Am learning not to share my joy with my friends. Sometimes friends might be the first out of envy want to sabotage and perhaps the enemy might use them to abort our purpose. Amazing, simple but powerful nugget. Thanks so much for this. May God continue to prosper you and your husband.
This is so true, I always have an unsettling feeling whenever I have told people my business and I am actually praying for the ability to be able to stay silent regarding my life and relationship.
I have been dating my partner for a year and five days and I have never posted him on any socials. Some of my friends feels like I am hiding him and that might lead him to infidelity. Him and I spoke about this, something deep inside said post the relationship when you are engaged to him and I will listen to that inner voice. Indeed there's a reason for that.
“But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart”❤ Thank you sis. In an age of overexposure we tend to forget that sometimes if not most times it’s between you and God
Over a month ago the Holy Spirit kept leading me to the scriptures about Jesus performing healing miracles and instructing the healed not to tell anyone and only the priests. And I've been trying to understand what it means for me. This brought me clarity. Thank you sis!
I really like this message, I tend to be an oversharer at times and it has gotten me in tricky situations. I feel like this message is for people like myself who should learn to keep things to ourselves. I pray I am able to keep it on a hush🙏
I feel you, I'm the same. Can't keep quiet about stuff it's almost like secrets and news are itching. Put my last relationship publicly and it didn't end well also because not everyone around us truly loves us.
Amen🙌🙌. Whenever I prematurely announce a dream or a plan it slowly disappears. The fire I had in the beginning slowly dies and suddenly I don't wanna do it anymore. The moment I speak it, the devil starts attacking it before it even comes to life🥲
So true. I wanted to revamp my blog and just share my spiritual journey with God to encourage others but God spoke to me and said "focus on ME this season. If you do a blog, it will be about pleasing others and getting praise from others. Let me do a work in you this season. I will tell you when, how, and who to share." Thank you for this confirmation. I need to grow and mature in the spirit. So many people do this, get married, put out a book on how to do marriage the first 6 months and are divorced by year 2. Do a work in my Holy Spirit and give me the obedience to focus on that and reading your word and nothing else. Amen!
This is my secret to doing well in life🙌🏾I always do my best to keep things between me and God and relevant ppl e.g. Parents, family, my pastor. From marriage, pregnancy, buying a house, starting a business or whatever the Lord puts in your heart it’s important to work on it in secret so it is fortified as you have mentioned before coming out. But it’s unfortunate most Christians have not learnt this Principle. Love you❤ and Congratulations🎉
I learned this only a couple of years ago and my life has changed. Sometimes you get excited and share things too early and this allows even bad things happen.
What you just shared is is true and scriptural. God Himself didn't publicly announce the birth of Jesus. He makes the greatest things so unattractive so that He may protect it just like the birth of Jesus. It didn't bring attention nor was it attractive. Most expected He'd be born in a 'palace of gold' but the Son of the living God great and mighty as He is, God orchestrated the birth of His Son to a manger . In those times had God announced it, Harod would have easily traced his lineage and prematurely killed Jesus!
This resonates with me so much. Ive seen what premature announcements can do. Ive seen the devil working so hard to make sure that i loose my faith in these things happening
I haven't met my hubby yet but I know I will only tell my mom and sis. It's important to keep thing covered.A pastor once said: the enemy can't attack/destroy something he is unaware of. I love the analogy with miscarriage it's so true. And I love how you both were excited and that your family was part of the engagement!
