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I’m also a small channel, I love content like this ❤ just subbed

I'm definitely a Mystic !

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I am pretty sure I am a winter. I am definitely cool and need colors to be cool because warm colors make my face splouchy with odd darkness. I have medium to high contrast between my skin, hair, and eyes. I am a dark skin latina, but dark colors look to heavy on my so like you I am on the middle range of light to dark. So I am between a Cool Winter and Bright Winter. I hesitate to think Bright Winter since I am definitely sensitive to the temperature of colors and probably couldn't borrow from Bright Spring. However, I do really well with bright clear colors so long as they are cool.

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I have settled on Soft Summer for myself. I initially thought I was a Dark Winter, but I found myself drawn to the lighter colors in that palette as many of the dark colors seemed to overwhelm me. I noticed that I am very much neutral and cool leaning. Light silver looks great on me and soft golds. My hair is a neutral ash brown, and my eyes are neutral brown but cool leaning. Going too cool drains me, while neutral tones are very harmonious.

Good theory video

Thanks

Thank you thank you thank you. You saved my summer😩🤣

Mizani is a great brand and brings results. Perhaps you may not be using enough heat on your flat iron.

I subscribed to you just because of your name!!! I was literally screaming when I saw ur name bc my name is Kyla to and EVERONE says Kayla!

I have this one. I have 4c hair and I hate it. I burn my hands all the time and it barely gets my hair straight.

Love this take ❤

You delivered such a powerful message thank you for sharing! As someone who’s trying to leave the nice girl identity behind I’m struggling with hatred towards who I once was.

This was so so so good. 🤩I truly believe that once you change and move to a different level or frequency God sends people on the same level your way. Some may say it's the Universe..whatever it's true. I am so happy that I was sent to your channel a couple days ago because you are feeding soul. You have shown me there yes there are women who have similar beliefs and doing something about it by creating platforms to help women. Great conversation, solid talking points and fabulous energy. Simply outstanding content. 🌟🌟 Thank you.

I didn’t watch the video , but it’s best if you remain nice /kind you end up getting better result . Just gain some boundaries but don’t change too much

I was so excited when I saw this pop up in my algorithm but you giggle throughout the entire thing. I’m not sure if it was nerves but it took away from the message and comes across as condescending.

I really adore this video because it addressed an insecurity I had for a while. People always thought I was a “nice girl” instead of just communicating that I did not have boundaries. and I often stressed myself out. There was nothing wrong with my kindness

I am completely Delulu and I love this for me😊

This was excellent. I love your content. I agree with everything you stated. I went to finishing school as a teen and learned about being confident but as a teen, there is only so much you can understand. As I grew up and became a woman, I truly understood those lessons. I wrote this snippet to myself years ago when I was rebuilding myself. "If you don't trust yourself C, you cannot have true confidence. You love books, movies, fashion, and pretty things and want a beautiful life. But how will you get it by second-guessing yourself C? Beauty isn't only born it is made and to have that beautiful life you have to be beautiful so build your armor. Beautiful people look good in clothes because of confidence and confidence is energy. Confidence is expressed in movement. The way you stand and walk in your clothes is from confidence and it all starts in trusting yourself C."

(sorry, this is long) I wasn’t looking for this topic or watched anything similar recently and your video popped up. I am so happy the TH-cam algorithm got something right for once. This is an excellent video; you should have a million views and likes. As a former Nice Girl & Cool Girl, you hit every single issue with being a nice girl. Excellent. This isn’t a topic discussed because nice girls are needed in society. Why are they needed? Basically, nice girls are hosts for everyone else, especially the leeches and ne’er-do-wells that attach themselves to nice girls. The root cause for nice girls is co-dependency and people-pleasing which are developed from childhood trauma or relational trauma. Also, the nice girl has low self-esteem; and it’s not low self-esteem in the way that is the norm (or people will fight to say this isn’t true, but it is) because it's internalized and hidden behind a smile. At the 10:00 mark in the video …Chef’s Kiss. I love that you started by saying to change your look or style without changing the way you perceive yourself and without doing inner work; it’s a waste of your money because you will never feel like you look good. The goal is to be kind and have standards and defined boundaries that you do not compromise. To stop being nice is not easy its actually very difficult because everyone in your life (family, friends, co-workers, etc.) will fight to keep you nice (attached) to them for their own good. It took so much work and time to put myself first and be true to my own heart’s desire. I had to fight against the internal dialogue in my head telling me it was wrong to put myself first. because it seemed I was created to serve the needs of everyone else. However, that wasn’t the case because I was created for my own unique purposes. I will not even get into how nice girls are treated in relationships with men because that is a whole other universe. I do find it interesting that the two comments on your page are from men extolling their like" of nice girls. It’s suspect because it’s so clearly a self-serving viewpoint. Along with the women nowadays are so lost comments. Society is lost women and men are lost. There are little pockets (population groups) all over the world of women and men that are true and uphold strong moral values and decency of bygone eras. Anyways…. What will I say... As a woman who grew up in a family that is primarily men and worked in two different male-dominated industries; I have some insights into men. While I will never say I know men because I don’t think any gender can know the other unless they are born and raised as that gender. At any rate, men say they like nice women, and boys say they like nice girls, but they don’t. Men/boys only want nice girls for their LABOR; whether it's physical, emotional, or spiritual labor; they want to be the primary focus of said nice girl but very seldom ever reciprocate. It was hard to accept that no one showed up for me when I needed them but such and necessary lesson to learn. While my father taught me self-worth and what men are like it did not extend to him or male family members. I think that is what trips up some nice girls; they are raised to believe family members are an exception, but they aren’t. Family can too be abusive and toxic, so boundaries must be made. My father and brothers felt absolutely no remorse for always flaking on me and not being of help if I ever needed it. So, I stopped being available and the world stopped, and I became selfish and man-hating because I stopped putting them first. At least in relationships I left at the first red flag before it could ever develop into a full-blown relationship because I was not going to be used. I was blessed to bloom later and not have relationship traumas to fight while healing from nice girl syndrome. Lessons learned. You have a new subscriber. Also, please add more search words to this video like mindset, women, mental health, etc. This video needs to be seen and heard. I want you to win because you deserve it.

