@@johnkonde1975then he should’ve just kept it at “I prefer to have a traditional housewife and homemaker” and left it there. Instead, dude went off the deep end on a first date. Not sure what he expected.
@sachinnair91 How about the fact that he absolutely would not allow his wife to go out for coffee with her friends? This guy is either very sick in the head or he was straight up trolling her, and we'll probably see this exact same exchange posted by him somewhere else.
I just love how THEIR conversation is all about HIM and this fictional woman from HIS own mind. And she's going along with it too, because she realizes that fictional housewife in a cage AIN'T HER. 🤣
right?? or what, like... rob federal banks?? beg for welfare? so weird... how she supposed to "steal government money- back-" without leaving the house? He wants a hacker, is that it?! OF would just be getting money, not stealing from the government. weird requirement for a wife, dude is def nuts.... sorry for anyone else who ends up with him.
Oh, I absolutely hate paying taxes. I like having a police department, fire department, and fresh running water. The most important thing I love is not being jailed for tax crimes. The guy sounds like a complete idiot. I would have preferred my wife to stay home and raise our kids. My wife did as well. The lack of brain power it took for that guy to say that she couldn't have a job or leave the house was amazing. The absolute god tier was how she would make up for the things he didn't feel like paying for was to take it back from the IRS. It's like how? How would she take it back if she's not allowed to have a job or leave the house. More importantly, I don't think you can rob the IRS like you can the bank. I'm not a super brain like that guy, but I assumed the IRS was just a paper processing place, kind of like an accounting firm. What it sounds like is sov civ garbage. Accepted for value. That's a term that no sane person has ever heard. Accepted for value is sov civ rabbit hole garbage, around the middle of the bottomless pit of garbage. Accepted for value is the completely unhinged belief that when you're born, the IRS creates an account that (I'm quoting word for word) "Has millions and millions if dollars and near infinite dollars of worth because you have unlimited potential of life, near endless worth". That sounded just as sane as their reasoning why they think this to be true. I think I'm one of very few people out there that has ever taken an unbiased look into the sov civ insanity.
Families get tens of thousands of dollars back for children, that money going directly to the wife to spend on luxuries? Wow that truly is slavery! You guys are so right, she really dodged a bullet by not wanting to be a stay at home wife, now she'll have time to work for big corp, and be a slave to them! Or she can make an OF, how free! Lmao
Its awesome knowing you can get laid and agree with literally everything the guy said lmao. Actual incels love trying to treat women like literal equals to men.
Idk why people complicate things so much, it’s not complicated. Honestly the only arrangement that makes sense to me is splitting your guy’s income proportionally. So if you make the same money, it’s 50/50 on finances, if a man is the sole provider and a woman stays at home, then of course he will be providing 100% of the finances. And finances are just another form of labor, labor is always 50/50. Chores, errands, domestic duties, etc, are also labor. But of course, you can’t always examine your relationship from the lens of how much are they/how much am I contributing, you just do things for your partner as they would for you because you love each other.
She CAN'T work, but make sure you have money She CAN'T ask him for money She CAN'T leave the house to hangout with friends BUT make sure you have them babies. 😅 .... 🐻 🐨 🐻❄️🐼
My dad was pretty much one of these guys the only difference was that he's convicted pedo now bc shit he did to us kids Needless to say any women who sees any of these statements being made by any man State far away from them because you don't know what skeletons are in their closet Same thing for men to women And vice versa Just replace male with female and there ya go Stay safe out there lass Good luck to y'all and may you all , find peace , in your domain
Lol I met my husband off a dating site. Happily married, love of my life and just moved into our beautiful home. We both provide and both contribute to the house work. Dating apps can work, but I had to filter out so many to find my prince and women have to be very careful on there.
@FuturisticCamouflageTimes2025 yes I would suggest paying for it to find more serious members. Anything free, you never know who you're gonna get. Definitely investing in it, your chances of getting someone more decent is higher
I think you nailed it. From what she said he seemed to be normal otherwise, but he probably heard something on TikTok or some other social media platform that he thought sounded "cool". Or maybe he misinterpreted what he heard altogether. The fact that he didn't know how taxes worked makes me think that might be the case too.
Yea because even in these incel podcasts, they say they want traditional women, but that they would take care of them financially and they'd be set in every way. For some reason this idiott interpreted that sh%t as "my woman can't work but has to make her own money"...In his mind anything that even remotely resembles a woman having basic rights is being a simp. He needs to have his internet activities monitored. He gave me serious serial killer vibes no joke!
My ex husband was like this idiot to a tee. He did give me an allowance, tho, but it was only $30 a week, and only to pay for my medication. I remember thinking wait, I shouldn't be getting an "allowance " like a kid. But, he had made me quit my job, close my bank account, and stay home with our baby. I felt so isolated. And then he was actually shocked when I filed for divorce after only 3 years of marriage. He changed literally the day after we came home from our honeymoon. Tbh I stayed too long. This woman dodging a bullet is a huge understatement. If you see this ladies, RUN! Like preferably during the date!
@snapmalloy5556 Yes. It does happen to a lot of people. The person shows their real self once they marry you or pull you into their fake bs. I've been with someone else now for over 5 years, and he and I get along very well and have mutual respect for one another. I'm very happy with my current relationship. Not all men are like my ex.
