I was reading your comments while watching I'm through now I'm back to drop mine...... i was married to a mijikenda also very humble Man he could apologize and even kneel down den angebeba hata makosa yangu ili tu kubring peace in the house, I'm a first born in my family so niliingia na huo u first born kwa ndoa hakuna kitu nilikuwa naona ugumu kama ku apologize wooyee bt ilinicost siku alichoka hata hakukuwa na drama alibeba tu nguo zake kidogo na akaniachia kila kitu kwa nyumba hadi manguo zenye aliacha zingine nilipeana zingine nikachoma ndio hivyo marriage ya 10 yrs ilikunywa maji . So NINA my sister bado mapema rekebisha na u last born uwache kwenu........... mm hujuta hadi sahi bt can't help the guy moved on alioa another lady from his tribe....... sahi niko kwa mahusiano naombaga msamaha vizuri wacha tu😂😂😂😂😂 I'm happy now.
I totally understand Nina had to develop a defense mechanism character because of the childhood and social media trolls and that makes her behave the way she does. I also believe her tone came as a result of her trying to always defend herself and her space because she always felt or rather feels like everybody is against her. Kindly Mesh help her come out of this by guiding her in private (not in public) how she should react or behave towards you and you will be a happier husband. Be kind and gentle to her when you are doing corrections. Guide her like a baby and trust you me she will change. Then when you see some improvement acknowledge her and it will also help
Nina chunga your husband...wangu ameniacha after 25 years na hadi wa leo sijui makosa yangu..heri wewe unaambiwa makosa yako your marriage ikiwa changa....😢...your husband loves you that's why he rectifies you
Nina wewe shindwa kusubmit ukiachilia that handsome man kitakuramba huku inje ni kunoma venye nawapenda i wish you all the best may God help you,marriage is a battle field prayers should b your shield
Huyu dem unafanya boy wako aache kukuonesha more love juu ya vile unabehave.....give him respect utajua maboy wanajua kushow true love..dont bring him down you will be delaying his success and breakthrough pea boy wako love......hii haijanibamba
Yeah...I feel Nina you have not been submissive coz mesh always feels so on your vlogs and learn to apologize well and let him feel that you are remorseful. I love you guys
Nina its ok to be humble,it doesn't cost plus dnt say you dont care tumawependa sana,asking for forgiveness genuinely my dear nina..without maneno mengine
Design people are giving wapendwa advice to see the best of them is encouraging. You people are a city built on a hill, you have friends who value and honor marriage institution kindly learn from them. We wish you well. Nina horeria marakara
Nina My love,, When someone tells you that you've wronged them, it's important to avoid dismissing their feelings by saying, "It's not a big deal," because to them, it is significant.
Ninah my dear...a wise woman will build her own home but a foolish woman destroys it with her own hands...men settle where there is peace ,where they feel loved ,respected appreciated ..cage your man with soft words ,love and all that...that way you're pushing him away❤❤❤...take this from a single person..cjai oleka but i know that can help you ghurl❤
@@user-rz2jq4uy4p I don't think so..mesh kitu anataka it's just a little respect from the wife, she is also unapologetic according to what Mesh said...anafeel ninah isn't submissive enough atleast anataka kufl as the man of the house 😉...
Marriage is to forgive each other bt nina learn to say sorry when your wrong na hiyo pepo wa kukosana all the tym ishidwe kwa njina la yesu ❤🎉🎉frm gulf
Ninah i love you gal and i love everything about you guys❤❤❤❤ please ninah make mesh feel like a man, apologize romantically, don't make him feel disrespected he might end up making wrong decisions 😢, I love you guys❤❤❤
I have realised that Mesh keeps telling Nina that she needs to know that he's the man of the house Nina all that Mesh needs from you is submission.Period!
Nina learn to apologize. If you're wrong, wacha kiburi🙏🙏. Respect your man. Usiseme ooh ni kitu ndogo. Its the small things that hurts.... Usikuwe kichwa ngumu🙏. I come in peace.... You're disrespectful. Ati "wee nisamehe tu. argh." How would you feel if your man wrongs you and I'm s not even apologetic. We love you but uko na ungaster mbaya which is a turn off😢. Humble yourself gor once.. Let me say it blue black since you showed us this side. Huonewi..... This us how you apologize "Beb, i did this and that, which is wrong and i realized i hurt you (holding his hands and show you mean it), I'm sorry for that and it won't happen again. Please forgive me. I don't like the way we are. Again I'm sorry " will you die ukiapologize genuinely???? Mnafanya ndoa iwe ngumu bure
On point no matter how small it is. And don't forget to say I will work on it I will not repeat again and if you repeat apologise and continue working on it
You are doing well guys. May God keep you together as you continue working to progress and make your marriage work. No one is perfect and everyone has his or her own weaknesses and strengths. We are work in progress. Learn each others personality(eg, sanguine, melancholy, phlegmatic, choleric). This will help you know each other well. You will learn even somethings you can't change. Some characters you will learn to live with and some allow Holy spirit to change you. Choose what to digest or vomit in these streets don't listen to some people or follow some negative comments. Attend various couples seminars. You will learn a lot. Continue fighting for your healthy marriage coz marriage is hard work.
