forgiveness doesn't say what they did is okay. It is freeing yourself and obeying GOd. Also, that we realize how much we have been forgiven is so much bigger than anything that can be done to us.
People, so rarely ask for forgiveness, even when they are completely wrong.Forgive anyway,but don't hang out with people,who are going to do you wrong again.The cycle will continue.
This message is so true. I was finally able to forgive my ex-husband a few weeks ago and honestly I cried. I started to cry before I opened my mouth to him. My tears weren't out of sadness, they were tears of JOY! I was finally able to let go of all the pain and betrayal he caused me. The weight that was lifted off of me at that moment was indescribable. If you can lay down all the bad before the Lord he'll take it all away and restore you. Truly an amazing experience. God Bless everyone!!
How were you able to do it? I understand what she says, and agree, but HOW? Is it just because you say the words... or because of a feeling? I don't know.
The hardest challenge in life is to forgive those who show no mercy, no compassion or no sympathy towards us. At least it is for me. Then I hear the Holy Spirit calmly say, “I forgave you. How can you not give what’s been given to you?”
Along my journey, I found 2types of forgiveness 1. Drop everything and move on with that person for humankind 2. Drop everything and move on with yourself for yourself
Forgiving others does in fact free you! I believe that this is also a reason why God wants us to be forgiving people. God does not want His people to be bonded down with hurt and pain. He wants us to be free. FREE IN HIM. This is an awesome word that I will share to others!!! Keep on forgiving :)
I personally had a tough time with this being a victim of crime , but God showed me the truth of how I need to deal with it yourhonesty and transparency ,is amazing thanks sis amen
Always forgive, no matter how hard it seems to be, remeber Satan is the one who harmed you in the first place, not that person. So show forgivness, then the Lord will show his forgivness eventough u have wronged him in a lot of different ways. Amen.
I struggle when someone offends me and I tend to ignore the person whose done it but this just opened up my heart and now I’m receptive and mature enough to understand that I need to forgive for my salvation. Thanks for this video!
Amen! This is a blessed word. I asked the Lord to help me to forgive and move forward in God. Lord help us to let go of the hurt, to forgive, and to love in Jesus name. Amen.
“Forgiveness is not excusing the behavior but forgiveness is freeing yourself from your pain of the behavior. Frees you from the bondage that the enemy wants to keep you in from the behavior.” Don’t give the enemy permission to deprive you of your peace and happiness. Everything about that makes so much sense. Forgive, not because they deserve it, but because YOU deserve peace.
This really hits home for me because I have family members who have basically abandoned me and think that's perfectly fine. They don't care how much it hurts. Thank you for sharing, Ally! You help so many people by talking about forgiveness.
Forgiving people is part of loving people,believe me,recently I heard the Holy Spirit say you can't hate people and love God.The holiness of God is so high,yet He wants Christian to be like that,only through the power of the HolySpirit can this be done,but I only speak,believe me I struggle to even walk in the Spirit!!!
Thank you for being real sister. It is only words if there are not actions. Words fall like chat. I genuinely forgave two brothers of mine that wronged me and I saw the Lord's hand come down on them very very severely. I can embrace them, treat them with love and they in return, are cordial and that's it. I have learned when people are not remorseful for their wrong doing, and show a lot of Pride and continue in that way, I Shake the Dust from my sandals and move on. I do my best to remember it is not my place to judge them. God will deal with them. Not my dime. Thanks again. PS - I am older so that came with a lot of years of practice.
I was inappropriately touched by a family member and I held on to that hurt, anger, hate, and rage for a year. It’s hard but I have forgiven him. I thought forgiving him meant I accepted it but that’s not true. Forgiveness set me free from bondage. His actions were and are his problem, not mines! It does not define me!🙏🏼
I’m 1 year Christian now and your videos have helped me a lot.. Thank you Ally and thanks God your words popped up in my TH-cam a while a go. I get help now from a pastor 1 on 1 and he make notes from your videos to so we can talk about the message in it. So thankful I can learn to be set free.