@katiemilady197 Seeing someone change that drastically has to be frightening. I'm glad both of my daughters are happily married to good guys. It would be scary to see them dating today
@@girlboss2427 Women did it to themselves. Women created incels k-12 most men are led and instructed by women then go home to a single mom. Deal with it LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He’s not a threat. He’s a dumbass. If you rather see a bear in the woods you are just as dumb as this dude. Not all men are dangerous but most are definitely stupid
Idk where you guys are getting slavery from, the guy just wants his woman at home serving the family, not out with friends for girls night, just keep her ass serving the family. That's what billions of people do today, why American women can't stay with one man lmao.
Yall be watching the same stuff, i mean a women is suppose to help wit the house but i wouldnt want her to wash my clothes i feel useless if she did that, i wouldnt want her to work either but if she wants its fine and i would give her money
@@zeldaxninja3214 no, we’re not all watching the same stuff. So you want a woman to do all the chores but not your laundry because I’m assuming you don’t want her to see the poop smears on your underwear?
Putting all the other stuff aside for the moment, as creepy and werid as it was. If a guy ever suggests you won't be able to have any friends...walk, run, just get away. Major red flag.
This was the case for me, but he said I'm not allowed to have any guy friends. And he basically forced me to stop hanging out with the people I've been talking to so he can have me all to himself. Like if In order for us to be together, I have to stop seeing my friends, then you are manipulative af.
I’m a divorce paralegal and sadly just talked to someone who is living in this type of situation. When someone has financial control over you it’s really hard to get out.
"She has no reason to go anywhere else honestly" You do realise if she wants to go out & about and you won't allow it, she's just going to sneak out, right? People will get what they want, either the easy or the hard way. And at the end of the day, what are you going to do if she sneaks out? File a Police report? Yeah, they're not going to take your side.
Caring for your own children = slavery now, got it. Lmao I thought slavery was picking pounds of cotton in 100 degree heat all day. But now slavery is just raising your own kids and having a man give you money to do so. Lmao you guys are goofy.
@@ReikiontheRun Kids/no kids, 50/50 or trad, long term goals, where you want to settle or never settle, etc. Important things. And wife or husband. Doesn’t matter to me.
To be honest it’s MUCH better to get these subjects out of the way before wasting any of your time. Natural conversation, though. I’m not about the “job interview” type of dates where you go through a questionnaire.
5:29 This is not a traditional relationship! This is a narcissist that's looking for somebody to be his property and bend to his every whim. I got news for you, Junior; it ain't happening! You can't have it both ways! She either stays home with the kids and you provide her everyone in need, or she goes back to work and y'all can split things 50/50, including the kids. You can't expect her to slave for you just because you're married. 🙄😒🤦🏼♀️ I worry the way women are raising up these men. I wish I'd hear him say some shit like that in front of his own mama.
I told an old friend this wasn't ever going to happen for him with that philosophy... but 10 years of trying, and he DID find a woman to come right to his door, move into his cave, work and pay bills .. I mean she IS a drug addled meth head , whose always homeless , dumped her kids on people, and killed her last 2 husbands, but I learned it IS possible 🤷
I know a guy who's a real jerk, and he likes to treat his wife like a trophy. Always take pics of her bending over and putting them on Facebook. His mom doesn't like his behavior and said it started in college with the friends he made.
I had a similar date to this one. The context is a bit different. I was dating this guy for a while from my church. At that time in my life, I thought myself pretty close to God and felt good about where I was spiritually. However, nothing could have prepared me for what this guy did to me after one of about 5 dates in total. He brought his Bible into my parent’s house and opened it up on the dining room table to a certain book/verse. He read it out loud so anyone in the house could hear it whether they wanted to or not. It was the section in the bible that talked about wives must commit fully to their husbands.. be humble and basically do what he says when he says it. To be submissive to your husband. This was the mid 1990’s and I was about 20. I couldn’t have pushed him out fast enough. I thought.., well if these were his beliefs now.. could you imagine if I stupidly married him?!? I’m not a feminist by no means but all I can say is wow. I hope he has a horrible time trying to find “his perfect woman”. I feel bad for the girl. I’m glad she used her backbone and hightailed it out of there! 👋
Traditional dating is dead. It’s either you get on a dating app and meet one of these creeps or you just stay single. Men don’t approach women anymore either and if you approach them you risk coming off as desperate and attracting the wrong kind of guy. 💀
But that's also the kind of risk that men would go through too, and yes I agree it's completely dead, though I met my girlfriend in a dating app and now we've been together for 2 years and for now it's working out just fine, I think that it depends on the dating app, each dating app attracts different types of people.
I mean the second part I disagree. You have to admit women are the ones who killed that one. I say this as a woman. Women drilled it into men's heads that they do not want to be approached, which is why it stopped. Also you're wrong, most men find it highly attractive when a woman asks a guy out because it rarely happens
I am a stay home mom. My husband is the provider but he does give me money on thing that I need and want. For the wants, we will see how much money is left.
I hate how talking to someone online doesn't tell you anything about what they're in person. Pretty much no one I ever met up with had the same personality or felt familiar no matter how long we were in contact with, it might as well be a total stranger. No point texting back and forth thinking you made a connection, it's not real. A total waste of time.
