Empathic people are blissfully unaware until they have encountered a narcissist or pathological person. Only when you have experienced their envy & contempt does it make sense.
Gigi Smith Sometimes it takes other people letting you know what the narcissist is doing to you for you to finally see it. I was being kept up all hours of the night always had to be on the phone with him well I was working. I was mentally and physically drained. Also told that I broke all my promises and made to feel awful. I have been Narcissistic free for like 8 months feeling great and back to me.
In the middle of breaking up with mine, we still live together.... Its been horrible and I'm not sure what to do. Starting to miss him and I don't want to go back or give him the satisfaction of trying to. But I. Starting to feel extreme sadness
I can feel that there life is turmoil,they are lost souls,heaving and a narcissist in the family in have learned exactly the way they are.felt it for years,but now thanks to you ,others and you tube,I have learned the words empath ,narcissist, and others,and the they have no bloody chance.i have learned the meaning of the third eye,that's the one that sees the narcissist coming.thanks
An empath is strong in my eyes! Why? Without an empath what would happen to the World!? We care about others & we help others & we are sensitive to the homeless etc.. help children & pets we are very caring & loving.
I also don't like the "shield" strategy. I use the image of an oak tree to move through difficulty. The oak tree can withstand a hurricane because of its roots. The leafs may disappear and a branch may be fractured but the tree continues to stand. When I am in turmoil i connect with a sense of being rooted: I trust my strength and feel gratitude for the ground that supports me.
I was just struggling with the question of how am I supposed to focus on my shield and my grocery list at the same time? The white light idea just wouldn't stick in my head. Then I watched a video where the girl said she uses elements of the earth like the water from the ocean and then she said she also has put herself in the middle of a tree with the roots entering the earth. And that was just what I needed to hear because 5 minutes before I watched that video I was talking to my daughter (who's also an empath) about how important it felt to me to be grounded. I've lived in the desert for the past 20 years after being born and raised in Hawaii, and I only just learned about grounding yourself, realizing that I've been ignoring the earth for the last 20 years because I've hated the desert! So, I told my daughter we can start at the park (where she always lies in the grass herself), but then I told her I have to hug a tree because I needed to be part of the tree especially be the ROOTS in ground. The vision gave me such peace just thinking about it and I know for a fact that I can easily be in my grounded tree and buy bread at the same time, lol!
I started picturing myself with a "forcefield/shield" surrounding me. That helps me. It takes a lot of courage to be an empath. As an empath, I avoid relationships, including friends, because it's easier, less consuming. I enjoy my alone time.
Thanks. I'm happy I'm not alone. Been kind of lonely road. I have had a lot of hate being so empathic since a young age. I'm just now starting to get to myself now being in my 30s. It took a lot to understand my power and how strong I am.
Yes. I feel and understand the loneliness. Thank god for the internet where our tribe can connect and communicate -- helps us remember we're not crazy. And not alone. :)
OK my empathic friends. I would like to help and share my experiences on being assertive and standing up for yourself. I am a survivor and have had 15 years of couceling to break the chains. Honesty and taking responsibility for one's actions are key. One of the best books and study guides i have done is "The Courage to Heal" and another is "The Road Less Traveled". These are just suggestions, and I hope you all put as much dedication to healing yourselfs. I love you all. Peace and Blessings, Amen
Yes, I have read these books and they are excellent for helping one not to take on other's emotions, but rather to let them go with love. Hard to explain, but I do understand why you are suggesting these books. Thank you.
Empathic sensitives can shield themselves by being kind. The kind aura you put out can be contagious and people will read it. If you go on constant defense it puts out negative energy. People generally want compassion and to be recognized. Even hurt people who seem angry inside. Love is the only way. You don't have to bring everyone in your life but rather treat them as you would yourself when in your path.
I just signed up for your class. I was born into narcissism and attracted it my whole life. Honestly, I’m surprised I’ve made it this far. I remember what feeling powerful felt like... alone. But the idea of sharing myself with anyone romantically seems more impossible than not with my collection of triggers over the years. I know a lot of my pain has to do with ignoring my intuition which is what I hope to strengthen indefinitely during your 3 part series.
Thank you! Still find it difficult to work as a nurse around others who are critical of each and our patients. It still hurts my heart. Patients are easy to love because they need empathy. Co-workers are more difficult to love and positively interact with.
Thank you so much for reminding me that I have power and I am not a victim. I have dealt with narcissist that have drained me but if I never went through those experiences. I would not be the strong woman I am today. THRIVING
I am so thankful to have found your channel. I never knew there were others who felt about Jesus the way do. I’ve told others and I was literally rebuked. I still never waiver. It’s refreshing and validating. Thank you, may have just found my tribe. 💚
Mic drop🎤you are so on point! As a self proclaimed empath who has seen this same pattern in the empaths around me, I applaud you for bringing this to light. Nice insights💗Much appreciated.
Amanda I came across this TH-cam video documentary : "MUST SHARE this is the knowledge they don't want us to know" which talks about how science backs up everything we're talking about, energy and how the heart is the main energy center of consciousness and quantum physics. so far it's the most amazing documentary I have ever watched
Thank your for this channel! I just realized that I'm an empath and this is why I've been feeling so exhausted all the time and need my alone time. I find it wonderfully synchronistic that you broadcast this on my birthday!
As an empath I most often forget that what I may be feeling is not my own energy or thoughts but some other energy I am sensitive to. I feel if I am aware of this I can cope better because I don't have to associate this energy as my own the great advantage I have had is the forcite that can come with the knowing and this can greatly help others when I apply knowledge that I can relate to their situation. It unfortunately happens that I have an experience that I only understand after the phonominon has past because of the preoccupation with the moments discomfort. This reduces my effectiveness to help others. If I could just remember my self as it is happening. This is what I am now working on. Sort of like counting to ten before reacting to the energy I am feeling.
Thank you. :) Very much. :) I have always considered empathy to be my greatest strength. It took time - and experience - to become skilled as opposed to unskilled. Boundaries are my protection (although I do, when needed, infuse myself with the Divine White Light). I have learned that it is my job to love and care for myself, and then love and care for others - although, it is not my job to care for "everyone". Also importantly, I have learned that I can only help people who genuinely want to help themselves (some harsh lessons have been learned in that regard...). ;) An empowered Empath is an asset. Do not hide your beautiful gifts, but do know that not everyone you encounter is genuine. Please also know that you are not obligated to help everyone (this can feel painful and "wrong" to not just jump straight in at first) - but when you choose to help and love and care - WOW! :) Not everyone wants to just use you, either. Trust in yourself, always. Much love, much light to you all.
Sometimes i see life as a battlefield. I could save myself but my friends are bleeding on the battlefield. I feel i must run back and help each of them instead of just saving myself. Life is like that are we just out for ourselves, or are we hear to help. I would rather help, that is worth the journey. We live and die together as one.
25 years w / a narcissistic person. His death, my husband's death prior.....So much deaths, suicides, on phone with me. This is longer than 25 years, along with being with a mom, whom also, has narcissistic behavior. Which now I'm taking care of. I'm staying in the line of fire of being sucked in by more narcissistic people I feel like I'm in need of help of a complete cleansing. I really just want to hop a train. I've never wanted to admit, but i knew i was different. Lol! You can't avoid not having this. Plus, i didn't know who i was, what i was, where i belonged, until i became my own person in my 30's Strength in numbers, as well ppl, like me came into my life. But, like i said, time has passed, and i have been ill, and so need assistance to get back to myself. I am, born with this. So you can imagine how it feels in my gut, mind and soul, to be out of balance Can you put up something for helping me to get into balance with myself? I've been listening to all of everything you've offered, but, i don't know where to start. I also have my children, grandchildren, so you know feeling everyone else my entire life, this is hard for me I don't know how to tune out the noise from everyone else They are suckling the life out of me. I know it's me. That's why i need guidance...Please!
