The classmate who had bruises | Bedtalk ep.10
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Your Dad taught you well. When someone is going through physical abuse - I've been there with an abusive older brother - and there isn't much you can do, small gestures of kindness can actually help them immensely. Something as small as offering to share a snack or lend a pencil can even save a life.
I think I can make a bigger difference now. If I see a friend going through this now, I'm not going to stop at small gestures but back then yeah.. I'm glad my dad taught me well also. It also helped me go through some darkest period of my life
Your father led you in the right direction. U are really lucky. Not every parent is so understanding.
I have always been a "defender". I know how words can hurt and it hurts me when others hurt. So even if I didn't know the person being harrassed, I would say that they were my cousin. I have SO many "cousins" lol. I still do this to this day. NO ONE should be an outcast or harrassed for any reason.
You grew through this experience and that young guy probably remembers those small gestures.
Not everyone has the courage to say that at some point in their life they did something they are not very proud of. Hats off to you.
Your father taught you well.
So glad that person is doing okay nowdays .
The family is the most important pillar of a child's happiness.
I still make mistakes but I really try to look back and think upon my actions and behaviors. I'm also glad my dad taught me this back then :)
I’m sure your small gestures made an impression on him. It’s good that you told your dad about him, and he gave you good advice.
I kind of feel like this - small acts of kindness towards those in tough times - can also apply to people in customer service jobs. They get verbally abused by aggressive customers all the time even though it's not their fault.
I've actually had a young woman working at a cash register thank me purely for not being angry when she had to call her manager because an item wasn't scanning and it turned out she was scanning the wrong barcode. It's ridiculous that the poor girl, who had only been working a few days, felt grateful that I didn't bite her head off because I had to wait 3 minutes for her manager to come over.
Similarly, whenever I call customer service people I am always patient... they are doing their job and trying to help me solve a problem that THEY DIDN'T CAUSE, so why is it that people scream at them? It's insane that the customer service employee often thanks me for my patience and understanding when it's simply not being an asshole.
The point is, whether it's thanking your waiter at a restaurant or simply not screaming at an employee when there was a mistake, we all should learn to share small acts of kindness YEAR ROUND... not just during the holiday because it's the "season of giving".
So true,I have a habit of saying thankq n talking friendly at restaurant or cafes anywhere where I go ..one of my friend asked me one day ..y do I talk to them that way ..are they my friends or is it needed? That was their question n I seriously got pissed with the way they think about People....
DIGNITY OF LABOUR
I guess people forgot this simple thing...
@@parthychowdary6280 Exactly. Just because it's their job doesn't mean they shouldn't be respected for their hard work.
I go to this one fast food place in town frequently when I don't have time to go shopping for groceries and I've seen some of the employees go from trainee to assistant manager of the store. They work hard and are really nice people. One time I didn't order a drink and the manager on duty prepared one for me anyway, saying "you're always so sweet and nice to everyone".
I don't even consider myself to be a particularly NICE person. I can be a total bitch, but when it comes to strangers who are just doing their job I am respectful. It's sad that being respectful is all it takes for people to think you're an angel and give you free food in this day and age.
@@Krystal109 True tht simple smile and a kind word from a customer can actually make their day...
I guess people started changing the meaning of MORAL, PRINCIPLES AND ETHICAL VALUES in life.
This is so true. Tbh I had times when I lost my temper while calling customer service but I realized this was so wrong and they didn't cause this. I always try to end the call with a have an amazing day and just by saying something this small the tone of their voice changes and I can really feel it brightened them up! Let's start by doing something for the holidays and then try to do this in our every day lives :) being good actually feels good haha
I'm still working through all of your "bed talks", but this one hit close to home. I was abused by my Father... not as bad as your classmate, but there was certainly mental and physical abuse. I was also the kid that didn't fit in and was often made fun of because I was different. I thankfully, had a few teachers and classmates that were kind to me and it really did make a difference in my life at the time. I'm grown now and I've been married to a wonderfully kind and loving man for 27 years and we have 2 amazing daughters. Kindness does go a long way, even we don't see the results right away. When my precious Mother in Law had brain cancer and was in the hospital, one her nurses was so kind to us and went above and beyond her duties. I told her I appreciated her caring for my loved one and her response stuck with me "Kindness is free. It costs me nothing to be kind to my patients". I'm glad you learned this at a young age and that you people around you to guide you. We'd all do better to show more kindness to others. After all, it is free.