Okay. I’m a stay at home mom. I can tell you, for certain, that if my husband hadn’t helped me at all with the baby or housework those first two months I would have gone literally insane. The stress, the pain, the slow recovery from birth, the tiny wailing thing that won’t let you sleep to try to recover, the fear and anxiety of needing to take care of them… yeah, without help a mom would literally go crazy. Not just a ‘oh hehe she’s loopy’ crazy but a not good at all kind of crazy. You forget to take care of yourself when you have a baby because you’re focusing on them. All these men who want a wife like this are not just unrealistic but dangerous… because this is how you drive a woman to the point of insanity until something very bad happens.
How?! We don’t know WHO he is ….we don’t even have a picture! So how exactly did she do any woman a solid? She didn’t suss out or expose any creep. What TF
As someone considered a homemaker if you are the breadwinner you generally provide funds and the homemaker takes care of most other things. Then you just get to come home and not worry about anything other than chillin. I of course have access to money, which is needed for a household. I of course still see my friends, that should just be normal. The point is to do equal amount of work or at least equal amount of responsibility. that is where the partnership comes from. Can’t have a trad wife if you can’t afford the trad life my man 😂
I laugh when he is like make her own money. How can she sell anything to another woman when she can't go out for coffee with friends. Business in general is about making relationships with people
@@anjolimartorell4107 it’s WILD so is she supposed to sell stuff on Etsy while not having money to make products? Is she supposed to do geico from home? That’s reasonable… but what if it cuts into HIS precious time. This dude sucks
My wife is disabled from a 4wheeler atv accident, i take full care of her and our houshold, from cooking and cleaning to working and paying bills and doing all upkeep and maintenance on home and car. I am an industrial mechanic and there is no ends i wouldnt go to to secure my wife and son
It's very refreshing to hear a man actually point out the hypocrisy in these podcast bros asking for traditional wives while not wanting to fill the role of being a traditional husband.
Always split the bill on the first date. That's just common sense. That way nobody feels obligated or owed. It's a meeting on equal terms instead of someone renting someone else's time.
If he´s watching lots of Fresh & Fit, then he´s so dumb he didn´t get the message right. The first thing F&F will tell you is that the man is the provider.
I (F29) just recently matched with a guy on Fbook dating (my first mistake) who seemed cool until he asked what gender my lunchtime friend was. When I told him it was a man, he literally said, "Oh... you're going to judge me for this..." which is a great way to lead into how you don't think men and women can be friends. I tried to ask him why, but it just sounded like he has some unresolved issues with an ex-gf who cheated on him. He said any gf of his could have no male friends specifically, like female friends were chill even if his gf was bi/pan, but any woman who's friends with a man is just playing him because she HAS to know he wants her carnally. Like, dude... get some therapy.
If the standard of friendship between men and women is 100% platonic love with no ideation of escalating into a sexual relationship, then the answer in general is no. Exceptions include befriending someone you have familial vibes with and someone you have no attraction for. Look up gender differences in receptivity to sexual offers. Men had a 0% success rate when asking women for sex. Women had a 69-75% success rate. "she HAS to know he wants her carnally." Basically. Of course the studies in question involved strangers. Perhaps the results may skew differently had a friendship already been established. But I doubt it would be much.
He’ll eventually find a mentally ill girl to manipulate. There’s plenty of them, with self esteem so low, they believe all they can get is someone like this. Sad, but it happens. Just another statistic of domestic violence
People need to excuse themselves when they recognize strange behavior, and let it be known that you're excusing yourself because of strange behavior. Because people will bear it or change the subject and just block them later, they never learn what was wrong.
I guess at least he isn’t hiding his delusional beliefs and only wasted a week of her life. Still scary to be on a date with someone like that, you don't know what they are capable of when you say "no". Guys like him are why groups such as "are we dating the same guy" exist.
I think he deserves an "A" for his openness, honesty and being such an A$$HOLE. 😄👍 Dudes like him make ladies friendly to guys like me that actually CARE about them. 🤣 They don't care how handsome you are, how much money you have, or how big your muscles are.
she is smart to ask what they want from a relationship. There is going to be a poor soul a girl who wont find out about him, or he will lie, and get stuck with this guy.
Dude decided to step outside his cult to find a date. Jokes aside, there is a disturbing trend of men increasingly having a warped reality of what the dynamics between men and women are supposed to look like. Too many men either want a woman to own or to be a mommy instead of a partner, and it's getting weird.
So true. I was the only lady in a class full of men. They all were talking shit to me because I was single. They all sound like people on the internet. They were getting mad when I was debating what life is like with just youtube😅😢
My wife and I have a traditional marriage in so far as she cooks dinner 4 times a week but other than that she has a career and a normal modern adult life. Why I say this is I’ve been feeling guilty about never cooking
100% this guy, if he isn't already, will gain weight and drop any effort he puts into the woman the moment he's married to her. She will, it goes without saying, not be allowed to slip up even a little.
If I were this woman, and I heard this dude say he wants me to stay at home but find some way to make my own money, I would have immediately asked, "Oh, so you want me to start an OnlyFans?" I guess I admire this guy's honesty, but I revile his position, and I have no idea how he ever expects to find success in dating this way. I guess there *might* be some women out there who want no luxuries. Who want nothing at all but to stay at home with the kids. but in the US, that's probably 1 woman out of every 100,000. Not advocating for this dude to lie, but he's not going to get any women until he changes his worldview.
How much you wanna bet dude still lives with his mom and mom can't stand him either?
1000%
🎯🎯🎯
In her basement
And yet he still thinks shes a total b*tch
Id bet 20k definitely
Luckily, he will never find someone to go on a 2nd date.
scarily, he might...
