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My son (16) was asked if he was "questioning his identity" by his school counsellor. He told her "No, I'm not". She then started hounding him about it for the next few days. When he refused to give her the answer she wanted, she called me about it. I asked her why she thought that, and was shocked by her reply - " Well, he does have long hair, so I'm concerned he's not being honest with himself". My son has a mullet! And so do ALL my son's, who are EXTREMELY masculine! I complained to the school about her. She lost her job not long after, and is now crying "Discrimination"! 🤦🏼 I'm glad someone who IS trans like yourself can see just how ridiculous this has become, and I love your honesty in regards to this. Thanks Blair! 😘🇭🇲
@@Ariana-wv4pf Define appropriate haircut bc it's up for everyone to decide😊 I'm happy to hear that everything turned out well Samantha! But that's insane! But imagine how busy School councellors would have been trying to convince young healthy men that they're are female if this scenario took place in end of 70's but otherwise 80's and 90's😂 It was after all extremely popular primarily due to bands, whom also had long hair - men & woman🤣
45 yr. old, Bi female who is NOT a girly girl. When I was growing up we were called Tom Boys, if I grew up today they would have told me I was trans. I am NOT trans, I'm just a woman who happens to like traditional male things. My heart breaks for children today.
I was effeminate as a child and still am in some ways, I suppose. I'm just a gay man. I don't know how we went from progressive views on gender and then after the 2010s we somehow reverted back to this over-simplified, rigid idea of what it means to be a man or a woman. It can't be led by science because any critical thinking tears it apart. It's greed and ego, like they said in the video.
It took my therapist a long time to properly diagnose me. I'm very grateful for that. Symptoms can overlap. As Arielle said, they're throwing a blanket over the real issues....
I (born in the 70ies) was always a girl who felt like a girl and liked doing male stuff and wearing male cloth. No gender disphoria, no autism, no nothing. Just a dad who told his little girl she can do an wear what she wants and that she will find friends who will like her that way and find a partner (either male or female) who loves her for exactly that. And so it was. Funnily i never felt wrong or special - just like me. THAT is what kids needs. And if a transition is needed, a transition will happen - but not the panic/euphoria that is happening right now with the trans topic.
My mom didn't push me on being girly and it turned out I had a lot of phases. My mom has played video games since before I was born. My dad doesn't have the patience for it. They had 3 girls and we all play video games! My dad prefers to watch. He doesn't even like sports. He liked old movies and working outside.
My daughter loved trucks. She loved bob the builder. Never asked for dolls, once she chose how to dress she didn’t choose super girly things. My daughter is autistic. I am so thankful this was before gender ideology became popular. I’m absolutely sick about how many people with autism are getting unnecessarily harmed.
When I was 4-5 years old, there was a time when I bought this ultimately very "girly" Lego set, merely because I was so fascinated by all the pink and colourful bricks in it. Also had my Mom sew me an all pink suit after my childhood idol - who for the record is a man - wore it in style. Something tells me had that been today in the worst parts of California, my thing would have been chopped off and couldn't have been done too quickly 🤣
I work at an insurance company and I started looking for another job after finding out a man with cancer can’t get his testosterone approved because it doesn’t meet the guidelines, but gender dysphoria was an approved diagnosis
This comment right here. Men can’t get testosterone and women can’t get hormone shots for real medical issues because of guidelines and “ethics” yet they have no problem giving them to children.
Yikes. And there you have it. Obviously this is just a comment with no proof but I don’t doubt it. I know some friends, sick friends, that can’t get certain health coverage but T get everything at a snap of a finger.
YESSSSS PLEASE start your own "jubilee-esque" thing We need HONESTY in our debates. I believe you would be the perfect person to platform debaters who are well intended and want to find TREU middle ground
My psychiatrist tried telling me I was trans and wanted to be male when I first got my period and was already uncomfortable with my boobs growing in, I said I didn’t want to deal with the process of becoming a woman. I wanted to remove my uterus just to stop periods and never have to deal with them. I didn’t want to become a male but my psychiatrist kept telling me no you want to be a boy you’re trans. Mom got me out of there. I eventually got used to my boobs and period even though I still hate my period I don’t regret being what I am born as, a female.
Years ago, I never had a problem with gay, trans etc... You do you. In the recent years I got so sick of it all because, as a woman for the last 60 yrs, I was offended with bearded men wearing dresses wanting to be accepted as women. Women being belittled and mocked by these men. Seeing men try to breastfeed, oufff. But, you Blaire White are the perfect example of a real and true trans woman. I do have respect for you and I do watch your channel. You have respect for others and you are out there trying to help. Keep it going! xxxooo
"Why do we have to try to look like a woman, we are women" No, you're not. If you want to transition, you need to TRANSITION. If you can't put in the work to get where you want to be, you don't deserve to be where you are. I 100% agree with you.
You dont hate gays or trans, you hate the people who are part of that cult. It includes also straight people and a lot of them are straight girls. Even me as a gay man i cant stand them anymore, and ive been surrounded by the community for the most part of my life and let me tell you that TODAY its 100% a cult, and not a cute one. They are anarchists who want to destroy every concept known to mankind and reshape it as they please. Weaponizing empathy at every occasion they have. They best we can do is to ignore them or to not show weakness when they confront us
@@slightlydapperdwarf49I agree! I do think personally that even if you fully transition you are still a trans woman, but I will happily call people like Blaire she, it feels like the only logical option, but I will not do the same for these bearded boys in dresses who say that words alone are enough to make them safe around us. Blaire can use my bathroom space anytime ❤ but a full on man in a dress will make me feel unsafe because I don’t want masculine energy in my safe and private feminine space.
Bi female 46 who just found out I'm High functioning Autistic.. the sensory issue comment hit hard. That scratchy shit under girls dresses should be considered a form of torture.
I was a kid in the 50s and 60s. Those cotton girls dresses had scratchy netting under them to make the skirts stand out fuller. Awful! I tearfully refused to wear some of my dresses and tried to argue. Surprisingly, one day, my mother got scissors out and cut out all the scratchy netting. Problem solved.
@seraphimknight3754 crazy coincidence, I wish I was better with sewing and patterns. I just thought about this a couple weeks ago. I'm too old to still have a total melt down over a seem in my socks.
Same here with the first girl and her sensory issues. It wasn't always a problem with dresses, it was fabrics, seams, certain styles/fit of clothing. Also had major problems with loud noises and any unexpected changes to our plans. I know I made my mom's life really difficult at times. But fortunately she listened when I kept saying that certain shirts were painful to wear and she let me pick out things that didn't hurt.
Attending your show was incredibly moving! I can’t help but admire the strength and courage it took to share your story. As someone diagnosed with autism (Asperger's) at age 4, your journey hit home for me on a personal level. Hearing such raw and different perspectives like yours is powerful, and your openness made me reflect deeply on my own experiences. Your honesty and vulnerability are beyond inspiring! When it comes to Blaire, I give her a pass on discussing autism because she always does her homework. She digs deep into the issues and delivers with so much authenticity and relatability. Her commitment to truly understanding the complexities makes her perspective feel so real and grounded.
Mental illness doesn’t mean you’re a danger or need to be institutionalized. I think that’s a really negative stigma the one woman was bringing to the table and Blaire and Buck responded so well.
Yeah, I know she meant well but telling someone who has a mental illness “you’re not mentally ill” as a way to make them feel better is not the way to go and is actually like you said, stigmatizing it. You wouldn’t tell someone with cancer that they don’t have an illness. Clearly if someone thinks they should be another sex, it’s not normal and requires therapy or treatment.
That guy who stood up just to encourage Blaire to never give up and to praise her efforts was totally awesome and to remind her we've got her back. We do not have enough of those people in today's world who openly praise the fight for Truth. That was very cool of him.
The fight for truth? The truth is that Blair White is a man who went through a ton of plastic surgery to look like a woman. He may be an effeminate gay, it he will NEVER be a woman. That’s the hard truth that dishonest and delusional people can’t grasp. The truth.
I was told i looked like a boy A LOT when I was little so when the trend of non binary and transitioning came out around when I was in middle school, I said I was a boy and then non binary because I was so confused on my own. I figured “if I look like a Boy, maybe i should be a boy then” very very sad. I’m happy a lot of people validated my femininity and talked me out of any HUGE life altering decisions❤
That is funny because that is exactly why Blaire transitioned. He is a gay man. The only reason he transitioned is to increase his dating pool. That is also why he is a "conservative" he likes very masculine macho men and conservatives are more likely to be like that.
It was never "the dress" it was how I was expected to act in the dress. Act like a lady even tho you're only 2-10. Sit and be an object instead of playing, getting dirty, and just being a child. But that first lady does resonate with me so much. If I were a kid now this would be so confusing. Edit: Jesus Christ y'all take things super serious. I didn't have a dress super glued to me. But I was forced to wear one often. Think, church, Easter. Family reunions. And any adult functions.
I think the people who think that "If you like girl things then you must be a girl" or vice versa are sexist. Just because you are a girl who likes sports does not mean you are a boy and just because a boy may want to play with a doll, does not mean he is a girl.
Agree. But we need to stop lying to ourselves and society about sexuality and gender presentation being separate things. That’s a queer theory lie. Sex is real, but “gender” is connected to sexuality. That is why majority (not all) of homosexual males are feminine no matter how they try to mask it. And lesbians tend to be masculine. Once again not all of them. Some in the west deny this but being penetrated makes someone no longer a “man” in most cultures for all of time. Be careful not to mix up a stereotype and actual sexism. If someone says “make up is a girly thing” they are just being realistic because the majority of people who enjoy make up are women. There will always be outliers, but most are female and it’s not sexist to notice this. No one complains if you say “most women are intelligent!” Or any other positive. No one calls that sexist lol! Like I said. Gender is how we present out sexuality to the world. Heterosexual men are masculine because this in turn will attract feminine women. And trans men who like women are doing the same. Females are typically feminine, which attracts masculine, and TS women like Blaire are the same. She has a feminine sexuality which is the basis for how she presents. It’s a biologically ingrained mating strategy to find partners. All this “social construct” bs is a lie from Leftwing universities and sexist 2nd and 3rd wave feminists. The first feminists from the suffragette era consisted of mostly heterosexual feminine women who loved their masculine husbands and just wanted to vote. The feminist and gay movement both deny basic biological realities. Sadly gender ideology has parroted many of their social constructionism ideas. Boys can like Barbie and it doesn’t mean they are a girl, but it often means they are NOT like many other boys, and noticing that is okay. We shouldn’t be pushing boys or girls to transition based on silly things or likes and dislikes. It should be reserved for a small group of adults who’s lives would actually improve post transition, who are willing to make an effort to assimilate into society.
