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At last a sensible take on things

At last a sensible voice

one life it is

Take care of yourself! Make sure that you reach out for professional support to help manage the depression. They will be able to help you walk through what's happening / happened and can to help you create a hopeful and positive future for yourself.

Brilliant to see you back ❤❤❤

Hi mate is everything ok? Can you please make a video on is falling in love a beta male thing?

I just dont like being around fake people.

Ugh and I can’t count the amount of ADHD tax I’ve paid over the years

Living life on hard mode - damn that statement is so relatable 😭🙌🏼

Now you can just describe your story to AI and have it write the fucking books for you 😅 Perfect for people like us

I only found your channel yesterday (...or the day before? ADHD, y'know?) and I'm enjoying a binge now. THIS one resonates in a big way. Long story short (we hope) : I've been in a 'freeze' mode for a good long time, now (years). A good friend died about 4 years ago. A year later, my beloved brother, who was my absolute best friend since he was about 2 years old, shuffled off. My partner of 20 years succumbed to cancer about a year later. My neighbor, and dear friend, died last July, and my friend of 20+ years, who lived in the apartment on the other side, died about a month ago. Meanwhile, I've been getting word that old friends back home are leaving the planet as well. I've been depressed, for sure, and nearly completely unmotivated. BUT - O frabjous day! I feel myself rising the last few days, and today is the best yet. I'm starting to look around for things to do, and struggling against the ADHD freeze. You know, "Start here. OK, I can organize these .. Oh, look! That need to be tidied...wait - over there - those things can be shuffled in with...these 8 other...LOOK! I wondered where that was! I can put that...SANDWICH!... I know you know. Meanwhile, my little dog has been a comfort, and he keeps me dedicated to his needs. I have no friends here (I'm 76) to help me with any of this, and it is huge. I hope to use your vids as a way to help with focus, and prioritize the mess I've let myself slip into. Thanks! Your own story has actually been an inspiration this morning. Be seeing you!

Obligatory 'days', especially the gift-giving scam, have always bugged me. If I love you, you'll feel it every day. Don't EVER judge my affection by the gifts I did or didn't give you. And besides, violets are not blue. Bluebells, maybe. The gerbil thing has me elling oh ell!

#sorelatable

I'm curious how ADHD differs between men and women. I don't know if I have adhd but people always ask me if I do. I do have big ass mood swings, one moment I want to meet up, the next I feel different and I don't, to protect others I self-isolate cause I drive people crazy. Can't make decisions really. Well sorry bye

I lost interest after 4 mins... that's how bad it is

It really has to do with how the society raise woman, how the society expect the parents raise their daughters and sons differently, cause in prior relationships I have never played cats and mouse and I felt like the man in my life tend to do that, there was this American guy I met in Dalian, and at the beginning when I met him through mutual friends I shown a lot interest but he barely talks to me and when I stopped talking to him due to the lack of response then he’s eager to talk to again, after a while I just gave up i have a lot other stuff to worry about

It’s making me feel absolutely worthless most of the time, I make plans almost everyday and the books I haven’t finished paintings I didn’t finish and the business ideas that I have left in my spankbank😂 I’m so bored I’m now bored of myself

The Ping-Pong balls in a tornado is exactly what it feels like sometimes. The moment you see one you want to (or need to) focus on, it's gone. While it'll come around again at some point, you've got to put a huge amount of effort on concentrating and often at the expense of everything else. In regards to listening to people, specifically those who know about my challenges, I find that it's easier to let someone know at the beginning that I might not be making eye contact and might be doodling in a notebook or fidgeting with something - that will actually make it easier for me to absorb what they're saying.

Absolutely know where you coming from bro, i have dyslexia, plus dispractia just a tad, though,all came with my diagnoses am 56 now, i only found official,18mth, my life now kinda of make,s sense, forever getting nick by old bill,,always getting in trouble in school when i Was younger,,as you said bill,s , people thinking I don't care, will watch rest of your vid now, lol,,,as I keep saying to people, it's adhd baby, lol 😁😉👍

Thank you. It feels so good to not be alone.

“Trying to try” I love that phrase. Definitely clicked with me as soon as you said it! I can relate to the starting and stopping projects all the time and not being able to finish any of them. For me, it presents itself within the process of working on recording a new album or EP and then getting bored of the idea halfway through because something else has peaked my interest. I would love to see more content. Subscribed! 😄

absolutely not lol. i always lie through my teeth, women dont want to know the truth,. they have rejected me countless times for being honest.

Big facts! Give them an inch, they'll take a mile. I aleays ask myself what my younger self would think of me if I let them disrespect me a second time. Used to tolerate it before, but now, you only get one shot. Better make it count.

I love your content and i have a question are you a muslim?

Apologies for losing the end of the video turns out I need to clear some space on my phone. Thanks for watching. Will post the full video again another time. Cheers.

