Spoiled Rotten Daughter is caught BULLYING A POOR PERSON... so I punish her by SELLING HER CAR
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0:00 Spoiled Rotten Daughter gets caught bullying a kid at school for being poor, so I punished her by selling her car and laptop. (u/LearningParenting215)
4:06 An Entitled Karen constantly complains about our food in our restaurant, so now I have permission to deny her service, if she accts up towards me again. (u/customerservicevoice)
7:13 My mom and step-dad constantly make me feel like garbage, and are consistently trying to put me down, and I now feel so totally exhausted and I don’t know what to do. (u/Jlaw118)
11:28 Am I the Jerk for throwing my mothers words right back in her face? (u/SignAccomplished5941)
15:29 My wife cannot take any constructive criticism of any kind, and its starting to effect my home and work life. (u/ThrowRAmcdunnough)
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The first story: No absolutely not. You are most definitely not the jerk. The daughter was entitled and so rude to someone else for not having enough money. I applaud the step-father for all he did. I do think that selling her Mac-book might have been a lot (he could have just taken it away and same with the car for a very long period of time). But still, he knew what it was like growing up without a lot of money to buy necessities, he wants to teach his step daughter a lesson with someone who was in a similar situation. I think he did well and his step daughter should have been taught a lesson.
Edit: OMG thank you all for the likes!!
100%. Parenting involves discipline sometimes
Yea. Bit I laughed at the iphone downgrade part. Should have got her a flip pre paid phone. Lol
I question if selling the car was better than simply taking it away as well. But the big problem I keep coming back to is storing it because vehicles take up quite a bit of space just to let it sit. But yeah the other "luxuries" as the OP put it could probably just been taken and stored away until her attitude improved and apologized sincerely for her behavior.
@@Stealth_SaberI’m not sure that’s good enough. Not without a little deceit, anyway. If the daughter knows she’s getting those things back in time with little or no work necessary, she’ll learn nothing. She’ll even consider herself still having those things, just waiting on outside forces to grant her access to them again.
@@Leith_Crowther which is a valid point and why I used the word could. In no way am I trying to even imply the OP was wrong to outright sell that stuff, simply point out there could be alternatives. The car being sold also has the benefit of the kid not trying to sneak back into it to use when she shouldn't as well as not taunting her with its presence.
Disagree on the last story. He wasn't asking something insane. The wife is being passive-agressive here...
constructive critism is a good thing not a bad thing. But the wife needs to stop.
Yeah I don't understand how OP is in the wrong here. He's working, and she's being a complete b17ch about everything. There is no "both sides" to this.
This guy is very often on the side of gaslighters. I wonder why.
Story 1: I have a cousin that was like this when we were kids. Always looked down on me for not being as privileged as her. Now as adults she’s not as bad and is more polite but still flaunts when she has the chance to.
In regards to the first story: “To be honest I think the father did the right thing. she does need to learn humility and working hard will get you further in life then just relying on your family's money.
While I agree with the wife that selling the car might be a bit much it was still the right thing to do. it will also show the younger child that you cannot get anything you want in life and if you do think like that the life will come and slap you in the face!
I think the father is setting an excellent example for his eldest. If you want something in life you have to work for it And not expect it to be given to you.
also that bullying is never to be accepted!
Story 1: A good reason why you dont over-spoil your children and more proof that school kids are jerks. The OP is by no means a jerk here by selling off her items and making her get a minimum wage job rather then at the OP's business. OP didnt cross any lines and certainly did not go too far. Bullying is never acceptable and she definitely needed to learn a lesson here. Hopefully she humbles up here eventually.... but doesnt sound too likely.
Story 2: I hate Karen's like this... but at least the manager is willing to say "Right to refuse service" here. I think the manager should take it a step further and just ban her outright. People like this go out to restaurants solely to be problematic and are trying to scam a free or discounted meal.... pandemic or not. OP should 100% refuse this stupid Karen next time. Get her away from this place and hopefully for good.
Story 3: Honestly, i would try and limit contact with the both of them here. Their initial fights and arguments have pretty much nothing to do with you and they both seem ungrateful for things you do for them and your grandmother. OP really needs to stand up to both of them here and tell them off with the way they are acting.
Story 4: If you can't take it, don't dish it out. Also, its 2023, not 1953... what kind of stupid attitude is this from the mom about the housework being "a womans job". Honestly, the OP was 100% in the right to both say that to the mother and for refusing to help the mother with the housework. She totally deserved it. The extended family also needs to back off here. OP needs to remind all of them about what the mother has said here.