If a counsellor's help can be sought the better and it should be soon..From your several vlogs mesh keeps saying that thing and it has not been worked on from the observation..it might be small but kumbuka mzaha mzaha hutunga usaha..wish you the best ❤❤❤
More love the Wapendwas❤❤but Nina you should learn to be surbmissive to your hubby despite the sitution that might arise in between you guys 'just try your best.we love you so much guys❤❤❤❤
Sometimes men heal wakiwa kwa rltnship kitaramba nina the time mesh atawalk out n itakua too late she really needs to leave ulastborn kwao ajue she's married and her work is to submit n vile huyu mwanaume anamuheshimu she needs to reciprocate the respect to him 😊
I just subscribed to this channel courtesy of the Wajesus, and I am sad about Nina. I am sad that she is holding so much, and unfortunately it will cost her big. I am not surprised she denies her man sex, and I am not surprised it is the cause of the misunderstanding. We are many who got married virgins, and less than a month was enough to put us into action. The Wajesus have a lot of work to do on these two. I wish them well.
But both of you need to grow up and lower your ego,sa instead of enjoying yourself ni kujamiana tu, you are becoming a big brand so you have to learn how to solve your issues wisely.my prayers for you nikuona mkigrow higher and higher..
OOH Please😭😭😭I PRAY that God grows your marriage plus its sadenning to see you mad at each other and Nina please heed to the advice given by @Salvationcenter(the comment below👇)
Wapendwa we love you but from observation I feel you guys need to sit with a therapist. Mesh keeps saying he don’t feel respected Nina feels she hasn’t done anything wrong. There’s a deep rooted conflict between you, before things escalate seek therapy guys
It's the growth process. Also now I pray God gives you a "best couple", in that as much as you didn't have one for your wedding, you can get a guiding/loving couple that you can talk to. I heard the Peekay's speak on this. Some of these are things you walk with people who are practically ahead of you @@Wapendwamuziki
I support you on this, I have followed then for a very long time,I really love there content and they inspire me alot,nina you have been in that space of being alone doing things alone, sometimes before saying NO kindly can you listen to him and Mesh maybe the way you approach her at that moment she might not be in that frame of mind maybe try a different approach and all in all visit a therapist will really help you much
Mesh pole sana,on behalf of Nina I appologize....msamehee plz,she'll learn and do better next time.Pole sana for the rudeness and hurting your feelings❤❤❤❤...Nina nyuma ya tent tafadhali❤❤❤❤
Yeah it is the small small things that really matters .for example a big tree one time it was very small but it was left to grow and it becomes very big the some case to those small small issues when left to grow unsolved they become big issues.check on that guys.your respect nina only mesh can rate it coz ur doing it to him and when a man does not feel respected that's a big problem.
I love you guys and the consistency as well. Halafu kwani wee Mesh hukosewa throughout. You. There's also a way to correct in love. Nobarry cares what you know until they know how much you care. Even as the head and leader, remember love that covers a multitude of sins if not fatal. You also need to develop patience as early as now to have patience required to handle tubabies na ukijua God may surprise you with twins or more. May God guide you on this journey and go before you. Nawapenda Wapendwa ❤❤❤❤
Mesh that's not the way to behave hata ukikosewaje... Not out there. Please please. With love.😢😢 I feel like you didn't have to torture Ninah that much. Ndoa aki you love sacrificially.
Baby girl avoid using words like "pole basi." Ama sorry then. This does not show remorse,it shows your jus saying it to end the argument or the conflict. Instead say am really sorry . I apologies. I didn't mean to cause you pain. And let him feel the apology. Dont click after an apology it waters it down..❤❤ i love you nina. Forever team nina ata tukiwa on the wrong. Mesh uache kukua mhash be gentle stop demanding respect lead by example what you give you shall receive.
The first three months i had problems in my marriage,apologizing was a big deal. Mimi nilikua na kiburi pro max na kusema let's end this marriage😂so one day my man sat down with me,we talked the whole night until we came to a conclusion,honestly i was the trouble😂😂😂i made a decision of changing everything. Let's say i transitioned to be a good wife so whatever going in your lives Nina sort it now dear,it takes time😊now I'm so proud of myself the woman I'm.
you have a very unique way of advertising. si venye Mesh alikuwa amekasirishwa but it was a way of advertising on the way couples should come to this place sundowners for reconciliation. kudos
My loves ❤i love this phase for you,, you are enjoying the fruits of dedication and the years of service without getting all these privilleges 🥂🥂and now cheers to happiness and abundance and cheers to this kind of Godgiven friendship
Let's appreciate that they're showing their good and bad.... something most social media couples don't. I believe with the Wajesus being their mentors watakuwa Sawa 😀
Ninah if you love your husband, you should care. You better drop that don't care attitude and ego. You shouldn't have continued to shoot content as if nothing had happened. Apologizing doesn't hurt at all. It only makes your marriage stronger. Assuming and sweeping things under the carpet is not a good idea. You should sit down and talk. Again, apologising and then tell mesh "unanichokesha' is not good at all. Hata aki respond vibaya, funga maskio. Secondly, avoid washing your dirty linens in public. The public doesn't owe you anything. Learn to solve your issues privately.
