What changes are you struggling to make to get you to the next level in your life? Let me know in the comments below and if this video has helped you to see why you're perhaps struggling with this.
honestly, thank you so much Tatiana. Im a 18 yo young woman and i just feel the need to thank you for motivating me so much to take the best decisions for my life. Youre a real role model and i truly appreciate you !!
Wowwwwww! My ego has been holding me back from being more productive. I decide to change, start waking up earlier, get rid of distractions and it works for sometime, then I slowly slip back to my old self 😭 thank you for this video Tatiana. It has really opened my eyes. I'll put my higher self in the driver's seat.🙏
Wow this was good. I’m 19 years old this video has brought another perspective to my mind. I’m Christian and a lot of the things you talk about has a lot to deal with the way we are set out to live like Christians. Instead of ego we call it our flesh.
Really glad that you like it :) For me, it doesn't make sense to focus just on business. I would be doing my viewers an injustice. Life is so much more than that and we need to be equipped to thrive.
Thank you so much ☺️ I’m a 18 year old and this helps so much and explains so much. why i be failings and failing guess my ego is calling me back to Hu I am now.guess now I’m gonna have to fight my ego. You really were send from the heavens Tatyana thank you 🙏
This is exactly what I’m dealing with now!!! Especially with no support system. My anxiety is craving something to sooth myself but al it can find are destructive means. I am fighting it!!!!
Thank you for this. I’ve been overweight and on medication since i was 5, currently on 3 blood pressure medications. I’m going to use what i learned today to loose weight before my birthday and to get off those meds for good.
You can do it! I recommend to set yourself up for success. So if you notice the ego backlash coming in then you need to have a list of things you can do in that moment to interrupt your pattern. Literally, write out a list, make a menu of things you could do instead of doing the behaviour you want to avoid. The things need to be easy to do and something you'd enjoy doing. This could even include a healthy version of a treat. I LOVE sweets but I give myself the healthy versions, there is so much out there available or you can make something yourself at home.
Thanks for sharing. My biggest battle is sleeping at a regular time. I’m a night owl. I’m trying hard to get up earlier and go to bed earlier . & Minds do play tricks with Self preservation. Great Video 🌼
Precious insights 🙏🏾 - Thank you so much, Tatiana. Could you please share on how (what concrete techniques, behaviours) to make sure that you ego does not take the driver seat of your life. How can we balance protecting our identity and moving to the next best level in our lives ? Thank you so much, you are amazing ♥️
Great question! I think it's going to be different for everyone. But the most important thing is awareness. Without awareness, we are blind to this even happening. With awareness, we can actually pause and question our actions. That pause is sometimes enough to keep you on track. I would start by getting a journal and just using your awareness to learn about yourself for a week or two. Discover what your ego does to take you away from the given task or your goals. Write it down and write down the emotion you are feeling at the time you notice it. You'll probably notice a pattern. Then you'll be able to come up with alternatives, instead of doing X I will do Z. For example, if when you're feeling anxious and so the action is to scroll on social media, then the moment you become aware you stop and you take 5 deep breaths, 7 seconds breathing in, 7 seconds hold and 7 seconds breathing out. This is going to break your pattern and bring more oxygen to your brain. So things like this can help!
Tatiana, I can't thank you enough for this! This is really deep wisdom. Now when I look back at some situations in the past, I can understand how powerful the self-preservation is, where we try subconsciously to preserve the current/old self - even if it does not serve us - and avoid being the newer/better version.
Hey Tatiana thank you so much for your effort to teach us something which will help us in our life.🔥 I learnt a lot of new things from this video🙌💯 And it's very difficult to ignore your beauty. 😂❤️
I would always find myself returning to this video whenever my mind gets dark. Thank you so much for everything you do. I could watch this over and over and over, your words still hits me each time.
Thank you so much Tatiana, this was very valuable. I procrastinate a lot, even more so recently, as my ego is getting threatened by me knowing I should be getting on with things to improve my life.
U present the information in such a way that no one can deny it.Thank you Tatiana James for spreading the knowledge.I will observe my ego and i will not fall into the trap made by it.
this makes a lot of sense. explains why it is so hard to let go of things in life we hold so dearly that may not always be the best for us. thank you so much for these self-awareness videos, please keep it going!
