How to NOT Lose Yourself In a Relationship

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  • @ShebaBeauty
    @ShebaBeauty ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I bought a beautiful dress and the opportunity to wear it seemed to never come. My husband planned a double date and I wore it. When we got home he said “I was staring at you all night, I love you so much”!
    So dress up and overdress sometimes 😂

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ahh absolutely love this for you girl!

    • @annabeavor3254
      @annabeavor3254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I totally overdressed for a Hawaiian dance one time.😂 At first I felt a bit uncomfortable but then I just embraced it and I got SO many compliments! Totally overdress.

  • @youregg8980
    @youregg8980 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Alexis, I appreciate you so much. As I get older, I realize my competition with other girls get higher because there are always younger girls. And I feel so out of myself, I don’t feel the best anymore. And I cling onto my bf more. And now it’s getting hard in the relationship that I just want to run away, but now I understand I need to focus on myself and my own mood and goals.

  • @enkuberhe3853
    @enkuberhe3853 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This is what I really need these days ad I am struggling with relationship life balance. Thank you so much for this amazing and life saving video.

  • @BBYGELLE
    @BBYGELLE ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Hey Lex, love all your vidsss. I was wondering if you could make a video on how to set boundaries / phrases to use / how to speak without being rude / disrespectful, esp when dating ? I’ve noticed in your videos that you are firm but polite when you state certain things / are describing things you don’t or won’t accept. Or when you are speaking about something you believe in, there’s this undertone of strength and non ‘negotiableness’ in your voice, you aren’t rude but you are firm. I rly hope I’m conveying this properly LOL, thank youuu 🤍

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hello love. Thank you so much. I love your suggestion and will add it to my list ❤️

    • @lilanie2887
      @lilanie2887 ปีที่แล้ว

      I second this 🙌🏼

    • @farahabbas1985
      @farahabbas1985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@awwlexis yes please do vid for boundries mine sucks

  • @jlynn4061
    @jlynn4061 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would like to add to this. Sometimes when you have been in the wrong relationship for a long time and you eventually find your person you kind of let yourself go or gain weight (unintentionally) when you may be the happiest you have ever been. I’ve been dealing with that and soul searching to figure out why when I am so completely happy now. And I think from reading and listening to podcasts that I have been in fight or flight for so long due to a really bad relationship with a narcissist and losing some people very close to me that I can finally just relax and not constantly be in a state of tension and stress.
    I am however beginning to work on these things bc I don’t want to feel unhealthy or feel like I finally have my person and I’m just letting myself go 😊

  • @ellapark8770
    @ellapark8770 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Girl…. I feel so grateful that I came across your channel.. i’ve been binging your content, and this video is exactly what i needed because I feel like I’ve lost myself in my relationship :( Thank you for everything you do ❤

  • @aishaplayton6437
    @aishaplayton6437 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I find this concept really odd, I’ve experienced the total opposite in relationships - I usually level up in every way and look better even though my attention is shared between myself and catering to my man.

    • @infinitelyweird
      @infinitelyweird ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @tortoisepineapple1653
      @tortoisepineapple1653 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Same, I always wanna look and feel my best for myself, my friends, family and my boyfriend. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and my friends have said I’ve been healthier, hotter and i practice self care way more. I can’t imagine giving all my energy to my boyfriend, I imagine it’s a huge romance killer. It also must make them small minded to only focus on their man, what about your girls? Your job? Your future? Your health? It’s insane when people can’t see anything but their man I’ve seen it happen to people and always ends in a disaster.

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You’re doing it right 🙌🏽

    • @hersheykisseys
      @hersheykisseys ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤ me too

    • @sabrinab2902
      @sabrinab2902 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too !!

  • @aishaplayton6437
    @aishaplayton6437 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You look beautiful, the colour you’re wearing really suits you!

  • @annabeavor3254
    @annabeavor3254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You look SO BEAUTIFUL! The necklace, shirt, and hair all compliment each other so well ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BBYGELLE
    @BBYGELLE ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really appreciate that you always follow up your tips with practical actionable tips, I feel like it’s one thing to have the knowledge but I can find it difficult to put it into practise on a day to day basis

  • @sahithireddy3757
    @sahithireddy3757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have changed my life.

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    16:29 Honestly, you are utterly beautiful. The outfit you're wearing really gorgeous, it looks great on you

  • @boligstylistmiestenner1643
    @boligstylistmiestenner1643 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow Alexis I just love your energy and natural beauty. I just realised today that I need to detach myself from my boyfriend in order for me to feel free and confident and your video was The best advise I could ever get🤩🥰 Thank you🙏🏻

  • @lauralioncoaching
    @lauralioncoaching ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you soo much Alexis, I can feel my vibration raising just listening to you. You've also really inspired me to put all my experience into practice and start coaching clients while I continue to learn about feminine energy myself. Its my favourite topic and I am so obsessed with it 💜💛🌞🙏

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ahh I am SO proud of you girl and beyond excited to hear this! Thank you for sharing 🥰

  • @oliviagraves2289
    @oliviagraves2289 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Here is an idea. Your partner or your relationship with your partner amplifies any hurt feminine or masculine energy that you came into the relationship with for one reason or another. Thanks for the video!

