That mom not only served disgusting 8 month old ruined the food at the wedding, but she denied perfectly good food (at the time) to people in need. She should be ashamed of herself. She claims she didn't want it to "go to waste" but her actions did exactly that.
She was clearly being cheap and she deserved the backlash she got. And she's lucky no one ate it and got sick because she would've been drowning in lawsuits.
My grandmother lived through the Great Depression. Even though she's been financially stable for decades, she's still funny about food. Maybe Mom's poor, or has been before and never got out of the starvation mindset. I'm not saying OP is the AH, I think she did the best she could. But maybe some compassion is warranted here. This is pretty strange behavior, there might be something going on.
A 15 THOUSAND dollar gift just to help someone in a genuine way - those two are probably the nicest people I have ever even heard of - I'm glad they took the money away from that bridezilla and then donated it to charity for some sweet petty revenge
Absolutely! No one is entitled to your money or generosity. Plus treating you like shit when they just perceive that you aren't being as generous as you *could* be? That's disgusting behavior. It wouldn't hurt to remind bridezilla of that!
Yes! They did the right thing by cancelling that check. If those people couldn't afford to pay for fertility treatments, then how the hell do they think they're going to be able to afford raising a child?! Kids are way more expensive than those treatments, especially if the baby is born with congenital issues that can happen to anyone. People this selfish might abandon a baby that isn't perfect. They sound very immature, and not like good parents. My cousin's son got a girl pregnant so they got married much too young. Sadly, the doctors found that the baby had a serious defect, her brain was outside of her skull. If the baby lived, she would have to live without a cerebellum and would be severely disabled, a vegetable. This teenage couple had very religious family, so wouldn't consider abortion even though their Christian doctor advised them to terminate. They believed that God would miraculously "fix" their baby just before birth. Any parents who believe in magic are too immature to have a healthy baby, much less one with no brain. I'm not talking about prayer, as I do that too, but only if a cure is possible. Of course that miracle didn't happen even though their family sent lots of money to a TV preacher who promised that God would cure their baby. After about a month seeing their blind, deaf, deformed daughter in the NICU, the teen couple decided they didn't want to be parents and they moved out of state, leaving this poor baby to be my cousin's responsibility. My cousin is in her 70s now, and has taken care of this now adult, severely disabled person for @ 40 years. It has consumed her life and has wrecked her own health having to do everything for her that a newborn requires, but for 40 years. When my cousin dies, her granddaughter will go to a nursing home and probably not live long. IMO, that poor girl never had a life, and her selfish parents condemned her to an existence where she can only feel pain. Her selfish parents got divorced after about a year and have never paid a dime for her care or visited her. I asked my sister why doesn't our cousin sue them for support? She told me our cousin thinks they've been "punished" enough. WTF? They just moved on, it's our cousin who's been punished. Oh, and our cousin believes that money she sent to Jimmy Swaggart was justified and well-spent because the girl is still alive. I've seen her and wouldn't call that "life". That money should have been donated to a children's hospital or to brain research where it could have done more than make a rich grifter richer. Sorry for the rant, I'm just sick of selfish people who don't care who they hurt. I've had a rough time lately because of selfish people so I guess I'm a bit triggered!
It was a lovely gift, giving 15,000 for some people is like giving 100 for another. However, the cousin wasn't entitled to any cash, and nobody owes anybody a thing.
@LazyIRanch I can tell that rant was needed. That sounds so messed up, and I agree, selfish people hurt those around them without remorse, and it's tiring and infuriating
Want to hear a good bride story: One of my friends got married on my birthday, she and i both knew it was my b-d but i didn't make a fuss i was her MOH and happy to be her MOH. Well during the reception it got really weird, really quiet and all of a sudden i hear the Happy Bday song and a small chocolate cake being brought over to me....I couldn't believe it. She even made a little speech that we have been friends from practically birth and how when she planned her wedding and it fell on my b-d how i never made a fuss about it so she wanted me to know how much she appreciate me....Now that is sweet.
One of my brides maids was 8.months pregnant at my wedding. I thought it was incredible nice of HER to even agree! She had to buy a much larger dress than her normal size and have it altered. She had to stand up there for like 15 minutes at the ceremony. She was on her feet for most of the night and was so tired by the end. But she did it! For us! And I will always be grateful for that ❤ (p.s. It's because she's Canadian)
That’s so sweet of you to recognize that about your friend who was pregnant when she was one your brides maids. I’m 28 weeks and I would imagine struggling to get through the demands of being in the bridal party at a wedding. Just saying you both sound very sweet and kind hearted individuals. ❤😊
Just bc your one nationality over another doesn't me that nationality is more kind or caring etc... I know it's just a joke but some ppl may believe its really true. There are a few to many ppl who believe everything they read on the internet. There are also ppl who think that they're better than anyone else such as race, religion, ethnicity, and so on. Please don't make comments like that bc everything is taken literally instead of figuratively. God bless you ALL and have a good night. This is my opinion so please don't put me on blast. Thank you.
I nearly cried hearing someone was so generous to give 15k for infertility. That's the most incredible gift you could give someone. So while I can empathize a bit with the bride struggling with infertility, that is simply never how we treat people. Completely unacceptable and OP had no reason to still reward her after that.
Truly & honestly even if they had not shown up w/ a gift the bride should have never asked them about the registry nor the small box gift? How tacky can you be, greeting ppl at ur wedding & if there’s no gift to ur satisfaction u kick them out? Zero class, if ur having wedding make sure u know there expensive & it’s a social event your throwing no 1 owes u anything but if they do give a gift that’s thoughtful & nice no matter what it is, period.
Yanno, every child deserves a mother, but not every mother deserves a child. If this is how this self-entitled woman acts over a perceived slight, then any potential kid that could have resulted from this has dodged a MASSIVE bullet.
I don't know what's worse - serving thawed out food which has been frozen for 8 months or the last bride who felt entitled to money. I feel bad for that bride's fertility issues but girl, the only one who ruined it was you after treating them that way.
If that was me after the infertile bride greedily insulted the gift and snatched it, I would have snatched it right back, opened it right then and rip that check up up in front of her! I'd have snatched that tiny box back even if it meant I had to tackle her for it!😂
I don't know what possessed the mother to take all that leftover food from the narrator's wedding only to reuse it at her other daughter's wedding?! Was the mother being a cheapskate or something?
As a public health professional and epidemiologist this had been out for a long time on a buffet table, at who know what temperature? Then frozen with whatever bacteria was growing on it as most can survive freezing. This is a great way to get a lot of people stick and save a little money. Should’ve donated to the soup kitchen.
And unless she had a blast chiller, that much food (possibly still warm) going into the freezer all at once will mean it will take even longer for that food to get to a frozen state....meaning even more time for growth. At what point do her actions become biological warfare... Lol
Yeah, that was also my concern. Lots of people think that freezing kills all bacteria, and thats not really how it works, especially with defrosting home freezers. Perhaps more would be killed with an industrial deep freezer, but I highly doubt that is where it was stored. She embarrassed her mother, but that's not *her* fault. The mom is at fault for doing something potentially unsafe. And they could have just asked people to bring different potluck dishes. That's a great way to save money and have food that you know your guests will like. Set up a group chat for the guests so they can work out who will bring what. It's honestly not that difficult.
@@Just1Nora Salmonella, listeria, and E. Coli, the big one we are always having food recalls over are cyro-survivable even in industrial freezers. So it’s best not save food like that in a freezer. The donation would have been best as they would have reheated it under a controlled temperature and then served it.
The last story, did anyone else catch this? She ripped the "small gift" box out of her hand while simultaneously kicking them out, and THEN, had the audacity to only text an "apology", not even bothered enough to call and profusely apologize. Nope, just texted it. 🙄
The money one got me. My family struggles sometimes due to the fact that I have 6 siblings, and there are things that we enjoy even though they are small. When my parents got me a Walkman for finishing 5th grade, I started using it all the time. They knew that music was everything in my eyes, and so they granted me that. They did the same with all of my other siblings too, so when the bride started insulting them without even checking it, I felt insulted too. Like, have they never only gotten a card with money on their birthday before?
Same! I grew up in a similar situation. We weren't poor by any means, but with 8 kids in my family, there were multiple times growing up where my parents said we would have to choose between getting only 1 nice present or several small, cheaper presents for Christmas and birthdays. I remember one year when my parents got me a smart phone for Christmas. I had had a dumb flip phone for years and it was so hard to get good cell service. I was so thrilled to have the smart phone, even though it was an older model. I remember being truly shocked, because I had figured that a smart phone would be one of those things that I would have to scrape and save for because I knew they were expensive and thought my parents may not be able to afford it. I honestly can't believe the entitlement of that bride. Just because a gift comes in a small box doesn't mean that the gift is cheap.
The last pettiness has me really satisfied and happy. It’s great they are kind and generous people but also able to stand their ground and not be pushed around by peoples entitlement.
First one... not just shameful that mom served old food to wedding guests, but she literally stole food from the mouths of poor families. More outraged that hungry kids didn't get food that bride had designated for them. Mom should have to make a donation to the soup kitchen for the food she appropriated from them.
Yeah, that upset me too. The first sister literally had a plan for that food and her mom stole from her, and by extension underprivileged people, to save her sister money. There are lots of ways to cut corners and save money, but theft shouldn't be one of them.
Mom should have ASKED about the food before commandeering it away. Then again, she may have already known the answer she would have received from the bride. Cuckoo entitlement, Mom!
Imagine throwing a Dudley Dursley tantrum over a present and thinking you're mature enough to raise children. 😬 Seems like it might be for the best that awful cousin can't conceive...
I was thinking the same damn thing! Like you invite loved ones to your wedding & get mad they didn't buy the biggest most expensive gift. And snatch their "tiny" box out of their hand & KICK THEM OUT. If she does have kids (God forbid) they're 100% going to take after their mother & be bullies. OP did the best thing by canceling that check.
Hey, that’s a really good point. If you can’t control your own emotions and are throwing a tantrum over somebody else’s money, you probably shouldn’t raise children.
The $15K story made me so angry, I got goosebumps. I would cut them off SO FAST! I bet that foundation was so much more grateful. I wouldn't feel bad for two seconds. They are obvious a kind and generous couple.
I was in the shower listening on my speaker and I had to jump out of the shower to make a comment. It made me so angry and I was wishing that they did not back down. They didn't and not only that did something generous for someone else. Kudos to this kind and thoughtful couple. I hope she's completely blocked out of her life. They need to tell everybody to back the F off. Not only did she lose generous friends but she probably lost out on future things like oh I don't know perhaps a down payment toward a new home or very generous gift towards the baby she may have in the future or a generous housewarming gift. I hope she spends the next 15 years thinking about that😂😂😂
The defrosted food… A friend of mine had gone overseas to a wedding. The reception was at the bride’s mother’s house. Just as the food was going round (they were finger foods, prepared by the mother) one of the daughters came round and whispered to the guests not to eat the prawn balls… Apparently, the mother had been getting the food ready for three days and put the prawn-balls IN THE KITCHEN CUPBOARD on the first day…
I used to do catering. In my state, if the food had been served on a buffet line, we were forced to throw out any remaining food off the buffet line, even if the people who ordered the catering wanted the buffet food afterwards. If it hadn't been served (meaning there was an extra tray or two), and proper food safety guidelines followed, the food could be taken home by the party organizers or donated to a food shelter. It's to reduce liability because food on buffet lines is exposed to more bacteria from guests. That's why sometimes half-filled trays are replaced after certain periods of time, so people don't get sick!
And unless she had a massive blast chiller.....all that food going into one freezer at once meant it spent even more time in the danger zone, cuz all that food will "help" keep each other warm.
Also, dinner is usually served hours before the end of a wedding reception. Did mom leave early to freeze the leftovers? Was there a big enough cooler/freezer at the venue? Several catering companies in my town have heated and refrigerated cabinets that they bring from off site and just plug in at the venue. Did they let her use them? Did she just leave the leftovers in her car for the night? How far does she live from the venue, with food being room temperature the whole time? Almost certainly she didn't follow reheating or thawing procedures. Gross.
I came to comment the same thing! Where I live we have regulations preventing the donation of any "left over" buffet due to the nature and conditions of serving a buffet its self, re: temperatures and bacterium. As much as I would LOVE to donate all the beautiful left overs, it's just far too risky to those who are already vulnerable. I literally can not fathom how that reheated food must have looked and smelled, let alone tasted 😳
My sister in law was very pregnant and gave birth to my niece three days after my wedding day. Since it was in a different city and she would have had to be in the car for about 6 hours, I told my brother that it would be absolutely fine if he feels like he needs to be with his wife and I wouldn't feel hurt. The way he managed it was by coming to the wedding by himself and my SIL was with us the entire time on Zoom, her sister was with her just in case she needed to go to the hospital. My brother attended and drove back home a few hours after the wedding was over. we celebrated my niece a couple of weeks later and we had an intimate gathering and I was able to catch up on everything with my SIL. If I was able to postpone, I would've, if it was safe for her to attend, she would've. Life should not be this complicated FFS.