Ally, i finally forgave a man that wronged me. he disrespected me multiple times and is unapologetic. this weekend i went to god and forgave him and prayed for him. i sleep better and a huge weight has lifted. thk u
Still finding it hard to forgive those kind of people. Especially when they get away with being cruel on a daily basis. I wish Jesus would flash a light in their eyes like he did Paul. And let them know that their Karma is up.
Wow Ally! This is right ON TIME..just had a recent situation and everyone was telling me to "love" and "forgive"..I was thinking why does that person get the easy end and I have to do something..but thank God for allowing you to explain it in this way!!! God bless you sister 💙
Amen!!! Praise God!!! I ask you pray for my husband and pray he forgives his dad for things that happened as a child. Also I pray for his dad also for blaming him. So I just basically ask you to pray that my husband and his dads relationship is restored in Jesus name!!! Amen!!! I know it may seem impossible but I know with God anything is possible🙏❤🙏❤🙏 ive told my husband many times the forgiveness is for you...and it is amazing! Please pray it would be a miracle!!! Thank you and God Bless you!!!
Girl.. not only are you beautiful.. on the outside.. but most beautiful.. in the inside!... because you truly walk with our Lord and Savior!.. God Bless you honey!... please.. keep spreading the love of God!
My sister and brother disrespect and ignore me. I forgive them even if they aren't asking for it. I will not allow their toxicity near me or my sons. Family is determined more by behavior than by blood✌🏼
we serve a God of love. His love is unfailing no matter what you do. stay Faithful and encouraged. DONT SETTLE. i love you guys & im always Praying for you! 💛
When it has been hard for me to forgive I remember the parable of the 2 debtors. I I think that noone ever has offended me more than I have offended god.
Exactly what i needed right now, thank you for the relief, now im free from all the pain, i was the one who said sorry even if he wronged me and he isnt showing any care at all, God bless you.
I understand girlfriend! I am feisty and it is difficult to forgive abusive Christians. I am very willing to forgive and actually melt in my heart with forgiveness when others say they are sorry. Grace overflows because I feel their motivation is repentance. It's Christians that continually use and abuse you in the church-steal, or destroys others. I do want to make a statement about pastors who preach and teach on forgiveness than repentance. For some reason, I find the culture of the American church pushing forgiveness but reluctant to teach on repentance. I have had pastors come up to me with the offender to say I need to learn forgiveness and the offender stands right there and points there finger with indignation that yes, you are not a Christian because you need to forgive me! They do not know whether or not I have forgiven them in my heart. In all the audacity, why are pastors in this culture NOT teaching more about personal responsibility, owning up to our wrongs and having a more humble repentant heart? I have done personal forgiveness for my own sake between me and the Lord but, I will not be continually abused by offenders who are protected by pastors without understanding true repentance begins in the heart of those wanting forgiveness? The Word of God states that if we truly are repenting, we will first go to the person we wronged and make amends and then, set your prayers and gifts at the alter. We need to get back to Biblical principles of God's word in preaching and teaching. Now, I just want to make note, I'm NOT talking about non-believers. That is understood. I am referring to people who are supposed to be our own brothers and sisters in Christ that are abusing the kindness of others. It is possible to have forgiveness in our hearts and then stay away from abusers in the church no matter what the abuse!!!