Ah, thanks for showing your empathetic side! It makes me look at you different! I know Korea has a major homeless issue and so does the United States! A pencil has a deeper meaning it means you were there for a fellow student when he needed you. Great job!
As Dan said, don’t forget to talk to someone if you need to and help too! Even if it’s a small thing and you don’t really know how to, I think taking time for others and yourself is important 😌
Your frankness in this video astonishes me. Your father was right. The best thing to do to other human being is listening without judgment and behaving towards them without judgement.
Hey Dan.. I always like your bedtime stories. This one really touches me. You are lucky to have parents you could look up to. One thing I learned in life is, as we get older there will be many things we regret, but we also learn from that experience. We could use that to be a better person each time. No one thrives without getting hurt and making mistakes along the way. Thank you for sharing this story.
yes true :) we learn from the mistakes and what's important is that we learn and make changes after we realize them!
I love your Bed Talks. They are sensitive, enlightening and honest. You are helping viewers of all ages. You present intimate and meaningful content and I thank you for that.
your dad is a wise, kind, and empathetic man. no reason to be ashamed of yourself. you observed, reflected, learned, and then changed. you won’t be able to change or help everybody but the little things can count.
At last u relies that you couldn't help him much but at last you able to change your mind set yo more caring about others,its really touching,may god bless you bro. We love you ,
My father had always been very prejudice toward people of color but one act of kindness change all that. He was in his 70s and had some health issues. He was driving on the highway and got a flat tire. As a younger man he would have taken care of it himself but was not able to at this stage in his life. A car pulled up behind him and a black man offered to change the tire for him. My father attempted to give the man a financial gift for what he did and the man refused. He replaced the tire and got in his car and wishing my father a good day he left. I never heard another prejudicial statement from him. He passed away 3 yrs later.
I recently saw Erased (the anime) on Netflix and now your bed talk is in same theme. Thanks for sharing again. It's good to hear what your dad had said became a sort of life mantra for you. At that age, it can be hard to be brave while fitting in. I hope after this video you can forgive yourself.
I tend to parent backwards and content like this really help give me insight on what to do sometimes. It may sound funny but I think old gens usually criticize the new gens for unfair issues. I think everyone should listen to anybody's perspective regardless of their age or status.
Your father was a very smart and wise man💜
Your 'bedtalk' eps are edifying, humble n down to earth. You are blessed to have parents who impart the right values in life.
Julia Kim related an experience when she had to go to the police station to identify 2 young guys who stole her husband's scooter. The boys were hungry n she went out to buy them food. The police thought she was nuts and she also dropped charges. Their parents came to thank her after some time n informed their sons now have decent jobs and one converted to be a catholic.
What if she had charged then and they had to go to jail? The power of forgiveness!
Small gestures Dan people will never forget you.. Specially those people need an attention which other people neglected. It might be small gesture but to other it complete their day and maybe heal their broken heart.
Sage advice and that's awesome that you gained such wisdom and insight from the situation. Most just brush this kind of thing off and don't see anything wrong with themselves and thus, never extend that hand of friendship. You know the expression, Evil thrives when good men do nothing.... even the small gestures leave a lasting impact on someone having a tough time. Its why we should ALWAYS be kind to people. We have no clue what is going on in their lives or the traumas they've suffered. We should all treat others with respect and compassion, regardless of circumstances.
The family plays an important role in the upbringing of a child and apparently your parents raised you very well! Your dad's words were so right and true.You have wonderful parents!
One of a parent's biggest fears when his child goes to school Is not to hurt physically and mentally another child or not to be bullied by other children. I try to teach my son to be polite to everyone, to have confidence, not to accept being demoted by others, to help those who need his help but mainly to always talk to me about his feelings and concerns (so I can advise him).