Story 5: Favor the wife here? Typical.... but honestly, i think the OP has a lot of legit points here. The wife is being pretty passive aggressive and gaslighting the OP with the way she's handling things. I somehow think there is more not being said here about things like the noises and the bugs here, but i do think the wife is not handling any of this well and she's the one being unreasonable here. There really needs to be a middle ground here.
Story number one
She needs to be taught a lesson… so in truth your not the jerk
U dint even watch the video fully....
@@JaflamingIf you paid attention, he doesn't need to.
Story 1: Absolutely not. We need more people like them. Not all heroes wear capes. I wish my mom had as much of a backbone as these two.
Last story: wtf??? She's in the wrong, straight up. Just stfu for a few hours while he works, not that hard. If you really want to make noise go out do something
agreed, when my father and stepmother work from home, whenever i'm over at his house, i like to play with my dog and puppy, watch tv or go on my computer whenever they had meetings.
First story. No you were not. She gotta learn how to be humble,to treat people in a good way because she don't know about that girl's situation.
Yeah I'm not surprised at the narrator took the side of the partner in the last story. The OP isn't asking for something unreasonable nor are they intentionally acting in a way to be antagonistic.
This is this person's job it is how this person makes money and it's been stated explicitly in the story that the original poster had made mention multiple times both before and after the noise that it is affecting his ability to work a reasonable adult would understand that you shouldn't be making noise and being disruptive to a person during working hours.
Let's ask it this way, why did the partner need to do the dishes at that very moment knowing that their partner was working? Let's also ask why did the partner not only throw things back in the face of the original poster after doing his best to accommodate her requests about the insects, but also why did she get angry at the original poster for stating that his feelings were hurt?
That last one is the most important factor here. If a person says "something that you did hurt my feelings" you don't get to be angry at them and insist that you didn't do anything wrong.
First story the OP isn't a jerk. Swapping the phone is good. Maybe making the daughter to apologize to the poor girl would have helped too.
OP was right to teach his step daughter to be humble. She should be working and should save up money for her own car at that age.
Back when I was 16 my parents said to me “Right Andy, no more pocket money and it’s time you started working because you’re at the age of no more hand outs”
Story 5: OP might be autistic. I understand what it's like when someone is intentionally overstimulating you. It's beyond frustrating, especially when you're made to be the bad guy. If your wife is doing this out of malice, it's best to divorce her.
The last story seems like she's do that dishes while he works and thats not to much to be quiet
On the first story, the OP is not an AH for trying to correct their daughter's behaviour and showing that there are consequences. But at the same time, they have almost certainly tarnished if not destroyed their relationship with her going forward and probably the other members of the family. So, although it was the right approach to take, and would probably benefit her in the long run.
I suspect there will be lasting consequences though. Ones that will grow all the more painful over time, and probably affect the entire family and his relationship with his wife. When he gets older, he almost certainly won't have a relationship with her or her family, and probably not with the younger sister too as she will be watching all this go down including her older sister and mothers reactions. After all, what he did could easily be seen and contextualised by an angry teen as financial abuse, even if in reality it is more complicated than that.
*Story 1:* No, I don't think you're being a jerk, not at all. Someone needs to put this spoilt brat in her place, let her know that it's *not okay* to belittle people because they make less money than you or drive a *"beater"* car. There's spoilt, and then there's spoilt rotten, to the point of *"entitlement".* Someone needs to let children and teens know that *no*-one's intitled to nothing. If you want something bad enough, you have to work for the money in order to buy it yourself. And it shouldn't matter if you inherit a shitload of money or your parents have a shitload of money, that doesn't excuse nasty behaviour towards those who have less money than you do. It's not as though they're being lazy, or they're not working.
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op's not the jerk , the step daughter is she bullied someone because they're poor so good for him for taking her things away from her, because she needs to learn how to stop being a bully
but i hope that the wife agrees with him.
OP4: NTA. She set the standards, she doesn't get to change them when it suits her.
That being said, get away from her.
OP3: Yeah, walk away. You're going to ruin yourself doing this. Can't set yourself on fire to warm soneone else, especially someone that entitled and ungrateful.
Story 3; my husband and I have always split the house work like this I do the cooking and he does the cleaning. Now that we're retired we still keep up the same work around the house.
Last story: I think the wife lack a little bit of self awareness to the point she is inconsiderate to OP.
I would get annoyed too if that was me cause when shared a room with my sibling we knew not to cross a line or annoy each other even though the other had the right to do it.
She is really inconsiderate and the way she gets so defensive also makes her even more emotional exhausted to be around.
