Honestly for others this would look so bad but Phoebe deserved and more importantly, EARNED a Beautiful day without guilt. She was one of those children and not only never grew up privileged, but grew up with trauma and tragedy. Leaving a bit of the amount would have been the right thing to do though lol.
They got the check back, then Phoebe and Mike felt guilty, gave the check back, but the charity ended up refusing to take back the check. Monica is terrible and selfish
Donate money and then take all of the donation back... how selfish and disgusting can anyone be!? OK, people may change their mind and reconsider their decisions, but this was so awful of Phoebe. No one forced her to make a donation, and definitely not give all the money which was meant for the wedding. Why not give some money and keep the rest for the wedding? I do not think Monica is the bad person in this scene.
It’s not like she took it from the children. Only one guy in the office knew. It’s not really different from you and me who haven’t given tens of thousands in the first place. And she changed her mind later.
@@sarasamaletdin4574 Theres definitely a difference in taking back the money and not giving. And i would say someone who already donated and taking back is worse than someone who doesnt give at all. It might sound wierd but the they had already given increased probability of children suffereing less. Ask yourself as a human really deep inside it doesnt justify it. I agree that pheobe suffered like them and she deserves wayy too much. But thats the first thing that makes her more terrible here. She knows how is it. Even after that she still choses to be selfish. They can always have a wedding after they make much money its not a basic need
Monica: 'Stupid children' - o wow, and she wants to adopt children? Wow, Monica is awful. But you won't hear about it in the Friends fandom, which thinks Monica and Chandler are saints, and never hold them accountable for their awfulness (best couple/ best characters my aSSS). These fans always explain Monica&Chandler, that 'it's a sitcom' and humor, but it's NEVER the excuse when it comes to Ross or Rachel. In fact, they love to nitpick Ross's and Rachel's behavior and hate on them. So now I will do the same to other characters, let's see how these Mondler fans will like it! Fair is fair, right?
Monica is so terrible, my God. She and Chandler became so grotesque, dull& unhealthy during later seasons, and they were NEVER a great couple. They never had great chemistry, I don't care if you agree or not; Monica had way better chemistry with both, Richard and Joey; and btw, the original plan of the writers was to make Monica&Joey the main couple, they should have done this - it would be miles better than Mondler ever was! In the flashback episode when Monica first met Joey who just moved in across the hall and invited him over to her place for lemonade, this scene between them was pure hotness and magic!! They had insane chemistry and looked way better than Monica ever looked with skinny Chandler. Just rewatch it.
You're not wrong. Although I was a Mondler fan in the beginning, I agree that they became VERY unhealthy later on. In all honesty, the writers RUINED Monica's character. In the beginning, she was a sassy, hardworking individual with a slight OCD problem. After about 4 seasons, she became a caricature of herself. Suddenly, being a control freak and having OCD became her personality.
Writers went out of the line with Monica 😂
Kids are only thing she craved for her whole life
Honestly for others this would look so bad but Phoebe deserved and more importantly, EARNED a Beautiful day without guilt. She was one of those children and not only never grew up privileged, but grew up with trauma and tragedy. Leaving a bit of the amount would have been the right thing to do though lol.
Lmao
Monica: That's way more important than some stupid kids
Also Monica: Because we deserve a baby before them"
Oh my god I love your shirt 😂
Wedding and marriage are two different things.
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well if pheobe felt that much, then she simply shouldn't have donated!
monica was really bad this episode, she always has to make everything about her
Why
Only if it was a comedy show 😂
Lol people in comments need to chill. Nowadays people take offence to anything 😂
Its just a TV show
Wow, this was pretty terrible. What happened afterwards? Did they give the check back?
They got the check back, then Phoebe and Mike felt guilty, gave the check back, but the charity ended up refusing to take back the check.
Monica is terrible and selfish
It's not selfish if you want to be happy that's her wedding and it's her right you don't dare to call her selfish@@kickstand2407
Donate money and then take all of the donation back... how selfish and disgusting can anyone be!? OK, people may change their mind and reconsider their decisions, but this was so awful of Phoebe. No one forced her to make a donation, and definitely not give all the money which was meant for the wedding. Why not give some money and keep the rest for the wedding? I do not think Monica is the bad person in this scene.
It’s not like she took it from the children. Only one guy in the office knew. It’s not really different from you and me who haven’t given tens of thousands in the first place. And she changed her mind later.
@@sarasamaletdin4574 Theres definitely a difference in taking back the money and not giving. And i would say someone who already donated and taking back is worse than someone who doesnt give at all. It might sound wierd but the they had already given increased probability of children suffereing less. Ask yourself as a human really deep inside it doesnt justify it. I agree that pheobe suffered like them and she deserves wayy too much. But thats the first thing that makes her more terrible here. She knows how is it. Even after that she still choses to be selfish. They can always have a wedding after they make much money its not a basic need
Wow that was awful. Phoebe was just the worst in this episode. Just the worst
Monica: 'Stupid children' - o wow, and she wants to adopt children? Wow, Monica is awful. But you won't hear about it in the Friends fandom, which thinks Monica and Chandler are saints, and never hold them accountable for their awfulness (best couple/ best characters my aSSS). These fans always explain Monica&Chandler, that 'it's a sitcom' and humor, but it's NEVER the excuse when it comes to Ross or Rachel. In fact, they love to nitpick Ross's and Rachel's behavior and hate on them. So now I will do the same to other characters, let's see how these Mondler fans will like it! Fair is fair, right?
Calm down...Mondler forever
Its a joke. It’s a show! Calm down and enjoy it
Lmao wow it's just a show
LOL calm down it's a comedy show..
@@Simoni1203 loolllll it ain't that deep
Monica is so terrible, my God. She and Chandler became so grotesque, dull& unhealthy during later seasons, and they were NEVER a great couple. They never had great chemistry, I don't care if you agree or not; Monica had way better chemistry with both, Richard and Joey; and btw, the original plan of the writers was to make Monica&Joey the main couple, they should have done this - it would be miles better than Mondler ever was! In the flashback episode when Monica first met Joey who just moved in across the hall and invited him over to her place for lemonade, this scene between them was pure hotness and magic!! They had insane chemistry and looked way better than Monica ever looked with skinny Chandler. Just rewatch it.
really?? writers were going with Joey and Monica?
@@opheliawinfrey9501 the writers had story boards going with every combination of couples & I believe they went with a democratic vote.
All I see (hear) blah blah blah
I disagree. While they both have their flaws, they're hardly TERRIBLE and they compliment eachother so well.
You're not wrong. Although I was a Mondler fan in the beginning, I agree that they became VERY unhealthy later on. In all honesty, the writers RUINED Monica's character. In the beginning, she was a sassy, hardworking individual with a slight OCD problem. After about 4 seasons, she became a caricature of herself. Suddenly, being a control freak and having OCD became her personality.