Stephan and Tatiana are the best couple ever.They always share high value content and help people who wants to become entrepreneur ! So much love from Canada !
Hello, Tatiana!Your video definitely helps ! It deepens my awareness, I understand now why I am acting tha way I act,why I am sabotaging myself and stop usually when I get the ball rolling, when I take some speed ...the control of the ego :) I am struggling with acting on my mlm business,because I will change through the process and the ego does not like that.But it really helps to know that actually the ego is taking us to ¨death¨ so I have now more motivation to act inspite fear, doubt, worry :) Thank you, Tatiana !
Great video Tatiana! Your confidence and articulation demonstrate your mastery in this subject. You broke down the psychology of the ego vs the self so well. I'm a domestic violence counselor and I love taking notes. I will definitely use some of your language and framing on said topic. Thank you for the inspiration and keep being awesome 🙏
Wow, Tatiana.. I love the way you break it down. Been reading human behaviour/psychology & eastern philo books for many years now, and what you've all been said here are on point.
I absolutely love these self reflecting videos ! To better understand where we are to get where we want to be. They’re very helpful! Thank you🤍🤍🤍👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is the first time i heared about ego and yes that's true sometime i feel that i am not confortable to work once i give up i feel enregtic to make more others confortable zone activities
This is such an important information, if you want to start a business!!! Thank you so much for such an insightful video, Tatiana! Your help is truly invaluable to me.
Tatiana thank you for this wonderful and informative talk. Every second of this video is so worth listening. Thankyou for being on TH-cam enlightening us!!!!
This video is awesome! I became aware of the ego a few months ago and I’m still struggling with it because I keep forgetting to be aware of my ego😅 So it keeps taking the rains back.. very annoying! Thanks for the clear explanation and examples!❤️
Thank you so much for this video. It really helped me understand my hesitancy in making a existential change from manager to engineer. I'm getting my engineering certs and learning a new language to move to Asia.
You’re so inspiring and I really have learned so much from you and Stephan. Thank you both for being so committed to the journey. Thanks for continuing to share your journey with us all. Self sabotage is an important topic when it comes to achieving success. Thank you deeply.
Hi, even though I thought I new this, your interpretation led me deeper. You are such an inspiration, and Idol. So inspiring thank you for sharing, much love❤
that was the most informative video i've ever watched about though changes and its very interesting that i was planning to find out what is the reason why i just cannot do what i wanna do in my life and then this video popped up on its own..thank you
Thank you so much for this video! I felt like you're talking just to me (especially when you talked about being overweight and struggling to get past a few weeks of dieting).... is there any chance to convince the ego that what you're doing is to survive longer? I mean... if I don't change my eating habits I'll die earlier, so why is the ego still stopping me from changing that? Also... you said it was hard to forgive and I'm totally with you, 'cause I did that myself just last year and it was one of the hardest things to really do and not just do a part (to emotional forgive, not just in words or thoughts)... but what I can't is forgiving myself. It's like a big wall I can't pass and I don't know how to do it. So, maybe you've suggestions for me how I can manage this step? I know it must be my ego, 'cause I know that, if I forgive myself there would and will be so many things I would do I don't do know 'cause I don't allow it to myself... cause I don't think I deserve it. But I do think this would change IF I could forgive myself. But even the knowing that it's 'just' my ego doesn't help me there. Sorry, if I'm bothering you or asking too much. I really appreciate all your videos and advices, 'cause it helps me to understand more. Myself, my body, my brain... and also life. Have a wonderful week!
I really appreciate what you did I'm an 18 yo male trying to get a head start in improving myself but everything I try I always quit within a a month and I always try to figure out what's limiting me and half the solution is knowing the problem properly and after hearing this there is much I could relate to and I think I'm a step closer to achieving my goal so thank you
Always Remember Life Is Hard If You Make It Hard Life Is Wonderful Love Is More Important God Loves His Children And Princess ITS Good to Forgive AND Let Go Of The Ego Anybody who has AND Ego Does Not Live a Happy Life With God All Things Aré Possible 🌹🙋🙏😃🐕🌅🌄
I struggle rn whether I should start a small local business with self made jewelry and sell on etsy or amazon fba just like you. Amazon sounds too overwhelming for me I’m still 19 but idk maybe I should go for it what is your opinion?