Of course I have never met you. Yet I share your videos on Facebook or with female friends. Today I had a female friend that was upset really really bad. And me not being a female I was sometimes not able to give her instruction on how to handle her dilemma. As far as matters close to the heart. However as soon as we hung up I got on TH-cam and there this video was. So before I even listen to it I sent it out on Facebook. To my friend and several others that are female friends. Because I'm confident in my heart and mind that the Lord God has ordains you to be a minister too women. And of course teenage girls. Anyway I didn't come here to toot my horn about sharing your videos. I came here to say thank you for standing up for the kingdom of God and taking your time to minister to so many women and me. I'm sure that I'm not the only guy that listens to your words of wisdom from the Bible. Thank you so much for being so transparent. To me transparency is what God is talking about when he says to lay your life down for one another. You could be all preachy and holier-than-thou yet you remain humble. Humble teacher good teacher
The Lord has shown me that forgiveness is an act of obedience not a feeling. Pray sincerely to forgive and the Lord then enables the actual forgiveness. Totally liberating, praise Jesus :)
I love your transparency and honesty Some struggles seem to be more acceptable than others. Forgiveness is necessary in our faith. In the same way as fidelity in a marriage. Forgiving your spouse for adultery needs to be addressed as well.
I needed this. Thank you. I am working on this right now with learning to forgive . I’m realizing now forgiveness is making myself free from everything .
It took me 4 years to forgive an ex and close friend ones and denial and the other won't appoligize, and the wounds are deep and I still struggle with this.
People who don't ever forgive and forget the past develop severe emotional baggage such as severe depression and some even end up schizophrenic. You end up living a life of misery and bondage. I once heard someone say : non forgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping the person who did you wrong feels the effect.
I agree with this massage, we have to forgive and forget But the is ather people they can't sleep at night without hurting you Without hurting you they lie aweke! But when you pray, pray for them also and keep forgive and forget 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Forgiving is not always best for certain crimes. God has the power and he will judge all . I agree alot of times its hard because we are not as pure and loving as god. Forgiveness is easy with people that are repentant and realize it was wrong. By forgiving people that are not repentant you support their actions.why does god give us 10 commandments?
I used to forgive easily and freely, but what I learned is, frequently, that you should forgive but can not allow many people back into your life. They don't think the way I do. That's why they hurt me in the first place. They don't appreciate forgiveness and see it as a sign of weakness. They feel you must need them and believe they are more important. They were right in mistreating you in getting you to come back to regain their acceptance. I've encountered this in many people, including my narcissistic mother repeated this behavior over and over. I thought I was being a good daughter and Christian by forgiving, overlooking, and rising above her selfishness and cruelty. After having a stroke and saw that she had no empathy or compassion for me and refused to offer any help, and only blamed me, I learned to walk away from her. I forgive her but only from afar. Like Jesus did with the Roman soldiers who put him to death. If a person keeps stealing from your home. You can forgive them, but just don't let them back into your house.
Thank You Ally for the confidence, He is here, He likes you commitment. Blessed be your Heart and soul. Thank you, you will see soon. Sholam Preciously You.
Thank you so much for your testimony and Thank you Lord for Him working through you to deliver this message because I know I needed to hear this 🙏🏼 God bless you for sharing 🙏🏼
Forgiving child preditors and making sure they are prosecuted go hand in hand. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgive and knowingly ignore sexual abuse. It means forgive them for what they did to you or your child, and aid in the cases they continue to hurt more of our little ones. Forgiveness doesn't mean let abuse happen and continue. It means help it not happen again by proceeding with legal obligations to ensure these preditors are punished legally, as well as forgiven spiritually. The victims of crimes are not the only ones who need to forgive. It is also the preditors forgiving themselves and asking God for forgiveness. We are so hard on the victims of crimes to forgive, but we need to be just as hard on the preditors. This is important even more🙏
Hello Ally, thanks for keeping it 100%. We all struggle with this one. This message spoke to me too. Every word ive been so misunderstood. Taken Advantage of and used, wronged. Im slowly ak8ng the heavenly father to help me daily. To be free from past hurts...and judgements. So thanks again..GBY.
2020 and I found this video. I am not sure if I was watching you then or commented. This was on time for me. I struggle with this very thing so thank you for your transparency.
Wow, it was like a light went on, this is so true!! You explained this better than some of my friends have done but yet, I just didn't get it or in other words, the light didn't come on... Thank you so much Allyson God bless you as well!!