Debra Tatum I'm crying for God knows what after watching this video. I cry from relief,grief and anger at all my wasted years of being a victim. it's been a long arduous journey, yet after viewing video and several comments, yours hit home. I so relate to you and don't understand. I literally have tears pouring hard to type my comment. For now I thank you for your sharing. I this moment hear a standing ovation by angels. bravo fir us cuz the world needs us!! May today treat you kindly!
The same me e I'd happening to me,trying to get away from a narssict,exboyfreind myself,I really feel for you,and hope you figure a way to get back some control and to get balanced,it's always been hard for me to get balanced,it doesn't help to have a narssict ,shoved up my ass,I hope it gets better for you
Debra, you must put yourself first regardless of how others feel. You shouldn't feel obligated to be attacked and actively involved in a toxic person's life. Let alone a NARCISSIST. I had a 4 yr on and off relationship with him. I lost myself and had to love me again. You need to do the same. Stand firm in your decisions that you know will benefit you. Your number 1 debra! You got this.
I have seen more of these titles in the past few weeks, and it is encouraging. I have waited almost twenty years to hear this topic begin to blossom, almost like a lotus growing out of a strange swamp. Just the word empath had to be seeded (by many) for at least two decades now, and my spellchecker still marks it as not a word. But are we getting there? Are we moving the wind? Rewriting the accident prone highways? Borrowing skills? I have been exhausted, but not by being an empath. Rather, by the gloomy narrative of what it means to be an empath. Not the astounding feeling of replicating strength. Stories of feeling the collective self pity, instead of being a leader of crowd cooperation. Are we getting there? I sure hope so, you are certainly encouraging me to believe so. Going to ask to join your face book group, I hope I will be accepted, and hear more about the absolute joy of being empathic, as powerful as I have found us to be. Written in peace. Clint
Clintonlion We have been sleeping for a long time friend. I just woke up and realized I married an indigo and he figured out how to talk to God and fight the evil. I say love and light friend ♡☆☆☆
Greetings! You're videos are priceless to a little empathy like me. Truly thank you! And you're a beautiful person inside and out I hope in the future more vids with the comments enabled. It's nice seeing other people who go through the same thing. Thanks again!!
Em-paths come from Lines who spoke before "words" limited understanding . Understanding comes from experience observation using all 5 of your senses. Words limit what you see.You can Not encompass this Grand Creation We call Earth with the mere words compiled in 1 book from a man name Webster. For you young People .. don't fear the things you feel , watch the things that Move use your feelings like like a compass . They were put there to guide you ..Don"t be fooled , The Makers of words will bottle you up in meaningless argument with words that add to nothing but to waste your time.Find your place and work only to help in those things within your reach .Do not trouble yourselves with the cares of the world .Your place is to grow from where you are .Balance is where we thrive.Balance the things close to your life and your influence and balance will grow with your experience.Consider yourselves the New Natural Leaders.But mind your Ego its overwhelming when you realize your True Nature and how much control you actually have. . Be Good to Yourselves and Be Kind to those around you . You will grow, using your heart. Good Journey to You
Very wise insight my friend. I see the new comers or late bloomers fear allot or think they will change the whole world overnight. It always starts at home.
You are right. You don’t ignore the emotions. The strength of an empath is the ability to transmute energies too. Just take all the energies in and feel it. Take what you need and release.
I actually respect the "gifts" given. I am amazed with the things I can do, and each act that is required in order to heal leads me to more understanding, driving me to a deeper growth. Therefore I think I grow as I walk and practice, something within is there and teaches me, and guides me...or as they say I learn along the way. The Universe teaches a little bit at a time, sufficient as we continue in our Journey. When you discover who you are, I agree is good to have teachers, or people teaching and showing the way, not holding your hand like a child along the whole path, just showing the way is sufficient. For me Sacred Words, Purpose and intention what drives me, and leads to help others understanding that we are all in different stages of growth and paths, with good and bad within us. I honor that. My classroom and debriefing room, is my solitude where I review what I done and learned. solitude is what I need and seek.
Thank You for this fantastic post. I would join your Facebook group, but I am in grad school and have no extra time for anything it seems these days. But I think your experience, your work & your words are going to do a lot of good.
you are so right on! I am 58 years old and just learned that I as well I am an empath too. this is the first I've heard of you today. very helpful. emotional healing, I'm a ready lol. thank you for your inspiration. not religious either but must agree with your comments on Christ. I very much look forward to reading your article
I'm going through a divorce from a Narcissist we have a child a beautiful 4yr lil boy. we were so abused in every way. I turned to drugs. lost myself and my only reason to live my son. NOW I'm getting stronger. NOW the Narcissist is trying to turn our son against me. I feel weak. I had such a brake down I had almost fainted my core could not take all of the feeling. I feel my son every sec of everyday. his in pain. don't know why I'm even putting this on here. I'm lost. One day at a time I tell myself. Raphael (My son) will see the truth but that dose not heal or help. Nothing will heal nothing anyone can say will heal. ALL I want is for my son to have a beautiful better life.
I like the fact that this is not about disempowered and sort of feeling like we must be careful on who we must protect ourselves. I am only beginning to understand that what I saw all my life as a gift for helping and maybe healing had a name, empath. But I have not been happy with all the warnings and fear and the fact that we must protect ourselves... I don't want to live in fear. I want to be able to use this as a gift, the way I always saw it. To be helpful, to listen, to allow them to release fears, sorrows and so forth. I always felt their pain and their sadness. Talking to me was a release for them. I always looked at as being helpful and I always released them to God. It is hard to explain, but when I found this gift had a name, the way people talked about it was scary and confusing to me. It seemed like this was not a good thing. Now I feel I am back on track. That it is a wonderful gift of life, healing and comforting to another human being and while I might be experiencing what they are feeling, pain, sorrow, joy, love, happiness so many feelings. I do not have to keep them within myself. All I have to do is give them back to the universe to be done with as the universe decides. I think I was must have been lead here to be reminded of that. Thank you.
Totally perfect timing for me to hear this, I'm just going through some shifting that which does not serve me out of my life, to make way for the new, and this really helped give me confidence in my decision. When I was first starting to research why I felt the way I did in crowds, how to tell the difference between my own energy etc. I found a lot of these "shielding" articles and they never resonated enough for me to want to try it - I already know from my temporary awakening that when my heart was truly open, it was seeing the best in everyone and making safe space for that part of them to shine; it can see the difference between truth and the mind's stories. I've had a distaste for organized religion because of the same reasons... western society especially puts such an over-emphasis on the mind and it's importance, probably because it's easier to influence. Having said that, even when I had former identifications of Atheist, then Agnostic / Deist, basically just "I don't know" to everything, even though I thought Jesus could have been fictional I started to resonate with and understand his story from the point of view of an empath... he seemed like he would have been a super-threat to the powers-that-be :) I started to feel this way myself, this fierceness, and I was still telling stories about how "I needed to save everyone, or I needed to get into politics so I could heal the nation, or I'm the only one who can help my mother w/ BPD behavior heal her trauma", all while I didn't even have discernment to see I was still traumatized myself, a total blood doll indeed! lol :) Your videos are resonating super hard with me I'v been listening every day as part of my morning routine, I'm excited to take this course!
Your video really hit home with me, I am all that you describe here...I have been wounded and I haven't healed and now I find myself feeling some type of hatred even though I meditate and try to stay in a spiritual environment I still get caught up when I get involved with society, I'm so in tune with my feelings, I really feel like I'm not from this planet or that I even want to associate with them.....
