for a woman it's hard when you're the first to show a motive to a man who likes you. If he really loves you, let him be the first to tell you that he loves you. It's hard when the day comes so that he can tell that you are the one who approached him and attracted him. Show your worth as a woman❤
I don’t think the girl should make the first move, BUT I think that we could encourage the man by showing our interest. Playfully touch him, laugh at his jokes, compliment him, look in his eyes. This will make it clear to the guy that you like him, and then it’s his decision whether or not he’ll pursue you. 😊
I often did the first step in my life as a woman ...I've never even had a single positiv outcome. Never again. Men I met didn't appreciate it. They didn't realise it, rejected me, or took me for granted - never put any work in it - and rejected me later.
As much as I agree with the mantra that the man should make the first move, I made an exception this year. I've been interacting with a guy for a while and what started out as a friendship changed - on my side, at least - and I took the plunge to let him know that I was developing feelings for him. I also told him that I didn't want that to spoil our friendship but I felt that he should know. I don't regret telling him and what I have noticed is that our friendship has grown deeper. He may have feelings for me too, or he may not. As much as I would like my feelings to be reciprocated, I understand his reticence to express anything deeper than friendship because both of our situations are very complicated and it seems impossible that we can bridge the gap of distance and different time zones to have something long-lasting. I don't sit in my feelings nor do I allow my feelings to swallow me up so if this friendship doesn't go any deeper or doesn't go anywhere, I can honestly say that I am at least thankful to have met him and to have built a genuine friendship which is pretty rare these days.
A man must initiate to the first move not the woman. We Filipinos mostly women don't initiate. Always a man do the first move to show his love is worth
Thanks for the likes but it's our culture as Filipinas. Mostly Filipino women are just waiting but don't initiate the first move. Others flirting but it's not in our culture and values
It doesn't matter who makes the first move. We're in a century where we want to be included and treated or respected like men, so why not take the risk? That's why, for me, it's very valid and beautiful if I love someone or I like that person, to make the first move to impress him or get his attention or even talk to him with total sincerity about my feelings for him. What matters is creating that connection with the person you choose.
Refer to my opinion, it doesn’t matter who is the one that makes the first move if you have the real feelings to share to each other, express it. Never care about the income but care about the outcome. Wait for the person who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seems magical, the kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person. Wait for the person who will be your best friend, the only person who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what the circumstance is. Believe me, when you find your right person for the first time, you suddenly understand what it means to love someone more than your own life. 💕💕💕💕💕
WoW ✨️ such a beautiful feeling of understanding the one whom you fall for and knowing them deeply eh. Whatever or whoever takes the initiative, let the love pour out and let them enjoy the days of togetherness and let it continue for many, many more years and more ❤❤❤❤❤ I'm an Indian and there it's considered like mean or too much impolite if the girl or woman takes the initiatives. But, I personally think whoever is comfortable in taking initial moves, let them. Like, depending on the confidence they mutually build by this time, may helps them for the bestest of the best. Wishes for a great and wonderful week ahead. But for now, good night my Love, Um😘 God bless you and fulfill all the desires of your ❤️
Maybe I am a bit old fashioned and believe the guy should make the first move, but am I am open to put my fear aside to ask a guy out first if there is signs of mutual reciprocation from his side. Thanks for sharing these signs. Could you maybe make a video about healthy boundaries when you do start to date someone. Hope you have a fabulous Monday Ivan ❤️❤️🤗🌻
Lol I noticed he does initiates casual conversations, sometimes fidgeting, sometimes nervous, which made me 'do' the talking. And guess what? He said "Oh no, I am sorry if you misunderstood."
There are some people that have been married for years and years, you end up finding out the woman made the first move. I made the first move and find out he liked me, when I say I made the first move, I was the first one to say I liked him, but the physical part of it, he initiated it because I told although I liked him, I don’t initiate contact( physically) if he liked me he could but I would definitely not throw myself at him physically, that was in his ballfield and more or less said , if he was interested he could let me know in his own way or if he wasn’t interested, we could go on being friends, well I got my answer pretty quick, he leaned in and kissed me. I’ve had men make the first move that I’m not the least bit interested in, the last one wouldn’t take no for an answer( besides) the way he spoke to be sounded like a sleaze ball, it just totally disgusted me.
There are no distractions and I don't think there are any problems. Good for you, he said. I didn't say anything. And don't ask me about things like that. My brain is still reeling. My brain is not in order yet if you want us to remain good friends.Right now, I'm still on stage, angry. Maybe I'll just turn my back on everyone.