Hey Tatiana thank you for sharing this I have been feeling that way while working on my Amazon business after work... getting distracted easily...doubting myself...and my biggest enemy is overanalyzing! ALSO, your lip colour is so beautiful! What brand and shade is it? :P
Tatiana I am impressed that you have turned to spirituality whether you have always been that way I don't know, but I suggest to look into the work of David Hawkins. He was the most advanced being to walk the earth since Jesus. No joke. He lived in Sedona where you went for your training.
*Financial Freedom* is the *GOAL* for me • I don't want Lamborghini/Porsche/Rolex/LuxuryStuff • I just want to be free and live my life with my own choices and decisions I'm not saying Money will save my soul, I'm just saying it will finally open the doors to free & happy life
Hi Tatiana! I've been following you for awhile now, inspired by you for awhile now. I really appreciated this vid and love when you make content like this. I feel called to look with in my self often and this was so helpful, thank you so much for sharing your info and content, love you lots.. also I got a puppy same time you did and I'm having fun watching them grow🥰 sending lots of love to everyone 🥰💙❤🧡💛💚🖤
at my exsitensial level , this what i understand , most of my frustration does not come from my ego but from the system in which I live, the balance of power, the interests of each other, enslavement, the banks, your dollars, the western system which for to maintain its domination needs a slave who manufactures inexpensively the consumer goods that you buy and sell in the west, it is your system that creates the frustration.
That sharp backpain between the shoulders is exactly what I experience during meditations. Is awareness the solution or do you have any other recommendations what to do about that pain?
What changes are you struggling to make to get you to the next level in your life? Let me know in the comments below and if this video has helped you to see why you're perhaps struggling with this.
She has another video that goes over how to utilize Jungle Scout step by step for product research.
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Soooo much!
My online business! My ego is self sabotaging me extremely😭
Continuing to advance in my career. Starting other investments. Making more friends. Moving out on my own.
honestly, thank you so much Tatiana. Im a 18 yo young woman and i just feel the need to thank you for motivating me so much to take the best decisions for my life. Youre a real role model and i truly appreciate you !!
Well I’m very happy to hear that my content can be of some help!
Thanks for sharing!
:)
It is very good information
Wowwwwww! My ego has been holding me back from being more productive. I decide to change, start waking up earlier, get rid of distractions and it works for sometime, then I slowly slip back to my old self 😭 thank you for this video Tatiana. It has really opened my eyes. I'll put my higher self in the driver's seat.🙏
You’re very welcome!
I appreciate how well spoken you are and how humble you are; you are my role model
Thank you!
Wow this was good. I’m 19 years old this video has brought another perspective to my mind. I’m Christian and a lot of the things you talk about has a lot to deal with the way we are set out to live like Christians. Instead of ego we call it our flesh.
Your content is Amazing!!! You Combine Spirituality with Business and this Resonates with Me. Appreciate you! 💚
Really glad that you like it :) For me, it doesn't make sense to focus just on business. I would be doing my viewers an injustice. Life is so much more than that and we need to be equipped to thrive.
you've been motivating me to change my life. i really do apprecitate of your speech! thank you so much..
You are so welcome!
Thank you so much ☺️ I’m a 18 year old and this helps so much and explains so much. why i be failings and failing guess my ego is calling me back to Hu I am now.guess now I’m gonna have to fight my ego. You really were send from the heavens Tatyana thank you 🙏
This is exactly what I’m dealing with now!!! Especially with no support system. My anxiety is craving something to sooth myself but al it can find are destructive means. I am fighting it!!!!
Thank you for this. I’ve been overweight and on medication since i was 5, currently on 3 blood pressure medications. I’m going to use what i learned today to loose weight before my birthday and to get off those meds for good.
You can do it! I recommend to set yourself up for success. So if you notice the ego backlash coming in then you need to have a list of things you can do in that moment to interrupt your pattern. Literally, write out a list, make a menu of things you could do instead of doing the behaviour you want to avoid. The things need to be easy to do and something you'd enjoy doing. This could even include a healthy version of a treat. I LOVE sweets but I give myself the healthy versions, there is so much out there available or you can make something yourself at home.