Mesh wewe nawewe achana na this 'im the man of the house and need to be in control attitude" that will kill your marriage. Understand your wife is not the tu weak gals to be controlled, she is a strong gal and you should be proud of her. Just treat her as an equal and all will be well. Then learn to communicate both of you, mmoja akikosea mwingine apologize and forgive and forget 🤗 Its not good for a man to be childish honesly. Nina anasema sorry bado unasema si enough aiii. Weuh. Hata mkikoseana dont show it on camera aki, deal with it privately. Just enjoy holiday bila kujamiana you can even ignore ulikosewa 🤗
It doesn't matter if what you did is big or small,,makosa ni makosa and if your hubby opens up and tells you umemkosea, it's so important kunyenyekea na kumuomba msamaha the right way and if it's possible;behind cameras.. Respect is key to men,,you don't even need to tell them you love them,, respect and submission, bass Otherwise nawapenda guys,,keep on doing what your doing...chao❤
aki Mesh bona unajamia ninah una fanya video ina kuwa mbaya kai kumbe uki kasirika una kuanga hivyo sikuwa najuwa nime jua leo but msamehane maisha iendele still have faith in God everything is okay
AM HAPPY FOR YOU BABES....GOD KEEP YOU AND SHIELD YOU. AND GIVE YOU WISDOM TO LIVE MARRIED. THERE IS SO MUCH TO LEARN, ENJOY AND SOMETIMES UPS AND DOWNS. MSIJALI THE SMALL SMALL ISSUES WILL FADE SWAY. NINA DONT FEEL JUDGED. YOU ARE A HEROINE. CONGRATULATIONS FOR DOING 3 YEARS IN MARRIAGE. YOU WILL DO MANY MORE❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Miimi sutawabebeleza, right now you're married, try and not hurt each other every time, na mukifika huko ma 6yrs, mko na kids, munataka vyombo zifly kwa nyumba, hebu respect each other na love iflow, behind the camera pengine ni kubaya... Take care guys, na pia take care not always pranks, pranks zingine you can ruin yourselves, you're good together, wekeni love vibes and solve issues amicably, online inlaws are watching, pray alot for your marriage, shetani ni kama hafurahi na ashindwe... Amen
please delete dear Liz.., these are people that have allowed us into their space. Lets not call them names. I am sure our girl got issues like everyone of us ataoutgrow tu vitu zenye si Christlike.. just like you and me.
What they are going through is normal for young marriage. They are still trying to adjust so they will be fine. It's just because their lives are out here for all of us to see .
I always enjoy watching your videos guys , I have seen people on instagram post you had with Size 8 and DjMo that you need counselling or a therapist, My advice to you guys is that it takes only you and Mhesh to work on your Marriage ask God to help you he is the best Marriage therapist he will take you through , just take it one day at time in prayer 🙏
But I think I like that you are being real, not pretending its all roses and flowers .... though people may critic, and you may have people attack you but you are being real. Anyway, we will see your growth. Ninah, mtu husema sorry sikusema hivyo ndio tutafanya😂😂😂. Apologizing is always work for ladies😂. It's a journey of meshing two lives, personalities and the crashes will happen here and there. All the best, as long as you make a decision there's no exit door, that you will work out everything together and are on the same team, not competing...fight issues not yourselves. Pole weak, you apologize and still make some not nice comments along with your sorry. Class ya ku-apologize we need it as ladies😂😂😂
Hii marriage ikiendelea hivi itabreak tu kimechezo. Mesh doesn't feel heard, loved and respected by you Nina. The entire comment sectionbos speaking the same thing. Hatutashtuka if anything…
😅😅😅😂😂😂😂 uweeer aki woiye kamesh aki nmecheka at the same time kulia nimehurumia mesh khaiii,Mimi I had this man the respect and love ningemuonyesha Wacha tu better watch out before I get him all for myself
Mbona unanyimananga hio kitu hujui hio ndio huwa inasolve disagreements sometimes na inastrengthen marriage,but above all respect your husband allow him to be the head
Nina my dear,,,,is not good for Mesh akishinda kudai kuwa ni man of the house coz ha'feal kama anapata hyo vibe from you, make him feel it. And then it's ok kukoseana but how u gonna deal with it matters, just learn to say I'm sorry beib with some softness,,,,,,msamaha haulazimishwi ila unaombwa as much as is a must to forgive for us christians but we always ask for forgiveness. So bby grl, I lov u and I wish to see u guys flourishing together and forever......but it won't come naturally, u have to be intentional with everything.