Thanks for sharing only forgive people who deserve it. Those meant to harm you do not forgive them unless they apology to you or change their attitude. They are weak. There's something about you that makes them irritated. Always forgive parents elderly those who done favour for you.if you forgive , God will compensate you and elevate you over them.God bless you
Thank you! I have a hard time as well. I'm hurt more than anything. Even family who've wronged me. I'm working on it but it's hard. I feel like she said, if I let it continue, I'm showing them they can continue to wronged me. I've always been a ppl pleaser, but I don't was by to be taking advantage of.
So good! Seriously, I've heard segments of this spoken before but they way you put everything together - perfect. Came at a perfect time too. Thank you
A very beautiful, necessary and eye opening message, clarifying something of tremendous importance, that I couldn't find elsewhere with so much clarity and power and with the connotation and grace it deserves and that comes with it ! Thank you so much and be always blessed!
This was me for a while and still is to some extent... ever since I've grown up my Mom has become very controlling, and she could be very mean to me before I got married. Ever since my Dad passed, our Relationship has become better, but she hasn't said sorry to me for anything. It still hurts to this day. I haven't been able to fully forgive her yet, despite God's sacrifice. Pray for me. ❤
Thank you so much for this and you know what right now I’m going through something and it’s been 5 years now I’m finally let it go and forgive that person so much close to my heart That person still trying to ruin my life and always destroy my heart and still trying to find a ways to destroy me but I’m a child of god and I know that person can’t harm me in anyway so few years ago I started to forgive her And I’m so happy that I can do that and still knowing she is trying to destroy me Your words lot to me and god bless you and keep spread good words to the world Thank you and god bless you!
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Forgiving people who are not sorry is painful. Thank you.
Yes painful, but necessary.
Very painful when their apology is always followed by the same actions of wrong doing again and again.
Yes it is!
forgiveness doesn't say what they did is okay. It is freeing yourself and obeying GOd. Also, that we realize how much we have been forgiven is so much bigger than anything that can be done to us.
but yes it is hard. you need Gods help and power.
People, so rarely ask for forgiveness, even when they are completely wrong.Forgive anyway,but don't hang out with people,who are going to do you wrong again.The cycle will continue.
This message is so true. I was finally able to forgive my ex-husband a few weeks ago and honestly I cried. I started to cry before I opened my mouth to him. My tears weren't out of sadness, they were tears of JOY! I was finally able to let go of all the pain and betrayal he caused me. The weight that was lifted off of me at that moment was indescribable. If you can lay down all the bad before the Lord he'll take it all away and restore you. Truly an amazing experience. God Bless everyone!!
Laura Wright Lol Yass!
Thank God, he gave you this. He is amazing
How were you able to do it? I understand what she says, and agree, but HOW? Is it just because you say the words... or because of a feeling? I don't know.
How? My fiancée ran off w a seductress?
@@tyh8464 haha, I need to no 2
The hardest challenge in life is to forgive those who show no mercy, no compassion or no sympathy towards us. At least it is for me. Then I hear the Holy Spirit calmly say, “I forgave you. How can you not give what’s been given to you?”
Along my journey, I found 2types of forgiveness
1. Drop everything and move on with that person for humankind
2. Drop everything and move on with yourself for yourself
Well written 😄🙌🏻💓✝️
To forgive is actually a medicine!
I forgive even when my flesh is totally fighting against it! Forgiveness is a decision. Great message, Ally!
When we forgive, something happens in the spirit realm for our good. Serpents go back under your feet where they belong.
Forgiving others does in fact free you! I believe that this is also a reason why God wants us to be forgiving people. God does not want His people to be bonded down with hurt and pain. He wants us to be free. FREE IN HIM. This is an awesome word that I will share to others!!! Keep on forgiving :)
I personally had a tough time with this being a victim of crime , but God showed me the truth of how I need to deal with it yourhonesty and transparency ,is amazing thanks sis amen
Always forgive, no matter how hard it seems to be, remeber Satan is the one who harmed you in the first place, not that person. So show forgivness, then the Lord will show his forgivness eventough u have wronged him in a lot of different ways. Amen.
