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Finding Your Casual Magic (with UnJaded Jade)
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
Hi friends, welcome to this new cosy lil corner of the internet called ✨ Finding your Casual Magic ✨
Casual magic is about how we find beauty in the mundane everyday. We tend to look forward to the 1% of days in our lives to find joy, like the birthday, the wedding, the job promotion.
But honestly, 99% of our lives are just the same routines - and how sad would it be if we only chose to experience joy 1% of the time? Casual magic is about looking for these tiny moments in every day that are casually magic.
If you’ve never heard my voice before, hi hello my name is Jade (or UnJaded Jade on other corners of the internet 🦋)
Casual Magic has been such a crucial part of all the chapters of my journey, but especially the most recent one where I’ve realised life is more than hustling for achievements, trying to make big things happen.
I know this sounds dramatic, but I want to serve up my vulnerability on a lil plate to softly encourage you to also bring your vulnerability to the world!
Casual magic is about how we find beauty in the mundane everyday. We tend to look forward to the 1% of days in our lives to find joy, like the birthday, the wedding, the job promotion.
But honestly, 99% of our lives are just the same routines - and how sad would it be if we only chose to experience joy 1% of the time? Casual magic is about looking for these tiny moments in every day that are casually magic.
If you’ve never heard my voice before, hi hello my name is Jade (or UnJaded Jade on other corners of the internet 🦋)
Casual Magic has been such a crucial part of all the chapters of my journey, but especially the most recent one where I’ve realised life is more than hustling for achievements, trying to make big things happen.
I know this sounds dramatic, but I want to serve up my vulnerability on a lil plate to softly encourage you to also bring your vulnerability to the world!
How to Manifest WISELY: You are NOT a self improvement project!! (with Tam Kaur)
Hiii friends, welcome back to the eighth episode of ✨ Finding your Casual Magic ✨ (I’m so excited for this guest episode eep!)
Today we are talking all things self love!! The relationship we cultivate with ourselves, how we talk to ourselves behind the scenes, and how this can then impact the types of relationships we attract and how we go about making our dreams come true. Do you struggle to say no when someone asks you to an event that you don't want to go to for fear of what they'll think of you? Have you ever found yourself in relationships that don't serve you because you're searching for parts of yourself externally rather than cultivating your inner world? Do you ever wonder why everyone else is living a perfect life and you're stuck with all these problems you can't solve?
Well today's guest is literally the person to help give some answers to these!! Tam Kaur is a self-love guru helping millions of young women become the most empowered versions of themselves through her motivational advice videos on topics from dating to healing, to her heart to hearts on her podcast ‘Self Obsessed’ and the wisdom shared in her new book ‘Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers’ Tam blends actionable advice with meaningful anecdotes to help you become the best version of yourself.
I start the episode by leading a guided meditation to help you feel grounded and aware before we launch into the topic of self love exploring spirituality, relationships, shifting mindsets, self development, childhood, post university life and of course TH-cam.
The episode closes with the ‘Casual Magic of the Week’ which myself and Tam share before hearing from Elena who shares their Casual Magic followed by intention setting for the week ahead. Grab a journal or open your notes app and join me as we ask ourselves…
What went well this week?
What am I proud of?
What is something that challenged me this week?
Based on these reflections, choose a one word intention for your coming week.
I just want to send you this reminder that no matter where you are in your self confidence journey, no matter how you might feel today, you are always enough. 💛
Find Tam on TH-cam: www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
Find Tam on Instagram: tamkaur?hl=en
Self Obsessed Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/4Nj8fh6y52RFX1RZMUgAoC?si=eb96e3d1aaef45b7
Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers: www.waterstones.com/book/buy-yourself-the-damn-flowers/tam-kaur/9781785121746
For more Finding Your Casual Magic, go to @casualmagicpodcast on Instagram!!
