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Wait did I hear her correctly 'A man can appreciate a black woman being taught how to be a mother and a single mother' 🤔🤔🤔 A man appreciates a woman who can be a wife, a mother, a good listener, and knows when to speak in certain situation.

😢 this lady hats like a man do is she actually trans

Black Americans hating in the comments as expected

If it bothers u to fix your man a sandwich don’t get married. Men are so simple.

Blame single mothers and the women that support them. 🤷🏾‍♂️

As a man - it’s not my job to teach a grown woman, what her father should have taught her. 🤷🏾‍♂️

I am African American I was raised like that not to seem promiscuous

He is not from this country he probably did not know what to order.

This is whats wrong with Black American women! they watch too much television... Ever since the black females on the show House Wives Of Atlanta were paired with fake wealthy Nigerian Men their has been a trend in the city of Atlanta where all of a sudden black women are now chasing after Nigerian Men.

She’s so dope

I'm a black father to six daughters I have no problem providing and take care of my family I take care of my wife very well the point I'm trying to make is men have no problem the traditional we have no problem providing for the family the problem is women you refuse to submit Stay in your femininity refusing to cook and clean and respect the husband as the leader of the household black average men do not get respect in the community that's the truth the only way for an average black man that provider is to go to the Philippines to go to Thailand women over there are traditional women over there have no problem staying in their femininity

Marriage is not a partnership if marriage was a partnership why is my wife not help me pay the bills why is my wife not helping you fix the car why is my wife not helping me unload the truck for wood why isn't my job as a black man who provides for why is that why isn't my job to go out in the woods and hunt and bring back the food why is that why is that my job why isn't my job to get up at 4:00 in the morning to go to work why does my wife stay home with children to take care of the house but I have to work and pay for all the bills

I told many people that if you with a blk women, you will not be allowed to raise your kids with her it just doesn't work out.

You know what, i am a Nigerian and I know we, but to tell you the truth, this guy in this program is a straight a$$, he's down to earth, tells it as it is. I like him.

We all r people and we all have our culture we all people and each individual know what they want

Raised to believe it's all about yourself. When it's all about you, there is NO room for anyone else.

Why do cisgender heterosexual women treat bisexual men like we're lesser than straight men? I find this take as a slap in the face to all bisexual black men everywhere, including me. this was a fucked up hurtful thing that this woman just said without even an ounce of empathy for bisexual men at all. we bisexual are not the bottom of the barrel when it comes to dating pure and simple wtf. Bisexual men of every race don't deserve to be treated like this or talked about like this. Othering us bisexual men is so wrong . Pure and simple. 😡🤬

Black women aren't meant to be wives, I will never marry one period

I do agree with her when she said that we have had to grow up being very tough and that we’ve had the short end of the stick. I’ve seen both black women and black men struggling I think, for the black woman are often raised by broken mothers where the relationship ended toxic and badly, and you have the mother to get over those relationships and pass on their insecurities their problem with men to their daughters and sons 2

Nigeria 🇳🇬 mens are something else just like America 🇺🇸 men's are too

It's because alot of you guys are womanizers and igbo men's they are aggressive

I getting ready to marry in Nigeria next year so I love family there I love family here not all ladies are like that sir in America

This lady is to much and she acts like she to beautiful to understand and I am beautiful also and by the man come out the country to your country teach him she too much so she will never marry a Nigerian man she too much

Girl stop downing us America ppl with your wanna be Africa woman go to Africa and you will see he sound like igbo bullshit

This interviewer was a bit comical ( not in a good way:Ive gotta be honest). Why would a man pay the bills of a woman he doesn't live with or marry. Even the Nigerian man said he doesn't like "gold diggers". What percentage of ANY men anywhere can pay your bills and his? Goofy

I don’t struggle with my identity at all. Speak for yourself.

WTH 😂😂😂

from my experience Nigerian culture is very materialistic... and most Nigerian women are looking for money wich is ok but as a European I dont understand it.. nothing better than a black American woman!

Black women were raised by women who listened to bs and that came from the white women who tricked black women out of their position and even today you see the most vile behavior from black women If you think im lying ask yourself why is it that black women are wearing more blonde wigs and weaves because they are trying to be something they are not Because they lack self love and worth mistakes are apart of life but its about how you learn from those mistakes if you continue to do the same thing and be super soft women never learn properly

To me , I stay away from black women in my younger years due to the fact that when I was in a relationship with black women they tended to be with another man by arguing about nothing just to be with another person.