@@kmore2766probably in prison. Unfortunately girls are taught this idolgy from a young age
THIS 💯
She'd have to be mighty stupid.
😅😅😅
She can't work but she has to also have a job? What?
This guy is speaking nonsense, this guy is so stupid
OF I guess.
No no, you didn't hear correctly. She's meant to commit tax fraud and earn money that way😅
@@abbiereynolds8016but how do u commit tax fraud if u don't have an income
@craigmusa2254 I don't know ask him, he's the weirdo suggesting it😅
This is one of those dudes who watch waaaayyy too much of that silly FreshNFit and Donovan Sharpe nonsense.
@@johnkonde1975then he should’ve just kept it at “I prefer to have a traditional housewife and homemaker” and left it there. Instead, dude went off the deep end on a first date. Not sure what he expected.
Facts!
Goofballs leading goofballs
He’s BASED!
@sachinnair91 How about the fact that he absolutely would not allow his wife to go out for coffee with her friends? This guy is either very sick in the head or he was straight up trolling her, and we'll probably see this exact same exchange posted by him somewhere else.
I just love how THEIR conversation is all about HIM and this fictional woman from HIS own mind.
And she's going along with it too, because she realizes that fictional housewife in a cage AIN'T HER. 🤣
It’s probably fake honestly. She had her brother or friend do this.
@@Blake1720yeah it seems sus. That, or he was not feeling her and made all that up to turn her off.
@@cpmow831 Aahaha i feel you guys are relating with the guy.
Dont.
Just dont.
@@Blake1720 Aahaha i feel you guys are relating with the guy.
Dont.
Just dont.
@@EchoObserver9 I just can’t see any guy doing it.
This is not traditional. It's control and domination. He doesn't see her as a person.
Dudes want a trad marriage without having a clue what it actually entails. Fricking clowns.
So he’s basically saying he’s okay with her having her own OF to make money. That way she can be home and make money.
IF he could ever bag a woman, he would cUck himself into **being OK with that so she can keep him stocked up on Gatorade and Doordarshing food for him
Ahhhhh!! Stop it!
right?? or what, like... rob federal banks?? beg for welfare? so weird... how she supposed to "steal government money- back-" without leaving the house? He wants a hacker, is that it?! OF would just be getting money, not stealing from the government. weird requirement for a wife, dude is def nuts.... sorry for anyone else who ends up with him.
Clearly he's dulu to the 9th power
I was thinking the same thing!!
This guy sounds dangerous.
Someone needs to check his basement.
This guy sounds like every man I've met overseas, this guy sounds like every man that can afford to keep a woman at home.
Oh yeah the moment he started talking about the government taxes, she should have made an excuse to use the restroom and sneak out.
Oh, I absolutely hate paying taxes. I like having a police department, fire department, and fresh running water. The most important thing I love is not being jailed for tax crimes. The guy sounds like a complete idiot. I would have preferred my wife to stay home and raise our kids. My wife did as well. The lack of brain power it took for that guy to say that she couldn't have a job or leave the house was amazing. The absolute god tier was how she would make up for the things he didn't feel like paying for was to take it back from the IRS. It's like how? How would she take it back if she's not allowed to have a job or leave the house. More importantly, I don't think you can rob the IRS like you can the bank. I'm not a super brain like that guy, but I assumed the IRS was just a paper processing place, kind of like an accounting firm. What it sounds like is sov civ garbage. Accepted for value. That's a term that no sane person has ever heard. Accepted for value is sov civ rabbit hole garbage, around the middle of the bottomless pit of garbage. Accepted for value is the completely unhinged belief that when you're born, the IRS creates an account that (I'm quoting word for word) "Has millions and millions if dollars and near infinite dollars of worth because you have unlimited potential of life, near endless worth". That sounded just as sane as their reasoning why they think this to be true. I think I'm one of very few people out there that has ever taken an unbiased look into the sov civ insanity.
Unless theyre Canadian . Then its perfectly valid. Carbon tax , gst, pst on eerything , property tax, and now theyre adding a streaming tax!
@@raaaaaaarr Try claiming any of that back, lol
Families get tens of thousands of dollars back for children, that money going directly to the wife to spend on luxuries? Wow that truly is slavery! You guys are so right, she really dodged a bullet by not wanting to be a stay at home wife, now she'll have time to work for big corp, and be a slave to them! Or she can make an OF, how free! Lmao
When your date turns out to be an undatable incel....🤦
How did he even get the date in the first place.
@@codychickadee5095 Well, like the lady said in the video, he acted normal.
@@codychickadee5095 lot of incels aren't particularly ugly, they just have to eventually talk and it goes downhill from there.
Its awesome knowing you can get laid and agree with literally everything the guy said lmao. Actual incels love trying to treat women like literal equals to men.
This is in no way how a traditional relationship works, specially the guy just makes no sense
@WarriorXena446 exactly, people overthink traditionalism as well which complicate things at times.
Idk why people complicate things so much, it’s not complicated. Honestly the only arrangement that makes sense to me is splitting your guy’s income proportionally. So if you make the same money, it’s 50/50 on finances, if a man is the sole provider and a woman stays at home, then of course he will be providing 100% of the finances. And finances are just another form of labor, labor is always 50/50. Chores, errands, domestic duties, etc, are also labor. But of course, you can’t always examine your relationship from the lens of how much are they/how much am I contributing, you just do things for your partner as they would for you because you love each other.
