addressing the obvious… | weekly vlog

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ธ.ค. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 824

  • @MayaGalore
    @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +210

    HAPPY SUNDAY SIS! Thanks for all your support as we go through this time 🫶🏾! In case you're still having trouble joining BABES REINVENTED, here's the link again: th-cam.com/users/mayagalorejoin

    • @Gracekeptme87
      @Gracekeptme87 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have an android phone. When I click on the link, the screen is black. Can someone help me?

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Gracekeptme87 if you have a desktop, you can join there. As long as you are logged into the same account that you use on the TH-cam app, you can access the content on your phone ❤️

    • @mustardseedfaith
      @mustardseedfaith ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy Sunday Maya!! I am on the fitness journey with you. You inspired me to start and stay consistent with it. We got this sis💗. I laughed so hard at you trying to get the mattress up the stairs, the pep talk was 😂. Enjoyed this vlog per usual.

    • @nickolalawrence4950
      @nickolalawrence4950 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Maya, what's the name of the song in your intro? It gave me goosebumps

    • @msatxgault560
      @msatxgault560 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey sis!!!! Wish I could join😢 but $$ is tight right now.
      Wishing you all the best though❤

  • @CiCiMoya
    @CiCiMoya ปีที่แล้ว +277

    One of the reasons I left the Church years ago (I'm back now) was when I got tired of hearing people say "God told me this, or that" then end up making disastrous mistakes that affect more than just themselves. It makes God and His word look foolish. We look brainwashed and it stains our testimony.
    This really could be a lesson here... Can we just stop trying to legitimize our choices by putting "God's stamp" on it until time actually proves that it's really of God?? *Edit*:
    I in no way intended my comment to spark negativity. Maya, if you see this, I do not pretend I got it right myself. Matter of fact, I get it wrong often. Hence why I'm sensitive to people saying their choices are from God and later admit it really wasn't from God. My comment is to edify not condemn 🙏🏾💖

    • @itsmayarenee
      @itsmayarenee ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Right! I wish people would stop naming God and take accountability for their OWN actions and mistakes! I find it extremely frustrating and disrespectful.

    • @Naturallyshe77
      @Naturallyshe77 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      This! Perfectly said. People have to be careful with saying God told them to do something when it wasn’t God

    • @alexismercedes5685
      @alexismercedes5685 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      That’s the thing I didn’t like, dragging God into HER choice. God makes no mistakes and every thing He does is good and very good. Leading people astray using God’s name is so wrong.

    • @itsmayarenee
      @itsmayarenee ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@alexismercedes5685 AMEN!
      1 Corinthians 14:33
      King James Version
      33 For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.

    • @MompreneurLady
      @MompreneurLady ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Amen!!!! Using God's Name in vain!!!

  • @jossyj1
    @jossyj1 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    EPITOME of class, grace, and substance. You’re more respected & appreciated than you know🩷✨

  • @kelishagibbs8301
    @kelishagibbs8301 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Girl, the girls who get it, get it 💕 Praying for you and your daughter's healing 🙌🏽

  • @Ccgemini
    @Ccgemini ปีที่แล้ว +330

    Suggestion: book some trips and take your daughter to see the world. Visit places with her to create memories and see places and experience new things together. Good for you on knowing that something wasn’t working and it’s best to MOVE ON Separately and be at peace instead of being Miserable together

    • @01jeanie
      @01jeanie ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Great suggestion. She could do a mother-daughter travel series

    • @Tricey.89
      @Tricey.89 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      “Miserable together” because ALOT of marriages are faking smiles and if they had the opportunity to go back in time and change spouses,…they would

    • @TXPearl1908
      @TXPearl1908 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Tricey.89sure would

    • @TXPearl1908
      @TXPearl1908 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great idea!!

    • @MzHerrien
      @MzHerrien ปีที่แล้ว

      This🥰

  • @sunshinezee4438
    @sunshinezee4438 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    I’m really sad to hear about the breakdown of the marriage, I personally was hoping for the best but I respect your decision which seems to have been amicable. We will keep you in our prayers 🙏🏽💛

    • @thesleeptea9790
      @thesleeptea9790 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      same! and you know what's crazy. I feel like a lot of her fans were more so hateful then they were using the spirit of discernment. Like even comments about her in her honeymoon phase. I just felt like that's now how christ would have wanted us to speak to her, or the situation. and then they try to throw it in that their spirit knew, not knowing their spirit is so gross, there was no life to even speak into her marriage even if it didn't go this way. I just pray God's perfect will for her is done because she deserves it!

    • @ronidecephas
      @ronidecephas ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's exactly why a lot of people don't put their kids and family on these platforms people are evil and envious. Ain't no telling what these people done did to this girl. That's so sad smh

    • @Dancingbyfaith3
      @Dancingbyfaith3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thesleeptea9790I agree 😩

  • @OhAndAnotherThing
    @OhAndAnotherThing ปีที่แล้ว +615

    The people that want you to go deep into detail are just here for mess. We all have eyes and could clearly see. I’m happy you are moving forward, continue to protect your peace.