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
00:40 Today's Topic: Self Love
01:18 Introducing Tam Kaur
02:20 Tam's Approach to Self Love and Spirituality
03:24 Meditation
06:17 Defining Self Love
08:34 Tam's Book: Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers
10:32 Tam's Early Relationships and Self Discovery
18:16 Conscious Healing and Mindset Shift
19:23 Introduction to Shadow Work
22:41 Reparenting Yourself
24:02 Childhood and Family Experiences
29:36 The Beginnings of My Self-Development Journey
32:49 First Viral TH-cam Video and Its Impact
34:40 Discussion on Realism and Possibilities
37:46 Hard work and discipline in achieving self-love
39:10 Positive thought patterns and self-empowerment
40:12 Understanding the arrival fallacy and achieving happiness
43:00 Finding joy in everyday moments
44:12 The importance of saying "no" and setting boundaries
45:00 Embracing the joy of missing out (JOMO)
50:05 The importance of self-care and individual needs
52:28 Finding confidence through fashion
55:05 Embracing self-love and loving others
59:22 Addressing audience pressure and challenges as a creator
01:05:33 Discussing self-help books and their impact
01:08:33 Evolution of personal journeys
01:09:56 Attending events and social experiences
01:13:09 Online personas and hyperreality
01:17:00 Authentic everyday joys
01:19:40 Gems of wisdom from Tam
01:21:26 Casual Magic of the week
01:31:03 Intention setting
If you’d like to be featured as the Casual Magic of the week:
💌 Notice a moment of casual magic in your week. What was something beautiful in your daily life? A special moment or reflection?
💌 DM us a ~60 second voice message or video to @casualmagicpodcast on instagram or email it to findingyourcasualmagic@gmail.com - feel free to include any pictures of your casual magic if you have any!!
💌 Start the voicenote by introducing yourself and where you’re from!!
💌 Tell us in your DM / email if you want to be tagged if chosen.
💌 We’ll pick one a week to share in the podcast and on here so we can all participate in your joy!!
CONTACT ME
Business Enquiries: unjadedjade@sixteenth.com
Instagram - @unjadedjade
TikTok: @unjadedjade
This is Finding Your Casual Magic with UnJaded Jade
Produced by The Podcast Guys
Theme music by Francesca Lu
Today we are talking all things self love!! The relationship we cultivate with ourselves, how we talk to ourselves behind the scenes, and how this can then impact the types of relationships we attract and how we go about making our dreams come true. Do you struggle to say no when someone asks you to an event that you don't want to go to for fear of what they'll think of you? Have you ever found yourself in relationships that don't serve you because you're searching for parts of yourself externally rather than cultivating your inner world? Do you ever wonder why everyone else is living a perfect life and you're stuck with all these problems you can't solve?
Well today's guest is literally the person to help give some answers to these!! Tam Kaur is a self-love guru helping millions of young women become the most empowered versions of themselves through her motivational advice videos on topics from dating to healing, to her heart to hearts on her podcast ‘Self Obsessed’ and the wisdom shared in her new book ‘Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers’ Tam blends actionable advice with meaningful anecdotes to help you become the best version of yourself.
I start the episode by leading a guided meditation to help you feel grounded and aware before we launch into the topic of self love exploring spirituality, relationships, shifting mindsets, self development, childhood, post university life and of course TH-cam.
The episode closes with the ‘Casual Magic of the Week’ which myself and Tam share before hearing from Elena who shares their Casual Magic followed by intention setting for the week ahead. Grab a journal or open your notes app and join me as we ask ourselves…
What went well this week?
What am I proud of?
What is something that challenged me this week?
Based on these reflections, choose a one word intention for your coming week.
I just want to send you this reminder that no matter where you are in your self confidence journey, no matter how you might feel today, you are always enough. 💛
Find Tam on TH-cam: www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
Find Tam on Instagram: tamkaur?hl=en
Self Obsessed Podcast: open.spotify.com/show/4Nj8fh6y52RFX1RZMUgAoC?si=eb96e3d1aaef45b7
Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers: www.waterstones.com/book/buy-yourself-the-damn-flowers/tam-kaur/9781785121746
For more Finding Your Casual Magic, go to @casualmagicpodcast on Instagram!!