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Nina, a wise woman builds her home and a foolish woman destroys her home with her own hands. SUBMISSION is key.
I was reading your comments while watching I'm through now I'm back to drop mine...... i was married to a mijikenda also very humble Man he could apologize and even kneel down den angebeba hata makosa yangu ili tu kubring peace in the house, I'm a first born in my family so niliingia na huo u first born kwa ndoa hakuna kitu nilikuwa naona ugumu kama ku apologize wooyee bt ilinicost siku alichoka hata hakukuwa na drama alibeba tu nguo zake kidogo na akaniachia kila kitu kwa nyumba hadi manguo zenye aliacha zingine nilipeana zingine nikachoma ndio hivyo marriage ya 10 yrs ilikunywa maji . So NINA my sister bado mapema rekebisha na u last born uwache kwenu........... mm hujuta hadi sahi bt can't help the guy moved on alioa another lady from his tribe....... sahi niko kwa mahusiano naombaga msamaha vizuri wacha tu😂😂😂😂😂 I'm happy now.
this me being a firstborn has made not to even apologies to a man ...i hope to change from this comment'
Kabisaa,this boy is so kind
The boy is hundsome and humble bt wife...mmmmmh last born ni kwenu ladies are out here watching
I totally understand Nina had to develop a defense mechanism character because of the childhood and social media trolls and that makes her behave the way she does. I also believe her tone came as a result of her trying to always defend herself and her space because she always felt or rather feels like everybody is against her.
Kindly Mesh help her come out of this by guiding her in private (not in public) how she should react or behave towards you and you will be a happier husband. Be kind and gentle to her when you are doing corrections. Guide her like a baby and trust you me she will change. Then when you see some improvement acknowledge her and it will also help
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I concur
true, however that's not an excuse per say
Bytheway this is very true. It's very hard to heal from traumas
Nina chunga your husband...wangu ameniacha after 25 years na hadi wa leo sijui makosa yangu..heri wewe unaambiwa makosa yako your marriage ikiwa changa....😢...your husband loves you that's why he rectifies you
Siku mesh atachanuka,nina hataamini,ilike Milly wa Jesus,nilianza ku wa watch kitambo,she respect kabi,
take it to GOD in prayer,GOD fixes broken marriages
Nina wewe shindwa kusubmit ukiachilia that handsome man kitakuramba huku inje ni kunoma venye nawapenda i wish you all the best may God help you,marriage is a battle field prayers should b your shield
@WajesusFamily pliiz mentor this young couple isivunjike,,,i will be happy when you guys will celebrate many more anniversaries together ❤❤
Si kwa ubaya but hii couple iache utoto especially uyo dem,, mwanaume atafika mahali achoke
Noted❤️
Huyu dem unafanya boy wako aache kukuonesha more love juu ya vile unabehave.....give him respect utajua maboy wanajua kushow true love..dont bring him down you will be delaying his success and breakthrough pea boy wako love......hii haijanibamba
Nina's attitude weeeeeeh . Ukiendelea hivo nikubaya
Yeah...I feel Nina you have not been submissive coz mesh always feels so on your vlogs and learn to apologize well and let him feel that you are remorseful. I love you guys
Nina its ok to be humble,it doesn't cost plus dnt say you dont care tumawependa sana,asking for forgiveness genuinely my dear nina..without maneno mengine
My two year old vile anawapenda its crazy😂😂he knows yours songs kaa zote. Keep winning 🤜
Design people are giving wapendwa advice to see the best of them is encouraging. You people are a city built on a hill, you have friends who value and honor marriage institution kindly learn from them. We wish you well. Nina horeria marakara
Thankyou for the advice❤️❤️
Nina My love,, When someone tells you that you've wronged them, it's important to avoid dismissing their feelings by saying, "It's not a big deal," because to them, it is significant.
so true...someone's feelings is valid
@@Fidey_Kokonya 💯
Yaah heri anakwambia makosa yak
Ninah my dear...a wise woman will build her own home but a foolish woman destroys it with her own hands...men settle where there is peace ,where they feel loved ,respected appreciated ..cage your man with soft words ,love and all that...that way you're pushing him away❤❤❤...take this from a single person..cjai oleka but i know that can help you ghurl❤
Thanks for that❤️
@@Wapendwamuzikihuyu mwanaume ni humanizer
Kwani amekosea nini
@@user-rz2jq4uy4p I don't think so..mesh kitu anataka it's just a little respect from the wife, she is also unapologetic according to what Mesh said...anafeel ninah isn't submissive enough atleast anataka kufl as the man of the house 😉...