Olga King same. It can be completely isolating and as much as I want to do things I can’t. When I do I’m filled with regret because my energy is drained . I almost feel guilty after being around a lot of people the next day but could never understand why.
My Dad always say l was the girl who thought she could save the world.l have relationships and l blame my self for everything that goes wrong.l completely understand this. Every word you say is correct right on target , l enjoy listening from who can relate it is so awesome , l thought l was weird for a life time and l discovered l am an empath few months ago and l was so excited from finding my way of life l thought lmwas weird.Thanks for sharing, this means a lot .
I am an empath who just confirmed my boyfriend was a narrsasist . His own mother told me and him he was and he called me crazy for months and made me out the narrasist when I just felt it and that strong feeling controled me
I have been an empath my whole life, at least as long as I can remember. Several months ago, after about a year of what felt like hell, picking up on the dregs of everyone else's negative emotions. For some reason, it felt like all the world's low vibrational frequency was all I picked up on. But about 4 months ago I woke up and EVERYTHING in and about my life changed, like I had been rocketed into another dimension! One thing I've noticed, however, is I no longer pick up on the intense internal suffering of others. This isn't necessarily a negative thing but it makes me think that I have lost my empathic abilities. I still experience profound compassion, for me that's the strongest emotion next to grattitude that I feel. Maybe I'm not longer experiencing as much negativity and spirit drain that I once did because those in my life that I commiserate over the woes of the world have inexplicably wandered out of my life. Just like my spiritual awakening, they were all there one day and the next, they were gone. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE my life now! However, I have times, like today when I am momentarily saddened by, what feels like, the loss of a very powerful gift and lifelong companion.
Yea aim turning a pushover and didn't listen to my heart. How can I help others when I'm trying so hard just to hang on to healing myself... But it's nice getting to know my true self now Thank you Amanda yr so much help for me I've listen to others empaths . yr the most comfort. And we as empaths need our hearts comforted...
I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU! I'VE NEVER GOTTEN SO MUCH GREAT INFORMATION BEFORE. YOU'RE TRULY A GOD SEND! I RAN 1000 MILES AWAY BECAUSE I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE I LOVE WERE DESTROYING ME. I LITERALLY BELIEVED MY MOTHER HAD BEEN POSSESSED BY A DEMON THAT WANTED ME TO KILL MYSELF SO IT COULD DEVOUR MY SOUL. AND I THOUGHT IT HAD FOLLOWED ME. MAYBE IT DID, MAYBE IT DIDN'T BUT I FEEL THROUGH YOUR TEACHINGS U CAN GAIN THE POWER TO LOVE MYSELF ENOUGH TO KNOW MYSELF AND BE WHO I'M MEANT TO BE! THANK YOU!
Remember, you have authority over demons., which are nothing more than thought forms fed by fear and fueled by beliefs. They are the perfect example of what happens when we externalize and fear our power. Take that power back. It's yours to begin with.
What percentage of empaths are RH- blood types? Has anyone ever done a study on this? I also am curious as to what percentage are Christians? I am a very devout Christian but have noticed that many empaths are drawn to new age beliefs which I find interesting because there is nothing new about empaths. Thank you very much for talking about my Saviors empathy. God bless.
Russ Josey I'm O neg. Believe I'm a quintessential empath and a Christian but also more on a simply spiritual path at this point even though I still love my early training and the things they taught me about love and our connection to God and others and our power and place in the Universe.
Suzanne, I love Jesus and believe every single word of the King James Bible but I am NOT religious. Religion gave birth to denominations and we are supposed to be united as the body of Christ. BTW I did not mention but I am A- as is my father and I am an extreme emotional empath. I have found it better for me to withdraw from the drama that is society in 2017. God bless you Suzanne and always, always put Jesus first.
Russ Josey. Sister you are on to something I've been doing my own personal study and I ask you do you have an Irish or Portuguese ancestry like myself ? All I know is that the one true living God is in control and we are his.
Actually Im a brother. Lol. My ancestry is Scottish and English I guess. Josey comes from Scotland or England. My mothers maiden is Graves which, oddly enough, comes from Scotland or England. God is in control and our Savior will be here for his church sometime this year, I believe. It is a fascinating but painful time to be alive!!!
I have never felt like I had to shield myself or "block" others energy. I just mirror it. Empath skill 101. When u feel an overwhelming negative emotion just mirror it. Known this a long time. Discovered it on my own. And now I can let others energy flow through me and work with it without it affecting my nature. Offcourse I am an advanced empath. By my own work.
I take my friend's emotion of feeling sad and made her strong, i always do that when i know someone is hurt but after i do that i feel so weak my knees feel so jelly it's like someone suck my energy and i dont like being emphat because i heal people, drained my energy and im the one who feel so sad and alone. I hate it coz i cannot ignore someone who is hurting and i feel it is my responsibility to make them feel better but then im the one who is broken and i looked at that persone and i can feel their happiness, i envy them. When i am the one who snatched their sadness and bring it to myself yet im the one who cant feel my own happiness
roan revillas Very beautiful and truthful response. Roan, put yourself first okay. People will never really reject someone taking all their shit they could fix on their own. But with you making yourself the number one priority. You then will realize people must be forced to want to help themselves or they can stay stuck in place. Help in the way you can, but don't drain all your energy. Create boundaries and don't let people overstep them or take advantage of you.
Well,said. My 2nd narc sent me screaming into ACoA, and inner child work, even after years of therapy and sobriety. I was just visited in dreams by my Animal Spirit (I know-sounds flaky), however, I was surprised at what a powerful creature it is. I think of it now as I intuit someone fancying my energy, and now I’m owning my power instead of giving it away. Art, music, public speaking-these are all on the table now that I play to my strengths and pace myself. I think the victim mode is almost inevitable for ppl newly self-aware of their process or abilities and I work online to help bring these sufferers into seeing their Gift. Not unlike the recovering alcoholic who, though powerless over their addictive nature, gains true freedom and thus power through this admission.
I feel the governments have become instruments of evil, and are implementing not only consent but also encouragement of making the more powerful empaths targeted individuals. I myself have a multi talent that consists of extreme empathy and what I call the knowing. I agree with most of this you say. I just wish I could escape their cross hairs they have fixed upon me long enough to live my life as it was truly intended. Thank you for your message and believe it or not is very encouraging for some of us who have forgotten their way.
I could sense a narcissist from miles away. In the end, a narcissist will always lose. We Empaths are stronger then people think. The main thing is to concentrate on our strength and energy by meditating and recharging through nature, the sun and moon. (this is what works for me. one can even reflect peoples negative energies and negativity back to them). There are many different kinds of Empaths. Makes me laugh when people think that Empaths are emotionally weak people. They just don't know what we are capable of. It is wise not to mess with one. Once u rub an Empath the wrong way?... watch out. ;-)
Once you are solid difficult soruations make you strong.it works like weight lifting. Throw yourself into chaos. Rest, recover repeat. Your negative situations can be stalled but they need to be cleared with understanding why it is happening. You need to see what negativity you see outside (that is your treasure map) find that part of you inside and pull it out by the roots. There be treasure in that hole.
I am becoming me again. My youth psychologist in my 2o,s said that it is not wrong to feel.Fear. I wish a new life n freedom. I love my child....i feel so happy just to know. I am with narc rule. Off I go. Emm can follow...thanks. Education is the cornerstone of all that you can achieve in life. The joy is a consequence of what's inside.in our heart n soul...
Hi, this was very useful thank you! I personally look up to Michael Jackson the most as an Empath example. Could you maybe mention him in one of your videos? I would love to hear about your perspective of him. Love
Love your videos and I am a subscriber they definitely help to ease me into acknowledging being an empath without thinking I'm crazy I can find a lot of informatio about empaths with narcissists, sociopaths, etc but nothing about two empaths together. I am ultra sensitive and I have no protection skills whatsoever, my husband however knows how to block himself off. I would love to learn how to nurture our reltionship and empower each other. Would you be able to do a video exploring this?
