My dad who became a babyㅣThe life of a caregiver with dementia for 10 years

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  • @kizzle_official
    @kizzle_official  ปีที่แล้ว +52

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    • @keniacristina6908
      @keniacristina6908 ปีที่แล้ว

      K 👏👏

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      @onw5693 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @drkess9427
    @drkess9427 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    자아를 잃어 버린다는건 인간으로서 가장 무서운 형벌과 같은것 같아요 또 곁에서 돌봐준다는건 진짜 대단한일 입니다 하루 빨리 치료제 개발이 되면 좋겠어요

  • @robert-antoinedenault5901
    @robert-antoinedenault5901 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Such a great daughter. It must be hard for her, I just hope that she has other family members that can support her also. Please take good care of yourself, your health is necessary for your father's wellbeing.

  • @곽사랑-r9i
    @곽사랑-r9i ปีที่แล้ว +42

    사랑이 눈으로 보여요. 아버님과 따님 모두 항상 건강하고 행복하시길 함께 기도할게요.

  • @여우성-y3m
    @여우성-y3m ปีที่แล้ว +98

    진짜 아버님을 잘챙기는 따님이네요 화이팅 입니다!!!!!!

  • @emnoh
    @emnoh ปีที่แล้ว +86

    채아님 진짜 아버지랑 닯으셨어요. 훤칠한 가족 이시네요ㅎ
    남매중에 막내딸인 저도 싱글이라 제가 치매 엄마를 모시고 있어서 늘 채아님 영상 공감하며 봅니다. 한손에 과일들고 다른 한손으로 또 잡으시는것도 똑같고 갑자기 용변보셔서 밖에 외출했다 힘들었던것도 똑같네요. 지금은 집근처 요양원에 모시고 일주일에 한두번 외출시켜드리며 지내는데 파킨슨까지 와서 자주 넘어져 다치시니 오늘도 요양원호출받고 급히 다녀왔네요...힘든 시간 다 이유가 있겠지요. 우리는 힘들어도 채아님 아버지, 우리 엄마의 영혼은 하나님 위로 안에서 평온하시길 기도합니다.

    • @yaseminavc789
      @yaseminavc789 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ne kadar zor olduğunu tahmin bile edemiyorum çünkü yaşamam gerek ve size Allah dan sabır ,güç,kuvvet diliyorum ki her zaman güçlü kalın🤲

  • @mohammedmoheen8819
    @mohammedmoheen8819 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Your father is very lucky that she had a daughter Like you. He was like reborn and for him, you're like a mother. Your real angel in this world.

  • @asj1515
    @asj1515 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    수년간 치매 앓다 돌아가신 울 할머니 너무너무 보고싶다. 아직도 너무 그립고 사무친다.
    아버님 따님 모두 응원합니다.

  • @choiroy
    @choiroy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    너무 천사같은 따님이시네요~ .. 그만큼 행복하고 행운이 가득한 일들이 계속 생기시길 바라봅니다~

  • @criyou4857
    @criyou4857 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    저도 우리 아빠께 저런 사랑을 드릴 수 있는 딸이면 좋겠어요😢 아빠가 그랬던 것처럼..

  • @mayvchrist3648
    @mayvchrist3648 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    the "oh, i forgot" was cute yet saddened me🥺wishing nothing but a blessing for him and his family❤

  • @Iren_.i2
    @Iren_.i2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    젊으신 분이 대게 친절하시고 멋지시네요ㅠ 존경합니다❤❤

  • @visvh5593
    @visvh5593 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    고생많으세요! 따님 건강도 잘챙겨가면서 케어하시길요 힘내시길 바랍니다

  • @allysa4322
    @allysa4322 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Unconditional love from a Daughter 🥺

  • @juni629
    @juni629 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    She is a great daughter I hope unnie your father get well soon 🙌🏻

  • @최원-s9q
    @최원-s9q 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    오늘도 막내 딸 최고!!

  • @katrinawheatley81
    @katrinawheatley81 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This made me tear up a bit. I took care of father until his final days. He was a double leg amputee and needed help doing a lot of things since he lost his independence. 3 months after his double amputation, he passed away from a stroke. We had a very close bond, so losing him really hurt. Even though some days were hard, I would do anything to see him again. Taking care of a loved one is not easy and it takes a mental toll on you. Especially if they depend on you for most or all of their needs.