@user-rz2jq4uy4p if you watch their videos kama ile walikua kwa dibul u will see mesh how he really appologises genuinely but nina has attitude
Marriage is to forgive each other bt nina learn to say sorry when your wrong na hiyo pepo wa kukosana all the tym ishidwe kwa njina la yesu ❤🎉🎉frm gulf
Ameen sawa
Ninah i love you gal and i love everything about you guys❤❤❤❤ please ninah make mesh feel like a man, apologize romantically, don't make him feel disrespected he might end up making wrong decisions 😢, I love you guys❤❤❤
Sawa thank you so much
I have realised that Mesh keeps telling Nina that she needs to know that he's the man of the house
Nina all that Mesh needs from you is submission.Period!
Nina ukiomba msamaha ....sema "Naomba nisamehe kwa utulivu" You guy is very humble. submission baby girl
Nina learn to apologize. If you're wrong, wacha kiburi🙏🙏. Respect your man. Usiseme ooh ni kitu ndogo. Its the small things that hurts.... Usikuwe kichwa ngumu🙏. I come in peace.... You're disrespectful. Ati "wee nisamehe tu. argh." How would you feel if your man wrongs you and I'm s not even apologetic. We love you but uko na ungaster mbaya which is a turn off😢. Humble yourself gor once.. Let me say it blue black since you showed us this side. Huonewi.....
This us how you apologize
"Beb, i did this and that, which is wrong and i realized i hurt you (holding his hands and show you mean it), I'm sorry for that and it won't happen again. Please forgive me. I don't like the way we are. Again I'm sorry " will you die ukiapologize genuinely???? Mnafanya ndoa iwe ngumu bure
Thanks for the advice
Acha ni save hii apology ndo nijifunze kuitumia 😂😂😂😂
Aki 😂❤
Weee 😂😂ata cjasoma yote
On point no matter how small it is. And don't forget to say I will work on it I will not repeat again and if you repeat apologise and continue working on it
I wish this lady knows how blessed she is to have Mesh by her side. Nina pray for God's guidance and wisdom
Despite that people have complained about your misunderstanding.nmependa vile mumesolve without anyone kujua mlikua na issues.❤i like that😊
May the lord connect me with such wonderful friends The waJesus family, i always admire them.I love you so much guys.
You are doing well guys. May God keep you together as you continue working to progress and make your marriage work. No one is perfect and everyone has his or her own weaknesses and strengths. We are work in progress. Learn each others personality(eg, sanguine, melancholy, phlegmatic, choleric). This will help you know each other well. You will learn even somethings you can't change. Some characters you will learn to live with and some allow Holy spirit to change you. Choose what to digest or vomit in these streets don't listen to some people or follow some negative comments. Attend various couples seminars. You will learn a lot. Continue fighting for your healthy marriage coz marriage is hard work.
If a counsellor's help can be sought the better and it should be soon..From your several vlogs mesh keeps saying that thing and it has not been worked on from the observation..it might be small but kumbuka mzaha mzaha hutunga usaha..wish you the best ❤❤❤
More love the Wapendwas❤❤but Nina you should learn to be surbmissive to your hubby despite the sitution that might arise in between you guys 'just try your best.we love you so much guys❤❤❤❤
Thank youu dear
The wapendwa and the wajesus are living a life that i pray for ,,i love them so much,
We love you more
Nina needs endorsements she has THE SKILL TO ADVERTISE 18:50 FOR REAL💯❤️
Ah, Nina establish a proper way of communication jameni. "Si nimesema pole na itabidi umeaccept" thats not a genuine apology.
Aki rem ile video wakiwa kwa dibul how mesh was apologising genuinely..nina ako na attitude ya kufeel she should not apologise
Aki the wajesus may God keep on blessings you ❤❤❤ we love you so much guys
Love you too❤️❤️
One is a firstborn,amezoea kuwa head n controlling ,another one is a lastborn,amezoea kubembelezwa.They need a grown up to talk to them
Nina we always love you and you being our role model couple don't expect this from you..... Always ask for forgiveness and you'll be well
Haijah i know the feeling ya kuambiwa pole ya kusema tu
Nina you can do better
Love you guys
It's the 'I DON EVEN CARE' part for me...
My dear Nina,,when you start caring it will be too late.. Learn the respect aspect please
Sometimes men heal wakiwa kwa rltnship kitaramba nina the time mesh atawalk out n itakua too late she really needs to leave ulastborn kwao ajue she's married and her work is to submit n vile huyu mwanaume anamuheshimu she needs to reciprocate the respect to him 😊
Three generation mentorship.
What a blessing from God.
Amen
Nina gal....There's a video u did without the tu nywele tuwili hapo mbele..😊😊u looked more classy,and mature...
My thoughts though,with much ❤️
Thanks
Mesh na weweweew😂😂😂hapo ulikua too much....mngejienjoy kwanza...hii sio kila siku atimes ego unaleta chini mmalizane na trip😅😅
I just subscribed to this channel courtesy of the Wajesus, and I am sad about Nina. I am sad that she is holding so much, and unfortunately it will cost her big. I am not surprised she denies her man sex, and I am not surprised it is the cause of the misunderstanding. We are many who got married virgins, and less than a month was enough to put us into action. The Wajesus have a lot of work to do on these two. I wish them well.
