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Hmm, I had this brief experience with Japanese guy in Europe and he was cold indeed. To the point of being manipulative. And a bit narcissistic. Also, extremely stingy. It was an interesting experience, because he was VERY polite and well-behaved on our first date, said and did all the right things. He really stood out of rude macho types from my homeland.

can you use hazu to shorten hazubando?

Yes, you’re wrong about the reactions on delayed trains due to somebody’s suicide is a Japanese thing. I’m from the Netherlands. And for some years I lived in the south, but went north regularly by train. A certain trajectory was infamous for this jumpers, as we call them. Unfortunately this was the only trajectory to the north. So we all had to get out of the train and wait for buses to travel further. I can tell you that nobody felt any consideration for the jumper . Remember one.time traveling with 4 Siamese and Oriental cats. Cats love the train but hate busses. So when in the bus they were screaming the whole journey of more than an hour. The people in the bus most likely hated the cats more than the jumper that time. Even I did. 😊 Another thing is that a jumper is often a life changing event for the driver of the train. Most of them get serious psychological problems after the event. Not only is the result a gruesome view, but they also mention that seeing someone on the rails, know what is going to happen, and not be able to do something, just go over that person.

Indeed, Japanese men think they are above their wives, and the wife walks behind him.

This is so sad 🥺I guess it is some of the reasons for the decreasing birthrates too. Here I wished to save a Japanese man from the horrible work culture, but I don't think I would be able to live with him going to prostitutes, NOR having his own opinion.

Here in the states pretty much from Halloween to the New Year it's all family events and holidays

👏🏻 Thank you. Japanese men here in Japan really need exposure outside of Japan bubble & illusions & delusion, I said what I said.

Welp my dreams were crush.

Submissive women are what masculine men are attracted to. What's wrong with that? Men are repulsed by masculine behavior from women. We don't desire women who are argumentative

Hey! I just found your channel and I really hope you make more !! These are really helpful because I don't want to come of as feminine in japanese and this really makes a big difference! Thank you for your hard work🙏🙏

Good one. 👍 need more people like you

Wow..that sucks....

9:40 I'm Swiss, I was at my friend's house eating with their parents when they started talking about a suicide that happened on a train track and I was shocked to hear that they were accusing the dead person of being selfish for causing inconveniences for others. I didn't say anything. Switzerland also has social pressures to conform, but I wouldn't say it's as extreme as in Japan. About the work culture, my stepfather also prioritizes work over family and he's often working even on weekends. Some Swiss men can be very patriarchal too, especially in more rural areas

Oh my, Thank you for your honesty today and for English. You done very well. So sad for your country, can't have an opinion, and for no compassion on those that take their life. You have a nice smile, so keep smiling.

Thats not quite true about france

I wonder how much this will change in next 25 years.

My Japanese partner lived outside of Japan for about 5 years and thankfully broke away from a lot of these conformities. We still butt heads over a few things he’s stubborn over but he’s my partner for a reason and not because I’m changing him in anyway but because we have found common ground in our personalities and cultural understandings. It’s good to see that love, trust, and dedication can find its way through any cultural boundaries. I’m glad you started this off with “not every Japanese man/person.”

I dated a Japanese guy in college for 2 years. In the end we broke up because I felt like I did not really know him. I had no idea how he really felt about me. Yes he liked me, yes he wanted to date me at the time, but what did he think and feel beneath the surface. We never argued, we never had conflict. He was very nice. After two years I really knew him only on the surface.

Hey Taiki, I love your video, and you‘re an amazing guy 😃 Wish you a lot of success with everything you do!

Μπράβο παλικάρι , είσαι πολύ ανοιχτομυαλος καί δίκαιος! Πολύ νομίζουν επειδή πήγαν πανεπιστήμιο είναι μορφωμένοι αλλά είναι λάθος ή μόρφωση είναι στο φέρσιμο στην προσωπικότητα στο ανοιχτό μυαλό στο δίκαιο μα παν απ' όλα στον χαρακτήρα! Πρέπει νά μάθουν ότι ή αγάπη δεν είναι ή ηλικία ή εμφάνηση τό πόσο πλούσιος είσαι από πού προέρχεσε , ή αγάπη είναι ανιδιοτελής δίνεις την ψυχή σού τό είναι σού! Σού εύχομαι νά ευτυχησεις στην ζωή σού 🌿🇬🇷🌿

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We can't help it- you're all so darn cute!😊

😊 Now we know about some of the Japanese lifestyle, no wonder some women from Japan marry into different nationalities, I don't blame them one bit!! They the men need to invest into a female robot that would stay young and be a maid/slave for them, why treat a beautiful woman like she's just there for maid/slavery and when she reaches a certain age, go look for a younger woman for sex etc. What's the purpose in having a real woman, go hire a robot or stay single and go play with a prostitute since it is legal in Japan!! Thank you for sharing!! 👏 👏