Thanks for sharing. My biggest battle is sleeping at a regular time. I’m a night owl. I’m trying hard to get up earlier and go to bed earlier . & Minds do play tricks with Self preservation. Great Video 🌼
Precious insights 🙏🏾 - Thank you so much, Tatiana.
Could you please share on how (what concrete techniques, behaviours) to make sure that you ego does not take the driver seat of your life. How can we balance protecting our identity and moving to the next best level in our lives ?
Thank you so much, you are amazing ♥️
Great question! I think it's going to be different for everyone. But the most important thing is awareness. Without awareness, we are blind to this even happening. With awareness, we can actually pause and question our actions. That pause is sometimes enough to keep you on track. I would start by getting a journal and just using your awareness to learn about yourself for a week or two. Discover what your ego does to take you away from the given task or your goals. Write it down and write down the emotion you are feeling at the time you notice it. You'll probably notice a pattern. Then you'll be able to come up with alternatives, instead of doing X I will do Z. For example, if when you're feeling anxious and so the action is to scroll on social media, then the moment you become aware you stop and you take 5 deep breaths, 7 seconds breathing in, 7 seconds hold and 7 seconds breathing out. This is going to break your pattern and bring more oxygen to your brain. So things like this can help!
Tatiana, I can't thank you enough for this! This is really deep wisdom. Now when I look back at some situations in the past, I can understand how powerful the self-preservation is, where we try subconsciously to preserve the current/old self - even if it does not serve us - and avoid being the newer/better version.
So glad that you can see this in your life.
Hey Tatiana thank you so much for your effort to teach us something which will help us in our life.🔥 I learnt a lot of new things from this video🙌💯
And it's very difficult to ignore your beauty. 😂❤️
Glad it was helpful Ram!
@@TatianaJames ❤️
I would always find myself returning to this video whenever my mind gets dark. Thank you so much for everything you do. I could watch this over and over and over, your words still hits me each time.
Thank you so much Tatiana, this was very valuable. I procrastinate a lot, even more so recently, as my ego is getting threatened by me knowing I should be getting on with things to improve my life.
U present the information in such a way that no one can deny it.Thank you Tatiana James for spreading the knowledge.I will observe my ego and i will not fall into the trap made by it.
THE PART I LIKED A LOT WAS:"EGO CAN BE A BOARDMEMBER BUT NOT THE CHAIRMAN",IN MY POINT OF VIEW,THAT WAS THE MOST POWERFUL PART OF THE VIDEO!!👍👍👍👍
Such an eye opening video. Thank you!
this makes a lot of sense. explains why it is so hard to let go of things in life we hold so dearly that may not always be the best for us. thank you so much for these self-awareness videos, please keep it going!
Absolutely!
Stephan and Tatiana are the best couple ever.They always share high value content and help people who wants to become entrepreneur ! So much love from Canada !
Thank you, Eren :)
THIS MAKES SENSE I need help with this its been real hard almost causing anxiety and stress.
Hello, Tatiana!Your video definitely helps ! It deepens my awareness, I understand now why I am acting tha way I act,why I am sabotaging myself and stop usually when I get the ball rolling, when I take some speed ...the control of the ego :) I am struggling with acting on my mlm business,because I will change through the process and the ego does not like that.But it really helps to know that actually the ego is taking us to ¨death¨ so I have now more motivation to act inspite fear, doubt, worry :) Thank you, Tatiana !
Woman,u are so good!!!! Thank u!!!!
Thanks for your enlighten words, ego is something i need to tackle
You are so much aware and really very beautiful… I love all your videos❤
Great video Tatiana! Your confidence and articulation demonstrate your mastery in this subject. You broke down the psychology of the ego vs the self so well. I'm a domestic violence counselor and I love taking notes. I will definitely use some of your language and framing on said topic. Thank you for the inspiration and keep being awesome 🙏
Wow, Tatiana.. I love the way you break it down. Been reading human behaviour/psychology & eastern philo books for many years now, and what you've all been said here are on point.
I absolutely love these self reflecting videos ! To better understand where we are to get where we want to be. They’re very helpful! Thank you🤍🤍🤍👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Glad you like them!