Mm mwanaume anipende hivo nkimkosea ill always apologize romanticaly walai
Ndiyo maana ile kiss Kwa video ya waJesus haikutoa Sauti🫢, but don't worry guys hiyo Ni hali ya ndoa mkisonga mbele.. prayers! Prayers! Prayers!
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Sarah's reaction after kuona the leg ya elephant 😂🤣🔥
Alot of people have advised Nina so l guess she should plz take it to practice to save her marriage
Yes I'm sure she is taking notes👌👌👌.
The wajeuss are definitely the best friends someone could ask for. May God bless them and you even more..waiting to see it❤
Ameeen
Can you be my besties 😅
Yaani mko such a beautiful place na your beb but mmekosana....weeh what a loss
But both of you need to grow up and lower your ego,sa instead of enjoying yourself ni kujamiana tu, you are becoming a big brand so you have to learn how to solve your issues wisely.my prayers for you nikuona mkigrow higher and higher..
Okay ❤️
Aki mesh ametaja hii .........,am the man of the house,i need to have control.........kwa video mob.kairetu gaitu,skiza izi advice utajenga boma.
aki my dear Nina learn to apologize thus not an apology
OOH Please😭😭😭I PRAY that God grows your marriage plus its sadenning to see you mad at each other and Nina please heed to the advice given by @Salvationcenter(the comment below👇)
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Aki Nina "we nisameheeni tu tumalizeni" as a couple doesn't sound good 🥺🥺🥺I felt for Mesh ...please respect your husband stop making him feel uneasy😢
Sawa
I pray for you guys that God will lead you in the way to embrace each other and respect and love one another in God's way. More blessings Wapendwa❤❤
You guyz are blessed God has connected you with blessed and mature people,dont allow the devil to interfere with your relationship plz
Waaaaahh Nina so you're like that😢
Imagine finding such a guy and you disrespect him in that manner💔💔
Ninah just learn to apologise mesh anatakatu umpee the respect he deserves as a man .....weka ego chini and rescue your marriage
Sawa❤️❤️
Io Ni issue big Kwa men bt Nina atachange tu shikilia yeye mesh for beta for worse
Wapendwa we love you but from observation I feel you guys need to sit with a therapist. Mesh keeps saying he don’t feel respected Nina feels she hasn’t done anything wrong. There’s a deep rooted conflict between you, before things escalate seek therapy guys
True cause Nina feels she's always right,,,but she needs to learn sth cause vlogs most mesh husema "Nina hayuko submissive"
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It's the growth process. Also now I pray God gives you a "best couple", in that as much as you didn't have one for your wedding, you can get a guiding/loving couple that you can talk to. I heard the Peekay's speak on this. Some of these are things you walk with people who are practically ahead of you @@Wapendwamuziki
I agree with you...Nina always be humble to your husband no matter how small the mistake,accept your mistake and reconcile .no one is perfect
I support you on this, I have followed then for a very long time,I really love there content and they inspire me alot,nina you have been in that space of being alone doing things alone, sometimes before saying NO kindly can you listen to him and Mesh maybe the way you approach her at that moment she might not be in that frame of mind maybe try a different approach and all in all visit a therapist will really help you much
Nina show that wonderful guy some respect. Make him feel the king and you will always be the default Queen
Nina surely , dont take advantage of your husband, i heard him saying that akikosea he even kneel down
Mesh pole sana,on behalf of Nina I appologize....msamehee plz,she'll learn and do better next time.Pole sana for the rudeness and hurting your feelings❤❤❤❤...Nina nyuma ya tent tafadhali❤❤❤❤
Yeah it is the small small things that really matters .for example a big tree one time it was very small but it was left to grow and it becomes very big the some case to those small small issues when left to grow unsolved they become big issues.check on that guys.your respect nina only mesh can rate it coz ur doing it to him and when a man does not feel respected that's a big problem.
True❤️
I love you guys and the consistency as well.
Halafu kwani wee Mesh hukosewa throughout. You. There's also a way to correct in love. Nobarry cares what you know until they know how much you care. Even as the head and leader, remember love that covers a multitude of sins if not fatal. You also need to develop patience as early as now to have patience required to handle tubabies na ukijua God may surprise you with twins or more. May God guide you on this journey and go before you. Nawapenda Wapendwa ❤❤❤❤
We love you too❤
Mesh that's not the way to behave hata ukikosewaje... Not out there. Please please. With love.😢😢 I feel like you didn't have to torture Ninah that much. Ndoa aki you love sacrificially.