I'm a European 20 years old girl, I fit the japanese beauty aesthetic because i have small face, white skin, I'm skinny and i have dark brown eyes and hair. I was raised surrounded by japanese culture since i was little because my parents really liked it. So despite living in Europe I'm very japanese. I dated a japanese 22 years old guy and I was very surprised that in our first date he told me "don't look at others look only at me" and grabbed my face forcing me to look at him when I was just looking around while we were outside, he wouldn't acknowledge my feelings and just care about his wants and needs... like forcing physical contact without asking and telling me "I want to kiss" which sounds like he was demanding it from me. When he left to Japan i tried to distance myself but he would send me many messages. Also love letters and big presents... Even after having rejected him he would still send me a present and when i confronted him about his behaviour he would tell me that he gets dominant sometimes because he wants to keep me all to himself. I managed to distance myself by avoiding him and now he is dating one of his friends. Despite being in a relationship for over 6 months he sent me a message the day after my birthday to tell me he didn't forget but didn't congratulate me on purpose and that he still keeps a picture of me in his wallet and sent me a picture proof of it. And called me his 大切な友達.... I ended up breaking the friendship with him forever and telling him I won't meet him when I go to Japan. I told one of my japanese friends a girl and she told me that is not normal of japanese people and that what he did is very creepy. He is the only japanese guy i dated so this was my experience. Appearance wise he was very elegant and put together like me. So what you said is true when you scratch the mask they usually wear and show their true personality, it depends on the person but it can get really scary. Are most japanese guys dominant and possessive like that with young beautiful girls they are attracted to...? Is that seen as normal from a japanese guy perspective?

When people fall in love nothing matters! You see someone across the street and your eyes meet! Blinders goes on! Some times there is chemistry that you will have no control over! Most married people regret who they married! But when chemistry hits there is nothing you can do about it! So what are you going to do!

Hi, I’m not Japanese, and I’ve known about Japanese culture and how Japanese women are treated by Japanese men. It’s been patriarchal ever since. I wonder if that’s the reason why Japanese population is declining. My guess is that Japanese women who are open minded and know more about other cultures that treat women better choose to not marry Japanese men. It’s food for thought on this one. Who would like a cheating husband? Do we women also cheat in a Japanese marriage? Or is it double standard?

You are very sensitive and insightful regarding Japanese culture. I lived there and what you have noted was very apparent to me while there. It was really hard to know how people really felt inside. I loved my time there and it was refreshing to feel safe from crime.

Ooow, mix 'japan, and england, might find a good middle balance. 👌🏻

We need to accept the health of living... as Ukrainian I agree with the guy

Traditional roles and values are not intrinsically bad, just preference

Relationships are hard but there’s just something about Japanese looks that’s so attractive. Japanese men are handsome. Sadly I’m way over 27 so I’m too old dang it lol. But I really enjoy your videos. Thank you😊

Well, in France, if trains are stopped because of someone suicide nobody would think of their schedules. I beleive. 🎉🎉🎉

This changed my excitement and has put a damper on my scheduled vacation to Japan in April. I had a different and positive view on Japan. Nevertheless, I appreciate your candor, and can hear the level of compassion you have.

I like younger guys. I dont want an older, domineering guy.

If you feel like "the nail sticking out" move to my country, Denmark. Here we are all Nails Sticking Out. Free opnions for everyone!❤🎉❤

The Only Thing Why I Want to Have a Japanese Partner is Bcoz of ANIMES , MANGA & FASHION LOL😂 Patriarchy Thing won't work on me btw I don't like being Controlled coz I'm the one should be in control most of the time 🤣 & Regarding on having Sex with other women isn't cheating then I bet it should be Vice Versa just to be fair, Why you will act Faithful shit if your partner can't do the Same LOL😆 WAIT WHAT?! IF THEY WERE GAYS IT WON'T BE SO BAD FOR JAPANESE MEN/BOYS THAN WOMEN? YOU MEAN MANY PREFER GAYS THAT'S WHY MANY YAOI MANGA/ANIME THING THERE? EWWW DAMN THAT'S DISGUSTING! SO IS THAT ONE OF THE REASONS WHY BIRTHRATES ARE SO LOW COZ MANY ARE GAYS?😭🤮😂

Married 42 years in August to my Japanese husband. Never a regret. I accept his culture and he accepts mine. I cannot imagine life without him.

Only Japanese ??? For real …

Christmas in Japan sounds totally bizarre ! So, what happens on Valentine's Day 🤔

Insightful commentary, unbiased and informative

So in summary, Japanese men, not all are: Ageist Cheaters and have no qualms about it. Too hard on themselves and do not accept failure in most things, especially when it comes to work, education They don t have a mind of their own and for the most part have conjoint, collective opinions Aloof, frigid and detached when it comes to emotions/feelings Traditional and chauvinistic at the same time They work to death, no time for play and leisure

Perfect.

1:57 ewwww that’s disgust^ ing

Very honest. I hate the obsession with children and childish looks. Several films are really offensive when dealing with children.

but now they reduce the work days to 4 a week to promote human reproduction...

So true. And compliments for your introspective English skills.

I think young until 27 stands for fertile doesn’t it ? and no 2 can also mean mistresses in other countries/cities the man visits often for work -

We have a patriarchal and matriarchal society in India .We are transitioning and on the whole our men are kind and considerate .Women working in India has become common and we respect the fact that they work . Lol. Easier if you are gay . You are a self aware young man .I have seen chauvinism in America . I was surprised to see the women really subservient .Be happy always ❤

Dated a Japanese narcissistic for a few years. Turns out he was a pervert, materialistic ,self absorbed individual and i still think the way his father died was questionable considering he was 90 years old and allowed to take a bath alone in the mifdle of the night. Imsure you can guess what happened to him. RIP