To realize you’d been lied to and allowed to irreparably harm your own body is something I cannot imagine. How devastating… and then to have the “community” turn on you for trying to course correct is absolutely appalling! 😢
Have a friend who knows someone with autism that's trans. They really despise the way they look. It's definitely a sensory issue. The crazy thing is, they're in a relationship with someone who is gay. Now, his friend who is trans does NOT believe in letting children change their sex and believes they're not mentally able to decide at such a young age, but their boyfriend, does and they're constantly at heads with the issue. It's wild seeing actual trans people fighting against child abuse while their counterparts are cheering it on.
It’s genuinely insane. I have plenty of trans/queer friends who advocate for not allowing children to transition for so many reasons, but I ALSO have plenty of straight, non-trans friends who believe that kids should be allowed to medically transition… it’s absurd.
“Trans” has lost all meaning at this point. Now suddenly drag queens and cross dressers are saying they are “trans” too. Used to be just medical transsexuals.
with that second question ," why do you think Doctors lean into this" there's also another element here. it's socially safe. there's not likely going to be much backlash for a doctor. prescribing a treatment to transition someone over denying that transition. they're more likely to get problems if they attempt to deny it
And the ones that really don't want to usually just punt them to a gender specialist so they don't have to take responsibility. They're just like that's out of my expertise.
When my daughter was 12 she declared she was non-binary. I supported her and allowed her to adopt an image to go along with it. She cut her hair and wanted specific clothes. And I was fine with it. Now she is 16 and is proud to be a girl. She was going thru something and it was at the same time she hit puberty. I allowed her to figure out who she really is. That is was is needed with parents. Don't do anything permanent. I would never mutilate my child. Love your kids enough to give them time. I really respect what Blaire stands for. She is so amazing to me.
@@mrlawilliamsukwarmachine4904 honestly, the more you pushback against this sort of exploration, the more the child develops this weird persecution complex. its best to let it just harmlessly run its course. otherwise you can introduce complex trauma such as the child doing it out of spite etc.
I remember that now nearly 2 years ago at the age of 12-13 I was crying because I had breasts and periods. It just made me uncomfortable that I was starting to become too "woman". Obviously I managed to get over it especially after knowing that its not necessary to wear a bra (I hate that shit to this day) and also found a safe space on reddit that is filled with people similar to me. (r/GNCStraight)
@@drooskie9525 I dunno dude. _Never_ getting accustomed to your body? And the whole experience being a traumatic event that you just had to learn to live with? That's...not _really_ the general human experience; severe health problems aside, most people's brains aren't made to suffer in their bodies. I hate to say it, but you _may_ be the kind of person, those unlucky few, that needs to ask themselves some very...uncomfortable questions. But regardless of the outcome, never let anybody push you to be anything _but_ yourself.
@@HansLemurson Nah its more like the changes and coming to terms with your body. insecurities and all that such stuff. especially when you feel you dont measure up to the ideal, because lol genetics. life sucks it takes a while to "settle" into it and be like "okay, im me, this is hand i was dealt with". for women its pretty rough due to a couple extra factors...
It's so sad how they're aggressively shunned from the "community" when they detransition or don't transition the way "they" want people to, that was what opened my eyes to who/what I thought I was supporting at one time. Once LGBT added all the extras to their cause, ish hit the fan and became some else all together. I love what Blair has done to call out the borderline cult like craziness because it needs to be talked about more.
My daughter has said she wants to be a boy. When i asked why, she said it was because only boys can play minecraft and wear boys clothes. I told her that girls can absolutely wear boys clothes and play minecraft. It was obvious to me that she went to school and some other kid told her what she could and couldn't do.
She will continue to be told this, and because she is young it can easily influence or discourage her. Even at my age as a tomboy I get concerned folks who tell me I shouldn’t do this or that. Hence why many of today’s tomboys feel pressured to transition.
I like how she owns her mental illness. I, for example, have depression. I am mentally ill. If someone was to tell me that being depressed was normal and that I shouldn't feel bad I would tell them I don't feel bad, but I am not normal. And that's okay.
One side calls it transgender, i call it roleplaying. A child roleplaying to get a better understanding of the world. Once they get a basic understanding of men and women, then they build on the learning on being what their sex is.
Gender dysphoria is a real issue that real trans people experience and struggle with. It's not as simple as roleplay, which a lot of today's alleged trans youth appear to display, and hence the detransitioner phenomena. there's so much misrepresentation of real trans people by the current alphabet movement.
Literally I was a confuse middle school kid who thought I was a boy. Eventually came to the conclusion that I wasn’t a boy because I like pink and make up. weird I know but it worked. I feel like if I was a kid right now that wouldn’t have happened.
@@TariqNavabiGamingi dont think they meant real trans people but literal children being labelled as trans without understanding what gender really is and once they grow up a bit and understand themselves better then they can make those decisions on their own
It concerns me that young women are especially vulnerable to being mistakenly directed into the trans catagory, given that autism is harder to detect in women.
Also I want to share that despite being an internet punching bag, in real life I only ever meet people who love you and your content Blaire. Even people who aren't online, you are truly a real one and there's so much appreciation out here for you!
It’s so true. I’m only 25 and I see it within my peers. I’ve lost friends for simply expressing a different opinion. Makes me not want to try making new friends because I feel like I can never be myself with most of my peers. They’re so obsessed with identity politics and being “right”
Totally. I'm sliding towards 50 and the 90s/2000 were about acceptance of everyone, obviously not everyone was on that bandwagon but you could easily surround yourself with enough good people. It was about celebrating individuality and being proud to be different, not get offended and abusive at the "others".
@@beckee6282Well, let’s see if you and I can be friends. I support Donald Trump. I lost friends for saying this. The friends that I lost have known me since childhood. (Not that it should matter, but I grew up in the sticks and now I’m living a successful life in the South of France.). They insulted my intelligence, although I won’t do the same. My friends are not stupid people. But, they suddenly think that I am because I support Donald Trump. Somehow, embracing peace and prosperity is a dumb thing to do.
That first lady in the glasses, that is 100% MY experience as well. My favorite toy when I was a toddler were a school bus and a cement truck. I actually had a very pretty dress my mom got me for Easter when I was 8 that I loved the color of, but I could not wear it because it was soooooo uncomfortable., and I was the girl who wandered off to play by myself and played with worms and tried to build rock forts in my back yard. In today's world, everyone would be saying "oh she's trans!" and I know my mother, an attention-seeker, would have put me on puberty blockers and raised me as a boy. AND at 41, I have a late diagnosis for autism. We all know how easy it is to misdiagnose autistic people with the "trans" label.
I’ve been subscribed since 2017. Seeing Blaire doing an in-person event like this makes me deeply proud to the point of getting emotional. I’m touched by the love and support that people are showing her and I hope this tour is really refreshing to her soul 💖
I thought I was a trans male from the ages 12-14 ish, but I was just active in the wrong part of the internet and being convinced that I was a male. I remember my parents being so confused about where it was coming from. I'm almost 30 now and happily a (very girly) woman.
Same thing happened to me but it was for like 7 yesrs, it was pushed so much by my family, doctors, and just people online that I felt so pressured to be seen as a boy but I never once told anyone to call me he, son, or brother but they do and I'm so uncomfortable but I'm so scared to tell them to stop and I just don't want to have to explain my existence to them, I wish they would just stop, I'm not a fucking boy, I'm just a lesbian! Sorry for the rant but it sucks
This happened to so many of my friends. It really was (and probably still is) such a common and encouraged path for insecure, young teenage girls in certain internet circles and fandoms. Such a strange and destructive social contagion.
Borderline PD is wild. For me it felt like living in a film set, had to change my personality to fit in with whatever scene was playing. I'm under a management plan now but I absolutely could have been convinced that I was xyz because my lack of identity would cling to anything. Love to all dealing with any and all mental health conditions ❤
everyone loves talking abt the importance of mental health awareness until it starts contradicting their agenda. the second story hit really close to home. it’s crazy how easy it is to misdiagnose someone with bpd and a developing ed (often comorbid with bpd) and just say that they’re trans. that’s what happened to me and living as a trans guy for years since i was 16 just made me develop an ed faster and ruined my mental health further. 27 now and still struggling with body dysmorphia and going back to therapy every time i start thinking i “actually might be trans” (i know i’m not, it just means i’m getting unstable again) over and over again
😢 I hope you get a better relationship with your identity. I totally understand, is like you gaslight yourself 😅. My family convinced me into thinking I had BPD or something like that, while the truth is I have ADHD. Funny thing is I have a few traits of BPD, specifically self-image issues. I wish you all the best❤
_”everyone loves talking abt the importance of mental health awareness until it starts contradicting their agenda.”_ I completely agree because this exact thing happened to me, too. I’m autistic and have some remnants of childhood adhd leftover, but people accuse me of having narcissistic personality disorder. Sometimes I have to remind myself that I’m not the bad guy either no matter how much people try to make it seem like I am. I hope you can get to a point where you have to reel yourself back in from the false claim that you were trans less and less, as well. Just remember… _”I actually think I might be trans”_ is not your instability, it’s their misdiagnosis.
More people ARE NOT speaking out against the trans movement because of consequences from the public. People have lost their jobs, friends, and family bonds over it. So when detransitioners come out and ask why didn't anyone say anything to them, this is why more people don't. Blaire has the PASSION, INTELLIGENCE, COURAGE, and NERVE and that's why she speaks out for the well being of the public ❤
I had a friend who I grew up with who identified as female from birth to 17y/o. She is autistic and you could almost immediately tell. So I wasn't surprised to hear that she medically transitioned which was weirdly okayed by her physician and eventually went on to date another autistic trans person she met during treatment. This is ridiculous.
I’ve noticed a pattern of girls with anorexia/bulimia/body issues wanting to transition and then backing out or unfortunately going through with it. Body dysmorphia can be misinterpreted as gender dysphoria.
I am 2 minutes in…. I hated dresses as a little girl because I liked to be able to run around and climb trees and do things that ALL KIDS DO… dresses made me feel like I couldn’t climb a tree comfortably…. I am so happy I grew up in the late 90’s / early 2000’s because today I would have been labeled something else. I am very much a woman. I love makeup and hair and nails and living in my feminine. But I also don’t wear dresses unless it’s a special occasion and I still hate it when I have one on lol. Just feels like it’s not me.