❤ the traditional culture that a man should always makes the first moves .. But as you thinks of someone likes or loves you and expressing her feeling for you, nothing wrong with that.. Expression of love has no time , nor place, your just being honest on yourself on emotional feeling..😊😊
Everyone keeps saying they dont make a 1st move, but. . . Is this not a 1st move? Hes invested in you. . . Hes showing interest and remembering you etc. . . He just needs a greenlight im guessing.
Also if you initiate the first move the guy will surely tells you ur easy to get i dnt like a girl who is easy to get cause he surely picks the one whom he has effort to be with, with that girl is it correct?
This is not about being traditional ladies but don’t ever make the first move. It does not generally work for many reasons. It’s ok to show interest if you are interested.
Although I advocated being upfront and outright to one's feelings, it wouldn't be wise and prudent to make the first move if you don't see the guy as your husband in the future. The end goal is marriage and if the girl will just make the 1st move to collect boyfriends, it wouldn't be wise in my opinion. UN Stats states, "Around 15 million adolescent girls worldwide, aged 15-19 years, have experienced forced sex. Only one per cent have ever sought professional help." 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Here îs 6 morning. Your voice wake up me... Like usual în every morning... It's și confortabile... Doesn't metter who make tge first step, when exist love.. În love it's not necessary pride.. love îs enough.
i don’t want a man that’s waiting on me to step up lol that’s masculine ass hell … if a man is sure about you, he will persue you. if he unsure about you , but steady lingering around you thats weird behavior and a waste on time .
If you remember, I told you before that they might make up a story about you. Why am I going to him, what is the reason? If by any chance I need anything from him, I will let you know. And the And what I know is that I don't need him to come to her.
Kung torpe ang isang guy ibig sabihin lahat ng ka relationship nya babae lahat ang nag initiate? Paano na lng ? Pero d ako naniniwala na torpe ang guy pg d nag initiate ng first move lalo nat nung bago pa lng nya nakita ang isang girl ang guy nman ang nauna
Oh I don't know. I don't know this. You know I'm avoiding it. If that happens, maybe by accident. I don't know what I'll feel. I'm just avoiding it. What kind of choice are you talking about? You there. And if that happens, I'll just leave you. We can't move on from him, why is he really like that? I don't know.
good evening Ivan its noon here..how is your day doing? just done now lisrening the whole and Wow Ivan🙈😍😍😍 hiyang hiya naman siya niyan.. aleluya Lord weeeeiiiiii! why was that kind of challenge too scary..Help me Holy Spirit
First move for a girl? i don't agree No way, it is unfair he might not criticize your personality, but being discrete and reserved is the best and a demure kind of a girl, no way, Sir Ivan, Meneses i still insist that he pursues the girl a gentleman'' s way
too appreciated Ivan.. everything that surrounds...good looking all the time..too blessed 🥰 hope you have a good day im pretty sure..happy ???🥰 take care and keep praying U ti amo God bless you🙌❤
Well love in the tradition of filipino its usual that the guy is the one who initiates the message, if the guy is interested about the girl he is the one who initiate the communication, but if the guy is torpe sometimes its okay to get the first move❤ thank you for the advices love❤ miss you all the time❤❤
Здравствуйте, очень трогательный вопрос, как у вас дела, надеюсь у вас всё отлично. Это было раньше такие чувства, сейчас нету такое, сейчас демократический мир. Сейчас у людей не осталось чувства. Типа они боялись стыда или позора, сейчас такое нету. Это было в XX веку Сейчас XXI век сейчас народ умный стали, молодёжи. Так пошли что тебе рот заткнут. Поэтому у них нет не любовь, не стыда, не чувства, всё враньё вы это доверяете? Я да потому что видела это всё потому что знаю, потому что проходила. Что толку первый шаг.... Сделала? Всё равно бросит, поиграет с тобой как будто с игрушкой играет, раз надоело и бросают. Сейчас жизнь такая, Так что я скажу другой совет. Умеете вставать на ноги сами, без кавалеров без любви, и двигайся дальше, что твоё сердце подсказывает живи дальше как хочешь но имей в виду, себя в обиду не давай вот тогда никто тебя не обижут. Что должна быть сильная женщина. 😊
No way ya habibi 😑 i have waited 20 years for him to make the first move, There is no chance in hell or heaven or anywhere inbetween that i am blinking first😑 Good luck 👹