This is why you DON'T get your dating advice from Tik Tok influencers or the Dark Web.
She CAN'T work, but make sure you have money
She CAN'T ask him for money
She CAN'T leave the house to hangout with friends
BUT make sure you have them babies.
😅 .... 🐻 🐨 🐻❄️🐼
Yea i dont think my parents did this and they are the definition of traditional 💀💀 This guy is clinically insane
This is the kind of guy that real traditional parents would keep away from their daughters.
He's weird, I bet he wouldn't let her see her family either
He is a covert abuser
My dad was pretty much one of these guys the only difference was that he's convicted pedo now bc shit he did to us kids
Needless to say any women who sees any of these statements being made by any man State far away from them because you don't know what skeletons are in their closet
Same thing for men to women
And vice versa
Just replace male with female and there ya go
Stay safe out there lass
Good luck to y'all and may you all , find peace , in your domain
Ladies get off these dating apps immediately🙏🏾
Seriously they sound dangerous and people like him on those apps are just predators
Man I’m glad I never used a dating app to meet my boyfriend 😂
Lol I met my husband off a dating site. Happily married, love of my life and just moved into our beautiful home. We both provide and both contribute to the house work.
Dating apps can work, but I had to filter out so many to find my prince and women have to be very careful on there.
@FuturisticCamouflageTimes2025 yes I would suggest paying for it to find more serious members. Anything free, you never know who you're gonna get. Definitely investing in it, your chances of getting someone more decent is higher
This can happen anywhere with anything 🙄
I can feel the toxicity, controlling, serial killer vibes through the phone!!! 😳😕 Girl, RUN!!!! 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
I can feel the toxcicty up in Canada.
@@rosiered3403 I feel it from Germany.
Feeling it from the UK
I agree, but "Toxicity" and "Vibes" are immature terms. Read a book.
@@DDD11239 - no idiot, look inward...🤨😐
I think you nailed it. From what she said he seemed to be normal otherwise, but he probably heard something on TikTok or some other social media platform that he thought sounded "cool". Or maybe he misinterpreted what he heard altogether. The fact that he didn't know how taxes worked makes me think that might be the case too.
He’s not normal…at all.
Made me think he's probably a college student who's never had a job and still lives at home with mommy.
He seems like a dangerous sociopath
Yea because even in these incel podcasts, they say they want traditional women, but that they would take care of them financially and they'd be set in every way. For some reason this idiott interpreted that sh%t as "my woman can't work but has to make her own money"...In his mind anything that even remotely resembles a woman having basic rights is being a simp. He needs to have his internet activities monitored. He gave me serious serial killer vibes no joke!
least charitable interpretation of a man's actions on youtube:
My ex husband was like this idiot to a tee. He did give me an allowance, tho, but it was only $30 a week, and only to pay for my medication. I remember thinking wait, I shouldn't be getting an "allowance " like a kid. But, he had made me quit my job, close my bank account, and stay home with our baby. I felt so isolated. And then he was actually shocked when I filed for divorce after only 3 years of marriage. He changed literally the day after we came home from our honeymoon. Tbh I stayed too long. This woman dodging a bullet is a huge understatement. If you see this ladies, RUN! Like preferably during the date!
I'm sorry you had to go through that, I hope you and your child are safe now.
@pineappleparty1624 Thank you so much for your kind words. It was a really difficult time. But yes, we are safe and happy now. ❤️
@katiemilady197 Yet, you fell and love and married him?
Did he change that drastically? If that's the case, no woman is safe.
Stay single.
@snapmalloy5556 Yes. It does happen to a lot of people. The person shows their real self once they marry you or pull you into their fake bs. I've been with someone else now for over 5 years, and he and I get along very well and have mutual respect for one another. I'm very happy with my current relationship. Not all men are like my ex.
@katiemilady197 Seeing someone change that drastically has to be frightening.
I'm glad both of my daughters are happily married to good guys. It would be scary to see them dating today
He's describing an abusive relationship and he's proud about it. What a clown.
An abusive relationship is were one can file false allegations and steal a whole damn house
@@arib515ahhh..what??? These incels are weird!! Loll🤣🤣
@@girlboss2427 Women did it to themselves. Women created incels k-12 most men are led and instructed by women then go home to a single mom. Deal with it LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@arib515 Are you still a virgin?
@@arib515incel…please, leave TH-cam. We’re sick of you on here
Thank goodness she was able to leave peacefully holy moly she dodged a bullet
Bro is absolutely unhinged, now I see why women would choose the bear over guys like him
Yep. And he’s in public saying this shit loud af. Imagine he saw a vulnerable and alone woman in the woods?
He’s not a threat. He’s a dumbass. If you rather see a bear in the woods you are just as dumb as this dude. Not all men are dangerous but most are definitely stupid
The reality is we really DONT want to be stuck with a bear. But if these are the type of guys we are stuck with I’ll take my chances with a bear. 😔
@p.hearting9992 Basically this is the "Strange man" we women think of when they ask us "Man or bear?"
If you see me fighting with a bear....help the bear😅
ah, indentured slavery, the foundation of any successful hostage sit- i mean, marriage.
Idk where you guys are getting slavery from, the guy just wants his woman at home serving the family, not out with friends for girls night, just keep her ass serving the family. That's what billions of people do today, why American women can't stay with one man lmao.
Sadly, there are a lot of women who have to live this
Nobody should tho... We need to do better as mankind to stop this.