  • @bayan6251
    @bayan6251 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    يعمرييي عليهاا ذي يلي تستااهل كل التعب يلي تعبوه عشاانها>>

  • @야구야-n3o
    @야구야-n3o ปีที่แล้ว +8

    저희 엄마도 지금 요양원에 계셔요 거기 들어 가시기 전 간병을 제가 했어요 가족 모두 마음의 준비하고 울기도 많이 울고…지금 많이 안 좋으신 상태에요 엄마 보러 갈 때 마다 많이 울고 온답니다 저는 엄마의 아픈 손가락입니다

  • @laerun18
    @laerun18 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    this reminded me of my grandpa when he was still around until the sixth grade, this was very heartwarming to watch that holds a lot of similar precious memories of mine.

  • @rosetofa8634
    @rosetofa8634 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank You for sharing your struggles you go through taking care of your Dad. I'm also taking care of my Mom who was diagnosed with Dementia 3 years ago. It's not very easy caring for our love ones. But, we are Blessed to care for them & make memorable memories. My 🙏🙏 & ❤❤ to you & your dad.

  • @메롱이다-m3z
    @메롱이다-m3z ปีที่แล้ว +3

    힘드실텐데 항상 응원합니다! 힘내세요 🙏

  • @윤승학
    @윤승학 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    병간호쉽지않은데 대단한정성이예요 치매는고칠수없는병이예요 따님대단하세요

  • @alisonperez4135
    @alisonperez4135 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I understand how you feel. My dad has been exactly the same since I am like 12 years old and he’s still alive but he’s like a child and I take care of him. I just lost my mom at age 18 and it’s been like a year and a half But I’m grateful to be alive and have my dad with me still ❤
    My full respect to you and may your dad and you be blessed and may all your dreams come true and may you have health & it may all your dreams become into reality and you inspire me to keep going. I really see a bright future. You will achieve it you got this🙏🛐

  • @떡기훈
    @떡기훈 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    응원하겠습니다

  • @NataliaNatalia-cm8tg
    @NataliaNatalia-cm8tg ปีที่แล้ว +71

    she is a wonderful daughter, he sure was an amazing dad 🙏🙏

    • @adilriyadi1075
      @adilriyadi1075 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes.. he look so calm and nice dad

  • @СветланаЦыденова-н5ъ
    @СветланаЦыденова-н5ъ ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Это очень трудно ! Морально , в первую очередь , 10 лет ! Боже , здоровья и терпения дочери ! 🙏

  • @해피니스-v2w
    @해피니스-v2w ปีที่แล้ว +5

    참 마음이 무거우면서 울적하면서도 대단하면서 복잡미묘하네요...정말...에효..

  • @만두이-z5j
    @만두이-z5j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    정말대단하시다... 좋은아버지셨나보다..

  • @sook0713
    @sook0713 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    채아님~영상 잘 보았습니다.
    아부지 최애영상 콩순이.
    개인업무도,아부지케어도, 정밀 쉽지 않은데 10년동안 해오셨다니 정말 대단합니다.식사를 너무 잘 드셔서 저까지 흐뭇하네요!!❤

  • @flowerSun-n7h
    @flowerSun-n7h ปีที่แล้ว +7

    역시 막내 효녀채아님 넘 아름답습니다
    그 효심 주님께서 다 보시고 알고 기억하여 주십니다
    온유하신 워딩의 뉴앙스까지 효심이 진실로 뜨겁게 울컥으로 느껴집니다
    주님께 기도 올려드립니다
    조금만 인내로 해 주시면 영원한 주님의나라서 뵐수있습니다
    그때는 아빠도 주님나이로요
    그 순간이 눈 앞입니다 그제서야 아빠가 넘 기뻐하시고 고마움의 눈물까지 폭포수되어 쏟으실겁니다
    막내공주님 응원합니다

  • @존중하세요
    @존중하세요 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    사랑하는 우리 엄마 아빠가 나를 더 이상 알아보지 못한다는 사실을 깨닫는다면 말로 표현할 수 없을 장도로 정말 슬플 것 같다

    • @farmiga6193
      @farmiga6193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      부모님이 나이가 들수록 늙어간다는게 두렵고 치매까지 와서 나를 못알아본다면 정말 슬플거같음..