It is God telling me the same thing over and over again. I pray ukuthy I learn how to not overshare I am a loud mouth and I want to learn how to keep a secret. Thank sisi and congratulations 🎊 👏 💐
I’m actually working on something now and I have felt the need to keep it a secret until it blooms. I really needed to hear this because it’s a confirmation that keeping it a secret is exactly what I need to do. Thank you Busi, may God continue to use you as an instrument
Thank you so much for sharing . Especially today. I found myself sharing a bit about the circumstance I'm currently in and felt something in my spirit saying "hush, my child. I know it hurts, but hush my child" ... it was so strong as if there was someone right next to me. 😔Truly thank you for this revelation and confirmation. GOD continue to bless you ❤🙏
✋This is so true Sisi, yoh I can fully attest to this. It happened to me where I celebrated passing a job interview prematurely. But God is faithful and I know He will restore what the locust ate ten folds more. Thank you for sharing your testimony and congratulations on your marriage.❤
🥺🥺 This just spoke to my heart. The holy spirit has been telling me this. Thank you so much for emphasising it ❤️ We need to learn to stop oversharing. “Discretion will preserve you; Understanding will keep you,” Proverbs 2:11 NKJV Sometimes you have to keep things between you and God (and this is hard especially for our generation) Somethings don’t have to be discussed with your friends or anyone else. it should be brought to God Congratulations on your union 🥹❤️
My husband asked me to keep his proposal a secret, not tell a soul at all, while i was to pray about it and especially the youth at church, i remember asking the opinion of two people but not pointing personally at him, to be judged as a person, the other married lady who was older, i asked her because i was concerned about the age gap, he is 13yrs older, and the Pastor he prayed with me, they both asked me to pray about my concerns to the Lord, even after i agreed, we kept quiet, our Reverend and our parents and siblings knew, the Church was so surprised when our engagement was announced!, all were shocked, and the reaction of the Church was out of this world, no one saw it coming! i agree with you Mrs Xaba
I came across your channel not so long ago and never going back. Thank you I meet you right at the point of my need, your content is exactly what I needed at this time of my life. We thank God for you ❤️
Wow so beautiful, thanks for sharing your lifes journey with us, I really thank God that HE gave us a big Sis to look up to someone who would model the will of God for us Daughters of Zion. And Sis you doing it perfectly. Love you and God continue to fill your cup as you fill ours.
Shoo I'm bumping into this right now and whew your testimony was very much needed for this season!!! Sharing your information, even the littlest, somewhat creates an open door for the enemy to attack. There's so much power in silence!!! I know for a fact that I cannot unshare what ive shared. But I NEED TO REPENT and apply the knowledge Knowlege is powerful!!! Thank you so much for being a voice of wisdom especially in this time. God bless you ♥️
Thank you for sharing this❤ I totally relate. I kept my relationship and pregnancy sacred and secret for the longest time... until such time I felt led to reveal.
This woman is so blessed and am grateful to have known u in this time of my life where am single and waiting for the right one u are God's gift to us love u woman of God 🥰❤️
I love your videos so much and I love what you speak of. I wish people would understand that keeping things to yourself has so much more to do than it being about the next person. Especially being someone who consults God with any and everything. You're under his guidance and obedience more than anything. It's hardly , if ever, about people being unhappy for you etc.
Wow this was beautiful to watch,congratulations again.What you said in this is true,there is power in keeping things secret when it is still early,there is couple of times I spoke about things prematurely and they didn’t happen,lesson learned…shush until it’s right time to say it.
Wow so much wisdom, truly God has spoken, there's power in keeping things in secrecy until God says otherwise... . Also, your brothers (assuming) in the end, singing le mini iyeza nakuwe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This so strange, or should I say God is speaking to me. I woke up not long ago, and a few seconds before I saw Oboitshepo tagged this video, I was actually thinking about this exact thing. This is shocking, but I’m sure God is confirming what he placed in my heart. Congratulations on your engagement and wedding. God bless and Thank you for sharing your testimonies with us. ❤
Your content is so anointed, these are messages our generation needs to hear. The proposal got me so teary ❤🎉😂 Lol the guys signing "le mini eyeza na kuwe" 😅 We receive!!!Amen
I fully understand this. I was exposing my relationship prematurely. I was so excited to share and it got aborted. Though the Lord has promised restoration.
I feel like I already messed up everything😭😭😭 I hope God can redeem my mistakes yohhhh. By grace. I really hope things can work out for me. Thank you for sharing this. You are really right about this.