This is the first time i heared about ego and yes that's true sometime i feel that i am not confortable to work once i give up i feel enregtic to make more others confortable zone activities
Thanks a lot for your knowledge , I’m from Argentina and you are so wise I like listening your videos a lot ❤️
Love this Tatiana. This is my favorite content of yours. Your mindset education is your best work. 💪🏽
Thank you!
Thanks Tatiana, you had bring light into my mind and life ✨💛✨
Thanks , Tatiana , so relatable
This is such an important information, if you want to start a business!!! Thank you so much for such an insightful video, Tatiana! Your help is truly invaluable to me.
Glad it was helpful!
Just love the way you explain things with examples. These videos lately have had a huge impact on my mentality, thanks a lot 🙌
I learn by examples so I like to share them in my content for those who learn like me :)
Thanks Love for this video. Somehow I missed it when it was posted, but I'm glad it reached me in a perfect timing.
Super insightful, thanks for sharing!
Tatiana thank you for this wonderful and informative talk. Every second of this video is so worth listening. Thankyou for being on TH-cam enlightening us!!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
This video is awesome! I became aware of the ego a few months ago and I’m still struggling with it because I keep forgetting to be aware of my ego😅 So it keeps taking the rains back.. very annoying! Thanks for the clear explanation and examples!❤️
Glad it was helpful!
@@TatianaJames yess thank you! I also like it that you responded on my comment😄
Thank you so much for this video. It really helped me understand my hesitancy in making a existential change from manager to engineer. I'm getting my engineering certs and learning a new language to move to Asia.
Great video Tatiana! I just purchased the MPSH course, and your content is what inspires and motivates me. Thank you!😌
Hey Tatiana, your videos help me a lot 💯 . Thank you vary much!
I love these kinds of videos so much from you 🙏🏾
The Universe brought me here today! 😌 Thank you 🙏🏼
Wonderful!
I love this message, thanks for sharing! I needed to hear everything you said, I’m constantly doubting myself...
You’re so inspiring and I really have learned so much from you and Stephan. Thank you both for being so committed to the journey. Thanks for continuing to share your journey with us all. Self sabotage is an important topic when it comes to achieving success. Thank you deeply.
So glad to hear this. Thanks for watching!
Thank you for this. You brought tears to my eyes because I am going through exactly what you’re talking about..
That's a great video.. u beautifully explained the concept of ego and Evolution.
It's true about forgiveness, thank you for reminding me
Thank you for sharing your knowledge. I love your honesty and definitely will have this in mind the next time I challenge my ego!
Wonderful!
Thank you for your positivity !
Thank you Tatiana you give so much value! This was a reminder to practice forgiveness and mindfulness today ❤️🙏🏾
Yay!
Wow! Amazing! Thanks for the Awareness.
Thank you fpr every single video❤️
Hi, even though I thought I new this, your interpretation led me deeper.
You are such an inspiration, and Idol.
So inspiring thank you for sharing, much love❤
Glad to hear this :)
How are your videos always so relatable! Thanks for sharing gorgeous 💪🏽💯📝😍
Powerful message. Thank you for sharing!
You are so welcome
This was EXTREMELY helpful!
Glad you think so!
that was the most informative video i've ever watched about though changes and its very interesting that i was planning to find out what is the reason why i just cannot do what i wanna do in my life and then this video popped up on its own..thank you
Serendipity :)
❤️
These are my favorite videos, thank you ❤️
Thank you for the insights! :)
My pleasure!
Thank you so much for this video! I felt like you're talking just to me (especially when you talked about being overweight and struggling to get past a few weeks of dieting).... is there any chance to convince the ego that what you're doing is to survive longer? I mean... if I don't change my eating habits I'll die earlier, so why is the ego still stopping me from changing that?
Also... you said it was hard to forgive and I'm totally with you, 'cause I did that myself just last year and it was one of the hardest things to really do and not just do a part (to emotional forgive, not just in words or thoughts)... but what I can't is forgiving myself. It's like a big wall I can't pass and I don't know how to do it. So, maybe you've suggestions for me how I can manage this step? I know it must be my ego, 'cause I know that, if I forgive myself there would and will be so many things I would do I don't do know 'cause I don't allow it to myself... cause I don't think I deserve it. But I do think this would change IF I could forgive myself. But even the knowing that it's 'just' my ego doesn't help me there.