Story 1: That’s just common sense parenting, I don’t see why OP is the AH. Daughter is being a brat and a bully, so she faces the consequences of her actions. And I wouldn’t get her an IPhone or any touchscreen phone. Just a slide phone.
Story 3: A heavy drinker and a person with anger issues? They need to either get counseling or divorce. That’s an absolute headache.
Story 4: XD Mom can’t defend herself, so she went with kindergarten tactics. Hey, people will take care of her after OP sends her to a home. Doesn’t have to worry about doing housework.
Gotta give Story 1's OP a standing ovation.
Make your daughter buy her own damn car. Humble her and show her some humility. My parents never bought me a car. I had to buy my own. She was lucky to have it bought for her. And if that's how she's going to act, make her buy her own car.
Story 1: As a kid and teenager I was constantly bullied by older kids from Elementary school to High School (Advanced School.) In Elementary school I was bullied because my mom was a teacher at my school. In High School I was bullied because I would act a little off.
Last story: The dude needs some space, just shut up.
The manager basically gave the op finamial cosmic power.
So I’m retired now on 6 figures, but I grew up in trailer parks and in apartments……..my first job was at 9yo in the family restaurant. #1 hit home.
I think the first person should have let the daughter keep the job. Isn't that the dream for the child to take over the business?
Story 1- No! Your not! Your daughter was being entitled. She was teasing & making fun of another girl who wasn’t as fortunate. Your daughter needs to understand that your business could go under as fast as it’s marking $. That being born in a family that’s in a comfortable position financially doesn’t mean that’s what’s in store for her. She took for granted what she had & thought she was better then someone else.
No you did not go too far a little hard workers isn't going to kill her I didn't even before I even knew what a paycheck was and without even asking my mom
Affecting her social status?
WAAAAAAAAAH!
It was never her money or wealth. She can earn it. Little cee u next tuesday
Story 4 that wow I can’t even its not a woman’s job if he wants to cook then LET HIM COOK and honestly he was in the right some honest karma
No matter how old you are to the women in your family you're a little boy and will treat u as such
damn. She thinks she’s Gordan Ramsey.
Story 1: im just gonna say it. The fact i see as many people saying,”a step parent cannot punish their step child” honestly just reinforces the talking point of people avoiding single parents.
Like, wtf is the dad suppose to do? Continue being financially responsible for the step daughter but have *no* say in how she gets punished? At that point he is an ATM and why would *anyone* willingly choose to become an ATM?
Step parents are *parents* they *need* the ability to discipline and praise. Otherwise how the hell can a parent-child relationship form?
First story: You are not being a jerk. First off you were being really nice. Because even tho I am 14 years old. When I lived with my mom like you respected everyone If you didnt and she heard about it everything u had would be trashed and you'd work a job and you would be beaten.
1st story
A better punishment would be just leave your step daughter in the same position as the girl she bullies no allowance she would have to work 2 jobs and a less expensive car and a phone with no money extra from you
"Spoiled Rotten Daughter is caught Bullying a poor person, So I punished her by selling her Car".
Now can someone tell me where in this title is Op the Jerk? Because this is something any SANE Parent would do to their Kid if they behaved like this. If this kid pulled this crap in the 90s, She would have been HUMBLED greatly with a Leather Belt.
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[ Story #1 ]
You aren't in the wrong for punishing your entitled brat of a daughter. Well, not exactly. I'm just not sure that the way you've gone about it will result in your desired outcome. I just reckon that psychotherapy may be better at helping her process, comprehend & reject her previous toxic behavior - rather than you arbitrarily taking away her stuff as a punishment.
Banning her using her car was a good idea as a punishment, but outright selling it (her property) was a bit extreme. As an unintended consequence, you taking away her Macbook, will have a detrimental affect on her capacity to do schoolwork & replacing her phone with yours will also give her the wrong idea (that the punishment was merely an excuse to get rid of your junk).
As for the job, no-one really benefits from a job in fast food (McDonalds, etc.). The work environment sucks for first-time employees & the pay is garbage.
I'd consider sitting her down & discussing why she's being punished & what outcomes you want to see her achieve. Provide her detailed lists of
▪ *Rules* (including Ethics) for her to follow,
▪ *Priviledges* she can earn &
▪ *Punishments* she receives for breaking those rules.
Then, as she's been following the *Rules* for several months, consider giving her the *Priviledge* of her old job back, as well as the *Priviledge* of you buying her a (decently safe) second-hand car (with the caviat that she pays for the registration , insurance & fuel. Plus any yearly service / maintenence costs).
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Also, consider helping *The **_"Poor"_** Girl* with the cost of her advanced Education as your apology for your daughter's bullying. Perhaps help her find a better job to replace the two that she's been forced to get.