Hearong your testimonies , and oboedience in prayer, honestly challenges me. This is just confirmation on what I have to do . God Bless youand thank you, cause I Know even posting this video comes from a place of obedience , and direction sought out in prayer for that too God bless you
uuuuuhhhh sis..... we are learning this. I just introduced your channel to my Malawian sisters. Pray for me sis, we need you to at least speak with us via Zoom. You have no idea how much your testimony is changing our lives here
I was supposed to receive something today and it didn't come and asked holy spirit what went wrong and this is it .. silence is important and was planning to post and honestly I know better cause satan doesn't rest 😢
This not only applies to relationships but life in general, you gotta hide your blessings until it's ready to be birthed
Wow! Amazing
Am learning not to share my joy with my friends.
Sometimes friends might be the first out of envy want to sabotage and perhaps the enemy might use them to abort our purpose.
Amazing, simple but powerful nugget.
Thanks so much for this. May God continue to prosper you and your husband.
"The enemy does not have knowledge until you announce it to him"🙌
Yep!
This is a confirmation. It was dropped in my spirit to keep my future relationship a secret❤️
This is so true, I always have an unsettling feeling whenever I have told people my business and I am actually praying for the ability to be able to stay silent regarding my life and relationship.
Hey sis! Yes may Holy Spirit help you with that!
Amen it is done ✔️ 🙏
Yoh me too.
I have been dating my partner for a year and five days and I have never posted him on any socials. Some of my friends feels like I am hiding him and that might lead him to infidelity. Him and I spoke about this, something deep inside said post the relationship when you are engaged to him and I will listen to that inner voice. Indeed there's a reason for that.
“But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart”❤ Thank you sis. In an age of overexposure we tend to forget that sometimes if not most times it’s between you and God
It is so hard to keep a secret😅yoh I am so talkative .. now I avoid meeting people because ohh I talk.. May God give me grace .. thanks for sharing 🙌🏼
Over a month ago the Holy Spirit kept leading me to the scriptures about Jesus performing healing miracles and instructing the healed not to tell anyone and only the priests. And I've been trying to understand what it means for me. This brought me clarity. Thank you sis!
Shu papa God speaks in interesting ways but He definitely speaks❤️❤️
I really like this message, I tend to be an oversharer at times and it has gotten me in tricky situations. I feel like this message is for people like myself who should learn to keep things to ourselves.
I pray I am able to keep it on a hush🙏
I feel you, I'm the same. Can't keep quiet about stuff it's almost like secrets and news are itching. Put my last relationship publicly and it didn't end well also because not everyone around us truly loves us.
Me too sis
Amen🙌🙌. Whenever I prematurely announce a dream or a plan it slowly disappears. The fire I had in the beginning slowly dies and suddenly I don't wanna do it anymore. The moment I speak it, the devil starts attacking it before it even comes to life🥲
Yep! That one is just waiting to pounce
I relate so much 🥲
This has happened to me so many times as well 😢
So true. I wanted to revamp my blog and just share my spiritual journey with God to encourage others but God spoke to me and said "focus on ME this season. If you do a blog, it will be about pleasing others and getting praise from others. Let me do a work in you this season. I will tell you when, how, and who to share." Thank you for this confirmation. I need to grow and mature in the spirit. So many people do this, get married, put out a book on how to do marriage the first 6 months and are divorced by year 2. Do a work in my Holy Spirit and give me the obedience to focus on that and reading your word and nothing else. Amen!
Word!!! I can attest to what you are saying. I am 2 weeks married and being quite was the order of our relationship.
I receive thos message... keep your blessings a secret until the time is right to reveal them. ❤
This is my secret to doing well in life🙌🏾I always do my best to keep things between me and God and relevant ppl e.g. Parents, family, my pastor. From marriage, pregnancy, buying a house, starting a business or whatever the Lord puts in your heart it’s important to work on it in secret so it is fortified as you have mentioned before coming out. But it’s unfortunate most Christians have not learnt this Principle. Love you❤ and Congratulations🎉
I learned this only a couple of years ago and my life has changed. Sometimes you get excited and share things too early and this allows even bad things happen.
100% correct!
Thank you so much for this advice 🙏
I believe I lost out in a lot of my blessings because of sharing a lot with people.