  • @zukielife
    @zukielife ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Okay I get what you’re saying, I can still look my best without make up

  • @lunar3n
    @lunar3n ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i’ve been bingeing your content the last couple days and it is so amazing!! your energy is so lush and exciting and inspiring 🌺❤️
    i would love to see another video like this but about maintaining polarity in a long term relationship, beyond the classic “have hobbies and your own friends” advice. i’m about to move out for the first time, with my boyfriend of a year and a half, and i’m very excited but nervous that we’ll get bored being around each other all the time. he adores me, which helps a lot haha but he’s pursued this goal of moving in together for so long that now that it’s happening, i’m worried he’ll lose interest!

  • @nazaninahmdiii
    @nazaninahmdiii ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u alexis ♥️🌺 my experience is like i will say this " this person doesnt belong to me " when im really lose love in him, so how we can pull back without deep emotions alive

  • @LoveHealthBeautyGoddess
    @LoveHealthBeautyGoddess ปีที่แล้ว +3

    loveeee you alexis. So inspiring. Could you make a video about overthinking/negative thoughts, visions etc and how to deal with that?

  • @eb360
    @eb360 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally!! Would love more videos like these for those who have now landed a HV man. 😊

  • @syedzeenat4452
    @syedzeenat4452 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Could you please give some advice on how to maintain healthy relationship while being in long distance relationship?🥺 btw i love you .. ever since i found your channel it helped me alot ❤❤ keep it up ❤

    • @tranquilmomentswithme7643
      @tranquilmomentswithme7643 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello Syed, make sure your long distance partner is maintaining the same energy as you. Most importantly you both show intentionality for the future.

    • @syedzeenat4452
      @syedzeenat4452 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tranquilmomentswithme7643 oh im sorry it was an old comment... i broke up with him.. he was cheating on me. So it doesnt matter now. Anyways thank you so much for your advice ☺️❤️

  • @tvisha7572
    @tvisha7572 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    26:48 books mentioned

  • @Miriamblake
    @Miriamblake ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Youre so amazing with what you're doing ,our women need this. Sisters everywhere!!

  • @Sparkle-ey7iw
    @Sparkle-ey7iw ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awwww your fur baby is so cute 🥰

  • @raneelong9408
    @raneelong9408 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just checked out your brand and it’s soooo beautiful! I’m gonna be ordering some

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you my sweet girl! ♥️

  • @nonjabulongcobo729
    @nonjabulongcobo729 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boyfriend air😂never heard off it but I'm glad you explained it to us

  • @tam_to_evolve
    @tam_to_evolve ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg! Oliver is so cute! 😆😍😍 love your videos girl!! ❤️❤️

  • @hyukbarbie
    @hyukbarbie ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God bless your soul ✨

  • @spidersNsquirrels
    @spidersNsquirrels ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your amazing just wanted to say!

  • @hyukbarbie
    @hyukbarbie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Same not a grits girl! Love me some fruit, smoothies and protein

  • @samanthafraki7905
    @samanthafraki7905 ปีที่แล้ว

    I almost have enough saved up to join your level up classes

  • @Hiddengem1925
    @Hiddengem1925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I swould love to do your course but unfortunately it to expensive for me right now 😢 your channel will get me through 💪

  • @LuvArsha4eva
    @LuvArsha4eva ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your whole vibe and energy ❤️

  • @Danaclerici
    @Danaclerici ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another beautiful video from you! Truly enjoyed watching this ❤❤❤

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you love 🥰

  • @G6KGaijin
    @G6KGaijin ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Doggo in the back ❤️❤️

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      He loves making his appearances 😂

  • @jessicajanusz
    @jessicajanusz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just put on my silky robe 😉💗 thanks for the reminder Alexis, this video was so helpful 😘

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s my girl 😉♥️

  • @Lilly_eve
    @Lilly_eve ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Alexis! I would really like to learn how to heal your inner child and traumas through journaling. Could you give any examples on how to start, or what kind of questions to ask yourself to actually start healing? 🙏

  • @Uparta23latkaVlog
    @Uparta23latkaVlog 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Do you recommend any channels for men about their energy?