Akikatia mwingine utajua umepoteza kweli.....ka mummy
Shindwe
Shindwe Nini it's true Nina you are too much of yourself,,be humble and respect your husband,,,siku ataboeka hutawai amini
@@lincutekamau9625but do you know between nina and mesh who has typed""shindwe"""tulieni guys
Baby girl avoid using words like "pole basi." Ama sorry then. This does not show remorse,it shows your jus saying it to end the argument or the conflict. Instead say am really sorry . I apologies. I didn't mean to cause you pain. And let him feel the apology. Dont click after an apology it waters it down..❤❤ i love you nina. Forever team nina ata tukiwa on the wrong. Mesh uache kukua mhash be gentle stop demanding respect lead by example what you give you shall receive.
Okay dear thank you
Mesh pole Sana of behalf of Nina.Just work on yourself guyz. Marriage works
Ameen
The first three months i had problems in my marriage,apologizing was a big deal. Mimi nilikua na kiburi pro max na kusema let's end this marriage😂so one day my man sat down with me,we talked the whole night until we came to a conclusion,honestly i was the trouble😂😂😂i made a decision of changing everything. Let's say i transitioned to be a good wife so whatever going in your lives Nina sort it now dear,it takes time😊now I'm so proud of myself the woman I'm.
True better change early than late
I feel you mimi here wishing watu wanaeza skia ivi coz a month ago that almost cost my marriage wueee I'm glad we are reviving it I changed
Pride comes before a fall. We don’t wish that for you guys. We love you much. Humility goes a long way.
Hatujakuelewa
Be humble and respect your husband.
May God continue to bless you wapendwa more blessing wa Jesus family ❤❤ waiting 🤗
Ameeen
Wapendwa, We love you. Keep soaring higher. So did anyone else notice that they share true love?
Am not ready to loose you guys ninah mesh is a very nice guy respect him at all cost and he will respect you too submit to him gaal
But i think pia mesh needs to understand her wife.... Sio kila kitu unajam...
@@marytiti2747 true,,kwanza last borns tunakuanga ivo
Toxicity at its best.. men learn kuoa mtu umekatia..
Otherwise Nina feels like she's the man in this relationship
you have a very unique way of advertising. si venye Mesh alikuwa amekasirishwa but it was a way of advertising on the way couples should come to this place sundowners for reconciliation. kudos
Aaawe thank youu ❤️❤️
The moment I have been waiting fooorrrr❤❤😂😂wamekiss!!!!who else is happy?
😂😂😂aki wewe
Mimi hapa😂
Me 2
Nina humble yourself mama kwa your hubby Kuna watu uku inje wanatamani Ata kupendwa ivo but all in all mob love wapendwa❤
Sawa❤️❤️
My loves ❤i love this phase for you,, you are enjoying the fruits of dedication and the years of service without getting all these privilleges 🥂🥂and now cheers to happiness and abundance and cheers to this kind of Godgiven friendship
Ameeeen
...my favourite couple forever..but Nina thus not how you ask for forgiveness aki...❤❤ nawapenda
Let's appreciate that they're showing their good and bad.... something most social media couples don't. I believe with the Wajesus being their mentors watakuwa Sawa 😀
you are right
Ninah if you love your husband, you should care. You better drop that don't care attitude and ego. You shouldn't have continued to shoot content as if nothing had happened. Apologizing doesn't hurt at all. It only makes your marriage stronger. Assuming and sweeping things under the carpet is not a good idea. You should sit down and talk. Again, apologising and then tell mesh "unanichokesha' is not good at all. Hata aki respond vibaya, funga maskio.
Secondly, avoid washing your dirty linens in public. The public doesn't owe you anything. Learn to solve your issues privately.