I believe that you have received the same principles from your parents. I'm sure your parents are very proud of the person you have become and also that boy will be grateful for the interest you had shown him in the past!🥰
Sounds like you're an awesome parent. It's hard raising kids... there is no manual for it, but teaching them to be accepting of others' differences, not to belittle others, and help others (even in small ways) is a really good start.
@@Krystal109 Thank you very much!🥰I try to do the best I can. Indeed there is no manual how to raise children, I just try to be as close as possible to him to talk with him about his problems and give him my advice. 🤗
@@mariavogiatzidaki2998 Honestly, that's the best thing a parent can do. When a child feels safe to speak with their parent about whatever problems they are having it leads to better outcomes.
@@Krystal109 So far we have achieved this. I do not know for how many more years I will be able to do this ..... in 4 months he will become 15 years old! Every age has its own problems and I just have to go with the flow! 😄
You sound like you are doing an amazing job! being bullied was something that I used to fear also and I had times when I felt like I was mistreated but I think I was able to keep my confidence..! I'm sure your son will grow up to be an amazing young man :) have a Merry Christmas!
Seriously Dan, applause for this. If there were more people like you in this world, we would all be a little bit better off I think. I have also learned to not discriminate based on appearance or origin because you don't know someone's story and we are all people at the end of the day. I made mistakes too in the past but I always try to be a better person. I try to think of others and not just myself. COVID has really solidified this mindset even more because I can see how much people are struggling. I am struggling too so I can more easily relate to those in a similar situation. I can also see the happier people who are so oblivious to what goes on around them because their lives are better set up (it doesn't mean they are happier of course). I feel sorry for those who are unable to show empathy towards others because, as you said, a small gesture may mean nothing to you but the world to someone else. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts. I hope you have a love holiday season!!!
I think we will always have regrets and mistakes but it's important that we try to make a change. I think if we all try to make these small gestures every day it would really make big changes! thank you again for watching and have a Merry Christmas!!!
You're so right Dan this is why we have to be careful how we treat people. As the saying goes words hit like a fist. I have been on that side of being bullied when someone is different they become a target to others. And so true we never know what a person is going through. A kind word and just showing love can make a difference. Personally my mom always taught me to be nice. And dont say nothing at all if you can't say anything nice. Also if we treat some people in a wrong way. It can also become dangerous. Meaning if a person choose to take their life we can become accountable if we took part in treating the person mean. Your dad told you right also i agree with him 100 percent. Although that was in your high school we still have to be careful because some people are still in abusive relationships or domestic violence is still taking place more than ever. Its so true Dan. This is why it make me sad when i see how some people treat one another in a mean way in different situations it break my heart well let me stop talking and gamsahamnida for sharing
Anneyong Dan❤ this subject really touch my heart😢
Domestic violence can be in many different forms and can lead a person down a path they've sworn never to go on.
Been there, done that 😔
I hope he's doing well and has gotten some kind of reconciliation or closure from his past.
That brought back some painful memories for me.
In elementary school (5th grade), there was a boy who, while never showing bruises, also wore the same clothes for days, even weeks at a time. And he smelled. As in your experience, most of the kids avoided him, and I'm ashamed to say I did, too.
I can still see his face, and how sad he looked sometimes when no one would sit near him. His face is engraved in my mind because the second year we were in school together (6th grade), he died in a terrible accident.
His parents came to the school to tell the staff, and the staff told us. All I could see in my head was his sad face, and I cried for days. My parents were bewildered by my grief, but I could not explain the reason I was so heartbroken is because I had not been a friend to him in any way. I showed no kindness to him. I was sad because I, like you, could have done small things to make his days a little brighter. And I was devastated that I realized all of that too late to do anything. I would never again get the chance to show him some humanity.
I'm sharing all of this to say that I learned my lesson from all of that. But I had to learn it in the cruelest and saddest of ways, only after his death. I became a better person after that. I'm now 56 years old. I still think about him, and I still wish I had done something back then.
Thank you for sharing your story. It means a lot to me, and I'm sure to many of your viewers. I have no doubt you made a difference in someone's life, somewhere.
