Vivica Fox is Taking BOYFRIEND Applications at 60: A Case Study!

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  • @yan7359
    @yan7359 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +957

    The mistake she made was saying all of that on a public platform. She left herself open to attacks from trolls. All she had to do was quietly date until she found someone she wanted to marry. Women like Vivica need to learn how to move in silence and strategically, you dont need to announce all your moves. She could have just popped up married in a year or two.

    • @5thHouseProductions
      @5thHouseProductions 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

      Agreed! Just pop back up with your new husband, THEN go on talk shows, and tell us the love story. She talks too much, real g's move in silence.

    • @dorino9057
      @dorino9057 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No, When white women like Sher and Kris Jenner in the 60s and 70s date, no one has a problem with it, but when a black woman who is older dates some people want to complain

    • @tarshagreene4661
      @tarshagreene4661 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      I agree. People can be so cruel sometimes.😮

    • @clarencedolan699
      @clarencedolan699 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Desperate people do desperate things…..

    • @villainlodge
      @villainlodge 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Vivica stay publicly embarrassing herself being thirsty for men. This is not her first time.

  • @ktiyw2685
    @ktiyw2685 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +579

    My mother remarried at 60 to a lovely man, it’s completely possible . They travel, go biking do lovely things as if they were reliving their youth. It’s amazing to watch!

    • @AfroGirl5852
      @AfroGirl5852 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      So beautiful when you meet your match!!!❤❤❤

    • @CiaobellaAmour
      @CiaobellaAmour 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ❤❤❤

    • @Caseinpoint1777
      @Caseinpoint1777 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      That’s so sweet ❤️❤️ retirement goals

    • @freespirit8635
      @freespirit8635 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Loooove it!!❤

    • @SonicBoomC98
      @SonicBoomC98 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Possible and likely are not the same thing

  • @k.ldraws4931
    @k.ldraws4931 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +401

    I’m currently work at David’s Bridal as a seamstress for 3 years!
    Seeing older brides from 40-60s and occasionally 80s is common for me

    • @NalloryLove
      @NalloryLove 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      This was hopeful to read ❤

    • @Pretzelgal
      @Pretzelgal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Your job makes me think of my mom. She worked as a seamstress at a bridal shop when I was a little girl.❤👰‍♂️👰‍♀️👰

    • @deliteful1991
      @deliteful1991 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I know it’s beautiful to see because it’s possible no matter the age. The manosphere will love for this to scare younger women.

    • @PrivateMail-c8m
      @PrivateMail-c8m 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe you, and the average women will get married at all ages. . .
      Unfortunately Vivica will have a hard time. . . when she was attractive she didn't need no man. . .
      the old bloated version of Vivica is going to have a hard time finding a high quality man at her level.
      Now put the cherry on top. Being happy about a man (Kevin Samuels) dying because he told the truth in dating issues. . . that's sick! Not to mention his family saw that. Any man with any dignity wouldn't go anywhere near her.
      That shows how evil she is. So no men saw that, she will not get anything serious. . .if a all, no matter how many insults the young lady of this channel throws out. . .
      No man with any self esteem will get caught walking hand in hand with her. Especially knowing he's going to clowned worst than Drake.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's possible, but not common.

  • @casba3
    @casba3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +766

    All women, especially celebrities, should move in silence.

    • @StephanieRivers-ub2ey
      @StephanieRivers-ub2ey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      That part 🤔👏🏾👏🏾

    • @londonkhareem6515
      @londonkhareem6515 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      When the heck will they learn this?

    • @BryanC-kw1py
      @BryanC-kw1py 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Never. Social media is alerting men on the games women play.

    • @QueenQueenly
      @QueenQueenly 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes

  • @Ms.J.
    @Ms.J. 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    It's never too late to be in love and live happily.

  • @lexilei9950
    @lexilei9950 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

    I have spent my entire life working in the wedding industry and I can tell you I have seen women of all ages all demographics all races get married. I've seen all different types of combo of relationships from the college students, to the single mom, The elderly couple on there second marriage. I have seen it all but one of the very few that I have seen are these 40 50-year-old men with 19 20-year-old women like the manosphere tries to push the narrative for. Any man looking at a girl that young is not looking for a wife he is looking for a toy. So anytime somebody tries to dunk on me about being in my 30s and unmarried. I take it with a grain of salt because love can happen at any age and happiness can happen whether you are single or married. Thank you for sharing this video This one was a great one

  • @queennubian2573
    @queennubian2573 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +246

    I just don’t get why they’re always so up in arms about older women trying to find love/ companionship. Your lofe isn’t over at 60. There’s no grace for women as we age.

    • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
      @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Exactly. My grandma's first husband passed years ago when all their children were adults. She didn't re-marry,but if she did she would have been over 30 years in by now. That's a whole other lifetime for some people. It's never too late.