He talks about the reality, constant, of violent intrusion into another's reality. transgression into another's reality. She explains that away by, Your spirit chose that, really, before you got here. okay. you don't have to believe in that never-never-realm, and found understanding on it; you can just look at the undeniable, what so many: are not owed.
WOW! I'm Soooo... Happy the Universe sent me to U! My Earth Father is always fighting with me and turns into another person,when I visit him or help him with things. I'm the ONLY person that he is so Abusive with it's crazy! I was an still possible thinking that a demon jumps into him when I'm around.,But Now that I listened to your channel,n read some comments The Narcissist can't stand Empath makes so much sense! Darn!!! Dad is a mj. Narcissist! And now after 60 freaking yr's. tryin to figure out why is is the way he is with me. allows me to be set Free from trying to figure it out! Wow! Thank You so much!! a zillion times!! Makes sense now,Im the only psychic,medium,Empath he knows. lol. U made me So happy! I can now cross over,without having to come back to this prison planet school!!!. Graduation Time!!! yippie for me!! Thanks Teach! Love,Hugs,n Joy to U Eternally!! I may sound abit goofy,but U have No idea how Joy filled I am right now!! Thanks for sharing, n I joined your group.Usually I don't speak much. But Darn!!! I can't contain this Joy!!!lol!!!
this might be an odd question, byr how do we "turn it off" so to speak. I truly dislike being an empath. its just too exhausting. its too much. is there a way to just turn it all off?
The only way I know to "turn it off" is through focusing on yourself, your heart, your emotions. You'll never stop feeling but you can take others out of the equation and simply focus on your relief and emotional well-being. Most empaths are tuned into others, not themselves.
I agree. Sometimes we need to tune into ourselves and our own higher power and heal ourselves. I don't think the universe meant for us to keep all the emotions that come to us. I think we were meant to release them back to the universe and be again filled with love when we take that time to focus on ourselves. Don't know if this makes sense, but I hope it is helpful for what it is worth
Amanda Flaker Love and light to you! Lotus position sitting style even with fingers in a vagina shape (i had never actually done that before??) and listen to some binaural beats aka pineal gland openers. Putting together a peaceful empty space is a great help too!
Wow, you must have also figured out who the evil are, the sacred flower, and the secret to the universe is energy, waves, and vibrations ☆☆☆ Much love and light to you sister ♡
I just realized this morning how dangerous it is to make the narcissist "big" and more powerful than you are in your own head. Then I accidentally bumbed into this clip. Like the fear of contact when in no contact. Don't fear them. This occurred after a two hour conversation with a narc where before I was strict with no contact, fearing it would set me back. There was nothing she could make me feel. The narcissist and the abusers are no more powerful than you are. They are in reality weaker, I assume. You have the ability to be strong and walk with your eyes clear and open. You can see clearly what's around and keep your zen. Bless you all! 🌠
Accurate point - We receive validation through others - what they do and say to and of us - This is what sets us up for Victim status for Narcissists. This is a quite accurate video - but I never liked the vamp "drinking my energy experience" - not at all! Our goodness conflicts with our decisions to say NO and Set Boundaries - those are balance actions necessary to become and do what you are meant to do. Power comes with understanding based on facts, and coincidence in that understanding.
I have cut off all energy vampires but still attract vampirism in situations like neighbors calling CPS on me for ridiculous reasons. I believe I make boundaries but must be attracting this in order to heal childhood wounds since I witnessed a lot of attack/victim in my parents’ relationship. I’m assuming I manifest it in order to heal the emotional attacker/victim anger. Good video. Helps a lot. I really felt like I saw a reality of love and light before I met a narcissitic abuser. Then I suppose my shadow was awakened and I got scared and started seeing that everywhere
Where can I go to find these unique people like us? This iz really putting atoll on me, IIIZZZ there any n Ft. Collinz Colorado? When I get around people I get try to be sociable , When they say something that I know itz negative to put me down it backfirez on them. I had to get assertive, I carried that for hourz, before I leave my apt. I have to take an anxety pill. It waz just resently I found out that I have all these thingz and I thought I waz sick. GREAT VIDEO.
Hi... im at this stage where i feel completely drained.... now all i want is to leave everything behind because im exhausted... how can i get through this stage? I am not able to do as well as i should at work anymore, im seeing the same pattern that is occuring in my relationships, for the first time i realised that despite helping everyone they will only demand more and be even more upset that im now setting some boundaries or using different strategies to manage work, i cant seem to deal with any slightest negative energy or extra help that is required anymore. I react so dramatically on it that even i am shocked after it happened. Im lost, i dont know what i can do. But somehow, this strong tug in the corner of my heart tells me that i need to get away and for once, center myself. Am i going crazy?
wow, even among empaths I'm an oddball. I never feel drained from my empathic abilities, I never feel drained from absorbing the pain of others, or helping others. I never have to recharge. if anything, I have to have emotional Outlet. I have to relieve the buildup of emotion. I have to trigger crying sessions.
Empathic people are blissfully unaware until they have encountered a narcissist or pathological person. Only when you have experienced their envy & contempt does it make sense.
Gigi Smith
Sometimes it takes other people letting you know what the narcissist is doing to you for you to finally see it. I was being kept up all hours of the night always had to be on the phone with him well I was working. I was mentally and physically drained. Also told that I broke all my promises and made to feel awful.
I have been Narcissistic free for like 8 months feeling great and back to me.
Truly this was my awakening...l am forever grateful for the experience.
In the middle of breaking up with mine, we still live together.... Its been horrible and I'm not sure what to do. Starting to miss him and I don't want to go back or give him the satisfaction of trying to. But I. Starting to feel extreme sadness
Gigi Smith I'd have tk argree to disagree...
I can feel that there life is turmoil,they are lost souls,heaving and a narcissist in the family in have learned exactly the way they are.felt it for years,but now thanks to you ,others and you tube,I have learned the words empath ,narcissist, and others,and the they have no bloody chance.i have learned the meaning of the third eye,that's the one that sees the narcissist coming.thanks
Empaths and Narcissist do not mix. I am living proof of surviving on a daily basis with an ex that won't let go. Thank you for this.
The Bbg Give him something to talk about
Make an honest man out of him Dump him. He doesn't give a shit about you or anybody
He is only there to make you strong. Not that that is his point or his idea. But why he is your trial.
I learned you have to break all communication with the narcissist because they have a way of smooth talking us back.
Narcissist keep coming back
An empath is strong in my eyes! Why? Without an empath what would happen to the World!? We care about others & we help others & we are sensitive to the homeless etc.. help children & pets we are very caring & loving.
I also don't like the "shield" strategy. I use the image of an oak tree to move through difficulty. The oak tree can withstand a hurricane because of its roots. The leafs may disappear and a branch may be fractured but the tree continues to stand. When I am in turmoil i connect with a sense of being rooted: I trust my strength and feel gratitude for the ground that supports me.
I was just struggling with the question of how am I supposed to focus on my shield and my grocery list at the same time? The white light idea just wouldn't stick in my head. Then I watched a video where the girl said she uses elements of the earth like the water from the ocean and then she said she also has put herself in the middle of a tree with the roots entering the earth. And that was just what I needed to hear because 5 minutes before I watched that video I was talking to my daughter (who's also an empath) about how important it felt to me to be grounded. I've lived in the desert for the past 20 years after being born and raised in Hawaii, and I only just learned about grounding yourself, realizing that I've been ignoring the earth for the last 20 years because I've hated the desert! So, I told my daughter we can start at the park (where she always lies in the grass herself), but then I told her I have to hug a tree because I needed to be part of the tree especially be the ROOTS in ground. The vision gave me such peace just thinking about it and I know for a fact that I can easily be in my grounded tree and buy bread at the same time, lol!