I have two daughters an 11 year old and a six year old My six year old for the last 4 years has completely resented any idea of dressed , pink, foo foo girly things … This year she has embraced dresses and make up and hair accessories… for the longest time I said oh man she’s a Tom boy and the last two months she’s done a total 180 it just goes to show that children don’t know what they want they’re discovering so much through out their adolescence and it’s important as a parent to not push anything on the cause with the snap of a finger they could change their mind
Omg. This is making me tear up. Your fans are so amazing just like you. It’s nice to not feel alone. Their are still people with a moral compass out there ❤️
I grew up as a tomboy in the 90s and we just wore old jeans, leggings, trainers T-shirts and my family prioritised walking and camping and just being. Me and my brother dressed practically the same in clothes that were suitable for the activity (and ugly old stuff 😅) and I learnt that boys and girls could both love and thrive outside. I know teach girls clubs outdoors skills and camping
I thought I was a boy when I was 6. I didn’t have the vocabulary to say I saw myself as not looking feminine. But it got bad, I started wishing I had a penis. That lasted a year and I’m so happy nothing happened. My mom is progressive and on the left but she wouldn’t let me lean into it. Now I’m a very happy woman. I love love living as a woman. It makes me so sad how many detransitioners there are whose life’s are forever changed for the worst.
Well yeah kids can wish whatever they want, if they want to be whatever, I think parents should let them explore that and affirm their identity, but make it clear they can't change their body and if it's something that disappears, it usually does so by the time of puberty. If it continues for years and years (and 10 years is a long time in childhood to insist you identify as something), then it warrants further exploration. That's the sensible path that actually happens for most kids who go on to be trans. All the detransitioner stuff going on these days are exceptions to the norm but the internet amplifies them and make them seem more common than they are, that's what we have to remember. And they deserve to have their stories told, but I'm firmly against their stories being weaponized to say we should ban gender affirming care for ALL kids because it does a disservice to those who actually benefit from it, while also cheapening the detransitioners' stories as political ammo. Trans and detrans people deserve to speak without their personal narratives getting twisted.
Fun fact, penis envy is actually part of child development and psychology, because toddler girls think boys get to have something they don’t have. My psych professor told us when her daughter was about three or four, she said, “I wish I had wings as well as arms, and I wish I had a penis as well as a vagina.” 😂
****Leftists.* There’s nothing liberal about people that are the antithesis of liberal. “Modern up” is not the downwards direction. Up is up, down is down, liberty is good, and leftists are our opposites. Stop conflating opposites.
Oh my god! That first lady! I just want to hug her! (I'm an autistic female, I don't look, sound or dress 100 per cent that way, and I've always struggled to understand what the whole being female thing is all about- and I've even had little shit kids stop dead in their tracks, in the street, to look at me and ask "are you a girl, or a boy?") ...that's all :) I just really wanted to express that here, in a safe space ;)
@livviebrundle I've found tons of people don't understand the experience of looking naturally androgynous. There's lots of folks who try to make themselves *intentionally* androgynous (such as a girl getting a "boy" haircut etc). But it's a whole entire thing to get the "are you a girl or a boy?" quiz when you're just walking around being obliviously yourself. I've struggled myself to explain it to people.
Thank you so much Blaire White, it was so hard for me to grow out of the mindset that I was fed into while being young. Through teachers and even other children. I grew up Christian and I am still Christian and I always was being told from radical leftists that I was part of a hateful group. I was so lonely in COVID that I came out as non-binary to just join the crowd, but I never really understood it. And yes, I never felt right in my own skin, but I didn't have gender dysphoria, I had body dysphoria and being able to work on my weight and body I feel more comfortable. Sensory issues was a big deal for me and since I was sheltered it was very hard to grow out of that mindset. But by listening to your videos, it has helped me to grow out of that toxic mindset. Thank you so much. You really saved me. I am no longer Non-binary, honestly for me it was just making me more depressed but now I am living a good life. Thank you.
These are such important stories to hear and share. Thank you to all of those who have shared it, despite how personal and possibly embarrassing it may be, its important we hear detransitioners. The people who push things like "gender affirming care" try to assert that its so super duper rare and practically non existent, and that the channels you have to go through like doctors and psychologists to gain access to blockers/HRT/ surgery is so fool-proof and tightly sealed. Such a long a painstaking process to verify that you're a proper candidate. Then you hear stories like the second girl shared "i walked in to the gender clinic. I was asked how long I've identified as trans, and they did my bloodwork, i got my prescription". Sounds on-par with getting a medical card for weed lol. To hear people just come out and share "I was that kid that went down that road at a young age, im older now,and I regret it. No one stopped me from getting it" is so unbelievably valuable to the conversation. Thank you all for sharing.
I use to be trans and I just wanted to say thank you for this. I hated being pushed into a bubble as a kid were I couldn't be a masculine girl. I decided to be a male because of how freeing it was because what i did then became normal. Now I've met my lovely boyfriend who loves the way I am and I was finally able to detransition. If anyone reads this just know theres more than one way to be a girl or boy. If you have kids let them be who they want to be. If your son likes dolls let him if your daughter likes trucks then let her be. Forcing your kids to be something they know they arent will lead them to hate themselves. Accept them how they are before they think enjecting hormors is the only way
It was an absolute honor and privilege to see you and speak to you at your show, Blaire 💙 God's beloved Daughter, God's beloved son. *hugs* I sincerely hope we meet again
It's absolutely wild cause here in the UK when I first went to the gender clinic I got a LOT of questions and it was multiple appointments and assessments before they were happy to diagnose me and put me on T. To me at the time it seemed like i was being grilled for no reason but obviously after the fact i realised why all those checks and balances were put in place and they 100% are a must to stop shit like this happening. I remember about a year after I started transitioning a friend of mine decided they were also a transman and when they went to the clinic they were like nah sorry youre not trans its xyz disorder and is completely unlinked. This was all a decade ago so I have no idea what it's like now but I imagine much the same, in Scotland anyway.
In Australia and someone I know who currently identifies as a trans woman didnt even get questions. She went to a doctor, said she was trans, and left 15 minutes later with hormones
I was the only girl in 10 years in my family...everyone else, including my brother, was a boy. I was VERY much a tomboy. I was the dirties kid playing in mud. I HATED dressed. I hated my hair long and loose. I hated barbies, I hated very generic girl things. I played Doom with my brother and dad, cops and robbers, rugby, judo, got into fights. By all accounts in modern day I would have been dubbed as trans. I'm just a bit of a tomboy who likes the rougher things. I hate that kids can't be kids without being shoved into labels and categories. Kids are meant to be discovering life, the world, and themselves, without having to subject themselve to life altering decisions.
I can totally get where that very first girl is coming from. I hated dresses and skirts. My mom never forced me to be girly and my dad was fine with me being a tomboy (he only had daughters). I am definitely on the spectrum, but didn't really know until my 30s
I was a tomboy from the earliest memories but I was raised in a house full of military men and I'm still a tomboy at age 64 but love dressing up in heels and being a girl! But thank God those men I grew up with taught me to take care of myself!
I sympathise from another direction - I am fat. I _only_ wear trousers because qI can suffer thigh chaff. I had weight issue even in my pre-teen to teen years, so what could happen to a chubby kid now who wants to wear only trousers because of weight? Will pro-trans adults pay less attention to weight (or be "Body Positive") and be all "You're a boy!" at them.
Remember the question on jubilee about what Blair did for her community.... This is the answer and it's only a portion of the people she helped because some of her fans aren't in the US.
My daughter always fought with me about her school uniform. She hated the skirts. Finally I asked her why, and she said "They flap around my legs and it feels weird." She didn't get her ASD diagnosis until she was 18.
I talk to my children openly about homosexuality, transexuality and all the important things. We’ve been talking sex, periods, sexuality, gender from a young age. I feel like my children are prepared. We also live in a conservative part of California. Thank god.
@@Ennaitakbelieve it or not yes. Maybe not as conservative as some other parts of the country, but is mountain folk love guns and god. Blair is from CA!
@@keashablew7728 I've known quite a few conservatives from CA, including currently one of my sisters and her husband. They all say the same thing. It's the folks in SoCal who are a bag of fruits and nuts. LOL
I have always been this way with my kids! My twins are 16 male and female. My female has always been a tomboy and my male always feminine. They have homeschooled since 6th grade because things in my county were out of hand. My female is still tomboy but loves her nails done and wants to be a mom, my sweet boy finally came out gay about a year ago. (My momma heart always knew). Openess, conversation, and understanding are 100% a must as a parent in today's world to keep from the confusion around. My son recently thanked me for sitting and talking him through the time he thought he was "trans" and not allowing Dr intervention before having long heartfelt conversations and not attacking him.
@keashablew7728 I know Blaire is from CA, but to my understanding, she was from a more liberal part and that a conservative Californian is like finding a unicorn lol
I remember wanting to be a boy cuz my older bro (just 1 yr older) got to be comfy at parties and run around. I had to wear a dress and "don't rip your stockings, don't dirty your dress, don't bend down and show your panties, be careful!" The moment i was allowed to pick my own clothes at 10, it was nothing but flare jeans, tshirts, sneakers. He was allowed to sleep over at friends, got his own set of keys at 9, was put in charge of me when out. He was ONLY 1 yr older. I didn't get my first set of keys till hs. All because he was a boy
These are fantastic clips. As a Muslim man, I thank you for bringing sense to what's been happening. I was actually one of those people who supported the Rainbow people in everything, the right to their pronouns or their parade, even though I knew things were happening there that were very inappropriate for the public to see. Listening to all of your videos while I work for many months, everything finally made sense to me.
The first lady’s comment hit hard with me. I also despised dresses, makeup, and stereotypically “feminine” clothing as a child because of my autism and sensory issues. As I grew up, I learned to love and enjoy getting dolled up every once in a while. I still don’t like form-fitting pants and shirts (take leggings or athletic wear like that, for example) but I do enjoy dressing up now, as long as I’m the one deciding what to wear and when. If I want to wear a tailored suit or a dress, it’s completely my choice. It also wasn’t always the clothes that bothered me… it was how people expected me to act while wearing them.
It's a great insight because a lot of times kids just say that because they just want to wear pants because they're more comfortable. They want to be comfortable. It's not because they really think they're a boy. They don't understand.
We love you Blaire ❤ Me and my Jewish friends and family love you ❤ Since Oct 7th I lost 90% of my friends, even my cousin because my Jewishness was suddenly an inconvenience. The woke left has kicked me out, and it forced me on a journey of spiritual awakening: exploring politics deeper. Your content helped me a lot in defending myself and making sense of the world ❤
Those people were brave and amazing coming forward and being so honest. You and Buck talking so much sense as always. Hope the rest of the tour goes well
27 yr old bisexual registered dem but have always been a centrist ✋🏾 I was never in the lgbt community as many of them would dismiss me as being a part of the community due to being bisexual and I grew up as a major tomboy playing “male-centered” activities and started dressing girly towards the end of high school. Now, I feel like the extreme left want to erase tomboy and gay boys and make everyone trans when in fact for many many children it’s a phase to figure out what I like and don’t like. Parents don’t want to bother educating their kids anymore and it’s honestly really sad. What happened to if a child thinks they’re a girl/boy to just let them wear unisex clothing and experiment with their hair socially. Now they just want to ship them off to a doctor that can sign off on giving them meds and surgically transition instead of socially. A couple years from now I PRAY they finally see “wow this is the hill we decided to die on?”
