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35 Million Views, Building Legos, and Critiquing Western Ideals with Jeff Bethke
In our first episode of 2023, Jeffrey Bethke joins James in the studio to start off the year with a bang!
Jeff is a popular writer, speaker, and spoken word artist who's widely known for his viral TH-cam video "Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus." He's a New York Times Best Selling Author and has written several books, including "Jesus Religion," "It's Not What You Think," and "To Hell With the Hustle,"
In this episode, James and Jeff chat about the Bible Builds business Jeff started with his 8 year old son, family life coaching with Family Teams, and Jeff’s critique of Western culture and its ideals and how it often places a high value on productivity, success, and material wealth, which can lead to feelings of anxiety, burnout, and discontentment.
Through his work, Jeff shares his unique perspective on life, spirituality, and the challenges that people face in today's world. He is a captivating storyteller and has a remarkable talent for engaging audiences with his spoken word performances and teachings.
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We're on a mission to see a gospel-centered home be made available to every child in the foster care system.
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Chapters:
0:18 - Intro
1:36 - Why I hate religion but love Jesus
6:16 - If you had to rewrite the poem?
9:11 - Define family teams
14:04 - Modern vs. Biblical definition
16:23 - Jewish vs. western upbringing
18:52 - Individualistic loneliness
20:13 - Historical context of marriage/family
26:30 - Family teams methodology
30:18 - Homeschool
34:10 - Missionaries in public school?
36:12 - Peer attachment syndrome
41:58 - Family teams
46:23 - Integrate kids into life
50:11 - Culture and rituals
56:37 - Every healthy team has a mission
1:01:29 - Kids are an asset
1:04:43 - Rhythms and goals
1:10:49 - Slave to new media
1:12:43 - Sabbath
1:22:31 - Family success
1:25:03 - Media exposure for kids
1:30:07 - Porn addiction
1:36:45 - Addiction in marriage
1:39:53 - “The One”
1:42:46 - Community
1:47:34 - Thoughts on foster care
1:53:16 - Bible Builds
1:58:31 - Sign up for Family Teams
1:59:39 - Stay connected with Jeff
2:00:06 - Closing
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  • @krammily
    @krammily 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dang

  • @krammily
    @krammily 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good stuff brother

  • @adrianmoore8316
    @adrianmoore8316 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When he made the comment that she wouldn't touch him or didn't want him after he cheated on her, It was because he sinned and she doesn't want to connect to what you have brought into the marriage that wasn't originally there during and after the exchanging of vows and before he committed adultery. So before getting back to touching one another intimately, there is some repairing in the marriage that needs to take place such as repentance and forgiveness from God and her and witnesses to the marriage and prayer of to strengthen him and her to eliminate that situation from reoccurring.

  • @normahartsfield8695
    @normahartsfield8695 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jesus, thank you for raw footage and truth.❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿 Continue to bless them as one.

  • @TheRealNetworkz
    @TheRealNetworkz 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You cut it too short lol

  • @KCC2222
    @KCC2222 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I haven’t finished this entire video yet, so maybe he addresses it later on but I would add that corporate American values are not compatible with living the life Jesus has for us. The sad reality is that most industries, even those who claim to serve such as healthcare or education, are increasingly being ran in such a way that profits are the most important goal with little consideration to stakeholders, students, patients, etc. The system itself is broken. Unless you are the CEO, you have little margin to make your own decisions about your work. This bleeds into our homes. I grew up in a family that owned a small business and see the stark differences. While there are pros and cons, Corporate America has starkly different goals than we as Jesus followers. The divide is increasing and I find myself looking for some line of work that is more in line with the rhythms of Jesus. Greed at all costs is not it. I wfh as well so it’s not being physically present that is the issue. This type of mentality will drain your soul. Even if you don’t do your work for those reasons, the company mission will exhaust you. You’re not steering the ship.