@@blerdofpeace5329 Thank you, a wedding is a celebration not a reason to torture people and make them uncomfortable for one's own pleasure and irrational needs and wants
Thanksgiving 1977, thanks to my mother's questionable food handling, my entire extended family ended up sick for days, a few in the hospital, from salmonella AND botulism. I was only 11 but had sense enought to tell her that homecanned food should not fizz when you opened it. She tossed them out just didn't clean behind herself properly, so thankfully nobody died. She also poured gravy over some undercooked turkey because some people had to leave early and dinner needed to be on the table. So, when the holidays rolled around one of us would ask, "Hey Mom, did you invite Sam and Ella this year?". She was never amused. The upside? I learned to cook very well, even working as an inhome private chef fora. few years up until the rona. Then everyone discovered those meal prep kits.
I worked in deli dept of a supermarket years ago. Coworkers and I noticed unopened deli turkey wrapper puffed out. Told manager it was probably bad and she was like “it’s the natural gasses”. 😳 yeah from bacteria. We were night crew and kept it hidden so nobody would order it then chucked it and got new one. My dad was retired USDA packing plant inspector and nearly had a cow (pun intended) when I told him.
The first story is horrifying!!! I've worked in kitchens for years and yeah, some foods are fine if you freeze them for that long, but freezing PREPARED food for that long is.... so ick. Also like you said, cooking for a small-ish wedding saves a ton of money! My sister and her husband did that. Each part of the family picked a dish to prepare and we ended up with a fantastic dinner and a few hundred more bucks to go to registry gifts and such. You can be conscious of your money without endangering people lmao
When I was a bride Decades ago, I and my husband didn't care if any of our guests brought a gift or not, we just wanted them there and to have a great time! My Mom and Dad taught me to be grateful.
Hard same. I told the bridal party to not worry about gifts. I paid for their nails, and offered to pay for their dresses, and we also paid for tux rental (it was all budgeted for). We expected nothing but their presence. Everything on our list was less than $50, many less than $25. Except one very nice skillet I wanted/needed which was less than $75. Not everyone had the money, and we decided we’d rather have loved ones about without putting financial strain on them
We did a similar thing too, we had our home together, so we just said if you want to give us anything, please donate to an animal charity as a gift, we would be very happy with that
Isn't that the point of the wedding though? I thought weddings are to exchange vows in front of everyone you want to be a part of in one of the most special days in your life and not a scummy way to get money and luxuries out of everyone u know?
I am engaged now and I don’t think I will even make a wedding registry. If people want to give me a present, that’s nice of course, but I’m not going to ask for anything. A number of my friends will need to travel to attend so them making the effort to be there, take a hotel etc, is already something I am grateful for and I will have nice photos to remember them being there.
Also important to note: Freezing food does NOT pause the freshness. We tried with eggs. We cooked up a whole bunch, divided them into 7 different bags and froze them. The idea was to save time cooking breakfast. By the time we go to the 5th bag they had gone rancid. Keep in mind these were frozen IMMEDIATELY after cooking and they didn't even last a week in the freezer. I can't even imagine how rank 8 month old buffet food would be. 1st story lady just stopped a war crime.
It was biological warfare at that point. Because unless she had an industrial/commercial blast chiller then that amount of food going into the freezer (possibly still warm from the buffet) would "help" keep each other warm, and it could have taken days or even weeks for the centers to finally freeze.... like you said literally a crime.
how odd...ive frozen cooked eggs before (scrambled , not fried or boiled) and have had them last a month . i did cool them down first by putting in the fridge prior to freezing so maybe that was the diffrence . it is better for your fridge and freezer not to put piping hot food in either ...makes it work harder to cool.
Yep, I’ve kept fresh (butcher’s made, not processed) sausages in the freezer drawer for over 6 months and they went rank… :/ A freezer is not a magic time-feeezing box.
@@yoshidababies4222 sausagea have fat, that's why those don't go long time in freezer..even if you have beef or lamb sausages, you need fat it not to be dry. For meats, pork only us good for a month or so. Beef bit longer. I've had beef in vacuum and after a year still edible. Moose and deer can be still ok after two years in vacuum. For cooked food i generally don't even try more than few months. But it has to be frozen asap and tbh unless it's vacuum bag, the air is going to get in.
Some food freezes well and some shouldn't be frozen at all, but 8month is actually pushing it for lots of ingredients. I'd be doubtful mom knew exactly what would keep as long and how to package, freeze and defrost it properly. Also, side note, what kind of freezer does this woman own, that she just casually has the whole meal for a wedding stored in there? Even for a small wedding of 25 people or so, that would be a lot of food.
The story with wanting to change their name reminded me so much of my aunt. She and my mom are both named Doris, and for literally SIXTY YEARS she has had it out for my mom for having the same name. I kid you not, a few years ago there was a wedding and my aunt sat behind my mom for three hours during the reception, staring murder daggers at her. Like, how can she help it if Doris was a popular name in the freaking 1940's?!
Lol. I was just talking to my daughter the other day about the fact that her brother has 4 friends named Jake/Jacob, 2 Cody, 2 Adam. The more popular a name is during a period of time, the more likely it is that you'll be acquainted with multiple people with that name.
My sister 7 months pregnant was my matron of honor at my wedding. She was absolutely beautiful in her one of a kind maturity dress. I never had a thought that she would take the spot like from me. I even helped her with her hair & her dress while I did all my own hair & makeup. I also didn’t care if all eyes were not on me at all times. The only thing I needed that day was for my groom to say yes & for someone to hold my dress up while I pee’d. Lol!
That's awesome! And I bet makes for even better pics for your friend to go over years later. "OMG, I forgot Maggie was SO pregnant when we got married! Imagine if her water had broken during the vows? What chaos that would have been! hahaha". Fun memories for good friends.
My sister had my nephew less than a week after my wedding. She was my Matron of Honour and looked gorgeous. She wore a beautiful soft yellow gown in a style suited to her condition, my other bridesmaids wore blue, the ribbons for all their flowers were mixed blue and yellow. No, you aren’t supposed to care how people you love look but I don’t see what isn’t beautiful about pregnancy anyway.
The 15k people are not a-holes. My mother always taught me you be just as grateful for a pair of socks as you are for a diamond ring. I stand by that. Because no one owes you anything. My friend is filthy rich. For my birthday she got me flowers. She secretly called my mom and tried to figure out what my favorite flower was so she could get me a bouquet. It was so fricking thoughtful. I loved those flowers and thought it was so sweet. Someone else’s bank account does not dictate what they should give you. Be happy they thought of you at all and be grateful for their presence if they bring positivity to your life.
Exactly. My absolute favorite gift has always been this crocheted blanket that a secret santa gave me in shades of my favorite color. 😍 this was like 15 years ago so yarn wasn't that expensive but to me the time they spent on it means WORLDS to me and gives it a much greater value than any other gifts I have gotten.
100% agree, a thoughtful gift is worth a lot more than an expensive gift (and the dumb-ass bridezilla from the video lost out on a gift that was both by being such an ahole idiot)
Yeesss i Always Say that. Obv I don't mind receiving Money as gift but I would be 10000000 times happier if you gave me something you know I really like, meaning that you listen to me and are willing to spend time for me...
I absolutely love this. It's rarely the price tag, but the thought behind it that counts. That your friend went into cahoots with your mom to figure out your favourite flower(s) shows how much she cares. I can't help but wonder if you are also (like me) one of those people who absolutely LOVE receiving flowers. Sure, they may not last a long time, but everytime we see them it's a burst of happpiness and reminder of who got them for us. I mean, I'll accept just about any type of flower, but someone who goes out of their way to get one I love? Priceless
Every year my aunt sends me a card and check for my birthday (im 42 at this point) lol. Every year she texts me to apologize that it's going to be late cause she didn't get it into the mail until late. Every year I thank her and tell her please don't stress and that I love her. The check is nice and it's always appreciative regardless of the amount but I am more thankful to get a card for my birthday telling me how much im loved. As soon as I get it, I text her with an I love you and usually say something nice about the card first (she always gets the best unique cards) and then I also thank her for the check and let her know how much its appreciated. Why do people have to be so rude and entitled?
9:21 That’s literally one of the most thoughtful and heartfelt gifts I’ve ever heard of. I feel so sorry for OP, so much love went into that gift just for them to throw it back in her face. Anyone who thinks she’s the A hole are out of their damn minds 😵💫
If I witnessed anyone like the bridezilla in the story with infertility issues, and how she reacted to trying to cash in the check and blame it on OP when it didn’t go through I’d be like “You’re kidding right? You called their present cheap and worthless because isn’t a big bedazzled material prissy thing, kicked them out and STILL feel entitled to their money they generously tried to give you in the first place? All the while getting mad that the check, they _rightfully_ canceled, didn’t go through? You’re a selfish brat. Hope they go NC from you because you’re not a friend to them. You couldn’t even see what their present was before you went off on them.”
I never understand people getting upset by their Bridesmaids or MOH getting pregnant. One of my Bridesmaids will likely be about to pop on my wedding and we laughed how memorable my wedding would be if she went into labor there (the venue is super close to a hospital too lol) idk maybe I'm too chill but I really don't see how anyone could be upset by something like that. It might be my fiancé and I's day but it wouldn't feel like it without those we love there with us.
You're not too chill my dear, but I should tell you that people who say those kinds of things are narcissistic and only care about being the center of attention on -ahem- "My WeDdInG dAy", while still forgetting that at least half of the experience of the wedding isn't being fawned over for an entire day, but enjoying the celebration of both the person you love, and the massive family you two just built.
I believe these issues arise because underneath the friendly relations are old hurts, petty grievances, jealousies and a lot of insequrities, and people who do not communicate their feelings properly and let the hurts fester. So the wedding ends up being the boiling point were all is aired.
My niece just got married May 6th and her MOH got pregnant and same thing as u they were both so excited but she had her beautiful little girl 2 days after
Honestly, since they were already trying it's not like they were trying to announce it at the wedding or planning for it to happen then. If she said her sister started *trying* once she heard the wedding announcement, that would be sketchy, but you can't expect people to just not be intimate all the months before your wedding. That's ridiculous and super controlling.
Unpopular opinion time: If the snotty friend cannot afford her own infertility treatment then a) she cannot afford a child and b) it is NO ONE else’s responsibility to pay for them! This was a beautiful gesture that was not appreciated until she found out what it was exactly but she knew it was a gift from a friend and should have accepted it as such. Some people’s children? Who raised her?! Probably didn’t raise her that way.
Not unpopular opinion... 👍🏼😁 That WAS a thoughtful and beautiful gift, in a small box. She showed her true colors and lost a blessing of a friend. I don't wish ill on anyone, but I hope she doesn't become Mom until she's got that nasty selfish vibe out of her. We don't need more like her running around this world hurting others.
Once a person has talked themselves into believing they’re a victim, they’ve talked themselves into believing they’re entitled to someone else’s money.
And the cheapest gift at that, which would be even more of a slap in the face since they actually HAVE money. If you're gonna do the proverbial 'slap in the face', you gotta do it right. Go big or go home, thats what i say 😂
The best wedding I have ever been too was for a friend. They rented out a small pavilion at a park, they hired a taco truck got a keg of beer from their favorite brewery. The bride made her wedding cakes (there were 5) they weren’t fancy, but boy were they delicious. Their wedding favors was a cookbook with the cake recipes inside. They’ve been married for 10 years and I still remember everything about it. Can’t really say that about the other ones I’ve been to since.
My one niece had a very small wedding and instead of a big cake as her and her soon to be hubby couldn't decide which cake they like best-they had small cakes in every flavor on each table with a note to not cut until the right time. They don't drink either so of course quite a few families didn't bother to go and when it was time to cut the cakes every table got to cut their own to see what flavors we had. There were like 2 to 3 on each table. By this time there were lots of empty tables so my neice and some of us auntys went around and we all sampled the different cakes like little birds lol. It was very unique and fun and quite a few of us went home with whole uncut little cakes. They were frosted identical on the outside tho. But inside were banana spice and chocolate and white with strawberries and carrot cake and several other totally yummy types. My favorite was the spice cake with banana filling. I'd never had it before and it was the best.
That wedding sounds perfect! I'm usually uncomfortable at weddings, I'm kind of a tomboy and feel weird wearing dresses, and when I'm inside a church I expect to be hit with thunder bolts! Not really, but those gruesome Catholic crucifixes always freak me out even though the sanctuaries are beautiful.