Spreading awareness and being vigilant is how we stop it.
Sadly a lot of women just get to sit at home all day and care for their own offspring lmao sadly.
He's been watching way too many Andrew Tate videos. Run girl run.
Yall be watching the same stuff, i mean a women is suppose to help wit the house but i wouldnt want her to wash my clothes i feel useless if she did that, i wouldnt want her to work either but if she wants its fine and i would give her money
@@zeldaxninja3214 You can afford to keep a whole family on just your income? You must earn a lot or want to live in poverty.
@@zeldaxninja3214 no, we’re not all watching the same stuff. So you want a woman to do all the chores but not your laundry because I’m assuming you don’t want her to see the poop smears on your underwear?
Dont be this guy, touch some grass. lmao
FreshNFit, Andrew Tate, Donovan Sharpe...all guys that have infected his mind.
Can you point to where any of them have said something like this? Ie he should want a traditional woman while not doing traditional guy stuff?
@@lolcat5303there’s no such thing as a “traditional” woman. It’s called patriarchy.
@@lolcat5303 Everything those three guys do or say is toxic and nonsensical. Sounds like they have a few hooks in you.
And then they blame women for the “male loneliness” epidemic, instead of their own 💩 attitudes.
Massimo Torricelli from “365 Days”.
Putting all the other stuff aside for the moment, as creepy and werid as it was. If a guy ever suggests you won't be able to have any friends...walk, run, just get away. Major red flag.
This was the case for me, but he said I'm not allowed to have any guy friends. And he basically forced me to stop hanging out with the people I've been talking to so he can have me all to himself. Like if In order for us to be together, I have to stop seeing my friends, then you are manipulative af.
I’m a divorce paralegal and sadly just talked to someone who is living in this type of situation. When someone has financial control over you it’s really hard to get out.
Let me guess: he uses the fact she doesn’t work (because he won’t allow her to) against her?
That guy is a crime waiting to happen. What a creep.
This is one of the type of guys that’s screwing it up for the rest of us.
Definitely
Gilead’s calling they want their missing Commander back (poor girl’s “date” sounds like a Commander from Gilead)
Right?? 🤢💯
From the sounds of things I take it I'm lucky I don't know who "fresh and fit" is.
Correct
"She has no reason to go anywhere else honestly"
You do realise if she wants to go out & about and you won't allow it, she's just going to sneak out, right? People will get what they want, either the easy or the hard way. And at the end of the day, what are you going to do if she sneaks out? File a Police report? Yeah, they're not going to take your side.
Marks of a future abuser. Run don't walk away from these people.
It's not slavery. You're a prisoner.
Doing menial tasks with no reward at the end. That IS slavery.
Caring for your own children = slavery now, got it. Lmao I thought slavery was picking pounds of cotton in 100 degree heat all day. But now slavery is just raising your own kids and having a man give you money to do so. Lmao you guys are goofy.
Heavy conversation for date one. I'm not sad I don't date. Sounds rough.
I prefer those convos early on instead of wasting time.
@@magnarcreed3801 First date and we are asking how much money you will give your wife? Yikes! But to each their own for sure!
@@ReikiontheRun
Kids/no kids, 50/50 or trad, long term goals, where you want to settle or never settle, etc. Important things.
And wife or husband. Doesn’t matter to me.
To be honest it’s MUCH better to get these subjects out of the way before wasting any of your time. Natural conversation, though. I’m not about the “job interview” type of dates where you go through a questionnaire.
5:29 This is not a traditional relationship! This is a narcissist that's looking for somebody to be his property and bend to his every whim. I got news for you, Junior; it ain't happening! You can't have it both ways! She either stays home with the kids and you provide her everyone in need, or she goes back to work and y'all can split things 50/50, including the kids. You can't expect her to slave for you just because you're married. 🙄😒🤦🏼♀️ I worry the way women are raising up these men. I wish I'd hear him say some shit like that in front of his own mama.
I told an old friend this wasn't ever going to happen for him with that philosophy...
but 10 years of trying, and he DID find a woman to come right to his door, move into his cave, work and pay bills .. I mean she IS a drug addled meth head , whose always homeless , dumped her kids on people, and killed her last 2 husbands,
but I learned it IS possible 🤷
Probably not the mom. Lots of these influencers with podcasts are crazy.
I know a guy who's a real jerk, and he likes to treat his wife like a trophy. Always take pics of her bending over and putting them on Facebook. His mom doesn't like his behavior and said it started in college with the friends he made.
This is why, I don't date.
I'm so so happy i married before the whole dating app thing.
I wouldn't be fit for it.
@@littlemisseatscrispsforbre5353 Apparently, neither is anyone else 😂
@beircheartaghaistin2332 🤣🤣🤣🤣 true.
But am an aul one they're all young with energy to entertain people's bull crap talk.
This guy makes absolutely no sense, but at least he's upfront about his insanity I suppose
😅😅😅
I had a similar date to this one. The context is a bit different. I was dating this guy for a while from my church. At that time in my life, I thought myself pretty close to God and felt good about where I was spiritually.
However, nothing could have prepared me for what this guy did to me after one of about 5 dates in total. He brought his Bible into my parent’s house and opened it up on the dining room table to a certain book/verse. He read it out loud so anyone in the house could hear it whether they wanted to or not.