I've learned this in a very hard way and this year i see a change in my life, career and finances
What you just shared is is true and scriptural. God Himself didn't publicly announce the birth of Jesus. He makes the greatest things so unattractive so that He may protect it just like the birth of Jesus. It didn't bring attention nor was it attractive. Most expected He'd be born in a 'palace of gold' but the Son of the living God great and mighty as He is, God orchestrated the birth of His Son to a manger . In those times had God announced it, Harod would have easily traced his lineage and prematurely killed Jesus!
Shu! Powerful
Your wisdom and knowledge of the Word is profound!
Shu.. That's Holy Spirit I won't lie.. Thank you ❤️
This resonates with me so much. Ive seen what premature announcements can do. Ive seen the devil working so hard to make sure that i loose my faith in these things happening
I have always been attacked for being secretive... We live in the world where oversharing has been normalized. I don't share much at all...
That's good sis keep to it! There is power in keeping quiet. When it's time to speak or you need advice God leads
I haven't met my hubby yet but I know I will only tell my mom and sis. It's important to keep thing covered.A pastor once said: the enemy can't attack/destroy something he is unaware of.
I love the analogy with miscarriage it's so true. And I love how you both were excited and that your family was part of the engagement!
I love how intimate your journey to finding your spouse has been, sacred and intimate , Love that , and that how God is right....love this
Thank you for sharing! It's so so important, like when Joseph prematurely told his brothers of his dream
So true!
It is God telling me the same thing over and over again. I pray ukuthy I learn how to not overshare I am a loud mouth and I want to learn how to keep a secret. Thank sisi and congratulations 🎊 👏 💐
I’m actually working on something now and I have felt the need to keep it a secret until it blooms. I really needed to hear this because it’s a confirmation that keeping it a secret is exactly what I need to do. Thank you Busi, may God continue to use you as an instrument
Amen sis
God's standard is still required to maintain and sustain that which He has released into your life ... Hallelujah ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing . Especially today. I found myself sharing a bit about the circumstance I'm currently in and felt something in my spirit saying "hush, my child. I know it hurts, but hush my child" ... it was so strong as if there was someone right next to me. 😔Truly thank you for this revelation and confirmation. GOD continue to bless you ❤🙏
Shu! We thank God. May you be comforted in whatever you are going through sis
I got the same message too hush🙏
✋This is so true Sisi, yoh I can fully attest to this. It happened to me where I celebrated passing a job interview prematurely. But God is faithful and I know He will restore what the locust ate ten folds more. Thank you for sharing your testimony and congratulations on your marriage.❤
Shu! Sorry to hear that sis. I had also in the past lost acting gigs. Travel opportunity and more because of talking too much
🥺🥺 This just spoke to my heart. The holy spirit has been telling me this. Thank you so much for emphasising it ❤️
We need to learn to stop oversharing.
“Discretion will preserve you; Understanding will keep you,”
Proverbs 2:11 NKJV
Sometimes you have to keep things between you and God (and this is hard especially for our generation)
Somethings don’t have to be discussed with your friends or anyone else. it should be brought to God
Congratulations on your union 🥹❤️
I agree...been feeling it too in my spirit...Lord help me
I bumped into your platform, I was moved by your message about putting God first is everything in our lives💖🇬🇧
How stunning is this! To be proposed in front of your family ❤
Too special
My husband asked me to keep his proposal a secret, not tell a soul at all, while i was to pray about it and especially the youth at church, i remember asking the opinion of two people but not pointing personally at him, to be judged as a person, the other married lady who was older, i asked her because i was concerned about the age gap, he is 13yrs older, and the Pastor he prayed with me, they both asked me to pray about my concerns to the Lord, even after i agreed, we kept quiet, our Reverend and our parents and siblings knew, the Church was so surprised when our engagement was announced!, all were shocked, and the reaction of the Church was out of this world, no one saw it coming! i agree with you Mrs Xaba
Yes!! Amazing
I came across your channel not so long ago and never going back. Thank you I meet you right at the point of my need, your content is exactly what I needed at this time of my life. We thank God for you ❤️
You are so welcome
Wow so beautiful, thanks for sharing your lifes journey with us, I really thank God that HE gave us a big Sis to look up to someone who would model the will of God for us Daughters of Zion. And Sis you doing it perfectly. Love you and God continue to fill your cup as you fill ours.
