ADJUST YOUR EXPECTATIONS. (8.18.18)

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  • @thefreylife
    @thefreylife  6 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Thank you guys so much for your sweet words of encouragement for my Birthday week! I’m feelin the love!

    • @carolineorr2762
      @carolineorr2762 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Frey Life the shirts look so good!!!😀 happy birthday week hope you feel better mary love😍

    • @krstnclgrmm21
      @krstnclgrmm21 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marie s Their link is in the bio, it's their own company

    • @lecarrowequestrian1057
      @lecarrowequestrian1057 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy Birthday Mary, you are such an inspiration. Thank you for your vlogs😀

    • @carolpierzchajlo9068
      @carolpierzchajlo9068 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Frey Life happy birthday mary

    • @shannonwelsh5830
      @shannonwelsh5830 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Frey Life , Happy Birthday Mary! Blessings

  • @WalkingOnRainbows12
    @WalkingOnRainbows12 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Aw, hearing u mention me messaging u with my iPad last night means so much a d made me smile a tone. You really do give me strength to fight this chronic illness. I've been watching you every day since day one, and at the moment I've been on my own for the past few days in the hospital and u guys have kept me company. Love to you!!

  • @jamiesingleton2844
    @jamiesingleton2844 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Today is my last day at home before my mom and I embark on our 13 hour drive to Ohio to see one of my cardiac specialists. It’s gonna be a very long and exhausting week of driving and sight seeing and hopefully getting a better plan in place. Nervous belly is sorta stirring up already. I’m just trying to not overthink it and just get there, do the appointment, and get on with life.

    • @glendaruff125
      @glendaruff125 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Best wishes Jamie.

    • @krstnclgrmm21
      @krstnclgrmm21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jamie Singleton Good luck with everything and I hope they can figure out a plan for you!! Have a safe trip!!

    • @judiedimatteo5195
      @judiedimatteo5195 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i hope the best for you and i hope all go wells

    • @lauragadille3384
      @lauragadille3384 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @elizabetholesen4538
      @elizabetholesen4538 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jamie Singleton best wishes Jamie

  • @okjessicah
    @okjessicah 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy Birthday Mary!! I hope you had the best birthday you could have had with the circumstances you cant change!

  • @justcountry29sc
    @justcountry29sc 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love binge watching the old Frey Life videos.. Always makes my day better when I watch y'all..

  • @charlie8118
    @charlie8118 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm pretty late with this comment, but I started to catch up with your life recently! I just wanted to say that I'm watching you whenever I feel down and depressed (and unfortunately, it happens often). Your joy, your strive to move forward literally keep me going. I learned a lot just from watching your vlogs, not only mental-wise, but also health and medical-wise!
    Thank you for sharing your story with us!

  • @ayanvlirick7688
    @ayanvlirick7688 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    May you and Peter and Ali be blessed

  • @hrtg1942
    @hrtg1942 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m from Texas and I love enjoying a good thunderstorm. I like to hear others enjoy them tool. We are in a drought in central Texas so praying for a good thunderstorm.

  • @lauranorwar
    @lauranorwar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happy birthday!! I definitely think you should plan a do-over birthday after IVs. Plan something fun for when your body has recovered from the IV stuff! My dog was sprayed by a skunk once...he was a short haired dog but it was still a hot stinky mess. Even with all the recipes for removing skunk stench, it took a LONG time for the smell to dissipate. It was delightful.

  • @Natalieogriffin
    @Natalieogriffin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    First off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARY!!!
    So I'm a groomer... And I watch a lot of your videos while I'm working. It was hilarious to watch the shihtzu I'm working on hunt for the toy! She had a lot of fun! ❤️
    Also, I wanted to say thank you guys so much. I've been gaining allergies like crazy. Went from none to not being sure how to feed myself. It's all so new and stressful, and I can't get in for more allergy testing until September 10.
    Keeping up with you guys helps remind me I'm not alone in health struggles. Even if they are completely different, I'm not alone. And you are able to smile. Every video reminds me to keep on keepin' on. I look forward to the videos every day.
    Thank you!
    (Also, gonna wear that new shirt to my appointment in September. Need that extra umph!)