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
00:40 Today's Topic: Self Love
01:18 Introducing Tam Kaur
02:20 Tam's Approach to Self Love and Spirituality
03:24 Meditation
06:17 Defining Self Love
08:34 Tam's Book: Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers
10:32 Tam's Early Relationships and Self Discovery
18:16 Conscious Healing and Mindset Shift
19:23 Introduction to Shadow Work
22:41 Reparenting Yourself
24:02 Childhood and Family Experiences
29:36 The Beginnings of My Self-Development Journey
32:49 First Viral TH-cam Video and Its Impact
34:40 Discussion on Realism and Possibilities
37:46 Hard work and discipline in achieving self-love
39:10 Positive thought patterns and self-empowerment
40:12 Understanding the arrival fallacy and achieving happiness
43:00 Finding joy in everyday moments
44:12 The importance of saying "no" and setting boundaries
45:00 Embracing the joy of missing out (JOMO)
50:05 The importance of self-care and individual needs
52:28 Finding confidence through fashion
55:05 Embracing self-love and loving others
59:22 Addressing audience pressure and challenges as a creator
01:05:33 Discussing self-help books and their impact
01:08:33 Evolution of personal journeys
01:09:56 Attending events and social experiences
01:13:09 Online personas and hyperreality
01:17:00 Authentic everyday joys
01:19:40 Gems of wisdom from Tam
01:21:26 Casual Magic of the week
01:31:03 Intention setting
If you’d like to be featured as the Casual Magic of the week:
💌 Notice a moment of casual magic in your week. What was something beautiful in your daily life? A special moment or reflection?
💌 DM us a ~60 second voice message or video to @casualmagicpodcast on instagram or email it to findingyourcasualmagic@gmail.com - feel free to include any pictures of your casual magic if you have any!!
💌 Start the voicenote by introducing yourself and where you’re from!!
💌 Tell us in your DM / email if you want to be tagged if chosen.
💌 We’ll pick one a week to share in the podcast and on here so we can all participate in your joy!!
CONTACT ME
Business Enquiries: unjadedjade@sixteenth.com
Instagram - @unjadedjade
TikTok: @unjadedjade
This is Finding Your Casual Magic with UnJaded Jade
Produced by The Podcast Guys
Theme music by Francesca Lu
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the best 1hour and 30 minutes i everrrrr spent........
I’m literally listening to this while studying for my secured transaction final
I cant even fandom the amount of notes i have taken in this vid am obssesed
10:24 ... 04/12 wed
Best interview duos: Tam & Jade and Liz & Sheen
watching this on my birthday.. feel so blessed🥹❤️
I started watching tam videos wayy before the first viral lucky girl syndrome video. And ive known jade for a quiet a time from the book . Seeing both of them together is so cool . <3
It is morning but I am in TANZANIA! 🇹🇿🇹🇿thanks jade for mentioning my country ❤❤❤
Tuning in from Russia, not Tanzania, but close, I guess! 😂😅❤
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What a collab 😩😩❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love both of you and the content you create, so i'm really really happy to have you two together in one video 😍😍
new subscriber, and i'm happy to be here feels magical
So excited to listen to this one😍
This was the collab we NEEDED
I usually listen to a podcast and get bored in the middle, but I finished this episode until the last minute. I loved the vibe.💗💗💗💗💗
I do have a question. Do you think all this self-love stuff is only a first world problem ? I don’t think people in 3rd world countries are even thinking about this stuff because they are thinking about where their next meal is coming from.
It reminds me of this chart “maslows’ hierarchy “ which demonstrates “self-actualization”- the process by which an individual reaches his or her full potential. The chart consist of the basics like food, water, shelter. Then follows safety, relationships, esteem, and actualization
@@JazzminelLocherYEAH i know that hierarchy! It makes so much sense!
@@sarvaepc what are your thoughts on it ?
I love how empowering both of you are! Thank you for creating this wonderful podcast jade ❤
I wait for the day these two grown ups finally admit to having had a disorder instead of joking about it.
U hv large vivid way of saying which matches mine, which is chaotic but just me!!!!❤💌🤍🫂❤️🩹🦋🧿❤️🙌🫣
My casual magic of the week is… I’ve been crying a lot lately for various reasons but, feeling emotions, being able to feel emotions. My intention for this week is stability
My favourite episode so far, I feel like I learnt a lot from this
Never tired of listening to Tam 💜
20:47 I just turned 20 and I feel like that most of time, and even though I made some progress in my self love journey,I still feel attached to my teen version 😔
This was much needed, girls 💌 Loved every second of it! And a note to everyone (especially those new to manifesting): I started my music journey a month ago and haven’t shared it with any of my friends yet. I just want to see how organically my channel and instr will grow. And I’ve already gained 16 subscribers and 6 followers from around the world! (Not huge, but it means a lot to me.) So you won't see results quickly, but it will work... somehow, EVERY TIME.🦋💜
Identifying ourselves with the result of one's action is to constantly live in an unmaterialized future. There is no "arrival" per se, only living each day being present being the best self we can be in the moment. Also: best self is not a fixed label, maybe one day doing very little when you don't feel about it is being your best self, or another day it can show as thriving and getting all done!! Do not wait for the perfect moment to begin your journey, the present moment is the best moment! 💓💓💓💓
Afghgsghg my fav queens together ❤❤❤❤I am literally evaporating 🎉🎉❤❤
My fav crossover episode <3 you both inspire me to express myself more. Due to Jade's video from Brighton, I found my book club through MeetUp, so much insight and love!!!