    • @pierceblazer
      @pierceblazer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Because they put a time limit on women's worth, attractiveness and appreciation based on age and utility.
      Plenty of them scream about after ages 25-30 women are damaged good and should be cast away.
      They're crazy, and it sends them into a rage when older women find love/prospects (especially when younger men pursue them and find them attractive).

    • @SonicBoomC98
      @SonicBoomC98 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@pierceblazer I guess all the numbers and history are wrong

    • @trblessed1020
      @trblessed1020 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I literally don't see men not trying to find love as they age And trust me the equipment ain't what it used to be so they need to really stop that narrative

    • @BryanC-kw1py
      @BryanC-kw1py 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@pierceblazer. The same way a woman values a man's wallet.

  • @aidaibrahim4381
    @aidaibrahim4381 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

    What is crazy is men don’t live that long! Instead of making fun of aging women they need to start going to the doctors & getting on top of their labs & high blood pressure

    • @SunQueen-d7l
      @SunQueen-d7l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      🎉BINGO! they're beyond 😍 sooo jealous of older wm!!

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      9:14 They know... that's why they seek to marry nurses when they get up in age... scared to death... poor things

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@SunQueen-d7lPretty much... knowing we will succeed them and still be here Queening and getting IT in... mmmmkay 💅🏾

    • @enjolique367
      @enjolique367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      THIS

    • @mutedearthvirgo
      @mutedearthvirgo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      literally. its all that repressed frustration and resentment rotting them from the inside out.

  • @nieceylanair65
    @nieceylanair65 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    It is never too late to find love.
    I'm 40 and became engaged for the first time in March 2024.
    A retired older woman on my FB timeline became engaged over Memorial Day weekend.
    A former coworker of mine who is in her 50's got married & was able to semi-retire (she work PT by choice) because she married an older man with money who retired well.
    My point: It's never too late!!!

    • @TheNewFeminine
      @TheNewFeminine  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Congrats Niecey! I'm so Happy for You!!!!!

    • @nieceylanair65
      @nieceylanair65 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@TheNewFeminine Thank you 😄

  • @Thankgot
    @Thankgot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

    She shouldnt have answered those personal questions. Silence is power

  • @cynthiasmith2459
    @cynthiasmith2459 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +369

    My mom got married at 65 years old. This is her third marriage.
    It’s never too late.
    And I also find it funny how everyone making fun of Vivica is unmarried themselves.
    How is it OK for a man to be unmarried, but not OK for a woman to be unmarried?
    make it makes sense! 🥴
    These guys will find anything to make fun of women on instead of examining their own insecurities

    • @TheAshMcG
      @TheAshMcG 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree 100%.....why do these dusty low level men care what she is doing.

    • @nappyfries
      @nappyfries 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Seriously. It’s usually men who are single & have been for a while & have no real relationship prospects. Projection at its finest. They’re not wanted so they have to talk about certain women not being wanted. Yeah ok lol

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You comparing your mom to a celebrity? 😂😂😂

    • @leestyles6687
      @leestyles6687 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol

    • @SonicBoomC98
      @SonicBoomC98 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah everyone criticizing her must be unmarried. Yeah

  • @BarbieDawl.__
    @BarbieDawl.__ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    I’m not nowhere near Vivica a fox’s age but let me tell you something on Reddit. I literally just made a comment saying that I think it’s better off if I just give up on dating and you had men in the forum writing me telling me how selfish I am because I’m deciding to be single and I’m gonna be sad when I’m older, it’s like we can’t win for losing.

    • @Claudiaaliru
      @Claudiaaliru 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

      But why are they obsessed with telling women that 😂😂😂

    • @AfroGirl5852
      @AfroGirl5852 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@faith1614exactly!!!

    • @Black-Butterfly-B1
      @Black-Butterfly-B1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I move in silence about my dating life and marital status.
      Since I was not married by 25, a majority of people will talk about me…and make up all kinds of narratives.
      Know common questions and be able to answer them….
      It is what it is…🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @pianotnt
      @pianotnt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@Claudiaaliru because they are projecting what they feel onto women their godfather has been dead over a year now they are lost

    • @missj5564
      @missj5564 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      ​​@@ClaudiaaliruBecause those men are afraid of being alone and not having a maid and a replacement mother in their lives. Ladies do not fall for the manipulative tactics.

  • @pursequeen6148
    @pursequeen6148 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    This older woman who is gleefully single and ONLY looking to retire within the next few months states that “You are a sweetheart❣️“ I LOVE how you made the point that we need to STOP over sharing- It isn’t necessary to answer every question someone throws at you… I’ve got Miss Vivica by a few years- and you are right! To be alive is the REAL gift💝. Not many make it to this age; so THAT is the key! Call me old… call me a spinster- I’ve been called worse. But I refuse to let folks steal my joy. Learning how ignore people is a real art a lot of people NEED to learn!!!!! Thank you soooo much for this! It was quite refreshing…. Now all I need say is “Kevin who?”😉

  • @Paths2business8406
    @Paths2business8406 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    She should have answered like Rihanna! “Im not looking for a man, let’s start there!”😒😏

  • @CyberSecurityFashionDesigner
    @CyberSecurityFashionDesigner 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I am Palestinian and your channel is something I relate to in my community.Thank you for your advice.