You learned how to treat others and not to look down on people-you are a better person and your dad gets some of the credit 🥰❤️congratulations to you both!
your dad sounds very nice, i think you’re doing good enough😊
Thank you for this. Sometimes it feels as if there is nothing we can do to help others in certain situations, but it's good to be reminded that there are things we can do, and what seems small to us might be big to someone else. ❤
What a good young man you are! Your Dad taught you well! So enjoy following you and listening to you!
You have a good Dad and raise you good as well. What gesture you made to make your classmate feel at ease is a lifetime rooted in his. He will remember you forever. Much love from USA❤
We learn from every experience in life,you are a good person,thank you for these bed talks,I learn from them.I'm thankful for you.🙂
Your Dad is an amazing man and very wise. He has taught you well 🙏💕x
Your story is similar to a woman who I have to care for at the facility. Although, she wasn’t a student I was her caregiver that takes care of her. I am a caregiver nurse assistant, I take care of people in all level of care. My client only have two weeks to live. I wasn’t expected to take care of someone in that short amount of time. When I first met my client, she was grumpy and mean like any other old people will encounter. She didn’t like to be told. She hated people for coming in to care for her. There was one time she yelled at me to get out. It still didn’t prevent me to take care of her needs. When Thanksgivings came none of the family members didn’t want to come and see her. I step in to spend my entire day with her on the holiday by knowing who she was and how she was back then. It was one of the best holiday for my client. I told her it’s Thanksgiving do you have anything to thank for. She told me I am thankful for you to be here with me and Happy Thanksgiving to you too, Elani. I give her a big hug where it brings a smile to her face. Two days past by, she wasn’t feeling well and I sense she was going to die soon. I regret not staying with her after my shift was over. I did pray in bed with her. The very next day, she passed away and it broke my heart. From that day forward, I finally realize how we don’t spend time with people who we only know for a short period of time and how simple little things matters in life. As for your story Danny, you did the right thing to spend your time with someone to the point where it is enough to make them feel good about themselves and knowing that they have someone who they can talk to. My experience with this client is always spend time with people who you felt needed a friend to talk to because you will never what will happen to them. They can be gone and you will never experience that moment with them. Life is precious! Love ❤️ 엘리니
Thank you Dan l love your bed talk they truly help me to look at situations in my life different, help with better choices
and to be a better person to help others.
My 57yrs old in USA and you're helping me to love "ME" again.
Your dad so wised..yess..ppl can't choose.not all ppl have a good situation/environment.we as human should took as them position if we deal or met with.must be there are a reason behind.gesture n simple act might be bring rainbow to their live.glad that u're hear your dad advice😊you're young too at that time dan.tq too for sharing your story too😍
I went to school with a girl who was very similar. She didnt wear nice clothes, and was very unkempt and didnt shower much. My friends would be annoyed with me because I would be nice to her in class, then she would follow me around at break and lunch. She ended up having a situation where she said a popular guy SA'd her when she was walking by his house and he started talking to her and tricked her into going into his house somehow. She reported it right away and the guy ended up going to juvy and she was bullied badly at school. People said 'why would anyone SA you? you stink; youre ugly!" So many people would try to fight her and be mean in class she eventually dropped out of school. I know the guy, and I believe he did that to her because he was my brother's friend and would always try to talk to me even though I was a kid, like 11, 12 years old. My mom hated him, cause he gave her bad vibes and he was banned from our house eventually, before this even happened. I think sometimes, I should have helped her more than just talking. Help her fix herself up and maybe take her to one of the neighboring towns so she could meet different people, like I did and see it wasn't her. It was just bad luck she was in that family. I wasn't well to do either, but I was an honor student and played sports so it helped. I only helped her in minor ways but should have done more. :(
Danny, not everyone can hear a message that goes in the opposite direction of others. When the message touches one’s humanity there can be far reaching positive outcomes. Thank you for hearing the message and following your heart. The world could use more of that, more of you 🤗
I was one of those abused, fat, acne ridden kids in middle and high school. I had terrible grades and very few friends. We were the outlier family in the neighborhood. I kept to myself. I struggled but went to college, came out with not very good grades. Numerous jobs and years later, my father having never made much money in his life one day decided to take his own life. It was the jolt I needed. To move forward years later and a tremendous amount of self-education, I made my money buying and selling stocks and was able to retire at a very early life and with an income that affords me to live the life I desire. Would I have gotten here without my background is anyone's guess but I look back at my early years that were supposed to be some of the best that were actually the worst and I'm thankful to be where I'm at but yet, now look for young people experiencing the same issues as I did and offering to help, most times blindly.