  • @최사랑-777
    @최사랑-777 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @빅파
    @빅파 ปีที่แล้ว

    너무 감동적이며, 효녀이시네요.

  • @knj_018
    @knj_018 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    좋은 사람 만나서 알콩달콩 잘 사실길 바래요 복받을 꺼에요

  • @cocochanel3058
    @cocochanel3058 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    아버님이 참 순하시게 치매를 하시는것 같아요. 어떤분은 항상 화를 내셔서 가족들이 힘들어 하시던데요. 힘 내세요.

  • @dininovianti1403
    @dininovianti1403 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God will give you a lot of good thing, fighting unnie.. Me and my Mom also take care of my Grandmother, just like your father.
    Take care, keep healthy, keep smile.. I am praying for your happiness.

  • @manjunath83267
    @manjunath83267 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It's rare to get like this daughter to every father, father is lucky to have daughter
    I wish you & your father stay healthy, happy memories together till end
    Thank you for showing father, beautiful,lovely daughter relationship

  • @MN-cd3ck
    @MN-cd3ck ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless her🙏🏻 Everything she did to her father will never be lost.

  • @유리짜응
    @유리짜응 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    돌아가신아버지가 많이 생각납니다 영상을보니까 참효녀시네요 두분다 행복하시기를 바래요^^

  • @soyoung_sara
    @soyoung_sara ปีที่แล้ว +4

    책임감 있게 도망 안 가고 최선을 다 했어 너 오늘 너무 잘 했어
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @후해공
    @후해공 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    효자이신만큼 얼굴이이쁜만큼 성격이 이쁘시네요

  • @afatima9957
    @afatima9957 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    언니, 당신은 천국을 샀습니다. 🙌💐💛

  • @wdh0528
    @wdh0528 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    정말 대단하십니다..

  • @melaniecruz4129
    @melaniecruz4129 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I understand what she's going through. It's really hard, and you need to have so much unconditional love and patience. Thank you for sharing this video.

  • @TD-rd4zo
    @TD-rd4zo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a wonderful person. Please take care of yourself too.

  • @cloudsefi_drawing
    @cloudsefi_drawing ปีที่แล้ว +18

    😭😭 It's super-hard to have to take care of someone, but it's always better at home than anywhere else. (I have a grandmother 100 years old, and most of the time it takes two people to do the tasks)

  • @Theo-ex6se
    @Theo-ex6se ปีที่แล้ว +3

    뭐라 표현할 길이 없어서 무슨 말을 해야 할지 잘 모르겠습니다만 많이 힘드실 텐데 아버지를 오랫동안 보살펴 주셔서 감사합니다. 분명 채아님은 큰 축복을 받을 겁니다. 나중에 우리 모두가 하늘나라에서 만난다면 아버지가 정상인 모습으로 고맙다고 말씀하실 거고 신이 채아님의 사랑과 희생에 100배 만배로 보살펴주실 겁니다. 힘내세요 기도하겠습니다.

  • @주학구옥주희-v5k
    @주학구옥주희-v5k ปีที่แล้ว +5

    존경스럽고 대단합니다
    저도 아버지와 단둘이 사는데 여러가지 생각과 복잡한 감정이 교차됩니다ㅠ ㅠ

  • @shiofathi3249
    @shiofathi3249 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    سبحان الله هو اللي كان يربيها و يأكلها لما كانت صغيرة و الان لما هو مرض صارت تعامله كأنه طفلها و تردله الجميل رضى الوالدين من رضا الله ❤

  • @ibtisama4340
    @ibtisama4340 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I support you. We must sacrifice for our parents in their old age, as they did in our childhood. Then our children will do the same for us too. God will compensate us.

  • @니와-x6v
    @니와-x6v ปีที่แล้ว

    치매가 정말 무서운 병이네요 늘 화이팅하시고 힘내세요!