    • @nxoxo7322
      @nxoxo7322 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🇵🇸♥️

  • @gingerandspice1209
    @gingerandspice1209 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    When people ask me if I’m single or married, especially at work! I simply say, “I don’t disclose my personal or relationship status at work”!

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      🎯

    • @tarshagreene4661
      @tarshagreene4661 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I agree😊

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      That mean single af 😂😂

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ... ☝🏽 and "why do you ask"... if they don't have a response to that question satisfactory to you... then you don't have a response to theirs... nosey azzes... 🙄🙄🙄 chile... the nerve...

    • @raspberry_dreams
      @raspberry_dreams 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everyone assumes whatever they want to assume. If someone told me that I would take it for what it is then drop it.​@@MrTwonetwone

  • @mrttamara
    @mrttamara 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +263

    You know what? She said she wants a partner. These ninjas talking about she is looking for a husband. There is a difference.

    • @redleeks6253
      @redleeks6253 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Ols people usually get partnered with age adequate people.
      My neighbor is now 60, shes already a grandma and got a 68 year old boyfriend who's also divorced with adult children.
      And my uncle 72 and widow got a late 60s girlfriend. She gets a widow pension from her late husband so there's no point in her to get married.

    • @ledonahentley4488
      @ledonahentley4488 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The manosphere is too dumb to realize these things.

    • @Ayoutubeview12
      @Ayoutubeview12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's that's

    • @redleeks6253
      @redleeks6253 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nicoedits6940 Her only income is her widow pension from her deceased husband and she also takes care of her mother whos in her 90s.
      If she marries again she loses her only source of income.

  • @di_hibbert
    @di_hibbert 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Chloe, on point as always. Vivica needs to move in silence. Your privacy is your wealth.

  • @claricelyles8398
    @claricelyles8398 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +235

    Vivica is clearly secure enough not to give these broke and hateful men's comments the time of day.

    • @claricelyles8398
      @claricelyles8398 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Chloebushwathe men who invests in negativity, especially when its targeted towards women, are insecure and jealous. There's a lot of this going on today. Too much.

    • @toppagirl
      @toppagirl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      she’s commented on several posts on twitter.

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      SHE does not have the time... ☝🏽 however, my wallet is set-up in a way, today... where I DO. BRING DAT' AZZ HERE BOI! (DC Young Fly voice) 😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣

    • @BryanC-kw1py
      @BryanC-kw1py 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What man in her tax bracket would even consider her.

    • @Ayoutubeview12
      @Ayoutubeview12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What makes them broke is because they don't like her. She has spent her life dogging men and thinking she is so above it all, hanging on to 50 cent balls

  • @sunmoonrising81
    @sunmoonrising81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +180

    As a woman i wished vivica would have never come public with this and moved in silence. A man can be out there living his best life and at the age of 60+ decide to want to settle down and do so with a 20-30 year old while a woman should settle for being alone and treated as old as soon as we hit 40. The sad reality with vivica is she gonna be preyed on by men waay younger than her for a come up and i hope she doesnt succumb to this. She should look overseas for an older, well off esteemed man that would probably more appreciate her

    • @sunmoonrising81
      @sunmoonrising81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@munaali840 yes....she should look to europe definately

    • @357savage
      @357savage 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Funny that you say she should look overseas, especially how you same women bash passport bros for going overseas to find love. Hilarious 😆

    • @its_whatever_dani_d863
      @its_whatever_dani_d863 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@357savageok bitter Betty 🙄🙄

    • @pianotnt
      @pianotnt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@357savage then why waste time on a woman's TH-cam channel when you can stack money and practice what you preach actions speak louder

    • @SonicBoomC98
      @SonicBoomC98 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's not settling. Men and women are not the same

  • @amminarose
    @amminarose 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    “Your next move is your best move “.❤ I hope Vivica finds the love she desires. She always gives Queen energy, so I hope she isn’t bothered by jesters and their projection and shortcomings.

  • @plinkysmama8309
    @plinkysmama8309 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Vivica never said she was looking for a husband. She said she was looking for a partner. She was intentionally misquoted by the manosphere so they can drag her. She’s been married already and had several long term relationships. She happens to be single NOW. The narrative that she played around all these years and now that she’s old she wants to settle down doesn’t apply to her. I wish her nothing but healer, wealth, joy and prosperity.

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I remember when the first time I clicked on K Samuels vid. I had never ever heard of him..didn't even know his name. Within 2 minutes in I said "this man is evil and of the devil.' That spirit was so clear to me.