  • @klynch7912
    @klynch7912 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday. Make the day the best it can be. Enjoy each moment as they are all important.

  • @FiMilton
    @FiMilton 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was perfect timing. My mental health got good enough for me to get my first job and now I’m very overwhelmed and my mental health is declining. Now I realize I just have to adjust my expectations!

  • @cortneyfoskey4474
    @cortneyfoskey4474 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know you are probably not going to see this because I'm sure you get a ton of comments and you have a life!! :) :) But I thought I'd say something anyway!! Thank you for having this channel!! I have no idea why it came up in my suggested video list but it did and I'm so glad it did and I subscribed after that!! I'm saying that because even though we have different illnesses I understand what you are going through!! I have CRPS (Complex Regional Pain Syndrome) and multiple back problems! I know you've probably never heard of CRPS because either had I until I got diagnosed with it!! I won't go into super details but I have pain everywhere 24/7. I am concerned full body CRPS. It comes with lots of other symptoms/issues as well that aren't easy to deal with! I even just recently went through IVIG like I heard you mention in a video! For a different reason obviously but I found it interesting you were doing it too. I pray it works for you because sadly it made me worse!! Anyway, I'm not really sure where I'm going with this but just know it is an encouragement for me to see another young couple trying to make it through life with an illness! In many ways my husband is going through this with me just like yours is with you because they live with us and see everything! We can't keep anything from them! If it weren't for my husband, family, and a few friends plus more importantly my relationship with God I would be ending up just like a lot of people on my support group have. The only thing I will say about that is my diseases nickname is "The Suicide Disease". Maybe this sounds stupid but thank you for the encouragement! I will be praying for you and your husband as you continue to deal with your CF!! I will also be praying for your doctor's as well!!

  • @bonitajordan6825
    @bonitajordan6825 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary. Keep on keeping on Peter and Mary. ❤️

  • @laurwitster6386
    @laurwitster6386 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have an amazing birthday! You deserve to live in the moment and live your best life! No matter how or what form it’s in!

  • @allisonc7069
    @allisonc7069 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary!! I just started watching this past week and I’m totally hooked! You two inspire me so much! Thank you so much for sharing your life!! You’re truly incredible!!!

  • @imkludin6867
    @imkludin6867 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    A very Happy Birthday to you, Mary!

  • @mindyvanhorn3199
    @mindyvanhorn3199 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mary, I couldn't have said it better myself! Keep on keeping on!

    • @eej1983able
      @eej1983able 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mindy Van Horn Amen! Even if it hurts

  • @debradonley3825
    @debradonley3825 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I've been struggling this week with bronchitis. But...I made it to work every day and am now feeling better. I hope you get to stop those antibiotics soon and then you can start to venture outside the house more.

  • @sophieleanna9391
    @sophieleanna9391 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the idea of adjusting your expectations to your situation. Makes things easier.

  • @courtneylewis2415
    @courtneylewis2415 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The macho macarena 😂😂😂😂 I'm from New Zealand and I've never heard that one before but that's amazing

    • @Cahila3617
      @Cahila3617 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Courtney Thomson same I'm from New Zealand too and I thought it was gold 🥇

    • @Silmarwyn
      @Silmarwyn 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It totally made me giggle. Love it.

  • @ameliaswiatek2558
    @ameliaswiatek2558 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday mary! Today marks two years of me watching your vlogs! I am so glad to be able to share so many important moments in your lives, good or bad, and I can't wait to keep sharing them for many years to come. I want you guys to know how much I look forward to watching every day and I wanted to thank you for the ten to fifteen minutes of break I get from your vlog every day. I am really greatfull for the opportunity to share these feelings and experiences with you. Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kellycannon9796
    @kellycannon9796 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary! I hope it was fabulous!