Shields do not work. I learn to ''not give a fuck'' at first it may sound ''bad'', but it works.....takes practice though.
I started picturing myself with a "forcefield/shield" surrounding me. That helps me. It takes a lot of courage to be an empath. As an empath, I avoid relationships, including friends, because it's easier, less consuming. I enjoy my alone time.
Thanks. I'm happy I'm not alone. Been kind of lonely road. I have had a lot of hate being so empathic since a young age. I'm just now starting to get to myself now being in my 30s. It took a lot to understand my power and how strong I am.
Yes. I feel and understand the loneliness. Thank god for the internet where our tribe can connect and communicate -- helps us remember we're not crazy. And not alone. :)
Sarah C Stay on the Right path, stay positive.
You are Not Alone, Stay STRONG.
Am an empath too... I feel am too hypersensitive
Sarah C Loneliness is the sad part forget the feeling I been dealing wit that my whole life
Cassady cayne look that up
OK my empathic friends. I would like to help and share my experiences on being assertive and standing up for yourself. I am a survivor and have had 15 years of couceling to break the chains. Honesty and taking responsibility for one's actions are key. One of the best books and study guides i have done is "The Courage to Heal" and another is "The Road Less Traveled". These are just suggestions, and I hope you all put as much dedication to healing yourselfs. I love you all. Peace and Blessings, Amen
Yes, I have read these books and they are excellent for helping one not to take on other's emotions, but rather to let them go with love. Hard to explain, but I do understand why you are suggesting these books. Thank you.
It doesn't give a job or pay the rent. I don't think so. But glad you are able to live in this evil world.
Empathic sensitives can shield themselves by being kind. The kind aura you put out can be contagious and people will read it. If you go on constant defense it puts out negative energy. People generally want compassion and to be recognized. Even hurt people who seem angry inside. Love is the only way. You don't have to bring everyone in your life but rather treat them as you would yourself when in your path.
Thanks for the insight. I often feel like a doormat.
I just signed up for your class. I was born into narcissism and attracted it my whole life. Honestly, I’m surprised I’ve made it this far. I remember what feeling powerful felt like... alone. But the idea of sharing myself with anyone romantically seems more impossible than not with my collection of triggers over the years. I know a lot of my pain has to do with ignoring my intuition which is what I hope to strengthen indefinitely during your 3 part series.
A lot of people are indigo children also.
Thank you! Still find it difficult to work as a nurse around others who are critical of each and our patients. It still hurts my heart. Patients are easy to love because they need empathy. Co-workers are more difficult to love and positively interact with.
Empath is another term for the gift of mercy and i am not religious but rather in a relationship with our heavenly Father.
Timothy Stevens my boyfriend and I are both empath he is stronger than me but over Sex is amazing what separate us is hatred towards crowds
Amen
Gift of detecting, ......sympathy towards another, not nece-cellery
Thank you so much for reminding me that I have power and I am not a victim. I have dealt with narcissist that have drained me but if I never went through those experiences. I would not be the strong woman I am today. THRIVING
Thriving is not possible.
I am so thankful to have found your channel. I never knew there were others who felt about Jesus the way do. I’ve told others and I was literally rebuked. I still never waiver. It’s refreshing and validating. Thank you, may have just found my tribe. 💚
same, yes♥
Mic drop🎤you are so on point! As a self proclaimed empath who has seen this same pattern in the empaths around me, I applaud you for bringing this to light. Nice insights💗Much appreciated.
Amanda I came across this TH-cam video documentary : "MUST SHARE this is the knowledge they don't want us to know" which talks about how science backs up everything we're talking about, energy and how the heart is the main energy center of consciousness and quantum physics. so far it's the most amazing documentary I have ever watched
Susanne C i bet you learned about the sacred flower ♡ I found joy again ☆☆☆
Thank your for this channel! I just realized that I'm an empath and this is why I've been feeling so exhausted all the time and need my alone time. I find it wonderfully synchronistic that you broadcast this on my birthday!
As an empath I most often forget that what I may be feeling is not my own energy or thoughts but some other energy I am sensitive to. I feel if I am aware of this I can cope better because I don't have to associate this energy as my own the great advantage I have had is the forcite that can come with the knowing and this can greatly help others when I apply knowledge that I can relate to their situation. It unfortunately happens that I have an experience that I only understand after the phonominon has past because of the preoccupation with the moments discomfort. This reduces my effectiveness to help others. If I could just remember my self as it is happening. This is what I am now working on. Sort of like counting to ten before reacting to the energy I am feeling.
Grounding is key, focus on the chakras, and meditate all the time, gemstones and crystals help a lot too
Gil Torres ☺
EdgyVeggie Gal 🤔
Don X i have some kyanite ha
Gil Torres what kind of gem stones and crystals?? I'm new to this,Thanks!
Just take a long casual walk works best for me.
Thank you. :) Very much. :)
I have always considered empathy to be my greatest strength. It took time - and experience - to become skilled as opposed to unskilled. Boundaries are my protection (although I do, when needed, infuse myself with the Divine White Light).
I have learned that it is my job to love and care for myself, and then love and care for others - although, it is not my job to care for "everyone". Also importantly, I have learned that I can only help people who genuinely want to help themselves (some harsh lessons have been learned in that regard...). ;) An empowered Empath is an asset. Do not hide your beautiful gifts, but do know that not everyone you encounter is genuine. Please also know that you are not obligated to help everyone (this can feel painful and "wrong" to not just jump straight in at first) - but when you choose to help and love and care - WOW! :) Not everyone wants to just use you, either. Trust in yourself, always.
Much love, much light to you all.
Sometimes i see life as a battlefield. I could save myself but my friends are bleeding on the battlefield. I feel i must run back and help each of them instead of just saving myself. Life is like that are we just out for ourselves, or are we hear to help. I would rather help, that is worth the journey. We live and die together as one.
"Your shadowside is what is going to attract your soulmate."
Mind blown.
this video gave me goosebumps, your point is so good. I've known that my power was much more than what I felt it was.
Awesome!
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@@casterlett4377 Amanda Flaker o
25 years w / a narcissistic person.
His death, my husband's death prior.....So much deaths, suicides, on phone with me. This is longer than 25 years, along with being with a mom, whom also, has narcissistic behavior. Which now I'm taking care of. I'm staying in the line of fire of being sucked in by more narcissistic people
I feel like I'm in need of help of a complete cleansing. I really just want to hop a train.
I've never wanted to admit, but i knew i was different. Lol! You can't avoid not having this.
Plus, i didn't know who i was, what i was, where i belonged, until i became my own person in my 30's
Strength in numbers, as well ppl, like me came into my life.
But, like i said, time has passed, and i have been ill, and so need assistance to get back to myself. I am, born with this. So you can imagine how it feels in my gut, mind and soul, to be out of balance
Can you put up something for helping me to get into balance with myself?
I've been listening to all of everything you've offered, but, i don't know where to start.
I also have my children, grandchildren, so you know feeling everyone else my entire life, this is hard for me
I don't know how to tune out the noise from everyone else
They are suckling the life out of me.
I know it's me.
That's why i need guidance...Please!
Debra Tatum
Debra Tatum I'm crying for God knows what after watching this video. I cry from relief,grief and anger at all my wasted years of being a victim. it's been a long arduous journey, yet after viewing video and several comments, yours hit home. I so relate to you and don't understand. I literally have tears pouring hard to type my comment. For now I thank you for your sharing. I this moment hear a standing ovation by angels. bravo fir us cuz the world needs us!! May today treat you kindly!
