiencing an identity crisis, so I'm trying to acknowledge and be grateful to accept the growth, it's really been rough tho. Right, I have pluto conjunct mars, too. haha. that explains a lot. Still haven't even explored all my natal saturn issues yet....eek. I like what you said in another video, " what you don't know, you don't know...." is the issue. I CAN'T THANK YOU ENOUGH FOR HELPING ME BECOME MORE AWARE. Not surprisingly, I typically don't do well with psychologists, and counseling. This actually makes sense 😊👍 it's fantastic wisdom, thank you sooooooo much for sharing
Ooh, this was interesting. Was wondering why I have been even more of an up all night person of late. You got it -my merc/mars conjunction is getting hit by Uranus in Taurus. I will stop being so hard on myself about it and figure this too shall pass Thanks for the insight!
I’m learning to not continue arguing or debating with people because I know I’m relentless. Agree to disagree is what I say. I also have Mercury opposite moon and moon opposite Mars, so I sorta relate to my mind being who I am. I’m a mess lol
I’m greatful to have this conjunction under Taurus. It really adds structure ❤️
Can you pretty please with a cherry on top do Mercury Conjunct Venus? Love you!!! -Y
All is somewhat Right , except the concentration part, i think its more of a selective concentration honestly.
Mercury, Mars, and Venus conjunct in Leo here... I have to burn off the mental before I can sleep. Often I stay up all night.
I have this. I know how to kick somebody's ass with my words. And I don't even have to use Curse Words.
I never been in arguments...Well I have great comunication skill...And Concentration is my plus point....
yes my words cut like a knife when I use them and in cofrontation but more times than not i am listening to my thoughts which means there is a certain detachment from them ( maybe because I have this in Aquarius) my mind is silent a lot of the times but as a child I was as you said I think at 13 i had my identity crisis ( which brought me to astrology) wen doing autonomous things my mind wanders and I have clarity and aha moments. I did learn how to meditiate and just watch my thoughts without identifying with them. I also love to debate (not argue as I don't like fighting but I like the sparring of conversation with the intention of understanding and questioning another point of view, I don't need people to agree with me but I do appreciate it when they try to understand where I am coming from and then disagree, It makes me feel heard and seen by them regardless of the outcome. I also like understanding where they are coming from even if i don't agree with it. It makes me come across as argumentative but i really am just seeking to understand another point of view via devils advocacy. I can even debate for a perspective I don't agree with just so my perspective isn't one sided ( this comment made me think of Gemini with it's double sided -ness which is my rising sign making mercury my birthchart ruler so it's all connected). I used to have a busy mind and burn the candle at both ends in high school. I find physical activity helps slow my mind down and forces me to be in the present moment. I just had a thought, I fight ( mars) to understand ( mercury). I also have it in 9th house so I use this in the area of law, religion and higher learning in a very impersonal way out of fascination ( aquarius)
Very accurate! Mercury conjunction Mars
in Sagittarius.
I have my sun, Mercury, Mars and Pluto all in Scorpio.... *Can't deal*
Can you please talk about mars mercury Saturn conjunction? Would be interesting to know what your interpretation of Saturn added is.
Woowho! I was “like” number 333!!!
great video
+Jewel Mayberry Your videos are so insightful... I have Mars in Leo (10th house) opposite Mercury in Aquarius (4th house) and Pluto (1st house) square my Mars. I also have the 6th house cusp in Aries and the 8th house cusp in Gemini + Sun in the 3rd house -- I love debating about ideas but sometimes I can push my views on people to the point where I isolate myself -- these aspects produce way too much thinking!!! I will try to remember, I am more than the mind and the sporadic thoughts which come from it.
I have Mars (16* Scorpio) & Mercury (21* Scorpio) in the 12th house & Pluto (24* Scorpio) in the 1st house, all three conjunct along my Ascendant (23* Scorpio) all square Saturn retrograde (24* Aqua) on top of my IC in my 4th house. Any insights or advice would be helpful 😆
Natal mars and Mercury in Sagittarius in the 8th house and Pluto in Scorpio.
I have a 6 degree orb in Capricorn and no other aspects to my Mercury or Mars, so they're both the only outlets for each other. I tend to let it simmer until I'm poked too much and then I let my steam out. I don't explode though (must be all the Capp/Saturn energy + 1st house Moon trine Venus/Neptune). also I easily tend to keep odd hours
NOW I KNOW WHY IM SO ARGUMENTATIVE OMG
wow yeah I’ve been fed up with someone with this placement & I have Mars trine Moon and I’m more good with my words. he like shuts me out before I can even get a word on, and whenever I do manage I know that it will touch the very spot that it was made to point out. silently it makes me feel like he thinks he won, but I truly have won the game in the end just from truly meditating about what I’m saying as well long before the fact of bringing it up I take moods seriously.I never want to emotionally hurt anyone. But if they spark it, I will truly give them the benifit of the doubt.