  • @Radianty_Ella
    @Radianty_Ella ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is such a gem! Thank you for flipping this around using science, energy, and femininity and giving us tangible tips to level up!
    #grlpwr

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re so welcome love 🥰

  • @maricelg777
    @maricelg777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Alexis ❤

  • @ramonaa8962
    @ramonaa8962 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! I not only have remembered who I was and am slowly bringing her back but am also learning so much from your insights.
    You mentioned a pdf with your book list? Where do I find that? Can’t see a link.
    Thank you for all your help!

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww you’re so welcome girl! The PDF I mentioned is inside my “Master Your Feminine Energy” course found here: www.thefeminineglow.com/courses

  • @watered8331
    @watered8331 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Alexis! Thank you for the beautiful video. I am wondering if you can make a video about how you started your clothing line? Xx

  • @halzeyna
    @halzeyna ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your sharing 🥰

  • @DirectorAtSomaya
    @DirectorAtSomaya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Queen 🙌🏾

  • @donnasoudaiha1449
    @donnasoudaiha1449 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God Bless you ❤

  • @jishamola.j6383
    @jishamola.j6383 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You Dear

  • @trinitysauthenticity539
    @trinitysauthenticity539 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really makes me sad that I lost myself like I truly let myself go and my bf just looks the exact same I feel like the only person who changed was me 💀

  • @rebeccaperry4923
    @rebeccaperry4923 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with everything in this video! :)

  • @zukielife
    @zukielife ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish I had the discipline to dress up everyday. I need to find natural make up that doesn’t harm the skin.

  • @ellaodey1672
    @ellaodey1672 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do you do this when married and a stay at home wife who’s let herself go?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s never too late, start today. The tips in the video are a guideline for how to start ♥️

  • @delirious3755
    @delirious3755 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

  • @Ffiisscchhssoonngg
    @Ffiisscchhssoonngg ปีที่แล้ว

    Was looking on your site for retreat details, i didnt them yet, please let us know when its live...also as a woman who operates primarily solo and i find myself interested in connecting w other feminines but not sure how(insert mostly negative fem energy history from others ) do we have any vids on this?

  • @kiahmunyinyi3953
    @kiahmunyinyi3953 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you love your TH-cam page my ADHD brain goes for wonders your videos give such good guidance thank you!

  • @nxyden1589
    @nxyden1589 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this! what do you think of white tantra?

  • @sandyavalos3305
    @sandyavalos3305 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How is this done when you have kids?

  • @vanyastefanova3615
    @vanyastefanova3615 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ thanku u

  • @minyoongi7005
    @minyoongi7005 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like I’m not the best at handling my emotions when things get overwhelmed and i know that this isn’t good for me so how can I work on this?

  • @karliesky4342
    @karliesky4342 ปีที่แล้ว

    So how would I measure a third of my time??

  • @deni1998.
    @deni1998. ปีที่แล้ว

    you are so lovelyyy

  • @lolamaylondon
    @lolamaylondon ปีที่แล้ว

    what carat size is your diamond necklace? I'm on the search for the perfect dainty piece just like yours

  • @imanilwilliams
    @imanilwilliams ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you keep eye contact during the entire video?

  • @janiebella2014
    @janiebella2014 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can I apply these tips while I’m living with my boyfriend of 4 years?

  • @Trikks185
    @Trikks185 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you join the become your dream version course?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      You can join at www.thefeminineglow.com/courses ♥️

  • @dnd4346
    @dnd4346 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is the list of books you were talking about

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      They are inside my course: www.thefeminineglow.com/courses

  • @farahabbas1985
    @farahabbas1985 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love u alot

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so gorgeous 😍

  • @cherrydinigo2479
    @cherrydinigo2479 ปีที่แล้ว

    confirmation

  • @asiaisabellaa
    @asiaisabellaa ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @aixacruz8213
    @aixacruz8213 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alexis, will I ever become too smart for a woman? What can I do so men are not intimidated by how smart I am?

    • @Nini66667
      @Nini66667 ปีที่แล้ว

      If a man is intimated by your intelligence he is very insecure in himself , A real man would be impressed by your knowledge and intelligence.

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Absolutely not. It is important to lead with your passion and excitement rather than “facts” when sharing your intelligence 🥰

    • @aixacruz8213
      @aixacruz8213 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

    • @farahabbas1985
      @farahabbas1985 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cute

  • @luismartinez-pq3vz
    @luismartinez-pq3vz ปีที่แล้ว

    🦂💯👑💡

  • @punjabseth260
    @punjabseth260 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍👌🏻

  • @shokooh4970
    @shokooh4970 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🌟🍫🍓🦄❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @montufatti
    @montufatti ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Roth ira
    High yeild savings account

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesss ❤️💯

  • @zippyblessed839
    @zippyblessed839 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus is my healer