@@SpoiledHippie I stated I’m bisexual to give context about how I feel about the lgbt community as someone that is”considered” as part of the community but in reality not and inputted registered dem to show that I’m a dem that loves everything that Blair stands for as many leftists compare Blair as a radical right when that’s not the case anyone with common sense regardless of what political party you’re into can see Blair just makes sense and says things out loud that other people are too scared to say
@@SpoiledHippie I actually thank you for genuinely asking and not being rude like other people typically would be. I know my post seems all over the place but with an ADHD brain that was what I really thought lol
The thing is, i would talk 2 my kid about this kind of stuff when it's 10 years old. But thats to late because they start manipulating your kind way earlier.... thats sick.
Ok so the girl in the beginning & I share that we both thought we were boys as kids. Had it been today they would have convinced me at least to transition and that scares me. I am a woman and love being one as an adult and I would be emotionally ruined now had I ruined that opportunity to be ME & have my son. I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria as a kid and went through STABILIZATION therapy(which is not like conversion therapy 🙄)which is neutral. They don’t ever convince for or against transition bc it’s the last resort not an idea upfront that you take the very consequence filled void that is transitioning physically, health, mental health, & how even if those would be ok, if you’re not stable in your mental health you can’t do something like transitioning bc it only an external change. Your brain still is sick if you don’t handle that first! and they don’t come at you for appearing to be, which means managing mental health throughout childhood and teen hood as well as learn why you feel that way. No transitioning bc most kids, over 90% of gender dysphoria effected kid grow out of it. I did. By 13 it was gone. Most kids I let through mental health groups did as well. Only one transitioned. Let kids have the opportunity to learn who the hell they are like the rest of all humanity This was the 90s btw. Long before it was well known and was super rare which is proof it’s an ideology trend now in comparison to the good ole days when it had to be organic bc nobody even knew what it was
I’m a late diagnosed autistic/adhd adult (woman), and I know for a fact I would’ve been dragged into the whole trans thing if I was a child these days. It breaks my heart seeing so many kids and young adults these days who are clearly just autistic and confused, being brainwashed into thinking there is something wrong with them. Or they have weak support systems that don’t teach how to navigate life, like I did Throughout my entire childhood I thought there was something “wrong” with me as a person, not knowing the majority of my struggles were due to being autistic. I didn’t have a good support system, I had no one that understood me and I was being constantly gaslit by the medical industry into thinking I was mentally ill I was pressured to take medication I didn’t need, which I genuinely believe have scrambled my brain to the point of no return. I have never felt the same mentally after being put on countless anti-that’s and anti-this’s. If only I had ONE person back then in my life to step up and help me, someone who could recognize my very obvious, autistic struggles. But no one did. Everyone made excuses or turned their back on me because it was too hard to admit I was different. I blame society for placing so much pressure on everyone to be exactly the same and treating everyone like cogs in the machine If you don’t fit in completely or fit the “mold” that society has created, you’re labelled as sick or mentally unstable. YOU have to change, when society should be changing
I love these beautiful people attending. No crazy extremes one way or another or people screaming, just people living their lives and having conversations. Awesome
As someone whos been misdiagnosed as having gender dysphoria and bipolar and I was actually dealing with bpd and anxiety. I was on meds for most of my life (since 14). And I was put on medications that worsened my bpd and made me appear bipolar. Also, my therapist and psychiatrist just went along with me having gender dysphoria when it was actually a reaction to trauma and my therapist kept trying to talk about surgery. Something needs to happen because I am better now but it wasn't because of any doctors or therapists, it was my own realizations.
No teen knows who they are or feel comfortable with the changes in their mind & body. Normalizing normal again would be a good start. I'm a woman through & through & I'm not autistic & i don't like dresses except for special occasions. Jeans are comfortable & practical. I don't know where the "pressure" comes from bc even labeling it autistic to not like uncomfortable clothing is a problem. I don't like the texture of cooked vegetables... it's a preference not a mental disorder. We over corrected on the "breaking taboos about mental health" & created problems to be solved (& make money from)
I’m a late diagnosed autistic woman and I don’t feel “unique” and never have. I feel ostracized, even as an adult. I’ve been bullied heavily, scapegoated at work and school, ridiculed just for existing, you name it. It’s a disability. It’s not “uniqueness.” Yes, I am different. But isn’t everyone? Even if my uniqueness is praised by the few people who love and care for me, what does that matter when most of society treats me like I’m undeserving of basic human respect or dignity?
They are disservicing people when they made it a "spectrum", added a bunch of diffrent types of people with diffrent labels and needs, and then got lazy and slapped it as a general diagnosis catch all.
i see what you're saying, but, this is not the way to go about it. autism is a disability, and a pretty severe one at that for autistic people with level 2 & 3 autism. people need a diagnosis and support to survive (more education, therapies, learning how to manage and support sensory sensitivities, difficulty with routines & hygiene, etc.) it's not only a "uniqueness". yes, there are charming aspects that people with disabilities have, but we can't only focus on that because they'd never get the proper support they deserve. those two things can actually be mutually exclusive and it's better to recognize this for their safety and wellbeing 😁
Im in the most hated 'group' bc im a Conservative, Straight, White, Christian, Female. But i have a variety of friends, i grew up to respect everyone and i dont care what people want to do with their lives, to each their own, but i dont like how they are trying to brainwash our children. BTW I LOVVVVE Blair!❤ I absolutely love her, hear personality, she's funny, smart, and trying to stop all this chaos. Best wishes to you, Blair! ❤ and much love to all her fans and everyone who is struggling rn❤
I was a Democrat for most of my 65 years, until March of this year, when Michael Shellenberger released the WPATH files exposé. I started supporting RFK Jr., and now I'm going to be voting for Trump! I guess I'm in the "most hated" club now, along with you!
Thank you so much for posting the tour. I wanted to go very much but I’m still getting over a respiratory infection. All of the beautiful souls there sharing their opinions and love for what you do, is awe inspiring. You go girl! ❤
I know I can't be the only one who just thought trousers were more comfortable or just hated to be told "you can't do this bc you're a girl." but that doesn't mean I wanna be a boy, gosh.
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The 1st thing is parents RAISE their kids - NOT SCHOOLS - NOT THE GOV'T. Don't let them strip YOUR RIGHTS away...
I'm glad that you are working with GROUND news, because they provide balance news, unlike MSM! Thank you as always, Blaire. Keep up the fantastic work! 💟
Who's the co anchor insuring the news isn't one sided? Is it Alex Jones? 😂
@@ldw3366I'd love to know what TH-cam channel or channel's would you recommend?
@@ldw3366 I see that it's the one she recommends. Is that the only one you were find after the long time you spent searching?
My son (16) was asked if he was "questioning his identity" by his school counsellor. He told her "No, I'm not". She then started hounding him about it for the next few days. When he refused to give her the answer she wanted, she called me about it.
I asked her why she thought that, and was shocked by her reply - " Well, he does have long hair, so I'm concerned he's not being honest with himself".
My son has a mullet! And so do ALL my son's, who are EXTREMELY masculine! I complained to the school about her. She lost her job not long after, and is now crying "Discrimination"! 🤦🏼
I'm glad someone who IS trans like yourself can see just how ridiculous this has become, and I love your honesty in regards to this. Thanks Blair! 😘🇭🇲
Omg that’s so scary! You are a great parent and he is a strong willed kid!
Thank god. she is a real monster. all parents should protect kids from those kind of predators 😡
A mullet is a crazy haircut. Weird that all your sons have it. A more appropriate haircut is in order.
Glad she got fired
@@Ariana-wv4pf Define appropriate haircut bc it's up for everyone to decide😊
I'm happy to hear that everything turned out well Samantha! But that's insane!
But imagine how busy School councellors would have been trying to convince young healthy men that they're are female if this scenario took place in end of 70's but otherwise 80's and 90's😂 It was after all extremely popular primarily due to bands, whom also had long hair - men & woman🤣
It is crazy how many older gay people are fed up with the whole Alphabet movement.
I'm also a young gay man and I hate these demented people
Im a younger gay person and this alphabet soup stuff is stupid
@@Retardmumkey FR
@@Retardmumkey Advocate to the young people to throw away the label and just be normal. If they want LGBT to be normal that's what has to happen
Every older gay person I know no longer has "pride" but embarrassment over what our community has become.
45 yr. old, Bi female who is NOT a girly girl. When I was growing up we were called Tom Boys, if I grew up today they would have told me I was trans. I am NOT trans, I'm just a woman who happens to like traditional male things. My heart breaks for children today.
I was effeminate as a child and still am in some ways, I suppose. I'm just a gay man.
I don't know how we went from progressive views on gender and then after the 2010s we somehow reverted back to this over-simplified, rigid idea of what it means to be a man or a woman.
It can't be led by science because any critical thinking tears it apart. It's greed and ego, like they said in the video.
It’s never too late for a real transition 😊
@@robertfrancois6064How about you transition from moronism into intellectualism? It's not too late.
That's creepy @@robertfrancois6064
@@katarzvnayou ate them up
It took my therapist a long time to properly diagnose me. I'm very grateful for that. Symptoms can overlap. As Arielle said, they're throwing a blanket over the real issues....
I (born in the 70ies) was always a girl who felt like a girl and liked doing male stuff and wearing male cloth. No gender disphoria, no autism, no nothing. Just a dad who told his little girl she can do an wear what she wants and that she will find friends who will like her that way and find a partner (either male or female) who loves her for exactly that. And so it was. Funnily i never felt wrong or special - just like me. THAT is what kids needs. And if a transition is needed, a transition will happen - but not the panic/euphoria that is happening right now with the trans topic.
I was also an autistic kid who didn’t want to be a girl because I liked pants. I’m SO glad my mom knew it was just a phase
Yes. Matt Walsh also says, ask the kids WHY they want to transition. It’s often a silly reason like that.
My mom didn't push me on being girly and it turned out I had a lot of phases. My mom has played video games since before I was born. My dad doesn't have the patience for it. They had 3 girls and we all play video games! My dad prefers to watch. He doesn't even like sports. He liked old movies and working outside.
My daughter loved trucks. She loved bob the builder. Never asked for dolls, once she chose how to dress she didn’t choose super girly things. My daughter is autistic. I am so thankful this was before gender ideology became popular. I’m absolutely sick about how many people with autism are getting unnecessarily harmed.
Pants!? What is this, the 1950s
When I was 4-5 years old, there was a time when I bought this ultimately very "girly" Lego set, merely because I was so fascinated by all the pink and colourful bricks in it. Also had my Mom sew me an all pink suit after my childhood idol - who for the record is a man - wore it in style. Something tells me had that been today in the worst parts of California, my thing would have been chopped off and couldn't have been done too quickly 🤣
I hope blaire uploads videos of her tour since a lot of us couldn't attend.