    • @byebyeworldx.
      @byebyeworldx. ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏🏾❤️

    • @Ms.Chan77
      @Ms.Chan77 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @starblossom1370
      @starblossom1370 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Yes . Really. I knew w/o words. sum wanted to hear bad news to feel better about their 💩 lives . Those 🤡.. it could happen to anyone.. this is 😢 situation not anything to gloat over..

    • @ajahawkins2615
      @ajahawkins2615 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly

    • @livhammy
      @livhammy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gailainsley6939You kept it 💯

  • @lifeandstyleatlanta8689
    @lifeandstyleatlanta8689 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    Your complete transparency is appreciated and applauded. I’m sure it was not easy to share something so deeply personal. Praying you through your journey.

  • @MissPritcy
    @MissPritcy ปีที่แล้ว +301

    I’m proud of you for having the courage to realize what was for you and what wasn’t. Yasss Maya! Yasss

    • @Zengem620
      @Zengem620 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sometimes, when you are close with God and are receiving much information , it sometimes can be hard to sift through it all.

    • @alexismercedes5685
      @alexismercedes5685 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Zengem620Wrong! When you’re close to God, you understand CLEARLY what He is saying. When you move out of God’s will, that’s when the chaos happens.

    • @Zengem620
      @Zengem620 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @alexismercedes5685 I didn't say it was a message grom God for her to move forward. I merely said sometimes, when we are close to God and we have a lot of information, it can be hard to have that clear discernment . Nobody is perfect. Ultimately, she got the chance to receive the message clearly now, and she has moved forward. It's not always about hearing the message the first time, etc. Sometimes, we have to experience things to hear it clearer.

    • @Zengem620
      @Zengem620 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @spongebobsquidward1974 and maybe she did have all of those feelings, etc. Which makes her triumph here that much more powerful . I didn't say it was a message from God for her to move forward. I merely said sometimes, when we are close to God and we have a lot of information, it can be hard to have that clear discernment . Nobody is perfect. Ultimately, she got the chance to receive the message clearly now, and she has moved forward. It's not always about hearing the message the first time, etc. Sometimes, we have to experience thi gs to hear it clearer.

    • @tanyagoss336
      @tanyagoss336 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alexismercedes5685 teach us

  • @raysmith5638
    @raysmith5638 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    Sometimes when we want something so bad we are blinded

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Very true

    • @Tricey.89
      @Tricey.89 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@MayaGalore 💕💕💕💕💕

    • @divinepurpose-kadi7958
      @divinepurpose-kadi7958 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      True. We all have been there

    • @TheQueensheshe
      @TheQueensheshe ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Facts! Pray for discernment always because the devil… mhm
      That punk is a liar - JESUS HAVE ALWAYS DEFEATED THE PLAN OF THE ENEMY ! Keep strong always.. keep the faith everyone 🙌🏽
      Peace & Blessings 🙏🏽

    • @weneedtodobetter2555
      @weneedtodobetter2555 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’ve been there 🫠

  • @VondessaJ
    @VondessaJ ปีที่แล้ว +172

    Maya just know you’re not alone. I filed for divorce last month after being married 5 years last month to just the wrong person. Taking time is sooo important. I have my hood and bad days but having God as the center it make things a little better.
    I’m just so happy you took the time and that Maya smile is back. Maya we ❤ you!!

    • @lorraineango2099
      @lorraineango2099 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      May God be with you through this hard process !🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💐

    • @LatoyaMonet
      @LatoyaMonet ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The smile!!! Yessss. She was smiling but it wasn’t the same. So happy she chose herself and she will be ok!❤

    • @breeb2334
      @breeb2334 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @ruthgibson8386
      @ruthgibson8386 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a Christian, I don't understand something. Why if your life is centered God, y'all married the wrong personn? It's weird to me. Normaly God don't do no mistake or we are not praying the same God?! What's going on ? A lot of women on internet show their life, Always talking about God and I don't see God in their life, and now Galore want to make a business out of a divorce ? Sincerely I don't understand that Logic.

    • @VondessaJ
      @VondessaJ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ruthgibson8386 if you don’t understand the difference sorry. You can choose outside of God. Which mean one can look at so many things but at the same time if what you found not what God place for you. As my mother use to say, you don’t see 50% of a person until the ink dry on the paper. Mine was over after 4 months. I tried and now 5 years later I wasted my time.
      It’s not for you to judge anyone. God clearly says, judge ye not! Life isn’t perfect, people isn’t perfect so life is life, I’m 50 and I refuse to not live the life I want. That way I’m so so proud of Maya. Knowing herself, loving herself and DOING herself. @Maya she a boss! Many hats off to her. One person doesn’t stop life only death does. Be blessed

  • @kmmaria
    @kmmaria ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Maya, we are your silent...and sometimes not so silent, cheering section; even the older aunties like myself. Wishing nothing but the best for you. No matter the age, we still have things to learn from each other ❤

    • @Im_Gods_Girl_All_Day
      @Im_Gods_Girl_All_Day ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As an Auntie, you absolutely right . I’ve learned a lot from Maya. We all have made mistakes and we all can learn from each other; age doesn’t matter.