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Nina u need to be humble and submit to your hubby. Make him feel in control
Team Mesh all the way
love it. NINA IS SO BEAUTIFUL WITHOUT MAKE UP🥰🥰🥰💖💖💝💝💝
Mesh wewe nawewe achana na this 'im the man of the house and need to be in control attitude" that will kill your marriage. Understand your wife is not the tu weak gals to be controlled, she is a strong gal and you should be proud of her. Just treat her as an equal and all will be well. Then learn to communicate both of you, mmoja akikosea mwingine apologize and forgive and forget 🤗 Its not good for a man to be childish honesly. Nina anasema sorry bado unasema si enough aiii. Weuh. Hata mkikoseana dont show it on camera aki, deal with it privately. Just enjoy holiday bila kujamiana you can even ignore ulikosewa 🤗
Respect your husband mamaa
It doesn't matter if what you did is big or small,,makosa ni makosa and if your hubby opens up and tells you umemkosea, it's so important kunyenyekea na kumuomba msamaha the right way and if it's possible;behind cameras.. Respect is key to men,,you don't even need to tell them you love them,, respect and submission, bass
Otherwise nawapenda guys,,keep on doing what your doing...chao❤
aki Mesh bona unajamia ninah una fanya video ina kuwa mbaya kai kumbe uki kasirika una kuanga hivyo sikuwa najuwa nime jua leo but msamehane maisha iendele still have faith in God everything is okay
AM HAPPY FOR YOU BABES....GOD KEEP YOU AND SHIELD YOU. AND GIVE YOU WISDOM TO LIVE MARRIED. THERE IS SO MUCH TO LEARN, ENJOY AND SOMETIMES UPS AND DOWNS. MSIJALI THE SMALL SMALL ISSUES WILL FADE SWAY. NINA DONT FEEL JUDGED. YOU ARE A HEROINE. CONGRATULATIONS FOR DOING 3 YEARS IN MARRIAGE. YOU WILL DO MANY MORE❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Kind reminder,they say if you don't takè care of your hubby someone else will ,Nina i believe you are still learning each other thought
Miimi sutawabebeleza, right now you're married, try and not hurt each other every time, na mukifika huko ma 6yrs, mko na kids, munataka vyombo zifly kwa nyumba, hebu respect each other na love iflow, behind the camera pengine ni kubaya... Take care guys, na pia take care not always pranks, pranks zingine you can ruin yourselves, you're good together, wekeni love vibes and solve issues amicably, online inlaws are watching, pray alot for your marriage, shetani ni kama hafurahi na ashindwe... Amen
Aki i feel so bad to see Mesh sad and mad....please Nina ...try and do something about this
Me too
Mesh anataka pole inakaa aje😂😂😂heeeh siume apologize sana mamaa,so mesh anataka apigiwe magoti😮Mesh hapo ukona makosa you really escalated this
Akii aargh
God be with you always nice family
Happy for you guys hope one day nitafika place mmefika
Mesh deserves better... He's too good for this kiburi woman
please delete dear Liz.., these are people that have allowed us into their space. Lets not call them names. I am sure our girl got issues like everyone of us ataoutgrow tu vitu zenye si Christlike.. just like you and me.
@@Shanice-K Veeery true ❤❤❤
Kiburi Woman tena💔💔💔😭😭😭 huyu mrembo mmempea majina i think it's enough wooyeee.......
What they are going through is normal for young marriage. They are still trying to adjust so they will be fine. It's just because their lives are out here for all of us to see .
I always enjoy watching your videos guys , I have seen people on instagram post you had with Size 8 and DjMo that you need counselling or a therapist,
My advice to you guys is that it takes only you and Mhesh to work on your Marriage ask God to help you he is the best Marriage therapist he will take you through , just take it one day at time in prayer 🙏
Their lucky part is that they are hanging up with the right people.... Kabi and Milly can make good therapists for them.
Tuko ndani, so amazing I love you🥰🥰🥰🥰
Love you too❤️❤️
@@Wapendwamuziki thanks 😊
that elephant is good
love ❤
But I think I like that you are being real, not pretending its all roses and flowers .... though people may critic, and you may have people attack you but you are being real. Anyway, we will see your growth.
Ninah, mtu husema sorry sikusema hivyo ndio tutafanya😂😂😂.
Apologizing is always work for ladies😂.
It's a journey of meshing two lives, personalities and the crashes will happen here and there. All the best, as long as you make a decision there's no exit door, that you will work out everything together and are on the same team, not competing...fight issues not yourselves.
Pole weak, you apologize and still make some not nice comments along with your sorry. Class ya ku-apologize we need it as ladies😂😂😂
Thankyou for that❤️
Hii marriage ikiendelea hivi itabreak tu kimechezo. Mesh doesn't feel heard, loved and respected by you Nina. The entire comment sectionbos speaking the same thing. Hatutashtuka if anything…
Nice ending 😅ata tumesahau makosa ya Nina Bora tu asirudie Tena😂wow huu mwaka I must take my bae uku with bonfire Amen ❤❤
Ameen thank youu
I love you guys when you are happy stop annoying each other😢😊😊😊😊
Sawa dear❤️
😅😅😅😂😂😂😂 uweeer aki woiye kamesh aki nmecheka at the same time kulia nimehurumia mesh khaiii,Mimi I had this man the respect and love ningemuonyesha Wacha tu better watch out before I get him all for myself
Mbona unanyimananga hio kitu hujui hio ndio huwa inasolve disagreements sometimes na inastrengthen marriage,but above all respect your husband allow him to be the head
Nina my dear,,,,is not good for Mesh akishinda kudai kuwa ni man of the house coz ha'feal kama anapata hyo vibe from you, make him feel it. And then it's ok kukoseana but how u gonna deal with it matters, just learn to say I'm sorry beib with some softness,,,,,,msamaha haulazimishwi ila unaombwa as much as is a must to forgive for us christians but we always ask for forgiveness.
So bby grl, I lov u and I wish to see u guys flourishing together and forever......but it won't come naturally, u have to be intentional with everything.
Read Proverb/ Mithali 15:1
Ninah Respect your husband aki
Mko 2 years n still hii ufala ya who is in control iko ndani yenu being humble costs nothing guys