I'm horribly allergic to certain molds and the amount of family that say just pick the mold off and eat it kill me 🤦♀️ esp on bread. The spores go all throughout the bread even if only one slice has mold spots. I'm allergic to penicillin the most. Like not even allowed to eat blue cheese and some salmumi bad.
Good point! And all hard cheeses start out with mold on the outside before being trimmed and packaged, so it was "moldy" long before it was bought. Brie and Camembert still have the "bloomy rinds" when bought.
@@Emeraldwitch30 my brother had to deal with that same garbage from some people. He, like you, is also allergic to penicillin and mold. I will never understand some people's logic. 😒
I'm also allergic to penicillin but can eat blue cheese without a problem. I love it actually. It's a slightly different strain to the one used for the antibiotics so it doesn't seem to affect me like the antibiotics do
@@Emeraldwitch30darling!!! I’m the EXACT same way!!! And my gawwwwd the amount of times I’ve heard oh it’s fine, it’s just the first piece, or it’s just the top, or my favourite, you can eat around it; I think I would be deader than a door nail 😂😂😂
There are sooo many ways you can save money on food at a wedding, it doesn’t have to cost you thousands. As we come from a multicultural family and have multicultural friends we asked people to bring something typical from their country to share. We made a list beforehand writing down what everyone would bring, made cute labels with warnings for possible allergies. A lot of people showed up in traditional clothing (we encouraged them to do so) and overall it was a bomb and colorful party! We have been married for almost 6 years and people still tell us they loved the wedding and that it remains one of their favorite ones
The last bride is the most aggressively entitled human being i've ever read on reddit. Oh My God !!!! Her entitlement cost her 15,000 dollars 💸. I'm so happy the OP and husband canceled the check and proved how petty they can be.😂
Yeah, that defrosting food thing is super gross. We had Indian food at our wedding (my husband spent a bunch of time in Pakistan on the India border as a child) and it cost us like $500 to feed 60 people. It doesn't have to cost a fortune
I bet it was delicious, too! I'm "economically disadvantaged" and get $251 a month from EBT to buy food for myself and my adult disabled son. That doesn't go far, so one of my favorite places to shop is a store owned by a sweet couple from Pakistan I've known for over 16 years now where I met them when they started their business at a local swap-meet. Now they have a small store that started out selling "unclaimed freight" type items including food that's perfectly good but discontinued or slightly out of date. Few years ago, they started selling food items imported from India and Pakistan, and I couldn't be happier! Freshest spices at lower prices and larger quantities than grocery stores and even sell Ayurvedic herbs. The ashwagandha I buy there has really helped me deal with chronic depression, and the powdered aloe vera and tulsi (holy basil) are great used in teas for things like anxiety and stomach issues. Little by little, I'm learning how to make Indian dishes with ingredients I find there by watching TH-cam chefs of Indian cuisine. It's fun, economical, and delicious! I really enjoy talking with Mrs. Chand when I go there, such a lovely, kind person. She and her husband donate a lot of food to local homeless and welcome them at their store when most shops run them off. Homeless folks buy food with EBT also, and I've noticed that the Chands often give them discounts and extras while treating them with dignity. I've tried telling neighbors about their store, but they tell me they'll never shop there and give horrible racist reasons why. I would trade every one of my neighbors for people like the Chands!
I'm glad hospitality & catering professionals have responded about the first wedding. Omg. And I had the same experience as the one person's response you read. Had 24 stomach flu a lot as a child in my family. Now that I'm an adult, I don't experience it. Healthcare professionals say there isn't a 24 stomach flu bug, it's just food poisoning. 😮
There are lots of ways to pay for food at a wedding. My aunt had a big wedding planned with 350 people. Every weekend and on some holidays she sang for three years at a five-star restaurant with the arrangement that the restaurant would cater her wedding. I was shocked and amazed. They had the whole banquet room up set up beautifully with waitstaff. They served about $5,000 worth of food and hors d’oeuvres. They also cleaned up the reception and packed it away. So if there is a will there is away. No need to eat rotten, mishandled food.
@@lenab.1080 I'm not saying that, don't know all the facts, but she said she got it catered. Most reputable catering companies will serve dishes in warming trays to ensure the food doesn't get down to the danger zone and get people sick. Again, anytime you eat bbq at a restaurant know that longer cooked items like brisket have been sitting in warming drawers for 12hr plus. The original bride was going to drop the leftovers off to a soup kitchen or whatever she said, if it was good enough for them to still eat it, I'm assuming it was properly managed. Next if the mother vacuum sealed it, yeah it would still be edible 8 months later, probably dry though, so reheating it would be perfectly fine and you'd be in no danger of getting sick, minus very few exceptions but it would smell upon thawing. People kill me lol they are mortified about saving and reheating food, but they were perfectly happy giving this food that was apparently inedible due to the length of time it set, to the poor?!?
@@lenab.1080 it's all about prep methods. I have a freeze dryer...I could store raw chicken without refrigeration on my pantry shelf for decades and it be fine to eat...its all if food safety was followed
@@franquil85connare you really this hellbent on misunderstanding the post or are you just that dumb? OP intended to donate the food when it was first prepared and fresh- completely safe. Their mother stored the food that people had eaten out of, that had been sitting out accumulating and growing bacteria and then froze it for 8 months (which would allow the safe and small amounts of pathogens from when the food was fresh to slowly grow and ruin the food, this food was not sterile, it had been out in a buffet.) you can personally decide that you’re okay with that level of risk, but you cannot make that decision for all your guests who have no idea!! I don’t want botulism, I would never risk it and I would want to know. You may not. But I bet most guests were happy to know. OP made the correct and safe decision.
In relation to the first story: I had 50 people at our wedding and it cost $500 to feed them all. I hired an amazing taco truck to cater dinner all you could eat! It was amazing. People loved it.
Damn, the check story one was the pique when it comes to ungrateful gifts situations. Like, why would you make a big deal about what gifts are worth for you and then bad mouth the person who gifted it to you even without knowing the gift/gift's purpose? The bride was obviously just made she didn't think it was high of a price enough.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly it was more convenient for them to reward my younger sister’s bad self-centered behavior and exploit my kind responsible nature than do right by me. I’d literally have to apologize simply because I was older whenever anything went down. They gaslight me about it and expect me to just take it even though she’s taken things away from me that I’ll never be able to get back in this life time and now I have to pay for her behavior….literally. Her wedding…..omg maybe one day I’ll post it…..but she was THE bridezilla. 🤦🏾♀️
I just recently helped my two daughters study for and obtain their food handler's license for our state (they both passed with flying colors.) I can tell you there's no way to know if that food was handled promptly at safe times and temps for hot and cold foods. A restaurant would never. And the mom took it away from a shelter or food kitchen, double ick! What a gross person she is in all ways.
I totally agree. I’ve worked in several restaurants and the food is monitored if it’s a buffet and has a shelf life and has to be thrown away after a certain amount of time. Food also shouldn’t be refrozen. Cuz, YUCK!
I learned the generosity problem a long time ago. Had a friend who let me pay for everything, get her gifts, etc. She was someone who always had a sob story. After 2 years of friendship, she stopped talking to me the moment I told her I can't bring a friend to her house. I basically helped her through mental episodes, breakups, got her things because I wanted her to know I care for her, and this girl ended up spinning the biggest webs of lies about me and stopped talking to me the moment I had no more use in her eyes. So, don't be like me people lol
Happened to me multiple times before I got wise to this dynamic. People will actually resent you for being generous and trying to help, no matter how discreet and loving you are about it. I had friends that I considered sisters just dump me like trash when I could no longer provide due to illness and losing our business during the financial crash.
I don't think people shouldn't be like you. Yes, your kindness and generosity was taken advantage of, but those traits are a blessing and I wish more people in this world would have your level of compassion. We all need to be careful of bad actors in the world, but be proud of how wonderful you are. ❤
I had something similiar happen to me. Somehow I knew about her problems including financial issues within days of the friendship. I helped her out emotionally and financially only for her to become very busy for an entire year during which she finds other friends, is able to better her financial situation and slowly starts ghosting me. That is when I understood I was filling an emotional/psychological/financial hole in this individual's life. I had no idea who she truly was either, and needless to say, I don't understand such people. But yes, sadly, they exist.
I'm a bit worried that one of my besties is like that. I live on SSDI (social security disability income) and am poor, but probably not as poor as them. They don't usually outright ask me for things, though they have a few times with the promise to pay me back that never happened. They do however give me those leading messages about how they need art supplies for their mental health but they don't have the money for them, and yeah, I usually, but not always, get them. They are always grateful, but it feels like a one way street sometimes. (Not that I expect physical things from them, but you know what I mean) They do offer emotional support, but it's still usually more take than give from them.
My sister's due date was around my wedding date. I didn't care. She didn't want to be pregnant during and risk it, so she chose to induce a week before and travel 6 hours with a newborn and a 3-year-old. All power to her.
"You are just an actress that nobody wanted to hire" - Sharklotte is as savage as Charlotte . 😅 . the day is not far off when videos will have Sharklotte narrating the video and Charlotte being the comedic sidekick . Somebody protect our dear potato queen from her shark grabbers . 😊
You know I'm not a wedding person at all. Don't really care about or for them, never really have. But now thanks to you I'm shamelessly addicted to these videos! 😂
Nothing screams love like being petty together. 11:28 🤣 Specially after that display of rudeness. I melted when I heard what their gift was, the nerve of that couple, making a scene over the size of the present.
Do not cut the fuzzy stuff off and eat the rest xD I learned that from my teacher. The fuzzy stuff is just the "flowers" that you see from the roots that has spread all throughout the products. If you see fuzzy stuff, it's already full of roots and should absolutely be thrown away!
Last week my cousin got married. Her mom wore white, her sister (MOH) was pregnant and due like 3 days after the wedding, the waiting staff were slow and snappy, bride got drunk around 3 p.m. and threw up (elegantly and with a pleasant smile and no fuss). It could have been a disaster, hadn't the bride been the sweetest, most laid back person of us all. Also, she was so nice that she had organized a surprise congratulation on our grandma's 85th birthday right after the toast... Just stop insisting it is "your day and everything must be perfect", instead learn from my cousin.
The men in my family have a genetic thing that they get an immune response to severe food poisoning. They got reactive arthritis when we all got food poisoning after moving overseas. They got very ill and my little brother couldn’t walk for months. They could regress anytime if they get food poisoning. My son could have it too, we’ve never had him tested for it. Food poisoning is serious and I know that intimately.
My MOH was 8 months pregnant at the wedding. She basically planned everything for the wedding. She is amazing. I told her just get whatever dress is comfortable. She could have worn sweats and i would have been 100% fine with it. Lol she did end up accidentally wearing her flip flops down the aisle and she was so upset but we laugh about it now. 😂❤
I had two pregnant bridesmaids in my wedding. I grew up with a lot of the same friends I’ve had for years. One of them I even worked with at the time. She told me at work and it was about a week before we went bridesmaid dress shopping. I was so happy for her. That night I talked to another friend that was in our wedding and teased her and said you aren’t going to tell me you are pregnant and said I am. I was actually super happy and thrilled for both of them. Couldn’t care less about my dresses. These are my friends who are bringing life into the world. Well they ended up being due just a few weeks from each other. The bridesmaids and I picked out a really pretty and a-line waist that made it easy for everyone to have alterations done. Our seamstress did all of our alterations at her home. She kept our shoes there as well for days when we had to try on our dresses. She was so cleaver. Both girls had their dresses hemmed from the middle. Meaning she took it up instead of down to give them more room in the belly and still be the correct length. They took a super cute baby bump pic side bump to bump for me. Now their babies are all grown up. Both have been married in the last couple of years themselves and one is a mama now herself.
I once found a partially eaten tub of strawberries with mold on them. I asked my grandson if he had eaten strawberries and he said, “not the furry ones.” 😂😂😂
She's clairvoyant. She knows when we need to -not so- silently judge awful people and their awful behavior. And she knows just how to make us laugh. All hail the Petty Queen!!
The first story is scary from a health perspective. Imagine someone has stomach issues or is pregnant but doesn't know yet. A friend of mine part timed at a buffet style restaurant and they were allowed to take leftover home only before they were put out due to the possible health risks. The last story is wild too though and somehow I feel like if the woman made a proper effort to apologize to OP they would've been able to repair the trouble their behaviour cost but no they had to go tattle on OP with a version that's most likely different from the truth.
About the wedding food. Something my friend did to be able to afford more people at her wedding was to not serve dinner. Guest were told ahead of time that after the ceremony, during the time the bridal party was taking pictures, everyone could use that time to go out to eat. And then they had a small takeout order for the bridal party. I thought it was genius since everyone always gets bored waiting for the bride and groom and people often throw away their food. They had a few appetizers and cake and it was perfect!
