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THIS!!! to preface i don’t have autism, but i am neurodivergent & some of my traits are closely related to those with autism. in so many dating scenarios i’ve been seen as someone who will bring healing to the other, or i’ve been seen as a concept where ive literally been told to my face that i remind them of a fairy or or that i’m mysterious when in actuality they’ve only taken me at face value & ended the effort there. it’s so frustrating because as soon as they see the not so “fun” traits i would get ghosted or ignored one way or another. it wasn’t until a little over a year after the last time i dated anyone to recognize this trope & how it’s affected the way i’m treated when it comes to not only relationships but friendships as well. it’s an incredibly dehumanizing realization.

hey, really like your videos! I think that given how emotional these topics can be your approach is very measured and mature

This helps so much! Thank you!

Negative? It shows how autistic women are wonderful.

When going into the chain on last half double crochet I notice a larger gap is there a way to fix this gap so doesn’t look bad and more finished. Thatnks

Heyyy omg first of all I love love love your video. You seem so nice :) My fav piece is the mill carton but I wonder how you did the outlines and the japanese font. Cause I only know how to do tapestry crochet, but the outlines never look so clean🫠 Lots of love <3

I might've missed it and only just started but what app did you use? And was it easy? I'd love to do this with my clothes

heyy, glad you’re back !

She's autistic, she's adhd, she's bpd.

Astrid et Raphaëlle tv series?

Stick to crochet

I loved this video so much. I remember all of the older videos, haha! I think the important part is working towards rekindling that passion that you had before. You are a completely different, more matured person, but don't let the world destroy the love that you have in your heart for these things. I'm wishing you the best, Rauni. <3

Can i be your video editor? 👀✂️

omg sooooo cute, ima do a haul soon. will be decorating my dorm room similar to this!!

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Thank you for making this video! I'm in the process of pursuing a diagnosis at 19 and it's nice to hear a late-diagnosed (and poc) person's experience that I can relate to. Comparing and contrasting your experience with my more repressed upbringing from childhood trauma has given me some insight into how i acted as a child. I very much still related to the girly special interests being dismissed, my parents thinking I was in my own world when i wasn't responding, and arranging things as a child, but other behaviours were often berated out of me or I was told I was just doing them for attention, so it can be hard to pinpoint specific memories of autistic behaviour. Thanks again for sharing your experience!

Hi! Would you consider/think about making a tutorial about your hello kitty pillow you made?! Also great video❤❤

So cute!! Thanks for all the ideas, I'm currently in the (very slow) process of decorating my room and I'd rather make things than buy them. All of the ideas we adorable!!!

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Hey i loved those they look really good i have same headphones as urs can u please do a tutorial on it please i have searched everywhere for covers like these sadly couldnt find any so can u please do a tutorial pretty please sissy <3

i watched the whole vid 🙏🏼 such good ideas 😊

Omg!! this is the cutest selection ever tysm for the inspo <333

This really did inspire me to crochet up some gifts! been super down in the dumps lately maybe some cute decorative pillows to give my mom would cheer me up!

Cute!! I’ve been learning pixel grids too and am making a book cover that looks like a bookshelf. This is a really fun video thanks for the info!

I never realized how much I actually just "hung out" at the mall that was within walking distance of my old apartment until I stopped going there/business started dying down and a lot of stores closed 😭 I would literally spend hours there without spending a dime, using the public wifi that was available, doing rounds through the shops to see if I could get any free samples (there were a few candy shops), or just window shopping and people watching. It was actually kind of nice....

Amazing video !! I was often called "quirky" or a "free spirit" before I transitioned; I was very feminine so my neurodivergent traits were passed off as me being young (infantilism) or cutesy even if I did things that were considered "rude". I genuinely identified with the "MPDG" stereotype. After I transitioned in college, those same traits are seen as weird, nonsensical, even creepy (literally just the manic part of the MPDG...) because I present as more masculine. Unmasking has been a difficult process but I feel more like myself despite that. <3

ROTTMNT is really good, I love Donnie

I appreciate your words and this video very much

Unmasking has resulted in the dissolution of almost every relationship in my life, but I find that the masking was generating 98% of my stress and beginning to really affect my health. I’m sad to see them leave but I can’t argue with the physical benefits of unmasking. Thank you for your videos they help me maintain my resolve to stay authentic. Also your 🐈‍⬛ is so beautiful, what an elegant creature

i read the title and agreed immediately!! such a good video and very interesting idea - im so happy to have found your channel :)) ALSO I HAVE A BLACK CAT THAT LOOKS LIKE YOURS AND I WAS LIKE OMG COULD THIS VIDEO GET ANY BETTER HEHE

it's so interesting how movies like scott pilgrim and 500 days of summer do a fantastic job of showing how the male characters unfairly place expectations on these women by way of deeming them "dream girls" and yet audiences still LOVE to slam these characters (and often also women in real life) for "trying too hard to be different/quirky". like how dare they be their unique selves ! it must be for attention ! the point you made on masking was super real. i see that so much with Summer especially

This is an interesting idea. I'm autistic and I've always identified with the MPDG. I've watched a video about them in the past that said they can't possibly exist. I was like wow I'm even more weird because this person thinks people can't be MPDG yet I'm like that. I appreciate your video and it helped me see that the original video might have been posted by a neuro-typical person.

12 dancing princesses goes hard

Thank yoou ❤️❤️ can you also write the pattern please 🙏🏼

I love your septum piercing! It really suits you ♥️

I wanna incorporate metaphysical/ boho vibe projects in my crochet so I've been pinning things like pouches for crystals, chakrawheels, boho style granny square tapestries & chakra dolls

i found out my friend is pregnant on 4th jan so my 2024 crochet goal is to make 24 baby items to give to her when the baby is born

YES FOR OG BARBIE MOVIES!! that's such a cute idea! great video, I hope your crocheting goes well this year :)

Hi! Your video is full of inspo :D There are a few things I want to make as well. I bought the Nana Hachi grid pattern from MahalMadeCo the other day, that is going to be my BIG project this year

did you adjust the pattern to make it suit the size bc of the yarn weight? :)

their favorite k-pop member... who thinks of that as a common occurence

i'm a knitter but i really like this type of video, lots of inspo for everyone!!

Definitely need more educational videos on autism! What about Shaun from The good doctor?

Thats driving me nuts…“u have to get x-y a gift“ no guys seriously u dont have to..if u cant afford it and simply dont know them enough or having a personal connection with them…i dont even gift all my siblings couse im more close to others so whats the point?

This is so helpful!

Love this channel