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🎯

  • @shy_donut8307
    @shy_donut8307 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +196

    Can we talk about how she doesn’t even look 60😍😍😍

    • @alleng526
      @alleng526 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Please. Did you see her without makeup with those surgeries. She looks crazy. She was so naturally beautiful. Drop dead. She looks wild

    • @KimontheWeb
      @KimontheWeb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alleng526 BM hater has entered the chat. Even without the surgeries she would have looked fine, quit hating on black women because of your own insecurities and shortcomings and heal.

    • @SuperflyGucci
      @SuperflyGucci 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yeah all that surgery got her looking wierd, ain't nobody on that type of time 😂

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      She look scary af 😂 her face don’t move

    • @GodBodyKing98
      @GodBodyKing98 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      stop..

  • @KeenyaTheStylist
    @KeenyaTheStylist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    It's never too late for anyone, including Vivica Fox, to find love. Age is just a number when it comes to relationships and pursuing happiness. Everyone deserves the chance to find connection and companionship, no matter their stage in life. 💅🏽

  • @TamsPsychAdvice
    @TamsPsychAdvice 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Black women shouldn’t persecute themselves for not having Mr. Right. They haven’t done anything wrong. Self improvement is great, but it will not solve the problem. Black women are beautiful and amazing. Vivica not having anyone is beyond herself.

    • @AfroGirl5852
      @AfroGirl5852 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Exactly!!! It’s just hard out here for us black women it’s sad I pray everyday! ❤

    • @Paulatics
      @Paulatics 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Exactly! It's tough to date for BW at any age, to be honest.

    • @sweetpeaj1952
      @sweetpeaj1952 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Paulaticsagree

  • @laj4186
    @laj4186 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Chloe is so right. You must PREPARE.

  • @nubeinggoddess9376
    @nubeinggoddess9376 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I have done what Vivica did in that interview when faced with the same questions. In my mind I was taking ownership of my situation, like a form of control. After actually seeing how that looks, I regret it.
    Silence and/or being selective is POWER.
    Moving forward I will say I am living my best life, doin me, working on myself while waiting on my husband to find me ❤
    She's still pretty and I hope Vivica finds love. Age is just a number. Its never too late!

  • @TOFFEETASTICC
    @TOFFEETASTICC 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Issa Rae’s marriage announcement *chef’s kiss*
    Public figures should normalize that. 😕

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Heeeee we go... this... right here👆🏽

  • @swiitdoll
    @swiitdoll 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +488

    She needs to leave her face alone.

    • @mindingmybusiness6309
      @mindingmybusiness6309 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      😢

    • @claricelyles8398
      @claricelyles8398 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      She was so beautiful back in the day❤

    • @gapeapril_
      @gapeapril_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      It looks like weight gain. Hormonal imbalance.

    • @kelia93
      @kelia93 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      Also she's 60 she's aging

    • @gingerandspice1209
      @gingerandspice1209 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      You need to not tell people what to do with their body!

  • @pianotnt
    @pianotnt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I'm going to be 50 next year I'm not going to bash and since the recent death of my mother back in february of THIS year I have new perspective on life and couples My mom was married to my dad for 50th years 1973-2024 and now I see what good men are and didn't realize how good my father was until sadly after her death she really did choose a provider funny how tragedy humbles you and matures you and give you a new perspective in life

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Sorry for your loss ❤

    • @tarshagreene4661
      @tarshagreene4661 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I’m going to be 50 years old also next year in 2025. I was married before my husband passed 13years ago. My Son is a teen ager. I am open to dating and get married again. I pray that God sends you someone as well.🙏

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bless. 🙏🏽

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tarshagreene4661Prepare for him as Chloe stated... he will. Bless. 👑💛🙏🏽

  • @Shelby-s2w
    @Shelby-s2w 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    If only she knew that most divorcees and widows her age never want to get married again and are out here living their best single lives lol. But if she insists, she had better do her research and choose very carefully because golden bachelor told us everything we need to know about dating as an elder.

    • @miniminott48
      @miniminott48 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Vivica was married for 4 years to Christopher Harvest who she divorced in 2002. She was the breadwinner in that relationship and she divorced him.