Yes True❤🙏 I just know that I love you bcoz of God🙏♥️ I love a man who gives me videos like movies showing love, the way giving GIF pictures and the way frequently saying I love you❤🙏 bcoz you never asked for it to say I love you and I really feel amazed and feels amazed when my love often says I love❤🙏 This is a positive energy that makes me feel ived been love by someone and I really love a guy asking my day was bcoz I'm always sick now a days but Ived tried to live normal bcoz I need to go on working for my son ❤🙏 I'm the only parentnof my son if I leaved this earth I don't know my son can live that's why I make sure I could be a good provider in all his needs❤🙏 I'm so interested in all videos bcoz I love you for real not all the scammer or imposter pretending to be you but what I really wanted is to see you on camera, Ived been waiting for it since two years...I'm dreaming of to see you and in personal may Love is the Magic my first ever group I created then many groups follows but I'm the original group creator of Love is a Magic hehehe 😂😂😂 I find out Loving you is a Magic if it comes true hehehe 😂😂😂❤🙏♥️🙏♥️🙏💋💋💋 Love and Kisses hugs for you #ivannicholo
for a woman it's hard when you're the first to show a motive to a man who likes you. If he really loves you, let him be the first to tell you that he loves you. It's hard when the day comes so that he can tell that you are the one who approached him and attracted him. Show your worth as a woman❤
True❤ I believe thought.😌🤞
I don’t think the girl should make the first move, BUT I think that we could encourage the man by showing our interest. Playfully touch him, laugh at his jokes, compliment him, look in his eyes. This will make it clear to the guy that you like him, and then it’s his decision whether or not he’ll pursue you. 😊
I often did the first step in my life as a woman ...I've never even had a single positiv outcome. Never again.
Men I met didn't appreciate it. They didn't realise it, rejected me, or took me for granted - never put any work in it - and rejected me later.
me too. i’ll never do it again
As much as I agree with the mantra that the man should make the first move, I made an exception this year.
I've been interacting with a guy for a while and what started out as a friendship changed - on my side, at least - and I took the plunge to let him know that I was developing feelings for him. I also told him that I didn't want that to spoil our friendship but I felt that he should know.
I don't regret telling him and what I have noticed is that our friendship has grown deeper. He may have feelings for me too, or he may not. As much as I would like my feelings to be reciprocated, I understand his reticence to express anything deeper than friendship because both of our situations are very complicated and it seems impossible that we can bridge the gap of distance and different time zones to have something long-lasting.
I don't sit in my feelings nor do I allow my feelings to swallow me up so if this friendship doesn't go any deeper or doesn't go anywhere, I can honestly say that I am at least thankful to have met him and to have built a genuine friendship which is pretty rare these days.
A man must initiate to the first move not the woman. We Filipinos mostly women don't initiate. Always a man do the first move to show his love is worth
Thanks for the likes but it's our culture as Filipinas. Mostly Filipino women are just waiting but don't initiate the first move. Others flirting but it's not in our culture and values
It's the same in India. We women never initiate anything.
and it will end bad every time if you do
I’m never going to make the first move. He is the man I am not going to pursue him. If he is truly interested he will make the first move.
What if a guy stares at you, talks to you regarding work (very rarely) and then next time around acts weird as, if he don't even knows me?
My love im just here waiting for your coming ....hehehe ...Good morning Boss❤🙏❣️😘😘😘
It doesn't matter who makes the first move. We're in a century where we want to be included and treated or respected like men, so why not take the risk?
That's why, for me, it's very valid and beautiful if I love someone or I like that person, to make the first move to impress him or get his attention or even talk to him with total sincerity about my feelings for him. What matters is creating that connection with the person you choose.
Let a man chase and show his masculine side and claim his queen.....and initiation too
Refer to my opinion, it doesn’t matter who is the one that makes the first move if you have the real feelings to share to each other, express it. Never care about the income but care about the outcome. Wait for the person who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seems magical, the kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person. Wait for the person who will be your best friend, the only person who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what the circumstance is. Believe me, when you find your right person for the first time, you suddenly understand what it means to love someone more than your own life. 💕💕💕💕💕
WoW ✨️ such a beautiful feeling of understanding the one whom you fall for and knowing them deeply eh. Whatever or whoever takes the initiative, let the love pour out and let them enjoy the days of togetherness and let it continue for many, many more years and more ❤❤❤❤❤
I'm an Indian and there it's considered like mean or too much impolite if the girl or woman takes the initiatives. But, I personally think whoever is comfortable in taking initial moves, let them. Like, depending on the confidence they mutually build by this time, may helps them for the bestest of the best.