A lot of boys had to "grow" quickly, that's not an excuse. black women take on, and surround themselves in, generational trauma, they cling to it like a security blanket so as to deflect adverse situations onto external parties - mostly men.

I don't agree with this .I had a mother and father...parents married dam near 50 years...I was raised to be a wife and a mother..

Shout out to tastebudking

She so ignorant it’s sad I had to hurry and click off even my nija friends said she doesn’t know what she’s talking about yet alone him smh

Get help lady 🤣☠️💀💀💀

African-American woman. My hsuband married me. Not for a green card. We are both the same age. Life has been well for us. <3

Oh you think it’s feasible to be a mother without being a wife first, sit back and witness the decay. Watch a community desolve to nothingness, it won’t be the first, many were and are no longer.

Wow this just popped up. It sound like he was saying AAW are hoes. I have been married to a Nigerian from Benin City for 30 years. We mic our culture

Do not get married under any circumstance Men run for the chopper 😂

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THE INSIDIOUS WORK OF THE SISTERHOOD OF SINGLEHOOD Black women excel at evasion of accountability and delusion. The false narrative being espoused in this video is growing up black girls encounter a far more difficult and challenging environment that requires them to become overly masculine and aggressive in relationships. But crime statistics show it is black boys who are the overwhelming perpetrators and victims of violence. The primary source of young black girls overly masculine and aggressive personalities is the predominance of hyper masculine and aggressive older women; their single mothers, single aunts, single grandmothers etc. Young black girls are socialized by other black women to be "strong and independent" . It is the cadre of single, hyper masculine older black women that indoctrinate young black women into the social value of "not needing no man". At present over 60% of single black women have children while almost 55% of single black men are childless. The disconnect between single parenthood between black females and black males is a direct consequence of intergenerational single motherhood among black women. The Sisterhood of Singlehood permeates the domestic black community and is evidenced by black women being the least married female demographic in America.

My goal since I was little was to be a wife and mother. My sons (10 and 12) talk about having a wife and kids. They get grossed out by my hubs and I😂, but we are showing them what marriage is. My parents did that. It starts with the parents modeling.

Black women are not being raised to be feminine women instead they are lock step with men

You don’t struggle a little bit, you struggle a lot!! Kevin Samuels talked about this endlessly, taking accountability 😮

Stop making excuses…. we have all been raised how we have been raised. At some point, you’re an adult and have had enough experiences to know right from wrong, even if your view of right from wrong has been skewed you make choices. We all have made mistakes, but if you’re over 30 and still trying to decipher your childhood, and adult version of yourself, well, we see the results. Take accountability, without excuses, caveat or long winded, monologues, trying to explain the ”why” of it. Why doesn’t matter

“Partnership” 🤦🏾‍♂️ “Men are in love, women are in business”-CGA

Men and women are "Not" partners.. Stop it already .

I saw the channel mention in a comment about how its not a culture others/many can relate to. I think part of that is also how far out the US is from the rest of the world. Whereas in continents such as Africa, Europe, or Asia the countries are more connected sharing more similarities. It's likely also more easier and affordable for people to relocate or visit all over it. Whereas north America is a lot more disconnected from the rest of the world, leading to a more different culture and one that others may find less relatable. Though to me that's okay, being unique is also good. 😊