    • @callmevickiev
      @callmevickiev ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Let me park myself over here in the Auntie section in agreement.

    • @kmonique1380
      @kmonique1380 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! I’m learning and growing. Another auntie checking in! ❤

    • @deniseadams3981
      @deniseadams3981 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@callmevickievcute!!😂

  • @KeenBeanz40
    @KeenBeanz40 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I commend you for not staying in an unhealthy situation just to save face. Some times we can get caught up in that. Your daughter is watching and you're providing a great example.

  • @MsDeeAnn
    @MsDeeAnn ปีที่แล้ว +69

    My 6-year-old son was in the room with me watching your video and when the part came on when you were trying to get the mattress upstairs...he was talking about how he needed to help you. He all in the tv acting like he helping you push the mattress up the stairs....it was too cute. SN: So glad that you're doing well....praying for you and babygirl💖

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Awwww so sweet 🥹😭😂

  • @loudnoise4576
    @loudnoise4576 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    There is power in walking away. Never apologize to leave situations that no longer serve you. Congratulations to new beginnings this to shall pass.

  • @melaniecebardleymcknight3965
    @melaniecebardleymcknight3965 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    As a divorced, remarried divorce attorney, I’m very proud of you

  • @natashayouman4542
    @natashayouman4542 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    So proud of you, praying for you and your journey! No extra details needed because it is your truth, no one will understand it like you.

  • @kristinagerth4203
    @kristinagerth4203 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Girl that weight is coming off the skin is glowing the spirit seems cleansed cheers to new beginnings and for giving other women like myself the courage and strength ❤❤❤❤ u are a real one

  • @Mrs.HighMaintenance
    @Mrs.HighMaintenance ปีที่แล้ว +201

    I'll never understand why people feel entitled to other's personal business and why would she want this painful experience on the internet? Folks, let's wish her well and leave it at that.

  • @callmevickiev
    @callmevickiev ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Your transparency is one of the many reasons I subscribed to you many moons ago. Continue to be who you are, true to yourself and ALWAYS remember that in everything and in every season, GOD is so faithful.

  • @_dollfaceshay
    @_dollfaceshay ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Maya, please use this time to pour into your daughter as she went through all of this with you as well & she’s still very young & impressionable. She may need therapy just as much as you, a lot has changed in her world in such a short time. New school, new city, stranger man shoved into her life & home. Please consider how this all has affected her too, not just you 🤍

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thanks sis. But I already know ❤️ just not sharing that on my platform for her protection

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You will be fine Maya. It is better to be single; rather than fighting for a bad relationship. I had to learn this lesson too.

  • @PRINCESS2U_
    @PRINCESS2U_ ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You really didn’t have to address ANYTHING. But since you did, it’s okay! You are so much more than a ring, label or even a relationship. It is what it is. You tried! If you wanna get married again so be it. If not? So bet it! You are allowed to set boundaries w social media! Hope your taking it easy and loving on yourself extra rn. Bless❤

  • @corden84
    @corden84 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’m so glad to hear there is no bad blood between you and your ex. Thank you Maya for sharing your journey. I know how hard it is to let go of something your heart was really in. Your strength is admirable and encouraging to keep pressing forward sis! Also I suggest trying apres gel x nails, less damaging to your natural nails!❤

  • @joycelynmensah8091
    @joycelynmensah8091 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Hey Maya! I appreciate you being transparent and real about it. I wish you and your daughter the best.

  • @nicolecrout3328
    @nicolecrout3328 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm so happy you got it because I'm 56and I wasted 9 years when I should have departed in the first 6 months. Blessings on your new journey

  • @iamchakinakrystelle
    @iamchakinakrystelle ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl, I have been there.
    God will give you the grace to go through these tough times.
    I will definitely be praying for you.
    Just know joy is on the other side of this.
    After my first marriage I was able to focus on my relationship with Christ, my daughter and the things that I want in a spouse.
    God delivered and next year we will be married for 20 years.
    Praying for you girl! ❤

  • @browniec4049
    @browniec4049 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I think a lot of us felt something was off, but didn’t say a thing because you looked so happy😢

  • @sethurululu
    @sethurululu ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm so happy for you sis😊❤ and I'm glad that you chose yourself over and above it all. I wish you and your daughter more happiness and prosperity 🫶🏽💕

  • @ruthreddick8369
    @ruthreddick8369 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Welcome back Maya! I feel the energy you had prior to marriage! I applaud you and know your story will help many!!