Forgiveness vs. reconciliation. Big difference.
I struggle when someone offends me and I tend to ignore the person whose done it but this just opened up my heart and now I’m receptive and mature enough to understand that I need to forgive for my salvation. Thanks for this video!
Amen! This is a blessed word. I asked the Lord to help me to forgive and move forward in God. Lord help us to let go of the hurt, to forgive, and to love in Jesus name. Amen.
Most of the time it's not the enemy but it's the people you love.
😭😭😭 yes, it so hard indeed! Especially to forgive the man that have hurt your feelings, who give you fake love, fake hopes...
“Forgiveness is not excusing the behavior but forgiveness is freeing yourself from your pain of the behavior. Frees you from the bondage that the enemy wants to keep you in from the behavior.” Don’t give the enemy permission to deprive you of your peace and happiness. Everything about that makes so much sense. Forgive, not because they deserve it, but because YOU deserve peace.
This really hits home for me because I have family members who have basically abandoned me and think that's perfectly fine. They don't care how much it hurts. Thank you for sharing, Ally! You help so many people by talking about forgiveness.
Forgiving people is part of loving people,believe me,recently I heard the Holy Spirit say you can't hate people and love God.The holiness of God is so high,yet He wants Christian to be like that,only through the power of the HolySpirit can this be done,but I only speak,believe me I struggle to even walk in the Spirit!!!
Thank you for being real sister. It is only words if there are not actions. Words fall like chat. I genuinely forgave two brothers of mine that wronged me and I saw the Lord's hand come down on them very very severely. I can embrace them, treat them with love and they in return, are cordial and that's it. I have learned when people are not remorseful for their wrong doing, and show a lot of Pride and continue in that way, I Shake the Dust from my sandals and move on. I do my best to remember it is not my place to judge them. God will deal with them. Not my dime. Thanks again. PS - I am older so that came with a lot of years of practice.
I was inappropriately touched by a family member and I held on to that hurt, anger, hate, and rage for a year. It’s hard but I have forgiven him. I thought forgiving him meant I accepted it but that’s not true. Forgiveness set me free from bondage. His actions were and are his problem, not mines! It does not define me!🙏🏼
I’m 1 year Christian now and your videos have helped me a lot.. Thank you Ally and thanks God your words popped up in my TH-cam a while a go. I get help now from a pastor 1 on 1 and he make notes from your videos to so we can talk about the message in it. So thankful I can learn to be set free.
Ally, i finally forgave a man that wronged me. he disrespected me multiple times and is unapologetic. this weekend i went to god and forgave him and prayed for him. i sleep better and a huge weight has lifted. thk u
Still finding it hard to forgive those kind of people. Especially when they get away with being cruel on a daily basis. I wish Jesus would flash a light in their eyes like he did Paul. And let them know that their Karma is up.
Wow Ally! This is right ON TIME..just had a recent situation and everyone was telling me to "love" and "forgive"..I was thinking why does that person get the easy end and I have to do something..but thank God for allowing you to explain it in this way!!! God bless you sister 💙
NaturallyGorg85 your pretty n smart keep truth fuck the eminey we ain't scared
God will handle them. Do your part. Have a great day and great week
Amen!!! Praise God!!! I ask you pray for my husband and pray he forgives his dad for things that happened as a child. Also I pray for his dad also for blaming him. So I just basically ask you to pray that my husband and his dads relationship is restored in Jesus name!!! Amen!!! I know it may seem impossible but I know with God anything is possible🙏❤🙏❤🙏 ive told my husband many times the forgiveness is for you...and it is amazing! Please pray it would be a miracle!!! Thank you and God Bless you!!!
Young woman the Holy Spirit has spoken thru you to an old man's heart ! I needed this badly . I pray God's peace and blessing be your's .
i could relate. but to receive your entire blessing from god, just release it.