  • @loonamoona461
    @loonamoona461 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a good amd careing doughter

  • @unjilee956
    @unjilee956 ปีที่แล้ว

    See this video make me reminiscing when i was caring my grandpa who also have dementia, unfortunately he passed away last year. There’s up and down when you take care people with dementia, it’s truly a precious memory. I hope the father always have a healthy condition and have many many years to come /sorry if i messed up, english not my first language/

  • @Bravo_art
    @Bravo_art ปีที่แล้ว +6

    아빠 아빠 자꾸 불러야 반응하시니 하루에도 수백번 아빠를 부르게 되죠
    아무리 착한 치매라도 정말 힘드실텐데 채아씨 대단하시네요~
    다른 가족들 채아씨 많이 도와주셔야겠어요~
    응원합니다

  • @jinoK8891
    @jinoK8891 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    세상에서 가족을 기억 못하는..가장 슬픈병 아무리 가족이라도 병수발 힘드실텐데 대단하십니다.

  • @pepepetur
    @pepepetur ปีที่แล้ว

    엄마 아빠 보고싶어요 사랑해요

  • @hanni.i0i
    @hanni.i0i ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow it must be very hard on her. keeping her cool and staying collected all the time and having the patience for her dad is truely awesome. respect!

  • @honiy_23233
    @honiy_23233 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:06so cute🥺🥰

  • @alijawad1461
    @alijawad1461 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In korean society where everyone thinks about himself/herself and focus on their own work to make more money. It’s very impressive that a daughter is taking care of a dad. But how does she survive without a job or May be she gets money from government by taking care of her dad.

  • @OI77I
    @OI77I ปีที่แล้ว

    힘내세요!

  • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
    @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I know how it is as I took care of both my late parents myself. It was so hard and stressful.. Wish all kids can be this filial to their parents.

    • @alicea5
      @alicea5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel ya. It’s extremely hard.

  • @userjyjk
    @userjyjk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    진짜 닮으셨다 두분

  • @상록수-d2u
    @상록수-d2u ปีที่แล้ว

    진짜 효녀네...

  • @kollinhampton386
    @kollinhampton386 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Noona fighting. God bless you and your appa

  • @나우큐
    @나우큐 ปีที่แล้ว

    요즘 세상에도 이런 천사분이 계시군요
    눈물이 나네요

  • @hah-g1w
    @hah-g1w ปีที่แล้ว +1

    세상에 이런 효녀는 심청이 이후 처음입니다😂

  • @amilaranaweera808
    @amilaranaweera808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She have a beautiful ❤

  • @fauzianalwoga
    @fauzianalwoga ปีที่แล้ว

    Reminds me of when my mom's achalasia condition got worse and she had to depend on me 😢. I miss you so much mummy and thanks for always loving me

  • @lolo9408
    @lolo9408 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So warm❤

  • @tonyblair883
    @tonyblair883 ปีที่แล้ว

    I respect this young lady. I also have a disabled mother and do my best for both of us ❤❤

  • @손재혁-w9l
    @손재혁-w9l 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    효녀다.

  • @파란-i2p
    @파란-i2p ปีที่แล้ว

    응원할게요

  • @leamichelle3792
    @leamichelle3792 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He is so calm and peaceful even if he does not know what is going on.

  • @Hossbhb
    @Hossbhb ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Deus abençoe ela, guerreira

  • @정성민-b4c
    @정성민-b4c ปีที่แล้ว

    효녀다😃

  • @dalereed8727
    @dalereed8727 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am praying for you and your

  • @사건의지평선-u1n
    @사건의지평선-u1n ปีที่แล้ว

    채아양 희망이 없을거에요 근데 소망이 있으니 그 소망이 기적을 데려올거에요 힘내시고 그냥 감사하네요 처음본 남인 제가

  • @tiger21net
    @tiger21net ปีที่แล้ว +1

    친절하다여성❣️

  • @noormohmmed9950
    @noormohmmed9950 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    البنت المثاليه ✨🤍

  • @lamlou__2032
    @lamlou__2032 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥺🥺🥺😩💔
    مره زعلت مره
    الله يشافيه و يعافيه ✨🥺😩💗

  • @dearkaelsman5408
    @dearkaelsman5408 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You Work hard 🍀, 🌟 and ❤️.