Honestly, that's a great idea! And then, people can pick whatever restaurant/meal they want, and the couple doesn't have to worry about anyone with severe allergies. This sounds like a great, overall less stressful solution!
I was on my phone all the time at my friend's son's Bar Mitzvah. It wasn't comfortable, nor fun. Since people (Canadian) are too polite to ask and too annoying by that, I got many weird faces. At the end of the ceremony my friend thanked me for making a live video for her mom in Israel who couldn't come. Then I heard these whispers in a surprise tone... Probably all the Bar Mitzvah photos with me on the phone.
lol sometimes there is a good reason to be on the phone the whole time! I would have personally had a sign so people would smile and wave at the family on the other side rather than glare at me (and the camera). That was super nice of you to do and you handled the awkwardness like a champ! Good job!
Was watching this on my phone with my husband in the room. He just so happens to work in the food industry. He said the food that mother "saved" would've absolutely given people food poisoning. Aside from how long it's been sitting out, a good portion of it was probable already defrosted prior to the original wedding. Refreezing it immediately opens it up to frost bite along with whatever other bacteria grew while it was sitting out and transferred while the mother was storing it with most likely bare hands.
Plus, and your husband cab verify this as well....unless she had an industrial/commercial blast chiller....that volume of food (possibly warm even) going into the freezer is not going to freeze up at safe speeds either, as they will "help" keep each other warm. The centers could take days or even weeks to fully freeze. Especially if shoved in a tiny refrigerator freezer.
@Random Ramblings Exactly. He was also saying that "if" the food was still viable to be frozen safely, it definitely still wouldn't have been safe after that long.
We saved on decor in favor of food. The food was some of the best everyone ever had and even 2.5 years later all who attended are still raving about it. The food and DJ. Food, wine, love and music. Who could ask for more? The most expensive feature was the venue which was a lodge next to the river, with a stunning reception hall, tall ceiling, wooden beams. Our wedding was LOTF meets Celtic. It was perfect. ♥💜
I think it is super messed up that OP’s mom took the food that was supposed to be delivered fresh to the soup kitchen, froze it for the better part of a year and then served it at her sister’s wedding! 😱🙊
GIFTS ARE ALWAYS OPTIONAL!! To demand one in any scenario is a height of rudeness. Anyone who does this needs to be taken out behind the barn and taught some manners. On that last case: the bride snatched the envelope from the OP - the gift had not been given. Again, here's someone who needs to be taken out behind the barn and taught manners. Edit: had to comment on the rude cousin. Had to!
Watching the 15k check part made me laugh at how different we can be. I broke my ankle 15 days ago, I cannot step on it. I live alone and today I arrived from work starving thinking about how tired I was to make lunch...My neigbourgh gave me a lunch box my dad has left at lunch time for me... It was barely warm and I don't have a microwave, so first I sent a thank you message to my dad and now I'm grateful eating my cold but unexpected and well appreciated lunch. And the first time I found out weddings were a way to get cool free stuff I was 6yo, lats time I thought weddings were a way to get cool free stuff ...I was 6yo.
I wish you a speedy recovery. Your dad is very sweet. I think that people like us who can be grateful for all the little things and notice small acts of kindness are bound to be more content in life.
About the crazy entitled one who ridiculed the small box gift without looking inside of it, OP did the right thing by stopping the check. Never engulfed a bad behavior. Enablers contribute to the entitlement problems. By the way Charlotte, I especially love your hair! The way it falls on your shoulders is gorgeous!
I love seeing what top she wears too, and today's is very cute. I used to be able to wear tops like that when I was young and slender, but now I'm 62 and menopause has changed my figure and body temperature in ways that make me want to wear something very loose and made of cotton!
@@LazyIRanch I know🙄! Since that crap is over, I’m 71😬, I have to be careful about what I eat so I won’t add to what I gained since when I was younger. Charlotte is very elegant and so funny and interesting at the same time.
I was a bridesmaid at a small wedding with a small budget and us bridesmaids made different kinds of pasta for the rehearsal dinner and the couple had arranged for pizza to be brought for the wedding dinner. It was so easy and easily the best wedding I’ve been to because the vibes were right
That first mom is totally MY mom. She didn't want to deal with making the cake for my baby shower, so she made it a couple of days before and froze it. No big deal. Except that she assembled it with a fruit filling beforehand. It was a mushy mess by the time we were to eat it.
If you need a cheap meal for a wedding, make it a potluck. My husband's uncle had this at his wedding and it was great! They provided the meat and everyone else just brought whatever their hearts desired
@@faithgoga3983 it's where everyone brings a dish and you can assign things to people or they could bring anything they want. We do this for church meals. Some people are told to bring salad and some are told to bring a dessert and so on.
I had a Pot Luck reception, it was the best and easiest way everyone is happy, we didn’t want wedding gifts, this was gift enough! Child friendly, drunk friendly and it lasted 8 hours !
Yes, when you are a genuine person and really do things for people out of the kindness of your heart, I feel like people really start to become entitled to your kindness and that’s when I have to swiftly remind them, that I am not obligated to do anything for anybody and those perks can be taketh away just as quick as they were giveth!! 😂
Wow... I'm relieved at the end result on that last bridezilla story... She would've made a horrible parent to some poor child 👀 OP absolutely slayed that situation 👏🏻
I had a Korean co-worker in an office I worked at (in Maryland). Her mother did not allow her to invite any of us co-workers to her wedding. Her family prepared a Korean dish with raw eggs for the wedding. Her father-in-law and a bridesmaid died from food poisoning and everyone else at the wedding were sick for weeks.
@@havidikevidi cause it's the only country where you hear people die from eggs. I've been eating raw eggs in my country my whole life, and I've never heard any news of anyone dying from Salmonella, but every US food content creator seems to suffer egg PTSD from it
As someone who used to run a movie theatre and also did grocery pickup, if anything that’s meant to be kept refrigerated is out more than 30 minutes, I would start questioning it, especially if it came straight from refrigeration. With frozen products, you’re probably fine if it’s being cooked immediately after thawing, but DO NOT refrigerate or freeze once it’s reached room temperature. I know most of us have probably eaten “cold” pizza, but that’s also why so many of us have tummy troubles if we don’t normally have them already.
I worked in a flower shop for years. A woman I knew was getting married and asked me to do the flowers. I was a single mom and giving her a break on the price I agreed to do the flowers, if she paid materials in addition separately, for $1k which still would have been great boost for my mini family. Everyone wins, right? I worked hard on the planning and execution and probably ended up working for the equivalent of $10 an hour, and I only got two hours of sleep the night before the wedding to make sure everything looked absolutely flawless and perfect. You know what’s coming, right? When I asked her about payment, she blinked at me and said she thought I was doing it for free as a gift. Her parents who paid for the wedding anyway we’re upper middle class and didn’t require charity. Yes, I could spend a small fortune on babysitting and work myself sick for someone I barely knew for free. Moral of the story is: always get everything in writing. No matter how casual things seem or how close you are to the person, always always always get it in writing. I had nothing in writing to back me up so I couldn’t even take her to small claims court. I paid for this lesson but it helps if others can learn from it.
I wouldn't have given her the flowers. Since you would have lost that money anyway, I would have donated them to some church or charity or anything but give them to the entitled bride (she didn't have anything in writing as well): you wanna play dirty? Two can play that game!
That food one gave me major “ICK”. I remember watching a TH-cam video about how an entire family except 2 kids had sadly passed away because of rotten food. Potato salad that sat out on a sunny day and then reused for leftovers destroyed almost an entire family. If someone had gotten that ill from that food and passed, the mother would have blamed the woman she stole the food from. Food can be just as dangerous as anything else out there. I’m glad she told everyone, food needs to be safe to eat and that was not safe at all.
8:21 Being petty while donating to charity? Petty with a Purpose - she is our new Queen of Petty. So cruel yet so magnanimous. We should all be humbled.
One of my bridesmaid thought she could be pregnant right before my wedding and wanted to step down but I didn’t care I told her to walk me down the isle and if her water broke sneak out the back and after the I do’s I’d meet her at the hospital in my wedding dress and have the best story for my Godchild 😂
Last bride was obviously spoiled and entitled for years since she was expecting so much. Requiring people to buy you gifts for your wedding is insane. Just be happy to spend time with everyone and enjoy the day. WTF?
Petition to keep Sharklotte in the drawer 👇🏼
No they must be free to do what is needed 😂
Just watched the video, i take it back 😂
Nooooooooo (ᗒᗩᗕ)
NEVER!!!🤣
Let the Sharklotte run free girl.
That mom not only served disgusting 8 month old ruined the food at the wedding, but she denied perfectly good food (at the time) to people in need. She should be ashamed of herself. She claims she didn't want it to "go to waste" but her actions did exactly that.
She was clearly being cheap and she deserved the backlash she got. And she's lucky no one ate it and got sick because she would've been drowning in lawsuits.
And if the OP paid for the food, her mom stole it.
@@InteriorDesignStudentOP did indeed pay for it.
literally every restaurant owner on Kitchen Nightmares lol
My grandmother lived through the Great Depression. Even though she's been financially stable for decades, she's still funny about food. Maybe Mom's poor, or has been before and never got out of the starvation mindset.
I'm not saying OP is the AH, I think she did the best she could. But maybe some compassion is warranted here. This is pretty strange behavior, there might be something going on.
A 15 THOUSAND dollar gift just to help someone in a genuine way - those two are probably the nicest people I have ever even heard of - I'm glad they took the money away from that bridezilla and then donated it to charity for some sweet petty revenge
Yea I really like that they directed their pettiness to help others.
Absolutely! No one is entitled to your money or generosity. Plus treating you like shit when they just perceive that you aren't being as generous as you *could* be? That's disgusting behavior. It wouldn't hurt to remind bridezilla of that!
Yes! They did the right thing by cancelling that check. If those people couldn't afford to pay for fertility treatments, then how the hell do they think they're going to be able to afford raising a child?! Kids are way more expensive than those treatments, especially if the baby is born with congenital issues that can happen to anyone. People this selfish might abandon a baby that isn't perfect. They sound very immature, and not like good parents.
My cousin's son got a girl pregnant so they got married much too young. Sadly, the doctors found that the baby had a serious defect, her brain was outside of her skull. If the baby lived, she would have to live without a cerebellum and would be severely disabled, a vegetable.
This teenage couple had very religious family, so wouldn't consider abortion even though their Christian doctor advised them to terminate. They believed that God would miraculously "fix" their baby just before birth. Any parents who believe in magic are too immature to have a healthy baby, much less one with no brain. I'm not talking about prayer, as I do that too, but only if a cure is possible. Of course that miracle didn't happen even though their family sent lots of money to a TV preacher who promised that God would cure their baby.
After about a month seeing their blind, deaf, deformed daughter in the NICU, the teen couple decided they didn't want to be parents and they moved out of state, leaving this poor baby to be my cousin's responsibility. My cousin is in her 70s now, and has taken care of this now adult, severely disabled person for @ 40 years. It has consumed her life and has wrecked her own health having to do everything for her that a newborn requires, but for 40 years.
When my cousin dies, her granddaughter will go to a nursing home and probably not live long. IMO, that poor girl never had a life, and her selfish parents condemned her to an existence where she can only feel pain. Her selfish parents got divorced after about a year and have never paid a dime for her care or visited her. I asked my sister why doesn't our cousin sue them for support? She told me our cousin thinks they've been "punished" enough. WTF? They just moved on, it's our cousin who's been punished. Oh, and our cousin believes that money she sent to Jimmy Swaggart was justified and well-spent because the girl is still alive. I've seen her and wouldn't call that "life". That money should have been donated to a children's hospital or to brain research where it could have done more than make a rich grifter richer.
Sorry for the rant, I'm just sick of selfish people who don't care who they hurt. I've had a rough time lately because of selfish people so I guess I'm a bit triggered!
It was a lovely gift, giving 15,000 for some people is like giving 100 for another. However, the cousin wasn't entitled to any cash, and nobody owes anybody a thing.
@LazyIRanch I can tell that rant was needed. That sounds so messed up, and I agree, selfish people hurt those around them without remorse, and it's tiring and infuriating
Want to hear a good bride story: One of my friends got married on my birthday, she and i both knew it was my b-d but i didn't make a fuss i was her MOH and happy to be her MOH. Well during the reception it got really weird, really quiet and all of a sudden i hear the Happy Bday song and a small chocolate cake being brought over to me....I couldn't believe it. She even made a little speech that we have been friends from practically birth and how when she planned her wedding and it fell on my b-d how i never made a fuss about it so she wanted me to know how much she appreciate me....Now that is sweet.