    • @Shelby-s2w
      @Shelby-s2w 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @miniminott48 yes I remember and she has been trying to find someone ever since. But she was still young at that time so it makes since why she remained hopeful

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    It's not over for her, good for her. We all need love, I love your content❤🇿🇦

  • @cuethelights8195
    @cuethelights8195 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    They're such weirdos and nobodies that their opinions mean NOTHING... she's fine

    • @SunQueen-d7l
      @SunQueen-d7l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🎉all THIS!!! CLAP 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

  • @ladysunshine9029
    @ladysunshine9029 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I'm so happy to hear someone sensible give this woman grace. Its so disgusting listening to these hateful misogynistic men and women who are clowing Vivica. These talking heads believe that only men at any age are entitled to love with whomever they want. A lot of time an Americanized man Viv's age aint even worth the time. A lot of them come with more baggage than women and they don't do the healing work. multiple failed marriages or relationships, bad relarionships with their kids, subance abuse issues, Erectile dysfunction and unstable finaces. A lot of them waste their late 30's and 40's destroying their financial stabilty buying 25 year olds. By the time they get to Viv's age they're not where they should be. The only time their ready to be with somwone their age is if they know she's together financially. A woman like Viv should try dating abroad.

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ...or when they're sick and on the verge of needing a caretaker 👀 Don't be fooled ladies... go to the doctor with these 'potentials'... don't become no 'Night Nurse' for Prince (Medical) Charting 😶🤣

  • @happilyhired622
    @happilyhired622 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a single 43 yr old female. never married, i love the core message of self love regardless of the marital status

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    She's secure she doesn't care what the haters say.

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If Vivica was going to yield to haters... she would have done that a loooong time ago. Dudes ain' been sleeping on Vivica... she ain' bitin' 🤷🏽‍♀️ simple as that

    • @josephtoombs305
      @josephtoombs305 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Secure enough to say she's accepting applications 😂😂. She's got the money but not the MAN

  • @shripleypibbles
    @shripleypibbles 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I know a widow who had a boyfriend in her late 70 s who unfortunately passed but you are never too old to fall in love and live a full life. I hope she finds someone nice.

  • @jayce4065
    @jayce4065 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Vivica knew what she was doing. She’s promoting a project and now all eyes are on her. #checkmate

  • @zulenastaton3132
    @zulenastaton3132 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video and advice . It’s never too late for love and hypergamy. I have a coworker in her 60s that found love and married for the first time; she said she gave the younger women at her church hope. She wasn’t looking love; he found and perused her. She only works because she wants to. He provides, protects, and treats her like a Queen!❤ My other coworker is in her mid 60s; she found the love of her life with her third marriage. He provides and she only works to have extra change in her pocket. They live a lavish lifestyle and take tons of trips.
    It’s NEVER Too Late for hypergamy & LOVE!❤

  • @yourentrepreneurjourney
    @yourentrepreneurjourney 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    It's not over for Viv...I would just move in silence totally. As for the manosphere, they are already beneath us so ladies shine, heal and grow! Yes ma'am Chloe...preach it sis!👏🏽💋💄❤️
    BTW Rupert Murdoch just got married at 90'ish. As long as you have breath jn your body, you have hope.

    • @SA-hy6nw
      @SA-hy6nw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rupert Murdoch is a billionaire, he can be comatose and still find someone to marry him

    • @BryanC-kw1py
      @BryanC-kw1py 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SA-hy6nw . Key words: He and Billionaire.

  • @StrandCanvasStudios
    @StrandCanvasStudios 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    “Casually celebrated his death” definitely tickled me. Please forgive me 😭🙏🏾

  • @shameerriapryor6828
    @shameerriapryor6828 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I have two uncles and a dad that got married in their 60’s. And in order for them to get married it had to be women available 60 plus. So, yes men still want women as long as they live. It’s never too late.

  • @K.Rochelle
    @K.Rochelle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ya’ll can say whatever you want about her physical appearance, SHE LOOKS DAMN GOOD! This woman is beautiful. I forgot she was 60.

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel sorry for everyone making fun of her . Life has a way.
      (I hate to see those folk in the coming years.)

    • @Truth1664
      @Truth1664 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Stop lying she does not look good with all that plastic surgery

    • @DragonFellowship
      @DragonFellowship 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For sure ​@@Truth1664

  • @ray2387
    @ray2387 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    A fine Sunday blessing, Chloe 😊💕

  • @bellbranda
    @bellbranda 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    SHE IS A HUMAN BEING ♥️

  • @xoxo20000
    @xoxo20000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I think no matter what SJWs/Feminists say, all Women want to be married and taken care of by the right man. More & more women, especially Black women are understanding again that being a soft feminine woman and tapping into that is the natural way to go. Some Black women specifically have been raised to be masculine.

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      All women???
      Respecting that there are women that don't want marriage isn't expensive .It does not make them Anti feminine .

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      But more than likely that will not be the reality for the majority of black women. Men are devolving, which is why women in progressive countries have to rely on themselves, unfortunately.

    • @DolceVita
      @DolceVita 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      I think that the desire to be taken care off comes at a cost, so it’s too simplistic to just say most women want to be taken care of. The reality is Most men who want to take of women also have certain expectations of those women. Some women, like myself , would love to be taken care of but we are not prepared to pay the cost. There isn’t an abundance of men who want to take care of a woman with few expectations

    • @IAMHERE486
      @IAMHERE486 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Some women like myself simply understand reality and that most men can’t afford a wife.