Wishes for a great and wonderful week ahead.
But for now, good night my Love, Um😘 God bless you and fulfill all the desires of your ❤️
Maybe I am a bit old fashioned and believe the guy should make the first move, but am I am open to put my fear aside to ask a guy out first if there is signs of mutual reciprocation from his side. Thanks for sharing these signs. Could you maybe make a video about healthy boundaries when you do start to date someone. Hope you have a fabulous Monday Ivan ❤️❤️🤗🌻
Lol I noticed he does initiates casual conversations, sometimes fidgeting, sometimes nervous, which made me 'do' the talking. And guess what? He said "Oh no, I am sorry if you misunderstood."
I sometimes make the first move. It’s been bitter sweet.
I’ll make the first move again, wish me luck 😝
There are some people that have been married for years and years, you end up finding out the woman made the first move. I made the first move and find out he liked me, when I say I made the first move, I was the first one to say I liked him, but the physical part of it, he initiated it because I told although I liked him, I don’t initiate contact( physically) if he liked me he could but I would definitely not throw myself at him physically, that was in his ballfield and more or less said , if he was interested he could let me know in his own way or if he wasn’t interested, we could go on being friends, well I got my answer pretty quick, he leaned in and kissed me. I’ve had men make the first move that I’m not the least bit interested in, the last one wouldn’t take no for an answer( besides) the way he spoke to be sounded like a sleaze ball, it just totally disgusted me.
There are no distractions and I don't think there are any problems. Good for you, he said. I didn't say anything. And don't ask me about things like that. My brain is still reeling. My brain is not in order yet if you want us to remain good friends.Right now, I'm still on stage, angry. Maybe I'll just turn my back on everyone.
❤ the traditional culture that a man should always makes the first moves .. But as you thinks of someone likes or loves you and expressing her feeling for you, nothing wrong with that..
Expression of love has no time , nor place, your just being honest on yourself on emotional feeling..😊😊
Everyone keeps saying they dont make a 1st move, but. . . Is this not a 1st move? Hes invested in you. . . Hes showing interest and remembering you etc. . . He just needs a greenlight im guessing.
Thats why women tend to just keep themselves quite n at peace rather than be with the guy and initiate that first move
I'll do d first move but, just a friendly to talk with.....him😊
when a guy friend says every now and then that "you are a keeper/ for keeps" ?
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Also if you initiate the first move the guy will surely tells you ur easy to get i dnt like a girl who is easy to get cause he surely picks the one whom he has effort to be with, with that girl is it correct?
This is not about being traditional ladies but don’t ever make the first move. It does not generally work for many reasons. It’s ok to show interest if you are interested.
respect is the best any communication.. pag masaya kayong dalawa its means you are compatible. thats sweet attitude. very well 👍
Thank you so much for this very challenging message towards the person I loved and adored
Although I advocated being upfront and outright to one's feelings, it wouldn't be wise and prudent to make the first move if you don't see the guy as your husband in the future. The end goal is marriage and if the girl will just make the 1st move to collect boyfriends, it wouldn't be wise in my opinion. UN Stats states, "Around 15 million adolescent girls worldwide, aged 15-19 years, have experienced forced sex. Only one per cent have ever sought professional help." 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Here îs 6 morning. Your voice wake up me... Like usual în every morning... It's și confortabile... Doesn't metter who make tge first step, when exist love.. În love it's not necessary pride.. love îs enough.
i don’t want a man that’s waiting on me to step up lol that’s masculine ass hell … if a man is sure about you, he will persue you. if he unsure about you , but steady lingering around you thats weird behavior and a waste on time .
But I will make a fast move❤❤❤
If you remember, I told you before that they might make up a story about you. Why am I going to him, what is the reason? If by any chance I need anything from him, I will let you know. And the And what I know is that I don't need him to come to her.