The same me e I'd happening to me,trying to get away from a narssict,exboyfreind myself,I really feel for you,and hope you figure a way to get back some control and to get balanced,it's always been hard for me to get balanced,it doesn't help to have a narssict ,shoved up my ass,I hope it gets better for you
Debra, you must put yourself first regardless of how others feel. You shouldn't feel obligated to be attacked and actively involved in a toxic person's life. Let alone a NARCISSIST. I had a 4 yr on and off relationship with him. I lost myself and had to love me again. You need to do the same. Stand firm in your decisions that you know will benefit you. Your number 1 debra! You got this.
I have seen more of these titles in the past few weeks, and it is encouraging.
I have waited almost twenty years to hear this topic begin to blossom, almost like a lotus growing out of a strange swamp. Just the word empath had to be seeded (by many) for at least two decades now, and my spellchecker still marks it as not a word. But are we getting there? Are we moving the wind? Rewriting the accident prone highways? Borrowing skills? I have been exhausted, but not by being an empath. Rather, by the gloomy narrative of what it means to be an empath. Not the astounding feeling of replicating strength. Stories of feeling the collective self pity, instead of being a leader of crowd cooperation. Are we getting there? I sure hope so, you are certainly encouraging me to believe so.
Going to ask to join your face book group, I hope I will be accepted, and hear more about the absolute joy of being empathic, as powerful as I have found us to be.
Written in peace. Clint
Clintonlion We have been sleeping for a long time friend. I just woke up and realized I married an indigo and he figured out how to talk to God and fight the evil. I say love and light friend ♡☆☆☆
Greetings! You're videos are priceless to a little empathy like me. Truly thank you! And you're a beautiful person inside and out I hope in the future more vids with the comments enabled. It's nice seeing other people who go through the same thing. Thanks again!!
Em-paths come from Lines who spoke before "words" limited understanding . Understanding comes from experience observation using all 5 of your senses. Words limit what you see.You can Not encompass this Grand Creation We call Earth with the mere words compiled in 1 book from a man name Webster.
For you young People .. don't fear the things you feel , watch the things that Move use your feelings like like a compass . They were put there to guide you ..Don"t be fooled , The Makers of words will bottle you up in meaningless argument with words that add to nothing but to waste your time.Find your place and work only to help in those things within your reach .Do not trouble yourselves with the cares of the world .Your place is to grow from where you are .Balance is where we thrive.Balance the things close to your life and your influence and balance will grow with your experience.Consider yourselves the New Natural Leaders.But mind your Ego its overwhelming when you realize your True Nature and how much control you actually have. .
Be Good to Yourselves and Be Kind to those around you .
You will grow, using your heart.
Good Journey to You
Jake R Nicely put friend ☆☆☆
Very wise insight my friend. I see the new comers or late bloomers fear allot or think they will change the whole world overnight. It always starts at home.
Thank you! Great to hear a shared understanding of this life as an Empath. Amazing. Very helpful.
Heartfelt Thank You
for helping me to understand myself in order to thrive!
You are right. You don’t ignore the emotions. The strength of an empath is the ability to transmute energies too. Just take all the energies in and feel it. Take what you need and release.
I actually respect the "gifts" given. I am amazed with the things I can do, and each act that is required in order to heal leads me to more understanding, driving me to a deeper growth. Therefore I think I grow as I walk and practice, something within is there and teaches me, and guides me...or as they say I learn along the way. The Universe teaches a little bit at a time, sufficient as we continue in our Journey. When you discover who you are, I agree is good to have teachers, or people teaching and showing the way, not holding your hand like a child along the whole path, just showing the way is sufficient. For me Sacred Words, Purpose and intention what drives me, and leads to help others understanding that we are all in different stages of growth and paths, with good and bad within us. I honor that. My classroom and debriefing room, is my solitude where I review what I done and learned. solitude is what I need and seek.
Thank You for this fantastic post. I would join your Facebook group, but I am in grad school and have no extra time for anything it seems these days. But I think your experience, your work & your words are going to do a lot of good.
Thank you Amanda for your info.
you are so right on! I am 58 years old and just learned that I as well I am an empath too. this is the first I've heard of you today. very helpful. emotional healing, I'm a ready lol. thank you for your inspiration. not religious either but must agree with your comments on Christ. I very much look forward to reading your article
I'm going through a divorce from a Narcissist we have a child a beautiful 4yr lil boy. we were so abused in every way. I turned to drugs. lost myself and my only reason to live my son. NOW I'm getting stronger. NOW the Narcissist is trying to turn our son against me. I feel weak. I had such a brake down I had almost fainted my core could not take all of the feeling. I feel my son every sec of everyday. his in pain. don't know why I'm even putting this on here. I'm lost. One day at a time I tell myself. Raphael (My son) will see the truth but that dose not heal or help. Nothing will heal nothing anyone can say will heal. ALL I want is for my son to have a beautiful better life.
Reina Cerone
I'm so familiar with what you are going through If you need someone to talk to email me
queenladyt6182@yahoo.com
I like the fact that this is not about disempowered and sort of feeling like we must be careful on who we must protect ourselves. I am only beginning to understand that what I saw all my life as a gift for helping and maybe healing had a name, empath. But I have not been happy with all the warnings and fear and the fact that we must protect ourselves... I don't want to live in fear. I want to be able to use this as a gift, the way I always saw it. To be helpful, to listen, to allow them to release fears, sorrows and so forth. I always felt their pain and their sadness. Talking to me was a release for them. I always looked at as being helpful and I always released them to God. It is hard to explain, but when I found this gift had a name, the way people talked about it was scary and confusing to me. It seemed like this was not a good thing. Now I feel I am back on track. That it is a wonderful gift of life, healing and comforting to another human being and while I might be experiencing what they are feeling, pain, sorrow, joy, love, happiness so many feelings. I do not have to keep them within myself. All I have to do is give them back to the universe to be done with as the universe decides. I think I was must have been lead here to be reminded of that. Thank you.
Totally perfect timing for me to hear this, I'm just going through some shifting that which does not serve me out of my life, to make way for the new, and this really helped give me confidence in my decision.
When I was first starting to research why I felt the way I did in crowds, how to tell the difference between my own energy etc. I found a lot of these "shielding" articles and they never resonated enough for me to want to try it - I already know from my temporary awakening that when my heart was truly open, it was seeing the best in everyone and making safe space for that part of them to shine; it can see the difference between truth and the mind's stories.
I've had a distaste for organized religion because of the same reasons... western society especially puts such an over-emphasis on the mind and it's importance, probably because it's easier to influence. Having said that, even when I had former identifications of Atheist, then Agnostic / Deist, basically just "I don't know" to everything, even though I thought Jesus could have been fictional I started to resonate with and understand his story from the point of view of an empath... he seemed like he would have been a super-threat to the powers-that-be :) I started to feel this way myself, this fierceness, and I was still telling stories about how "I needed to save everyone, or I needed to get into politics so I could heal the nation, or I'm the only one who can help my mother w/ BPD behavior heal her trauma", all while I didn't even have discernment to see I was still traumatized myself, a total blood doll indeed! lol :)
Your videos are resonating super hard with me I'v been listening every day as part of my morning routine, I'm excited to take this course!
Your video really hit home with me, I am all that you describe here...I have been wounded and I haven't healed and now I find myself feeling some type of hatred even though I meditate and try to stay in a spiritual environment I still get caught up when I get involved with society, I'm so in tune with my feelings, I really feel like I'm not from this planet or that I even want to associate with them.....
Olga King same. It can be completely isolating and as much as I want to do things I can’t. When I do I’m filled with regret because my energy is drained . I almost feel guilty after being around a lot of people the next day but could never understand why.
You are a straight up, Slayer! Thank you so much for All of your insights! Thank you.