That sounds like a fantastic friendship! What a blessing y’all must be to each other! ❤
Honor begets honor.👍
Marry her 😆 that's a lovely bride story!!!
Best friend ever!❤
Awweee I absolutely love this for you! I honestly wasn’t expecting the ending but I’m so happy it was a wonderful ending!!
One of my brides maids was 8.months pregnant at my wedding. I thought it was incredible nice of HER to even agree! She had to buy a much larger dress than her normal size and have it altered. She had to stand up there for like 15 minutes at the ceremony. She was on her feet for most of the night and was so tired by the end. But she did it! For us! And I will always be grateful for that ❤ (p.s. It's because she's Canadian)
That’s so sweet of you to recognize that about your friend who was pregnant when she was one your brides maids. I’m 28 weeks and I would imagine struggling to get through the demands of being in the bridal party at a wedding. Just saying you both sound very sweet and kind hearted individuals. ❤😊
Just bc your one nationality over another doesn't me that nationality is more kind or caring etc... I know it's just a joke but some ppl may believe its really true. There are a few to many ppl who believe everything they read on the internet. There are also ppl who think that they're better than anyone else such as race, religion, ethnicity, and so on. Please don't make comments like that bc everything is taken literally instead of figuratively. God bless you ALL and have a good night.
This is my opinion so please don't put me on blast. Thank you.
@@francesheinig6420 you’re attempting to put OP on blast but no one can argue back with you? You must be so fun at parties
@@galinda91 😁😘
@@francesheinig6420This is giving American
I nearly cried hearing someone was so generous to give 15k for infertility. That's the most incredible gift you could give someone. So while I can empathize a bit with the bride struggling with infertility, that is simply never how we treat people. Completely unacceptable and OP had no reason to still reward her after that.
Maybe it's for the best for the bridzilla to not procreate and make baby bridezillas.
I shudder to think what kind of mother that bride would be.
Truly & honestly even if they had not shown up w/ a gift the bride should have never asked them about the registry nor the small box gift? How tacky can you be, greeting ppl at ur wedding & if there’s no gift to ur satisfaction u kick them out? Zero class, if ur having wedding make sure u know there expensive & it’s a social event your throwing no 1 owes u anything but if they do give a gift that’s thoughtful & nice no matter what it is, period.
Yanno, every child deserves a mother, but not every mother deserves a child. If this is how this self-entitled woman acts over a perceived slight, then any potential kid that could have resulted from this has dodged a MASSIVE bullet.
Yup, you don't reward bad behavior regardless of the age of the person.
I don't know what's worse - serving thawed out food which has been frozen for 8 months or the last bride who felt entitled to money. I feel bad for that bride's fertility issues but girl, the only one who ruined it was you after treating them that way.
Seriously people like that have no business having kids, they're not developed enough to not add to the problems of society, there I said it 😜
Who paid for the wedding food the first time? If it was the bride, she should demand the mother donate the value to the homeless shelter
If that was me after the infertile bride greedily insulted the gift and snatched it, I would have snatched it right back, opened it right then and rip that check up up in front of her!
I'd have snatched that tiny box back even if it meant I had to tackle her for it!😂
I don't know what possessed the mother to take all that leftover food from the narrator's wedding only to reuse it at her other daughter's wedding?! Was the mother being a cheapskate or something?
@@yadayada752 the bride & groom did. The mother stole the food.
As a public health professional and epidemiologist this had been out for a long time on a buffet table, at who know what temperature? Then frozen with whatever bacteria was growing on it as most can survive freezing. This is a great way to get a lot of people stick and save a little money. Should’ve donated to the soup kitchen.
And unless she had a blast chiller, that much food (possibly still warm) going into the freezer all at once will mean it will take even longer for that food to get to a frozen state....meaning even more time for growth. At what point do her actions become biological warfare... Lol
Yeah, that was also my concern. Lots of people think that freezing kills all bacteria, and thats not really how it works, especially with defrosting home freezers. Perhaps more would be killed with an industrial deep freezer, but I highly doubt that is where it was stored.
She embarrassed her mother, but that's not *her* fault. The mom is at fault for doing something potentially unsafe.
And they could have just asked people to bring different potluck dishes. That's a great way to save money and have food that you know your guests will like. Set up a group chat for the guests so they can work out who will bring what. It's honestly not that difficult.
@@Just1Nora Salmonella, listeria, and E. Coli, the big one we are always having food recalls over are cyro-survivable even in industrial freezers. So it’s best not save food like that in a freezer. The donation would have been best as they would have reheated it under a controlled temperature and then served it.
@@Just1Nora Love potluck. Sharing is caring.
Your profile pic is perfect for this comment
The last story, did anyone else catch this? She ripped the "small gift" box out of her hand while simultaneously kicking them out, and THEN, had the audacity to only text an "apology", not even bothered enough to call and profusely apologize. Nope, just texted it. 🙄
Yep. I noticed that. That type of behavior really required a face-to-face apology from both the bride and groom, if they were still in town.
And she didn't contact them until she found out the check had been canceled.
@@highfive9835 oh yeah! Didn't care enough til it bounced 🤣
That’s exactly what I was thinking.
“sowwy 😢”
The money one got me. My family struggles sometimes due to the fact that I have 6 siblings, and there are things that we enjoy even though they are small. When my parents got me a Walkman for finishing 5th grade, I started using it all the time. They knew that music was everything in my eyes, and so they granted me that. They did the same with all of my other siblings too, so when the bride started insulting them without even checking it, I felt insulted too. Like, have they never only gotten a card with money on their birthday before?
Same! I grew up in a similar situation. We weren't poor by any means, but with 8 kids in my family, there were multiple times growing up where my parents said we would have to choose between getting only 1 nice present or several small, cheaper presents for Christmas and birthdays. I remember one year when my parents got me a smart phone for Christmas. I had had a dumb flip phone for years and it was so hard to get good cell service. I was so thrilled to have the smart phone, even though it was an older model. I remember being truly shocked, because I had figured that a smart phone would be one of those things that I would have to scrape and save for because I knew they were expensive and thought my parents may not be able to afford it.
I honestly can't believe the entitlement of that bride. Just because a gift comes in a small box doesn't mean that the gift is cheap.
That's why you don't have multiple children that you can't afford.
The last pettiness has me really satisfied and happy. It’s great they are kind and generous people but also able to stand their ground and not be pushed around by peoples entitlement.
First one... not just shameful that mom served old food to wedding guests, but she literally stole food from the mouths of poor families.
More outraged that hungry kids didn't get food that bride had designated for them. Mom should have to make a donation to the soup kitchen for the food she appropriated from them.
Yeah, that upset me too. The first sister literally had a plan for that food and her mom stole from her, and by extension underprivileged people, to save her sister money. There are lots of ways to cut corners and save money, but theft shouldn't be one of them.
Yep. OP's definitely NTA here. Shame on Mom for stealing from the mouths of those poor, poor people.
Had the narrator not said anything to the bride and other guests, people would've gotten sick and most likely would've sued!
@@Cynophileandavianenthusiast Not always.
Mom should have ASKED about the food before commandeering it away. Then again, she may have already known the answer she would have received from the bride. Cuckoo entitlement, Mom!
Last story: Bride threw an entitled temper tantrum and totally got what she deserved. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Couldn't have been more right.
If she treats people like that she would probably be a horrible parent. I would not contribute to that ever!
Amen. And I’ll bet she learned a valuable lesson that day. One worth $15K
I see what do did there…IYKYK
She deserved to have not had a child on her own.
Imagine throwing a Dudley Dursley tantrum over a present and thinking you're mature enough to raise children. 😬 Seems like it might be for the best that awful cousin can't conceive...
I was thinking the same damn thing! Like you invite loved ones to your wedding & get mad they didn't buy the biggest most expensive gift. And snatch their "tiny" box out of their hand & KICK THEM OUT. If she does have kids (God forbid) they're 100% going to take after their mother & be bullies. OP did the best thing by canceling that check.
Everything happens for a reason. Lol. The universe didn't want her procreating
Society at large, is thankful for the check cancellation! 😆
Hey, that’s a really good point. If you can’t control your own emotions and are throwing a tantrum over somebody else’s money, you probably shouldn’t raise children.
Best answer here!!!!! 😄🤣😆
The $15K story made me so angry, I got goosebumps. I would cut them off SO FAST! I bet that foundation was so much more grateful. I wouldn't feel bad for two seconds. They are obvious a kind and generous couple.
I was in the shower listening on my speaker and I had to jump out of the shower to make a comment. It made me so angry and I was wishing that they did not back down. They didn't and not only that did something generous for someone else. Kudos to this kind and thoughtful couple. I hope she's completely blocked out of her life. They need to tell everybody to back the F off. Not only did she lose generous friends but she probably lost out on future things like oh I don't know perhaps a down payment toward a new home or very generous gift towards the baby she may have in the future or a generous housewarming gift. I hope she spends the next 15 years thinking about that😂😂😂
The defrosted food…
A friend of mine had gone overseas to a wedding. The reception was at the bride’s mother’s house. Just as the food was going round (they were finger foods, prepared by the mother) one of the daughters came round and whispered to the guests not to eat the prawn balls… Apparently, the mother had been getting the food ready for three days and put the prawn-balls IN THE KITCHEN CUPBOARD on the first day…
I used to do catering. In my state, if the food had been served on a buffet line, we were forced to throw out any remaining food off the buffet line, even if the people who ordered the catering wanted the buffet food afterwards. If it hadn't been served (meaning there was an extra tray or two), and proper food safety guidelines followed, the food could be taken home by the party organizers or donated to a food shelter. It's to reduce liability because food on buffet lines is exposed to more bacteria from guests. That's why sometimes half-filled trays are replaced after certain periods of time, so people don't get sick!
And unless she had a massive blast chiller.....all that food going into one freezer at once meant it spent even more time in the danger zone, cuz all that food will "help" keep each other warm.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings Eeeew, you’re right! I’m so freaked out I couldn’t even think of the finer (but more consequential) details 🤢
Also, dinner is usually served hours before the end of a wedding reception. Did mom leave early to freeze the leftovers? Was there a big enough cooler/freezer at the venue? Several catering companies in my town have heated and refrigerated cabinets that they bring from off site and just plug in at the venue. Did they let her use them? Did she just leave the leftovers in her car for the night? How far does she live from the venue, with food being room temperature the whole time? Almost certainly she didn't follow reheating or thawing procedures. Gross.
Exactly! I'm sure the mother would have tried to counter sue too if her guests got sick 🙄
I came to comment the same thing! Where I live we have regulations preventing the donation of any "left over" buffet due to the nature and conditions of serving a buffet its self, re: temperatures and bacterium. As much as I would LOVE to donate all the beautiful left overs, it's just far too risky to those who are already vulnerable.
I literally can not fathom how that reheated food must have looked and smelled, let alone tasted 😳
That last story filled me with sooooo much PETTY JOY!❤ How dare she act like a brat and demand the gift back?! Gifts are for grateful people. PERIODT!
My sister in law was very pregnant and gave birth to my niece three days after my wedding day. Since it was in a different city and she would have had to be in the car for about 6 hours, I told my brother that it would be absolutely fine if he feels like he needs to be with his wife and I wouldn't feel hurt. The way he managed it was by coming to the wedding by himself and my SIL was with us the entire time on Zoom, her sister was with her just in case she needed to go to the hospital. My brother attended and drove back home a few hours after the wedding was over. we celebrated my niece a couple of weeks later and we had an intimate gathering and I was able to catch up on everything with my SIL. If I was able to postpone, I would've, if it was safe for her to attend, she would've. Life should not be this complicated FFS.
Exactly, adapt to the situations as they arise no need to add extra stresses by unnecessary freak outs. Y'all handled that beautifully.
Awwww…..this is SUPER sweet. That’s what I would have done.
@@blerdofpeace5329 Thank you, a wedding is a celebration not a reason to torture people and make them uncomfortable for one's own pleasure and irrational needs and wants
Modern technology smoothes over a lot of problems like being in two places at once.
❤
Thanksgiving 1977, thanks to my mother's questionable food handling, my entire extended family ended up sick for days, a few in the hospital, from salmonella AND botulism. I was only 11 but had sense enought to tell her that homecanned food should not fizz when you opened it. She tossed them out just didn't clean behind herself properly, so thankfully nobody died. She also poured gravy over some undercooked turkey because some people had to leave early and dinner needed to be on the table. So, when the holidays rolled around one of us would ask, "Hey Mom, did you invite Sam and Ella this year?". She was never amused. The upside? I learned to cook very well, even working as an inhome private chef fora. few years up until the rona. Then everyone discovered those meal prep kits.
