3 Simple Signs That She's The One You Want To Marry (Ladies, It's the Inside Scoop!)
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- Here are the 3 key signs to answer the question, "Is she the one for you?" If the woman in your life hits all 3, marry her already! And if not, keep looking..
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Gentlemen, are you thinking of tying the knot this holiday season? Are you thinking of asking the girl in your life to be your partner for life?
But how do you know truly know if she's the one for you? That she is to be the mother of your children and to carry your name?
Funny thing - and the reality - is that many people don't really know! They just find themselves in a position to tie the knot, either out of convenience, comfort, timing or just the amount of time already invested in the relationship. These are HORRIBLE reasons to get married!
One crucial factor that men forget is that they have the power to choose - to select for - their love of their life. Of course, this only works if that man is a secure, independent and strong man who has his emotional 'stuff' together (and if you don't, you got some work to do!) but the point is you have the power to find that perfect woman for you.
So if you have the power to choose the perfect woman, what traits or signs should you be looking out for? How can you tell that she's the one that you will marry?
Well, in this video I talk about:
The mindset you must have before you even consider marriage
My personal dating situation before I considered settling down
The 3 key signs that you have to watch out for to answer the question, "Is she the one for you?"
The two caveats to these rules
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1. Giving 2. Positive Attitude 3. Flexible (accommodating)
Video starts @ 3:13. Your welcome!
Manolya Rowe Thank you so much
Manolya Rowe you’re the goat! Thanks!
Ty
Manolya Rowe thanks 😁
Thanks
I have that qualities,but I'm still waiting for the right man that God sent it to me. Thank you for sharing your videos that's wonderful.
I ran across this video & my man heard it. He listened to it & now WE ARE ENGAGED!!😍& yes Im all 3 but we never really paid attention to this in detail. We have been friends for 4 years & now I'm about to be his wife💞💞
STEPHANIE PATTERSON that’s awesome! Congratulations guys and..when can I expect an invite to the wedding? :p
@@Buyitforwife August 2019!!!💞💞👰👰👰
OMG my girls all three of these I'm going to buy a ring right now
Ryan Scherbluk did you!?
Ryan Scherbluk lmfao
No one perfect
I just broken up a few months and found this wonderful man. He is so loving and caring for me. And wants to move in 3 months and married within 6 months. I feel we both know each other the rest of our life. But my heart still healing from my newly break up want should I do?
How did it go?
I realized yesterday that i was so in love with my gf im thinking about keeping her for the long haul she was like being really nice and just going on a rant on how much she loves me and just said 'i know we're young and we have time but you're my endgame' so i guess thats that im abandoning my stupid "i'll never get married you can't make me" ideaology so i guess i have to go ring shopping
How's it going, brother?
Thanks for the video and it answers my question why we are Not married . She is very giving , flexible , fun to be with but she is negative and a drama queen. Thats why we have not tied the knot after several years.
She tops them all. Proposed to her after 4 months we met. That horse sign gemini woman got me hooked.
That’s me. I’m a Gemini and have all these qualities. But he hasn’t even made me his girl.
Zodiac signs have no bearing on personality.
Starts @ 3:11
I just knew he was the one!
Always go straight to the point
I'm all of these.. where's my husband??? :(
It just means the men you’ve met so far aren’t worthy ;) check out my other video on 3 signs to see if HE’S the one for you 👍👍
Be you so u can find a person who appreciates u for you. 💖
Look in your friendzone.
I have all these qualities and I do hope he sees them ....
after 3 minutes the info starts rolling
Thank you.
Thank you
GREAT INFO!☺❤
What if i dont have a positive attitude?
I'm Italian-American courting a 23yo Chinese. Maybe will marry when she's 24. Don't know if I can wait 'til she's 25. Ha. But don't anyone imitate me. Everyone should marry (or not) as is best for them
Wow you are so good and skilled to hit the point right on! Thank you!
You just described the woman I'm dating
Great video, excellent advice
I loved this video
I was all of those things and still he turned and began to hate me and abuse me by calling me awful names ...