Yes! She unfortunately was coming nowhere near my state, I'd love to get the Blaire White experience!
Im in Australia. Do you think she will come 🤞🏻 Tucker was very popular. We love conservatives here.
same! i live in new zealand so theres like no possibility of me even considering going without spending a fortune 😭
I’m the one standing against the white wall with the blonde hair lol
Hope so too! I’m in Alberta Canada so I couldn’t attend either.
I work at an insurance company and I started looking for another job after finding out a man with cancer can’t get his testosterone approved because it doesn’t meet the guidelines, but gender dysphoria was an approved diagnosis
This comment right here. Men can’t get testosterone and women can’t get hormone shots for real medical issues because of guidelines and “ethics” yet they have no problem giving them to children.
Honestly, that is so horrific. I really hope people start exposing these companies and how disgusting it really is.
That's appalling.
Absolutely disgusting
Yikes. And there you have it. Obviously this is just a comment with no proof but I don’t doubt it. I know some friends, sick friends, that can’t get certain health coverage but T get everything at a snap of a finger.
YESSSSS PLEASE start your own "jubilee-esque" thing
We need HONESTY in our debates. I believe you would be the perfect person to platform debaters who are well intended and want to find TREU middle ground
My psychiatrist tried telling me I was trans and wanted to be male when I first got my period and was already uncomfortable with my boobs growing in, I said I didn’t want to deal with the process of becoming a woman. I wanted to remove my uterus just to stop periods and never have to deal with them. I didn’t want to become a male but my psychiatrist kept telling me no you want to be a boy you’re trans. Mom got me out of there. I eventually got used to my boobs and period even though I still hate my period I don’t regret being what I am born as, a female.
Every kid who goes thru puberty hate it I see why women become men I do not get why a man would want to be a women in a man world
Years ago, I never had a problem with gay, trans etc... You do you. In the recent years I got so sick of it all because, as a woman for the last 60 yrs, I was offended with bearded men wearing dresses wanting to be accepted as women. Women being belittled and mocked by these men. Seeing men try to breastfeed, oufff. But, you Blaire White are the perfect example of a real and true trans woman. I do have respect for you and I do watch your channel. You have respect for others and you are out there trying to help. Keep it going! xxxooo
💯💯💯💯💯💯
"Why do we have to try to look like a woman, we are women" No, you're not. If you want to transition, you need to TRANSITION. If you can't put in the work to get where you want to be, you don't deserve to be where you are.
I 100% agree with you.
You dont hate gays or trans, you hate the people who are part of that cult. It includes also straight people and a lot of them are straight girls. Even me as a gay man i cant stand them anymore, and ive been surrounded by the community for the most part of my life and let me tell you that TODAY its 100% a cult, and not a cute one. They are anarchists who want to destroy every concept known to mankind and reshape it as they please. Weaponizing empathy at every occasion they have. They best we can do is to ignore them or to not show weakness when they confront us
@@slightlydapperdwarf49I agree! I do think personally that even if you fully transition you are still a trans woman, but I will happily call people like Blaire she, it feels like the only logical option, but I will not do the same for these bearded boys in dresses who say that words alone are enough to make them safe around us. Blaire can use my bathroom space anytime ❤ but a full on man in a dress will make me feel unsafe because I don’t want masculine energy in my safe and private feminine space.
the real problem is you can't escape the cognitive dissonance and the whining that lgbstd ppl don't have same rights as everyone.
To be pretty, smart asf, righteous, and witty is a fcking QUADRUPLE threat. Love u Blaire!💕
Hahahahaha
Blaire is pretty inside and out ❤
It's called surgery
@@XEzomoX well… I guess in this case, the outside DOES INDEED match the inside right? What you see is 99% of what you get
@officialchrizzz8766 yea, because he got surgery. Also, it doesn't match. He still has a male sex organ
Bi female 46 who just found out I'm High functioning Autistic.. the sensory issue comment hit hard. That scratchy shit under girls dresses should be considered a form of torture.
Take this as you will, but there sounds like an opportunity for you to make, test, supply sensory appealing clothes.
I was a kid in the 50s and 60s. Those cotton girls dresses had scratchy netting under them to make the skirts stand out fuller. Awful!
I tearfully refused to wear some of my dresses and tried to argue. Surprisingly, one day, my mother got scissors out and cut out all the scratchy netting. Problem solved.
@seraphimknight3754 crazy coincidence, I wish I was better with sewing and patterns. I just thought about this a couple weeks ago. I'm too old to still have a total melt down over a seem in my socks.
Same here with the first girl and her sensory issues. It wasn't always a problem with dresses, it was fabrics, seams, certain styles/fit of clothing. Also had major problems with loud noises and any unexpected changes to our plans.
I know I made my mom's life really difficult at times. But fortunately she listened when I kept saying that certain shirts were painful to wear and she let me pick out things that didn't hurt.
Why would you wear something that scratches or makes you itch
Attending your show was incredibly moving! I can’t help but admire the strength and courage it took to share your story. As someone diagnosed with autism (Asperger's) at age 4, your journey hit home for me on a personal level. Hearing such raw and different perspectives like yours is powerful, and your openness made me reflect deeply on my own experiences. Your honesty and vulnerability are beyond inspiring!
When it comes to Blaire, I give her a pass on discussing autism because she always does her homework. She digs deep into the issues and delivers with so much authenticity and relatability. Her commitment to truly understanding the complexities makes her perspective feel so real and grounded.
Mental illness doesn’t mean you’re a danger or need to be institutionalized. I think that’s a really negative stigma the one woman was bringing to the table and Blaire and Buck responded so well.
Yeah, I know she meant well but telling someone who has a mental illness “you’re not mentally ill” as a way to make them feel better is not the way to go and is actually like you said, stigmatizing it. You wouldn’t tell someone with cancer that they don’t have an illness. Clearly if someone thinks they should be another sex, it’s not normal and requires therapy or treatment.
Doesn't inherently mean*
That guy who stood up just to encourage Blaire to never give up and to praise her efforts was totally awesome and to remind her we've got her back. We do not have enough of those people in today's world who openly praise the fight for Truth. That was very cool of him.
The fight for truth? The truth is that Blair White is a man who went through a ton of plastic surgery to look like a woman. He may be an effeminate gay, it he will NEVER be a woman. That’s the hard truth that dishonest and delusional people can’t grasp. The truth.
Blaire is a man who believes in the idea of "true trans."
I was told i looked like a boy A LOT when I was little so when the trend of non binary and transitioning came out around when I was in middle school, I said I was a boy and then non binary because I was so confused on my own. I figured “if I look like a Boy, maybe i should be a boy then” very very sad. I’m happy a lot of people validated my femininity and talked me out of any HUGE life altering decisions❤
That is funny because that is exactly why Blaire transitioned.
He is a gay man. The only reason he transitioned is to increase his dating pool. That is also why he is a "conservative" he likes very masculine macho men and conservatives are more likely to be like that.
It was never "the dress" it was how I was expected to act in the dress. Act like a lady even tho you're only 2-10. Sit and be an object instead of playing, getting dirty, and just being a child.
But that first lady does resonate with me so much. If I were a kid now this would be so confusing.
Edit: Jesus Christ y'all take things super serious. I didn't have a dress super glued to me. But I was forced to wear one often. Think, church, Easter. Family reunions. And any adult functions.
Yes! (That’s me) that’s why I briefly mentioned the societal things expected of the genders as well!
@@aspotlessmind004 from one "tomboy" to another 💛 glad we made it
@@happi0420yes!!!🥹🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻
Same 😂 as a child I hated dresses and the upkeep for long curly hair. They would of snatched my spectrum ass so fast.
Exactly. Also being yelled at when you just want to be a kid
I think the people who think that "If you like girl things then you must be a girl" or vice versa are sexist. Just because you are a girl who likes sports does not mean you are a boy and just because a boy may want to play with a doll, does not mean he is a girl.
Amen!
YES! And also: "omg is your son gay because he likes dolls?" - jesus christ IT'S TOYS ffs.
Agree. But we need to stop lying to ourselves and society about sexuality and gender presentation being separate things. That’s a queer theory lie. Sex is real, but “gender” is connected to sexuality. That is why majority (not all) of homosexual males are feminine no matter how they try to mask it. And lesbians tend to be masculine. Once again not all of them. Some in the west deny this but being penetrated makes someone no longer a “man” in most cultures for all of time. Be careful not to mix up a stereotype and actual sexism. If someone says “make up is a girly thing” they are just being realistic because the majority of people who enjoy make up are women. There will always be outliers, but most are female and it’s not sexist to notice this. No one complains if you say “most women are intelligent!” Or any other positive. No one calls that sexist lol!
Like I said. Gender is how we present out sexuality to the world. Heterosexual men are masculine because this in turn will attract feminine women. And trans men who like women are doing the same. Females are typically feminine, which attracts masculine, and TS women like Blaire are the same. She has a feminine sexuality which is the basis for how she presents. It’s a biologically ingrained mating strategy to find partners. All this “social construct” bs is a lie from Leftwing universities and sexist 2nd and 3rd wave feminists.
The first feminists from the suffragette era consisted of mostly heterosexual feminine women who loved their masculine husbands and just wanted to vote. The feminist and gay movement both deny basic biological realities. Sadly gender ideology has parroted many of their social constructionism ideas. Boys can like Barbie and it doesn’t mean they are a girl, but it often means they are NOT like many other boys, and noticing that is okay. We shouldn’t be pushing boys or girls to transition based on silly things or likes and dislikes. It should be reserved for a small group of adults who’s lives would actually improve post transition, who are willing to make an effort to assimilate into society.
To realize you’d been lied to and allowed to irreparably harm your own body is something I cannot imagine. How devastating… and then to have the “community” turn on you for trying to course correct is absolutely appalling! 😢
Have a friend who knows someone with autism that's trans. They really despise the way they look. It's definitely a sensory issue. The crazy thing is, they're in a relationship with someone who is gay. Now, his friend who is trans does NOT believe in letting children change their sex and believes they're not mentally able to decide at such a young age, but their boyfriend, does and they're constantly at heads with the issue. It's wild seeing actual trans people fighting against child abuse while their counterparts are cheering it on.
It’s genuinely insane. I have plenty of trans/queer friends who advocate for not allowing children to transition for so many reasons, but I ALSO have plenty of straight, non-trans friends who believe that kids should be allowed to medically transition… it’s absurd.
@@thespadeexperience the straight people don't understand what that experience is like
@@thespadeexperience It’s 100% virtue signaling and wanting to seem and feel morally superior to others.
Having a hard time figuring out if you are trolling because all the insane ish that you just spewed is probable from some bat ish crazy lefty loon.