❤🤗Great content Ivan😊
Yes you make the first move it was nice he..😊🤗💖💞
Stick around 😊, happy new week 😘
Whaow! I hope this is true my dear mentor Sir ivan ❤
Kung torpe ang isang guy ibig sabihin lahat ng ka relationship nya babae lahat ang nag initiate? Paano na lng ? Pero d ako naniniwala na torpe ang guy pg d nag initiate ng first move lalo nat nung bago pa lng nya nakita ang isang girl ang guy nman ang nauna
Oh I don't know. I don't know this. You know I'm avoiding it. If that happens, maybe by accident. I don't know what I'll feel. I'm just avoiding it. What kind of choice are you talking about? You there. And if that happens, I'll just leave you. We can't move on from him, why is he really like that? I don't know.
good evening Ivan its noon here..how is your day doing? just done now lisrening the whole and Wow Ivan🙈😍😍😍 hiyang hiya naman siya niyan.. aleluya Lord weeeeiiiiii! why was that kind of challenge too scary..Help me Holy Spirit
Yes iIm proud of you friend and your messag correct the Information and contained herein
Be careful always and God bless you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
lf he really likes you that much, he will🤷♂️
I'm waiting for my prince charming to see him personally❤🙏
Please, please come to South Africa
I love hearing your voice. Ivan ❤️❤️🥰🫶🫶💯🫰❣️😘
Thank you for another Great videon❤
That's yoo❤❤❤🎉
Waiting for you do the first move Ivan
First move for a girl? i don't agree No way, it is unfair he might not criticize your personality, but being discrete and reserved is the best and a demure kind of a girl, no way, Sir Ivan, Meneses i still insist that he pursues the girl a gentleman'' s way
Happy Thanksgiving 😊 ❤
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too appreciated Ivan.. everything that surrounds...good looking all the time..too blessed 🥰 hope you have a good day im pretty sure..happy ???🥰 take care and keep praying U ti amo God bless you🙌❤
We dont care i am the one make move to much women now i am running fast to make a champion
Hey Ivan say hi from Korea : )
Well love in the tradition of filipino its usual that the guy is the one who initiates the message, if the guy is interested about the girl he is the one who initiate the communication, but if the guy is torpe sometimes its okay to get the first move❤ thank you for the advices love❤ miss you all the time❤❤
Oh no....my gay maybe forget I'm really exist... that's why 🫣😮💨😮💨
❤❤❤ Goodday🙂
Здравствуйте, очень трогательный вопрос, как у вас дела, надеюсь у вас всё отлично. Это было раньше такие чувства, сейчас нету такое, сейчас демократический мир. Сейчас у людей не осталось чувства. Типа они боялись стыда или позора, сейчас такое нету. Это было в XX веку Сейчас XXI век сейчас народ умный стали, молодёжи. Так пошли что тебе рот заткнут. Поэтому у них нет не любовь, не стыда, не чувства, всё враньё вы это доверяете? Я да потому что видела это всё потому что знаю, потому что проходила. Что толку первый шаг.... Сделала? Всё равно бросит, поиграет с тобой как будто с игрушкой играет, раз надоело и бросают. Сейчас жизнь такая, Так что я скажу другой совет. Умеете вставать на ноги сами, без кавалеров без любви, и двигайся дальше, что твоё сердце подсказывает живи дальше как хочешь но имей в виду, себя в обиду не давай вот тогда никто тебя не обижут. Что должна быть сильная женщина. 😊
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A man must be initiate to the first move not the woman..
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No way ya habibi 😑 i have waited 20 years for him to make the first move,
There is no chance in hell or heaven or anywhere inbetween that i am blinking first😑
Good luck 👹
Yes True❤🙏 I just know that I love you bcoz of God🙏♥️ I love a man who gives me videos like movies showing love, the way giving GIF pictures and the way frequently saying I love you❤🙏 bcoz you never asked for it to say I love you and I really feel amazed and feels amazed when my love often says I love❤🙏 This is a positive energy that makes me feel ived been love by someone and I really love a guy asking my day was bcoz I'm always sick now a days but Ived tried to live normal bcoz I need to go on working for my son ❤🙏 I'm the only parentnof my son if I leaved this earth I don't know my son can live that's why I make sure I could be a good provider in all his needs❤🙏 I'm so interested in all videos bcoz I love you for real not all the scammer or imposter pretending to be you but what I really wanted is to see you on camera, Ived been waiting for it since two years...I'm dreaming of to see you and in personal may Love is the Magic my first ever group I created then many groups follows but I'm the original group creator of Love is a Magic hehehe 😂😂😂 I find out Loving you is a Magic if it comes true hehehe 😂😂😂❤🙏♥️🙏♥️🙏💋💋💋 Love and Kisses hugs for you #ivannicholo
Yes iIm proud of you friend and your messag correct the Information and contained herein