Sorry, if I'm bothering you or asking too much. I really appreciate all your videos and advices, 'cause it helps me to understand more. Myself, my body, my brain... and also life.
Have a wonderful week!
Great video and ideas!, Thanks 🙏
i needed this. thank you, Tatiana!
I really appreciate what you did I'm an 18 yo male trying to get a head start in improving myself but everything I try I always quit within a a month and I always try to figure out what's limiting me and half the solution is knowing the problem properly and after hearing this there is much I could relate to and I think I'm a step closer to achieving my goal so thank you
Awesome! Awareness absolutely is key... spot your actions and questions them.
Always Remember Life Is Hard If You Make It Hard Life Is Wonderful Love Is More Important God Loves His Children And Princess ITS Good to Forgive AND Let Go Of The Ego Anybody who has AND Ego Does Not Live a Happy Life With God All Things Aré Possible 🌹🙋🙏😃🐕🌅🌄
Thank you
This is really new for me! Thanks :)
thank you so much for sharing this with us !
I struggle rn whether I should start a small local business with self made jewelry and sell on etsy or amazon fba just like you. Amazon sounds too overwhelming for me I’m still 19 but idk maybe I should go for it what is your opinion?
Hi I’m 19 as well and I say do it the younger you are the better you’ll be 21 and rich 😉
Thank you! Tatitana, what kind of music do you listen to?
Bdw you look effortlessly stunning 💚
Thank you!
Exactly what I needed to hear thank you Tatiana 💖
What valuable information, Thanks so much! For share with us
thanks soo much for this, really appreciate it!
Hey Tatiana thank you for sharing this I have been feeling that way while working on my Amazon business after work... getting distracted easily...doubting myself...and my biggest enemy is overanalyzing! ALSO, your lip colour is so beautiful! What brand and shade is it? :P
Deep insight
This is awesome! Thank you so much for this! ❤️
You're my future goals 💕💕💕
Love this video! Thank you for your hard work 🥰 appreciate you
Thank you so much!!
Thank you so much💛
I would love your podcast! 🤍
This helped soo much! Thank you 🙏✨✨✨✨
You're so welcome Citrine!
Love your videos Tatiana. Jay from London x
Thanks Jay! Hope you're safe and well in London
Tatiana I am impressed that you have turned to spirituality whether you have always been that way I don't know, but I suggest to look into the work of David Hawkins. He was the most advanced being to walk the earth since Jesus. No joke. He lived in Sedona where you went for your training.
Thank you for the push Tatiana🙂
No problem Mouna! Good luck with your goals
Miss these kind of videos ❤
Thank you
*Financial Freedom* is the *GOAL* for me
• I don't want Lamborghini/Porsche/Rolex/LuxuryStuff
• I just want to be free and live my life with my own choices and decisions
I'm not saying Money will save my soul,
I'm just saying it will finally open the doors to free & happy life
Great video,keep it up!🏊♀️
"if you change nothing, nothing will change"
Hi Tatiana! I've been following you for awhile now, inspired by you for awhile now. I really appreciated this vid and love when you make content like this. I feel called to look with in my self often and this was so helpful, thank you so much for sharing your info and content, love you lots.. also I got a puppy same time you did and I'm having fun watching them grow🥰 sending lots of love to everyone 🥰💙❤🧡💛💚🖤
Thank You Mam :)
I really look to you and your husband as mentors
at my exsitensial level , this what i understand , most of my frustration does not come from my ego but from the system in which I live, the balance of power, the interests of each other, enslavement, the banks, your dollars, the western system which for to maintain its domination needs a slave who manufactures inexpensively the consumer goods that you buy and sell in the west, it is your system that creates the frustration.
That sharp backpain between the shoulders is exactly what I experience during meditations. Is awareness the solution or do you have any other recommendations what to do about that pain?
Also I wanted to say that I find you and Stephan so inspiring, thank you very much for sharing so much good Information! ❤️
Can you advice me? I have a gap year now. I am 21 and I really struggle with finding what work I want to do. Should I studie and go to college?