    • @toppagirl
      @toppagirl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women will think twice when their comfort is turned upside down. They will flock to the natural protection of a man. By then, it may be too late for them. The US is on the brink of a collapse. I know what’s coming. Some of you have no idea.

  • @neriahwilliams6906
    @neriahwilliams6906 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I pray she finds this channel it's a blessing.🎉

  • @curls4theworld
    @curls4theworld 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Also, the manosphere is talking about Vivica as if she wasted her youth and JUST now decided she wants to be married. Vivica is a divorced woman. She got married in her prime and divorced because she was tired of being the breadwinner. She’s looking to remarry. Their off the shelf analysis doesn’t fit Vivica’s situation. It is much more difficult for a woman in her position to find a good partner especially after experiencing what she has in the past. She just needs to move in silence and she’ll be alright. These talk shows and podcasts aren’t worth it.

  • @xoxo20000
    @xoxo20000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I remember when she dated 50 cent. That seems like a lifetime ago

  • @jamillawebb3567
    @jamillawebb3567 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Chloe thank you for another outstanding video! ❤🙌🏽 it is not over for Vivica and I agree about moving in silence. Self love and privacy will always put us on top!

  • @idreaoftea
    @idreaoftea 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That "You are STILL here" resonated with me so much. Thanks Chloe!

  • @theocnetwork1521
    @theocnetwork1521 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The ending of this video is so powerful ❤

  • @mstcleaning
    @mstcleaning 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    No, it’s never too late.
    I love the inspirational at the end of the video. Thank you for all you do for women!

  • @babou5694
    @babou5694 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Moving in silence is the way to go. Nobody need to know everything about your life especially your dating life.

  • @rocketchico.2149
    @rocketchico.2149 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Like my father used to say (rip🙏) the game ain’t really over til you’re dead. Don’t ever give up

  • @tracyjacksonjackson4221
    @tracyjacksonjackson4221 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Vivica will be able to find a husband. She has before and she will again. People marry late in life all the time. Stop pretending that marriage after 40 is impossible for women.

    • @NewWorldOrder19
      @NewWorldOrder19 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      For the man she wants yeah ok

  • @Diana734
    @Diana734 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She did not have to go public with this. She has the money to hire a matchmaking service.😮‍💨

  • @stilljocelyn_
    @stilljocelyn_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I praying for Miss Vivica. I see her with a successful Tech/Finance/Hedge Fund guy. 😊❤

  • @froufroushoo9266
    @froufroushoo9266 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    For those commenting on Vivica's face/looks,- it looks like weight gain and she could possibly be on some steroid medication. Having work done? Very possible. But it's not just cosmetic work, -it's mostly medication. I've seen prescriptions like prednisone give people this type of moon-face look.

  • @BlackPositivityChallenge
    @BlackPositivityChallenge 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    POSITIVITY💞💫.
    A lot more melanated ppl(especially women)need more positivity.
    It's why I started my channel. We can never truly be gentle🥀 if we are always arguing or fighting battles.🌼🌸🪷🌻
    Wishing TRUE GENTLE LIVES for all women reading this.🌸🍃

  • @Nisha_Nykelle
    @Nisha_Nykelle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    It ain't over until God says it's ov-ah!

    • @MrTwonetwone
      @MrTwonetwone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s over

  • @books6000
    @books6000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Vivica should have moved in silent. She still hasn’t learned. She is a late boomer so moving in silence isn’t something they do.
    Unfortunately Vivica was married once before to SixxNine a singer/rapper who know one knew about he used her and she had to pay him a lot of money. Then she was 50cent he used her fame to gain fame in different circles. She then dated the producer/vegetarian influencer for almost a decade and he was a user and she was his sugar mama. I think they briefly were engaged.
    Last, there was an old interview where Vivica said she only dated BM. She was on another show saying no to a man trying to set her up with a none BM she said know.
    She made bad decisions. I do wish her love I just want her to stop talking she makes BW look bad.

    • @missfavoured
      @missfavoured 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for sharing these details clearly barely anyone knows about but 50 Cent

    • @books6000
      @books6000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@missfavoured I use to have subscriptions to every pop-culture/music/entertainment magazines. Plus I and listened to the radio a lot because of my work.
      I am glad she is opening up her options. I hope she stays away from men in the entertainment industry they mean he no good.

  • @TheThriftQueen
    @TheThriftQueen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It’s not over and vivica will find love.

  • @tommylewis7231
    @tommylewis7231 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is perfect example of the hive concept VS Living and Loving Life.

  • @dreaarc1
    @dreaarc1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I believe she can have a beautiful and flourishing relationship with a good man. I would just recommend for her to keep an open mind and not to limit her options with expectations and checklists. Stay open and allow love and abundance to come from unexpected directions. Most of all if she masters loving herself first, then love will come easy to her. Wishing her all the best in her endeavors.