In the mighty name of Jesus!!!
Thank you you for your genuine heart!
Forgiveness is very powerful indeed. Amen sister.
Still struggling with forgiveness as well. Praying to get over past hurts.
Also we must work real hard to forgive ourselves.
Girl.. not only are you beautiful.. on the outside.. but most beautiful.. in the inside!... because you truly walk with our Lord and Savior!.. God Bless you honey!... please.. keep spreading the love of God!
Thank you!!!
It’s so true..
Love is kind and not rude!!
Asking our Heavenly Father to help me to forgive!!!
To create a forgiving spirit!!!
🙌🏽God I forgive 🙌🏽
The message you gave for forgiveness was just as beautiful as you are
My sister and brother disrespect and ignore me. I forgive them even if they aren't asking for it. I will not allow their toxicity near me or my sons. Family is determined more by behavior than by blood✌🏼
we serve a God of love. His love is unfailing no matter what you do. stay Faithful and encouraged. DONT SETTLE. i love you guys & im always Praying for you! 💛
When it has been hard for me to forgive I remember the parable of the 2 debtors. I I think that noone ever has offended me more than I have offended god.
Hadn't thought of it like that, thank you ❤
Exactly what i needed right now, thank you for the relief, now im free from all the pain, i was the one who said sorry even if he wronged me and he isnt showing any care at all, God bless you.
I understand girlfriend! I am feisty and it is difficult to forgive abusive Christians. I am very willing to forgive and actually melt in my heart with forgiveness when others say they are sorry. Grace overflows because I feel their motivation is repentance. It's Christians that continually use and abuse you in the church-steal, or destroys others. I do want to make a statement about pastors who preach and teach on forgiveness than repentance. For some reason, I find the culture of the American church pushing forgiveness but reluctant to teach on repentance. I have had pastors come up to me with the offender to say I need to learn forgiveness and the offender stands right there and points there finger with indignation that yes, you are not a Christian because you need to forgive me! They do not know whether or not I have forgiven them in my heart. In all the audacity, why are pastors in this culture NOT teaching more about personal responsibility, owning up to our wrongs and having a more humble repentant heart? I have done personal forgiveness for my own sake between me and the Lord but, I will not be continually abused by offenders who are protected by pastors without understanding true repentance begins in the heart of those wanting forgiveness? The Word of God states that if we truly are repenting, we will first go to the person we wronged and make amends and then, set your prayers and gifts at the alter. We need to get back to Biblical principles of God's word in preaching and teaching. Now, I just want to make note, I'm NOT talking about non-believers. That is understood. I am referring to people who are supposed to be our own brothers and sisters in Christ that are abusing the kindness of others. It is possible to have forgiveness in our hearts and then stay away from abusers in the church no matter what the abuse!!!
Judi Snyder Thank you for sharing this comment, I can certainly identify in what you said. ..and needed to read this. God bless you sister ❤️
As the Lord's prayer says; "Forgive us our tresspasses as we forgive those who trespass against us."
Forgiveness is really a hard thing especially when you love the person otherwise i can forgive the person very easily.
Of course I have never met you. Yet I share your videos on Facebook or with female friends. Today I had a female friend that was upset really really bad. And me not being a female I was sometimes not able to give her instruction on how to handle her dilemma. As far as matters close to the heart. However as soon as we hung up I got on TH-cam and there this video was. So before I even listen to it I sent it out on Facebook. To my friend and several others that are female friends. Because I'm confident in my heart and mind that the Lord God has ordains you to be a minister too women. And of course teenage girls. Anyway I didn't come here to toot my horn about sharing your videos. I came here to say thank you for standing up for the kingdom of God and taking your time to minister to so many women and me. I'm sure that I'm not the only guy that listens to your words of wisdom from the Bible. Thank you so much for being so transparent. To me transparency is what God is talking about when he says to lay your life down for one another. You could be all preachy and holier-than-thou yet you remain humble. Humble teacher good teacher
I've been praying to understand why I could let go and forgive. You nailed the reason why! Thank youuuuu
The Lord has shown me that forgiveness is an act of obedience not a feeling. Pray sincerely to forgive and the Lord then enables the actual forgiveness. Totally liberating, praise Jesus :)
Amen... This is so true and thank God for this word
I just need to walk away from my situation. I can forgive them. I do not care about what they do.