  • @wiwidhumaira4166
    @wiwidhumaira4166 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope your dad fast recovery

  • @Lisse...
    @Lisse... ปีที่แล้ว

    I really hope she has a good support system around her that helps her. Its incredibly hard to care for them alone. Since the carers also know that there is no cure or getting better with this disease. I wish them all the best ❤️

  • @Kpopnoona90
    @Kpopnoona90 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel sorry for her but she takes care of him very well!!

  • @sonamtsering1277
    @sonamtsering1277 ปีที่แล้ว

    yur father great 👍👍❤ love yu

  • @zalmaaxmed-kc6ce
    @zalmaaxmed-kc6ce ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ooooooh mashallah 😊🥰 i like it how to care your father 😢😘😇

  • @어-h5l4x
    @어-h5l4x ปีที่แล้ว +1

    저또한 2년전 뇌경색.대장암으로 몸만 불편하신 아버지를 모시고 있습니다. 육체적.정신적이 얼마나
    힘든지 어느정도는 공감합니다.
    기적 이란것도 있으니 힘내세요

  • @sonamtsering1277
    @sonamtsering1277 ปีที่แล้ว

    yur realy nice 👍👍 i hope yur father recovery

  • @happilyhopless_roblox
    @happilyhopless_roblox ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG HER DAD IS SOOOOO CUTE I'M GONNA SCREAM

  • @zf5567
    @zf5567 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤you are to be commended.. caretaking for a loved one is sooo hard.. it’ takes everything from you.. but we as children.. what can we do except give our parents the final dignity of caring for them..❤️ I took care of parents, and now recently my husband.. I’m glad I was there fir them..

  • @효니-i4w
    @효니-i4w ปีที่แล้ว

    저도 딸래미 입니다 아빠를 너무좋아해요
    지금35이고 결혼도 했지만 아직도 아빠앞에선
    애기랍니다

  • @merriereyes8833
    @merriereyes8833 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    bro. I cried when he forgot the he has an apple on his right arm. I don't know why.... T_T

  • @سلام-ط3ق
    @سلام-ط3ق ปีที่แล้ว

    يعمري 🥺🥺

  • @웅권-g1k
    @웅권-g1k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    아이구 우리 효녀시구만 ㅡ
    힘드시겠지만
    그래두
    이다음에 아버님이 돌아가시면 지금 이렇게라도 아버님을 위해서 간병을 해준게 행복한 기억으로 남을 겁니다
    어버이 살아계실때 섬기기란 다하여란 말처럼
    돌아가신 후에는 목소리를 듣고 싶어도 얼굴을 보고 싶어도 효도하고 싶어도 다 못다한 것이 뼈저리게 후회 됩니다
    아빠 아빠 할 때마다 가슴이 먹먹해 지는 건 ,
    아빠가 건강하신상태에서 아빠하면 평상적인 일이지마는
    아빠가 치매걸리셔서 어려우신데 따님이 아빠 아빠 할때마다 아빠를 향한 딸의 마음은 얼마나 가슴 아플가 하는 생각이 드니 그래서
    따님리 아마 아빠 부를 때마다 가슴이 뭉클 합니다 ㅡ
    아빠돌아가시면 제일 많이 우실 거 같아요
    더 심해지지 마시고 혹시라도 증세가 조금이라도 더 좋아지셨으면 좋겠습니다 ㅡ

  • @krisarm6559
    @krisarm6559 ปีที่แล้ว

    Es una excelente hija, que Dios los bendiga 🤍

  • @Songgiii
    @Songgiii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m crying

  • @Park-Gwangu
    @Park-Gwangu ปีที่แล้ว

    채아씨 화이팅

  • @GHO784
    @GHO784 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alicea5
    @alicea5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Taking care of a dementia parent isn’t easy. My grandfather’s sister had dementia and was a wandering soul. She couldn’t stay in one place and it was very hard on my cousin. She kept trying to leave the house and other times often said she wanted to come see my mom. She would often kick my cousin’s mother, curse, and did other things that made taking care of her very hard. Unfortunately, she passed away last year.
    It’s good her dad isn’t the wandering type. My dad didn’t had dementia, but a stroke. It has been hard to care for him as he’s abusive verbally and refuses to let IHSS paid me for caring for him. Never easy when the parents are tough to care for. Caregiver burnt out are real. I hope she has a strong support foundation to help keep her strong!