  • @magdarodriguez9374
    @magdarodriguez9374 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You went off in this video!!! Absolutely amazing 🙌

  • @veeedgee
    @veeedgee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have always enjoyed Vivica’s personality. It seems she’s just transparent and doesn’t care about the opinions of others, but I’m sure it’s not fun having people bash you for being you. I wish her nothing but the best!!

  • @charlita25
    @charlita25 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    She's gonna find someone She's still beautiful and desirable. Also, she has access to more bachelor's than the average woman 👩🏽 because of her career and success.

  • @edysmith9758
    @edysmith9758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Nothing wrong with Vivica.

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right. What's wrong is what's going on with, to and around her.

  • @LaKymana
    @LaKymana 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am a dog mom and auntie. Everyone’s story is different. There is someone for everyone ❤

  • @HighPriestess_Studio5
    @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    7:35 If a MAN does not understand your value and the value you bring to his table... why is he approaching for an intimate connection? What is the purpose? 8:43 Meaning if you find yourself explaining yourself to a man....ma'am, Sister Queen, Sis, Baby Girl... you are engaging a 🤡 he is PLAYING IN YO' FACE. Men KNOW who you are and what you're worth. They have a type because they know what they NEED./WANT.. and they are not even bothering to approach if you're not it. If you are uncertain about a man's intent... ask him what his type is... if he does not have one 🚩🏃🏽‍♀️... if he does... make certain it is relevant to you. If he has switched up his 'type', make certain his reasoning is logical, progressive, loving and verifiable. With love, Bless Queens. 👑💛🙏🏽

    • @SunQueen-d7l
      @SunQueen-d7l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🎉Wonderfully said!!!

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SunQueen-d7l 👑💛🙏🏽 TY Luv. My goal is to love on US eternally... no excuses... no judgement... no matter. Bless.

    • @mokupe8296
      @mokupe8296 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you have said a whole word.

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mokupe8296 🙏🏽

  • @mwright0428
    @mwright0428 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I say the same thing all the time about Kevin Samuels. You never win when you play dirty and Kevin should have used his power and influence for good. Masculinities greatest strength is in its gentleness and the ultimate job of manhood is to protect womanhood. But when you take that gift and abuse it, it will always lead you to destruction. Father time comes to collect for everyone and the prayer is that all of us make it as far as we can in good health.

  • @carlatoppins8567
    @carlatoppins8567 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanx Chloe, You Drop The Mic Sis!👍🏾🙂💕

  • @coolcoloursbeautyngozioji8772
    @coolcoloursbeautyngozioji8772 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Well said Chloe. Love from Nigeria ❤

  • @IAMHERE486
    @IAMHERE486 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Dating definitely gets harder as women get older.Simply because the decent men are already taken.However, Vivica was already married and she’s still in the business which is great.

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're not (all) taken... they're hiding from the man eating body-snatchers... which of course their motto is... If I can't have him no one else is getting him either. Then he goes and hides from her harassing behind and we don't SEE him so we assume he doesn't exist... he'll come out for whole woman though...💯 in REAL life though... not on the internet... that's a boobie-trap. He knows what he's looking for and she is moving around on the PLANET... not just living her best internet-life... 🤭 TRUST me... they're out there... keyword being "OUT"... as in outside 😉

  • @beharga7901
    @beharga7901 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m walking the self love journey and when I find myself putting myself first and toning down on certain things.

  • @r.walker7986
    @r.walker7986 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why are people out here acting like Aunties are not the only ones getting married these days??? 😂😂😂
    When was the last time you got invited to a wedding where both people were under 25 in the black community? Unless you are a "fundie" or staunch evangelical? in her age bracket, the men are looking for age appropriate companionship and a person to take care of them in their old age, young women are not trying to do that and they cost a lot, so women and their 50's and 60s can get a ring if they are realistic and look decent, which she does. She did not need to announce it to the world though...

  • @jerrysears7607
    @jerrysears7607 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Can't we all just get along?" Rodney King😮

  • @SAnderson54
    @SAnderson54 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video per usual Chloe.
    In the age of oversharing we've definitely forgotten how to keep certain things private. I even had to learn to only tell a select group of people about my dating life because many people are intimated by and jealous of the success women have had within the last decade...esp blk women. They will use your singleness as a tool to throw you on an island of misfit toys to make you feel inadequate.
    When others ask, I just simply say I'm enjoying my life.

    • @H_NNY
      @H_NNY 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep I had a family member purposely sometimes set me up with guys and I’d figure out later on that she knew they weren’t no good to begin with. She’d withhold information about them knowing it’d save me time rather than wasting time getting to know them.
      Like you’d think if they knew something, they’d tell you because they care and want you to have a choice in the situation, but despite of knowing your values, they wanted to watch you stress anyway.
      All of that just to stall your progress and keep you jaded like them. that’s why I kept my distance because that is some deep level hatred. It was so passive aggressive that it took me some time to catch it on the times I spent went with her.