  • @annmariefrank8803
    @annmariefrank8803 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday and praying for ur healing

  • @annmariecobb9570
    @annmariecobb9570 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARY MAKE IT A WONDERFUL YEAR. GOD BLESS

  • @elerifae9362
    @elerifae9362 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary, you are so inspiring 🙂

  • @toriprice9380
    @toriprice9380 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday, Mary!

  • @MeaganWolf18
    @MeaganWolf18 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary!. I'm on vacation right now and I plan to order a shirt when I get home from vacation.

  • @tammyl3966
    @tammyl3966 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MARY! Hope you have a great day and feel better SOON! :)

  • @lisalevin8719
    @lisalevin8719 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary and love and blessings to all three of you!

  • @ashleybodine7537
    @ashleybodine7537 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday, Mary🎂🎈🎂🎈

  • @FkD814
    @FkD814 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday, Mary!

  • @sandimasmama823
    @sandimasmama823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At my son's hospital all the nurses wear shirts that say WE GOT THIS. Reminds me of your new shirts. 😄😄

  • @lisawinters4681
    @lisawinters4681 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary!!! I hope you have a wonderful birthday and birthday week!!!

  • @rivkahmiri513
    @rivkahmiri513 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary!💐🎂

  • @bonitajordan6825
    @bonitajordan6825 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very excited to see and hear Hakas in person. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @aubreyrose3878
    @aubreyrose3878 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary! Hope you, Peter, and Ollie are have a great relaxing day. Can’t wait to see how your birthday was! 🎂 🎈 🎉

  • @sarahtennyson7260
    @sarahtennyson7260 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday, Mary!!!!🎉🎊🙂🎈 Thanks for staying positive...such an inspiration you both are! 🙏🏻✝️❤️

  • @carriebowlen1574
    @carriebowlen1574 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARY! Hope you are feeling better so you can a good birthday!

  • @bevbailie4544
    @bevbailie4544 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy 🎂 Birthday Mary! A lot of Tomato juice baths help with skunk spray exposure!

  • @GinaLaughed
    @GinaLaughed 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Macho Macarena" lol
    Happy Birthday, Mary! ♡♡♡

  • @christalphelps6186
    @christalphelps6186 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARY!! 😍🤩❤🍰🍰🎂 I pray that you have a wonderful day! I just wanted to say that you guys are so incredibly inspiring and beautiful people. You show everything there is to being a Christian and how God wants us to act. You have and show the two most important fruits of the spirit in you every day lives, love and joy, which considering the challenges of life God has given you is incredible and inspiring to anyone who watches you amazing vlogs. You guys are incredible and I wanted to wish you Mary and very very happy birthday!

  • @sarah_chalk
    @sarah_chalk 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    *Happy Birthday Mary!!!* 🎉🎂🍦🎁🎈 I hope that you are having a lovely day!!! 💜

  • @lorettaprincess6487
    @lorettaprincess6487 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in hospital currently on a drip too. For some reason I keep ending up with infections they can't pin point. But they can tell by bloods and other tests. So I've been on antibiotics and fluids. But this is the 3rd or so time in a year. I wish you health as best as can be and happiness. When I first started watching your videos I was confused the first few that I watched. But after watching a bunch of your videos. You inspire me daily

  • @Unsocial01
    @Unsocial01 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Week Mary !!! Love ya!!!

  • @dojochi
    @dojochi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday!💙🎂

  • @haleyaud7297
    @haleyaud7297 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Birthday Week Mary! Love the Frey Life!

  • @lindsayirwin8363
    @lindsayirwin8363 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    And, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! 🎉

  • @anikaiyanafernandes8604
    @anikaiyanafernandes8604 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God bless you with many more blessings and Birthdays to come Mary

  • @lauragadille3384
    @lauragadille3384 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I finally made it to clinicals for Medical Assistant this fall. I start next week. I'm excited but I know the work load will be overwhelming but I can do this.

  • @meganr9637
    @meganr9637 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My cat will sometimes pee are our clean laundry. I really enjoyed this vlog. I’m starting school tomorrow and it’s been rough with some of the girls in my class. This video gave me the strength to get through this school year with them

  • @lauradarter1327
    @lauradarter1327 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just ordered my shirt! Can’t wait to get it!!!! Thank you!