“Trans” has lost all meaning at this point. Now suddenly drag queens and cross dressers are saying they are “trans” too. Used to be just medical transsexuals.
Blaire and Ariella? What a treat!!!
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Blairiella!
with that second question ," why do you think Doctors lean into this" there's also another element here. it's socially safe. there's not likely going to be much backlash for a doctor. prescribing a treatment to transition someone over denying that transition. they're more likely to get problems if they attempt to deny it
Very true
And the ones that really don't want to usually just punt them to a gender specialist so they don't have to take responsibility. They're just like that's out of my expertise.
That last guy. I hope he finds a true friend. Losing all your friends, realizing they were never really your friends... That's not easy.
When my daughter was 12 she declared she was non-binary. I supported her and allowed her to adopt an image to go along with it. She cut her hair and wanted specific clothes. And I was fine with it. Now she is 16 and is proud to be a girl. She was going thru something and it was at the same time she hit puberty. I allowed her to figure out who she really is. That is was is needed with parents. Don't do anything permanent. I would never mutilate my child. Love your kids enough to give them time. I really respect what Blaire stands for. She is so amazing to me.
‘Supporting’ this bull$hit is the problem.
@@mrlawilliamsukwarmachine4904exactly, at fucking 12 is INSANE
@@mrlawilliamsukwarmachine4904 honestly, the more you pushback against this sort of exploration, the more the child develops this weird persecution complex. its best to let it just harmlessly run its course. otherwise you can introduce complex trauma such as the child doing it out of spite etc.
@@mrlawilliamsukwarmachine4904nice rage bait
@@innocehnt75 it depends if you’re talking about ‘pushback’ in terms of at home or in society.
Most kids growing up, at some point feel uncomfortable in their bodies. Especially while the body changes during puberty.
I remember that now nearly 2 years ago at the age of 12-13 I was crying because I had breasts and periods. It just made me uncomfortable that I was starting to become too "woman".
Obviously I managed to get over it especially after knowing that its not necessary to wear a bra (I hate that shit to this day) and also found a safe space on reddit that is filled with people similar to me. (r/GNCStraight)
"Most kids growing (...) in their bodies."
Most? Not all?
@@drooskie9525 I dunno dude. _Never_ getting accustomed to your body? And the whole experience being a traumatic event that you just had to learn to live with? That's...not _really_ the general human experience; severe health problems aside, most people's brains aren't made to suffer in their bodies. I hate to say it, but you _may_ be the kind of person, those unlucky few, that needs to ask themselves some very...uncomfortable questions. But regardless of the outcome, never let anybody push you to be anything _but_ yourself.
@@HansLemurson Nah its more like the changes and coming to terms with your body. insecurities and all that such stuff. especially when you feel you dont measure up to the ideal, because lol genetics. life sucks
it takes a while to "settle" into it and be like "okay, im me, this is hand i was dealt with". for women its pretty rough due to a couple extra factors...
@@drooskie9525 Good to hear. I'm glad you're navigating your rough waters.
This is terrifying. All the love to the detransitioners that expose this rhetoric.
It's so sad how they're aggressively shunned from the "community" when they detransition or don't transition the way "they" want people to, that was what opened my eyes to who/what I thought I was supporting at one time. Once LGBT added all the extras to their cause, ish hit the fan and became some else all together. I love what Blair has done to call out the borderline cult like craziness because it needs to be talked about more.
My daughter has said she wants to be a boy. When i asked why, she said it was because only boys can play minecraft and wear boys clothes. I told her that girls can absolutely wear boys clothes and play minecraft. It was obvious to me that she went to school and some other kid told her what she could and couldn't do.
She will continue to be told this, and because she is young it can easily influence or discourage her. Even at my age as a tomboy I get concerned folks who tell me I shouldn’t do this or that. Hence why many of today’s tomboys feel pressured to transition.
I like how she owns her mental illness. I, for example, have depression. I am mentally ill. If someone was to tell me that being depressed was normal and that I shouldn't feel bad I would tell them I don't feel bad, but I am not normal. And that's okay.
VIP admission to this tour was the best present I could have given myself this year 🙏🏻😌 Blaire is just as outstanding IRL as her online presence.
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Ty for shining your light and helping these people
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How's she helping anyone? Lol
One side calls it transgender, i call it roleplaying. A child roleplaying to get a better understanding of the world. Once they get a basic understanding of men and women, then they build on the learning on being what their sex is.
Gender dysphoria is a real issue that real trans people experience and struggle with. It's not as simple as roleplay, which a lot of today's alleged trans youth appear to display, and hence the detransitioner phenomena. there's so much misrepresentation of real trans people by the current alphabet movement.
Literally I was a confuse middle school kid who thought I was a boy. Eventually came to the conclusion that I wasn’t a boy because I like pink and make up. weird I know but it worked. I feel like if I was a kid right now that wouldn’t have happened.
That’s just false considering you’re literally seeing Blaire who did not accept ‘that basic understanding of her sex’
Only a small number of kids are actually experiencing gender dysphoria @HigumaHoney
@@TariqNavabiGamingi dont think they meant real trans people but literal children being labelled as trans without understanding what gender really is and once they grow up a bit and understand themselves better then they can make those decisions on their own
It concerns me that young women are especially vulnerable to being mistakenly directed into the trans catagory, given that autism is harder to detect in women.
100%
You and Buck are just wonderful to listen to. You both suit each other well. Please upload more of your tour ❤️❤️
Also I want to share that despite being an internet punching bag, in real life I only ever meet people who love you and your content Blaire. Even people who aren't online, you are truly a real one and there's so much appreciation out here for you!
The youth don’t understand how us older people can all be different but still support each other.
They have this, with me or against me mentality.
It’s so true. I’m only 25 and I see it within my peers. I’ve lost friends for simply expressing a different opinion. Makes me not want to try making new friends because I feel like I can never be myself with most of my peers. They’re so obsessed with identity politics and being “right”
@@beckee6282 I get that.
I keep my circle small.
That will get easier as you get older.
By the time you’re 35-40 you won’t care at all.
Totally. I'm sliding towards 50 and the 90s/2000 were about acceptance of everyone, obviously not everyone was on that bandwagon but you could easily surround yourself with enough good people. It was about celebrating individuality and being proud to be different, not get offended and abusive at the "others".
@@beckee6282Well, let’s see if you and I can be friends. I support Donald Trump. I lost friends for saying this. The friends that I lost have known me since childhood. (Not that it should matter, but I grew up in the sticks and now I’m living a successful life in the South of France.). They insulted my intelligence, although I won’t do the same. My friends are not stupid people. But, they suddenly think that I am because I support Donald Trump. Somehow, embracing peace and prosperity is a dumb thing to do.
That first lady in the glasses, that is 100% MY experience as well. My favorite toy when I was a toddler were a school bus and a cement truck. I actually had a very pretty dress my mom got me for Easter when I was 8 that I loved the color of, but I could not wear it because it was soooooo uncomfortable., and I was the girl who wandered off to play by myself and played with worms and tried to build rock forts in my back yard. In today's world, everyone would be saying "oh she's trans!" and I know my mother, an attention-seeker, would have put me on puberty blockers and raised me as a boy. AND at 41, I have a late diagnosis for autism. We all know how easy it is to misdiagnose autistic people with the "trans" label.
It is not easy to make a mistake like that. These 'mistakes' were intentional. It's why this kind of thing never happened before.
@@VariantAEC Oh I know. That was my point by saying if I was a kid in today's I would have been labeled as "trans".
When i was 5, my favorite things were car toys and lipstick. They would've cut me in half??
@@ohcomeongetoutofhere In a sense. They would have tried to convince you that you were non-binary and urged you to take puberty blockers at the least.
Also there's still unwarranted stigma around autism it's not "cool" to have an autistic kid but super "cool" to have a trans kid. 😢
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I’ve been subscribed since 2017. Seeing Blaire doing an in-person event like this makes me deeply proud to the point of getting emotional. I’m touched by the love and support that people are showing her and I hope this tour is really refreshing to her soul 💖
I thought I was a trans male from the ages 12-14 ish, but I was just active in the wrong part of the internet and being convinced that I was a male. I remember my parents being so confused about where it was coming from. I'm almost 30 now and happily a (very girly) woman.
Wow, that's crazy to think the internet did that to you so many years ago, and it's only gotten worse!
Same thing happened to me but it was for like 7 yesrs, it was pushed so much by my family, doctors, and just people online that I felt so pressured to be seen as a boy but I never once told anyone to call me he, son, or brother but they do and I'm so uncomfortable but I'm so scared to tell them to stop and I just don't want to have to explain my existence to them, I wish they would just stop, I'm not a fucking boy, I'm just a lesbian! Sorry for the rant but it sucks
Same experience! So scary and sad
This happened to so many of my friends. It really was (and probably still is) such a common and encouraged path for insecure, young teenage girls in certain internet circles and fandoms. Such a strange and destructive social contagion.
@@method_squirtle the lesbian erasure is real
Borderline PD is wild. For me it felt like living in a film set, had to change my personality to fit in with whatever scene was playing. I'm under a management plan now but I absolutely could have been convinced that I was xyz because my lack of identity would cling to anything. Love to all dealing with any and all mental health conditions ❤
everyone loves talking abt the importance of mental health awareness until it starts contradicting their agenda. the second story hit really close to home. it’s crazy how easy it is to misdiagnose someone with bpd and a developing ed (often comorbid with bpd) and just say that they’re trans. that’s what happened to me and living as a trans guy for years since i was 16 just made me develop an ed faster and ruined my mental health further. 27 now and still struggling with body dysmorphia and going back to therapy every time i start thinking i “actually might be trans” (i know i’m not, it just means i’m getting unstable again) over and over again
😢 I hope you get a better relationship with your identity. I totally understand, is like you gaslight yourself 😅. My family convinced me into thinking I had BPD or something like that, while the truth is I have ADHD. Funny thing is I have a few traits of BPD, specifically self-image issues. I wish you all the best❤
_”everyone loves talking abt the importance of mental health awareness until it starts contradicting their agenda.”_ I completely agree because this exact thing happened to me, too. I’m autistic and have some remnants of childhood adhd leftover, but people accuse me of having narcissistic personality disorder. Sometimes I have to remind myself that I’m not the bad guy either no matter how much people try to make it seem like I am. I hope you can get to a point where you have to reel yourself back in from the false claim that you were trans less and less, as well. Just remember… _”I actually think I might be trans”_ is not your instability, it’s their misdiagnosis.
More people ARE NOT speaking out against the trans movement because of consequences from the public. People have lost their jobs, friends, and family bonds over it. So when detransitioners come out and ask why didn't anyone say anything to them, this is why more people don't. Blaire has the PASSION, INTELLIGENCE, COURAGE, and NERVE and that's why she speaks out for the well being of the public ❤
I support Detransitioners. Thank you Blaire.