It was the section in the bible that talked about wives must commit fully to their husbands.. be humble and basically do what he says when he says it. To be submissive to your husband. This was the mid 1990’s and I was about 20. I couldn’t have pushed him out fast enough. I thought.., well if these were his beliefs now.. could you imagine if I stupidly married him?!? I’m not a feminist by no means but all I can say is wow. I hope he has a horrible time trying to find “his perfect woman”. I feel bad for the girl. I’m glad she used her backbone and hightailed it out of there! 👋
This sounds like something Hollywood would write into a movie and cloud it as romantic. Like “Twilight Saga”, “50 Shades of Grey”, and “365 Days”.
Out of curiosity, to you think men and women should have the same rights? And freedom of choice?
Traditional dating is dead. It’s either you get on a dating app and meet one of these creeps or you just stay single.
Men don’t approach women anymore either and if you approach them you risk coming off as desperate and attracting the wrong kind of guy. 💀
But that's also the kind of risk that men would go through too, and yes I agree it's completely dead, though I met my girlfriend in a dating app and now we've been together for 2 years and for now it's working out just fine, I think that it depends on the dating app, each dating app attracts different types of people.
I mean the second part I disagree. You have to admit women are the ones who killed that one. I say this as a woman. Women drilled it into men's heads that they do not want to be approached, which is why it stopped. Also you're wrong, most men find it highly attractive when a woman asks a guy out because it rarely happens
He'll probably get SSI for being brain dead😅
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😂😂😂
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He's not very nice.
You can hear the derision and resentment toward woman in his tone.
A lot men want a traditional wife yet are not able to provide like the traditional husband 😂
I am a stay home mom. My husband is the provider but he does give me money on thing that I need and want. For the wants, we will see how much money is left.
Hallelujah. I'm glad he isn't like THIS guy..like holy..
Sounds like you have a partner instead of a master. Good job 👏 lol
I'm sorry.
What a horrible role model for your kids.
@@ChicanoPhD what kid?
While this woman is at home taking care of the kids this man will be in the club with other woman 100%
I hate how talking to someone online doesn't tell you anything about what they're in person. Pretty much no one I ever met up with had the same personality or felt familiar no matter how long we were in contact with, it might as well be a total stranger. No point texting back and forth thinking you made a connection, it's not real. A total waste of time.
Yes and no. Everyone has different experiences.
Okay. I’m a stay at home mom. I can tell you, for certain, that if my husband hadn’t helped me at all with the baby or housework those first two months I would have gone literally insane. The stress, the pain, the slow recovery from birth, the tiny wailing thing that won’t let you sleep to try to recover, the fear and anxiety of needing to take care of them… yeah, without help a mom would literally go crazy. Not just a ‘oh hehe she’s loopy’ crazy but a not good at all kind of crazy. You forget to take care of yourself when you have a baby because you’re focusing on them.
All these men who want a wife like this are not just unrealistic but dangerous… because this is how you drive a woman to the point of insanity until something very bad happens.
She did us ladies a real solid sussing out this creep
How?! We don’t know WHO he is ….we don’t even have a picture! So how exactly did she do any woman a solid? She didn’t suss out or expose any creep. What TF
But, we don't know WHO it is?? Lol 🙄 use your brain.
As someone considered a homemaker if you are the breadwinner you generally provide funds and the homemaker takes care of most other things. Then you just get to come home and not worry about anything other than chillin. I of course have access to money, which is needed for a household. I of course still see my friends, that should just be normal. The point is to do equal amount of work or at least equal amount of responsibility. that is where the partnership comes from. Can’t have a trad wife if you can’t afford the trad life my man 😂
I laugh when he is like make her own money. How can she sell anything to another woman when she can't go out for coffee with friends. Business in general is about making relationships with people
@@anjolimartorell4107 it’s WILD so is she supposed to sell stuff on Etsy while not having money to make products? Is she supposed to do geico from home? That’s reasonable… but what if it cuts into HIS precious time. This dude sucks
@@commentsforthealgorithm She can do OF and not have to even leave the bedroom.
@@jonlee2217 oh that guy is SOOOO not letting that happen
My wife is disabled from a 4wheeler atv accident, i take full care of her and our houshold, from cooking and cleaning to working and paying bills and doing all upkeep and maintenance on home and car. I am an industrial mechanic and there is no ends i wouldnt go to to secure my wife and son
Not the staff singing happy birthday in the background 💀
Why get married if you want to make another person's life miserable
Dating apps are just looking for a weirdo. Lol Good luck people! I love this channel! ❤ 😂
It's very refreshing to hear a man actually point out the hypocrisy in these podcast bros asking for traditional wives while not wanting to fill the role of being a traditional husband.
He took the red pill and ended up in never never date again land.
the sauce slowly dripping onto the napkin added so much suspense to the video
By the sounds of the guy in the video it sounds like the pampers are for him
Always split the bill on the first date. That's just common sense. That way nobody feels obligated or owed. It's a meeting on equal terms instead of someone renting someone else's time.
If he´s watching lots of Fresh & Fit, then he´s so dumb he didn´t get the message right. The first thing F&F will tell you is that the man is the provider.
I (F29) just recently matched with a guy on Fbook dating (my first mistake) who seemed cool until he asked what gender my lunchtime friend was. When I told him it was a man, he literally said, "Oh... you're going to judge me for this..." which is a great way to lead into how you don't think men and women can be friends. I tried to ask him why, but it just sounded like he has some unresolved issues with an ex-gf who cheated on him. He said any gf of his could have no male friends specifically, like female friends were chill even if his gf was bi/pan, but any woman who's friends with a man is just playing him because she HAS to know he wants her carnally. Like, dude... get some therapy.