Hi King D, great video I have a video request, have you ever had to break a womens heart? I am in a relationship since March, shes very good women but unfortunately we dont share the same religious or culture values. Shes really attached to me but i dont see it going anywhere in the long run. I dont want to lead her on anymore. Shes good in every way to me, shes not my type physically but her personality is golden Any advice?

I struggle with this one

Absolutely bang on there my mate! Another reason is women always have had more options but these dating apps make it worse. Most women on these apps just want validation and attention. When ive tried to set up a date, they end up ghosting or making excuses They are getting thousands of matches a day. Get off the apps and.... Go out and meet them and approach I prefer meeting women in the real world

Excellent videos , just catching up with your old ones. Thanks

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I'm starting to understand this mindset / phrase used correctly in face of challenges involving aspects that are clearly outside of our responsibility such as the emotional reactions of others when we are being respectfully assertive and reasonable in our boundaries. Their level of emotional intelligence and maturity basically "is what it is" in terms of their own entire life experience beyond our own life experience. Maybe a shared situation and certain levels of power... but not entire life experiences in unison of responsibility and that "is what it is" in the design. On the other hand, I try to avoid it as a copout for accountability such as... I could have studied more and passed the test but "it is what it is." Or more depersonalized / aimless with: I could have have a smoother job interview but was hungover.. life was just difficult..."is what it is" and gonna smoke a bowl now. Wisely choosing to use it when it really applies for sure lol.

Today has a lot more femanized men and masculinized women (often telling such men to "be a man" or the man complaining that his woman is too controlling) but the core hunter-gatherer tribal evolution of masculinity and femaninity require this empowerment to be more segregated among the sexes. The groups of men, the groups of women - to build their energy. I wouldn't say masculinity rite of passage has been stripped from Western societies (certainly strong in others ) but has gone soft in a sense, catering to other things and distracted... and it's dangerous to lack masculinity among men designed to build civilization and survive. Without the masculinity, there's less willpower, less drive, less fire to live beyond a mediocre cog in the machine. For straight relationships: Women want a masculine man, but only men can make masculine men among men. Men want a feminine woman that can only be made among femanine women. For a straight couple, a straight marriage - lacking these energies for both roles is going to be trouble, high risk of divorce, great struggle from the lack of these energies. The sex won't be so great, the lifestyle wont be very empowered, the communication will be full of insecurities. Just my thoughts to respect the evolution. No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover is a great book for guys struggling with masculinity, a lot of practical wisdom and ways to essentially open up to a more authentic masculine self that's been trained to hold back by a society gone soft in the masculinity departments, too much energy recklesslessly shifted away into other developments

Great video! It's brave to be vulnerable, asking for help and letting people in is the path to secure attachment for avoidants. It's true that we all need people it isn't being weak it's being human. Good luck lovely, this is such a strong and powerful message

I can relate to you in so many ways mate. Great video - subscribed 👍🏻

thanks for sharing - sorry for the loss of your dad . I lost my dad 5 years ago and caring for my mum. you made me feel less alone x

Good message, i can relate bro. Also self employed one man show here. One thing i found that really helps my mood is travel, especially during winter. That sun and vitamin D really does wonders when you live in northern countries like denmark and england 😁

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Yes that;s me, i need to get to work. I have nothing to offer. What do you recommend i should start with ?

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I am an anxious female and my ex bf was an FA, he broke up with me 3 weeks ago. He said he couldn't give me what I needed, but couldn't explain why it's as if he closed up and couldn't speak. I don't believe he wanted to hurt me as he said he was conflicted, then after I asked if he wanted to be with me and he said we should breakup, as he has things going on with himself.I felt blindsighted and I do miss him, but I also felt he had some internal struggles that he didn't open up to me about although, I tried to make him feel comfortable opening up. I wish I could reach out, but then I'm afraid it'll push him even further away. I didn't understand relationship styles until this breakup and now I have a better understanding, I wish I had known then what I know now so I can be better for the next man.I do appreciate your video as it helps me understand the FA style better.

Loved this brother, best video you've done, this is the guy I know and nothing better to see than vulnerability, accountability and honesty, more of this brother, proud of you

Yes i need to become a beast. is that why girls make nice guys like me wait ?

I have just looked it up, can't believe it it's so terrifying. What is wrong with the world!!

Thank you Brother!

Thank you for the video, it’s good to get some reassurance when you’re walking alone 👍

My friend please if u can help: So i fcked up with this girl, She was interested at first, she was pursuing me, but i waited too long and she lost interest (she even did something with a guy i know). What do you recommend? try again with her?

Hi mate. I wanted to ask most if not majority of women still want the man to make the first move and as men we have to initiate all things in terms of courtship Has a women ever made the first move with you? Its usually low value women that do anyway

Bro! Love your vids man but I have a real unusual situation man and I’d like your advice so I’d really appreciate your help. How can I get in touch? We can work out $omething for your time!