  • @francesd2913
    @francesd2913 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The content of your vlog is not so important. We just enjoy seeing you and knowing all is well. Take care.

  • @pamfiebelkorn1863
    @pamfiebelkorn1863 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary!! If Ollie ever does get sprayed by a skunk - bath him in tomato juice, it takes most to all of it out!! Or so I’ve heard! We’ve never had it on hand when one of our dogs had gotten sprayed!

  • @nadiah4315
    @nadiah4315 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday, friend!! August is certainly up there with the best months - my birthday's in Aug too. It was my 18th this year and my sister bought me my very first 'TH-cam merch', your 'I choose joy' t-shirt. It's just a small thing, but sometimes it's the small things that give you the most courage. God holds you safely, always. Xx
    Nadia, England

  • @vikipurves827
    @vikipurves827 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday, gorgeous girl Mary! xxx

  • @buckeyehockey1979
    @buckeyehockey1979 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary! Olie really was enjoying tearing up the toy. That is one tough toy, lol. That dog has the most awesome smile, can't help but smile back. Thank you for making me laugh.

  • @sorchaoreilly2633
    @sorchaoreilly2633 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    People call it sad when people are easily amused or joyed by simple things but that's not sad, it's the total opposite because it enables us to enjoy life more, have more fun and be happier! 😁
    Happy birthday week! 🎂

  • @jolenehauck7019
    @jolenehauck7019 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary! Hope you have a great bday week! Big hugs!

  • @lindsayirwin8363
    @lindsayirwin8363 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love that T-shirt!! Buying one as soon as I get my first paycheck from preschool!

  • @wolfsrule100
    @wolfsrule100 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope your having a great birthday!! I can relate to adjusting your expectations but having fun! This next month is packing up the whole house to move, it’s fun to officially start on this journey of moving but it’s long days of a lot of work.

  • @madd5194
    @madd5194 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, you do have syllabi for classes in high school. Depends on the teacher and course to what extent they're followed.

  • @magsdoesnotknow
    @magsdoesnotknow 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I recently watched a video from another service dog handler about what things she wishes she'd known/would do differently if she were starting completely afresh with getting and training a dog. It was very thought provoking, would this be subject matter you would consider making a video about?

  • @mcescher1957
    @mcescher1957 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope you had a Happy Birthday Mary! I would LOVE to have one of your shirts...but unfortunately they are a bit pricey right now. My husband just recently lost his job, so we are trying to conserve any finances and trust that the Lord has something in mind for him. We have been through this before...and I am hoping that the end is near. I really could use an "I Choose Joy" shirt...but I will just have to wait and get one eventually. Have a wonderul, wonderful day.

  • @lynnrose7562
    @lynnrose7562 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys. Ollie is so cute! He was so cute playing with his squeaky toy. What a great dog! Keep on keeping on.

  • @kathleenfannin1375
    @kathleenfannin1375 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So funny, that you just said sorry for Oliver squeaking the toy and my dog came walking into the room looking for the toy. Hope you have a Happy Birthday, Mary!

  • @valoriehakola43
    @valoriehakola43 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary! 🎉🎂🎊

  • @sheilas1283
    @sheilas1283 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy 🎂 birthday, Mary! 🎈

  • @allisonsnyder2800
    @allisonsnyder2800 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂 Mary when you mentioned the squeaky toy my dog was wondering where it was lol

  • @believeinmiracles7065
    @believeinmiracles7065 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    🎂🎉HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARY!!! Hope you have an amazing day whatever that may look like.

  • @whitneywillisnelson814
    @whitneywillisnelson814 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to do 2 weeks of Imipenem for a ESBL bacterial infection/Sepsis and it gave me headaches as well - I didn't have the nausea but I definitely had an upset stomach like you 😳
    HOPE YOU HAVE THE BEST BIRTHDAY YOU CAN POSSIBLY HAVE!