Shu.. I thank Holy Spirit. Thank you for the comment sis ❤️
Shoo I'm bumping into this right now and whew your testimony was very much needed for this season!!!
Sharing your information, even the littlest, somewhat creates an open door for the enemy to attack. There's so much power in silence!!!
I know for a fact that I cannot unshare what ive shared. But I NEED TO REPENT and apply the knowledge
Knowlege is powerful!!!
Thank you so much for being a voice of wisdom especially in this time.
God bless you ♥️
Amen
😂 I learnt this one through experience ❤❤you spilled FACTS sis
Thank you for sharing this❤ I totally relate. I kept my relationship and pregnancy sacred and secret for the longest time... until such time I felt led to reveal.
Such wise words, I believe this word is meant for our generation because the monitoring spirit is real. More grace to you Lovely lady
I will forever be grateful to Buli Makhubo for introducing you to us💚💚😊
So true Ausi, we should move as God leads 🙇🏽♀️🙇🏽♀️ so happy for you ♥️♥️♥️
This woman is so blessed and am grateful to have known u in this time of my life where am single and waiting for the right one u are God's gift to us love u woman of God 🥰❤️
Amen sis! Great to meet you
Shooo... I thank God that your channel appeared. It feels so purposed for the season I strongly believe God is leading me into
Waiting is indeed protection
I don't know you but I am so happy for you!!😭
We needed to hear this!
Thank you for sharing this with us and being so intentional.
Big congratulations on your union🥳🎉
Thank you sis! Thank you for commenting
Thank you so much for this timely Word sis..God bless you and your husband ❤❤❤
Your teachings are confronting and challenging to implement. But it’s such a breath of fresh air. Holy. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow, Holy Spirit definitely moves us from just being hearers of the word to doers💕
What a beautiful testimony, thank you for sharing this with us sis. ❤️🙏
AMEN AUSI ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ The engagement video is so beautiful my friend!!!
Bless you.. Thank you friend
I love your videos so much and I love what you speak of. I wish people would understand that keeping things to yourself has so much more to do than it being about the next person. Especially being someone who consults God with any and everything. You're under his guidance and obedience more than anything. It's hardly , if ever, about people being unhappy for you etc.
Yes ma'am, I needed this❤ Thank You
🎉🎉🎉Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I really needed this.Thank you lord for this❤❤❤
Thank you sis
So much wisdom. Thank you Maboocie
God is faithful ❤🎉
Wow this was beautiful to watch,congratulations again.What you said in this is true,there is power in keeping things secret when it is still early,there is couple of times I spoke about things prematurely and they didn’t happen,lesson learned…shush until it’s right time to say it.
Yes sis.. Let's shush!
Also Busi I have dreamt of my wedding ring when we were 5 months, my partner and I. I believe it will the one. ♥
Can you talk about celibacy please.
Waiting is protection 🥺🥺 Word👌👌
Wow, God bless you both!! You are so right, completely agree. Just subbed.❤
Welcome ❤️
Hey Busi thank you, I tend to over share and I got burned and ja I needed to hear this.
Thank you for sharing the video
Wow so much wisdom, truly God has spoken, there's power in keeping things in secrecy until God says otherwise...
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Also, your brothers (assuming) in the end, singing le mini iyeza nakuwe 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I dismally fail at obeying God when he tells me not to share things, I have this habit of over-sharing 😭😭😭😭
😂😂 Im not laughing
Oh man this is what I wanted, thanks sis and congratulations 🥹🥹😍😍😍🥳🥳🥳
So powerful ❤️
I needed to hear this🙏🏽❤️
Thank you sister
Thank you sis, God bless you. I believe God send your videos to me tonight. All your contents are what i need in this season of my life.
Wow, we thank God
I hear you Sis 🙏 ❤ thanks for the word!