Mercury and Mars in the same sign and house 7th in Aquarius.
@Jewel Mayberry: My ex boyfriend has this placement and he was verbally violent. He had mars conjunct mercury in scorpio (10th house) and lilith conjunct moon in aries 3rd house.
Damn, my brother has same placements. He was born october 28th 1993. Aquarius Rising.. His mercury conjuncts both Mars and Pluto.
I have mars conjunct mercury Uranus and Neptune can you do a video on this ??
Lol the real kicker for me is I have this aspect (fast mind) but then I also have Neptune opposite mars which just makes everything slow and confusing. So my mind wants speed but the subconscious is like “yea but idk what we want” 🙃 makes everything stagnant and everything just gives me anxiety.
i have sun,mercury,Pluto and mars all conjuncted in 4th house in scorpio. my mind is fast and never turns off and I'm aggressive with my words
God, I hate it. I have this aspect in my 8th house in Leo, my dominant planet is Pluto and I'm a Sag rising so I have to control what blurts out of my mouth basically all the time.
I have mercury conjunct mars in Leo in the twelfth house - how wold mercury being retrograde affect this aspect? It's also trine my moon in Aries, so that may soften it a bit? I didn't relate too much about not being able to sleep or meditate, as I am sometimes able to get very deep in meditation. Mindfulness, well, not so much lol
Would Mercury square Pluto (or other mercury pluto aspects) also bring out that "viciousness"?
Can you do Mercury trine/sextile Mars?
Omg im watching this cos of a guy im seeing. He has this aspect.
Mercury and Mars in Leo in 7th Opposite neptune. IS It relative with being homosexual?
I have Merc conjunct mars both in Virgo in my tenth house ..I walk away when I argue with my husband because I know I'm gonna say things that I will regret later..I'm too analytical and overthink too much..I don't like this aspect. I also have ADHD.My Sun is also in Virgo conjuct my Mercury in the tenth house..Too many planets in Virgo in conjunction in tenth house...ugh.I cannot shut my brain off.My hubby also has this in his chart..
Interesting!
I have my Mars in VIR in the 3rd house, pretty much standing alone unless you calculate 4 orbs for a sextile towards my SCO Sun, and allow 9 orbs to my Pluto and IC in the same sign, Virgo.
... hmmm ... I find myself in some of what you are describing as well, although I do not have an identity crises, and I am also aware that we are NOT our thoughts. :-)
Yet, when it comes to detailed expressions I can go full speed and want to complete what I was explaining so to make sure the other gets it basically 'where I'm coming from'.
I don't shun all types of approaches and various ways of explanation because not everyone comprehends and sees the same way.
My daughter has her Mercury conj. her Sun and conj. her Saturn, where Mercury is in the center of both of them , while her Sun is at 10deg. CAN, her Mercury at 7deg. and her Saturn at 3deg. (9th house)
This trines her Uranus 2deg. conj. Mars 5deg. in PIS (5th house), and I do notice that what you've stated in my daughter as well, yet with really assertive emotional undertones, and she would not budge no matter if she misunderstood the other of what they were actually saying, NOT what she heard, and then keeps on going judging the other by what they did not portray in the first place while often getting mad about what she heard, when it wasn't what the other meant. Ugh! ... lol ... ;-)
It's difficult. ... hmmm ...
what would mercury conjuct mars manifest like in the 7th house? Libra is all about diplomacy but this conjunction seems like you don't like agreement - am I right in thinking this would cause strain in relationships?
Ha! Now i can 'blame it on my ADD'. Mars conjunct Mercury in Leo. Note to self, sit down and shut up!😋
Jewel, could you please talk about Mercury + Venus+ Mars conjunction in the natal chart? My two daughters have this triple aspect, for each of them within a degree (that's some coincidence...)
What if we only have sextiles towards both planets
I have this in 12h Aries. How can i tire my mind then? I cant hear my alarm someone has to wake me up this is so embarrasing..
Mercury conjunct Mars in first House in Leo.
And who says where to put the focus?
I have Mercury (29 degrees Sag) conjunct Mars (0 degrees Cap)...both conjunct my Capricorn 0 degree MC. Wonder how my MC comes into play!
What about merc sextile Mars in a natal chart.
whats with this and sun all in the 12th house. will you make a video on that?