If the standard of friendship between men and women is 100% platonic love with no ideation of escalating into a sexual relationship, then the answer in general is no. Exceptions include befriending someone you have familial vibes with and someone you have no attraction for.
Look up gender differences in receptivity to sexual offers. Men had a 0% success rate when asking women for sex. Women had a 69-75% success rate.
"she HAS to know he wants her carnally." Basically. Of course the studies in question involved strangers. Perhaps the results may skew differently had a friendship already been established. But I doubt it would be much.
I feel bad for whoever ends up with THIS guy..
Dudes gonna date himself what r u talking about😂😂😂
You say it like someone HAS to date him. If he's waves red flags that blatantly he's gonna be single forever 😂
@@farahjoe9565 more like his hand
@@SinTellerwave? He’s a whole ass red building mf is a danger to society
He’ll eventually find a mentally ill girl to manipulate. There’s plenty of them, with self esteem so low, they believe all they can get is someone like this. Sad, but it happens. Just another statistic of domestic violence
Good for him for being honest. But yeah, get out of there!
Omg!!! What a controlling creep! Thank God she got out of there and left and that she blocked him too.
Fellas…if you treat women like this, you deserve to stay single forever. What a freak.
Your romantic relationship can not be your only relationship. Everyone needs family and friends.
Plot twist: he was just pretending so she wouldn't call him again.
I am so focused on what's on that napkin
People need to excuse themselves when they recognize strange behavior, and let it be known that you're excusing yourself because of strange behavior. Because people will bear it or change the subject and just block them later, they never learn what was wrong.
I guess at least he isn’t hiding his delusional beliefs and only wasted a week of her life. Still scary to be on a date with someone like that, you don't know what they are capable of when you say "no". Guys like him are why groups such as "are we dating the same guy" exist.
I think he deserves an "A" for his openness, honesty and being such an A$$HOLE. 😄👍
Dudes like him make ladies friendly to guys like me that actually CARE about them. 🤣
They don't care how handsome you are, how much money you have, or how big your muscles are.
@Someone-de3ln I'm sure they meant the genuine girls out there... not all men are the same and not all women are the same.
she is smart to ask what they want from a relationship. There is going to be a poor soul a girl who wont find out about him, or he will lie, and get stuck with this guy.
Is this real life?
That is an excellent question. And the answer is: We're not sure.
I seriously hope not. I'm begging this is a bit
Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if this was real there are some people who are actually this crazy
He DOES have a good quality tho. He's comfortable sharing his unrealistic standards up front, that way nobody gotta waste time on him
Dude decided to step outside his cult to find a date. Jokes aside, there is a disturbing trend of men increasingly having a warped reality of what the dynamics between men and women are supposed to look like. Too many men either want a woman to own or to be a mommy instead of a partner, and it's getting weird.
So true. I was the only lady in a class full of men. They all were talking shit to me because I was single. They all sound like people on the internet. They were getting mad when I was debating what life is like with just youtube😅😢
I’m hoping she hired a friend to do this and it’s fake.
This guy is a killer. The misogyny is thru the roof 👹
He wants to kidnap someone....ruuuuun....
Showing that podcaster at 4x speed highlights just how crazy they are. That was awesome! 🤣👍👍👍
I ❤ this channel! 😂
She is the first female that isn't his mommy that he has ever been on a date with
Why is everyone meeting on a app. Why not in person?
Lmao this is.
This guy also makes it hard for us real man to actually find dates an actual connections with people we want.
It kinda sounds like these men want servants to do everything for them
In spite of his rage, he is still just a simp in a cage.
Dating isn't for everyone.
What the hell is on that napkin ?
thank u! i know i wasn’t the only one. 🤢
I know. I couldn't stop looking at it. I thought it was ear wax. lol
I guess the silver lining is that he showed the red flags early on 🤷🏻♀️
He lives in a basement and screws a toilet tissue roll.
My wife and I have a traditional marriage in so far as she cooks dinner 4 times a week but other than that she has a career and a normal modern adult life. Why I say this is I’ve been feeling guilty about never cooking
This guy really gives off Leonard Lake vibes. Run, girl. RUN!!!!
100% this guy, if he isn't already, will gain weight and drop any effort he puts into the woman the moment he's married to her.
She will, it goes without saying, not be allowed to slip up even a little.
This guy can’t be serious. Why get married in the first place?
If I were this woman, and I heard this dude say he wants me to stay at home but find some way to make my own money, I would have immediately asked, "Oh, so you want me to start an OnlyFans?" I guess I admire this guy's honesty, but I revile his position, and I have no idea how he ever expects to find success in dating this way. I guess there *might* be some women out there who want no luxuries. Who want nothing at all but to stay at home with the kids. but in the US, that's probably 1 woman out of every 100,000. Not advocating for this dude to lie, but he's not going to get any women until he changes his worldview.
The entitlement of some men is unreal!
I watched a criminal minds once like that guy.
He taught men how to be alpha 😅
Real shame young men even think like this. At least top g will approve.
Proof of why not everyone should be allowed a platform or podcast.
He'll be spending his life angry and alone. Enjoy...
Lucky escape ma'am.
Spoken like a true 27-year-old virgin.
Apparently that matchmaking system is dogsh*t