  • @sonjaclay4288
    @sonjaclay4288 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl you Betta Say That Amen 🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @shanewilson2484
    @shanewilson2484 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    M D is an aggressive ayy holl whose overall pattern of behavior is much more aggressive than Lord Jesus. M D needs to get closer to Lord Jesus ... much closer

  • @shanewilson2484
    @shanewilson2484 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    M D is an aggressive ayyy holl whose overall pattern of behavior is much more aggressive than Lord Jesus. Mark needs to get closer to Lord Jesus.

  • @BrandyCampbell-fr1he
    @BrandyCampbell-fr1he 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tina and her man have good info, and it helps

  • @Mmarjl
    @Mmarjl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your baby does look like a model ❤‍🔥❤

  • @tonyvandyke7588
    @tonyvandyke7588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kanye is not a true believer and his music is not about the God of the Bible.

  • @tonyvandyke7588
    @tonyvandyke7588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That’s a statement I can get behind. I don’t want to be the reason that people think hardcore music is cool I want to be the reason people think Jesus is cool.

  • @tonyvandyke7588
    @tonyvandyke7588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So prostitution, pornography, human trafficking, can be kingdom minded? These are jobs that pile do to provide for their families. You gotta be real careful with the words you choose because when you take the role of shepherd, you take the responsibility of what others do with what you say. That’s a biblical fact with eternal consequences.

  • @tonyvandyke7588
    @tonyvandyke7588 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In the same line of logical thought that he makes about not being able to say something isn’t allowed because the Bible never speaks on it doesn’t mean that it is either. Let’s not be hypocrites with our own argument. But let’s play this game. The psalms are heaven worship songs. If you don’t like worshipping the way the psalms were delivered, you won’t like what’s going on in heaven and that’s a fact. And if you don’t like that form of worship then you don’t like God’s prescription for worship because the Bible is God breathed. If you don’t believe that then there’s really no reason to talk because then you don’t believe in Jesus because he is the Word. All of that is not to say that you can’t make hardcore music spirit filled but in the end, it’s his kingdom not ours. It will all be about what pleases him not what we prefer.

  • @eliezerlampard5586
    @eliezerlampard5586 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😎Just Imagine We Singing "Fearless" , before the Battle of Armagedon 😎 ... 🗣️So Let the Devil come , We Are Fearless!!!!🤨

  • @jrowlandj
    @jrowlandj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I believe that anything Kingdom sons and daughters use to bring people to Jesus is God's work.

  • @user-sw4ok5dm1z
    @user-sw4ok5dm1z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just watched Blind Date last night and it was so great. I then saw he has a podcast with a friend, and I listened and laughed SO much. Reagan and Jared would be an absolute blast to have around.

  • @themilkywayuniverse6962
    @themilkywayuniverse6962 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5:03 Aged like milk

  • @LuciaChristFollower
    @LuciaChristFollower 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @whitmoresmawley6594
    @whitmoresmawley6594 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we saw you tonight in Berlin ...Date night .. we had a blast ...thank you

  • @ozifirebrand
    @ozifirebrand 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed watching this. Thank you

  • @OaklandMind
    @OaklandMind 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankful my partner has the self control to choose honest faithfulness and the security and self awareness to recognize my libido isn’t about him, but about me. Plus the general care and selfless love to care about how I physically feel and what intimate actions would mutually satisfy us - not a one size required level.

  • @etherealoraclellc6655
    @etherealoraclellc6655 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what i find very interesting is his name is Elder Berry lmao Elderberries are know for healing !!

  • @thomasnietzschmann5261
    @thomasnietzschmann5261 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think for today saved more people than any other ministry in the last decade, period.

  • @QuesaDia05
    @QuesaDia05 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo.....this is so good.

  • @denisebowen9803
    @denisebowen9803 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my God, this is an amazing Testimony!!!!