    • @IsaiahWhitaker-ks8bb
      @IsaiahWhitaker-ks8bb ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree, I missed the old Maya . After marriage she seemed to sad and cried all the time . I still know the right husband is still out there for her .

  • @shandachalwell-walters6852
    @shandachalwell-walters6852 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Thank you for trusting us with your personal journey. My prayers is that your transperancy isn't abused (saying it in the most PC way). I'm praying for you sis. Stay strong.

    • @blessedtobless.
      @blessedtobless. ปีที่แล้ว +19

      ​@@pinkleather6725we understood that you don't like her. Your comments on this one and other videos shows it. And its okay but she's not the devil. Give her grace. She didn't kill someone

  • @laveta95
    @laveta95 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I got shivers because I wanted things to work …. Wishing you all good things on your healing journey ❤

  • @RhondaBranch-k4u
    @RhondaBranch-k4u ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You are such a strong person Maya. I started watching your videos a couple years ago, and you inspired me to take time for self-care and solo dating. I'm so happy to see that you have your smile back. I suffer from depression, and I while dating I felt that my mood would be off, and I shortly realized that we were not right for each other. Anyway, sending prayers to you and your family you deserve happiness.

  • @brendagroover8198
    @brendagroover8198 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I may be wrong, but I felt something prior to your "break". I was praying for you and asking GOD to be there for you both in whatever was going on. Prayers for both yourself and Jeff

  • @ladieh86ladieh63
    @ladieh86ladieh63 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I was at a loss and truly saddened by your announcement. I was rooting for the success of your journey. In life we must do what is best for us and I'm happy you made the best decision for you and yours. Your transparency to share what you did is enough.
    Continued growth and healing is my prayer to you and us all. Blessings beautiful keep growing.

  • @TechTVYouTube
    @TechTVYouTube ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Maya! Glad to see you're getting back to happy. I remember in a recent video you said you had your duct work cleaned. I noticed at 32:08 that your vent looked like it had dust particles on it. Be sure to check your HVAC air filter in case it's time to be changed. Stay up!

  • @cookie3335
    @cookie3335 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I hate that y'all relationship didn't work out. A divorce is not easy, you go through so many emotions all at once, but I'm glad to see you handling it well and getting therapy. As much as we all would like to know the details of what happened, I understand and respect your privacy. And that's the best way to go about it. ❤

  • @NVChocolate
    @NVChocolate ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Sis, it's okay. If we are honest about life, we all have been a fool for lesser things. The most important thing is, "what have you learned to carry you through the next journey?" If I may (I'm saying this to myself) ask God for discernment. You will be alright, some breakups are not personal but, spiritual.
    One more thing, stop entertaining the conversations in your head, you putting too much pressure and undo stress on yourself.

  • @traceyalleyne8429
    @traceyalleyne8429 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Happy you figured it out sooner rather than later. His energy was never right to me. I was hoping my intuition was wrong.

  • @nehemie1255
    @nehemie1255 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So much respect for you and your choice. That takes a lot of courage especially in a circumtance such as yours with so many people watching and warning and judging you beforehand. Im glad you had the exeprience and now can move forward with new knowledge under your belt. Congratulations on choosing yourself and your daughter above optics. I will always support and watch and wish you well.

  • @randomreality522
    @randomreality522 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ps. In Your Q&A video you and Jeff both listed various things that you said was confirmation from God that each other was the one and Jeff went as far to say he heard God say you were his wife when you walked by so God Is not a man that he should lie so do you believe it was premature timing or you both heard wrong ? I’m asking because If you guys felt that way maybe it was a test to see if you guys could withstand some trials idk

  • @dd2ddy
    @dd2ddy ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Maya, Woman, if you were singing "Grave" at the 19:23 mark just know; I was exactly where you were a few years ago and that song got me through! It became my anthem! Lol. That and lots of prayer, journaling, and self reflection and introspection. Here is to all women returning back to their true selves and never letting go of who they truly are! Peace and blessings to you Sis, you're going to come out healed, well, and whole, I can see it already.

  • @shazzari
    @shazzari ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I pray for an amicable parting for your sake and that of the children involved. Thank you for sharing yourself with us Maya.

  • @desiraeholland5448
    @desiraeholland5448 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So sorry to hear sis. I appreciate your vulnerability and praying for both of y’all comfort in these transition.

  • @breemiller5164
    @breemiller5164 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I wish you all the best, as well as Jeff. I know this can't be easy, but take your time and allow yourself to go through the motions. Only when you truly heal can you help the children heal.

  • @Lisa__Janay
    @Lisa__Janay ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yes Maya the girls that get it, get it. We will always support, pray, celebrate and encourage you when needed. Life is a journey and I wish you more happiness, success and peace in this new chapter 😊

  • @sas2791
    @sas2791 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Maya thank you for choosing you! Those that have been around awhile know your heart and that your intentions are pure. The shift we experienced watching you was uncomfortable to say the least but sometimes it takes those “shifts” to realize the true changes that need to happen within ourselves. Have been praying and will continue to pray for you ❤

  • @mainameg
    @mainameg ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Maya. I started watching your channel around May last year when I was going through a "down" season and seeing you happy really inspired me. I'm sorry that things didn't go how you planned, but thanks for still showing up and bringing the good vibes.