NB: *Childhood Poverty* & *The Lack of Access to Education* are the two greatest *Negative* factors towards a successful life, & both are so strongly linked to location that, *_Where You're Born_* often controls the course of your entire life.
Being a step parent means you don't get to discipline. However Mom needs to get her stuff together and tend to that brat
screw off
Hard disagree. A step parent is still *a parent* so they *need* the ability to discipline. Otherwise why the hell should anyone be a step parent?
The finale one I don’t agree with cuz I know the pain of having to have peace and quiet and u can get in lots of trouble or eve. Fired for to much noise and the fact ur saying just buy another room is stupid that stuff isn’t cheap
I think the guy in the first story took it a little to far like selling her car and MacBook like that’s a little to far in my opinion
Or the wife can be more understanding 19:40 it's not like he Said it in a rude way
If I do have kids I would have 1 rule
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Absolutely not you're not the jerk here she needs to get a reality check media Taste of hard work will do that
The last story I disagree and the op is not the jerk. I believe the wife needs to stop the low blow comments and stay quite while op is working. I believe the op trying his hardest to help the wife with bugs but wife has no respect for op and is gaslighting him.
Story 1: It's either losing her luxuries or getting thrown into the garbage like that other girl Veruca Salt.
Story 2: The right to refuse service is a thing and kudos to the OP for checking themselves as that kind of power can corrupt.
Story 3: The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.
Story 4: OP's mum resorting to badmouthing is definitely a sign that she has nothing substantial to counter with. You see this all the time with American politics.
Story 5: Yeah, I'm kind of thinking YTA. AITJ definitely has a good idea with setting up a home office; OP is projecting his own insecurities on the poor wife; and he may have undiagnosed entomophobia and/or arachnophobia.
dude i disagree on the last story op is trying to work while the wife wants to make noises for no reason here
You are not the jerk
Last story: why is the narrator always siding with gaslighters? ._. making me think that narrator might be one or a doormat for them... (no offence--) Like the guy isn't asking for anything insane his asking for a quick moment of SILENCE, also the fact you recommended them to get separate rooms is fine, but I feel like that would just be a waste of money idk why? to me that's like an extra luxury. She isn't being sensitive either she's just being a inconsiderate b^tch at this point... Like imagine your own husband ask you to be quiet for like a couple mins or hours and act like its a personal attack? and to bring up cleaning the house girl you for the streets, like I'm sorry for being mean with this but don't say you clean the house if you cant even take a simple request to do something minor
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She's a STEP daughter(aka not YOUR kid) and you don't have the right to punish her! That's her Mother's job!
Hard disagree. He is a *parent* so he *needs* the ability to parent which includes punishing her
Last story: Oh my goodness...this is the stupidest issue I have heard raised on AITJ. Talk about first world cr*p.
this narrator is stupid.
Yeah the stepmom is so right to punish her but selling someone’s belongings without consent is theft so yes story 1 did take it a little too far
dude it's not too far if you go on to take everything from this person.
I’d be with you if the car was her property, but she was 16. Depending on the state, 16-year-olds may not be old enough to have their name on the title.
I'm sure parents probably didn't put the car in her name. LMAO 🤣
@@viviennemorgan7217 he says her grades are going down, it’s probably cause he sold the MacBook so his daughter can’t access her assignments
@@ethantan9434 yeah so?
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Disagree on last story
Story number one:maybe selling the car was a bit too far,but the other things were appropriate
Your wife is part of problem because your think gives the everything they want and now your 16yo daughter failing she schooling and blaming you but her fail because she telling this so give her everything back
Story 1: Totally the Jerk. He overreacted totally and killed any relationship he might have with his daughter.
She shouldn't have bullied someone then.
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@@fullmetalgamer6062 He created her.
@kla631 Nope. She bullied someone at school, she gets punished for it. She brought it on herself.
@@fullmetalgamer6062 Nope, he created her, bought her everything without telling her his past and that its a blessing that they can afford the stuff and that some people can't. The mother should give everything back to her.
Story 1: It's either losing her luxuries or getting thrown into the garbage like that other girl Veruca Salt.
Story 2: The right to refuse service is a thing and kudos to the OP for checking themselves as that kind of power can corrupt.
Story 3: The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.
Story 4: OP's mum resorting to badmouthing is definitely a sign that she has nothing substantial to counter with. You see this all the time with American politics.
Story 5: Yeah, I'm kind of thinking YTA. AITJ definitely has a good idea with setting up a home office; OP is projecting his own insecurities on the poor wife; and he may have undiagnosed entomophobia and/or arachnophobia.