  • @JAFAtuber
    @JAFAtuber 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope you're doing well, Shama. Enjoy your videos. I think you hit upon 2 crucial things: 1) As a White youth pastor at a Haitian church in Fla, I very much understand the struggle of Blacks outside America fitting in, right away, within the Black culture. I had Caribbean Black friends in high school echo the same sentiment. I think the key term is "right away". Eventually, they did fit in well with the African-American culture as well as the White culture. Rap & Hip Hop have a lot to do with that. I imagine a White American might fit in better, RIGHT AWAY, in an African nation than an African-American for other reasons like novelty and uniqueness and social stygmas. The African-American culture, like every culture, needs to remember it's His Blood over our blood. 2) You are relating the exact reason why WOKE-ism is very relevant. You are where you are b/c of a White family that cared. What if you had not met that White family or that White family didn't take you all in; then what? You'd be struggling to break thru a White-centric culture just like my Caribbean Black friends, and the tenets of WOKE would then make better sense to you. Indeed, in many ways, your family had an easier time breaking into success and whatever than many Whites, not to mention Asians, Arabs and Hispanics.

  • @cierraallison603
    @cierraallison603 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how honest she was about her feelings ❤

  • @gloriabess9891
    @gloriabess9891 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything doesn't equal sex..

  • @QuesaDia05
    @QuesaDia05 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "If you are called and you have been given one (a platform), never lose the why" Wow 🤯

  • @sealhanajohnson4188
    @sealhanajohnson4188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This blessed me God is working on my marriage

  • @markdunston7471
    @markdunston7471 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Glad it worked out, and that they’re married now.

  • @elitecleaning8971
    @elitecleaning8971 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this ❤

  • @Mojo27564
    @Mojo27564 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This couple is the lucky few, who choose to do the work! This message needs to be shared

  • @NilaktheProphet
    @NilaktheProphet 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man, they got real with this interview. Really grateful I stumbled onto this. 👏

  • @dlopezchampion8054
    @dlopezchampion8054 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People are burned by the Money church's. You have church's that have motivation speeches and not biblical teaching. Church needs to stop being a business and get back to becoming a place for gathering of believers. Evangelism is going out to help people see the Lord Christ. The Church is the gathering of fellow believers to worship, encourage, teach, correct and bring glory to God. People are not educated on biblical truth but rather there own understanding and liking.

  • @PURPLE_ROSE.
    @PURPLE_ROSE. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate the rawness & transparency of this conversation. Inviting God into every aspect of life is the only way to succeed! This is beautiful Glory to God Almighty in Jesus' Matchless name❣✝️🔥🙌🏾💯

  • @jeffreywile9047
    @jeffreywile9047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    jerk

  • @legacyministry8464
    @legacyministry8464 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No… because they are in continuous sin and not being led of the Holy Spirit

  • @jonathanrocha2275
    @jonathanrocha2275 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love Mattie. God bless, brother

  • @kiara198923
    @kiara198923 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to be a wife & experience true unconditional love!

  • @TruthSeeker434
    @TruthSeeker434 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just subscribed and while i travel to church this morning I will listen again!

  • @DiscerningFaith
    @DiscerningFaith ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude. It’s not irrelevant. You are a gay affirming false prophet.

  • @DiscerningFaith
    @DiscerningFaith ปีที่แล้ว

    This dude is a straight up false prophet.

  • @JsP1318
    @JsP1318 ปีที่แล้ว

    These comments & this false insight to their relationship are the exact reasons why ppl stay away from Church and “ sanctified” ppl… Sounds good but hypocrites.

  • @Isaiahdoesdeliverance
    @Isaiahdoesdeliverance ปีที่แล้ว

    A beautiful season indeed. Jesus was glorified. So much fun at those shows.

  • @noellegilchrist3744
    @noellegilchrist3744 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smh I just can’t condone cheating it’s the ultimate betrayal in relationship and lord knows I trust God and believe in him and his word but I don’t think he says anything about staying and getting constantly cheated on that’s emotional abuse sorry not sorry

  • @deebree1054
    @deebree1054 ปีที่แล้ว

    My only challenge with conversations like this (not just this dynamic couple; but many others) is that the wife dominates the conversation. Yes we want to hear the wife's perspective and her strategies for restoration. But the majority of interviews I have witnessed the wife goes full throttle and in some instances talks over the husband.....just a viewpoint shared in love.

  • @PurelyScythe
    @PurelyScythe ปีที่แล้ว

    Cringe!