  • @nakibaspencer2267
    @nakibaspencer2267 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I am so very proud of you. You’re so strong. Keep doing you, baby girl. Let’s keep this channel on a positive note. 💕✨

  • @mizz_sazzy
    @mizz_sazzy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Maya we're here for you, especially those who have been following your channel for awhile. Praying your strength, continued peace, discernment and a time of healing. You are strong, beautiful and blessed. Life brings us challenges and changes. In all, we learn and we grow. God bless you and all that is in store for your future.

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you sis 🙏🏾

  • @natachajospitre5608
    @natachajospitre5608 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hun thank you for sharing. You never need to explain what is going on within certain areas of your life. It’s your life. I’m here to celebrate your wins,growths and your journey through motherhood. ❤️

  • @jackiejean
    @jackiejean ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Marriage is never easy but you have to do what’s best for you. Glad to see you happy and in a good place blessings to you.

  • @cassiemarie9900
    @cassiemarie9900 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Sis, your REAL subscribers who ride with you no matter WHAT! We SAW YOU and we heard you in silence, so no explanation was needed for us. I appreciate you and all that you have poured into me as your scriber. Now let's get IT because GOD is in control and he has you covered as ALWAYS.... Thank you for sharing🤩🧡...

  • @Nasiaw1290
    @Nasiaw1290 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So proud of you Maya for having the courage to put yourself first! No need to explain or get to deep into it. Wherever God is leading you we have your back and will support you every step of the way! Sending prayers for both you and our internet niece 💕

  • @schemide
    @schemide ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m so happy for you on your new journey Maya! Thank you for your transparency. There were parts of me that had a weird feeling about the past relationship, but I was happy to you see you happy and I’m going to trust your process regardless. I don’t do the whole commenting on other people’s life online. I trust that you know what you’re doing and God will lead you to what is for you. ❤

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you my sister 🙏🏾❤️

  • @justine8272
    @justine8272 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank u sista girl for sharing the real. It’s so easy to get caught up in social media standards and forget that everyone goes through hardships. You teach me to always choose what’s best for me even if it’s not something I may want. You are an inspiration and a wonderful role model to everyone. Thank u!

  • @Chareb8
    @Chareb8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These videos are also helpful for us who are still in the dating stage. Thank you for sharing and I’m sorry about the dissolution of your marriage. It’s refreshing to see that you are still positive and your same self 💜

  • @EssNicole
    @EssNicole ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Life is already hard enough & you share yours with us on the internet!! I know that can make things 10x harder!! We appreciate your transparency & strength!! Praying for you & babygirl 🙏🏾 I can't wait to hear about the solo trip, I want to do one myself!!

  • @TheBigAliJay
    @TheBigAliJay ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Boy I really thought he was a red flag to me just by looking at him last year when you posted him on tiktok ..idk it was spiritual to me. I’m glad your freed take time to heal ❤

  • @desireegary483
    @desireegary483 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I respect you highly and even more so that you didn’t bad mouth your ex..just know it was a learning experience for you both and just allow God to work in both of you. Keep shining ❤

  • @iamjust_tay
    @iamjust_tay ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Personally I’ve been there and now I am remarried. Your happiness is more important than anything and we are always rooting for you ✌🏾💕.

  • @cassd4492
    @cassd4492 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All I know is we saw you over the last year and although it was you in the video we were seeing less and less over time as if you were being drained or torn apart but not physically? It was moreso mentally? I could literally see it. That becomes unhealthy, a slow ‘death’ so to speak. You find it hard to lift your head up, you try to internalize to deal with it while ‘smiling’ on the outside. It will destroy you.
    Glad you recognized quickly that you needed to pull yourself out. I hope your church search is going well. That will be so good for you and baby girl. I feel like baby girl is even feeling lighter and brighter.
    Stay strong you two and keep your heads up. Loving the return of your content, such a nice relaxing vibe.

  • @TammyVee
    @TammyVee ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I haaate that I’m going to say this, but I unfortunately saw this coming. So happy to see you handling this well and moving forward🫶🏾

  • @lorilashan3925
    @lorilashan3925 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi Maya. You look great! It may be too soon for my request… I so appreciate you addressing the 🐘in the room. Maybe you could do a new series on this stage. When you’re ready, maybe you could help women learn from your experience by creatively sharing some of the areas you may have overlooked or ignored. Ok that’s all. I’m glad to see you are in a good space. I have my own attachment issues.. I felt a way when you got into the relationship and now I feel a way that you’re out. And those are my issues lol. Thank you as always, beautiful life!❤

    • @lorilashan3925
      @lorilashan3925 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just to add on to “my attachment issues” it’s hard to watch you do regular content and not think about the obstacle you just endured. But I know it is you living life.