  • @FreeBeerNoBingo
    @FreeBeerNoBingo 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday, Mary! xxx

  • @vanessaf6149
    @vanessaf6149 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "A macho macarena" 😂😂😂😂
    I have heard the haka compared with a lot of things but this was a first! 😂😂 as a new zealander i found this very funny, i laughed so hard I woke up my 6 year old who promptly told me to shut up 😂🙈🙊

  • @christiehankins8458
    @christiehankins8458 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary u got this

  • @marlenegura1161
    @marlenegura1161 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday!!!💖💖💖

  • @lilred00051
    @lilred00051 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy birthday 🎂🎁🎊, Mary!

  • @xenia1474
    @xenia1474 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary!🐩🎈🎂🎁🎉💜

  • @sarahdeeb4852
    @sarahdeeb4852 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary ❤️

  • @shirleyplumer2276
    @shirleyplumer2276 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary. Hugs

  • @justdaisy15
    @justdaisy15 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I ordered my T-shirt and expect to receive it any day and I’m excited to get it. I’m going to wear it to help motivate my best friend who’s in the hospital 😊

  • @MrCockatiel2007
    @MrCockatiel2007 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm happy you have larger sizes. Some online stores only offer sizes Small, medium, large and x-large. I'm looking to get me one of your shirts pretty soon.

  • @janefogarty1805
    @janefogarty1805 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary 🎂🎁

  • @Karenm1969
    @Karenm1969 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wishing you very Happy Birthday Mary !!!

  • @daniellewolf6467
    @daniellewolf6467 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want sure where to put this, but i have a quick question for you. I am battling 2 chronic illnesses and they both make it hard to sleep. I have been on seroquel for years now, but i know it is hard on my body. You are one of several people that mix melatonin and benadryl. I want to ask what dosage of melatonin you use and does your doctor perscribe them? I know it might not work for me, but it's worth a shot. Your positivity helps me so very much. It has changed how i look at life. Thank you both for bringing light to my life every day

  • @eej1983able
    @eej1983able 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ollie is my favorite animal ever and Happy birthday Mary!!

  • @flynnaustin4098
    @flynnaustin4098 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy Birthday Mary!!!!

  • @kateseymour1396
    @kateseymour1396 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary Lots of Love to You

  • @kathijones2734
    @kathijones2734 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just want to say my the Frey life denim hat with my pins is pretty awesome!!! Love them!

  • @nancystewart2063
    @nancystewart2063 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary!!

  • @jennifernunn7047
    @jennifernunn7047 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday to you I hope you had a nice day with Peter and Oliver, sorry it was late

  • @lauragadille3384
    @lauragadille3384 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary 💕💕💕💕

  • @MasiaMaksymowicz
    @MasiaMaksymowicz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This moment (3:48) is so funny - when Peter is so serious and then he throws Ollie's toy :P
    Happy birthday Mary!

  • @sarahlamar5155
    @sarahlamar5155 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My birthday has been great this am 8-19 and I hope yours is wonderful !!

  • @naomicarrier1733
    @naomicarrier1733 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My Aussie boy Comet has the same skunk toy and this vlog with the squeaking made him run around the house wondering where the noise was coming from

  • @karyn912
    @karyn912 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Mary!

  • @eeyore27444
    @eeyore27444 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Mary 🎂🎉🎈

  • @shadowfigure3749
    @shadowfigure3749 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Living in Connecticut my sister had an apricot miniature poodle. Looks a lot like Ollie just much smaller. Pierre found a skunk under our porch and got sprayed. Clipped and dipped in tomato juice several times, we had a stinky pink poodle for a month. Every time he got wet he still smelled like a skunk for the longest time and the tomato juice is a great temporary hair dye.

  • @thin_white_duke1
    @thin_white_duke1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my God! You guys are inspirational.

  • @ksueconleymattsmom4735
    @ksueconleymattsmom4735 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday sweet lady

  • @melissalauvray7296
    @melissalauvray7296 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

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