  • @jill616
    @jill616 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Chloe! :) Just letting you know I’m sharing all of your videos to my girl friends, they’re learning now and taking notes. 😊 We are Filipinas by the way, thank you for thiss 💖🌸

  • @Iamchristaelaine
    @Iamchristaelaine 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m wishing her the best!

  • @MrsLeticia1983
    @MrsLeticia1983 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I don’t like that she has to publicly have this conversation. I feel like that is a conversation between girlfriends and close circles.

  • @LaTrav08
    @LaTrav08 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Although not the best place to discuss her desires for a romantic partner, I'm just glad she said something besides wishing on a star for 50 Cents again💯

  • @bitokay147
    @bitokay147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love this commentary ! Chloe's intelligence will go over their heads. But you addressed both sides. Never celebrate someone's death. Men stop attacking vivica for wanting to date at 60 . Men are looking to date at 60.

  • @ChasityBlack-qx6ih
    @ChasityBlack-qx6ih 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My grandma is 74 and has a boyfriend

  • @katherinevacha9627
    @katherinevacha9627 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, Chloe, you have changed my life.

  • @Evanescene8444
    @Evanescene8444 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wish she changed her hairstyle more often. I think it makes her look a little older, but she looks fantastic otherwise and her skin is lovely and radiant.

  • @ChrisC808
    @ChrisC808 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I dont know how Vivica has ended up in this position honestly, she still looks good looking minus the fillers and she not even asking for much tbh just companionship, I hope she finds someone really nice to settle down with..🙏🏾

  • @Anetekonjo
    @Anetekonjo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sensible people know that all humans age and it is a blessing to be able grow old especially nowadays. Folks are dying way before their time. Life has a funny way of back firing on those that hurt others intentionally.

  • @dailypearls
    @dailypearls 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love the casual responses to have on the ready.🥰

  • @terrilam8505
    @terrilam8505 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What did you expect for folks, especially men to say? There was no need for Vivica to go on a public forum to announce her loneliness. She is a whole grown, supposed to be mature woman that does not strike me as the type of woman that need to advertise her availability for love other than the need to be validated, to be seen or to stay relevant. Vivica is a beautiful, smart and strong woman that needs no validation or approval from anyone. What happened to privacy? Everyone uses social media for every aspect of their lives. They put their own business out and then get mad when folks comment on it. Keep YOUR BUSINESS YOUR BUSINESS and then you won't have to be on social media defending yourself.

  • @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663
    @lyndoraburroughs-robinson5663 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Look how Angela Bassett has won the best thinker award 👏 😍

  • @Michaeleism
    @Michaeleism 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Her being stuck on 50 pennies for the last half of the century.... The worst part was the constant rumination on that looser... She should have kept kept quiet about her exes and NEVER spoken about her LOVE life EVER... Vivica is mature enough to know this, by now. At certain points in one's life it's best to stay focused on one's fitness/ health, mental health and living well. Everything else is trash nonsense and distractions.

    • @SunQueen-d7l
      @SunQueen-d7l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Powerful wisdom 🎉

  • @lisabrightly
    @lisabrightly 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Whats so wrong about wanting a partner at any age?! Its only natural.
    Good luck to her.

  • @pop8612
    @pop8612 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Vivica was prepped in advance for this interview. She could had discussed about her summer travels, philanthropic works, The NBA finals
    but instead she made herself look desperate in order to go viral. SMH

  • @SonicBoomC98
    @SonicBoomC98 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is funny. We will see if she finds someone to deal with her like that. I forgot how perfect Vivica is and how people are lining up to deal with the attitude she has. The other women we know of that got married at 60 are the exception not the rule. Just because something is possible that doesn't mean it's highly probable. Lets revisit this in 5 years and see who ends up being right.

  • @homodeus8713
    @homodeus8713 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Vivica needs to mature emotionally and level up intellectually.

    • @HighPriestess_Studio5
      @HighPriestess_Studio5 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bottom line. If she's not attracting what she truly wants... she has work to do... cuz' best BELIEVE 🤡they🤡 are lined up at her front, back and side door.🙄🤭

  • @tonjawade9037
    @tonjawade9037 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She was married years ago. Remember her ex-husband named Six-Nine?? She wants a man who has his own. She's allowed to want what she wants!!

  • @peacenwegbo
    @peacenwegbo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was a thorough assessment of Vivica’s commentary. I wish her the best of luck on her love journey and pray she’s done the inner work required to have a loving lasting relationship.
    I appreciate how you mentioned the importance of using your power for good and used Kevin Samuels (respectfully) along with Diddy as cautionary tales. The last two motivational clips were also inspiring. Excellent video and quite thought provoking 🥂