That’s prototypical alpha Chad that all the unaware women crave. The friendzone guys won’t be anywhere near as likely to do you dirty like that, but they’re not exciting and aren’t quick to bring a woman infatuation.
So what if you & your partner do meet these 3 standards yet are under the age of 25???
Those are important factors but there's more. Good job though 👍
She meets all these but we've been dating only a year and she's 20?
Keep paying attention. Does she have a really good dad that has always been in her life and had a good relationship with her? If so, that’s a green flag. Very rare to have that relationship these days, and so vital for a well-rounded woman. Don’t worry about waiting until 25; her prime baby making years will be up by then. Waiting too long may make her insecure.
Careerwise, if you still don’t know what to do, consider becoming a plumber, electrician, or HVAC Tech; those jobs can’t be easily automated or outsourced, something all employers will want to do in the coming decades.
Two years later still togther married now?
I'm a female lol but you're a really good speaker 😂
That's not the way it works... A woman who is right for one man may not be right for another man even if she has all the qualities mentioned in the video. It's very subjective.... When we say two people are perfect for each other, we don't mean that they are perfect in the absolute sense, or that they are great people... We mean that they are perfect for just each other... Those same people may not be right for some other people....The qualities you mention in the video are basic must-have qualities in a partner... But let's say three women had all the qualities you mention... Yet for a given man, all the three are not going to be right.... Only one of them would be right for a given man... Remaining two women would be right for some other two men....
Totally agree! I see this more like foundational, deal-breakers. Kind of like (bad example), all cars need to have seatbelts and airbags etc but each car is different and suited to the driver :)
@@Buyitforwife👍Exactly!
That's the mistake I made... I recently went through a horrible breakup with a woman, because I didn't quite love her. Something just did not feel right when I was with her.... And I found it difficult to get over the breakup because I started rationalising things... I began to look for reasons why she wasn't right for me... And then I felt... There was nothing really wrong with her... So she "should" have been right for me and I "should" have loved her...
Then my dad explained me that there is nothing like "should have"... It's not your fault if you didn't love her... Just because she was a good person and there was nothing really wrong with her doesn't necessarily mean she would be right for you and you would love her.... In fact, there may be somebody who is not all that perfect and yet she may be the one for you and you may be madly in love with her.... It's completely irrational and can't always be explained why you love someone!! 😅
So... The "right one" bearly exists hahaha
Marcos Morales haha well ya! That’s what makes it so special when you find her
@@Buyitforwife you're right. Its hard tho. Most girls have one or none of the 3 quialitys.
Well enjoy the time and experiences until you meet the right person! 👍👍
but wat if we both toxic💀
Haha then may god bless ;)
Divorce court will clean you out dirty. Watch some red pill videos on divorce. If you haven’t hitched, and you’re not in a community property and/or common law marriage state, maybe just remain unmarried. Not sure if kids would be a good idea, though (for them to be the most well rounded adults, they’d need to have a good example from both parents), and she may eventually sabotage any birth control.
I Agree but not with the waiting two years to marry her!!
Hey as long as you truly know her within a short amount of time! 👍
Some women have a facade, and it takes as many as 3-4 years in an unmarried scenario to show cracks that the man could spot and recognize. They’d let it all down after taking vows, and then take you to the cleaners if you choose to divorce her.
You could improve your audio setup with a Lavalier microphone
Yes point taken. More recent videos have much better audio. Thanks for the feedback!
I have all these qualities and guys still broke up with me lol...
I will ask the question - did he have the 3 qualities that is right for you? That are signs that he’s marriage material for you?
He ain’t the right man
You’re infatuated with alpha chads. Friendzone guys would be less likely to leave you hanging like that (they’d either express no interest up front or stick by you if they choose to date), but aren’t as vapidly exciting, especially at the seven year itch. The Life Uncontained couple is goals.
Do you need 100% sexual attraction? My misses has 100% personalty we belly laugh all day and night, weve been together about 4 years but we have sex probably 1 to 2x a week and we dont really kiss for long periodes of time like 18yr olds as we are in our early 30s also Sometimes work gets in the way during the week. Is this okay?