I love your transparency and honesty Some struggles seem to be more acceptable than others. Forgiveness is necessary in our faith. In the same way as fidelity in a marriage. Forgiving your spouse for adultery needs to be addressed as well.
I needed this. Thank you. I am working on this right now with learning to forgive . I’m realizing now forgiveness is making myself free from everything .
Amen. Best & Blessings.
I just want to be free from this pain that I feel everytime I think about the things that hurt me. Thank you for this allie.
Specially if it is your spouse or family, christians, and full of knowledge. God bless you.
Amen Sister, may God keep blessing you!!
I needed this wow I'm almost in tears 🙏😢
Omg thank you for sharing God's word 🙌
It took me 4 years to forgive an ex and close friend ones and denial and the other won't appoligize, and the wounds are deep and I still struggle with this.
People who don't ever forgive and forget the past develop severe emotional baggage such as severe depression and some even end up schizophrenic. You end up living a life of misery and bondage. I once heard someone say : non forgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping the person who did you wrong feels the effect.
Jesus, forgives. So should we. 🙏❤
Renounce and rebuke the spirit of unforgiveness in Jesus name.
Big Amen🔥🕊🔥
On a role with these videos girl ! I appreciate you !
I agree with this massage, we have to forgive and forget
But the is ather people they can't sleep at night without hurting you
Without hurting you they lie aweke!
But when you pray, pray for them also and keep forgive and forget 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Forgiving is not always best for certain crimes. God has the power and he will judge all . I agree alot of times its hard because we are not as pure and loving as god. Forgiveness is easy with people that are repentant and realize it was wrong. By forgiving people that are not repentant you support their actions.why does god give us 10 commandments?
THANK you so much Allyson. Be blessed in JESUS Mighty Name. From Ivory coast
Struggling w/ forgiving a hater.
We are to forgive as God forgives us. It is feeling to forgive ....I'm still learning this same lesson.
I used to forgive easily and freely, but what I learned is, frequently, that you should forgive but can not allow many people back into your life. They don't think the way I do. That's why they hurt me in the first place. They don't appreciate forgiveness and see it as a sign of weakness. They feel you must need them and believe they are more important. They were right in mistreating you in getting you to come back to regain their acceptance. I've encountered this in many people, including my narcissistic mother repeated this behavior over and over. I thought I was being a good daughter and Christian by forgiving, overlooking, and rising above her selfishness and cruelty. After having a stroke and saw that she had no empathy or compassion for me and refused to offer any help, and only blamed me, I learned to walk away from her. I forgive her but only from afar. Like Jesus did with the Roman soldiers who put him to death. If a person keeps stealing from your home. You can forgive them, but just don't let them back into your house.
Thank You Ally for the confidence, He is here, He likes you commitment. Blessed be your Heart and soul. Thank you, you will see soon. Sholam Preciously You.
Thank you so much for your testimony and Thank you Lord for Him working through you to deliver this message because I know I needed to hear this 🙏🏼 God bless you for sharing 🙏🏼
Forgiving child preditors and making sure they are prosecuted go hand in hand. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgive and knowingly ignore sexual abuse. It means forgive them for what they did to you or your child, and aid in the cases they continue to hurt more of our little ones. Forgiveness doesn't mean let abuse happen and continue. It means help it not happen again by proceeding with legal obligations to ensure these preditors are punished legally, as well as forgiven spiritually. The victims of crimes are not the only ones who need to forgive. It is also the preditors forgiving themselves and asking God for forgiveness. We are so hard on the victims of crimes to forgive, but we need to be just as hard on the preditors. This is important even more🙏
Wow!!! Good stuff! It keeps you alive in joy! Really great. Thank you!!