I like your ability to reflect on your life now, and in the past. Thank you for your content. You are voicing universal experiences, in such a personal way. Take care.
This thought of yours is just great
Advice of your father is also simply superb
Wow! Dan such growth and insight. Awesome insight of what it means to be a human being with a conscience and to know and understand the difference between right and wrong, empathy and sympathy but also understanding how exhibiting kindness can make such a huge impact even if only for a short time. I hope 🙏 this young man life has improve for the better. Thanks for sharing.
For all of you younger people viewing this video, I can only hope that you will do the same as Danny, if you notice a classmate that is being ostracized by other classmates.
Please, have the courage and love of your fellow human being to make an act of kindness to that person.
I, too, regret not acting in a kind manner towards a fellow classmate, for fear of being then treat like they were treated, by the rest of the class. Shame on them and shame on me!
Do what makes you happy and never regret it. Everyone forgives you, but it is a little difficult to forgive yourself...loveyourself really good to hear you,👍🙂
I'm sorry I'm JUST seeing this *Bed Talk* bc it tackled a topic that most often gets ignored. *One of* the best things we can do for abused munchkins (or homeless people) is to treat them like they matter... that you SEE them.
Thanks for the reminder, Dan-ssi.
#aRMyLOVE💙💕
This story is very inspiring and I think it can motivate people to be kind to each other!
let's all make that small acts of kindness today for Christmas!
am on my 10days isolation due to covid... thankful found your channel.🙏🏻 it helps me thru the day tho... addicted to these bed talks. pls keep going. 😊😊😊
Thanks for sharing this story. It really got me thinking about my attitude towards others.
Wow! It was a tough lesson to learn because you have to look back at yourself. We all regret things we’ve said, done, or what we didn’t do. School years are difficult because you are growing trying to find out who you are personally. I look back and although I didn’t treat anyone a particular way but I didn’t step in to stop it either. I will always regret my actions then but you learned something from it. The biggest regret would’ve been if you never changed! Again, thanks for sharing this bed talk.
yes well said. It would have been best if I did something back then but it's also important we learn from our past and make changes...!
Dan, you have a wonderful father who taught you well. God bless you and your dad!
Hello Dan 👋,I just hope he sees this video and understand ur thoughts tht u had back then...
And as ur dad Said a kind gesture could really change that person's world(who is in pain ).
Totally respect your family for the suggestions, support and ethical values they gave you Dan, really mean it.
I have seen parents discriminating cos of financial status and performance of a kind in their education and progress in life....but seriously we didn't choose them!
🙏🙏To your family
Am really really happy with this bedtalk 🙏 thankyou once again Dan 🤗
thank you for watching! maybe one day if there is a school reunion or something I would like to ask him how he is in real :)
This talk was really well done!
Thank you for sharing, this is not an easy subject to talk about.
Off topic but your dog is so CUDDLY 😫🥺adorable
Latte is too cute... I want to cuddle up next to him.
He's the cutest in the world haha
Oh mine Danny. I just broke down watching this video!. You are a gem simply becos you are just real and yeah we all make mistakes ...what is important is for all of us to learn from our mistakes and to be an overall better person. I know he must have felt your warmth and human touch. What makes you different is that you don't sugar code stuff. You like myself critique ourselves becos no one is perfect except the good lord. We pray esp during these rough times for our guardian angels to be there for the less fortunate etc becos as you rightly mentioned it's the little gestures that make things happened!❤️
It’s really a shame we don’t usually realise those things in the moment but rather when it’s too late😞 But I’m glad to hear he’s doing okay now
true.. but it's never too late to make changes! I'm glad he is ok also..!
What a great message!