I had a friend who I grew up with who identified as female from birth to 17y/o. She is autistic and you could almost immediately tell. So I wasn't surprised to hear that she medically transitioned which was weirdly okayed by her physician and eventually went on to date another autistic trans person she met during treatment. This is ridiculous.
I’ve noticed a pattern of girls with anorexia/bulimia/body issues wanting to transition and then backing out or unfortunately going through with it. Body dysmorphia can be misinterpreted as gender dysphoria.
I am 2 minutes in…. I hated dresses as a little girl because I liked to be able to run around and climb trees and do things that ALL KIDS DO… dresses made me feel like I couldn’t climb a tree comfortably….
I am so happy I grew up in the late 90’s / early 2000’s because today I would have been labeled something else.
I am very much a woman. I love makeup and hair and nails and living in my feminine. But I also don’t wear dresses unless it’s a special occasion and I still hate it when I have one on lol. Just feels like it’s not me.
Thank you!! Love Tranpa
I have two daughters an 11 year old and a six year old
My six year old for the last 4 years has completely resented any idea of dressed , pink, foo foo girly things …
This year she has embraced dresses and make up and hair accessories… for the longest time I said oh man she’s a Tom boy and the last two months she’s done a total 180 it just goes to show that children don’t know what they want they’re discovering so much through out their adolescence and it’s important as a parent to not push anything on the cause with the snap of a finger they could change their mind
Omg. This is making me tear up. Your fans are so amazing just like you. It’s nice to not feel alone. Their are still people with a moral compass out there ❤️
I grew up as a tomboy in the 90s and we just wore old jeans, leggings, trainers T-shirts and my family prioritised walking and camping and just being. Me and my brother dressed practically the same in clothes that were suitable for the activity (and ugly old stuff 😅) and I learnt that boys and girls could both love and thrive outside. I know teach girls clubs outdoors skills and camping
I got chills in the end when you said God is real. God bless you, Blaire.
I thought I was a boy when I was 6. I didn’t have the vocabulary to say I saw myself as not looking feminine. But it got bad, I started wishing I had a penis. That lasted a year and I’m so happy nothing happened. My mom is progressive and on the left but she wouldn’t let me lean into it. Now I’m a very happy woman. I love love living as a woman. It makes me so sad how many detransitioners there are whose life’s are forever changed for the worst.
Well yeah kids can wish whatever they want, if they want to be whatever, I think parents should let them explore that and affirm their identity, but make it clear they can't change their body and if it's something that disappears, it usually does so by the time of puberty. If it continues for years and years (and 10 years is a long time in childhood to insist you identify as something), then it warrants further exploration. That's the sensible path that actually happens for most kids who go on to be trans. All the detransitioner stuff going on these days are exceptions to the norm but the internet amplifies them and make them seem more common than they are, that's what we have to remember. And they deserve to have their stories told, but I'm firmly against their stories being weaponized to say we should ban gender affirming care for ALL kids because it does a disservice to those who actually benefit from it, while also cheapening the detransitioners' stories as political ammo. Trans and detrans people deserve to speak without their personal narratives getting twisted.
Fun fact, penis envy is actually part of child development and psychology, because toddler girls think boys get to have something they don’t have. My psych professor told us when her daughter was about three or four, she said, “I wish I had wings as well as arms, and I wish I had a penis as well as a vagina.” 😂
I was there. This was a great, heartfelt show. Thanks blaire for providing such a safe space for us. And signing my poster with cream bronzer 😂❤
Heterosexual man here. Thank you, Blair, for exposing the heinous actions of modern liberals.
Agreed! All we want is to be happy with who we love 😢
Transman (28 years in) and I agree. Kids should be kids. Adults have reasoning abilities
@@Tylahhwell that would be SEXUALITY. Transgender is identity or did I miss understand you
@@TylahhI’m heterosexual shiiitt 🐱 😂
****Leftists.* There’s nothing liberal about people that are the antithesis of liberal. “Modern up” is not the downwards direction. Up is up, down is down, liberty is good, and leftists are our opposites. Stop conflating opposites.
Oh my god! That first lady! I just want to hug her! (I'm an autistic female, I don't look, sound or dress 100 per cent that way, and I've always struggled to understand what the whole being female thing is all about- and I've even had little shit kids stop dead in their tracks, in the street, to look at me and ask "are you a girl, or a boy?") ...that's all :) I just really wanted to express that here, in a safe space ;)
@livviebrundle I've found tons of people don't understand the experience of looking naturally androgynous. There's lots of folks who try to make themselves *intentionally* androgynous (such as a girl getting a "boy" haircut etc). But it's a whole entire thing to get the "are you a girl or a boy?" quiz when you're just walking around being obliviously yourself. I've struggled myself to explain it to people.
Hi I’m that first girl that talked about being autistic thank you sooo much 🥹💞
@@aspotlessmind004 aww, you're welcome, sweet 1 :D :hugsyoutight: thank you for sharing your experience xx
@@livviebrundlethank you so much! It took a lot to get up there! I only have publicly made it known I’m autistic a year or so ago now🥰
Kid, YT comments are the least safe space. 😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you so much Blaire White, it was so hard for me to grow out of the mindset that I was fed into while being young. Through teachers and even other children. I grew up Christian and I am still Christian and I always was being told from radical leftists that I was part of a hateful group.
I was so lonely in COVID that I came out as non-binary to just join the crowd, but I never really understood it. And yes, I never felt right in my own skin, but I didn't have gender dysphoria, I had body dysphoria and being able to work on my weight and body I feel more comfortable. Sensory issues was a big deal for me and since I was sheltered it was very hard to grow out of that mindset.
But by listening to your videos, it has helped me to grow out of that toxic mindset. Thank you so much. You really saved me. I am no longer Non-binary, honestly for me it was just making me more depressed but now I am living a good life. Thank you.
I’m happy to hear you feel better!
These are such important stories to hear and share. Thank you to all of those who have shared it, despite how personal and possibly embarrassing it may be, its important we hear detransitioners.
The people who push things like "gender affirming care" try to assert that its so super duper rare and practically non existent, and that the channels you have to go through like doctors and psychologists to gain access to blockers/HRT/ surgery is so fool-proof and tightly sealed. Such a long a painstaking process to verify that you're a proper candidate. Then you hear stories like the second girl shared "i walked in to the gender clinic. I was asked how long I've identified as trans, and they did my bloodwork, i got my prescription". Sounds on-par with getting a medical card for weed lol.
To hear people just come out and share "I was that kid that went down that road at a young age, im older now,and I regret it. No one stopped me from getting it" is so unbelievably valuable to the conversation. Thank you all for sharing.
I use to be trans and I just wanted to say thank you for this. I hated being pushed into a bubble as a kid were I couldn't be a masculine girl. I decided to be a male because of how freeing it was because what i did then became normal. Now I've met my lovely boyfriend who loves the way I am and I was finally able to detransition.
If anyone reads this just know theres more than one way to be a girl or boy. If you have kids let them be who they want to be. If your son likes dolls let him if your daughter likes trucks then let her be. Forcing your kids to be something they know they arent will lead them to hate themselves. Accept them how they are before they think enjecting hormors is the only way
It was an absolute honor and privilege to see you and speak to you at your show, Blaire 💙 God's beloved Daughter, God's beloved son. *hugs* I sincerely hope we meet again
Omgosh I loved to hear Blaire say God bless you😭 Amen!!!
Thank you for posting this, please post more!
It's absolutely wild cause here in the UK when I first went to the gender clinic I got a LOT of questions and it was multiple appointments and assessments before they were happy to diagnose me and put me on T. To me at the time it seemed like i was being grilled for no reason but obviously after the fact i realised why all those checks and balances were put in place and they 100% are a must to stop shit like this happening. I remember about a year after I started transitioning a friend of mine decided they were also a transman and when they went to the clinic they were like nah sorry youre not trans its xyz disorder and is completely unlinked. This was all a decade ago so I have no idea what it's like now but I imagine much the same, in Scotland anyway.
In Australia and someone I know who currently identifies as a trans woman didnt even get questions. She went to a doctor, said she was trans, and left 15 minutes later with hormones
thanks for posting this for those us who can’t attend.
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society"
-J. Krishnamurti
I just love this!! Open, honest conversations! Sooooo refreshing 😌 Blaire is so smart and awesome! ❤
I was the only girl in 10 years in my family...everyone else, including my brother, was a boy. I was VERY much a tomboy. I was the dirties kid playing in mud. I HATED dressed. I hated my hair long and loose. I hated barbies, I hated very generic girl things. I played Doom with my brother and dad, cops and robbers, rugby, judo, got into fights. By all accounts in modern day I would have been dubbed as trans.
I'm just a bit of a tomboy who likes the rougher things.
I hate that kids can't be kids without being shoved into labels and categories. Kids are meant to be discovering life, the world, and themselves, without having to subject themselve to life altering decisions.
The words "life altering decisions"... you're right on the mark 💯💯💯💯💯
That's good for Blaire White Buck angel and Ariella scarcella for listening to all these people ongoing issues
I can totally get where that very first girl is coming from. I hated dresses and skirts. My mom never forced me to be girly and my dad was fine with me being a tomboy (he only had daughters). I am definitely on the spectrum, but didn't really know until my 30s
I was a tomboy from the earliest memories but I was raised in a house full of military men and I'm still a tomboy at age 64 but love dressing up in heels and being a girl! But thank God those men I grew up with taught me to take care of myself!
I sympathise from another direction - I am fat. I _only_ wear trousers because qI can suffer thigh chaff. I had weight issue even in my pre-teen to teen years, so what could happen to a chubby kid now who wants to wear only trousers because of weight? Will pro-trans adults pay less attention to weight (or be "Body Positive") and be all "You're a boy!" at them.
"When you get hate you know you're doing something right." I remember this gentleman when I came to your tour. Very smart gentleman and so true! 💯💯💯
Remember the question on jubilee about what Blair did for her community.... This is the answer and it's only a portion of the people she helped because some of her fans aren't in the US.
Absolutely! I'm not from the US and I have been following her for years!
My daughter always fought with me about her school uniform. She hated the skirts. Finally I asked her why, and she said "They flap around my legs and it feels weird." She didn't get her ASD diagnosis until she was 18.
I talk to my children openly about homosexuality, transexuality and all the important things. We’ve been talking sex, periods, sexuality, gender from a young age. I feel like my children are prepared. We also live in a conservative part of California. Thank god.
There's a conservative part of California??
@@Ennaitakbelieve it or not yes. Maybe not as conservative as some other parts of the country, but is mountain folk love guns and god. Blair is from CA!