Hello Ally, thanks for keeping it 100%. We all struggle with this one. This message spoke to me too. Every word ive been so misunderstood. Taken Advantage of and used, wronged. Im slowly ak8ng the heavenly father to help me daily. To be free from past hurts...and judgements. So thanks again..GBY.
Vanessa Gray
yes good
I struggle with the exact same thing ... thank you for posting 😎
Ally you have been a true influence in my daily life, thank you! You are such a blessing to this world.
Wow this is so true! You just don't want to feel like a push over 💙
Forgiving is not for the mind but the heart , as it works in balance with your natural vibration and energy ,
Love you more in this video than ever! I feel you and struggle here too! Thank you for sharing! Praying for you!
2020 and I found this video. I am not sure if I was watching you then or commented. This was on time for me. I struggle with this very thing so thank you for your transparency.
Wow, it was like a light went on, this is so true!! You explained this better than some of my friends have done but yet, I just didn't get it or in other words, the light didn't come on... Thank you so much Allyson God bless you as well!!
Thank you for speaking about this because it's really hard to let go of past hurts❤
“Always forgive your enemies-nothing annoys them so much.” -Oscar Wilde,
Wow!!! You are very wise beyond your young years, and beautiful. Peace and Love always.
Forgiveness is easier when you understand the bigger picture. What REALLY sealed the deal with me on Forgiveness is the Parable of the wicked servant
Yo Ally. This is so real. I loved it and I loved the title. Keep, keepin' it real. It's the only way to tell your story, lead and encourage!
Thanks for sharing only forgive people who deserve it. Those meant to harm you do not forgive them unless they apology to you or change their attitude. They are weak. There's something about you that makes them irritated. Always forgive parents elderly those who done favour for you.if you forgive , God will compensate you and elevate you over them.God bless you
Aaron Mosa Still have to forgive them, doesn't matter whether they deserve it. Just God in Christ forgave us.
Thank you! I have a hard time as well. I'm hurt more than anything. Even family who've wronged me. I'm working on it but it's hard. I feel like she said, if I let it continue, I'm showing them they can continue to wronged me. I've always been a ppl pleaser, but I don't was by to be taking advantage of.
Thank you for this timely insight. I too struggle with the same.
Sometimes it is extremely difficult to remember our battles are spiritual in nature.
Very good message about freeing ourselves and our thoughts thru forgiveness. Thank you Allyson!
So good! Seriously, I've heard segments of this spoken before but they way you put everything together - perfect. Came at a perfect time too. Thank you
I'm just listening . You're making good points on forgiveness
Thank you for being honest in your struggle! I don't think I could have taken this message from someone who wasnt.
A very beautiful, necessary and eye opening message, clarifying something of tremendous importance, that I couldn't find elsewhere with so much clarity and power and with the connotation and grace it deserves and that comes with it ! Thank you so much and be always blessed!
Forgiveness sets you free
This opened up my heart. Praise the Lord! Thanks for this Ally 💓
forgiveness can be made by making things right
Amen!
God bless you for that message
This was me for a while and still is to some extent... ever since I've grown up my Mom has become very controlling, and she could be very mean to me before I got married. Ever since my Dad passed, our Relationship has become better, but she hasn't said sorry to me for anything. It still hurts to this day. I haven't been able to fully forgive her yet, despite God's sacrifice. Pray for me. ❤
Thank you so much for this and you know what right now I’m going through something and it’s been 5 years now
I’m finally let it go and forgive that person so much close to my heart
That person still trying to ruin my life and always destroy my heart and still trying to find a ways to destroy me but I’m a child of god and I know that person can’t harm me in anyway so few years ago I started to forgive her
And I’m so happy that I can do that and still knowing she is trying to destroy me
Your words lot to me and god bless you and keep spread good words to the world
Thank you and god bless you!