    • @lorilashan3925
      @lorilashan3925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But as I keep watching you are showing us how you move forward and that in itself is teaching❤ ok I’m done commenting 😊

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes, I may do this in the future once the dust has settled ❤️

  • @ronidecephas
    @ronidecephas ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Maya sis I'm sooo sadden about this. As a your sister that rushed to the alter I was rooting so hard for you. We got married quickly with a blended family. Idk what went wrong but I'm sooooo sorry. I'm sending you healing and prayer. You looked so happy. I belive the first five years is extremely hard. Especially with kids involved. Of course we don't know everything but I do wish you the very best. God makes no mistakes. You're glowing you look EXTREMLY happy. Wishing you the best sis.

  • @dannibryant1994
    @dannibryant1994 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This feels good, this feels like HOME❤️ welcome back, Maya 🫶🏾

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks sis 🥹❤️

  • @Jaqwill96
    @Jaqwill96 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can't imagine how hard it was for you to make this decision sis! I am rooting for you & praying for you as you embark on this new season of life ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tiffanyslane
    @tiffanyslane ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s ok Maya! God has his hand on your life. I’m glad he showed it to you before years passed.
    I wish you both total healing and deliverance. God exposes….😉
    I’m grateful for his grace and mercy.

  • @sheraledavis4526
    @sheraledavis4526 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Been riding with you since you were back home and single and will ride with you forever. Praying for you both!!!!

  • @iluvdant
    @iluvdant ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Sorry but we not shocked. You didnt know that man!

    • @NoName-oh6dn
      @NoName-oh6dn 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      She should wait for couple years for proposal like all American women for the most part? Lol
      There is no formula . My uncle married my aunt after 3 months and they are together for 20 years!

    • @Birdyiam_
      @Birdyiam_ 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@NoName-oh6dntimes are different, now days you have to be careful

    • @NoName-oh6dn
      @NoName-oh6dn 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Birdyiam_ Oh please lol wait for couple years? Lol no thank you, too good for that . Don’t be a placeholder. If a man wants to marry you he will not wait too long and that’s a fact !

  • @suzannedv4758
    @suzannedv4758 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please allow yourself to go through all of the emotions as there’s so many with going through a divorce. It is not easy but you will get through this with being healed, happy, and healthy! God has you and you will be just fine! ❤🙏🏽

  • @dshayey
    @dshayey ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Praying that you continue to remain top tier in your strength and resiliency. As parents, protecting our kids will never be misplaced and always takes first priority.

  • @gtsmartangel1990
    @gtsmartangel1990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I also want to add even know marriage you was a great look baby single you is even more of a vibe of happiness ! I said to myself sometimes God will give us exactly what we’ve been asking for so we see we’re not ready yet and then let us “reinvent” ourselves in his image of perfection to know there is so much better! And that in itself is more beautiful than we can ever imagine ! ❤

  • @ReddRoom
    @ReddRoom ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So sorry to hear regarding your marriage. You seemed to be excited about your relationship. Praying for you as you move forward in your journey.

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks sis 🙏🏾❤️

  • @nadirajames4267
    @nadirajames4267 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hiii beautiful you’re doing so good so happy you didn’t talk bad about him and you didn’t go in to details about your marriage because that was between you to, it didn’t work that’s all everyone need to know it’s your business and keep glowing, praying and smiling because you can🤲🏾🤲🏾💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿🌹❤️🫶🏾

  • @y.spence
    @y.spence ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sorry you guys didn’t work out, I was definitely in support. I don’t think any of us need your personal reasons for separating but it’s obvious we had never seen you so down on camera. Protect the kiddos, and delete the messy. I’m happy to see you smiling on the outside, just don’t neglect the inside 😊

  • @kathleenharris8824
    @kathleenharris8824 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am glad you are not going into the details. It’s good you are focusing on yourself and your daughter. Healing will take time. I am glad you are at peace. You got this.❤

  • @Ryannhawkins88
    @Ryannhawkins88 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Almost at 500k sis ❤I’m so so glad you are back 😢

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks sis!! And yess!! Half a milliiiii!!! 🙌🏾🥹

  • @vanessagillon17
    @vanessagillon17 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been a subscriber for a while. You are a joy to watch! Very classy and graceful! Prayers for your continued peace and strength ❤

  • @msoddballz5763
    @msoddballz5763 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Proud of you for leaving an unhealthy situation and not staying together to save face to us the audience, friends, family and kids. It usually takes years for most women to leave while putting up a strong front for others. Although, I know it's hard, it'll get better. I wish the best for both you and Jeff ❤. Also, thank you for being as transparent as much you have about your situation, while remaining respectful about the other party.