Slayer ''show no mercy'' Thrash metal album from the 80'S
#socialartforsocialchange Thank you for all of your art. Fun how the algorithm finds us exactly when we are aligned to listen!! 😘💓🙏
I want to be part of this. I am an Empath that has been empowered and I believe my feed back will be helpful.
My Dad always say l was the girl who thought she could save the world.l have relationships and l blame my self for everything that goes wrong.l completely understand this. Every word you say is correct right on target , l enjoy listening from who can relate it is so awesome , l thought l was weird for a life time and l discovered l am an empath few months ago and l was so excited from finding my way of life l thought lmwas weird.Thanks for sharing, this means a lot .
100% accurate!!! Thank you for putting into poetic words all I experience daily!!!
Ok, I don’t think I need to watch anything else on TH-cam!! Thank God for you❤️
I am an empath who just confirmed my boyfriend was a narrsasist . His own mother told me and him he was and he called me crazy for months and made me out the narrasist when I just felt it and that strong feeling controled me
I hope you left him. We attract many narcissists. So try to spot the signs that makes a person one and block them out. Blessings.
You are amazing! Thank you for helping me! much ♡
I have been an empath my whole life, at least as long as I can remember. Several months ago, after about a year of what felt like hell, picking up on the dregs of everyone else's negative emotions. For some reason, it felt like all the world's low vibrational frequency was all I picked up on. But about 4 months ago I woke up and EVERYTHING in and about my life changed, like I had been rocketed into another dimension! One thing I've noticed, however, is I no longer pick up on the intense internal suffering of others. This isn't necessarily a negative thing but it makes me think that I have lost my empathic abilities. I still experience profound compassion, for me that's the strongest emotion next to grattitude that I feel. Maybe I'm not longer experiencing as much negativity and spirit drain that I once did because those in my life that I commiserate over the woes of the world have inexplicably wandered out of my life. Just like my spiritual awakening, they were all there one day and the next, they were gone. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE my life now! However, I have times, like today when I am momentarily saddened by, what feels like, the loss of a very powerful gift and lifelong companion.
I am with you on everything you have to say about being Empaths. I have never felt that I was weak for being an empath.
This message is so healing itself
We need to come together as one
Yea aim turning a pushover and didn't listen to my heart. How can I help others when I'm trying so hard just to hang on to healing myself... But it's nice getting to know my true self now Thank you Amanda yr so much help for me I've listen to others empaths . yr the most comfort. And we as empaths need our hearts comforted...
You speak so much truth dear Sister.
I've asked myself that question for over 20 years... am I weak to keep forgiving or am I strong cause I am
What I learnt from the article is to feel and navigate with it as it's a part of me. Just like how others have other skills.
I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU! I'VE NEVER GOTTEN SO MUCH GREAT INFORMATION BEFORE. YOU'RE TRULY A GOD SEND! I RAN 1000 MILES AWAY BECAUSE I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE I LOVE WERE DESTROYING ME. I LITERALLY BELIEVED MY MOTHER HAD BEEN POSSESSED BY A DEMON THAT WANTED ME TO KILL MYSELF SO IT COULD DEVOUR MY SOUL. AND I THOUGHT IT HAD FOLLOWED ME. MAYBE IT DID, MAYBE IT DIDN'T BUT I FEEL THROUGH YOUR TEACHINGS U CAN GAIN THE POWER TO LOVE MYSELF ENOUGH TO KNOW MYSELF AND BE WHO I'M MEANT TO BE! THANK YOU!
Remember, you have authority over demons., which are nothing more than thought forms fed by fear and fueled by beliefs. They are the perfect example of what happens when we externalize and fear our power. Take that power back. It's yours to begin with.
What percentage of empaths are RH- blood types? Has anyone ever done a study on this? I also am curious as to what percentage are Christians? I am a very devout Christian but have noticed that many empaths are drawn to new age beliefs which I find interesting because there is nothing new about empaths. Thank you very much for talking about my Saviors empathy. God bless.
Sure there is. The bible. Greatest resource ever known to man. God bless you and Maranatha.
Russ Josey I'm O neg. Believe I'm a quintessential empath and a Christian but also more on a simply spiritual path at this point even though I still love my early training and the things they taught me about love and our connection to God and others and our power and place in the Universe.
Suzanne, I love Jesus and believe every single word of the King James Bible but I am NOT religious. Religion gave birth to denominations and we are supposed to be united as the body of Christ. BTW I did not mention but I am A- as is my father and I am an extreme emotional empath. I have found it better for me to withdraw from the drama that is society in 2017. God bless you Suzanne and always, always put Jesus first.
Russ Josey. Sister you are on to something I've been doing my own personal study and I ask you do you have an Irish or Portuguese ancestry like myself ? All I know is that the one true living God is in control and we are his.
Actually Im a brother. Lol. My ancestry is Scottish and English I guess. Josey comes from Scotland or England. My mothers maiden is Graves which, oddly enough, comes from Scotland or England. God is in control and our Savior will be here for his church sometime this year, I believe. It is a fascinating but painful time to be alive!!!
Finally I find a complete description of what's going on
Thank you very much... Very clear beautiful TRUTHFUL MSG🙏💕
Thank you you helped my self , Husband , my daughter
Excellent video.
Wow. Great message. Thank you.
I have never felt like I had to shield myself or "block" others energy. I just mirror it. Empath skill 101. When u feel an overwhelming negative emotion just mirror it. Known this a long time. Discovered it on my own. And now I can let others energy flow through me and work with it without it affecting my nature. Offcourse I am an advanced empath. By my own work.
I take my friend's emotion of feeling sad and made her strong, i always do that when i know someone is hurt but after i do that i feel so weak my knees feel so jelly it's like someone suck my energy and i dont like being emphat because i heal people, drained my energy and im the one who feel so sad and alone. I hate it coz i cannot ignore someone who is hurting and i feel it is my responsibility to make them feel better but then im the one who is broken and i looked at that persone and i can feel their happiness, i envy them. When i am the one who snatched their sadness and bring it to myself yet im the one who cant feel my own happiness
roan revillas Very beautiful and truthful response. Roan, put yourself first okay. People will never really reject someone taking all their shit they could fix on their own. But with you making yourself the number one priority. You then will realize people must be forced to want to help themselves or they can stay stuck in place. Help in the way you can, but don't drain all your energy. Create boundaries and don't let people overstep them or take advantage of you.
Christ took time to be on his own. Tune into the spirit
Well,said. My 2nd narc sent me screaming into ACoA, and inner child work, even after years of therapy and sobriety. I was just visited in dreams by my Animal Spirit (I know-sounds flaky), however, I was surprised at what a powerful creature it is. I think of it now as I intuit someone fancying my energy, and now I’m owning my power instead of giving it away. Art, music, public speaking-these are all on the table now that I play to my strengths and pace myself. I think the victim mode is almost inevitable for ppl newly self-aware of their process or abilities and I work online to help bring these sufferers into seeing their Gift. Not unlike the recovering alcoholic who, though powerless over their addictive nature, gains true freedom and thus power through this admission.
I feel the governments have become instruments of evil, and are implementing not only consent but also encouragement of making the more powerful empaths targeted individuals. I myself have a multi talent that consists of extreme empathy and what I call the knowing. I agree with most of this you say. I just wish I could escape their cross hairs they have fixed upon me long enough to live my life as it was truly intended. Thank you for your message and believe it or not is very encouraging for some of us who have forgotten their way.
I could sense a narcissist from miles away. In the end, a narcissist will always lose. We Empaths are stronger then people think. The main thing is to concentrate on our strength and energy by meditating and recharging through nature, the sun and moon. (this is what works for me. one can even reflect peoples negative energies and negativity back to them). There are many different kinds of Empaths. Makes me laugh when people think that Empaths are emotionally weak people. They just don't know what we are capable of. It is wise not to mess with one. Once u rub an Empath the wrong way?... watch out. ;-)
Thank you so much for your videos.