Sorry, not sure how this came up on my feed, but the host is so lost, I had to turn off of it. Black culture is the greatest “export” to the rest of the world. Ok, but you say, it’s only entertainment contributions. No ma’am, that’s just what the world, including Asian, African, and European artists and commercializing wants to take from us. That’s what’s trending or popular or can make them money-from gospel, to jazz. Blues, rock, country, R&B, hip hop, slang words, and fashion-those are what people see worldwide. But YOU, as an AA should know better, that until one comes to live here or takes time to read, they will only have our entertainment exports, which by the way, I’m proud of also. But we are so much more. We literally built the US, and much was our own style of architecture and farming methods, adopted from Africa and diffused with native and European cultures, our own DNA is a beautiful cultural story! You had an opportunity to school this polite man, but you did not. You are so misinformed! Even scholars have studied Black American culture, it’s called anthropology. Mac n cheese is not even a traditional dish until the last recent generations, but gumbo, johhny cakes, creole fish, and cornbread dressing are! Letter to this lost AA host: By way of slavery, Blacks from LA to Panama have adapted a unique culture across hundreds of years. You are not very educated, please please go back and learn, and study cultural anthropology. Each culture developed in the diaspora based on tradition from Africa and some of it that was lost and diffused with Spanish/French Catholic or English Protestant cultures. This new identity and culture is absolutely culture. From LA to Panama. Okra, plantain, rice, fried foods, red colored drinks , Juneteenth celebrations (I’m a Texan), music born from our own communities now emulated all over the world, such as gospel, jazz, blues, country, rock, R&B, rap, historically black frats and sororities that are mostly generational and now have West African college student members, black inventors, debutante balls among the upper class Blacks,, the Harlem Renaissance which influenced literary movements and revolutionary movements worldwide from the 1920s to the 1960s, the Black church in itself had enough culture to circle the earth-from the large hats designed by black women to the linguistical oration of black preachers emulated by both White American and international preachers worldwide, to fashion trends, and even “slang” that becomes so popular, it changes the American English dictionary! The Geechie and Gullah cultures along the SE coast of the U.S. The creole cultures of Louisiana and distinct styles of dress and dance and Vodun rituals for ancestors derived from both Africa and converted Catholicism, to gun shot style architecture of Louisiana, and I, myself am a proud descendent of black farmers in Texas. Our Family reunion has been on held our land each summer for 70 years. I have my masters in history, because I love and admire ALL cultures. Everyone has a culture, including my Nigerian husband of 18 years! He has been so open to learning about Blacks’ past in America. I’m sorry YOU are not cultured, but at least you could’ve done some homework and understood this man is very limited in his exposure to AA if you were going to host a so called real conversation.

Sorry, not sure how this came up on my feed, but the host is so lost, I had to turn off of it. Black culture is the greatest “export” to the rest of the world. Ok, but you say, it’s only entertainment contributions. No ma’am, that’s just what the world, including Asian, African, and European artists and commercializing wants to take from us. That’s what’s trending or popular or can make them money-from gospel, to jazz. Blues, rock, country, R&B, hip hop, slang words, and fashion-those are what people see worldwide. But YOU, as an AA should know better, that until one comes to live here or takes time to read, they will only have our entertainment exports, which by the way, I’m proud of also. But we are so much more. We literally built the US, and much was our own style of architecture and farming methods, adopted from Africa and diffused with native and European cultures, our own DNA is a beautiful cultural story! You had an opportunity to school this polite man, but you did not. You are so misinformed! Even scholars have studied Black American culture, it’s called anthropology. Mac n cheese is not even a traditional dish until the last recent generations, but gumbo, johhny cakes, creole fish, and cornbread dressing are! Letter to this lost AA host: By way of slavery, Blacks from LA to Panama have adapted a unique culture across hundreds of years. You are not very educated, please please go back and learn, and study cultural anthropology. Each culture developed in the diaspora based on tradition from Africa and some of it that was lost and diffused with Spanish/French Catholic or English Protestant cultures. This new identity and culture is absolutely culture. From LA to Panama. Okra, plantain, rice, fried foods, red colored drinks , Juneteenth celebrations (I’m a Texan), music born from our own communities now emulated all over the world, such as gospel, jazz, blues, country, rock, R&B, rap, historically black frats and sororities that are mostly generational and now have West African college student members, black inventors, debutante balls among the upper class Blacks,, the Harlem Renaissance which influenced literary movements and revolutionary movements worldwide from the 1920s to the 1960s, the Black church in itself had enough culture to circle the earth-from the large hats designed by black women to the linguistical oration of black preachers emulated by both White American and international preachers worldwide, to fashion trends, and even “slang” that becomes so popular, it changes the American English dictionary! The Geechie and Gullah cultures along the SE coast of the U.S. The creole cultures of Louisiana and distinct styles of dress and dance and Vodun rituals for ancestors derived from both Africa and converted Catholicism, to gun shot style architecture of Louisiana, and I, myself am a proud descendent of black farmers in Texas. Our Family reunion has been on held our land each summer for 70 years. I have my masters in history, because I love and admire ALL cultures. Everyone has a culture, including my Nigerian husband of 18 years! He has been so open to learning about Blacks’ past in America. I’m sorry YOU are not cultured, but at least you could’ve done some homework and understood this man is very limited in his exposure to AA if you were going to host a so called real conversation.