What you describe is fine as a partnership. There’s nothing wrong with just being together and not getting married.
As a woman these are just basic traits for both not just the woman. Plus they are not reason enough 2 select a wife. You could have an abundance of females that display that behaviour towards you, so does that mean you may want to date them even?,,,,,, No, not if your intelligent or fussy. I think its to lightly entered into.
For sure. My point is that these are the foundational must-haves. simple example: all cars have safety features like seatbelts, air bags, brakes - and there are so many cars to choose from to suit your individual taste. We would not settle for a car without these basic requirements yet so many find themselves in relationships they don’t meet the basic requirements and it just sucks to be in that situation. Wouldn’t wish that for anyone! :)
Yes my lover do love me no my Harri 🗣️👁️
It’s crazy he states that if she’s under 25 she can’t be the right one basically however the most successful marriages were started when both partners were usually at a young age now they’re 30 years deep so don’t agree on that
Is it really “that crazy”? The idea is not to marry too young. Meet someone at 23, date for two years, married at 25. It’s not that wild of an idea lol
Make sure shes not a undercover bullie
is it true if a boy and girl bully each other they have feelings for each other?
Cryo Genic no it is not. It's possible if they tease each other but not bully each other
That would be dysfunctional.
my girl doesn't really have any of these 😂
Javier Lopez 😂😂😂😂😂😂
So true
Such women don't EXIST!!
omg..takes forever to get to the point
TheLocD Goddess So what
TheLocD Goddess
I know right. Same thing goes with all the other similar videos on TH-cam. So wordy and doesn't get to the fucking point. LOL. I AIN'T GOT ALL DAY!!! These "3 or 5 signs of blah blah blah" videos should all be less than 2 minutes.
So it’s a positive attitude. Lol. That’s it. 7 minutes for that lol
The key to The truth A partner can have a positive attitude but can still be very inflexible and not much of a giver. A positive attitude is only mindset. A giver is all about action.
Great
Good advice - but how can we be sure that the woman exhibits all of these characteristics, until the vows, and the morning after, or soon thereafter, they do a 180 and become something you didn’t see, before? I’ve read of this. Of course, waiting as many as 2-3 years before marriage can show cracks in the woman. Even a year to eighteen months may not be enough time. In all 180-ers, the woman is wearing a facade they can’t keep up, forever; the man has to see the cracks and not write it off.
Additionally, “don’t marry a woman under 25” falls square in the face of red pill theory, where a decent woman tied down young basically acts as an antidepressant and anti-anxiety method that is superior to a prescription. From my research, this makes a lot of sense. Furthermore, a lot of couples have gone a long way after getting married young; it’s probably down to maturity at that age. But it wouldn’t be wise to dismiss an under-25 woman. Besides, 18-25 are the prime fertility years for a woman; it gets tougher after that.
Good like finding a partner being that sexist. I mean prime fertility? I don't think you are good boyfriend material if those are your views and opinions of women.
@Rachel Glova 1. Thank you! I have very high standards for a partner, and fertility isn’t among them. If I never have kids, it’s not a big loss for me, at least as far as I’m aware; by extension, a woman in her early 30’s is fine by me. I know that a lot of men see a woman partner as primarily a baby maker and someone to hold the fort as he’s slaying the dragon, so to speak. Is that coarse of them? Maybe, and that’s not me, but I’m a girly boy.
2. So many men have been burned after wifing women that on paper made sense; the women just changed, and not on anything he did wrong. Then the divorce laws cream him. I’m not interested in dealing with that, and if you think that’s sexist, be aware you don’t have to face the consequences of divorce court. I’d only marry someone if God tells me it’s a good idea.
Here’s a comment from Ben Prins that I like, because it shows well how most learned, mature men think.
“Her: wow you’re hot and financially stable, will you marry me?
“Him: oh god no. [Laughs, walks away and lives a happy, quiet, mature and meaningful life😊]”
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