How does it work if one has this aspect and then Mercury Trine Saturn...(prudent judicious and careful?
is it similar to mercury in scorpio?
I have this combination in the 8th house in Taurus :(
Same! How’s it been? lol meditation has worked for me. Literally saved my life. I have to meditate every day.… 🧘🏾♀️my yoga teacher also told me years ago, that I’m the type of person that must meditate every day. Now I totally understand why she said it . 🤣
you must be a Libra rising as well. I send my love to you . 🤍 cus we got some heavy energy. 🙃
@@kamarafarai I do pilates to work out my debilitated Mars. When I exercise, I feel very good. This placement makes me analyst. Since it is in the house of the Scorpio, if I am researching something, I have to go deep. Since Mars is in Taurus, I hardly get angry, but when I get angry, with the influence of Mercury, I can hurt people with my words. It's a tiring settlement. I will try meditation and yoga too, thank you :)
@@duygu-1101 glad to hear you have found Pilates as way to transmute this energy. I walk a lot and spend a lot of time in nature which keeps me grounded.
and I use to take boxing which helped. I do plan on getting back into some sort of physical activity like boxing or martial arts as way to release some of this energy. And yes , I tend to research A LOT and go pretty deep with it. Lol Which is why I am here… in fact, I’m doing that now lol and it’s 4am here almost 5.
we are slow to anger. But can certainly hurt someone with words. I’ve been called a quiet storm 😅 But, as an evolved person who operates out their higher self now, I stay away from confrontation unless it’s a necessary cause that I deeply care about. I used a lot of this energy with activist work in the past and speaking actually.
perhaps, some how , although Taurus doesn’t like to be here, has been our saving grace because of it’s grounded energy . I also have my moon in Taurus at the 29th degree. 😏
Yes def look into meditation and yoga when you can. It helps a lot. 🤗
@@kamarafarai Regardless, I like this position. It keeps me in balanced as a Sun Gemini and Venus Gemini person. It makes me look at life a little more rationally and concretely. Even the worst settlement has its good sides. Any position can be a blessing if we embrace all aspects of ourselves with love and try to stay away from our shadow sides :)
@@duygu-1101 agree 100 percent! I believe it’s how we choose to work with the energy’s we were born with. It’s really about finding our personal power and working with it. I do appreciate these placements, without going through the fire , I would not be the person I am now. I’m also a Gemini Venus and North node . 😉 Aries sun ☀️
I have this conjunction in Aries. I'm lucky that these two are both conjunct Saturn, because I would always be in trouble.
I have Mars conjunct Mercury (R) conjunct Pluto. 23/24 degree of the Scorpio
Combo !^^
Is Sun conjunct Mercury similar?
mars conjunct mercury conjunct IC in capricorn opposite Lilith exact. I'm a verbal fighter ;) 1 degree exact.
however got a grand cross with sappho on the ascendant and philomela on the descendent. libra rising.
Mercury conjunction Mars in Sagittarius in the 11th House
Mercury conjunct mars, Neptune in 5th house Sagittarius and Mercury sexstile Pluto, I meditate a lot 😅
I have this aspect in my chart! so me!
Wow it’s me. Mars Taurus Mercury Taurus
Late to the party! But Mercury and Mars in Gemini
I have this aspect. Isn't the "I" also a thought. If I don't express thought, then what else is there? And don't tell me about calming the mind and experiencing a thoughtless state. There is no such thing. "You", the "I", is still very much there, unless you lose all of consciousness. What use is that? I guess you could say that your body is occupying space, which would be void if it wasnt there, or it would create changes in the universe, that I guess, aren't part of the universe's purpose. I do agree with the hight energy of the mind with this aspect. It must be channeled.
Mars 9° conjunct mercury 7°, venus 7° and pluto 10°.
Would this be somewhat similar to having Mercury in Aries? I have Mercury square Mercury with someone in synastry. They have Mercury conjunct Mars in Cancer in their birth chart. I'm worried that we may not get along because of the square between our Mercuries in Synastry. But since they have Mercury conjunct Mars I was thinking that it may not be so bad.
So this is basically the adhd placement
You could tell she didn’t have a good experience with someone with this aspect 😂
If I had a penny for every comment that said I made an aspect video or a twin flame video because of something personal
I could retire yesterday.
@@JewelMayberry 😂 I know I'm just bugging you. Love the energy and personality you put in your vids especially the older ones 👍👌
If your mars holds the lowest degree (like myself) at that point you have to make a conscious effort to be ultra soft on the snowflakes you deal with everyday lol