Once you are solid difficult soruations make you strong.it works like weight lifting. Throw yourself into chaos. Rest, recover repeat. Your negative situations can be stalled but they need to be cleared with understanding why it is happening. You need to see what negativity you see outside (that is your treasure map) find that part of you inside and pull it out by the roots. There be treasure in that hole.
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heal your wounds, be aware and arm yourself against the threats of narcissists and the like, and you can remain being the empath
Great information...no picture to see in the video
Blood doll, never heard that before
George Bert I haven't either, but I sure understand it & relate to it very well...
I am becoming me again. My youth psychologist in my 2o,s said that it is not wrong to feel.Fear. I wish a new life n freedom. I love my child....i feel so happy just to know. I am with narc rule. Off I go. Emm can follow...thanks. Education is the cornerstone of all that you can achieve in life. The joy is a consequence of what's inside.in our heart n soul...
Hi, this was very useful thank you! I personally look up to Michael Jackson the most as an Empath example. Could you maybe mention him in one of your videos? I would love to hear about your perspective of him. Love
Thank you for your insights!
Remember to heal yourself within first ! If not you will repeat the same cycle again .again. and again !
Love your videos and I am a subscriber they definitely help to ease me into acknowledging being an empath without thinking I'm crazy I can find a lot of informatio about empaths with narcissists, sociopaths, etc but nothing about two empaths together. I am ultra sensitive and I have no protection skills whatsoever, my husband however knows how to block himself off. I would love to learn how to nurture our reltionship and empower each other. Would you be able to do a video exploring this?
appreciate the picture-less view. it's keeping myriad clear & relaxed nicely
I just discover i am an Empath after breaking up with my ex boyfriend 6 months ago...
Awesome video God bless.
I agree with most of what you're saying. Food for thought: focus determines experience: See Abraham Hicks.
somewhat. find the lecture where a most lucid, differential male audience member, challenges her insistence on a single reality.
He talks about the reality, constant, of violent intrusion into another's reality. transgression into another's reality. She explains that away by, Your spirit chose that, really, before you got here. okay.
you don't have to believe in that never-never-realm, and found understanding on it; you can just look at the undeniable, what so many: are not owed.
I listen to every word, i want to cure myself to
WOW! I'm Soooo... Happy the Universe sent me to U!
My Earth Father is always fighting with me and turns into another person,when I visit him or help him with things. I'm the ONLY person that he is so Abusive with it's crazy! I was an still possible thinking that a demon jumps into him when I'm around.,But Now that I listened to your channel,n read some comments The Narcissist can't stand Empath makes so much sense! Darn!!! Dad is a mj. Narcissist!
And now after 60 freaking yr's. tryin to figure out why is is the way he is with me. allows me to be set Free from trying to figure it out!
Wow! Thank You so much!! a zillion times!! Makes sense now,Im the only psychic,medium,Empath he knows. lol. U made me So happy! I can now cross over,without having to come back to this prison planet school!!!. Graduation Time!!! yippie for me!!
Thanks Teach! Love,Hugs,n Joy to U Eternally!! I may sound abit goofy,but U have No idea how Joy filled I am right now!! Thanks for sharing, n I joined your group.Usually I don't speak much. But Darn!!! I can't contain this Joy!!!lol!!!
it's awesome being an empath, now that I know how to deal with it.
this might be an odd question, byr how do we "turn it off" so to speak. I truly dislike being an empath. its just too exhausting. its too much. is there a way to just turn it all off?
The only way I know to "turn it off" is through focusing on yourself, your heart, your emotions. You'll never stop feeling but you can take others out of the equation and simply focus on your relief and emotional well-being. Most empaths are tuned into others, not themselves.
I agree. Sometimes we need to tune into ourselves and our own higher power and heal ourselves. I don't think the universe meant for us to keep all the emotions that come to us. I think we were meant to release them back to the universe and be again filled with love when we take that time to focus on ourselves. Don't know if this makes sense, but I hope it is helpful for what it is worth
Agreed!
Amanda Flaker Love and light to you! Lotus position sitting style even with fingers in a vagina shape (i had never actually done that before??) and listen to some binaural beats aka pineal gland openers. Putting together a peaceful empty space is a great help too!
Stephenie Antoine lol..no..it's like your irritating lol brother you learn to love and understand It..(as another part of "you")
I only have audio, (no video). Does anyone know why?
mms too
No remorse no regrets freedom at all costs.
Wow, you must have also figured out who the evil are, the sacred flower, and the secret to the universe is energy, waves, and vibrations ☆☆☆ Much love and light to you sister ♡
How do you feel about using EFT to clear energies rather than blocking? Do you have a favorite guided tapping technique for this purpose?
I just realized this morning how dangerous it is to make the narcissist "big" and more powerful than you are in your own head. Then I accidentally bumbed into this clip. Like the fear of contact when in no contact. Don't fear them.
This occurred after a two hour conversation with a narc where before I was strict with no contact, fearing it would set me back. There was nothing she could make me feel.
The narcissist and the abusers are no more powerful than you are. They are in reality weaker, I assume.
You have the ability to be strong and walk with your eyes clear and open. You can see clearly what's around and keep your zen.
Bless you all! 🌠
YES! So important. Thanks for sharing.
Accurate point - We receive validation through others - what they do and say to and of us -
This is what sets us up for Victim status for Narcissists.
This is a quite accurate video - but I never liked the vamp "drinking my energy experience" - not at all!
Our goodness conflicts with our decisions to say NO and Set Boundaries - those are balance actions necessary to become and do what you are meant to do.
Power comes with understanding based on facts, and coincidence in that understanding.
Yes!
Empathy negative blood ?
Wielding a shield does not come from a place of weakness. The shield or block is the first lesson in martial arts for a reason.
I have cut off all energy vampires but still attract vampirism in situations like neighbors calling CPS on me for ridiculous reasons. I believe I make boundaries but must be attracting this in order to heal childhood wounds since I witnessed a lot of attack/victim in my parents’ relationship.
I’m assuming I manifest it in order to heal the emotional attacker/victim anger. Good video. Helps a lot. I really felt like I saw a reality of love and light before I met a narcissitic abuser. Then I suppose my shadow was awakened and I got scared and started seeing that everywhere
Thanks you for some helpful tips you upload on line
Where can I go to find these unique people like us? This iz really putting atoll on me, IIIZZZ there any n Ft. Collinz Colorado? When I get around people I get try to be sociable , When they say something that I know itz negative to put me down it backfirez on them. I had to get assertive, I carried that for hourz, before I leave my apt. I have to take an anxety pill. It waz just resently I found out that I have all these thingz and I thought I waz sick. GREAT VIDEO.
.....All of this is just so surreal! All of it!!!
Hi... im at this stage where i feel completely drained.... now all i want is to leave everything behind because im exhausted... how can i get through this stage? I am not able to do as well as i should at work anymore, im seeing the same pattern that is occuring in my relationships, for the first time i realised that despite helping everyone they will only demand more and be even more upset that im now setting some boundaries or using different strategies to manage work, i cant seem to deal with any slightest negative energy or extra help that is required anymore. I react so dramatically on it that even i am shocked after it happened.
Im lost, i dont know what i can do. But somehow, this strong tug in the corner of my heart tells me that i need to get away and for once, center myself.
Am i going crazy?
I cant see the speaker...
wow, even among empaths I'm an oddball. I never feel drained from my empathic abilities, I never feel drained from absorbing the pain of others, or helping others. I never have to recharge. if anything, I have to have emotional Outlet. I have to relieve the buildup of emotion. I have to trigger crying sessions.