  • @chrtyhwrd
    @chrtyhwrd ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im engaged and im not happy. He wants me to change, but i cannot do so because it seems like hes wanting me to not be myself. I cant decide if i want to leave. Im scared to leave, and i think its probably best i leave. However, its sooo hard and scary.

    • @AntoniaRob
      @AntoniaRob ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please leave, please it will get worse once you are married!! It's not worth staying because you are afraid of being single for a long time. Believe me LEAVE NOW!!!!

    • @karenb2873
      @karenb2873 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Did you leave?

    • @chrtyhwrd
      @chrtyhwrd หลายเดือนก่อน

      @karenb2873 Not yet. I got really close, though 😞. We broke up forb2 weeks, i had my apartment set and he cried and cried for me to come back. I gave in like an idiot, and now I regre it. I want to leave so bad now. I'm checked out, he's still blaming me for everything and not taking any responsibility of his own. He's been unemployed for over a year and has said everything he could to keep me stuck mentally and physically. Everytime I bring up leaving he starts overly being nice or get mad and say that I'm leaving him hanging, being selfish and saying f-him. I am no longer engaged as i haven't been wearing my ring for a year now. He's trying to sell it. Im 36 and he's 43. I am getting past my prime and been wanting a family but he keeps telling me it would be disastrous to have a child by me. Especially with the way things are. He's mad saying I'm always angry. I'm still trying to find reasons to justify why I should leave him. He states he depressed and stressed but he won't get any help smh. Ugh. I just want to scream, im so unhappy.

  • @tanyagoss336
    @tanyagoss336 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I said u were not happy and moved to fast. Baby I have been there and so you don’t have to explain to much. Bottom line you are a very beautiful woman ❤❤❤will find u as soon as god knows ur heart is ready. Enjoy your home and ur daughter. Period

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you sister 🙏🏾❤️

  • @karmaisanillusion7307
    @karmaisanillusion7307 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Aw that’s so sad Maya,wishing you the best going forward.❤

  • @lativoluxury
    @lativoluxury ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Imagine going to a coffee shop, a guy passes you , you tell him your married.
    A few weeks later you go to the same coffee shop see the same guy, he notices your not wearing your ring. Y’all spark each others interests…I just believe soulmates come when your not searching!!!

  • @jujubeeens
    @jujubeeens ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hi Maya, I've been following your journey for a while now and was so thrilled with your wisdom about life and your journey with God. As a woman of God myself, it heartened me to hear that you felt led to marry and that God confirmed that you should marry and that J. was the one. Your prayers were answered. As women of God who pray, listen to God, and walk in what God has for them, do we sometimes not hear the Lord correctly even though we thought we had confirmation to do what we thought He was leading us to do? I ask out of concern for myself and all women of God because how can we know for sure the Lord is leading us to make decisions, and then when we make them based on His leading and confirmation they don't work out as we expect? How can this be? I ask this respectfully for myself and all women of God who are following Jesus.

    • @imtheprize
      @imtheprize ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Great question and it's respectful. I am curious to know too. Just like with Devon and Meg, when ppl speak on how God told them this was their spouse and it doesn't work out, I feel like I need an explanation because God don't make mistakes. However, I am aware that we as ppl want what we want WHEN we want it and often times twist God's words to fit what we want. So I'm wondering if this was her situation

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +29

      So sis we are actually in the same boat. I am trying to build a stronger relationship with the Lord. but I had a disconnect because while I felt that God was leading the union because of certain signs I thought were clear, I also had discernment within that I ignored because I fell in love romantically & wanted to be married (worried about timelines). But I also believe he allows certain things for the growth of those involved. I will speak on this more at a later time but know that I have my confusion as well which I believe comes with a stronger connection to God and his will.

    • @chasityjones3549
      @chasityjones3549 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This was a great question! It actually happened to me but not relationship wise. It was for a goal/desire of mine. I got my confirmation and was geeked! I rushed and did things the way I thought were correct, completely absorbed myself into my goal not realizing I had pushed God further down; and then when I failed I was heartbroken and thought I misheard God! Not only did He make me realize I tried to continue doing this thing without Him, but I was rushing because of (as Maya said) a timeline. Afterwards I was left with a huge mess (that I’m still sorting thru btw but God is making a way!) but a couple yrs later God has shown me a different, much more efficient way to get to my goal/desire WITH Him. It just doesn’t look like how I thought it would and I’m in perfect peace with that.

    • @bibamm
      @bibamm ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really enjoyed watching Maya and this journey until I watched a video where she talked about manifesting, this is new age talk. Speak the Word of God over your life and do things in silence. I pray God's peace over her life and her daughter's life and I pray she does meet her husband and she keeps it all away from the Internet.

    • @Msladyrae92
      @Msladyrae92 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MayaGaloresoooo relatable ! 30s is a weird time when society is pressuring us to have everything in alignment. It’s a dangerous trap. Thank you for sharing, you’re helping me personally to take my time in my new relationship.