listening to this first thing in the morning is so empowering ✨✨✨
Ugh immaculate vibes❤
always love hearing about your journey, what an episode😍
Gurl, you two r such a vibe.
I like u and ur content, vibes and sayings a lot Tam. Thank you so much. I just don't know what to say just one word THANK YOU. You are one of the best teachers till now. The teacher of life.
No matter how many times I hear you talking on self love your content never gets old and never fails to inspire me Love you Tam !!
I love you so much thank you for all your videos.
I Love you so but so much, thank you for all your videos.
this is truly a sign from the universe because the timing. i went from a high-achiever to below average and was thinking i'm a failure. i love your videos on study tips but i just found your this channell today and honestly i'm so glad you believe in manifestation and the signs from the universe. i really wish i can get my A*s!!🥹
This episode was so smooth. Like I can't explain it but it just flew by and it was amazing. This episode literally felt like having a conversation with your bestie and she's telling you about all the ways she felt bad about herself, she felt ugly and you're just there listening and hating the people who ever made her feel that way, hating the society who made her feel that way and pulling your hair because she's literally one of the most gorgeous, beautiful, sweetest creature of a human you've ever known. You just want to scream at her how beautiful she is and give her a tight hug. I am *you* in this context. So I'm gonna do just that. Sending you virtual hugs and so much love.
'But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.' matthew 6:33
We know who's gonna come on self obsessed podcast this wednesday probably 🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣🫣
Yessss I was waiting for tam to get on here, didn't expect it to be this soon!! love the episode <3
Wow, so deep ❤ love you girls
Not even finished watching but this episode so far has been eye-opening and transformative ❤
I’m so glad it resonated!! 🦋 so much wisdom fr <3
women are told that their wedding day is the best day of their life, because thats the day they marry a man - society ( patriarchy ) tells women getting a man, getting chosen by a man to be his wife, is the best achievement. women are conditioned to think their main purpose in life is to serve a man - be his wife, mother his kids. marriage initially began as the man having ownership of the woman, hence why the father ''gives the bride away'' passing ownership from one man to another. i'm a woman, and i will never be a wife or a mother, i have much more important purposes to fullfill on this earth.
Never thought of this,I think you are rite.
Yessssss I loveeee this collab!!!! Tam en jade ahh
omg!! The collab I didn't know I needed. I love the both of you! Thank you.
Hiiiii we love u !!! 🦋✨
The guests have been top notch, all the TH-camrs I love ❤
when jade talks , it seems like shes trying to be energetic while when tam talks she exudes such calm , confident positive energy...
so jade is being herself, and so is tam, whats your point?
Gurl I’m forever energetic take it or leave it 🦋🦋🦋
@@FindingYourCasualMagicqueen 🎉
Gorgeous confident inspiring girls 💕
I got so excited when I saw Tam was your guest! Two amazing and inspiring women!! Absolutely loved this podcast 💗🌈
Eeeeep thank you for the love!! 🦋✨💜
love this so many gems thank you :)
Wooooo!! I'm here!🦄🌷
I've been here as soon as I finished my morning routine because I was just so excited for this episode. I definitely was influenced by your Instagram stories about how much excited you were about this episode. I'm genuinely giggling from excitement about how much I'm going to learn from this episode. It will definitely change my brain chemistry my even be my casual magic (I just watched Jade's tier ranking study method video lol).
gurl ily this is casual magic tier for sure ✨
Brooooo a collab I always wished for aaaaahhhhh my two fave people in one video aahhhhhhhh thanks jade and tam Wish me luck for my exam today
we love you!!! good luck with your exam you’ve got this 😚🦋
GL gurrll 🦋💜
@@FindingYourCasualMagic Thank youuuuuuu