I worked in deli dept of a supermarket years ago. Coworkers and I noticed unopened deli turkey wrapper puffed out. Told manager it was probably bad and she was like “it’s the natural gasses”. 😳 yeah from bacteria. We were night crew and kept it hidden so nobody would order it then chucked it and got new one. My dad was retired USDA packing plant inspector and nearly had a cow (pun intended) when I told him.
The first story is horrifying!!! I've worked in kitchens for years and yeah, some foods are fine if you freeze them for that long, but freezing PREPARED food for that long is.... so ick. Also like you said, cooking for a small-ish wedding saves a ton of money! My sister and her husband did that. Each part of the family picked a dish to prepare and we ended up with a fantastic dinner and a few hundred more bucks to go to registry gifts and such. You can be conscious of your money without endangering people lmao
When I was a bride Decades ago, I and my husband didn't care if any of our guests brought a gift or not, we just wanted them there and to have a great time! My Mom and Dad taught me to be grateful.
Hard same. I told the bridal party to not worry about gifts. I paid for their nails, and offered to pay for their dresses, and we also paid for tux rental (it was all budgeted for). We expected nothing but their presence. Everything on our list was less than $50, many less than $25. Except one very nice skillet I wanted/needed which was less than $75. Not everyone had the money, and we decided we’d rather have loved ones about without putting financial strain on them
We did a similar thing too, we had our home together, so we just said if you want to give us anything, please donate to an animal charity as a gift, we would be very happy with that
Isn't that the point of the wedding though? I thought weddings are to exchange vows in front of everyone you want to be a part of in one of the most special days in your life and not a scummy way to get money and luxuries out of everyone u know?
I am engaged now and I don’t think I will even make a wedding registry. If people want to give me a present, that’s nice of course, but I’m not going to ask for anything. A number of my friends will need to travel to attend so them making the effort to be there, take a hotel etc, is already something I am grateful for and I will have nice photos to remember them being there.
yeah, I am also confused
Charity is the nicest, sweetest form of pettiness. More people should get back at others this way.
Also important to note: Freezing food does NOT pause the freshness. We tried with eggs. We cooked up a whole bunch, divided them into 7 different bags and froze them. The idea was to save time cooking breakfast. By the time we go to the 5th bag they had gone rancid. Keep in mind these were frozen IMMEDIATELY after cooking and they didn't even last a week in the freezer. I can't even imagine how rank 8 month old buffet food would be. 1st story lady just stopped a war crime.
It was biological warfare at that point. Because unless she had an industrial/commercial blast chiller then that amount of food going into the freezer (possibly still warm from the buffet) would "help" keep each other warm, and it could have taken days or even weeks for the centers to finally freeze.... like you said literally a crime.
how odd...ive frozen cooked eggs before (scrambled , not fried or boiled) and have had them last a month . i did cool them down first by putting in the fridge prior to freezing so maybe that was the diffrence . it is better for your fridge and freezer not to put piping hot food in either ...makes it work harder to cool.
Yep, I’ve kept fresh (butcher’s made, not processed) sausages in the freezer drawer for over 6 months and they went rank… :/
A freezer is not a magic time-feeezing box.
@@yoshidababies4222 sausagea have fat, that's why those don't go long time in freezer..even if you have beef or lamb sausages, you need fat it not to be dry.
For meats, pork only us good for a month or so. Beef bit longer. I've had beef in vacuum and after a year still edible. Moose and deer can be still ok after two years in vacuum.
For cooked food i generally don't even try more than few months. But it has to be frozen asap and tbh unless it's vacuum bag, the air is going to get in.
Some food freezes well and some shouldn't be frozen at all, but 8month is actually pushing it for lots of ingredients. I'd be doubtful mom knew exactly what would keep as long and how to package, freeze and defrost it properly.
Also, side note, what kind of freezer does this woman own, that she just casually has the whole meal for a wedding stored in there? Even for a small wedding of 25 people or so, that would be a lot of food.
The story with wanting to change their name reminded me so much of my aunt. She and my mom are both named Doris, and for literally SIXTY YEARS she has had it out for my mom for having the same name. I kid you not, a few years ago there was a wedding and my aunt sat behind my mom for three hours during the reception, staring murder daggers at her. Like, how can she help it if Doris was a popular name in the freaking 1940's?!
Lol. I was just talking to my daughter the other day about the fact that her brother has 4 friends named Jake/Jacob, 2 Cody, 2 Adam. The more popular a name is during a period of time, the more likely it is that you'll be acquainted with multiple people with that name.
My name is Kay. I don’t know anyone named Kay. If you have to change your name go with “Kay”. No one will care.
@@lynneconklin917 Yep, I went to school with EIGHT Katies.
Are they sisters or sisters-in-law?
@@bcpr9812 In-laws. She was married to my mom's older brother.
My sister 7 months pregnant was my matron of honor at my wedding. She was absolutely beautiful in her one of a kind maturity dress. I never had a thought that she would take the spot like from me. I even helped her with her hair & her dress while I did all my own hair & makeup. I also didn’t care if all eyes were not on me at all times. The only thing I needed that day was for my groom to say yes & for someone to hold my dress up while I pee’d. Lol!
So sweet! 💞
I have been a hugely pregnant as a bridesmaid 😂 My best friend had a beautiful wedding. Real friends don't care about appearances.
That's awesome! And I bet makes for even better pics for your friend to go over years later. "OMG, I forgot Maggie was SO pregnant when we got married! Imagine if her water had broken during the vows? What chaos that would have been! hahaha". Fun memories for good friends.
I was uninvited to my (then) best friend’s wedding because I got pregnant, safe to say, we aren’t friends anymore
Exactly. Shallow friends care about how things look in the pictures and they have the shortest and marriages
My sister had my nephew less than a week after my wedding. She was my Matron of Honour and looked gorgeous. She wore a beautiful soft yellow gown in a style suited to her condition, my other bridesmaids wore blue, the ribbons for all their flowers were mixed blue and yellow. No, you aren’t supposed to care how people you love look but I don’t see what isn’t beautiful about pregnancy anyway.
@@jill7759 I can almost picture it and it sounds absolutely beautiful and perfect!
"They accused me of intentionally making my family look bad." If the truth makes you look bad, you're the issue.
Couldn't have been more right.
I totally disagree with you.
@@angharadswansea9343 chances are you were probably the issue then
The 15k people are not a-holes. My mother always taught me you be just as grateful for a pair of socks as you are for a diamond ring. I stand by that. Because no one owes you anything. My friend is filthy rich. For my birthday she got me flowers. She secretly called my mom and tried to figure out what my favorite flower was so she could get me a bouquet. It was so fricking thoughtful. I loved those flowers and thought it was so sweet. Someone else’s bank account does not dictate what they should give you. Be happy they thought of you at all and be grateful for their presence if they bring positivity to your life.
Exactly. My absolute favorite gift has always been this crocheted blanket that a secret santa gave me in shades of my favorite color. 😍 this was like 15 years ago so yarn wasn't that expensive but to me the time they spent on it means WORLDS to me and gives it a much greater value than any other gifts I have gotten.
100% agree, a thoughtful gift is worth a lot more than an expensive gift (and the dumb-ass bridezilla from the video lost out on a gift that was both by being such an ahole idiot)
Yeesss i Always Say that. Obv I don't mind receiving Money as gift but I would be 10000000 times happier if you gave me something you know I really like, meaning that you listen to me and are willing to spend time for me...
I absolutely love this. It's rarely the price tag, but the thought behind it that counts. That your friend went into cahoots with your mom to figure out your favourite flower(s) shows how much she cares. I can't help but wonder if you are also (like me) one of those people who absolutely LOVE receiving flowers. Sure, they may not last a long time, but everytime we see them it's a burst of happpiness and reminder of who got them for us. I mean, I'll accept just about any type of flower, but someone who goes out of their way to get one I love? Priceless
Gratitude and good manners are FREE.
Every year my aunt sends me a card and check for my birthday (im 42 at this point) lol. Every year she texts me to apologize that it's going to be late cause she didn't get it into the mail until late. Every year I thank her and tell her please don't stress and that I love her. The check is nice and it's always appreciative regardless of the amount but I am more thankful to get a card for my birthday telling me how much im loved. As soon as I get it, I text her with an I love you and usually say something nice about the card first (she always gets the best unique cards) and then I also thank her for the check and let her know how much its appreciated. Why do people have to be so rude and entitled?
9:21 That’s literally one of the most thoughtful and heartfelt gifts I’ve ever heard of. I feel so sorry for OP, so much love went into that gift just for them to throw it back in her face. Anyone who thinks she’s the A hole are out of their damn minds 😵💫
If I witnessed anyone like the bridezilla in the story with infertility issues, and how she reacted to trying to cash in the check and blame it on OP when it didn’t go through I’d be like
“You’re kidding right? You called their present cheap and worthless because isn’t a big bedazzled material prissy thing, kicked them out and STILL feel entitled to their money they generously tried to give you in the first place? All the while getting mad that the check, they _rightfully_ canceled, didn’t go through? You’re a selfish brat. Hope they go NC from you because you’re not a friend to them. You couldn’t even see what their present was before you went off on them.”
I never understand people getting upset by their Bridesmaids or MOH getting pregnant. One of my Bridesmaids will likely be about to pop on my wedding and we laughed how memorable my wedding would be if she went into labor there (the venue is super close to a hospital too lol) idk maybe I'm too chill but I really don't see how anyone could be upset by something like that. It might be my fiancé and I's day but it wouldn't feel like it without those we love there with us.
You're not too chill my dear, but I should tell you that people who say those kinds of things are narcissistic and only care about being the center of attention on -ahem- "My WeDdInG dAy", while still forgetting that at least half of the experience of the wedding isn't being fawned over for an entire day, but enjoying the celebration of both the person you love, and the massive family you two just built.
I believe these issues arise because underneath the friendly relations are old hurts, petty grievances, jealousies and a lot of insequrities, and people who do not communicate their feelings properly and let the hurts fester. So the wedding ends up being the boiling point were all is aired.
Wedding party should continue in the maturity ward if she gives birth! Wedding AND a birthday!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
My niece just got married May 6th and her MOH got pregnant and same thing as u they were both so excited but she had her beautiful little girl 2 days after
Honestly, since they were already trying it's not like they were trying to announce it at the wedding or planning for it to happen then. If she said her sister started *trying* once she heard the wedding announcement, that would be sketchy, but you can't expect people to just not be intimate all the months before your wedding. That's ridiculous and super controlling.
Unpopular opinion time: If the snotty friend cannot afford her own infertility treatment then a) she cannot afford a child and b) it is NO ONE else’s responsibility to pay for them! This was a beautiful gesture that was not appreciated until she found out what it was exactly but she knew it was a gift from a friend and should have accepted it as such. Some people’s children? Who raised her?! Probably didn’t raise her that way.
This is also why never tell anyone you have money. Period.
agree, only thing was cousin instead of friend but agree
@@pathaines5037 even worser! 😉
Not unpopular opinion... 👍🏼😁 That WAS a thoughtful and beautiful gift, in a small box. She showed her true colors and lost a blessing of a friend. I don't wish ill on anyone, but I hope she doesn't become Mom until she's got that nasty selfish vibe out of her. We don't need more like her running around this world hurting others.
Once a person has talked themselves into believing they’re a victim, they’ve talked themselves into believing they’re entitled to someone else’s money.
Regarding the last bride, I would have not only canceled the check, but sent them a gift from the registry just to be extra petty 😂
hahahaah! brilliant!
And the cheapest gift at that, which would be even more of a slap in the face since they actually HAVE money. If you're gonna do the proverbial 'slap in the face', you gotta do it right. Go big or go home, thats what i say 😂
I love when Charlotte hears the word "petty" and her "petty mode" is activated :D
Me too! Her face and voice go into petty mode! I laughed so hard every single time!
The best wedding I have ever been too was for a friend. They rented out a small pavilion at a park, they hired a taco truck got a keg of beer from their favorite brewery. The bride made her wedding cakes (there were 5) they weren’t fancy, but boy were they delicious. Their wedding favors was a cookbook with the cake recipes inside. They’ve been married for 10 years and I still remember everything about it. Can’t really say that about the other ones I’ve been to since.
My one niece had a very small wedding and instead of a big cake as her and her soon to be hubby couldn't decide which cake they like best-they had small cakes in every flavor on each table with a note to not cut until the right time.
They don't drink either so of course quite a few families didn't bother to go and when it was time to cut the cakes every table got to cut their own to see what flavors we had. There were like 2 to 3 on each table.
By this time there were lots of empty tables so my neice and some of us auntys went around and we all sampled the different cakes like little birds lol. It was very unique and fun and quite a few of us went home with whole uncut little cakes. They were frosted identical on the outside tho.