  • @alwayzchilincynt8277
    @alwayzchilincynt8277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I missed this vlog somehow. After watching the NYC city vlog I figured I missed something and came back to this one. It was something in that vlog you kept saying that made me come back. I know you’re trying to get in a good space with your life so I’ll just say take your time and enjoy you. Glad to see you happy again! 🙏🏽🫶🥰💋💯📌

  • @karenanderson1580
    @karenanderson1580 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Maya, I've been following you for quite some time. I truly enjoy your makeup tutorials. You're a very pretty and smart young woman that deserves all the best that life has to offer! I'm more than 30 years older than you and I have quite a bit more life experience. In a very caring way, I'd like to recommend that you slow down, and take time to really look at yourself, know your real value and truths, continue your therapy, and allow yourself to fully experience your emotions. Knowing how and why you move the way you do will be the greatest gift you give yourself! Especially if you find some things you want to change. I continue to pray for blessings to you in your journey!

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey sis. Thank you for this. This is actually what I am actively doing right now. I appreciate your wisdom 🙏🏾❤️

  • @tatijanvier8092
    @tatijanvier8092 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Im not sure how GA works but you should check if an annulment wouldn’t be a better option for you.

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nope, I checked. Thanks babe

  • @TheLeslieMichelle
    @TheLeslieMichelle ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Maya. I've just been watching...I've never commented in a long while because I just wanted to see you enjoy life. But I did notice right away. But listen, this is your life, it's not anyone's place to dig into your affairs. I'm just glad to see you move on. Things will get better for you...I have faith in you. Just know this.

  • @tafarahware4681
    @tafarahware4681 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey Maya
    We appreciate your transparency.
    Im glad your moving forward and working on You! Praying for you and All of Us who are trusting God ,doing the work and are ready to come out on the other side happy and healed.

  • @YaraMel
    @YaraMel ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I never comment but gotta give this one a standing ovation. One of your best vlogs ever. Loving the choice of music as well, the lyrics saying a lot. Keep up girl, it's only UP from here!! 💓

  • @freework768
    @freework768 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys were hugging each other just a few vids ago!! =/ I'm so sorry you had to come to this decision but only you know what's best for you

  • @officially_taiyo
    @officially_taiyo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your transparency! You didn’t have to. Praying for Gods best for you in this new season and chapter!
    Your solo trip will be amazing and full of favor and joy! Where are you going? I’m doing Nice and Paris

    • @MayaGalore
      @MayaGalore  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks sis!!! I’m going to NYC ❤️

    • @officially_taiyo
      @officially_taiyo ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MayaGalore oooo yesss! Endless places to eat. You will have a great time 🖤💜

  • @shanialeann1248
    @shanialeann1248 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have so much respect for your transparency and courage during this time. My mouth dropped hearing the news sis so I was definitely green to any of the signs the entire time. I am so excited to see all that unravels as you re-define who your are.....but I'm mad TH-cam doesn't give all territories the options to be apart of it.

  • @ThePrayerAdvocate
    @ThePrayerAdvocate ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maya, first and foremost your PEACE is priceless. What happened is really between you and the parties involved. God knows it all. People have to realize your life is yours. Take the path that’s led by God that’s for you. Sometimes the path is not always smooth and that’s ok. Be healthy and provide the atmosphere that’s best for you and your daughter. Keep your head up and embrace the season you are in. Prayers Sis for the looking ahead.🙏🏽🛐🫂🛐🥰

  • @demetrabrown4776
    @demetrabrown4776 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I know that things will work out for your Good!!! May God continue to Bless you 🙏🙏

  • @lisaanderson662
    @lisaanderson662 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautifully said. Sis it is nobodies business but your with your marriage, you owe us no explanations of what happened. Praying for you and baby girl as well as Jeff and his kids. Lean into God’s everlasting arms when you are not strong and stay blessed🙏🏽🫶🏽

  • @melbarton2966
    @melbarton2966 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sis, it's been a minute since I've tuned it. Sad to hear about the season changes. As a divorced person over 4 years ago, I never provided a lot of explanation, just to those that were in my inner circle. I am living my best life... healing was a journey & know that the Lord did it for me. I actually need to go home soon to the STL for some chong wah china man on page😊. God got you Sis! Your spirit is genuine & real. Take care of you & know your spiritual sisters are lifting you in prayer. Enjoy being you & getting your healing ❤❤

  • @4AM_real
    @4AM_real ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy you’re creating again. Praying that you find peace in any decision that you had to make for your well being & mental health. Ignore all of the negativity. Nobody’s life or journey is always peaches & cream & unfortunately for you, you have a lot of people watching. Wishing you & your baby girl the best ❤️

  • @naiyajahan
    @naiyajahan ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I stand by you during this hard time,as i have since i first discovered your channel. Protect you and your daughter, keep GOD FIRST! Glad you are on your way back to healed Mya.