yeah thats not a thing. and trying to make it a thing is weird. nice guys finish last because they arent seen as alphas. almost every dude wants a good girl and any dude would tell you that they'd 100% prefer marrying a nice girl over some thot.

As a Man I can guarantee you for a fact nice girls are the absolute best ( I mean genuine nice girls that are good people) and this information is what women actually think not Men imho. Girls not being nice is actually kind of the normal now. It goes both way actually, people in America are losing themselves.

I have been married for 20 years, I bring to the table. Sis, this is not good advice.

There's nothing wrong with being nice just have boundaries. Find those people who you can be nice with and you will never miss a Beat reciprocity.

So many good gems in this!

Catching this late! One of my goals of 2024 was to build a capsule wardrobe, something more feminine or “high value” but versatile if that makes sense. Kind of been wanting to change my style up a bit. I’m getting older and I’m a mother of two so it’s time to just switch it up! More class and elegance yet something that’s everyday wear since I’m a stay at home mom.

NOW THIS IS WHAT I WANNA SEEE I know I see videos describing the “downfalls” of pretty privilege. But honestly? I wanna get treated better. I wanna get slimmer. I wanna get prettier. I wanna love myself again mentally and physically and emotionally. And no one is gonna stop me.

Keep going...loved the video ❤

Edhe pse nuk duhet të jetë i veçantë është një nga qarqet në shtetin federal të Amerikës të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë aftësitë dhe njohuritë në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një mënyrë të re të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të mirat në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend të bashkuar në një vend pronarët duhet të jetë i veçantë është një nga qarqet në shtetin federal të Amerikës të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të gjithë të tjerët që të jetë interesante në lidhje me ja nisë me ja nisë me ja nisë me

Fellows! This is very worst advice for females. Does she have a father to ask for money? What is the different in the mentality of a hooker. Hookers have the same mentality but they don't have to play the games. Its not a business deal! Remember your never get close to anyone thinking like that. B.S.. If you can be brought, you can be sold and traded! Are looking for a man or $. If its $ get a job!

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I actually endorse males getting played and used. The modern man needs to hit rock bottom before he realizes that if he wants genuine interactions with women he needs to stop leading with money and start leading with himself. So by all means, please continue to play the modern man, you’re only speeding up the process to their downfall. Stay Focused!

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“Is he worthy of giving you things?" The entitlement is so high 🤣 Stay focused kings, and neglect materialist parasites like this. They belong to the streets. 🤡

Good luck with this

Y'all are bad people, youre a bad person.

You know why western men appreciate African women? Because they are mostly more traditional, care more about their man, more family oriented and the list goes on. Promoting these western empowerment concepts brings more harm than good. Western women are on average more lonely and unhappy than ever before. You know what men love? Traditional values of an incredible African culture and that is exactly what is needed more than ever in our society.

What value do you bring in the life of a man Kayla? That's a serious question.

I don’t know, we’re your from our lives. I m African and live in Germany. But every we’re I was, man do what a woman wants, if he is interested in her. I get everything I want from a Man. I never have problems with this. Because I know what I want from the Man in the first place. If he doesn’t want to give it to me. I will find some how many want to do. Man love to do it, because they love it to be needed. My problem with gilt is only, wenn I feel that he is not seen me. And thinking that I m cheep. I don’t like when a Man do not respect me anymore, because he think, he gives me everything. Nowadays Man are to comfy. It’s sad. Every successful woman knows how to get what she wants, from everybody. Love your self Lady’s.

You gone get these girls left man 😂 just tell the truth

Oooh….i like that ! “Is he worthy of giving you things”? It really is a privilege. That’s fantastic! Thank you 🙏

What a professional video. Very nice 😊 congratulations 🎉 interviews are such a good idea.

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