This is confirmation for me 🙏🏽🙌🏽 I have heard you Lord so help me God.
This is so beautiful ❤️I can't stop smiling, thanking for sharing this,I have learnt from this video
This so strange, or should I say God is speaking to me. I woke up not long ago, and a few seconds before I saw Oboitshepo tagged this video, I was actually thinking about this exact thing. This is shocking, but I’m sure God is confirming what he placed in my heart. Congratulations on your engagement and wedding. God bless and Thank you for sharing your testimonies with us. ❤
Thank you sis.. GOD is really cool when He deliberately puts a message before us. I love it for you ❤️
Thank you Amen. God is faithful and good❤
Your content is so anointed, these are messages our generation needs to hear. The proposal got me so teary ❤🎉😂 Lol the guys signing "le mini eyeza na kuwe" 😅 We receive!!!Amen
Exactly!! Yes sis iyeza
Thank you Busie for a wonderful installment. This message is meant for me😢
Wow, what a powerful message 👏. Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this ❤️
Thank you sis for sharing. I love you ❤
This is my confirmation. Thank you Lord.
This is beautiful maan😍 Love is beautiful, congratulations sis on your new journey... this is too good to watch, can't stop smiling.
Thank you woman of God!! 🙏🏾Am a new subie & i literally spent my night on this channel 🤞🏾 😂😂😂
Thanks for subbing!😄
A comment I am making for the record; I am not in any relationship at all. This popped up on my feed. Well, enjoy your day and week. 😐👍🙏🏾
Ahhh thank you Busi. I receive the grace to wait in patience and knowing what to share
Amen!
Your family is so cool and what a special day it was.😍
It truly was
I need to learn to shut my mouth thank you❤️
Thank you so much
Really needed to hear this 🙏🏾🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🎉
Thank you sis ❤️
The engagement video had me cheeesinggg!! So happy for you
Powerful word sis somethings are sacred amen
🙏🏾 Amen… Thank u Busisiwe
I fully understand this. I was exposing my relationship prematurely. I was so excited to share and it got aborted. Though the Lord has promised restoration.
I feel like I already messed up everything😭😭😭 I hope God can redeem my mistakes yohhhh. By grace. I really hope things can work out for me. Thank you for sharing this. You are really right about this.
Don't worry sis God will restore
Amennn
Hearong your testimonies , and oboedience in prayer, honestly challenges me. This is just confirmation on what I have to do . God Bless youand thank you, cause I Know even posting this video comes from a place of obedience , and direction sought out in prayer for that too God bless you
uuuuuhhhh sis..... we are learning this. I just introduced your channel to my Malawian sisters. Pray for me sis, we need you to at least speak with us via Zoom. You have no idea how much your testimony is changing our lives here
Amen...Thank you for this
Thank you sis
I totally agree with you. It is true. Keep everything secret until the Lord says share.
Yssss
Congrats on yuur union. God bless you and strengthen you as age each day. God bless us all.
Thank you so much!
I love the real life footage you bring in at the end. Like a coke at the end of a lovely meal.
Lol haha thank you sis
Hhhmm powerful. Love from Namibia 🇳🇦 ❤️
Oh my!!!! Did i not cry with you, new subbie here and congratulations sweetheart
Welcome. ❤️😊 Thank you
“When you stick to God he will prepare you for everything “🙌
Yesss
I was supposed to receive something today and it didn't come and asked holy spirit what went wrong and this is it .. silence is important and was planning to post and honestly I know better cause satan doesn't rest 😢
Ish sis! I learnt a very hard lesson on this in the past. All my things would just not work until I kept my mouth shut
Our Jesus is a teacher we learn everyday 🙏lesson learnt 💃🎉😘
So true - powerful word❤
Hmmm.. "waiting is protection"!
Haibo
I love how your community has grown over the past weeks
💃💃
Heh! Sis I am so shocked
CONGRATULATIONS 🙌🏾🎉 and God bless you!
Wow congratulations again my sister thank we appreciate u and your videos may the good Lord continue blessing u n your family ❤
Thank you sis❤️