But inside were banana spice and chocolate and white with strawberries and carrot cake and several other totally yummy types.
My favorite was the spice cake with banana filling. I'd never had it before and it was the best.
That wedding sounds perfect! I'm usually uncomfortable at weddings, I'm kind of a tomboy and feel weird wearing dresses, and when I'm inside a church I expect to be hit with thunder bolts! Not really, but those gruesome Catholic crucifixes always freak me out even though the sanctuaries are beautiful.
That's so lovely, I'm glad you posted this! I'm getting married in October, and I think recipes as a wedding favor is such a great idea.
It was a very sweet idea. I still use it to this day.
Just a quick note: you can remove the mold only from hard cheese! The soft ones need to be thrown away😄
I'm horribly allergic to certain molds and the amount of family that say just pick the mold off and eat it kill me 🤦♀️ esp on bread. The spores go all throughout the bread even if only one slice has mold spots. I'm allergic to penicillin the most. Like not even allowed to eat blue cheese and some salmumi bad.
Good point! And all hard cheeses start out with mold on the outside before being trimmed and packaged, so it was "moldy" long before it was bought. Brie and Camembert still have the "bloomy rinds" when bought.
@@Emeraldwitch30 my brother had to deal with that same garbage from some people. He, like you, is also allergic to penicillin and mold. I will never understand some people's logic. 😒
I'm also allergic to penicillin but can eat blue cheese without a problem. I love it actually. It's a slightly different strain to the one used for the antibiotics so it doesn't seem to affect me like the antibiotics do
@@Emeraldwitch30darling!!! I’m the EXACT same way!!! And my gawwwwd the amount of times I’ve heard oh it’s fine, it’s just the first piece, or it’s just the top, or my favourite, you can eat around it; I think I would be deader than a door nail 😂😂😂
There are sooo many ways you can save money on food at a wedding, it doesn’t have to cost you thousands. As we come from a multicultural family and have multicultural friends we asked people to bring something typical from their country to share. We made a list beforehand writing down what everyone would bring, made cute labels with warnings for possible allergies. A lot of people showed up in traditional clothing (we encouraged them to do so) and overall it was a bomb and colorful party! We have been married for almost 6 years and people still tell us they loved the wedding and that it remains one of their favorite ones
The last bride is the most aggressively entitled human being i've ever read on reddit. Oh My God !!!! Her entitlement cost her 15,000 dollars 💸. I'm so happy the OP and husband canceled the check and proved how petty they can be.😂
Yeah, that defrosting food thing is super gross. We had Indian food at our wedding (my husband spent a bunch of time in Pakistan on the India border as a child) and it cost us like $500 to feed 60 people. It doesn't have to cost a fortune
I bet it was delicious, too!
I'm "economically disadvantaged" and get $251 a month from EBT to buy food for myself and my adult disabled son. That doesn't go far, so one of my favorite places to shop is a store owned by a sweet couple from Pakistan I've known for over 16 years now where I met them when they started their business at a local swap-meet. Now they have a small store that started out selling "unclaimed freight" type items including food that's perfectly good but discontinued or slightly out of date.
Few years ago, they started selling food items imported from India and Pakistan, and I couldn't be happier! Freshest spices at lower prices and larger quantities than grocery stores and even sell Ayurvedic herbs. The ashwagandha I buy there has really helped me deal with chronic depression, and the powdered aloe vera and tulsi (holy basil) are great used in teas for things like anxiety and stomach issues.
Little by little, I'm learning how to make Indian dishes with ingredients I find there by watching TH-cam chefs of Indian cuisine. It's fun, economical, and delicious!
I really enjoy talking with Mrs. Chand when I go there, such a lovely, kind person. She and her husband donate a lot of food to local homeless and welcome them at their store when most shops run them off. Homeless folks buy food with EBT also, and I've noticed that the Chands often give them discounts and extras while treating them with dignity.
I've tried telling neighbors about their store, but they tell me they'll never shop there and give horrible racist reasons why. I would trade every one of my neighbors for people like the Chands!
@@LazyIRanch that's awesome wish I lived near by.
I'm glad hospitality & catering professionals have responded about the first wedding. Omg. And I had the same experience as the one person's response you read. Had 24 stomach flu a lot as a child in my family. Now that I'm an adult, I don't experience it. Healthcare professionals say there isn't a 24 stomach flu bug, it's just food poisoning. 😮
Omfg 😳 that makes so much sense to all the times I had “24 hour flu” when my mom was married to my disgusting ex step father
Norovirus and Rotavirus both can cause 24 hour stomach bugs which can be called 24 hour stomach flu/bug.
There are lots of ways to pay for food at a wedding. My aunt had a big wedding planned with 350 people. Every weekend and on some holidays she sang for three years at a five-star restaurant with the arrangement that the restaurant would cater her wedding. I was shocked and amazed. They had the whole banquet room up set up beautifully with waitstaff. They served about $5,000 worth of food and hors d’oeuvres. They also cleaned up the reception and packed it away. So if there is a will there is away. No need to eat rotten, mishandled food.
The food, if kept frozen, would not be rotten or mishandled. Yeah its kinda weird to reheat food for a wedding, but nothing dangerous about it
@@franquil85connThere’s nothing dangerous about having food that was out for a long time, frozen for 8 months, then reheated to serve at a wedding?
@@lenab.1080 I'm not saying that, don't know all the facts, but she said she got it catered. Most reputable catering companies will serve dishes in warming trays to ensure the food doesn't get down to the danger zone and get people sick. Again, anytime you eat bbq at a restaurant know that longer cooked items like brisket have been sitting in warming drawers for 12hr plus. The original bride was going to drop the leftovers off to a soup kitchen or whatever she said, if it was good enough for them to still eat it, I'm assuming it was properly managed. Next if the mother vacuum sealed it, yeah it would still be edible 8 months later, probably dry though, so reheating it would be perfectly fine and you'd be in no danger of getting sick, minus very few exceptions but it would smell upon thawing. People kill me lol they are mortified about saving and reheating food, but they were perfectly happy giving this food that was apparently inedible due to the length of time it set, to the poor?!?
@@lenab.1080 it's all about prep methods. I have a freeze dryer...I could store raw chicken without refrigeration on my pantry shelf for decades and it be fine to eat...its all if food safety was followed
@@franquil85connare you really this hellbent on misunderstanding the post or are you just that dumb? OP intended to donate the food when it was first prepared and fresh- completely safe. Their mother stored the food that people had eaten out of, that had been sitting out accumulating and growing bacteria and then froze it for 8 months (which would allow the safe and small amounts of pathogens from when the food was fresh to slowly grow and ruin the food, this food was not sterile, it had been out in a buffet.) you can personally decide that you’re okay with that level of risk, but you cannot make that decision for all your guests who have no idea!! I don’t want botulism, I would never risk it and I would want to know. You may not. But I bet most guests were happy to know. OP made the correct and safe decision.
In relation to the first story: I had 50 people at our wedding and it cost $500 to feed them all. I hired an amazing taco truck to cater dinner all you could eat! It was amazing. People loved it.
I love that they chose charitable pettiness!
Damn, the check story one was the pique when it comes to ungrateful gifts situations. Like, why would you make a big deal about what gifts are worth for you and then bad mouth the person who gifted it to you even without knowing the gift/gift's purpose? The bride was obviously just made she didn't think it was high of a price enough.
“We do not reward bad behavior in this house” Tell that to my parents. Lol 😂
Sounds like your parents could learn from mine, because that phrase was enforced in my family, at least by my parents.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly it was more convenient for them to reward my younger sister’s bad self-centered behavior and exploit my kind responsible nature than do right by me. I’d literally have to apologize simply because I was older whenever anything went down. They gaslight me about it and expect me to just take it even though she’s taken things away from me that I’ll never be able to get back in this life time and now I have to pay for her behavior….literally.
Her wedding…..omg maybe one day I’ll post it…..but she was THE bridezilla. 🤦🏾♀️
Funny how it’s all about appearances and not about the people who could get sick and or die from food poisoning.
Well, Mom would probably have her image in tatters if everyone got food poisoning.
Dear editor - your meme cut ins were AMAZING today!! I loved the James May “cheese” (so obscure!) and the Life of Brian one… so funny!
The last story: A very expensive, well deserved lesson in good manners that her parents should have taught her, but I guess never did.
Can we all just appreciate Charlotte’s face when she read the “scrape off the fuzzies “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I just recently helped my two daughters study for and obtain their food handler's license for our state (they both passed with flying colors.) I can tell you there's no way to know if that food was handled promptly at safe times and temps for hot and cold foods. A restaurant would never. And the mom took it away from a shelter or food kitchen, double ick! What a gross person she is in all ways.
I totally agree. I’ve worked in several restaurants and the food is monitored if it’s a buffet and has a shelf life and has to be thrown away after a certain amount of time. Food also shouldn’t be refrozen. Cuz, YUCK!
I learned the generosity problem a long time ago. Had a friend who let me pay for everything, get her gifts, etc. She was someone who always had a sob story. After 2 years of friendship, she stopped talking to me the moment I told her I can't bring a friend to her house. I basically helped her through mental episodes, breakups, got her things because I wanted her to know I care for her, and this girl ended up spinning the biggest webs of lies about me and stopped talking to me the moment I had no more use in her eyes.
So, don't be like me people lol
Happened to me multiple times before I got wise to this dynamic. People will actually resent you for being generous and trying to help, no matter how discreet and loving you are about it. I had friends that I considered sisters just dump me like trash when I could no longer provide due to illness and losing our business during the financial crash.
I don't think people shouldn't be like you. Yes, your kindness and generosity was taken advantage of, but those traits are a blessing and I wish more people in this world would have your level of compassion. We all need to be careful of bad actors in the world, but be proud of how wonderful you are. ❤
The exact same thing happened to me too 😢 difference is, she was already telling lies when I thought we had a friendship
I had something similiar happen to me. Somehow I knew about her problems including financial issues within days of the friendship. I helped her out emotionally and financially only for her to become very busy for an entire year during which she finds other friends, is able to better her financial situation and slowly starts ghosting me. That is when I understood I was filling an emotional/psychological/financial hole in this individual's life. I had no idea who she truly was either, and needless to say, I don't understand such people. But yes, sadly, they exist.
I'm a bit worried that one of my besties is like that. I live on SSDI (social security disability income) and am poor, but probably not as poor as them. They don't usually outright ask me for things, though they have a few times with the promise to pay me back that never happened. They do however give me those leading messages about how they need art supplies for their mental health but they don't have the money for them, and yeah, I usually, but not always, get them. They are always grateful, but it feels like a one way street sometimes. (Not that I expect physical things from them, but you know what I mean) They do offer emotional support, but it's still usually more take than give from them.
My sister's due date was around my wedding date. I didn't care. She didn't want to be pregnant during and risk it, so she chose to induce a week before and travel 6 hours with a newborn and a 3-year-old. All power to her.
You keep me sane, Charlotte. I mean it. Thank you for making the effort to make these videos.
"You are just an actress that nobody wanted to hire" - Sharklotte is as savage as Charlotte . 😅 . the day is not far off when videos will have Sharklotte narrating the video and Charlotte being the comedic sidekick . Somebody protect our dear potato queen from her shark grabbers . 😊
You know I'm not a wedding person at all. Don't really care about or for them, never really have. But now thanks to you I'm shamelessly addicted to these videos! 😂
Nothing screams love like being petty together. 11:28 🤣
Specially after that display of rudeness. I melted when I heard what their gift was, the nerve of that couple, making a scene over the size of the present.
Do not cut the fuzzy stuff off and eat the rest xD I learned that from my teacher. The fuzzy stuff is just the "flowers" that you see from the roots that has spread all throughout the products. If you see fuzzy stuff, it's already full of roots and should absolutely be thrown away!
"THIRTY-SEVEN, THIRTY-SEVEN?! BUT LAST YEAR I HAD THIRTY-EIGHT!" That's what that last bride sounds like
Last week my cousin got married. Her mom wore white, her sister (MOH) was pregnant and due like 3 days after the wedding, the waiting staff were slow and snappy, bride got drunk around 3 p.m. and threw up (elegantly and with a pleasant smile and no fuss). It could have been a disaster, hadn't the bride been the sweetest, most laid back person of us all. Also, she was so nice that she had organized a surprise congratulation on our grandma's 85th birthday right after the toast... Just stop insisting it is "your day and everything must be perfect", instead learn from my cousin.
The men in my family have a genetic thing that they get an immune response to severe food poisoning. They got reactive arthritis when we all got food poisoning after moving overseas. They got very ill and my little brother couldn’t walk for months. They could regress anytime if they get food poisoning. My son could have it too, we’ve never had him tested for it. Food poisoning is serious and I know that intimately.