Hi Dan, I believe your dad is wise and a good man. He taught you to be a good man as well. Honestly, I think that we all at one point in our lives witness domestic violence situations but we do not always recognize it and, excuse the expression, but blow it off as a person not having good hygiene or something else. Humans tend to judge each other before knowing the entire situation of what is going on in a person's life. So do not beat yourself up to bad for not being able to do more for a fellow classmate. What matters the most is that you did correct a wrong even if it was with little things. People judge me all the time & many of them do not even now me but because of my looks, the way I talk and especially my height. Over the years I ignore people that say ugly things towards me, not saying it doesn't hurt but I've developed think skin. Long story short until humans are ready to see each other as people no matter what they look like this world will suffer sadly enough. As for domestic violence situations go people do not want to be involved with what is going on to others around them and until we stand up for each other it's just going to continue. Oops there I go again being long winded. This is my opinions & thoughts. Thanks Dan for sharing this with us. Take care & stay safe 😊
Video about his comfort🥺😌 nice 🥰
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Love all your bed talk. I m addicted. Please continue. Can't wait for your next one.😍
Kindness is in our power even when fondness is not. -Samuel Johnson
Your Dad did a good job, and his son is a good man 🥰🦋♥️
Dan, you just gained a new subscriber. 🙋🏻♂️ 🇺🇸🤝🇰🇷
This video almost made me cry because I feel it on a deep level I know what its like for people to avoid you in school. and say things behind your back and I'm happy that you made some small gestures even if it wasn't a lot because it would mean alot to that person and I know it would have made me happy to. Thankyou Danny for at least making a small gesture go a long way for someone and yeah I guess when we're younger we do follow what other kids do which I hate and wish I would've been myself more in school. :)
love your content.
Loved the concept of this video! Such a nice vibe, something to sit back e reflect, you're a good story teller!
thank you for watching :)
We learn every day... your lesson with dad made you different person.. so manu wish a dad like yours to be open minded and helpful... cheers to your effort.
we do learn every day....! thank you :)
Aww Dan 🥺 The best thing is you still remember him. Although you did not become good friends with him but am sure he also remembers you like you doing about him. Even though it seemed small gesture but it makes a lot of difference and you did it. I am glad that you showed him and not holding back or took long time in deciding. The more I know about you the more respect and as always love your honesty above all 💕☺️ Loving all your bed talks cause it's also helping us, teaching a lot of lessons from life. Reminders to be humble in life 😇 Thank you Dan. Hwaiting for more of the Bed talks...
I'm learning a lot from you guys also and these talks and conversations here are another reminders for me to stay on the right track and to be better..! thank you also :)
From what I understand, gay guys have a tough time in Korea due to homophobia.
Kindness is always in season. Thank you for reminding us of it, Dan.
I’ve really started to like watching your videos
Wise words
this is a beautiful video.
Dan- I love your channel. ❤ thanks for sharing
Thanks for video
another lovely and insightful bed chat :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts and stories with us Dan
thank you for wathcing again :)
Very good msg.... 👍👍
thank you 🙏
Loved to listen to ur bedtalk .
thank you :)
And i also learned that some grown men go through domestic violence too. We always hear about how this happens to women. But we dont hear about it happening to some men because they dont talk about it or they might get made fun of cause a man is suppose to be strong in every way but they're human too and has feelings and emotions too ok i am going to stop talking
Anneyong Dan
You are Wonderful person ❤ you are going to make someone ❤ very happy one day
Hi Dan, I always excited waiting & curious what topic would you shared at your bedtalk. This week story seems so sad. I almost crying while listening. Sometimes, all it takes is the smallest gesture to brighten someone’s day. Whether it’s small gesture to show our love to family, or kindness to someone random on the street, engaging in little acts of kindness can make people around us feel good. We’ll feel good too because of it ☺️. I just hope he still remember you to & see this bedtalk 😊
thank you :) let's make a small gesture for the holiday seasons!! I don't know if he still remembers me but I wish him the best ..!
These are terrifying situations for those who live them, and unfortunately there are many of them, i get chills just at the thought of children being beaten instead of being loved, of humiliated wounded wives beaten by monsters because they cannot be called fathers, hunsbands, no ...no..
are monsters who unfortunately many have at home that house which should be the safest and most peaceful place to live.😔😡😤
You have a protective and respectful wise family behind you, it shows in your education and maturity.