@@keashablew7728 I've known quite a few conservatives from CA, including currently one of my sisters and her husband. They all say the same thing. It's the folks in SoCal who are a bag of fruits and nuts. LOL
I have always been this way with my kids! My twins are 16 male and female. My female has always been a tomboy and my male always feminine. They have homeschooled since 6th grade because things in my county were out of hand. My female is still tomboy but loves her nails done and wants to be a mom, my sweet boy finally came out gay about a year ago. (My momma heart always knew). Openess, conversation, and understanding are 100% a must as a parent in today's world to keep from the confusion around. My son recently thanked me for sitting and talking him through the time he thought he was "trans" and not allowing Dr intervention before having long heartfelt conversations and not attacking him.
@keashablew7728 I know Blaire is from CA, but to my understanding, she was from a more liberal part and that a conservative Californian is like finding a unicorn lol
I remember wanting to be a boy cuz my older bro (just 1 yr older) got to be comfy at parties and run around. I had to wear a dress and "don't rip your stockings, don't dirty your dress, don't bend down and show your panties, be careful!" The moment i was allowed to pick my own clothes at 10, it was nothing but flare jeans, tshirts, sneakers.
He was allowed to sleep over at friends, got his own set of keys at 9, was put in charge of me when out.
He was ONLY 1 yr older.
I didn't get my first set of keys till hs.
All because he was a boy
These are fantastic clips. As a Muslim man, I thank you for bringing sense to what's been happening. I was actually one of those people who supported the Rainbow people in everything, the right to their pronouns or their parade, even though I knew things were happening there that were very inappropriate for the public to see. Listening to all of your videos while I work for many months, everything finally made sense to me.
It's seems you're a very impressionable person. First the alphabet cult, then islam.
The first lady’s comment hit hard with me. I also despised dresses, makeup, and stereotypically “feminine” clothing as a child because of my autism and sensory issues. As I grew up, I learned to love and enjoy getting dolled up every once in a while. I still don’t like form-fitting pants and shirts (take leggings or athletic wear like that, for example) but I do enjoy dressing up now, as long as I’m the one deciding what to wear and when. If I want to wear a tailored suit or a dress, it’s completely my choice.
It also wasn’t always the clothes that bothered me… it was how people expected me to act while wearing them.
Awww Blair!!! So sweet to see your intelligent supporters sharing ❤❤❤❤❤ we are with you!!!!
It's a great insight because a lot of times kids just say that because they just want to wear pants because they're more comfortable. They want to be comfortable. It's not because they really think they're a boy. They don't understand.
We love you Blaire ❤ Me and my Jewish friends and family love you ❤ Since Oct 7th I lost 90% of my friends, even my cousin because my Jewishness was suddenly an inconvenience. The woke left has kicked me out, and it forced me on a journey of spiritual awakening: exploring politics deeper. Your content helped me a lot in defending myself and making sense of the world ❤
Those people were brave and amazing coming forward and being so honest. You and Buck talking so much sense as always. Hope the rest of the tour goes well
Stay safe when you go on tour, Blare!!
I'm crying; all your guests were so sweet 😭
Would’ve loved to have seen you in NC. Just can’t travel but so thankful you met some wonderful people
27 yr old bisexual registered dem but have always been a centrist ✋🏾 I was never in the lgbt community as many of them would dismiss me as being a part of the community due to being bisexual and I grew up as a major tomboy playing “male-centered” activities and started dressing girly towards the end of high school. Now, I feel like the extreme left want to erase tomboy and gay boys and make everyone trans when in fact for many many children it’s a phase to figure out what I like and don’t like. Parents don’t want to bother educating their kids anymore and it’s honestly really sad. What happened to if a child thinks they’re a girl/boy to just let them wear unisex clothing and experiment with their hair socially. Now they just want to ship them off to a doctor that can sign off on giving them meds and surgically transition instead of socially. A couple years from now I PRAY they finally see “wow this is the hill we decided to die on?”
In all honesty what does bisexual registered dem mean? And why put such a title on your self rather than be? No hate im trying to understand
@@SpoiledHippie I stated I’m bisexual to give context about how I feel about the lgbt community as someone that is”considered” as part of the community but in reality not and inputted registered dem to show that I’m a dem that loves everything that Blair stands for as many leftists compare Blair as a radical right when that’s not the case anyone with common sense regardless of what political party you’re into can see Blair just makes sense and says things out loud that other people are too scared to say
@@brittanyascencio6787 thank you for the understanding.
@@SpoiledHippie I actually thank you for genuinely asking and not being rude like other people typically would be. I know my post seems all over the place but with an ADHD brain that was what I really thought lol
@@brittanyascencio6787 i appreciate you for not being rude as well, its never hate for me. Im just trying to be more open minded.
The thing is, i would talk 2 my kid about this kind of stuff when it's 10 years old. But thats to late because they start manipulating your kind way earlier.... thats sick.
I love the positive energy in that room. Very healing.
I love seeing this community come together to have hard conversations and just uplift each other. This is really cool to see
Ok so the girl in the beginning & I share that we both thought we were boys as kids. Had it been today they would have convinced me at least to transition and that scares me. I am a woman and love being one as an adult and I would be emotionally ruined now had I ruined that opportunity to be ME & have my son. I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria as a kid and went through STABILIZATION therapy(which is not like conversion therapy 🙄)which is neutral. They don’t ever convince for or against transition bc it’s the last resort not an idea upfront that you take the very consequence filled void that is transitioning physically, health, mental health, & how even if those would be ok, if you’re not stable in your mental health you can’t do something like transitioning bc it only an external change. Your brain still is sick if you don’t handle that first! and they don’t come at you for appearing to be, which means managing mental health throughout childhood and teen hood as well as learn why you feel that way. No transitioning bc most kids, over 90% of gender dysphoria effected kid grow out of it. I did. By 13 it was gone. Most kids I let through mental health groups did as well. Only one transitioned. Let kids have the opportunity to learn who the hell they are like the rest of all humanity
This was the 90s btw. Long before it was well known and was super rare which is proof it’s an ideology trend now in comparison to the good ole days when it had to be organic bc nobody even knew what it was
I’m a late diagnosed autistic/adhd adult (woman), and I know for a fact I would’ve been dragged into the whole trans thing if I was a child these days. It breaks my heart seeing so many kids and young adults these days who are clearly just autistic and confused, being brainwashed into thinking there is something wrong with them. Or they have weak support systems that don’t teach how to navigate life, like I did
Throughout my entire childhood I thought there was something “wrong” with me as a person, not knowing the majority of my struggles were due to being autistic. I didn’t have a good support system, I had no one that understood me and I was being constantly gaslit by the medical industry into thinking I was mentally ill
I was pressured to take medication I didn’t need, which I genuinely believe have scrambled my brain to the point of no return. I have never felt the same mentally after being put on countless anti-that’s and anti-this’s.
If only I had ONE person back then in my life to step up and help me, someone who could recognize my very obvious, autistic struggles. But no one did. Everyone made excuses or turned their back on me because it was too hard to admit I was different. I blame society for placing so much pressure on everyone to be exactly the same and treating everyone like cogs in the machine
If you don’t fit in completely or fit the “mold” that society has created, you’re labelled as sick or mentally unstable. YOU have to change, when society should be changing
I love these beautiful people attending. No crazy extremes one way or another or people screaming, just people living their lives and having conversations. Awesome
14:44 that lady was so off, saying that mental illness means you must be a dangerous crazy person. Glad you two checked her
As someone whos been misdiagnosed as having gender dysphoria and bipolar and I was actually dealing with bpd and anxiety. I was on meds for most of my life (since 14). And I was put on medications that worsened my bpd and made me appear bipolar. Also, my therapist and psychiatrist just went along with me having gender dysphoria when it was actually a reaction to trauma and my therapist kept trying to talk about surgery. Something needs to happen because I am better now but it wasn't because of any doctors or therapists, it was my own realizations.
No teen knows who they are or feel comfortable with the changes in their mind & body. Normalizing normal again would be a good start. I'm a woman through & through & I'm not autistic & i don't like dresses except for special occasions. Jeans are comfortable & practical. I don't know where the "pressure" comes from bc even labeling it autistic to not like uncomfortable clothing is a problem. I don't like the texture of cooked vegetables... it's a preference not a mental disorder. We over corrected on the "breaking taboos about mental health" & created problems to be solved (& make money from)
I feel like so many ppl being diagnosed as autistic is a disservice to some. Like they are nullifying your uniqueness. IMO
I’m a late diagnosed autistic woman and I don’t feel “unique” and never have. I feel ostracized, even as an adult. I’ve been bullied heavily, scapegoated at work and school, ridiculed just for existing, you name it. It’s a disability. It’s not “uniqueness.” Yes, I am different. But isn’t everyone?
Even if my uniqueness is praised by the few people who love and care for me, what does that matter when most of society treats me like I’m undeserving of basic human respect or dignity?
Imagine saying this about diabetes. "Now, that everyone's sugar levels are so high, I'm not unique anymore". Wut?
They are disservicing people when they made it a "spectrum", added a bunch of diffrent types of people with diffrent labels and needs, and then got lazy and slapped it as a general diagnosis catch all.
i see what you're saying, but, this is not the way to go about it. autism is a disability, and a pretty severe one at that for autistic people with level 2 & 3 autism. people need a diagnosis and support to survive (more education, therapies, learning how to manage and support sensory sensitivities, difficulty with routines & hygiene, etc.) it's not only a "uniqueness". yes, there are charming aspects that people with disabilities have, but we can't only focus on that because they'd never get the proper support they deserve. those two things can actually be mutually exclusive and it's better to recognize this for their safety and wellbeing 😁
Im in the most hated 'group' bc im a Conservative, Straight, White, Christian, Female. But i have a variety of friends, i grew up to respect everyone and i dont care what people want to do with their lives, to each their own, but i dont like how they are trying to brainwash our children.
BTW I LOVVVVE Blair!❤ I absolutely love her, hear personality, she's funny, smart, and trying to stop all this chaos. Best wishes to you, Blair! ❤ and much love to all her fans and everyone who is struggling rn❤
I was a Democrat for most of my 65 years, until March of this year, when Michael Shellenberger released the WPATH files exposé. I started supporting RFK Jr., and now I'm going to be voting for Trump! I guess I'm in the "most hated" club now, along with you!
@goddessgirl5891 lol well welcome ♡
youre just as liberal as they are.
@@goddessgirl5891i think youre second most.
Thank you so much for posting the tour. I wanted to go very much but I’m still getting over a respiratory infection. All of the beautiful souls there sharing their opinions and love for what you do, is awe inspiring. You go girl! ❤
This is too short! Your audience members are amazing. Would love to see more of this.
Blaire is so fucking classy I love her
I know I can't be the only one who just thought trousers were more comfortable or just hated to be told "you can't do this bc you're a girl." but that doesn't mean I wanna be a boy, gosh.
Hey kid, you have a 18 years test drive and if by the end you don't like it, you can change it.