EXACTLY! In someone that is immunecompromised, it could kill them!
In my family, I was the one who always got food poisoning. The others just had cast-iron stomachs, I guess.
My MOH was 8 months pregnant at the wedding. She basically planned everything for the wedding. She is amazing. I told her just get whatever dress is comfortable. She could have worn sweats and i would have been 100% fine with it. Lol she did end up accidentally wearing her flip flops down the aisle and she was so upset but we laugh about it now. 😂❤
I had two pregnant bridesmaids in my wedding. I grew up with a lot of the same friends I’ve had for years. One of them I even worked with at the time. She told me at work and it was about a week before we went bridesmaid dress shopping. I was so happy for her. That night I talked to another friend that was in our wedding and teased her and said you aren’t going to tell me you are pregnant and said I am. I was actually super happy and thrilled for both of them. Couldn’t care less about my dresses. These are my friends who are bringing life into the world. Well they ended up being due just a few weeks from each other. The bridesmaids and I picked out a really pretty and a-line waist that made it easy for everyone to have alterations done. Our seamstress did all of our alterations at her home. She kept our shoes there as well for days when we had to try on our dresses. She was so cleaver. Both girls had their dresses hemmed from the middle. Meaning she took it up instead of down to give them more room in the belly and still be the correct length. They took a super cute baby bump pic side bump to bump for me. Now their babies are all grown up. Both have been married in the last couple of years themselves and one is a mama now herself.
I once found a partially eaten tub of strawberries with mold on them. I asked my grandson if he had eaten strawberries and he said, “not the furry ones.” 😂😂😂
When I needed Charlotte, and a bride video… she appears. Thanks Charlotte!
she is saving my day, seriously ❤
She's clairvoyant. She knows when we need to -not so- silently judge awful people and their awful behavior. And she knows just how to make us laugh. All hail the Petty Queen!!
@@giggle_snort bow to the queen 👸! Also, love HP 😊
The first story is scary from a health perspective. Imagine someone has stomach issues or is pregnant but doesn't know yet. A friend of mine part timed at a buffet style restaurant and they were allowed to take leftover home only before they were put out due to the possible health risks.
The last story is wild too though and somehow I feel like if the woman made a proper effort to apologize to OP they would've been able to repair the trouble their behaviour cost but no they had to go tattle on OP with a version that's most likely different from the truth.
Yes about the food. I get sick easily just looking at my food wrong will give me food poisoning. I know it’s just me, my family are normally fine.
About the wedding food. Something my friend did to be able to afford more people at her wedding was to not serve dinner. Guest were told ahead of time that after the ceremony, during the time the bridal party was taking pictures, everyone could use that time to go out to eat. And then they had a small takeout order for the bridal party. I thought it was genius since everyone always gets bored waiting for the bride and groom and people often throw away their food. They had a few appetizers and cake and it was perfect!
Honestly, that's a great idea! And then, people can pick whatever restaurant/meal they want, and the couple doesn't have to worry about anyone with severe allergies. This sounds like a great, overall less stressful solution!
@@aubreycarter7624 yeah honestly no one had a problem with it and we were able to have a good time and they didn't have to go into debt !
The FRIENDS clip of Ross saying : I take thee Rachael.
Would have been awesome in this video when you were talking about the 2 Rachel’s.
😂😂 You make me laugh on my worst days. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE!! Thank you for the smiles❤
Wow, the couple that wanted to help the couple get infertility treatments. What a kind, kind gesture.
I was on my phone all the time at my friend's son's Bar Mitzvah. It wasn't comfortable, nor fun. Since people (Canadian) are too polite to ask and too annoying by that, I got many weird faces. At the end of the ceremony my friend thanked me for making a live video for her mom in Israel who couldn't come. Then I heard these whispers in a surprise tone... Probably all the Bar Mitzvah photos with me on the phone.
lol sometimes there is a good reason to be on the phone the whole time! I would have personally had a sign so people would smile and wave at the family on the other side rather than glare at me (and the camera). That was super nice of you to do and you handled the awkwardness like a champ! Good job!
Was watching this on my phone with my husband in the room. He just so happens to work in the food industry. He said the food that mother "saved" would've absolutely given people food poisoning. Aside from how long it's been sitting out, a good portion of it was probable already defrosted prior to the original wedding. Refreezing it immediately opens it up to frost bite along with whatever other bacteria grew while it was sitting out and transferred while the mother was storing it with most likely bare hands.
Plus, and your husband cab verify this as well....unless she had an industrial/commercial blast chiller....that volume of food (possibly warm even) going into the freezer is not going to freeze up at safe speeds either, as they will "help" keep each other warm. The centers could take days or even weeks to fully freeze. Especially if shoved in a tiny refrigerator freezer.
@Random Ramblings Exactly. He was also saying that "if" the food was still viable to be frozen safely, it definitely still wouldn't have been safe after that long.
We saved on decor in favor of food. The food was some of the best everyone ever had and even 2.5 years later all who attended are still raving about it. The food and DJ. Food, wine, love and music. Who could ask for more? The most expensive feature was the venue which was a lodge next to the river, with a stunning reception hall, tall ceiling, wooden beams. Our wedding was LOTF meets Celtic. It was perfect. ♥💜
I think it is super messed up that OP’s mom took the food that was supposed to be delivered fresh to the soup kitchen, froze it for the better part of a year and then served it at her sister’s wedding! 😱🙊
GIFTS ARE ALWAYS OPTIONAL!! To demand one in any scenario is a height of rudeness. Anyone who does this needs to be taken out behind the barn and taught some manners.
On that last case: the bride snatched the envelope from the OP - the gift had not been given. Again, here's someone who needs to be taken out behind the barn and taught manners.
Edit: had to comment on the rude cousin. Had to!
Watching the 15k check part made me laugh at how different we can be. I broke my ankle 15 days ago, I cannot step on it. I live alone and today I arrived from work starving thinking about how tired I was to make lunch...My neigbourgh gave me a lunch box my dad has left at lunch time for me... It was barely warm and I don't have a microwave, so first I sent a thank you message to my dad and now I'm grateful eating my cold but unexpected and well appreciated lunch.
And the first time I found out weddings were a way to get cool free stuff I was 6yo, lats time I thought weddings were a way to get cool free stuff ...I was 6yo.
I wish you a speedy recovery. Your dad is very sweet. I think that people like us who can be grateful for all the little things and notice small acts of kindness are bound to be more content in life.
About the crazy entitled one who ridiculed the small box gift without looking inside of it, OP did the right thing by stopping the check. Never engulfed a bad behavior. Enablers contribute to the entitlement problems.
By the way Charlotte, I especially love your hair! The way it falls on your shoulders is gorgeous!
I love seeing what top she wears too, and today's is very cute. I used to be able to wear tops like that when I was young and slender, but now I'm 62 and menopause has changed my figure and body temperature in ways that make me want to wear something very loose and made of cotton!
@@LazyIRanch I know🙄! Since that crap is over, I’m 71😬, I have to be careful about what I eat so I won’t add to what I gained since when I was younger. Charlotte is very elegant and so funny and interesting at the same time.
I was a bridesmaid at a small wedding with a small budget and us bridesmaids made different kinds of pasta for the rehearsal dinner and the couple had arranged for pizza to be brought for the wedding dinner.
It was so easy and easily the best wedding I’ve been to because the vibes were right
This is why you don’t say anything about a gift until you open it!!! And even then you say thank you and smile!
That first mom is totally MY mom. She didn't want to deal with making the cake for my baby shower, so she made it a couple of days before and froze it. No big deal. Except that she assembled it with a fruit filling beforehand. It was a mushy mess by the time we were to eat it.
If you need a cheap meal for a wedding, make it a potluck. My husband's uncle had this at his wedding and it was great! They provided the meat and everyone else just brought whatever their hearts desired
Hi, what is potluck?
@@faithgoga3983 it's where everyone brings a dish and you can assign things to people or they could bring anything they want. We do this for church meals. Some people are told to bring salad and some are told to bring a dessert and so on.
@@jose-pie3055 thank you
“I can be a little petty.” *evil French laugh* DO TELL!!!
😂😂😂
I had a Pot Luck reception, it was the best and easiest way everyone is happy, we didn’t want wedding gifts, this was gift enough! Child friendly, drunk friendly and it lasted 8 hours !
Yes, when you are a genuine person and really do things for people out of the kindness of your heart, I feel like people really start to become entitled to your kindness and that’s when I have to swiftly remind them, that I am not obligated to do anything for anybody and those perks can be taketh away just as quick as they were giveth!! 😂
Wow... I'm relieved at the end result on that last bridezilla story... She would've made a horrible parent to some poor child 👀 OP absolutely slayed that situation 👏🏻
I had a Korean co-worker in an office I worked at (in Maryland). Her mother did not allow her to invite any of us co-workers to her wedding. Her family prepared a Korean dish with raw eggs for the wedding. Her father-in-law and a bridesmaid died from food poisoning and everyone else at the wedding were sick for weeks.
Oh my goodness 😮
Should not have trusted American eggs. Rookie mistake
@@issecret1 how do you know those were american eggs?
Never trust raw anything that you didn't handle yourself or wasn't handled by a pro.
@@havidikevidi cause it's the only country where you hear people die from eggs. I've been eating raw eggs in my country my whole life, and I've never heard any news of anyone dying from Salmonella, but every US food content creator seems to suffer egg PTSD from it
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
Good afternoon from the fuerte 😬 (Europe)
It’s 5.30pm here.
Good morning all you petty lovlies. Char is slaying it today. Stay gorgeous y'all.
Good evening! ❤
As someone who used to run a movie theatre and also did grocery pickup, if anything that’s meant to be kept refrigerated is out more than 30 minutes, I would start questioning it, especially if it came straight from refrigeration. With frozen products, you’re probably fine if it’s being cooked immediately after thawing, but DO NOT refrigerate or freeze once it’s reached room temperature. I know most of us have probably eaten “cold” pizza, but that’s also why so many of us have tummy troubles if we don’t normally have them already.
I love it when Charlotte says "ABSOLUTELY NOT"
I worked in a flower shop for years. A woman I knew was getting married and asked me to do the flowers. I was a single mom and giving her a break on the price I agreed to do the flowers, if she paid materials in addition separately, for $1k which still would have been great boost for my mini family. Everyone wins, right? I worked hard on the planning and execution and probably ended up working for the equivalent of $10 an hour, and I only got two hours of sleep the night before the wedding to make sure everything looked absolutely flawless and perfect.
You know what’s coming, right? When I asked her about payment, she blinked at me and said she thought I was doing it for free as a gift. Her parents who paid for the wedding anyway we’re upper middle class and didn’t require charity.
Yes, I could spend a small fortune on babysitting and work myself sick for someone I barely knew for free.
Moral of the story is: always get everything in writing. No matter how casual things seem or how close you are to the person, always always always get it in writing.
I had nothing in writing to back me up so I couldn’t even take her to small claims court.
I paid for this lesson but it helps if others can learn from it.
Horrible. Absolutely horrible. How do ppl do these things and then sleep well at night?
I wouldn't have given her the flowers. Since you would have lost that money anyway, I would have donated them to some church or charity or anything but give them to the entitled bride (she didn't have anything in writing as well): you wanna play dirty? Two can play that game!
aw, dang! sorry that happened to you. I will take your advice and I totally agree to get it all in writing especially if you are a business.
That food one gave me major “ICK”. I remember watching a TH-cam video about how an entire family except 2 kids had sadly passed away because of rotten food. Potato salad that sat out on a sunny day and then reused for leftovers destroyed almost an entire family. If someone had gotten that ill from that food and passed, the mother would have blamed the woman she stole the food from. Food can be just as dangerous as anything else out there. I’m glad she told everyone, food needs to be safe to eat and that was not safe at all.
8:21 Being petty while donating to charity? Petty with a Purpose - she is our new Queen of Petty. So cruel yet so magnanimous. We should all be humbled.
One of my bridesmaid thought she could be pregnant right before my wedding and wanted to step down but I didn’t care I told her to walk me down the isle and if her water broke sneak out the back and after the I do’s I’d meet her at the hospital in my wedding dress and have the best story for my Godchild 😂
Im SO digging this straight hair charlotte it looks great!
Last bride was obviously spoiled and entitled for years since she was expecting so much. Requiring people to buy you gifts for your wedding is insane. Just be happy to spend time with everyone and enjoy the day. WTF?
Crazy how weddings have become a "viral event" these days! I get so excited now to go and experience the ensuing madness that inevitably happens!
Love Charlotte’s face when she reads “I am PETTY” from someone’s story 🤣 🙌🏼
Your food impression startled my puppy😂😂😭
A super fun wedding I went to had a potluck... Everybody made fav dish and the food was amazing! It was super fun!