Yeah the thought of little children experiencing that... whenever I see the news or even news about people beating their pets to death it boils my blood... :(
I was bullied daily for being the gay kid in school. No, I was not out but I was not a jock and I was a polite gentle kid so that didn’t help. Kids are very cruel to each other which is so sad and why suicide of young kids is so high in America. When you are young and trapped in school you think it will never end but as soon as I graduated and started college I never faced that kind of bullying again. It is odd looking back but when I went to boarding school in England I was a popular kid but as soon as I went back to America the bullying started. Anyway, I know how much it meant to have someone be nice to me then. I have also let go of all that anger because I have talked to some of the bullies thru Facebook. I discovered several are gay themselves or were facing horrible abuse at home. They are not the same people they were back then. You may want to reach out to him and tell him how you felt. I know the people who reached out to me saying sorry really made a difference. I suffered my own issues of abuse and have learned of so many other kids from school that were being abused. you never know what someone is going thru. My heart goes out to all the children being abused in this world and I hope this kids life is better now. People need to speak up when they see someone is being abused.
Damn that is scary!
I appreciate the wisdom of your father. My family was not well off, but, we did have enough to take care of the daily needs. There is a Bible verse that always comes to mind...1st Corinthians 15:10-"There but by the Grace of God go I..........". This always comes to mind when I see someone in need,words of comfort and kindness, actions to help the situation. My grandmother once told me something I will never forget, "We are all the same on the inside. Look past the outside to the heart. We all want love, compassion and acceptance. Be kind, empathetic." Words of wisdom. Thank you for the heartfelt words. Take care and Merry Christmas.
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A bit sad to hear this story…It also remind me I’m so lucky person too…Met people are so nice to me..As you know, we can’t insist everyone being nice or befriend with us…
You were so young at that time, I think most of kids included me don’t know how to handle it correctly in that age.
All these experience give us a chance to become a better person. I said it was a chance as you still could select which way to go…Learn from mistake or Avoid it…
Your Dad has a warm heart and taught you so well…So glad you’ve learned and tried to be nice to that classmate afterwards… Our parents share us their experience and teach us how be a good person time by time…but we may not really learn or turn it into action …But you did 👍🏻
I wish I could have known back then but it's never too late! I'm really glad my parents taught me to be a good person or at least try to be a good one!!
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Hi Dan, dans mon pays, les élèves revêtent l'uniforme uniquement au collège. Primaire et lycée, c'est libre. Je suis contre toute forme de violence. Heureusement, notre ministère de l'éducation locale veille à ce que tous les élèves reçoivent la meilleure éducation. Il n'y a pas de distinction entre riches et pauvres. L'éducation est très importante pour nous. Notre jeunesse c'est notre force. On leur apprend le respect de soi, des autres , l'amour de sa famille, au sens élargie. L'amour de sa culture et de son pays. C'est en cela que nous sommes un pays accueillant et chaleureux.❤️😘💕
Been watching your videos over the last few days and noticed your views have dropped drastically. Sorry to see that.
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It's good you could go to your Dad and talk your we're brave enough to do so and domestic violence is nothing you could of done back there but you tried at lest you did .
I think I could have done things differently if it was now but yeah I'm glad I told my dad back then..!
@@ThizisDanny at lest you tried its better than doing nothing .It doesn't make you a bad person .
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Why didn’t they report his parents to the police?
I don’t exactly know what they did or the details( since it’s also private information..)
This made me emotional 💔❤️🩹.
~It is unfortunate that bullies exist in all forms (from abusive parents/caregivers, to classmates, coworkers, politicians,& the everyday persons).
Be kind, at least be a decent human towards others, it really doesn't take a lot (a kind smile, nod, and small gestures, even when there is nothing you can do, do not add to the suffering, and if you can and it is safe to do so, stand up. But the least anyone can do is be kind and avoid being a bully or enabler of bullies). I am glad you had the talk with your dad and was able to show kindness to the young boy. ~There are so many in this world who suffer from unfortunate circumstances, and bullies. It breaks my heart sometimes).
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